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123: Q&A - Blessed Hands · Wine & Audacity

• 0:08
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, he is he in pain?
• 0:26
  Speaker 2: Why is he saying like that?
• 0:27
  Speaker 1: What is he?
• 0:29
  Speaker 3: Yep?
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: What the hell? What type of yelp yodel scream? Combination
• 0:33
  Speaker 2: was that you.
• 0:34
  Speaker 4: Were looking at this nigga, what the what the hell?
• 0:38
  Speaker 5: He not? Like, why are you driking off?
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: At the concert the other day in London? She played it,
• 0:47
  Speaker 2: It's like.
• 0:49
  Speaker 4: I broke. I broke getting off in the in the
• 0:51
  Speaker 4: in the booth. Hear what the fun is going on?
• 0:53
  Speaker 4: I'm not going in at him.
• 0:56
  Speaker 3: I can not.
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: I'm not going in that.
• 0:58
  Speaker 4: Niggas, you got wet.
• 1:00
  Speaker 2: And she brought the lust ones out there in London.
• 1:03
  Speaker 2: She did because people was asking like what how happened
• 1:05
  Speaker 2: to them?
• 1:06
  Speaker 4: Like them niggas ain't got lives? That's crazy.
• 1:09
  Speaker 3: Don't you love me?
• 1:11
  Speaker 4: Because see what happened was I was doing this dance competition.
• 1:16
  Speaker 6: And then I was just here that, you know, do
• 1:18
  Speaker 6: the thing, and like, you know, I mean, think about it.
• 1:21
  Speaker 4: I mean you're saying, you saying it, and you saying.
• 1:23
  Speaker 2: That bitches was bitch?
• 1:25
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 1:26
  Speaker 3: Was bitch.
• 1:29
  Speaker 4: You saying it? In Greece one when when Danny was
• 1:32
  Speaker 4: doing a little dancing and little Choya came out, No where.
• 1:35
  Speaker 6: Chacha was giving her the fever, giving me feed Chester, bitch,
• 1:40
  Speaker 6: I'm taking my man man.
• 1:42
  Speaker 2: Listen like you break dance.
• 1:48
  Speaker 4: Look at Chris Brown, maybe listen. I got a debate about.
• 1:54
  Speaker 2: Christ immigrants tinking on in.
• 1:57
  Speaker 4: This y'all want to take you down?
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: Came out, bro, ain't my first time up, baby girl.
• 2:07
  Speaker 2: Wee can't pretending Bapa grinding until the night and never
• 2:11
  Speaker 2: end me chuck it down. And then it got the
• 2:14
  Speaker 2: hump in that stage was like.
• 2:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and then the graduated from take you down, I'll
• 2:20
  Speaker 4: fuck you back to sleep?
• 2:21
  Speaker 2: Uh because him grown man now m m oh, oh
• 2:26
  Speaker 2: my bad.
• 2:27
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 2:27
  Speaker 4: Until we get it right, we're gonna fuck some more.
• 2:32
  Speaker 4: That's what that's that's how you worked through a relationship.
• 2:35
  Speaker 2: Lane, the newest lane and maybe y'all can't focus.
• 2:40
  Speaker 3: Fucus oh.
• 2:44
  Speaker 2: And then seventy two remixes, seventy two remixes of that
• 2:47
  Speaker 2: goddamn song. It is seventy three million remixes of fuck
• 2:51
  Speaker 2: You Back to Sleep. I don't remember that song and
• 2:55
  Speaker 2: just let.
• 2:56
  Speaker 4: Me ride.
• 2:59
  Speaker 2: Fuck you back to leap girl. Don't say the word okay,
• 3:05
  Speaker 2: like I wasn't playing and doing it, but okay, I
• 3:07
  Speaker 2: mean I mean after sex sleep is a.
• 3:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, sure he heard about it.
• 3:23
  Speaker 3: Heard about it, nigga, I've had I've had some experiences.
• 3:27
  Speaker 2: Say don't do him. I'm not here, that's the problem.
• 3:31
  Speaker 2: But you ain't been done brow God fucking celebrate club
• 3:42
  Speaker 2: movie minus this nigga because he got a white Yeah,
• 3:46
  Speaker 2: you gotta having having living in sex is the best thing.
• 3:49
  Speaker 4: Time out out. At the same time, you still gotta
• 3:51
  Speaker 4: work for.
• 3:51
  Speaker 2: It though, I mean these you gots somebody to work
• 3:54
  Speaker 2: for it.
• 3:56
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 3:58
  Speaker 2: I'm over here, eat nice chips and chicken because I
• 4:05
  Speaker 2: bothered over.
• 4:05
  Speaker 3: This Melissa for you. Not I gotta work for it.
• 4:13
  Speaker 3: I go to work. How you like me?
• 4:17
  Speaker 6: Now, Welcome to this week's episode of Wine and Audacity
• 4:27
  Speaker 6: the podcast. I am your host, Brain's card, and I'm
• 4:30
  Speaker 6: joined by two of my favorite people in the world.
• 4:32
  Speaker 6: How are you feeling this week?
• 4:33
  Speaker 2: I'm here at jail.
• 4:35
  Speaker 4: I'm chilling in this jail.
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  Speaker 7: On a Coca Cola orange cream and frushes.
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  Speaker 3: First, feel free to send in my word.
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  Speaker 6: We asked one to part the dream on dot com
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  Speaker 6: that Hey, it's here the O O PA dot com.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's ends of the show. I mean, I was
• 5:01
  Speaker 3: just so good we can. It's a short episode that
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  Speaker 3: for five minutes.
• 5:07
  Speaker 7: In this chair, my beverage, got a coke and a smile.
• 5:17
  Speaker 7: It's like a tumble sometimes when you're drinking company, the beverages.
• 5:26
  Speaker 2: Ship, especially that battery ass that they sell that big Donalds.
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  Speaker 6: I ain't been to McDonald's. Probably kill my ass.
• 5:35
  Speaker 2: A McDonald's bright hit different jail. I haven't been to
• 5:38
  Speaker 2: McDonald's bright in sixteen years.
• 5:41
  Speaker 4: They'll be refreshing, he was.
• 5:43
  Speaker 3: They clear, just especially if they write.
• 5:47
  Speaker 2: Because I got a flat one day, was like, I
• 5:49
  Speaker 2: take this back. It means I'm nasty.
• 5:50
  Speaker 3: I like flat.
• 5:51
  Speaker 2: I can drink flat coke.
• 5:52
  Speaker 3: I can with a flat.
• 5:53
  Speaker 2: Cot like because it tastes like Slurpeyes, it tastes weird.
• 5:57
  Speaker 3: I mean flat coat tastes like slurpy.
• 6:00
  Speaker 4: Like like like like the coke.
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  Speaker 2: Know that coke when and I get that cup and
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  Speaker 2: see all them bubbles in there all ship it's about
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  Speaker 2: to hit.
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  Speaker 6: Nick'd be like a sharp ass sultan.
• 6:17
  Speaker 4: But it's funny. That'sny.
• 6:19
  Speaker 2: And then the belch come out afterwards there all day.
• 6:22
  Speaker 2: Thank you, hold you feel your whole stomach just the
• 6:26
  Speaker 2: flake like I knew. I hate have y'all.
• 6:29
  Speaker 6: Seen those videos of those people are trying to drink
• 6:31
  Speaker 6: a whole bottle of sprite and one like at one
• 6:33
  Speaker 6: time they're trying to die. But it's mostly it's mostly
• 6:37
  Speaker 6: the inside pongs, of course, but they that's a lie.
• 6:42
  Speaker 6: I've seen a lot of different people do it, but
• 6:43
  Speaker 6: it's it's like a challenge that was at one point
• 6:46
  Speaker 6: and they would try to drink like a whole fresh
• 6:47
  Speaker 6: crispy sprite right out the bottle.
• 6:49
  Speaker 2: Bad idea.
• 6:50
  Speaker 3: And this girl was.
• 6:51
  Speaker 7: Like, what does it hurt something?
• 7:00
  Speaker 2: Damn conformation there's supposed to go there at one time. Listen,
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  Speaker 2: ship making stomach explode trying to do that ship damn
• 7:09
  Speaker 2: chest all tight going on because all that just sitting
• 7:13
  Speaker 2: right down, it's gonna come about one way or another.
• 7:18
  Speaker 3: That sounds explosive. Now, what's new this week? My niggas?
• 7:26
  Speaker 2: What was the soft for school?
• 7:28
  Speaker 4: Almost done?
• 7:29
  Speaker 3: For me?
• 7:30
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well, I mean my my kids. That are
• 7:34
  Speaker 4: my kids that that I've been teaching, that I was
• 7:36
  Speaker 4: teaching since they was in the early preschool. They graduating
• 7:40
  Speaker 4: this week, graduating next week. And I'm like, dang, I
• 7:44
  Speaker 4: ain't gonna see you all no more.
• 7:46
  Speaker 2: Damn k y'all didn't know we you know, recording this early.
• 7:51
  Speaker 2: By the time y'all head is Beening happened.
• 7:54
  Speaker 3: In a few weeks would have been passed by the.
• 7:58
  Speaker 4: Nah but you know, we now were about to start
• 8:01
  Speaker 4: up summer camp. I don't like it, can you uh?
• 8:06
  Speaker 3: You feel like it's something you did. I turn your
• 8:08
  Speaker 3: mic down old say something something.
• 8:12
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 8:18
  Speaker 6: It's also weird because I'm using the headphone, so not
• 8:21
  Speaker 6: to be at all different, but I did it as
• 8:23
  Speaker 6: a as a cost saving measure. When we were buyingself
• 8:25
  Speaker 6: of the podcast, I bought three sets of headphones because
• 8:28
  Speaker 6: I had one that I use when I'm at my
• 8:30
  Speaker 6: working at my desk at home, and I usually use
• 8:32
  Speaker 6: those when I'm when we record the podcast, when I'm
• 8:34
  Speaker 6: editing and all the other stuff. So I left those
• 8:37
  Speaker 6: at home on purpose because I have this four set
• 8:39
  Speaker 6: that we use and we have guests that always stays
• 8:41
  Speaker 6: in my bag, and I was like, why am I
• 8:42
  Speaker 6: bringing the extra set? I just use a set that's
• 8:45
  Speaker 6: always in my bag, So this is the first time
• 8:47
  Speaker 6: I'm actually using it. But the sound quality it's not bad,
• 8:50
  Speaker 6: it's just different. I have like these those are like
• 8:54
  Speaker 6: Sony like Sony headphones. And like you can listen to
• 8:57
  Speaker 6: music and so the voices and what I usually here
• 9:00
  Speaker 6: are much more much louder.
• 9:05
  Speaker 4: Dan Hell, no, no, no, man.
• 9:11
  Speaker 2: He tried, get your little ass. Damn, I'm not able.
• 9:15
  Speaker 3: Thank you. I've been working now. Oh delicious, Oh thank
• 9:18
  Speaker 3: you at your You're so dumb.
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: I wanted was looking for ship.
• 9:22
  Speaker 3: I'm chanting in Vanessa.
• 9:25
  Speaker 4: I fucked that bitch and my Shauna voice.
• 9:31
  Speaker 6: Try myth fab So speaking of Vanessa and her husband Doug.
• 9:38
  Speaker 3: I got to I was editing.
• 9:41
  Speaker 6: Well, by the time y'all hear this, it would have come,
• 9:43
  Speaker 6: it would have been posted already.
• 9:44
  Speaker 3: But uh.
• 9:46
  Speaker 6: During No Parts twenty twenty five, the scene where Doug
• 9:52
  Speaker 6: walked into Orphy Jean's to see Joey Vanessa sitting at
• 9:56
  Speaker 6: the table and he got pissed off and left, and
• 9:58
  Speaker 6: Martin walking and said, hey Doug, he was like with that.
• 10:03
  Speaker 3: I listened to that part and I bringed that like
• 10:05
  Speaker 3: four or five times that he was like.
• 10:08
  Speaker 2: Mark was like, well that was bitch.
• 10:17
  Speaker 3: You too, doctor McBride.
• 10:19
  Speaker 6: You I knew something was wrong with you. You and that
• 10:21
  Speaker 6: ship on that stuff. Mm hm, you got a little addiction.
• 10:28
  Speaker 6: So yes, speaking to be on the gage, I guess
• 10:29
  Speaker 6: we'll tell you all this now so you'll know, guess
• 10:31
  Speaker 6: over the past what maybe month or two since the show.
• 10:35
  Speaker 6: We didn't start doing it from episode one? Did we
• 10:37
  Speaker 6: the reviews?
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but we waited a little while before we started. Okay,
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: we didn't starting it first premiere we.
• 10:44
  Speaker 3: Saw and ship.
• 10:46
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but now I guess the show is up to
• 10:49
  Speaker 6: So I guess tell y'all y'all know by now our
• 10:52
  Speaker 6: listeners that we record these episodes well in advance of
• 10:54
  Speaker 6: air date because I'll be having an edit and do.
• 10:57
  Speaker 3: All ship myself. Yeah.
• 10:59
  Speaker 6: So the episode that came out yesterday was episode was
• 11:02
  Speaker 6: sixty five.
• 11:05
  Speaker 4: Sixty came I gotta say, sixty and nine?
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: Man, hold on?
• 11:09
  Speaker 3: Am I that fault? Damn? I here Sam that hold
• 11:12
  Speaker 3: on because yeah, send my notes hold on.
• 11:13
  Speaker 4: Sixty eight hold up?
• 11:15
  Speaker 3: Oh please, dude.
• 11:20
  Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, y'all only get like fifteen seconds of that.
• 11:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this copyright first, Nikka, So I'm joking.
• 11:28
  Speaker 6: Also sixty eight sixty eight, so I yeah, sixty eight.
• 11:35
  Speaker 6: But I'm also I'm kind of behind on my beyond
• 11:38
  Speaker 6: the gates because it's been a busy couple of weeks
• 11:40
  Speaker 6: from me, so not just that, but I feel like
• 11:42
  Speaker 6: we've been, you know, reviewing the Beyond the Gates, which
• 11:44
  Speaker 6: we we love and we still watch every damn day.
• 11:48
  Speaker 6: But I'm not sure if y'all have noticed this, but
• 11:51
  Speaker 6: the Beyond the Gates reviews tend to take up the
• 11:53
  Speaker 6: vast majority of the episodes now, and we haven't done
• 11:55
  Speaker 6: any two B movie reviews. We haven't done any uh
• 11:59
  Speaker 6: any other no episodes without a topic. We just kind
• 12:01
  Speaker 6: of spend two hours talking about, you know, doing a
• 12:04
  Speaker 6: play by player of Beyond the Gates. So we're gonna
• 12:07
  Speaker 6: pause the Beyond the Gates reviews and trying to transition
• 12:10
  Speaker 6: them out for now for now, and we know y'all
• 12:13
  Speaker 6: love them if y'all don't skip past them, so.
• 12:16
  Speaker 3: They'll be back soon with the past y'all petty, I
• 12:20
  Speaker 3: mean they're missing out on eighty five percent episodes, so I.
• 12:23
  Speaker 4: Mean Sean and Brian and be dropping gems.
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: Mm you hear me?
• 12:29
  Speaker 4: Like they they they funny.
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: So yeah, we will come back to Beyond the Gates later.
• 12:35
  Speaker 6: We'll find a way to phase it back into the
• 12:37
  Speaker 6: show later, but we want to get back to doing
• 12:39
  Speaker 6: reviews on documentaries and to B movies, which were fun
• 12:42
  Speaker 6: and other you know, short form content to where we
• 12:44
  Speaker 6: can build a conversation behind it or have a you know,
• 12:47
  Speaker 6: a more interesting conversation behind it versus one person just
• 12:51
  Speaker 6: reading a play by play of what happened on the
• 12:53
  Speaker 6: TV show that aired th you know, a month ago.
• 12:55
  Speaker 3: By the time, y'all hear it.
• 12:56
  Speaker 6: So yeah, we're gonna face phase them out and we'll
• 13:02
  Speaker 6: go back to doing episodes without a topic, talking about
• 13:05
  Speaker 6: more random ship, more Q and a stuff, uh, more
• 13:10
  Speaker 6: interesting questions of the week.
• 13:11
  Speaker 4: I throwing I throw in the anime somewhere.
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah you were supposed to.
• 13:17
  Speaker 4: I know, bro, but you know, working like be working,
• 13:20
  Speaker 4: you feel me, And honestly, I gotta get back. I
• 13:23
  Speaker 4: gotta get back to watching because my life, My life consists.
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: Of beyond the gates, no.
• 13:31
  Speaker 4: Learning with miss learning with Miss Houston, graces.
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: Coring on learning. Nippy got a show.
• 13:37
  Speaker 4: N I'm gonna kick you in your throat for that one.
• 13:41
  Speaker 4: That's crazy, Nat Houston.
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: You know she she living.
• 13:45
  Speaker 4: On this little on this little this little lady from down.
• 13:52
  Speaker 3: Like to be back beyond.
• 13:54
  Speaker 4: Isn't it that blueby Wi Fi?
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: Jesus? Yes? I like that.
• 14:01
  Speaker 6: Can we talk about something that's been going on a
• 14:02
  Speaker 6: lot recently that I've kind of mentioned getting on my
• 14:05
  Speaker 6: fucking nerves. All these fucking spam calls I get and.
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: The text messages and oh how the niggas try to
• 14:13
  Speaker 4: get you.
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: To do that. I have an easy pass.
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: I have an easy pass.
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: And I just checked my easy pass. I know what
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: I owe. Hope, ladies, they're doing all that for six dollars.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: I mean even though they just gonna stay you called
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: information and not damn way, but still for six dollars.
• 14:30
  Speaker 4: Yah, ladies and gentlemen. If y'all getting text messages and
• 14:32
  Speaker 4: they talking about this your last times, your last morning,
• 14:35
  Speaker 4: and your license suspended, first of all, it should not be.
• 14:45
  Speaker 4: It shouldn't be just no red class number like they like.
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: Mine, have been coming from email addresses I told you
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: about sent you to one it It was the truth, Sorry,
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: dot com, I said, y'all, even try no more.
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: Fucking on the one. Is that like purposely? It's like
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: you purposely misspelled the words and ship.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: Because my mail check asked me the other day and
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: she was like, is it a number I can call?
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: Because I got a text message about when I said,
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: girl is a spam? It spam it's staking that's a
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: drink click on off and that. She was like, no,
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: I was just gonna call customer service because I know
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: I ain't been through no toes. And I was like,
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: you know, she said, well, give me the number anyway,
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: because I'm gona call them. Just make sure I don't
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: but I know I ain't been through no toes, but
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: you do. Just don't click the way. They don't send
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: you text.
• 15:28
  Speaker 6: They send you a notice to your house via the mail,
• 15:31
  Speaker 6: with your call on camera going through a toll booth.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: And if you opt out of paperless, you.
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: Oh, mail is the thing that the Post, the Post
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: war could drop off at your house every day.
• 15:44
  Speaker 5: You know, I feel like you're explaining, man, feel like
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: put that audi.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: He is know what mail is?
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: No, I don't know. Because everybody, everybody be on the
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: interwebs and they going everything on paperless.
• 15:54
  Speaker 6: I guess their parents are are the ones getting all
• 15:56
  Speaker 6: the circulars and ship you know from the penny savers
• 15:59
  Speaker 6: and stuff.
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, mail, mail is that ship, that junk.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: Ship saving a long time. I get like six of them.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: You want three of mine?
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Not three of them?
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: I get. I get off from the Washington Post. I
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: get Penny saved its.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't save should think about it.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: From some skims.
• 16:19
  Speaker 6: I don't.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: I don't want to skim. I wouldn't buy it just
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: because who behind it. But anyway, that's a conversation.
• 16:24
  Speaker 6: The text message always has from your Maryland d m
• 16:27
  Speaker 6: V account, which is fucking real flat because of mary
• 16:30
  Speaker 6: A m it's called m v A.
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: So that's the first red D. Right, it's called the
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: n v A.
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: That's administration. You know. That's why I hate what niggas like,
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: I gotta go down to the DNV. You gotta go
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: into the what the way?
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Well, what stake you go with you to go to
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: the d m V because we ain't got that.
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I won't.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Motor vehicles.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: D C has a d m V, right, well, d
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: C motor vehicles, this.
• 16:54
  Speaker 6: DC Department of Motive Vehicles. I don't know what one
• 16:57
  Speaker 6: of the Virginia's called.
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: I think Pennsylvania.
• 17:00
  Speaker 8: These d D is d C, d m V, d
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  Speaker 8: D D d C D that's too much, just a
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  Speaker 8: different one.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, no, that should be first.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: It's not like the naz P.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: And then it's.
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: And they said click on this link here copy linking
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: to your brows.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: It's from a real.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: Funky email address like the two.
• 17:31
  Speaker 6: It's not n v A Maryland dot gov, which is
• 17:33
  Speaker 6: dot gov means it's an official government website, being state, federal, county, whatever.
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: It's churchestoes dot com, slash b all backslash one, two, three, four, five, six.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: Nine, Yeah y'all, yeah, yeah, be careful you don't click
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: on no links. Oh and then you get the spam,
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: cause it's like the serff to a five you, Oh,
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: you want to donate ser.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: You are eligible for go down.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: You are eligible for fifty thousand dollars the loan. You
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: have been pre selected, nigga, I.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: Didn't apply for ship.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: I didn't apply for ship.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: How y'all gonna pre select?
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Get that? Uh, we just need some additional information for
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: the loan you apply for. But my credit report is locked.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: So are you right saying apply?
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: You're trying to apply for something ND to my name.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: You're gonna be just point promise I am a work
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: in progress. They ain't giving me fifty g's. I promise
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: you that right now. Give me a little time. But
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: that's yes, that's not.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: First right now.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: With student loans and y'all can take them the first
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: and least first name my identity.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: If you were first five, I.
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: Mean the first six digits of the social I mean
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: the first four. It's like, no, that's not you.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: You got that's all you.
• 18:53
  Speaker 6: Yeah, But it's to the point where I'm getting like,
• 18:56
  Speaker 6: at least I would say you called my phone, like,
• 18:58
  Speaker 6: but you already what six between six and ten calls
• 19:01
  Speaker 6: a day from different numbers all over the country. Some
• 19:05
  Speaker 6: are local, most of them are local numbers, but somethingm
• 19:08
  Speaker 6: like North Dakota, Wisconsin. And of course I know that
• 19:10
  Speaker 6: they're all like robo callers. They're all like put through
• 19:12
  Speaker 6: a computer program. They just put up a random phone
• 19:15
  Speaker 6: number to send it out to you. But it's to
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: the point now where I actually had to go in.
• 19:19
  Speaker 6: You know, I phones is a seting to basically like
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: ignore spam call. Well not just ignore spam calls, but
• 19:26
  Speaker 6: it's an option you have in on I phones to
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: like basically send calls on send numbers you don't have
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: saved in your context straight the voicemail. So I started
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: doing that and my phone has a run in like
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: four days, which is a blessing because.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: I'm like, because they be spoofing numbers. This what'm saying.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: They spoof numbers. They just this.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: It's a robo dollar that they just pulled random numbers,
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: seven numbers that keep calling me.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: I said, So.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I looked the number up and the first it said
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Maryland Department is something human resources from human services or something,
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: and I was like, no, they can't be right. And
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: then as I scrolled further down, there's a lot of
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: people who had it pulled to doing.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: I called it back from a work phone. I ain't
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: gonna hold you. Called it back from a workflone, just
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: to see who into. Then it was like, you have
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: reached such and such and such such that I said,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: number around Department of Human Resources or services or whatever the.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Hell it's say.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Right click. I din't call this office phone back if
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: you want to. I want to tower this bitch nowhere.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't do that. Yeah, I just got your
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: point where.
• 20:24
  Speaker 6: And I know one time, one time, when I got
• 20:28
  Speaker 6: the call coming through on my phone, I was looking
• 20:30
  Speaker 6: at it as it was ringing, and then a second
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: phone call came through with another spam. I said, bitch,
• 20:35
  Speaker 6: I can't I ain't even click do not for this call,
• 20:38
  Speaker 6: and y'all call.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Me and you always because when they don't want to
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: leave no voicemail because I was sending them straight to
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: the voicemail and then I won't get a voicemail notification.
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: I'm like, well I get voice meess. But it's always
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: you've been pre approved for a fifty thousand dollars long
• 20:50
  Speaker 6: for yeat in your life.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: And how much do y'all pay y'all y'all, y'all, y'all
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: hiring so I can harass them off? How much do
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: they pay y'all to do this? I hope it's and
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: you amount of money for y'all to get on people
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: nerves all day long. I used to answer the phone
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: and troll them. I used to be in the car
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: and they would call when I'd be riding home from work.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: And one day was me, me and Danny and Miss
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: Steph and then he called me and I answered the
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: phone on speaker phone and they asked me and I
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: was like, oh, baby, she was tired. No, I answered
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: the phone. Joe's hoshek you got the door, we got
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: the hoe. And it literally was like, oh hello, man,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: I speak to uh uh and Nashana and I was
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: like oh baby. She was tied, her knees went bad
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: and was like, oh, okay, okay, Saturday, bother you. I
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: know it was spam.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know it was Sam.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Then I can answer the phone. Was like, don't call
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: me no more. She was like, I'll call you if
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: I want to. I said, bitch, I will hunt you.
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: Damn.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: You don't know who I am. I work for the FBI.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: She goddamn fair, I just be I. I'm mess with
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: the people so bad. I answered the phone one day
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: it was like, daddy, get you So you're gonna mess
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: with me. I'm an mess with you. Leave me alone,
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: get a life.
• 22:07
  Speaker 6: Maybe I should be like State of Maryland Investigation of
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: Criminal and Phone Investigations.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: I can to help you.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good idea.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Do that.
• 22:16
  Speaker 6: You freezed the local field office for the Federal Bureau
• 22:20
  Speaker 6: of Investigations, Baltimore Field Office.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: They gonna hang up there. This call, it's this call
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: is being monitored in trees.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: For quality assurance purpose.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: No hello, hello, I thought, so, bitch, did I call
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: you back? As I was saying, you interrupted me.
• 22:42
  Speaker 6: Since you called me, I'm gonna call you back and
• 22:45
  Speaker 6: spam you.
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: You can't pill that that enjoying call and they hung
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: up and the man called back, like the fuck up
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: on you? And it's like, what you're gonna do? It's
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: going yeah, yeah.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I had one called Breathing Heavy. I love you, Baby,
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: I love you. I was like, you know what you know? Sorry,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: this is not one eight hundred. Strokey dope, you got
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: the wrong number. One eight get them ams.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: It's like, what, you know, what's crazy?
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: We don't even see a one nine hundred pussy.
• 23:31
  Speaker 5: I woke up.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: See I don't watch regular TV no more so like
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: I've usually it's like when I'm upstairs, I'm usually like
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: watching the streaming chains and stop. So of course we're
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: gonna see those commercials. But the red time, when I
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: still had cable upstairs because now I don't, I just
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: got the one box in the living room. And when
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: I still had cable upstairs though, and I fell asleep
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: watching something one night and one of them commercials came on.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: I said, they still make this come on?
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Just calling calling for your free reading call and.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Joined the party. We're over here having fun, just looking
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: for someone to talk to you. You want to join,
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I was from next Zemp. I'm just what I woke up.
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: You call it, you're paying, You're paying like twenty dollars.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: A minute, minute a minute. I would get the phone bill,
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: fold bill, one thousand dollars.
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: Who fuck me calling one numbers? It's a it's a
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: guy following to me. I was sleep, I mean, was
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: a guy following Instagram and he, you know, he do
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: all the he'd be he'd be talking about the ship
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: that used to have and he brought up the box
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: and he was like, yo, the box was the was
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: this was the music doctor us until you said that
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: that you said there and you waited three hours. He
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: was like, look, I waited three hours. I wasn't gonna call.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: I wasn't I wasn't calling the pot to punch my
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: three numbers, and then they charged me three ninety nine
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: the phone call. He was like, no, you would sit
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: there and that'd be a whole day, that whole day video.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: And he was like for some songs, you know, some
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: songs you knew, you know, you knew it was just
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: gonna come on, but you'll be sitting there like come on, one, nine, eight, three,
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: come on, come on.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: So you're ready to get into this question of the week,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it. Hold on,
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: I gotta.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Find he said, let's do it. Look, let's do.
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: I need an adult?
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: What happened?
• 25:41
  Speaker 9: You know?
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: What the fuck are we doing?
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: I don't know. He said, let's do it.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Let's He sounded like me at brunch through prior the
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: guy walk past, I was like, okay, legs. Yeah, he
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: laughed when he hit the real short number the group
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: of guys game man, and I was like brand I said, Brandon,
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I said, Bady, he got on your daddy.
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: Who Dad?
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: I like niggas. I like niggas and niggas. He was like.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: The damn moods. And so then when he went the
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: walk past, I was like, okay, legs and he started laughing.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: Alrighty, question of the Week.
• 26:26
  Speaker 6: I think I should know how this segment goes of
• 26:28
  Speaker 6: the show now, But in case you don't, get you
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: a little refreshing. So in our Question of the Week segment,
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: I scoured the interupt ReBs.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: See they were that fucking speech of pediment again.
• 26:41
  Speaker 6: I scour the interwebs, read my TikTok fy p page,
• 26:44
  Speaker 6: and I find some questions. Sometimes they're not so bad,
• 26:47
  Speaker 6: sometimes they are unhinged, as are the responses. So I
• 26:51
  Speaker 6: read the question and a few of the responses to
• 26:54
  Speaker 6: the table and we issue are rating, or rather they
• 26:57
  Speaker 6: issue are reading. So they're ready to get into this, saying,
• 27:02
  Speaker 6: all right, I'm bored. Tell me the most insane date
• 27:06
  Speaker 6: you had with someone? And I don't mean he was
• 27:07
  Speaker 6: six inches shorter than what he said he was. I'm
• 27:10
  Speaker 6: talking about insane.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: You know what's funny, we wanted the Q eight questions
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: this week have dates.
• 27:23
  Speaker 6: Well we can still do that. So I'm bored. Tell
• 27:27
  Speaker 6: me the most insane date you had with someone? And
• 27:30
  Speaker 6: I don't mean he was shorter, six inches shorter than
• 27:33
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane. He
• 27:36
  Speaker 6: took me to a pyramid scheme presentation.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Yo, Yo, don't you.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Want to pick now? I work at this office building
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: downtown next to the bridge.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: You know that, not the white one, the Blackstone.
• 27:55
  Speaker 6: Matter of fact, how about this. I'm wrapping with me,
• 27:57
  Speaker 6: and you know I know you outside. Just park your
• 27:58
  Speaker 6: car coming up sweet three twelve. I'm gonna benna come
• 28:02
  Speaker 6: get you, saying sit in my office.
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: And wait, shut the fuck.
• 28:05
  Speaker 6: Hey, hey, it's beautiful. We were going to be going
• 28:08
  Speaker 6: to dinner after this, right, come on there, come on in.
• 28:11
  Speaker 6: Welcome to prepaid Legal.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: Not legal.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: You want to make an electra man.
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: Fuck you know what?
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: You know what.
• 28:27
  Speaker 6: Y'all from out of the room like yo Ola Davis,
• 28:30
  Speaker 6: you wave me that you're from from the front to
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: us something. You're so beautiful. Hey, y'all, welcome to my
• 28:34
  Speaker 6: pre paid legal seminar. Y'all want to make some extra money.
• 28:38
  Speaker 6: I know I'm on days with three of y'all, but
• 28:40
  Speaker 6: you know such a great time. M rating out of
• 28:46
  Speaker 6: tude that's diabolical that I can't get it, A rating
• 28:51
  Speaker 6: that's diabolical, even though it's an hinge date.
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: You try like so so so I ain't need it.
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: So so are we even gonna go out to eat?
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: Because does that matter?
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: So we was gonna get were going to eat good
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: in the neighborhood, and you got me and this mother
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: kind of shenannikins.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: Don't even get me started.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: Oh lord, don't start me on Prime America. Try to
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: get me back.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: In the day.
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: I'm so glad they lost my check child, because I
• 29:21
  Speaker 6: damned I canceled that bitch. No, that's right, they lost it.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: And I was like, you can't find it, And I said,
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: girl called me tomorrow.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: Man, yeah, man, twas sting in the cup on the
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: conference call. Brandon, this nigga trying to get off the
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: conference call. I gotta yeah, yeah, Brandon, Brandon, are you
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: still everybody? Yeah? Yeah, I gotta go.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: Hang up on him.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: I think I did.
• 29:51
  Speaker 6: I was involved with it for like maybe three weeks,
• 29:54
  Speaker 6: and I was like, so I have to sell them, pay.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: To work for you and then pull people in. And
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: the way I make money is pulling people in the
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: under me to make money off of.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: Them, between them and selling the fucking butcher of knives.
• 30:09
  Speaker 4: And shiite man count of Like, so we just trying,
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: we try and make money for ourselves. We ain't really
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: trying to like bring nobody else in.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Right, That's what I said. I don't want to talk
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: to people.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: I talk to people going door to door for people
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: slam doing my insurance.
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: Like we like twenty, Like we like twenty. Who do
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: we know they need insurance at.
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: Twenty but they can't afford it twenty years old?
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, I remember the day I went and
• 30:40
  Speaker 6: I actually went to Annapolis. I took off work, took
• 30:43
  Speaker 6: off from the job. I was actually getting paid to do,
• 30:45
  Speaker 6: took a day off work, went to an all day
• 30:47
  Speaker 6: seminar and fucking Annapolis when I was living in Baltimore.
• 30:50
  Speaker 6: After that thing, I was like, so I have to
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: come here and do these training sessions with you all
• 30:55
  Speaker 6: to sell insurance.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: I don't want to sell fucking insurance.
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: And I already put put down like five hundred dollars
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: out of my of my own money. But they went
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: back to the office local in Baltimore, and like I
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: mentioned earlier, they said, well, Brandon, we lost your check,
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: can you We can't find it. I said, well, lit's
• 31:10
  Speaker 6: end here somewhere she and the god was like, well, yeah,
• 31:12
  Speaker 6: well we'll look for it, but in a couple of days.
• 31:14
  Speaker 6: If we can't find it, Bonie just need you to
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: write you another one so we can keep you going.
• 31:18
  Speaker 6: And said cool, just let me know. And I blocked
• 31:20
  Speaker 6: that number, but went to my bank and canceled that check.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: And because they were mysteriously found in the first check
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: after you gave him the second check.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: That's fine. M So no rating until Baker was like
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: a thousand out of ten.
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's a loss.
• 31:38
  Speaker 6: Bullshit, Okay, I'm bored. Tell me the most insane date
• 31:42
  Speaker 6: you had with someone. And I don't mean he was
• 31:43
  Speaker 6: six inches shorter than what he said he was. I'm
• 31:46
  Speaker 6: talking about insane. In college, I met up with a
• 31:50
  Speaker 6: guy I met on an app. He wanted to meet
• 31:52
  Speaker 6: at the park to grab coffee and walk around. When
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: I pulled up with my sister, he immediately got upset,
• 31:58
  Speaker 6: even though I told him she was just there to
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: workout and wouldn't bother us.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: He left.
• 32:03
  Speaker 6: The following week, his face was plastered on local news
• 32:05
  Speaker 6: and social media for unalliving to people he met on apps.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Wow, ten, Yeah.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: That's like, that's like that was on the dating game.
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: Got a magine that was he was?
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he was a serial hiller. Yeah that was back
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: in the seventies.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: Like the motherfucker that got awived from Jeffrey Dahmer. What
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: the hell? Yeah, well I never did, white man, they do.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: That's a lie. I wouldn't call you know you're straight?
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: Well he is.
• 32:36
  Speaker 6: He did find out on finding your R he had
• 32:38
  Speaker 6: like a black late. He has a black grandfather. His
• 32:41
  Speaker 6: grandfather was biracial, So that's one drop.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: I take it.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: I met this white guy at the little spot you
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: go to. I wouldn't want you to know him and
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: his uh his, I think it was supposed to be
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: his brother. And his brother came over and was talking
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: to me and mine because we mama was over with
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: the ball cracking out, cracking and stuff. And he came
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: over there was talking to me and mine whatever, and
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: he was saying, that was his brother. And he was like, yeah,
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: he's like six seven. I said, I said, hey, brother,
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: stand up for a second. He's gonna say give me
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: a bit. I got a bad hip. I fell out last.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: So when he ended up getting up and he came
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: and walked over there, and I stood up and was like, wait,
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: let me take my because I had my little my
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: little slides on him and they got like a heilo
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: on the bottom. I kicked them shoes off the still
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: in front of him, I said, I said, I said,
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: I said, chocolate and vanilla go good together. He said,
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: he said, yeah, a little swear lading not wrong with
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: a little swell. I said, boy, you may get brownies
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: part I will take you home, take you to the cook.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: I was like, hey, that's my man saying hey to them.
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: Y'all nigga niggas saying straight up and the dick on
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: the forehead like this, I'll take it before.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: I always have a lot on my mind and so.
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: We love having a lot.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: If you hear this, sir, could baby come back?
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: You can't drain it all.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: She's trying to be an oreot. I ain't been a
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: twinky in a long time. The whole whole tweet. Yeah, okay,
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: I field they got the crumpets with the cream.
• 34:37
  Speaker 6: It was so weird. When I first met the ex
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: I was with almost five years. It was six eight
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: our first date. I'll never forget.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I was like, damn, I remember the first time random
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: boy bro and I said, well, ship you a tall tree,
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: Ain't you all right? I said, that's friend you exploring
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: the Amazon?
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, I see you.
• 35:01
  Speaker 6: Baby and con and I was good for the next question.
• 35:10
  Speaker 6: Even I like climbing trees. I'm boylam tree. Yeah, sounds
• 35:22
  Speaker 6: like a fucking wildebeest. Tell me the most insane date
• 35:25
  Speaker 6: you had with something? And I don't mean he was
• 35:27
  Speaker 6: six inches shorter than what he said he was. I'm
• 35:29
  Speaker 6: talking about insane. Picked me up for our first date
• 35:34
  Speaker 6: and his car was full of roaches and spiders, living
• 35:37
  Speaker 6: and moving roaches and small he was very comfortable with
• 35:40
  Speaker 6: him and.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Away screaming, I'm I'm mentioning, ooh ooh. Get in that.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: Somebody posted a video on tiktoks over it, and they
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: said they found a spider in the corny black widow
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: and they killed it, but then they started noticing webs
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: popper up in the car. Apparently the black widod laid
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: eggs in the car and it was a little, tiny, little.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: That's what I followed this account.
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: I think it's called w D Detailing on TikTok and
• 36:11
  Speaker 6: they're based in I think Gainesville, Florida, or like Orlando, Florida,
• 36:16
  Speaker 6: And apparently that's that's a thing down south where it's
• 36:19
  Speaker 6: hot year round. Yeah, cars can have like enroach infestations
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: because it's warm. They can live inside cars year around.
• 36:27
  Speaker 6: You know, up here, it's not really a thing because
• 36:31
  Speaker 6: at a certain time he is freezing outside there all
• 36:32
  Speaker 6: just die.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: The only thing you got rady about his bees building
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: that's inside the grills and stuff. I opened my grill like.
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: Playing, yeah, I had when I have my Lincoln it's
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: like like a dit of like I got want to
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: work one morning and I just said, I just had
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: a bunch of ants in the front in the front
• 36:55
  Speaker 4: of the in the front passenger. See what I'm saying,
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: like the like, I know, I left my door. I know,
• 37:01
  Speaker 4: I closed the.
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: Door and all the windows going on.
• 37:05
  Speaker 4: So I got someone got like some so I roomed.
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: I roomed my car because I went there and start
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: spraying bleached on the motherfuckers. Then moved. So I figured,
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: I figured because where I parked at you know, you
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: know how my parking light is well parking was parked
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: by the tree, like all right, cool?
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: So then I pulled up.
• 37:23
  Speaker 4: So then I pulled up to the front of the
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: to the front of the house, and then it was
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: then it was then it was on the up on
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: the driver. So I was like, what the fun all
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: spread up bitch down like now like it was like
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: I spray. I sprayed the whole car down with bleach
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: and then the little then the little uh the little
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: bucks sprayed. That was you know, the bucks ray. That
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: was good for them, That was good for dogs. So like, yeah, no,
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: fuck that, bro, Like I don't know where y'all coming from.
• 37:47
  Speaker 6: The detail on the count I followed likes a w
• 37:49
  Speaker 6: D W D detail and they take like cars at
• 37:51
  Speaker 6: are like I'm talking about fifteen five steps past horrible,
• 37:56
  Speaker 6: like somebody moved the seats and everything, and they basically
• 37:59
  Speaker 6: they stripped the interior of the car down to like
• 38:01
  Speaker 6: the metal, and they clean it.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: They pull out the seats, they cleaned the interiors.
• 38:06
  Speaker 6: They but a lot of those cars are in such
• 38:09
  Speaker 6: bashship where they have roach infestations and like bug infestations
• 38:14
  Speaker 6: and like mouths droppings and ship living inside the cars.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: Because they're in Florida, it's hot. They can survive in
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: those types of environments.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I went to I used to park under
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: the tree when I lived out uh down South Baltimore,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: And I went to go open my trunk one day
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: and uh, spider head, I guess came down out there
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: tree and the wave was like connected to my car.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: And when I went to open the trunk, motherfucker with
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: to climb up the thing.
• 38:39
  Speaker 9: I was like.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: The day I was like, I don't want getting this car.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: The more I don't evenant getting this car, the more
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: please don't let it be no more. I'm here, I can't. Oh,
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: I'm itching.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, yes, grading for that that's a t.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: There's ten. I would listen. I would sue him emotional distress.
• 39:00
  Speaker 6: We know we don't have had this many tens, but okay,
• 39:03
  Speaker 6: I'm bored. Tell me the most insane date you have
• 39:06
  Speaker 6: with someone. And I don't mean he was six inches
• 39:08
  Speaker 6: shorter than what he was. I'm talking about insane. When
• 39:12
  Speaker 6: they brought the drinks out, he told me he had
• 39:14
  Speaker 6: one child. By the time then Andree arrived, he had four.
• 39:17
  Speaker 6: I did not stay for dessert.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: Child he'd have had the Brady month. Mm hmm. I
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: did like that. I dated somebody. They started off with
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: four kids, and by the time we broke up and
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: the truth came out, it was like nine fucked up. Yeah, no,
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: he lied his heads off. It was backpe.
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: He's just spreading to see day well, spreading raiding nine
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: because that on that, on top, on top the bugs okay,
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: nothing gon top the bugs on thing.
• 39:53
  Speaker 6: Okay, I'm bored. Tell me the most insane date you
• 39:56
  Speaker 6: have with someone. And I don't mean he was six
• 39:58
  Speaker 6: inches shorter than what he was. I'm talking about insane.
• 40:01
  Speaker 6: This guy asked me out had a nice gender where
• 40:04
  Speaker 6: he ordered advertisers on trade and dessert or ordered expensive
• 40:08
  Speaker 6: beer one after another right before the check arrives. He
• 40:11
  Speaker 6: tells me he got fired and that it was the
• 40:13
  Speaker 6: best meal he's had in a while. He asked if
• 40:16
  Speaker 6: I could pay the bill, and what I mind if
• 40:18
  Speaker 6: he ordered an adult meal for his son who's at
• 40:20
  Speaker 6: home child. I faked an emergency call and I left
• 40:23
  Speaker 6: him there with his portion of the bill. I paid
• 40:25
  Speaker 6: mine on the way out. Blocked him immediately.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: Should oh just no? Should have? Should have? Nope? Should have?
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: You did nothing wrong, because why the hell are you
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: wanting to go on dates and you ain't got no money,
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: and then you're gonna wait until the end of the
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: day to say, Oh, by the way, you don't do
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: that to people. That's just up there with the women
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: who go and try to order food for their kids
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: and expect the date to pay for it. No, don't
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: do that. That's trifling.
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm sorry.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: At least you paid the portion of the bill. They
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: can't come after you. You better go wash some dishes,
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: clean BA firm.
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Ask me, motherfucker, don't just
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: be telling how you as a waiter for a day.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: Don't just be like I don't just don't just start
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: ordering like ordering ship.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: What I was saying, like what did you ordering any
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: expensive ship?
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: Expensive beers and ship that one you got stele of money.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: They get you a course light bitch, you thought this
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: was like And I want to say, I an't gonna
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: order nothing. I wouldn't order if I was taking myself out.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: That's just the type of person I am. Work still
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: try to be respectful the fact that somebody else was
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: paying for it. If you say, hey, give what you
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: want to. Okay, but even I'm still to try.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: To be you know, still bring your own money because.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Just in case of ship, my daddy always told my
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: daddy always told me that don't never go nowhere it broke.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: It'll make if somebody taking you out. Don't never go
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: nowhere it broke. Always told me that that was one
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: piece of good advice.
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: I'm waiting for that.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: I like that when I was a ten. It's close.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give it a nine and a half. She did,
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: she did right, she did right, all.
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: Right, right there, it's about it. And that's as like
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: a for me. But yeah, like like I said, don't
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: don't just go order and ship. But I was saying, like, don't,
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: like what if I take you out, you order your food?
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: My bad.
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: So if I take you out, order your full.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Microphone, because yeah, because that thing is downward. Yeah, thank you.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: I know it's a foreign concept for you.
• 42:28
  Speaker 6: But so if I take you out and look at
• 42:32
  Speaker 6: the microphone, look at the microphone, look at the American,
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: look at his microphone, I see out my m hm,
• 42:44
  Speaker 6: and I come here bathroom.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: And I come here.
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: I come here every week too, every week.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: But like I said, if you can see if I
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: take your nigga, if you know, if I take a
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: girl long and then she ordered for she ordered for her.
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: I'm expected advertizing entree, probably a couple of drinks, all
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: I bet. But now you start ordering, Now you start
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: ordering another mail and say, bit, what's what's what's what's
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: what's this?
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: Because I got to take some home for myself? No
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: fuck you?
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, well I'll take the bill her. The extra
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: mail is on her check. Great day be going out
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: against him? All right?
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, goodness in yeah, don't call don't call me,
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: I'll call you.
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: I'm bored.
• 43:39
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you had with someone.
• 43:41
  Speaker 6: And I don't mean he was six inches shorter than
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane went
• 43:47
  Speaker 6: out with a well known Houston preacher. Oh, it didn't
• 43:50
  Speaker 6: open the door for me to get it in the
• 43:51
  Speaker 6: car so I could sit on his hand when he
• 43:53
  Speaker 6: got in. When I asked him to move it, he said,
• 43:56
  Speaker 6: you must not want to be blessed at the restaurant,
• 44:00
  Speaker 6: and it is x y the whole time, and ended
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: with glad you're not a bitch like her. I wanted
• 44:04
  Speaker 6: God to call me home in that moment.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: WO can't get out the ky to say. It's like,
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: what the tire?
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: Don't you? Don't you want?
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: She said Houston, Right if she had said.
• 44:21
  Speaker 6: It so titled best episode title Blessed blessed hand, blessed
• 44:27
  Speaker 6: Holly fingered, Okay, the boom balls strikes again. Close to Wow,
• 44:39
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna do blessed, blessed, blessed hands.
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: I like Holly flingers.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: That's funny.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: We can use blessed Holly favored by the Clark sisters.
• 44:49
  Speaker 4: Oh ship, come on, we used we use Father King.
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: You had me and take me to the King.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: From time. Wow, she said Houston. If she had had
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: if she had said Atlanta, I probably would tell you
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: who that pastor was. She had said Atlanta. One gryfflo,
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: there's another dollar. It's another particular pastor who is a
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: transplant to Atlanta. Let's move on, she had said Atlanta.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: I but like, wait, wait no, she said, she said she.
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: I've never been to Texas before.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: I go visit, but I wanted to go for the
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Beyonce show. But I want to get on a plane
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: right now. Yeah, I'm not.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: I refuse, but I don't get in on the plane.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: No way.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: But that'd be a long days long, has rid text.
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: I can get to Atlanta and then take how long
• 45:51
  Speaker 6: is the draw from Houston to Atlanta?
• 45:53
  Speaker 9: Like?
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: Was it twelve hours?
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 45:56
  Speaker 10: About it's about Atlanta to Houston, Texas, he is, it's
• 46:04
  Speaker 10: like seven hundred miles mm hm, eleven hours, Yes, almost
• 46:09
  Speaker 10: eight hundred miles.
• 46:10
  Speaker 4: It would take about eleven now fourteen twenty nine minutes, say.
• 46:14
  Speaker 6: Eleven hours and twelve minutes, but twelve hours to get
• 46:16
  Speaker 6: to Houston from Atlanta. So it would take me two
• 46:18
  Speaker 6: days the way I drive.
• 46:20
  Speaker 4: One hundred and ninety two point sixty two miles.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: I'm bored.
• 46:25
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you had with someone?
• 46:28
  Speaker 6: I don't mean he was six inches shorter than what
• 46:29
  Speaker 6: he was. I'm talking about insane. A guy I went
• 46:34
  Speaker 6: on a few dates with a baby food and said
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: it was because it tasted good.
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: What for?
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: Why, sir? That's weird as hell? What baby food ain't cheap?
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: A guy?
• 46:52
  Speaker 6: I went on a few dates with a babyfood and
• 46:55
  Speaker 6: said it was because it tasted good.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: If what the fuck tast good about these? I don't
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: even think that tastes good to babies.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: They did.
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: Don't like that ship? Mm hm?
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: Trades me like, yeahbe he likes to like the apricots
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: and pay it like the fruit.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: What's the rating on that? Four?
• 47:16
  Speaker 4: Okay, Aaron, Yo, just just just just do your own ship.
• 47:24
  Speaker 4: That's that's yeah, that's that's that's four. Okay.
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: I'm bored.
• 47:28
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you have with someone?
• 47:30
  Speaker 6: And that I don't mean he was six inches shorter
• 47:32
  Speaker 6: than what he said he was. I'm talking about insane.
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: Drinking.
• 47:37
  Speaker 6: While on her meds woke up and she started moving
• 47:40
  Speaker 6: me out of my own apartment. I was like, where's
• 47:42
  Speaker 6: my coffee table? And she said in the elevator, what.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: The work on the maids?
• 47:50
  Speaker 9: Was?
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: She on psych? Mads?
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: No, nigga, she talk about something I could do something
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: with this space. You wake up. She dragging your table.
• 47:59
  Speaker 6: At the front doors, and as you're doing when you're
• 48:02
  Speaker 6: out making for my stuff, she was walking on sunshine.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, I wont known she was on.
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: Rating.
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: That bitch crazy. That's that's a seven.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, give it a seventh and a half.
• 48:16
  Speaker 6: Okay, I'm bored. Tell me the most insane date you
• 48:20
  Speaker 6: had with someone? And I don't mean he was six
• 48:21
  Speaker 6: inches shorter than what he said he was. I'm talking
• 48:23
  Speaker 6: about insane. Some dude showed up a day before our
• 48:28
  Speaker 6: plan date at my house wasted. I let the cops
• 48:32
  Speaker 6: do the lord's work on that one. Yeah, you should
• 48:35
  Speaker 6: have lords up. Mmmm, because what the fuck is you doing?
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: Livesay happened before the date? Child man, you can block
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: his ass, get a restrain in order.
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: What the hell?
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: But he couldn't wait to see that mean bitch?
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: I mean, bay, babe, babe, baby, let me fuck.
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: That have on a hot ass leather vest and what's
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: his name? Troy don't up here? And what was he
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: planning to take you.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: To me?
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: His mother and his son.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Raiding?
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: That's that's my eight.
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: That was crazy, Aaron. Okay, tell me the most insane
• 49:28
  Speaker 6: date you had with someone. And I don't mean he
• 49:30
  Speaker 6: was six inches shorter than what he said he was.
• 49:32
  Speaker 6: I'm talking about insane Pete outside of the restaurant in
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: the grass. Then he begged me to let him come
• 49:40
  Speaker 6: over to cuddle. He had a back seat full of
• 49:42
  Speaker 6: clothes and belonging.
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: Sexual. He was a whole bo sexual. No nobody fall
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: in love quicker than a nigga that needs somewhere to stay.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: What in the hell.
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: Gotta go.
• 49:58
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna go to the bath front and be right back.
• 50:01
  Speaker 6: You see him get up and walk towards the front door.
• 50:03
  Speaker 6: You're like, put the bathroom step where you're going. And
• 50:05
  Speaker 6: then he goes to the glass, like right to the
• 50:07
  Speaker 6: corner with the windows, and he starts to pull out
• 50:08
  Speaker 6: his digger just saws pening, like.
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: No, no, them niggas, No them niggas. They ain't even
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: get off the car. He's like, oh, ship, oh ship.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: I don't think I see your monkey slide my crackers
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: in your pocket, you fucking thief.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: I saw that to.
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: Get away from me, to tak to you with that
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: was smooth, though he was, because you know what I'm saying,
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: not this, yeah, right, that was funny as hell. Mom,
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: hand me move put the hardship off my shoulder waiting.
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: That was a not some dirty ship. The hell the
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: niggas ain't you know? They plainly didn't get out the
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: hold on beer. I just got to the bathroom real quick.
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: Hey guys, all right, you don't my way too? We
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: get side? No, No, I'm already.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: What the hell?
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: And then as he paying, she look in the back seat.
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: That's I'm confusion.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: The fuck is going?
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: What mm hmm?
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: We gotta have a conversation.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: You do you live in your car? I bet you
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: lied about having the high pain job?
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: Niggah, did you get anybody had job drunk? Look at you?
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: N He trying.
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: I feel like he's trying to say it like that's
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: how they got on the date, you know, Like, yeah,
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: you know, I'm gonna take you to this nice little
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: restaurant down the street, you know, the Chip or twelve.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: It's a little French cuisine restaurant.
• 51:42
  Speaker 9: You know.
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: Let me take you to a French restaurant.
• 51:51
  Speaker 6: It's called let me know, I'll take you to car
• 51:54
  Speaker 6: I'll take you to this amazing five star restaurant.
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: You wonna love it.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: What's it called five Guys.
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: Survive. It's another surrounding girl. You can give whatever you
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: want in your bowl. I mean on your your your
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: this in your dish, that's lost.
• 52:17
  Speaker 6: I know this amazing spot that sells free range chicken.
• 52:20
  Speaker 6: What's it called booth? Follow with the wings?
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: What aka Papa?
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: We follow? You can't do ship like that to mean
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: as soon as we pull up, I'm like, I know
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: you fucking lie.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: The buffalo.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: You are, eat good and neighbor your legs.
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: Child lies.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: I know a full bases make a dad.
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: I'm bored.
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you have with someone.
• 53:03
  Speaker 6: And I don't mean he was six inches shorter than
• 53:04
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane. We
• 53:08
  Speaker 6: were meeting at a skating ring. When I got there,
• 53:11
  Speaker 6: she was fighting a dude. Made our conversation easier, but
• 53:14
  Speaker 6: I never went out with her again after that. I'm
• 53:18
  Speaker 6: sorry repeat that because we were meeting at a skating ring.
• 53:23
  Speaker 6: When I got there, she was fighting a dude. Made
• 53:26
  Speaker 6: our conversation easier, but I never went out with her
• 53:28
  Speaker 6: again after that. Wow, could you imagine walking into a
• 53:31
  Speaker 6: spot you said, I see your date dressed beautifully hitting
• 53:36
  Speaker 6: a nigga did in his nose.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: About something.
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: My son house.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: That look great.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: She is a little sore, but can I get some
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: ice drink out from my hands?
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: I'll be wow?
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: How are you wow?
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: I said that talking God, listen, So you like to
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: hit niggas when you make me man like, we like
• 54:07
  Speaker 4: to toss something. You know what, baby, let me take it.
• 54:09
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• 54:11
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• 54:14
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• 54:17
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• 54:21
  Speaker 3: I just like verdet What is that like a Spanish restaurant,
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: green turtle.
• 54:28
  Speaker 5: I'm bored.
• 54:30
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you had with someone?
• 54:32
  Speaker 6: And I don't mean he was six inches shorter than
• 54:34
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane.
• 54:36
  Speaker 4: Hold on side. It is something. It is something about
• 54:39
  Speaker 4: a woman that could be jazz.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: No, domestic violence is not a no.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: And don't put your hands on ship on hand me now, y'all.
• 54:58
  Speaker 6: Met a guy at a restauran bar. We had met online,
• 55:01
  Speaker 6: but this was the first time we met in person.
• 55:04
  Speaker 6: He started breathing in my ear and telling me he
• 55:06
  Speaker 6: knows how much I want him. About fifteen minutes into
• 55:08
  Speaker 6: the day, needless to say he had dinner alone that night.
• 55:13
  Speaker 4: You know what the problem in the phone sex operator, No,
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: it's because all the conversations you want me what I'm saying,
• 55:21
  Speaker 4: it's because of all the conversations y'all have had online.
• 55:25
  Speaker 4: I didn't even think.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: It was like that brow.
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: You want this hot cock.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: Would have sent me out the door already anyway. You
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: know how I feel about that word. You know what
• 55:38
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• 55:39
  Speaker 4: Nerves, not you bringing out the caucasis and resetale.
• 55:44
  Speaker 3: The co.
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: Well, I would have punched him as soon as he
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: started breathing hard in my ear because I know your
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: breath probably hot and that's just very uncomfortable. I would
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: have hit him with a been your bottom because what
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: the fuck is going on right now?
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 56:04
  Speaker 4: Nah, yeah, I don't like that ship either, like all dacity,
• 56:11
  Speaker 4: But what I'm saying, it's like nigga. But even like
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: even if y'all was even if I was first and
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: stuff online, y'all was just talking ship like yo, your
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: first time meeting somebody, or you don't just go straight
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: in it like.
• 56:21
  Speaker 6: I mean, let's say, give me the energy, right, you
• 56:24
  Speaker 6: gotta learn to read the front and like we've all
• 56:27
  Speaker 6: been my fuckers can't read too. We've all been on
• 56:31
  Speaker 6: first at energy is like that, and you know you
• 56:33
  Speaker 6: can and then going about your business. Yeah, but other
• 56:37
  Speaker 6: times the other person can't read the room, like Seana
• 56:40
  Speaker 6: just said, and you're talking about your favorite colors and
• 56:41
  Speaker 6: they said, you know what my favorite color is?
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: Pussy pink? Can I say if you was matches? All right?
• 56:47
  Speaker 4: He like, you know, brown, like your nipples.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: Like what in the sexy ring?
• 56:56
  Speaker 6: So I think are you excited? I think I'm excited
• 56:58
  Speaker 6: about us day as much as you nipples to see me?
• 57:00
  Speaker 6: Huh a babby with titties. Everybody listen.
• 57:12
  Speaker 4: I'm just signed like you know all that stuff. He
• 57:14
  Speaker 4: was talking on the phone. But I gotta fire.
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: In my paints. So you need to see somebody about that.
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, it's not it's not supposed to be. Yeah,
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: yo should go to the clinic.
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: You gotta read the room. And if you can't read,
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: if you can't read visually, then get get some broil.
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: Some niggas hold on phonics.
• 57:38
  Speaker 4: They ain't called on A, B, C, D, E f G.
• 57:41
  Speaker 4: They didn't.
• 57:41
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• 57:46
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• 57:49
  Speaker 3: And be a friend.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: You're not being a friend right now.
• 57:55
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• 57:58
  Speaker 2: Is A as an audacity and G isn't gold? Both
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: of what you had.
• 58:08
  Speaker 4: He got gump shit gumb shire.
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: I'm bored.
• 58:13
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you have with someone?
• 58:15
  Speaker 6: And I don't mean he was six inches shorter than
• 58:17
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane. A
• 58:21
  Speaker 6: guy I was seeing asked me to the movies. When
• 58:23
  Speaker 6: we got there, he said, do you want to go
• 58:27
  Speaker 6: half on some popcorn because I'm not gonna eat that much.
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: That was the last time I saw him.
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: Two.
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they ain't hit.
• 58:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's okay.
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: Popcorn bit about some popcorn bucket and popcorn at the
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: movie theater. This is like six dollars you need to go. Yeah,
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: it's okay. You could have won half. It's just snacks.
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: I'm bored.
• 58:56
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you have with someone.
• 58:59
  Speaker 6: And I don't mean he was six inches shorter than
• 59:00
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane. He
• 59:04
  Speaker 6: went to the hospital and I got arrested. I was
• 59:07
  Speaker 6: not the reason he went to the hospital.
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: By the way, Yes, you was between me further contacts.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: What happened?
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: You were? What happened?
• 59:15
  Speaker 5: Yes you were.
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: You can't just tell us you went to jail and
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: he went to the hospital, and don't give us no
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: further clues as.
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: To what happened.
• 59:22
  Speaker 4: Is he the reason why you went to jail?
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: I'm confused.
• 59:24
  Speaker 3: What happened? You did it? Rating?
• 59:31
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• 59:35
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• 59:39
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• 59:40
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 59:40
  Speaker 5: Why?
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: That's like it'd be a funny ass movie.
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: Though you gotta be more pacific.
• 59:44
  Speaker 6: But you wonder how I got hit him? Let me
• 59:47
  Speaker 6: tell you the story about it. First, they all started,
• 59:51
  Speaker 6: let's rewind. Let's rewind. Sh I'm bored telling me the
• 59:55
  Speaker 6: most insane date you had with someone? And I don't
• 59:58
  Speaker 6: mean he was six. It'ses shorter than what he said
• 59:59
  Speaker 6: he was us. I'm talking about insane. She asked if
• 1:00:03
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• 1:00:11
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• 1:00:14
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• 1:00:17
  Speaker 6: meth pipe.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: I knew, I knew it was going that way. I
• 1:00:21
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• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: it was going that way.
• 1:00:25
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• 1:00:37
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• 1:00:41
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• 1:00:44
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• 1:00:49
  Speaker 4: The story they took my baby.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 3: That crack.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 2: All right, this is this is the last.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: This is the last.
• 1:01:16
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• 1:01:27
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• 1:01:30
  Speaker 3: Last one. I'm bored.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 6: Tell me the most insane date you had with someone?
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 6: And I don't mean he was six inches shorter than
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 6: what he said he was. I'm talking about insane. My
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 6: friend set me up with this guy on a blind date.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 6: He was five four. Had to drop by his house
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 6: to grab something. I used the restroom and when I
• 1:01:50
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• 1:01:54
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• 1:01:59
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• 1:02:05
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• 1:02:07
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• 1:02:11
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• 1:02:13
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• 1:02:21
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• 1:02:25
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• 1:02:26
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• 1:02:32
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• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: And that wraps this week's question of the week.
• 1:02:40
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• 1:02:58
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• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:06
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• 1:03:07
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• 1:03:13
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• 1:03:13
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:17
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• 1:03:29
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• 1:04:12
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• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:20
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• 1:04:20
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• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:26
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• 1:04:28
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• 1:09:06
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• 1:09:13
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• 1:09:18
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• 1:09:31
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• 1:09:34
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• 1:09:37
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• 1:09:40
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• 1:09:42
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• 1:09:44
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• 1:09:47
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• 1:10:00
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  Speaker 2: bit long. So I'm gonna try to summarize it a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. Am I the asshole but teller my daughter.
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  Speaker 2: I never want to see her again because she reminds
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  Speaker 2: me of the worst time in my life.
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  Speaker 4: God damn.
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  Speaker 2: I thirty one male m Gay. I'm I'm married to
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  Speaker 2: my husband twenty nine mal and we've been together since college.
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  Speaker 2: We have a quiet, happy life and recently adopted a
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  Speaker 2: baby boy. I've worked really hard to get to a
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  Speaker 2: place where I feel safe and whole. But a few
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: weeks ago my past came chrashing and and now I
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: feel like I might have handled it horribly. When I
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: was seventeen, I was so living in home with my
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: extremely religious and homophobic parents. I've known I was gay
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: since I was around twelve, but I buried it deep.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: I spent years praying, begging, and trying to convince myself
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  Speaker 2: that it was a phase. My parents made it clear
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  Speaker 2: that if I ever came out, I'd be thrown out
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  Speaker 2: and cut off. I started dating a girl from youth group.
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  Speaker 2: I told myself I loved her. I told myself I
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  Speaker 2: could make it work. We had sex once and it
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 2: was deeply uncomfortable, and I shut down emotionally afterward. A
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  Speaker 2: few weeks later, she told me she was pregnant. Then
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 2: she left. I don't know where she went or why,
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  Speaker 2: but she was gone. I didn't hear a word about
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: the baby after that. Soon after I left for college,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 2: came out and cut off my parents. I never spoke
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: about what happened with that girl or the baby. It
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 2: was like still enough a part of myself that I
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: couldn't survive revisiting. I met my husband and my sophomore year,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: and he's the only person who ever really knew, whoever
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 2: really knew the full story until now. Last month, I
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: got a message on social media from a fourteen year
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: old girl. She said she was my daughter. Her mom
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: told her who I was. She found my name online.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: She said she wasn't looking for money in anything, just
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: to know who I am. I felt like the floor
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: fell out from under me. I couldn't breathe. It wasn't
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: her fault, I know that, but her existence snapped me
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: right back into the suffocating, terrifying part of my life
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: when I thought I'd never be allowed to exist in
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: myself as myself. She looks like that girl, She speaks
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: like her, and every word she wrote, no matter how kind,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: felt like sand people in a wound that I thought
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: had healed. I responded once and told her I was sorry,
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: but I wasn't able to have a relationship with her.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: She sent the long message back. It was emotional, but
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: not cruel. She said, I'll abandoned her before she was
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: even born, and now I was doing it again. I
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 2: told her, probably tooth bluntly, that I never wanted to
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: be a father, that I was scared. I was scared
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 2: call out of the kid forced him to a lie,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: and that seeing her felt like being dragged back into
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: a place in my life that I barely survived. I
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: told her not to contact me again. She hasn't replied.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: My husband is supportive, But some people, especially my sister,
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: say y'all crossed the line and acted cruelly towards somewhat
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: innocent that wasn't her fault, that it wasn't her fault
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: that she was born, and I should have handled it
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: with more compassion. But I genuinely don't think I can.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: That I have the emotional capacity to revisit that version
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: of myself that period nearly destroyed me so in my
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 2: asshole for telling my daughter that I never want to
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: see her again. Yes, yes you are.
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  Speaker 4: It's not her fault, right, but I mean he just said,
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 4: I mean, he just said that he has a It's like,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 4: you know, it was a a multuous time for him.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 4: And I think that y'all should probably go to like counseling,
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 4: like you should go to counseling so you can figure
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 4: it out. I mean, because she already said she didn't
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 4: want nothing from, you.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: Don't know who you are. People want to know where
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 2: they come from.
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  Speaker 4: Like, yeah, so that's that's one thing. And it's like,
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: while I understand that there was a really really bad
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 4: time for you, you should, you know, you should seek
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 4: therapy to try to deal with that, because truth of
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 4: the matter is, you have a biological child out there.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 4: And just because the woman probably thought, you know, the
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 4: child's mother probably thought she was doing your favor by
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 4: by just disappearing after she got you know, after she
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 4: got pregnant, and you know, her daughter is at the
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 4: age where you you know, you're being told I have
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 4: you know, you gotta get it. I can tell you
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 4: who your dad is. I can I can get all
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 4: the information that you need. And you know, nowadays like
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 4: these kids to find out, you know, even the kids
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 4: that that's adopted, they find out like sooner or later,
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 4: they're gonna want to know where they came from because
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 4: it is important. It is important to know who you
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 4: came from via like heredity, like hereditary Jesus diseases and
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 4: ship and so it's like like I would allow her
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 4: back in back and we don't know the story her mother.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 2: Told her, right, So it's like cause she said, you
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: abandoned me once, So we don't know. The mother might
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 2: say I told him I was pregnant and he ran away.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: But his story is that the mother left and he
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 2: never saw her again. Yeah, and he didn't think to
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 2: pursue it to because that's not what he wanted. But
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: to say, you don't want to be a parent, but
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 2: you just but you literally just say that your adopted
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 2: the kid or your husband. It's crazy, but it want
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: to be a parent.
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  Speaker 4: Then no, I think. I mean, but it wasn't a
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 4: situation where he didn't he didn't necessarily know, Like, isn't
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 4: a situation like he didn't know what he liked at
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 4: that like what he liked and that sit in that
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 4: particular time he smashed and I'm sure they got pregnant
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 4: and he wasn't you know, he wasn't living his authentic self.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 4: Like it's true and that's fine, but like I said,
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 4: go to go to go to therapy, right.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 2: Definitely go to therapy because it's not her fault. Deserve that.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: Like I said, you don't know what story. We don't
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 2: know what the fucking leslie. Dana Adam, Marie uh Lisa
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: Shari Charie Consuela Malika is going on right now. She
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: could have spun any kind of man, Oh yeah, she could.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: You don't know the story that mother spun to her,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: and it looks like you abandoned her and by the
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: way you reacted, that's the story that she's going to believe. Now,
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: she's going to believe what her mother been telling.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 4: Her true shit. So like I said, like I said,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 4: I mean, you can allow her back in your life,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: but at the same time, you do have I mean,
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 4: you should probably go to therapy. Honestly, outside outside of
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 4: even the kid, outside of even your daughter, you should
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 4: probably really go to therapy and work worked that out.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: It's not her fault.
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  Speaker 4: You kind of gotta get I mean, because it's like
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 4: you kind of running from it, like you you had
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 4: that you know, you had that time and then it's
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 4: like now you started this whole new life and now
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 4: she popped back up. It's like you're ruining everything, Like yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 4: go figure go to therapy, Go figure that out, because
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 4: you are you do the asshole for telling her that
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 4: you don't want to see her again.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 2: Actually that you nothing to do with it.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 4: I mean, you're not really the asshole. You're being honest.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 4: You're being honest, but y'all should probably you know you, Yeah,
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 4: y'all should probably work that out.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 3: Trying to try to.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 4: Work it out.
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  Speaker 6: I'm I'm gonna actually go against granted and say not
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 6: the asshole on this one. You know what I'm saying
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 6: as a person who had some level of trauma. Thankfully
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 6: it was no whing you of this deep around my
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 6: coming out and me coming to terms with myself. That
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 6: wouldn't have been an easy, you know, like conversation to
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 6: have with anybody. But I don't think you're the I
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 6: don't think you are the asshole in this sense because
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 6: of the fact that, yes, it was, it comes off
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 6: if you're looking at it from her perspective, it comes
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 6: off as this person who abandoned me, didn't want me.
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 6: I found them randomly and just reached out. Unfortunately, sometimes
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 6: people have traumatic coming out stories or situations because of
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 6: religious families or families who are not accepting, and some
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 6: people go through things and put themselves through situations to
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 6: full love or to be accepted. What the response would
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 6: have been, in my opinion, fucked up either way. Nothing
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 6: you would have said would have been right, but that
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 6: person does ultimately deserve to live in their truth and
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 6: then their feeling, and they reserve the right to say, hey,
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 6: I get it, you're my kid, but you remind me
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 6: of a very traumatic time in my life that I
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 6: don't want to be reminded of. And I do personally
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 6: think that, while yes, this person does need to go
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 6: to therapy, if having this child around remind you of
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 6: a traumatic period in your life, have fun. If if
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 6: this reminds you of a traumatic period in your life,
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 6: and this is a period that you can't live through
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 6: or can't work through because of what happened, then I
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 6: think you are doing this girl not a disservice. Doe
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 6: doing her well by telling her up front, Hey, maybe
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 6: you can relate the story about her conception and tell
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 6: her everything that happened about you coming out and you're
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 6: thinking that this was for you, but engaged with her
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 6: mother in that way left you just scarred and like
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 6: made you shut off a portion of yourself. But she
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 6: deserves to know that story and say, because of the
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 6: circumstances around your conception, I personally have no desire to
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 6: be involved in your life.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 6: I can pay child support, I can still support you
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 6: you know from Afar, and you know, pay money until
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 6: you turn eighteen. But I want no relationship with you
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 6: because you remind me of a part of my life
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 6: that was very hard for me to overcome the same way.
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 6: I'll even make the comparison. It may not be the
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 6: right one to make, but say, for example, a woman
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 6: gets graped, or a teenage girl gets graped and she
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 6: gets graped and gets forced to carry the baby determine
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 6: give birth and they adopt the baby out, or a
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 6: family member takes the baby and she, you know, because
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 6: her family is religious or they don't believe in you know,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 6: giving babies up abortion, they forced her to have it.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 6: And then the baby finds her fifteen twenty years later,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 6: when she's moved on, she's married, she now has a
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 6: family of her own, and that child wants to reconnect
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 6: with her because they found out that she is their
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 6: birth mother. But the same feeling would applying that yes,
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 6: I may be your biological parent, but because you remind me,
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 6: or your existence reminds me of a traumatic period in
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 6: my life, I personally can't work myself up to have
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 6: a relationship with you because your existence reminds me of
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 6: trauma or it brings back traumatic memories for me. Sorry,
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 6: I think that parent is well within their right to
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 6: do that. And on top of that, if anybody in
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 6: your life, and I hate to sound like this, if
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 6: it's a child or something, if something a relationship in
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 6: your life was born of traumatic circumstance, you're well within
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 6: your right to keep that relationship out of your life. Yeah,
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 6: and I shouldn't have to cut myself or to bleed
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 6: myself try to keep you on. So yeah, I say
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 6: you would have been an asshole for how you said
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 6: it regardless, but that if you aren't in a place
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 6: where you can have a worthwhile relationship with that child,
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 6: you would be doing them a disservice by having them
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 6: in your life or giving them access to you, not
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 6: giving them what they need, or just having them around
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 6: and letting them know you exist, but ignoring their phone
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 6: calls and not not returning what they clearly work from you.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 6: Let them go, explain the situation in full, Explain you
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 6: know your coming out story and how everything affected you,
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 6: and tell them because of the way.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 3: The explanation.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 6: Sure, I feel like a conversation could should definitely behave.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 6: But once you have that conversation that crub.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: Now she didn't experience some traumatic So now is the
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 2: cycle is continuing?
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 6: It is, But if it seems, if you think about
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 6: it from their perspective, that there's going to be trauma
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 6: eut of the way. There's going to be trauma from
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 6: not having your parent and your life, but there will
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 6: also be trauma on the end if you the parent
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 6: let you in their life or attempts to have a
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 6: relationship for your sake, but they are emotionally spent or
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 6: drained or triggered every time they see you because they
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 6: remind you that kid, remind you of the parent.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 2: That they were with.
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 6: And it's like, I can't function in my day left
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 6: now I'm drinking or I'm doing drugs to cope because
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 6: you're You're not I can't function because you're here.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean, like like I said, I understand,
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 4: like I understand what you're saying. I understand what you understand.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 3: What you're saying or not.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 4: Like I said, it should be a cover, like it
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 4: should be a conversation that you should I mean, but
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 4: you know you should also I believe you know, I
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 4: believe that I pick up a lot. I mean, just
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 4: just not not even if it's going to rebuild the
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 4: relationship or form a relationship, but just to help you
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 4: also let go of some of that trauma, or at
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 4: least I mean not even let it. I mean not
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 4: even let it go, because I believe that we don't
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 4: I don't. I believe that we don't really like let
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 4: go of it, but we find better ways to deal
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 4: with you deal with that trauma so that it'll help me,
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 4: Like it'll help both of y'all, Like it'll help it'll
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 4: help you deal with your deal deal with your deep
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 4: root of trauma and also not give her trauma.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 6: You can also deal with trauma, but realize that you
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 6: you can't be around the thing that that is the
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 6: result of your trauma.
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 4: Yep, but through conversation, I mean, and that's I mean,
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 4: but that like like that right there, that's understandable, like that,
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 4: like I would like I would respect you more for
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 4: being like I know what this was, like I know,
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 4: like I know what this was, and I know what
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 4: this is, but I can't personally what you need. I'm
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 4: not going to be able to like I'm being completely
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 4: honest with you, and I know it may not be
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 4: what you want.
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 6: To hear. But I'm not going to be able to
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 6: set that person free because they're always wondering what if well,
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 6: and maybe the kid, if this is a teenage reaching out,
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 6: they may not understand now, but as they get older
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 6: and they may go on to have a family.
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 4: Right. But also in this instance, but I also appreciate it.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 4: I appreciate the fact that she said, I don't want
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 4: anything from you. I just want to know who you are.
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 2: And that's fine because she may maybe she's made peace
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: with not yea, yeah, that's a relationship with him all
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: these years. Again, we don't know what her mother told her,
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 2: you know, and and so maybe she has made piece.
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: Is just the way he responded to her as a
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 2: little girl who was faced projection. I it hurts.
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 3: It hurts.
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 2: So I'm saying it from her her side and her perspective.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: I respect what he's been through, but I still think
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 2: that the way he handled it was very asshole like.
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 3: How should he have handled it? In your opinion?
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: I honestly believe that he should have given her an
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 2: honest conversation and told her listen, I didn't even know.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 2: He should have let her know that he you know,
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 2: while the mother said she was pregnant, the mother disappeared.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: He didn't know if she was born, He didn't know
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: any of that because clearly he didn't or he said
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: was she told him she was pregnant, un then she disappeared.
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: So I feel like he should tell his side of
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 2: the story, owe her that much to tell her, to
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: tell his side of the story as to what exactly happened.
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 2: And then if he still decides that he does not
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 2: want to be a part of her life and you understand,
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 2: you know, then fine, But it's just maybe it's just
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: the way he went about it that is bothering me.
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 2: So that's why I see him as the asshole. And
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 2: then saying I didn't want to be a parent, but
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: you were parent. Now that has to hurt for killing,
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: you know, children who were put up for adoption just
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: to find out that their families, their parents turned around
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 2: and had more children behind them. I was just reading
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: a book like that. And the guy found out later
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: in life like his mother abandoned him. He ended up
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: in abuse of household, being abused by the parents who
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 2: adopted him, and the child they had after him was
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: raised in a well to do neighborhood, the best schools,
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: the best this, and he resented him for that.
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 4: But it's not like a storyliner and like orange is
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 4: a new black, like the girl I think so, but
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 4: I really I had I just saying it's like, yeah,
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 4: I'm sure they got locked up or whatever, and then
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 4: she found out that.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 2: She got So it can lead to a lot of
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 2: different things.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 6: Is that the fault of the parents who gave the
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 6: child for adoption though, because I don't think that is.
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 3: What do you mean, like, the is the child if
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 3: utilized in the example that you just gave.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 6: If for example, if I had a kid when I
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 6: was fourteen or fifteen years old, my parents forced me
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 6: and the girl I had the baby.
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 3: For a dots.
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 2: No, it's not your fault. It's not your fault what
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 2: ended up happening. But I just used that as an
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: example because when I say the resentment thing may come
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 2: in or whatever, like oh, you didn't want me, but
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 2: then you got another child. But that's not the case
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 2: in this situation. But I'm just giving different examples of
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: what could possibly have. So that's why I think he
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 2: owes her.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 6: Yeah, they definitely definitely have the conversation, but you have
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 6: to also that kid also has to come to the
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 6: realization that the parent may may have the conversation with
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 6: you for your sake, but the relationship you may want
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 6: you may not get you may not get from this
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 6: parent because they may not be able to give.
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 4: It to you.
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 2: That's sure, that's true.
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 3: Everybody in this situation's therapy, everybody. That's a situation.
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 2: She's still young. Yeah, you know, and your braining fully
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 2: formed at fourteen, so some things you may not grasp
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: and understanding. I remember being a fourteen year old girl,
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 2: and some things that I didn't understand at fourteen, now
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: at at thirty nine, understand a whole lot better. You
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, oh, yeah, I get it now. Okay,
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 2: that makes a whole lot of sense with my fully
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 2: formed brand.
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 6: Like I said earlier, give that the child mean like
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 6: you said, the child may not get it now because
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 6: they're a teenager, but when they're older, they may make
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 6: peace with the fact it's not it's a whole you'll
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 6: never get over, but they will grow to accept or
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 6: hopefully we'll grow to accept and understand that that parent
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 6: may not have been able to give me what I
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 6: needed from them.
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 3: It may not be the ideal.
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 6: Situation, but they are setting you free from more inflicted
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 6: trauma that they would have put on you by giving
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 6: you access to them but being distant and not saying,
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 6: oh hey, I acknowledge you, but I'm not ever coming around.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 3: I'm not.
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 6: You see pictures of you on your birthday, me and
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 6: your half sibling and your stepdaddy in on a face
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 6: with going on vacations. But you're responding and I'm deleting
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 6: your comments and I'm not engaged. That's a different form
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 6: of trauma. It's gonna be right. It's gonna be trauma
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 6: either because ultimately you said, I know I didn't want
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 6: I know you remind me of my trauma, but I'm
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 6: still gonna avoid you. You know me, and I know
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 6: you when we exist whatever.
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 4: That's all right that I'm deleting your comments on my ship.
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 2: Like that because they don't want other people to know
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 2: that part of them, right, So people who do stuff
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 2: ship like that, you'd be surprised. He didn't want his
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 2: new family, I mean his old family at his funeral
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 2: because it will bring about questions with the new family.
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 2: He informed. You know what I'm saying, So it's crazy.
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 2: All Right, we're gonna move on.
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 3: That was that was a good question.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 2: That's when I've seen them, it's like, yeah, we're gonna
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 2: read this one, because that that's been sitting in my
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 2: des been sitting in my notes for a while, and
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 2: I kept skipping over it.
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 6: There's no way to close out. There would have been
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 6: no way for you to not be the ashole, and
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 6: that ashole. There would have been no way for you
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 6: to not be the asshole. And it's going to be
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 6: traumatic on either end because what you want and what
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 6: that what the kid wants or may hope to get,
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 6: don't aline. And as humans, you, unfortunately, as fucked up
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 6: as it made sounds, you have the right to not
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 6: want to be in a relationship with somebody, be a family,
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 6: friend or otherwise.
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 2: Very true what a lot of mother was on.
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 1: Moving on.
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 2: This one comes from the Reddit saga thread and the
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 2: title is he faked cancer to test how much I
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 2: loved him? M hmm. I thirty female dated someone thirty
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 2: three male for just under a year, and the last
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: few months he started acting withdrawn and one day he
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 2: broke down and told me he had cancer. I was devastated.
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 2: I dropped everything, worked a few hours, drove him to
• 1:32:32
  Speaker 2: his appointments. I even cooked every mail and helped with bills.
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 2: He said insurance didn't cover one night. I found a
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 2: receipt for drinks with friends on a day he told
• 1:32:41
  Speaker 2: me he had chemo. He said he just didn't want
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 2: to worry me and needed one normal night. I believed him,
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 2: but things didn't add up. No madge, no follow ups,
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 2: and never any actual paperwork. I finally confronted him with
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 2: a friend who's a nurse. He admitted that he never
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 2: had cancer. He said he was afraid I'd leave and
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 2: wanted to see if I had stayed by his side
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 2: during hard times. I feel disgusted you, But worst of all,
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 2: I actually agreeed for someone who manipulated me the whole time.
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 2: Once you call him out publicly or just walk away quietly.
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 4: I'll walk away quietly. Oh fuck you, Because calling calling
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 4: you all publicly, I'm giving you like I'm giving you
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 4: that sad attention and it's like you already fucked me
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 4: over five. I'm cool, I'm.
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 2: Calling you all publicly. You played my face.
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 4: I feel it.
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 2: How dare you? How dare that's that's not something that
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 2: you joke about that you you to manipulate people, you
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 2: don't do that. That's that's fucked up. That's that's really
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 2: really fucked up. I could see that that that's uh,
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 2: he would have to see me. I'm I don't believe
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 2: in domestic violence, but I might have a swung on him.
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you because because why that's the
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 2: only thing that you can think of, you testing my
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 2: love and my loyalty.
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 4: I wish we weren't. I wish we weren't in that
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 4: in that space where that's what like, yo, that's what
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 4: it is, like, Yeah, why do you have to like
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 4: why do you why do you feel like you gotta
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 4: test somebody and test how much somebody loves you? That's
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 4: like that's like motherfucker's faking and pregnancy, Like yeah, you
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 4: feel me, That's like that's how I feel like you?
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 4: Or like how old are you? Like that's that's that's
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 4: like some little thirty three year old man.
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 2: And you said, I want to see how much she
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 2: loved me? Oh, I know, dise what and what if
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 2: she had somebody who she lost the game? So do
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 2: you know how traumatizing that could have been for that lady.
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 2: Are you shitting me, ma'am?
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, put some show gave in this water. What see
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 2: if you wanted to fight, just say that. Why would
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 2: you do that to somebody?
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 2: It's like, it's wrong with people.
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 4: Like it don't make sense for you to be like, oh,
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 4: I just want to I just wanted to know how
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 4: much you love me. That's all not there's nothing nothing crazy.
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 2: Oh you're about to see how much I love I'm
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 2: about to piece you. I'm about to put my hands
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 2: on you. What is wrong with people?
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm a.
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 6: Proponent of taking your l's in silence, but and I
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 6: would say his ass out in directly.
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 2: So I got an idea where you're going with this.
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 6: But baby, I'd be on every form ever. Did you
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 6: know this person I'd be under that I did not
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 6: I send notices to people's.
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 3: Jobs, sending people's parents, bitch.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 6: I would look your people up online and send them
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 6: post codes from from three states away.
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 3: I will bear you out in the most indirect way.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 2: Put a sign, Put a sign in front of your
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 2: house and say I fake cancer and test my girlfriend's loyalty.
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 2: What what am I a fuck ass. Oh baby, I'm
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 2: roaring your reputations so goddamn babe that if it ever happens,
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 2: nobody's going to believe you.
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 3: You can't, you can't play with people like why would
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 3: you do that? People like that?
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 4: Hmmm, because you don't know what the fuck they're gonna
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 4: do after that.
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 3: Two wrongs don't make it right, but three lefts to
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 3: make it right.
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 4: Right, make a love.
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 2: Baby, and I would be right right right in this
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 2: situation because you mess with the right one bit, I just.
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 6: Take your l and silence, says niggle a corrort mission
• 1:37:04
  Speaker 6: a bullet, nigga spotted, or have your friends startup fences
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 6: and whenever you find a new girlfriend, go ahead and
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 6: send that girl messages on Facebook. By the way, says
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 6: this nigga fake cancer. Just in case he got me
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 6: last time, he got my friend last time, says just
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 6: so you know it's me, I'm the friends, but I'm
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 6: also I also feel like Karma gonna just gonna tear
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 6: that ass up. And usually if they fuck you up enough,
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 6: Karma get your front receipt for you to know everything
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 6: that happened to that person. Because you can't you can't
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 6: put that type of energy or feeling out into the
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 6: into the universe. Karma is always watching, and baby, you
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 6: gonna get your just desserts. Just do just desserts. You
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 6: gonna get all that ship.
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 2: All right. This one is uh, this one I just
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 2: found scrolling on the timeline. It didn't come from any
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 2: particular thread, but I just wanted to read it and
• 1:37:58
  Speaker 2: get your feedback on it. All right.
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 2: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and we
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 2: had a conversation about marriage. He brought up the tattoo
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 2: with my child's father's name on my butt and said
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 2: I needed to cover it before we could get married.
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 2: I explained that I wouldn't cover it because my child's
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 2: father gave me my greatest blessing our child. The tattoo
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 2: is sentimental, so covering his name is an option. He
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 2: gave me an ultimatum, saying it was either him or
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 2: the tattoo. I don't think that's fair. It's just a
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 2: tattoo and it doesn't affect our relationship. He packed his bags,
• 1:38:29
  Speaker 2: threw his key on the bed, and ended our relationship.
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 2: To add insult to injury, he told me to ask
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 2: my child's father to pay the rent this month. What
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 2: y'all think?
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 4: Sometimes you just got a fuck in between the names
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 4: you like with the fire like while you're mad, Like,
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know your tattoo. Your tattoos is
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 4: like tattoos is crazy. It's like you, I don't know.
• 1:38:54
  Speaker 4: He come off like he insecured you feel you feel
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying because it's like it's before you right,
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 4: So you you want you want her to either you
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 4: want her to pay the money to get it covered
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 4: up or remove it.
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 2: I know people who have gotten names.
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 6: He is he offering to pay to get the tattoo
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 6: covered double removed, because if that's one thing, if you.
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 2: Know, oh I got to cover up fast, and peoples
• 1:39:15
  Speaker 2: offerady to pay for it. But I just don't think
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 2: that people have passed. It's so funny because that reminds
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 2: me of an episode of EVE. I was watching the
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 2: other day when the dude, Yeah, I watched that she
• 1:39:28
  Speaker 2: Don't Come on on on on the rerun channel and stuff.
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 2: So I liked Eve. I like the show, but the
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 2: dude nick on there. He was dating the girl and
• 1:39:35
  Speaker 2: she had multiple tattoos of other dudes and she was
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 2: like her reasoning and forget the tattoos, because all of them,
• 1:39:41
  Speaker 2: you know, had special places in her life at some
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 2: point or whatever. She had special relationships with all the
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 2: so she it was like three three of them. It
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 2: was like one on her back, one on her hip,
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 2: and I think went on her shoulder, her arm or
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 2: something like that. And it bothered him. He was like,
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 2: I kind of them to be having sex with you.
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 2: And I'm standing of a nigga name. You know what
• 1:40:01
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, So.
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 3: But che say Troy, Larry and Charles and.
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 2: Hit And while I think it is weird, it's where
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 2: you can't really expect certain things. I feel like and
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 2: people had passed.
• 1:40:19
  Speaker 3: People also have boundaries, and that's true too.
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 2: And that's true too. So both of y'all are not
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 2: wrong in it in a in a way, y'all both
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 2: have a right to feel the way that y'all feel.
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 2: That doesn't work for him, But you think he's overreacted.
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 2: You could very well good at covered up because you
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 2: said it was sentimental to you. But then you turn
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 2: around it like it's just a tattoo. It can't be
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 2: both said it's just a tattoo. If it was just
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 2: a tattoo, you'd be like, all right, and you would
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 2: get to ship covered up, especially depend on how big
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 2: the shit is because you got a big ass name
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 2: on your butt cheek. He got to look at this
• 1:40:56
  Speaker 2: ship they time you got your bent over unless your
• 1:40:57
  Speaker 2: daughter than duck.
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 3: I mean that.
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 4: He's gonna start doing it.
• 1:41:09
  Speaker 3: Up on my as not ketch up.
• 1:41:12
  Speaker 6: So, I mean, do you have a right to your feelings,
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 6: but so do he so, and that just may not
• 1:41:18
  Speaker 6: be your person if he can't take you as you come, and.
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 3: It may not be for him, but y'all may not
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 3: be for each other.
• 1:41:25
  Speaker 2: That's somebody else may not care, you know. That's why
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 2: I don't handle the moment men names on me is
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 2: my son and my father.
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 2: That's but yeah, I don't believe in tattooing. Just other
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 2: ways y'all get made tattoos. I don't believe in tattoo
• 1:41:42
  Speaker 2: and names, not not spousers and stuff. I don't believe
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 2: in it.
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 4: I think, I mean, I think quiet.
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 2: I know somebody who got a Nigga name tattoo straight
• 1:41:51
  Speaker 2: across her chest and they not together no more, and
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 2: that tattoo is still there straight. I mean literally straight
• 1:41:57
  Speaker 2: across her chest. Right here. She got his name, Tato.
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 2: I said, baby, that thing must have been.
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 3: Thinking goodness, goodness, you.
• 1:42:08
  Speaker 2: Must have been thinking, honey, because if you can't, if
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 2: you get it covered up, you got to get the
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 2: covered up with same.
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 1: It's big.
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 2: It's not a small tag tick. So you're gonna have
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 2: to get that covered up with something huge. And it's
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 2: not something you can hide. You can't put no shirt
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 2: on the high day she unless you got on a
• 1:42:22
  Speaker 2: turtle neck and some ship that it's literally like right here,
• 1:42:26
  Speaker 2: like right down the story. Get a lot of flowers
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 2: to cover that up.
• 1:42:32
  Speaker 3: Get a bouquet.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, No, she's gonna eat like a rose bush. It's huge.
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  Speaker 2: It's really really big. And I was shocked when I
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  Speaker 2: first seen it. I was like, oh my god, what
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  Speaker 2: the hell Like, Yeah, it's really really it's a big
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  Speaker 2: ass set to you. But then I know somebody else
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  Speaker 2: they had one day was able to get it covered up,
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  Speaker 2: though there was in a different spot, but they was
• 1:43:02
  Speaker 2: able to get it covered up.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't have any tattoos. I'm not a
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  Speaker 6: fan of than personally because I feel like I'm so
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 6: indecisive by the time I get.
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  Speaker 2: One, and it is six months more.
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  Speaker 6: I'm tired of looking at the ship every day on
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  Speaker 6: my fucking arm or Chester. I'm with stupid on my chest.
• 1:43:19
  Speaker 2: Now I'm with stupid.
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  Speaker 4: I can see with the ball head on the ball
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  Speaker 4: head being a nice chest statue, not with.
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 2: The Jamie Fox on this.
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  Speaker 3: He turned me to a nigga. I'm getting.
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 2: I have three, but you know I can't really cover
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 2: this could be covered if I got on long sleeves.
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  Speaker 4: The other ones is on my back, my limits, little
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  Speaker 4: soul daddy out head snatching soul, that little stold daddy.
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  Speaker 3: And they got not a porn star, they got bomb
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  Speaker 3: that reco the snow snatch. I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: So he going back to We're going back sixth Rael Jicks.
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  Speaker 2: Oh lord, m m mmm, that's super foolishness I got
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  Speaker 2: for y'all.
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  Speaker 3: This go round. Oh lord, I'm scared to ask a
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  Speaker 3: scared friend.
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 2: Here's a good one. Okay. I'm twenty six, twenty nine
• 1:44:19
  Speaker 2: year old. Wrapper boyfriend is failing at life in general,
• 1:44:23
  Speaker 2: and I'm tired of him. He does not contribute to
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 2: our household in any other way except sexually. I gave
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 2: him money to buy a decent outfit to find a job.
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 2: He spent the money on the Cowboy catt A tour.
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 2: He said his friend had an all access pass and
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 2: promised he could get him backstage so he can hand
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 2: jay Z his demo. I told him that was a
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 2: stupid idea and it would never work. His favorite uncle
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  Speaker 2: told him to leave me because I don't support his dreams.
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  Speaker 2: I'm tired and I want him to leave, But since
• 1:44:53
  Speaker 2: I agreed that we should break up, he wants to
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  Speaker 2: stick around because he's not going to let another ninja
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  Speaker 2: move in advice.
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  Speaker 4: Wait, you're not paying those bills, niggas, so you don't
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  Speaker 4: live here.
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  Speaker 2: Not that niggas like Julie Up. You know, I never
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  Speaker 2: make a fool le up what.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna give jay Z my nigga, jay Z is gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Look at you.
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  Speaker 3: Take the five hundred thousand dollars, bitch in.
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  Speaker 2: Cart security on your stupid days, you thought you thought
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  Speaker 2: this was all is even at the damn sure we don't.
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  Speaker 3: He ain't there.
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  Speaker 2: That's the week him in Sir decided not to come.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you got a nigga like you said he was
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  Speaker 4: gonna be here. Nigga said he was gonna be what
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  Speaker 4: are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: You did?
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  Speaker 1: Nah, that wasn't me.
• 1:45:46
  Speaker 3: That was that wasn't that wasn't fo. Yeah, I ain't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't remember having that conversation with you, young blood,
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 4: but nah, but not you. But what you just said,
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 4: you know what you said is well like that ship nigga,
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 4: you you you you something else?
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  Speaker 3: Bro, I ain't.
• 1:46:03
  Speaker 4: These new niggas be crazy? You you you thirty two?
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 4: Yet you said thirty two right, yeah, you're thirty two
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 4: years old.
• 1:46:13
  Speaker 6: I'm all for people working towards a long, a long
• 1:46:16
  Speaker 6: standing goal that they have. I'm all for people pouring
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 6: it all and everything into their craft and hopefully making
• 1:46:22
  Speaker 6: it big on living out their dreams. But there comes
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 6: a point where you still have to be able to
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 6: support yourself. If you choose to inter ato a relationship
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 6: with somebody else and move in with them, you still
• 1:46:33
  Speaker 6: have to pull your weight until that flash it. You
• 1:46:35
  Speaker 6: can't just say, oh, well, my girl got it and
• 1:46:38
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna just do what I do until I until
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 6: what I do.
• 1:46:40
  Speaker 4: Hit. Yeah, yeah, now you couch. Now you're sitting on
• 1:46:45
  Speaker 4: the couch playing PlayStation while she why she like she
• 1:46:48
  Speaker 4: working two jobs?
• 1:46:50
  Speaker 9: Do it?
• 1:46:51
  Speaker 2: But I was just telling somebody that I am no
• 1:46:53
  Speaker 2: longer in build it, build it up field. I don't
• 1:46:59
  Speaker 2: I don't want to do that anymore. I don't want
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 2: to help people get to where they're trying to go.
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 2: We can't build together if they're not helping each other.
• 1:47:05
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't do it. I'm too
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 2: old to be trying to encourage people to do the
• 1:47:11
  Speaker 2: right thing if they've grown as age. No, mm hmmm,
• 1:47:17
  Speaker 2: don't stop coming to me like a box of legos.
• 1:47:20
  Speaker 2: Last question. I'm just gonna stay right here on since
• 1:47:23
  Speaker 2: brownchi E sis One put his ass out your house
• 1:47:27
  Speaker 2: and let him go stay with his favorite uncle and
• 1:47:29
  Speaker 2: let him fucking help him become a fifty year old rapper, I'm.
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 3: Gonna give jay Z my mixed tape back there. Do
• 1:47:37
  Speaker 3: you see this?
• 1:47:37
  Speaker 6: How I know as somebody who's part of the behive nigga,
• 1:47:41
  Speaker 6: you're not getting within a mile of Beyonce a mile.
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 6: Julius will see you coming before you even see him
• 1:47:47
  Speaker 6: and close line your ass. You're not getting nowhere near
• 1:47:50
  Speaker 6: the cars, not none of them for some all stage
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  Speaker 6: backstage past.
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  Speaker 2: You can't even get you jay Z, Mama, she ain't
• 1:47:58
  Speaker 2: even gonna be there exactly, Tina.
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 3: You won't be nowhere near Miss Tina.
• 1:48:04
  Speaker 2: M's Tina looked like she cutting niggas out for real. Oh,
• 1:48:07
  Speaker 2: she does on her in real life. Anybody playing with
• 1:48:10
  Speaker 2: the she put a Greek g on your ass. Meant
• 1:48:14
  Speaker 2: to show you the clip seeing I was watching I
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 2: was watching Eve again. That's what Jamie said. She was like,
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 2: I'm a quarter, I'm a quarter Creole priests, and I
• 1:48:25
  Speaker 2: slap a Greek glee on you.
• 1:48:27
  Speaker 3: Now. Oh yeah, Allie Landry is from Louisiana.
• 1:48:33
  Speaker 2: No, Natalie the South just said that, but yeah, she
• 1:48:36
  Speaker 2: is from She is Creole.
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 3: To rest in peace to Natalie the South.
• 1:48:40
  Speaker 2: Oh that was my girl. I loved her boot Gail,
• 1:48:45
  Speaker 2: that's my girl.
• 1:48:46
  Speaker 3: That's my girl.
• 1:48:46
  Speaker 4: That's my girl.
• 1:48:49
  Speaker 2: Last question, staying on sixth Brown Chick. Since we already
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 2: here and I got the ship pulled up. I met
• 1:48:55
  Speaker 2: another woman on my birthday. My girlfriend did nothing wrong.
• 1:48:59
  Speaker 2: We've been together for four years, but nothing compels me
• 1:49:01
  Speaker 2: to take things any further. The new woman is a
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 2: brother of fresh air. She's bouncing through life without the
• 1:49:06
  Speaker 2: care in the world. She's warm and funny. We went
• 1:49:09
  Speaker 2: to an amusement park and she took her wig off
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 2: and put it in her person before we got on
• 1:49:13
  Speaker 2: the ride.
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 4: I loved it.
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 2: And she's creative. She was fired from her job two
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 2: years ago and now she makes a living creating memorial
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 2: teas and casket raps. The sex was top tier. I
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 2: decided to dump my girlfriend. My girlfriend's nephew died and
• 1:49:27
  Speaker 2: I dumped her via text while she was at her
• 1:49:29
  Speaker 2: nephew's funeral. I texted the new woman. I told her
• 1:49:34
  Speaker 2: I want us to be exclusive. Her, Nah, I'm dating
• 1:49:38
  Speaker 2: other people me after we connected. You know I'm all
• 1:49:41
  Speaker 2: you need her? The connection was made, but you're cool.
• 1:49:46
  Speaker 2: I'm exploring my options. I'm sick. She's never gave me
• 1:49:51
  Speaker 2: the impression that she was dating other men. How do
• 1:49:53
  Speaker 2: I convince her that I'm the one and in the intern?
• 1:49:57
  Speaker 2: How do I make up with my ex girlfriend? Miss
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 2: her too kind of help?
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 3: So go to hell.
• 1:50:03
  Speaker 2: That's what you can do. Go to hell.
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 6: You broke up with that girl for lin My nigga
• 1:50:12
  Speaker 6: exactly took to get on the jokes. Jin had six flags.
• 1:50:17
  Speaker 2: You broke up with that girl while she was grieving
• 1:50:21
  Speaker 2: her nephew, while she was literally at the funeral. When
• 1:50:24
  Speaker 2: I tell you. You would have been buried next to
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 2: my nephew. What it's bad enough to depth somebody via text.
• 1:50:32
  Speaker 2: That's just that's just disrespectful as it is. That's some
• 1:50:36
  Speaker 2: bit ship. But while she at afernal no infernal affirm Now.
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  Speaker 4: Now I understand that there's there's like there's really like
• 1:50:47
  Speaker 4: no no specific time to do that.
• 1:50:50
  Speaker 3: However, you're gonna try to explain this.
• 1:50:59
  Speaker 2: Listening so she can knock your head.
• 1:51:02
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is breaking up breaking up your ant
• 1:51:05
  Speaker 4: like it ain't never like no real time like no
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 4: like no real like, it ain't no right time.
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 2: To do that, ship, But it's a batter way you
• 1:51:12
  Speaker 2: can fucking do it. Yeah, I mean at text, well
• 1:51:17
  Speaker 2: at a fernal Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean honestly, honestly, my nigga, listen, we were like
• 1:51:22
  Speaker 4: we've seen people that do We're saying the saying niggas
• 1:51:24
  Speaker 4: do worse because it's like like at a funeral.
• 1:51:27
  Speaker 3: You know, it is what it is. I mean, it
• 1:51:29
  Speaker 3: is what it is, what it is, you know what
• 1:51:32
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. Sure, it's been fun, but I know you're read.
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 2: You right now. I don't know if y'all made it
• 1:51:37
  Speaker 2: to the repair ship, but I.
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 3: Think I'm about my head out, but I'm a head out.
• 1:51:42
  Speaker 3: But it's been fun.
• 1:51:43
  Speaker 2: This ain't gonna work. I know, we've been together four years.
• 1:51:46
  Speaker 3: Sorry, and ship that you use in your family.
• 1:51:50
  Speaker 2: I mean you're already surrounded by your fans so they
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 2: can help you read you stay up, you know, but.
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  Speaker 4: It ain't shit gonna work for you. Now, you like,
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 4: it ain't gonna work for you. And that's I mean,
• 1:52:01
  Speaker 4: that's that's the that's the gospel truth right there ain't
• 1:52:04
  Speaker 4: nothing work, Ain't nothing gonna work for you.
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 2: And I'm glad brother man told you. Ye, she don't
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 2: want a serious relationship. Yeah, he said, she made t shirts.
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• 1:52:21
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  Speaker 3: Your girlfriend for a hustle man.
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• 1:53:04
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