Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / The gals went on a trip WITHOUT ME
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- 0:00Speaker 1: John, Dude, it's day two of Blake hanging out filling
- 0:02Speaker 1: in for Kyler. You're doing a great job, Han, Thanks
- 0:04Speaker 1: having fun. Brittany, good morning, Good mining.
- 0:07Speaker 2: How are you great?
- 0:08Speaker 1: How are you? Thanks for holding you on the air.
- 0:11Speaker 2: I'm you know, I'm doing fine, but I'm still a
- 0:15Speaker 2: little fired up about this. A whole situation with my friend,
- 0:20Speaker 2: my best friend of eight years, just kind of blew
- 0:24Speaker 2: up our friendship on Instagram. We were talking and I
- 0:27Speaker 2: want to hang out with her, she said. She told
- 0:29Speaker 2: me she was spending the weekend visiting family. She was
- 0:33Speaker 2: really surprised when I'm scrolling through my social media and
- 0:36Speaker 2: I see her tagged in, like publicly tagged in a
- 0:41Speaker 2: girl's trip with a bunch of our friends just living
- 0:44Speaker 2: it up in Sedona, And I was like, not only
- 0:48Speaker 2: was I not invited, but like the friend group, two
- 0:52Speaker 2: of the girls that were there were people that I
- 0:56Speaker 2: introduced her to.
- 0:57Speaker 1: That happens to me all the time. That cuts it up.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Now that's a choice for you, John Jay.
- 1:05Speaker 3: Remember I forgot we were looking at it was it
- 1:07Speaker 3: at the parks and they were hanging out with the Boutons,
- 1:10Speaker 3: and I was like, I introduced those people.
- 1:12Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, But for for a girl like that, it's
- 1:16Speaker 4: gut wrenching, especially when you see it on social media
- 1:19Speaker 4: and you have no idea, Like it was one thing
- 1:21Speaker 4: when if you heard a friend call you and say, hey,
- 1:24Speaker 4: so and so went to this event and we weren't
- 1:27Speaker 4: invited and whatever, but you see it on social media,
- 1:30Speaker 4: like that's gut wrenching, especially when you think they're good friends.
- 1:32Speaker 3: Well, maybe they thought you were busy that weekend. Did
- 1:35Speaker 3: you are you doing anything? Are you, you know, studying
- 1:38Speaker 3: for a final for something or got something busy where
- 1:40Speaker 3: they didn't even bother to ask you because I thought
- 1:42Speaker 3: you were busy.
- 1:42Speaker 1: No, even if they did, that is so lame. Yeah,
- 1:48Speaker 1: that I.
- 1:49Speaker 2: Was reorganizing my pantry this weekend, like that's all. That's
- 1:52Speaker 2: all that I had told her that I was doing.
- 1:54Speaker 2: And then she was just like, oh, it sounds fun,
- 1:59Speaker 2: you know.
- 2:00Speaker 3: So last Friday night, Stacey and I were at dinner
- 2:02Speaker 3: in one of our favorite little places called Chop and
- 2:05Speaker 3: we see a couple that we walk in, or let
- 2:07Speaker 3: we know, walk in because they're celebrating a birthday. So
- 2:11Speaker 3: they go off, and then we see the couple that
- 2:12Speaker 3: we introduced them to walk in they go to the
- 2:15Speaker 3: birthday dinner that we weren't invited to at all.
- 2:18Speaker 1: We weren't invited to.
- 2:19Speaker 3: The birthday dinner of a couple that we introduced, and
- 2:22Speaker 3: Stacey and are like, well, we're the fun ones they
- 2:25Speaker 3: should love to have.
- 2:26Speaker 1: I guess they don't agree. I guess they don't agree.
- 2:29Speaker 1: It's their lost, but I'm also not offended by that.
- 2:32Speaker 1: Maybe they had other stuff to do.
- 2:33Speaker 5: Also a man, you're also a man. It's so different,
- 2:36Speaker 5: Like Brittany, did you I end up texting your friend
- 2:38Speaker 5: and be like what gives? Or did see? I would
- 2:41Speaker 5: be petty and I would just like heart their stories
- 2:44Speaker 5: and just let them know that I know.
- 2:46Speaker 2: I did fully ask her what's up because I was
- 2:49Speaker 2: just so taken by it, and she admitted that she lied,
- 2:55Speaker 2: but she said that it was because one of the
- 2:57Speaker 2: girls on the trip doesn't like me and didn't deal
- 3:01Speaker 2: with the didn't want to deal with the drama.
- 3:03Speaker 1: What drama? What drama do you bring?
- 3:06Speaker 2: Apparently that I don't know you, So yeah, I really
- 3:13Speaker 2: don't know. Like she and this other girl like, we
- 3:15Speaker 2: don't we're not like absolute besties in the group, but
- 3:18Speaker 2: like I didn't think that she didn't like me that
- 3:21Speaker 2: much that she was just like, hey, don't invite her
- 3:24Speaker 2: because she you know, we don't get along or whatever.
- 3:27Speaker 2: It's not ever been like that bad. But I told
- 3:30Speaker 2: her that, like it wasn't protecting my feelings but not
- 3:33Speaker 2: telling me about the girl's trip, It was just protecting
- 3:36Speaker 2: her from having an awkward conversation with me about it instead,
- 3:40Speaker 2: like she could have just told me about it. But
- 3:42Speaker 2: she was like, no, I'm just not going to say
- 3:43Speaker 2: anything at all to like protect myself. And she, you know,
- 3:47Speaker 2: she apologized. She said that she never meant to hurt me,
- 3:49Speaker 2: but like the day which has done, I'm hurt, you know.
- 3:53Speaker 4: Well, and they shouldn't have put it on social media
- 3:55Speaker 4: if they didn't want you to know about it.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pretty sure you can like people from certain things, right,
- 4:01Speaker 2: And maybe that's like like.
- 4:03Speaker 3: I don't know, Well, what do you do, Peyton? Do
- 4:05Speaker 3: you score chir with her? Is she never your friend
- 4:06Speaker 3: if that happened to you? Uh?
- 4:08Speaker 5: No, not really probably, I mean it depends how close
- 4:10Speaker 5: I am with that friend of the friend that went
- 4:13Speaker 5: on this girl's trip with them was my very very
- 4:15Speaker 5: best friend and decided to do that. I would probably
- 4:18Speaker 5: be like, that was really weird of you, and obviously
- 4:20Speaker 5: there's room for a conversation. But I don't know, I
- 4:23Speaker 5: would probably I don't know. I am very SESSI of
- 4:26Speaker 5: all the people in my life right now, so I
- 4:27Speaker 5: would be treading lightly regardless.
- 4:30Speaker 1: Well, thanks Brittany, thanks for sharing that story with us.
- 4:32Speaker 1: I think it's very relatable because everybody here had a
- 4:35Speaker 1: story for you. So thanks for calling.
- 4:37Speaker 2: Out I'm not alone.
- 4:39Speaker 1: Well yeah, you kind of are, because nobody's inviting you anywhere.
- 4:44Speaker 1: Thanks Brittany hold On, Thank you.