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Romeo In The Morning 5-21-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: I was going on, just wrote me, oh everybody, and
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  Speaker 1: we made it to Thursday. We're almost to the weekend, right.
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  Speaker 1: We talked a little bit about things you have on
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  Speaker 1: your phone, like crazy things you store on your phone
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  Speaker 1: or you keep that you don't need, and then wives
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  Speaker 1: wives getting titled. Apparently once they get married they feel
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  Speaker 1: like they own everything, But do you own everything before
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  Speaker 1: you met him? And that's kind of what we talked about.
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  Speaker 1: And then we talked about Delano, Chevy, GMC. You guys know,
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  Speaker 1: I tell you about them all the time. Got some
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  Speaker 1: great deals for Memorial Day. So let's get going. Talking
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  Speaker 1: about the other day a woman was talking about how
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  Speaker 1: her husband had pictures of naked women on his phone.
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  Speaker 2: We'll come to find out.
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  Speaker 1: I guess there is a lot of men out there
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  Speaker 1: who actually have folders in their phone naked women. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's their buddies, wives or girlfriends, or maybe it's you know,
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  Speaker 1: celebrities or just women they find on the internet.
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  Speaker 2: But apparently I don't. I don't. But why do they
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  Speaker 2: do it? I'm not really sure?
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  Speaker 1: Already four two, four, seven to seven, Good morning, How
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  Speaker 1: what's going on? You do?
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  Speaker 3: We like to call that a mosque perverteh what Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: he's just he's just pervert, you know. I think he
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  Speaker 3: has those pictures so he's fantasizing. He needs something to
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  Speaker 3: fantasize about while he's been with his guirrel. So he
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  Speaker 3: should just be happy he's getting them with his pervert.
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  Speaker 3: But that's all it is. That's that's man for you,
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  Speaker 3: you know. Okay, putting somebody out of face on his wife,
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  Speaker 3: somebody out's body on his wife while he's been with her.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry to break it to.
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  Speaker 4: Her, all right, maybe already four two five, four, seven
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  Speaker 4: to seven, let's see uh A good morning, Rome.
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  Speaker 2: It's called him being a sex addict. Uh Rome. Also
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  Speaker 2: have her call you back and ask.
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  Speaker 1: Her if he is in in shape person that consistently
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  Speaker 1: works out because if Zoe probably on steroids. And when
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  Speaker 1: you in that, when you in that trust trust robo
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  Speaker 1: sex at uh sex at home is not enough. At
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  Speaker 1: least he's doing it by himself, then going to a
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  Speaker 1: girl in person and doing it.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, I just that's just weird because why would
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  Speaker 5: he have pictures of other woman's in his phone for
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  Speaker 5: if he have a girlfriend. Less.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like, alest he's cheating because if that was
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  Speaker 6: my man, he only supposed to have my pictures, Like,
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  Speaker 6: what is the next woman doing? Even if it's he's
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  Speaker 6: not the neighbors, it's just a bunch of peorns. So
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  Speaker 6: he's like, he gotta be a weird dude, because the
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  Speaker 6: average man is not WANs to just do that. Aless,
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  Speaker 6: he's cheating. I believe he's cheating. Yet look, you think
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  Speaker 6: I think he's cheating.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know because the uh I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know because there are a lot of men and
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  Speaker 1: women out there who are not getting what they want
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  Speaker 1: from their spouses and from a sexual staff point.
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  Speaker 6: Because I have a friend no that I know a
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  Speaker 6: lot of females that give they man what they want.
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  Speaker 6: And some of them are just dogs, and some of
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  Speaker 6: them just love to be on the internet and you know,
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  Speaker 6: doing anything and looking at pictures and stuff. No, some
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  Speaker 6: men that just dog and can't keep the thing. Well,
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  Speaker 6: you can do everything you want to like and it
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  Speaker 6: manages a doll.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, I'm not gonna argue with
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  Speaker 1: you because I can't argue.
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  Speaker 2: With that logic.
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  Speaker 1: But okay, all right, she's right, and what she's saying
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  Speaker 1: I was just gonna say there are a lot of
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  Speaker 1: men out there, and I would assume women as well,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say it in this fashion.
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  Speaker 2: I think there are a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Of men out there who are not getting what they
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  Speaker 1: want sexually from their wives, whether it be them staying sexy,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's sex, whether it's you know, whatever the case,
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  Speaker 1: it may be okay, but I don't think they want
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  Speaker 1: to cheat on their wives, or they don't have the
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to cheat on their wives. On the flip side
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  Speaker 1: of that, I think there's a lot of women out
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  Speaker 1: there that aren't getting their needs met sexually, either because
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  Speaker 1: men aren't trying as hard or they don't you know,
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  Speaker 1: men are just getting their needs met from a sexual standpoint.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't think the women are out there cheating.
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  Speaker 2: I just I don't. I don't know. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I guess guys are keeping folders on their phones of
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  Speaker 1: naked women married men.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know what was common morning out? What's going on?
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  Speaker 7: Good morning?
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  Speaker 8: What up?
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  Speaker 7: Hey brother? This is a real question now for that
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  Speaker 7: topic you're talking about, is her men a group chat?
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  Speaker 7: Because those guys do that?
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 7: And I don't know about you, But I'm a couple
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  Speaker 7: of group chats, well, a couple of friends. We say hey,
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  Speaker 7: good morning, don't saying a woman, you know, oh, or
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  Speaker 7: stuff like that. Sometimes they're going through our gallery to
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  Speaker 7: save up to her gallery. Sometimes we look up pictures
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  Speaker 7: to send back to them.
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  Speaker 1: I see what, So you guys will send naked photos
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  Speaker 1: to each other of women?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: What kind of women? Celebrities?
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  Speaker 7: Are regular women who celebrity? Or you know, maybe there's
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  Speaker 7: somebody in the group chat that kinds a crush out
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  Speaker 7: a certain person and you know we do.
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  Speaker 2: That, or so just anybody there's any group chat.
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  Speaker 7: It's just guys doing you know, just anybody, like how
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  Speaker 7: she said it is not about her neighbors, just random.
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  Speaker 6: People off the internet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and you're married.
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  Speaker 7: Question is he in group chat? Damn?
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  Speaker 6: Okay, all right, my wife knows about it.
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  Speaker 7: She knows about it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, your wife knows about it?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and she don't care.
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  Speaker 7: No, she don't care. Okay, you're just an internet pictures.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right?
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  Speaker 7: All right?
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  Speaker 5: Or not?
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  Speaker 2: Is a group chat?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I will tell you, Like I
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  Speaker 1: was saying earlier, I just.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I think that there are a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Of men out there who are sexually frustrated for whatever reason,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's their fault, whether it's their wives fault. Either way,
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  Speaker 1: they're not going to blame themselves, so but they don't
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  Speaker 1: want to cheat. I think there are less men cheating
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  Speaker 1: on their wives than.
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  Speaker 2: Men that are okay only.
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  Speaker 1: And that's why I say they find other outlets to
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  Speaker 1: do too.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I guess you could. You could consider it cheating, but
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  Speaker 1: there are a lot of other outlets there. I think
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  Speaker 1: that men try to do before they try to cheat,
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  Speaker 1: and this may be one of them.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of sounds like it. Right.
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  Speaker 1: Alrighty four two five four or seven to seven, we're out,
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  Speaker 1: what's going on?
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  Speaker 7: What's going on there?
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  Speaker 9: Up?
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  Speaker 2: Wagon?
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  Speaker 6: And were working every day or field of bowling?
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  Speaker 2: Good, I'm glad to hear that.
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  Speaker 7: And you work Buckingfield guys from the heart working then
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  Speaker 7: every county?
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  Speaker 8: All right, but.
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  Speaker 7: Not at all, man, Jesus be watching everybody. We just
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  Speaker 7: get back to football. Let's talk about the football. Let's
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  Speaker 7: go count on.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, alrighty four two five four seven seven,
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  Speaker 1: let's see here, remember when you send me here?
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  Speaker 2: Hold on, let me get to this.
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  Speaker 1: It says, uh, hey, roam, hey room.
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  Speaker 2: You know, guys are just guys.
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  Speaker 10: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: That's all we think and want is sex.
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  Speaker 1: It's very important, important topic and thing to do. As
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  Speaker 1: you notice, every time you bring something up with sex,
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  Speaker 1: you get all these messages and calls because it's important. Now,
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  Speaker 1: the real question is she open minded? Is he open minded?
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  Speaker 1: You will be amazed how many how many people get
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  Speaker 1: tired of the routine something over and over, not going
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  Speaker 1: to not going to adult stores and changing things up.
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  Speaker 1: There's so many people out there that don't give, okay,
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  Speaker 1: but receive.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't work that way.
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  Speaker 1: Try kinky things, try new positions, dress up for a play.
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  Speaker 1: If the pictures bother her, she needs to have communication.
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  Speaker 1: Let him know how it bothers her. How would he
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  Speaker 1: like it if she had those picks of guys? Very
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  Speaker 1: good question, Very good. I think I think the problem
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  Speaker 1: is and I think you're right. I think sex in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship is very important, just as important as any
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  Speaker 1: as the communication and the respect and everything else that
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  Speaker 1: goes into a relationship that you say is important.
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  Speaker 2: Sex is just does important. Okay, So.
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  Speaker 1: When you say that about I think a lot of
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  Speaker 1: women will just accept things. Whatever a woman's idea of
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  Speaker 1: cheating is. Every person has a different idea of what
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  Speaker 1: cheating is. Some people think cheating is only having sex
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  Speaker 1: with somebody else other than your spouse. Some people think
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  Speaker 1: cheating is doing anything behind your spouse's back that you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to hide from them. Okay, having intimate conversations at
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  Speaker 1: work behind your spouse's back, some people think that's cheating.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever she considers cheating, I don't, I don't. I think
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  Speaker 1: they allow their men to get away with okay, and
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  Speaker 1: justified because you remember when you guys don't remember this,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't remember when dads had Playboy. Dads used
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  Speaker 1: to have get Playboy every month, and guess what, moms
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  Speaker 1: didn't say anything about it. Moms knew about it. They
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  Speaker 1: hid it from the kids, but they didn't hide it
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  Speaker 1: from their wives. Their wives knew about it, and some
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  Speaker 1: of their wives didn't like it. But it was very
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  Speaker 1: common for a dad to get Playboys and have a
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  Speaker 1: stack of them. So sex is a tough conversation to
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  Speaker 1: have because everybody has a different idea of their sexual
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  Speaker 1: relationship with their spouse and what happens when one person
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  Speaker 1: is not getting their needs met sexually.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think they just all go out and cheat.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, women make because it's easier for women to cheat them.
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  Speaker 2: Men, but men.
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  Speaker 1: Not all men who aren't getting what they want from
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  Speaker 1: their wives sexually can just go out and cheat.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: It's not that simple. So they have to find other avenues,
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  Speaker 1: I guess to or they don't want to cheat. They
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  Speaker 1: still want their wives. But you know, so they have
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  Speaker 1: to find other avenues. And maybe these folders of naked
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  Speaker 1: women to their phones. Is that other ravenue?
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  Speaker 2: Greg, who's up?
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  Speaker 11: You know?
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  Speaker 10: I think that female that was calling the man and
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  Speaker 10: dogs and that thing, she just wanted to get something
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  Speaker 10: off her chest.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, she sounded like she had a little uh,
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  Speaker 1: she had a little bitterness in her voice.
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  Speaker 2: I could tell something that happened.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah yeah. And old boy that's talking about the group chats,
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  Speaker 10: I can believe that.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, men or men will send some.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, although I'm in some group chats and no
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  Speaker 1: guys ever sent photos of naked photos to me.
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  Speaker 2: So and in the group chats I'm in are the
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  Speaker 2: most childish men I know.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 10: Also also has to go with I mean, the female
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  Speaker 10: finds a picture like that, right, they go to the
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  Speaker 10: insecurity too, because whoa what are you looking at if
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  Speaker 10: you don't have at home? There's a problem, you know,
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  Speaker 10: there is.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that, and that's why that's why
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  Speaker 1: I said earlier that they I think women.
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  Speaker 2: I think guys don't.
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  Speaker 1: There are a lot more men that don't want to
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  Speaker 1: cheat on their wives, but yet they have to find
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  Speaker 1: some sort of outlet because they're not getting what they
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  Speaker 1: want at home from their wives, so they find something
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  Speaker 1: to you know, to fulfill their need without being you know,
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  Speaker 1: without cheating.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I.
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  Speaker 10: Think the women. The women, the women are the ones
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  Speaker 10: that are like, well, they get to the point where
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  Speaker 10: it gets stagnant in a relationship and they don't want
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  Speaker 10: to spike it up, so you know, the man goes
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  Speaker 10: and links you something else. Yeah, it goes the other
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  Speaker 10: way around too. I mean the man probably doesn't, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 10: find the way to And.
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  Speaker 1: There's a there's an argument to be made that you
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  Speaker 1: know who who's if your sex life is not going
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  Speaker 1: the way you want it, who's who needs to step up?
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  Speaker 1: You know a lot of women will blame the men.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of blame and blame will go on the women.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know I would. This is gonna
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  Speaker 1: sound really horrible, But since women control sex in a
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  Speaker 1: marriage and in a relationship, I don't know why more
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  Speaker 1: women aren't to blame for their sexual for their husband's
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  Speaker 1: lack of sex in the relationship. Now that's not to
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  Speaker 1: say that men don't need to do whatever it is
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  Speaker 1: they need to do to get their wives in the
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  Speaker 1: mood to have sex, but since women control it, they
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  Speaker 1: sure are let off the hook pretty easily when the
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  Speaker 1: man's not even not getting this sexual needs met.
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  Speaker 10: So communication, brother.
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  Speaker 2: Well it's a hard conversation to have. So all right, man,
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  Speaker 2: thanks for calling. Appreciate it.
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  Speaker 10: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I know a lot of you women
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  Speaker 1: don't like to hear that, but you have to put
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  Speaker 1: it in a context of what I'm trying to tell you.
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  Speaker 1: Since women do control the sexual relationship in their marriages
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  Speaker 1: and their relationships, you do have a little more blame
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  Speaker 1: than he does. That's not to say he doesn't need
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  Speaker 1: to do all he should do to help make you
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  Speaker 1: feel sexier, get you in the mood.
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  Speaker 2: But even if he does all that, you can still
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  Speaker 2: say no for whatever reason. So it's yeah, it's a
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  Speaker 2: tough conversation to have. Oh, so the other day we.
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  Speaker 1: Were talking about borrowing money and we kind of just
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  Speaker 1: went You know, when you when you lend somebody money,
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  Speaker 1: you kind of just got to let it go, right.
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  Speaker 1: I've hat a guy that has owed me money since
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  Speaker 1: two thousand and I think it was eleven. No for
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  Speaker 1: that two thousand and eight, I think is when I
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  Speaker 1: lent him like eight hundred bucks. I still haven't got
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  Speaker 1: any back. So I got this text message. I thought
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  Speaker 1: I was funny. He says, Hey, Rome, you talked about
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  Speaker 1: lending somebody money years ago and how you never got
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  Speaker 1: it back. Tell me what you think about this. When
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  Speaker 1: I was dating my wife, I lent a close friend
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  Speaker 1: of mine three thousand dollars and she was there to
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  Speaker 1: see it.
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  Speaker 2: I told her about it.
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  Speaker 1: Now that we're married, she still brings it up to
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  Speaker 1: my friend and tells me that I need to get
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  Speaker 1: that money back from him. Do you think Rome, she
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  Speaker 1: has any say in this transaction. She was only my
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  Speaker 1: girlfriend at the time, not my wife. I know she
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  Speaker 1: wants I know she wants the money so she can
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  Speaker 1: spend it, but I'm not worried about it. And she
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  Speaker 1: is and she is what oh, and she is worried
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  Speaker 1: about Oh, she is worried about it. What do you think, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think she should have any say in it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean just because if you were dating her, if
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  Speaker 1: you did something while you were dating her, then that's
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  Speaker 1: your business, not hers. Yeah, I don't think she has
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  Speaker 1: any say in the money. I mean, if it's your friend,
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  Speaker 1: whatever you did before you got married. I mean that
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  Speaker 1: makes the question how much does your spouse know?
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  Speaker 2: You know what like have you.
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  Speaker 1: Know have and does she have a saying things? You know,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have dated for years and
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  Speaker 1: you know they know your friends. So a lot of
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  Speaker 1: you guys know a lot about each other and about
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  Speaker 1: your friends. But once you get married, I mean that
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  Speaker 1: changes the problem. That changes the situation on what you
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  Speaker 1: do and how much say your wife has in what
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  Speaker 1: you do. But as a girlfriend, now, no, she you
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  Speaker 1: need to just you need to tell her to quit.
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  Speaker 1: That's not her money, that's your business. It wasn't her money.
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  Speaker 1: So she needs this And I can imagine what she's doing.
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  Speaker 1: She's probably bringing it up when you guys are all
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  Speaker 1: hanging out. She's probably making comments about the money. Right.
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  Speaker 1: I have a friend who did that a friend who
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  Speaker 1: borrowed some money from another friend of ours. And the
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  Speaker 1: friend that the friend and that he borrowed the money
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  Speaker 1: from was is one of the richest friends I have,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And his wife was worried about it all
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  Speaker 1: the time. Every time they got together, his wife would
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  Speaker 1: bring it up, where's the money where? But she wasn't
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  Speaker 1: she wasn't trying to be slick about it. She would
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  Speaker 1: just be straight up, where's the money you owe my husband?
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  Speaker 1: That was the funny thing though. She always said where's
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  Speaker 1: the money you owe my husband, not where's the money
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  Speaker 1: you owe us?
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know what.
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  Speaker 1: Her game was, but it was. It got to the
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: point where everybody kind of stopped hanging.
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  Speaker 2: Out with him because of her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, I mean there's a bigger question there.
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  Speaker 1: Does your wife have any say in anything that you
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: did when you were just dating her? I don't think
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: she does already four two, five, four or seven of seven.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Oh So a guy was texting me he said, I
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: guess back when he was dating his wife they're married now,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: he lent a friend of his three thousand dollars, and
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: to this day the wife brings it up once, keeps
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: bringing up when.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Is he going to pay back her husband?
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: And he was asking if she has any business being
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: involved in it, because when he lent the money, it
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: was just a a girlfriend.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: She was his girlfriend. Yeah, I agree with you. I
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: don't think she has any business.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: And what happened, what you did before you were married,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: even though you were dating her at the time. So
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I think she needs to keep stay out of your
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: business because that's.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Not her business.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: That's your business, right, I mean begs the question how
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: much involvement should well, your wife, I guess have in
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: your business or your girlfriend already four two papo or
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: seven to seven eight Romeo. I want to know were
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: they living together at the time. If they were living
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: together and he lent his friend three thousand dollars, the
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: girlfriend might have some say in it because they were
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: sharing bills. Well, I don't think living together has anything
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: to do with it. If you're not, I don't think
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: a girlfriend has any say in you lending money or
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: any saying a lot of things that you do. You know,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: your wife might have a lot more say, but I
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: don't think a girlfriend does. I mean, really, I don't
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: know thirty four two four seven to seven, So a guy.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: He sent me a text messy about lending money.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Apparently, when him and his girlfriend were dating, he led
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: a friend of his lent a friend of his three
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: grand Well, since then the girl that he was dating
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: they got married, and now the wife brings it up
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: to the friend in front of everybody, apparently, is what
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: it sounds like to me. She wants to know when
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: her husband's going to get his three thousand dollars back,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: which he thinks he wanted to know. What I think
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: about it, I don't think she has any business. I
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: don't think a girlfriend versus a wife. A girlfriend has
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: less say in her man's.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Life that a wife does.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, so already four two, five, four or seven to seven?
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Your rome?
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: How long have they been dating at the time that
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: he lent the money? That could play a part in it.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Some people never get married, so does the girlfriend who
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: never gets married but stays with the guy forever have
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: the same say as a wife?
• 20:19
  Speaker 6: Uh?
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: No, good morning? How what's going on?
• 20:25
  Speaker 10: You want to say about the wife?
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 20:30
  Speaker 11: Tring to mind her downs, miss, as long as she's
• 20:33
  Speaker 11: not lacking anything quiet?
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, Well, thanks for God, I appreciate it.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, but that's I mean, I think that's fair.
• 20:47
  Speaker 10: Right.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: If you're just a girlfriend or a boyfriend, you really
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: don't have the same say as a wife or a husband.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: So and if it happened before, then why are you
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: getting involved? Mind your business? It was your it was
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: your boyfriend's money. He chose to lend to his friend.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: And now you're just embarrassing yourself by bringing.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: It up all the time.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, the entitlement that these women get when they
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: marry somebody. Oh my god, yeah they I got this
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: text message. The guy was saying his wife, Well, what
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: happened was apparently when he was dating his wife, he
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: lent his buddies some money three grand, he says, and
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: now he has since married his wife or married his girlfriend.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: The girlfriend was there for the transaction, he says, and
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: now she brings it up all the time. When are
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: you gonna get your money back? When are you gonna
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: get that money back? Somebody made a comment before that, well,
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: if you're doing it, as long as she has what
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: she wants or she's taken care of her, she needs
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: a mind her business. Well even if you don't, even
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: if they could use the three grand that he lent
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: how many years ago.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not even sure. It's still none of the wife's business.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, just because you marry somebody, it doesn't mean
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: you inherent all their previous transactions on what they've done
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: you get to. I mean, if you date somebody and
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: you've seen them do things when you first started dating,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: and you accept those things just after you married night.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: You know how many of here's And it brings.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Up even another question of how many of you guys
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: have had to deal with your now wife getting involved
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: in your family business. Whatever that family business consists of.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I don't necessarily mean a company that's run, but I
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: mean the relationship between you and your family, your wife.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Once you marry a woman, she feels entitled to have
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: a say in things that have been long before she
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: was ever around. How many times does that happen and
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: does she have a say? You know, I think some
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: of these women, once they marry a man, they overstep
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: their bounds. Now, men probably do it too, but not
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: as much as women. Just like I think this wife's
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: overstepping her bounds, especially by bringing it up in conversation
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: with a group of people. That's not your business. It's
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: embarrassing for you to do that, all righty four two, five, four,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, roam, I'm not his wife or girlfriend,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: and I still think the chump should get his money back.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Why is he letting his friend play in his face
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: and not pay him back.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: It's not about the wife.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Or when he did it. It's about the disrespect of
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: not paying money back. She should divorce him since he
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: just let people walk all over him.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Well, I completely you're completely wrong about that.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I've lent money out to friends and I just lent
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: it out knowing I was never going to get it back.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: It's just you think it's being a chump. Maybe his
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: friend needed something. Maybe you don't know why the friend
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: borrowed the money. You know, I lent a friend some money,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: and uh, he needed some help because him and his
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: family were struggling and he was going through a tough time. Now,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: it's not disrespectful that he didn't pay it back, but
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: you should never lend money unless you never plan on
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: getting it back. So you're one hundred percent wrong. And
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: what you just said already four two pop four or
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Let's just send me here. Hold on,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I'll get to these next actors in a minute. But
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: it's just about the entitlement that a lot of these
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: women have once they marry somebody. You were not entitled
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: to everything that you think you are, especially something that
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: had nothing to do with you before you got there.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: What'd you send me here talking about this situation? Hey,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I think the wife, oh the money. I think the
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: wife brings it up because the husband's more than likely
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Uh pillow talks about it and it's probably just venting
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: to her, and so she took it upon herself to
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: bring it up because she knew he wants Uh, he
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: wants to but never will now by texting you, he's
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: trying to clean it up. But let's be one hundred percent.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Uh it's out there now.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Uh Well, maybe I don't know. Maybe I just I
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: think the wife needs to stay out of it. I mean,
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: it's just like how many of you have.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: In every aspect right before she was your wife. They
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: she has no say, you know, how many of you
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: got wives that get involved in your jobs and things
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: like that.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: You know, the entitlement is wild.
• 25:51
  Speaker 11: Rome.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Let's see here, what'd you send me here? This is
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: from borrow money is the same as giving it, giving
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: to a needy person. Don't expect it back most of
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: the time. I mean, that's what I'm saying. When you
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: borrow money, you should never expect it, or lend money,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: you should never expect it that I'm worrying out.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: What's going on?
• 26:13
  Speaker 8: Hey, I have a thousand percent agree with you.
• 26:16
  Speaker 11: That girlfriend turnal wife is giving off greedy vibes and
• 26:20
  Speaker 11: that's not cute.
• 26:23
  Speaker 6: Well, that is not cute.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I've lived in Beggarsfield long enough to know these
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: women marry into certain families, are married. Guys with businesses
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: are married, these guys that have put it, that have
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: done things before them, and all of a sudden they
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: felled the title to everything and take credit for what
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: they didn't do.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just it just gives a.
• 26:46
  Speaker 12: Look.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's embarrassing.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, how does it look that you're over here
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: telling somebody they owe you money in front of other people.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: That's just embarrassing.
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 26:54
  Speaker 12: And I mean if you're fishing out three gee's, you know,
• 26:57
  Speaker 12: like nothing, I'm sure she's going without, So what's the problem.
• 27:01
  Speaker 11: Yeah she should she should look at it like, you know, hey,
• 27:07
  Speaker 11: he's a good guy. You know, he's got a good
• 27:09
  Speaker 11: hard Yeah, but she's just thinking.
• 27:12
  Speaker 6: Hey, what could I have known? What could I do with?
• 27:15
  Speaker 8: Go get me a Louis.
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: You.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Hey, you guys want to talk about Bakersfield. Everybody wants
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: to say Bakersfield women are cheaters. There are more baker
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: swim women that are entitled after they marry somebody than
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: they are cheating out here in this town.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: I will tell you that I know.
• 27:32
  Speaker 6: I'm not one of them.
• 27:33
  Speaker 12: I'm not one of them.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, thanks for all right.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I mean it's hilarious how many how many women I
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: know in Bakersfield who once they marry a guy, they
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: feel entitled to things that they have no business, no business,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: no business with. It's none of your business. That happened
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: before you. You have no business to it, but yet
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: you feel entitled to it. I hey, welcome to Bakersfield's
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: got any four point one?
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Had a four point one?
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: The rhythm of the Vallet's Romeo already four two, five,
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: four seven, seven?
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: Hey romeo headbutt raider. Here? Can I borrow five grand?
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: Dude, I'd lend you five grand if I had it.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: I don't, Uh, I don't have that kind of cash.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: That's not how I roll, all right, sorry man already
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: four two pop four seven seven. Hey roam, So what
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: are you saying that a wife has no say in
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: her husband's affairs even after they get married.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: No, that's not at all what I'm saying. What I'm
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: saying is.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Anything that happened while you were still a girlfriend, you
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: really have no saying. And to be honest with you,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: if you're not going to get married, then you probably
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: really have no say in what he does anyhow. That's
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I'm also saying that after you
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: marry somebody, what you guys do from the moment you
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: get engaged forward is what you have a say in
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Before that, you don't really have a say.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: You know, you can't.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Really take credit for everything that happened before you got
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: engaged to a man and be entitled to it all.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say. I'm not saying that
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: once you get engaged and married, yes, from that point
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: on you have as much say as he does in
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: whatever happens. But before that, most women in Bakersfield, they
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: marry these men and then they feel like they're entitled
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: to everything that happened before they married them. And you're
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: not sorry to tell you you're not, and then you
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: get mad when these guys you know, treat you like that.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: They're not being disrespectful. It's just the fact.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: That before you you don't really have much to say.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: You shouldn't have any say in what happened. You know,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: happens all the time. We're talking about this entitlement.
• 30:24
  Speaker 10: Right.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: This woman her husband before they were married, he lent
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: a friend of his three grand right. She was his
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: girlfriend at the time, so she knew about everything that happened.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: After she became his wife, she keeps bugging about the money.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: He needs to get the money back. Apparently she brings
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: it up in social situations. I guess to try to
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: embarrass the friend, I guess, but all it does is
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: embarrass her.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: But it's the entitlement, right.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: A lot of these women after they get married feeling
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: entitlement to your past. And I just don't that's wrong.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I don't think you're owed anything once you get once.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I say, once you get engaged, you can start having
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: a say in your relationship.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Anything before that. Yeah, you need.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: To stay out of it already. Four two, five, four,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Now, what's going on?
• 31:15
  Speaker 7: Hey, what's up man? That got to be embarrassing for
• 31:19
  Speaker 7: your grow to do that to you in front of everybody,
• 31:21
  Speaker 7: like to call somebody out on that. That's got to
• 31:25
  Speaker 7: be so embarrassing for her for him like to have
• 31:30
  Speaker 7: a grow like that that you're jumping up in your business,
• 31:32
  Speaker 7: especially when she didn't have part in it.
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, poor guy, you know what I mean.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it sucks.
• 31:41
  Speaker 11: I gotta deal with that.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Right, Ala, It is embarrassing already. Four two five, four
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, let me ask you a question. So,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: both my parents are doctors and have made really good
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: money throughout the years. When we gra graduated college, my
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: sister and my brother and I, my mom and dad made.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Us a deal.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: They give us five grand a month every month after
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: college for us just to spend with. They have the
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: money and we are their kids. They said, it's family money.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: And oh and since we've succeeded in college and are
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: taking care of ourselves, my mom and dad just want
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: to reward us. Well, once I got married, my wife
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: started wanting some of that money. Now, mind you, rome
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I make good money, my brother and sister make good money,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: and she wants me to give her a piece of
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: that every month, and I told her no, and we
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: started fighting about it. My brother's wife doesn't do it,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: nor does my sister's husband ask for the money when
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I ask them about it.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: It's just my wife. What do you think about that?
• 32:55
  Speaker 8: Room?
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: Do I need to give her half because we're married now?
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, That's what I'm saying when I say these women
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: get entitled. That's a deal you had with your parents
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: if for whatever reason. And by the way, that's common,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: by the way, with rich parents. Rich people will give
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: their kids money a monthly, a monthly stipend, even if
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: they are have their own jobs.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: And that's what rich.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: People do, by the way, for those of you that
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: don't know. But yeah, that's not your money, that's not
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: her money. No, that's a deal you had with your
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: mom and dad long before you met her. She's just greedy.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: I would re evaluate your marriage. I really would.
• 33:46
  Speaker 10: Hey, that's the problem with gold diggers, man.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: Why can't call.
• 33:52
  Speaker 10: If you think about it? If you about it, why
• 33:56
  Speaker 10: did she get married with him?
• 33:58
  Speaker 9: Well?
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's gold digging. I think it's
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: just this. I think these women are trying so hard
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: to I don't think it's gold digging.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: I think they're they lack, they're insecure about who they
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: are in their lives, so they either have to live
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: vicariously through their husbands and and take credit for things
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: or have the things that their husband has because they're
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: insecure with themselves and their own accomplishments.
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's what it is. I don't
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: think it's.
• 34:36
  Speaker 10: Gold digging because does she have any condoms with anything
• 34:40
  Speaker 10: else other than the money?
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. Yeah, I don't know about that.
• 34:43
  Speaker 11: I didn't.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: I just it's just I know a bunch of women
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: like this in Bakersfield.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: They marry these guys that are in a certain family
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: or they're they're successful in their own right, and they
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: start to vicariously live through their husband's accomplishments which they
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: were not there to help build.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: And so I just I don't think it's gold digging,
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: all right, But you may be right. I don't know.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: I just don't know, you know, I just I just
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: see it so much, so maybe maybe it's gold digging.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I just you might be right. I'm just saying, go ahead, go.
• 35:17
  Speaker 10: Ahead, if you look at it the way that you
• 35:19
  Speaker 10: just said it. Right now, they look for these families
• 35:23
  Speaker 10: that have are successful. That means that, hey, I know
• 35:27
  Speaker 10: this person is successful, let me go get married to them.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Well, yes, you're right.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I mean gold digging to me is just a woman
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: and a man who knows what's going on. You're gonna
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: stay hot and have sex with me, and I'm gonna
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: buy you stuff.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. To me, that's the definition
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: of gold digging. But when I when you.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Look at what you said, no one for a loser
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: to marry, right, you would hope not. But once you
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: get in that, once you get in that marriage, you
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be trying to take credit for something all you
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: all Usually all you take credit for us marrying the
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: guy with enough money to take care of you. That's
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: all you should take credit for. Don't start taking credit
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: for his accomplishments or whatever deal he has with his
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: uh you know, his friends before you or his family
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: before you.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, that's all I mean
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: by that. All all man, thanks for calling bout.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Later, But all right, so it is we're brought to
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: you just Winging Studios is where we're at. It's a
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: twenty two right now and I tell you guys, I've
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: been telling you guys for a long time about Delano,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Chevy GMC, just because I've done bought in plenty of
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: cars from these guys, and they really do an amazing job.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: They really want to give you a good deal. They
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: want to make sure you're happy with the deal that
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: you get. And that's why I still bring him in
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: here to talk about him, because I better not say
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: what's up Sergio. Sergio is the guy. I'm gonna say something,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: but I better not. So Memorial Day weekend, Yes, this.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Is coming out.
• 36:57
  Speaker 9: Memorial Day weekend, big sales event, bigger than the Super Bow,
• 37:00
  Speaker 9: Like I say, you know what I mean. So anyone
• 37:02
  Speaker 9: looking for a car, truck or RESUV new, pre owned,
• 37:05
  Speaker 9: come on in this weekend.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: So what oh you said? All you said pre owned
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: as well? So everything's on sale. You're trying to get
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: rid of everything. When you say on sale, what do
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: you mean by on sale? Is it just original prices
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: being slashed everything?
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: Really? Yeah, trying to clear the lot. Huh yeah, Yeah, big.
• 37:20
  Speaker 9: Weekend, you know, long weekend, Monday of courses is a
• 37:23
  Speaker 9: holiday and stay so they'll pop some extra time to
• 37:25
  Speaker 9: come on in.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Uh, now what is you said everything's on sale? What
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: is if you had to guess, what would you say,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: if you can was the best deal on your lot
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: right now?
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: Trucks? SUV's today, trucks.
• 37:38
  Speaker 9: It is truck it's been truck month for the past
• 37:39
  Speaker 9: couple of months or so, so trucks fifteen hundred specifically EV's.
• 37:44
  Speaker 9: Of course, anyone's getting tired of paying those DCE on
• 37:46
  Speaker 9: those gas prices.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: Right now.
• 37:47
  Speaker 9: We still got some evs for sale, great deals going
• 37:50
  Speaker 9: on on evs A. Anyone's trying to cash in the
• 37:52
  Speaker 9: last minute. But yeah, mostly the trucks and SUV's for sure.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: When you talk about the evs, obviously, gas prices easy
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: right now, do they still get are you still get rebates.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: On those things? Or how is there still plenty of
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: rebates from the manufacturer and the manufacturers are still pushing.
• 38:07
  Speaker 9: Me understand the market to incentivize people to get into evs.
• 38:11
  Speaker 9: If the gas prices aren't incentive enough, right.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. Yeah, how how far the I mean you
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: you're drive an ev how far? How far does that?
• 38:20
  Speaker 10: Uh?
• 38:20
  Speaker 9: It? You've gone back and forth between gas and EV
• 38:22
  Speaker 9: and it's pretty it's pretty much almost the same as
• 38:24
  Speaker 9: far as distance and range goes. You know, so I
• 38:26
  Speaker 9: haven't had any discrepancies there, just a different lifestyle and just.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, you gotta does it the charging on those how
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: long sixty chargers?
• 38:34
  Speaker 9: Want driver right now on my commuter A fifteen twenty
• 38:36
  Speaker 9: minutes or so? Really that's yeah, Well you got a
• 38:38
  Speaker 9: little what do you got to a little blazer a
• 38:40
  Speaker 9: EV right now?
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, those little blazers are nice.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: If you guys want to check anything out, you can
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: go to Delano Chevy GMC dot com. They will absolutely,
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: you can go through everything they have. You can see
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: what what's available. You can I think you guys can
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: even do like a soft pool on the credit.
• 38:56
  Speaker 9: You can even do a lot. You do everything over online,
• 38:58
  Speaker 9: over the phone. Stuff like that make a very easy, convenient.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: He's just so calm about it.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, just people, what are the A lot of
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: people are out there looking for that new ride, and
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: this is what you want. You want a guy who's
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: just calm about everything. Hey, we'll take care of you.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Just let's let's figure it out, figure out the deal
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: and handle it. But yeah, you can do your whole
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: thing online if you want, and you can just I
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: think they'll just deliver it to you, guys, will just
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: delivered to him, right, give us a call, give him
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: a call, all right, So let you guys know Delano
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: Chevy GMC or you can call him at what is
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: your phone number?
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: Six?
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't even have to pull out his phone,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: so look at the phone number, all right, Delaana Chevy GMC.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Big Memorial Day cel going on this weekend. We'll talk
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: more about it time, all right. So we're talking about
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: cars because Memorial Day weekend is coming and Sergio is
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: here from Delano Chevy GMC.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: Good morning, Sergio, good morning.
• 39:52
  Speaker 9: Now.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: The reason we bring him in is because he's the
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: guy that can make the final decisions if you're up
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: there buying a car, and he's the guy that can
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: make the final decison. And so that's the guy we
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: want to talk to and find out what's going on
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: up on the lot. Now. Memorial Day weekend, everybody knows
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: Momoril Day weekend is a great time to buy cars.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: But not but but and there are until you go
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: to the lot.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: You have cars that are sitting on the lot now
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: that aren't that are on the website, hey or here,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: But the people don't know what kind of deals they
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: can get, even though they might be looking for something
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: very specific, and then they go, well, wait a second,
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: there's this car sitting right here next to it that
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I can get a better deal on that still has
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: everything I want.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: Those options are up there, right. I don't think people
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: understand that. Yeah, correct, like Romeo, Yeah, you're absolutely right.
• 40:41
  Speaker 9: You know, sometimes a person might think that they want
• 40:44
  Speaker 9: this specific type of vehicle and has to have these
• 40:46
  Speaker 9: types of features. Yeah, not knowing that when they get
• 40:48
  Speaker 9: to the lot, they have the option of looking at
• 40:50
  Speaker 9: everything that's available and they can find something with maybe
• 40:53
  Speaker 9: a better deal that still has all the features or
• 40:55
  Speaker 9: options that they want, you know. So until they actually
• 40:57
  Speaker 9: come on in and take a look at their options,
• 40:59
  Speaker 9: they won't know exactly.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: So I mean, you can get you can get so
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: much off the internet, but you can't get everything.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: You just don't know.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: And I really want to stress this because I've done
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: it before. You go up and you're looking for this
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: truck and you go, well, wait a second, how much
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: is this truck? Next day, well, this truck is a
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: similar price, but I can give you a better deal
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: on this. Maybe it's been here a few months longer
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: than the truck you're looking at, and I can give
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: you a better deal on this one, and it has
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: all the same things, or it might be a different color,
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: but it's the same. I mean, it's just there's so
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: many different things to look at, and I don't I
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: just don't think people really understand that.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: I think they just want to go online.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: And I don't want to discourage you guys from going
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: online to look, but you just don't realize until you
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: see something and go, wait a second.
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: How much is that one? Correct?
• 41:44
  Speaker 9: And these guys deals and the vehicles online obviously is
• 41:47
  Speaker 9: the way to go. But then when you come into
• 41:49
  Speaker 9: the actual shop, to the store and look at it
• 41:51
  Speaker 9: in person, and the deals in the vehicles is completely different.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: It is it is, It is amazing. I mean, it
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: might it's crazy.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: And to be honest with you, sometimes you might even
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: see one that has a little more than what you
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: were looking for at.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: A better deal, just because I don't know.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes things get lost in the shuffle and they're
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: there and everybody wants the popular color, the popular whatever
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: what they see online or what they and they just
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: go directly to that. All of a sudden, this guy,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: this car is sitting here and everybody's just kind of
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: walking by it, and you're going, wait a second, what's
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: wrong with that one. I'm just trying to help you
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: guys save money. These guys what they do you guys
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: want to I mean, let's be honest about it, Sia.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: You guys want to sell cars. You want to give
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: great deals to people so they can afford the car
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: they buy. Nobody, nobody realizes that we're all in it together, right.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: You want to sell me a car. I want to
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: get what I can afford. You want to sell the car.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I want to get what I can afford. You want
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: to make some money. That's your business and we can
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: work that out. You guys have always done it for decades.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: So I just want you guys to understand that someone else.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: What are we missing? Listing? It better to lease or buy?
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: What's going on right now?
• 43:02
  Speaker 9: It just depends on the model you pick out of course,
• 43:04
  Speaker 9: in your lifestyle. But again just memorild day week and
• 43:07
  Speaker 9: coming up, we got some big sales events, a lot
• 43:09
  Speaker 9: of good rebates and prices slash on select models.
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: Lower rates right now, lower rates there, yeah, four Yeah,
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: they have been Yeah, I just went to the website
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: right now to check it out.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: You got twenty twenty six Chevy Silverado fifteen hundred RST
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: four by four crew cab up to ten thousand dollars
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: and discounts and rebates. Now there's only one available at
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: this offer. So, like I said, you got to go
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: up there and get it. Go up there and get it.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Save some money. You know, I'm just looking at another
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: suv here, the Tahoe. Is that what it is?
• 43:40
  Speaker 12: Yeah, Chevy Tahoe. Yeah, impressed on the Tahoe right now.
• 43:43
  Speaker 12: You got to those Tahos are nice, all beautiful vehicles.
• 43:46
  Speaker 12: If you ever been to Tahoe. Bly you get in them,
• 43:49
  Speaker 12: they look like the Millennium Falcon. That's what they look like.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: They look like you're getting in the Millennium Falcon. And
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: they're just so cool when you get into them. It's
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: pretty cool.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: So anyway, Memorial Day sales are going on right now.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: What is it through?
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: Start today? Ye, start today. I's gonna say the best
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: on the bias now and the best time to bias now.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: The reason I laugh about that is because sometimes you got.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: These offers, you got only one and everyone's going ways
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: I gotta get that off right now.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Might not be available on Saturday.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: You plenty of offers to go around though, all right,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Deleno Chevy GMC, check them out today Delano Chevy GMC
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: dot com six hundred First Avenue up in Deleno.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: From Delano A.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: Chevy GMC, we're talking about the Memorial Day sale. What's
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: going on all weekend long? Actually it starts today. What's today?
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: Third?
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it starts today. You want a deal, go to
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: the website Delano Chevy GMC. You can see some of
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: the big deals that they have going on right now
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: for some of the cars. A lot of people when
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: we buy cars, we buy them with the rebates because
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: they're great deals. A couple of years ago, I mean,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: the rebates were different. So we're talking about round COVID
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: five years ago, six years ago, you might have bought
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: a car, or even two or three years ago, you
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: might have bought a car and you can actually you
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: may be able to get rid of that car save
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: some money because the rebates were different. Right, Interest rates
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: were higher, things like that, right, yeah, yeah, So.
• 45:13
  Speaker 9: About probably about two three years ago, immediately post COVID,
• 45:17
  Speaker 9: you know, rates were much higher. There were minimal rebates available. Yeah,
• 45:20
  Speaker 9: these days it's the opposite. Rates are much lower and
• 45:23
  Speaker 9: there's a lot of rebates available. So a lot of
• 45:25
  Speaker 9: people who bought a car a few years back, we
• 45:27
  Speaker 9: think maybe they can't get out of it. There's ways
• 45:29
  Speaker 9: to get get out of it now, possibly even lower
• 45:32
  Speaker 9: your payment or even keep your payment the same with
• 45:33
  Speaker 9: zero money out of your pocket. Yeah, just by coming
• 45:36
  Speaker 9: in due to the rebates now being available and the
• 45:38
  Speaker 9: rates being lower, it helps out, you know, compensates for
• 45:41
  Speaker 9: all that. So again right here this weekend, it's the
• 45:43
  Speaker 9: weekend to come check that out from the day sales weekend.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: Six hundred first Avenue up into Lano. Sorry to cut
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: you off their Joe, six hundred first Avenue up into Lano.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm still kind of old school. I like
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: to go look at the cars and see what's on
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: the lot. So you can do that, or you can
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: go online if that's what you do, but check them out.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: I mean if you're looking to I know I say
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: this and it sounds crazy, but if you are looking
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: to get the best deal and save a little bit
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: of money, whether it be on your car payment, whether
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: it be on the car itself, however you're buying it.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Now is a really good time to do it. And Delano,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: the guys know up in Delano that you're driving a
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: little out of your way.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: They don't want you to leave. They're not going, they're
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: not trying to, you know, screw you over. They're not
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: trying to.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: And they don't want you to leave. They want to
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: sell you a car and drive home in your new
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: car at the deal that you can afford that you're
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: looking for.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: Okay, And I don't see.
• 46:32
  Speaker 8: I was.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: I was buying cars before Sergio was, so I know
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: what it was like walking on a lot and they
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: were just trying to scam you and hustle you and
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: do whatever they have to get in a car. They
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: don't do that anymore. One last thing before you get
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: out of here. Your service department. I always feel bad.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: I feel like your service department is like the step child.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: But your service department is really good, right you guys
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: do Yeah?
• 46:58
  Speaker 9: Service department definitely have its staff to where you know
• 47:01
  Speaker 9: every customers tended to. We don't like to inconvenience anyone,
• 47:05
  Speaker 9: So service loaners are available points they are able to
• 47:07
  Speaker 9: be me Also, we're open on Saturdays, So Saturday.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: Mornings and afternoon.
• 47:11
  Speaker 9: So if anyone you know can't get in Monday through Friday,
• 47:13
  Speaker 9: they can come in on Saturday.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: Make a little convenient for the you know, the community
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: here and stuff like yeah.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Saturday. I mean a lot of people can't
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: get out of work get Saturdays.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: A lot of people work at eight to five ninety
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: six whatever Monday to Friday.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: So all right, so this weekend, Delando chev at GMC
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: six hundred First Avenue, Memorial Day sale going on starting
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: the day.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: Anything else you got to say, Surgery for you to
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: come on and see me this weekend, I'll be there. Oh,
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: you'll be there. Yeah, ask for Sergio.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: He loves that when you guys all go and tell hey,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I heard Surgeria on the radio.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: He told me to ask for him.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, let's talk about the dumbest things
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: you have on your phone. Okay, I myself do not
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: keep anything dumb crazy. I have nothing on my phone.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Some pictures of my animals, some pictures of stuff I've done,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: you know, work I've done on my house. But yeah,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of nutty photos or a
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: lot of nutty memes I get. I text my buddies
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: and I will send them a text message and they
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: will send me some meme or some is it a
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: gift jiff whatever? You say immediately back and I'm like, okay,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: you didn't have time to look that up.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: You weren't that quick.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: It came back too fast to me, which means you
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: already had it ready to go. What in the hell
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: are you people keeping on your phones?
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 48:35
  Speaker 7: All right?
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: A four two five, four or seven to seven?
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: What is the dumbest, what is the craziest, what is
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: the most idiotic thing that you were saving? I just.
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: It just makes me wonder, I mean, because what is
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: wrong with you? Kind of videos do you have? What
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: kind of just it just makes me wonder what kind
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: of people you are to have these things on your phone? Already?
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Four two, five, four seven is seven? All right? So
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: what do you got on your phone? Just talk about
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: what the what you keep on your phone?
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: Things you don't need to save, but you do anyways,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Just the dumbest, craziest, most idiotic things already four two
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: to five, four seven to seven year od roam. The
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: dumbest thing I have on my phone is my coworkers
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: cell number. God, nice, that's too much already four two
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: five four, seven to seven.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: Romeo, I've had this. I've had this on my phone
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: for years.
• 49:38
  Speaker 11: What is it?
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: You tried to send me something? But yeah, whatever you
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: tried to send me, it didn't come up. Yeah, don't
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: you don't need to send me the dumb stuff you
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: have on your phone. You can just tell me about
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: it because I'm pretty sure I don't need to see
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: it already four two five fours, seven to seven, Good morny,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: How what's going on?
• 49:57
  Speaker 6: Thank?
• 49:57
  Speaker 8: Do you want to know what the most stupidest things
• 49:59
  Speaker 8: that I keep that are embarrassing I do? What the
• 50:03
  Speaker 8: stupid that my friends do beside my kids pictures? All
• 50:06
  Speaker 8: those embarrassing videos that you can like comp them with
• 50:11
  Speaker 8: you save on your phone, Like I will delete baby
• 50:15
  Speaker 8: picture somebody I have printed out, but I will keep
• 50:18
  Speaker 8: them barrassed videos on my friends in the bushes, stripping
• 50:23
  Speaker 8: that nice?
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all the important things in life. That's awesome. Thanks
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: for calling.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: If you're not gonna keep if you're gonna delete videos
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: of your kids and erase baby photos for your friends,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: stripping sounds great already four two five four or seven
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: and seven. Like I said, what are the dumb things
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: the just the stupidest things you keep on your phone?
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: Talk about some of the dumb things you keep.
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: On your phone? Right already?
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: Four two five four seven to seven? Hey Romeo, I
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: have a question for you. Were talking talking about what
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: you keep on your phone. Hold on a second, Hey,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: rome I met this artist a few weeks ago on
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: a flight and I have his information on my phone.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: He does art naked selfies and of random people. So you, well, yeah,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: why do you have that? It's kind of funny what
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: you sent me?
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Anyway, I can't tell you what you said what you
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: sent me, but yeah, alrighty four two five four seven
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: seven Okay. But the reason I held off on to
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: tell you what this guy said you'll understand here in
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: a minute. Hey, Romyo, I want to ask you you
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: were talking about keeping stuff on your phones. Well, me
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: and my girl, we've been together about six months now,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: and we were honest about each other about some of
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: the things we kept from our ex.
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: She have the couple, a couple love letters and a necklace,
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: a couple.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: Things she got when she was in high school from
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: her first boyfriend. I have pictures and a couple of
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: videos from my exes on my phone.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: She believes it's okay for her to keep the things
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: that she's.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: Gotten from her exes because of how special they were
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: to her at the time, but thinks I'm wrong for
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: holding on to photos or videos. What do you think, Rome,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: I think if she's gonna hold on from things, if
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: she's gonna hold on to things from her past, it's
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: perfectly okay for you to hold on from things from
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: your past.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: That's just it's gotta be equal.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: Everybody wants equality, So in your relationship, she needs to understand.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: If she's gonna hold on the things, you get to
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: hold on the things regardless of what they come in.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: All right, already four two, five, four or seven seven.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: The person who said that the information a few weeks
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: ago they met an artist on a flight who actually
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: does the art of naked selfies of random people.
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I see the selfie.
• 53:18
  Speaker 7: I mean.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Not bad, the art's not bad, but uh, you might
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: send a naked selfie. I mean, I don't know, would
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: you send a naked selfie? You're willing to send a
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: naked selfie to some artists? You don't know what that
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: what's gonna happen with that photo?
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: I had a friend, by the way, this was a
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: few years ago, six or seven years ago. We're in
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: Mexico and she rolls out because some dude says, hey,
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I'll paint you naked real quick, and she was gonna
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: go with him.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: We're like, whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on, you better stop.
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: No, just gonna roll out with some dude who said
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: he was an artist who was gonna paint her naked.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and good luck with that, all right. You don't
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: know where that photo is going, all right?
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Eight four two five four seven seven Romeo, I think
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: your advice to that last caller was totally wrong. His
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: girlfriend's holding on to something that means something from a
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: first boyfriend in high school.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: Love letters are something that are kind of special in
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: your past.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: He's holding on to nude photos and videos of his
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: ex girlfriends.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, what where am I wrong? Each person can pick
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: in the side.
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: If you're gonna sit there and say, you know what,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold on to certain things from my ex.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: Even though I'm in a new relationship.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: Who are you to pick and choose what means something
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: to that person, maybe the nude pictures or his first
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: nude pictures. Maybe the nude photos are from his first girlfriend.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: So who are you to pick and choose what is
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: worth hanging on to? And all I'm saying is, if
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: one person in the relationship thinks it's okay to hold
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: on to things from an ex, whatever that memorabilia is,
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: then you gotta be okay with whatever the other person
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: wants to hold on to. That's all I'm saying.
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: I think I don't think it's I think you guys
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: are all.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: Anybody that's holding onto anything from an ex, I think
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: you're crazy. I think that you're wrong and you're still
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: hung up on that ax, and you shouldn't move on
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: to a new relationship.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: I don't care what it is already four two, five
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: or seven to seven.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: Hey, Romeo, there's just some good pictures and memes out
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: there that you have to hold on to because you
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: know they're going to be uh oh, you're gonna need them. Yeah,
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: maybe you're right, Maybe you're right, alrighty four two, five,
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. So a guy was telling
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: me how he's got pictures on his phone from like
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: an ex, ex nude photos, videos, things like that, and
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: him and his girlfriend of six months. She's held on
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: to memorabilia like love letters, jewelry from her first boyfriend.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: But she thinks he's wrong.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: But she's right. Now, corny, how what's going on.
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: Would have problem whatever?
• 56:29
  Speaker 10: So you're saying it's a bad thing to hold.
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: On to something from your ex.
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: I think it is. Yeah.
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: Oh, and I've been holding on.
• 56:35
  Speaker 7: To this restraint order that I got against her for years.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: Brother, she's a Raider fan too, Huh wrong?
• 56:46
  Speaker 10: Please?
• 56:47
  Speaker 11: Brother?
• 56:49
  Speaker 10: Wow?
• 56:50
  Speaker 7: Right, all right, Lader Dog.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I ain't gonna lie to you.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: I think if you're holding on to something from an X,
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: then you're just you're still hung up on him. I
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: just I don't think that, you know, I don't care
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: if it's your first boyfriend. Why are you hanging on
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: to your something uh from your first boyfriend, whether it
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: be memorabilia or not, whatever it is, letters, necklaces, whatever
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: it is, rings why you've moved on you're with a
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: new I don't understand that at all.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: I don't understand that at all.
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: Hey, Roam, you gave that guy the right advice, because
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: if she can keep something from an ex, then he
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: can keep something too. The real question is why in
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: the hell is he either Why in the hell is
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: either one of them holding on to something from the past.
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: Obviously the couples aren't committed to.
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: Each other exactly. Totally agree with that. Once you've once you've.
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're still holding on to something from an
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: ax man, you're holding onto the past. I mean, and
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: you could remember things like in your mind, remember moments
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: and times and people. But once you start holding onto
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: something that's tangible, you're holding onto the past. And I'm
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: out already, four two, five, four, seven and seven. I
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: don't want to go to jail. But unfortunately there are
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: a couple of kids from my previous relationship I just
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: can't get rid of.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: I'm not even sure what that means. I don't even
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: know where you're going with that.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: So now, we've talked about this before when it comes
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: to phones, right, I'll read you the text in just
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: a minute. But we've talked about phone checks, right, Checking
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: your spouse's phone, checking your partner's phone.
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: Is it okay? A lot of you think that it's
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: not okay.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: It's your your own private personal you know, space, so
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: to speak. I don't know how else to say it,
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: but that's your property. That's that's for you only, even
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: not for your spouse to look at. Because of a
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: lot of things you keep on there, a lot of
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: you will actually go the other way with it as well.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: Well, what are you hiding from me?
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: Because the phone, the phone, the phone allows you accessibility
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: to cheating in a way that you've never seen before.
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: And a lot of people think that you're if you're
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: you're hiding something on your phone, whether you're out, you know,
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: whether you're married and you're liking other women or other
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: men's photos, or whether you're chatting or dming or whatever.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: The case may be.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: Some of you feel you need to know that the pictures,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: the videos, the things that you have on your phone,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: who does that belong to?
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: Does that belong to you or does that belong to
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: you as a couple, You know what I'm saying.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: So a phone checks, should you be checking your spouse's phone,
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: your partner's phone?
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: Is that okay? All right? E?
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Four two four seven to seven? And now this is
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: what somebody said in me yo, roam. I was looking
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: at my husband's phone the other day because I was
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: looking for a number that I needed. I wasn't really
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: trying to snoop. Okay, you weren't trying a snoop. I
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: found a couple of videos, though, Well, if you're looking
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: for a number, why are you in the photos and videos?
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: Huh? You're not trying to snoop though, right?
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: I found some videos of cartoon characters having sex. No,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: I think, now, I think that's kind of strange, right,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: But I really shouldn't have been looking at my husband's stuff, right,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: But what do you think? Rom do I need to
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: have a conversation with my husband? I don't know kind
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: of cartoon was it? Who was having sex?
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. Is it that anime? Becuse
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: that that?
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: I know there's some was it that weird uh anime
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: type sex stuff they have? I know there's something like
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: that or was it like I don't know, Mickey mouse,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. Uh, I guess I don't know.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's better that he's uh cheating
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: on you? Right, at least you didn't find him having
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: sex with other women or of naked women.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: You know, But what have you found?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: Is it?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, what do you guys think? Is it right?
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 10: Is it wrong?
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 9: What?
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: Have you found.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: I mean a lot of people get real.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: Touchy about their phones. I've always told you this that
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: people who turn their phones upside down when they set
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: them down on a.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: Set them down.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: If they turn them upside down, they're doing something shady
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: that they don't want you to be in their phone. Okay,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: But if it's your spouse, if it's your partner, should
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: they be able to, you know, look at your phone
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: whenever they want? Already fourteen fat, four or seven seven.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: I would ask your partner if you found some sort
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: of weird, kiky cartoon sex in his phone.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: Videos, I would ask him what that's about.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Absolutely, you never know, and I don't think it's a
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: big deal that you went through his phone, to be
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: honest with you, already four.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: Two, five, four or seven seven.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: So phone checking, phone checking your your spouse, your partner,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: is that okay? And what have you found when you've
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: done it? I mean you always think of the crazy things.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: I think you guys always think the worst when you
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: go through the phones, like they're cheating on you or
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: they're so that they Maybe that's probably the most Uh,
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: it's probably the what happens the most. So, but what
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: do you do, I mean, is it okay? Already four
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: two five four seven to seven A Romeo. I think
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: it's an invasion of your privacy. If you go through
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: your spouse's phone, that's still yours, not theirs, So it's
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: an invasion of privacy. That woman never should have been
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: looking at her husband's phone, Hey Romeo, already four.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: Two top four seven to seven yard room, that's what
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: she gets.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: When you look through your spouse's phone, you might want,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: you might find something that you don't want to see,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: so that's what she gets. Already four two fop four
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey Romeo. I was going through my
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: husband's phone one time and I found a picture of
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: his coworker's wife. I guess he sends them to everybody.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: All the crew has them nice, So are you mad
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: about it? But going through your spouse's phone, do you
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: guys think that's okay? And what have you found when
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: you've gone through it? It doesn't have to be something
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: that infidelity or anything like that. It could just be
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: something that they have. I don't know, Harty four two
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: five four or A seven A seven eight Romeo. I
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: got to tell you I went through my husband's phone
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: one time and I found out he had bought some
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: tickets for us to go to a concert at so
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: Far that I wanted to go to. He was doing
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: it as a surprise for me. Wasn't even my birthday
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: or anything like that.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: He was just doing it. I felt horrible when I
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: found them. I just ruined everything. Yeah, see what I mean?
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: You can't be going through when you find stuff, You
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: find stuff, right, that's what you get, right for going
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: through that? Alarty four two fool or a seven seven
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: h Raider Dave is an idiot? Okay, I keep telling
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: you guys, Raider Dave and Seahawk Liule Morrins, we were talking.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: We're talking about getting tickets to the LA Olympics LA
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: twenty eight, right, and Raider Dave said that why would
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: anybody get excited over it? And then he proceeds to
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: text me saying, why are you trying to find a
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: reason to go to Italy? I practice the Olympics every
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: day running from the cops. I can't forget child support.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: Now that's a trophy.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: See how stupid he is.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, we're we're worthy, but I'm excited about me
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: to see how stupid we're not even talking about the
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Winter Olympics.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: We're talking about the.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: La Olympics, which are the Summer Olympics in two years.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: That's why I can't with these guys.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: Do you see why?
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: I'm the guy that has the show and all of
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: you don't because of this idiot already fourteen four seven
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: to seven from you?
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: What do we got here?
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: Yo? Rom If you go, if you go, if you
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: have to go through your spouse's phone, why haven't be
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: with a person if there's no trust? Why would you
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: be in that relationship? I don't settle when dating, and
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: date for longer, for longer, really get to know the
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: person and see their real intent with you and your feelings.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Because that's why. Because I said so, I will say
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: this the reason, and I get what you're saying. But
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: you're one hundred percent wrong. In the society we live
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: in today, you can't trust people. Okay, so you can,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: but it doesn't matter how long you've been with somebody.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: They may do you dirty in a way that you
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: that you don't like, and they may not even know
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: they're doing it.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: But no, you're wrong.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: You have to protect your relationship. Absolutely. You have to
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: protect your relationship because that's the world we live in,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: and somebody's always trying to take what's yours. You know
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: already four two four seven to seven your rome. If
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want me going through his phone because it's
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: his property, then he better not expect me to do
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: his laundry since that's his property. Also, that's a logic
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: for you, bro, that's a logic. She's that's that's pretty good.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: What do you guys think? I think it's okay to
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: go through your partner's phone.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: I mean it is, you know, everybody has different opinions
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: on it. Good morning, off, what's going on?
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 10: Hey?
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 11: Good morning, bro?
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: Hey, what's up?
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 11: I only call the last thing about protecting your relationship,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 11: and you're right. I don't know what else. But in
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 11: that part, if I see my mom being extra you know,
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 11: sexy and everything, and I start feeding in more food, okay, Yeah,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 11: I gotta go ahead and keep them in a certain
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 11: shape where I still love him any shape, but you know,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 11: you've got to get the woman away from us, all right,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 11: all right, all right, keep them in just the right
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 11: amount of fluffy.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, that's not what we're talking about in a sense
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: that there are a lot of women out there that
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: like fluffy. Guys expect atually if they're good men with
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: jobs and take care of business, fluffy does not matter anymore.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: Already four two, five, four or seven seven. But it does.
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  Speaker 11: It is.
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  Speaker 2: I am right about protecting your relationship.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: There is a There's a difference between being uh, let's see,
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: insecure and just protecting your relationship.
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  Speaker 2: There's a difference.
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  Speaker 1: Between being jealous and toxic and just looking out for
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: your relationship, looking out for yourself and your relationship. You guys,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: anytime you say, oh, well, I just you know, I
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: got to check. I gotta check my relationship. I gotta
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: make sure everything's good. So you know, you think, oh
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: my god, that's totally wrong.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: No, it's not.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: Oh you don't trust me? Well, can I trust you
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: all the time? Can you trust your partner all the time?
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: That's the thing you don't even understand. Maybe your partner
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: does things when they drink too much, you know, so
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: shouldn't you be there with your partner out drinking.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: If maybe you know.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of reasons to protect your relationship that
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: don't necessarily mean you don't trust somebody and or that
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: you're jealous and or that you just you know, Hadi
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: Fortiva or.
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  Speaker 2: Seven to seven a roam.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: Let's see her being able to get into his phone
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: means he trusts her with this password. She's one hundred
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: percent valid, she's one hundred percent invading his privacy.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: No, you're not. I think you guys are. Well, that's
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: all right, you guys. You know what, Listen to the
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: other people.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: Listen to the people that say, oh no, just let
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: your spouse do whatever the heck they want. Just trust them.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: And then when you get cheated on, call me and
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: I'll help you. I'll help you through it.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'll explain to you why you screwed up.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: All right. So when it comes to the lady said
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: she was going through her husband's phone, found something, found
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: some cartoons, something, and she was asking about going through it.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: Is it okay, it's it's okay. I think it's okay.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: I don't have a problem.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: Why would you have a problem with the person who
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: chose to spend the rest of your life.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: With going through your going through your stuff? Why would
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: that bother you?
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 8: You know?
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: Fourteen five four seven seven, Hey, Romeo, are you one
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: of those people that thinks you're supposed to share everything
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: once you get married.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: I mean why not? Why wouldn't you share everything?
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: Why?
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah, the thing about relationships that's kind of crazy.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: Hold on, Rome, It's only okay for a female to
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: go through their man's phone, But if a man does it,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: he's the one cheating. Yeah, I agree with that female logic.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: But if she doesn't allow you to go through her phone,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: or she gets up there, then you know it's time
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: to roll, It's time to get out. You know. When
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: you go back to sharing everything, then why did you
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: get married? If you're not willing to share everything, why
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: did you get married? Why did you settle down? That's
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: the one question you need to ask yourself. Now.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: Remember listen how I'm saying this.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: If you're not willing to share everything, why would you
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: settle down in a relationship?
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: Because you never know. Sometimes some partners don't care.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: Some partners, some partners or spouses don't really want to
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: go through your stuff. They don't really care where you're
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: no care where you're going. They just want to know
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: out of respect, right. But if you're hiding.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: Something from your spouse in your phone and you use.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: The justification, well you got to trust me or somebody
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: uses that justification. If I don't, if I have to
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: go through someone's phone, then that means I shouldn't be
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: with them. That is more about you than that other person.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: Like the last person, What are you hiding that you
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: don't want anybody to see what you have.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: On your phone? Because that's really you're the guilty party.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: People always say that, well, you can trust me, but
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: if I have to go through this, if I if I,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: if I have to go through your phone and I
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: can't trust you, then I don't want to be with you.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: Or if someone has to go through my phone because
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: they don't they don't trust me, then I'll never be
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: with them. Well, what are you hiding? That's the reverse
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: side of that. What are you hiding? And you're hiding something?
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: Anybody that's so adamant that they start throwing around this
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: idea is if you don't trust me, then we shouldn't
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: be together. You're hiding something more.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 10: Not even four, but one