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Caroline Stanbury on Reinvention, Beauty & Refusing to Play Small · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

• 0:00
  Taking
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  care
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  of
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  yourself
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  any
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  which
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  way
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  you
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  can,
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  sends
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  a
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  message
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  to
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  the
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  world.
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  Marriage
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  isn't
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  about
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  looks.
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  Marriage
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  is
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  about
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  knowing
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  that
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  your
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  woman
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  beside
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  you
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  is
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  a
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  badass
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  bitch.
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  Of
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  course
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  there
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  are
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  cons
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  to
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  being
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  with
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  someone
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  younger.
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  Is
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  he
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  going
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  to
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  come
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  in
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  as
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  financially
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  stable
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  as
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  you?
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  I
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  hope
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  not.
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  He's
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  20
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  years
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  younger.
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  I
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  mean,
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  where
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  were
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  you
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  at
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  21?
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  Dancing
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  on
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  a
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  tabletop.
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  I
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  have
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  girlfriends
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  that
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  are
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  married
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  to
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  extremely
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  successful,
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  successful,
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  much
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  older
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  men.
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  And,
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  you
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  know,
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  for
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  me,
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  they
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  live
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  in
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  a
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  gilded
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  cage.
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  If
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  I
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  knew
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  then
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  what
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  I
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  know
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  now,
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  I
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  wish
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  I'd
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  left
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  years
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  before.
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  Every
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  day
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  that
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  passes
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  is
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  a
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  day
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  that
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  you
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  could
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  have
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  been
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  doing
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  something
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  different.
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  I'm
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  a
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  walking
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  advertisement
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  for
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  taking
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  the
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  leap
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  of
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  faith.
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  If
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  you're
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  in
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  an
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  uncomfortable
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  position
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  or
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  you
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  don't
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  feel
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  this
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  is
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  the
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  right
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  time.
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  That's
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  exactly
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  the
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  right
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  time.
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  That
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  is
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  exactly
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  the
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  right
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  time
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  to
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  take
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  the
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  leap.
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  She
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  doesn't
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  edit
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  herself,
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  she
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  doesn't
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  follow
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  the
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  timeline,
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  and
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  she's
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  definitely
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  not
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  asking
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  for
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  permission.
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  From
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  navigating
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  divorce
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  in
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  her
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  40s
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  to
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  building
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  a
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  life
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  on
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  her
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  own
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  terms.
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  Relationships,
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  beauty,
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  business,
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  all
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  of
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  it.
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  Caroline
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  Stanberry
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  has
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  never
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  really
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  played
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  by
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  the
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  rules.
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  And
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  that's
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  exactly
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  why
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  people
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  can't
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  look
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  away.
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  She's
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  built
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  a
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  life
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  that
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  looks
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  effortless
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  on
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  the
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  outside.
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  But
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  today,
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  we're
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  getting
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  into
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  what
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  that
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  actually
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  takes.
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  The
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  decisions,
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  the
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  trade
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  offs,
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  and
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  the
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  standards
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  she
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  holds
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  that
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  most
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  people
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  wouldn't.
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  This
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  is
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  a
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  conversation
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  about
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  control,
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  reinvention,
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  and
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  what
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  it
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  really
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  means
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  to
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  live
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  unapologetically
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  without
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  performing
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  it.
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  So
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  if
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  you're
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  someone
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  who's
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  questioning
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  what's
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  next
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  or
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  just
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  done
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  playing
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  small,
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  this
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  one's
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  for
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  you.
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  I'm
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  Roxie
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  Manning
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  and
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  this
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  is
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  the
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  iconic
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  Midlife.
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  Welcome
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  to
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  the
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  show,
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  Caroline.
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  Welcome
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  to
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  the
• 1:52
  iconic
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  Midlife.
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  Caroline,
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  how
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  are
• 1:53
  you
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  today?
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  Well,
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  I
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  mean,
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  I'm
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  turning
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  50
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  next
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  week,
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  so
• 1:57
  you
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  really
• 1:58
  got
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  me
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  at
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  the
• 1:59
  Midlife.
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  I
• 2:00
  wanted
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  to
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  hit
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  it
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  hard
• 2:01
  right
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  at
• 2:01
  the
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  right
• 2:02
  time.
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  Happy
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  early
• 2:03
  birthday.
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  How
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  are
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  you
• 2:05
  feeling
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  going
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  into
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  this
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  new
• 2:07
  year?
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  Mixed
• 2:08
  emotions.
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  I
• 2:09
  was
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  really
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  excited
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  because
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  I
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  was
• 2:11
  having
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  one
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  hell
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  of
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  a
• 2:12
  birthday
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  bash.
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  And
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  then
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  obviously
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  the
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  war
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  broke
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  out
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  and
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  I
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  canceled
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  everything.
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  So
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  I'm
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  now
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  hiding
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  from
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  the
• 2:19
  world.
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  And
• 2:19
  I'm
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  off,
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  actually,
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  with
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  my
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  husband,
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  just
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  the
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  two
• 2:22
  of
• 2:22
  us,
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  and
• 2:23
  we're
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  off
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  to
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  the
• 2:23
  Maldives
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  to
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  go
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  and
• 2:24
  lie
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  on
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  a
• 2:24
  beach
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  and
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  hide
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  from
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  everyone
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  because
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  I
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  want.
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  I
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  want
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  my
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  50th
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  to
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  be
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  like
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  a
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  second
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  wedding.
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  So,
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  like,
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  I
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  just.
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  Everyone
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  keeps
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  saying,
• 2:33
  can
• 2:33
  we
• 2:33
  pop
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  over
• 2:34
  and
• 2:34
  see
• 2:34
  you?
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  And
• 2:35
  I'm
• 2:35
  saying
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  no.
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  So
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  I'm
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  leaving
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  the
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  country.
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  How
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  about
• 2:38
  that?
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  Oh,
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  that's
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  the
• 2:39
  best
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  way
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  to
• 2:40
  do
• 2:40
  it.
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  You
• 2:40
  go,
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  you
• 2:41
  travel,
• 2:41
  you
• 2:42
  come
• 2:42
  back,
• 2:42
  you
• 2:43
  turn
• 2:43
  50,
• 2:43
  and
• 2:44
  there
• 2:44
  you
• 2:44
  are,
• 2:44
  you're
• 2:45
  back
• 2:45
  into
• 2:45
  life.
• 2:46
  You
• 2:46
  know,
• 2:46
  it
• 2:46
  was
• 2:46
  funny
• 2:47
  when
• 2:47
  I
• 2:47
  turned
• 2:48
  50,
• 2:48
  I
• 2:48
  felt
• 2:48
  like
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  it
• 2:49
  happened
• 2:50
  last
• 2:50
  year,
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  and
• 2:51
  I
• 2:51
  felt
• 2:51
  like
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  that
• 2:52
  was
• 2:52
  a
• 2:52
  big
• 2:52
  year
• 2:52
  of
• 2:53
  change
• 2:53
  for
• 2:53
  me.
• 2:53
  There
• 2:54
  was
• 2:54
  a
• 2:54
  lot
• 2:54
  of,
• 2:54
  like,
• 2:55
  shedding
• 2:56
  of
• 2:56
  the
• 2:56
  old
• 2:57
  embracing
• 2:59
  paths
• 2:59
  and
• 2:59
  doing
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  different.
• 3:00
  Different
• 3:00
  things.
• 3:01
  I
• 3:02
  basically
• 3:02
  trying
• 3:03
  out
• 3:03
  different
• 3:03
  things
• 3:04
  than
• 3:04
  I
• 3:04
  had
• 3:04
  before.
• 3:05
  What
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  do
• 3:06
  you
• 3:06
  think
• 3:07
  50
• 3:07
  will
• 3:07
  bring
• 3:08
  for
• 3:08
  you?
• 3:08
  Do
• 3:08
  you
• 3:08
  think
• 3:08
  it's
• 3:09
  going
• 3:09
  to
• 3:09
  be
• 3:09
  a
• 3:09
  year
• 3:09
  of
• 3:10
  change?
• 3:10
  Do
• 3:10
  you
• 3:11
  think,
• 3:11
  you
• 3:11
  know,
• 3:12
  you're
• 3:12
  going
• 3:12
  to
• 3:12
  stay
• 3:12
  the
• 3:13
  course
• 3:13
  where
• 3:13
  you
• 3:13
  are
• 3:14
  now?
• 3:14
  Do
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  you
• 3:15
  ever
• 3:15
  do,
• 3:15
  like,
• 3:15
  a
• 3:16
  life
• 3:16
  audit
• 3:16
  and
• 3:17
  kind
• 3:17
  of,
• 3:17
  you
• 3:18
  know,
• 3:18
  look
• 3:18
  through
• 3:18
  things
• 3:19
  and
• 3:19
  see
• 3:19
  what's
• 3:20
  working
• 3:20
  and
• 3:20
  what
• 3:20
  isn't?
• 3:21
  All
• 3:21
  the
• 3:22
  time.
• 3:22
  I
• 3:22
  think
• 3:22
  that's
• 3:23
  called
• 3:23
  growth.
• 3:23
  And
• 3:24
  I
• 3:24
  weirdly.
• 3:25
  I
• 3:25
  don't
• 3:25
  know.
• 3:26
  You
• 3:26
  know,
• 3:26
  I
• 3:26
  do
• 3:26
  these
• 3:26
  women's
• 3:27
  retreats
• 3:28
  just
• 3:29
  as
• 3:29
  much
• 3:29
  as
• 3:29
  the
• 3:29
  women
• 3:30
  grow
• 3:30
  on
• 3:30
  them.
• 3:31
  I
• 3:31
  do,
• 3:31
  too,
• 3:31
  because
• 3:32
  I
• 3:32
  think
• 3:32
  it
• 3:32
  kicks
• 3:32
  you
• 3:33
  into
• 3:33
  action.
• 3:33
  You
• 3:34
  know,
• 3:34
  you
• 3:34
  have
• 3:34
  to
• 3:34
  have
• 3:34
  a
• 3:34
  good,
• 3:35
  hard
• 3:35
  look
• 3:35
  at
• 3:35
  yourself.
• 3:36
  I
• 3:36
  also
• 3:37
  think
• 3:37
  this
• 3:37
  year
• 3:38
  has
• 3:38
  already
• 3:38
  started
• 3:39
  off
• 3:39
  like
• 3:39
  that.
• 3:39
  I've
• 3:40
  got
• 3:40
  rid
• 3:40
  of
• 3:41
  a
• 3:41
  lot
• 3:41
  of
• 3:41
  dead
• 3:42
  weight
• 3:42
  people
• 3:43
  that,
• 3:44
  you
• 3:44
  know,
• 3:44
  suck
• 3:45
  my
• 3:45
  energy.
• 3:46
  I'm
• 3:46
  building
• 3:47
  in
• 3:48
  Bali
• 3:48
  now.
• 3:48
  We've
• 3:49
  got
• 3:49
  all
• 3:49
  the
• 3:49
  big
• 3:49
  diggers
• 3:50
  on,
• 3:50
  on
• 3:51
  site,
• 3:51
  which
• 3:51
  is
• 3:52
  really,
• 3:52
  really
• 3:52
  fun.
• 3:52
  And
• 3:53
  I've
• 3:53
  gone
• 3:53
  into
• 3:54
  business
• 3:54
  with
• 3:54
  friends,
• 3:55
  which
• 3:55
  I
• 3:55
  said
• 3:56
  I
• 3:56
  would
• 3:56
  never
• 3:56
  do.
• 3:56
  And
• 3:57
  let
• 3:57
  me
• 3:57
  tell
• 3:57
  you,
• 3:57
  I'm
• 3:57
  having
• 3:57
  the
• 3:58
  best
• 3:58
  time.
• 3:59
  I
• 3:59
  built
• 3:59
  a
• 4:00
  hair
• 4:00
  salon.
• 4:00
  I'm
• 4:01
  building
• 4:01
  a
• 4:01
  community.
• 4:02
  I'm
• 4:03
  building
• 4:03
  the
• 4:03
  retreat.
• 4:04
  It's
• 4:04
  just
• 4:04
  been
• 4:04
  so
• 4:05
  much
• 4:05
  fun
• 4:06
  I'm
• 4:06
  having.
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  didn't
• 4:07
  know
• 4:08
  business
• 4:08
  could
• 4:08
  be
• 4:08
  this
• 4:08
  fun
• 4:09
  because
• 4:09
  I
• 4:09
  think
• 4:11
  when
• 4:11
  I
• 4:11
  had
• 4:11
  Gift
• 4:12
  library,
• 4:12
  it
• 4:12
  was
• 4:13
  so
• 4:13
  stressful.
• 4:14
  And
• 4:15
  I'm
• 4:15
  working
• 4:15
  with
• 4:16
  people
• 4:16
  that
• 4:17
  I
• 4:17
  really
• 4:17
  want
• 4:18
  to
• 4:18
  be
• 4:18
  around.
• 4:18
  So
• 4:19
  I
• 4:19
  think
• 4:19
  that's
• 4:19
  the
• 4:19
  biggest
• 4:20
  change
• 4:20
  for
• 4:20
  myself.
• 4:21
  I
• 4:21
  think
• 4:21
  I'm
• 4:21
  now
• 4:22
  rewritten
• 4:23
  my
• 4:23
  life
• 4:23
  exactly
• 4:24
  how
• 4:24
  I
• 4:24
  want
• 4:25
  it.
• 4:25
  I
• 4:25
  spend
• 4:26
  the
• 4:26
  time
• 4:26
  with
• 4:26
  the
• 4:26
  people
• 4:27
  I
• 4:27
  want
• 4:27
  to
• 4:27
  spend
• 4:27
  time
• 4:28
  with,
• 4:28
  and
• 4:29
  that's
• 4:29
  it.
• 4:30
  And
• 4:31
  I'm
• 4:31
  really
• 4:31
  happy.
• 4:32
  It
• 4:32
  sounds
• 4:33
  like
• 4:33
  it's
• 4:33
  more
• 4:33
  intentional
• 4:34
  now,
• 4:34
  and
• 4:35
  that's
• 4:35
  how
• 4:35
  it
• 4:35
  feels
• 4:36
  for
• 4:36
  me,
• 4:36
  too.
• 4:36
  It
• 4:36
  feels
• 4:37
  more
• 4:37
  intentional
• 4:37
  now
• 4:38
  than
• 4:38
  it
• 4:38
  ever
• 4:39
  has
• 4:39
  before.
• 4:40
  How
• 4:40
  have
• 4:40
  you
• 4:41
  become
• 4:41
  more
• 4:41
  intentional?
• 4:42
  I
• 4:43
  think
• 4:43
  I'm
• 4:43
  intentional
• 4:44
  in
• 4:44
  everything.
• 4:44
  If
• 4:44
  I
• 4:45
  look
• 4:45
  at
• 4:45
  all
• 4:45
  the
• 4:45
  things
• 4:45
  I'm
• 4:46
  building,
• 4:46
  it's
• 4:47
  kind
• 4:47
  of
• 4:47
  a.
• 4:49
  It's.
• 4:50
  It's
• 4:50
  circle.
• 4:51
  It's
• 4:51
  like
• 4:52
  it's
• 4:52
  all
• 4:52
  based
• 4:52
  on
• 4:53
  wellness.
• 4:53
  It's
• 4:54
  all
• 4:54
  based
• 4:55
  on
• 4:56
  feeling
• 4:56
  good.
• 4:57
  Having
• 4:57
  an
• 4:57
  experience.
• 4:58
  And
• 4:58
  everything
• 4:59
  I'm
• 4:59
  about
• 5:01
  is
• 5:01
  experiencing
• 5:02
  new
• 5:03
  things
• 5:03
  in
• 5:03
  life
• 5:04
  and
• 5:04
  also
• 5:05
  just
• 5:05
  creating
• 5:06
  this
• 5:07
  very
• 5:08
  soft
• 5:09
  but
• 5:09
  powerful
• 5:10
  life,
• 5:10
  if
• 5:10
  you
• 5:11
  get
• 5:11
  what
• 5:11
  I
• 5:11
  mean.
• 5:11
  Like,
• 5:11
  I
• 5:12
  have
• 5:12
  beautiful
• 5:12
  things,
• 5:13
  I
• 5:13
  go
• 5:13
  on
• 5:13
  beautiful
• 5:14
  trips,
• 5:14
  but
• 5:14
  I'm
• 5:15
  not
• 5:15
  looking
• 5:15
  to
• 5:15
  be
• 5:16
  the
• 5:16
  next
• 5:17
  Emma
• 5:17
  Greed
• 5:18
  in,
• 5:18
  you
• 5:19
  know,
• 5:19
  New
• 5:19
  York,
• 5:19
  Times
• 5:20
  Square
• 5:20
  and
• 5:20
  like
• 5:21
  Chase,
• 5:21
  which
• 5:22
  I
• 5:22
  was
• 5:22
  when
• 5:23
  I
• 5:23
  was
• 5:23
  in
• 5:23
  my
• 5:24
  20s
• 5:24
  and
• 5:24
  30s,
• 5:25
  that's
• 5:25
  all
• 5:25
  I
• 5:26
  wanted
• 5:26
  to
• 5:26
  do
• 5:27
  is
• 5:27
  the
• 5:27
  hustle.
• 5:28
  And
• 5:28
  I
• 5:29
  think
• 5:29
  now
• 5:29
  I'm
• 5:30
  just
• 5:30
  like,
• 5:30
  I'm
• 5:31
  seeing
• 5:31
  that
• 5:31
  if
• 5:31
  I
• 5:31
  build
• 5:31
  that,
• 5:32
  this
• 5:32
  will
• 5:32
  pay
• 5:33
  for
• 5:33
  it,
• 5:33
  this
• 5:33
  will
• 5:34
  do
• 5:34
  this,
• 5:34
  that
• 5:35
  will
• 5:35
  do
• 5:35
  that.
• 5:35
  And
• 5:36
  I
• 5:36
  can
• 5:36
  just
• 5:36
  sit
• 5:37
  back
• 5:37
  and
• 5:37
  enjoy
• 5:37
  my
• 5:38
  life
• 5:38
  with,
• 5:38
  you
• 5:39
  know,
• 5:39
  what
• 5:39
  I've
• 5:40
  built
• 5:40
  and
• 5:41
  enjoy
• 5:41
  the
• 5:41
  fruits
• 5:42
  of
• 5:42
  my
• 5:42
  labor
• 5:42
  and
• 5:43
  enjoy
• 5:43
  my,
• 5:44
  my
• 5:44
  next
• 5:44
  chapter
• 5:44
  with
• 5:44
  my
• 5:45
  husband.
• 5:45
  And
• 5:46
  I
• 5:46
  think
• 5:46
  Sergio's
• 5:47
  being
• 5:47
  a
• 5:47
  big
• 5:47
  part
• 5:48
  of
• 5:48
  that
• 5:48
  because,
• 5:49
  you
• 5:49
  know,
• 5:50
  I
• 5:50
  think
• 5:50
  the
• 5:50
  biggest
• 5:51
  flex
• 5:52
  a
• 5:52
  woman
• 5:52
  can
• 5:52
  have
• 5:53
  is
• 5:53
  choosing
• 5:53
  a
• 5:54
  man
• 5:54
  that
• 5:54
  wants
• 5:54
  to
• 5:54
  go
• 5:55
  on
• 5:55
  that
• 5:55
  journey
• 5:55
  with
• 5:55
  her
• 5:56
  today.
• 5:57
  Because
• 5:58
  it's
• 5:58
  becoming
• 5:59
  harder
• 5:59
  and
• 5:59
  harder
• 6:00
  to
• 6:00
  find
• 6:00
  a
• 6:01
  man
• 6:01
  that
• 6:01
  really
• 6:02
  embraces
• 6:03
  his
• 6:03
  wife's
• 6:04
  journey
• 6:04
  or
• 6:05
  the
• 6:05
  journey
• 6:05
  they're
• 6:05
  on
• 6:05
  together
• 6:06
  as
• 6:06
  a
• 6:06
  team.
• 6:06
  You
• 6:07
  know,
• 6:07
  what
• 6:08
  feels
• 6:08
  different
• 6:09
  to
• 6:09
  you
• 6:09
  or
• 6:09
  what
• 6:09
  are
• 6:09
  you
• 6:10
  doing
• 6:10
  differently
• 6:11
  than
• 6:11
  maybe
• 6:11
  you
• 6:12
  didn't
• 6:12
  do
• 6:12
  in
• 6:12
  your
• 6:12
  first
• 6:13
  marriage?
• 6:13
  Like,
• 6:13
  what
• 6:13
  are
• 6:14
  the
• 6:14
  lessons
• 6:14
  that
• 6:14
  you
• 6:15
  kind
• 6:15
  of
• 6:15
  took
• 6:16
  from
• 6:16
  number
• 6:16
  one
• 6:16
  to
• 6:17
  number
• 6:17
  two?
• 6:17
  Well,
• 6:18
  I
• 6:18
  feel
• 6:18
  like
• 6:18
  the
• 6:19
  first
• 6:19
  time
• 6:19
  round,
• 6:20
  I
• 6:20
  always
• 6:20
  say
• 6:20
  it's
• 6:20
  a
• 6:20
  bit
• 6:21
  like
• 6:21
  musical
• 6:21
  chairs.
• 6:22
  I
• 6:22
  think,
• 6:22
  you
• 6:22
  know,
• 6:22
  when
• 6:22
  you
• 6:22
  come
• 6:23
  from
• 6:23
  a
• 6:23
  society
• 6:24
  where
• 6:24
  you're
• 6:25
  meant
• 6:25
  to
• 6:25
  be
• 6:25
  married
• 6:25
  in
• 6:26
  your
• 6:26
  early
• 6:26
  20s,
• 6:27
  if
• 6:27
  you're
• 6:27
  not,
• 6:28
  you're
• 6:28
  over
• 6:29
  the
• 6:29
  hill.
• 6:29
  So
• 6:30
  everybody's
• 6:31
  sort
• 6:31
  of.
• 6:31
  I
• 6:31
  always
• 6:31
  equate
• 6:32
  it
• 6:32
  to,
• 6:33
  you
• 6:33
  know,
• 6:34
  like
• 6:34
  musical
• 6:34
  chairs.
• 6:35
  Quick,
• 6:35
  the
• 6:36
  next
• 6:36
  good
• 6:36
  one's
• 6:37
  gone.
• 6:37
  And
• 6:37
  that's
• 6:37
  just
• 6:37
  not
• 6:38
  so.
• 6:38
  There
• 6:38
  is
• 6:38
  no
• 6:38
  panic.
• 6:39
  And
• 6:39
  I
• 6:39
  would
• 6:40
  urge
• 6:40
  anyone
• 6:40
  to
• 6:41
  think
• 6:41
  long
• 6:42
  and
• 6:42
  hard
• 6:42
  before
• 6:42
  you
• 6:43
  get
• 6:43
  married
• 6:43
  about
• 6:44
  the
• 6:44
  type
• 6:44
  of
• 6:44
  man
• 6:44
  you
• 6:45
  want.
• 6:45
  And
• 6:45
  how
• 6:45
  can
• 6:45
  you
• 6:45
  possibly
• 6:46
  choose
• 6:46
  the
• 6:46
  man
• 6:47
  you
• 6:47
  want
• 6:47
  when
• 6:47
  you
• 6:47
  just
• 6:48
  come
• 6:48
  out
• 6:48
  of
• 6:49
  school
• 6:49
  essentially,
• 6:51
  so,
• 6:51
  you
• 6:52
  know,
• 6:52
  you
• 6:52
  don't
• 6:52
  know
• 6:53
  yourself.
• 6:54
  And
• 6:55
  I
• 6:55
  think
• 6:56
  knowing
• 6:56
  now
• 6:56
  what
• 6:57
  I
• 6:57
  know,
• 6:57
  look,
• 6:58
  my
• 6:58
  ex
• 6:58
  husband
• 6:58
  is
• 6:59
  a
• 6:59
  great
• 6:59
  business
• 6:59
  partner
• 6:59
  for
• 7:00
  me.
• 7:00
  But,
• 7:00
  you
• 7:00
  know,
• 7:01
  ultimately
• 7:01
  I
• 7:01
  think
• 7:01
  we
• 7:02
  were
• 7:02
  both
• 7:02
  very
• 7:03
  driven
• 7:03
  to
• 7:04
  build
• 7:04
  our
• 7:04
  careers
• 7:04
  at
• 7:05
  that
• 7:05
  point.
• 7:05
  I
• 7:05
  think,
• 7:06
  you
• 7:06
  know,
• 7:06
  I
• 7:06
  had
• 7:06
  80
• 7:07
  something
• 7:07
  employees.
• 7:08
  He
• 7:08
  was,
• 7:09
  you
• 7:09
  know,
• 7:09
  man
• 7:10
  working
• 7:10
  in
• 7:10
  a
• 7:10
  big
• 7:11
  hedge
• 7:11
  fund.
• 7:11
  I
• 7:11
  think
• 7:12
  we
• 7:12
  were
• 7:12
  competitive.
• 7:13
  I
• 7:14
  think
• 7:14
  we
• 7:14
  were
• 7:14
  both
• 7:15
  tired.
• 7:15
  We
• 7:16
  didn't
• 7:16
  have
• 7:16
  time
• 7:17
  for
• 7:17
  each
• 7:17
  other.
• 7:18
  You
• 7:18
  know,
• 7:18
  neither
• 7:19
  of
• 7:19
  us
• 7:19
  was
• 7:19
  interested
• 7:20
  in
• 7:20
  the
• 7:20
  other
• 7:20
  one's
• 7:21
  business
• 7:21
  really.
• 7:22
  I
• 7:22
  didn't
• 7:22
  want
• 7:22
  to
• 7:22
  get
• 7:22
  home
• 7:23
  and
• 7:23
  talk
• 7:23
  about
• 7:23
  a
• 7:23
  hedge
• 7:24
  fund.
• 7:24
  And
• 7:24
  I'm
• 7:24
  sure
• 7:24
  he
• 7:24
  didn't
• 7:25
  want
• 7:25
  to
• 7:25
  get
• 7:25
  home
• 7:25
  and
• 7:25
  talk
• 7:25
  about
• 7:26
  my
• 7:26
  stuff,
• 7:26
  you
• 7:26
  know.
• 7:28
  So
• 7:29
  I
• 7:29
  think
• 7:29
  the
• 7:30
  difference
• 7:30
  this
• 7:30
  time
• 7:31
  round
• 7:31
  is
• 7:32
  Sergio
• 7:32
  came
• 7:33
  in
• 7:34
  to
• 7:35
  my
• 7:35
  world
• 7:35
  and
• 7:35
  said,
• 7:36
  look,
• 7:36
  I'm
• 7:36
  just
• 7:36
  going
• 7:36
  to
• 7:36
  embrace
• 7:37
  it,
• 7:37
  you
• 7:37
  know,
• 7:37
  because
• 7:37
  he
• 7:37
  was
• 7:37
  so
• 7:38
  young,
• 7:38
  he
• 7:38
  was
• 7:38
  24
• 7:39
  years
• 7:39
  old
• 7:39
  at
• 7:39
  the
• 7:39
  time.
• 7:40
  You
• 7:41
  know,
• 7:41
  he
• 7:41
  just
• 7:41
  was
• 7:42
  so
• 7:42
  on
• 7:43
  board
• 7:43
  with
• 7:43
  everything
• 7:43
  I
• 7:44
  was
• 7:44
  doing.
• 7:44
  He's
• 7:44
  managed
• 7:45
  to
• 7:45
  make
• 7:45
  it
• 7:45
  his
• 7:45
  own,
• 7:45
  by
• 7:46
  the
• 7:46
  way.
• 7:46
  You
• 7:47
  know,
• 7:47
  he's
• 7:47
  managed
• 7:47
  to
• 7:48
  like
• 7:48
  get
• 7:49
  in
• 7:49
  there
• 7:49
  and
• 7:50
  really
• 7:51
  get
• 7:51
  to
• 7:51
  know
• 7:52
  the
• 7:52
  women
• 7:52
  that
• 7:52
  I
• 7:53
  work
• 7:53
  with.
• 7:53
  You
• 7:53
  know,
• 7:54
  even
• 7:54
  on
• 7:54
  the
• 7:54
  retreats,
• 7:55
  you
• 7:55
  know,
• 7:55
  he's
• 7:56
  fully
• 7:56
  involved
• 7:57
  with
• 7:57
  the
• 7:57
  women
• 7:57
  and
• 7:57
  they
• 7:58
  love
• 7:58
  it
• 7:58
  because
• 7:58
  I
• 7:59
  think
• 7:59
  they
• 7:59
  get
• 7:59
  a
• 7:59
  male
• 7:59
  perspective.
• 8:00
  And
• 8:00
  I
• 8:00
  was
• 8:00
  dead
• 8:01
  against
• 8:01
  that
• 8:01
  at
• 8:01
  the
• 8:01
  beginning.
• 8:02
  And
• 8:02
  actually
• 8:03
  it
• 8:03
  only
• 8:03
  happened
• 8:04
  because
• 8:04
  I
• 8:04
  was
• 8:04
  doing
• 8:04
  my
• 8:05
  one
• 8:05
  on
• 8:05
  ones
• 8:05
  and
• 8:05
  he
• 8:05
  was
• 8:06
  left
• 8:06
  on
• 8:06
  his
• 8:06
  own
• 8:06
  with
• 8:06
  them
• 8:07
  that
• 8:07
  they
• 8:07
  all
• 8:07
  kept
• 8:07
  asking
• 8:08
  him
• 8:08
  things
• 8:09
  like
• 8:09
  social
• 8:09
  media,
• 8:10
  how
• 8:10
  to
• 8:10
  build
• 8:10
  a
• 8:10
  brand,
• 8:11
  but
• 8:11
  all
• 8:11
  these
• 8:11
  things
• 8:12
  that,
• 8:12
  you
• 8:12
  know,
• 8:12
  someone
• 8:12
  his
• 8:13
  age
• 8:13
  can
• 8:14
  teach
• 8:14
  women
• 8:14
  our
• 8:15
  age,
• 8:16
  right,
• 8:16
  that
• 8:16
  maybe
• 8:16
  aren't
• 8:17
  so
• 8:17
  comfortable
• 8:18
  with
• 8:18
  the
• 8:18
  tech
• 8:18
  side.
• 8:19
  And
• 8:19
  I
• 8:19
  was
• 8:19
  like,
• 8:19
  oh,
• 8:20
  well,
• 8:20
  actually
• 8:20
  this
• 8:20
  is
• 8:20
  a
• 8:21
  real
• 8:21
  gift
• 8:21
  for
• 8:21
  them
• 8:22
  because,
• 8:22
  you
• 8:22
  know,
• 8:23
  I.
• 8:23
  This
• 8:23
  is
• 8:24
  an
• 8:24
  actual
• 8:25
  added
• 8:25
  bonus.
• 8:26
  Like
• 8:26
  these
• 8:26
  are
• 8:26
  all
• 8:26
  things
• 8:27
  that
• 8:27
  he
• 8:27
  did
• 8:27
  for
• 8:27
  me
• 8:28
  and
• 8:29
  I
• 8:29
  didn't
• 8:29
  know
• 8:29
  that
• 8:29
  I
• 8:29
  really
• 8:30
  needed.
• 8:30
  I
• 8:30
  was
• 8:30
  hiring
• 8:30
  teams
• 8:31
  of
• 8:31
  people
• 8:31
  to
• 8:31
  do
• 8:32
  that,
• 8:32
  but
• 8:32
  he
• 8:32
  was
• 8:32
  doing
• 8:32
  it
• 8:33
  from
• 8:33
  my
• 8:33
  house.
• 8:34
  So
• 8:34
  I
• 8:34
  was
• 8:34
  like,
• 8:34
  okay,
• 8:34
  this
• 8:35
  is
• 8:35
  genius.
• 8:36
  So,
• 8:36
  you
• 8:37
  know,
• 8:37
  I
• 8:37
  think
• 8:37
  Sergio
• 8:38
  is
• 8:39
  not
• 8:40
  proud,
• 8:41
  as
• 8:41
  in,
• 8:41
  you
• 8:41
  know,
• 8:42
  he's
• 8:42
  got
• 8:42
  no
• 8:42
  ego.
• 8:42
  He's
• 8:43
  happy
• 8:43
  to
• 8:43
  sit
• 8:44
  and
• 8:44
  work
• 8:44
  with
• 8:44
  me,
• 8:45
  for
• 8:45
  me,
• 8:46
  any
• 8:46
  which
• 8:47
  way,
• 8:48
  as,
• 8:48
  because,
• 8:48
  you
• 8:49
  know,
• 8:49
  at
• 8:49
  the
• 8:49
  end
• 8:49
  of
• 8:49
  the
• 8:49
  day
• 8:49
  we
• 8:50
  have
• 8:50
  the
• 8:50
  same
• 8:50
  goal
• 8:50
  and
• 8:50
  even
• 8:51
  if
• 8:51
  I
• 8:51
  can
• 8:51
  say
• 8:51
  he
• 8:52
  works
• 8:52
  for
• 8:52
  me,
• 8:52
  just,
• 8:53
  you
• 8:53
  know,
• 8:53
  the
• 8:54
  money
• 8:54
  goes
• 8:54
  the
• 8:54
  same
• 8:54
  place,
• 8:55
  doesn't
• 8:55
  it?
• 8:56
  So,
• 8:56
  you
• 8:56
  know,
• 8:57
  at
• 8:57
  the
• 8:57
  end
• 8:57
  of
• 8:57
  the
• 8:57
  day
• 8:58
  we're
• 8:58
  together,
• 8:58
  so
• 8:59
  it
• 8:59
  really
• 8:59
  doesn't
• 8:59
  matter
• 9:00
  who
• 9:00
  works
• 9:00
  for
• 9:00
  who,
• 9:01
  but
• 9:02
  we
• 9:02
  are
• 9:02
  a
• 9:02
  team.
• 9:03
  When
• 9:03
  you're
• 9:03
  done
• 9:04
  with
• 9:04
  the
• 9:04
  work
• 9:04
  at
• 9:05
  the
• 9:05
  end
• 9:05
  of
• 9:05
  the
• 9:05
  day,
• 9:05
  like,
• 9:05
  how
• 9:06
  do
• 9:06
  you
• 9:06
  separate
• 9:07
  that
• 9:07
  out,
• 9:07
  you
• 9:08
  know,
• 9:08
  so
• 9:08
  it
• 9:08
  doesn't
• 9:08
  become
• 9:09
  an
• 9:09
  issue
• 9:10
  again,.
• 9:10
  Because
• 9:11
  we
• 9:11
  have
• 9:11
  jobs
• 9:12
  that
• 9:12
  we
• 9:12
  really,
• 9:13
  really
• 9:13
  love.
• 9:14
  So,
• 9:15
  you
• 9:15
  know,
• 9:15
  you've
• 9:15
  just
• 9:16
  seen
• 9:16
  now
• 9:16
  he
• 9:16
  just
• 9:16
  left
• 9:17
  to
• 9:17
  play
• 9:17
  paddle
• 9:17
  with
• 9:17
  the
• 9:18
  boys.
• 9:18
  Like
• 9:18
  I
• 9:19
  do
• 9:19
  say
• 9:19
  to
• 9:19
  him,
• 9:20
  because
• 9:20
  he's
• 9:20
  so
• 9:20
  passionate.
• 9:21
  He
• 9:21
  was
• 9:21
  up
• 9:21
  taking
• 9:22
  calls
• 9:22
  for
• 9:22
  the
• 9:22
  retreat,
• 9:23
  I
• 9:23
  think
• 9:23
  at
• 9:23
  5am
• 9:24
  this
• 9:24
  morning.
• 9:25
  And
• 9:26
  you
• 9:26
  know,
• 9:26
  I
• 9:26
  do
• 9:26
  say
• 9:27
  to
• 9:27
  him,
• 9:27
  it's
• 9:27
  9
• 9:27
  o',
• 9:27
  clock,
• 9:28
  9:30.
• 9:28
  I
• 9:29
  don't
• 9:29
  want
• 9:29
  to
• 9:29
  talk
• 9:29
  about
• 9:29
  it,
• 9:29
  I
• 9:30
  don't
• 9:30
  want
• 9:30
  a
• 9:30
  question
• 9:30
  about
• 9:31
  the
• 9:31
  retreat,
• 9:31
  I
• 9:31
  don't
• 9:32
  want
• 9:32
  a
• 9:32
  question
• 9:32
  about
• 9:33
  anything.
• 9:34
  Let's
• 9:34
  just
• 9:34
  Watch
• 9:34
  tv.
• 9:35
  And
• 9:36
  I
• 9:36
  do
• 9:36
  try
• 9:36
  and
• 9:37
  do
• 9:37
  that.
• 9:37
  Or
• 9:37
  we
• 9:37
  connect
• 9:38
  and
• 9:38
  we,
• 9:38
  you
• 9:38
  know,
• 9:39
  chat
• 9:40
  to
• 9:40
  each
• 9:40
  other
• 9:40
  or,
• 9:41
  you
• 9:41
  know,
• 9:41
  have
• 9:41
  sex,
• 9:42
  whatever
• 9:42
  it
• 9:42
  is.
• 9:43
  I
• 9:43
  kind
• 9:43
  of
• 9:44
  say,
• 9:44
  that's
• 9:44
  it.
• 9:44
  I'm
• 9:44
  off.
• 9:45
  I
• 9:45
  don't
• 9:45
  want
• 9:45
  to
• 9:45
  hear
• 9:45
  it.
• 9:45
  You
• 9:46
  can't
• 9:46
  ask
• 9:46
  me
• 9:46
  one
• 9:46
  single
• 9:47
  thing.
• 9:47
  You
• 9:48
  know,
• 9:48
  I
• 9:48
  think
• 9:48
  a
• 9:48
  lot
• 9:48
  of
• 9:48
  women
• 9:49
  in
• 9:49
  midlife,
• 9:49
  too,
• 9:49
  are
• 9:50
  at
• 9:50
  this
• 9:50
  kind
• 9:50
  of,
• 9:50
  like,
• 9:51
  turning
• 9:51
  point,
• 9:51
  you
• 9:51
  know,
• 9:52
  like,
• 9:52
  maybe
• 9:53
  marriages
• 9:53
  are
• 9:53
  ending.
• 9:54
  You
• 9:54
  know,
• 9:54
  maybe
• 9:55
  they're
• 9:55
  getting
• 9:55
  divorced.
• 9:55
  Maybe
• 9:56
  they're
• 9:56
  taking
• 9:56
  a
• 9:56
  new
• 9:56
  career.
• 9:57
  Kids
• 9:57
  are
• 9:58
  leaving
• 9:58
  empty
• 9:59
  nesting.
• 10:00
  Yeah,
• 10:00
  kids
• 10:00
  are
• 10:00
  leaving
• 10:01
  kids.
• 10:01
  I
• 10:02
  mean,
• 10:02
  your
• 10:02
  kids
• 10:02
  are.
• 10:03
  Well,
• 10:03
  they.
• 10:04
  They're
• 10:04
  16
• 10:05
  now,
• 10:05
  so.
• 10:06
  My
• 10:06
  daughter's
• 10:06
  left.
• 10:07
  She's
• 10:07
  at
• 10:07
  university
• 10:08
  now,
• 10:09
  and
• 10:09
  I've
• 10:09
  got
• 10:10
  two
• 10:10
  more,
• 10:10
  so.
• 10:11
  Then
• 10:11
  you
• 10:11
  better
• 10:11
  bloody
• 10:12
  light
• 10:12
  your
• 10:12
  partner,
• 10:13
  right?
• 10:13
  You
• 10:13
  have
• 10:14
  to,
• 10:14
  like
• 10:14
  your
• 10:14
  partner.
• 10:15
  You
• 10:15
  have
• 10:15
  to
• 10:15
  figure
• 10:15
  things
• 10:15
  out.
• 10:16
  So,
• 10:16
  you
• 10:17
  know,
• 10:17
  it's
• 10:17
  super
• 10:17
  important.
• 10:18
  Because
• 10:18
  at
• 10:18
  the
• 10:18
  end
• 10:18
  of
• 10:18
  the
• 10:18
  day,
• 10:19
  like,
• 10:19
  I
• 10:19
  think
• 10:19
  about,
• 10:19
  like,
• 10:20
  these.
• 10:20
  The
• 10:20
  island
• 10:21
  home
• 10:21
  we're
• 10:21
  building,
• 10:22
  and
• 10:23
  I'm
• 10:23
  super
• 10:23
  excited
• 10:24
  to
• 10:24
  get
• 10:24
  on
• 10:24
  that
• 10:25
  island
• 10:25
  and
• 10:25
  be
• 10:25
  alone
• 10:25
  with
• 10:25
  him.
• 10:26
  Like,
• 10:26
  I
• 10:26
  could
• 10:26
  not
• 10:26
  care
• 10:27
  less
• 10:27
  who
• 10:27
  comes
• 10:27
  with
• 10:27
  us
• 10:28
  or
• 10:28
  not.
• 10:28
  And
• 10:29
  that's
• 10:29
  amazing.
• 10:30
  You
• 10:30
  know,
• 10:30
  we're
• 10:31
  going
• 10:31
  next
• 10:31
  week
• 10:31
  to
• 10:31
  the
• 10:31
  Maldives.
• 10:32
  And
• 10:32
  that
• 10:33
  used
• 10:33
  to
• 10:33
  fill
• 10:33
  me
• 10:33
  with
• 10:34
  dread,
• 10:35
  going
• 10:35
  to
• 10:35
  the
• 10:35
  Maldives
• 10:36
  and
• 10:36
  thinking
• 10:36
  why
• 10:37
  I'm.
• 10:38
  Well,
• 10:38
  because
• 10:38
  if
• 10:39
  you're
• 10:39
  in
• 10:39
  the
• 10:39
  wrong
• 10:39
  person,
• 10:40
  you
• 10:40
  don't
• 10:40
  have
• 10:41
  the
• 10:41
  fun
• 10:42
  that
• 10:42
  you
• 10:42
  should
• 10:42
  be
• 10:43
  having,
• 10:43
  or
• 10:44
  you
• 10:44
  feel
• 10:44
  like,
• 10:44
  you
• 10:45
  know,
• 10:45
  a
• 10:45
  little
• 10:45
  bit
• 10:45
  judged
• 10:46
  in
• 10:46
  your
• 10:46
  marriage
• 10:46
  or
• 10:46
  whatever
• 10:47
  it
• 10:47
  is,
• 10:48
  then
• 10:48
  going
• 10:48
  to
• 10:49
  an
• 10:49
  island
• 10:49
  is
• 10:50
  not
• 10:50
  the
• 10:50
  most
• 10:50
  fun.
• 10:51
  But
• 10:51
  if
• 10:51
  you
• 10:51
  have
• 10:51
  a
• 10:52
  young,
• 10:52
  you
• 10:52
  know,
• 10:52
  you
• 10:52
  have
• 10:52
  a
• 10:53
  partner
• 10:53
  who
• 10:53
  you
• 10:53
  have
• 10:54
  fun
• 10:54
  with
• 10:54
  and
• 10:55
  run
• 10:55
  around
• 10:55
  the
• 10:55
  bedroom
• 10:55
  and
• 10:56
  giggle
• 10:56
  with,
• 10:56
  and,
• 10:56
  you
• 10:57
  know,
• 10:57
  Sergio's
• 10:58
  naked
• 10:58
  from
• 10:58
  the
• 10:59
  moment
• 10:59
  he
• 10:59
  enters
• 10:59
  that
• 10:59
  villa.
• 11:00
  We're
• 11:00
  having
• 11:01
  so
• 11:01
  much
• 11:01
  fun.
• 11:02
  You
• 11:02
  know
• 11:02
  what
• 11:02
  I
• 11:03
  mean?
• 11:03
  I'm
• 11:03
  like,
• 11:03
  I'm
• 11:03
  not
• 11:04
  even
• 11:04
  worried
• 11:04
  about
• 11:04
  the
• 11:04
  restaurants.
• 11:05
  Like,
• 11:05
  I'm
• 11:05
  just
• 11:05
  happy
• 11:06
  to
• 11:06
  sleep,
• 11:07
  you
• 11:07
  know,
• 11:07
  turn
• 11:08
  off
• 11:08
  the
• 11:08
  phone,
• 11:09
  go
• 11:09
  swimming
• 11:10
  with
• 11:10
  him.
• 11:10
  Like,
• 11:10
  we
• 11:11
  literally.
• 11:12
  It's
• 11:12
  our
• 11:12
  favorite
• 11:13
  place
• 11:13
  on
• 11:13
  earth
• 11:14
  because
• 11:15
  we
• 11:15
  only
• 11:16
  need
• 11:16
  that
• 11:17
  bedroom
• 11:17
  in
• 11:17
  the
• 11:17
  nicest
• 11:18
  possible
• 11:18
  way.
• 11:18
  It's
• 11:19
  like,
• 11:19
  you
• 11:19
  know,
• 11:19
  it's
• 11:19
  so
• 11:20
  fun,
• 11:20
  and
• 11:20
  we
• 11:20
  just
• 11:20
  relax
• 11:21
  and
• 11:21
  we
• 11:21
  have
• 11:22
  such
• 11:22
  a
• 11:22
  nice
• 11:22
  time
• 11:22
  together.
• 11:23
  And
• 11:23
  we
• 11:23
  remember
• 11:24
  exactly
• 11:25
  why
• 11:25
  we're
• 11:25
  together.
• 11:26
  Because
• 11:26
  the
• 11:26
  allure
• 11:27
  of
• 11:27
  the
• 11:27
  younger
• 11:27
  man,
• 11:28
  you
• 11:28
  know,
• 11:29
  marriage,
• 11:30
  like,
• 11:30
  it's
• 11:30
  very
• 11:30
  sexy.
• 11:31
  It
• 11:31
  looks
• 11:31
  very,
• 11:32
  very,
• 11:32
  like,
• 11:33
  captivating
• 11:34
  from
• 11:34
  the
• 11:34
  outside.
• 11:34
  But
• 11:35
  are
• 11:35
  there
• 11:35
  parts
• 11:35
  that
• 11:36
  aren't
• 11:36
  so
• 11:36
  glamorous
• 11:37
  on
• 11:37
  the
• 11:37
  inside?
• 11:38
  Well,
• 11:38
  there
• 11:38
  are
• 11:38
  parts
• 11:39
  with.
• 11:40
  That
• 11:40
  aren't
• 11:40
  glamorous
• 11:40
  with
• 11:41
  many
• 11:42
  men.
• 11:42
  Right.
• 11:43
  I
• 11:44
  have
• 11:44
  girlfriends
• 11:45
  that
• 11:45
  are
• 11:45
  married
• 11:45
  to
• 11:45
  extremely
• 11:46
  successful,
• 11:48
  much
• 11:48
  older
• 11:49
  men.
• 11:49
  And
• 11:50
  you
• 11:50
  Know,
• 11:50
  for
• 11:51
  me,
• 11:51
  they
• 11:51
  live
• 11:51
  in
• 11:51
  a
• 11:52
  gilded
• 11:52
  cage.
• 11:53
  Yes,
• 11:53
  you
• 11:53
  have
• 11:53
  a
• 11:53
  nice
• 11:54
  house.
• 11:55
  Yes,
• 11:55
  you
• 11:56
  have
• 11:56
  nice
• 11:56
  things,
• 11:57
  but
• 11:57
  I
• 11:57
  have
• 11:57
  nice
• 11:57
  things.
• 11:58
  And,
• 11:58
  you
• 11:58
  know,
• 11:58
  I
• 11:59
  don't
• 11:59
  need
• 11:59
  a
• 11:59
  bigger
• 11:59
  house
• 11:59
  than
• 12:00
  this,
• 12:00
  and
• 12:01
  I'm
• 12:01
  building
• 12:01
  all
• 12:01
  the
• 12:02
  rest.
• 12:02
  But
• 12:02
  I
• 12:02
  get
• 12:02
  to
• 12:02
  spend
• 12:03
  my
• 12:03
  money
• 12:03
  where
• 12:03
  I
• 12:03
  like.
• 12:04
  And
• 12:04
  if
• 12:04
  anything
• 12:04
  goes
• 12:05
  wrong,
• 12:06
  you
• 12:06
  know,
• 12:06
  I
• 12:06
  don't
• 12:06
  have
• 12:07
  to
• 12:07
  host
• 12:07
  dinners
• 12:07
  I
• 12:08
  don't
• 12:08
  want
• 12:08
  to
• 12:08
  host,
• 12:08
  I
• 12:08
  don't
• 12:09
  have
• 12:09
  to
• 12:09
  sit
• 12:09
  in
• 12:09
  boring
• 12:10
  rooms
• 12:10
  I
• 12:10
  don't
• 12:10
  have
• 12:11
  to
• 12:11
  do
• 12:11
  anything
• 12:11
  I
• 12:11
  don't
• 12:12
  want
• 12:12
  to
• 12:12
  do.
• 12:12
  And
• 12:12
  that's
• 12:12
  just.
• 12:12
  I'm
• 12:13
  not
• 12:13
  prepared
• 12:13
  to
• 12:13
  live
• 12:13
  that
• 12:14
  way.
• 12:14
  That's
• 12:14
  up
• 12:14
  to
• 12:14
  you.
• 12:15
  So,
• 12:15
  you
• 12:16
  know,
• 12:16
  just
• 12:16
  as
• 12:16
  there
• 12:17
  are
• 12:17
  pros
• 12:17
  and
• 12:17
  cons
• 12:18
  to
• 12:18
  everything,
• 12:18
  of
• 12:19
  course
• 12:19
  there
• 12:19
  are
• 12:19
  cons
• 12:19
  to
• 12:20
  being
• 12:20
  with
• 12:20
  someone
• 12:20
  younger,
• 12:21
  but
• 12:22
  the
• 12:22
  pros
• 12:22
  way
• 12:23
  outweigh
• 12:23
  it,
• 12:23
  you
• 12:24
  know,
• 12:25
  Was
• 12:25
  he.
• 12:25
  Is
• 12:25
  it.
• 12:26
  Is
• 12:26
  he
• 12:26
  going
• 12:26
  to
• 12:26
  come
• 12:27
  in
• 12:27
  as
• 12:27
  financially
• 12:28
  stable
• 12:28
  as
• 12:28
  you?
• 12:29
  Absolutely.
• 12:29
  I
• 12:29
  mean,
• 12:29
  God
• 12:30
  help.
• 12:30
  Gotta
• 12:31
  hope.
• 12:31
  Hope
• 12:31
  not.
• 12:32
  He's
• 12:32
  20
• 12:32
  years
• 12:32
  younger.
• 12:33
  I
• 12:33
  mean,
• 12:33
  where
• 12:33
  were
• 12:33
  you
• 12:34
  at
• 12:34
  24
• 12:34
  or
• 12:34
  21?
• 12:35
  You
• 12:35
  know
• 12:35
  what
• 12:36
  I
• 12:36
  mean?
• 12:36
  Dancing
• 12:36
  on
• 12:37
  a
• 12:37
  tabletop.
• 12:38
  Yeah,
• 12:38
  exactly.
• 12:39
  No,
• 12:39
  he's
• 12:39
  not.
• 12:40
  You
• 12:40
  know,
• 12:40
  and,
• 12:41
  and.
• 12:41
  But
• 12:41
  if
• 12:42
  you've
• 12:42
  got
• 12:42
  somebody
• 12:43
  willing
• 12:43
  to
• 12:43
  learn
• 12:44
  and
• 12:44
  somebody
• 12:44
  who's
• 12:44
  willing
• 12:45
  to
• 12:45
  help
• 12:45
  you,
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  can
• 12:46
  build
• 12:46
  that
• 12:46
  person,
• 12:46
  build
• 12:47
  them,
• 12:48
  you
• 12:48
  know,
• 12:49
  it's
• 12:49
  worth
• 12:50
  it.
• 12:50
  I've
• 12:50
  done
• 12:51
  a
• 12:51
  lot
• 12:51
  of
• 12:51
  the
• 12:51
  things
• 12:51
  he
• 12:52
  wants
• 12:52
  to
• 12:52
  do.
• 12:52
  Maybe
• 12:53
  the
• 12:53
  kids
• 12:53
  thing
• 12:54
  is
• 12:54
  an
• 12:54
  uncomfortable
• 12:55
  conversation,
• 12:55
  but
• 12:55
  not
• 12:56
  a
• 12:56
  deal
• 12:56
  breaker.
• 12:57
  He
• 12:58
  knew
• 12:58
  well
• 12:58
  what
• 12:59
  he
• 12:59
  was
• 12:59
  getting
• 12:59
  into,
• 13:00
  and
• 13:01
  not
• 13:01
  really,
• 13:01
  I
• 13:01
  mean,
• 13:02
  very,
• 13:02
  very,
• 13:02
  very
• 13:03
  little.
• 13:03
  I
• 13:03
  think
• 13:03
  the
• 13:04
  biggest
• 13:04
  question
• 13:04
  I
• 13:05
  get
• 13:05
  asked
• 13:05
  is
• 13:06
  the
• 13:06
  finances.
• 13:07
  And
• 13:07
  we
• 13:07
  figured
• 13:08
  that
• 13:08
  out
• 13:08
  a
• 13:08
  long
• 13:08
  time
• 13:09
  ago.
• 13:09
  You
• 13:09
  know,
• 13:09
  I
• 13:10
  made
• 13:10
  him
• 13:10
  tell
• 13:10
  me
• 13:11
  from
• 13:11
  the
• 13:11
  very
• 13:11
  beginning
• 13:11
  how
• 13:12
  much
• 13:12
  money
• 13:12
  was
• 13:12
  in
• 13:12
  as
• 13:12
  a
• 13:13
  bank
• 13:13
  account,
• 13:14
  so
• 13:14
  that
• 13:14
  then
• 13:15
  I
• 13:15
  knew
• 13:16
  exactly
• 13:16
  what
• 13:17
  I
• 13:17
  was
• 13:17
  going
• 13:17
  to
• 13:17
  do
• 13:17
  with
• 13:17
  it.
• 13:17
  And
• 13:18
  that's
• 13:18
  it.
• 13:18
  And
• 13:18
  from.
• 13:19
  We've
• 13:19
  been
• 13:19
  together
• 13:19
  eight
• 13:19
  years
• 13:20
  now,
• 13:20
  so,
• 13:21
  you
• 13:21
  know,
• 13:21
  it's
• 13:21
  a
• 13:21
  completely
• 13:22
  different
• 13:22
  thing.
• 13:23
  And
• 13:23
  I
• 13:23
  think
• 13:23
  the
• 13:23
  only
• 13:24
  other
• 13:24
  thing
• 13:24
  is
• 13:24
  that
• 13:25
  you
• 13:25
  can
• 13:25
  do,
• 13:25
  but
• 13:26
  you
• 13:26
  should
• 13:26
  do
• 13:26
  that,
• 13:26
  whether
• 13:26
  you're
• 13:27
  with
• 13:27
  an
• 13:27
  older
• 13:27
  guy,
• 13:27
  younger
• 13:28
  guy,
• 13:28
  whatever,
• 13:28
  is
• 13:29
  what
• 13:29
  we
• 13:29
  did,
• 13:29
  which
• 13:29
  is,
• 13:30
  you
• 13:30
  know,
• 13:30
  prenup,
• 13:31
  post,
• 13:31
  nup,
• 13:32
  you
• 13:32
  know,
• 13:33
  if
• 13:33
  he
• 13:33
  leaves
• 13:33
  me
• 13:34
  and
• 13:34
  if
• 13:34
  I
• 13:34
  die
• 13:35
  and
• 13:35
  everybody
• 13:36
  knows
• 13:36
  exactly
• 13:36
  where,
• 13:37
  where
• 13:37
  you
• 13:37
  stand,
• 13:37
  that
• 13:38
  not
• 13:39
  only
• 13:39
  secures
• 13:39
  him
• 13:40
  so
• 13:40
  he
• 13:40
  doesn't
• 13:41
  feel
• 13:41
  like
• 13:41
  I've
• 13:42
  worked
• 13:42
  all
• 13:42
  these
• 13:42
  years,
• 13:43
  maybe,
• 13:43
  you
• 13:43
  know,
• 13:44
  for
• 13:44
  her,
• 13:44
  and
• 13:44
  I'm
• 13:45
  going
• 13:45
  to
• 13:45
  leave
• 13:45
  with
• 13:45
  nothing,
• 13:46
  which
• 13:46
  he
• 13:46
  shouldn't.
• 13:47
  And
• 13:48
  it
• 13:48
  also
• 13:48
  secures
• 13:49
  me
• 13:49
  that,
• 13:50
  you
• 13:50
  know,
• 13:50
  things
• 13:50
  that
• 13:50
  I
• 13:51
  had
• 13:51
  before
• 13:51
  him
• 13:52
  are
• 13:52
  not
• 13:52
  going
• 13:53
  anywhere
• 13:53
  near
• 13:53
  him.
• 13:54
  If
• 13:54
  he
• 13:54
  left
• 13:54
  me,
• 13:54
  but
• 13:55
  if
• 13:55
  I
• 13:55
  died,
• 13:56
  you
• 13:56
  know,
• 13:56
  then
• 13:56
  he
• 13:57
  deserves
• 13:57
  some.
• 13:57
  Of
• 13:57
  that,
• 13:58
  you
• 13:58
  make
• 13:58
  a
• 13:58
  good
• 13:59
  point.
• 13:59
  I
• 13:59
  mean,
• 13:59
  he
• 13:59
  should
• 14:00
  be.
• 14:00
  Yeah.
• 14:00
  As
• 14:00
  you're
• 14:01
  saying,
• 14:01
  know
• 14:02
  where
• 14:02
  he
• 14:02
  stands.
• 14:02
  You
• 14:03
  know,
• 14:03
  it's.
• 14:03
  It's.
• 14:04
  He
• 14:04
  can't
• 14:04
  be
• 14:04
  just
• 14:04
  left
• 14:05
  out
• 14:05
  in
• 14:05
  the
• 14:05
  cold
• 14:05
  like
• 14:05
  that.
• 14:06
  No
• 14:06
  man
• 14:06
  or
• 14:07
  woman.
• 14:07
  And
• 14:07
  you
• 14:08
  shouldn't
• 14:08
  do
• 14:08
  that
• 14:08
  to
• 14:08
  anyone.
• 14:09
  And
• 14:09
  I
• 14:09
  think
• 14:09
  that's
• 14:10
  a
• 14:10
  very
• 14:10
  valuable
• 14:10
  lesson
• 14:11
  I
• 14:11
  teach
• 14:11
  everyone.
• 14:11
  Once
• 14:12
  you're
• 14:12
  pragmatic,
• 14:12
  by
• 14:13
  the
• 14:13
  way,
• 14:13
  like
• 14:13
  this,
• 14:14
  you
• 14:14
  have
• 14:14
  a
• 14:14
  better
• 14:15
  relationship.
• 14:16
  You
• 14:16
  have
• 14:16
  a
• 14:16
  really
• 14:16
  good
• 14:17
  relationship.
• 14:17
  If
• 14:17
  you
• 14:18
  can't
• 14:18
  discuss
• 14:19
  those
• 14:19
  kind
• 14:20
  of
• 14:20
  things
• 14:20
  with
• 14:20
  your
• 14:21
  partner,
• 14:22
  then
• 14:22
  that
• 14:22
  is
• 14:22
  not
• 14:22
  a
• 14:23
  partnership.
• 14:23
  That
• 14:23
  is
• 14:23
  somebody
• 14:24
  who
• 14:24
  would
• 14:24
  cut
• 14:25
  you
• 14:25
  dry
• 14:25
  in
• 14:25
  a
• 14:26
  second.
• 14:27
  In
• 14:27
  a
• 14:27
  second.
• 14:28
  Every
• 14:28
  new
• 14:28
  asset
• 14:29
  I
• 14:29
  get
• 14:29
  or
• 14:30
  we
• 14:30
  get
• 14:30
  or
• 14:30
  we
• 14:31
  build,
• 14:31
  I
• 14:31
  think
• 14:32
  about
• 14:32
  him
• 14:33
  and
• 14:33
  what,
• 14:33
  you
• 14:33
  know,
• 14:34
  how.
• 14:34
  How
• 14:34
  we
• 14:34
  distribute
• 14:35
  it
• 14:36
  and
• 14:36
  how
• 14:36
  it's
• 14:36
  going
• 14:37
  to
• 14:37
  be
• 14:37
  with
• 14:37
  my
• 14:37
  kids.
• 14:38
  I
• 14:38
  don't
• 14:38
  want
• 14:38
  to
• 14:38
  even
• 14:38
  leave
• 14:39
  my
• 14:39
  kids
• 14:39
  in
• 14:39
  a
• 14:39
  bad
• 14:40
  position
• 14:40
  that
• 14:40
  they
• 14:40
  have
• 14:41
  to
• 14:41
  fight
• 14:41
  with
• 14:41
  him
• 14:41
  or
• 14:42
  anything
• 14:42
  like
• 14:42
  that.
• 14:42
  That
• 14:43
  everybody
• 14:43
  understands
• 14:45
  where
• 14:45
  they
• 14:46
  stand
• 14:46
  and
• 14:47
  what
• 14:47
  they
• 14:47
  get.
• 14:48
  Yes,
• 14:48
  absolutely.
• 14:49
  And
• 14:49
  you
• 14:50
  are
• 14:50
  working
• 14:50
  on
• 14:50
  so
• 14:51
  many
• 14:51
  things.
• 14:51
  You've
• 14:51
  got
• 14:51
  businesses
• 14:53
  galore.
• 14:53
  Congratulations
• 14:54
  on
• 14:54
  all
• 14:54
  your
• 14:55
  success.
• 14:56
  Thank
• 14:56
  you.
• 14:56
  I
• 14:56
  think.
• 14:57
  You
• 14:57
  know,
• 14:57
  my
• 14:57
  daughter
• 14:58
  always
• 14:58
  says
• 14:58
  I'm
• 14:59
  like
• 14:59
  a
• 14:59
  caricature.
• 15:00
  And
• 15:01
  she
• 15:01
  said,
• 15:01
  what's
• 15:01
  mom's
• 15:02
  new
• 15:02
  hair
• 15:02
  brain
• 15:03
  scheme?
• 15:03
  But
• 15:03
  let
• 15:03
  me
• 15:04
  tell
• 15:04
  you
• 15:04
  now,
• 15:04
  my
• 15:04
  hair
• 15:05
  brain
• 15:05
  schemes
• 15:06
  have
• 15:06
  come
• 15:06
  to
• 15:06
  fruition.
• 15:07
  Everyone's
• 15:07
  not
• 15:08
  laughing
• 15:08
  so
• 15:08
  hard
• 15:08
  anymore.
• 15:09
  Right.
• 15:10
  You
• 15:10
  have
• 15:10
  to
• 15:10
  do
• 15:10
  it.
• 15:10
  If
• 15:11
  you
• 15:11
  don't
• 15:11
  do
• 15:11
  it,
• 15:11
  how
• 15:11
  would
• 15:11
  you
• 15:12
  ever
• 15:12
  know
• 15:12
  if
• 15:12
  it
• 15:12
  works
• 15:12
  or
• 15:13
  not?
• 15:13
  I
• 15:13
  mean,
• 15:13
  that's
• 15:14
  the
• 15:14
  thing.
• 15:14
  I
• 15:14
  feel
• 15:14
  like
• 15:14
  people
• 15:15
  get
• 15:15
  so
• 15:15
  stuck.
• 15:16
  They're
• 15:16
  like,
• 15:16
  I
• 15:17
  can't
• 15:17
  make
• 15:17
  that
• 15:17
  move,
• 15:18
  you
• 15:18
  know,
• 15:18
  to
• 15:18
  kind
• 15:18
  of
• 15:19
  step
• 15:19
  out
• 15:19
  of
• 15:19
  the
• 15:19
  box
• 15:19
  and
• 15:20
  try
• 15:20
  it.
• 15:20
  Who
• 15:21
  cares
• 15:21
  if
• 15:21
  it
• 15:22
  fails?
• 15:22
  Like,
• 15:22
  you
• 15:22
  learn
• 15:22
  more
• 15:23
  from
• 15:23
  failure
• 15:23
  anyway.
• 15:24
  100%.
• 15:25
  I
• 15:25
  failed
• 15:25
  a
• 15:25
  million
• 15:26
  times.
• 15:26
  I
• 15:27
  wasn't
• 15:27
  expecting
• 15:28
  the
• 15:28
  hair
• 15:28
  salon.
• 15:28
  I
• 15:28
  mean,
• 15:29
  the
• 15:29
  hair
• 15:29
  salon
• 15:29
  I
• 15:30
  just
• 15:30
  did
• 15:30
  because
• 15:30
  my
• 15:31
  hair
• 15:31
  stylist
• 15:31
  asked
• 15:31
  me
• 15:32
  to
• 15:32
  do
• 15:32
  it,
• 15:32
  and
• 15:32
  she's
• 15:33
  amazing.
• 15:33
  But
• 15:34
  we
• 15:34
  are
• 15:35
  in
• 15:35
  even
• 15:35
  with
• 15:36
  a
• 15:36
  war
• 15:36
  on
• 15:37
  packed.
• 15:38
  Packed.
• 15:38
  I'm
• 15:38
  not
• 15:38
  even
• 15:38
  going
• 15:38
  to
• 15:39
  tell
• 15:39
  you
• 15:39
  the
• 15:39
  numbers
• 15:39
  it's
• 15:39
  doing,
• 15:40
  and
• 15:40
  it's
• 15:41
  nuts.
• 15:42
  I
• 15:42
  had
• 15:42
  no
• 15:43
  idea.
• 15:44
  So
• 15:46
  some
• 15:46
  things,
• 15:46
  the
• 15:46
  things
• 15:47
  that
• 15:47
  you.
• 15:47
  You
• 15:48
  throw
• 15:48
  at
• 15:48
  the,
• 15:49
  you
• 15:49
  know,
• 15:49
  throw
• 15:50
  a
• 15:50
  dart
• 15:50
  at
• 15:50
  the
• 15:50
  wall
• 15:50
  and
• 15:51
  hope
• 15:51
  it's
• 15:51
  sticks.
• 15:52
  They
• 15:52
  stick.
• 15:53
  One
• 15:53
  of
• 15:53
  the
• 15:54
  things
• 15:54
  you're
• 15:54
  doing
• 15:54
  that
• 15:54
  sticks
• 15:55
  is
• 15:55
  creating
• 15:55
  a
• 15:55
  peptide
• 15:56
  line.
• 15:56
  You're
• 15:57
  creating
• 15:57
  a
• 15:57
  peptide.
• 15:58
  Well,
• 15:58
  I'm
• 15:58
  trying
• 15:58
  to.
• 15:59
  They're
• 15:59
  not
• 15:59
  that
• 15:59
  easy
• 16:00
  to
• 16:00
  sell.
• 16:00
  What
• 16:01
  is
• 16:01
  your
• 16:01
  peptide?
• 16:01
  Is
• 16:02
  it
• 16:02
  because
• 16:02
  you
• 16:02
  weren't
• 16:02
  finding
• 16:03
  things
• 16:03
  in
• 16:03
  the
• 16:03
  marketplace
• 16:04
  you.
• 16:04
  That
• 16:04
  you
• 16:05
  wanted?
• 16:05
  No,
• 16:06
  no,
• 16:06
  gosh,
• 16:06
  no.
• 16:07
  We
• 16:07
  wanted
• 16:07
  to
• 16:07
  do
• 16:07
  My,
• 16:08
  my,
• 16:08
  my
• 16:08
  current
• 16:09
  doctor
• 16:09
  now
• 16:09
  in
• 16:10
  la,
• 16:10
  he
• 16:10
  and
• 16:10
  I
• 16:10
  wanted
• 16:11
  to
• 16:11
  like
• 16:12
  power
• 16:13
  up
• 16:13
  and
• 16:13
  do
• 16:13
  one
• 16:14
  together.
• 16:14
  So
• 16:14
  it's
• 16:14
  just
• 16:14
  not
• 16:15
  been
• 16:15
  as
• 16:15
  easy
• 16:15
  as
• 16:16
  I
• 16:16
  thought
• 16:16
  it
• 16:16
  was
• 16:16
  going
• 16:16
  to
• 16:16
  be
• 16:16
  to
• 16:17
  just
• 16:17
  to
• 16:17
  get
• 16:18
  them
• 16:18
  across
• 16:19
  into
• 16:19
  Dubai
• 16:20
  or
• 16:20
  into
• 16:21
  the
• 16:21
  uk.
• 16:22
  So
• 16:22
  we're
• 16:23
  just
• 16:23
  discussing,
• 16:24
  discussing
• 16:25
  logistics
• 16:25
  of
• 16:26
  it.
• 16:26
  And
• 16:26
  also
• 16:26
  because
• 16:27
  peptides,
• 16:27
  I
• 16:27
  think
• 16:28
  have
• 16:28
  to
• 16:28
  be
• 16:28
  prescribed,
• 16:30
  which
• 16:30
  is
• 16:30
  another
• 16:30
  hurdle,
• 16:31
  but
• 16:32
  I,
• 16:32
  maybe
• 16:32
  I'll
• 16:33
  turn
• 16:33
  it
• 16:33
  into
• 16:33
  liquid
• 16:33
  form,
• 16:34
  which
• 16:34
  I'm
• 16:34
  going
• 16:34
  to
• 16:34
  try.
• 16:35
  But
• 16:35
  peptides,
• 16:36
  I
• 16:36
  think
• 16:36
  are
• 16:36
  one
• 16:36
  of
• 16:36
  the
• 16:37
  greatest
• 16:37
  tools
• 16:39
  a
• 16:39
  woman
• 16:39
  can
• 16:39
  have.
• 16:41
  It
• 16:41
  changed
• 16:42
  my
• 16:42
  skin,
• 16:43
  my
• 16:43
  health,
• 16:44
  my,
• 16:44
  you
• 16:44
  know,
• 16:45
  vitality,
• 16:46
  the
• 16:47
  way
• 16:47
  I
• 16:47
  feel,
• 16:48
  everything.
• 16:49
  So
• 16:49
  one
• 16:49
  of
• 16:49
  the
• 16:49
  peptides
• 16:50
  you
• 16:50
  were
• 16:50
  really
• 16:50
  honest
• 16:51
  about,
• 16:51
  which
• 16:51
  I
• 16:51
  appreciated,
• 16:52
  which
• 16:53
  also
• 16:53
  our
• 16:54
  common
• 16:54
  friend
• 16:54
  Tracy
• 16:56
  has
• 16:56
  been
• 16:56
  very
• 16:57
  transparent
• 16:57
  about,
• 16:57
  which
• 16:58
  I
• 16:58
  think
• 16:58
  is
• 16:58
  really
• 16:58
  important.
• 16:59
  Women
• 16:59
  should
• 16:59
  know
• 16:59
  what
• 17:00
  we're
• 17:00
  doing.
• 17:01
  Tracy
• 17:01
  and
• 17:01
  I
• 17:02
  have
• 17:02
  the
• 17:02
  same
• 17:02
  doctor.
• 17:03
  Oh,
• 17:04
  you
• 17:04
  do?
• 17:04
  Is
• 17:04
  it
• 17:05
  Chris?
• 17:05
  Chris
• 17:05
  Andre?
• 17:06
  Yeah,
• 17:07
  he
• 17:07
  was
• 17:07
  just
• 17:07
  on
• 17:08
  my
• 17:08
  show
• 17:08
  as
• 17:08
  well.
• 17:08
  He's
• 17:09
  great,
• 17:09
  isn't
• 17:09
  he?
• 17:09
  Yes,
• 17:10
  amazing.
• 17:11
  But
• 17:12
  I
• 17:12
  love
• 17:12
  the
• 17:13
  transparency
• 17:13
  of
• 17:13
  it.
• 17:14
  You
• 17:14
  know,
• 17:14
  it's
• 17:14
  like
• 17:14
  women
• 17:15
  should
• 17:15
  know
• 17:15
  what's
• 17:15
  happening.
• 17:16
  It's
• 17:16
  not
• 17:17
  a
• 17:17
  good
• 17:17
  night's
• 17:17
  sleep
• 17:18
  and
• 17:18
  it's
• 17:18
  not
• 17:18
  drinking
• 17:19
  more
• 17:19
  water.
• 17:19
  We're
• 17:20
  doing
• 17:20
  things
• 17:20
  that
• 17:21
  are,
• 17:21
  they're
• 17:21
  invasive,
• 17:22
  they
• 17:22
  can
• 17:22
  be
• 17:22
  invasive.
• 17:23
  Tracy
• 17:23
  and
• 17:24
  I
• 17:24
  had
• 17:24
  facelifts,
• 17:25
  so
• 17:25
  also,
• 17:26
  so
• 17:26
  that's
• 17:26
  a
• 17:26
  big,
• 17:27
  big
• 17:27
  change,
• 17:28
  you
• 17:28
  know,
• 17:28
  and
• 17:28
  we
• 17:29
  were
• 17:29
  very
• 17:29
  public
• 17:30
  with
• 17:30
  ours,
• 17:30
  But
• 17:31
  I
• 17:31
  think
• 17:32
  76
• 17:32
  million
• 17:33
  people
• 17:33
  saw
• 17:33
  mine.
• 17:34
  So
• 17:36
  I,
• 17:36
  I
• 17:37
  think
• 17:37
  that
• 17:37
  you,
• 17:38
  of
• 17:38
  course
• 17:38
  I'm,
• 17:39
  I'm,
• 17:39
  you
• 17:39
  know,
• 17:40
  I
• 17:40
  have
• 17:40
  a
• 17:40
  podcast
• 17:41
  too,
• 17:41
  so
• 17:41
  I
• 17:41
  definitely
• 17:42
  tell
• 17:42
  women
• 17:42
  all
• 17:42
  the
• 17:43
  time.
• 17:43
  I
• 17:43
  didn't
• 17:43
  just
• 17:43
  wake
• 17:44
  up
• 17:44
  like
• 17:44
  this,
• 17:45
  you
• 17:46
  know,
• 17:46
  this
• 17:46
  is
• 17:46
  not
• 17:47
  how
• 17:47
  a
• 17:47
  50
• 17:47
  year
• 17:47
  old
• 17:48
  woman
• 17:48
  normally
• 17:48
  looks.
• 17:49
  And
• 17:50
  I
• 17:50
  do
• 17:50
  lasers.
• 17:51
  My
• 17:51
  skin's
• 17:51
  amazing.
• 17:52
  Right
• 17:52
  now.
• 17:53
  I'm
• 17:53
  in
• 17:53
  the
• 17:53
  middle
• 17:54
  of
• 17:54
  a,
• 17:54
  another
• 17:55
  one,
• 17:56
  but
• 17:56
  I
• 17:56
  do
• 17:56
  lasers.
• 17:57
  I
• 17:57
  do
• 17:57
  at
• 17:58
  the
• 17:58
  facial,
• 17:58
  at
• 17:59
  the
• 17:59
  facelift,
• 17:59
  I
• 18:00
  do
• 18:00
  peptides.
• 18:00
  All
• 18:00
  of
• 18:01
  it
• 18:01
  together
• 18:01
  is
• 18:01
  what
• 18:02
  keeps
• 18:02
  you
• 18:02
  looking.
• 18:03
  Yeah,
• 18:04
  I
• 18:04
  was
• 18:04
  really
• 18:04
  appreciative
• 18:05
  when
• 18:05
  you
• 18:06
  went,
• 18:06
  when
• 18:06
  you
• 18:06
  talked
• 18:07
  about
• 18:07
  being
• 18:07
  on
• 18:07
  the
• 18:07
  GLP1
• 18:08
  because
• 18:08
  I
• 18:09
  actually
• 18:09
  just
• 18:09
  started
• 18:09
  the
• 18:10
  GLP1
• 18:10
  as
• 18:11
  well.
• 18:11
  Congratulations.
• 18:12
  It's
• 18:12
  been
• 18:13
  a
• 18:13
  little
• 18:13
  rough.
• 18:13
  It's
• 18:14
  a
• 18:14
  little
• 18:14
  nauseating
• 18:15
  at
• 18:15
  the
• 18:15
  beginning,
• 18:16
  but
• 18:16
  yeah,
• 18:16
  no,
• 18:16
  I,
• 18:17
  I
• 18:17
  intend
• 18:17
  to
• 18:17
  do
• 18:18
  the
• 18:18
  same.
• 18:18
  Which
• 18:18
  one
• 18:18
  are
• 18:19
  you
• 18:19
  on?
• 18:19
  I'm
• 18:19
  on
• 18:20
  Wegovy.
• 18:21
  Oh,
• 18:21
  okay.
• 18:21
  So
• 18:21
  there's
• 18:22
  a
• 18:22
  new
• 18:22
  one
• 18:22
  now
• 18:22
  called
• 18:23
  Retta.
• 18:24
  That
• 18:24
  one
• 18:24
  is
• 18:25
  fantastic.
• 18:25
  I
• 18:26
  mean,
• 18:26
  I've,
• 18:26
  I
• 18:26
  take
• 18:27
  it,
• 18:27
  I
• 18:27
  have
• 18:27
  it
• 18:27
  in
• 18:28
  my
• 18:28
  fridge
• 18:28
  if
• 18:28
  I
• 18:29
  get,
• 18:29
  if
• 18:29
  I
• 18:29
  put
• 18:29
  on
• 18:29
  too
• 18:30
  much
• 18:30
  weight,
• 18:30
  but
• 18:30
  right
• 18:30
  now
• 18:31
  I'm
• 18:31
  actually
• 18:32
  the
• 18:32
  smallest.
• 18:32
  I've
• 18:32
  been
• 18:32
  in
• 18:32
  a
• 18:33
  Long
• 18:33
  time.
• 18:33
  So
• 18:33
  because
• 18:33
  all
• 18:34
  my
• 18:34
  peptides
• 18:35
  kind
• 18:35
  of
• 18:35
  do.
• 18:35
  I
• 18:35
  have
• 18:36
  anti
• 18:36
  inflammation,
• 18:37
  I
• 18:37
  have
• 18:39
  H10,
• 18:40
  I
• 18:40
  do
• 18:40
  all
• 18:40
  different
• 18:41
  types
• 18:41
  of
• 18:42
  peptides
• 18:42
  that
• 18:43
  kind
• 18:43
  of
• 18:43
  keep
• 18:43
  me
• 18:44
  small
• 18:45
  already.
• 18:45
  So
• 18:46
  just
• 18:46
  from
• 18:47
  the
• 18:47
  training
• 18:47
  I
• 18:47
  do
• 18:48
  and
• 18:48
  all
• 18:48
  of
• 18:48
  that.
• 18:48
  So
• 18:48
  I
• 18:49
  don't
• 18:49
  really.
• 18:50
  My
• 18:50
  fridge
• 18:50
  always
• 18:51
  has
• 18:51
  a
• 18:51
  pen
• 18:51
  or,
• 18:52
  you
• 18:52
  know,
• 18:53
  the
• 18:53
  retta
• 18:53
  in
• 18:54
  it
• 18:54
  in
• 18:54
  case
• 18:54
  I
• 18:55
  overeat.
• 18:56
  But
• 18:56
  I
• 18:56
  don't
• 18:56
  really,
• 18:57
  I'm
• 18:57
  not
• 18:57
  using
• 18:57
  it
• 18:58
  religiously.
• 18:58
  No.
• 18:59
  So
• 18:59
  are
• 18:59
  you
• 18:59
  cycling
• 19:00
  in
• 19:00
  and
• 19:00
  cycling
• 19:01
  out
• 19:01
  on
• 19:01
  some
• 19:01
  of
• 19:02
  those
• 19:02
  other
• 19:02
  peptides?
• 19:02
  Okay,
• 19:03
  that's
• 19:03
  what
• 19:03
  Chris
• 19:04
  was
• 19:04
  saying
• 19:04
  too.
• 19:04
  Yeah.
• 19:05
  On
• 19:05
  the
• 19:05
  other.
• 19:05
  Yeah.
• 19:06
  So
• 19:06
  Chris,
• 19:06
  I,
• 19:06
  Chris
• 19:06
  I've
• 19:07
  worked
• 19:07
  with
• 19:07
  for
• 19:07
  a
• 19:07
  long
• 19:08
  time.
• 19:08
  So
• 19:08
  I
• 19:08
  do
• 19:08
  testosterone.
• 19:09
  I
• 19:09
  do
• 19:10
  all
• 19:10
  of
• 19:10
  it.
• 19:10
  I
• 19:11
  mean
• 19:11
  we
• 19:11
  have
• 19:11
  to,
• 19:11
  it's,
• 19:12
  it's,
• 19:12
  it's
• 19:13
  so
• 19:13
  important
• 19:13
  to
• 19:14
  replace
• 19:14
  our
• 19:14
  hormones.
• 19:15
  I
• 19:15
  mean,
• 19:15
  did
• 19:15
  you
• 19:15
  notice
• 19:16
  a
• 19:16
  difference
• 19:16
  right
• 19:16
  away?
• 19:17
  Oh
• 19:17
  my
• 19:17
  God.
• 19:18
  I
• 19:18
  would
• 19:18
  have
• 19:18
  like
• 19:18
  slit
• 19:19
  up
• 19:19
  a
• 19:19
  telephone
• 19:20
  pole.
• 19:20
  I
• 19:21
  felt
• 19:21
  amazing.
• 19:22
  It's
• 19:22
  fucking
• 19:22
  night
• 19:22
  and
• 19:23
  day,
• 19:23
  isn't
• 19:23
  it?
• 19:24
  Yes.
• 19:25
  I,
• 19:26
  I
• 19:26
  tell
• 19:26
  everyone
• 19:26
  and
• 19:27
  I
• 19:27
  tell
• 19:27
  the
• 19:27
  husbands,
• 19:28
  you're
• 19:28
  welcome,
• 19:29
  like,
• 19:30
  you
• 19:30
  know,
• 19:30
  it's
• 19:31
  fantastic.
• 19:31
  And
• 19:31
  my
• 19:32
  husband
• 19:32
  is
• 19:32
  now
• 19:33
  31,
• 19:34
  but
• 19:34
  you
• 19:35
  know,
• 19:35
  obviously
• 19:35
  he's
• 19:36
  got
• 19:36
  a
• 19:36
  completely
• 19:36
  different
• 19:36
  sex
• 19:37
  drive
• 19:37
  to
• 19:37
  a
• 19:37
  50,
• 19:38
  you
• 19:38
  know,
• 19:38
  old
• 19:39
  woman.
• 19:39
  So
• 19:39
  like
• 19:40
  it's,
• 19:41
  it's
• 19:42
  fantastic
• 19:42
  for
• 19:43
  us.
• 19:43
  He
• 19:43
  loves
• 19:44
  it
• 19:44
  when
• 19:44
  I
• 19:44
  get
• 19:44
  it.
• 19:45
  So
• 19:45
  it
• 19:45
  really
• 19:45
  helps
• 19:46
  with
• 19:46
  the
• 19:46
  sex,
• 19:47
  like
• 19:47
  for
• 19:47
  sure.
• 19:47
  The
• 19:47
  testosterone
• 19:48
  especially.
• 19:49
  Right?
• 19:49
  Yes.
• 19:50
  I
• 19:50
  wake
• 19:50
  him
• 19:50
  up
• 19:50
  in
• 19:51
  the
• 19:51
  morning
• 19:51
  now
• 19:51
  for
• 19:51
  morning
• 19:52
  sex.
• 19:52
  He's
• 19:52
  like,
• 19:52
  this
• 19:53
  is
• 19:53
  amazing.
• 19:54
  Get
• 19:54
  it,
• 19:54
  lady.
• 19:55
  Okay.
• 19:56
  When
• 19:56
  morning
• 19:56
  sex
• 19:57
  comes
• 19:57
  back
• 19:57
  into
• 19:57
  the
• 19:57
  rotation,
• 19:58
  you
• 19:59
  know,
• 19:59
  it's
• 19:59
  good
• 19:59
  then.
• 20:00
  Yes.
• 20:00
  Okay.
• 20:01
  What
• 20:01
  else
• 20:01
  are
• 20:01
  you
• 20:01
  doing?
• 20:01
  You're
• 20:02
  doing
• 20:02
  peptides,
• 20:03
  you're
• 20:03
  doing
• 20:03
  the
• 20:03
  HRTs.
• 20:05
  You're
• 20:05
  obviously,
• 20:06
  I'm
• 20:06
  sure
• 20:06
  working
• 20:07
  out.
• 20:07
  I
• 20:07
  work
• 20:08
  out,
• 20:08
  but
• 20:08
  not
• 20:09
  nothing
• 20:09
  like
• 20:09
  I
• 20:10
  used
• 20:10
  to.
• 20:10
  I
• 20:11
  do
• 20:11
  these
• 20:11
  like
• 20:13
  videos
• 20:15
  for
• 20:15
  20
• 20:16
  minutes.
• 20:16
  I
• 20:17
  do
• 20:17
  20
• 20:17
  minutes
• 20:18
  of
• 20:18
  arms
• 20:18
  or
• 20:19
  legs,
• 20:19
  just
• 20:19
  strength.
• 20:21
  I
• 20:21
  do
• 20:22
  red
• 20:22
  light
• 20:22
  sauna.
• 20:23
  I
• 20:23
  just
• 20:23
  bought
• 20:23
  a
• 20:23
  new
• 20:23
  one
• 20:24
  for
• 20:24
  my
• 20:24
  house.
• 20:26
  I
• 20:26
  do
• 20:28
  all
• 20:28
  the
• 20:28
  lasers.
• 20:29
  So
• 20:29
  I've
• 20:29
  just
• 20:29
  done
• 20:29
  bbl,
• 20:30
  Moxie
• 20:31
  Pico.
• 20:31
  So
• 20:32
  my
• 20:32
  skin
• 20:32
  is
• 20:32
  just
• 20:33
  completely
• 20:33
  like
• 20:34
  flawless.
• 20:35
  Really
• 20:35
  shines.
• 20:36
  Yeah,
• 20:37
  it's
• 20:37
  gorgeous.
• 20:37
  I
• 20:38
  can
• 20:38
  tell
• 20:38
  through
• 20:38
  the
• 20:38
  camera.
• 20:39
  I'm
• 20:39
  like,
• 20:39
  yes,
• 20:39
  girl.
• 20:42
  Yeah,
• 20:42
  it
• 20:42
  shines.
• 20:43
  It's,
• 20:43
  it
• 20:43
  shines.
• 20:45
  I
• 20:45
  do
• 20:46
  salmon
• 20:46
  sperm.
• 20:49
  I
• 20:49
  do,
• 20:50
  Yeah,
• 20:50
  I
• 20:50
  take
• 20:50
  care
• 20:50
  of
• 20:51
  myself.
• 20:51
  It's
• 20:52
  actually
• 20:52
  self
• 20:52
  care.
• 20:53
  I
• 20:53
  mean
• 20:53
  it
• 20:53
  feels
• 20:53
  good
• 20:54
  when
• 20:54
  you're
• 20:54
  doing
• 20:54
  it.
• 20:54
  It
• 20:55
  gives
• 20:55
  you
• 20:55
  a
• 20:55
  sense
• 20:55
  of,
• 20:56
  you
• 20:57
  know,
• 20:57
  you're,
• 20:58
  you're
• 20:58
  taking
• 20:58
  care
• 20:58
  of
• 20:58
  yourself.
• 20:59
  It's
• 20:59
  self
• 20:59
  love.
• 21:00
  Listen,
• 21:00
  my
• 21:00
  husband
• 21:01
  is
• 21:01
  hot,
• 21:01
  hot,
• 21:02
  hot,
• 21:02
  okay?
• 21:03
  People
• 21:03
  are
• 21:03
  like,
• 21:03
  what
• 21:04
  do
• 21:04
  you
• 21:04
  do
• 21:04
  to
• 21:05
  keep
• 21:05
  him?
• 21:05
  I
• 21:05
  mean,
• 21:06
  no,
• 21:06
  he,
• 21:06
  I.
• 21:07
  He's
• 21:07
  the
• 21:07
  cat
• 21:08
  that
• 21:08
  got
• 21:08
  the
• 21:08
  cream.
• 21:08
  He
• 21:08
  feels
• 21:09
  like
• 21:09
  I'm
• 21:09
  the
• 21:09
  prize,
• 21:10
  like
• 21:10
  there
• 21:10
  is
• 21:11
  he,
• 21:12
  you
• 21:12
  know,
• 21:13
  loves
• 21:13
  the
• 21:13
  way
• 21:14
  I
• 21:14
  look.
• 21:14
  He
• 21:15
  loves.
• 21:15
  He
• 21:15
  doesn't
• 21:16
  mind
• 21:16
  if
• 21:16
  I
• 21:16
  get
• 21:16
  gray
• 21:17
  hair.
• 21:17
  He
• 21:18
  doesn't
• 21:18
  mind
• 21:18
  any
• 21:19
  of
• 21:19
  it,
• 21:19
  you
• 21:19
  know,
• 21:20
  And
• 21:20
  I
• 21:20
  think
• 21:20
  that
• 21:20
  what
• 21:21
  it
• 21:21
  does
• 21:21
  do,
• 21:22
  it
• 21:22
  just
• 21:23
  gives
• 21:23
  you
• 21:23
  this
• 21:24
  energy,
• 21:24
  this
• 21:25
  confidence.
• 21:26
  I'm.
• 21:26
  I
• 21:26
  know
• 21:27
  my
• 21:27
  self
• 21:27
  worth
• 21:28
  and
• 21:28
  I
• 21:28
  think
• 21:28
  a
• 21:28
  woman
• 21:28
  that
• 21:29
  takes
• 21:29
  care
• 21:29
  of
• 21:29
  herself
• 21:30
  in
• 21:30
  any
• 21:30
  way,
• 21:31
  shape
• 21:31
  or
• 21:31
  form.
• 21:31
  And
• 21:31
  I
• 21:31
  understand
• 21:32
  if
• 21:32
  you
• 21:32
  can't
• 21:32
  do
• 21:32
  all
• 21:33
  of
• 21:33
  the
• 21:33
  things
• 21:33
  I
• 21:33
  do.
• 21:34
  Absolutely.
• 21:35
  You
• 21:35
  know,
• 21:36
  I'm
• 21:36
  on
• 21:36
  tv,
• 21:36
  so
• 21:37
  therefore
• 21:37
  I
• 21:37
  get,
• 21:38
  you
• 21:38
  know,
• 21:38
  amazing
• 21:39
  deals.
• 21:39
  And,
• 21:40
  you
• 21:40
  know,
• 21:40
  I
• 21:41
  do
• 21:41
  understand
• 21:41
  that
• 21:42
  it's
• 21:42
  not
• 21:43
  manageable
• 21:44
  for
• 21:44
  a
• 21:44
  lot
• 21:44
  of
• 21:44
  people,
• 21:45
  but
• 21:45
  taking
• 21:46
  care
• 21:46
  of
• 21:46
  yourself
• 21:47
  any
• 21:47
  which
• 21:47
  way
• 21:48
  you
• 21:48
  can
• 21:49
  sends
• 21:49
  a
• 21:49
  message
• 21:50
  to
• 21:50
  the
• 21:51
  world.
• 21:51
  Right?
• 21:52
  And
• 21:52
  actually,
• 21:53
  you
• 21:53
  know,
• 21:53
  I
• 21:53
  used
• 21:53
  to
• 21:53
  party
• 21:54
  and
• 21:54
  drink
• 21:55
  so
• 21:55
  much
• 21:55
  and
• 21:56
  go
• 21:56
  out
• 21:56
  all
• 21:56
  night.
• 21:57
  I
• 21:57
  don't
• 21:57
  do
• 21:58
  that
• 21:58
  anymore.
• 21:58
  I
• 21:58
  don't
• 21:58
  even
• 21:59
  drink
• 21:59
  wine
• 21:59
  at
• 21:59
  home.
• 22:00
  Like,
• 22:00
  I'm
• 22:00
  not
• 22:01
  a
• 22:01
  drinker
• 22:02
  anymore.
• 22:02
  My
• 22:02
  skin
• 22:03
  is
• 22:03
  better.
• 22:03
  I
• 22:03
  think
• 22:03
  that's
• 22:04
  because
• 22:04
  my
• 22:04
  husband
• 22:05
  is
• 22:06
  an
• 22:06
  athlete,
• 22:07
  so,
• 22:08
  you
• 22:08
  know,
• 22:08
  he
• 22:08
  loves.
• 22:09
  He
• 22:09
  doesn't
• 22:09
  drink,
• 22:10
  so
• 22:10
  that
• 22:10
  really
• 22:10
  helps.
• 22:11
  And
• 22:12
  I
• 22:12
  have
• 22:12
  just
• 22:12
  as
• 22:12
  much
• 22:13
  fun
• 22:13
  without
• 22:13
  it.
• 22:14
  And
• 22:14
  I
• 22:15
  think
• 22:15
  our
• 22:15
  lives
• 22:16
  are
• 22:16
  just
• 22:16
  really,
• 22:16
  really
• 22:17
  full.
• 22:17
  And
• 22:17
  genuinely,
• 22:18
  I'm
• 22:18
  happy.
• 22:18
  And
• 22:18
  happiness
• 22:19
  shows.
• 22:20
  Yeah,
• 22:20
  it
• 22:20
  absolutely
• 22:21
  does.
• 22:21
  You
• 22:22
  know,
• 22:22
  when
• 22:22
  I
• 22:22
  look
• 22:22
  at
• 22:23
  some
• 22:23
  of
• 22:23
  these,
• 22:24
  you
• 22:24
  know,
• 22:24
  especially
• 22:24
  in
• 22:24
  the
• 22:25
  midlife
• 22:25
  space
• 22:25
  on
• 22:26
  social
• 22:26
  media,
• 22:27
  I
• 22:27
  see
• 22:28
  that
• 22:28
  people
• 22:29
  tend
• 22:29
  to
• 22:30
  fall
• 22:30
  into
• 22:30
  two
• 22:30
  camps.
• 22:31
  It's
• 22:31
  very
• 22:31
  like
• 22:31
  black
• 22:31
  and
• 22:32
  white.
• 22:32
  It's
• 22:33
  either,
• 22:33
  you
• 22:34
  know,
• 22:34
  you
• 22:34
  do
• 22:34
  everything
• 22:35
  or
• 22:35
  you
• 22:35
  do
• 22:36
  nothing.
• 22:36
  And
• 22:36
  there
• 22:37
  is
• 22:37
  a
• 22:37
  lot
• 22:38
  judgment
• 22:39
  from
• 22:39
  people
• 22:39
  on
• 22:40
  both
• 22:40
  sides
• 22:40
  that
• 22:41
  if
• 22:41
  you
• 22:41
  do
• 22:41
  certain
• 22:42
  interventions
• 22:43
  or
• 22:43
  if
• 22:43
  you
• 22:44
  just
• 22:44
  let
• 22:44
  it
• 22:44
  go
• 22:44
  and
• 22:45
  just
• 22:45
  do
• 22:45
  everything
• 22:45
  natural
• 22:46
  there
• 22:47
  on
• 22:47
  both
• 22:47
  sides,
• 22:47
  there's
• 22:48
  this
• 22:48
  sort
• 22:48
  of
• 22:49
  judgment.
• 22:49
  And
• 22:49
  I
• 22:49
  really
• 22:50
  think
• 22:50
  it's
• 22:50
  important
• 22:50
  to
• 22:51
  like
• 22:51
  show
• 22:52
  that
• 22:52
  there
• 22:52
  is
• 22:52
  a
• 22:52
  gray
• 22:53
  area.
• 22:53
  Like
• 22:54
  also
• 22:54
  not
• 22:54
  to
• 22:55
  pass
• 22:55
  judgment.
• 22:55
  It's,
• 22:56
  you
• 22:56
  know,
• 22:56
  to
• 22:56
  each
• 22:57
  his
• 22:57
  own.
• 22:57
  If
• 22:57
  you
• 22:57
  want
• 22:57
  to
• 22:58
  do
• 22:58
  interventions,
• 22:59
  do
• 23:00
  it.
• 23:00
  But
• 23:00
  if
• 23:00
  you
• 23:00
  want
• 23:00
  to
• 23:00
  go
• 23:01
  natural
• 23:01
  too,
• 23:02
  do
• 23:02
  that.
• 23:02
  You
• 23:03
  know,
• 23:03
  look,
• 23:04
  there's
• 23:04
  a
• 23:04
  generation
• 23:05
  above
• 23:05
  us,
• 23:06
  like
• 23:06
  my
• 23:07
  mom's
• 23:07
  generation.
• 23:08
  They
• 23:08
  didn't
• 23:08
  do
• 23:08
  anything.
• 23:09
  My
• 23:09
  mother's
• 23:10
  done
• 23:10
  absolutely
• 23:11
  nothing.
• 23:11
  And
• 23:11
  she
• 23:11
  looks
• 23:12
  amazing.
• 23:12
  And
• 23:13
  there
• 23:13
  is
• 23:13
  definitely
• 23:14
  a
• 23:15
  stigma
• 23:15
  to
• 23:15
  all
• 23:16
  the
• 23:16
  things.
• 23:16
  And
• 23:16
  also
• 23:16
  when
• 23:17
  you
• 23:17
  had
• 23:17
  facelifts
• 23:18
  back
• 23:18
  then,
• 23:18
  you
• 23:18
  looked
• 23:19
  like
• 23:19
  you
• 23:19
  were
• 23:19
  stuck
• 23:19
  in
• 23:19
  a
• 23:19
  wind
• 23:20
  tunnel.
• 23:20
  And
• 23:20
  it
• 23:20
  was
• 23:21
  just
• 23:21
  everyone
• 23:21
  did
• 23:21
  it
• 23:21
  when
• 23:22
  they're
• 23:22
  really
• 23:22
  old.
• 23:22
  And
• 23:23
  if
• 23:23
  you
• 23:23
  do
• 23:23
  it
• 23:23
  when
• 23:23
  you're
• 23:23
  old,
• 23:23
  it
• 23:24
  looks.
• 23:24
  Just
• 23:24
  looks
• 23:24
  really,
• 23:25
  really
• 23:25
  weird.
• 23:26
  Suddenly
• 23:26
  you
• 23:26
  come
• 23:27
  back
• 23:27
  looking
• 23:27
  20
• 23:28
  years
• 23:28
  younger.
• 23:30
  You
• 23:30
  know,
• 23:30
  I
• 23:31
  think
• 23:31
  Wes,
• 23:31
  when
• 23:32
  I
• 23:32
  did
• 23:32
  it,
• 23:32
  and
• 23:33
  I
• 23:33
  was
• 23:33
  one
• 23:33
  of
• 23:33
  the
• 23:34
  younger,
• 23:34
  younger
• 23:35
  side.
• 23:36
  I
• 23:36
  think
• 23:36
  people
• 23:37
  just
• 23:37
  said
• 23:37
  I
• 23:37
  look
• 23:38
  refreshed
• 23:38
  and
• 23:39
  wasn't
• 23:39
  quite
• 23:39
  sure
• 23:40
  what
• 23:41
  I
• 23:41
  did
• 23:41
  because
• 23:41
  I
• 23:41
  was
• 23:42
  just
• 23:42
  removing
• 23:42
  all
• 23:42
  that
• 23:42
  filler.
• 23:43
  But,
• 23:43
  like,
• 23:43
  of
• 23:44
  course
• 23:44
  there
• 23:44
  is
• 23:44
  judgment
• 23:45
  to
• 23:45
  do
• 23:46
  less.
• 23:47
  And
• 23:47
  people
• 23:47
  like,
• 23:47
  I
• 23:48
  just
• 23:48
  do
• 23:48
  Botox
• 23:48
  or
• 23:49
  I
• 23:49
  just
• 23:49
  do
• 23:49
  filler.
• 23:49
  But
• 23:50
  honestly,
• 23:50
  filler
• 23:51
  not
• 23:51
  done,
• 23:52
  done
• 23:52
  right
• 23:52
  is
• 23:53
  terrible.
• 23:53
  It's
• 23:53
  the
• 23:54
  most
• 23:54
  aging
• 23:55
  thing.
• 23:55
  A
• 23:56
  facelift
• 23:56
  done
• 23:56
  the
• 23:57
  right
• 23:57
  way
• 23:58
  is
• 23:58
  the
• 23:59
  best
• 23:59
  thing
• 24:00
  ever.
• 24:00
  I
• 24:01
  would.
• 24:01
  And
• 24:01
  by
• 24:01
  the
• 24:01
  time
• 24:02
  you've
• 24:02
  done
• 24:02
  years
• 24:02
  of
• 24:03
  Botox
• 24:03
  and
• 24:03
  fillers,
• 24:04
  you
• 24:04
  probably
• 24:04
  spent
• 24:05
  what
• 24:05
  you've
• 24:05
  done
• 24:05
  on
• 24:05
  a
• 24:05
  facelift
• 24:06
  anyway.
• 24:07
  If
• 24:07
  you
• 24:07
  don't
• 24:07
  want
• 24:07
  to
• 24:07
  dye
• 24:08
  your
• 24:08
  hair
• 24:08
  and
• 24:08
  you
• 24:08
  don't
• 24:09
  want
• 24:09
  to
• 24:09
  go
• 24:09
  to
• 24:09
  the
• 24:09
  gym
• 24:10
  and
• 24:10
  you
• 24:10
  feel
• 24:10
  like,
• 24:11
  you
• 24:11
  know,
• 24:11
  because
• 24:11
  a
• 24:11
  midlife
• 24:12
  spread
• 24:12
  is
• 24:13
  not
• 24:13
  called
• 24:13
  a
• 24:14
  midlife
• 24:14
  spread
• 24:14
  just
• 24:15
  because
• 24:15
  one
• 24:15
  person
• 24:16
  had
• 24:16
  one.
• 24:17
  That's
• 24:17
  what
• 24:17
  happens
• 24:17
  when
• 24:18
  your
• 24:18
  hormones
• 24:19
  aren't,
• 24:19
  you
• 24:20
  know,
• 24:21
  at
• 24:21
  the
• 24:21
  right
• 24:21
  level
• 24:22
  and
• 24:22
  you're,
• 24:22
  you
• 24:23
  know,
• 24:23
  you're
• 24:23
  tired
• 24:24
  and
• 24:24
  who's
• 24:24
  going
• 24:24
  to
• 24:25
  the
• 24:25
  gym
• 24:25
  when
• 24:25
  you've
• 24:25
  got.
• 24:26
  If
• 24:26
  you're
• 24:26
  not
• 24:26
  taking
• 24:26
  any
• 24:27
  of
• 24:27
  these
• 24:27
  things
• 24:27
  to
• 24:27
  help
• 24:28
  yourself?
• 24:28
  Of
• 24:28
  course,
• 24:29
  what
• 24:29
  happens
• 24:30
  is
• 24:30
  you
• 24:30
  get
• 24:30
  tired,
• 24:31
  you
• 24:31
  get
• 24:31
  lethargic,
• 24:32
  you
• 24:32
  get
• 24:32
  fat,
• 24:33
  you
• 24:34
  get.
• 24:34
  You've
• 24:34
  got
• 24:34
  low
• 24:35
  energy
• 24:35
  and,
• 24:36
  you
• 24:36
  know,
• 24:36
  you
• 24:36
  get
• 24:37
  probably
• 24:38
  diseases
• 24:39
  of
• 24:39
  some
• 24:39
  sort.
• 24:40
  And
• 24:40
  what,
• 24:41
  you
• 24:41
  know,
• 24:41
  the
• 24:41
  health.
• 24:41
  In
• 24:42
  the
• 24:42
  health
• 24:42
  industry.
• 24:43
  But
• 24:43
  the
• 24:43
  medical
• 24:44
  industry
• 24:45
  prefers
• 24:45
  us
• 24:45
  that
• 24:46
  way
• 24:46
  because
• 24:46
  they
• 24:47
  make
• 24:47
  more
• 24:47
  money.
• 24:48
  So
• 24:48
  if
• 24:48
  we
• 24:48
  all
• 24:48
  jumping
• 24:49
  around,
• 24:50
  having
• 24:50
  taken
• 24:51
  the
• 24:51
  right
• 24:51
  hormones
• 24:52
  and
• 24:52
  understanding
• 24:53
  how
• 24:53
  our
• 24:53
  bodies
• 24:54
  actually
• 24:54
  work
• 24:56
  and
• 24:56
  we
• 24:56
  look
• 24:56
  and
• 24:57
  feel
• 24:57
  good,
• 24:58
  and
• 24:58
  we're
• 24:58
  not,
• 24:58
  you
• 24:59
  know,
• 24:59
  we
• 24:59
  don't
• 24:59
  get
• 24:59
  heart
• 25:00
  disease
• 25:00
  and
• 25:00
  we're
• 25:01
  not
• 25:01
  overweight,
• 25:02
  and
• 25:02
  you
• 25:02
  don't
• 25:02
  have
• 25:02
  to
• 25:02
  be
• 25:03
  pencil
• 25:03
  thin
• 25:04
  either,
• 25:04
  by
• 25:05
  the
• 25:05
  way.
• 25:05
  Everybody
• 25:05
  has
• 25:06
  a
• 25:06
  perfect
• 25:06
  optimal
• 25:07
  weight
• 25:07
  for
• 25:07
  themselves,
• 25:08
  you
• 25:08
  know,
• 25:09
  and
• 25:10
  once
• 25:10
  you
• 25:11
  get
• 25:11
  to
• 25:11
  that
• 25:11
  stage,
• 25:12
  not
• 25:13
  only
• 25:13
  do
• 25:13
  people
• 25:13
  respect
• 25:14
  you
• 25:14
  more,
• 25:15
  you
• 25:15
  get
• 25:16
  better
• 25:16
  jobs,
• 25:17
  you
• 25:18
  get
• 25:18
  better
• 25:18
  outcomes.
• 25:19
  Because
• 25:19
  people
• 25:20
  only
• 25:20
  follow
• 25:20
  people
• 25:21
  that
• 25:21
  I'm
• 25:21
  not.
• 25:22
  Why
• 25:22
  would
• 25:22
  I
• 25:22
  follow
• 25:22
  someone
• 25:22
  that
• 25:23
  doesn't
• 25:23
  take
• 25:23
  care
• 25:23
  of
• 25:23
  themselves?
• 25:24
  If
• 25:24
  you
• 25:24
  can't
• 25:24
  take
• 25:24
  care
• 25:24
  of
• 25:25
  yourself,
• 25:25
  how
• 25:25
  are
• 25:25
  you
• 25:25
  going
• 25:25
  to
• 25:25
  take
• 25:26
  care
• 25:26
  of
• 25:26
  me?
• 25:26
  What
• 25:27
  am
• 25:27
  I.
• 25:27
  What
• 25:27
  am
• 25:28
  I
• 25:28
  measuring
• 25:28
  myself
• 25:29
  up
• 25:29
  to?
• 25:30
  So
• 25:30
  you
• 25:31
  want
• 25:31
  to
• 25:31
  be
• 25:31
  that
• 25:31
  bitch.
• 25:32
  You
• 25:32
  want
• 25:32
  to
• 25:32
  be
• 25:32
  the
• 25:32
  bitch
• 25:32
  that
• 25:33
  gets
• 25:33
  out
• 25:33
  of
• 25:33
  bed
• 25:33
  and
• 25:33
  says,
• 25:34
  you
• 25:34
  know,
• 25:35
  I'm
• 25:36
  here.
• 25:36
  That's
• 25:37
  what
• 25:37
  I
• 25:37
  fudgeing
• 25:37
  love
• 25:37
  about
• 25:37
  you,
• 25:38
  Caroline,
• 25:38
  because
• 25:38
  you
• 25:38
  are
• 25:39
  so
• 25:39
  just.
• 25:39
  You
• 25:40
  don't
• 25:40
  censor
• 25:41
  yourself.
• 25:41
  You
• 25:42
  put
• 25:42
  yourself
• 25:42
  out
• 25:42
  there.
• 25:43
  You're
• 25:43
  unedited,
• 25:44
  like.
• 25:44
  And
• 25:44
  I
• 25:45
  think
• 25:45
  we
• 25:45
  need
• 25:45
  that.
• 25:45
  We
• 25:45
  need
• 25:46
  voices
• 25:46
  like
• 25:46
  that.
• 25:46
  And
• 25:47
  midlife
• 25:47
  especially,
• 25:48
  you
• 25:48
  know,
• 25:48
  it's.
• 25:48
  It's
• 25:49
  okay
• 25:49
  to
• 25:49
  be
• 25:49
  who
• 25:49
  you
• 25:50
  Are,
• 25:50
  you
• 25:51
  know,
• 25:51
  through
• 25:51
  and
• 25:51
  through.
• 25:52
  It's
• 25:52
  okay
• 25:52
  to
• 25:53
  be
• 25:53
  who
• 25:53
  you
• 25:53
  are.
• 25:53
  Yeah.
• 25:54
  And
• 25:54
  I
• 25:54
  feel
• 25:54
  like
• 25:54
  so
• 25:55
  many
• 25:55
  women
• 25:55
  lose
• 25:55
  their
• 25:55
  identity
• 25:56
  during
• 25:56
  this
• 25:56
  time
• 25:57
  especially.
• 25:58
  Well,
• 25:58
  because
• 25:58
  they
• 25:58
  don't
• 25:59
  have
• 25:59
  an
• 25:59
  identity
• 26:00
  outside
• 26:01
  of,
• 26:01
  you
• 26:02
  know,
• 26:02
  maybe
• 26:03
  the
• 26:03
  marriage
• 26:03
  or
• 26:03
  bringing
• 26:04
  up
• 26:04
  kids
• 26:04
  because
• 26:05
  that's
• 26:05
  become
• 26:05
  the
• 26:06
  whole
• 26:06
  identity.
• 26:07
  And
• 26:08
  obviously
• 26:08
  it's
• 26:08
  a
• 26:08
  luxury
• 26:09
  and
• 26:09
  wonderful
• 26:10
  to
• 26:10
  spend
• 26:10
  time
• 26:10
  with
• 26:10
  your
• 26:11
  children.
• 26:11
  And
• 26:11
  my
• 26:11
  children
• 26:12
  would
• 26:13
  moan
• 26:13
  about
• 26:13
  me
• 26:14
  having
• 26:14
  all
• 26:15
  these
• 26:15
  jobs
• 26:16
  and
• 26:16
  doing
• 26:16
  all
• 26:16
  these
• 26:17
  things,
• 26:17
  but
• 26:17
  now
• 26:17
  that
• 26:18
  they
• 26:18
  see
• 26:18
  how
• 26:18
  it's
• 26:19
  going
• 26:19
  to
• 26:19
  work
• 26:19
  out
• 26:19
  for
• 26:20
  them,
• 26:20
  let
• 26:20
  me
• 26:20
  tell
• 26:20
  you,
• 26:21
  they're
• 26:21
  not
• 26:21
  so
• 26:21
  bad
• 26:22
  upset
• 26:22
  about
• 26:22
  it.
• 26:23
  And
• 26:23
  you
• 26:24
  know,
• 26:24
  at
• 26:24
  the
• 26:24
  end
• 26:24
  of
• 26:24
  the
• 26:25
  day,
• 26:25
  my
• 26:25
  lowest
• 26:26
  point
• 26:26
  was
• 26:26
  when,
• 26:27
  you
• 26:27
  know,
• 26:28
  I
• 26:28
  was
• 26:29
  going
• 26:29
  through
• 26:29
  the
• 26:30
  divorce,
• 26:30
  a
• 26:30
  court
• 26:31
  case
• 26:31
  that
• 26:31
  I
• 26:32
  didn't
• 26:32
  know
• 26:32
  who
• 26:32
  I
• 26:32
  was
• 26:32
  either
• 26:33
  anymore
• 26:33
  because
• 26:33
  that
• 26:34
  business
• 26:34
  was
• 26:34
  my
• 26:35
  identity.
• 26:35
  I
• 26:35
  went
• 26:35
  to
• 26:36
  the
• 26:36
  office
• 26:36
  every
• 26:36
  day.
• 26:36
  Now
• 26:36
  I
• 26:37
  didn't
• 26:37
  have
• 26:37
  an
• 26:37
  office
• 26:37
  to
• 26:37
  go
• 26:37
  to,
• 26:38
  you
• 26:38
  know,
• 26:38
  losing
• 26:39
  my
• 26:39
  business,
• 26:39
  doing
• 26:40
  all
• 26:40
  that.
• 26:40
  And
• 26:40
  of
• 26:40
  course
• 26:40
  it's
• 26:40
  easier
• 26:41
  just
• 26:41
  to
• 26:41
  sit
• 26:41
  back
• 26:42
  down
• 26:42
  and
• 26:42
  say
• 26:43
  it,
• 26:43
  let
• 26:44
  somebody
• 26:44
  else
• 26:44
  take
• 26:45
  care
• 26:45
  of
• 26:45
  me.
• 26:46
  But
• 26:46
  at
• 26:46
  the
• 26:46
  end
• 26:46
  of
• 26:47
  the
• 26:47
  day,
• 26:47
  even
• 26:47
  if
• 26:47
  you
• 26:48
  have
• 26:48
  someone
• 26:48
  by
• 26:49
  your
• 26:49
  side,
• 26:49
  there
• 26:49
  is
• 26:50
  today,
• 26:50
  there
• 26:51
  is
• 26:51
  no
• 26:51
  guarantee
• 26:52
  that
• 26:52
  someone's
• 26:52
  staying
• 26:53
  by
• 26:53
  your
• 26:53
  side.
• 26:53
  And
• 26:54
  just
• 26:54
  because
• 26:54
  he
• 26:54
  loved
• 26:55
  you
• 26:55
  then
• 26:55
  and
• 26:56
  he
• 26:56
  said
• 26:56
  he
• 26:56
  was
• 26:56
  going
• 26:56
  to
• 26:57
  do
• 26:57
  these
• 26:57
  things,
• 26:57
  most
• 26:58
  times
• 26:58
  they
• 26:58
  don't
• 26:59
  do
• 26:59
  what
• 26:59
  they
• 26:59
  say
• 27:00
  they're
• 27:00
  going
• 27:00
  to
• 27:00
  do
• 27:01
  when
• 27:01
  they've
• 27:01
  moved
• 27:02
  on.
• 27:02
  That's
• 27:02
  just
• 27:02
  facts.
• 27:03
  But
• 27:04
  so,
• 27:04
  you
• 27:04
  know,
• 27:05
  you
• 27:05
  need
• 27:05
  to
• 27:05
  be
• 27:06
  prepared
• 27:06
  for
• 27:06
  the
• 27:07
  worst,
• 27:07
  even
• 27:08
  if
• 27:08
  the
• 27:08
  best
• 27:08
  happens.
• 27:10
  So
• 27:10
  what
• 27:10
  did
• 27:10
  you
• 27:10
  do
• 27:11
  when
• 27:11
  you
• 27:11
  were
• 27:11
  in
• 27:11
  the
• 27:11
  midst
• 27:12
  of
• 27:12
  that,
• 27:12
  of
• 27:13
  the
• 27:13
  divorce?
• 27:13
  Like
• 27:14
  how?
• 27:14
  Because
• 27:14
  I'm
• 27:15
  sure
• 27:15
  you
• 27:15
  had
• 27:15
  days
• 27:15
  too
• 27:15
  where
• 27:16
  you
• 27:16
  were
• 27:16
  like
• 27:17
  fudgeing
• 27:17
  a,
• 27:17
  like,
• 27:18
  I
• 27:18
  can't
• 27:18
  do
• 27:18
  this,
• 27:18
  like
• 27:19
  I
• 27:19
  can't
• 27:19
  do
• 27:19
  this
• 27:19
  anymore.
• 27:20
  I
• 27:20
  millions
• 27:21
  of
• 27:21
  days
• 27:21
  like
• 27:21
  that,
• 27:21
  I
• 27:22
  had
• 27:22
  millions
• 27:22
  of
• 27:22
  days
• 27:23
  like
• 27:23
  that,
• 27:23
  like
• 27:23
  going,
• 27:23
  I'm
• 27:24
  going
• 27:24
  to
• 27:24
  go
• 27:24
  bankrupt.
• 27:26
  What
• 27:26
  have
• 27:26
  I
• 27:26
  done?
• 27:27
  I'm
• 27:27
  marrying
• 27:27
  a
• 27:27
  20,
• 27:28
  I
• 27:28
  met
• 27:28
  a
• 27:28
  24
• 27:29
  year
• 27:29
  old.
• 27:29
  What
• 27:30
  is
• 27:30
  he
• 27:30
  going
• 27:30
  to
• 27:30
  be
• 27:30
  able
• 27:30
  to
• 27:31
  do?
• 27:31
  You
• 27:32
  know,
• 27:32
  I'm
• 27:32
  in
• 27:32
  the
• 27:32
  middle
• 27:33
  of
• 27:33
  losing
• 27:33
  my
• 27:33
  business.
• 27:34
  Like
• 27:34
  everything
• 27:34
  had
• 27:35
  collapsed
• 27:35
  around
• 27:35
  me.
• 27:36
  Absolutely
• 27:37
  everything
• 27:37
  I
• 27:37
  knew
• 27:38
  had
• 27:38
  collapsed.
• 27:39
  There
• 27:39
  was
• 27:39
  no
• 27:40
  grain
• 27:40
  of
• 27:41
  hope.
• 27:41
  But
• 27:42
  then,
• 27:42
  you
• 27:42
  know,
• 27:43
  each
• 27:43
  day
• 27:44
  comes
• 27:44
  and
• 27:44
  you
• 27:45
  don't
• 27:45
  die,
• 27:47
  you
• 27:47
  don't
• 27:47
  die.
• 27:48
  So
• 27:48
  you
• 27:48
  do
• 27:49
  one
• 27:49
  thing
• 27:49
  that's
• 27:50
  going
• 27:50
  to
• 27:50
  like,
• 27:50
  you
• 27:50
  know,
• 27:50
  I
• 27:50
  have
• 27:51
  friends
• 27:51
  that
• 27:51
  get
• 27:52
  used
• 27:52
  to
• 27:52
  get
• 27:52
  bills
• 27:53
  and
• 27:53
  then
• 27:53
  just
• 27:53
  sort
• 27:53
  of
• 27:53
  put
• 27:54
  them
• 27:54
  in
• 27:54
  a
• 27:54
  box
• 27:54
  and
• 27:54
  go,
• 27:54
  I'll
• 27:55
  deal
• 27:55
  with
• 27:55
  it
• 27:55
  later.
• 27:55
  I
• 27:55
  was
• 27:56
  never
• 27:56
  that
• 27:56
  girl.
• 27:57
  I
• 27:57
  would
• 27:57
  get
• 27:57
  the
• 27:57
  bill
• 27:58
  and
• 27:58
  then
• 27:58
  figure
• 27:59
  out
• 27:59
  one
• 27:59
  bill
• 27:59
  at
• 28:00
  a
• 28:00
  time.
• 28:01
  You
• 28:01
  know,
• 28:01
  there's
• 28:01
  always
• 28:01
  A
• 28:02
  way
• 28:02
  through
• 28:02
  it,
• 28:03
  right?
• 28:04
  And
• 28:04
  I
• 28:04
  think
• 28:04
  instead
• 28:05
  of
• 28:05
  collapsing,
• 28:05
  you've
• 28:06
  got
• 28:06
  to
• 28:06
  be
• 28:06
  pragmatic
• 28:07
  and
• 28:07
  practical
• 28:07
  with
• 28:07
  the
• 28:08
  hand
• 28:08
  you
• 28:08
  built
• 28:09
  dealt.
• 28:09
  You
• 28:10
  can't
• 28:10
  sit
• 28:11
  under
• 28:11
  a
• 28:11
  rock
• 28:11
  and
• 28:12
  go
• 28:13
  back
• 28:13
  to
• 28:13
  a
• 28:13
  marriage
• 28:14
  because
• 28:14
  it's
• 28:14
  a
• 28:14
  bad
• 28:15
  time
• 28:15
  to
• 28:15
  leave,
• 28:16
  you
• 28:16
  know,
• 28:16
  you
• 28:16
  can't
• 28:17
  do
• 28:17
  that.
• 28:17
  It's
• 28:17
  not
• 28:17
  fair
• 28:17
  on
• 28:18
  him,
• 28:18
  it's
• 28:18
  not
• 28:18
  fair
• 28:18
  on
• 28:19
  you.
• 28:19
  You're
• 28:19
  going
• 28:19
  to
• 28:19
  have
• 28:19
  to
• 28:19
  go
• 28:20
  through
• 28:20
  all
• 28:20
  of
• 28:20
  this
• 28:20
  again.
• 28:20
  It's
• 28:21
  not
• 28:21
  going
• 28:21
  to
• 28:21
  get
• 28:21
  better,
• 28:23
  you
• 28:23
  know.
• 28:24
  Get
• 28:24
  better?
• 28:24
  Why?
• 28:25
  Because
• 28:25
  you
• 28:25
  don't
• 28:25
  have
• 28:25
  an
• 28:26
  option.
• 28:26
  How
• 28:26
  awful
• 28:27
  is
• 28:27
  that?
• 28:28
  No,
• 28:29
  I
• 28:29
  would
• 28:29
  never
• 28:30
  want
• 28:30
  that
• 28:30
  to
• 28:31
  be,
• 28:31
  you
• 28:31
  know,
• 28:32
  and
• 28:32
  the
• 28:32
  best
• 28:32
  is
• 28:33
  yet
• 28:33
  to
• 28:33
  come.
• 28:34
  If
• 28:34
  I
• 28:34
  knew
• 28:35
  then
• 28:35
  what
• 28:36
  I
• 28:36
  know
• 28:36
  now,
• 28:37
  I
• 28:37
  wish
• 28:37
  I'd
• 28:37
  left
• 28:38
  years
• 28:39
  before
• 28:40
  to
• 28:40
  get
• 28:40
  to
• 28:40
  where
• 28:41
  I
• 28:41
  am
• 28:41
  today.
• 28:42
  Would
• 28:42
  you
• 28:42
  have
• 28:42
  left
• 28:42
  earlier?
• 28:43
  Would
• 28:43
  you?
• 28:43
  If
• 28:43
  you
• 28:44
  looking
• 28:44
  back,
• 28:45
  I
• 28:45
  mean,
• 28:45
  you.
• 28:45
  Know,
• 28:46
  most
• 28:46
  people
• 28:46
  think
• 28:47
  about
• 28:47
  it
• 28:47
  for
• 28:47
  at
• 28:47
  least,
• 28:48
  you
• 28:48
  know,
• 28:48
  three
• 28:49
  years
• 28:49
  or
• 28:49
  whatever.
• 28:49
  We
• 28:50
  had
• 28:50
  been
• 28:50
  going
• 28:50
  through
• 28:50
  a
• 28:50
  rough
• 28:51
  spot.
• 28:51
  But
• 28:51
  I
• 28:51
  mean,
• 28:52
  I
• 28:52
  think
• 28:52
  you
• 28:53
  always
• 28:53
  go,
• 28:53
  everyone
• 28:54
  goes,
• 28:54
  it's
• 28:54
  not
• 28:54
  the
• 28:54
  grass
• 28:54
  isn't
• 28:55
  greener
• 28:55
  or
• 28:55
  it's
• 28:56
  not
• 28:56
  going
• 28:56
  to
• 28:56
  be
• 28:56
  that.
• 28:56
  And
• 28:57
  he's
• 28:57
  got
• 28:58
  a
• 28:58
  gorgeous
• 28:58
  girlfriend
• 28:59
  so
• 28:59
  he's
• 28:59
  probably
• 29:00
  feeling
• 29:00
  exactly
• 29:00
  feel
• 29:01
  the
• 29:01
  same
• 29:01
  way.
• 29:02
  Like
• 29:02
  it's
• 29:02
  just,
• 29:03
  you're
• 29:03
  just
• 29:03
  prolonging
• 29:04
  the
• 29:04
  agony.
• 29:04
  You
• 29:04
  both
• 29:05
  know
• 29:05
  it's
• 29:05
  not
• 29:05
  going
• 29:06
  to
• 29:06
  work,
• 29:06
  but
• 29:06
  nobody
• 29:07
  wants
• 29:07
  to
• 29:07
  make
• 29:07
  that
• 29:08
  first
• 29:08
  move.
• 29:08
  Now
• 29:09
  if
• 29:10
  I
• 29:10
  could
• 29:10
  get
• 29:10
  into,
• 29:10
  I'm
• 29:11
  in
• 29:11
  a
• 29:11
  beautiful
• 29:11
  home
• 29:12
  with
• 29:13
  the
• 29:13
  man
• 29:13
  of
• 29:13
  my
• 29:13
  dreams,
• 29:14
  building
• 29:14
  my
• 29:15
  dream
• 29:15
  life,
• 29:16
  you
• 29:16
  know,
• 29:16
  helping
• 29:17
  women,
• 29:18
  building
• 29:18
  communities,
• 29:19
  like
• 29:21
  I.
• 29:21
  What
• 29:21
  is
• 29:22
  this
• 29:22
  life?
• 29:23
  What
• 29:23
  is
• 29:23
  this
• 29:24
  life?
• 29:24
  Every
• 29:24
  day
• 29:24
  that
• 29:25
  passes
• 29:25
  is
• 29:26
  a
• 29:26
  day
• 29:26
  that
• 29:26
  you
• 29:26
  could
• 29:26
  have
• 29:27
  been
• 29:27
  doing
• 29:27
  something
• 29:27
  different.
• 29:28
  But
• 29:28
  listen,
• 29:29
  you
• 29:29
  know,
• 29:29
  I
• 29:29
  am
• 29:30
  a
• 29:30
  perfect
• 29:30
  walking
• 29:31
  example.
• 29:31
  And
• 29:32
  that's
• 29:32
  what
• 29:32
  I
• 29:32
  say
• 29:32
  to
• 29:32
  the
• 29:32
  ladies
• 29:33
  that
• 29:33
  do
• 29:33
  come
• 29:33
  on
• 29:33
  my
• 29:33
  retreat.
• 29:34
  I'm
• 29:34
  a
• 29:34
  walking
• 29:35
  advertisement
• 29:37
  for
• 29:37
  taking
• 29:37
  the
• 29:37
  leap
• 29:38
  of
• 29:38
  faith.
• 29:38
  If
• 29:39
  you're
• 29:39
  in
• 29:39
  an
• 29:39
  uncomfortable
• 29:40
  position
• 29:41
  or
• 29:41
  you
• 29:41
  don't
• 29:42
  feel
• 29:42
  this
• 29:42
  is
• 29:42
  the
• 29:42
  right
• 29:43
  time,
• 29:43
  that's
• 29:43
  exactly
• 29:44
  the
• 29:44
  right
• 29:44
  time.
• 29:45
  That
• 29:45
  is
• 29:45
  exactly
• 29:46
  the
• 29:46
  right
• 29:46
  time
• 29:46
  to
• 29:46
  take
• 29:47
  the
• 29:47
  leap.
• 29:48
  Being
• 29:48
  a
• 29:48
  public
• 29:49
  face,
• 29:49
  did
• 29:50
  that
• 29:51
  change
• 29:51
  your
• 29:52
  direction
• 29:52
  at
• 29:52
  all
• 29:52
  or
• 29:53
  like
• 29:53
  make
• 29:53
  you,
• 29:54
  you
• 29:54
  know,
• 29:54
  not
• 29:55
  do
• 29:55
  maybe
• 29:55
  what
• 29:55
  you
• 29:55
  were
• 29:55
  going
• 29:56
  to
• 29:56
  do
• 29:56
  at
• 29:56
  the
• 29:56
  time
• 29:56
  or
• 29:57
  was
• 29:57
  that
• 29:57
  not
• 29:57
  even
• 29:57
  a
• 29:58
  consideration?
• 29:59
  Not
• 29:59
  even
• 29:59
  a
• 29:59
  consideration.
• 30:00
  I
• 30:00
  mean,
• 30:00
  being
• 30:00
  in
• 30:00
  public
• 30:01
  faces,
• 30:01
  like
• 30:02
  just
• 30:02
  unfortunately
• 30:03
  in
• 30:03
  the
• 30:03
  middle
• 30:03
  of
• 30:03
  the
• 30:03
  chaos,
• 30:04
  just
• 30:05
  another
• 30:05
  chaotic
• 30:06
  thing.
• 30:06
  You
• 30:06
  just
• 30:06
  get
• 30:06
  a
• 30:07
  lot
• 30:07
  more
• 30:07
  opinions
• 30:07
  in
• 30:08
  your
• 30:08
  ear
• 30:08
  the
• 30:08
  way
• 30:08
  you're
• 30:09
  behaving.
• 30:09
  But
• 30:09
  at
• 30:09
  the
• 30:09
  end
• 30:09
  of
• 30:10
  the
• 30:10
  day,
• 30:11
  I
• 30:11
  did
• 30:11
  what
• 30:12
  I
• 30:12
  wanted
• 30:12
  anyway.
• 30:12
  I
• 30:13
  always
• 30:13
  have,
• 30:13
  always
• 30:13
  will.
• 30:14
  And
• 30:15
  I
• 30:15
  did
• 30:15
  the
• 30:15
  exact
• 30:16
  opposite
• 30:17
  of
• 30:17
  what
• 30:18
  every
• 30:18
  single
• 30:19
  person
• 30:19
  told
• 30:19
  me,
• 30:20
  which
• 30:21
  was
• 30:21
  marry
• 30:21
  my
• 30:22
  24
• 30:22
  year
• 30:22
  old.
• 30:23
  Your
• 30:23
  friends
• 30:23
  were
• 30:24
  saying,
• 30:24
  don't
• 30:24
  do
• 30:24
  it.
• 30:24
  Like,
• 30:25
  don't
• 30:25
  do
• 30:25
  it,
• 30:26
  everybody.
• 30:26
  There
• 30:27
  was
• 30:27
  not
• 30:27
  one
• 30:27
  person
• 30:28
  that
• 30:28
  said,
• 30:28
  do
• 30:28
  it.
• 30:28
  Of
• 30:29
  course
• 30:29
  not.
• 30:29
  And
• 30:29
  I,
• 30:30
  in
• 30:30
  their
• 30:30
  shoes,
• 30:31
  looking
• 30:31
  back,
• 30:31
  I
• 30:31
  would
• 30:31
  have
• 30:32
  said
• 30:32
  the
• 30:32
  same
• 30:32
  thing.
• 30:33
  Of
• 30:33
  course.
• 30:33
  You
• 30:34
  know,
• 30:34
  I
• 30:34
  think
• 30:34
  my,
• 30:34
  my
• 30:35
  friend
• 30:35
  had
• 30:35
  like
• 30:36
  lost
• 30:36
  her
• 30:36
  fucking
• 30:37
  mind.
• 30:38
  And
• 30:38
  at
• 30:39
  the
• 30:39
  end
• 30:39
  of
• 30:39
  the
• 30:39
  day,
• 30:39
  you
• 30:40
  know,
• 30:40
  most
• 30:40
  cases,
• 30:41
  maybe
• 30:41
  it
• 30:41
  wouldn't
• 30:41
  have
• 30:42
  worked.
• 30:42
  It's
• 30:42
  just
• 30:42
  Sergio
• 30:43
  is
• 30:43
  a
• 30:43
  sort
• 30:44
  of.
• 30:44
  I
• 30:44
  say
• 30:44
  he's
• 30:44
  a
• 30:44
  little
• 30:44
  old
• 30:45
  man
• 30:45
  in
• 30:45
  a
• 30:45
  very
• 30:45
  young
• 30:46
  body.
• 30:47
  But,
• 30:48
  you
• 30:48
  know,
• 30:49
  it's
• 30:49
  worked
• 30:50
  for
• 30:50
  us
• 30:50
  and
• 30:50
  it's
• 30:51
  worked
• 30:51
  on
• 30:51
  an
• 30:52
  incredible
• 30:53
  scale.
• 30:54
  And,
• 30:55
  you
• 30:55
  know,
• 30:56
  I'm.
• 30:56
  I
• 30:56
  couldn't
• 30:57
  teach
• 30:57
  women
• 30:57
  what
• 30:58
  I
• 30:58
  teach
• 30:58
  women
• 30:58
  if
• 30:59
  I
• 30:59
  wasn't
• 30:59
  happy
• 31:00
  or
• 31:00
  in
• 31:00
  a
• 31:00
  good
• 31:00
  space.
• 31:01
  And
• 31:01
  women
• 31:01
  wouldn't
• 31:01
  be
• 31:02
  flocking
• 31:03
  to
• 31:03
  these
• 31:03
  retreats
• 31:04
  if
• 31:05
  you
• 31:05
  didn't
• 31:05
  think
• 31:07
  through
• 31:07
  the
• 31:07
  screen.
• 31:08
  I
• 31:09
  was
• 31:09
  in
• 31:09
  a
• 31:09
  good
• 31:09
  place.
• 31:10
  And
• 31:11
  I
• 31:11
  think,
• 31:11
  you
• 31:11
  know,
• 31:12
  good
• 31:12
  or
• 31:13
  bad
• 31:13
  insight
• 31:13
  doesn't.
• 31:14
  It's
• 31:14
  not
• 31:14
  even
• 31:14
  about
• 31:14
  the
• 31:15
  money
• 31:15
  in
• 31:15
  your
• 31:15
  bank
• 31:16
  account.
• 31:16
  It's
• 31:16
  about
• 31:17
  success
• 31:18
  is
• 31:18
  measured
• 31:18
  by
• 31:19
  the
• 31:19
  peace
• 31:20
  and
• 31:20
  the
• 31:20
  happiness
• 31:21
  in
• 31:21
  your
• 31:21
  heart.
• 31:21
  Really?
• 31:22
  That's
• 31:22
  it?
• 31:23
  Yeah,
• 31:23
  absolutely.
• 31:24
  I
• 31:24
  mean,
• 31:24
  you
• 31:24
  can
• 31:24
  tell
• 31:24
  it
• 31:25
  shows,
• 31:25
  you
• 31:25
  know,
• 31:26
  it's
• 31:26
  an
• 31:26
  outward
• 31:26
  projection
• 31:28
  in
• 31:28
  a
• 31:28
  lot
• 31:28
  of
• 31:28
  ways.
• 31:29
  But,
• 31:30
  you
• 31:30
  know,
• 31:30
  going
• 31:30
  back
• 31:31
  to
• 31:31
  also
• 31:31
  money,
• 31:32
  I
• 31:32
  think
• 31:32
  money
• 31:32
  is
• 31:33
  also
• 31:33
  an
• 31:33
  interesting
• 31:34
  topic
• 31:35
  in
• 31:35
  midlife.
• 31:36
  But
• 31:36
  it's
• 31:36
  interesting
• 31:37
  with
• 31:37
  money
• 31:37
  now.
• 31:37
  I
• 31:38
  used
• 31:38
  to
• 31:38
  be
• 31:38
  like,
• 31:39
  okay,
• 31:39
  I
• 31:39
  need
• 31:39
  to
• 31:39
  have
• 31:40
  this
• 31:40
  designer
• 31:40
  bag.
• 31:41
  I
• 31:41
  need
• 31:41
  to
• 31:41
  have
• 31:41
  like
• 31:42
  this
• 31:42
  article
• 31:42
  of
• 31:43
  clothing,
• 31:44
  this
• 31:44
  car,
• 31:45
  so.
• 31:45
  And
• 31:45
  I
• 31:46
  still
• 31:46
  love
• 31:46
  those
• 31:47
  things.
• 31:47
  Don't
• 31:47
  get
• 31:47
  me
• 31:47
  wrong,
• 31:48
  they're
• 31:48
  amazing.
• 31:49
  But
• 31:50
  the
• 31:50
  way
• 31:51
  I
• 31:51
  think
• 31:51
  about
• 31:51
  money,
• 31:52
  the
• 31:52
  way
• 31:52
  I
• 31:52
  want
• 31:52
  to
• 31:52
  spend
• 31:53
  my
• 31:53
  money
• 31:53
  is
• 31:54
  different
• 31:54
  now.
• 31:54
  Different.
• 31:55
  Right.
• 31:55
  It's
• 31:56
  like
• 31:56
  about
• 31:56
  experience
• 31:57
  and
• 31:57
  like,
• 31:57
  it's
• 31:58
  like
• 31:58
  a
• 31:58
  switch.
• 31:59
  Yes,
• 31:59
  it's
• 31:59
  a
• 32:00
  switch.
• 32:00
  And
• 32:00
  it's
• 32:00
  something
• 32:01
  that
• 32:01
  happened
• 32:01
  in
• 32:02
  midlife.
• 32:02
  I
• 32:03
  sent
• 32:03
  a
• 32:03
  picture
• 32:04
  to
• 32:04
  my
• 32:04
  friend's
• 32:04
  husband
• 32:05
  this
• 32:05
  morning,
• 32:06
  one
• 32:06
  of
• 32:06
  my
• 32:06
  best
• 32:06
  friend's
• 32:07
  husband.
• 32:07
  I
• 32:07
  sent
• 32:07
  him
• 32:07
  a
• 32:08
  picture
• 32:08
  of
• 32:08
  a
• 32:08
  digger
• 32:09
  in
• 32:09
  Bali.
• 32:10
  And
• 32:10
  he
• 32:10
  goes,
• 32:10
  I'm
• 32:10
  going.
• 32:11
  I
• 32:11
  said,
• 32:11
  is
• 32:11
  it
• 32:11
  weird
• 32:12
  that
• 32:12
  this
• 32:12
  excites
• 32:13
  me?
• 32:13
  And
• 32:14
  he,
• 32:14
  he
• 32:14
  texts
• 32:15
  me
• 32:15
  and
• 32:15
  he
• 32:15
  goes,
• 32:15
  I'm
• 32:16
  keeping
• 32:16
  that.
• 32:17
  I'm
• 32:17
  going
• 32:17
  to
• 32:18
  screenshot
• 32:18
  this.
• 32:19
  And
• 32:20
  I,
• 32:20
  you
• 32:20
  know,
• 32:21
  and
• 32:21
  it's
• 32:21
  true.
• 32:22
  Like,
• 32:22
  it
• 32:23
  does
• 32:23
  like,
• 32:23
  you
• 32:23
  know,
• 32:24
  used
• 32:24
  to
• 32:24
  be
• 32:24
  thes.
• 32:25
  My
• 32:26
  Birkin
• 32:26
  getting
• 32:26
  me
• 32:27
  so
• 32:27
  excited.
• 32:28
  And
• 32:28
  then
• 32:28
  today
• 32:28
  I
• 32:29
  got
• 32:29
  two
• 32:29
  pictures
• 32:30
  of
• 32:30
  diggers
• 32:30
  because
• 32:31
  my.
• 32:31
  These
• 32:31
  are
• 32:32
  my
• 32:32
  friends
• 32:32
  husbands
• 32:32
  had
• 32:33
  invested.
• 32:34
  And
• 32:35
  I
• 32:35
  sent
• 32:35
  them
• 32:35
  the
• 32:36
  pictures
• 32:36
  and
• 32:37
  I'm
• 32:37
  like,
• 32:37
  this
• 32:37
  is
• 32:38
  more
• 32:38
  exciting
• 32:38
  than
• 32:38
  any
• 32:39
  handbag.
• 32:39
  Like,
• 32:40
  I'm
• 32:41
  building
• 32:41
  something
• 32:42
  with
• 32:42
  my
• 32:43
  friends.
• 32:43
  And
• 32:43
  I'm
• 32:44
  like,
• 32:44
  look,
• 32:44
  the
• 32:45
  diggers
• 32:45
  have
• 32:45
  arrived
• 32:46
  and
• 32:46
  it's
• 32:47
  so
• 32:47
  much
• 32:47
  fun.
• 32:48
  So
• 32:49
  much
• 32:49
  fun.
• 32:49
  And
• 32:50
  you
• 32:50
  know,
• 32:50
  some
• 32:51
  of
• 32:51
  these
• 32:51
  guys
• 32:51
  I've
• 32:52
  known
• 32:52
  12,
• 32:53
  13
• 32:53
  years
• 32:54
  and
• 32:55
  you
• 32:55
  know,
• 32:56
  it's
• 32:56
  just
• 32:56
  so
• 32:57
  fun.
• 32:57
  We're
• 32:57
  all
• 32:57
  just
• 32:57
  going,
• 32:58
  oh
• 32:58
  my
• 32:58
  God,
• 32:58
  this
• 32:58
  is
• 32:58
  crazy
• 32:59
  because
• 32:59
  we
• 32:59
  none
• 32:59
  of
• 32:59
  us
• 32:59
  know
• 33:00
  what
• 33:00
  we're
• 33:00
  doing,
• 33:00
  but
• 33:00
  we
• 33:00
  are
• 33:00
  going
• 33:01
  on
• 33:01
  a
• 33:01
  journey.
• 33:02
  We're
• 33:02
  having
• 33:02
  an
• 33:02
  experience.
• 33:03
  We
• 33:04
  are
• 33:04
  with
• 33:05
  friends.
• 33:05
  We're
• 33:06
  in
• 33:06
  it
• 33:06
  together.
• 33:07
  You
• 33:07
  know
• 33:07
  what
• 33:07
  I
• 33:07
  mean?
• 33:08
  Even
• 33:08
  though,
• 33:09
  I
• 33:09
  mean,
• 33:09
  you
• 33:09
  know,
• 33:09
  Sergio
• 33:10
  and
• 33:10
  I
• 33:10
  are
• 33:10
  the
• 33:10
  largest
• 33:11
  shareholders
• 33:11
  by
• 33:11
  far,
• 33:12
  but
• 33:13
  I
• 33:13
  include
• 33:13
  them
• 33:14
  on
• 33:14
  everything
• 33:15
  because
• 33:15
  I'm
• 33:15
  like,
• 33:16
  it's,
• 33:16
  I'm
• 33:17
  feeling
• 33:17
  this
• 33:17
  way.
• 33:17
  I
• 33:17
  want
• 33:18
  them
• 33:18
  to
• 33:18
  be
• 33:18
  just
• 33:18
  as
• 33:19
  excited
• 33:19
  when
• 33:19
  they
• 33:19
  see
• 33:20
  this
• 33:20
  come
• 33:20
  in.
• 33:20
  And
• 33:21
  it's,
• 33:21
  it's
• 33:22
  magic,
• 33:22
  it's
• 33:22
  magical,
• 33:23
  it's.
• 33:23
  And
• 33:24
  next
• 33:24
  week
• 33:24
  we
• 33:24
  go
• 33:25
  to
• 33:25
  the
• 33:25
  week
• 33:25
  after,
• 33:26
  on
• 33:26
  the
• 33:26
  17th,
• 33:26
  I
• 33:26
  think
• 33:26
  it
• 33:27
  is,
• 33:27
  we
• 33:27
  go
• 33:27
  to
• 33:27
  Africa
• 33:28
  to
• 33:28
  go
• 33:28
  choose
• 33:28
  the
• 33:29
  plot
• 33:29
  for
• 33:29
  our
• 33:29
  house
• 33:30
  that
• 33:31
  we're
• 33:31
  building
• 33:31
  as
• 33:32
  well.
• 33:33
  You
• 33:33
  know,
• 33:33
  it's
• 33:34
  just,
• 33:35
  life
• 33:35
  is.
• 33:35
  We
• 33:36
  just
• 33:36
  looked
• 33:36
  at
• 33:36
  each
• 33:36
  other
• 33:36
  today
• 33:37
  and
• 33:37
  it's
• 33:37
  stressful.
• 33:38
  You
• 33:38
  know,
• 33:38
  he's
• 33:38
  been
• 33:38
  up
• 33:39
  since
• 33:39
  five
• 33:39
  working.
• 33:39
  He's
• 33:40
  now
• 33:40
  gone
• 33:40
  to
• 33:40
  take
• 33:41
  my
• 33:41
  kids
• 33:41
  to
• 33:41
  play
• 33:41
  paddle.
• 33:42
  It's
• 33:42
  what
• 33:43
  for
• 33:43
  me,
• 33:43
  8:30
• 33:44
  at
• 33:44
  night.
• 33:45
  And
• 33:46
  you
• 33:46
  know,
• 33:46
  we're
• 33:46
  still
• 33:47
  going
• 33:47
  and,
• 33:48
  and
• 33:48
  I'm
• 33:48
  on
• 33:49
  this,
• 33:49
  but,
• 33:50
  you
• 33:50
  know,
• 33:50
  we're
• 33:50
  like,
• 33:50
  we
• 33:51
  looked
• 33:51
  at
• 33:51
  each
• 33:51
  other's
• 33:51
  day
• 33:51
  and
• 33:51
  we're
• 33:52
  in
• 33:52
  the
• 33:52
  middle
• 33:52
  of
• 33:52
  it
• 33:52
  and
• 33:52
  my
• 33:52
  two
• 33:53
  assistants
• 33:53
  were
• 33:53
  here
• 33:54
  and
• 33:54
  we
• 33:54
  go,
• 33:55
  what
• 33:55
  is
• 33:55
  this
• 33:55
  life?
• 33:56
  What
• 33:56
  is
• 33:56
  this
• 33:57
  life?
• 33:58
  It's
• 33:58
  amazing.
• 33:59
  And
• 33:59
  we're
• 33:59
  like
• 33:59
  high
• 34:00
  fiving
• 34:00
  each
• 34:00
  other
• 34:01
  as
• 34:01
  we're
• 34:01
  like,
• 34:01
  next,
• 34:01
  you
• 34:02
  know,
• 34:02
  into
• 34:02
  the
• 34:02
  next
• 34:02
  thing.
• 34:03
  And
• 34:03
  we
• 34:03
  just,
• 34:03
  we're
• 34:04
  like
• 34:04
  on
• 34:04
  such
• 34:04
  a
• 34:05
  high
• 34:05
  from
• 34:05
  doing
• 34:06
  it,
• 34:06
  you
• 34:06
  know,
• 34:06
  that's
• 34:07
  why
• 34:07
  everyone
• 34:07
  goes,
• 34:08
  aren't
• 34:08
  you
• 34:08
  scared
• 34:08
  your
• 34:08
  husband
• 34:09
  will
• 34:09
  leave
• 34:09
  you?
• 34:09
  And
• 34:10
  I'm
• 34:10
  not.
• 34:10
  Not
• 34:10
  for
• 34:10
  a
• 34:11
  second
• 34:11
  of
• 34:11
  a
• 34:11
  minute
• 34:11
  of
• 34:11
  a
• 34:12
  day.
• 34:12
  No.
• 34:12
  He
• 34:12
  hasn't
• 34:13
  got
• 34:13
  time
• 34:13
  to
• 34:13
  leave
• 34:13
  me.
• 34:13
  And
• 34:14
  he's
• 34:14
  so
• 34:15
  into
• 34:16
  what
• 34:16
  we're
• 34:16
  building.
• 34:17
  There's
• 34:18
  no
• 34:18
  fucking
• 34:18
  way,
• 34:18
  you
• 34:19
  know,
• 34:19
  like,
• 34:20
  there's
• 34:20
  no
• 34:20
  woman
• 34:20
  that's
• 34:21
  going
• 34:21
  to
• 34:21
  attract
• 34:21
  him
• 34:22
  away
• 34:23
  from
• 34:23
  what
• 34:23
  we
• 34:24
  are
• 34:24
  doing
• 34:24
  right
• 34:25
  now.
• 34:25
  Because
• 34:25
  he,
• 34:26
  he,
• 34:26
  you
• 34:26
  know,
• 34:26
  even
• 34:27
  if
• 34:27
  he
• 34:27
  had
• 34:27
  an
• 34:27
  inkling
• 34:28
  of
• 34:28
  a,
• 34:28
  oh,
• 34:28
  she's
• 34:29
  hot,
• 34:29
  he's
• 34:30
  gonna
• 34:30
  think
• 34:30
  long
• 34:30
  and
• 34:31
  hard
• 34:31
  about
• 34:31
  the
• 34:32
  life
• 34:32
  he's
• 34:32
  built.
• 34:33
  It's
• 34:33
  interesting
• 34:33
  you're
• 34:34
  saying
• 34:34
  that
• 34:34
  because
• 34:34
  I
• 34:34
  find
• 34:35
  that
• 34:35
  in.
• 34:35
  Well,
• 34:36
  I
• 34:36
  don't
• 34:36
  think
• 34:36
  it's
• 34:36
  just
• 34:36
  midlife.
• 34:37
  I
• 34:37
  think
• 34:37
  it
• 34:37
  can
• 34:37
  be
• 34:38
  women
• 34:38
  in
• 34:38
  general.
• 34:39
  A
• 34:39
  lot
• 34:39
  of
• 34:40
  women
• 34:40
  are
• 34:40
  threatened
• 34:41
  by
• 34:42
  divorced
• 34:42
  women,
• 34:43
  like
• 34:43
  coming
• 34:44
  into
• 34:44
  their
• 34:44
  circle
• 34:45
  or
• 34:45
  single
• 34:46
  moms,
• 34:46
  you
• 34:47
  know,
• 34:47
  what,
• 34:47
  what
• 34:48
  do
• 34:48
  you
• 34:48
  make
• 34:48
  of
• 34:48
  that,
• 34:49
  I
• 34:49
  mean.
• 34:49
  And
• 34:49
  do
• 34:49
  you
• 34:49
  see
• 34:50
  that,
• 34:50
  too?
• 34:50
  Well,
• 34:50
  I'll
• 34:51
  tell
• 34:51
  you
• 34:51
  what
• 34:51
  I
• 34:51
  make
• 34:51
  of
• 34:52
  make
• 34:52
  of
• 34:52
  that.
• 34:52
  Today
• 34:53
  my
• 34:53
  husband
• 34:54
  had
• 34:54
  a
• 34:54
  paddle
• 34:55
  date
• 34:56
  with
• 34:56
  my
• 34:57
  girlfriend.
• 34:57
  She's
• 34:58
  called
• 34:58
  Supercar
• 34:58
  Blondie.
• 34:59
  She's
• 34:59
  like
• 35:00
  one
• 35:00
  of
• 35:01
  the
• 35:01
  biggest
• 35:01
  car
• 35:02
  review
• 35:03
  girls.
• 35:04
  She's
• 35:04
  huge.
• 35:04
  And
• 35:04
  she
• 35:04
  called
• 35:05
  me
• 35:05
  up,
• 35:05
  she
• 35:05
  said,
• 35:05
  can
• 35:05
  I
• 35:05
  borrow
• 35:05
  your
• 35:06
  husband
• 35:06
  to
• 35:06
  play
• 35:06
  paddle?
• 35:07
  I
• 35:07
  said,
• 35:07
  absolutely.
• 35:07
  And
• 35:08
  off
• 35:08
  they
• 35:08
  went,
• 35:09
  and
• 35:09
  they
• 35:10
  had
• 35:10
  so
• 35:11
  much
• 35:11
  fun.
• 35:11
  They
• 35:11
  called
• 35:11
  me
• 35:11
  from
• 35:11
  the
• 35:12
  court.
• 35:12
  She
• 35:13
  was
• 35:13
  married.
• 35:13
  She
• 35:14
  just
• 35:14
  got
• 35:14
  divorced
• 35:14
  after
• 35:15
  23
• 35:15
  years.
• 35:16
  And
• 35:16
  she's
• 35:17
  a
• 35:17
  really
• 35:17
  good
• 35:17
  friend
• 35:17
  of
• 35:17
  ours.
• 35:18
  Like,
• 35:18
  I
• 35:18
  mean,
• 35:19
  if
• 35:20
  there's
• 35:20
  just.
• 35:21
  Wouldn't
• 35:22
  even
• 35:22
  cross
• 35:23
  my
• 35:23
  mind.
• 35:23
  I
• 35:24
  have
• 35:24
  a
• 35:24
  lot
• 35:24
  of
• 35:25
  male
• 35:25
  friends.
• 35:26
  A
• 35:26
  lot
• 35:27
  of
• 35:27
  male
• 35:27
  friends.
• 35:28
  So
• 35:28
  as
• 35:29
  far
• 35:29
  as
• 35:29
  I'm
• 35:29
  concerned,
• 35:30
  Sergio
• 35:31
  prefers
• 35:32
  being
• 35:32
  with
• 35:32
  women.
• 35:33
  My
• 35:33
  female
• 35:33
  friends,
• 35:34
  they
• 35:34
  all
• 35:35
  love
• 35:35
  him.
• 35:35
  You
• 35:36
  know,
• 35:36
  if
• 35:36
  I
• 35:36
  can't
• 35:36
  trust
• 35:37
  Sergio
• 35:37
  to
• 35:37
  play
• 35:38
  a
• 35:38
  game
• 35:38
  of
• 35:38
  paddle,
• 35:39
  then,
• 35:39
  okay,
• 35:39
  I
• 35:40
  don't.
• 35:40
  He's
• 35:40
  not
• 35:40
  mine
• 35:41
  anyway.
• 35:41
  Yeah,
• 35:42
  he.
• 35:42
  Don't
• 35:42
  be
• 35:42
  threatened
• 35:42
  by
• 35:42
  that.
• 35:43
  I
• 35:43
  think
• 35:43
  it's
• 35:43
  pathetic
• 35:44
  when
• 35:45
  married
• 35:46
  women
• 35:46
  do
• 35:46
  that.
• 35:46
  I
• 35:47
  didn't
• 35:47
  want
• 35:47
  your
• 35:47
  husband
• 35:47
  before,
• 35:48
  I
• 35:49
  don't
• 35:49
  want
• 35:49
  him
• 35:49
  now.
• 35:50
  You
• 35:50
  know,
• 35:51
  and
• 35:51
  you
• 35:51
  need
• 35:52
  to
• 35:52
  have
• 35:52
  confidence.
• 35:53
  Marriage
• 35:53
  isn't
• 35:54
  about
• 35:54
  looks.
• 35:55
  At
• 35:56
  the
• 35:56
  end
• 35:56
  of
• 35:56
  the
• 35:56
  day,
• 35:56
  you
• 35:57
  know,
• 35:57
  that
• 35:57
  all
• 35:57
  fades.
• 35:58
  Marriage
• 35:58
  is
• 35:59
  about
• 35:59
  knowing
• 36:00
  that
• 36:00
  your
• 36:00
  woman
• 36:01
  beside
• 36:01
  you
• 36:01
  is
• 36:02
  a
• 36:02
  badass
• 36:03
  bitch.
• 36:03
  Right?
• 36:04
  Like,
• 36:04
  knowing
• 36:04
  that
• 36:05
  I'm
• 36:05
  not
• 36:05
  going
• 36:05
  to
• 36:05
  find
• 36:06
  anything
• 36:06
  better
• 36:06
  than
• 36:06
  her
• 36:07
  because
• 36:07
  she
• 36:07
  is
• 36:07
  amazing.
• 36:08
  Like,
• 36:09
  and
• 36:09
  so
• 36:09
  someone
• 36:09
  that's
• 36:10
  weak
• 36:10
  and
• 36:10
  going,
• 36:10
  oh,
• 36:11
  you
• 36:11
  can't
• 36:11
  go
• 36:11
  out.
• 36:11
  That
• 36:11
  woman's
• 36:12
  going
• 36:12
  to
• 36:12
  be
• 36:12
  there.
• 36:12
  That
• 36:12
  one's
• 36:13
  going
• 36:13
  to.
• 36:13
  That
• 36:13
  man's
• 36:13
  going
• 36:13
  to
• 36:14
  be
• 36:14
  there.
• 36:14
  It's
• 36:14
  so
• 36:15
  unattractive.
• 36:16
  So
• 36:16
  unattractive.
• 36:17
  Like,
• 36:18
  that
• 36:18
  just
• 36:18
  gives
• 36:18
  me
• 36:19
  the
• 36:19
  ick.
• 36:19
  Like,
• 36:20
  I
• 36:20
  would
• 36:20
  be
• 36:20
  gone
• 36:21
  because
• 36:21
  you're
• 36:22
  wet,
• 36:23
  not
• 36:23
  because
• 36:24
  he's
• 36:24
  so
• 36:25
  attractive.
• 36:26
  It
• 36:26
  shouldn't
• 36:26
  even
• 36:26
  be
• 36:26
  a
• 36:27
  consideration.
• 36:27
  Shouldn't
• 36:28
  be
• 36:28
  a
• 36:28
  consideration.
• 36:29
  You
• 36:30
  should
• 36:30
  be
• 36:30
  supportive.
• 36:31
  If
• 36:31
  I've
• 36:31
  just
• 36:31
  got
• 36:32
  divorced,
• 36:33
  like,
• 36:33
  scoop
• 36:34
  me
• 36:34
  up,
• 36:34
  take
• 36:35
  me
• 36:35
  out,
• 36:35
  introduce
• 36:36
  me
• 36:36
  to
• 36:36
  everyone,
• 36:36
  leave
• 36:37
  me
• 36:37
  at
• 36:37
  home.
• 36:37
  Because
• 36:37
  you
• 36:38
  can't
• 36:38
  cope
• 36:38
  with
• 36:38
  your
• 36:38
  own
• 36:39
  lives,
• 36:39
  right?
• 36:40
  Absolutely.
• 36:41
  So
• 36:41
  you
• 36:42
  didn't
• 36:42
  worry
• 36:42
  about
• 36:42
  getting
• 36:43
  into
• 36:43
  business
• 36:43
  with
• 36:44
  your
• 36:44
  friends?
• 36:45
  Well,
• 36:45
  I
• 36:45
  did,
• 36:46
  and
• 36:46
  I
• 36:47
  went
• 36:48
  all
• 36:48
  the
• 36:49
  other
• 36:49
  route,
• 36:49
  funnily
• 36:50
  enough.
• 36:50
  And
• 36:51
  at
• 36:51
  the
• 36:51
  very
• 36:51
  end,
• 36:52
  one
• 36:52
  of
• 36:53
  my.
• 36:54
  The
• 36:54
  husbands
• 36:54
  of
• 36:54
  one
• 36:55
  of
• 36:55
  my
• 36:55
  best
• 36:55
  girlfriends
• 36:56
  came
• 36:56
  up
• 36:56
  to
• 36:56
  me
• 36:56
  and
• 36:56
  said,
• 36:57
  why
• 36:57
  haven't
• 36:57
  you
• 36:57
  asked
• 36:57
  me?
• 36:58
  And
• 36:58
  I
• 36:58
  just
• 36:58
  said,
• 36:58
  because
• 36:59
  I
• 36:59
  don't
• 36:59
  really
• 36:59
  want
• 36:59
  to
• 36:59
  go
• 36:59
  into
• 37:00
  business
• 37:00
  with
• 37:00
  friends.
• 37:00
  I've
• 37:01
  never
• 37:01
  done
• 37:01
  business
• 37:01
  with
• 37:02
  friends.
• 37:02
  I
• 37:02
  was
• 37:03
  taught
• 37:03
  that
• 37:03
  very
• 37:03
  early
• 37:03
  on.
• 37:05
  And
• 37:05
  actually,
• 37:06
  I
• 37:06
  had
• 37:06
  such
• 37:06
  a
• 37:06
  horrible
• 37:07
  time
• 37:07
  with
• 37:07
  a
• 37:07
  fundamental.
• 37:08
  That
• 37:08
  I
• 37:08
  was
• 37:09
  like,
• 37:09
  okay,
• 37:09
  he
• 37:09
  Goes,
• 37:09
  but
• 37:10
  I
• 37:10
  want
• 37:10
  to
• 37:10
  invest.
• 37:11
  And
• 37:11
  I
• 37:11
  was
• 37:11
  like.
• 37:12
  And
• 37:12
  then
• 37:13
  one
• 37:13
  of
• 37:13
  my
• 37:13
  other
• 37:13
  best
• 37:14
  boyfriends
• 37:14
  said
• 37:14
  to
• 37:14
  me,
• 37:15
  you
• 37:15
  never
• 37:15
  asked
• 37:15
  me
• 37:15
  either.
• 37:16
  I
• 37:16
  want
• 37:16
  to
• 37:16
  invest.
• 37:17
  And
• 37:17
  it
• 37:18
  just
• 37:18
  happened.
• 37:18
  And
• 37:19
  let
• 37:19
  me
• 37:19
  tell
• 37:19
  you,
• 37:19
  it's
• 37:19
  been
• 37:20
  the
• 37:20
  easiest,
• 37:21
  most
• 37:22
  fun
• 37:23
  I've
• 37:23
  ever
• 37:23
  had.
• 37:24
  As
• 37:24
  I
• 37:24
  said,
• 37:25
  every
• 37:25
  time
• 37:25
  at
• 37:25
  the
• 37:26
  beginning
• 37:26
  they
• 37:26
  called
• 37:26
  me,
• 37:26
  I
• 37:27
  was
• 37:27
  like,
• 37:27
  no,
• 37:27
  no,
• 37:27
  I'm
• 37:27
  sending
• 37:28
  you
• 37:28
  a
• 37:28
  report
• 37:28
  now
• 37:28
  of
• 37:29
  what
• 37:29
  we've
• 37:29
  done.
• 37:29
  They're
• 37:29
  like,
• 37:30
  no,
• 37:30
  we
• 37:30
  just
• 37:30
  like,
• 37:30
  we're
• 37:31
  saying
• 37:31
  hi.
• 37:32
  They
• 37:32
  haven't
• 37:32
  even
• 37:33
  asked
• 37:33
  me.
• 37:34
  And
• 37:34
  they
• 37:34
  see
• 37:34
  all
• 37:34
  the
• 37:34
  videos.
• 37:35
  Absolutely
• 37:36
  loving
• 37:36
  it.
• 37:36
  It's
• 37:37
  been
• 37:37
  the
• 37:37
  dream.
• 37:38
  I
• 37:38
  mean,
• 37:38
  you
• 37:38
  know,
• 37:39
  I
• 37:39
  hope
• 37:39
  I'm
• 37:39
  not
• 37:39
  going
• 37:40
  to
• 37:40
  eat
• 37:40
  my
• 37:40
  words
• 37:40
  later,
• 37:41
  but
• 37:41
  this
• 37:41
  has
• 37:42
  been,
• 37:42
  I
• 37:42
  think,
• 37:43
  because
• 37:43
  they're
• 37:43
  the
• 37:43
  same
• 37:44
  age
• 37:44
  as
• 37:44
  me,
• 37:45
  they're
• 37:45
  successful
• 37:46
  businessmen,
• 37:47
  it's
• 37:47
  not
• 37:48
  huge
• 37:48
  investments.
• 37:49
  It's
• 37:49
  going
• 37:49
  to
• 37:50
  be
• 37:50
  like,
• 37:50
  if
• 37:50
  they
• 37:50
  lose
• 37:50
  it,
• 37:51
  they
• 37:52
  lost
• 37:52
  it,
• 37:52
  you
• 37:52
  know,
• 37:53
  God
• 37:53
  forbid,
• 37:53
  which.
• 37:54
  But
• 37:54
  if
• 37:54
  they
• 37:54
  lose
• 37:54
  it,
• 37:54
  I'm
• 37:55
  in
• 37:55
  trouble
• 37:55
  because
• 37:55
  I'm
• 37:55
  going
• 37:55
  to
• 37:56
  lose
• 37:56
  mine.
• 37:57
  And
• 37:57
  I
• 37:57
  invested
• 37:58
  a
• 37:58
  lot.
• 37:58
  You
• 37:59
  know,
• 37:59
  I
• 37:59
  think
• 37:59
  we're
• 37:59
  just
• 37:59
  all
• 38:00
  in
• 38:00
  it
• 38:00
  and
• 38:00
  enjoying
• 38:01
  it.
• 38:01
  And
• 38:01
  between
• 38:01
  us,
• 38:01
  we're
• 38:02
  all
• 38:02
  clever
• 38:02
  people.
• 38:02
  We're
• 38:03
  all
• 38:03
  like,
• 38:03
  okay,
• 38:03
  if
• 38:04
  you,
• 38:04
  if,
• 38:04
  if
• 38:04
  this,
• 38:04
  you
• 38:05
  know,
• 38:05
  if
• 38:05
  you
• 38:05
  need
• 38:05
  help
• 38:05
  here,
• 38:06
  I
• 38:06
  can
• 38:06
  help.
• 38:06
  If
• 38:06
  you
• 38:06
  need
• 38:07
  an
• 38:07
  introduction
• 38:07
  there,
• 38:08
  I
• 38:08
  can
• 38:08
  help
• 38:08
  one
• 38:09
  of
• 38:09
  the
• 38:09
  banker,
• 38:09
  one
• 38:10
  of
• 38:10
  them,
• 38:10
  a
• 38:10
  famous
• 38:11
  radio
• 38:11
  DJ
• 38:12
  here,
• 38:12
  you
• 38:13
  know,
• 38:13
  so
• 38:13
  between
• 38:13
  us,
• 38:14
  we
• 38:14
  know
• 38:14
  everybody
• 38:14
  and
• 38:14
  I
• 38:15
  think,
• 38:15
  you
• 38:15
  know,
• 38:16
  I
• 38:16
  don't
• 38:16
  know,
• 38:17
  it's
• 38:17
  been
• 38:17
  wonderful
• 38:18
  so
• 38:18
  far.
• 38:18
  Again,
• 38:18
  I'm
• 38:19
  only
• 38:20
  six
• 38:20
  months
• 38:20
  into
• 38:21
  being
• 38:21
  partners
• 38:21
  with
• 38:21
  them,
• 38:22
  but
• 38:22
  you
• 38:22
  never
• 38:22
  know.
• 38:22
  I
• 38:23
  started
• 38:23
  on
• 38:23
  my
• 38:23
  own
• 38:24
  and
• 38:24
  obviously
• 38:25
  as
• 38:25
  you
• 38:25
  go
• 38:25
  along,
• 38:26
  when
• 38:26
  they've
• 38:26
  seen
• 38:26
  it,
• 38:27
  and
• 38:27
  I
• 38:27
  feel
• 38:27
  really
• 38:27
  proud
• 38:28
  that
• 38:28
  as
• 38:28
  people
• 38:28
  that
• 38:29
  have
• 38:29
  watched
• 38:29
  me
• 38:29
  build
• 38:30
  it
• 38:30
  have
• 38:31
  all
• 38:31
  come
• 38:31
  and
• 38:32
  asked,
• 38:32
  you.
• 38:33
  Know,
• 38:33
  I
• 38:33
  also
• 38:33
  like
• 38:33
  the
• 38:34
  fact
• 38:34
  that
• 38:34
  you
• 38:34
  sort
• 38:34
  of
• 38:35
  dip
• 38:35
  in
• 38:35
  and
• 38:35
  dip
• 38:36
  out
• 38:36
  to
• 38:36
  reality
• 38:37
  tv,
• 38:37
  you
• 38:38
  know.
• 38:38
  Yes.
• 38:39
  You
• 38:39
  just
• 38:39
  did
• 38:39
  Traders.
• 38:40
  Like,
• 38:41
  is
• 38:41
  it
• 38:41
  something
• 38:41
  that
• 38:42
  you
• 38:42
  think
• 38:42
  that'll
• 38:42
  remain
• 38:43
  like
• 38:43
  you'll
• 38:44
  just
• 38:44
  keep
• 38:44
  doing
• 38:44
  these
• 38:45
  kind
• 38:45
  of
• 38:45
  like
• 38:45
  things
• 38:45
  that
• 38:46
  come
• 38:46
  your
• 38:46
  way,
• 38:47
  or
• 38:48
  would
• 38:48
  you
• 38:48
  want
• 38:48
  to
• 38:48
  be
• 38:48
  back
• 38:49
  on
• 38:49
  a
• 38:49
  full
• 38:49
  time,
• 38:50
  you
• 38:50
  know,
• 38:50
  reality
• 38:51
  show?
• 38:52
  Look,
• 38:52
  I've
• 38:52
  done
• 38:53
  it
• 38:53
  for,
• 38:53
  you
• 38:53
  know,
• 38:54
  on
• 38:54
  and
• 38:54
  off
• 38:54
  for
• 38:54
  many
• 38:55
  years
• 38:55
  now.
• 38:55
  And
• 38:55
  I
• 38:56
  think
• 38:56
  I've
• 38:56
  done
• 38:57
  everything.
• 38:57
  Do
• 38:58
  I
• 38:58
  want
• 38:58
  to
• 38:58
  go
• 38:59
  back
• 38:59
  into
• 38:59
  Housewives?
• 39:01
  I
• 39:01
  mean,
• 39:01
  you
• 39:01
  know,
• 39:02
  I
• 39:02
  always
• 39:02
  say
• 39:04
  I'm
• 39:04
  ready
• 39:04
  for
• 39:05
  the
• 39:05
  break.
• 39:06
  I
• 39:06
  think
• 39:06
  Housewives
• 39:07
  is
• 39:07
  particularly
• 39:08
  difficult
• 39:08
  one
• 39:08
  to
• 39:08
  do.
• 39:08
  It's
• 39:09
  really
• 39:09
  hard
• 39:09
  to
• 39:09
  film
• 39:10
  and
• 39:10
  I'm
• 39:10
  in
• 39:10
  a
• 39:10
  very
• 39:10
  difficult,
• 39:11
  I'm
• 39:11
  in
• 39:11
  a
• 39:11
  very
• 39:11
  positive
• 39:12
  positivity
• 39:13
  is
• 39:14
  my
• 39:15
  superpower.
• 39:15
  So
• 39:16
  I
• 39:16
  do
• 39:16
  find
• 39:16
  it
• 39:16
  hard
• 39:17
  to
• 39:17
  be
• 39:17
  in
• 39:17
  that
• 39:17
  sort
• 39:17
  of
• 39:18
  Very,
• 39:18
  very
• 39:19
  aggressive
• 39:19
  forum.
• 39:20
  But
• 39:21
  I
• 39:21
  do
• 39:21
  love
• 39:22
  reality
• 39:22
  tv
• 39:23
  and
• 39:23
  I'm
• 39:23
  good
• 39:23
  at
• 39:23
  it.
• 39:24
  I'm
• 39:24
  really
• 39:24
  good
• 39:24
  at
• 39:25
  it.
• 39:25
  So
• 39:25
  I,
• 39:25
  I
• 39:26
  do
• 39:26
  understand
• 39:27
  that,
• 39:27
  you
• 39:28
  know,
• 39:28
  I
• 39:28
  do.
• 39:28
  If,
• 39:29
  if
• 39:29
  the
• 39:29
  right
• 39:29
  offer
• 39:29
  comes
• 39:30
  along,
• 39:30
  of
• 39:30
  course
• 39:30
  I'll
• 39:31
  do
• 39:31
  it.
• 39:31
  But
• 39:31
  again,
• 39:31
  I'm
• 39:32
  not
• 39:32
  expecting
• 39:32
  a
• 39:33
  ton
• 39:33
  of
• 39:33
  offers.
• 39:33
  I
• 39:33
  live
• 39:34
  in
• 39:34
  the
• 39:34
  Middle
• 39:34
  east,
• 39:36
  you
• 39:36
  know,
• 39:37
  I'm
• 39:37
  fully
• 39:37
  involved
• 39:38
  in
• 39:38
  all
• 39:38
  the
• 39:38
  other
• 39:39
  things
• 39:39
  I
• 39:39
  do.
• 39:39
  And,
• 39:40
  you
• 39:40
  know,
• 39:41
  I'm,
• 39:41
  I've
• 39:41
  been
• 39:41
  really
• 39:42
  blessed
• 39:42
  that.
• 39:43
  Bravo
• 39:44
  just
• 39:44
  keep
• 39:44
  me
• 39:45
  in
• 39:45
  the
• 39:45
  loop.
• 39:45
  You
• 39:45
  know,
• 39:45
  they
• 39:45
  invite
• 39:46
  me
• 39:46
  to
• 39:46
  everything.
• 39:47
  They
• 39:47
  throw
• 39:47
  a
• 39:47
  show
• 39:48
  at
• 39:48
  me.
• 39:48
  A
• 39:49
  year,
• 39:49
  one
• 39:49
  show
• 39:49
  of,
• 39:50
  one
• 39:50
  show
• 39:50
  a
• 39:50
  year
• 39:51
  is
• 39:51
  enough
• 39:51
  for
• 39:51
  me
• 39:52
  because
• 39:53
  obviously
• 39:53
  it
• 39:54
  keeps
• 39:54
  you
• 39:54
  relevant,
• 39:55
  keeps
• 39:55
  you
• 39:55
  in
• 39:56
  doing
• 39:56
  what
• 39:56
  you
• 39:56
  do.
• 39:57
  I
• 39:57
  have
• 39:57
  a
• 39:57
  great
• 39:57
  platform
• 39:58
  for
• 39:58
  it,
• 39:59
  and
• 39:59
  that's
• 39:59
  it.
• 39:59
  So
• 40:00
  if
• 40:00
  I
• 40:00
  could
• 40:00
  get
• 40:00
  away
• 40:00
  with
• 40:01
  doing
• 40:01
  something
• 40:01
  like
• 40:01
  Traitors
• 40:02
  every
• 40:02
  year
• 40:02
  a
• 40:03
  different
• 40:03
  show
• 40:03
  like
• 40:03
  that,
• 40:04
  then
• 40:04
  of
• 40:04
  course,
• 40:05
  absolutely,
• 40:05
  I'm
• 40:05
  in.
• 40:06
  But
• 40:06
  if
• 40:06
  not,
• 40:07
  that's
• 40:07
  okay
• 40:07
  too.
• 40:08
  You
• 40:08
  know,
• 40:08
  I,
• 40:08
  I,
• 40:09
  there,
• 40:09
  there
• 40:09
  comes
• 40:10
  a
• 40:10
  time,
• 40:10
  I
• 40:10
  think
• 40:11
  I
• 40:11
  started
• 40:11
  reality
• 40:12
  TV
• 40:12
  at
• 40:13
  34,
• 40:15
  you
• 40:15
  know,
• 40:15
  which
• 40:16
  is
• 40:16
  when
• 40:17
  ladies
• 40:18
  came.
• 40:20
  So,
• 40:20
  you
• 40:20
  know,
• 40:21
  I've
• 40:21
  had
• 40:21
  a
• 40:21
  really
• 40:21
  good
• 40:22
  run
• 40:22
  of
• 40:22
  it,
• 40:22
  and
• 40:22
  I
• 40:22
  have
• 40:23
  a
• 40:23
  very
• 40:23
  nice
• 40:23
  life.
• 40:23
  I
• 40:24
  haven't
• 40:24
  been.
• 40:24
  Become
• 40:24
  a
• 40:25
  caricature
• 40:25
  of
• 40:25
  myself.
• 40:26
  I
• 40:27
  haven't
• 40:27
  really
• 40:28
  done
• 40:28
  something
• 40:28
  I
• 40:28
  can't
• 40:29
  recover
• 40:29
  from.
• 40:30
  Has
• 40:30
  it
• 40:30
  become
• 40:31
  less
• 40:31
  important
• 40:31
  to
• 40:32
  you
• 40:32
  as
• 40:32
  you've
• 40:32
  gotten
• 40:32
  older
• 40:33
  to
• 40:33
  kind
• 40:34
  of
• 40:34
  have
• 40:34
  that
• 40:34
  TV
• 40:35
  spotlight
• 40:35
  and
• 40:36
  do
• 40:36
  that
• 40:36
  kind
• 40:36
  of
• 40:36
  a
• 40:36
  thing?
• 40:37
  Of
• 40:37
  course.
• 40:37
  When
• 40:38
  I
• 40:38
  was
• 40:38
  in
• 40:38
  my
• 40:38
  30s,
• 40:39
  you
• 40:39
  know,
• 40:39
  being
• 40:40
  famous
• 40:40
  and,
• 40:41
  you
• 40:41
  know,
• 40:42
  running
• 40:42
  around
• 40:42
  when
• 40:42
  we
• 40:43
  had
• 40:43
  Ladies
• 40:43
  of
• 40:43
  London,
• 40:44
  it
• 40:44
  was
• 40:44
  so
• 40:44
  much
• 40:44
  fun.
• 40:45
  We
• 40:45
  would
• 40:45
  travel
• 40:45
  as
• 40:46
  little
• 40:46
  was
• 40:46
  like
• 40:46
  being
• 40:46
  in
• 40:47
  a
• 40:47
  girl
• 40:47
  band.
• 40:47
  Right.
• 40:48
  Was
• 40:48
  really,
• 40:49
  really
• 40:49
  fun.
• 40:49
  And
• 40:49
  we
• 40:49
  were
• 40:50
  one
• 40:50
  of
• 40:50
  the
• 40:50
  first
• 40:50
  in
• 40:50
  the
• 40:51
  UK
• 40:51
  to
• 40:51
  have
• 40:52
  that
• 40:52
  kind
• 40:52
  of
• 40:52
  thing.
• 40:53
  So
• 40:53
  people,
• 40:54
  it
• 40:54
  was
• 40:55
  really
• 40:55
  just,
• 40:55
  you
• 40:56
  know,
• 40:56
  lovely.
• 40:57
  But
• 40:57
  now,
• 40:58
  I
• 40:58
  mean,
• 40:59
  it's
• 40:59
  less
• 40:59
  and
• 40:59
  less
• 41:00
  important
• 41:00
  to
• 41:00
  me.
• 41:01
  I,
• 41:01
  you
• 41:01
  know,
• 41:01
  Sergio
• 41:02
  and
• 41:02
  I
• 41:02
  get
• 41:02
  recognized
• 41:04
  every
• 41:04
  day.
• 41:05
  Anyway,
• 41:05
  I
• 41:05
  think
• 41:05
  because
• 41:06
  we're
• 41:06
  a
• 41:06
  couple,
• 41:07
  we're
• 41:07
  also,
• 41:07
  you
• 41:08
  know,
• 41:08
  we're
• 41:08
  also
• 41:09
  so
• 41:09
  prolific
• 41:10
  on
• 41:10
  social
• 41:10
  media,
• 41:11
  I
• 41:11
  don't
• 41:11
  think
• 41:11
  it
• 41:11
  makes
• 41:11
  any
• 41:12
  difference.
• 41:12
  People
• 41:12
  feel
• 41:13
  like
• 41:13
  they're
• 41:13
  on
• 41:13
  a
• 41:13
  TV
• 41:13
  show
• 41:14
  with
• 41:14
  us
• 41:14
  anyway
• 41:14
  because
• 41:15
  we
• 41:15
  run
• 41:16
  our
• 41:16
  social
• 41:16
  media
• 41:17
  that
• 41:17
  way,
• 41:17
  and
• 41:18
  that's
• 41:18
  where
• 41:18
  our
• 41:18
  business
• 41:19
  comes
• 41:19
  from.
• 41:19
  So
• 41:19
  in
• 41:19
  a
• 41:19
  way,
• 41:20
  we
• 41:20
  have
• 41:20
  our
• 41:20
  own
• 41:20
  little
• 41:21
  TV
• 41:21
  channel.
• 41:22
  Yeah,
• 41:22
  you
• 41:22
  do.
• 41:22
  I
• 41:22
  mean,
• 41:23
  you
• 41:23
  get
• 41:23
  a
• 41:23
  peek
• 41:23
  into
• 41:23
  your
• 41:24
  life,
• 41:24
  like
• 41:24
  you're
• 41:24
  saying
• 41:25
  through
• 41:25
  your
• 41:25
  podcasts
• 41:26
  or
• 41:26
  your
• 41:26
  social
• 41:26
  media,
• 41:27
  because
• 41:27
  you're
• 41:27
  still
• 41:27
  in
• 41:28
  the
• 41:28
  spotlight,
• 41:29
  per
• 41:29
  se.
• 41:29
  Yeah,
• 41:30
  but
• 41:30
  it's
• 41:30
  different.
• 41:31
  You
• 41:31
  control
• 41:31
  it.
• 41:32
  I
• 41:32
  control
• 41:32
  it.
• 41:33
  I
• 41:33
  forget
• 41:33
  that
• 41:33
  I'm
• 41:34
  famous
• 41:34
  here
• 41:35
  because,
• 41:36
  you
• 41:36
  know,
• 41:36
  I've
• 41:36
  been
• 41:36
  in
• 41:37
  Dubai
• 41:37
  12
• 41:38
  years.
• 41:38
  I
• 41:38
  think
• 41:39
  it
• 41:39
  is
• 41:39
  now
• 41:39
  12.
• 41:40
  Do
• 41:40
  you
• 41:40
  love
• 41:40
  it?
• 41:41
  Do
• 41:41
  you
• 41:41
  love
• 41:41
  it?
• 41:42
  I
• 41:42
  love
• 41:42
  it,
• 41:42
  I
• 41:43
  love
• 41:43
  it.
• 41:43
  So
• 41:44
  I'm
• 41:44
  well
• 41:44
  known
• 41:44
  here
• 41:45
  regardless,
• 41:46
  you
• 41:46
  know,
• 41:46
  so
• 41:46
  people
• 41:46
  kind
• 41:46
  of
• 41:47
  leave
• 41:47
  me
• 41:47
  alone,
• 41:47
  like
• 41:48
  they.
• 41:48
  They
• 41:48
  know
• 41:48
  who
• 41:48
  I
• 41:49
  am
• 41:49
  and,
• 41:50
  you
• 41:50
  know,
• 41:50
  so
• 41:50
  it's
• 41:51
  not
• 41:51
  that
• 41:51
  crazy
• 41:52
  thing
• 41:52
  of
• 41:52
  screaming.
• 41:52
  Not
• 41:53
  like
• 41:53
  America,
• 41:53
  where
• 41:54
  they
• 41:54
  go,
• 41:54
  you
• 41:54
  know,
• 41:54
  bananas
• 41:55
  and
• 41:55
  run
• 41:55
  at
• 41:55
  you.
• 41:56
  Yeah.
• 41:56
  You
• 41:56
  were
• 41:56
  just
• 41:57
  in
• 41:57
  la,
• 41:57
  too,
• 41:57
  so
• 41:58
  you
• 41:58
  got
• 41:58
  a
• 41:58
  fair
• 41:58
  dose
• 41:58
  of
• 41:59
  the
• 42:00
  whole
• 42:00
  LA
• 42:01
  feel
• 42:01
  as
• 42:02
  well.
• 42:02
  Do
• 42:02
  you
• 42:02
  like
• 42:02
  coming
• 42:03
  here?
• 42:03
  I
• 42:03
  love
• 42:04
  coming
• 42:04
  to
• 42:04
  la.
• 42:04
  Of
• 42:04
  course
• 42:05
  I
• 42:05
  do.
• 42:05
  Yeah.
• 42:05
  So
• 42:06
  nice.
• 42:07
  My,
• 42:07
  you
• 42:07
  know,
• 42:07
  my
• 42:07
  best
• 42:08
  girlfriend's
• 42:08
  there
• 42:08
  and
• 42:09
  who
• 42:09
  I've
• 42:09
  been
• 42:09
  staying
• 42:10
  with
• 42:10
  since
• 42:10
  Ladies
• 42:11
  of
• 42:11
  London,
• 42:11
  so
• 42:12
  that's
• 42:12
  always
• 42:12
  fun.
• 42:13
  Yeah.
• 42:13
  So
• 42:13
  she's
• 42:14
  a
• 42:14
  sister
• 42:14
  to
• 42:15
  my
• 42:15
  best
• 42:15
  friend.
• 42:16
  She
• 42:16
  is.
• 42:17
  Yes,
• 42:17
  yes,
• 42:18
  yes,
• 42:18
  I
• 42:19
  know.
• 42:19
  It's
• 42:20
  all
• 42:20
  in
• 42:20
  the
• 42:20
  family.
• 42:21
  So
• 42:22
  a
• 42:22
  little
• 42:22
  birdie
• 42:23
  told
• 42:23
  me,
• 42:23
  maybe
• 42:24
  social
• 42:24
  media,
• 42:24
  that
• 42:25
  you're
• 42:25
  thinking
• 42:25
  about
• 42:26
  having
• 42:27
  a
• 42:27
  surrogate
• 42:29
  baby
• 42:30
  coming
• 42:30
  up.
• 42:31
  Is
• 42:31
  this
• 42:32
  true?
• 42:32
  Yes,
• 42:34
  we
• 42:34
  are
• 42:35
  thinking
• 42:35
  we
• 42:35
  have
• 42:35
  a
• 42:36
  little
• 42:36
  boy
• 42:36
  on
• 42:36
  ice,
• 42:37
  and
• 42:37
  it's
• 42:38
  just
• 42:38
  whether
• 42:38
  we
• 42:38
  pull
• 42:39
  the
• 42:39
  trigger
• 42:39
  or
• 42:39
  not,
• 42:39
  we're
• 42:39
  up
• 42:40
  and
• 42:40
  down
• 42:40
  because
• 42:40
  we
• 42:41
  love
• 42:41
  being
• 42:41
  the
• 42:41
  two
• 42:41
  of
• 42:42
  us.
• 42:42
  But
• 42:43
  Sergio
• 42:43
  is,
• 42:44
  you
• 42:44
  know,
• 42:44
  dying
• 42:45
  for
• 42:45
  his
• 42:45
  own
• 42:46
  children,
• 42:46
  and
• 42:46
  I
• 42:46
  understand
• 42:47
  that.
• 42:47
  And
• 42:47
  he
• 42:47
  knows
• 42:48
  we've
• 42:48
  only
• 42:48
  got
• 42:48
  one
• 42:48
  shot,
• 42:49
  so
• 42:49
  I
• 42:49
  think
• 42:49
  he
• 42:50
  kind
• 42:50
  of
• 42:50
  feels
• 42:50
  maybe
• 42:51
  we
• 42:51
  try
• 42:51
  the
• 42:51
  one
• 42:52
  shot
• 42:52
  and
• 42:52
  see
• 42:52
  what
• 42:52
  happens.
• 42:53
  If.
• 42:53
  If
• 42:54
  God
• 42:54
  wants
• 42:54
  him
• 42:54
  to
• 42:54
  have
• 42:55
  a
• 42:55
  baby,
• 42:55
  he'll
• 42:55
  have
• 42:55
  a
• 42:55
  baby.
• 42:56
  So
• 42:56
  if
• 42:56
  anything
• 42:57
  is
• 42:57
  holding
• 42:57
  you
• 42:57
  back,
• 42:58
  what
• 42:58
  is
• 42:58
  it?
• 42:59
  Or
• 42:59
  if
• 43:00
  anything
• 43:00
  is,
• 43:00
  like,
• 43:00
  making
• 43:01
  you
• 43:01
  hesitate?
• 43:02
  For
• 43:02
  me,
• 43:02
  I
• 43:02
  feel
• 43:02
  like
• 43:03
  my
• 43:03
  kids
• 43:03
  are
• 43:03
  going
• 43:03
  to
• 43:04
  have
• 43:04
  kids,
• 43:04
  so
• 43:04
  we'll
• 43:05
  end
• 43:05
  up
• 43:05
  with
• 43:05
  grandchildren
• 43:06
  anyway,
• 43:07
  and
• 43:08
  I
• 43:09
  don't
• 43:09
  know
• 43:09
  if
• 43:09
  I
• 43:09
  have
• 43:09
  the
• 43:10
  patience
• 43:10
  at
• 43:10
  this
• 43:11
  age
• 43:11
  to
• 43:11
  do
• 43:12
  it,
• 43:12
  you
• 43:12
  know,
• 43:12
  but
• 43:12
  then
• 43:13
  I
• 43:13
  do
• 43:13
  have
• 43:13
  a
• 43:13
  lot
• 43:13
  of
• 43:13
  patience.
• 43:15
  You
• 43:16
  know,
• 43:16
  I've
• 43:16
  got.
• 43:17
  Essentially,
• 43:18
  my
• 43:18
  husband
• 43:18
  is
• 43:19
  like
• 43:19
  having
• 43:19
  another
• 43:19
  teenager
• 43:20
  in
• 43:20
  the
• 43:20
  house
• 43:20
  because
• 43:21
  he's
• 43:21
  just
• 43:21
  so
• 43:21
  fun.
• 43:22
  So
• 43:22
  I've
• 43:23
  got
• 43:23
  all.
• 43:23
  I've
• 43:23
  got
• 43:24
  three
• 43:24
  giant
• 43:25
  men
• 43:25
  that
• 43:25
  live
• 43:26
  with
• 43:26
  me
• 43:26
  now.
• 43:27
  So
• 43:27
  maybe
• 43:28
  I
• 43:28
  do.
• 43:28
  I
• 43:28
  have
• 43:28
  a
• 43:28
  lot
• 43:29
  of
• 43:29
  patience.
• 43:29
  You
• 43:29
  know,
• 43:30
  we
• 43:30
  have
• 43:30
  a
• 43:30
  very
• 43:30
  young
• 43:31
  house,
• 43:31
  like
• 43:32
  my.
• 43:33
  We
• 43:33
  pump
• 43:33
  music
• 43:34
  through
• 43:34
  the
• 43:34
  house
• 43:35
  in
• 43:35
  the
• 43:35
  mornings,
• 43:35
  we
• 43:35
  have
• 43:36
  our
• 43:36
  coffee.
• 43:36
  I
• 43:36
  live
• 43:36
  a
• 43:37
  very
• 43:37
  young
• 43:37
  life
• 43:38
  with
• 43:38
  my
• 43:38
  two
• 43:38
  sons,
• 43:39
  who
• 43:39
  are
• 43:39
  also
• 43:40
  taller
• 43:40
  than
• 43:40
  my
• 43:40
  husband.
• 43:42
  So,
• 43:42
  you
• 43:42
  know,
• 43:42
  the
• 43:43
  whole
• 43:43
  house
• 43:43
  is
• 43:43
  filled
• 43:44
  with
• 43:44
  laughter
• 43:44
  and
• 43:45
  crazy.
• 43:45
  And
• 43:45
  as
• 43:46
  I
• 43:46
  said,
• 43:46
  they've
• 43:46
  all
• 43:46
  gone
• 43:46
  to
• 43:46
  paddle
• 43:47
  now.
• 43:48
  And
• 43:48
  last
• 43:48
  night
• 43:48
  we
• 43:49
  were
• 43:49
  on
• 43:49
  the
• 43:49
  beach
• 43:49
  together,
• 43:50
  so,
• 43:50
  you
• 43:50
  know,
• 43:52
  maybe
• 43:53
  I
• 43:53
  could
• 43:53
  do
• 43:53
  it.
• 43:54
  You
• 43:54
  know,
• 43:54
  I've
• 43:54
  got
• 43:54
  three
• 43:54
  dogs
• 43:55
  as
• 43:55
  well
• 43:55
  who
• 43:55
  are
• 43:56
  chaos.
• 43:58
  One's
• 43:58
  snoring
• 43:58
  under
• 43:59
  the
• 43:59
  table,
• 43:59
  but
• 44:00
  so,
• 44:00
  you
• 44:01
  know,
• 44:01
  I
• 44:01
  Just
• 44:01
  think
• 44:01
  that
• 44:02
  I
• 44:02
  want
• 44:02
  to
• 44:02
  wind
• 44:03
  down,
• 44:03
  but
• 44:03
  then
• 44:03
  I
• 44:04
  don't
• 44:04
  ever
• 44:04
  wind
• 44:05
  down.
• 44:05
  So
• 44:05
  maybe
• 44:06
  a
• 44:06
  baby
• 44:06
  is
• 44:06
  like,
• 44:07
  why
• 44:07
  not?
• 44:07
  Do
• 44:08
  you
• 44:08
  think
• 44:08
  you'd
• 44:08
  do
• 44:08
  it
• 44:08
  differently
• 44:09
  this
• 44:09
  time
• 44:09
  around?
• 44:10
  Well,
• 44:11
  I
• 44:11
  don't
• 44:11
  go
• 44:11
  to
• 44:11
  an
• 44:11
  office
• 44:12
  anymore,
• 44:12
  so
• 44:12
  that
• 44:13
  would
• 44:13
  be
• 44:13
  different.
• 44:14
  I
• 44:14
  have
• 44:14
  a
• 44:14
  lot,
• 44:15
  a
• 44:15
  lot
• 44:15
  of
• 44:15
  help
• 44:16
  here
• 44:16
  because
• 44:16
  we're
• 44:17
  in
• 44:17
  the
• 44:17
  Middle
• 44:17
  East.
• 44:18
  That's
• 44:18
  key.
• 44:19
  Yeah.
• 44:20
  Would
• 44:20
  I
• 44:20
  do
• 44:20
  it
• 44:20
  differently?
• 44:21
  I
• 44:22
  don't
• 44:22
  know.
• 44:22
  Everyone
• 44:23
  keeps
• 44:23
  that
• 44:23
  sick
• 44:24
  saying
• 44:24
  to
• 44:24
  me.
• 44:24
  It
• 44:24
  probably
• 44:24
  would
• 44:25
  be
• 44:25
  very
• 44:25
  different
• 44:25
  because
• 44:26
  I
• 44:26
  had
• 44:27
  so
• 44:27
  much
• 44:27
  responsibility
• 44:28
  when
• 44:28
  I
• 44:28
  had
• 44:29
  my
• 44:29
  twins,
• 44:29
  you
• 44:30
  know,
• 44:30
  I
• 44:30
  was
• 44:30
  running
• 44:31
  such
• 44:31
  a
• 44:31
  big
• 44:31
  company
• 44:33
  and
• 44:34
  you
• 44:34
  know,
• 44:34
  I
• 44:35
  was
• 44:35
  the
• 44:35
  CEO
• 44:36
  and
• 44:36
  you
• 44:36
  know,
• 44:36
  I
• 44:37
  had
• 44:37
  $22
• 44:38
  billion
• 44:39
  worth
• 44:39
  of
• 44:40
  funds
• 44:41
  that
• 44:41
  had
• 44:41
  invested
• 44:42
  in
• 44:42
  me,
• 44:43
  you
• 44:43
  know,
• 44:43
  two
• 44:43
  big.
• 44:44
  One
• 44:44
  of.
• 44:44
  Two
• 44:44
  of
• 44:45
  the
• 44:45
  biggest
• 44:45
  funds
• 44:45
  in
• 44:45
  Europe,
• 44:46
  to
• 44:46
  be
• 44:46
  honest.
• 44:46
  So,
• 44:47
  you
• 44:47
  know,
• 44:47
  I
• 44:47
  didn't
• 44:48
  have
• 44:49
  the,
• 44:50
  you
• 44:50
  know,
• 44:51
  I
• 44:51
  wasn't
• 44:51
  able
• 44:52
  just
• 44:52
  to
• 44:52
  take
• 44:52
  time
• 44:53
  off
• 44:53
  and
• 44:53
  relax
• 44:53
  like
• 44:54
  that.
• 44:54
  So
• 44:54
  maybe
• 44:55
  I
• 44:55
  would
• 44:55
  enjoy
• 44:55
  it
• 44:55
  more
• 44:56
  because
• 44:56
  it
• 44:56
  would
• 44:56
  be
• 44:56
  on
• 44:56
  my
• 44:57
  terms.
• 44:57
  I
• 44:57
  don't
• 44:57
  know.
• 44:58
  But
• 44:58
  I
• 44:58
  mean,
• 44:58
  I
• 44:58
  also,
• 44:59
  on
• 44:59
  the
• 44:59
  other
• 44:59
  hand,
• 44:59
  think
• 45:00
  maybe
• 45:00
  I'd
• 45:00
  hate
• 45:00
  it
• 45:01
  because
• 45:01
  I,
• 45:01
  you
• 45:02
  know,
• 45:02
  I'm,
• 45:02
  I
• 45:03
  feel
• 45:03
  like
• 45:03
  I'm
• 45:03
  done.
• 45:03
  I
• 45:04
  brought
• 45:04
  up
• 45:04
  my
• 45:04
  children,
• 45:04
  they're
• 45:05
  all
• 45:05
  leaving
• 45:05
  and
• 45:05
  it's,
• 45:06
  you
• 45:06
  know,
• 45:06
  I'm
• 45:06
  not
• 45:07
  scared
• 45:07
  to
• 45:07
  be
• 45:08
  on
• 45:08
  my
• 45:08
  own.
• 45:08
  I
• 45:08
  don't
• 45:09
  mind
• 45:09
  to
• 45:09
  be
• 45:09
  an
• 45:09
  empty
• 45:10
  nester
• 45:10
  because
• 45:10
  I
• 45:10
  know
• 45:11
  they'll
• 45:11
  be
• 45:11
  home
• 45:11
  on
• 45:11
  weekends.
• 45:12
  I
• 45:12
  mean,
• 45:12
  I
• 45:12
  can't
• 45:12
  get
• 45:13
  my
• 45:13
  daughter,
• 45:13
  My
• 45:13
  daughter's
• 45:14
  coming
• 45:14
  back
• 45:14
  next
• 45:14
  year.
• 45:15
  She
• 45:15
  comes
• 45:16
  back
• 45:16
  every
• 45:16
  holiday
• 45:17
  we're
• 45:17
  going
• 45:17
  away
• 45:17
  for
• 45:18
  summer
• 45:19
  together.
• 45:19
  I
• 45:19
  mean,
• 45:20
  you
• 45:20
  know,
• 45:20
  I,
• 45:21
  maybe
• 45:21
  I
• 45:21
  quite
• 45:22
  like
• 45:22
  the
• 45:23
  chance
• 45:23
  to
• 45:23
  get
• 45:23
  a
• 45:23
  bit
• 45:24
  lonely.
• 45:25
  They
• 45:25
  all
• 45:25
  migrate
• 45:26
  back
• 45:27
  to
• 45:27
  my
• 45:27
  house.
• 45:28
  And
• 45:28
  that's
• 45:28
  what
• 45:28
  you
• 45:29
  want,
• 45:29
  that's
• 45:29
  the
• 45:29
  hope,
• 45:29
  right,
• 45:30
  that
• 45:30
  once
• 45:30
  they
• 45:31
  leave,
• 45:31
  they'll
• 45:31
  come
• 45:31
  back.
• 45:31
  And
• 45:32
  clearly,
• 45:32
  you
• 45:33
  know,
• 45:33
  for
• 45:33
  you
• 45:33
  it's
• 45:33
  happening.
• 45:34
  I
• 45:34
  have
• 45:34
  a,
• 45:34
  an
• 45:35
  11
• 45:35
  year
• 45:35
  old
• 45:35
  and
• 45:36
  so
• 45:36
  we're
• 45:36
  kind
• 45:36
  of
• 45:36
  emerging
• 45:37
  like
• 45:37
  those
• 45:38
  preteen
• 45:39
  years
• 45:39
  are
• 45:40
  happening
• 45:40
  now.
• 45:41
  And
• 45:41
  I
• 45:41
  mean,
• 45:41
  I
• 45:42
  think
• 45:42
  about
• 45:42
  her
• 45:42
  leaving
• 45:43
  and
• 45:43
  it's
• 45:44
  makes
• 45:44
  me
• 45:44
  sad.
• 45:45
  I
• 45:45
  know
• 45:45
  it's
• 45:45
  a
• 45:45
  part
• 45:45
  of
• 45:46
  her
• 45:46
  growing
• 45:47
  up
• 45:47
  and
• 45:48
  fighting
• 45:48
  her
• 45:48
  independence.
• 45:49
  But
• 45:49
  I
• 45:49
  do
• 45:49
  hope
• 45:50
  she'll
• 45:50
  come
• 45:50
  back.
• 45:51
  They
• 45:51
  come
• 45:51
  back,
• 45:52
  they
• 45:52
  come
• 45:52
  back.
• 45:53
  Even
• 45:53
  in
• 45:53
  the
• 45:54
  divorce
• 45:54
  they're
• 45:54
  meant
• 45:54
  to
• 45:54
  go
• 45:55
  every
• 45:55
  other
• 45:55
  weekend
• 45:56
  to
• 45:56
  the
• 45:56
  father
• 45:56
  and
• 45:56
  they
• 45:57
  end
• 45:57
  up
• 45:57
  here
• 45:57
  every
• 45:58
  weekend.
• 45:59
  Every
• 45:59
  weekend
• 45:59
  they
• 45:59
  migrate
• 46:00
  back
• 46:00
  because.
• 46:01
  Yeah,
• 46:02
  I
• 46:02
  have
• 46:02
  a
• 46:02
  party
• 46:02
  house,
• 46:03
  apparently.
• 46:04
  Well,
• 46:04
  that's
• 46:04
  good.
• 46:04
  You
• 46:04
  keep
• 46:05
  an
• 46:05
  eye
• 46:05
  on
• 46:05
  things
• 46:05
  on.
• 46:06
  Yeah,
• 46:06
  you
• 46:07
  know,
• 46:07
  that's
• 46:07
  the
• 46:07
  idea.
• 46:08
  But
• 46:08
  what
• 46:08
  advice
• 46:09
  do
• 46:09
  you
• 46:09
  have
• 46:09
  for
• 46:09
  me?
• 46:09
  Would
• 46:09
  the
• 46:10
  emerging
• 46:11
  teenage
• 46:11
  daughter
• 46:12
  duck?
• 46:14
  Duck?
• 46:15
  I
• 46:15
  can't
• 46:16
  tell
• 46:16
  you.
• 46:16
  It
• 46:16
  Was.
• 46:17
  I
• 46:17
  had
• 46:17
  a
• 46:17
  very
• 46:17
  difficult
• 46:18
  relationship
• 46:18
  with
• 46:19
  my
• 46:19
  daughter
• 46:20
  for
• 46:20
  quite
• 46:20
  a
• 46:20
  while.
• 46:21
  And,
• 46:21
  you
• 46:22
  know,
• 46:22
  it's
• 46:22
  only
• 46:22
  been.
• 46:23
  Since
• 46:23
  she's
• 46:23
  really
• 46:23
  gone
• 46:24
  back
• 46:24
  to
• 46:24
  school.
• 46:25
  I
• 46:26
  think
• 46:26
  she
• 46:26
  says
• 46:26
  it's
• 46:27
  just
• 46:27
  because
• 46:27
  we're
• 46:27
  very
• 46:27
  similar,
• 46:28
  so
• 46:28
  we
• 46:28
  clash
• 46:29
  on
• 46:29
  a
• 46:29
  lot
• 46:29
  of
• 46:30
  things.
• 46:31
  But
• 46:32
  I
• 46:32
  say
• 46:32
  it's
• 46:32
  black,
• 46:32
  she
• 46:33
  says
• 46:33
  it's
• 46:33
  white.
• 46:34
  She's
• 46:34
  strong,
• 46:35
  headstrong,
• 46:36
  tough.
• 46:38
  But,
• 46:38
  you
• 46:38
  know,
• 46:39
  now
• 46:39
  she's
• 46:40
  20
• 46:42
  and,
• 46:42
  you
• 46:42
  know,
• 46:43
  she's
• 46:43
  coming
• 46:43
  for
• 46:43
  summer
• 46:44
  with
• 46:44
  me
• 46:44
  now.
• 46:45
  It's
• 46:45
  getting
• 46:45
  good
• 46:45
  again,
• 46:46
  I
• 46:46
  think.
• 46:47
  I
• 46:47
  feel
• 46:47
  like
• 46:47
  she's
• 46:48
  softening,
• 46:49
  but,
• 46:49
  you
• 46:50
  know,
• 46:50
  they
• 46:50
  say
• 46:50
  20
• 46:51
  to
• 46:51
  21,
• 46:51
  you
• 46:51
  get
• 46:52
  them
• 46:52
  back.
• 46:53
  So,
• 46:53
  you
• 46:53
  know,
• 46:54
  I
• 46:54
  think
• 46:55
  she
• 46:55
  now
• 46:55
  understands
• 46:56
  me
• 46:57
  a
• 46:57
  little
• 46:57
  bit
• 46:57
  more.
• 46:57
  But
• 46:58
  she
• 46:58
  was
• 46:58
  my
• 46:58
  toughest
• 46:59
  one,
• 46:59
  and
• 46:59
  she.
• 47:00
  She's
• 47:00
  fully
• 47:00
  aware
• 47:01
  of
• 47:01
  that.
• 47:02
  She
• 47:02
  is.
• 47:02
  But
• 47:02
  then
• 47:03
  you
• 47:03
  guys
• 47:03
  are
• 47:03
  going
• 47:03
  to
• 47:03
  come
• 47:03
  back
• 47:03
  and
• 47:04
  be
• 47:04
  best
• 47:04
  friends
• 47:04
  again.
• 47:05
  Yes,
• 47:06
  we
• 47:06
  will.
• 47:06
  And
• 47:06
  my.
• 47:07
  You
• 47:07
  know,
• 47:07
  and
• 47:07
  that's
• 47:08
  it.
• 47:08
  And
• 47:08
  my
• 47:08
  sons.
• 47:09
  My
• 47:09
  sons
• 47:09
  are
• 47:09
  amazing.
• 47:10
  Every
• 47:10
  day,
• 47:11
  they.
• 47:11
  Even
• 47:11
  at
• 47:12
  16,
• 47:13
  they
• 47:13
  tell
• 47:13
  me
• 47:14
  before
• 47:14
  we
• 47:14
  go
• 47:14
  to,
• 47:15
  every,
• 47:15
  probably
• 47:16
  20
• 47:16
  times
• 47:16
  a
• 47:16
  day,
• 47:17
  they
• 47:17
  love
• 47:17
  me
• 47:17
  at
• 47:18
  least.
• 47:19
  Mom,
• 47:19
  I
• 47:20
  love
• 47:20
  you,
• 47:20
  Mom,
• 47:20
  I
• 47:20
  love
• 47:21
  you
• 47:21
  all
• 47:22
  day
• 47:22
  long.
• 47:22
  That's
• 47:23
  amazing
• 47:23
  that
• 47:23
  they
• 47:24
  emote
• 47:24
  their
• 47:24
  feelings
• 47:25
  like
• 47:25
  that,
• 47:25
  because
• 47:25
  a
• 47:26
  lot
• 47:26
  of
• 47:26
  boys
• 47:26
  don't.
• 47:26
  They
• 47:27
  don't.
• 47:27
  And
• 47:28
  even
• 47:28
  when
• 47:28
  their
• 47:28
  friends
• 47:28
  are
• 47:29
  here,
• 47:29
  they'll
• 47:29
  go,
• 47:29
  bye,
• 47:30
  Mom.
• 47:30
  Love
• 47:30
  you
• 47:31
  all
• 47:31
  the
• 47:31
  time.
• 47:31
  In
• 47:32
  front
• 47:32
  of
• 47:32
  the
• 47:32
  friends.
• 47:32
  In
• 47:33
  front
• 47:33
  of
• 47:33
  all
• 47:33
  their
• 47:33
  friends.
• 47:34
  Okay,
• 47:35
  you
• 47:35
  did
• 47:35
  something
• 47:36
  right
• 47:36
  then.
• 47:36
  Yeah.
• 47:37
  Yeah.
• 47:38
  I'm
• 47:39
  shocked
• 47:39
  because
• 47:39
  I
• 47:39
  would
• 47:40
  never
• 47:40
  do
• 47:40
  that
• 47:40
  to
• 47:40
  my
• 47:41
  parents
• 47:41
  ever.
• 47:41
  So
• 47:42
  I
• 47:42
  don't
• 47:42
  know
• 47:42
  what
• 47:42
  I've
• 47:42
  done,
• 47:43
  but
• 47:43
  it's
• 47:43
  like
• 47:44
  the
• 47:44
  dream.
• 47:45
  And
• 47:45
  they
• 47:45
  always
• 47:46
  come
• 47:46
  in
• 47:46
  and
• 47:46
  cuddle
• 47:47
  me
• 47:47
  and
• 47:47
  give
• 47:47
  me
• 47:48
  love,
• 47:48
  or
• 47:48
  sit
• 47:48
  in
• 47:49
  my
• 47:49
  bed
• 47:49
  and
• 47:49
  sit
• 47:50
  with
• 47:50
  me
• 47:50
  and
• 47:50
  chat
• 47:50
  to
• 47:51
  me.
• 47:51
  They
• 47:51
  like,
• 47:52
  even
• 47:52
  when
• 47:52
  their
• 47:52
  friends
• 47:53
  are
• 47:53
  here,
• 47:53
  they
• 47:53
  come
• 47:53
  to
• 47:54
  my
• 47:54
  room
• 47:54
  and
• 47:54
  sit
• 47:54
  in
• 47:55
  my
• 47:55
  bed.
• 47:55
  So
• 47:55
  cute.
• 47:56
  That
• 47:56
  is
• 47:56
  so
• 47:57
  sweet.
• 47:57
  That's
• 47:58
  so
• 47:58
  sweet.
• 47:58
  And
• 47:58
  your.
• 47:58
  Your
• 47:59
  husband
• 47:59
  seems
• 48:00
  to
• 48:00
  get
• 48:00
  along
• 48:00
  with
• 48:00
  them.
• 48:01
  Amazing.
• 48:02
  Yeah.
• 48:02
  Really,
• 48:03
  really
• 48:03
  nice.
• 48:03
  The
• 48:04
  cohesiveness,
• 48:04
  that's
• 48:05
  like,
• 48:05
  what
• 48:05
  you
• 48:05
  want,
• 48:05
  you
• 48:06
  know?
• 48:06
  Yeah.
• 48:06
  That
• 48:07
  took
• 48:07
  a
• 48:07
  long
• 48:07
  time.
• 48:07
  That
• 48:07
  took
• 48:08
  a
• 48:08
  while.
• 48:08
  So
• 48:08
  there
• 48:09
  was,
• 48:09
  like,
• 48:09
  growing
• 48:09
  pains
• 48:10
  and
• 48:10
  a
• 48:10
  little
• 48:10
  bit
• 48:11
  of,
• 48:11
  like,
• 48:11
  up
• 48:11
  and
• 48:11
  down.
• 48:12
  Yeah.
• 48:12
  Yeah.
• 48:13
  It's.
• 48:14
  It's
• 48:14
  never
• 48:14
  easy
• 48:15
  to
• 48:15
  blend
• 48:15
  a
• 48:15
  family,
• 48:15
  but
• 48:16
  I
• 48:16
  will
• 48:16
  say
• 48:17
  that
• 48:17
  now
• 48:18
  it
• 48:19
  is
• 48:19
  the
• 48:19
  dream.
• 48:20
  Now.
• 48:20
  They.
• 48:21
  The
• 48:21
  boys
• 48:22
  love
• 48:22
  him.
• 48:23
  Yasmin
• 48:24
  and
• 48:24
  him
• 48:24
  had
• 48:24
  the
• 48:24
  biggest
• 48:25
  fights,
• 48:26
  I
• 48:26
  think.
• 48:26
  But
• 48:27
  now
• 48:27
  she
• 48:28
  is
• 48:28
  also
• 48:29
  amazing
• 48:29
  with
• 48:30
  him,
• 48:30
  so
• 48:30
  I
• 48:30
  can't
• 48:31
  complain
• 48:31
  at
• 48:31
  all.
• 48:32
  Oh,
• 48:32
  that's
• 48:32
  amazing.
• 48:33
  How
• 48:33
  are
• 48:33
  you
• 48:33
  living
• 48:34
  iconically
• 48:34
  right
• 48:34
  now?
• 48:35
  Oh,
• 48:35
  so
• 48:36
  many
• 48:36
  ways,
• 48:37
  I
• 48:37
  think.
• 48:37
  Iconically
• 48:38
  right
• 48:38
  now,
• 48:39
  I
• 48:39
  said
• 48:39
  I've.
• 48:40
  I
• 48:41
  live
• 48:41
  in
• 48:41
  this,
• 48:41
  you
• 48:41
  can
• 48:42
  see
• 48:42
  a
• 48:42
  pink
• 48:42
  house
• 48:43
  with
• 48:43
  a
• 48:43
  pink
• 48:43
  Bentley
• 48:44
  with
• 48:44
  pink
• 48:44
  golf
• 48:45
  cart,
• 48:45
  with
• 48:46
  a
• 48:46
  husband
• 48:46
  20
• 48:47
  years
• 48:47
  younger
• 48:48
  than
• 48:48
  me
• 48:48
  with
• 48:48
  very
• 48:48
  happy
• 48:49
  children,
• 48:50
  with.
• 48:50
  You
• 48:51
  know,
• 48:52
  how
• 48:52
  is
• 48:52
  this
• 48:52
  not.
• 48:53
  Not
• 48:53
  iconic?
• 48:54
  It's
• 48:54
  iconic.
• 48:55
  Pink
• 48:56
  palace.
• 48:56
  Yeah.
• 48:57
  I
• 48:57
  live
• 48:57
  in
• 48:57
  Barbie's
• 48:58
  pink
• 48:58
  house.
• 48:58
  And.
• 48:59
  Because
• 48:59
  I
• 48:59
  can't.
• 49:00
  Yeah,
• 49:00
  because
• 49:01
  you
• 49:01
  can't.
• 49:01
  Because
• 49:01
  you.
• 49:02
  You
• 49:02
  made
• 49:02
  the
• 49:02
  change.
• 49:03
  You
• 49:03
  did
• 49:03
  the
• 49:03
  uncomfortable
• 49:04
  step.
• 49:05
  Yeah.
• 49:05
  And
• 49:06
  that's
• 49:06
  sometimes
• 49:06
  all
• 49:07
  it
• 49:07
  takes.
• 49:07
  Like,
• 49:07
  you
• 49:08
  really.
• 49:08
  You
• 49:09
  just
• 49:09
  have
• 49:09
  to
• 49:09
  do
• 49:09
  it.
• 49:10
  You
• 49:10
  just
• 49:10
  have
• 49:10
  to
• 49:10
  make
• 49:11
  the
• 49:11
  step.
• 49:11
  Yep.
• 49:12
  The
• 49:12
  hardest
• 49:13
  thing
• 49:13
  is
• 49:13
  just
• 49:13
  to
• 49:13
  start.
• 49:14
  So
• 49:14
  what
• 49:14
  advice
• 49:15
  would
• 49:15
  you
• 49:15
  say
• 49:15
  to
• 49:15
  somebody
• 49:16
  listening
• 49:16
  right
• 49:16
  now
• 49:17
  that's
• 49:17
  scared
• 49:17
  to.
• 49:18
  Start,
• 49:18
  start,
• 49:19
  start,
• 49:20
  or
• 49:20
  come
• 49:20
  to
• 49:20
  one
• 49:20
  of
• 49:20
  my
• 49:21
  retreats
• 49:21
  and
• 49:21
  I'll
• 49:21
  kick
• 49:22
  you
• 49:22
  out.
• 49:22
  This
• 49:22
  the
• 49:23
  thing
• 49:23
  to
• 49:24
  start?
• 49:24
  Yes.
• 49:25
  By
• 49:25
  the
• 49:25
  way,
• 49:25
  those
• 49:26
  retreats
• 49:26
  look
• 49:26
  fucking
• 49:27
  amazing.
• 49:27
  Hello,
• 49:27
  Bali.
• 49:28
  They
• 49:28
  are.
• 49:29
  Which
• 49:29
  one
• 49:29
  is
• 49:29
  the
• 49:30
  next
• 49:30
  one
• 49:30
  coming
• 49:30
  up?
• 49:31
  Bali,
• 49:32
  girl.
• 49:32
  You
• 49:32
  might
• 49:32
  be
• 49:33
  seeing
• 49:33
  me
• 49:33
  there.
• 49:34
  Oh,
• 49:35
  you
• 49:35
  should
• 49:35
  come.
• 49:35
  You
• 49:36
  meet
• 49:36
  amazing
• 49:36
  women.
• 49:37
  Amazing
• 49:38
  women.
• 49:38
  Yeah.
• 49:38
  Who's
• 49:39
  going?
• 49:39
  What
• 49:39
  kind
• 49:39
  of
• 49:39
  women
• 49:40
  are
• 49:40
  going?
• 49:40
  Oh,
• 49:40
  my
• 49:41
  goodness.
• 49:41
  We've
• 49:41
  had
• 49:41
  so
• 49:42
  many
• 49:42
  tights.
• 49:42
  We
• 49:42
  had
• 49:42
  an
• 49:43
  amazing
• 49:43
  woman.
• 49:43
  Two.
• 49:44
  Two
• 49:44
  women
• 49:44
  from
• 49:45
  Beverly
• 49:45
  Hills.
• 49:47
  We've
• 49:47
  had
• 49:48
  women.
• 49:48
  One,
• 49:49
  three
• 49:50
  women
• 49:50
  from
• 49:50
  construction,
• 49:51
  divorcees
• 49:52
  with
• 49:52
  women
• 49:53
  that
• 49:53
  owns
• 49:53
  hotels.
• 49:54
  One
• 49:54
  woman
• 49:55
  was
• 49:55
  selling
• 49:55
  her
• 49:55
  business
• 49:55
  for
• 49:56
  $600
• 49:56
  million.
• 49:57
  Like
• 49:58
  all
• 49:58
  walks
• 49:59
  of
• 49:59
  life.
• 50:00
  All
• 50:00
  walks.
• 50:01
  That's
• 50:01
  why
• 50:01
  you
• 50:01
  learn
• 50:02
  a
• 50:02
  lot
• 50:02
  from
• 50:02
  the
• 50:02
  other
• 50:03
  women
• 50:03
  in
• 50:03
  there,
• 50:03
  too.
• 50:04
  And
• 50:04
  I
• 50:04
  think
• 50:05
  the
• 50:05
  connections
• 50:05
  you
• 50:06
  make
• 50:06
  within
• 50:06
  there,
• 50:07
  it's
• 50:08
  very
• 50:08
  powerful
• 50:09
  when
• 50:09
  women
• 50:09
  get
• 50:10
  together.
• 50:10
  It's
• 50:10
  like
• 50:10
  a
• 50:11
  think
• 50:11
  tank.
• 50:11
  Yes,
• 50:12
  yes,
• 50:12
  yes.
• 50:13
  It's
• 50:13
  unstoppable.
• 50:14
  Unstoppable,
• 50:15
  yes.
• 50:16
  And
• 50:16
  you've
• 50:16
  got
• 50:16
  the
• 50:16
  podcast,
• 50:17
  which
• 50:17
  I'm
• 50:17
  obsessed
• 50:18
  with.
• 50:18
  It's
• 50:19
  so
• 50:19
  good.
• 50:19
  Thank
• 50:20
  you.
• 50:20
  Anybody
• 50:21
  exciting
• 50:21
  coming
• 50:22
  up
• 50:22
  for
• 50:22
  you?
• 50:22
  Oh,
• 50:23
  gosh,
• 50:23
  I
• 50:23
  actually
• 50:24
  don't
• 50:24
  know.
• 50:24
  I
• 50:24
  don't
• 50:24
  have
• 50:24
  the
• 50:25
  schedule.
• 50:25
  Isn't
• 50:25
  that
• 50:25
  terrible?
• 50:26
  I'm
• 50:26
  sorry,
• 50:26
  I
• 50:27
  don't
• 50:27
  know.
• 50:27
  But
• 50:27
  actually,
• 50:28
  you
• 50:28
  know
• 50:28
  that
• 50:29
  my
• 50:29
  favorite
• 50:29
  ones
• 50:30
  are
• 50:30
  just
• 50:30
  the
• 50:30
  rants
• 50:31
  about
• 50:31
  life.
• 50:31
  I
• 50:31
  think
• 50:32
  people
• 50:32
  love
• 50:32
  them.
• 50:33
  You
• 50:33
  know,
• 50:33
  just
• 50:34
  love
• 50:34
  hearing
• 50:34
  what
• 50:35
  everyday
• 50:35
  life
• 50:35
  is.
• 50:36
  Is
• 50:37
  like.
• 50:37
  Yeah,
• 50:38
  no,
• 50:38
  absolutely.
• 50:39
  Definitely
• 50:39
  listen
• 50:40
  to
• 50:40
  her
• 50:40
  podcast.
• 50:41
  Obviously,
• 50:42
  everyone's
• 50:42
  already
• 50:42
  following
• 50:43
  you
• 50:43
  on
• 50:43
  social
• 50:43
  media,
• 50:44
  but
• 50:44
  if
• 50:44
  they
• 50:45
  aren't,
• 50:45
  go
• 50:45
  to
• 50:45
  Caroline
• 50:46
  Stanberry
• 50:47
  and
• 50:47
  follow
• 50:47
  her,
• 50:47
  because
• 50:48
  I
• 50:48
  love
• 50:48
  your
• 50:48
  videos,
• 50:49
  too.
• 50:49
  That
• 50:49
  51
• 50:50
  you
• 50:50
  posted,
• 50:50
  I
• 50:50
  was
• 50:50
  like,
• 50:51
  yes,
• 50:51
  lady,
• 50:52
  yes,
• 50:52
  yes.
• 50:53
  You're
• 50:54
  already
• 50:54
  ready
• 50:54
  for
• 50:54
  it.
• 50:55
  You're
• 50:55
  ready
• 50:55
  to
• 50:55
  walk
• 50:56
  into
• 50:56
  this
• 50:56
  next
• 50:56
  decade.
• 50:57
  I'm
• 50:57
  ready.
• 50:58
  Thank
• 50:58
  you
• 50:58
  for
• 50:58
  having
• 50:59
  me.
• 50:59
  Oh,
• 51:00
  thank
• 51:00
  you
• 51:00
  so
• 51:00
  much,
• 51:01
  Caroline.
• 51:01
  Happy
• 51:01
  early
• 51:02
  birthday.
• 51:02
  It's
• 51:03
  been
• 51:03
  so
• 51:03
  wonderful
• 51:04
  chatting
• 51:04
  with
• 51:04
  you.
• 51:05
  And
• 51:05
  you
• 51:06
  and
• 51:06
  you.
• 51:06
  Oh,
• 51:07
  the
• 51:07
  best,
• 51:07
  the
• 51:07
  best.
• 51:08
  We'll
• 51:08
  have
• 51:08
  to
• 51:08
  get
• 51:08
  together
• 51:08
  when
• 51:09
  you
• 51:09
  come
• 51:09
  to
• 51:09
  la.
• 51:10
  Yes.
• 51:10
  Thank
• 51:11
  you.
• 51:11
  Thank
• 51:11
  you.
• 51:12
  I
• 51:12
  love
• 51:12
  it.
• 51:13
  There's
• 51:13
  something
• 51:13
  really
• 51:14
  powerful
• 51:14
  about
• 51:15
  knowing
• 51:15
  exactly
• 51:16
  who
• 51:16
  you
• 51:16
  are
• 51:16
  and
• 51:17
  not
• 51:17
  negotiating
• 51:18
  it.
• 51:18
  And
• 51:19
  whether
• 51:19
  people
• 51:19
  understand
• 51:20
  it
• 51:20
  or
• 51:20
  not,
• 51:21
  still
• 51:21
  choosing
• 51:21
  it
• 51:22
  anyway.
• 51:23
  That's
• 51:23
  what
• 51:23
  this
• 51:24
  is
• 51:24
  really
• 51:24
  about.
• 51:25
  Not
• 51:25
  perfection,
• 51:26
  not
• 51:26
  approval,
• 51:27
  just
• 51:27
  alignment.
• 51:29
  And
• 51:29
  if
• 51:29
  something
• 51:29
  in
• 51:30
  this
• 51:30
  conversation
• 51:31
  hit
• 51:31
  for
• 51:31
  you,
• 51:31
  don't
• 51:31
  sit
• 51:32
  on
• 51:32
  it,
• 51:32
  share
• 51:33
  it,
• 51:33
  send
• 51:33
  it
• 51:33
  to
• 51:34
  a
• 51:34
  friend,
• 51:34
  text
• 51:34
  to
• 51:35
  someone
• 51:35
  who
• 51:35
  needs
• 51:35
  it,
• 51:36
  or
• 51:36
  post
• 51:36
  it
• 51:37
  and
• 51:37
  tag
• 51:37
  me
• 51:38
  the
• 51:38
  Iconic
• 51:39
  Midlife.
• 51:40
  And
• 51:40
  if
• 51:41
  you
• 51:41
  haven't
• 51:41
  already,
• 51:42
  make
• 51:42
  sure
• 51:42
  you're
• 51:42
  following
• 51:43
  the
• 51:43
  iconic
• 51:43
  midlife
• 51:44
  wherever
• 51:45
  you
• 51:45
  get
• 51:45
  your
• 51:45
  podcasts
• 51:46
  so
• 51:46
  you
• 51:46
  don't
• 51:47
  miss
• 51:47
  what's
• 51:47
  coming
• 51:47
  next.
• 51:48
  We've
• 51:49
  got
• 51:49
  some
• 51:49
  incredible
• 51:50
  conversations
• 51:50
  ahead,
• 51:51
  because
• 51:52
  midlife
• 51:52
  isn't
• 51:53
  about
• 51:53
  fading
• 51:54
  out.
• 51:54
  It's
• 51:55
  about
• 51:55
  stepping
• 51:55
  into
• 51:56
  exactly
• 51:56
  who
• 51:56
  you
• 51:57
  are.
• 51:57
  Unfiltered,
• 51:58
  unapologetic,
• 51:59
  and
• 51:59
  built
• 52:00
  for
• 52:00
  a
• 52:00
  midlife
• 52:00
  that
• 52:01
  doesn't
• 52:01
  ask
• 52:01
  for
• 52:02
  permission.
• 52:03
  I'll
• 52:03
  see
• 52:03
  you
• 52:03
  next
• 52:04
  time.