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What's up y'all? Welcome to it and what more can I say? Podcast?
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I have one of your host tone of phone. This this episode one
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sixties one sixties and I was two behind. That's all right, let's go
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ahead and get to the other members of the pod. She is the first
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Lady of the Pot, the older Lady of the Pot. She fluffy and
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fine and got a gray see her name. Woo. Friends, what's what's
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up? Are you feeling I'm feeling good. I'm so good. I'm so
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good. I'm a little overwhelmed with life, but it's all good stuff.
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So it's like you can't you know what I'm saying. That's good. Yeah,
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just keep going. He's asking for plentiful blessings. Yes, there you
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go. I gave it to you. Dad is Yes. Let's go ahead.
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Man, little bro the Poe also the funny man of the Pot.
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His dame is Zach Bug whoa whoa who who whoot. Yeah, wa woo
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woo. Sorry that was terrible. You don't like my my harvy you went
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off script. Zach's upset because he's the only one that's allowed to sing on
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the part. Everybody can sing. Everybody can sing. Sing It makes you
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feel good. Okay, Yeah, anybody can sing. I sing, I
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just sing the best. What Yeah, let me hear what you want me
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to sing? Sing? Sing jodasy Okay, that's a joasy song. What
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I'm trying to think of music before I know ive sing sing pretty Ricky.
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I know you know that. You say it's because of min Go, but
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he ain't nothing but the numboy. It ain't nothing about the no bad baby.
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Yeah, sorry, that's exact. The body roll to shirt off,
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but take your shirt off, that is wild. I never was on one
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of them. Yeah body roll. I used to make fun of them,
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really yeah, but I did. Used to play Petty Ricky in the car
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when I picked up girl and I would like go to the song right before
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they got Like if I saw them walking to the car, be like I
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started at the beginning, they opening the door. It's mandatory. You gotta
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playing now. Look, that was the thing you got you You had to
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whood be in your car. You had to have the playlistre you have to.
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You had to, especially back then because you have the CDs you made.
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Yeah, I think the biggest compliment is like you had the CD.
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You put the CD you made and then the girl be like, who what
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mixed? Safe? Is that what used to be on your CD? Cool
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moment, cooling the game? I O, god, imagine what was on
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your c D? Miss right here is not a that's not Look. I
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came up and during the Golden age of R and B nineties, RMB is
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considered the golden age of RBS. I had all of the good groups jo
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Jo Toasy, Guy, Bobby Brown, Janet Jackson. Look, Luther was
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he was too young. I did My mama loved Luther, but I did
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put on a good hair and now it was that's a commercial with the complex
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CD. Oh god, see, this is the thing. This is why
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you guys don't respect Nelly. Nelly get it, they don't respect Nelly.
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Man, this is the thing. This is what not look think about this.
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Okay, Nelly went diamond physical sales. That means all those people went
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and grabbed those albums. Yes, people went gold platinum. Those were a
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million hand in hand. I gotta have this, I gotta have this,
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I gotta have this. That's why those artists could sell out arenas. They
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could sell out a five thousand person venue quick, because you if you win,
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go Now what you got is a bunch of people out that. Really
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you're gauging them on listens. It ain't even just think about that. It's
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not I grabbed the album. They gauge you. How many times you listen
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to a song that that ain't? That ain't Really That's why you can't really
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mess those artists against like Annelly. Annelly sold so many albums, Jay z
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sole albums you got people right now to stream do you think do you honestly
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think by hisself the Future could sell out that the United sent by yourself with
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what he has never not by itself. Never He's literally on an arena tour
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right now. He's not yes he is, he's not. He's not by
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he's not by no, No, he got day's got canceled. He's not
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on a tour by his self. I don't know how Nelly in Future got
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here specifically, but since we are here that the tour was, it has
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been a little effected by some you know, some dates being canceled just since
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we hear. I don't know how we got you because I was excited to
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say what was on my cities, But I don't know. I don't even
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want to do this we're not. I'm not gonna do it. I'm not
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fighting about them, fight about any other artists today, but you're not getting
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me into another I've said what I had to say about future and that's it.
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Okay. You know what I'm saying. If you want to keep bringing
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up Nelly in this diamond record that he has, that's perfectly fine album,
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that's what I mean. That's what I mean by record, the diamond album
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that he has. I respect Nelly. I love Nelly. I love what
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he's doing now with a shanty perfect like. I think Nelly's dope. You
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know what I'm saying. And I know Nelly a real one too. He'll
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fight you. So. I love everything about Nelly, Okay, but you
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just got to quit bringing them up out of nowhere. Like Nelly was not
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on the c Nelly was not on your Luther Se you was forty when Nelly
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came out, it was not there. Nelly came out and win who yo?
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Who was on your CD? Kiki, go ahead, I'm gonna let
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you do it. Do you want me to do yours? No? It
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ahead? We just made fun of it. No, UK, My list
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was lit. I had three piece Okay, Okay, pretty Ricky Okay,
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Mario, y'all remember Willie, Yeah Willy if these walls now now he buck
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he's the Willie Moore Show. Do y'all know that's the same pretty Willy.
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I don't know, I don't. You don't know. I don't know either
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one of those, you know, pretty Willy. No, And I was
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on the radio during that time. I ain't don't lie. Pretty Willy songs
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did not sound mixing mastic like I can't. I don't know how we got
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this record, but it just came out. And know, it never sounded
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like the other songs on your CD. It was like to turn it up
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a little bit. It was a little cloudy. Four Walls was cloudy,
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so I could see how you didn't see it. It never made it to
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the radio and it was just just a burner CD song. Yeah, yeah,
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that was my list. Oh my god, Yeah, that's a bad
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street pieces strong what rappers is? You listen to? Kik Lil Wayne,
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Little Wayne right, exactly, Young Money. I was a barb. I
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am a barb. Okay, I'm a barb. So I was definitely was
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Nikki mixtapes heavy like would do all the verses when Monster came out. I
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thought I was about to win, and Grammy like it was serious. Was
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twenty seven when I wasn't not there? Twenty I was in college, thirty
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five with you? Was thirty five with you know that? And I was
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because I was in college. I wasn't. No, I ain't know if
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I'm aunt you big on because we're young. I'm younger than you. Three
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months to get out of here with that. That's three months younger than me.
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I'm young, I was like I am. I just act more mature
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than him. So it's but three months, not three months. I swear
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something like six months. It's not apart. We're not a year or two
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apart out of you. Not not. Your age should be the same age.
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You're thirty five, and I'll give it. You gonna tell me how
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old I am? You thirty three? Well you graduate high school? Oh
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eight? I graduated? Oh seven? Okay, we did a year apart.
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I birth my birthday late. You just got late birthday. You're graduating,
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oh eight, I got seven. I'm thirty four. You can wait
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turn thirty five, remember my bad? So we're a year apart. We
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were lied about our birthday that long. We're ten months apart. We are
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a year apart, Zachary, I wasn't around long enough to learn anything else
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in life than you knew so far. I don't care what you're saying.
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You to say you I know. When Nigma was out, I was grown,
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you were. I had already had the boys. That's now that now
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that it's too aware, it's too fun. Whoa and some of us are
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just late bloomers. I was not on that. Wow, that got real.
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Do you want to talk about Oh don't. I ain't know. It's
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gonna hit you all like that now now, everybody up tight? Yeah?
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Yeah, I mean okay, yeah, we're fighting for those rights all on
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TV. Now. If I say the word now, y'all look at me
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like we're voting for it. All types of Second Amendment, okay, whatever,
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the second Amendment, another right to carry states at university. You should
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never started with him the future now he on one, he on one,
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he one, All right, man, y'all would say, except to me,
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guys on the pod. They would talk to me about some type of
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boat party. I have no idea what's going on with the boat. What
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are y'all talking about? What it was Zack's idea so I'll let him start.
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Well, I saw black Boats black scene week, yeah, and I
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was I was mad, I wasn't there, you know, And then I
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was thinking about it. I was like, I want to throw a boat
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party. It's got to have, Like we should throw a boat party.
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And Keiki was saying that she wants to throw a boat party. And then
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I said, well, we should throw one together for our birthday. Both
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of our birthday is at the end of the year, so we might as
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well. Just boats is overweight by that time, exactly, So we're going
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to do our half birthday, yes, And we wanted to know if you
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would host it and not hosted such a ridiculous idea a half birthday party.
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When he came to me where I was like, at his very big age,
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he asking for a half birthday party is crazy. So I thought that
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I would make it softer for him and throw myself in the mix so that
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way he's not alone and asking for his birthday party, you know what I
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mean. Said, So, I just know, I'm trying to be a
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supportive friend. So I know we both too brong for half birthday parties.
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But since Zach wont one, you know, he just saw the little photo
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shoes with the baby with the half a cake and that he won't one,
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so I'm just here to support him. Half birthday party is crazy too grown
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for that. I'm not partaking and a half. Why didn't you just say
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I want to go have a min kick you want to have a boat party
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and invite people? Bro? That's that's that's it. Hey, look know
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what we're gonna have a one more? Can I say boat party? We
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could? No, Zach wants the half cake with the candle. If you
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blow out a half cake, I'll kick you in your head. Bro,
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you want a half cake, You've grown as hell. I kind of wanted
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like a dress code and stuff. No, not a dress y'all? Well
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like red like the you know, like the birthday boy were like white.
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Wow. Wow. I kind of wanted to celebrate like it was my birth
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Why did just wait hit birthday? Because we can never have a Remember I'll
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never have a birthday party at the end of December unless we go to Miami.
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Yeah, who's gonna be there? You know how hard it is to
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get black people to go on the trip. Oh my god, it's that
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sight full of tea. Yes, yeah, that that is what kept me
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from traveling. A lot of times. I was like, man, we're
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gonna go. We go, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're gonna go.
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All right, look all right, and I'm I'm the I'm the planner,
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Like all right, cool, We're gonna I found a hotel that's cheap
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for everybody. Man's body this this cools right by. I got a hook
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up, okay, Like yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Hey
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man, it's about like two months out. Anybody else bought they ticket,
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they got this stuff to get Oh man, I need a couple more weeks
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next. You know, about a month before the trip start, everybody started
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hitting you with excuses. Now you just stuck with the hotel. You didne
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got your hookups down in Miami, Like, hey, look, I got
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a big group coming. You don't got everything You've been telling them For two
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months. We've been a tad up there, twelve of us, and I
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would cancel. I would cancel so many because I was scared to travel by
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myself, not to say scared, but uncomfortable to go to go to another
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city and then like try to kind of figure it out without your guys.
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Now it's almost to the point where I for her not to have anybody with
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me because it's easier to move. It's easier to move. Like when I
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was in Vegas, it was easy to move, it was easy to move.
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I knew they ain't gonna say no to one person. They're not saying
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no to one person. Well, if you didn't want us to go,
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you couldn't. That was it. I think. I think I was about
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a plus three possible four, But that's it. I love moving around by
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myself. Yeah, I like doing it here. It's just so much easier.
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You can get more access by yourself. Zach like a little sniper.
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Just he'd be everywhere. Bro. He showed up. I showed him in
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the cup with him. Yeah, he was in the club. I came
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in late. I'm a little nice. Zach over there in the section with
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his family reunion. This we got to find out about that. All his
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cousins I'm talking, they were like, hey, we'll jump you. What
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a family friend. But that Kentucky, Atlanta and Miami. Okay, they
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definitely told me they was gonna jump me. They didn't. They would talk.
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It was like, hey we'll jump you. Like girl cousin was all
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over taked. Oh my god, she was so hot. You know,
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the ladies love to I know, but that's my brother. You can't do
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that. Yeah, okay, whatever you No, I just I would never
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talk to one of his asks cousins. I said they were attractive, but
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I just wouldn't do that too. You do it to me, I do
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with your cousin. That was your big nasty friend. It doesn't matter.
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You don't care. No, I do care your big nasty friend. I
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don't mean to call her that. She's probably a great person. But we
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we wear leopard print and you got a tug ring. I don't know.
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You kind of fall into my big nasty friend, my big nasty friend that
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is a family member. And oh, I just don't appreciate how you have
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all this respect for that's some big nasty cousins, But you don't discriminate when
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it comes to me. That was your family member. I apologize, that's
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too late. I thought it was a friend. I would never talk to
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her that. I never would. I didn't even say nothing to her.
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In I got out of the she started. She started looking crazy at me.
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I was like, lady, you gotta go. Leopard print and a
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tug ring is something crazy to me? Something about this leopard print and this
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tug red. This lady got got me excited. Shout out to my stud
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cousin. She turned she my stud cousin lit the whole party up. Oh
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God, I love my stud cousin from now on out, I don't want
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to go out without my stud. She's shorter than me. She got like
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a loafer cup. She had her hat on backwards, fitted cap on backwards.
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I turned around cousins standing up on the couch for licking girls. I
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was like, I love, I would love to see you. Before I
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should have known it was gonna be up, because before we went in the
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club, she said, hey, cuz, I said, what's up?
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She said, they got white girls in him. And at that moment I
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should have known my stud cousin's gonna take it up, specifically asking for white
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girls. Where is she from? White girl? They got white girls in
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here? I said, I think it's a little bit of head thing in
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him. Cups. She knew she was finna win. Oh man, she
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got in that booth. No, I love the fact that she has this
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white girl's here. You can always tell your friends they want to know if
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you're going to diverse club or something like that. They try not to say
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not everybody in the car is quiet. They wait and they hit you up
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right before you go in where everybody else He got in front, like,
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hey they got some latinos. Oh my god. You know, you know,
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I ain't not if it's all black, I ain't tripping. But you
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know, if it's some Latin girls are here, that'll be cool. That
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said. Then my other cousin, he's from Kentucky too, he hit me
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up on Saturday because we're supposed to go out Saturday night. I was too
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tired to go. I didn't have it in me. He called me,
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he said, cause, can you mind recommending some spots? I think I'm
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gonna go out? Like will white girls be? Oh God, with your
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family? It took me to all the black stuff. Now that's the truth.
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My my cousins from Kentucky love white women. Yeah, they married to
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a lot of white women. And because that's what they see though, but
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that's what they say. Like anything around any black men who leave him mew
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to Minnesota or like Muda, you know Kentucky. They do. They get
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them in white. It's like a package, like you get a white girl
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and y'all get pregnant, y'all. Baby, you know what it is.
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No, I'm about to I'm gonna keep it up. What it is is
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Illinois is hella racist. And because we didn't grow up around each other,
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Like think about how Illinois set up, think about how Chicago is set up,
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we didn't grow up a lot of around each other. So a lot
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of places white and black people were right on top of each other. They
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pretty much not all, but a lot like a New York, like a
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Miami, like a Minnesota. Those places, it's in close proximity, and
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it's just for some reason, it's just really taboo. I mean, the
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first time I ever ever talked to a white girl out of was out of
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state. I'm in LA, and she came like hollered me like a sister
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wood or it came and was like look. I was like, wait,
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like, y'all don't do that. But other places, in other cities,
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white women will talk to you the same way, and I think it's just
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something new for a lot of black guys that just grew up around predominantly black
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neighborhoods. Y'all not going. I tried to follow that, but it's it's
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you saying Kentucky is less racist than Illinois. I ain't say it was less
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racist. I ain't say it was less racist. But it seemed like they
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be around each other more. Okay, I don't know. I could be
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wrong. Yeah, I think you're wrong. Let me tell you something.
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We vote Illinois. Always gonna be blue, always gonna be ready. Way
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more racist in Kentucky. Illinois. Bro, Like you can live on the
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south side, bro, and maybe only see three white people. I think
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that on the west side you can, you could go, you could be
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a pilster and only hang around. You go up north and like it's a
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type of city, bro. It's definitely segregated. Chicago is the most segregated
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city I've ever lived in. That that's that's the most That's what I'm saying.
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The most live in the south. I'm only living in the on the
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south side, and all I see black black black, and then i'm all
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black women talking to me, or you know, the one or maybe the
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mixed girl. But then you go out of town and they're like everybody's mingling,
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everybody mingling. And the thing is you've always it ain't like beauty is
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beauty, So you see a pretty white girl. But you just know it
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ain't going You ain't finna be. They ain't wasting your time. That makes
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that makes a world because I used to live in the North Suburbs at one
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point, and when I would go to my cousin house in the city,
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I was like, I was like, I love it here, Like I
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love the West Side of Chicago, Like, oh my god, I can't
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even go to the corner store. It's spy dudes lined up, you know
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what I'm saying. But in the Northwest Suburbs, that ain't funny, right,
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So I to the West Side by ninety I swear to god, I
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love it over there. Okay, whoo babey. I feel safe, I
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feel protected everything when I go over there. So it's it's definitely I get
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that it's gentrified. It's segregated. Yeah, the Chago is the most segregated
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city. That's all okay, because I'm not completely segregated. Definitely racist And
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on top of I think with Chicago, on top of the segregation, people
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don't don't go out like it can be segregated in other cities, but you
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go to different parts, like you share a Walmart, you share this in
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Chicago. People don't go outside of where they're in their little bubble. They
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do everything within that bubble. Church, club, party, they don't leave
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the area in Chicago. And that's that's the difference. I think that's more
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different than any I've noticed that here than anywhere else I live. Like,
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if some is across town, you just go across town and go to it.
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They're doing its fifteen minutes down the street. Do you think it's a
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such as a black Walmart at a black black grocery store, like or different
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than it could be a Walmart in a hood and in a Walmart, let's
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say North Suburbs. Different. Yeah, because the white people got neighborhood Walmarts.
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Everything in our is locked up. We got super can't get you can't
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get the similar, the past, the dish soap. You got to get
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a key for everything in our walkmarks in Walgreens. Yeah, that's what I'm
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saying. So, like, it's definitely a difference. So y'all take it
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back, y'all. I'm sorry. I mean, yeah, it wasn't racist,
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it was segregated. Okay, thank you. But you were right though,
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And once we understood she was talking about that's why I was trying torupt
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because I wanted to be right. Okay, you're right, brother, anything
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else you want to be right about. I would like to hear more about
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the recap of the family reunion. How to go oh man. So look,
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as y'all know, the family reunion was exactly how I wanted it to
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be. My vision with the family reunion, I wanted it to feel like
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an old school homie family reunion, not no bells and wheel so it was
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just a traditional family reunion. So I got shirts made. You know,
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we hadn't done t shirts in like years, So we had shirts and it
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was at my house in the backyard. Yeah. I had a shout out
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to Rocco Rico, whoever Rico I think is his name, the tent man.
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Tent man came set everything up, tables and chairs, shout out to
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DJ Prince. DJ Prince came out. It's fun I had. We had.
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It was lit. You know, we did regular family reunion stuff.
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We had cards, We gambled, and you know what black people do when
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they when they ain't got no activities like basketball and nothing, they race.
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So we had races in the middle of the street. That's what black people
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do. Now they compete. Do you ever race at your family reunion?
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So your cousin ain't gonna race you. That's his African side. Ain't nobody
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racing at our family reunion side? Y'all tell how faster than you? And
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that's how that's how he be around here. Zach always want to race somebody.
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Yes, I don't know what marathon you're trying to win, but that's
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crazy that y'all was racing at the family reunion in the middle of the street.
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That's nuts. That's that's your DNA, and you definitely want to race
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people. So here's the thing. I didn't want to race people. They
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started off racing the kids. It started off with the kids. The kids
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was racing. And then I'm gonna tell it cuz I'm sorry, I gotta
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tell your business. I have a cousin that brought a white boy to the
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reunion. It's her boyfriend. Cool. She's mixed, so sorry, perfectly
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cool and everything's fine, right the white boy, the white boy race.
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So the white boy races one of my cousins. So you know, they
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come in. I'm inside while this is going on, but I saw the
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video they race cuz beats them. They were racing on the sidewalk. He
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beat them. Boom. White boys say, I want to rematch, but
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I ain't have enough space on the sidewalk, So let's race in the street.
25:45
So they take the street. They take the race to the middle of
25:48
the street. Boom on your market, set go, they take off.
25:53
Cuz pull up, pull a whole muscle, whole quad, pull up.
25:59
At the end of the race, a white boy win. So now I'm
26:03
inside with all this happening. I didn't know this was going down. Cuz
26:07
come in lipping and just lay in my living room and back. I said,
26:11
cous what's wrong he's talking about I pulled a muscle? Cause I said,
26:15
you pulled a muscle? What happened? He was Then my other cousins
26:18
like, now he ain't telling the truth. That white boy beat him in
26:22
a race. I said, the white boy beat you. Oh God,
26:25
Now I gotta go out here and get your revenge. No race. I
26:33
had to go redeem him because what I cannot have at the Faring Union I'm
26:38
hosting is a white boy come in my family and be like I beat them,
26:44
boy man. I told him in the foot race, I had to
26:51
race the boy. You won, didn't you what I don't? And I
27:00
just don't real you get from racing. You take it so serious, like
27:07
debting music or like something out at the table. You would just be like,
27:11
who want to race? Who want to race? Why? He gets
27:15
serious about it, like it's dad serious, like what I told him I
27:19
could. I could beat him in something. His whole face. You chased
27:22
it what you're talking about? No, you can't, you can't, don't
27:26
you. I'm strong, that's it. You ran track. But okay,
27:32
it's just like, okay, that's what I'm good at as a little guy.
27:34
You don't have many wins growing up. Okay, I wasn't gonna beat
27:41
nobody in basketball, wasn't gonna beat you in a fight. But a race
27:45
is where I thrive. So anytime I can get back into just winning and
27:52
being dominant, I'm gonna do it. If we can. If the conversation
27:55
goes to a race, I'm gonna challenge you, okay, because I want
27:59
to win. Have you seen them dudes to like to fight? Oh?
28:00
Yes, No? Why do they like to fight? Because they know they
28:04
can win, they can beat people. The same reason I like to race,
28:07
Wow, the same reason I don't like to play basketball so much.
28:11
I mean, I played, I'm decent. I'm decent. Oh, I
28:15
played in Rossmax game. Did a celebrity game. I played in there,
28:22
and I was scared. I ain't gonna lie because I played in another game
28:25
and I was scared. It was enough. It was some different people,
28:26
some people in there. There's a lot of girls in there. And I
28:30
was like, all right, I'm not starting, which I got. Which
28:33
is I gotta get used to not starting it used to every celebrity game.
28:37
I will start, but it's not good. Gott I come off the bench.
28:41
Shame coming off the bench when you're older? Are you come come off
28:45
the bench? Now? Are you accepting that role? I've accepted it because
28:48
really I don't want a lot of minutes, just a few, just a
28:52
couple of show your highlights. I want. I know, somebody gonna get
28:56
a picture of me doing something like I'm in shape now. So it looked
29:00
like when I take the picture, I'm good. But anyway, so I
29:03
was I and I had just got off the plane. I was definitely afraid
29:07
of going over again. I was like, please don't go over means not
29:14
hitting no shots. Okay, you saw me? Thank you thank you,
29:18
and I was like, man, I first half nothing, how many shots
29:22
did you take? I didn't take a lot. I'm not I don't want
29:25
to tell you I haven't shot. I saw that like three, so you
29:29
were oh for three the first half. In the first half, I was
29:32
for one. I took one shot. They pulled me when I missed it.
29:34
But I thought I was was a good shot. And that's the worst
29:37
getting took out the game when you shoot a shot and missed. Was ever
29:45
turned it ever turned? I said, I'm I saying I got come somewhere
29:52
you'd be good. Ever was nice though. I mean for the NBA playing
29:57
to bring your hands out the game, you got like you're like okay.
30:03
If it had been like a regular coach, I would have argued with him
30:06
like, man, wait, man, I just missed a shot. But
30:07
the dude who used to play in the NBA that got the creditions ever turned
30:11
a hand. You kind of like okay. Yeah. So the second half,
30:15
I'm I'm scared, man. I was like I said, the first
30:18
open one I get, I'm letting it fly. I gotta let it and
30:22
I hit it. I was like I hit a really deep three and that
30:26
was it? I shot again missed? That was cool? Okay, but
30:30
you got your three. You got got my three. Now I'm about to
30:32
playing a celebrity softball game. Now that one I should be okay, it's
30:36
softball, yeah, softball, okay, Yeah, don't get struck out though.
30:40
If I no, now that's when I now I'm an athlete. Bro,
30:42
I'm not getting and a sixteen in softball. I'm gonna hit a sixteen
30:47
in softball. Okay, don't get struck out. That'll be a terrible look
30:49
though. No getting struck out in softball. I'm telling you, if I
30:55
keep playing horrible in these games, it's over. You're gonna quit. I
31:00
was done. Yeah, it's done. I'm done, and it doesn't mean
31:03
as much to me anymore. Uh. Let's go ahead and get to this
31:07
with black scene boat seeing Kiki as you get on the boat, do you
31:11
on the boat yet? Oh? Yeah, I know you don't want to
31:15
have the boat party, So I guess that's kind of dumb question. I
31:17
don't have no boat friends. You're the only friend I know who with the
31:19
potential to buy a boat. Yeah, absolutely not. I don't have no
31:27
boat friends, you know, so nobody invited me to nobody's boat. Why
31:34
not? What? Why not? I don't know. Probably did not think
31:38
I'm gonna bring the gin. You know what I'm saying. I don't,
31:41
Zach, I don't know why I'm not getting invited on boats. Kiki.
31:45
You didn't you act like you don't want to go on no boat. People
31:47
would invite you to the boat any day you want to go. Okay,
31:51
I just got on a boat. You just on at work. You're not
31:56
said, that's the only boat you get on in the summer is for your
31:59
company. And then y'all got on that little ass boat all that. Oh
32:02
yeah that one time. Yeah, yeah, he was scared on that boat.
32:07
I was You had a life jacket out, but I still had fun.
32:09
How you did, bro, You've got in that corner and didn't move
32:13
or talk to nobody. I'm ready for this. She got on that sea,
32:19
that sweat. She didn't even turn around. It's like, hey,
32:22
y'all turned right back around, and she knows she was scared to death.
32:27
I was terrified. I think, really, I want to get on the
32:30
First of all, I don't trust nobody in Chicago to drive me on the
32:34
boat. That's the problem. So I don't want the boat to move.
32:37
I just want to go get on it docked right there at the little thing.
32:39
We could stay right there. We don't need to go. We in
32:42
the water, we do not need to move. That's my thing. I
32:45
don't trust none of them. They I don't know what y'all doing. Yeah,
32:50
so that was mine, Zach. What about you as far as what
32:53
black scene? Did you think about taking cousins out there? Yeah? I
32:57
think if I would have known, I would have extended it with extended family
33:00
reunion. I would have said, y'all leave on Monday instead of Sunday.
33:04
We got some big on Sunday. Bring it, we're getting on the boat.
33:07
I would have told everybody, and I would have probably rented a boat
33:09
for them for black scene. If I would have known it was that Sunday,
33:13
that would have been perfect. Hey, I had my daughters. I've
33:16
been gone all month. I had I got a pretty good July essence,
33:21
Fast League and then New York right right right. I meant I had pretty
33:25
lit July. But I was like, man, so I had seen my
33:30
daughter. I had seen my youngest, who doesn't really play about not seeing
33:34
me. She don't play about that I started getting text visage early. Am
33:37
I coming this weekend? But sometimes she don't get busy. She don't get
33:43
busy and be like dad, I know I said I was coming, but
33:45
you know I'm gonna go spend the night in my friends. All right?
33:47
Cool? And I love my baby so much. I love her so much,
33:52
but I never wish for somebody to cancel on me so bad. You
33:57
start calling out friends, parents like y'all have no sleep bathers this weekkid.
34:00
But and then it got worse. It got worse, like Sunday, like,
34:06
I'm like, man, I'm looking at all of them. I'm looking
34:08
at all of the boats. I'm like, damn, I'm looking at people's
34:12
stories. I'm like, I'm like, I called her mama, like,
34:17
what time you coming? You know she gotta get up? She wow time?
34:25
You know what's going on? Lady? That's funny. It's crazy.
34:30
You miss mommy, you miss her. I'm about to take it to you.
34:36
Yeah, man, it was one of them. Also, this this
34:38
is something I saw and I wanted to ask you guys this question. Do
34:44
you think of twenty twenty four you should keep your relationship off of social media?
34:49
Yes? Can you do that? Right, yes, absolutely, So
34:53
why do people say that it's not real unless you put somebody on social media.
34:59
I don't know. I didn't say that because that ain't that ain't sound
35:01
like I don't know. I don't know. I just feel like when you
35:15
start saying that you know your partner she you know what I'm saying. When
35:19
you started being like why you ain't posting me, it's because you know,
35:22
like you know why I didn't post you. So it's like, why even
35:24
have that debate, why even argue? So for me, what works best
35:29
in the relationship is if we're not married, you don't need to be nowhere
35:32
on my social media because at any moment in time I may have to replace
35:37
you. God forbid. You know what I'm saying, we may not work
35:39
out, And now I got to explain to my followers who this new person
35:44
is. When if I just never told them who you was in the first
35:45
place, they don't miss nobody. So it's just it's crazy, Like I
35:51
tell my boyfriend Hall saying, like they know of Big Ten. Everybody know
35:53
Big Ten. You can't point them out in the lineup. Why because at
35:58
any moment, if God forbid, I have to switch Big Tims. That's
36:01
a new man is still gonna be named Big Tim. Y'all would never know
36:05
that it was. You know what, She's gonna have another if I gotta
36:15
switch Big Tims. If I have to, and you've talked about me,
36:19
that's real though, you gotta respect that. I'm what. That's just keeping
36:28
your record. I don't need nobody keeping record of how many what I got
36:30
going on. That's what social media do. We keep records like we keep
36:35
records. So will you pop out with somebody that goes on your record?
36:39
If you never pop out with nobody, your record is clean until you don't
36:43
want it to be. And when I pop out, it's gonna be engagement
36:45
pictures or a wedding. That's when you pop out. Crazy you telling it?
36:54
I can't wait. We said exactly what you said? You would tell
37:00
us up? Yeah, what what the hot boy? Squeak that lineass squeak?
37:05
What say exactly what she said? Tone from now? Tone's gonna say
37:09
what you say? Okay, all right, I don't post women just because
37:13
you know, I don't want anybody to keep track of what's going on with
37:15
me. In mind? What's wrong with that? You would tell me you
37:22
would be. You act like you don't you wait a minute. You are
37:25
a person that just wait a minute. Oh my god, I'm just it
37:29
just popped in my head. Look at this. Look at how she fliped
37:32
flopped. I said hey, I said, hey, I'm seeing you now,
37:37
and you are like now you want to announce you single? You ain't
37:42
never want to announce you was in a relationship. That's true. What do
37:45
you mean I'm keeping my my relationship to myself now. I tell people all
37:49
the time I'm in a relationship, but I'm single. I tell people this
37:52
all the time. Do I not tell y'all this? Is this the first
37:54
time y'all hearing this for real? No? We still think it's record every
38:00
time. Just reckless. No, it's not the first time. But you're
38:02
very reckless. And that's what we always get on you about. How is
38:06
that reckless? You gonna stay single? Keep talking like that? My god,
38:09
when you file your taxes, what do you put on your taxes?
38:14
Look single? Okay? You get ready to get your head knocked between the
38:17
wash it and dry up when you get home if you don't stop talking like
38:22
this, because you just you just be talking so reckless, right, I
38:29
really not though, and I wish more women would accept that. Y'all running
38:32
around here talk about y'all in a relationship with a single man. You know
38:37
what I'm saying, The man be real single and you and you, you
38:40
is tied down since fighting for your life. You should be, you should
38:45
be you want to be a wife today? Like this is the funniest thing.
38:51
If you start dating me, and you start dating let's say we're not
38:53
we're not even in a relationship, we just date, but you're still throwing
38:57
up advertisement pictures on your it's the ground. Then I can't really that that
39:01
I'm ever gonna take you serious advertisement pictures like you still showing the cuff of
39:07
ass you steal, heavy cleavage leaning into the phone. You are? Why
39:13
am I finna? Why Why would I'm gonna wipe the woman and everybody trying
39:17
to get to Was I advertising before you got with me? Exactly? And
39:21
once once I get with you, you need to stop. If you want
39:25
me to stop, make me an honest woman, Nona. I gotta figure
39:28
out what your creditionals is though, I gotta find out to get a good
39:31
credit score, pay some bills. We know what you're gonna pay somebody got
39:37
mad at me about that, about what about the bills paying? And I
39:40
got I keep telling y'all, I'm not gonna explain it like he can't explain
39:44
the future. Like dog, I'm gonna tell any man in his face.
39:52
Bro If you trying to take care of a woman and yourself and have her
39:57
not paid for nothing, and when you make seventy thousand dollars a year,
40:00
your ass going broke. Your ass going broke. You want to do it
40:05
at eighty ninety Your ass going broke, You're going broke, or you're gonna
40:08
live in something really really small. Stop Stop with all that. This lady
40:14
got mad at me, being man, I was like, what I'm just
40:16
telling you the real I'm telling you real, real life stuff. If you
40:21
cannot cheat the number, If you trying to live up to what these women
40:27
telling you to do and you make seventy thousand dollars, your ass going broke.
40:31
Bruh, flat out. So you want you want a fifty fifty lifestyle
40:36
forever. No, I don't want a fifty fifty lifestyle, but I do
40:38
want somebody that's gonna make my situation and her situation go up. We both
40:45
shouldn't be crippled. One of us shouldn't be living good, and I'd be
40:47
like, and I'm stressed, Like, ah, I gotta we both should
40:51
come together and you should want to get with somebody else and make stuff bigger.
40:55
Yes, Like if you you got a three hundred thousand dollar house that
40:59
you paying for on your own, and I got a three hundred thousand dollars
41:02
house and I'm paying for my own, it ain't about going fifty to fifty
41:06
at that point. It's about looking at what's best. Okay, cool,
41:09
Let's see all right, let's let's do let's get it. Let's get a
41:13
Let's get a four five hundred thousand our house, because we obviously trying to
41:16
have a family. Let's look at you gotta look at the numbers. That's
41:20
all I'm saying. I've been there. Death Stoppers is real. Bro He
41:24
never going back to Death Stoppers though. That was the most embarrassing time of
41:35
my life. My I'm telling y'all, do you know how it is to
41:39
be a radio personality in Chicago your whole life? It be broke, It
41:45
be broke as hell, But no nobody knew I was broke until I walk
41:50
my ass and the death stoppers, and that lady said, it's okay,
41:53
baby, happening to everybody. What oh time. Well, that's why I'm
42:00
not against what you're saying. I hear what you're saying, and I'm not
42:04
it's not totally wrong. But I do think Tom, you a little hard
42:07
on the women, like you want them to work and be homemakers. No,
42:12
no, no, no no, I don't. I want you to.
42:14
I want you to care about I want us to figure it out,
42:16
right, okay, care about us eating. So say, y'all got kids
42:21
together, and y'all move in together, and you want her to work and
42:24
to provide just as much as you provide. But somebody got to take care
42:28
of these kids. Somebody got so ship it shifts its ships. Like when
42:30
I honestly, when I live and I was working at night, she had
42:35
our son the whole the whole day, the whole day. And when I
42:39
and you know, buddy gonna get up. He got me, got his
42:43
blood, he got my blood and him so he up at nighttime. Guess
42:45
who had the night shift? Me and folks was up watching ESPN, playing
42:50
the game. I fed them and no, she was sleep so she could
42:53
get a good, nice sleep, get in there. When she had to
42:57
get our ass up in the morning. I was like, yo, shift
43:00
over. I need to sleep because I gotta get up and do the radio.
43:02
But she also had to go to work. But she had she had
43:06
to go to work. She had to go to work, but no week.
43:07
But I paid for the for the daycare during the day. So it's
43:13
like I said, like, if you just running it and she telling you
43:15
everything, you're supposed to be doing folks, you supposed to be paying this,
43:19
and you've supposed to be doing this, and you're doing that on seventy
43:21
bucks, your ass going broken. You're gonna end up in desk stoppers.
43:24
And then and she gonna leave your ass and take you, take her and
43:29
your shorty and be able to dude again. And she might go fifty to
43:32
fifty with that dude. Fid you ain't right. I ain't gonna stop you,
43:39
like I ain't know. That's all I'm saying that I'm passionate about that.
43:44
Lady came to me and she I'm passionate about it because at the end
43:47
of the day, people hearing these mixed messages and being like I get it.
43:52
In the fifties, and when I was growing up it was it was
43:58
in the fifties you could go get you or some bread for a quarter.
44:01
That ain't hattening no more, gasle, I'm gonna keep it a buck,
44:07
gass a dollar when I was growing up, a dollar, bro. You
44:12
can feel and people complain about feeling that they take with twenty bucks. Yet
44:16
it ain't none of that stuff happening no more. You gonna go boke,
44:20
And like I said, I've been, I've been boked. It ain't cool.
44:24
I ain't gonna let not a woman in this world put me in a
44:28
situation. I want a woman that's gonna say, hey, look you got
44:30
this, I got this, let's make it shape. I respect that and
44:34
I agree with that. Just to be clear, I played devil avocate,
44:37
but I totally agree with that. You cannot. You cannot have a good
44:39
lifestyle off one salary. And somebody ain't gonna be happy neither I actually,
44:44
neither one of y'all gonna be happy because you're gonna feel like he don't pay
44:46
attention to you, that he gonna feel like he working too much. It's
44:50
just both people need to bring some to the table. So y'all could prosper
44:53
together and everybody could be happy. I believe in that. I do believe
44:57
that when the money right, when the money right in a relationship, and
45:00
y'all ain't got to really worry about that. That that's that relationship is tough
45:06
anyway. But you add money problems on some stuff, it aint gonna last.
45:09
Yeah, smoked, super smoke. Nobody liked feeling somebody gonna feel slighted.
45:14
Yeah, how did you feel you like because you was a provider?
45:17
Was that tough? Yeah? I was a full provider. It didn't work.
45:22
Was it tough though? The stress? Yeah, you always feel like
45:25
you should be doing more, you know what I'm saying. So or do
45:30
you feel like the other part you do you resent the other person? Like?
45:32
Yeah, yeah, I feel like you live in a good life and
45:36
I'm working my ass off and it just it's just not a I don't want
45:38
that feeling ever again. But is that fair though? Because you offered it,
45:45
well, I didn't know. No, I didn't offer it. I
45:47
didn't offer It was something I was forced into. Mm hmmm. It was.
45:52
It was something that I was like, no, I don't think you
45:53
should quit your job. And then you did it anyway? You know we
45:57
together were married. What do I do? I have to just pick up
45:59
the slack because the next bill cycle is starting regardless of what you do.
46:04
You know what I'm saying. So I had to just do it so I
46:07
don't mess with any woman to do. I have a good work. Yeah.
46:10
But now, but that's what you want them, quitting jobs, taking
46:15
too much yours. I have to see now. Now, it's like if
46:20
you don't got no job consistently, I'm like, I'm like an application if
46:24
you're trying to get a credit. How long have you had your last whom
46:28
was your last employer? And was deployer behind that? When did you do
46:31
before that? How long you've been at this job? Eight years? Okay?
46:34
Someone be like you off again? Vacation days? You got no If
46:39
I start hearing, I'm about to quick yeah, right, break for a
46:46
little while, right, I don't want to hear. Break for a little
46:50
while, lady, how your life set up? No, I'm sorry,
46:52
ladies, I can't. I love it. I love a hard working woman.
46:57
Now, I don't know nothing else. And you know, just when
47:00
I wash dishes, I clean up. But do you really though, because
47:04
like I feel like me and don't watch y'all don't do chores right. Y'all
47:07
could do them, but y'all don't do them right. And you know how
47:10
many women I had given terrible heads they doing it, They ain't doing it
47:17
right. That a chore. It's a chore. That's crazy being mad left,
47:24
I mean, And you don't be like you gotta act like you gotta
47:29
like, oh yeah, that was good, you really like? Come on,
47:31
man, turn off? You know that real crazy, real, yes,
47:37
real, be terrible. If it's if you're if head and your relationship
47:43
is a chore, you in the wrong relationship. It's not even it's nothing
47:45
about it being like you can kiss good, you act like it's good and
47:50
you appreciate it. You have to appreciates effort of the bad head. So
47:53
you need to appreciate the effort of me watching these dishes, even if it's
47:57
not to your liking. That's sad up. I mean to make sure it's
48:01
cool. You're cool, you know what I mean? You get somebody that
48:05
could clean up I be personally, I'm not. You're not clean. He
48:07
ain't either, That's what that's what like I be with y'all to y'all lie,
48:10
you know what I'm saying. I cleaned up, ain't washing dishes?
48:14
No you weren't. You're not you. You're not home to clean, You're
48:16
not going home to cook. Y'all be wanting. That's why I can ride
48:21
with y'all on the two people should be equal, but we're not equal.
48:23
But because me, it's never gonna be equal. I don't. I don't
48:27
want that. Let me be clear, ladies. I'm not saying we need
48:30
to be fifty fifty, but I think you should contribute. Y'all say that,
48:34
and then y'all still expect all the other stuff that come with being a
48:37
stay at home mom. No, we expect all the other stuff that comes
48:42
with being a woman. It's like, y'all come and washing dishes don't come
48:45
with being a woman. What it was just because cutting grass come with being
48:49
a man. Yes, y'all ain't cutting grass? Y'all are not you somebody
49:07
that come with being a woman washing dishes? I never said watching this comes
49:09
with I'm just saying, move it open cares women looking up. Women love
49:15
to talk about these chores that come with just in y'all's natural essence, just
49:20
as certain things that come with being a man. That's in a man's natural
49:22
essence. When there's a knock at the door and don't nobody know who it
49:25
is, I'm never gonna say. I'm never gonna send my woman. I
49:29
don't care how long I work that day. I don't care if I got
49:31
off an eighteen hour shift. I'm going that's not it's not I'm going to
49:36
the door because that's what a man is supposed to do. Okay, And
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it's yeah, I ain't gonna be like, you know what, I just
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got off. You go ahead, you you you rested today, You was
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off today, so you go check that. That's how y'all be. No
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stuff come with being a man that you're gonna do. You open yeah can
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Now, we can't act try to open cans exactly. That's my point is
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it doesn't matter. Certain stuff just comes to me and a man, and
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certain stuff just open that can for you. Crazy, Okay, how tired
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I am? Them groceries in the car. I gotta go out there,
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find me some slippers on my house to go get them. It's part of
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my life. I'm not gonna bring in the groceries. No, it's not.
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She just bought them, went sent them to the stove, stopping these
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top of these stairs. I'm not that's crazy. If we did that,
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it is, But I just can only go with y'all so far. I
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know tribute can contribute. We should all contribute to the relationship, but y'all
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be taking it a little far, because y'all be one person to contribute just
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as much and then work do work round houses as much. Now, we
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want you to do exactly what we're doing. We want you to do the
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things that men are supposed to do. We're doing the things I mean you
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supposed to things women supposed to do, and we do the things that men
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supposed to. Don't say that, then me and are technically supposed to provide.
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And then we got there, we go and then we gotta come home
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and like y'all say, we gotta go and break your back. Don't let
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us be tied tied. Okay, because the same way y'all act like y'all
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like yeah, the same way women act like they like that sex, y'all
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be giving. So I appreciate it. Thank you if you can fake that,
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good baby, to go ahead, please please, we got your time.
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Your time fight. I don't know love y'all. Pot feel see y'all.
51:49
So yeah tomorrow, Yeah yeah, when you see this will be going
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tonight. Yeah, if you see this will be actually going to the Live
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Pod. So see y'all tonight at the Live Pod. Yes, gonna talk
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about this again. Now we have some new stuff, Zach. Any final
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thoughts is it? That's it? See y'all. Oh, get your merch.
52:10
Yeah yeah, get your merch. That'll be We do have merch at
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the Live Pod. We will see y'all tonight. Thank y'all for supporting us
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for sure. We got nothing without the podfam. And yes, I was
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able to keep a secret for a month and I did not give you guys
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a hint on what was going on. So those people that don't know what's
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going on with us, or it'll kind of late to the party, we
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will announce it tonight at the Live Pod. With that being said, what
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more can we say