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Tonto Dikeh & Ex-Husband Churchchill Settle Their 10-Year Rift · DidiLawren

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Hello and welcome back to the episode The Band with Lawrence
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here. How are you all doing up?
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You're doing great. For today's episode I want to
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talk about Tonto DK and Churchill.
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Tonto DK has apologised to Churchill 10 years after their
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infamous feud. Now, for some of you who don't
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know Tonto DK is in Nollywood or was an Hollywood actress because
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she says she's not an Hollywood actress.
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She's a politician, she's a philanthropist, she's a
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businesswoman. So Tonto Dickey was an Hollywood
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actress. She made name for herself
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because you know, she's she's, she was a video vixen.
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We've lived through all faces of Tonto Dickey.
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To be honest. She was a video vixen.
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She was a musician, she was an actress, she was the wife, a
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girlfriend, a politician. Now Jesus baby, OK, she's come
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bashing for Christ and since she's found Christ she has
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reconciled with her ex boy husband Churchill.
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Now don't dig him a Churchill. We're just sitting our money in
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our business. Don't you think he started
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posting about Mr X? Mr X, Mr X she will post and say
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Mr X bought her this, Mr X bought her that.
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You know, Tondo Dique was Tondo Dique was the influencer before
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influencer became a thing. Anybody Tondo Dique touches that
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person blows. So we're just waiting for who Mr
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X will big reveal now. Tondo Dique revealed her Mr X as
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Churchill, that they were engaged, they were getting
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married. People were so happy for
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Tondolik because she was really a private person.
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She wasn't like flaunting boyfriends.
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She we knew her to be very vocal online.
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She was always fighting one person or the other.
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So we're happy for Tondoliki. When she decided to settle down,
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they posted the wedding videos, traditional wedding videos
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online. Things were off because she was
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literally pulling Churchill to dance.
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People noticed, you know, those little, little things are very
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noticeable. People noticed that she's trying
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to force this guy to, to, to dance with her.
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He wasn't even smiling. His mom was there, but from her
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side you could see that everybody like, 'cause, you
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know, they had to come to our place to do the traditional
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marriage. But from his side of people, it
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was just a mum that we could see.
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And Tonto Dickey had cleaned or Tonto Dickey had said that
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Churchill's told her he was the son of Obasandra.
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So she felt, you know, she's marrying into money, she's
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marrying into prestige. She's going to start getting all
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the whole contract and all that after the marriage.
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Tonto DK According to the story, she was pregnant during that
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marriage. Everybody was happy Tonto DK had
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a baby. They did the naming ceremony.
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We saw pictures. We were, I said I was excited
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for Tonto DK because I was like, you know, she happy ending.
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News surfaced online that Tonto DK's sister-in-law because
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according to Rosie, Rosie said Churchill was her brother.
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Now let me just even play that video for you too, because
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sometimes it's good to hear from the horse's mouth.
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Is irritating to the ears. It's just like saying, are you
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sleeping with your brother? Like I said again, and I repeat
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myself, this is someone that he's an he's a month or two.
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He's someone I look up to. I've always he's he's person.
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He has a very good heart. There's no one that wouldn't
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want to be identified with someone that has a good heart,
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someone that gives a helping on me.
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I'm very certain that being managed and being on that big
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church group foundation, I'm very sure of a very bright
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future, which I'm going to say I really have nothing to say about
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this because it's really relevant to me.
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They're in peace. They're happy.
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I don't know about what you people are saying, but you guys
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should get your facts straight before bringing things out.
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It's really not relevant to me. I'm not going to say much about
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it until until never. No, I'm not saying much about
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it. Now this is Rosie, or this was
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Rosie. When people started pointing,
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they started seeing how we Churchill in a compromising
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manner. They were going on dates.
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They were, you know, they they were pictures.
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So people started asking questions that who is who is
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Churchill to you? So this was the interview.
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She said that, oh, she's just signed to his record label.
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She's not an artist. So she would she is an actress
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or she was an actress. In fact, according to the story,
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Tonto Dickey actually because Churchill introduced her as his
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sister, Tonto Dickey then introduced her to the industry
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to say this is my sister-in-law, help her give her roles.
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So when they started seeing Rosie with Churchill, people
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were asking questions and then she came and debunked the whole
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news. She said no, he's her brother.
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It's just like sleeping with her brother.
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Why would they ask that question that they are happy at that
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point. Things were really, really not
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going well within Tonto Dickey and Churchill's marriage.
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At the end of the day, the marriage ended Tonto Dickey.
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I think if she had just not todo Dickey is an outspoken person.
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So she did a whole media rounds. She called Churchill a 2 minutes
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man. She said he's a Yahoo guy, He's
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a fraud star. He's into Yahoo Plus he's a
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ritualist. He is.
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She said so many things. She said she paid for the
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wedding. Now this was a video, one of the
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interviews that Tondo Dicky did many interviews.
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He didn't pay for anything at all.
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You see a lot of people say, oh, you're very stupid.
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Oh, you paid for your wedding, you're very desperate.
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No, it didn't happen that way. I lived here in Nigeria and he
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lives in Ghana. Whenever he came here, he lived
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with me. Whenever I went to Ghana, I
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lived with him. So that was how the relationship
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was. When we were planning our
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wedding, I was here in Nigeria, he was in Ghana.
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And all he kept saying was, baby, go ahead and spend, baby,
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go ahead and spend. I'll repay you back.
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You see what the the reason I, I, I actually did this interview
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because I have a lot of proof. I have AI have a lot of
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documents to back up everything I said.
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This is first of all, I'd like to say there is no kind of proof
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in this world that stands out that a conversation between two
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people. Now I cannot forge a document
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about somebody else. The network would sue me, the
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person would sue me. So if this is not his number, I
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would be sued. Now these are documents of me
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asking this man to pay me back the money I used in marrying
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him. In this document also you would
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also see his replies. There is also a document stated
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here when I said that he never gave me any money and he
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acknowledged it. They never gave me any money for
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I said Hola. The only money you gave me for
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the wedding is 1.7 million. Even your family contributed
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1,000,000 inside this money. You asked me to keep spending my
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money you would pay me back. I don't know why it's an issue
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now it's 1.7 million my bride price or is that what's what's
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the dreams flew you there, paid for hotel and fed you.
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My friend's boyfriend paid for the hotel that my husband slept
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with me in, made love to me in on the day of my wedding was
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another man that paid for it. To the dreams of my wedding, I
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paid for it. I flew my ex-husband down from
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Ghana to Nigeria to my village to get married to me.
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His uncle, God bless him, he's a pastor, gave me 1,000,000 naira
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through my son's father. That is the 1.7 million I was
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talking about. Then my son's father gave me two
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different money, 300,000 now once and 400,000 now once, which
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is making 400 seven, 100,000, which I never used that money
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for the wedding because by the time it came in, I've already
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spent and I've already dispatched all the money that
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was out. So yes, these are all the
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documents that shows that Hola Kunle Churchill was married by a
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woman's money. It's here.
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So if you say that this is not your number, luckily Churchill,
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I will prove the world that this is your number.
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I will go to every network that you use and I'll prove to them
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that this is your number because this is your number and these
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are all the proof that you even even in here.
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He negotiated my bill because while I were asking for this
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money was after we got married. I knew that I wanted to leave
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him. So I stay asking for all of my
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properties. I just wanted to in disguise to
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take everything I had and leave. So I start to ask him for it.
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And at the end of this, at the end of this, he paid me 10
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million naira. That was 2016 December.
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That was the the month I left him.
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That's when he gave me 10 million naira as a cover for all
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everything I did in here. It's also it's also a message
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that he asked me that I should that that how much she said
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baby, how much have you spent so far from the introduction up to
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date give me. That's what he does sometimes
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when if I ask him for my money for too much then he will not
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say oh tell send me and the next one month.
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So that was tune to DK, Tune to DK went around talking about
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Torch Hill, talking about the relationship, the marriage, how
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everything ended, blaming Rosie. So people felt she was doing too
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much. People felt OK, the marriage has
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ended, move on. You've collected your money,
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move on. You married a man, you paid your
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bride price. It shouldn't be something you
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should be, you know, singing to the high heavens.
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It should be something you should be ashamed of as an evil
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girl or as an aquaria girl. You shouldn't even do that.
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But since you have done it, you shouldn't have come out and said
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it. But Tondo Dique was hurt.
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And she's that kind of person that will come out and, you
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know, just say everything that is on her mind.
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So that was why she was blamed. And that was in 2016.
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And since then, Tondo Dique had taken care of her son, according
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to her, by herself. Churchill hadn't contributed
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anything. Churchill went ahead to marry
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Rosie. They had to.
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They currently have two kids. So everybody has moved on.
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Tonto Dickey has found God. Tonto Dickey has found Christ.
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Tonto Dickey is now, I think she's positioning herself to be
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Mojo. Tonto Dickey, I think wants to
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marry a pastor. She is praying online, she's
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kabashing. She even reduced her BBL and she
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said if she would have, if she could, she would remove her
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tattoos. But she said she don't want to
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spoil her skin, so she would leave the tattoo the way it is.
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She to kind of complete her, you know, transformation or her
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calling. She decided to reconcile with
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her ex-husband. She sent him a message.
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They acknowledged the message. He even came online.
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He wrote, you know, so lovely. I think he knew he offended her
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and for her to kind of extend and leave Branch.
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He was happy to take that. And maybe because he has a son,
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his son is about 10 years old. So at the end of the day, they
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have a child that they had to maybe put every differences
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aside and raise. So I think he was happy.
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He, you know, mentioned that. He said, you know, he's happy
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his wife Rosie now, you know, people were, if she hadn't said
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anything, nobody would bother. But she released a video, a
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picture and said and she captioned it.
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Queen of all Queens, people went in on Rosie.
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People said you're so insensitive if you don't want,
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if you don't have anything to say about your husband
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reconciling with his ex-wife who you snatched from her, you
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should have just not said anything.
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You should have just, you know, shot it.
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But a lot of people are saying that Tonto Dickey is, this is
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also a phase of Tonto Dickey. This pastor phase, this
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evangelical phase. It will still pass.
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People are saying they don't believe Tonto Dickey because
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we've seen Tonto Dickey as an actress.
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She's saying that she's no longer she she's denying being
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an actress. We've seen Tonto Dickey as a
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musician, as a musician. She's released album.
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She's saying that she's no longer a musician.
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We've seen Tonto Dickey as a wife.
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She said she, you know, she rejected that.
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So we've seen to do Dickey in different phases.
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And now this phase of Tonto Dickey, people are finding it
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very, people are finding it very hard to accept.
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But I think I I accept Tonto Dickey, whichever phase,
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whichever face. I mean, listen, we accept her
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because if she was a man, I don't think she would get so
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much hate. This was somebody who got
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married, who paid for her wedding because she loved him.
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She loved him. She held him so high because of
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what he told her. Don't start a relationship on a
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lie. Don't start a marriage on false
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pretence because if that person eventually see you for who you
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truly are, they may not be willing to accept the true you.
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If he had come out to say this is me, my father was a gate man
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to a passenger. Do you know that was the alleged
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story? He, I mean, Truchil is a fine
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boy, so she would have maybe still accepted him because she
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truly loved him and helped him out.
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Tondo Dickey has met so many people in the industry because
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she's, she's Tondo Dickey is clouds and she is monetizing her
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clouds so she could easily. We know Bob Riskey because of
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Tondo Dickey. A lot of we know Churchill
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because of Tondo Dickey. A lot of them Tooto Dick is
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clout. So she could have used her clout
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to make sure. Even then she was using her
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clout because she said everything she was, she was
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posting online that Churchill bought that she actually bought.
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So I think she knew, she knew he was lying.
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But when he started cheating, you know for the fact that she
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was paying for everything and he was cheating.
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He was cheating with Rosie. She couldn't take it.
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That was the pain that she was expressing.
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Not because, you know, she paid for everything.
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She was paying for everything. He was taking care of Rosie.
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That was the pain. So ladies, please, please,
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please, please don't pity men who don't give them money.
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If a man cannot pay to marry you, leave him alone.
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Even if it's pure water, he should bring it and marry you.
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Don't put your money unless you want a big wedding then that is
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your problem. Then don't come and complain
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that you married him. You did this and you did that.
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Marry your type, marry your class.
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Men can marry down because the women they want to marry
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somebody who is going to sit down at home and take care of
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the kids. Women can not.
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Or when they marry down, it usually doesn't work because
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when you're going to sit down home and have those kids, you
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go, you are going to need a partner who is going to provide.
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Pregnancies are different. Some people work until they they
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push out the baby. Some people from the time they
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take a pregnancy test, they are bed bound until they they they
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give birth to that baby and then you have to spend another yes,
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nurturing that baby unless you want to start hiring yourself to
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help you out. So you're going to need a
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partner, which is why sometimes they say women are gold diggers
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or women their eyes is too much. Or listen, if women actually sit
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down and put into consideration childbirth, taking care of kids,
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they will marry up. They will not marry down.
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And when they marry down, we have situations like Tondo
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Dickey. Let me know what you think.
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Do you think that Tondo Dickey has actually changed?
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Or do you think that people are just being envious?
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They're just they're just jealous of this phase of Jesus
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baby. Let me know what you think.
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