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DLHS Hour 2 | Are women only at fault for getting pregnant · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: I think it's asdonine.
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  Speaker 2: I think those kinds of things are unhelpful, but they
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  Speaker 2: are for this show because we need to have calls.
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  Speaker 1: And we have to talk about something. So we this analogy.
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  Speaker 3: If somebody plays with a gun and you're just playing
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  Speaker 3: with it, knowing what a gun can do, and it
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  Speaker 3: goes off your faults, the analogy come on, Well, you know.
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  Speaker 2: What if a parent, for instance, if somebody leaves a
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  Speaker 2: gun and somebody gets a hold of it, then they
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  Speaker 2: can be liable too.
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  Speaker 1: And plus, let's not call it a gun.
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  Speaker 2: It's more like a one shot so as a musketa
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  Speaker 2: yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, muskets relow faster than us.
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  Speaker 3: Ain't wait a minute.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care how old you are, you gonna need
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes I think it is the kind of thing, and
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  Speaker 2: it's one of the reasons we have these conversations, because
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  Speaker 2: it's the kind of thing you say when you got
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  Speaker 2: time to feel and you want to say something provocative.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't think anybody actually really believes that's true.
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  Speaker 1: Can you actually really believe there's only one party?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 1: Right? You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: No, yeah, I don't, But I think that it's the
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  Speaker 2: kind of thing you say when you're trying to be provocative.
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  Speaker 1: It's the kind of thing. Ultimately, we have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of women in.
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  Speaker 2: Our audience, a lot of men in our audience who
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  Speaker 2: have children, I'm assuming obviously, and I think that they
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  Speaker 2: would if you ask anybody who actually has children, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure there been a pretty good percentage of them
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  Speaker 2: that were not playing. But she didn't wake up one
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  Speaker 2: day and just you know, be pregnant by herself. Yeah, no, No,
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  Speaker 2: I barely believe that story about Mary. So I'm just saying, no,
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  Speaker 2: there's a lot of things you gotta to believe in
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  Speaker 2: stuff like that. There's a lot of things you have
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  Speaker 2: to forego. Yeah, because Mary could never be twenty twenty five.
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  Speaker 2: She'd be on there'd be a definitely fraternity suit.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely, And if you have a hard time believing in,
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  Speaker 3: imagine Joseph.
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  Speaker 2: Right, what so this? God babe right and tell your
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  Speaker 2: son stopped hanging out with the twelve dudes. I'm telling
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  Speaker 2: you ain't never gonna cut from it. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 2: that this is one of those topics. Well, we don't think.
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  Speaker 2: I think that there's culpability on both sides. But you
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  Speaker 2: said it earlier, and I think It's probably the most
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  Speaker 2: scar in point is that even though she does not
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  Speaker 2: get pregnant by herself, she does ultimately is the arbit
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  Speaker 2: of whether they have that baby or not.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she gets society, she got ultimate veto power as right,
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  Speaker 3: just like the president.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like this bill, the bill or the dude.
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  Speaker 2: I think that it is one of those things that
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  Speaker 2: gets very hit.
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  Speaker 1: I mean my sister. I think she got pregnant at.
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  Speaker 2: Thirteen fourteen, Yeah, and thirteen or fourteen like my biological mother.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, she was.
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  Speaker 2: In the first year in the tenth grade.
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  Speaker 3: Wherever you are then, no, you're not tenth grade. Tenth
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  Speaker 3: grade is like fifteen fifteen sixteen.
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  Speaker 1: She was in tenth grade, so she must have been fifteen.
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  Speaker 2: But I remember how I felt as a little kid
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  Speaker 2: watching the thing that she went through, and I remember
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  Speaker 2: that was in my mind, and you would think that
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  Speaker 2: I would have learned from that, but obviously I did not.
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  Speaker 2: But I think that anybody who's seen someone go through
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  Speaker 2: that at a very young age, anybody who's seen the
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  Speaker 2: kind of things that that does to people mentally, would
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  Speaker 2: never say anything as Douma set because nobody would choose
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  Speaker 2: to do that on purpose. I would say this that
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  Speaker 2: somebody made the point, and I think it's true.
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  Speaker 1: I think that getting kicked in the.
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  Speaker 2: In the in the in the testicles is way more
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  Speaker 2: painful than childbirth.
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  Speaker 3: I've never had a baby.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm gonna tell you why because and this dude
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  Speaker 2: said it, and it was so true, and I didn't
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  Speaker 2: understand it. If somebody kicked you in your you would
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  Speaker 2: never want them to do it again, you would never volunteer.
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  Speaker 2: But as painful as childbirth is, nine months later, they
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  Speaker 2: want to do it all over again.
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  Speaker 1: So I say.
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  Speaker 2: Say, that is the most That is the most compelling
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  Speaker 2: argument I've ever heard. If you remember when you was
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  Speaker 2: riding on your bike and they had that little pole
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  Speaker 2: down the middle and the girls had to dip, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: you could tell if you ever slipped off your chain,
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  Speaker 2: of it slipped off the pedals of your bike, you
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  Speaker 2: was finished riding for the day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and yeah. And as we get older,
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  Speaker 3: here's another thing that's very paying for. And I've heard
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  Speaker 3: the comparison to childbirth. If you've ever passed the kidney stone,
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  Speaker 3: nobody ever volunteers to do that again. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And when you're older, the kick is a lot lower.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to kick it. So this is this
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  Speaker 1: is a scenario.
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  Speaker 5: Are you not.
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  Speaker 6: Giving him no responsibility? You're not getting this. I want
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  Speaker 6: to see I want to see you one day. Hold
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  Speaker 6: men accountable for there, ma'am.
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  Speaker 7: How can you just admit that if I played with
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  Speaker 7: a gun and kill myself, shoot myself, it's my fault.
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  Speaker 7: But if you play with the and detriment your life
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  Speaker 7: is not your fault.
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  Speaker 1: How is that? Do you agree with going right to
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  Speaker 1: the false?
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  Speaker 8: Okay, here's my humble opinion. We know when a young
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  Speaker 8: lady gets pregnant, nine times out of ten she's gonna
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  Speaker 8: have to take care of the baby and everything, so
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  Speaker 8: that does fall on her. However, that guy was so crude.
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  Speaker 8: It's like, well, he's talking to his own woman, because
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  Speaker 8: that doesn't mean that a man should be out here
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  Speaker 8: just going from woman to woman and woman irresponsibly just
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  Speaker 8: because of that factor. At the end of the day,
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  Speaker 8: it's fault. The responsibility fault on both of them. Is
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  Speaker 8: even though the bulk of the weight of having a
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  Speaker 8: child fall on a woman, but that does not totally
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  Speaker 8: take away a man's responsibility. And no man that is
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  Speaker 8: that disrespectful should be we should be able to get
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  Speaker 8: any woman.
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  Speaker 4: I think that both are possible. They both know what
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  Speaker 4: can happen if they don't put the core on it,
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  Speaker 4: And is as simple as that. He knows, he knows
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  Speaker 4: if he don't cover up his possibility. She knows if
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  Speaker 4: he don't cover up, it's rise. It's a possibility. So
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  Speaker 4: they share a blame fault for that A right, Yes,
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  Speaker 4: I think that's the dumbest thing ever.
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  Speaker 8: If someone's playing with.
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  Speaker 1: A gun and it goes off, yeah, this is that
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  Speaker 1: person's fault.
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  Speaker 9: But if they're playing with a gun with someone and
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  Speaker 9: they talk him back to each other, it's both for
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  Speaker 9: your faults.
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  Speaker 8: You know, everyone's responsible.
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  Speaker 6: And so like if a woman gets pregnant, I'm you know,
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  Speaker 6: unexpected to willingly or whatever.
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  Speaker 10: It's the man and the woman's full Does the man.
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  Speaker 1: Know he's blasted off.
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  Speaker 8: The side of a woman.
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  Speaker 9: And what's going to happen.
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  Speaker 5: No, I don't think that's exclusively a woman. And that
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  Speaker 5: analogy about him playing with a gun. I'm thinking, what
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  Speaker 5: if both of us are playing with a gun and
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  Speaker 5: it actually went off in my head and hit you?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, who fault is that that'd be your fault
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  Speaker 5: because you should have been let me play with the good,
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  Speaker 5: play with the gun. Yeah, that's the terminology. It's not
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  Speaker 5: exclusively the woman's fault about getting pregnant.
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  Speaker 10: How can one woman be responsible for her pregnancy. She
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  Speaker 10: didn't impregnate herself, you know, unless it was artificial insemination.
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  Speaker 10: But that also had to come from a male species
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  Speaker 10: that is anable to provide the sperm. So, however be
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  Speaker 10: it may, it's the responsibility on both parties, on both people.
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  Speaker 10: You can't make a baby just by yourself.
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  Speaker 1: So here is the scenario. Influencer says this. Let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you a question.
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  Speaker 7: If I do this right now online, if I start
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  Speaker 7: playing with the gun and it goes off and it
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  Speaker 7: hits me in the head, who is responsible for my death?
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  Speaker 1: Of course it would be you, of course it would.
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  Speaker 7: Be okay, So you and all of you playing with
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  Speaker 7: these when they go off and get you pregnant, who's
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  Speaker 7: responsible for that? You knew very well, what what's capable of?
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  Speaker 7: I'm asking you, ma'am, who is responsible for you getting pregnant?
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  Speaker 8: You're not getting.
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  Speaker 1: Ma'am.
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  Speaker 6: I want to see I want to see you one day.
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  Speaker 6: Hold men accountable for their.
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  Speaker 7: Ma'am, how can you just admit that if I played
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  Speaker 7: with a gun and kill myself, shoot myself, it's my fault,
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  Speaker 7: But if you play with her and detriment your life,
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  Speaker 7: it's not your fault.
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  Speaker 1: How is that? Do you agree? We're going to write
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  Speaker 1: to the phones.
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  Speaker 11: I'm so sick of these dudes trying to blame of
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  Speaker 11: getting a woman pregnant on the woman. It takes two
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  Speaker 11: to ten.
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  Speaker 4: Ago.
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  Speaker 11: Just as much as she's responsible for hopping on your man,
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  Speaker 11: you just as responsible for playing in the box. It
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  Speaker 11: takes two. So y'all both held accountable for it.
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  Speaker 12: Uh yeah, I think what was just made said that
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  Speaker 12: the woman has pall veto on having a child, Well
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  Speaker 12: that on anymore because if they choose not to the
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  Speaker 12: government it's not going to allow you anymore. So that's
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  Speaker 12: not necessarily true. So people need to rethink that. And
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  Speaker 12: then sometimes the contraception doesn't work.
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  Speaker 9: Even if you're a new Faithfully, I think he had
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  Speaker 9: a half right, because both of y'all got a strap up.
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  Speaker 13: Both of y'all got to make sure that y'all are protected. Yeah,
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  Speaker 13: if it's drunken love or the one nice, then yeah,
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  Speaker 13: that's on you. But if you don't want no kids,
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  Speaker 13: you know, take your firmicide, take your warning off the pill,
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  Speaker 13: you know. And that's primarily on the woman if she
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  Speaker 13: does not want a child.
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  Speaker 9: It could be both, but I'd say the woman because
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  Speaker 9: she has to carry that child. They both knew it
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  Speaker 9: was wrong, and he would know whether he wanted a
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  Speaker 9: child or not. But if they both couldn't sent in.
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  Speaker 9: But she's the one that got to carry it. That's
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  Speaker 9: why I would blame her. She got carryat so she
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  Speaker 9: should know, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 8: That's the only reason why I would blame the woman.
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  Speaker 14: Listen, I agree with the Ideah, are you stupid?
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  Speaker 5: Are you stupid?
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  Speaker 15: That's got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard
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  Speaker 15: in my life, that you literally gonna blame the woman
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  Speaker 15: for get pregnant by you, by the man, he was
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  Speaker 15: keeping the woman or getting pregnant unless she can get
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  Speaker 15: pregnant by herself.
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  Speaker 14: Like dear, he was saying that she's a worm you're
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  Speaker 14: responsible to she can't get pregnant by herself. I'll tell
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  Speaker 14: you what, man, you go have a baby and let's
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  Speaker 14: see what happened. Again. It is most dumbest thing in
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  Speaker 14: these YouTube and these parts some of these YouTube, man,
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  Speaker 14: I mean, they say some of the ignorant things that
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  Speaker 14: I ever heard, and then most of the time becomes
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  Speaker 14: from young people, these ging z. But that is absolutely stupid.
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  Speaker 14: I don't even know how to answer that.