Latest / Black Girl Interrupted Podcast / Bullying...It's Not OKAY!!!
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- 0:11Black Girl Interrupted. Y'all already know how Stede erupting. Y'all already know how
- 0:32black Girl. Oh, Happy Thursday, everybody, Welcome back to another episode
- 0:48of Black Girl Interrupted. Y'all already know who it is. I don't have
- 0:52to keep introduced to myself, but I don't know. I get a new
- 0:55viewers every week, so I guess I do have the interview, I mean
- 1:00entry, y'all know what I'm trying to say. Hell, it's it's hairs
- 1:03day. I'm tired, but it's one day away from the weekend and two
- 1:08days away from my husband touching down in Houston, Texas. I can't wait.
- 1:12I'm so excited. But anyways, anyways, y'all, look see,
- 1:18I don't even had nothing to organize, Like I let me put my stuff
- 1:23up here. There we go. Then let y'all know that I should have
- 1:26took to day off, but I had to come in and I had to
- 1:30have this conversation a day. Um, it's imperative that we have this discussion.
- 1:38Hello, sir, sir, use a calling Russell Lie. I've been
- 1:44wanting to say this shit all day, y'all. I don't judge me,
- 1:49but I have I feel wanted to just I want somebody just call me and
- 1:53sit and tell me something. Then I want to say, use a caller,
- 1:56Russell, lie, It's all I want to do. I don't know
- 1:59why that girl didn't really drove the hell out of me. Let me just
- 2:02give you, let me just brief, Let touch on this for just a
- 2:07moment, because Carlin Russell did for everyone that knows, that knows the story.
- 2:13Carla Russell is the twenty five year old lady from him Burnmaham, Alabama,
- 2:16who concocted that lie Tooma. She had been kidnapped by a man with
- 2:21orange chair and he was bald in the top, and she saw a white
- 2:23baby walking down the inter state in a diaper. But we already knew that
- 2:28wasn't true. But I just want to get y'all an update. They are
- 2:34looking to file charges against Carl Russell. Carly lie l ie. Oh,
- 2:40but that's all I want to say with regards to her. Whatever the punishment
- 2:45is, I stand behind it ten toes to the ground, because they're really
- 2:47actually black and brown people that go missing, and you decided to lie.
- 2:53You decided to come up with this lie and tell people you have been kidnapped
- 2:57and this then the third. But whatever the consequences are, she absolutely deserves
- 3:01it. I hope they don't try to swing that mental health seeing as you
- 3:09know, because that's that's what they try to do, you know, they
- 3:12oh, she's got mental issues. No, she ain't mental. She knew
- 3:15exactly what she was doing. This girl two three days prior to her this
- 3:19abduction. She was googling how to what's the Asian for amber alerts and stuff
- 3:24like that. But um, I know, charges maybe filed as early as
- 3:30tomorrow, if not Monday. So I just wanted to kind of give y'all
- 3:32that little update. But any who, enough for talking about her, because
- 3:36that girl had my blood pressure up and she really had me trigger. Don't
- 3:39be laughing at missister, because I really do. I want somebody to call
- 3:43me and just talk noise and then I want to tell them there's a Carla
- 3:46russ a lie. That's all I want to see and then hang up.
- 3:50That's all I want to do. But any who, y'all, welcome back
- 3:53to another episode a Black Girl interrupted. Of course, she knows your girl,
- 3:59Ash. I bring y'all all types of topics every week. We talk
- 4:02about everything. But this topic here is very imperative that we have this discussion
- 4:09because the suicide rates are increasing, y'all rapidly, and these children are getting
- 4:15younger and younger and younger by the day. So y'all know, before I
- 4:20even get started, I gotta do my mental health checking. I need to
- 4:24know how y'all are feeling. So, like I say, today is Thursday.
- 4:27We are one day away from the weekend, and I'm two days away
- 4:30from saying my husband, So I can't wait all excite about that. Um,
- 4:35but I will say mentally, um, I'm good. I think I
- 4:44really needed a mental break because we went so hard with the Carl Russell story
- 4:53and then speaking in regards of having experience in that where you know, you
- 4:57lose a love one that went missing and got that got no media coverage.
- 5:01So I think everybody really needed a mental break. I think we all needed
- 5:06to decompress, and I think it really just kind of overloaded me. I
- 5:13had my anxiety up, so I had to just take a break for him
- 5:16on it a minute. You know, I had to really just decompress.
- 5:19I had to stop, and I had to say, you know, let
- 5:21me collectively get myself together because that that was really draining. But um again,
- 5:28happy thirsty. I hope everyone has had a beautiful week thus far.
- 5:32I hope last week was beautiful for you I have. I hope you had
- 5:36a great weekend. Um. I hope you have a upcoming weekend. I
- 5:41hope your weekend is great. UM. So I just you know, I
- 5:48pray for everyone mentally, UM, because mental health. Mental illness is not
- 5:55anything to play with, and I think that's why I go so hard.
- 5:59I think that's why I advocate and I push for UM mental health. You
- 6:05know, as a person that suffers, UM, I really try to advocate.
- 6:09I really try to love on and encourage and empower people. You know,
- 6:12seek therapy. It's nothing wrong with it. UM. It may help
- 6:16you along the way. But what you say, job are she says,
- 6:24I'm going through it. This car accident has really fucked with me with my
- 6:27mentor on top of that, fakeds Absolutely. I will say, uh,
- 6:32I don't know why, girl. You know what, I'm not going to
- 6:35even do this because I'm a I'm in a beautiful space right now. Thank
- 6:40you, will sign, I'm will sign, but girl, I'm praying for
- 6:45you. Baby. At least you got your life. You know, that's
- 6:46be grateful for that, um, that you still have your life. Be
- 6:50grateful that guy woke you up today, UM, because there are a lot
- 6:54of people that did not wake up today. There are people that may not
- 6:57make the wake up list tomorrow. So that's why I say it's imperative that
- 7:00I always check and make sure you guys are doing good mentally, make sure
- 7:05that you guys are doing well emotionally and spiritually, because I do know it's
- 7:11difficult. Those days do get tough, um, and I know there are
- 7:15a lot of days when you want to give up. But I always say,
- 7:18don't give up. The road does get better, it gets easier.
- 7:25You're welcome. You know. I love you baby, UM. But like
- 7:30I said, I know that's the easy way. It's a thrown a talents
- 7:33to give up. But never give up. Never, never, never give
- 7:36up because you have then that means you've allowed depression anxiety PTSD, your bipolars
- 7:45gets a friend, that you've allowed that to win. You've allowed the devil
- 7:47to win. So I do say, keep going, stay encouraged. I
- 7:54know it's easier said than done, but keep going, keep going, and
- 8:00just know God said weapons will be formed, but he said they never shall
- 8:05prosper. So remember that. So before we jump into it, um,
- 8:13I think it's went away. You know what, Let me give you something
- 8:15encouraging, Let me give you something empowering, something uplifting, and then we'll
- 8:20jumping into tonight's conversation. So here we go. I want to encourage somebody
- 8:31out there who's thinking about quitting and giving up, somebody who has been praying
- 8:37for years for things to turn around. You're thinking about quitting, You're thinking
- 8:43about giving up. You are folding, you are caving in. This is
- 8:50for you. You're in this storm and you're down on your knees and you're
- 8:56cold, and you're weak, and you feel like it's just the end.
- 9:01You have a choice to either give up or keep going, give up or
- 9:07get up. Don't give up, don't give up, stay in it,
- 9:18stay focused. When you fail, try again and again and again. You
- 9:26just take one step at a time. It's hard, but it's worth fighting.
- 9:35Is worth believing, it's worth mustering yourself up, standing up inside yourself.
- 9:39It's worth fighting relentlessly, never giving up. I love the sun,
- 9:46but things don't grow because of the sun. You have to have some rain
- 9:52and you've got to stop looking at rain in your life. It's something bad.
- 9:56My greatest moments didn't come from my greatest moments. My greatest moments came
- 10:01for my greatest defeat, because it was doing my defeat that I had to
- 10:05find a way to get back up. You thought for one minute that you
- 10:13broke me, you got me twisted. I am not phenomenally skilled, but
- 10:18phenomenally will. I will not give up. I will not surrender. I
- 10:22will not quit. Don't stop, God, stop cold, stop running toward
- 10:31your dreams. Stay in courage, Stay in courage, keep your head up,
- 10:37stick your chest out, conchee to walk with cly and know if it
- 10:43was easy, everybody would do it. It's not gonna be easy, but
- 10:46we have what it takes. They're rough times gonna come, but they have
- 10:50not come to stay. They have come to pass. Don't say I'm having
- 10:54a bad day, Say I'm having a character building day. Don't look at
- 10:58night darkness, look at knights as a new beginning. All right, y'all,
- 11:30So tonight's conversation, y'all gotta marry me. I am so tired,
- 11:33but I'm determined I'm gonna push through this episode. Tonight, y'all. Just
- 11:39don't understand. I'm tired. I am drained, but that's all right because
- 11:43I'm gonna push through with my episode tonight. So anyway, So tonight I'm
- 11:48addressing bullying, y'all. And it's not okay. Like I've have been seeing
- 11:56all these stories online, whether you kids are being bullied, even of those
- 12:01that are being bullied and they're unliving themselves, Like I was reading a story.
- 12:07This just happened, I want to say last week in Atlanta, a
- 12:13sixteen, I want to say, she was sixteen. I have the story.
- 12:16We're gonna touch on that tonight. But have been bullied, and the
- 12:22saddest part of all of that is that no one has taken it seriously.
- 12:28Not only are you being bullied at school, but you're being bullied on the
- 12:31bus, on the school bus, and people are recording this and they're uploading
- 12:35this ship for lights. I just was and I think I have this story
- 12:41as well about the young man who thought he was talking to some girls and
- 12:46he sent her a picture of his private parts and the girl uploaded it and
- 12:52everybody sawting. His baby got embarrassed and he killed herself. And I want
- 12:56to say, it was like fifteen years old, sixteen years old? So
- 13:01why does this keep happening? What are we going to do as the community
- 13:07to stop this? To put it into this because again, these babies are
- 13:13getting younger and younger by the day. The youngest child I believe that has
- 13:20committed suicide due to bullying I believe was five, five years old, six
- 13:28years old, ten years old, twelve years old, eight years old,
- 13:31all because of bullying. So let me play this story. Hold long,
- 13:37wait, wait, wait, wait, paces I love you. Your brother
- 13:43will be here Saturday, girl. Oh, and guess what I'm gonna put
- 13:46him in a chokehold like Melvin did Jodie on Baby Boy. Just watch because
- 13:50he is really working my damn nerds. But anyway, but back to what
- 13:56I was saying. But so tonight's conversation, we're talking about bullying and it's
- 14:00not okay. Again. We're seeing these babies un alive themselves at such incredibly
- 14:09high rates. These babies aren't even getting a chance to live. Life hasn't
- 14:16even begun for them. And because there's one butthole in the group that's bullying,
- 14:26parents are upholding this behavior. The school district is not helping. Teachers
- 14:31are not helping. We have to take back our children. We have to
- 14:37take back our community. Us babe bad when I tell you, and I'm
- 14:45only and I'm speaking on this not only because I'm seeing this all the time,
- 14:48but I experienced it myself with my son. My son was bullying,
- 14:54but I got some comments. Let me speak to everybody. Jemn rs.
- 15:00What's up, brother, It's good to see you. I'm so glad to
- 15:03see you up there. Go my boy. Let's get it g a uh.
- 15:09Shout out to my two Falcons brothers. Uh, we'll see y'all.
- 15:16It's a black and gold season, baby, It's it's black and gold.
- 15:20Love y'all. Though I appreciate y'all coming in to support anybody that's on YouTube.
- 15:24Man, y'all, if y'all like NBA simulations, if you like NBA
- 15:28Live, any of the NBA basketball games that are played on UM the various
- 15:35play platforms like PlayStation, Xbox, tap in with my brother. Let's get
- 15:39it ga Uh. He uploads some amazing videos on YouTube. Again it's under
- 15:46the same name. Let's get a ga. Go talk to him anything basketball
- 15:50and uh, tell him I sent him. You're tell tell him I sent
- 15:54you his way, um, and you could always disregard the fact that he
- 15:58is the Falcons fan. It's okay, just he he don't know no better.
- 16:02It's okay, he's all right. Jule says, leave my brother alone.
- 16:07Gert, you tell him to leave me alone, keepen bothering me.
- 16:11I'm the innocent one. So anyway, But I UM, but thank y'all
- 16:17again for tuning in tonight. I love y'all so much. Again, I
- 16:19appreciate all the support. But again, tonight's conversation, we are talking about
- 16:23bullying. It's not okay, stop bullying people. You know her. People
- 16:30hurt people, and I think that's what bullets are. I think they're they're
- 16:33hurt people or hurt kids, adults because you have adults that bullet too.
- 16:38Um. But again, this is an apparative conversation that needs to be had
- 16:44again tonight we're talking about bullying and why I say it's not okay, it's
- 16:49not okay leave people alone. So UM, I do want to address again,
- 16:56I believe the young lady was sixteen years old this year. Happened in
- 17:00Atlanta a few days ago where a young lady was bullied, and I want
- 17:06to say, it was like right before her birthday, right after her birthday,
- 17:08she committed suicide. So here we're going, we're jumping back into It's
- 17:11a nice conversation all knew. At six Tonight in Atlanta, mother is planning
- 17:15the funeral for her sixteen year old daughter. She says her daughter died by
- 17:19suicide on Friday after being bullied online. This is a horrible situation. E
- 17:23Love on Life's Tracy Emmy Paris spoke with mental health experts and the mom today
- 17:27about what happened and what parents need to know and Tracy, this is a
- 17:32nightmare for any parent out there. It is, and unfortunately, both a
- 17:36suicide and cyber bullying are becoming much more common. But there are signs to
- 17:40watch for in steps you can take to help keep your kids safe. I
- 17:45will never see her walk across the stage, go to the prom, get
- 17:51married, have children, any of those things. Linita Ruglass says it's been
- 17:56six days since she lost her daughter, sixteen year old Zaria White, and
- 18:00I just kept pushing the door, and I'm like, what's you got bad
- 18:03at door? It was my baby. White was a sophomore last year at
- 18:08a public school in Atlanta. But Ruglass says she was having issues. No
- 18:12one wanted to sit with her in a lunch room and it made her feel
- 18:17really bad and she didn't want to go to school, so then we took
- 18:21her out. She switched to virtual learning in January. Now after her death,
- 18:26her mother says she is sure cyber bullying pushed Azaria over the edge after
- 18:30finding her message history on her phone. Multiple messages of people saying mean things
- 18:37to my daughter, harassing her, telling her to go kill her son.
- 18:41They said forty six percent of teens. Britney Walters as a counselor at Chris
- 18:45one eighty, a mental health organization helping students in Atlanta. Walter says cyber
- 18:49bullying is a huge issue, with half their students reporting being the victim and
- 18:53the last three years everything from horrific name calling to spreading rumors to sharing explicit
- 19:03photography without being prompted, and with more kids using technology, there are more
- 19:07opportunities for cyber bullies to find a mark. What makes cyber bullying so dangerous
- 19:11is it can be twenty four hours a day, it's always there, and
- 19:15it can follow a person. But Walter says there are signs you can watch
- 19:18for, including depression, anxiety, avoiding certain spaces, lower self esteem,
- 19:23and self harm. Ruggless says now she wants to warn other parents please be
- 19:30aware of social media. There are so many ones that I wasn't awareware of,
- 19:37and she wishes she could go back in time and just take away Azaria's
- 19:41phone. I didn't know it was this bad. Walter says, if your
- 19:47child is ever experiencing a mental health crisis, you can pick up the phone
- 19:51and call nine eight eight to reach immediate help. There's also an online fundraiser
- 19:56to help Azaria's family bury her. Who yo, when I tell you that
- 20:04takes Just listening to that mother speak about her daughter is very It's what are
- 20:15the I'm speechless because this is what's happening. Telling someone to kill themselves,
- 20:33you have to be a sick person to go tell that, to say that
- 20:37to somebody looking at the text messages. I remember the time, when I
- 20:52tell you, when I was coming up, we didn't have social media.
- 20:57We actually had to go outside and play. And back when I was coming
- 21:03up, when kids bullied other children, parents got involved. Parents didn't stand
- 21:12by and allow their children to be little monsters. This day and age.
- 21:21You got parents that co signed the behavior of their children. You have parents
- 21:30that no far a fact their children are in the wrong and will stand ten
- 21:34toes down behind their wrongdoings. I was looking at a video where and I
- 21:44should have I'm gonna find that video and I'm gonna play that for y'all.
- 21:48This happened last week, I want to say, maybe last week week before
- 21:52last. But a little girl, two girls got into it with a girl
- 21:59on the playground, and so the girl went and told her mother. So
- 22:07the two girls that were being bullying the girl that was bullying them, her
- 22:14mother gave her some type of ascid and she threw it on one of these
- 22:21little girls. And that's what I mean when I see parents who signed on
- 22:29this, they're part of it. Julee, let's get it. Say,
- 22:37let's get a ga say, how are you doing? Sist much love?
- 22:42And your brother, uh, jul your brother both your brothers say, what's
- 22:48up? Exists? So let's get a ga says, well, we know
- 22:56the ain't ain't it sists? Love you, but I don't care for a
- 22:59bullying and it's a very serious subject. Absolutely, because what I don't know
- 23:07if everyone saw the video that went viral on TikTok where the little boy knocked
- 23:11on the door and was looking for friends, and it broke my heart because
- 23:18it reminded me so much of my son, and it was imperative that I
- 23:26bring this to the forefront. Jamarius As brings me back when I was bullied,
- 23:32and this was before social media, right, And I think the saddest
- 23:38part of all of this is it still happening. There are no consequences behind
- 23:47these actions. I remember the case. Javert says, Oh yeah, I
- 23:52saw that baby girl is having a hard time walking and everything absolutely and what
- 23:56happened because she ran back to get up. I think she dropped her purse
- 24:00or her color backpack something and she went back to go grab it. And
- 24:07that's when she said she felt like this, this burning sensation. And the
- 24:11mother is who gave her child the assid to throw on the other child.
- 24:18Hey, babe, I hope you're having a good night at work. I
- 24:22love you, but this is happening far too often, and what are we
- 24:30gonna do to stop it. Let me tell you what two of the things
- 24:37that we could do. Your parents, you need to start checking your children's
- 24:44social media's, checking those cell phones. Then we need to take it to
- 24:51a higher level. We need to go and we need to vote for these
- 24:53things. And the reason I say this is because my son was in that
- 24:59La Entry school. I was trying to get my son to come on and
- 25:03tell his story, but I didn't want to push because I believe it's still
- 25:08difficult. And my son is twenty two years old now it's difficult for him
- 25:14to talk about. But I can tell you I went to that school consistently.
- 25:21I was back and forth at the school. It had gotten so bad,
- 25:26y'all. My son didn't want to go to school. So one day
- 25:33we were at Walmart and we saw the little boy that was bullying my son.
- 25:38So me, being the mama that I am, I politely went and
- 25:42hurried up and put my groceries in that car. And I went back into
- 25:47Walmart and found a little boy. He was with his mama, and I
- 25:52told the mom, you better tell your son to keep his hands to itself
- 25:56or we're gonna see about him at the bus stop period. And this woman
- 26:00told me why would I accuse her son? Out of all? I said,
- 26:06why would I? Why? What? Because your son is bullying my
- 26:12son. That's what's going on. But if your son doesn't keep his hands
- 26:21to itself, we're gonna see about him at the bus stop period. Then
- 26:26it trickled into the school. Teachers didn't do anything. So I reached out
- 26:33to the superintendent. The superintendent told me, why do not I just move
- 26:37my son to another school? That's what they told me. And I live
- 26:41in Fort Ben County, Fort Ben, Sugarland, Texas, and that's what
- 26:45the superintendent told me. So I said, so, you mean to tell
- 26:51me I should move my child to another school. He's the one being bullied,
- 26:55okay, but you want me to move him to another school, so
- 27:00this little monster here could be here to terrorize somebody else. That's your solution,
- 27:06that say less? Because I was done talking at that point. So
- 27:11I reached out to news stations because this is an anti bullying zone. That's
- 27:15what they have posted up around the schools here and Ford Ben County. So
- 27:23a couple other parents reached out to me their children being bullied, Teachers not
- 27:30doing anything. Your request meetings with parents, but teachers to tell for the
- 27:36principle to say, oh, I'm not we can't make them come to the
- 27:41school. Soul. In other words, you're allowing this bullying behavior to continue.
- 27:47But yet you got these anti bullying stickers around the school say less okay.
- 27:56Other parents reached out to me. I said, cool, don't worry.
- 28:00We're gonna reach out to the news stations and we'll see what they're gonna
- 28:04do. Then Channel two, Channel thirteen, Channel eleven. Hell. I
- 28:15even reached out to telemon though, and that's the Spanish station down here.
- 28:19Once the school got were that news stations were gonna pull up to the school
- 28:23or they politely called, they were ready to have a resolution. No,
- 28:27because when I wanted to talk to y'all then you didn't want to have a
- 28:33conversation with me. You taught me just move my son to another school.
- 28:38But now that I'm about to expose you, now y'all are ready to said
- 28:44I have a conversation. Absolutely that I was done talking. I was done
- 28:48talking. Three two, three, four visits to go, That's what I
- 28:53was done doing. Raphaelis says she's designing a Saint's bathroom for a lady out
- 29:03here in Atlanta. She's working on the toilet seat. Now, let's get
- 29:08it. Ga Jewel says, what's up, bro, She's getting some work
- 29:11done, much love, so let's get it. GA says, well an
- 29:15hour error when I was bullied and the bullet tried me, Well, it
- 29:18didn't turn out for him. Turn out good for him because I stopped his
- 29:22ass in it stopped. But we're living in different times now, and we
- 29:26are because again, parents are co signing what their children are doing. Parents
- 29:32are okay with their children bullying. I saw another video where a parent got
- 29:38on the bus and was cussing out the girl that was being bullied. And
- 29:47that's what I mean. Your parents are co signing the bullshit that your children
- 29:51are doing. But you want to know why, because that's learned behavior,
- 29:53because I'm pretty sure that's what goes on in the household. I'm pretty sure
- 29:57y'all were bullies, and y'all just pass it on to your children, and
- 30:04they're gonna keep doing it. They're gonna keep terrorizing somebody until something bad happens
- 30:08to them. That needs to stop, because you're not taking into consideration that
- 30:17the words and the actions of your child or children, how they're inflicted on
- 30:22another child or someone's children, and how it affects them mental. But y'all
- 30:30aren't taking that into consideration. And again, we have to take our children
- 30:41back. We have to become the police in our community. We have to
- 30:45start protecting our own because the world shows you every day they don't care about
- 30:51black They don't care about us and our mental health. They don't care.
- 30:59They don't care about the increased rates in suicide. They don't care about that,
- 31:07But they care more about taking care of the other countries and not taking
- 31:12care of home. Do people realize this mental health crisis is on the rise,
- 31:19Suicides are on the rise, cyber bullying, bullying overall period is on
- 31:27the rise, and y'all I'm doing anything about it. Y'all are not holding
- 31:34these people accountable for their actions. I feel like if a child bullies and
- 31:44the parent upholls, I think the parent needs to face some type of assault
- 31:47charge or something. That's just how I feel, because again, I'm a
- 31:55mother of a child that was bullied and it's affecting my son here he's twenty
- 32:00two years old, and my son is so introverted. My son used to
- 32:06beg for friends. But where I live, these little black kids, black
- 32:13boys and black girls out here where I live, they're not into video games.
- 32:15They're not into the Marvel or DC. They're not into comic books,
- 32:20they're not into anime, and that's what my son was into. And people
- 32:23used to look at my son like he was weird. My son did my
- 32:25son used to sit by yourself at lunch when he was in high school.
- 32:32That's just how cruel these children are these days. I remember your neighbors was
- 32:42like your was like your brother or your sister. That's how close we were.
- 32:45But these children now are I don't even know what to say about them.
- 32:53I don't even know what to say. And it's sad that we see
- 32:59this every day and nothing's being done. The young lady that the story I
- 33:05just showed you, the young the little girl and I hate to call her
- 33:07a little girl, but the baby girl sixteen years old who just killed herself
- 33:13and she was being cyber bully. And I feel like every person that sent
- 33:17her a text message needs to have some type of charge filed against them,
- 33:21period, because the suicide race and these children is happening far too often,
- 33:29too rapidly due to bullying, and the numbers keep increasing. You go tell
- 33:38somebody, y'all, don't do anything on the time you want to step in
- 33:46is when a child has has taken their life. Now all of a sudden,
- 33:50you want to start talking. You need to be proactive, because again,
- 33:55these babies that are killing themselves, they're getting younger by the day.
- 34:02I want to say again the youngest child that I that I the story that
- 34:06I've seen five years old, seven years old, twelve years old, fifteen
- 34:13years old. Even adults are being cyber bullying. I can't remember her name.
- 34:21She's a comedian, Leslie. I know her name, but she was
- 34:27bullied because people talked about how dark she was and she deleted her social media.
- 34:37I remember when social media first took off, the only thing you really
- 34:44had to worry about them was like catfishing people catfishing you. You may have
- 34:49had the bullying, the cyber bullying here and there, but now every day,
- 34:57every day, every day, Julee, let's get it, say one
- 35:04hundred and gave you the praying hands. Hey sissy, Hey Nat Nat.
- 35:08How you doing girl? So Julee says, it's a generation of kids raising
- 35:14kids and neither have any structure. These kids and parents are truly clueless and
- 35:17lost in today's society. Hashtag or sad truth and not one lie was told
- 35:24with that statement, and that's what I mean when I say parents are upholding
- 35:28this. We don't have the mamas and the medials anymore. They're all gone,
- 35:36this new generation of grandparents forty forty five years old, and you're trying
- 35:42to party with your eighteen year old child. But I just, like I
- 35:52said, y'all, just thinking about these babies, and even the lady that
- 35:58I used to work with when I worked that office people when I lived in
- 36:00Atlanta. Her son was eleven and killed himself. This was in two thousand
- 36:08and nine, and the mom had been back and I believe this was the
- 36:15Cab County. The mother was back and forth at the school and they wouldn't
- 36:22do anything. They were telling her son he was gay. They were telling
- 36:27her son he was a faggot. They bullied them to One day, this
- 36:32baby came home from school, gave mom's report, called he was very smart,
- 36:39and y'all when I tell you, he was so adorable. Just as
- 36:42soon as he want to be happy, go lucky. Mom didn't think anything
- 36:49about He said, Oh, I'm gonna go upstairs and do my homework.
- 36:54I want to say maybe an hour later, the mom said the four year
- 37:00old daughter upstairs to tell her brother, come on downstairs, it's time to
- 37:04eat. And guess what when the sister opened the door, that baby was
- 37:10hanging in his closet by his belt at eleven years old. And you can
- 37:22look him up. His name is Jaheim Herrera. Eleven years old, y'all.
- 37:30And this happened in two thousand and nine, So just imagine what the
- 37:38numbers are. And this is two and twenty three. That was fourteen years
- 37:45ago. When that baby on alied itself, he would have been twenty five,
- 37:53eleven years old. Eleven So got a video. Here's some numbers with
- 38:02regards to cyber bullion, and sho is that I can't take yourself back to
- 38:15when you were this age. For many kids, the dismissal bell meant freedom
- 38:20to go home and relax. But for those who were bullied, it meant
- 38:22freedom from torment. They could leave it at school. Now they can't,
- 38:28so it's constantly following them. Twenty four to seven. Michelle Carney Ray Yoder
- 38:32has seen it from both sides, first as a student, then as a
- 38:37parent, but now as the superintendent of the Summers Point School District in New
- 38:40Jersey. It starts in school, it goes home, it gets worse with
- 38:45all the technology, and then it spills back over into school. So it's
- 38:50almost become a twenty four seven job as an administrator to try to get that
- 38:54under control. In December, Pew Research released to study showing forty six percent
- 39:00of students reported experiencing some form of cyberbullying. It's lower than twenty eighteen's total
- 39:06of fifty nine percent, but higher than twenty twenties total of forty percent.
- 39:10During the first year of the pandemic, the demographic that has consistently seen the
- 39:15most cyber bullying is older teen girls. Just fifty four miles north of Summer's
- 39:20Point in Bayville, fourteen year old Adriana Cush took her own life in the
- 39:23first week of February after she was bullied online. The Centers for Disease Control
- 39:29and Prevention says thirty percent of teenage girls have considered doing the same. I
- 39:34really feel very strongly that the combination of COVID and social media has exacerbated what
- 39:42we're looking at from a school perspective regarding hib or harassment, intimidation, and
- 39:47bullying than we've had in the past. In two thousand and six, Carne
- 39:52ray Yoder's school district became a Renaissance School District, a program designed to cultivate
- 39:57teacher and student engagement through PEP rallies, energy and Positivity. These are some
- 40:01of the pictures from the rallies that show what it's about, as Renaissance is
- 40:06just one of many programs set on building positive culture within schools nationwide and watching
- 40:10the results trickle down. In the first year of its implementation, Carnie ray
- 40:15Yoder says disciplinary referrals went down by thirty three percent. A national study of
- 40:20the program from twenty nineteen shows that engagement also boosted straight A students by four
- 40:25percent in the districts it's studied. It follows other research that shows more structured
- 40:30time reduces bullying since most of it happens during recess, lunch and breaks between
- 40:36class when students are less supervised. It's giving them the opportunity to not only
- 40:42receive rewards and reinforcement for what they're doing well, which is their job every
- 40:46day, but also they have that connection to the school, those relationships with
- 40:52the adults in the school and their classmates, and that they feel like they're
- 40:54appreciated and that they're seen and heard and ultimately loved. It's just been helping
- 41:00kids that have both bullied and been bullied, building a culture of acceptance and
- 41:05collaboration. So adversaries turned to peers, Dangressman, Scripts News, sumrs Point
- 41:12New Jersey. All right, so listening to those statistics, like I say,
- 41:27these children aren't able to leave the bullying in at school. It goes
- 41:30home with them. You can't get on social media without somebody trying to bully
- 41:36you. I also looked at some other statistics, y'all, and it says
- 41:42in the US, and this is as of June one, twenty three,
- 41:46it says in the US, twenty percent of K through twelve students are bullied,
- 41:52and race is the leading identity factor for students experiencing bullying. They say
- 41:59black students are significantly more likely to be bullied than their peers. So black
- 42:07students, we are significantly more likely to be bullied than our peers, whether
- 42:15they're White, Asian, Latino, black students. And again I'm not saying
- 42:25that it doesn't happen in the white community, but black students are more likely
- 42:32to be bullied than their peers. So I did find that that video,
- 42:38y'all, where the young lady she's twelve years old, twelve or third twelve,
- 42:45I believe twelve, who had ascid thrown on her and the mother of
- 42:54the child that threw it on it is who gave it to her. So
- 43:00y'all check this out and then we're gonna get back into the conversation because,
- 43:06oh my goodness, there are calls for more charges in the disturbing case of
- 43:10one child allegedly throwing acid on another child at a playground. Detroy Public School's
- 43:16Community District. Police arrested a twelve year old over at this playground confrontation.
- 43:22The victim just eleven years old. Local Force Rob Maloney is live with that
- 43:25victim's family and where the investigation the family is hoping goes from here, right
- 43:32Nick? You know, first of all, we should say there is a
- 43:34gofund me for this family because the child spend three days in children's hospital running
- 43:39up some pretty heavy duty bills. But there is also ongoing medical treatment here.
- 43:44So that go fund me page we should have linked on clicks on a
- 43:46Troy dot com. But this is one of those situations that was really genuinely
- 43:52shocking. When you hear it, you go how could this possibly happen?
- 43:54And it was a week ago Sunday. Children were out on a playground at
- 43:59Verner Elementary School and a fight broke out between a couple of young children.
- 44:02And not the girl that was involved in this. She just happened to be
- 44:06there and her mother said she even tried to break up the fight, but
- 44:09in the end ended up looking like this. I was stream and I was
- 44:15when we smoke with eleven year old d Era Summers on Thursday, she said
- 44:19she couldn't understand why or how this happened. She just knows. She spent
- 44:22three days in children's hospital to mend her wounds after another child throw acid on
- 44:29her back. It was like real painful because like Malais was burning. All
- 44:34of this coming after her cousin had a playground fight with the girl who told
- 44:37the girls bad things could happen if you mess with her. Tierra wasn't even
- 44:42involved in the fight. It's is unbelievable that something like this can happen.
- 44:46Billy Summers is Diira's grandfather, and while he worked to open his restaurant,
- 44:52Roscoe's Greens and Beans in Highland Park on Sunday morning, he had her on
- 44:57his mind. It has my heart duty because don't no child, no person,
- 45:06for that aspect, deserve nothing like this, I mean eleven child.
- 45:12He says he's happy to see an arrest in the case. The arrested child
- 45:15now not allowed back on the playground, instead confined to her home wearing a
- 45:20tether. Yet Billy wants an adult arrested two because it's alleged the mother of
- 45:23that child provided the acid. No, I can't imagine that that's the same
- 45:29thing as saying giving them a gun a knife, that's a weapon. I
- 45:32mean, what adult would do that. Well, that's something that the Detroit
- 45:39Public School District or Community District Police Department is asking and whether the Detroit PD
- 45:45might have to get involved. We're still waiting to hear on that. But
- 45:49this incident did happen on the Verner Elementary School playground, so that's how they
- 45:52ended up involved. But we do know that they are looking into that corner
- 45:57of this story and waiting to see what becomes of all of that. In
- 46:00the meantime, the Tiguera Summers is going to be going to the doctor on
- 46:06Wednesday because it's possible she's gonna need a skin graft to deal with that very
- 46:10nasty burn that you saw on her shoulder. Recording Live Rod No Lonely before.
- 46:19Oh, let me, let me take a deep breath, because I
- 46:35had to find that video because that's how serious this bullying and these little playgrounds
- 46:45scuffles, and a sad part about it that baby was not even involved.
- 46:57You know, I just the thought that again, mothers, parents uphold this
- 47:10type of behavior and contribute to it. How could you, as a mother,
- 47:21give your child something to harm somebody else's child. How would you feel
- 47:29if that was your baby? How would you feel if the error's mom gave
- 47:35her something to throw on your child and your child wasn't even involved in the
- 47:38playground scuffle, wasn't even involved, and this baby wound up hurt. Jule
- 47:50says they should like her man made a fuck up and give her the maximum
- 47:53amount of time allowed. I'm sick of some of these humans. When I
- 47:59first saw that video, well, when I first saw the story, and
- 48:07when it said the mother is the one that gave heard the ascid and you
- 48:15went back and you threw it, you can't tell me that's not learned behavior.
- 48:22That's probably how the mamac that child had seen somebody act like that or
- 48:31am im act like that? Period. But that's what I mean when I
- 48:37say this bullying, it's going entirely too far again, Dave, this baby
- 48:45got bad rass are thrown on her. I don't I guess it was bad
- 48:49raster. I don't know, some type of assa throwing her on her and
- 48:52she wasn't even involved in the scuffle. Then you have another young man who
- 48:58was fifteen years old who just committed suicide because he had sent a picture of
- 49:05his of his you know, private area too a girl he thought he was
- 49:09talking to, and a girl posted it online. This baby got embarrassing,
- 49:13he killed herself. You had people that are sending text messages to other children
- 49:21telling these children kill theirself. The sixteen year old young lady in Atlanta,
- 49:36they're texting her telling her she's an attention seeker, and this baby killed herself.
- 49:45I feel like every child again, and I'm gonna say this one more
- 49:49time. I feel like every child that texts that baby that message needs to
- 49:52have some type of charge or charges filed against them. Cyber bullying period,
- 50:00cyber bullying, bullying overall. I feel like there needs to be a law
- 50:06for that I feel like they've created a law that you cannot lawfully send unsolicited
- 50:16nude pictures or you can be arrested for that. I think bullying these that
- 50:21needs to be applied to bullying, cyber bullying, all of it, because
- 50:27again, the suicide rates are increasing, and these children are getting younger by
- 50:32the day, four, five, seven, eight, twelve, fifteen killing
- 50:39themselves. Javert says. The fact that that baby said bad things could happen
- 50:50if you mess with me. She knew she could do whatever she wanted to
- 50:52do to whomever. And that's sad, but you know, that's learned behavior.
- 50:58I don't care what anybody says, the girl mama acts like that,
- 51:01or that child has been around somebody that acts like that, that has done
- 51:05that. Let's learned behavior. That's that's learn because these children these days soak
- 51:13up shit like a sponge, and they mimic what they see and they emulate
- 51:17what they see, what they see on TV, what they see at home.
- 51:23These children are like little sponges, so they soak it up and they
- 51:27emulate that. Javert says, these are little kids. Imagine if she was
- 51:34four or five years older. I'm scared for these kids. I'm scared for
- 51:37him too, because again you see these cases where these children are being bullied,
- 51:46being cyber bullied, and they're killing themselves, and then you see people
- 51:52laughing about it. But again, we have to take care of our children.
- 51:59We have to protect with children. Us parents stopped upholding up the bullshit
- 52:02that your children do. What happened to the discipline? I remember back when
- 52:10I was coming up. Baby, you couldn't do nothing without somebody knowing what
- 52:15you was doing. And trust and believe your mom and your dad and knew
- 52:17before you even made it to the house all this bullying that they're doing,
- 52:23all this Oh, I'm gonna beat you up, or you telling people,
- 52:29and then you go home and you tell your parents, and then the parents
- 52:30go to the school or they go to the other parents. The school does
- 52:35nothing about it, because they absolutely didn't do anything for me because they told
- 52:38me or that's just boys being boys. And this was after the little boys
- 52:45stabbed my son in the hand with a pencil. And then when I went
- 52:50and I addressed it, the teacher tells me, oh, I didn't know
- 52:58until the end of I don't give a damn when you found out. I
- 53:00should have been notified when you found out, because what if my son would
- 53:04have gotten led party? But this is the day in times that we're living
- 53:15in now, this is the day in times that we're living in. Parents
- 53:21are no longer trying to be parents. They too busy trying to be friends
- 53:23with their children. And you're letting your little monster run around to bully and
- 53:27pick on people. And then when a child kills themselves, then what?
- 53:37Then? What? And then now we have to deal with the mental health
- 53:46aspect of this. What does that do to a person's mental because we're still
- 53:57trying to balance the mental health crisis, we're trying to curtail the suicide rates,
- 54:07but now we have to factor in cyber bullying and out the numbers are
- 54:13going back up again. I'm not saying that this just happened, but it's
- 54:19increasing. So you ask, how does bullying affect mental health? I can
- 54:28tell you the effects of cyber bullying also include mental health issues, increased stress
- 54:36and anxiety, depression, acting out violently, and low self esteem. And
- 54:45that can potentially drive someone over the edge and kill themselves and no consequences ever
- 55:00be or no one's ever reprimanded. Let me say that I believe. I've
- 55:05only seen one case where the girl had texted the boy and told the boy
- 55:10kill yourself. No one's gonna miss you. I believe she was arrested,
- 55:15she was charged. I believe she went to jail, but I don't believe
- 55:17she stayed in jail long. I believe she's off approbation. But there's never
- 55:24any real consequences. And cyber bullying can also result in long lasting emotional effects.
- 55:35Even if the bullying has stopped, even after your child it's finally out
- 55:46of the out of the bullying situation, you still have those long term emotional
- 55:52effects. I look at my son, and my son has really no friends.
- 56:10He sits in his room all day, plays his video games. When
- 56:17he goes to events, he goes to events by himself. And I know
- 56:24my son wants friends, y'all, and he's twenty two. I'm not ashamed
- 56:30to share my story because this could be someone's child that's experiencing this right now,
- 56:39even as an adult. Because again the effects of cyber bullying include those
- 56:52mental health issues again, the increased stress, the anxiety, the depression,
- 56:58your child is acting out violently, and low self esteem. And we are
- 57:02ready no body image is at the top of the list because you start to
- 57:13believe what people tell you when it's told to you repetitively. So again,
- 57:21what are we gonna do to curtail some of the cyber bullying? Your next
- 57:30board meeting that you attend at the school or for the I'm sorry, not
- 57:34the school, the superintendent when they have the school meetings and stuff like that,
- 57:38you need to go up there and you need to address cyber bully.
- 57:45Stop being afraid. Let me say this, stop being afraid to fight for
- 57:49your child or your children. If the school won't do anything, go to
- 57:57the superintendent, the superintendent and doesn't do anything. You go to the top,
- 58:04You go to the school board. They don't help. You go above
- 58:08them. You keep going. You never stop fighting for your children, because
- 58:15again, cyber bullying doesn't just happen at school. There are adults that are
- 58:22being cyber bully. I believe, and I want. I cannot think.
- 58:27And I just said her name, Leslie. She's a comedian. Y'all,
- 58:31um, God, what is her last name? Leslie Johnson something like that,
- 58:37But she's she's a comedian. She's on Saturday Night Live. And I
- 58:42remember her sharing her story and her scene how she was cyber bully, how
- 58:46she was bullied online, and they talked about it because she was very She's
- 58:51very, very, very dark skinned, and they told her she was ugly,
- 58:53she had nappy hair. That affects a person. And these are adults
- 59:00that are doing this, not just children, but you have grown people.
- 59:05You have adults that cyber bully people. I see it all up and down
- 59:13my timeline on Facebook. Y'all are cyber bullying people. Y'all are talking about
- 59:23how people look. Y'all are talking about people's families and some of y'all and
- 59:29I'm a gonna see it. Don't have the right to talk about people with
- 59:34wide bats if your back is white, So stop doing that, because I'm
- 59:43here to tell you, baby Carmen, don't have an inspiration date, nor
- 59:45does it forget an address. Y'all don't know what people go through that you're
- 59:54interacting with on social media. You don't know if that person is a drink
- 59:58away, a pill away, or a gunshot away. Have I had some
- 1:00:08Internet beafs, Absolutely, But I'm not gonna put somebody down to make myself
- 1:00:20feel good. And that's what I see a lot of y'all do on social
- 1:00:24media. These children see this. These children do this because social media has
- 1:00:37become a goal to for everybody. You go through a breakup in your crime,
- 1:00:42first thing you want to do, you want to get on social media.
- 1:00:47Like I said, the fifteen year old boy that just committed suicide,
- 1:00:52there was a seventeen year old girl that got beat up in school and guess
- 1:00:57what they did. They uploaded it to social media. This girl wouldn't killed
- 1:01:01herself. That's the first thing y'all do. Somebody fighting, you want to
- 1:01:09upload it and put it on social media. Let's talk about the issue in
- 1:01:16Chicago where a lady was at the hot dog place and the man started,
- 1:01:22you know, started hitting her. First thing they did they pulled out the
- 1:01:25phone and put it up on social media. Why y'all didn't call the police?
- 1:01:32Like that song about Childish Gambino, This is America. And if you
- 1:01:37look at the video, anytime something happened, everybody pulling out their cell phone.
- 1:01:40They want to record because everybody wants to be Everybody wants to be Internet
- 1:01:45famous. Everybody wants to be everybody wants to go viral. If you're gonna
- 1:01:50go viral, go viral. For some shit that makes sense, y'all.
- 1:01:58Uploading fights, y'all, uploading people being shot for lights, that's some sick
- 1:02:05that. Now, that's not that. Now, that's some mental stuff.
- 1:02:08Now. I ain't gonna lie now. I upload pictures of me and my
- 1:02:13children, you know, or me and my you know, me and big
- 1:02:15Daddy, or if I'm with family or I'm with friends, oh yet,
- 1:02:21But if I see somebody being hurt, my first thing is not to pull
- 1:02:24out my phone to record and upload it on Facebook. It's not the first
- 1:02:29thing for me to do. Some of y'all are weird, man, y'all,
- 1:02:32y'all like some of this stuff out here is some weird, old,
- 1:02:37sick, old shit to me. Since says that's because everyone wants their five
- 1:02:42minutes a thing, absolutely, and then you get your five minutes of fame.
- 1:02:46But you don't stop to think that that five minutes of a theme that
- 1:02:50you're getting you're hurting somebody else, because again, you don't know people's mental
- 1:02:54state right now, since say, no, that's not mental. These motherfuckers
- 1:03:00are just pure evil in this day and age. Yeah, now they all
- 1:03:05demonic, but that you know, but that goes back to what I was
- 1:03:07saying sis like, if I see a fight, my first thing is not
- 1:03:13to pull out a phone and record. You see this in school, I
- 1:03:16saw a video where I believe the little boy was like ten years old,
- 1:03:22was being choked on the bus by another student and somebody recorded that instead of
- 1:03:29going to the front of the us and telling the bus driver y'all want,
- 1:03:34y'all are recorded in this baby they ain't got He's still alive. But the
- 1:03:45mother said her son got depressed, he didn't want to go to school.
- 1:03:49And that's sad that children are afraid to go to school because y'all refused to
- 1:03:55do something about the monster that's tormenting and bullying other children in the school.
- 1:04:03The first thing that these babies resort to is suicide, and that should not
- 1:04:08be what they resort to. If a child comes to you and tells you
- 1:04:13that they're being bullied, you need to look into that. You need to
- 1:04:17take heed to that. Because I don't care what anybody says. If the
- 1:04:21bullying happens at school and you, as teachers, superintendent, school boy or
- 1:04:28whatever, are made aware of this and y'all don't do anything, I believe
- 1:04:31charges should be filed against y'all too, because I believe y'all will complicit in
- 1:04:35the bullying behavior. I bet you if they start holding some of these people
- 1:04:41accountable to the full extent, I bet you some of this was stopped.
- 1:04:47I bet you some of this was stopped. But I want to show y'all
- 1:04:54this video. There is a school district here in Texas that has some very
- 1:05:04surprising allegations. But here we go, and then we're going to jump back
- 1:05:10into this conversation because I'm not done. When the Kemp family moved to Lubbock,
- 1:05:15Texas, two years ago, they knew that sending their son Brady to
- 1:05:18a new school might come with some challenges, but nothing prepared him, his
- 1:05:23mom Tracy, or stepdad Seth for what they were about to endure. We
- 1:05:28feel singled out, We feel the racism here. I just feel like it's
- 1:05:32blatant incompetence from the schools. Over the last two school years, Brady Kemp
- 1:05:38and at least nine other black children say they have been suffering from constant racial
- 1:05:42harassment. They hear classmates call them monkeys. Some students play sounds on their
- 1:05:46cell phones that mimic the crack of a whip. I feel like I can't
- 1:05:50looked down at it. How often would you say you heard the N word?
- 1:05:54It's an everyday thing. Last spring, someone created an instagram featuring the
- 1:05:59school's logo, encouraging classmates to send photos of monkeys. His mother was shocked
- 1:06:03to see a post of her son. We watched him change, like his
- 1:06:09mood now I want to go to school being sad. Parents brought their concerns
- 1:06:14to the Lubbock Cooper School District, but eight months later, they say they've
- 1:06:17never received an update and that white students keep taunting their kids. Without local
- 1:06:21action, they felt they had no choice but to turn to the federal government.
- 1:06:27This week, lawyers filed joint complaints alleging that administrators in Lubbock and neighboring
- 1:06:31Slaton, Texas, violated the civil rights of their students by failing to prevent
- 1:06:35and respond to racial bullying. Attorney Page Duggan's clay represents the families, the
- 1:06:42parents, and these complaints and the students. They're not asking for money.
- 1:06:45All they're asking is for equal treatment under the law. Keith Bryant, the
- 1:06:48district's superintendent, says the school has taken appropriate action and its staff are trained
- 1:06:54to report bullying. Do you believe there's racism here in Lubbock, Cooper,
- 1:07:00I believe that there is. I think our society is racist, absolutely.
- 1:07:03Do I think it spills over in the schools, I will certainly say it
- 1:07:06can. We work really hard to try to mitigate that. There is no
- 1:07:10place in Lobacupristy for racism in any form or fashion. Bryan says, the
- 1:07:15investigation into the racist Instagram account remains open. They talk to hundreds of kids
- 1:07:20and never found out exactly who it was. I was frustrated about that.
- 1:07:26I sought the help of the FBI behind the scenes. You interviewed hundreds of
- 1:07:31people, but none of the black students whose faces were posted on that Instagram
- 1:07:34page say that they were interviewed. Well, I can't speak to that,
- 1:07:39because the administration at that campus did that. Monday night, families arrived to
- 1:07:44a school board meeting wearing all black. We will not quit. We simply
- 1:07:49will not go away. Their hope is that the federal government, which can
- 1:07:54withhold funds from schools that violate the law, will interview for Brady, he
- 1:07:59plans to spend the next few months focused on getting good grades. Next fall,
- 1:08:02his family hopes to move to a new town. Still, Brady has
- 1:08:06a message for the classmates he'll leave behind. I believe the same blood as
- 1:08:11you do. We do the same classes together, and you still see me
- 1:08:14differently because I'm darker than you. Why Antonia Hilton, NBC News, Lubbock,
- 1:08:21Texas. Thanks for watching our YouTube channel. Follow today's top stories and
- 1:08:28breaking news by downloading the NBC News app. When I tell y'all that textbook
- 1:08:46comment that the Superman sending gave me, it really triggered me because that's what
- 1:08:50they say, that's what they tell parents, or we're taking all the proper
- 1:08:58recourse. We're doing this, we're doing that. And you see how quickly
- 1:09:03he deflected when she asked about the twelve black students whose name whose pictures were
- 1:09:09on that Instagram page. Were they interviewed? I mean, I'm sorry they
- 1:09:15weren't interviewed, And then he says, I can't speak as a superintendent.
- 1:09:19You should have ensured that. But that's the textbook, paperback comment that they
- 1:09:26give every last parent. In other words, to say, yeah, we
- 1:09:31looked into it, we're not worried about it, because that's the pretty much
- 1:09:38the same thing they told me was just to move my son to another school.
- 1:09:44Why and my son was the victor, so why move him to another
- 1:09:50school? Why don't you just address the issue. But that's why I say
- 1:09:59to you parents, go to those school board meetings, put your issues out
- 1:10:04there on the table, and you keep showing up. If your child is
- 1:10:10being bullied, you stand up for your children. If they don't do it,
- 1:10:16you go above and beyond them. But just ensure that you follow the
- 1:10:20proper chain of command. Whatever you're mail to them, baby, send it
- 1:10:27certified so you'll know somebody got it. So that way, when you go
- 1:10:31to these board meetings, you could say, hey, I send a certified
- 1:10:36letter to this person blah blah, and say the names. Don't ever be
- 1:10:44afraid to advocate for your children because mental health is everything, and this is
- 1:10:47exactly what bullying is doing to your children. It is affecting their mental health.
- 1:10:56Because per the CDC, they said, the incidents of both cyber bullying
- 1:11:01and adolescents suicide are rising in the United States, with recent Center for Disease
- 1:11:08Control and Prevention data showing that fourteen point nine percent of adolescents have been cyber
- 1:11:15bullyed and thirteen point six percent of ad I'm sorry, thirteen point six percent
- 1:11:21of adolescents have made a serious suicide attempt. So you have fourteen point nine
- 1:11:29percent of adolescents that have been cyber bully, and then you have thirteen point
- 1:11:34six percent of the adolescents that have made a serious suicide attempt. That's a
- 1:11:42lot of CHIU. That's a lot of adolescents with fourteen point nine fourteen point
- 1:11:49nine percent of them being cyber bully versus thirteen point six percent of the adolescents
- 1:11:56that have made a serious suicide attempt. That's a big number. That's a
- 1:12:02big number. And as you see the school districts, law enforcement, they're
- 1:12:15not taking it seriously. They're not taking it seriously. But again, thirteen
- 1:12:26point six percent of adolescents that have attempted suicide. Let me take a deep
- 1:12:42breath because I look at these stories. I look at these cases, and
- 1:12:51I say, what can we do better as parents? What can we do
- 1:12:56better as a community to curtel the cyber bully? And a million things popped
- 1:13:05up in my head. The number one thing I feel we need to do
- 1:13:12as people. We need to become a community. We need to rally around
- 1:13:17and protect our children. We need to sit down and we need to have
- 1:13:24conversations with our children and letting our children know that if you're being bullied,
- 1:13:30you go tell somebody, You keep a record of it, You document it,
- 1:13:40and I mean your document. Every time an incident happens and you report
- 1:13:44it to an adult and nothing happens, you document that. Then once they
- 1:13:54don't do what you need them to do, you go a step above them
- 1:13:58and you have your paper trailer number three. If that doesn't work, you
- 1:14:08go to law enforcement. But we have to get out here, y'all,
- 1:14:15and we have to start advocating and protecting our children's mental health. These babies
- 1:14:24are suffering from depression and anxiety because someone has told them that they're stupid.
- 1:14:30Someone has told them that they're dumb, someone has told them or if you
- 1:14:34die, no one's gonna miss you. And not only are they bringing that
- 1:14:42home from school, but again like the pet, like the young ladies said
- 1:14:45in the video, they're putting it on social media. I've seen children be
- 1:14:58bullied and the first thing people do is they recorded, go report it.
- 1:15:04There was a young lady that committed suicide at her school in the bathroom and
- 1:15:12she was even this eight and she's eight years she was eight years old,
- 1:15:15what's going and was telling the teacher and the principles, I'm being bullied.
- 1:15:18I'm being bullied and it's baby on allowed herself in the school bathroom. Another
- 1:15:29young lady that I spoke about last year, she was seven, eight years
- 1:15:35old, killed herself. She was being bullied, telling her oh, she
- 1:15:46was ugly, she stinks teachers used to mistreat. Yeah, it happens.
- 1:16:00But again, y'all, we have to come together as a community. We
- 1:16:04have to stand up to bullying because bullying it's not okay. It's not okay
- 1:16:14to intentionally hurt somebody and didn't laugh about it and then record it and put
- 1:16:18it on social media. It's not cool to make fun of somebody, to
- 1:16:21bullies somebody because they're different from you. It's not okay to bully somebody with
- 1:16:28a disability, and it's not good to bully bully people because they're a different
- 1:16:34color. Issue And some of the bullies we see walk around with guns and
- 1:16:43badges, but that's a whole another conversation. But again, these children,
- 1:16:58these babies, taking their lives because that being bullied, and it's definitely not
- 1:17:13okay. What are we gonna do, y'all? What are we gonna do?
- 1:17:25Y'all? Drop some of the ideas in the comments. Let me know
- 1:17:28what what do you think we could do to help kurtell this bullying issue that
- 1:17:32we have that we see that is increasing along with us suicide rates. What
- 1:17:42can we do as as a people? I know, like I said,
- 1:17:50my baby went through a lot and he's twenty two years old now and still
- 1:18:01suffers from the long term effects of being bullied, being teased. He wanted
- 1:18:12friends. I remember I posted when my son was still in school, and
- 1:18:19I think I told y'all, you know, my son, you know,
- 1:18:23tipped by itself at lunch. People thought he was weird because he liked comic
- 1:18:32books, he liked Spider Man, he loved playing video games, and it's
- 1:18:42still a trigger for him to this day. But I did exactly what I
- 1:18:49was supposed to do as a parent. I stood up for my son.
- 1:18:54I protected my son because my son is innocent. Children are innocent, and
- 1:19:00for a child to be bullied, they big. But if we had more
- 1:19:08parents like this, maybe that bullying was stopped. Ya'll check this out.
- 1:19:17Where's the letter Act? You're gonna get into the face and do it right,
- 1:19:26or you're gonna get embarrassed in front of your whole class. I don't
- 1:19:38know exactly who it was who dared her to do it, but I would
- 1:19:42appreciate if you, guys, or whoever it was was, do not ask
- 1:19:45her or influence her. Although she is her own person and knows how to
- 1:19:48say no to something that doesn't make sense or something that is not called for.
- 1:19:55You're too old for that, and hurry up. You got two seconds
- 1:19:59to find it. Okay, Well, guess what. Stand up and remember
- 1:20:02what you wrote. And I remember what you wrote. Darn ya look at
- 1:20:12her. Put your hands down, darn put your hands down. Harmon.
- 1:20:18I'm mean, my agent, how you think she felt when you walked up
- 1:20:21and slapped her? Do any of y'all want somebody to just walk up and
- 1:20:26slap y'all? That is not cool? And dar y'all, don't laugh.
- 1:20:30And you know every single one of your parents feels the same way that she
- 1:20:35does, So don't act. Don't act like you don't get in trouble like
- 1:20:40this. I don't want nobody walking up to her slapping her, and I
- 1:20:43don't appreciate her slapping nobody else now got on Friday, God, and just
- 1:21:00say what's on what you need to say. You don't have to say a
- 1:21:03word from words say I say, apologize sincerely. I don't put your hands
- 1:21:11down. I'm apologize from happened on Friday and let that happen again. And
- 1:21:18for me talking from my hands on you, my mom put her hands told
- 1:21:21me? What else? Act? Or do she accept your apology? Do
- 1:21:29you? Yes? I apologize as her mother for her doing that. This
- 1:21:38will not happen again. Now, I'm not telling her. She can't hear
- 1:21:41nobody. Now, if y'all hear her, ain't telling me, I ain't
- 1:21:43tell y'all. She can't get y'all back. But she's not gonna walk up
- 1:21:45to nobody and just slap nobody because I don't want nobody doing that to her.
- 1:21:50So I don't want her doing that to nobody else's shop, because that's
- 1:21:55not right. Bullying is not right. You don't know what somebody's going through
- 1:22:00at home, do you understand? And if that not happened in him,
- 1:22:11give her a hood? Thank you. Now, that's what I'm talking about
- 1:22:27right there, that's the parenting that I'm used to. Right there, that
- 1:22:32girl slapped another. So the story behind the video, um, so her
- 1:22:38daughter the eight deary, I think think that I can't remember the baby name
- 1:22:44just that quick. Anyway, So she went up and she slapped the other
- 1:22:48girl in the face. So they notified the mother. So the mother made
- 1:22:56the daughter, the young lady y'all step saw standing up in in front of
- 1:23:00the classroom. The mother made her write a letter apologizing to the girl.
- 1:23:04Where she left the letter at home. And so the mama was like,
- 1:23:08I don't care if you let the letter not. You're gonna get up there
- 1:23:10and you're gonna apologize, and this is the apology. Her giving the apology
- 1:23:15for slapping a girl in the face. Uh that again, let me see,
- 1:23:21that's the type of parents that I'm used to. That's how you do
- 1:23:26that. That's how you nip that in the booth. The mama was not
- 1:23:30disrespectful to her baby. She wasn't calling the child out of her name.
- 1:23:36She made that girl get up there and tell her I'm sorry, I shouldn't
- 1:23:43have slapped you in the face, you know, or I'm sorry for what
- 1:23:45happened last Friday. Because I haven't seen some videos where parents are brating their
- 1:23:54children where parents are bullying their children, let me say this to your parents.
- 1:24:05The behavior that these children see at home is exactly what they take with
- 1:24:10them outside your door. So if your child goals to school is out in
- 1:24:16public acting like that, just know where they got it from. Because you
- 1:24:23are the foundation. You're supposed to teach your children right from wrong. You
- 1:24:27are supposed to teach your children how they are supposed to ask when they're with
- 1:24:30you and when they're not with you. You're supposed to teach your children not
- 1:24:36to bully other people because people are different. So if you are co signing
- 1:24:45this type of behavior and something happens to your child, you can't blame nobody
- 1:24:51but you, because your parents need to hold yourself accountable and how your children
- 1:24:59are. Some of y'all may agree, some of y'all may disagree, but
- 1:25:03children are a reflection of their parents. Again, stop co signing the foolishness
- 1:25:15and the bs that your children do. Bullying, and I'm gonna say it
- 1:25:20again, bullying, it's not okay. It's not cool because you have people
- 1:25:26out here that are out here killing themselves behind being bullied. To your parents,
- 1:25:34you fight for the rights of your children, follow the chain of command.
- 1:25:41If that don't work, you go to law enforcement. You get law
- 1:25:45enforcement involved, you take legal action, if you gotta get an attorney,
- 1:25:51whatever it is you have to do, you protect your children, your fight
- 1:25:56for the rights of your children, because these children can no longer be children.
- 1:26:02These children can no longer have fun playing on social media without the fear
- 1:26:06of being bullied. They can't upload a picture without the fear of being bullied.
- 1:26:15I've seen people, grown people go as far as to attack people's children.
- 1:26:25If that ain't no demonic shit, I don't know what it is.
- 1:26:30But like that mother said, you don't know what a person is going through.
- 1:26:39Try to turn the negative into a positive. But at the end of
- 1:26:45the day, it falls on the shoulders of the parents. And I feel
- 1:26:50like, if you want to curtail this bullying and again you've been to the
- 1:26:57school, you've been to the school board, you've got law enforcement involved,
- 1:27:00and it's still going on, and you've even tried to talk to the parents,
- 1:27:02you pursue legal action against the parents because they're complicit in this bullying behavior
- 1:27:16that these children are out here doing. Again, I've seen videos where parents
- 1:27:21have jumped on the bus and you're cussing out the child. I'm gonna tell
- 1:27:30you right now because I told my neighbor you out here cussing out these kids.
- 1:27:35I told the baby, you better be glad it ain't want to mine
- 1:27:38because you would have had a well with fast by the time I was done.
- 1:27:45But you're taking up with the parents, and you document I spoke with
- 1:27:49mister Johnson or missus Johnson on this day with regards to the incident that happened
- 1:27:55on this day. She didn't do anything. You keep your records, baby.
- 1:27:59You make sure your eyes dotted than your tears across. So when you're
- 1:28:01going you pursue legal action. You got the receipts. You got the receipts.
- 1:28:12Joy say fact Sis, absolutely, But we are a reflection of our
- 1:28:17parents. Get out there and act like you got some home training, because
- 1:28:25some of these kids out here these days ain't got got zero home training.
- 1:28:29And then when I see who their mama's and their daddies are, I'm like,
- 1:28:31I see why they mimic what they see. Y'all glorify bullying and picking
- 1:28:41on people. That's what your child and your children are gonna do, because
- 1:28:44guess what you glorify but I want you to keep that same energy when it's
- 1:28:54your child, because turnaround and fair play. While you're child is out here
- 1:29:00bullying somebody, somebody could turn around a bully your child, and I want
- 1:29:03you to keep that same energy you had when your child was bullying somebody else.
- 1:29:14But bullying is not okay, and bullying needs to be stopped. I
- 1:29:16feel like that needs to be a law that's implemented. Anybody that has been
- 1:29:21found guilty of bullying, cyber bullying, text bullying, whatever it is that
- 1:29:27you're doing, I believe you need to be held accountable. I believe some
- 1:29:30charges need to be filed against you, and I feel like you should be
- 1:29:34punished to the fullest extent of the law. I feel like the way they
- 1:29:45like how they did Michael Vick behind those dogs, he's got to donate to
- 1:29:47Peter. I mean, I'm so sorry, not Peter, but the Humane
- 1:29:53Society. He had to go speak. I believe that's what parents or people
- 1:29:57that have been found guilty a bullying somebody. I think you need to take
- 1:30:00a bullying class, and I think you need to go school to school or
- 1:30:03wherever, and you need to advocate for it. And I believe you to
- 1:30:06start financially contributing to the bullying fund. I bet you that should have stopped
- 1:30:15in. I bet you would have stopped in. But I need y'all to
- 1:30:21really start taking this bullying thing serious. You know, all games and all
- 1:30:27jokes to the side, I guess, I guess you could say I'm rolling
- 1:30:30into my final thoughts. But we have to start taking this serious. All
- 1:30:39games and all jokes to the side, y'all. I'm serious now. But
- 1:30:45the way that suicide raid is increasing, what are we gonna do? These
- 1:30:56children that are killing themselves behind being bullied, haven't even yet experienced life,
- 1:31:10haven't even gotten the taste of adulthood. Are being a teenager being a childish
- 1:31:20stressfully enough and then if you add bullying on top, that's enough to drive
- 1:31:31a person over the edge. But it's up to us as parents, not
- 1:31:39only as parents, but as a community, that we step up and we
- 1:31:46protect these children. We go and we advocate and we fight for these children.
- 1:31:56Start going to these meetings the time, I'm so sorry, the schoolboy
- 1:32:00meetings. Start going to your local officials, the town hall meetings. Put
- 1:32:09that on, put that on their on their minds, put that in the
- 1:32:13universe, put that in the atmosphere and say we need to stop the bullying
- 1:32:25again. We're already trying to tackle these children and their hormones. We're trying
- 1:32:30to come to the realization of that. We're trying to battle with that,
- 1:32:34but now we have to battle with the mental health that has come from the
- 1:32:40children being bullied. My heart goes out to these babies who feel like death
- 1:32:55is the only way out. My heart goes out to these babies when they
- 1:33:02reach out for help and their voices become unheard. My heart goes out to
- 1:33:13these babies who beg and plead for help and it's pushed to the side.
- 1:33:30My heart goes out to the parents who are left to deal with the grief
- 1:33:41of not only being let down by the school, the superintendent, law enforcement.
- 1:33:49So now they have to juggle the grief they're left to deal with that.
- 1:33:58They're left with this voy that if one person would have listened, you
- 1:34:05probably could have saved a child's life. We have to start being proactive again.
- 1:34:19We're seeing so many of our adolescents that are killing themselves behind bullying slash
- 1:34:29cyber bullying. When is it gonna stop? When are we gonna take our
- 1:34:42stance to fight for this again, y'all were still trying to get a grasp
- 1:34:55on the numerous mental health issues, trying to grip you know, I'm so
- 1:35:01sorry, y'all, trying to bring the suicide rates down, and then we're
- 1:35:09dealing with a child with the region hormones over here, and then we're recovering
- 1:35:15from this pandemic. People are recovering financially only to be that's a lot.
- 1:35:38That's a lot for a parent and a family, a family, let me
- 1:35:41say that, to tackle to battle, to have to deal with that,
- 1:35:45you did everything for your child and you were still let down in the end.
- 1:35:58I get it, y'all. Mental health is real. That's why I
- 1:36:00push and I advocate so hard for it. But you look at again the
- 1:36:12suicide rates and the ages they're getting younger. Again, you have adults bullying
- 1:36:27other adults. You have adults that are bullying people's children. Then you have
- 1:36:33children that are bullying other children. You have parents that are upholding the behavior
- 1:36:39that their children are displaying by bullying, and someone else's child sick, pure
- 1:36:46evil, pure demondic. What do we do? What do we do?
- 1:37:02Y'all? Y'all? Y'all. Y'all, y'all. I hope y'all enjoyed tonight's
- 1:37:09episode. Up Black Girl interrupting, but I do got to talk about tomorrow
- 1:37:15night's episode, y'all. Let me say this. You know what, I
- 1:37:19may push this back till I may't do this when Sunday, when Big Daddy
- 1:37:25is hell, I may do it Sunday. You know what, I think
- 1:37:28I'm gonna do tomorrow Night's episode for Sunday. Big Daddy. I'll be hell
- 1:37:31because I definitely want his input on this. Um. With regards to Girl,
- 1:37:41you don't want that man, but you don't want nobody else to have
- 1:37:44him either. That is gonna be I'm gonna push that episode to Sunday because
- 1:37:48I want Big dadda. I'll be hill because I really want his input on
- 1:37:53this topic. Just hop be the first time we ever do a show together.
- 1:37:57So uh, y'all bear with him. He ain't camera shot nothing like
- 1:38:00that. He's funny looking though, but no, but seriously, UM,
- 1:38:06I definitely yeah, I think that. I think, y'all, I want
- 1:38:11to do this episode Sunday, So Sunday we're gonna be talking about relationships and
- 1:38:14I'm gonna be addressing you women, because I want to know if you don't
- 1:38:18want the man, let him go? Why you holding that man hot?
- 1:38:25You don't want it, but you don't want nobody else to have it,
- 1:38:27and that's not foul. But I'm gonna push that episode the Sunday. I'm
- 1:38:31yeah, we're gonna do this Sunday. I'm yeah, we're gonna do this
- 1:38:33Sunday. This is gonna be interesting because I want to hear what he has
- 1:38:38to say on that one. So yeah, So this Sunday, y'all,
- 1:38:43this is gonna be a special episode. Uh yeah, So this Sunday,
- 1:38:47Yeah, Sunday, I'm gonna move the episode to Sunday. So Sunday night
- 1:38:50at Um, I think I want to do this one early. So I
- 1:38:55think let's I want to shoot for like maybe it's six o'clock six, six
- 1:39:00or seven. We'll do an early episode because bab I gotta get this input
- 1:39:04on this one. So again, um, tomorrow night's episode. I was
- 1:39:09gonna do it tomorrow night, but I want to push it till Sunday.
- 1:39:12And it's gonna be about girl. If you don't want that man, you
- 1:39:15don't want that, it's gonna be girl. You don't want that man,
- 1:39:17but you don't want nobody else say having or why why are you holding that
- 1:39:21man hostage? Let that man go? Girl. So that's gonna be Sunday
- 1:39:25night's conversation. Like I said, Big Daddy over here, I'm curious to
- 1:39:30get his uh is being put on this week. Oh so we'll see.
- 1:39:35We're definitely gonna seep. But um so I'm gonna do that for Sunday.
- 1:39:41Um. But I do want to say thank y'all so much for tuning in
- 1:39:45to another episode up Black Girl Interrupted again. I'm so looking forward to Sunday's
- 1:39:49episode. Um. I think that was gonna be a lot of fun.
- 1:39:55Um. I do want to say I love y'all. I appreciate y'all and
- 1:39:58all the support that y'all give me each and every episode that y'all tune in.
- 1:40:01I'm very humbled to still be having great things that are going on.
- 1:40:06I'm not giving up on my dream because Black Girl Interrupted will become a household
- 1:40:11name. I'm putting that into the universe atmosphere. Whatever I'm putting it out
- 1:40:15there, y'all gonna know. Uh, Jules say, shit, why are
- 1:40:19you sick of me? I can't wait till Sunday, So don't forget sis.
- 1:40:25We're gonna do that episode early, So Sunday that's what we're gonna be
- 1:40:28talking about. And don't be sick of me, prepared of it, sick
- 1:40:30of me Saturday. Oh but anyway, but I am absolutely humbled by all
- 1:40:35the great achievements that I have accomplished us far. My journey is not over.
- 1:40:41It is not done. I really feel like I'm just now getting started.
- 1:40:45Um, but I am. I'm never gonna give up on my dream.
- 1:40:49Black Girl Interrupted will definitely become a household name. Uh and I can't
- 1:40:56wait, I'm speaking at I'm speaking at. But again, don't forget y'all.
- 1:41:00Black Girl Interrupted is expanding. And for the new people that have not
- 1:41:05seen the trailer with the promo, let me say that, oh for the
- 1:41:13expansion, here we go, and then I want to come back and give
- 1:41:15y'all some love, some kisses, and uh, definitely pourant to y'all before
- 1:41:18we close for the night. So are the ones that have not seen it,
- 1:41:23hold on, let me take the banner out the way. Hold up,
- 1:41:25because y'all gotta get the full of facts. But let me see if
- 1:41:28I can just do it this a way. Let me see if I could
- 1:41:31just do it this way, y'all bear with me, and uh, don't
- 1:41:45forget. I am gonna do my um encouragement. So that's gonna be Tuesday
- 1:41:49night's episode. So Tuesday night, Uh, that's gonna be my empower our
- 1:41:55word. That's gonna be a testimonial Tuesday. Uh. I gotta encourage y'all.
- 1:42:01I gotta empower y'all. Remember I told y'all I did it last month.
- 1:42:04I said I gotta do it this month. So I definitely have to
- 1:42:06comme. I had to love on y'all. I have to encourage you.
- 1:42:09I had to empower you. So that will be Tuesday night. But again,
- 1:42:13Black Girl Interrupted is expanding. For those that are just tuning in,
- 1:42:17y'all, check your girl out. I can't wait for the launch. It
- 1:42:21will be in September, and I have narrowed it down to either the sixteenth
- 1:42:28of September or the twenty third of September, but either way it goes here
- 1:42:31we go la la la la. But yes, Black Girl Interrupted is expanded
- 1:43:17again. I've narrowed it down to either September sixteenth or September twenty third,
- 1:43:24but I will let you guys know, uh the definitive date um, because
- 1:43:29I am gonna scale back on doing Black Girl Interrupted, the podcast UM and
- 1:43:33really get um the Black Carpet experience up and running. UM. So once
- 1:43:40I get that up and running, I'll have to juggle both and I can't
- 1:43:43wait. I'm so excited. Um. I ask for this blessing and God
- 1:43:46has given it to me, So guess what, I'm gonna carry on the
- 1:43:50torch and keep it moving. But on that note, I do want to
- 1:43:55say I love you guys, thank you so much again for all the support.
- 1:43:58Um. You guys really keep me humbold. I appreciate all the love.
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- 1:44:06all. And again, Black Girl Interrupted would not be elevating to the height
- 1:44:11that is going without you guys, so I definitely appreciate it. Again.
- 1:44:16Y'all could be anywhere on a Thursday night at eight thirty pm Central time,
- 1:44:20not thirty Eastern time, but y'all came to hang out with your girl,
- 1:44:24and I again absolutely appreciate. I love you guys. Happy Thursday, Eve,
- 1:44:30Happy Friday. I hope everyone has a beautiful weekend and don't forget.
- 1:44:33I will see y'all Sunday for that episode because I'm curious to know what he
- 1:44:40has to say in regards to that. But I love you guys again.
- 1:44:45Sleep well, have a great night. Pray before you late and say your
- 1:44:48affirmation. Speak positive over yourself. But I love you, guys, and
- 1:44:53I see y'all Sunday in my chase face.