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The Breakfast Club BEST OF(Pour Minds, Decisions Decisions, 85 South Interview) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wa wa wa the program Your Alarm to Power one
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  Speaker 5: Just Larry Charlamagne to God, It's Monday, that's right. In
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  Speaker 6: All right, well, let's start the show. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning man.
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  Speaker 6: This is your time to get it off your chest,
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  Speaker 6: whether you're man or blessed.
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  Speaker 2: I hate the way that you walk, the way that
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  Speaker 2: you talk. I hate waiting for chat everything.
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  Speaker 1: When the best call up now eight hundred five five five.
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  Speaker 6: One, Not just me, I'm with the coach of philing. Hello,
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  Speaker 6: who's this yo?
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  Speaker 8: He's talking about eight L three.
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  Speaker 2: Eight O three metro? What's happening?
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  Speaker 8: Jenkins vill shine the main?
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  Speaker 7: What's going on?
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  Speaker 4: I'm here bro? What's up?
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  Speaker 9: Brother?
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  Speaker 6: Get her off your chest?
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  Speaker 8: What's going on anything?
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  Speaker 10: How you doing chess?
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  Speaker 4: I'm gay?
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  Speaker 2: How you doing baby?
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  Speaker 8: I'm chilling, chilling, but yeah, I just got a little kiss.
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  Speaker 11: I know a lot of people might get mad when
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  Speaker 11: I say this, but do.
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  Speaker 8: What you want on your social media, but please stop
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  Speaker 8: posting the kids dancing in the back sheet, dancing the
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  Speaker 8: boots on the ground and you got a collee right there.
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  Speaker 8: Kids in man keep saying I don't think anything happening
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  Speaker 8: on that road the wrong person, and the wrong person said,
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  Speaker 8: you know, yeah that's real out here.
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  Speaker 2: But what if the kid a little bit too big
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  Speaker 2: for the car seat? Now?
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  Speaker 4: What if they like five six?
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  Speaker 2: Are I supposed to be dancing in the.
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  Speaker 6: Bat Definitely not?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't get to see them. They
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  Speaker 8: charge you for that long hold on.
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  Speaker 4: So what you mean standing up in the back seat
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  Speaker 4: man dancing?
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  Speaker 12: God?
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  Speaker 3: Salute Ato three wrest that boots on the ground go
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  Speaker 3: hard or not? You heard that nephew Jones. That carrying on?
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  Speaker 11: Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's big down here.
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  Speaker 3: I know that carrying on ain't no joke. This is
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  Speaker 3: my type of carrying on. Hey, hey, hey, hey, this
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  Speaker 3: is my type of carrying on. Here that up here
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  Speaker 3: a couple of times. Yeah, nephew Jones Jones had Hello.
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  Speaker 4: Who's this?
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  Speaker 11: Hi?
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  Speaker 13: This is Michelle from my corner.
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  Speaker 3: Michelle calling from the crib. What's happening in eight four
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  Speaker 3: three all day?
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  Speaker 13: Yes, this is your neighbor, chaw.
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  Speaker 4: What's happening to Michelle?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, Michelle, how are you?
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  Speaker 4: Michelle?
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  Speaker 12: This getting rid of.
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  Speaker 13: Eric doing He's doing He's doing good. I've been trying
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  Speaker 13: for like a year to get through to talk to you.
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  Speaker 7: What you mean.
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  Speaker 3: I probably passed your house like four or five times
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  Speaker 3: going to see my mother.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 13: I just wanted to shout out my business if I could.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, go ahead.
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  Speaker 13: I'm an artist, a local artist in Shaw find a
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  Speaker 13: you know, go to other places. My Instagram is the
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  Speaker 13: Lawanda's Creations. I'm at the Middle Gallery downtown Charlston and
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  Speaker 13: I'm getting ready to participate in the Global Art there
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  Speaker 13: in North ch Houston next month.
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  Speaker 12: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Congratulations, I'm excited.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely I want to see so many pieces, Michelle.
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  Speaker 13: Yes, all my Instagram page. There's all my Instagram page.
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  Speaker 13: If anybody wants to follow me, you can follow me
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  Speaker 13: on Instagram and Facebook.
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  Speaker 2: Lawanda's Creations, La Wanda's Creation.
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  Speaker 4: I'm following you right now.
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  Speaker 13: Yes, thank you, thank you, we all probably.
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  Speaker 4: You, Charlemagne, thank you, Michelle. I appreciate you all right.
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  Speaker 2: You take care absolutely, pet Hello.
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  Speaker 14: Who's this yo?
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  Speaker 11: What's is?
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  Speaker 2: Marty Creeks with somebody interview in a minute, brother.
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  Speaker 14: I know Mary, I've been chilling man, Yo. Listen, y'all
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  Speaker 14: It's freaking dope, yo.
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  Speaker 14: I mean, I know y'all can't play it, but you
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  Speaker 14: very happy with you.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm marry Marry Christmas, all right.
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  Speaker 14: Y'all to man, alright, God please, y'all man, enjoy your
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  Speaker 14: holiday you too.
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  Speaker 6: Now get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 5: Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one.
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  Speaker 5: If you need the vin call.
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  Speaker 7: Us up right now.
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  Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: Is it your time to get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 7: Wait up, whether you're man.
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  Speaker 6: Or black, time to get up and get something call.
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  Speaker 7: Up now eight hundred five eight five one o five one.
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  Speaker 7: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this.
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  Speaker 11: KG from k C?
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  Speaker 15: Man?
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  Speaker 11: What's up?
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  Speaker 7: What's up? Brother?
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  Speaker 4: KG from k C?
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  Speaker 11: What's up? What's up? Charlotte Mgee or Charloton Maine?
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  Speaker 2: Sel mcgay, you're right, hey, Hevy.
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  Speaker 11: Man, I just got something off my chest.
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  Speaker 16: Man.
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  Speaker 11: Hey, our Instagram started you last night. Man. And if
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  Speaker 11: Black Excellence had a picture next to it, man, and
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  Speaker 11: to be your family, bro, you got a beautiful fab.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, how the hell can they ever be
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  Speaker 3: Black excellence? We all when they're all Dominican.
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  Speaker 6: We're not Dominican at all.
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  Speaker 5: I appreciate that, brother, Just to be like trying to
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  Speaker 5: raise six kids and trying to be a good husband.
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  Speaker 4: I think y'all are excellent, but we're.
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  Speaker 6: All black man, great, But thank you, brother.
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  Speaker 4: I appreciate your times.
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  Speaker 10: Man.
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  Speaker 11: My other thing is many have I watched the Hurricane
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  Speaker 11: con turn the documentary?
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  Speaker 2: No, I haven't yet. I heard I heard about it,
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  Speaker 2: I haven't watched it yet.
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  Speaker 11: Oh my oh, just what's up up? Me, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 11: I wish Yeah, I watched that last night.
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  Speaker 14: Man.
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  Speaker 11: We man, the government should be ashamed of theyself, like,
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  Speaker 11: no bull crap.
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  Speaker 15: Man.
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  Speaker 11: I almost came to tears watching that, bro, Like how
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  Speaker 11: the government treated are black people?
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  Speaker 16: Bro?
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  Speaker 11: We should be scared to live here, bro, Like, I
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  Speaker 11: mean it's crazy, bro. Y'all should watch it.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 11: Hello?
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  Speaker 16: Hey?
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  Speaker 6: What's your name?
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  Speaker 14: Man?
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  Speaker 11: The name?
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  Speaker 7: What's up?
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  Speaker 6: Clip?
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  Speaker 4: What's up?
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  Speaker 6: Man?
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  Speaker 10: It doesn't want to shock myself out?
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  Speaker 11: Good morning? Come on everybody, law love, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Man, just rolling in this morning day my birthday.
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  Speaker 10: And man, brother, boy, you're looking at me.
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  Speaker 4: I heard that saying that that's what's up?
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  Speaker 10: Yea, yeah, Man, I appreciate it. Man doesn't want to
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  Speaker 10: say what's up?
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  Speaker 12: Love?
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  Speaker 4: So you got we appreciate you, brother.
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  Speaker 3: I got one more thing for your there go. Y'all
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  Speaker 3: be flirting with each other, man, what do you mean
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  Speaker 3: you a lot?
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  Speaker 4: Lizard in me flirting with them?
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  Speaker 6: Truck driver?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, you do.
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  Speaker 2: Wesed to be on the road.
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  Speaker 5: That would be out funny home a lot. Listen, I'm
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  Speaker 5: not no, damn li lizen me me. That's not funny.
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  Speaker 4: I'm laughing. I know who this?
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  Speaker 11: You know?
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  Speaker 7: What's up?
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  Speaker 6: Man?
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  Speaker 10: It's Travy out of North Carolina. How you today, Charlie Maye?
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  Speaker 4: Travy?
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  Speaker 7: What's up?
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  Speaker 4: My brother? How can we help you?
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  Speaker 10: I'm chill all right?
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  Speaker 17: So I'm a singer and I want to see usher
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  Speaker 17: with my guitar online.
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  Speaker 4: Do you think all right? All right? So take it.
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  Speaker 10: Hide he spent some time.
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  Speaker 14: He got it.
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  Speaker 10: Let me know.
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  Speaker 17: She that like, indeed, you don't take a shot at
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  Speaker 17: it your trunk, it's gonna be off up. Wait, croudy,
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  Speaker 17: I'm about.
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  Speaker 10: In the foot.
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  Speaker 17: She soon, I'll let you go telling them that you
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  Speaker 17: can't see full up shot down be beating TV?
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  Speaker 14: When me?
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  Speaker 11: She said up?
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  Speaker 14: Ready to uh.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, just once you get inside. You can't change your
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  Speaker 10: mind with me just sounding fence. You got a promise.
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  Speaker 3: I mean you sound I hate to me, but your
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  Speaker 3: phone service. You know what I'm saying. So I can't
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  Speaker 3: hear the guitar and you're going in and now it's
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  Speaker 3: not It sounded like you was hitting it up.
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  Speaker 4: Pause.
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  Speaker 10: I appreciate pause. I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you for calling my brother.
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  Speaker 3: Where can they find you if they want to reach
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  Speaker 3: out to you?
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  Speaker 10: All platforms and shroud et are a h.
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  Speaker 6: B I E.
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  Speaker 5: Get it off your chest eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 5: one O five one.
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  Speaker 6: If you need the VIC, call.
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  Speaker 7: Us up right now.
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  Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, pouring everybody.
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  Speaker 5: It's DJ n V Jess hilarious, Challa mean to God.
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  Speaker 5: We are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guests
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  Speaker 5: in the building, My girls, next, p Andre and the cod.
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  Speaker 2: Again.
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  Speaker 4: How y'all feeling great?
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  Speaker 2: Really good, happy to be.
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  Speaker 4: Here, Happy to see y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you got the new show Travel Queens.
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  Speaker 4: I'm happy to see y'all. Just evolving.
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  Speaker 3: Poor Minds podcast is hit, Poor Minds podcast evolving. Now
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  Speaker 3: y'all got the Travel Queen's TV show on BT. It's
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  Speaker 3: a docu series. How'd that come about?
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  Speaker 16: Also, the production company Coco Butter, they actually reached out
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  Speaker 16: to us because they wanted us to audition for it
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  Speaker 16: because they had us and like I think some other
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  Speaker 16: maybe like two or three other friend groups in mind.
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  Speaker 16: So we auditioned for it. They loved us, and then
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  Speaker 16: we got it and we started filming maybe like a
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  Speaker 16: month after Yeah, and it really filmed the whole show
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  Speaker 16: in two weeksco but I.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's actually not it's a white kuyd of black.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, So what a travel queis about where y'all going
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  Speaker 5: with what y'all doing.
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  Speaker 2: So we went to four different cities.
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  Speaker 16: We went to Carterhena, Mexico City, and Key West to Charleston.
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  Speaker 16: So it's basically really showing, like young black millennials gen zers,
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  Speaker 16: especially women, how to travel, where to go eat, where
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  Speaker 16: to find other black people when you travel, just how
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  Speaker 16: to be safe and have a good time. I think
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  Speaker 16: right now, and media I won't say right now, but
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  Speaker 16: I feel like a lot of stuff that we're seeing
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  Speaker 16: in the media with black women it's like who fighting,
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  Speaker 16: throwing drinks in people's face. So I really think it's
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  Speaker 16: refreshing to see two black women who are really friends
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  Speaker 16: just having good innocent fun.
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  Speaker 2: We're not talking.
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  Speaker 16: About men and dating and gender wars and all this stuff.
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  Speaker 2: It's just good fun.
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  Speaker 3: What about the ladies that are watching it, like, well,
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  Speaker 3: how am I going to be able to fly myself out?
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  Speaker 2: Don't start.
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  Speaker 12: Grad from the.
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  Speaker 18: Actually be.
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  Speaker 16: But I will say so a lot of the stuff too,
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  Speaker 16: is like it's budget friendly.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we went to Charleston, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 14: But you can do it.
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  Speaker 16: On a trip we went to Key West, so you
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  Speaker 16: can drive to key West.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, you don't have to necessarily fly.
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  Speaker 16: It's not like we're doing extremely expensive things, to be honest,
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  Speaker 16: So I think if you budget, you know, it's not
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  Speaker 16: like we're doing luxurious things and going to the Maldives
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  Speaker 16: and you know, staying at the Four Seasons. It's very
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  Speaker 16: budget friendly stuff. Yeah, and I think that was the
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  Speaker 16: point of the show. They wanted to make everybody feel like, Okay,
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  Speaker 16: I can come here and I don't.
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  Speaker 2: Have to spend a lot of money to have a
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  Speaker 2: good time.
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  Speaker 4: So for god was flying.
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  Speaker 3: I still want to go to those destinations, but yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but I probably would.
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  Speaker 2: Have some differentiful. Is one of them a little ducked up?
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  Speaker 2: I remember it is taking the keys before.
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  Speaker 19: I wasn't through out by Cocoa butter, but that that's
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  Speaker 19: usually the older gentleman fly.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, it's a very like quiet town. You can definitely
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  Speaker 2: sneak off there with the old I have never been
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  Speaker 2: the Key Waste before. That was my first time.
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  Speaker 4: It was you know, water blue, the water was blue.
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  Speaker 2: That's a fat little too.
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  Speaker 6: Confused.
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  Speaker 19: So I just told them that when the older guys
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  Speaker 19: performed filatio.
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  Speaker 2: They don't really know the Congo lingus kind of ling
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  Speaker 2: when when.
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  Speaker 19: They're doing that, they say legal because they they don't
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  Speaker 19: have teef anymore.
• 11:45
  Speaker 2: You know, they're trying to figure out where it is.
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  Speaker 19: The ones with glasses, you know when they slip down
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  Speaker 19: on the nose the next day, legally they.
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  Speaker 2: Being a glasses because a lot of it's like it's
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  Speaker 2: gonna get.
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  Speaker 9: A little body.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, in the Four Cities, y'all went to Which one
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  Speaker 6: did you like the best?
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  Speaker 7: And why?
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  Speaker 2: Mexico CD because it was just so nice.
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  Speaker 16: I feel like it's so many black expats that are
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  Speaker 16: moving there from the United States, so it's a lot
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  Speaker 16: of black people out there. We went to an R
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  Speaker 16: and B night. While we were out there, we went
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  Speaker 16: to a black vegan restaurant. It reminded me a lot
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  Speaker 16: of the United States, but just in Mexico C. I
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  Speaker 16: feel like, out of everywhere that we win, that was
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  Speaker 16: my favorite place. I'm not gonna lie. I keep saying
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  Speaker 16: that Charleston surprised me to like that. I've never been
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  Speaker 16: to Charleston, and I have a really close friend of
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  Speaker 16: mine that lives out there and he's been trying to
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  Speaker 16: get me to come out there forever. And I was like,
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  Speaker 16: what is in Charleston, Like isn't better dance? Like I
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  Speaker 16: was like, I'm not trying, but I was so surprised,
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  Speaker 16: Like people be taking a nice boats out, the food
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  Speaker 16: is good. I had a ball in Charleston, like I'm
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  Speaker 16: actually playing in a truck to go back to beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah Mexico. Yes, it's a lot of people over there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: my husband's family is from there.
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  Speaker 12: Really.
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  Speaker 18: Yeah, I know that's why period.
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  Speaker 16: Okay, y'all travel already yeah yeah yeah, and we already
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  Speaker 16: traveled together a lot anyway, so we felt like that's
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  Speaker 16: why it was the perfect show for it.
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  Speaker 6: Y'all get tired of each other at all, Like you
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  Speaker 6: know what, you go your way, I'll go walk my way.
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  Speaker 16: Absolutely, we're neighbors. We literally live in Atlanta. I live
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  Speaker 16: in a building right here, and her building is right here,
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  Speaker 16: and the unit that I used to live in. She
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  Speaker 16: could see my apartment from so she would be like
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  Speaker 16: waving in me from the pool.
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  Speaker 18: No, she the head.
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  Speaker 12: I followed her.
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  Speaker 16: I did started building and building ourself in the moved
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  Speaker 16: right next door to my sweetie pool.
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  Speaker 12: I love.
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  Speaker 6: Y'all get tired, sugar.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's crazy?
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  Speaker 16: I think when we were younger and the show first started,
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  Speaker 16: we didn't have any direction. We didn't know what we
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  Speaker 16: wanted to do. We're going through growing pains. But now
• 14:05
  Speaker 16: it's like she's thirty four, I'm thirty five. We've grown women. Yeah,
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  Speaker 16: we don't have anything to fight about. And honestly, I
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  Speaker 16: think it's so crazy when people have podcasts and they
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  Speaker 16: make so much money and they be arguing. You know what,
• 14:18
  Speaker 16: we have so much fun, Like to be able to
• 14:20
  Speaker 16: travel the world with your best friend and have a business.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: It's great, it's fun. How was it when y'all get
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: in relationships?
• 14:26
  Speaker 11: Though?
• 14:26
  Speaker 12: Oh?
• 14:27
  Speaker 16: I feel like we do a really good job of
• 14:29
  Speaker 16: still keeping the balance of our friendship and still being
• 14:32
  Speaker 16: in a relationship, Like we always find the time to
• 14:34
  Speaker 16: hang with each other, to go to dinner, to talk
• 14:37
  Speaker 16: on the phone. As crazy as it is, because the
• 14:39
  Speaker 16: podcast we do talk about dating a lot. We are
• 14:42
  Speaker 16: really not male centered women and a lot of people
• 14:45
  Speaker 16: think that because we talk about dating so much on
• 14:47
  Speaker 16: the show, but we really not like we like to be.
• 14:50
  Speaker 16: Like last year we went to Turks for her birthday.
• 14:52
  Speaker 16: We wasn't inviting them We went to Miami one year
• 14:55
  Speaker 16: for my birthday. Like, we just go on trips by ourselves.
• 14:58
  Speaker 16: We're not like, oh, our boyfriends have to come, or
• 15:00
  Speaker 16: if we go to dinner, it's not like, oh, bring
• 15:02
  Speaker 16: your man.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: It's none of that none y So.
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: Y'all still up.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: You know, you know your place, You're in a rocky place.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: We gonna see what happens.
• 15:17
  Speaker 16: It's complicated, yeah, which is crazy, right because I feel
• 15:22
  Speaker 16: like it happened simultaneously, like at the same time for
• 15:25
  Speaker 16: both of us. We started kind of going through a
• 15:27
  Speaker 16: transition and a break up at the same time.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: But it's not like in the bad space. Oh yeah,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: it's not like we're cool. It's cool.
• 15:34
  Speaker 16: We're figuring it out type situation, stuck each other up,
• 15:37
  Speaker 16: Like girl, leave him, I'm gonna leave him if you
• 15:38
  Speaker 16: leave him, or if you.
• 15:39
  Speaker 12: Know what I'm saying.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: You know what's crazy.
• 15:43
  Speaker 16: No, I'm really like that friend where when she calls
• 15:45
  Speaker 16: me and she talks to me about what's going on
• 15:47
  Speaker 16: in her relationship and stuff, I'm just.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Always like, okay, girl, well you know, do what you
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: want to do.
• 15:52
  Speaker 16: I try to be supporting of what she want to
• 15:53
  Speaker 16: do as long as it's not a physically violent situation
• 15:57
  Speaker 16: or something that you need to leave, the abuse or
• 16:00
  Speaker 16: anything like that. I try to be supportive of my
• 16:02
  Speaker 16: friends and get it. When you love somebody, you want.
• 16:04
  Speaker 12: To stay with your man.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: It's hard all here. Y'all all men, y'all all married,
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: y'all got y'all.
• 16:09
  Speaker 12: No, She's like, you're all men, And I don't know why.
• 16:20
  Speaker 12: I love it.
• 16:23
  Speaker 6: You was just in love last year.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: I still am in love. I'm pretty much in love.
• 16:27
  Speaker 16: Like I said, it's just a situation. We're figuring it out.
• 16:30
  Speaker 16: I don't you know, but I think we're both so
• 16:33
  Speaker 16: focused on our careers right now. And I know it
• 16:35
  Speaker 16: sounds so cliche, but I'm just a person. He's an
• 16:38
  Speaker 16: amazing guy. If we're meant to be together, we're gonna
• 16:41
  Speaker 16: be together. So I'm just not putting pressure on it,
• 16:43
  Speaker 16: you know what I mean.
• 16:44
  Speaker 12: So it's cool.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: We're gonna figure it out.
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: You know what have y'all learned about y'allselves from doing
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: the podcast?
• 16:49
  Speaker 16: For me, I would say transparency and vulnerability is healing.
• 16:54
  Speaker 16: When I first started doing the show, I think that
• 16:58
  Speaker 16: I always have kind of had more of a closed
• 17:00
  Speaker 16: off personality. I've always been a little bit more private
• 17:03
  Speaker 16: than like she's always been like an open book on
• 17:05
  Speaker 16: the show. And I never used to want to talk
• 17:07
  Speaker 16: about things that I was going through because I felt
• 17:09
  Speaker 16: like it was a sign of weakness. And I've just
• 17:11
  Speaker 16: always had this thing where I don't want people to
• 17:13
  Speaker 16: look at me like, you know, I'm weak or whatever.
• 17:16
  Speaker 16: So I think that now I'm in a space where
• 17:19
  Speaker 16: I enjoyed telling my story. I enjoy telling people the
• 17:23
  Speaker 16: things that I'm going through because I feel like it
• 17:25
  Speaker 16: can help other people get through this through similar things,
• 17:28
  Speaker 16: or you know, just being transparent to me is just
• 17:31
  Speaker 16: very important at this point in my life because I
• 17:34
  Speaker 16: don't know, I just want to be I don't want
• 17:36
  Speaker 16: to get emotional. I don't want to get emotional a
• 17:38
  Speaker 16: little bit. But like, I lost my dad and it
• 17:41
  Speaker 16: was something that was thank you. It was something that
• 17:43
  Speaker 16: was really really hard for me to talk about on
• 17:45
  Speaker 16: the show. But I wish that back then I had
• 17:48
  Speaker 16: the same mindset because I feel like I was dealing
• 17:50
  Speaker 16: with so much by myself, and when I started talking
• 17:53
  Speaker 16: about it on the show, it was just so many
• 17:55
  Speaker 16: people in such an outpouring of love, people saying I've
• 17:58
  Speaker 16: been through the same thing. I can unders and where
• 18:00
  Speaker 16: you're coming from. So that's what I've learned, okay the
• 18:03
  Speaker 16: years about myself. I think that I really enjoy now
• 18:06
  Speaker 16: telling people what I'm going through instead of just feeling
• 18:08
  Speaker 16: like I have to go through everything by myself.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: I think with me, I am.
• 18:13
  Speaker 16: Such like a loud personality, and I think a lot
• 18:17
  Speaker 16: of times I would try to hide that from people,
• 18:20
  Speaker 16: and I just embrace who I am, like I'm not
• 18:22
  Speaker 16: the sexy girl that's doing all this, Like I'm a tomboy.
• 18:26
  Speaker 16: I like to be loud, have fun. So I really
• 18:28
  Speaker 16: got confidence about myself because I'm like, this is who
• 18:31
  Speaker 16: I am. I think for when I first started, like
• 18:34
  Speaker 16: being on social media, I was like doing the bikini.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Pick yeah, poles and bottle pull and I'm like, girl,
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: this is not you at all.
• 18:40
  Speaker 16: So I've really been able to embrace myself and be like,
• 18:43
  Speaker 16: you know what you'd allow homegirl, and that's okay, Like
• 18:45
  Speaker 16: you don't have to fit into this box of what
• 18:47
  Speaker 16: you think that a woman is supposed to because people
• 18:50
  Speaker 16: always love to say because I know you hear this
• 18:52
  Speaker 16: a lot, they'd be like, oh, funny, women aren't pretty
• 18:55
  Speaker 16: or you have to either you funny or you're pretty.
• 18:58
  Speaker 16: You can't be both, you know what I'm saying. So
• 19:00
  Speaker 16: I feel like I used to try to lean into
• 19:02
  Speaker 16: being the pretty girl, and then I would try to
• 19:04
  Speaker 16: lean to be the funny girl. I'm like, you know what,
• 19:06
  Speaker 16: I don't have to be in anybody's box, you know
• 19:08
  Speaker 16: what I'm saying.
• 19:08
  Speaker 19: So you've always been sexy, you just don't give off
• 19:13
  Speaker 19: sex like you said, like, you're just not prissy, You're just.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, we talked about this on the show.
• 19:17
  Speaker 16: There's a difference between like having sex appeal and like
• 19:20
  Speaker 16: being attractive.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Like Drea just is like sexy, you know what I'm saying.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: She's walking around she's like, hey, oh yeah, you know.
• 19:29
  Speaker 12: Yeah all you know.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Like I said, I just think like being sex.
• 19:35
  Speaker 16: Really much sex appeal is something that's just inside, like yes,
• 19:39
  Speaker 16: and I just think like that's not a part of
• 19:41
  Speaker 16: my personality.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: But that's okay, it's not. I'm not saying I'm unattractive.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: I'm a batty uncle man.
• 19:46
  Speaker 18: You feel me, you know what I'm saying.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: So I just think that I've been more comfortable like
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: being in my skin and who I am.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: For sure, growing out loud is hard, Yeah, you know,
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: and that's what you'll been doing the last seven years
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: on that podcast.
• 19:59
  Speaker 16: Like going through everything, like she said, she lost her dad,
• 20:02
  Speaker 16: I lost my mom, going through breakups, and then it's like,
• 20:05
  Speaker 16: you know, we'd be like, oh, we in love, and
• 20:07
  Speaker 16: then the next month were talking about a different doing
• 20:09
  Speaker 16: and they're like, oh, my dad's.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: And they're doing the same thing. It's about you, you know,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: and people not in your business.
• 20:20
  Speaker 16: So it's I think, yeah, going through relationships and growing pains.
• 20:25
  Speaker 16: And I've always been honest about my financial status too,
• 20:29
  Speaker 16: because I always said when I moved to Atlanta, i.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Had three dollars because I did like I wasn't lying.
• 20:35
  Speaker 16: So I think it's important to be transparent, especially as
• 20:38
  Speaker 16: a black woman in this industry. I feel like we
• 20:39
  Speaker 16: always try to hide what we're making because I'm like, oh,
• 20:42
  Speaker 16: this company signed up for your ass.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: How much they paying you? Because it's how much they
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: paying us, Let's make sure that they not you.
• 20:46
  Speaker 12: Know what I'm saying.
• 20:47
  Speaker 16: So I think that with the platform that we have,
• 20:51
  Speaker 16: it's like, yeah, we've grown in front of the camera.
• 20:52
  Speaker 16: But like she said, being open and vulnerable has helped
• 20:55
  Speaker 16: us one thousand percent.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: You know, that's really fun why this time?
• 21:01
  Speaker 16: So that was my second time going to Columbia, my
• 21:03
  Speaker 16: first time going to card Diana because the.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: First Columbia country.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: You said that to me, I was in Columbia. You
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: sure why? I am weak? So yeah, but I mean
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: funny enough. I think that's what people think of though.
• 21:25
  Speaker 16: When you think of Columbia, you think of the cartel
• 21:28
  Speaker 16: and stuff, because like I said, I went to Medayane
• 21:31
  Speaker 16: a few years ago to get my teeth done and
• 21:32
  Speaker 16: I was scared to leave from the area where my
• 21:35
  Speaker 16: hotel was and where my I mean, I was just
• 21:38
  Speaker 16: nervous to travel around because that's what you hear about Columbia.
• 21:42
  Speaker 16: So when we went to Cardina, I had a really
• 21:44
  Speaker 16: really good time. And then especially with us going to Polink,
• 21:46
  Speaker 16: which is the first free black city in the Americas,
• 21:49
  Speaker 16: it was just so you know that it's Afro Latinos
• 21:52
  Speaker 16: in a lot of these countries. But when I say,
• 21:54
  Speaker 16: when we were in Polenk, we felt like we were
• 21:56
  Speaker 16: somewhere in Ghana in Nigeria, like these people look like
• 21:59
  Speaker 16: our cu things are family members. It was just amazing
• 22:02
  Speaker 16: being there and being submerged in the culture.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Are you alway to Columbia, get your teeth because it
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: was shaper.
• 22:08
  Speaker 16: I think here was like thirty thousand. You know, I'm
• 22:11
  Speaker 16: getting a little money, but I was trying to say,
• 22:14
  Speaker 16: you can have done.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: They're just all the same size, like the extra largest
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: for the.
• 22:19
  Speaker 16: Mediums or they get front for the whole world. Yeah,
• 22:27
  Speaker 16: where they get the top done and don't get the
• 22:28
  Speaker 16: bottom of the And it's like maybe it's a texture,
• 22:33
  Speaker 16: Like I think that's why my teeth looks so natural
• 22:35
  Speaker 16: because he made like the texture.
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: And how the men treat y'all when they see y'all
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: from outside of which we are usually outside of Atlanta.
• 22:43
  Speaker 12: What do you mean? What do you mean?
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: Because Atlanta, you know, they see beautiful women. Sometimes they
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: might not see that in Columbia.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: Like DJ said, Columbia got ugly women. That's the headline said.
• 22:57
  Speaker 5: You know, usually when you go out the country and
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: they see American women, they treat American women differently because
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: they don't usually see American women like that.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm not gonna lie.
• 23:06
  Speaker 16: I feel like whenever we go anywhere, I really can't
• 23:10
  Speaker 16: tell the difference because I feel like everywhere we go
• 23:12
  Speaker 16: we kind of draw attention. I know that sounds bad,
• 23:14
  Speaker 16: but it's like everywhere we go, we're used to people
• 23:17
  Speaker 16: like being like, oh my god, I know y'all from
• 23:18
  Speaker 16: the pod, saying hey, And then when we were in Colombia,
• 23:22
  Speaker 16: it's a little different because we had cameras around us,
• 23:24
  Speaker 16: so of course people are like looking and saying stuff
• 23:27
  Speaker 16: and being So it's kind of hard to tell the
• 23:30
  Speaker 16: difference between, you know, people how they treat us outside
• 23:32
  Speaker 16: of Atlanta versus anywhere, because I feel like everywhere we
• 23:34
  Speaker 16: go now people kind of recognize us, so it's not
• 23:37
  Speaker 16: really like we're getting treated differently per se, if that
• 23:40
  Speaker 16: makes sense. When you said they you were scared of
• 23:42
  Speaker 16: how they were gonna edit y'all and make y'all look
• 23:45
  Speaker 16: were y'all allowed to be in the room during the edenterprocess?
• 23:48
  Speaker 16: So you just like the y'all trusted them, and you
• 23:50
  Speaker 16: just like the way they ended up editing the episode. Yeah,
• 23:53
  Speaker 16: we didn't know anything, girl, We've seen everything when everybody
• 23:56
  Speaker 16: else we didn't know how they.
• 23:58
  Speaker 18: Were were still watching.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: We was on the plane last night watching first time.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: So are y'all nervous for every episode that you know what? Well,
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: I'm not nervous now.
• 24:07
  Speaker 16: I was nervous of how my body was gonna look
• 24:09
  Speaker 16: because I just lost thirty pounds.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So I when we shot, I weighed like
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: two o five. So I was so nervous.
• 24:20
  Speaker 16: I kept saying, Oh my gosh, I hope cause I
• 24:21
  Speaker 16: have like a little belly on me. So whenever I
• 24:23
  Speaker 16: gave weight.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Like people always tend to think I'm pregnant. They were like,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: let's pregnant. I'm like, oh my god, can I just
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: have a little shot at tequila? Yes? I had a
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: little you know, like, So.
• 24:34
  Speaker 16: I was really more so nervous about my body after
• 24:37
  Speaker 16: I saw the first episode.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: But I was like, okay, body, yea Columbia pure coke,
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: was it?
• 24:43
  Speaker 18: You said?
• 24:43
  Speaker 11: What?
• 24:45
  Speaker 10: Oh?
• 24:46
  Speaker 14: No?
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I used to be a girl. I used to
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: do everything under the sun.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 24:50
  Speaker 16: The first time I went to Columbia for my BB
• 24:52
  Speaker 16: so y'all talking about y'all know Columbia for the coke.
• 24:55
  Speaker 16: I know, Columbia for them good doctors. But I just
• 24:58
  Speaker 16: did a natural this time. I was a lot of cardio,
• 25:01
  Speaker 16: eating healthy, you know. I feel like and I feel
• 25:04
  Speaker 16: better now. I think I'm getting older and I'm just
• 25:06
  Speaker 16: all the I'm not dissing people who do take other routes.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: But I just had to do it for it was
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: a OXYMPI. I don't like needles. I couldn't do that
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: to myself. But no, no one's empic.
• 25:18
  Speaker 6: Now I need some advice. I have a single friend.
• 25:22
  Speaker 6: She has a closet full of wigs.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: Curly, make sure you say terrible wigs.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: Oh you know who the friend is?
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: I do sadly.
• 25:30
  Speaker 6: She has a bunch of wigs. Curly, one day is straight,
• 25:35
  Speaker 6: different colors.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: She's she's funny, she's smart, she switches up her wigs
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: like like a Netflix series. But when it comes to dating,
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: she doesn't seem like.
• 25:44
  Speaker 6: She can find the right guy. She doesn't know if guys.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: Get intimidated or if they just confused. How would you
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: suggest she meets somebody to secure a relationship because time
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: is running out, and so her wigs?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: But why did you include the stuff about the wigs?
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: You think the wig might be the reason why she
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: can't find the men.
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: I mean, think about it.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Just thinks that I'm sure that y'all felt like y'all
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: had to change about yourselves a little bit, and it
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: probably made them, you know, debate a little stronger for
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: the fish.
• 26:11
  Speaker 16: Okay, well, you know what kind of men are she
• 26:13
  Speaker 16: is she trying to date? Because you know they say
• 26:15
  Speaker 16: they like bad weeds, the white, They love a crunching,
• 26:25
  Speaker 16: a crunches stale. I could not keep the Brits off
• 26:31
  Speaker 16: of me.
• 26:33
  Speaker 18: Stiff they do. But I will say that we were.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Actually just having this conversation. We was literally just talking
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: about this.
• 26:40
  Speaker 12: They don't they.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Have that same hard wig soft life. A different pool.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: She's in the wrong pool.
• 26:56
  Speaker 16: They might be in the wrong pool one, But I
• 26:58
  Speaker 16: will say we were just telling them herduce to this,
• 27:00
  Speaker 16: and I was saying, like, when you get your look
• 27:03
  Speaker 16: together and you feel confident in yourself, it doesn't even matter.
• 27:06
  Speaker 16: Like whatever makes you feel good, you're gonna attract the
• 27:08
  Speaker 16: right person. I enjoy being polished. I used to have
• 27:11
  Speaker 16: a stiff wig or two.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: You got one of them?
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: She does?
• 27:15
  Speaker 9: She does, But.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: I called her.
• 27:18
  Speaker 16: I said, well, she wins her first Emmy. I'm gonna
• 27:20
  Speaker 16: put it on eBay, and don't they collectors itam.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: And it still has the screensheet on it and everything
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: its tail.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: I got to open the phone at some point, but
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: I don't believe that I've never heard the white men like,
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: And you said, Hardy, who.
• 27:40
  Speaker 12: Told you this?
• 27:40
  Speaker 6: I lived it.
• 27:42
  Speaker 12: I lived it.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: I'm serious.
• 27:44
  Speaker 16: If you go look on TikTok right now and type
• 27:46
  Speaker 16: Hardwig soft life, you're gonna see nothing but interracial couples.
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: So why didn't you stick with the white man?
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Because I wanted a man. I wanted a hard life,
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: but a hard man.
• 28:00
  Speaker 12: Like with.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: A struggle. She wanted to struggle with the raw.
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: Doctor Lamar influenced you the dump that white man.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: You know what people hate when I say this, I
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: love Doctor.
• 28:20
  Speaker 12: Black.
• 28:21
  Speaker 18: It's no funny.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: First of all, talking about me talking about I got
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: a bad we can't find it at first.
• 28:33
  Speaker 16: It's so nice to meet he looks beautiful.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: Boy, Hardwig will Halloween. What what did you talking about?
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: Talking about you?
• 28:45
  Speaker 12: Hear talking about her in that.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: Sac First of all, the sad thing that normally comes
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: from over here, but you and your sad so on
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: a spinning around looking at.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: Me, nobody talking about job.
• 28:56
  Speaker 18: Just come in here, let me know.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: So it's close to my.
• 29:01
  Speaker 15: Wet And I love the show.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: I think that y'all looks so pretty on the show
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: I've watched. All three episodes were about that. You kept
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: turning around to me. We got cameras all in this studio.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: We're gonna run the tape. Oh my god, that's this
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: next talking about heart. We didn't talk about that hard die.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: That's drive over there.
• 29:26
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think your is beautiful.
• 29:29
  Speaker 16: I like it.
• 29:30
  Speaker 18: I love the ball.
• 29:32
  Speaker 12: So many.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you, how do y'all balance like
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: turning up for the show because you still got to perform,
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: right because it's the TV show, but then being present
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: for the moments that you're experiencing, like those cultural moments
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: in those cities.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: You know what's crazy. We didn't really drink that much,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: but honestly.
• 29:51
  Speaker 16: We stopped drinking a lot on Poor Minds because it
• 29:54
  Speaker 16: was like some cringy episodes and we just like, oh
• 29:58
  Speaker 16: my god, it was the Houston LI showed. It was
• 30:02
  Speaker 16: so embarrassing because we recorded the show and then we
• 30:06
  Speaker 16: went back and watched it when we got back to Atlanta,
• 30:09
  Speaker 16: and it was just so cringey.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: We was on stage like, yeah, Lex, let's turn up.
• 30:15
  Speaker 16: A two shot minimum before we go on stage, and
• 30:18
  Speaker 16: then we'll have like a drink on stage, but we
• 30:19
  Speaker 16: have one drink.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: We're on stage, and that's it. Once we're done with
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: that drink, You're done. Yeah, that first Houston show, we
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: drunk that whole bottle. Yes, because we was turning.
• 30:29
  Speaker 16: I'm always not always a little nervous to turn up.
• 30:33
  Speaker 16: I didn't realize I was getting.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: So drunk so quick.
• 30:36
  Speaker 16: So with the long term vision for the show, more seasons, yeah,
• 30:42
  Speaker 16: it's we're hoping it's gonna get picked up for a
• 30:44
  Speaker 16: second season. I think we should probably know that within
• 30:47
  Speaker 16: like the next two weeks or so. So obviously we
• 30:49
  Speaker 16: wanted to get picked up. And as far as Poor Minds,
• 30:52
  Speaker 16: we want Poor Minds to get picked up as a
• 30:55
  Speaker 16: TV show as well. That's on our bucket list.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.
• 30:58
  Speaker 16: I think like with a Queens, I definitely wanted to
• 31:01
  Speaker 16: be a lot more seasons. I feel like we should
• 31:02
  Speaker 16: do like a whole season, like in Africa, a whole
• 31:05
  Speaker 16: season in Europe. So that's what we're holding that'll that
• 31:08
  Speaker 16: it'll grow to. And you know, same thing with Poor Minds.
• 31:10
  Speaker 16: I can see Poor Minds living on like you know,
• 31:12
  Speaker 16: maybe like a streaming app or something that you know,
• 31:15
  Speaker 16: outside of YouTube. I think we're ready to make that
• 31:17
  Speaker 16: transition with Poor Minds as well. And yeah, yeah, for sure,
• 31:22
  Speaker 16: and more hosting opportunities for the both of us and individually.
• 31:25
  Speaker 16: She still has her cosmetics line that's doing really well,
• 31:29
  Speaker 16: so her just growing in the beauty industry. I have
• 31:32
  Speaker 16: started my YouTube channel, love lexp so I'm just doing
• 31:35
  Speaker 16: like hot topics show reviews because.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: That's the line. I want to get into more hosting
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: as well. So yeah, we just have so much stuff
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: to do.
• 31:41
  Speaker 16: And I feel like now that we've made that step
• 31:43
  Speaker 16: into TV, it's like, you know, people can actually see
• 31:46
  Speaker 16: what we can do now, you know.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I was already on the shop Music Beautycollection dot com.
• 31:54
  Speaker 16: Make sure you get your lip glosses, Matt Liqui lipsticks,
• 31:57
  Speaker 16: lip liners. I also just branched into their cosmetics products,
• 32:01
  Speaker 16: so now I have some jelly blushes, I have mess
• 32:04
  Speaker 16: Era and Eyeliner makes collection.
• 32:08
  Speaker 6: We'll check out Travel Queens on b e T. Yes, right,
• 32:11
  Speaker 6: thank you for joining us so much.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: Subscribe to the Poor Mind podcast. Yes, big love for
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: lexp Andre.
• 32:16
  Speaker 6: And thank you.
• 32:17
  Speaker 12: Thank you y'all.
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: It's the Breakfast Club.
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: Good morning morning.
• 32:20
  Speaker 6: Everybody is d J n V Jess Hilarious, Chelamane the Guy.
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: We are the Breakfast Club.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: We got some special guests in the building.
• 32:27
  Speaker 6: Indeed, we have Mandy Bet and Wheezy from Horrible.
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: Decision, but they taste it ain't Thank you Decision podcasts.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: No, yes, it is. It is absolutely possible.
• 32:41
  Speaker 19: You grow up, you can move to a different city
• 32:44
  Speaker 19: where no one knows you, and then you can change your.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Grocery said, hey, you can't come morning, ladies.
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: What did y'all change the name for the coins?
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Charlotte.
• 32:57
  Speaker 19: Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were
• 33:00
  Speaker 19: twenty six years old.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: I was still in college. I was in my last
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: year of college.
• 33:04
  Speaker 18: Wesy.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: We were both in corporate and we was kind of
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: living life, doing doing all the things, and we just
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: kind of we wasn't our whole phase.
• 33:11
  Speaker 19: I think everyone has a whole phase. And now we're
• 33:13
  Speaker 19: out of it, okay, and we just you know, are
• 33:15
  Speaker 19: growing with our audience and growing with the.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: Dollars to be fair, doing this book. Though, you know,
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: I was telling people like, I want to do Drew Barrymore,
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: I want to.
• 33:22
  Speaker 19: Do this and that, and I just can't see them
• 33:24
  Speaker 19: saying horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: She not both.
• 33:29
  Speaker 20: Though, No, I mean with growth, and we also wanted
• 33:32
  Speaker 20: to be respected as an author I feel like for
• 33:34
  Speaker 20: the people that don't know us, everybody that like is
• 33:36
  Speaker 20: in the podcast world understands our evolution, and I think
• 33:40
  Speaker 20: that's when we started to gain our respect to know that,
• 33:42
  Speaker 20: sure we talked about sex, but it lasted so long
• 33:44
  Speaker 20: we've been able to catapult into all these different ventures.
• 33:47
  Speaker 19: But a new person, I feel like they could be
• 33:49
  Speaker 19: like how you think the fans took it like that
• 33:51
  Speaker 19: y'all took the Horrible Wall.
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: I think the fans love it.
• 33:53
  Speaker 20: I think the core fans are happy. I think the
• 33:56
  Speaker 20: casual fans just found a way to get angry at you. Like,
• 34:00
  Speaker 20: people get very excited if they think something bad is
• 34:02
  Speaker 20: going on, you know what I mean. Like literally, the
• 34:04
  Speaker 20: second they saw that Horrible would be going behind a
• 34:07
  Speaker 20: paywalls like, oh, they fighting Sharlotte one want day I
• 34:09
  Speaker 20: heard dealing with them, like, you know, it's they can't
• 34:12
  Speaker 20: wait to feel that. And Mandy and I being that
• 34:14
  Speaker 20: we've been colleagues for so long, we've had on air
• 34:16
  Speaker 20: mess and things like that, I feel like that was
• 34:19
  Speaker 20: the sexiest part of the story when really, now we're
• 34:22
  Speaker 20: so much older.
• 34:22
  Speaker 6: It's like, Okay, Mandy's celibate.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Right, Oh yeah, I started the year off you just
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: a couple, was like, Yo, I'm celipate. I'm a couple
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: of months ago.
• 34:38
  Speaker 6: That was it was a couple of weeks ago.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: That was your Magic City moment.
• 34:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: I love how you said club you can let them
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: know we were city was a magic city. Yo, that's
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: the first thing she told me.
• 34:49
  Speaker 6: It wasn't like he haw's a family.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: What I'm celipate?
• 34:52
  Speaker 12: Now?
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: I was like, made you break the clac I saw
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: somebody cute.
• 34:58
  Speaker 6: There wasn't even relationship.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Jesus, you already went.
• 35:04
  Speaker 12: Jesus, it is.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: I mean it was intimate, it was sensual. We can't
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: sit guddle. Have you seen him since he doesn't live
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: in my state so he's flying to see me?
• 35:16
  Speaker 20: Yes?
• 35:16
  Speaker 19: Wowtan none, no, no work to go to the second stand.
• 35:23
  Speaker 12: I'm saying.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: The second stand.
• 35:27
  Speaker 7: What's the first thing?
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: The first stand was great? It was when I saw him.
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: So ya didn't date?
• 35:33
  Speaker 10: Just okay?
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: Now I'm just not celebrated more.
• 35:37
  Speaker 17: Okay.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: And this is what the book is about about liberation,
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: growth as women getting what you want.
• 35:42
  Speaker 6: Did you meet him at Magic City?
• 35:43
  Speaker 12: Did No?
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: I met him on an island, So you know.
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: When what island?
• 35:49
  Speaker 18: Say Roy?
• 35:50
  Speaker 6: Which was he was on vacation and you lived one
• 35:53
  Speaker 6: of the island boys.
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: Yes, the only change with the name.
• 35:59
  Speaker 6: Literally going I'm.
• 36:02
  Speaker 20: Trying to think mine, what besides this blazer, what's the
• 36:04
  Speaker 20: biggest rebrand thing of me?
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: I will say this.
• 36:07
  Speaker 20: I think now I'm so over communicative. We're in the
• 36:11
  Speaker 20: beginning of horrible decisions. I wasn't talking about exactly what
• 36:13
  Speaker 20: I wanted, my feelings, even the type of sex that
• 36:16
  Speaker 20: I wanted to have. Like situationships, I was falling into
• 36:19
  Speaker 20: them all the time. I think as you evolve and
• 36:22
  Speaker 20: you get more comfortable with yourself and who you are,
• 36:23
  Speaker 20: that's when it hits. I actually don't think that could
• 36:25
  Speaker 20: happen before thirty.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: I'm be honest.
• 36:28
  Speaker 20: I think you could try to get close to it.
• 36:29
  Speaker 20: But there's something that happens at thirty where.
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: It just clicks.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: You're like, oh no, this is this is thirty.
• 36:34
  Speaker 19: You look better, you feel better, you make more money,
• 36:36
  Speaker 19: you know a little bit more of what you want.
• 36:38
  Speaker 19: You didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and
• 36:41
  Speaker 19: twenties that now you can be like, Okay, I don't
• 36:43
  Speaker 19: want that, but this.
• 36:44
  Speaker 12: Is what I want.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: You want to give this relationship no, yahn't a marriage.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Anybody want marriage?
• 36:48
  Speaker 14: Yeah?
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 36:49
  Speaker 20: You want to not give this relationship not monogamous, but
• 36:51
  Speaker 20: I mean, of course I want marriage.
• 36:55
  Speaker 12: What is it?
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: We're not gonna have sex with a nanny?
• 36:57
  Speaker 12: What's the boy?
• 37:00
  Speaker 20: No? I just doesn't fit my lifestyle, like I I've
• 37:04
  Speaker 20: been known for having a boyfriend and a girlfriend since
• 37:06
  Speaker 20: I've been twenty years old.
• 37:07
  Speaker 19: Like ethical nominogamy, I want to throw that word in there.
• 37:12
  Speaker 19: So that's where like it's consensual, there's like there are
• 37:15
  Speaker 19: boundaries you are communicating, and it's under the umbrella where
• 37:19
  Speaker 19: you could be polly open, like there's you could be swingers.
• 37:21
  Speaker 19: There's all these different labels underneath ethical nominogamy. For me,
• 37:25
  Speaker 19: I like men and women, and I don't want to
• 37:28
  Speaker 19: not be able to experience both.
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: Gotcha off of that now you were talking about you
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: like men and women? So bisexual men? And the reason
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: I asked who was up here and they said that
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: it wouldn't bother them.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: I heard talk about it.
• 37:40
  Speaker 6: Would you mind?
• 37:41
  Speaker 18: It wouldn't bother me?
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: No, I don't want to see it.
• 37:44
  Speaker 20: For me, it's a So the thing that attracts me
• 37:47
  Speaker 20: to women is their femininity, Like I've never dated stood
• 37:49
  Speaker 20: right and no disrespective studs.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: I just didn't because you like monkey.
• 37:54
  Speaker 19: If Funky came on, Horrorball was like, I don't know,
• 37:57
  Speaker 19: Pretty grind are the only stud I want.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: I want Brittany Grin.
• 38:02
  Speaker 20: As far as men, I love the masculinity of men.
• 38:04
  Speaker 20: And so if I was dating a bisexual man, maybe
• 38:07
  Speaker 20: like a homeo Doug.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like there's soul at m.
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: Like, so you wouldn't mind.
• 38:13
  Speaker 6: But he just got to be a thg. You want
• 38:14
  Speaker 6: a thug on the thug.
• 38:15
  Speaker 20: There's also levels to it, right, So I really truly
• 38:18
  Speaker 20: believe every man has had some sort of exp I.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Think everybody look gay for real, for real little watching
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: another little.
• 38:26
  Speaker 18: Gay like.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: Like there's a there's a there's a spectrum, the Kinsey scale.
• 38:31
  Speaker 12: Everyone is not.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: All the way fully straight or fully game.
• 38:35
  Speaker 19: Yes, and you are like a little gay like you
• 38:39
  Speaker 19: can you can even and it could be as little
• 38:40
  Speaker 19: as you can actually admit that another man is attractive
• 38:44
  Speaker 19: or a good looking.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Classified as gay.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: Well I can't because it's it's the attraction is different.
• 38:51
  Speaker 6: But but no man is handsome but attractive man.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: Hand you did you did, because you do have men
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: that wasn't even do that.
• 39:04
  Speaker 20: Then, I think, you know, there's so many men that
• 39:06
  Speaker 20: would say they ran trains in high school. There's another
• 39:08
  Speaker 20: man that wouldn't get naked in tin train like there
• 39:12
  Speaker 20: is levels. I don't think that's ky.
• 39:14
  Speaker 6: By the way, if you don't penis in a male,
• 39:18
  Speaker 6: that's not gay.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: But why you and another man are enjoying.
• 39:28
  Speaker 12: Gay?
• 39:29
  Speaker 19: Said, it's not you're not your penis and what you
• 39:33
  Speaker 19: want to hear something?
• 39:34
  Speaker 12: It's not.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Sofy as long as it's oral, then no, it's okay.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: No hand okay, I just okay.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: I'm looking at the Kensey scale.
• 39:45
  Speaker 7: It's a real thing.
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: Says X no social, no socio sexual contacts or reactions.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Zero is exclusively heterosexual. One mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Two mostly heterosexual but more than slightly homosexual. Three equally
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: heterosexual and homosexual, four mostly homosexual but more than slightly heterosexual,
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: five mostly homosexual only slightly heterosexual, and six is all
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: home up.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: Like the days wave you was straight o gay.
• 40:15
  Speaker 6: That's a lot a lot.
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: Wait.
• 40:17
  Speaker 20: I have a friend of mine, his Dave is Christopher
• 40:20
  Speaker 20: and on New Year's five, six years ago, I'll never forget.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: I kissed him like he's gay. Kiss him. He looked
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: at me and he was like, you, I am gay, gay,
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: and now you've ruined it. He's a six six, he's
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: a six when I tell you, he was.
• 40:36
  Speaker 20: Really upset with me. I was like, I'm so confused
• 40:37
  Speaker 20: and you're having fun. He's like, no, no, no, no, no,
• 40:40
  Speaker 20: I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even
• 40:42
  Speaker 20: have I came from a C section.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: I'm platinum. He was like, are you kissing?
• 40:47
  Speaker 18: You ruined this?
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: You messed him up. Now we played a little straight.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: That's who I'm defined as a.
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: Sixth and the one thing Toronto might have to re
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: six that six thing. Six is the highest on the
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: Kinsey scale exclusively homosexual.
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: If you're a six, that's what.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: You all the way gay. No hot straight girl that
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: got one. Letsbe afraid that she'd be doing this.
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: She was like, yeah, that's me, but I ain't gonna
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: lie back in the day.
• 41:12
  Speaker 18: Yeah.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: I had a couple of gay experiences.
• 41:14
  Speaker 19: Yeah, like kiss a little bit more to kiss, but
• 41:18
  Speaker 19: you know, uh yeah, I dated a stud for like
• 41:21
  Speaker 19: a little minute soil I found out she was married
• 41:23
  Speaker 19: and she ended up being a clown.
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: Two and then mostly sexual but more than slightly homosexual that.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: She dated a stud.
• 41:34
  Speaker 20: So that always tells me like, you kind of are
• 41:36
  Speaker 20: the straight girl that's like.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: Where you can dive because I don't.
• 41:39
  Speaker 19: I don't find like the Felms to be like, yeah,
• 41:42
  Speaker 19: you're beautiful to me, but I'm not.
• 41:44
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't be.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: Attracted to a feminine girl, like it's like I get it.
• 41:48
  Speaker 6: No for me, like that, you'll have the same crush
• 41:51
  Speaker 6: to whoa man? You're man, Brittany, I think a lot
• 41:56
  Speaker 6: of you.
• 41:56
  Speaker 12: Have a crush.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, until I call it tell I her to call
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: herself Pops.
• 42:01
  Speaker 6: I'm like, damn.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: There's certain things that you can say that make you
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: just instant going like.
• 42:08
  Speaker 20: No, you see what I mean, I know what I'm saying, Like, well,
• 42:12
  Speaker 20: she already got the voice of God.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: I mean that's but I mean, I just you know,
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: she she ain't.
• 42:18
  Speaker 19: Like when she was doing an interview in Shane, Like
• 42:20
  Speaker 19: when somebody was like the girl was like, oh, you're
• 42:22
  Speaker 19: about to be a mom, you know, she was like no.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: Pops serious. I was like damn, But I wouldn't.
• 42:30
  Speaker 19: Just assume that if I never heard her say that,
• 42:32
  Speaker 19: Like I wouldn't s congratulations yo, your mom.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't just be like your congratulations.
• 42:36
  Speaker 19: Like you pops now, because I think that that would
• 42:38
  Speaker 19: offend her.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: But she was offended at her being called her mom.
• 42:45
  Speaker 20: Yeah, bring me the good I would let me tell
• 42:47
  Speaker 20: you when I when all that stuff was going on,
• 42:49
  Speaker 20: I was like, we gotta get her.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: Out, we gotta get her out. But I'm okay, what
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: still has the crash.
• 42:53
  Speaker 19: I'm okay with letting her go, Mandy Cab because my
• 42:56
  Speaker 19: boyfriend looked.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: Just like her. Sorry, Chris, So with decisions decisions? Is
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: it less sex talk?
• 43:03
  Speaker 14: Like?
• 43:03
  Speaker 6: Is it less?
• 43:04
  Speaker 16: Yeah?
• 43:05
  Speaker 19: Yeah, we're leaning more into the conversations around relationships, so
• 43:09
  Speaker 19: non traditional relationships, non monogamy, all the ways that you
• 43:12
  Speaker 19: don't have to go about the traditional way of dating
• 43:15
  Speaker 19: and pursuing love essentially because us growing up what is it,
• 43:19
  Speaker 19: get married, have kids, live happily ever after.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: That's not everyone's reality.
• 43:24
  Speaker 20: But it's cool because we're diving into history, which we
• 43:26
  Speaker 20: always kind of did during horrible but now it's fun.
• 43:29
  Speaker 20: Like we're talking, we talk about the history of romance.
• 43:31
  Speaker 20: The first date even the history of romance is dope.
• 43:33
  Speaker 20: I was when we were first date, like how the
• 43:36
  Speaker 20: first date was different. There had to be a male
• 43:38
  Speaker 20: caller at your home knocking on the door, asking your parents.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: They were supervising you.
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: I'm an idiot. I thought you meant like y'all documented
• 43:46
  Speaker 4: the first date.
• 43:52
  Speaker 20: How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,
• 43:55
  Speaker 20: how you know you married.
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: For I'm not a way.
• 44:04
  Speaker 20: Not a history of the romance crazy because it basically
• 44:08
  Speaker 20: romance was a sickness and they believed when people were
• 44:10
  Speaker 20: in battle or in war, they would start a war
• 44:12
  Speaker 20: over love. And they were like, oh, yeah, you can't
• 44:14
  Speaker 20: fall in love, so that's why you would marry. For agriculture,
• 44:16
  Speaker 20: socioeconomic stuff. And it's just fun to dive into this
• 44:20
  Speaker 20: because we already have been talking about sex and dating
• 44:23
  Speaker 20: so long, so now we just get to go back
• 44:25
  Speaker 20: and people enjoy learning about stuff with us, and we're
• 44:27
  Speaker 20: not scholars, so that's what makes it fun.
• 44:30
  Speaker 6: Now you've got a book coming out as well.
• 44:31
  Speaker 11: We do.
• 44:31
  Speaker 19: We do under Charlomagne's imprint, No Holes Barred. It's a
• 44:36
  Speaker 19: dual man no hose Bard, listen, all of them. It's
• 44:40
  Speaker 19: a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And so
• 44:44
  Speaker 19: we each dive into our journeys as women. I did
• 44:49
  Speaker 19: a lot of diving in therapy, like going all the
• 44:52
  Speaker 19: way back to like my childhood as to maybe why
• 44:55
  Speaker 19: I date the type of men I date, my views,
• 44:58
  Speaker 19: I mean everything that's not my daddy, so non short Jamaicans.
• 45:06
  Speaker 19: But I go into that and even as as early
• 45:09
  Speaker 19: as me, like talking about my journey of having anal
• 45:12
  Speaker 19: sex and how I used to think any man that
• 45:15
  Speaker 19: wanted it was was gay because I was like, well,
• 45:18
  Speaker 19: why would you want that back hole when there's another hole?
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: And so five, Oh that was funny because.
• 45:25
  Speaker 19: Just me, No, it like it like goes through my
• 45:31
  Speaker 19: journey of even like having to relearn and unlearn the
• 45:35
  Speaker 19: things that aren't true. And then we even get deep
• 45:37
  Speaker 19: and we talk about like our sexual assaults.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: I talk about my abortion.
• 45:40
  Speaker 20: The book is broken down. It's cool because like when
• 45:44
  Speaker 20: we get into that stuff, so it's pleasure, pain, progression,
• 45:47
  Speaker 20: and power. So like in the pain section, that's when
• 45:51
  Speaker 20: abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a
• 45:53
  Speaker 20: story of a dude DSMDSM like tying me up, spanking me,
• 45:58
  Speaker 20: choking me, like many getting electrocuted.
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: That's my favorite.
• 46:02
  Speaker 19: I went I went to a dungeon with my ex,
• 46:08
  Speaker 19: and we agreed to both do two things that we
• 46:10
  Speaker 19: had never done before. So he agreed to put allowed
• 46:14
  Speaker 19: me to put him in a chastity vote, which took
• 46:16
  Speaker 19: some time because he kept growing and he couldn't growth
• 46:19
  Speaker 19: in order to lock him in. And then I allowed
• 46:21
  Speaker 19: him to do electro shock inside of me with a tool. Yeah,
• 46:31
  Speaker 19: and so like it like spawned all of these electro
• 46:34
  Speaker 19: currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.
• 46:37
  Speaker 19: It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,
• 46:39
  Speaker 19: I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight
• 46:41
  Speaker 19: tongues inside of me giving me.
• 46:43
  Speaker 12: Oral at once.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: It was it was the best feeling. I was like,
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: I this ain't a normal feeling. You gotta get It
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: was great.
• 46:49
  Speaker 19: Though, So that is why one person, one person can't
• 46:52
  Speaker 19: just be honest. I ride, I don't ride. So I
• 46:54
  Speaker 19: would love for my partner to be able to experience
• 46:56
  Speaker 19: everything he wants to experience that.
• 46:58
  Speaker 6: I'm not down between.
• 46:59
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna time.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Let me go get you somebody acrobatic. You mean you
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: can be electric a time, but I ain't getting on top.
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: Nope.
• 47:11
  Speaker 19: Oh yeah, I just came back from Carnival and the
• 47:13
  Speaker 19: way them girls were winding their hips and doing all
• 47:15
  Speaker 19: the splits.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: I said, my man deserves to experience a woman that flexible.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: It ain't me, though.
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: Isn't that a position of powerful woman?
• 47:22
  Speaker 19: Plenty whinion and it's the strongest And that's great that
• 47:26
  Speaker 19: you'll receive it that way.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no me, I'm half white.
• 47:30
  Speaker 12: No, I know.
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: So it goes, it goes, it goes, ball, it goes,
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: you know. Okay, So what is trap hops?
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 47:38
  Speaker 12: Girl?
• 47:39
  Speaker 20: So I've been going to workouts in New York for
• 47:42
  Speaker 20: almost a decade and I love pilates inspired movement and
• 47:46
  Speaker 20: I love lifting, and so literally.
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: I went to a plate class. I'm not even joking.
• 47:50
  Speaker 20: It was February this year, and I was saying to
• 47:51
  Speaker 20: the instructor like, oh my god, girl, that was such
• 47:54
  Speaker 20: an amazing workout, thank you, Like I needed some like
• 47:56
  Speaker 20: some trap or something.
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: She's like, I've never played.
• 47:59
  Speaker 20: That here and made me feel so small like and
• 48:03
  Speaker 20: I was like, I'll make that and so and it's
• 48:05
  Speaker 20: funny because someone said to me when I made it,
• 48:07
  Speaker 20: do you know MV wants to do hip hop plate?
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Maybe it was just someone I mentioned it.
• 48:13
  Speaker 5: I don't tell nobody, especially not him. But I go
• 48:15
  Speaker 5: to plates, right, but when you go to pilates, there's
• 48:18
  Speaker 5: never no music that you's no hip hop and it's hard.
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: You're shaking, you know what I'm saying.
• 48:21
  Speaker 20: So literally my favorite genres of music of all time,
• 48:25
  Speaker 20: and I listened to everything.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: It's trap and house music. So I was gonna buy
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: an apartment in New York, right I had money.
• 48:30
  Speaker 20: I was like one hundred fifty, gamma buy a million
• 48:31
  Speaker 20: dollar house and I was like, no, it's either that
• 48:33
  Speaker 20: to start a business. So, because I'm not a fitness
• 48:36
  Speaker 20: and trainer, I had to you know, partner with someone.
• 48:39
  Speaker 20: And so I found my favorite instructor in New York
• 48:41
  Speaker 20: Black Dudes' named Jeff Blue, and I was like, yo,
• 48:43
  Speaker 20: I want you to make this and he literally was
• 48:46
  Speaker 20: like trap and pilates.
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm telling you, dog.
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: It looked like business woman. Though from what I see
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: on Instagram, I haven't.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: Been able to take a class because it's been so busy.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: I wait, because.
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: Don't talk your entrepreneur ventures enough. You know what I'm saying.
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: You got WTF media man, and you had the studio.
• 49:04
  Speaker 12: I still have it.
• 49:05
  Speaker 19: Yeah, it's just now need to know studios. Yeah, but
• 49:08
  Speaker 19: I relocated to Atlanta. I have other opportunities professionally down there,
• 49:13
  Speaker 19: but yeah, and right now I'm working on scripts and
• 49:16
  Speaker 19: pitching those. I just wrote another proposal for a book
• 49:19
  Speaker 19: after writing the book with you. I definitely just love
• 49:22
  Speaker 19: the process. I want to continue doing that. And yeah,
• 49:24
  Speaker 19: I think over the last eight years, I think that's
• 49:26
  Speaker 19: why we've been able to keep this going, because we've
• 49:28
  Speaker 19: both been able to just branch out individually and do
• 49:31
  Speaker 19: the things that we really.
• 49:32
  Speaker 20: Turning over your money that you make, Like when we
• 49:34
  Speaker 20: got our first Black Effect check, it was so dope
• 49:36
  Speaker 20: because to be on salary for a podcast, it's just
• 49:40
  Speaker 20: like unheard of, and we were making We quit our
• 49:43
  Speaker 20: jobs before, you know, so like we were in this
• 49:45
  Speaker 20: doing this. But it's just mind blowing that we've been
• 49:48
  Speaker 20: able to take that business acumen and flip it because
• 49:50
  Speaker 20: a lot of people think when you're a podcaster, people
• 49:53
  Speaker 20: really don't know how I make money, Like I think
• 49:55
  Speaker 20: so many people think I have only fans when they
• 49:57
  Speaker 20: meet me.
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: Which I get it.
• 49:59
  Speaker 20: I feel like I can have to look about is
• 50:00
  Speaker 20: already out like okay, but content creation is one thing,
• 50:04
  Speaker 20: and then it's like, well, business is another businesses.
• 50:06
  Speaker 19: No, No, not only that, it's just diversifying as well
• 50:09
  Speaker 19: how you bring in money. So between Black Effect now
• 50:11
  Speaker 19: the book which Charlemagne as well, then we have Patreon,
• 50:15
  Speaker 19: then we tour, shout outs to Justin and merchandise. We
• 50:18
  Speaker 19: have five different means of income just for the podcast.
• 50:21
  Speaker 19: So even though we're not in the write ups like
• 50:24
  Speaker 19: the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,
• 50:27
  Speaker 19: our business and what horrible decisions does make seven figures
• 50:30
  Speaker 19: here we are a seven figure podcast.
• 50:32
  Speaker 6: We're not a hundred million.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: We are, but we we have seven figures like and
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: we make that yearly.
• 50:38
  Speaker 12: So I love that.
• 50:39
  Speaker 19: And then again that's just one form of income. Again,
• 50:42
  Speaker 19: she has her studio, I have my studio. We have
• 50:44
  Speaker 19: other things that we do as well outside.
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: So the Decision is a business that generates money, and
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: I love how y'all use that money to build other
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: other businesses.
• 50:51
  Speaker 20: I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.
• 50:55
  Speaker 20: Don't not to be brick and mortar, but like literally.
• 50:57
  Speaker 19: Oh yeah, shout out to you what you got into
• 51:00
  Speaker 19: more even having the studio, like dealing with an actual
• 51:03
  Speaker 19: location and staff, and I'm like, oh yeah, that ain't
• 51:06
  Speaker 19: for me.
• 51:06
  Speaker 20: Do you know the owner of the building that have
• 51:08
  Speaker 20: a SOHO? So we got three buildings, four different studios, right.
• 51:12
  Speaker 20: The SOHO dude hits me up about how someone followed
• 51:16
  Speaker 20: an insurance claim and I'm like what they were like, yeah,
• 51:17
  Speaker 20: they sold by the bathroom.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm so sorry to hear that. He
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: was like, it's good, like he has huge buildings. He's like,
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: I've already got this covered. But like, that's what's.
• 51:27
  Speaker 6: Business.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been trying to make sure it's been in
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: the studio.
• 51:30
  Speaker 18: Gotta Yeah.
• 51:34
  Speaker 19: It's crazy to me all the businesses though, all the projects,
• 51:37
  Speaker 19: everything that we do creatively, those are my babies as
• 51:40
  Speaker 19: a woman that doesn't want kids. And when people talk
• 51:42
  Speaker 19: about what legacy looks like and things, the things that
• 51:45
  Speaker 19: I'm creating are going to outlive me and my kids
• 51:49
  Speaker 19: if I had any their kids. So to me, my
• 51:51
  Speaker 19: legacy and what I'm leaving are the things and businesses
• 51:53
  Speaker 19: that I'm creating. And I think Weezy and I talk
• 51:55
  Speaker 19: about it as well. I think it's wonderful that we're
• 51:57
  Speaker 19: able to like provide salaries and pay people, like even
• 52:01
  Speaker 19: our horrible decisions team is like ten people, and then
• 52:04
  Speaker 19: she has her studio team, I have my studio and
• 52:06
  Speaker 19: it's just like it's great.
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: Well, I'm proud of y'all, man, Thank you. Thank The
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: book No Holds Bar, The Dual.
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power, will be in stores
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: June twenty fourth.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: June twenty.
• 52:18
  Speaker 21: We appreciate y'all joining us this podcast, the pre order
• 52:22
  Speaker 21: the book, and make sure you listen to us wherever
• 52:25
  Speaker 21: you listen to your favorite podcast, but also on the
• 52:27
  Speaker 21: iHeart podcast app because we are there under the Black
• 52:30
  Speaker 21: Effect Network.
• 52:31
  Speaker 19: It's Decisions Decision and the radio if you do want
• 52:35
  Speaker 19: the X rated things where we do talk more about sex.
• 52:38
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• 52:38
  Speaker 19: Did not leave, We're just behind the paywall, so join
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• 52:43
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: The whole hive is so active that when the book
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: first was announced, it was number one.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: Day when ahead and immediately word we're pre ordering their books.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: So we're really excited.
• 52:54
  Speaker 19: And of course we will be touring. We'll announce that later,
• 52:56
  Speaker 19: but you guys will be able to see us do
• 52:58
  Speaker 19: this live.
• 52:59
  Speaker 20: I know you got to go, but tell you about
• 53:02
  Speaker 20: there was a girl that's a really big fan of
• 53:04
  Speaker 20: yours at the live show we just had and she
• 53:06
  Speaker 20: was taking he I know, she's taking a picture of me,
• 53:09
  Speaker 20: and I'm like, oh, I know, you will go to
• 53:10
  Speaker 20: all his book twits.
• 53:11
  Speaker 18: Did you see him?
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: She's like, you hate Horrorhive?
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: You always here?
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: He yeah, it's the Breakfast Club.
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: Good morning.
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Damn he hog, it's the time for donkey kid.
• 53:27
  Speaker 7: I'm trying to beat donkey today.
• 53:29
  Speaker 16: No more.
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: They should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: not making these people do these.
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: Days called Donkey of the day and it really caught
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: me off guard.
• 53:36
  Speaker 6: Damn Charlamagne. Who got the Donkey of the day today, Well,
• 53:41
  Speaker 6: Jesse Larryus.
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: Donkey today goes to a fifty one year old Arizona
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: man named Aaron Morse. Now, when I was growing up,
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: Public Enemy, the Great Chuck d in Flavor Flame Drop
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: on the Clues Bombs of Public.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: Enemy, they had a record called nine one one is
• 53:53
  Speaker 4: a Joke.
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: The song was about the lack of response to emergency
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: calls in black neighborhoods. Totally understand why Public Enemy made
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: that record, but that has nothing to do with this situation.
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: Because in this situation, Aaron Morse is indeed the joke.
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: What do you mean, Uncle SHARLTA. Aaron is the joke. Well,
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: let's go to Fox and Phoenix for the report.
• 54:10
  Speaker 12: Please.
• 54:10
  Speaker 22: Seventy four year old Susan Morse was a well known artist,
• 54:14
  Speaker 22: a mother, and a great neighbor. Neighbors say Sue's late
• 54:17
  Speaker 22: husband passed away about a year ago than her son
• 54:20
  Speaker 22: is fifty one year old, Aaron Morse moved in. According
• 54:23
  Speaker 22: to court documents, Aaron called nine one one and told
• 54:26
  Speaker 22: Palice he had an argument with his mom and needed
• 54:28
  Speaker 22: a pistol to shoot her.
• 54:30
  Speaker 10: It's the Morse allegedly confessed to shooting the victim in
• 54:33
  Speaker 10: the head.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: The victims succumb to her injuries.
• 54:36
  Speaker 15: Mister Morse has a long standing history of alcoholism.
• 54:39
  Speaker 10: Mister Morse, you were arrested on the following allegation.
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: Murder in the second degree that is a Class one felony,
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: and tampering with physical evidence, which is a Class six felony.
• 54:49
  Speaker 22: Aaron Morris had his first court appearance of this morning.
• 54:52
  Speaker 22: His bail is set up five hundred thousand dollars cash
• 54:55
  Speaker 22: only man.
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: The news reports didn't even tell it the best part
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: after killing his mom. Shooting his mom in the head, right,
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: he called nine one one and said he committed a
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: hainous crime.
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: Then he called nine one one again to call the
• 55:12
  Speaker 4: whole thing off.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: After killing his mother, he called back to nineer one
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: one and said, Oh, it's okay. She's fine, she's alive.
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: She's in our pottery studio. First of all, if you
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: kill your mother, trust and believe you will be in
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: hell with vip seating, and that vip seating comes with
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: three bottles of the finest piss Hell has to offer. Okay,
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: shot your mom in the head over an argument? What
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: was the argument? That she's ready for you to move
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: out our house. She's upset with you because you haven't
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: lived up to your full potential. You are bum just
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: like your daddy. I don't know what the argument could
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: have been, but the fact it ended with your mom
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: having a bullet hole to the skull tells me everything
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: I need to know about you, Aaron. But the fact
• 55:48
  Speaker 3: he thought he could just call nine one one and
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: cancel his order. He was talking to the police like
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: he had a time machine. Doc Brown's Delorian order the
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: Times thrown for Marvel. He was talking like he could
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: just rewind things and everything was gonna be okay, No, sir,
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: that's not how nine one one works. If you think
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: you're gonna call nine one one report a haying his
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: crime and then call back and say, no, I was
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: just playing, let's call the whole thing off. Yeah, that
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: doesn't sound suspicious. Nobody is gonna come investigate that. I
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: don't even know why Aaron Morris would think that would
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: work in his favor. I know he was drunk, but
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: you know, I think this requires a game, a game
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: of guess what. Aaron Morris fifty one years old, Arizona
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: shot his mom in the head over an argument, called
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: nine one one to report.
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: The crime, then called back to say he was playing
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: just hilarious, guess what race is?
• 56:43
  Speaker 4: You said that very matter of factly, why he killed
• 56:46
  Speaker 4: his mom?
• 56:47
  Speaker 6: Okay, shot her in the head?
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, okay, I'll see where you're going. Uh
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: dj andvy. Aaron Morris fifty one years old, Arizona shot
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: his mom in the head over an argument, called nine
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: one one to report the crime, then called back to
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: say he was playing guess what race?
• 57:02
  Speaker 12: White?
• 57:02
  Speaker 4: Damn y'all saying this just like y'all just.
• 57:07
  Speaker 5: Know because he called the police that he called back
• 57:09
  Speaker 5: and be like never mind, now I'm just like joking, No,
• 57:13
  Speaker 5: it doesn't happen.
• 57:14
  Speaker 4: Well, just Lars dj MV.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: I would like both of you to know that you
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: are one hundred percent, absolutely positively correct. A look at
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: that's right, Oh yeah, very white, and he looked like
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: again that is yellowstone white. Yeah, okay, that is met
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: for breakfast, Baptist definitely for breakfast. Yes, that's right now, yes,
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: so please give Aaron Morse at the Biggest Sea hall.
• 57:48
  Speaker 6: Mm hmm, all right, all right, well thank you for that.
• 57:53
  Speaker 6: Donkey today.
• 57:56
  Speaker 9: Every just got in here.
• 58:01
  Speaker 6: The guy we are the breakfast club.
• 58:02
  Speaker 4: We got guess ability, guys.
• 58:04
  Speaker 14: What up?
• 58:06
  Speaker 12: What up? What up?
• 58:07
  Speaker 6: Smell of Chico being welcome, fellas man?
• 58:09
  Speaker 9: Whatever?
• 58:10
  Speaker 11: Man?
• 58:10
  Speaker 9: Why y'all got that freak ass picture of big Sean.
• 58:12
  Speaker 6: On the table?
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: Put it on his computer, throwing it at you.
• 58:17
  Speaker 18: Why what he was asking?
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: He wanted to know where everyone Sean Habs came from.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: And so a couple of pictures about to get a sketching. Man,
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: you about you're about to get a b BL. No,
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: don't do that, and you're already rich bro just get fat,
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: you get rid of I.
• 58:36
  Speaker 7: Don't know why everybody want to be in shape? What
• 58:38
  Speaker 7: happened to getting money and getting fat?
• 58:40
  Speaker 4: Where you want to live?
• 58:41
  Speaker 11: Though?
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: You want to you want to be alive, that's all.
• 58:43
  Speaker 11: Man.
• 58:43
  Speaker 7: Get out of here. That's literally what you're gonna do.
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: Get out of here and get had one water.
• 58:51
  Speaker 4: What y'all up here for?
• 58:52
  Speaker 11: Man?
• 58:52
  Speaker 4: I know you'll got to.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: Man like I've been treating the guess later I saw
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: the Neon clip.
• 59:09
  Speaker 7: Y'all never started streaming career, y'all already blocked.
• 59:13
  Speaker 12: Man.
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: You know Harriet Tubman? Man?
• 59:15
  Speaker 9: You know who herr.
• 59:19
  Speaker 12: Somebody did?
• 59:22
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 59:23
  Speaker 9: You listen, man, the contents falling off with y'all got
• 59:26
  Speaker 9: to interview people that time. Y'all have lost your luster.
• 59:32
  Speaker 9: And y'all had him up here, and then y'all want.
• 59:34
  Speaker 7: To we up here for.
• 59:37
  Speaker 4: That's not true.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: What happened was he he reached out to me to
• 59:40
  Speaker 3: do his stream and then and he kept asking to
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: come up here because he wanted to announce that he
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: was leaving kick.
• 59:48
  Speaker 7: Twitch.
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, we've had him scream up here before,
• 59:50
  Speaker 3: DJ been up here, so why not he didn't even
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: announce that.
• 59:57
  Speaker 4: I mean, we've been a few people come up im
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 4: about to say, we had a.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: Big dank up here, the Detroit Rapper, you know, big dang, the.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 9: One that had that last Yeah, you know what, man,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 9: Look man, we don't understand now you turn it back,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 9: you man, you ain't got that glitter on the top
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 9: of here.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 7: And now I don't know what that is.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: What what you did to your head?
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 9: And why is it glittering?
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 4: Its glittering.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 9: He's going through menopause like the church and man going
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 9: through menopause.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 6: Man, because they on to I was about.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 18: You said, you'll like we just showed up.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: First of all, we love having y'all. Let's talk that.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 7: That's movie.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 14: In d C.
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  Speaker 4: Be in DC always late.
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  Speaker 12: Man.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 9: You know y'all come up here.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: You know that he always come.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 7: Nah on his way, he on his way.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 9: Man, y'all had that monsoon up here the other day.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 7: We all almost didn't get it.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 9: Y'all had in the arms of the angel. Y'all was
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 9: struggling up here the other day.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: How do y'all like? Y'all y'all feel like being on
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 4: the road.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 9: Being on the road is the blessing. Like I always
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 9: tell people, you can't complain about the blessings God give you,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 9: because if you didn't have it, that's what you would
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 9: be asking for. You would be asking to be on
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 9: the road all the time. So gotta love it because
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 9: you get to do what you love and you get
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 9: paid for it. It's a beautiful thing.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: How do you want.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 5: Material when you're always on the road, like y'all always out,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 5: whether it's together, whether it's a part, whether it's wilding out,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: whether you like y'all always on the road.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 6: So how do y'all work on material?
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 9: I mean, because you always on the road, you see things,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 9: You see different things, you see different perspectives when you
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 9: go to different cities. You know, you perform everywhere. Everywhere
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 9: you go, they got different cultures and different ways of
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 9: doing things. So you get to visualize all of that
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 9: and it goes into your stage show because when you're
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 9: performing for people, they want to hear your perspective on
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 9: their everyday life and you get to see that when
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 9: you're on the road. So that's the best part about it.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: You are looking like Chico Lean man.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 9: Yeah, Man, I found out I had high bl blood pressure.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 9: I had to change my change my diet around. I
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 9: went to the doctor. They told me I had high
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 9: blood pressure. I was like, whatever, I don't cant nothing
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 9: about hoigh blood pressure. Went back to the doctor and
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 9: another doctor came in. Like when that second police officer coming,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 9: you know you're going to jail. That's how the black
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 9: man came. He was like, brother, I don't think they
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 9: did a good enough job of explaining to you the
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 9: effects of how blood pressure is the biggest killer of
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 9: black men, heart attacks, all that type of I'm like, well,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 9: what are the effects he said, the rectile dysfunction. I
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 9: was like, what I gotta change?
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 7: I won't man.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 9: As soon as he said that's all I needed to hear,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 9: I'm like, nah, I am too young for that. But yeah,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 9: I had to change a lot of stuff around. Man,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 9: can't eat chicken, can't eat bread, all that type of stuff.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 9: And that was one of the most hardest transitions. I
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 9: tell people now that sugar is the worst drug in
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 9: the world, because don't nobody stop you when you got it.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 9: You know, you can just have it. Yeah, you can
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 9: just have a plate full of sugar. Everybody be cool.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 9: Shut one crack rocker.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 7: What's wrong? You know what I'm saying?
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 9: What happened for you know what I'm saying the second hand,
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 9: don't do that.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but try to steal you out here.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 9: I know, yeah, we you know Envy light skin. He's
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 9: been dressing like this. He's been dressing like this since
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 9: the eighties. He wanted to be in, Uh, what's the
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 9: Ready for the World. I don't know that NVY audition
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 9: for Ready for the World and they make it. But yeah, man,
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 9: it's I feel better though. That's the best part about it.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 9: I feel so much better because once I made that
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 9: transition that you look at yourself and you don't really
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 9: see it till you look at old pictures and be like, yeah, damn,
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 9: nigga was built bad. But you know what I mean,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 9: the transition. I recommend all black men to go get
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 9: their blood pressure check, man, because it's very, very important,
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 9: and you'll end up walking around with one Jordan on
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 9: if you don't.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 4: Man, listen, blood spress me so bad.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: When I seen them lose all that weight, I just
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: started losing weight too. I was like, hey, man, but
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, you knowing, I'm about to do.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: Some of that going to the doctor. Color Yeah, okay,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 4: I got insurance. That's what you wanted to hear, yes,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: I got it, because, man, you get to a certain age.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: I'm forty seven.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: Now you got to go get everything checked because when
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: you start to realize what leads the heart attacks and
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: what leads the strokes, high blood pressure, the high left throw,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: stuff we ain't never thought about.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 4: You go to the doctor like what does that mean?
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: Then they explain it to you. It's like, oh, I
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 4: got to get right.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, I mean you definitely got right. You got
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 9: right a long time ago. Once you got that stuff
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 9: done in your skin, I know it's gonna be good,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 9: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I know he got
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 9: everything taking off man.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you got everything taking off.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 12: You don't even know that.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: Yeah, all that, you know, he.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: Got rid of all you the first one ever, like
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: mister Terrific from Superman.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean, he'd be he's sleep
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: with bobby pins pulling his skin back.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 9: When you go to sleep at night, he just be
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 9: in the bed straight up like this somebody. So you know,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 9: taking care of yourself is is very important.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 12: Man.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 9: And like I said, black men, for some reason, we
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 9: don't like to go to the doctor. And niggas want
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 9: to keep drinking Gingerls and.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 7: I think most black men do is walk to the store.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 9: Yeah, that's it.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 7: Just walk to the store.
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  Speaker 11: That's all.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: That's it. You gotta the prostage check though.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 9: All right, man, see there, you're freaky as go. Hey man,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 9: why you come on, man, it's so much that you
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 9: could have went to before that, you know what I mean,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 9: get them prostage check. Oh it's such a beautiful experience.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 9: Come on, man, you don't get your proces check out? No, no, no,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 9: not yet?
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 7: Have you yes? You said that, you know, said.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 4: Yes yes.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 7: Twice? Yeah, was the first one.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 12: Trial run.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 18: I keep getting.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 9: Yeah, he got his check as you gotta trial run
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 9: prostage check. I'm gonna let you do it for I
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 9: venture the doctor to warm myself up.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 7: The doctor telling look, we don't got to do this
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 7: every time you come.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: What now, I want to make sure I'm okay.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 7: I gotta be healthy.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 3: Uh when you up to be about forty three, forty four,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 3: if you got a history of it in your family,
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: supposed to go get it checked.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 9: I know they said you got to, but you know
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 9: I ain't got there yet.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 4: No, you got to, Chico, you got to. You can't
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 4: lose all Why you did.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 9: I mean, okay, I got you all right? One day
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 9: I will and I'm not coming up here to talk
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 9: to y'all freaking about it.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: They put you to sleep, they give you a drug,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: and the.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 9: Time they put you to sleep, you ain't get the
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 9: regular Joe.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 18: No, that wasn't a regular one.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 9: They sexually assaulted you. They got you on camera.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 7: You went to a freak off.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: There wasn't no love you and about the.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: Same thing to go to the next one.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 12: Man, Man, what's your.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 7: Man on the table?
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: But this stommach y'all ain't got nothing else yo.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 19: Do y'all ever have like problems making decisions? Because it
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 19: is three y'all right, and say, if one of y'all
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 19: don't want to do something, how many of y'all have
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 19: to say, like no, oh, yes, for y'all to like
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 19: collectively agree or disagree on something.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: It ain't a whole lot of things we gotta collectively
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: agree on. That's the best part about it. So sometimes
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: we show up with two wrong answers in the right one.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: And sometimes we have things where people just make their
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: own decision, like, hey, brou do what you want to do,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: but you got mon full support it.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 7: Ain't a whole lot of things. We don't clash on nothing.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 12: Really.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: We don't like the same type of women, we don't
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: hang out at the same type of place. It's just
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: we got a dope bond where it's like we just brothers.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 9: We're brothers, and it's just it's literally family, you know
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 9: what I'm saying. You know the things you go through
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 9: with your family. Whatever the conversation is, it's always in house,
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 9: and we always take care of it. It's never public,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 9: you know, never for public consumption, and that's what makes
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 9: things easier. So when we got to make those decisions,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 9: it's always a collective bargaining agreement and we you know,
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 9: whatever whichever way it go, we all understand it's all
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 9: done out of love. So it make it easy, you
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 9: know what I'm saying. And it's that's what makes us special.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 9: Because you know you do comedy, is you just a
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 9: one man sport? You on the microphone? So what we do,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 9: we showed it is possible to be able to have
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 9: that type of camaraderie and still get the same product
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 9: and the same result even though we're doing it in
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 9: a different way.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 3: And y'all trust each other's an interview DC was doing,
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: and he was just talking about Los.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 4: Being the old g Yeah, without question, being the lead.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 4: I think I think the question who's the leading? Yeah,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: he is the leading. I heard you say that to man,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 4: you how hard that is for men to do?
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 9: No, not for us, because you got to think about
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 9: the place that we came from, Like we all started
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 9: with nothing. Every time we come to New York, me
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 9: and Los had this conversation about how he was walking
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 9: around sending fifty dollars back home Western Union and washing
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 9: clothes in the basement of the hotel. And when you
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 9: have that type of vision, that's all you have is
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 9: the vision at at certain points, and he always had
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 9: that vision to see past wherever we were at in
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 9: the moment, you know.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: And the biggest thing for me too, I think it's
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: because we was all broke together at some point, you
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And it was like we had
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: those conversations though late night, sitting around bro and I
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: get some bread, We're gonna, Hey, we're gonna do this
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: for real.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 7: That's what you on, I bet, And then it actually happened.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 7: So that was that was one of those things that
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 7: really formed the bond.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 4: Too.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 7: Yeah, he don't.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 9: Like I say, he always had the vision. He was
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 9: one of the ones that saw when we were on
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 9: wilding out as great as an opportunity that was for
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 9: all of us. He was always the one like, man, look,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 9: we gotta look past this, we gotta do this, we
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 9: gotta do that, we gotta do this. And I say
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 9: that because he's the elder. He went through certain trenches
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 9: that men fly didn't have to go there, didn't really
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 9: exist once we got in the game.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 11: I was.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 9: I started in eight and we was the you know,
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 9: the last beacon of Dago.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 18: Look at his face.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 9: Yeah, we was fly. We was just talking about just
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 9: the vision that Los had and division that Los had
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 9: just when we first were starting out to see past
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 9: the moments that we were at and you know, have
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 9: the vision to understand that this was the direction to
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 9: go in. You know what I'm saying, Oh yeah, for sure,
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 9: man O g I.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 3: Always had the vision, you did, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 3: Like one.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 4: Exactly what you were talking.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 7: I mean, went Guccio, I ain't know.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 9: You wouldn't have bought none either.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 12: The time.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 9: Only you're talking about Yeah, we don't care nothing about that.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 9: You spend thirty thousand dollars a week on skincare.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 18: Routine over Yeah, that coming along, you don't look.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: Like he looked like one that's been sitting on the
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: table for years. That's what he used to look like
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: all the way.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: You know, Oh GJ always had the vision you dig.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 23: You know what I'm saying Like that, I think that
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 23: what it comes down to, Like if you got something
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 23: going on and you know you need help, you feel
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 23: what I'm saying.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 6: And then not all of that the dudes you asking
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 6: for help from they need help.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 9: You fear me.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 6: It's a it's a group collective and I think that's
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 6: what you know what I'm saying.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 23: Us as black folks don't do together, bro, won't come
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 23: together and ask for help, like asker for help thinking like.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 6: You be little in yourself or you're like I don't
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 6: need it.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 11: Bro.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 4: We eat each other, bro, and at the end of
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 4: the day, we can grow together.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 12: Bro.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 23: That's that's the only way we can go to the
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 23: next step. Quicker, you know what I'm saying without you
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 23: trying to do it by yourself. I mean, we all
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 23: can do things by ourself, but you see, as a collective,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 23: when we do things together. So it's like effortlessly you
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 23: feel what I'm saying.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 3: So what's been the biggest lesson in ownership? Y'all had
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 3: to learn the hard way.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 6: Don't want to their own?
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 9: Yeah, because you take away the negotiation power from people.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 9: When you own your product, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 9: People can't come and give you, you know, give you
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 9: terms and conditions that you have to adhere to because
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 9: you need them, you know what I'm saying. And a
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 9: lot of times in this industry, people are especially the
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 9: powers that be, they used to you being you know,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 9: in need, you know what I'm saying, And they used
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 9: to being able to throw anything at you and you'll
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 9: take it because you don't know no better. But when
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 9: you own it, it gives you a level of freedom
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 9: that you don't have to worry about certain types of
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 9: things happening in your negotiations or dealing with certain types
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 9: of people, and being able to walk away from money.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 9: Everybody thinks that the opportunity is attached to a dollar,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 9: but a lot of times it's not. But you're not
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 9: able to see that. If you got to get the dollar,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 9: you know what I'm.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: Saying, they got to handle you way different when they
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: know you don't need it, Like when you said a
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: matter of the money.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 7: Sometime you're like no, I'm cool. Then they be like, well,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 7: why why do what you want? Nothing? I just I don't.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 7: I don't see what you see? What you what you
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 7: need me for?
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: What you think where we're going.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 7: It's way different when you when you can say no sometimes.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 23: And sometimes they also think that somebody's already behind you already,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 23: you know what I'm saying, Like they just swore we
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 23: always worked for somebody since day one, not knowing that
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 23: we start this from the ground up.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 4: Trying to figure it out.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 23: And I think that it's a difference between when you
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 23: got people that's putting the money behind and then we
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 23: used our own money. You see what I'm saying, Like
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 23: we can't mess up with nobody else money. We don't
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 23: messed up a lot of our money, you know what
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 23: I mean? But I think that's the growing pain. That's
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 23: what comes with understanding, Like you know what, the mistakes
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 23: ain't mistakes to us. The mistakes are learning lessons. So
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 23: every mistake we had, we just figured like, oh you
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 23: know what, let you do something different then versus we
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 23: got to answer to somebody, but like, well, why that
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 23: didn't work then when we don't.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: See the vision all right?
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 6: Season two counsels like, man, we've been doing this in
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 6: twenty fifteen.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we took our bumps with our own money, so
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: then when we did get some of their money, we
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: had already went through the errors and it worked out.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 9: Yeah, it's a lot less pressure not having to recoup
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 9: somebody else's bread, so.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 7: You can get paid first. When you use your own bread,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 7: you got to pay nobody back.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 5: I was wondering, you know, you guys haveroaked anybody anytime, anywhere,
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 5: any place. It depends who got the most sensitive when
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 5: it came to it depends for real DC.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it depends.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 23: See I use that the defense mechanism. It ain't just
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 23: like I'm just waking up like to get somebody nerve today. No,
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 23: you're gonna say something to me. I got something back,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 23: like this is my twin brother. This has always been
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 23: my twin brother since.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: The day of time.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 6: But it's just like my uncle.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: What I now become your uncle? My uncle ever before?
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 4: I think when you got married, that's when yeah you got.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 9: Yeah she married she I'm sad man.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 7: Look at the rings.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 12: She got the ring.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 7: She married.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 14: You know what I mean?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 9: She she got married. She didn't invite none of us
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 9: to the ceremony.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: I tell you that quick.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 18: It was quick.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 7: You don't even know.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 9: She just woke up.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 6: It's still But did anybody get super duper scentitive?
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 5: He was like, let's leave alone. Did that ever happen? Well, well,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 5: if you know, when you when you roast to somebody,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 5: whether it was in.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 7: Personal, get the most, you.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 9: Know, but you don't do it in front of us, you.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: And the Zilia Banks, not me.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you've been name. You know you gonna be mad.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: It's because like your voice, like did you figure high picture?
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 4: When you all come around, like, Yo, what do you want?
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 9: This sounds like a Nintendo Week character DJ, and you want.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 6: I ain't messing with y'all. Matter fact, I'm on to
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 6: h y'all.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 3: When you launched the podcast and you say you don't
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 3: want to get you going to get DC to do
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 3: the podcast? Did you see this turning into the empire
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 3: is becoming?
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why if you go back to the early
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: episode when it was just us in the studio with
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: me and Chico and DC, and then we always would say,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: hey man, this is who the podcast for, this for
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: the podcast who. This podcast right here is for white
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: women with black kids who don't know how to do
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: their health or you know this this for everybody whoever
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: had to use Vassiline's grease.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 7: You feel so that that's why we that's how we
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 7: did this.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I always felt like I still feel like
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: this is just the beginning, Like we ain't did half
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: the stuff that we know.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 7: We're about the dude, we got some big stuff coming up.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 9: I'll tell you who the podcast not for. We got
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 9: to get put to sleep to get their prostat.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: Had to sleep game.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 6: You couldn't watch the games.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 12: What happened?
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 2: You were like, you know what that not.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 12: How it goes?
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah, call it that the fingers to.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 6: Prostate okay, and that last three seconds?
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 7: How many times you.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: Got your process check?
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 7: He like it?
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 4: He go ahead.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: Week he went for a prosecting me.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 6: It was like, turn around the time I got it,
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 6: you gotta prosect me.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 4: I was I went for the consultation.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 3: And what they do when you got to turn to
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 3: a profet exams go back, you want to go get
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: something clip and you were like, you know what, I
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 3: went for the consultation and you know, after they look
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: at you and all that, and the guy was just like, yo,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 3: what what you have to get butt naked?
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 14: What?
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 5: So they checked his prostate and during that exam, during
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 5: the consultation, I've never heard that.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 6: In my life either not going to get the full
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 6: that procedure.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 7: You want to get this man?
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 9: What made you want to want to get You already
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 9: had all the kids and all that, Like I wanted.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 4: Me to get one. Don't want to more?
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: Ma, you just cut your man? Yeah, no, be the man,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: be the man at the household.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 9: Crazy, tell your nuts down. The body got time for this.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 6: You a poodle.
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 5: I want the different What the difference between the state
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 5: and the colors? They put you to sleep and they
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 5: put a camera up to make sure that that damn
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 5: me the same colon can make your things out. And
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 5: that's crazy because a lot of men have to go
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 5: through that. You going, I'm nervous, but you're going though.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 6: I don't even like the dodo.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 2: Why you don't like to do cause I ain't got
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: time to be going up.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 6: I'm like, man, I wish I could just put my
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 6: pair rank mego.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 4: Self cleaning that.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna get one little with you, man I man,
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 3: I got that's funny.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: Waving your.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 3: You know what is it like watching the poor minds?
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 12: Man?
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 23: Beautiful great, beautiful, Just saying, first of all, just seeing
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 23: black women flourish. Let's just let's just take a pause
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 23: for that. Yeah, without question, just black women flourish and
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 23: and having kings behind them. That's you know what I'm saying,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 23: that's supportant and don't look at them as sexual, you
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 23: know what I'm saying, Like there's a family vibe.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 4: You do know what I'm saying, Like we ain't got
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 4: time for all that.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 23: Like sometimes me and we have to understand that we
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 23: need to have relationships with women without being.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 9: Sex creating a safe space, creating a safe space to
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 9: come and be secure, without having to feel like they
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 9: subjected to all the things that come with the stigmas
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 9: of being a woman, especially a black woman in this industry,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 9: you know what I mean. We always try to make
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 9: sure that our presence makes our women feel comfortable and safe,
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 9: that they can be themselves and not have to worry
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 9: about getting judged or you know, being looked at as objects,
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 9: you know what I'm saying, And be able to really
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 9: project their talents out the right way. And that's something
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 9: that we find really important because talking to you know,
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 9: our uncle and everything, like she you know, she would
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 9: let us know that, you know, the fights that she
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 9: We've been around her for years, like, and she's had
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 9: to push through so much just because of the type
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 9: of person that she is, and she ain't going for
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 9: you know what I'm saying. So that makes it very
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 9: difficult for black women in this industry. So we want
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 9: to create an environment where we you know, you don't
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 9: have to worry about none of that coming over here.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 7: You're going whatever it is you do.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 9: That's what we're looking at you to do nothing else.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: They're just as dope as they ever were, Like they
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: didn't have to get dope. Like I went and did
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: the podcast with them a long time ago at Trea's house.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: They were just in the living room just you know,
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: sipping wine, talking and I was like, y'all got something,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: And I know that y'all some attractive women. People are
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: gonna want to hear y'all opinion on certain stuff and
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: just to.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 7: See where they took it. It's crazy to money, money everybody.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 7: That's crazy thing about what we said the family environment.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: Bro, we want to be around talent that we respect
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: because we know that these people have something different than
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: just you know what I mean than just being our friends.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 7: We respect the talent that they had.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: We'd love to see money Bag go on stage or
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: Clayton English get to talking you know, deep conspiracy theories
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: and then you know broken play and poor Mind.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 7: So it's like, these are the things that we want
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 7: around us.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: People that we can have fun with, people that we
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: can kick it, and we know once they can get
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: our attention because we kind of tough critics.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 9: We know that the master is gonna mess with it.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 9: And man, quick question for y'all. Who painted styles P
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 9: is Orlando Brown?
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 4: You know that right there?
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 9: Well that's done Rowland. Yeah, we definitely look like us,
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 9: but that's that's Orlando Brown. That ain't styles P right there?
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 4: Remember we always looking at in that picture.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 6: Uh happened my man from South Africa?
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 4: Uh yeah, he was like America.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 9: For eighty five South So we appreciate Oho.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: We got two things announced. Okay, okay, this is breaking.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, bro, we just got the movie deal
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: with Came Heart.
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  Speaker 3: Eighty five.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: Stop playing man, We'll get to the new tour, spind
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  Speaker 1: the Block, Spind the Block, eighty five South show dot com.
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  Speaker 7: Or you can go to Beating Me in Doctor Yeah.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 9: Right here, you know Blake and and you know what
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 9: I mean.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 7: Yeah, they're black.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 19: Okay, Yeah, casting for this dead In what you mean
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 19: that's talking. I'm talking about eighty five South, The dead End.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 12: The movie, the movie.
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 9: Come on, man, you don't have to audition.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 12: Come on you it is what you care.
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 9: Everything in the movie.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 7: You know what I mean, we forgot it.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 9: We don't even sorry, they didn't just handed me handing
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 9: me the dates. So we were starting off in Detroit.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 9: What up though Detroit?
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 7: Sometime?
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 9: Six were in Detroit, the seventh Indianapolis. Then were in Columbia, Greensboro, Philly, Fairfax, Memphis,
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 9: and Nashville, I mean Dallas, Houston, Hampton, Charlotte, Birmingham, New Orleans, Chicago, Cincinnati,
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 9: and Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: Got graduated college.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 4: On your team for money, money and money. With the website,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 4: hey Man, like.
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  Speaker 1: Dot com eighty five on the app store, you can
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  Speaker 1: go to Big Men Shows dot com and get tickets. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: you can hear the Instagram page. You can get tickets
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  Speaker 7: He getting away.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 6: Concert a days in a row in that level shot.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 6: It was down Friday, Saturday, Sunday and the money who
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 6: the hell concert?
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: A lot of people bought outfits for that concert and
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: they don't have nowhere else to wear today.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 18: Bring your fans and all that.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 23: And for those who said, why we ain't coming to
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 23: this city, We're coming to a city that is.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 2: Drivable, so can't drive there. We just can't come to
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 2: that specific city.
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 9: So all the season we're.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: Not going to We're going on the second leg. Right,
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: we're going again for show for sure. I love that
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: spend the block and then we might do one called
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  Speaker 1: the block was spent naking hood and say the block
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  Speaker 1: was spunk. That's one of my favorite words.
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  Speaker 12: That ain't work.
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 9: You never heard why spot money?
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: But just put that money on its eighty five self show.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 23: You ain't got talk like that, regular, man, I'm getting
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 23: done man talk regular.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 5: It's Steady South show, breakfast club. That Charla Man, you
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 5: got a positive note?
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  Speaker 20: I do.
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  Speaker 12: Man.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 3: I just want to tell y'all man, give all praises
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 3: due to God all the time.
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 4: Please thank God for it all. Man, all praises due
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 4: to God and his son Jesus Christ.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 3: And I want you to be so busy loving God
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 3: and loving others and loving your life.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 4: That you have no time for regret, worry, fear or trauma.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 3: Have a great day, breakfast club you don't finish for
• 1:24:43
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