Latest / INSPIRE STORY / #099_ STORY INSPIRE: Unlock Your Full Potential 🧠🔥 — The Mindset Secrets of Matthew Syed
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- 0:00Speaker 1: In a fixed mindset, people think that success is all
- 0:03Speaker 1: about talent, having the gift. A growth mindset is saying, okay,
- 0:08Speaker 1: talent obviously matters. It's a factor, but it's not enough.
- 0:11Speaker 1: It's what we do with our talents. I wasn't the
- 0:13Speaker 1: best table tennis player in the world. I never got
- 0:14Speaker 1: into the top 20 of the world rankings. But with
- 0:17Speaker 1: that attitude, I maximized my own potential. I think leadership
- 0:21Speaker 1: counts when it comes to innovation. I mean, the way
- 0:23Speaker 1: Amazon conduct meetings, and then when they start talking, the
- 0:26Speaker 1: most senior person always speaks last. you'll get an unvarnished
- 0:31Speaker 1: access to the insights of your brilliant team, rather than
- 0:35Speaker 1: speaking first and everyone basically converging on what you as
- 0:38Speaker 1: a leader has just said. There are a lot of
- 0:41Speaker 1: people with truly brilliant ideas, huge potential, who never act
- 0:48Speaker 1: on their dreams. But having the idea doesn't mean a thing.
- 0:53Speaker 1: You've actually got to act on that idea. Honestly, I
- 0:56Speaker 1: think we shouldn't underestimate how damaging it can be.
- 1:09Speaker 2: Matthew Saeed. He's written some of the most important, challenging,
- 1:12Speaker 2: thought-provoking books in the self-development, self-improvement, team development, team building,
- 1:18Speaker 2: company building, leadership space. And his ideas are original. They
- 1:22Speaker 2: are challenging. They are fresh. They are important. He was
- 1:26Speaker 2: an elite level sportsman. And his ideas come from the
- 1:29Speaker 2: world of sport, but also the world of business, from politics,
- 1:33Speaker 2: from writing, from culture, from society. He evangelises about diverse thinking,
- 1:39Speaker 2: about including more ideas, about challenging leadership, about challenging yourself,
- 1:44Speaker 2: about what it takes to start, and why most people
- 1:48Speaker 2: spend their lives sitting on ideas that could potentially change
- 1:51Speaker 2: their life, but are seemingly imprisoned, trapped and blocked by
- 1:56Speaker 2: their own mindset. He talks about how some of the
- 1:59Speaker 2: most talented people in the world can fall short of
- 2:01Speaker 2: their potential and how some people with seemingly no talent
- 2:06Speaker 2: at all can achieve miraculous things. If you apply the
- 2:10Speaker 2: learnings from this conversation, I have no doubt that it
- 2:12Speaker 2: will make you a better person. It will make your
- 2:14Speaker 2: teams more innovative and it will lead you to living
- 2:17Speaker 2: a more fulfilled life. So without further ado, I'm Stephen
- 2:21Speaker 2: Bartlett and this is The Diver's CEO. I hope nobody's listening,
- 2:25Speaker 2: but if you are, then please keep this to yourself. Matthew,
- 2:36Speaker 2: everyone wants to be successful. Everybody. I don't know one
- 2:39Speaker 2: person that doesn't want to be successful. So I think
- 2:42Speaker 2: it's probably quite important to define what that word means
- 2:46Speaker 2: under your own definition of that word. The holistic definition,
- 2:50Speaker 2: not just a professional definition, but how would you define that?
- 2:54Speaker 1: Well, look, it's great to be here, Steve. I think
- 2:56Speaker 1: that's quite a deep question, quite a philosophical one.
- 3:00Speaker 2: We're only just getting started.
- 3:01Speaker 1: I know. What kind of opening question is this? Obviously,
- 3:06Speaker 1: as a former sports person, I was a table tennis
- 3:09Speaker 1: professional for a number of years. Success was defined in
- 3:13Speaker 1: terms of winning matches and achieving very clear, tangible objectives
- 3:19Speaker 1: like winning the national championships or the Commonwealth Games. But
- 3:24Speaker 1: I think when it comes to life beyond sport, it's
- 3:27Speaker 1: so objective in something like the 100-meter sprint. You want
- 3:30Speaker 1: to beat your PB. And you can see it on
- 3:33Speaker 1: a digital readout at the end of a race, how
- 3:35Speaker 1: close you've come or whether you've achieved that objective. In
- 3:39Speaker 1: the life beyond sport, I have to say one of
- 3:41Speaker 1: the things that is quite difficult, I think, for sports
- 3:44Speaker 1: people to transition is it's more elusive, more subjective, more ephemeral.
- 3:52Speaker 1: And I think it is a really difficult thing to
- 3:55Speaker 1: define what you personally mean by success. I'm not 100%
- 3:59Speaker 1: sure that I've defined it for myself yet. Have you?
- 4:02Speaker 2: Well, I'm getting closer in a professional sense. How I'd
- 4:08Speaker 2: answer that question is I'd say, I think I'm successful
- 4:12Speaker 2: in my professional life if I am striving, if I'm
- 4:17Speaker 2: taking on a worthwhile challenge with people I love. So
- 4:21Speaker 2: the key terms there are worthwhile, subjective, define it how
- 4:24Speaker 2: you like, challenge, which I think is integral to being
- 4:30Speaker 2: motivated and getting up in the morning and all the
- 4:33Speaker 2: emotions you need to be internally fulfilled and motivated. And
- 4:38Speaker 2: then with people I love, which I think is just
- 4:40Speaker 2: a really, which speaks to community and human interaction, which
- 4:42Speaker 2: I think is part of our human. Yeah.
- 4:44Speaker 1: And yeah, look, that makes a lot of sense to me.
- 4:46Speaker 1: I have to say one thing that given what you've
- 4:49Speaker 1: just said, you'll probably agree with. I think the narrow
- 4:52Speaker 1: way that success has sometimes been defined in Western capitalist
- 4:56Speaker 1: societies has been deeply mistaken, that it's all about how
- 4:59Speaker 1: much money you have in your bank account. And I
- 5:01Speaker 1: think we all know, although it's a bit of a
- 5:04Speaker 1: cliche to say that it doesn't provide happiness, certainly not
- 5:07Speaker 1: of a sustained nature. I think that that thing about
- 5:11Speaker 1: social interaction, the thing that makes me happiest for sure
- 5:15Speaker 1: is putting one's heart and soul into a project, like,
- 5:19Speaker 1: for example, writing a book, and then getting a letter
- 5:23Speaker 1: from somebody who explains in their own way how it
- 5:28Speaker 1: has positively impacted their life. And there is no feeling
- 5:31Speaker 1: like that for me as a writer. And that really
- 5:37Speaker 1: is a powerful engine to motivate you to come up
- 5:40Speaker 1: with a new idea for a new book. The fact
- 5:42Speaker 1: that you know it has meaning for other people. Not
- 5:45Speaker 1: that they've paid money to buy it and that money
- 5:47Speaker 1: has been transferred via a publisher into my bank account.
- 5:50Speaker 1: That is much less significant. I mean, it's great if
- 5:53Speaker 1: you do get money for it. You can look after
- 5:55Speaker 1: your kids or you can do something with it. But
- 5:58Speaker 1: it's that feedback, that sense of making some kind of
- 6:03Speaker 1: a difference. I mean, in a funny kind of a way,
- 6:05Speaker 1: that's why for a long time, as I came towards
- 6:09Speaker 1: the end of my television career, I wanted to go
- 6:10Speaker 1: into politics. I thought that is the place where you
- 6:12Speaker 1: can make the most difference, right? You've got the levers
- 6:15Speaker 1: to do something interesting. And then I realised it was
- 6:18Speaker 1: not quite as fun an avenue, perhaps, as writing.
- 6:23Speaker 2: Why is it that human beings seem to get so
- 6:26Speaker 2: much intrinsic joy from helping others?
- 6:30Speaker 1: I think this is of great and deep significance. Just
- 6:34Speaker 1: to put a historical lens on this, after the Enlightenment,
- 6:38Speaker 1: the idea was of human beings as individuals. Individualism was
- 6:44Speaker 1: the great goal of political life. I think we conceived
- 6:48Speaker 1: of people as deciding to interact with other people, deciding
- 6:54Speaker 1: to have families. You might remember Margaret Thatcher, once said,
- 6:58Speaker 1: there's no such thing as society. There are just individual
- 7:02Speaker 1: men and women and families. I mean, she had more
- 7:04Speaker 1: to say after that. It wouldn't be fair to say
- 7:06Speaker 1: that was her entire philosophy by any means. I think
- 7:09Speaker 1: she was a great prime minister in many ways. But
- 7:13Speaker 1: if you actually go back deeper in human history, when
- 7:17Speaker 1: our ancestors lived at the same time as the Neanderthals,
- 7:20Speaker 1: the Neanderthals had probably bigger brains than us. They may
- 7:24Speaker 1: have been individually smarter. But humans lived in tighter, more
- 7:28Speaker 1: socially connected groups. What does that mean? It means if
- 7:31Speaker 1: somebody learns something useful, they can share it with one
- 7:35Speaker 1: of their kin. And therefore, they can also share it
- 7:39Speaker 1: with their children. They can get a cross-pollination of ideas.
- 7:42Speaker 1: They can bring ideas together. And then it gets passed
- 7:45Speaker 1: down the generations. And it was that sociality that conferred
- 7:50Speaker 1: a competitive advantage on our ancestors above Neanderthals. It is,
- 7:56Speaker 1: I think, our distinctive quality. We are social beings to
- 8:00Speaker 1: an extent greater, I think, than any others, except the
- 8:02Speaker 1: insects like ants who, for slightly different evolutionary reasons, cooperate
- 8:08Speaker 1: at scale.
- 8:10Speaker 2: And there's an element of virtue signalling social media that
- 8:15Speaker 2: sort of seems to have exacerbated this amongst my generation
- 8:18Speaker 2: in particular, who all seem to want to change the world,
- 8:20Speaker 2: but can't necessarily tell you what they want to change.
- 8:22Speaker 2: They just want to be a person that's changed the world.
- 8:25Speaker 1: That's interesting. That's interesting because about a decade ago, I
- 8:28Speaker 1: started looking at, you know, now I'm, I believe it
- 8:30Speaker 1: or not, 50. You look great. Well, I was going
- 8:33Speaker 1: to say, do you remember Oil of Ulay?
- 8:36Speaker 2: No.
- 8:37Speaker 1: That's probably the slightly older people will remember. I don't
- 8:40Speaker 1: use that, by the way. But I started looking at
- 8:44Speaker 1: how aspirations have changed since I was in my childhood.
- 8:47Speaker 1: So when I was at university, everyone wanted to work
- 8:49Speaker 1: for the UN. That was kind of considered the great
- 8:53Speaker 1: sort of panacea of life. But 10 years ago, a
- 8:56Speaker 1: lot of people were saying in surveys of young people,
- 8:59Speaker 1: what do you want to do in life? What do
- 9:00Speaker 1: you want to be in life? And the answer was famous.
- 9:03Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Famous. Not to have a body of work that gives
- 9:07Speaker 1: you fame. You want to walk down the red carpet
- 9:10Speaker 1: having created an amazing film. But no, they just wanted
- 9:13Speaker 1: the red carpet. And I thought that was... That was
- 9:16Speaker 1: a dangerous thing. And I'm sure there's been a correction
- 9:19Speaker 1: since then, but I think the obsession.
- 9:22Speaker 2: There's been no correction. And I think maybe in some
- 9:25Speaker 2: respects it's got worse. It's a real phenomenon I've noticed
- 9:28Speaker 2: in my generation where after I'll come off stage doing
- 9:30Speaker 2: a public speech, whatever, the kids will come up to
- 9:33Speaker 2: me and say, I want to be a public speaker too.
- 9:35Speaker 2: And I'm like, I never wanted to be. I pursued
- 9:38Speaker 2: my desire to start a business and a by-product of
- 9:41Speaker 2: that was they pay me to speak on stage now.
- 9:43Speaker 2: And fame also, in my view, should be a byproduct
- 9:45Speaker 2: of the pursuit of something that's intrinsically important to you, right?
- 9:48Speaker 1: Absolutely, 100% correct. And that's why the obsession with fame
- 9:52Speaker 1: is a massive danger, I think, to a culture. The
- 9:56Speaker 1: thing about speaking, so a completely unintended side effect of
- 10:00Speaker 1: writing my first book. So I'm finishing table tennis and
- 10:03Speaker 1: I'm like, what am I going to do with the
- 10:04Speaker 1: rest of my life? How am I going to define success?
- 10:08Speaker 1: And I decide to write this book in 2000, when
- 10:11Speaker 1: did it come out?
- 10:12Speaker 2: 2010, called Bounce.
- 10:12Speaker 1: And An unintended side effect was being invited to give
- 10:18Speaker 1: a speech at a big corporation, an investment bank, an
- 10:21Speaker 1: American investment bank. And obviously, as an ex-ping-pong player, I'm thinking,
- 10:26Speaker 1: what is going on here? Imposter syndrome. And also, I
- 10:31Speaker 1: went to a school, I went to a comp. We
- 10:33Speaker 1: didn't do any, almost no public speaking. We learned stuff.
- 10:38Speaker 1: We learned things in the classroom. But the idea of
- 10:41Speaker 1: getting up and speaking in front of an audience was
- 10:44Speaker 1: kind of very alien. So I wasn't that good, right?
- 10:48Speaker 1: Because I hadn't practiced that. I'd never done it before.
- 10:50Speaker 1: And I came off the stage and I thought, you
- 10:53Speaker 1: know what? I'm just not cut out for this. If
- 10:55Speaker 1: I'm invited again to give a talk to a company,
- 10:57Speaker 1: I'll just politely decline. Then I thought, and it took
- 11:00Speaker 1: me about 48 hours to think, what a ridiculous way
- 11:03Speaker 1: to hijack my own development. If you actually had the
- 11:06Speaker 1: right attitude, if you had the right mindset, You can
- 11:08Speaker 1: probably learn these skills and take advantage of these brilliant
- 11:11Speaker 1: opportunities because you always learn, don't you, when you go
- 11:13Speaker 1: and speak at an organization. So I Googled public speaking
- 11:17Speaker 1: practice and the first hit was called Toastmasters. And this
- 11:22Speaker 1: is like a global network of just public speaking clubs
- 11:25Speaker 1: where other normal people, um, go to the club to
- 11:30Speaker 1: develop social confidence. And the one nearest me in Richmond
- 11:32Speaker 1: was in Twickenham, just over the bridge. And there was
- 11:35Speaker 1: Franco who worked at Lloyd's on the high street. Just
- 11:38Speaker 1: a group of normal people. And you'd give a speech,
- 11:40Speaker 1: they'd give you feedback. And the mentoring was a really
- 11:42Speaker 1: important part of it because you need a bit of
- 11:45Speaker 1: feedback and what you could have done better. And then
- 11:48Speaker 1: about two-thirds of the way through, there's something called table
- 11:50Speaker 1: topics where somebody writes a list of topics on cards,
- 11:55Speaker 1: but no one else in the room knows what they are.
- 11:57Speaker 1: So you have to go to the front, you pick
- 11:58Speaker 1: it up, and then turn around and spontaneously talk for
- 12:01Speaker 1: a minute about On whatever topic. The first one I
- 12:04Speaker 1: ever did was the Natural History Museum. You know, that's terrifying, right?
- 12:07Speaker 1: You're not used to it. But you learn and you
- 12:09Speaker 1: develop that skill. So learning how to speak publicly, it
- 12:15Speaker 1: took me three or four years. And I'm not saying
- 12:17Speaker 1: I'm brilliant at it now by any means, but my goodness,
- 12:20Speaker 1: how much better when you have a can-do attitude towards it.
- 12:23Speaker 2: And that brings us to the topic of mindset, really nicely.
- 12:26Speaker 2: You know, I've heard you talk about having a growth
- 12:28Speaker 2: mindset and a fixed mindset. What is the difference between
- 12:31Speaker 2: the two?
- 12:32Speaker 1: So I think, thank you, for what it's worth, I
- 12:34Speaker 1: think this contrast is so important. I mean, I can
- 12:38Speaker 1: talk about it through my own life, but in a
- 12:41Speaker 1: fixed mindset, people think that success, however defined, is all
- 12:45Speaker 1: about talent, having the gift, having the genetic inheritance, having
- 12:51Speaker 1: the personality trait in order to excel. A growth mindset
- 12:56Speaker 1: is saying, okay, talent obviously matters.
- 12:58Speaker 2: It's a factor.
- 12:59Speaker 1: But it's not enough. It's what we do with our talents.
- 13:02Speaker 1: So people in a fixed mindset have two massive risks. One,
- 13:06Speaker 1: they think they're so talented, they don't even need to try.
- 13:09Speaker 1: So think of a young person who's just been invited
- 13:13Speaker 1: to join the Manchester United Academy. And they're suddenly getting
- 13:17Speaker 1: money into their bank account. They're able to buy the
- 13:19Speaker 1: fast car. And they think, I'm God's gift. And the
- 13:23Speaker 1: amount of academy coaches who have come to me and said,
- 13:25Speaker 1: we don't understand it. We had this hardworking youngster. We
- 13:28Speaker 1: invited them into the academy. And then they just went
- 13:30Speaker 1: off the rails. It's a fixed mindset. They think their
- 13:33Speaker 1: success is assured, so they stop putting in the hard
- 13:35Speaker 1: yards and don't transition into the first team. So that's
- 13:38Speaker 1: one danger. The other danger is people who don't think
- 13:42Speaker 1: they're God's gift, but like me at Goldman Sachs, you
- 13:45Speaker 1: make one failure and you interpret that as meaning, I
- 13:49Speaker 1: obviously don't have talent, therefore I'm just going to give up.
- 13:52Speaker 1: Do you see what I mean?
- 13:53Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's the negative version.
- 13:54Speaker 1: Yeah, so you've got the, I'm super, talent is everything.
- 13:58Speaker 1: And I've got it, so therefore I don't need to try.
- 14:00Speaker 1: Talent is everything. I don't have it, therefore I should
- 14:02Speaker 1: give up. They're both terribly damaging, I think. A growth mindset,
- 14:07Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that we think we're all going to
- 14:08Speaker 1: be the best speaker in the world. I wasn't the
- 14:11Speaker 1: best table tennis player in the world. I never got
- 14:12Speaker 1: into the top 20 of the world rankings. But with
- 14:15Speaker 1: that attitude, I maximized my own potential. And going back
- 14:18Speaker 1: to your thing about success, that's not a bad definition,
- 14:23Speaker 1: now I think about it, to try and be the
- 14:24Speaker 1: best that we can be in our own lives. doesn't
- 14:28Speaker 1: mean we're going to be the best who ever lived.
- 14:30Speaker 1: Not everyone can be Muhammad Ali or Serena Williams or
- 14:35Speaker 1: Albert Einstein, but to be the best we can be,
- 14:37Speaker 1: I think it's something wonderful. And just from my own perspective,
- 14:40Speaker 1: I think trying to feel one's own potential, going on
- 14:44Speaker 1: a journey that has some meaning, there's something wonderfully uplifting,
- 14:50Speaker 1: something satisfying about that too.
- 14:52Speaker 2: I really like the combination of those two ideas, this
- 14:55Speaker 2: idea of being the best you can be but realizing
- 14:57Speaker 2: that it's a pursuit towards something that you may never
- 15:00Speaker 2: get to, right? So the journey and the journey towards
- 15:04Speaker 2: being the best you can be at something which has
- 15:06Speaker 2: a lot of meaning to you. Maybe that's the definition
- 15:08Speaker 2: we were looking for.
- 15:09Speaker 1: I think that point you make about the journey is really,
- 15:12Speaker 1: really important. What was it? I think it was Robert
- 15:13Speaker 1: Louis Stevenson said, to travel is a better thing than
- 15:16Speaker 1: to arrive. In a weird kind of way, I can
- 15:19Speaker 1: say I talked about trying to win the nationals, but
- 15:21Speaker 1: First of all, in the nationals, I remember winning, going home.
- 15:24Speaker 1: I was living on my own in a flat in Richmond.
- 15:26Speaker 1: And I got home and I thought, is that it?
- 15:28Speaker 1: You know what I mean? The fun was actually the
- 15:32Speaker 1: training and the camaraderie with my practice partners and seeing
- 15:36Speaker 1: those small improvements through time.
- 15:39Speaker 2: I mean, that's consistent with most high-performance athletes and business people.
- 15:44Speaker 2: And I was reading this piece, and I think it
- 15:46Speaker 2: was in The Telegraph, about Olympic depression. where you have
- 15:49Speaker 2: the Olympians who train for the Olympics, and whether they
- 15:52Speaker 2: get a gold medal, like Michael Phelps, who fell into depression,
- 15:55Speaker 2: or whether they lose, either way, the outcome is they
- 15:58Speaker 2: just lose orientation in their life. And this is why I,
- 16:02Speaker 2: and also I felt it myself when a company came
- 16:04Speaker 2: along when I was 24 and offered to buy my company.
- 16:06Speaker 2: And I go home, look at Rightmove, look at all
- 16:08Speaker 2: the cars I can buy and everything. And I feel
- 16:10Speaker 2: this sense of emptiness and like, but then what? What's
- 16:12Speaker 2: my life without this? And genuinely, that was like an
- 16:15Speaker 2: existential crisis because it was like, I can't sell this thing,
- 16:18Speaker 2: but the insecure broke kid in me thought he was
- 16:21Speaker 2: doing this to sell this thing. And it was just
- 16:23Speaker 2: this really, you know.
- 16:25Speaker 1: I think one of the deep paradoxes of the human mind,
- 16:28Speaker 1: I mean, the sense of anticlimax when one achieves a
- 16:35Speaker 1: long cherished ambition, I want to be a millionaire, I
- 16:37Speaker 1: want to buy an Aston Martin, I want to win
- 16:39Speaker 1: the Olympic gold medal. I remember talking to Victoria Pendleton Oh, yeah,
- 16:44Speaker 1: the Olympian. The cyclist, the Olympian. You live with this ambition.
- 16:48Speaker 1: It's what gets you out of bed in the morning, right?
- 16:50Speaker 1: I want to win the Olympic gold. When you're on
- 16:53Speaker 1: the track, she was explaining, it's what makes you push
- 16:56Speaker 1: harder because you've got this goal, this destination that's pulling you,
- 17:01Speaker 1: this magnet pulling you towards it. Then when you get it,
- 17:06Speaker 1: you wake up the next day and what on earth
- 17:08Speaker 1: is getting you out of bed? What's causing you to
- 17:11Speaker 1: push yourself? That's one of the reasons I think people
- 17:14Speaker 1: who make money very quickly face massive, many, not all,
- 17:19Speaker 1: and this is well-documented cycle. I mean, you'll know about
- 17:21Speaker 1: the people who win lotteries, whose marriages can end, who
- 17:26Speaker 1: end up in often depression. I mean, that's not a cliche.
- 17:29Speaker 1: This is well-established. And I think it's because you get
- 17:32Speaker 1: something and then it's like, what is left to pursue
- 17:36Speaker 1: in life? I do some interviews for the Times, sports stars,
- 17:40Speaker 1: and I mentioned Victoria Pendleton, Billie Jean King.
- 17:43Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 17:44Speaker 1: Exactly the same. David Beckham, Ryan Giggs. I mean, I've interviewed,
- 17:54Speaker 1: you know, most of the, Ronaldo, most of the leading,
- 17:59Speaker 1: many of the leading sports people, and it's the same story.
- 18:02Speaker 1: And I think what I've noticed is that, as you did,
- 18:06Speaker 1: that capacity to take a step back and to say,
- 18:09Speaker 1: you know what? I'm feeling low, feeling empty. I need
- 18:13Speaker 1: to find something else that's going to galvanize me. And
- 18:16Speaker 1: that's what gets people back on.
- 18:19Speaker 2: And I think the antidote is being aware of that.
- 18:23Speaker 2: And because then now when I achieve things in my life,
- 18:26Speaker 2: I don't come into those achievements with this expectation of
- 18:29Speaker 2: exponential joy. And so I can almost enjoy it more.
- 18:34Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, no, I totally get that. I'm trying to think. Look,
- 18:40Speaker 1: just one of the things that I've noticed from my
- 18:42Speaker 1: own personal life is the more busy I've got, sometimes
- 18:46Speaker 1: you don't take enough time to take a step back
- 18:50Speaker 1: and to say, you know, this was a great thing
- 18:52Speaker 1: that happened, or to be in the moment when something
- 18:55Speaker 1: is happening with one. Do you have kids? No. No,
- 18:58Speaker 1: with one's children or wife or partner or whatever. And
- 19:02Speaker 1: I think I'm slowly … I write books on this stuff,
- 19:05Speaker 1: but I'm learning all the time. And that's one of
- 19:08Speaker 1: the reasons I want to do the podcast. When I
- 19:09Speaker 1: read about you, I thought you've had such a different
- 19:12Speaker 1: set of experiences to me. I'll learn a lot from
- 19:14Speaker 1: you too.
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- 19:25Speaker 2: failure then, something you talk about at great length. I
- 19:28Speaker 2: tend to believe that a lot of the reason why
- 19:30Speaker 2: people don't reach their potential, however we define that, is
- 19:33Speaker 2: because They are risk adverse. And failure is something they
- 19:37Speaker 2: just can't, their self-esteem just can't bear.
- 19:39Speaker 1: I think that's true. My own sense is that this
- 19:43Speaker 1: has been exacerbated by the social media. So you tell
- 19:47Speaker 1: me how the social media, it may have changed a
- 19:49Speaker 1: lot since I've wrote my first book for young people.
- 19:52Speaker 1: But at the time, psychologists had come up with this
- 19:56Speaker 1: concept of the curse of perfectionism. And their thesis was
- 20:00Speaker 1: that young people are obviously now on the social media
- 20:04Speaker 1: a lot more And a lot of people, when they're
- 20:06Speaker 1: putting together their social media posts, they do it in
- 20:09Speaker 1: such a way as to make their lives look really good.
- 20:12Speaker 1: This is the holiday I just had on this wonderfully
- 20:14Speaker 1: sunny beach. And they might even airbrush photos to make
- 20:18Speaker 1: themselves look better. And this is my wonderful performance on
- 20:22Speaker 1: the piano. And the problem is people then start to
- 20:27Speaker 1: think that success is about looking and acting in a
- 20:30Speaker 1: perfect way. That's massively problematic because why would you want
- 20:35Speaker 1: to try anything new, which is inherently a risk? If
- 20:39Speaker 1: you're doing something the first time, you're obviously not going
- 20:41Speaker 1: to be perfect. And if you do mess up, you
- 20:44Speaker 1: draw the conclusion. It goes back to the fixed mindset.
- 20:46Speaker 1: You draw the conclusion, well, I'm obviously not talented enough
- 20:48Speaker 1: because I haven't nailed it the first time around. I
- 20:51Speaker 1: think this was also bolstered by, and you're on reality
- 20:54Speaker 1: television now, I think reality television, the idea of instant success,
- 20:58Speaker 1: instant gratification. overnight elevation into the heavens. And if particularly
- 21:05Speaker 1: young people think that success is like that, they don't
- 21:08Speaker 1: realize the incremental steps you need to take to fulfill
- 21:11Speaker 1: your potential. Because as you know, most businesses succeed because,
- 21:16Speaker 1: I don't know whether you're familiar with the American jargon,
- 21:19Speaker 1: but you get a minimum viable product, you test the
- 21:22Speaker 1: value proposition early, you find out the inevitable deficiencies in
- 21:26Speaker 1: the prototype or the piece of software, And then you
- 21:28Speaker 1: make adaptations. In Silicon Valley, they call it failing fast.
- 21:32Speaker 1: In other words, they're failing fast in order to get
- 21:34Speaker 1: to a better answer. If you stop the first time
- 21:36Speaker 1: you fail, or if you don't try at all, you're
- 21:38Speaker 1: never going to get to an answer. If you think
- 21:40Speaker 1: of the history of science, science is the most successful
- 21:44Speaker 1: human institution because scientists, by and large, are willing to
- 21:49Speaker 1: test their hypotheses. You know, they test it, they look
- 21:52Speaker 1: at the empirical evidence, and they change it in the
- 21:54Speaker 1: light of what the evidence is telling them. That is
- 21:57Speaker 1: the basic pattern of science. And I think the problem,
- 22:01Speaker 1: as you alluded to, is that if young people are like,
- 22:03Speaker 1: goodness me, I don't want to look anything other than perfect,
- 22:06Speaker 1: it destroys their capacity to grow and to have a
- 22:11Speaker 1: life of fulfillment. Because J.K. Rowling put it brilliantly. She said,
- 22:16Speaker 1: the only way never to fail is never to try.
- 22:19Speaker 1: But then your life is a failure. Because you've just
- 22:21Speaker 1: stayed in your comfort zone the whole time.
- 22:24Speaker 2: I see that. I resonate with all of that so much.
- 22:26Speaker 2: And specifically this idea, I love the science analogy because
- 22:29Speaker 2: seeing it as a hypothesis, you're right, in science, you
- 22:32Speaker 2: start with a hypothesis, you're not romantic about it, and
- 22:34Speaker 2: then you go and pursue it and you agnostically go
- 22:37Speaker 2: and test it. Whereas what you're saying is, you know,
- 22:42Speaker 2: young people or ambitious people generally will start with a
- 22:44Speaker 2: hypothesis and they will long in need for it to
- 22:49Speaker 2: be perfectly correct. That's right. And this is also why
- 22:53Speaker 2: businesses fail because founders just, they just do everything. And
- 22:56Speaker 2: I failed in my first business for many years because
- 22:59Speaker 2: of that, because I was obsessed, romantic about my hypothesis
- 23:04Speaker 2: being correct, not romantic about the outcome, which was trying
- 23:08Speaker 2: to be a successful person.
- 23:12Speaker 1: I think that's really, really significant. And I think that's
- 23:15Speaker 1: a great way of framing it. Look, By the way,
- 23:17Speaker 1: some scientists fall in love with their theories, and they
- 23:20Speaker 1: can't adapt it. I mean, there's been a few examples
- 23:22Speaker 1: during the pandemic. And by the way, I don't know
- 23:25Speaker 1: if listeners are interested in this, but there's a brilliant
- 23:29Speaker 1: study by Philip Tetlock, who's an American psychologist, and he
- 23:32Speaker 1: looked at forecasters, so people trying to predict next year's
- 23:36Speaker 1: GDP or oil price or other things of this kind,
- 23:38Speaker 1: and he found a really interesting pattern, that the highest
- 23:41Speaker 1: reputation forecasters who are on television the most on average,
- 23:46Speaker 1: make the worst predictions. And can you see what is
- 23:50Speaker 1: an error of ego? An error of prediction is an
- 23:53Speaker 1: opportunity to adapt the model in order to make it
- 23:57Speaker 1: more predictive in the long run. But if you've been
- 23:59Speaker 1: on the TV and you're supposed to be the god
- 24:02Speaker 1: of forecasting, you start defending your prior assumptions. And so
- 24:05Speaker 1: people who have an ego that gets in the way
- 24:09Speaker 1: of hypothesis testing, they are brilliant at creative self-justification. I
- 24:14Speaker 1: think the people who are most dangerous to companies and
- 24:18Speaker 1: innovation are intelligent, highly talented people in a fixed mindset.
- 24:23Speaker 1: They're just inveterate obstacles to making the changes you need
- 24:27Speaker 1: to change in order to get the business to where
- 24:29Speaker 1: you want to go to or where you want the
- 24:31Speaker 1: economic model to get to and so on. So I
- 24:34Speaker 1: think it's the same in meetings. As you know, I'm
- 24:37Speaker 1: very interested in how businesses succeed and the forum in
- 24:41Speaker 1: which we take most key decisions are meetings. because no
- 24:44Speaker 1: one person has a monopoly on truth, so you want
- 24:46Speaker 1: to talk to other people. But these can be really
- 24:48Speaker 1: ineffective if people think that when someone challenges you, they're
- 24:53Speaker 1: insulting you. They're not. They're testing your hypothesis. We should
- 24:56Speaker 1: think of meetings as mutual hypothesis testing so that we
- 25:00Speaker 1: can collectively get to the best strategy or idea. I
- 25:04Speaker 1: think when you frame it in that way, you take
- 25:06Speaker 1: the stigma out of challenge and dissent and failure.
- 25:11Speaker 2: Let's challenge that then. So if we've got a meeting,
- 25:14Speaker 2: we've got five, 10 people around this table, we've got
- 25:17Speaker 2: an intern over there, we've got the CEO there, got managers,
- 25:21Speaker 2: directors around the table, one new person, one person's been
- 25:23Speaker 2: here for 10 years. You've got all these different sort
- 25:25Speaker 2: of dynamics of people trying to get promotions, get a
- 25:29Speaker 2: pay rise. Oh my God, the CEO's at the table.
- 25:30Speaker 2: I don't want to be an idiot. I don't want
- 25:32Speaker 2: to say anything dumb, you know, and all of those
- 25:34Speaker 2: like dynamics. How do you get those dynamics out of
- 25:36Speaker 2: the way and just become focused on Letting the best
- 25:40Speaker 2: idea win.
- 25:41Speaker 1: Right. So this is really well studied. I think the
- 25:45Speaker 1: thing to try and really convey is how dangerous the
- 25:49Speaker 1: dynamics you've described can be. Because what tends to happen
- 25:54Speaker 1: in a very hierarchical organization where the CEO or the
- 25:58Speaker 1: team leader has discretion over pay and promotion is that
- 26:03Speaker 1: people don't say what they think. They say what they
- 26:06Speaker 1: think the leader wants to hear. That's fine if the
- 26:09Speaker 1: leader knows everything there is to know because you're just
- 26:12Speaker 1: basically ventriloquizing. So in a simple environment, you don't need
- 26:16Speaker 1: to have a team, right? You just have the leader
- 26:17Speaker 1: make a decision and everyone. But when it's a difficult,
- 26:19Speaker 1: complex decision, in other words, the ones that confer a
- 26:22Speaker 1: competitive advantage on a business, the leader needs to hear
- 26:26Speaker 1: the different perspectives to make a better judgment. But the
- 26:28Speaker 1: extent to which this happens, a good example is in aviation.
- 26:33Speaker 1: So I'll describe a classic case in the– aviation is
- 26:37Speaker 1: a great– area to study, by the way, when it
- 26:40Speaker 1: comes to team dynamics. So this is United Airlines 173.
- 26:45Speaker 1: And it's a flight that took off out of Denver,
- 26:48Speaker 1: Colorado in December 1978. And it's flying to Portland in Oregon.
- 26:53Speaker 1: And as a plane's coming in on the final approach,
- 26:55Speaker 1: the pilot pulls the lever to lower the landing gear.
- 26:58Speaker 1: And you know, when you're in the cabin, you hear
- 27:00Speaker 1: it go down and clicks into place. But on this occasion,
- 27:04Speaker 1: there's this really loud bang, the plane kind of deviates
- 27:08Speaker 1: and And the light that should illuminate on the dashboard
- 27:11Speaker 1: to show that the wheels are down, it hasn't gone on.
- 27:13Speaker 1: So the pilot doesn't know if the wheels are down.
- 27:15Speaker 1: It's pitch black, so they can't ask air traffic control
- 27:17Speaker 1: to look up. So he puts the plane into a
- 27:19Speaker 1: holding pattern above suburban Portland. Then they try and troubleshoot
- 27:23Speaker 1: the issue. So the first thing is the engineer. So
- 27:26Speaker 1: in these days, the cockpit had a captain, a co-pilot,
- 27:30Speaker 1: and an engineer. The engineer goes into the cabin. And
- 27:33Speaker 1: on this particular model of aircraft, when the wheels are down,
- 27:36Speaker 1: two bolts shoot up above the wings. The bolts are up,
- 27:39Speaker 1: but they're still not 100% sure, right? And you want
- 27:41Speaker 1: to know if the wheels are down before you come in.
- 27:43Speaker 1: So the pilot, they radio to the manufacturer, and they're
- 27:47Speaker 1: kind of explaining what's happened. The manufacturer's like, yeah, we
- 27:50Speaker 1: think the wheels are down, but we're not sure. Then
- 27:52Speaker 1: the pilot's like, I wonder if the reason that the
- 27:54Speaker 1: light didn't go on in the dashboard is because of
- 27:56Speaker 1: faulty wiring. So he starts playing around with the light,
- 28:00Speaker 1: and the plane's still in the holding pad. as they're
- 28:03Speaker 1: doing all of these different checks. But at this point,
- 28:06Speaker 1: another safety critical issue has come into play. The plane's
- 28:10Speaker 1: running out of fuel, right? And the engineer knows that
- 28:16Speaker 1: the plane is running out of fuel because he can
- 28:17Speaker 1: see it going down to zero on the dials, right?
- 28:22Speaker 1: He has a big incentive to tell the pilot that
- 28:26Speaker 1: the plane is running out of fuel because otherwise he
- 28:28Speaker 1: will die. So you have this juxtaposition between of objective
- 28:33Speaker 1: information and maximum incentive. But in the 1970s, it was
- 28:38Speaker 1: a command and control culture. You know, the pilot was,
- 28:41Speaker 1: do you know what I mean?
- 28:42Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 28:42Speaker 1: The pilot was deemed to be the boss, the omniscient controller,
- 28:48Speaker 1: and the other two were supposed to basically carry out
- 28:51Speaker 1: that controller's instructions. And they called the pilot sir. It
- 28:55Speaker 1: was almost always a man, right? And so imagine, if
- 28:58Speaker 1: the engineer says to the pilot, now, why do we
- 29:00Speaker 1: have a team? We have a team because no one
- 29:03Speaker 1: person has all of the information. They're narrow in their
- 29:06Speaker 1: perceptual bandwidth. Other things are happening at the same time.
- 29:09Speaker 1: But if the engineer says to the pilot, you know what,
- 29:11Speaker 1: we're running out of fuel, the implication is the pilot
- 29:14Speaker 1: didn't know that already. The pilot might get offended. Isn't
- 29:17Speaker 1: he supposed to know everything? And we know... From this
- 29:21Speaker 1: and many other incidents, in that situation, we don't speak
- 29:24Speaker 1: to each other directly. We don't test hypotheses directly. We
- 29:27Speaker 1: code our language. We mitigate our speech. And from the
- 29:31Speaker 1: voice recorder, from the black box, we know that the
- 29:34Speaker 1: engineer said, instead of, we need to land because we're
- 29:37Speaker 1: running out of fuel, critical information for the pilot. to
- 29:40Speaker 1: make the right strategic decision he said oh we're kind
- 29:44Speaker 1: of getting low on fuel here and the pilot because
- 29:47Speaker 1: of the insinuation he knows everything wasn't even listening so
- 29:51Speaker 1: the plane crashes but not just that plane a number
- 29:54Speaker 1: of incidents in the 1970s of exactly the same kind
- 29:58Speaker 1: happened because communication was so skewed by this very steep hierarchy.
- 30:03Speaker 1: It happens in surgical operating theatres famously, where nurses can't
- 30:08Speaker 1: speak up because they're worried, if I say something, this
- 30:11Speaker 1: is the surgeon, you know, the big cheese. And we
- 30:16Speaker 1: know from, you know, for what it's worth, from randomised
- 30:18Speaker 1: controlled trial evidence, Lee Thompson at North Western University, meetings
- 30:22Speaker 1: are a catastrophe, the vast majority of them. Absolute disaster.
- 30:26Speaker 1: People are not sharing information. They're basically playing a political
- 30:30Speaker 1: game to curry favor with the boss. So the short
- 30:33Speaker 1: answer is you need what's called psychological safety. I hate
- 30:36Speaker 1: the jargon. All that means is an environment where everyone
- 30:41Speaker 1: feels they can be candid and they can say what
- 30:44Speaker 1: they really think and hypotheses are tested. When Google did
- 30:48Speaker 1: a big data analysis of its most successful software development teams,
- 30:53Speaker 1: psychological safety was the biggest predictor. of success because it
- 30:58Speaker 1: means you're getting that uh interplay of ideas that's so important.
- 31:02Speaker 2: It's interesting because you know these big companies well big
- 31:05Speaker 2: companies by by definition i guess have more ideas right
- 31:11Speaker 2: but they are often the least innovative exactly and that
- 31:14Speaker 2: seems like a bit of a it should be the
- 31:16Speaker 2: other way around you would one would think that the
- 31:17Speaker 2: biggest companies would be the most innovative because they have
- 31:19Speaker 2: more brains more ideas but they're just.
- 31:21Speaker 1: That's right Yeah, that's an interesting point you make there.
- 31:25Speaker 1: You're right. Well, let's think about that. What would generate
- 31:29Speaker 1: good ideas? It's the number of ideas, not the number
- 31:32Speaker 1: of people. If you have an organization with a very
- 31:35Speaker 1: homogenous culture, very command and control, a lot of sociological convergence,
- 31:42Speaker 1: you might have 10,000 people all thinking the same way.
- 31:45Speaker 1: I mean, you've seen professional services companies where you see
- 31:47Speaker 1: the senior leadership team. And they may look a bit different,
- 31:50Speaker 1: but they're all absolutely thinking exactly the same way. They've
- 31:54Speaker 1: been there so long. That's a big danger for companies. See,
- 31:57Speaker 1: with cities, you increase the size of cities, they become
- 31:59Speaker 1: more innovative. Companies get less innovative because they get so
- 32:02Speaker 1: much convergence. They have a lot of people, but they
- 32:05Speaker 1: think in the same way. It's an echo chamber, basically, right?
- 32:07Speaker 1: Whereas startups, sometimes a startup might be an idea that's
- 32:12Speaker 1: completely off the beaten track, and then suddenly you've got
- 32:15Speaker 1: this opportunity to scale. But even with startups, often when
- 32:20Speaker 1: they go public, they start to lose their capacity to innovate.
- 32:23Speaker 1: And I think that's why I've written a book on it.
- 32:26Speaker 1: You need a culture of diversity so that you begin
- 32:28Speaker 1: to protect and value the diverse ideas that enable an
- 32:36Speaker 1: organization to anticipate future disruptions and come up with new innovations.
- 32:41Speaker 2: Talk to me about creating a culture of diversity in
- 32:43Speaker 2: your organization. in your business then if you're starting a company,
- 32:46Speaker 2: if you're running a company at scale, how would you
- 32:48Speaker 2: increase the diversity of ideas?
- 32:51Speaker 1: Yeah. So, so the, the most important for me, the
- 32:55Speaker 1: most important thing by far is landing the argument as
- 32:59Speaker 1: to why it matters. A lot of people don't think
- 33:02Speaker 1: it matters. I mean, I remember going to an HR
- 33:04Speaker 1: conference and the, the, the, the speaker was talking about
- 33:10Speaker 1: diversity is a wonderful thing. You've all need more of it. And,
- 33:14Speaker 1: It will always help you do better as an organization.
- 33:17Speaker 1: And this really awkward customer at the back said, can
- 33:19Speaker 1: I ask a question? And they're like, yeah, okay. Imagine
- 33:23Speaker 1: I am the coach of an Olympic sprint relay team.
- 33:28Speaker 1: And suppose I've got Usain, who was the fastest person
- 33:31Speaker 1: in the world at the time, was Usain Bolt. Suppose
- 33:34Speaker 1: I've got Usain Bolt in my team. And suppose, hypothetically,
- 33:39Speaker 1: I had cloning technology so I could clone Usain Bolt,
- 33:42Speaker 1: have four Usain Bolts in my 4x100 relay team. There's
- 33:45Speaker 1: no diversity in that team. But they're all very fast, right?
- 33:50Speaker 1: If you said you need to diversify your team, that
- 33:54Speaker 1: would mean hiring slower runners. I don't want to do
- 33:56Speaker 1: that as an Olympic coach. And it was like the
- 33:59Speaker 1: air in the room had been punctured. And everyone was like,
- 34:01Speaker 1: that's an awful thing to say.
- 34:02Speaker 2: But he was right.
- 34:04Speaker 1: That question was right. In simple activities, diversity of opinion,
- 34:10Speaker 1: cognitive diversity doesn't help you. If it's obvious what to do,
- 34:13Speaker 1: why would you want diversity? If you've already got a solution,
- 34:16Speaker 1: a canned solution, you just need to scale it. You
- 34:18Speaker 1: don't need diversity. But when there's a complex environment, that
- 34:22Speaker 1: logic turns on its head. So if you imagine, for example,
- 34:26Speaker 1: you've got five people each one of whom has one
- 34:30Speaker 1: brilliant idea. You might think you have five brilliant ideas,
- 34:32Speaker 1: but if they all have the same idea, you've only
- 34:34Speaker 1: got one. All you need is two different ideas and
- 34:37Speaker 1: suddenly you've tripled, 300% increase in the creativity of that group.
- 34:43Speaker 1: That's where cognitive diversity matters. And if your mission is
- 34:47Speaker 1: to solve complex problems, diversity is the cornerstone of how
- 34:52Speaker 1: well you do it. And once you land that argument,
- 34:54Speaker 1: people start to... At the moment, people say... too many
- 34:58Speaker 1: people think diversity is a politically correct box ticking exercise.
- 35:02Speaker 1: And when diverse voices come in, they're condescended to, they're
- 35:05Speaker 1: not properly included. Once you realise it's a strength, organisations
- 35:09Speaker 1: start to harness it to do the great things that
- 35:13Speaker 1: they want to do.
- 35:14Speaker 2: I can imagine that organisations don't, typically organisations don't know
- 35:18Speaker 2: what they don't know and they don't, they don't know
- 35:21Speaker 2: what they don't have as well. So if you, do
- 35:23Speaker 2: you see what I mean? It's like an unknown. So
- 35:24Speaker 2: when the board, when these like, let's say we've got,
- 35:27Speaker 2: six white 60 year old board members sat around a
- 35:30Speaker 2: table of a company that's really successful. And then they go,
- 35:34Speaker 2: you know, what's their incentive to hire? They think we've
- 35:37Speaker 2: been doing great. We're all very smart. You smart. Yeah,
- 35:40Speaker 2: I'm smart. Yeah. You smart. Yeah, I'm smart. Yeah. And like,
- 35:43Speaker 2: how would you make the case to them that they
- 35:46Speaker 2: need to hire a black woman and that's going to
- 35:49Speaker 2: help when they've just been killing the game with these
- 35:51Speaker 2: six white men. Right.
- 35:53Speaker 1: So again, you're absolutely right to ask the question. It
- 35:56Speaker 1: depends on the context. Let's say, for example, the organization
- 36:01Speaker 1: is an advertising company and they've traditionally been selling to
- 36:06Speaker 1: white middle-aged men who think rather as they do. If
- 36:14Speaker 1: they only want to sell to white men, then there
- 36:17Speaker 1: may be no advantage in hiring somebody with a different perspective.
- 36:21Speaker 1: if they're seeking to broaden their capacity to sell to
- 36:25Speaker 1: people from different demographics, they won't have the tacit knowledge
- 36:28Speaker 1: that they need in order to do it. If you
- 36:30Speaker 1: think of the CIA, they hired brilliant analysts in the
- 36:33Speaker 1: post-war period, and they thought they were the best intelligence
- 36:35Speaker 1: agency in the world. But a lot of the information
- 36:38Speaker 1: was obviously confidential. It's only now we can see how
- 36:41Speaker 1: awful they were, because almost everyone, almost 100% of their
- 36:45Speaker 1: analytical team were white, middle-class, West Coast people. Anglo-Saxon, Protestant,
- 36:54Speaker 1: liberal arts graduates. Nothing wrong with that background, right? But
- 36:58Speaker 1: if you're trying to assess threats emerging from around the world,
- 37:02Speaker 1: the Soviet Union, how would you possibly understand the probability
- 37:08Speaker 1: of a conglomeration of different nations falling apart if you've
- 37:12Speaker 1: been brought up in a stable middle-class family in America?
- 37:17Speaker 1: How are you going to understand tribals? sectarianism and the
- 37:20Speaker 1: risks of radicalization in the Middle East when you come
- 37:23Speaker 1: from that background. When the UK joined the coalition to
- 37:30Speaker 1: invade Iraq, there was a genuine view that you impose
- 37:33Speaker 1: democratic institutions and it will work effectively. There was no
- 37:36Speaker 1: real understanding of the history of Iraq and how those
- 37:40Speaker 1: institutions would be hijacked by sectarian interests because these guys
- 37:44Speaker 1: had gone to university, they'd learned all sorts of interesting things,
- 37:47Speaker 1: but they had no deep understanding of the dynamics in
- 37:50Speaker 1: that country. So if I was talking to, for example,
- 37:54Speaker 1: the Director General of the CIA, I would be explaining,
- 37:58Speaker 1: you know what you know. But in the complex world,
- 38:01Speaker 1: there's stuff that you don't know. There's stuff that people
- 38:04Speaker 1: who think like you don't know. Be creative about how
- 38:07Speaker 1: you optimize the diverse insights that can help you do
- 38:10Speaker 1: the job you want to do. Now, if it was
- 38:14Speaker 1: the CIA, demographic diversity is critical. You need to have
- 38:18Speaker 1: people from different backgrounds who have had different experiences in
- 38:22Speaker 1: order to understand emerging threats. For an advertising team, it
- 38:25Speaker 1: would be different. For a team of economic forecasters, I
- 38:27Speaker 1: can tell you what it would look like mathematically. You
- 38:29Speaker 1: want highly accurate individual forecasters whose models generate diverse predictions.
- 38:35Speaker 1: Because when you average them, you get an incredibly– it's
- 38:38Speaker 1: called the wisdom of the crowds. So there are ways
- 38:40Speaker 1: to do it. I mean, there are tools that we
- 38:42Speaker 1: use with our clients to make this work. And for
- 38:44Speaker 1: what it's worth, the really– obviously– slightly self-serving thing to say,
- 38:49Speaker 1: but I think most of the innovative organizations are thinking
- 38:51Speaker 1: exactly what you've just said. We need to figure out
- 38:55Speaker 1: what it is that we don't know quickly, have some
- 38:57Speaker 1: tenuous sense so we can start plugging these blind spots. Right.
- 39:03Speaker 2: And on that point of innovation, which we touched on,
- 39:06Speaker 2: what are the, so running a business, running a global business,
- 39:09Speaker 2: as it scaled, I could see that we were getting
- 39:10Speaker 2: less innovative. You kind of get complacent, you build teams,
- 39:13Speaker 2: you get, you know, your teams get more comfortable with
- 39:16Speaker 2: how it's always been done. And then just getting them
- 39:19Speaker 2: to disrupt themselves becomes increasingly difficult. Especially when more people
- 39:22Speaker 2: get involved, things seem to slow down. Someone goes on
- 39:25Speaker 2: annual leave. And then you've, so you've got a new
- 39:27Speaker 2: innovative idea. You put it on an email thread. It
- 39:29Speaker 2: stumbles around. the email thread for four months. Nobody's incentivized
- 39:32Speaker 2: to do that because they're all getting paid to do
- 39:34Speaker 2: their current job. And you don't typically have like an
- 39:37Speaker 2: innovation team. So when it's everybody's job, it's nobody's job.
- 39:41Speaker 2: These are all probably, you know, and then these are,
- 39:42Speaker 2: and then you talk about failure as well. People aren't
- 39:44Speaker 2: incentivized to fail in big organizations. What are the parameters
- 39:48Speaker 2: or the factors or the dynamics of a team that
- 39:52Speaker 2: does innovate?
- 39:54Speaker 1: So I think, look, I think that's all right. And
- 39:56Speaker 1: I think it's a bandwidth issue. I mean, you talked
- 39:58Speaker 1: about a team that's been successful thus far. I mean,
- 40:01Speaker 1: take the legal profession, which have used the billable hour
- 40:04Speaker 1: for a very long time, have done a particular, and
- 40:07Speaker 1: they're busy and they're making money. But I hope that
- 40:11Speaker 1: it's not a particularly unique insight to say that many
- 40:15Speaker 1: of these legal firms will be out of business in
- 40:17Speaker 1: a decade if they don't leverage machine learning and AI
- 40:22Speaker 1: in all sorts of different ways and start to disrupt
- 40:25Speaker 1: their own business. So you can carry on being busy
- 40:27Speaker 1: whilst your equity value is about to disappear. So unless
- 40:31Speaker 1: one is able to say not just we need to
- 40:35Speaker 1: be doing things well for our clients and doing what
- 40:39Speaker 1: we've always done effectively, but we need to also be
- 40:41Speaker 1: thinking about how we do things differently and better. You
- 40:44Speaker 1: may well be busy. You may well have satisfied customers,
- 40:48Speaker 1: but it just takes one competitor to innovate and you're
- 40:50Speaker 1: out of the game. So I think that that is
- 40:53Speaker 1: a good way to focus minds on sparing some bandwidth
- 40:57Speaker 1: to that question of innovation. So it doesn't just get dropped.
- 41:01Speaker 2: It's tough, right? Because that often means a change in personnel.
- 41:06Speaker 2: And nobody likes that idea in big organizations. I think
- 41:09Speaker 2: this is about some of the big advertising groups. They
- 41:10Speaker 2: call them the big six. And the big six have
- 41:14Speaker 2: been around, some of them, one of them in particular
- 41:16Speaker 2: has been around for a hundred years doing advertising. What
- 41:18Speaker 2: are the big six? Like WPP, Publicis, those kind of,
- 41:22Speaker 2: those big. And I was thinking, you know, in their
- 41:23Speaker 2: executive teams, you've got people that have been there for 20,
- 41:26Speaker 2: 30 years. Then this thing called social media comes along
- 41:29Speaker 2: and they're thinking, oh my God, so it's not billboards
- 41:32Speaker 2: anymore and TV. Where does that leave me? And I'm
- 41:35Speaker 2: not going to know what TikTok and Snapchat are. And
- 41:37Speaker 2: the threat of having to replace oneself, I think often,
- 41:41Speaker 2: and your ego often means that you go down with
- 41:45Speaker 2: the Titanic.
- 41:46Speaker 1: Yeah. And for what it's worth, you see this in
- 41:50Speaker 1: many different areas. So I think, do you admire Amazon
- 41:53Speaker 1: as a company?
- 41:54Speaker 2: Admire? Yeah. I mean, in some ways, not in others.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Yeah, so they should pay more tax.
- 41:59Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean, what they've done is just staggering.
- 42:02Speaker 1: Right, but I mean, I think, so I think leadership
- 42:06Speaker 1: counts sometimes when it comes to innovation. I mean, he's
- 42:09Speaker 1: obviously no longer CEO, but I think if you read
- 42:13Speaker 1: Jeff Bezos's letters to shareholders, they're all about the stuff
- 42:16Speaker 1: that we've been talking about.
- 42:17Speaker 2: Failure, experimentation.
- 42:18Speaker 1: Unbelievable commitment. You know, we talked about the meetings, you know,
- 42:22Speaker 1: dissent and then commit. Almost all of the I mean,
- 42:27Speaker 1: the way Amazon conduct meetings, they will, as you know,
- 42:31Speaker 1: they'll read the agenda item in silence so that every
- 42:36Speaker 1: single person is bringing an independent perspective to bear on
- 42:40Speaker 1: what are the risks of this? What might make it?
- 42:42Speaker 1: How could it be improved? What might make it fail?
- 42:44Speaker 1: And then when they start talking, the most senior person
- 42:47Speaker 1: always speaks last. You'll get an unvarnished access to the
- 42:51Speaker 1: insights of your brilliant team. rather than speaking first and
- 42:55Speaker 1: everyone basically converging on what you as a leader has
- 42:58Speaker 1: just said. So they have a range of ways of
- 43:01Speaker 1: trying to ensure they sustain. But, you know, Amazon will
- 43:05Speaker 1: probably struggle, but they've done well so far. And I
- 43:08Speaker 1: think it's a good case study of how to sustain it.
- 43:12Speaker 1: But I've got to say, honestly, one of the things
- 43:14Speaker 1: I'm most interested in is, you know, I mentioned I'm 50.
- 43:18Speaker 1: I'm totally bewildered by social media. And you obviously, you
- 43:22Speaker 1: inhabit it. Right? That world. You know it. You've got
- 43:26Speaker 1: a nuanced, granular understanding of the whole thing.
- 43:29Speaker 2: Yes.
- 43:30Speaker 1: Imagine you're me.
- 43:32Speaker 2: Right?
- 43:32Speaker 1: So now, what do, you know, I don't know. I
- 43:37Speaker 1: don't have the faintest idea of how to youthfully engage
- 43:42Speaker 1: with the social. I came to Twitter late. My tweets
- 43:45Speaker 1: are rubbish. I mean, look, if anyone's following me, thank you.
- 43:48Speaker 1: But I know I'm not very good at it. But
- 43:50Speaker 1: it's an alien world for me. And I've never been
- 43:53Speaker 1: on Facebook.
- 43:53Speaker 2: So we're speaking. Sorry? So we're speaking.
- 43:56Speaker 1: So what should I do? How do I learn?
- 43:58Speaker 2: How did you learn to speak?
- 44:00Speaker 1: Toastmasters.
- 44:01Speaker 2: Well, it's a similar thing.
- 44:03Speaker 1: But it isn't though, because is it?
- 44:04Speaker 2: Yeah. When I did my first public talk when I
- 44:07Speaker 2: was 14, and I always say this, I was speaking
- 44:10Speaker 2: in front of like parents' evening. I'm shaking. My hands
- 44:14Speaker 2: are sweating so much and this paper's shaking so much.
- 44:16Speaker 2: I realised I'm not going to be able to read
- 44:17Speaker 2: the piece of paper because it's moving too much. So
- 44:19Speaker 2: I just made up the speech. And it's a similar
- 44:21Speaker 2: thing with Twitter. You just said, I'd done my first tweet,
- 44:23Speaker 2: awful tweets. And then you're like, it sounds like you quit.
- 44:27Speaker 2: Or you were disincentivised?
- 44:28Speaker 1: I'm still there, but I don't do it very much. Actually,
- 44:31Speaker 1: I say that. I've probably done a few thousand tweets,
- 44:33Speaker 1: but I came to it late, and I still feel that... Okay,
- 44:38Speaker 1: let me ask you this. If you had to summarise
- 44:41Speaker 1: what you know about the social media and how one
- 44:46Speaker 1: engages with it, how one wants one's articles to be read,
- 44:51Speaker 1: is it impossible to encapsulate that in a minute?
- 44:54Speaker 2: I would say... So what I do... professionally, what used
- 44:58Speaker 2: to do professionally is I'd go and do these talks
- 45:00Speaker 2: telling people all about social media, all the tips, tricks, techniques, algorithms,
- 45:05Speaker 2: all the psychology and really explaining it to them. And
- 45:08Speaker 2: then I'd end my talk by telling them that everything
- 45:10Speaker 2: I've just told them probably won't be the case in
- 45:12Speaker 2: three to six months because it changes so much. And
- 45:15Speaker 2: what that therefore means is the only way to know
- 45:17Speaker 2: what I know is to play with the toy as
- 45:20Speaker 2: often as you can. And so this is why I
- 45:23Speaker 2: say to people when they come up to me and say,
- 45:24Speaker 2: how do I become a social media expert? I say
- 45:26Speaker 2: to them often, like, name something you're interested in. They'll go,
- 45:28Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, cars. I'll say, go make
- 45:31Speaker 2: a car Instagram page and run it. Because then it
- 45:34Speaker 2: puts you in the trenches and it makes, it puts
- 45:36Speaker 2: you in a growth moment or. So I, and it's
- 45:40Speaker 2: just practice and it's, that's all it is. So. If
- 45:42Speaker 2: you want to become a master of this thing, that's
- 45:44Speaker 2: constantly changing. And there's 10 updates to the top four
- 45:48Speaker 2: social media apps every single week. Then you have to
- 45:51Speaker 2: have a reason to be showing up. Life has to
- 45:54Speaker 2: be giving you a reason to show up every day
- 45:57Speaker 2: and open it up and look at it and perform
- 45:59Speaker 2: these iterative tests, which give you this feedback loop. So
- 46:04Speaker 2: for me, the real savior for me as a social
- 46:06Speaker 2: media CEO, and most of the things I went on
- 46:08Speaker 2: to sell to clients were learnings that I got from
- 46:11Speaker 2: two places. The first is, in my company, I create
- 46:14Speaker 2: this thing called Ever Changing Landscape. Very, very simple, internal group.
- 46:18Speaker 2: Everybody shares everything they know every day. Oh my God,
- 46:21Speaker 2: I've just seen TikTok have launched this new button, goes
- 46:23Speaker 2: into the group. We then text it to all of
- 46:25Speaker 2: our employees at 9 a.m. in the morning, every morning
- 46:27Speaker 2: on WhatsApp. So, and it's this constant loop of what's new,
- 46:31Speaker 2: what's changing. Our mantra as a company became keeping brands
- 46:34Speaker 2: at the forefront of what's possible. But that slogan appreciates
- 46:38Speaker 2: the fact that there's a marketing director shitting themselves because
- 46:41Speaker 2: it's changing every day. And they want to be at
- 46:43Speaker 2: the forefront of what's possible, but they're shitting. So it
- 46:45Speaker 2: feels like two jigsaw pieces. I'm shitting myself because this
- 46:48Speaker 2: thing's changing. You're saying you're going to keep me at
- 46:50Speaker 2: the forefront of what's possible, which is going to make
- 46:51Speaker 2: me look good to the CEO. We're going to help
- 46:54Speaker 2: your social chain. And the second thing that kept me
- 46:56Speaker 2: at the very forefront and made me good at social
- 46:58Speaker 2: media is I run my personal brand on social media,
- 47:02Speaker 2: which means that on LinkedIn, Instagram, Twitter, every day, I'm
- 47:06Speaker 2: either tweet and I've got a team that helped me now,
- 47:08Speaker 2: but I'm tweeting. I'm looking at the numbers, doing a post,
- 47:11Speaker 2: looking in the comments. Okay. That didn't go well. Click
- 47:13Speaker 2: on the insights button. Loads of people seem to share
- 47:15Speaker 2: this one. Why is that? Oh, maybe that's because there's
- 47:17Speaker 2: eight posts and getting all the subtitles. Oh my God.
- 47:19Speaker 2: Look at the retention number. When we did subtitles, the
- 47:22Speaker 2: retention is so much higher. Click on the insights. Oh
- 47:25Speaker 2: my God. Look. So when we do that at the
- 47:26Speaker 2: start of the video, 80% of people fall off in
- 47:29Speaker 2: the first five seconds of all of my videos. So
- 47:33Speaker 2: I've got to do something special in the first five seconds.
- 47:35Speaker 2: And it's that constant learning over 10 years, then people
- 47:38Speaker 2: call you an expert. It's not, I've just been playing
- 47:40Speaker 2: with a toy longer.
- 47:41Speaker 1: Yeah, and that, I mean, it's great to hear you
- 47:43Speaker 1: say that, because I think that's the pattern of learning
- 47:46Speaker 1: in pretty much all fields.
- 47:48Speaker 2: Every field in all aspects of life.
- 47:50Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's science, right? You're getting the iterative feedback.
- 47:52Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 47:53Speaker 1: And the more granular the feedback, I mean, if you know...
- 47:56Speaker 1: that people are switching off the video after five seconds
- 47:59Speaker 1: or ten seconds, that's better than just knowing that 50%
- 48:02Speaker 1: dropped off over the total time. So it's the granularity
- 48:06Speaker 1: and speed and objectivity of that feedback. So playing with it,
- 48:10Speaker 1: do you think that, so you may think this is
- 48:12Speaker 1: a cop-out, but say you're, you know, here's me now
- 48:15Speaker 1: trying to get, if you're a writer and you obviously
- 48:19Speaker 1: got a lot going on, in terms of coming up
- 48:21Speaker 1: with a new book. Do you think it's outsourced? I mean, obviously,
- 48:23Speaker 1: you could outsource it to a brilliant person to do.
- 48:26Speaker 2: You could outsource it to a brilliant person to do.
- 48:28Speaker 2: A lot of charlatans, a lot of snake oil salesmen.
- 48:30Speaker 2: So it's fine. How do you know what's good when
- 48:31Speaker 2: you don't know what's good?
- 48:32Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Well, that's one of the reasons.
- 48:35Speaker 1: As it happens... I have tried to do that, and
- 48:38Speaker 1: I've had a number of proposals, and I'll check with
- 48:40Speaker 1: you at the end of this podcast.
- 48:41Speaker 2: Okay, fine. That's what we'll do in exchange. I'll help
- 48:42Speaker 2: you find someone that is actually good.
- 48:44Speaker 1: That's the quid pro quo, right? You can have a
- 48:47Speaker 1: lovely cup of tea. There you go. What I would
- 48:48Speaker 1: say is....
- 48:52Speaker 2: You can learn one channel, one or two channels with
- 48:55Speaker 2: no matter how busy you are. Um, and if you
- 48:58Speaker 2: do learn one or two channels, the impact it will
- 49:00Speaker 2: have on your business, your, as an author, as a, as,
- 49:04Speaker 2: as a, you know, someone that, um, shares their ideas
- 49:06Speaker 2: with the world and creates blogs is tremendous. You only
- 49:09Speaker 2: have to learn one or two channels better than 95%
- 49:11Speaker 2: of people. And to do that, you just need to
- 49:14Speaker 2: use it every other day. And if I was you,
- 49:16Speaker 2: I'd be thinking Twitter, I'd be thinking it depends. Medium
- 49:21Speaker 2: is an interesting one. I'm going to give you three. Twitter, LinkedIn,
- 49:24Speaker 2: and Medium. I wouldn't bother with Instagram if I was you.
- 49:27Speaker 2: If you're a Super easy to learn. And I know
- 49:36Speaker 2: that sounds like really, of course I'll say that because
- 49:39Speaker 2: I like, but those two platforms I think will have
- 49:41Speaker 2: a exponential impact on your business.
- 49:44Speaker 1: It's interesting. So, so somebody in my office handles the
- 49:48Speaker 1: LinkedIn and Instagram, but I've not really been on them
- 49:52Speaker 1: enough and love. So look, this is really, really, really helpful.
- 49:55Speaker 1: Do you think that social media has been a force
- 49:59Speaker 1: for good in the world? Because it's difficult. I mean,
- 50:02Speaker 1: I don't know if you've been following the news on
- 50:04Speaker 1: that the last, well, you probably have the last 48 hours.
- 50:07Speaker 1: But I see, you know, we talked a bit earlier
- 50:10Speaker 1: about how we can converge with people who think the
- 50:14Speaker 1: same as us. And we've obviously seen that on certain
- 50:17Speaker 1: types of social media where you get these echo chambers, Trump,
- 50:20Speaker 1: the filter bubble, other things of that kind. But at
- 50:23Speaker 1: the same time, you have access, if you want it,
- 50:26Speaker 1: to lots of different voices and people in Certain types
- 50:29Speaker 1: of societies can blow whistles on things that are going wrong.
- 50:33Speaker 1: I think the political consequences of the social media are
- 50:38Speaker 1: among the most important of my lifetime. I obviously am
- 50:43Speaker 1: not a native and I have a particular analysis. What's
- 50:46Speaker 1: your take on that?
- 50:48Speaker 2: So the great things to come from social media, the
- 50:50Speaker 2: first things that spring to mind are important ideas being
- 50:53Speaker 2: shared at scale and change happening faster than it ever
- 50:56Speaker 2: possibly could have. So you think about key movements around
- 51:00Speaker 2: LGBTQ rights, you think about certain causes, you think about
- 51:05Speaker 2: atrocities happening in certain parts of the world, having a
- 51:07Speaker 2: window into those things and those ideas spreading very quickly.
- 51:11Speaker 2: And the consensus being arrived at quickly therefore action been
- 51:15Speaker 2: taken quickly therefore change and political change happening at light
- 51:17Speaker 2: speed I think is amazing I think one could say
- 51:24Speaker 2: being able to make some type of connection with people
- 51:27Speaker 2: in faraway lands however on the adverse consequences of social
- 51:31Speaker 2: media the biggest ones for me are the things like
- 51:36Speaker 2: Instagram which will ultimately lead you to believing that you're
- 51:40Speaker 2: a piece of shit and not enough.
- 51:42Speaker 1: And how does it do that? Because everyone's life looks
- 51:44Speaker 1: so good.
- 51:44Speaker 2: Everyone's amazing.
- 51:46Speaker 1: So that does happen on Instagram.
- 51:47Speaker 2: Of course. Yeah. I mean, the algorithm will show you
- 51:51Speaker 2: the prettiest people, typically. Typically the prettiest people that have
- 51:54Speaker 2: the best lives. And then obviously there's this almost like
- 51:57Speaker 2: Black Mirror-esque ranking where... if I post a selfie and
- 52:00Speaker 2: I'm not looking on my A game, I'll get less likes.
- 52:03Speaker 2: So that's like the world's going, five out of 10
- 52:07Speaker 2: Steve today. And then I come back with the filter
- 52:09Speaker 2: and I'm posing and I've done the little Photoshop here
- 52:12Speaker 2: and the face tune here. And I come back looking
- 52:14Speaker 2: at my fake self and it was Instagram. Oh, well done.
- 52:17Speaker 2: And then it's incentivizing me. It's positively reinforcing me to
- 52:21Speaker 2: live a more fake, more shallow, more materialistic life.
- 52:24Speaker 1: That's so interesting. And people do, you know they change
- 52:28Speaker 1: their phones to look better i.
- 52:29Speaker 2: Read about this in my book the the ceo of
- 52:31Speaker 2: an app called facetune said that um facetune is basically
- 52:36Speaker 2: an app that allows you to very easily without any
- 52:39Speaker 2: editing skills change completely how you look you can change
- 52:41Speaker 2: your skin color that make you make your face have
- 52:45Speaker 2: no spots on it you can suck your face in
- 52:47Speaker 2: your hips in and it's so easy to do and
- 52:50Speaker 2: um And so the CEO of that company said that
- 52:54Speaker 2: he hit a goldmine. And he says openly, he says,
- 52:55Speaker 2: it was just a goldmine. The amount of downloads that
- 52:58Speaker 2: app has had from young people who want to change
- 53:01Speaker 2: how they look is staggering. Then you have this other
- 53:03Speaker 2: thing now with these face filters, where I can put
- 53:06Speaker 2: a filter on and it will just clear my skin
- 53:08Speaker 2: up and suck my face in just a little bit.
- 53:10Speaker 2: And now people can't operate without them. I think I'm
- 53:14Speaker 2: probably guilty of it too. If I can just press
- 53:15Speaker 2: this button and it's going to increase my prospects of dating,
- 53:18Speaker 2: And I'm going to get.
- 53:19Speaker 1: Better positive feedback. Don't tell me you're having problems getting dating.
- 53:22Speaker 2: I mean, that... I can't... Well.
- 53:24Speaker 1: Actually, people can't see you. But he's a handsome guy.
- 53:29Speaker 2: And that's the downside.
- 53:30Speaker 1: By the way, that's the other thing. Young people are
- 53:31Speaker 1: all so muscularly... When I asked about it, no one
- 53:34Speaker 1: was interested in kind of having... Have you met Ben Francis?
- 53:38Speaker 2: I have, yeah, yeah.
- 53:38Speaker 1: Because we interviewed him on this podcast. you've been on
- 53:41Speaker 1: it he's been on here oh has he's a great
- 53:43Speaker 1: guy but he was like i'm like all these let's
- 53:45Speaker 1: see the two sort of iconic young entrepreneurs but this
- 53:49Speaker 1: thing about instagram is really really interesting really interesting so
- 53:53Speaker 1: you think it is actually incentivizing people constructing.
- 54:00Speaker 2: There is no way it isn't if you so let
- 54:02Speaker 2: me give you some more information on this so Um, when,
- 54:06Speaker 2: when they did the stack, this vast report on which
- 54:09Speaker 2: social platforms are having the most adverse impact on young
- 54:12Speaker 2: people's mental health, Instagram was stand out. It's a visual platform,
- 54:16Speaker 2: which is, um, ranking you on how you look and
- 54:19Speaker 2: the algorithm will show you the richest smart, the richest,
- 54:22Speaker 2: most beautiful, most successful people. You've got the Kardashians on
- 54:25Speaker 2: there with 150 million followers who are literally have been
- 54:29Speaker 2: in the last couple of months, um, been like a
- 54:32Speaker 2: paparazzi person took the photo of them on the beach
- 54:36Speaker 2: and then you got to see what they posted and
- 54:39Speaker 2: they don't look the same. And you've got a hundred
- 54:42Speaker 2: million girls following this person who is lying about the
- 54:46Speaker 2: fact that they don't have cellulite and they're not a normal,
- 54:48Speaker 2: you know, because these are normal things. We all have,
- 54:50Speaker 2: you know, cellulite and this and this and the rationing
- 54:52Speaker 2: spots here. And you think about how we attribute the
- 54:56Speaker 2: value of anything in our lives through contrast in which
- 54:58Speaker 2: the context in which we see it. So if you put,
- 55:02Speaker 2: I talk about this in my book as well, if
- 55:04Speaker 2: you put three TVs on a wall in an electronic shop,
- 55:07Speaker 2: people will think the most expensive TV is too expensive
- 55:11Speaker 2: and too bougie. They'll think the cheapest TV is probably
- 55:14Speaker 2: going to break and not very good. So typically they
- 55:16Speaker 2: go for the middle one. Whereas if you remove them,
- 55:19Speaker 2: the two next to it, then they make different decisions.
- 55:22Speaker 2: And you've seen this with like Ash's paradigm and you
- 55:24Speaker 2: see it on menus and the way that we attribute
- 55:27Speaker 2: the value. Like I would be the prettiest, richest, most
- 55:30Speaker 2: successful person on planet earth. If there was nobody else
- 55:34Speaker 2: on earth, because it's all a measure of comparison and
- 55:37Speaker 2: Instagram is a billion people measure of comparison. Where do
- 55:41Speaker 2: I rank?
- 55:42Speaker 1: You've written about this, haven't you?
- 55:43Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'll give you my book after. Yeah.
- 55:46Speaker 1: I'm going to read it. I mean, that would be
- 55:48Speaker 1: a fantastic one. What was it? How to Be a
- 55:49Speaker 1: Happy Millionaire?
- 55:50Speaker 2: No, the title is Happy Sexy Millionaire. And I'm kind
- 55:53Speaker 2: of trying to Instagram people, Instagram bait people into buying
- 55:57Speaker 2: the book, right?
- 55:58Speaker 1: Right, right, right.
- 55:58Speaker 2: Because much of buying books is virtue signaling. Right, right, right.
- 56:02Speaker 1: So the other thing that intrigued me on the way
- 56:04Speaker 1: here today was listening to the podcast where you say,
- 56:08Speaker 1: this is my podcast. I'm slightly embarrassed about it. Don't
- 56:12Speaker 1: tell anyone about it, whatever you do. I would never
- 56:16Speaker 1: have thought of that as a way of having a
- 56:18Speaker 1: handle on a pot. I love that. I absolutely loved it.
- 56:21Speaker 1: In a funny kind of way, it's kind of like
- 56:23Speaker 1: … As a parent. It's a bit like reverse psychology.
- 56:26Speaker 2: Like vegetables. Or getting your kids to eat vegetables or something.
- 56:30Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think the truth of human
- 56:33Speaker 1: psychology are probably, I mean, you mentioned Ash. By the way,
- 56:36Speaker 1: on psychology and on the global reach of Twitter, you
- 56:39Speaker 1: talked about Ash's conformity experiment. That varies systematically around the world.
- 56:46Speaker 1: So in Western countries, more individualistic countries, people deviate more
- 56:53Speaker 1: from the herd.
- 56:53Speaker 2: Can you explain what that is?
- 56:54Speaker 1: So if you're thinking of the same experiment … The lines. Yeah, yeah.
- 57:00Speaker 1: So Solomon Asch, one of the most famous experiments in
- 57:04Speaker 1: modern psychology, he drew a number of vertical lines which
- 57:13Speaker 1: were of the same length and then a fifth line
- 57:19Speaker 1: that was significantly different in length to the other four.
- 57:23Speaker 1: And then he got people to answer the question, do
- 57:27Speaker 1: you think these, I think I've got this broadly right,
- 57:29Speaker 1: do you think all of these lines are of the
- 57:31Speaker 1: same length? And if you have people answering that on
- 57:33Speaker 1: their own, like 99% say the fifth line is of
- 57:36Speaker 1: a different length to the other four. But what Ash
- 57:38Speaker 1: did is he got 10 confederates to come in and say, oh,
- 57:42Speaker 1: they're the same. And then, oh, they're the same. And
- 57:44Speaker 1: then the third person, oh, yeah, they're the same length.
- 57:46Speaker 1: And then the fourth person, they're the same length. Then
- 57:48Speaker 1: when it gets to the actual subject of the experiment,
- 57:50Speaker 1: they're like, oh, my goodness, if all these people think that,
- 57:53Speaker 1: It must be the same. So they say, yeah, they're
- 57:55Speaker 1: all the same. So they're effectively disbelieving the evidence of
- 57:58Speaker 1: their own eyes in order to fit in with the crowd.
- 58:01Speaker 1: Now that conformity bias, which surprises a lot of people,
- 58:05Speaker 1: is stronger in other parts of the world than it
- 58:07Speaker 1: is in Western.
- 58:09Speaker 2: Can I just add as well on these lines? When
- 58:11Speaker 2: you see these lines, there is no possible way that
- 58:16Speaker 2: that small line is anywhere near the size of the
- 58:20Speaker 2: other lines. But as you say, because of conformity, these
- 58:23Speaker 2: participants just go along with it. And it's just Beggar's
- 58:27Speaker 2: belief that that's how human psychology works.
- 58:31Speaker 1: But there is a good reason for it, if you
- 58:32Speaker 1: think about it. I mean, there's a number of different
- 58:36Speaker 1: theories about why it happens. But one of them is
- 58:38Speaker 1: that occasionally, one can get things wrong that seem obvious.
- 58:44Speaker 1: And if there's a lot of people who are independently
- 58:47Speaker 1: saying the same thing, that's very good evidence of what
- 58:49Speaker 1: they're saying is true. And so humans, I think that
- 58:53Speaker 1: bias evolved probably to enable us to take advantage of
- 58:57Speaker 1: the wisdom of the crowd. Crowds can converge on things incorrectly,
- 59:03Speaker 1: but not independently of each other. So if you imagine
- 59:05Speaker 1: a stock market bubble, that's one person buying, another one
- 59:09Speaker 1: seeing that person. buying, and then another person seeing those
- 59:12Speaker 1: two buying, and they get a bandwagon effect. Whereas if
- 59:16Speaker 1: 10 people independently say that these two lines are different
- 59:21Speaker 1: and you have no reason to believe that they're lying,
- 59:23Speaker 1: that's a good reason to start doubting. But the reason
- 59:27Speaker 1: I mentioned it is, there is this global systematic variation
- 59:30Speaker 1: in psychology. So you may have heard of, uh, you know,
- 59:34Speaker 1: something called the fundamental attribution error, um, where we tend
- 59:38Speaker 1: to blame people for things that are, things have gone
- 59:41Speaker 1: wrong because of the situation. Um, that's much stronger in
- 59:44Speaker 1: the West than it is in the rest of the world.
- 59:46Speaker 1: Cognitive dissonance varies fundamentally, even visual illusions, um, vary around
- 59:52Speaker 1: the world. Uh, and the reason I mentioned that is
- 59:54Speaker 1: I think, um, It's helpful for businesses to understand it,
- 59:59Speaker 1: but I think it actually reaches into our deep history
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: and how human societies evolve, which is the topic of
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: my next book. But I thought you might be interested
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: in that.
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- 1:01:41Speaker 2: this podcast every week that you guys love. One thing
- 1:01:46Speaker 2: I certainly do want to talk to you about as
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: well is how, as an individual, because we've talked a
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: lot about companies and teams, how as an individual one
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: is to reach their, this is a super broad question
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: and I hate asking broad questions because you tend to
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: get broad answers, but how as an individual one could
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: reach their potential or what are some of the fundamental
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: things that block people from reaching their potential? We've talked
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: about a fear of failure. We've also touched on the
- 1:02:13Speaker 2: idea that people don't start because of that fear of
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: failure and they don't get the feedback loops. But what
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: are the other common sort of threads that you see
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: and the reason why people never get near their potential
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: in life?
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: So in addition to those things, so fixed mindset, fear
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: of failure, risk aversity, all the things we've addressed, the
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: other thing I think is I've become more interested in,
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: it's related to what we've said, but I think it's different,
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: is what you might call initiative or agency or proactivity.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: I remember having an idea. This is in the 1970s,
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: early 1980s. I was going to table tennis competitions and
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: carrying this very heavy bag, blue hodl, ascot hodl, and thinking,
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: my goodness, this is really doing my back in. And
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: it was just retrospectively obvious that the solution to a
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: problem that many people had who were traveling a lot
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: is to put wheels on luggage, wheeled suitcases, which we
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: all have now. But having the idea doesn't mean a thing.
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: You've actually got to act on that idea. You've got
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: to say, right, I'm going to try and design something.
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: I'm going to try and sell it to a department store.
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: I'm going to try and market it. I'm going to
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: try and buy a shop. I'm going to have to
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: pay rent. I'm There is a massive difference between a dormant,
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: passive idea and one that you act upon. Another example,
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: I lived on a road in Richmond when I first
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: moved there in my mid-20s, and it had no off-street parking.
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: What I didn't realize is that in Richmond, parking is
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: a nightmare because all the houses have less parking spaces
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: than there are Sorry, there are less parking spaces than
- 1:04:03Speaker 1: there are houses, and so people park on the street,
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: and then they get taken up, and you end up
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: having to park 10 minutes away. A few doors down,
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: I noticed at the top of the road, there's a
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: house with a parking space that is always empty. I
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: thought to myself, you know, I should knock on the door,
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: or I should write them a note, and say I'm
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: willing to pay rent or to buy it from you.
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: But I never got around to doing it, and then
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: a few years later, I was at a house party,
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: And this person said, oh, I used to live on
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: Montesquieu Road.
- 1:04:32Speaker 2: Oh, really?
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: That's interesting. I lived there too. He said, yeah, I
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: had the house at the top. I said, what, with
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: the parking space? He said, yeah, what I never understood
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: is that no one ever came and asked whether they
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: could rent it out. And I thought, that idea was
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: in my head, and I never acted on it.
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: Why?
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: Because there is a fundamental inertia in a lot of us.
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: It's easy to have an idea. It takes a bit of...
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: I remember when I was injured in table tennis and
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: I wasn't practicing, I wasn't doing anything, and I sat
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: at home. Just posting a letter felt like an unbelievably
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: tough thing to do. You have to go all the
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: way to the post office. You have to buy a stamp. Oh, man,
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: I'm struggling. The psychologist I've got interested in recently is
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: a guy called Michael Fraser. He's a German, really interesting guy.
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: And he looked at the unification of Germany after the
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: fall of the Berlin Wall. And The West German business
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: was like, this is fantastic, we're going to have this
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: pool of really keen workers. And it just didn't work
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: out because the East German, generalising a little, but the
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: East German workers had worked in a communist system where
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: all the decisions are taken by the party bosses. And
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: so if a machine broke down, instead of taking action
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: to fix it, they would just wait for the boss
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: person to come along and fix it for them. If
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: they needed the telephone number, they would wait and they
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: wouldn't act on it. And I think that being able
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: to– Richard Branson, you probably know. I mean, I got
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: to know a little. He talked about how– I think
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: this is probably– well, this is the way he tells it.
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: Virgin Atlantic, he was flying to the British Virgin Islands
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: to meet his girlfriend. He has a stopover in Miami.
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: They're bumped off the flight. They delay it to the
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: next day, and everyone sat there going, this is a disaster.
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: Then he thought, well, hang on a second. I could
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: charter a private plane. which were in the airport. So
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: he took the initiative. Probably a few people had that idea.
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: What about chartering a private plane? But he actually picked
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: up the phone and said, right, how much will it
- 1:06:38Speaker 1: cost to charter a plane? You know, $ 10, 000. He then
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: went round to all the people with a blackboard saying,
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: you know, flight, this is the amount per ticket. Some
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: people bought it. They managed to take the flight. And
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: then when he got home, he rented a Boeing and
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: went from there. And I think that proactivity is absolutely critical.
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: You go to school for all those years, you get
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: to 16, but what about going out there and you're
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: about to take a decision about what your future career
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: will be? In my day, when you came out of university,
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: some people would be in the same career for life.
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: And you take that decision without going and asking people,
- 1:07:16Speaker 1: what was it like in this job? Could I perhaps
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: work for a day in this job? A lot of
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: people I went to university with took jobs without any
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: of that proactive analysis of what it would be like. Now,
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: you as an entrepreneur have this in spades. I want
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: more entrepreneurship in schools. I want proactivity. Instead of learning
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: business studies concepts, this is another experiment by Michael Fraser.
- 1:07:39Speaker 1: Instead of people doing an MBA... He gave them a
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: short course on converting ideas into action. He calls it
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: the action cycle. Those entrepreneurs compared to a control group
- 1:07:52Speaker 1: had 25, I can't remember the exact amount, but five
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: times more successful businesses or 20% higher profits. It was
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: published in Science magazine. So I think that's a really,
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: really big deal.
- 1:08:05Speaker 2: That's a mindset. I just can't get over this idea
- 1:08:07Speaker 2: that you saw that car parking space and you didn't,
- 1:08:11Speaker 2: You didn't knock on or send a letter. And I'm
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: trying to understand, linked also to what you then talked
- 1:08:16Speaker 2: about with Richard Branson at that airport with the Blackboard
- 1:08:20Speaker 2: going around and trying to sell this airline that he'd
- 1:08:22Speaker 2: just come up with. What is the mental, like cultural, mental,
- 1:08:29Speaker 2: psychological difference between the people that sat there and thought,
- 1:08:33Speaker 2: I'm just going to accept this situation as is, like
- 1:08:36Speaker 2: you did with the driveway, or like the other passengers
- 1:08:39Speaker 2: who had just been cancelled did? and the person that
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: takes the initiative? What is it about them? And what
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: is blocking? I guess a better question is what is
- 1:08:46Speaker 2: blocking those that are sat there on the airport floor thinking, fuck,
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: my life is over, or I can't find a car
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: parking space. What is blocking them? And is it, this
- 1:08:55Speaker 2: is my hypothesis, there's some kind of mental equation we're
- 1:08:58Speaker 2: all doing very, very quickly that's weighing up the effort
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: it would take and also our perceived outcome of success,
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: our perceived chance of success in endeavour and coming to
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: the conclusion that it's just not worth it or possible.
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: I don't think that's what's happening. I would reject that hypothesis.
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: I don't think people make a rational calculation. I think
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: it's more habit. Once you're used to doing things, if
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: you've been at a school, and some people are lucky
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: enough to go to school, where you are encouraged to
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: make things happen. Some schools, they are actually asked to
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: start a business, to pick up the phone, to engage
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: with other people as they seek to do something. It
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: becomes a habit sometimes. The idea of writing a letter
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: and dropping it, it's like no big deal. That isn't
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: a barrier for me. It becomes second nature. I can
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: tell you from this parking space, I was just in a,
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: it was just pure inertia. I hadn't learned that entrepreneurial mindset.
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: I mean, that took me a long time to learn
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: as well.
- 1:10:04Speaker 2: And you think, I'm just thinking about how I would
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: teach someone. to be proactive. I, I, so for, I,
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: I've thought a lot about this too. And I, you know, I,
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: I think you get people to do it. So what
- 1:10:15Speaker 2: Fraser does in his courses, he keeps linking ideas to action.
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: You're not allowed to have an idea without acting upon it.
- 1:10:22Speaker 2: He calls it the, uh, the active ingredient. So you
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: get into a habit of, so, so one, uh, uh,
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: one of the entrepreneurs, so, so he's done these experiments
- 1:10:32Speaker 2: in Europe and in Africa, uh, But in one of,
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: I mean, he tells great stories about it, but it's
- 1:10:37Speaker 2: such a long time since I read the papers. So
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: I think habit, doing it again and again and again,
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: you begin to get into the routine of linking ideas
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: to action. Honestly, I think we shouldn't underestimate how damaging
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: it can be if we just continue to go with
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: the flow and we're not prepared to break it from
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: time to time. Then you'll, kind of just a puppet
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: to the course of life, I guess, in some respects. Right.
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: And I think there are a lot of people with
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: truly brilliant ideas, huge potential, who never act on their dreams.
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: You had the dream, but think about your dream. That
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: would remain dormant in your head had you not acted.
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: These are distinct phenomena, the idea and the action. You
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: can have ideas and dreams without acting on them.
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: I just, my, yeah. So I get a lot of
- 1:11:32Speaker 2: DMs from people. You can imagine the DMs are, I've
- 1:11:35Speaker 2: got a great idea. And you know that 99% of
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: the people you speak to are never going to do
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: anything about it because the hardest part is doing, it's
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: just day one. It's like, think of the name of
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: the company, but they just, well, I call them sofa-preneurs.
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: They have the idea on the sofa. It never makes
- 1:11:54Speaker 2: it up out of the sofa. Right. And that's like
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: 99% of people. And I wonder what the barrier is
- 1:11:59Speaker 2: between like starting. I sometimes hypothesize that it's because of
- 1:12:03Speaker 2: this culture of perfectionism and this culture of needing to
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: start at a perfect point with all the resources, all
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: the knowledge, all the contacts, the right team, which is
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: not the case. I mean, if you look at how
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: Ben Francis started his business where I started mine, it's
- 1:12:17Speaker 2: Googling on a computer, how do you build a website
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: and doing that for three months, um, But I always wonder,
- 1:12:25Speaker 2: I think we would unlock so much potential if we
- 1:12:28Speaker 2: were able to get people just to the starting blocks.
- 1:12:32Speaker 2: And we can't. They're all on their sofas.
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: Yeah, you describe it brilliantly. A couple of things that
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: might be worth throwing in. There's a guy called Mike Barton.
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: He was Chief Constable of Durham Police.
- 1:12:46Speaker 2: Hmm.
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: And he kept getting rated the highest by the independent
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: inspector of the constabulary. And I remember I was really
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: intrigued by this. So I talked to him and met him.
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: And he said that if he could, he would ask
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: every wannabe police officer to take one year off to
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: start a business and for it to fail or to succeed.
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: Just so they started learning using their own initiative. Because
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: that is what great policing is about. Stanley McChrystal. Stanley
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: McChrystal was the head of the task force in Iraq
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: after the invasion that were trying to quell the insurgency
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: of al-Qaeda. And at the time, it was a top-down model.
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: People at the bottom were passive. If they wanted to
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: get anything done, they had to go up the chain
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: of command, get sign-off, and it would go back down.
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: So lacking agility and not really using their brains. And
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: he pushed... authority down the chain of command. People could,
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: they could, as it were, initiate action against al-Qaeda targets
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: if they thought it was sensible to do so. And
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: it had a big, big effect on the success of
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: the army, the number of operations, but also the percentage
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: of successful operations. So I think that, you know, I
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: think there's a lot of different people who are working
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: along the lines that we're talking about right now. But
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: for me, education is a key. And I'd like to
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: see more work done in schools to really equip young
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: people with this active ingredient.
- 1:14:10Speaker 2: You've written, I think we said six books, right? Six
- 1:14:13Speaker 2: books now. They center around topics like high performance and
- 1:14:17Speaker 2: mindset and the like. What's the biggest thing that you're
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: a contradiction on in terms of what you can write
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: about and know and profess to the world, but then
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: you struggle with in your personal life to implement?
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: That's a great question. That's a great question. I've never
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: been asked that before. So one of the things I'm thinking,
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: so I write newspaper columns or I write a sports
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: column for the Times and a political column for the
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: Sunday Times, right? And I think one thing that I
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: try to do is read other people who disagree with me.
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: Because that's a really useful thing because either you really
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: understand why you think they're wrong or you realize there's
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: a weakness in your own argument. But now I think
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: about it, I think the last fortnight I haven't been
- 1:15:08Speaker 1: doing that enough. So I must remember that as a
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: discipline to constantly read those sources that I know are
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: going to be different. I've got a question for you,
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: by the way. So this is another one that I'm
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: thinking about a lot. What's your view of the word woke?
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: So if you're my age, you know, people, you know,
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: cancel culture. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
- 1:15:38Speaker 2: Which part? So, I mean, I was actually, funnily enough,
- 1:15:41Speaker 2: I was listening to Piers Morgan talk about the word
- 1:15:45Speaker 2: woke last night. Where?
- 1:15:46Speaker 1: Where were you listening to it? Why are you listening?
- 1:15:48Speaker 2: It was a 60 Minutes Australia interview. And I don't
- 1:15:51Speaker 2: know why, it just came up in my, I watch
- 1:15:52Speaker 2: 60 Minutes Australia because I'm in the algorithm. So, I'm
- 1:15:55Speaker 2: in the echo chamber, so it's serving it to me
- 1:15:56Speaker 2: every day. And he's done an interview in the last
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: 24 hours regarding Meghan Markle and explaining, you know, he's
- 1:16:02Speaker 2: being a bit of a crusader now saying, I was
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: cancelled for standing up for my opinions. He's like really
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: going for it now. And so I don't really want
- 1:16:11Speaker 2: to get into definitions because then people are just going to,
- 1:16:13Speaker 2: but so cancel culture, I think is a bad thing
- 1:16:17Speaker 2: because I think, I mean, we saw one yesterday where
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: the cricket player who said some very, you know, racist things,
- 1:16:25Speaker 2: things 10 years ago when he was a teenager has
- 1:16:28Speaker 2: now been suspended from the England cricket team 10 years
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: later he said a couple of things you know about
- 1:16:34Speaker 2: You know, he said something.
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: I've seen it.
- 1:16:36Speaker 2: I don't want to repeat it because someone's going to
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: clip it in the Daily Mail.
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: That's my column.
- 1:16:40Speaker 2: Is that what you're writing about? Yeah. I mean, it's racist.
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: I'm a person of colour and I think it's ridiculous
- 1:16:46Speaker 2: that he was cancelled. Yeah, he said some stupid jokes,
- 1:16:48Speaker 2: some stupid, slightly racist jokes 10 years ago. Are we
- 1:16:52Speaker 2: really going to create a culture where we're going to
- 1:16:53Speaker 2: rid him of his livelihood for some stupid tweets when
- 1:16:56Speaker 2: he was a teenager? Because I tell you what, I
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: don't know a single human being that's not cracked a
- 1:17:01Speaker 2: slightly inappropriate... either slash partly racist joke in their lifetime
- 1:17:05Speaker 2: and this idea that publicly we're all angels perfect angels
- 1:17:10Speaker 2: who are here to judge others to the same standard
- 1:17:13Speaker 2: of false perfection that we portray is just like deeply
- 1:17:16Speaker 2: toxic and then also we're now uh on the on
- 1:17:19Speaker 2: the idea of like free speech we're now stopping the
- 1:17:22Speaker 2: best ideas because we're judging them based on whether they
- 1:17:25Speaker 2: fit or not And this is, again, we talked about
- 1:17:28Speaker 2: divergent thinking and thinking, having more diverse thoughts and accepting
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: them and welcoming them and interrogating them for their merit,
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: not whether they fit, I think is awful. And my
- 1:17:37Speaker 2: last point, again, is there's been a couple of moments,
- 1:17:40Speaker 2: Black Lives Matter, some other issues where my opinion has
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: been in neither camp. And it's just, you know, totally unacceptable.
- 1:17:52Speaker 2: Because I would say Black Lives Matter issue, I did
- 1:17:54Speaker 2: a post, you know, the narrative was if you don't,
- 1:17:56Speaker 2: speak out, then you're a racist. Silence is violence, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 1:18:00Speaker 2: And after George Floyd was tragically murdered, I did a
- 1:18:04Speaker 2: post saying, listen, people process traumatic events in various different ways.
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: Going to social media and posting about it isn't actually
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: a very human way to process trauma. So if someone
- 1:18:15Speaker 2: isn't speaking, it doesn't make them a racist. And also,
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: you know, and the problem with the thinking there is
- 1:18:21Speaker 2: people will look at your opinion and say, he's not
- 1:18:23Speaker 2: wearing our football kit. He must be one of them.
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: And because he's not wearing our football kit, the socks,
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: the shoes, the shorts, the shirt, he must therefore believe
- 1:18:31Speaker 2: all of the things that the right believe. And it's
- 1:18:35Speaker 2: so binary. There's no appreciation or space for nuance. It's
- 1:18:39Speaker 2: not the way to get to the best ideas, right?
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: Look, I'm really glad to hear you say all that.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: I agree with everything you said. And I'll add one
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: other thing, so I concur with all of those three points.
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: I think they're they're very powerful. Um, the other thing
- 1:18:52Speaker 1: I'm from a half Pakistani, half Welsh background, you know,
- 1:18:55Speaker 1: so I've had the P word a lot in the
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: seventies and eighties and I'm sensitive to, to, to racial discrimination.
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: Now I saw my father not get from a brilliantly
- 1:19:06Speaker 1: talented person, not get promoted because of his color. Um,
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: and that, you know, it leaves a real scar on
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: someone growing up. The other thing is, I think it's
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: a complete absence of an analysis of how to improve
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: the lives of people from ethnic minorities. Um, canceling somebody
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: who sent a tweet nine years ago in their formative years,
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: it is almost like a fig leaf for true action.
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: Civil rights movement is a great thing in America, in
- 1:19:35Speaker 1: my opinion, Martin Luther King. the Civil Rights Act, the
- 1:19:38Speaker 1: Voting Rights Act. But I think we have to acknowledge
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: that it hasn't achieved many of its most basic objectives.
- 1:19:46Speaker 1: If you look at the number of black people in prison,
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: the education gap, the income and wealth gaps, I think
- 1:19:53Speaker 1: there's a real empirical question about what we do. And
- 1:19:58Speaker 1: it's not going to help those massively important demographic statistics
- 1:20:03Speaker 1: to cancel somebody. And it's almost like it's a, It's
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: a surrender when we should be doing things that can
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: have a tangible effect.
- 1:20:12Speaker 2: This is what my post said. It was nine slides
- 1:20:15Speaker 2: long or nine tweet threads. And the conclusive point was,
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: I'm going to be black forever. So if you want
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: to help me and my future kids and my kids' kids,
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: a black tile on Instagram or a hashtag doesn't actually
- 1:20:27Speaker 2: address the problem. Cancelling someone, telling organizations they need to
- 1:20:31Speaker 2: donate doesn't actually help the problem. If you really cared,
- 1:20:34Speaker 2: if your care was genuine and not... survival orientated or
- 1:20:38Speaker 2: virtue signaling orientated, you'd probably be thinking about systemic issues
- 1:20:41Speaker 2: and you can't capture or, you know, or you'd be
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: reading or educating yourself, which are all things that won't
- 1:20:47Speaker 2: take place in the public forum. So go at the
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: systemic stuff or, you know, educate yourself. That, that to
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: me feels like a more genuine way to change things. Hashtags,
- 1:20:57Speaker 2: black tiles, cancelling. Does it just seems like you care
- 1:21:02Speaker 2: more about yourself? Right.
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: It's kind of not, it's a kind of, it's a
- 1:21:06Speaker 1: kind of narcissism, I think. At its worst, it can
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: be that. How do people react to that post?
- 1:21:12Speaker 2: Do you know what? On that particular one, everyone agreed.
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: And that's crazy because no one was saying it. And
- 1:21:21Speaker 2: it's like, because I'm a black guy, it was like,
- 1:21:25Speaker 2: I gave them space to disagree. So it was actually
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: on Instagram. It did 600,000 likes on, which is a
- 1:21:32Speaker 2: lot of likes, right? It did hundreds and hundreds of
- 1:21:34Speaker 2: thousands of shares.
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: I think my record is probably 50.
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: It's one of my best, I think one of my
- 1:21:38Speaker 2: best performing posts ever. And it was funny because you
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: had like, I don't know, three black people in my,
- 1:21:42Speaker 2: in the comment section being like, yeah, you know, you
- 1:21:44Speaker 2: meant to be like angry at me. But then when
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: I'd ask them, I'd say, which one of the slides
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: do you disagree with? And tell me the sentence you
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: disagree with. You can't find something you disagree with in
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: the post. It's the sentiment that this is not the
- 1:22:00Speaker 2: party line. Yeah.
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: By the way, one other thing, the Wisden, the cricket magazine, Wisden.com,
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: have managed to find a post from an England player
- 1:22:11Speaker 1: that was controversial, I think racist or misogynistic, but before
- 1:22:15Speaker 1: they were 16 years of age. So they haven't published
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: the name yet. But can you imagine if that person
- 1:22:21Speaker 1: was suspended for something they said when they were effectively
- 1:22:25Speaker 1: a child? Because we talked about failure.
- 1:22:28Speaker 2: If.
- 1:22:28Speaker 1: Anyone who aspires to the England cricket team never says
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: anything publicly, never writes a school essay that might come
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: back to haunt them. The way we learn is by
- 1:22:37Speaker 1: saying things and then being challenged. You don't lose all
- 1:22:41Speaker 1: of that if you basically just either toe the party
- 1:22:45Speaker 1: line or say nothing at all. That would be a
- 1:22:48Speaker 1: catastrophe for a dynamic liberal society.
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: Imagine all the progress that would have been lost had
- 1:22:55Speaker 2: people not have stepped outside of the party line and
- 1:23:00Speaker 2: stood on top of podiums and made speeches that people
- 1:23:03Speaker 2: disagreed with and got them stoned and shot. I mean,
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: that's where most progress seems to come from. It seems
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: to come from an outlier, an original thinker.
- 1:23:09Speaker 1: Well, that's right. And, you know, I mean, it might
- 1:23:12Speaker 1: sound old-fashioned to say this, but, you know, John Stuart Mill, Locke,
- 1:23:18Speaker 1: the founding fathers in the United States... what used to
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: be called the Western miracle, you know, the fact that
- 1:23:24Speaker 1: economic growth was, was very close to 0% for the
- 1:23:28Speaker 1: first 2 million years of, uh, the species to which
- 1:23:33Speaker 1: we belong. Right. I mean, it was very, very tiny
- 1:23:36Speaker 1: throughout our history. You know, somebody who was born in
- 1:23:38Speaker 1: 2000 years ago and somebody was born 1500 years ago,
- 1:23:43Speaker 1: it has seen very little change in society. And then
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: economic growth started taking off in the 18th century. And
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: now obviously it's, you know, doubled and trebled and quadrupled.
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: And we expect growth to be 2% to 3% a year.
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: And if we have two consecutive quarters of negative growth,
- 1:24:00Speaker 1: we call it a recession. One of the reasons that
- 1:24:03Speaker 1: happened is because of exactly what you say. People were
- 1:24:06Speaker 1: freed from the constraints of the party line. You could
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: say something that, for example, the religious authorities didn't approve of,
- 1:24:15Speaker 1: that the sun is the center of the solar system,
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: not the earth. You can test hypotheses. You can say
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: the world is older than 6,000 years. You start to
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: adapt your understanding of the world. That's science. That's technology. Now,
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: free speech doesn't seem fashionable these days. But those ideas,
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: in addition, by the way, to things like due process,
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: the thing that has made me trend, the only time
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: I think I've ever trended on Twitter, is when I
- 1:24:44Speaker 1: defended due process. So the idea that in order to
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: be punished for something, you have to have had some
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: kind of an independent process, some independent tribunal to establish,
- 1:24:57Speaker 1: having listened to different sides of the argument, whether the
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: crime had taken place. Now that, again, is something that
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: takes societies a long time to create an independent rule
- 1:25:08Speaker 1: of law. you know, judiciary. And people were like, that's outrageous,
- 1:25:13Speaker 1: because I was defending somebody who had been accused of
- 1:25:15Speaker 1: a racist remark. And I said, yeah, racism's wrong, but
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: let's wait for the process before this person is sacked.
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: The implication was I was defending racism itself. But that
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: is not the same thing. But I worry a bit
- 1:25:28Speaker 1: that we're losing that distinction.
- 1:25:32Speaker 2: I think there's certain people fighting back.
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
- 1:25:35Speaker 2: And that'll be, maybe it'll swing back the other way.
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope so.
- 1:25:39Speaker 2: I would hope so too. Self-belief. I'm very intrigued as to,
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: you know, certain people in our society are more self-believing
- 1:25:50Speaker 2: than others. You see differences in genders and races and backgrounds.
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: And I think a lot of people in my DMs,
- 1:25:58Speaker 2: and this is where the question comes from, I have
- 1:26:01Speaker 2: so many young kids in my DMs that are struggling
- 1:26:04Speaker 2: with confidence or lacking self-belief. And I wondered if you
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: had any words of wisdom for those in my DMs
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: that can't find confidence and self-belief.
- 1:26:17Speaker 1: I think, for what it's worth, that self-belief, self-esteem, other
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: things of that kind are overrated. And the reason goes
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: back to something we said earlier. I mean, there was
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: a movement in the 70s and 80s in Western education
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: to build self-esteem in young people. And the way to
- 1:26:38Speaker 1: do it was to let them succeed all the time, right?
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: So you might remember this, but you give them easy tests,
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: get them to pass, and then praise them for how
- 1:26:50Speaker 1: super talented they were. They get all this self-esteem and
- 1:26:52Speaker 1: they can change the world. It's People were so worried
- 1:26:55Speaker 1: about undermining self-esteem that there were no losers in sports
- 1:26:58Speaker 1: days at some schools. I don't know if you've heard
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: of this. Everyone's a winner.
- 1:27:03Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone gets a sticker.
- 1:27:04Speaker 1: And that was all about building. It was called the
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: self-esteem movement. But it failed. And the reason it failed
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: is because people would keep succeeding and they'd get all
- 1:27:14Speaker 1: this self-esteem. And then they'd be given a difficult test.
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: or they would leave school and they'd actually hit the
- 1:27:22Speaker 1: real world where they would fail. And what happened? All
- 1:27:25Speaker 1: the walls of their world would come crumbling down. Oh,
- 1:27:27Speaker 1: my goodness.
- 1:27:29Speaker 2: They never failed before.
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: Right. Self-esteem that is fragile. And people would protect their
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: self-esteem by not trying new things, right? And that's a disaster.
- 1:27:38Speaker 1: Self-esteem can be very fragile. I like to talk much
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: more about resilience. I want my children to be resilient,
- 1:27:46Speaker 1: to try new things, to mess up. but not to
- 1:27:49Speaker 1: be devastated by it. And that I think is a
- 1:27:52Speaker 1: much better course. Now, it may be that when people
- 1:27:54Speaker 1: are talking about confidence, what they really mean is resilience.
- 1:27:57Speaker 1: I want to be able to walk into a room,
- 1:28:00Speaker 1: give it my best shot. Things don't go slightly wrong.
- 1:28:02Speaker 1: I'm going to carry on regardless. Every person who's a
- 1:28:06Speaker 1: success has had some really tough, difficult moments. And I
- 1:28:11Speaker 1: just think that's an inevitable part of learning.
- 1:28:13Speaker 2: How do we build resilience in ourselves?
- 1:28:15Speaker 1: Both mindsets, very strongly related to it. So instead of,
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: you know, for parents out there, you probably have a
- 1:28:22Speaker 1: very young audience, but the parents out there, it's very
- 1:28:26Speaker 1: easy to praise young people for their talent. They've just
- 1:28:30Speaker 1: drawn a picture. You're super talented. You're the next Picasso.
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: You think they're going to develop all this self-esteem. The problem,
- 1:28:38Speaker 1: as I've said, is that, you know, the they draw
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: something that isn't Picasso, as soon as they get negative criticism,
- 1:28:43Speaker 1: oh my goodness, I'm no Picasso after all. Much better
- 1:28:47Speaker 1: thing to do is to praise them for the effort
- 1:28:50Speaker 1: or the process. Well, I love the way that picture,
- 1:28:54Speaker 1: the colors fit together. They think, oh, right, if I
- 1:28:56Speaker 1: want to develop as a painter, I have to make
- 1:28:57Speaker 1: the colors fit together in a more sophisticated way. You're
- 1:29:00Speaker 1: aligning their mind and motivation with the journey they need
- 1:29:05Speaker 1: to take to fulfill their potential. So it's good experiments.
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: Praising for effort, praising for process is a much more
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: positive thing than praising for talent and fixed attributes.
- 1:29:16Speaker 2: It's interesting because in my company, I came to learn
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: that the most effective way to get my teams to
- 1:29:22Speaker 2: innovate was to praise them for the effort and the
- 1:29:25Speaker 2: process as opposed to the outcome. Because if it became
- 1:29:27Speaker 2: about the outcome, the success or failure of the experiment, then,
- 1:29:32Speaker 2: which is largely actually outside of their control, right? When
- 1:29:35Speaker 2: you're doing, so if I say to my team, right,
- 1:29:37Speaker 2: we're going to build this website and we think it's
- 1:29:39Speaker 2: going to do this. whether it does that or not,
- 1:29:41Speaker 2: whether there's product market fit, whether it's a success or
- 1:29:43Speaker 2: a failure, isn't actually in their control. The bit they
- 1:29:45Speaker 2: can control is starting doing it and the process of
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: getting to the point where we press go live. And
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: so what I learned in the last year of my
- 1:29:54Speaker 2: business was we would celebrate conducting the experiment, not the
- 1:29:57Speaker 2: outcome of the experiment.
- 1:29:59Speaker 1: Exactly right. That is exactly the same thing. And it's
- 1:30:03Speaker 1: interesting that if you look at R & D, have
- 1:30:05Speaker 1: you heard of Six Sigma?
- 1:30:07Speaker 2: Yes.
- 1:30:08Speaker 1: Six Sigma is a great process, like lean manufacturing or
- 1:30:16Speaker 1: things of that kind. It's basically squeezing out variation, isn't it?
- 1:30:20Speaker 1: So if you imagine making a car, a manufacturing car,
- 1:30:24Speaker 1: all it takes is one component in the engine to
- 1:30:27Speaker 1: be of the wrong size or specification, and the whole
- 1:30:29Speaker 1: thing won't work. So Six Sigma is about delivering and
- 1:30:33Speaker 1: executing with no variation. But when you're innovating, you need variation.
- 1:30:38Speaker 1: You need to try new things. If you're trying to
- 1:30:40Speaker 1: create a new computer program, a new website, or a
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: new drug, and you don't know which combination of ingredients
- 1:30:47Speaker 1: are going to create it, you need to try lots
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: of combinations. If you penalize people for failure, and you're
- 1:30:52Speaker 1: only judging them on the outcome, and it fails, and
- 1:30:55Speaker 1: then they're stigmatized, they will never try. That's where fail
- 1:31:00Speaker 1: fast comes in. Yeah, you've nailed it. That's exactly the
- 1:31:03Speaker 1: insight that I think is important.
- 1:31:07Speaker 2: And I guess the last thing I want to talk
- 1:31:08Speaker 2: to you about is leadership and how one can become
- 1:31:12Speaker 2: a better leader in whatever field of life you're in,
- 1:31:17Speaker 2: whether it's sports or whether it's business like me. What
- 1:31:21Speaker 2: are the attributes of successful leaders?
- 1:31:26Speaker 1: Well, I think it's a very difficult job.
- 1:31:32Speaker 2: Leadership. Leadership.
- 1:31:34Speaker 1: Yeah, extremely difficult. I don't know if you'd agree with this,
- 1:31:37Speaker 1: but I do think even in a psychologically safe, you know,
- 1:31:40Speaker 1: where people can speak up, a leader still needs to
- 1:31:43Speaker 1: make the decision. I think it can often lead to
- 1:31:45Speaker 1: confusion over who's in charge if it's a completely democratic organisation.
- 1:31:49Speaker 2: Oh, God, yeah.
- 1:31:50Speaker 1: You need leadership. So I believe my own view, based
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: on evidence, is that you need social hierarchies in order
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: for organisations, institutions and societies to succeed. but you want
- 1:32:01Speaker 1: those hierarchies to work. So leadership, I don't think you
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: can outsource it. You need to make judgments. You need
- 1:32:07Speaker 1: to take ownership of those judgments. But I think if
- 1:32:10Speaker 1: I had to say one thing, okay, I'll give you my,
- 1:32:13Speaker 1: and this is based on knowing a lot of like,
- 1:32:15Speaker 1: you know, many, many leaders in lots of different contexts
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: over a long period of time. I think the best
- 1:32:20Speaker 1: leaders have a hybrid approach to leadership.
- 1:32:23Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:32:25Speaker 1: And what I mean by that is When you're evaluating
- 1:32:30Speaker 1: what we should do next, you need to be humble.
- 1:32:35Speaker 1: You need to encourage different ideas and you need not
- 1:32:38Speaker 1: to be threatened when people dissent because that encourages people
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: to speak up. But when you've made a decision and
- 1:32:47Speaker 1: you've found the destination and you're going for it, I
- 1:32:50Speaker 1: think you need to then have confidence and, you know,
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: you need to galvanize. That's where charisma comes to the
- 1:32:56Speaker 1: fore when you articulate the mission. Because at that point,
- 1:32:59Speaker 1: having different ideas, you know, you're already on the way.
- 1:33:02Speaker 1: That can often be quite disruptive. I mean, obviously, you
- 1:33:04Speaker 1: do need to change the trajectory if, you know, something.
- 1:33:07Speaker 1: But I think that, and funny enough, in sport, you see,
- 1:33:10Speaker 1: so humility and evaluation, confidence and execution. It's the same
- 1:33:14Speaker 1: in sport. So, if you imagine you're a surgeon or,
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: or in, or in surgery, if you're humble, the time
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: you wield the scalpel, this might go wrong. I don't
- 1:33:24Speaker 1: know everything. You know, your hand is going to be,
- 1:33:26Speaker 1: if you're Tiger Woods in the 18th, you want to
- 1:33:27Speaker 1: be absolutely confident when you take the putt execution. But
- 1:33:32Speaker 1: then if the surgeon says, I'm a genius, I'm brilliant.
- 1:33:35Speaker 1: You know, I'm confident. I don't need to learn. They'll
- 1:33:37Speaker 1: never evaluate what happened and therefore won't improve. I'll tell
- 1:33:41Speaker 1: you what made me think. I once, um, ghosted David Beckham.
- 1:33:44Speaker 2: Fixed mindset, right? Complacency creeps in and, You're talking about
- 1:33:48Speaker 2: the surgeon that's sure they're right, and it's the fixed
- 1:33:52Speaker 2: mindset analogy you made, and then complacency creeps in.
- 1:33:55Speaker 1: It's a disaster because what you want to do after
- 1:33:58Speaker 1: a surgical procedure is review it in a completely honest
- 1:34:03Speaker 1: way so you can find out things that you did
- 1:34:05Speaker 1: wrong and could improve. But if you have utter self-confidence,
- 1:34:08Speaker 1: I don't need to improve, that's exactly, as you say,
- 1:34:10Speaker 1: a fixed mindset response. You don't improve through time. Beckham,
- 1:34:13Speaker 1: I ghosted his autobiography a few years ago, And he
- 1:34:16Speaker 1: told me about when he took the free kick against Greece.
- 1:34:21Speaker 1: How old are you, by the way?
- 1:34:23Speaker 2: 28.
- 1:34:23Speaker 1: So you won't remember this guy.
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: I remember. I will never forget. It was the World
- 1:34:29Speaker 2: Cup qualifiers. And he ran to the left corner. I'll
- 1:34:32Speaker 2: never forget.
- 1:34:32Speaker 1: That's right. That's right. So it was extra time. He
- 1:34:35Speaker 1: needed a score to get through. And Teddy Sheringham tried
- 1:34:38Speaker 1: to take the ball. And you see on the video,
- 1:34:40Speaker 1: Beckham snapped. And he said, when I took that free kick,
- 1:34:44Speaker 1: I was 100% I was going to make it. That's
- 1:34:46Speaker 1: a useful thing to have, right? But you meet Beckham
- 1:34:50Speaker 1: away on the training pitch, the humility. I need to
- 1:34:53Speaker 1: improve the way I take free kicks. I need to
- 1:34:55Speaker 1: look at the things that went wrong in the previous game.
- 1:34:57Speaker 1: I need to see that. So leaders need to be
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: both humble and confident, depending on where they are on
- 1:35:05Speaker 1: the performance side. When they're out there executing– Confidence. When
- 1:35:10Speaker 1: they're evaluating, reviewing, humility. I think most of the best
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: leaders have it. Satya Nadella at Microsoft is a great
- 1:35:21Speaker 1: example of that. Humble. Their market cap has grown over
- 1:35:26Speaker 1: a trillion dollars since he took over. Very humble person.
- 1:35:30Speaker 1: I've met him a number of times. Great, great person.
- 1:35:32Speaker 1: But there is confidence when he's galvanizing his team towards
- 1:35:35Speaker 1: a decision that they've debated and discussed.
- 1:35:39Speaker 2: I think that's so true. I was just running through
- 1:35:40Speaker 2: all the great leaders that I know and those attributes
- 1:35:44Speaker 2: seem to be there. Even, you know, a good example
- 1:35:47Speaker 2: is Sir Alex Ferguson. Rhea Ferdinand sat in the chair
- 1:35:50Speaker 2: and he told me that Sir Alex Ferguson is obviously
- 1:35:51Speaker 2: known for the hairdryer and being very clear on what
- 1:35:54Speaker 2: he wants. But then if Rhea went to Sir Alex
- 1:35:57Speaker 2: Ferguson after a game and said, you know, you didn't
- 1:36:00Speaker 2: support my brother. Anton got racially abused and then Rhea
- 1:36:04Speaker 2: wore a shirt in protest of it. Sir Alex Ferguson
- 1:36:06Speaker 2: was really angry and Rio went to him after the
- 1:36:09Speaker 2: game and had a chat with him and Alex or
- 1:36:11Speaker 2: Alex admitted he was wrong and held his hands up
- 1:36:14Speaker 2: and somehow managed to make it up to Rio within
- 1:36:17Speaker 2: a couple of words.
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: But you know, that's, that's right. That's exactly right. That's,
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: but it goes with, with Ferguson. He always hired constantly,
- 1:36:27Speaker 1: you know, assistant managers who challenged his perspective, you know,
- 1:36:32Speaker 1: Carlos Quiroz, Mike Phelan, Mullenstein, McLaren, He also would often
- 1:36:40Speaker 1: do competitions for his players to guess who would be
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: in the opposition team. He would go to other clubs
- 1:36:46Speaker 1: and watch the way they trained. Ferguson came from Govan,
- 1:36:50Speaker 1: from a very working-class background. He never lost his capacity
- 1:36:53Speaker 1: to learn.
- 1:36:54Speaker 2: Never.
- 1:36:56Speaker 1: And he always had a certain level of humility. But
- 1:36:58Speaker 1: once they were out there and performing, he was incredibly self-confident.
- 1:37:03Speaker 1: And I don't think that's a contradiction.
- 1:37:04Speaker 2: Interesting. Interesting. It makes me kind of, I was reflecting
- 1:37:09Speaker 2: then on how important it is to be curious throughout
- 1:37:12Speaker 2: your life, even when new technology like social media pops
- 1:37:15Speaker 2: up and you're a little bit disorientated by it. And
- 1:37:19Speaker 2: I see that in really great successful leaders that I
- 1:37:22Speaker 2: know in my life, business owners, CEOs, the ones that
- 1:37:24Speaker 2: are the most curious tend to have the best long-term
- 1:37:29Speaker 2: outcomes and longevity. And I think it's hard to teach curiosity.
- 1:37:34Speaker 2: I do wonder myself because obviously I made my money
- 1:37:37Speaker 2: off social media. And even now, I'm getting too old
- 1:37:40Speaker 2: for certain things.
- 1:37:40Speaker 1: Are you still working in the business?
- 1:37:42Speaker 2: No. I'm not working in the business anymore, no. I
- 1:37:44Speaker 2: resigned at the end of last year. So now I'm
- 1:37:47Speaker 2: a free agent working on a new business, but in
- 1:37:49Speaker 2: a similar industry, slightly different, much bigger ambition, I guess.
- 1:37:55Speaker 2: And I'm working across multiple industries. So I'm working in
- 1:37:57Speaker 2: a psychedelics biotech firm that's about to list for several
- 1:38:02Speaker 2: billion dollars. I'm working at Huel. I'm on the board
- 1:38:05Speaker 2: there and work with that team. I'm working in... variety
- 1:38:08Speaker 2: of different companies all around the world that are in
- 1:38:10Speaker 2: mental health, consumer goods, social media. Um, you know, and I'm,
- 1:38:15Speaker 2: I think I've done that as well because I, as
- 1:38:18Speaker 2: I talk about my book, I want to like resist
- 1:38:19Speaker 2: my labels. I want to stay curious. I want to
- 1:38:21Speaker 2: stay emerged in worlds that I don't know. I'm working
- 1:38:23Speaker 2: on a blockchain company at the moment, which is web 3.0
- 1:38:27Speaker 2: using Ethereum and smart contracts. And it's my, I like
- 1:38:30Speaker 2: being diverse in my thinking because I actually think that's
- 1:38:32Speaker 2: where creativity comes from in a weird way. And the,
- 1:38:35Speaker 2: one of the things that enables me to have this
- 1:38:37Speaker 2: podcast is I have a very diverse view of the
- 1:38:39Speaker 2: world and a very diverse view of organizations and people.
- 1:38:42Speaker 2: And that will make me good at, it sounds like
- 1:38:45Speaker 2: a crazy thing to say. Like we're putting on a
- 1:38:47Speaker 2: theatrical show in Manchester and, sold out. It's like this,
- 1:38:50Speaker 2: it's called the Diary of a CEO Live. There's a
- 1:38:52Speaker 2: big choir, all this, all these really amazing things. And
- 1:38:55Speaker 2: when I look at that show, what it is, it's
- 1:38:57Speaker 2: a culmination. It's a very, very different show, but it's
- 1:39:00Speaker 2: a culmination of all these random experiences I had in
- 1:39:02Speaker 2: my life, going to the theatre for the first time,
- 1:39:04Speaker 2: listening to a choir, watching Kanye West, a light show
- 1:39:08Speaker 2: I saw, and all of these little things. And so
- 1:39:09Speaker 2: I think, you know, you write about it, you talk
- 1:39:12Speaker 2: about diversity of I do.
- 1:39:14Speaker 1: I'm going to send you a copy. So my latest book, well,
- 1:39:18Speaker 1: a couple of years ago now was called the power
- 1:39:20Speaker 1: of rebel ideas, a power of diverse thinking. I'm going
- 1:39:22Speaker 1: to send you a copy. I want to have a
- 1:39:24Speaker 1: copy of your book. I'm going to read it. I'm
- 1:39:26Speaker 1: going to read it this week.
- 1:39:27Speaker 2: Oh, wow. That's fast.
- 1:39:29Speaker 1: Well, how many words is it? Is it very long?
- 1:39:31Speaker 2: No, 17,000. No, no, no, no, no.
- 1:39:32Speaker 1: It's 55,000 words. It's not very long.
- 1:39:33Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay. it's interesting you'll be particularly intrigued by i
- 1:39:43Speaker 2: think by the first couple of chapters which focus on
- 1:39:46Speaker 2: social media the world we're living in keeping up with
- 1:39:48Speaker 2: kardashian's generation etc etc.
- 1:39:50Speaker 1: Well i've got to say uh you know i know
- 1:39:52Speaker 1: we're coming to an end you are you're exceptionally articulate
- 1:39:55Speaker 1: oh that's a huge compliment so i i kind of
- 1:39:58Speaker 1: you know i uh i'm interested in that because i
- 1:40:04Speaker 1: think um I definitely didn't have that when I was
- 1:40:07Speaker 1: at school. I wasn't able really to put sentences together.
- 1:40:11Speaker 2: You should do a podcast. You just have the most
- 1:40:12Speaker 2: amazing voice.
- 1:40:13Speaker 1: I've got to tell you, my brother found an old
- 1:40:15Speaker 1: tape of me being interviewed as a 15-year-old when I
- 1:40:19Speaker 1: got selected for a national team. I think we need
- 1:40:23Speaker 1: more of that. Communication is so important. Getting our ideas
- 1:40:28Speaker 1: across so that somebody can understand not just what we say,
- 1:40:31Speaker 1: but what we mean.
- 1:40:32Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:40:32Speaker 1: And I think that's a radically learnable skill. A lot
- 1:40:36Speaker 1: of the top speakers have practiced it.
- 1:40:40Speaker 2: YouTube aside, it's one that's in decline because of screens, typing.
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You don't have to talk.
- 1:40:48Speaker 2: To each other anymore.
- 1:40:49Speaker 1: Zoom.
- 1:40:51Speaker 2: Anyway, listen, thank you so much for your time. It's
- 1:40:53Speaker 2: been such a pleasure to meet you. I mean, you're
- 1:40:55Speaker 2: an individual that's had such a tremendous impact on thinking,
- 1:40:59Speaker 2: especially of people in the professional, but also self-development world.
- 1:41:02Speaker 2: I remember reading your book a long time ago on
- 1:41:04Speaker 2: a plane bounce and how intrigued I was by, um,
- 1:41:09Speaker 2: the emphasis you put on this growth mindset and practice
- 1:41:12Speaker 2: and being teachable and your, your, your way you are
- 1:41:16Speaker 2: in life, not being set in stone, if you're willing
- 1:41:18Speaker 2: to put in the work and practice. And, um, yeah,
- 1:41:21Speaker 2: I mean, my team here are also huge fans of yours.
- 1:41:23Speaker 2: Matt over there has read all your books. And he'll
- 1:41:26Speaker 2: read them in 24 hours. This guy's a monster.
- 1:41:30Speaker 1: Matt, thank you. Love that. It's been great to see you.
- 1:41:33Speaker 2: It's a tremendous honour.
- 1:41:34Speaker 1: Thank you so much. For me too. And good luck
- 1:41:37Speaker 1: with it. I'm going to follow you with huge interest
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: from now on. And you're about to hit the mainstream,
- 1:41:43Speaker 1: aren't you? Dragon's Den hasn't.
- 1:41:44Speaker 2: Been broadcast yet.
- 1:41:45Speaker 1: Not out yet.
- 1:41:46Speaker 2: January time.
- 1:41:47Speaker 1: Good luck. Thank you.