Latest / Wired To Hunt Podcast / Ep. 670: Foundations - We Are All Hunting Hypocrites, So Be Nice
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome to the Wired to Hunt Foundation's podcast, your guide
- 0:05Speaker 1: to the fundamentals of better dear hunting. Present it by
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- 0:11Speaker 1: saddle or blind. First Light, Go Farther, Stay Longer, and
- 0:16Speaker 1: now your host Tony Peterson.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Hey, everyone, welcome to the Wire to Hunt Foundations podcast,
- 0:21Speaker 2: which is brought to you by First Light. I'm your host,
- 0:23Speaker 2: Tony Peterson, and today's show is dedicated to a reality
- 0:27Speaker 2: that a lot of us probably don't want to face,
- 0:29Speaker 2: which is that we are all hypocrites when it comes
- 0:31Speaker 2: to hunting. Let's face it, we're all pretty biased toward ourselves.
- 0:45Speaker 2: It's not real hard to overlook our own greed and
- 0:49Speaker 2: our own securities and well a lot of the flaws
- 0:52Speaker 2: we all bring to the table. And if you're not married,
- 0:54Speaker 2: how are you going to know about them? Who is
- 0:55Speaker 2: going to point them out to you every day until
- 0:58Speaker 2: you die? We are all hypocrites, and it's okay. It's
- 1:01Speaker 2: how we treat each other it really matters, and that's
- 1:03Speaker 2: what this show is all about. My wife and I
- 1:16Speaker 2: coach are eleven year old girls in softball. The league
- 1:19Speaker 2: they play in is all girls who are either going
- 1:22Speaker 2: into sixth grade or fifth It's a slow pitch player
- 1:26Speaker 2: pitch league, so as you can imagine, the games are
- 1:29Speaker 2: pretty terrible. The rule for player pitchers is that if
- 1:33Speaker 2: they walk three batters in any inning, it's time for
- 1:36Speaker 2: a coach to tag in and pitch for them. If
- 1:39Speaker 2: they didn't have that rule, the games would last forever
- 1:41Speaker 2: and the scores would be I don't know, ten thousand
- 1:43Speaker 2: to ten thousand after four hundred ninety seven innings of play.
- 1:47Speaker 2: What's weird about the coach pitch situation is that most
- 1:51Speaker 2: of the coaches are terrified to pitch. It's like, I
- 1:54Speaker 2: don't know, kind of like a public speaking engagement almost,
- 1:57Speaker 2: so most of them will not do it. Now, I've
- 2:00Speaker 2: been speaking in public long enough to know that I
- 2:03Speaker 2: don't have a ton of shame left, so I usually
- 2:05Speaker 2: do it, and you know what, occasionally I almost get
- 2:09Speaker 2: divorced over it. My wife absolutely will not pitch, and
- 2:13Speaker 2: if you ask her why, you're not going to get
- 2:15Speaker 2: a straight answer. But we all know why. So I
- 2:18Speaker 2: do it. And the truth is I do a pretty
- 2:20Speaker 2: good job now. I'm not being cocky there either. I
- 2:24Speaker 2: pitched to my daughters all the time and I've pitched
- 2:27Speaker 2: in this league for a few years. It's not terribly
- 2:30Speaker 2: difficult to underhand a slow softball over the plate, even
- 2:33Speaker 2: when the strike zone varies so much because some of
- 2:35Speaker 2: the players are tiny. What sucks is most of the
- 2:39Speaker 2: girls aren't very good at hitting, and by that I'm
- 2:42Speaker 2: being very very charitable. Even our best hitters strike out often,
- 2:47Speaker 2: and our worst hitters would probably strike out trying to
- 2:50Speaker 2: bat off a tee. What makes me look good is
- 2:53Speaker 2: when they hit. What makes me look bad is when
- 2:57Speaker 2: they whiff. It doesn't matter if I throw perfect pitches.
- 3:01Speaker 2: They whiff a lot. My wife, who apparently doesn't realize
- 3:05Speaker 2: how popular I think i'd be on Tinder if I
- 3:07Speaker 2: were to fire up a fresh profile, often comments on
- 3:10Speaker 2: how bad my pitching is. But it's not and from
- 3:14Speaker 2: the dugout it's pretty tough to tell just where the
- 3:16Speaker 2: pitches go. That doesn't stop her from telling me she
- 3:19Speaker 2: thinks I should do a better job, a job I'll
- 3:22Speaker 2: remind all you dear listeners that is one she will
- 3:25Speaker 2: not do. It drives me crazy, almost as crazy as
- 3:30Speaker 2: a recent episode of the podcast I put out about
- 3:32Speaker 2: small water holes and how making one might help you
- 3:35Speaker 2: kill some deer. I had a fellow who I've never
- 3:38Speaker 2: met but who's loosely connected to the hunting industry call
- 3:41Speaker 2: me out on it for being bad advice. His reasoning
- 3:44Speaker 2: was that in CWD hot zones, a water hole could
- 3:47Speaker 2: cause the disease to spread. He even supported his email
- 3:51Speaker 2: with quotes from three fellows who also work in the
- 3:53Speaker 2: hunting industry, and to his credit, he said he didn't
- 3:56Speaker 2: listen to the episode, and I got the impression none
- 3:59Speaker 2: of them did. And also to his credit, he's right
- 4:02Speaker 2: on one count. If you're in a CWD heavy area, you
- 4:05Speaker 2: probably shouldn't have followed my advice. I didn't say that
- 4:08Speaker 2: in the podcast, and I should have listen. Guys. I'm
- 4:11Speaker 2: a good softball pitcher, but not really good at giving
- 4:13Speaker 2: hunting advice. Sometimes you live and learn now, As you
- 4:17Speaker 2: can imagine. When he called me out, complete with support
- 4:19Speaker 2: from several guys who also didn't listen to the podcast,
- 4:22Speaker 2: I got defensive. I noticed, not surprisingly, that all of
- 4:27Speaker 2: them own their own land, all of them have pretty
- 4:29Speaker 2: big chunks of ground to manage. And while they told
- 4:31Speaker 2: me that putting water out is unnecessary because deer have
- 4:34Speaker 2: survived for thousands of years without our help, and that
- 4:37Speaker 2: they can get water naturally. They failed to address the
- 4:40Speaker 2: reality that they are all four kill plots. Some of
- 4:44Speaker 2: them have written articles about kill plots. They clearly don't
- 4:46Speaker 2: mind putting something out for the deer that the deer
- 4:48Speaker 2: don't need in an effort to artificially concentrate them. And
- 4:52Speaker 2: we know CWD prions can live in the soil and
- 4:54Speaker 2: eventually end up in plants the deer eat, but none
- 4:57Speaker 2: of them cared about that for some reason. Now I
- 5:00Speaker 2: did mention that fact, but none of them responded. I
- 5:03Speaker 2: didn't mention the fact that while it's fun to view
- 5:06Speaker 2: the entire world of white tails through our own experiences,
- 5:09Speaker 2: I don't have that luxury. I have to try to
- 5:12Speaker 2: think about people who live all over the country who
- 5:14Speaker 2: hunt white tails, many of whom don't own large tracks
- 5:17Speaker 2: of land that they can manage. In other words, those
- 5:21Speaker 2: guys are hypocrites, and so are you, and so am I.
- 5:25Speaker 2: I've mentioned this before, but I have this nasty habit
- 5:29Speaker 2: of trying to find some advantage someone might have who
- 5:31Speaker 2: either kills a giant buck or who has a track
- 5:34Speaker 2: record of getting it done. The exercise, which comes way
- 5:38Speaker 2: too naturally just allows me to feel a little bit
- 5:41Speaker 2: better about myself. But it's an ugly trait and it
- 5:44Speaker 2: makes me a hypocrite, just like it does when I
- 5:47Speaker 2: see someone pose with a dead buck and a crossboard
- 5:49Speaker 2: or a rifle. It's very very easy for me to think, well, sure,
- 5:55Speaker 2: anyone can kill a buck with a weapon like that,
- 5:58Speaker 2: that's an awful big crutch. YadA YadA. Now you take
- 6:02Speaker 2: some stick bow hunter and have him tell me to
- 6:05Speaker 2: take the training wheels off of my bow because I
- 6:07Speaker 2: use a compound, and I'm all like, hey, man, go
- 6:10Speaker 2: kick rocks in the street. You lead us prick. You
- 6:13Speaker 2: see how that works. Hypocrisy is rampant in human nature,
- 6:18Speaker 2: and it's probably more prevalent in an ego centric type
- 6:21Speaker 2: of activity like hunting than it is in some of
- 6:24Speaker 2: the things in life that we're just less passionate about.
- 6:27Speaker 2: But it is everywhere. Let me give you another example.
- 6:30Speaker 2: If you ever visit hunting forums, you'll see hypocrisy at
- 6:34Speaker 2: a level that's almost laughable. I actually like hunting forums,
- 6:38Speaker 2: even though I don't participate in them much because I
- 6:40Speaker 2: have to talk to enough people every day that I
- 6:42Speaker 2: really don't want to communicate with. But those hunting forums
- 6:46Speaker 2: serve a pretty damn good purpose. Generally, if you have
- 6:49Speaker 2: a question about broadhead choice, or the durability of some
- 6:52Speaker 2: kind of clothing, or how to camp in grizzly country,
- 6:54Speaker 2: and on and on, you can usually find a localized,
- 6:57Speaker 2: experienced community on hunting forums. And while you might need
- 7:00Speaker 2: to filter out some of the folks who aren't really
- 7:02Speaker 2: qualified to give advice, you'll find plenty who are. That's
- 7:06Speaker 2: great in my opinion. But you'll also see that a
- 7:09Speaker 2: lot of these forums are dominated by about fifty posters,
- 7:12Speaker 2: and the threads often veer in the same predictable direction
- 7:15Speaker 2: over time. There's one forum that is primarily focused on
- 7:19Speaker 2: Western hunting, which is definitely one of those The cause
- 7:22Speaker 2: de jure is shitting on non residents and lately hunting
- 7:26Speaker 2: influencers for ruining all the hunting out West. Often, much
- 7:31Speaker 2: to my delight, these guys will point out that influencers
- 7:34Speaker 2: who are making millions of dollars are the root cause. Now,
- 7:37Speaker 2: if they'd listen to me, which they probably won't, I'd
- 7:40Speaker 2: explain to them that if you run into one of
- 7:42Speaker 2: the three hunting influencers who's actually making millions, it's going
- 7:45Speaker 2: to be on a ranch where the cost of an
- 7:47Speaker 2: ELK is twenty five thousand dollars, it's probably not going
- 7:50Speaker 2: to be on public dirt in their favor over the
- 7:52Speaker 2: counter unit in Colorado. Anyway, the common refrain is that
- 7:57Speaker 2: hunter's participating in social media, particularly with kill photos, are
- 8:02Speaker 2: ruining all hunting. Now that leads to the commercialization of hunting,
- 8:06Speaker 2: and how the whole thing is terrible and needs to stop.
- 8:09Speaker 2: And you might be nodding your head and saying, preach it,
- 8:11Speaker 2: my Western brothers, But the problem is that forum is
- 8:17Speaker 2: covered in bannered ads, and I mean covered in them.
- 8:22Speaker 2: You can also read all kinds of reviews on high
- 8:24Speaker 2: end gear, which, if you know anything about that world,
- 8:27Speaker 2: you know how those reviews come to be. Now, I'm
- 8:30Speaker 2: not saying this is specific to that forum or any forum,
- 8:33Speaker 2: but generally the gear tends to be painted in a
- 8:36Speaker 2: pretty positive light, and there are very compelling reasons for
- 8:40Speaker 2: such a rosy picture to be out there. Anyway, every
- 8:45Speaker 2: once in a while, someone will point this reality out
- 8:47Speaker 2: to the posters, and they'll immediately find ways to show
- 8:51Speaker 2: that their favorite hunting forum isn't nearly as damaging as
- 8:55Speaker 2: this site or that site or this person or that
- 8:57Speaker 2: personality or whatever. They hate the commercialization of hunting, except
- 9:03Speaker 2: they don't understand that the spot they are bitching about
- 9:06Speaker 2: is commercializing hunting. They also don't know, but I do
- 9:11Speaker 2: that advertisers have a lot of say in the direction
- 9:14Speaker 2: of the content in the forums and the articles in
- 9:17Speaker 2: the video is created by the owners. I once had
- 9:19Speaker 2: an illuminating conversation with a woman who worked for a
- 9:22Speaker 2: major bowl manufacturer, and I asked her about this as
- 9:25Speaker 2: we mowed down on some PF changs for lunch at
- 9:27Speaker 2: ATA show one time, and she said, the whole reason
- 9:30Speaker 2: we advertise with some forums is so we have a
- 9:32Speaker 2: say in the content and shut down negativity if it
- 9:35Speaker 2: pops up. We are all hypocrites. We are all, nearly
- 9:40Speaker 2: to a man and woman, quick to point out the
- 9:42Speaker 2: dangers of the anti hunting crowd. They want to take
- 9:45Speaker 2: away our rights and our opportunities in our way our life.
- 9:48Speaker 2: They are the enemy, and we must form a united
- 9:52Speaker 2: front against them. Fair enough, but I promise you that
- 9:56Speaker 2: you'll lose far more hunting opportunities in the next decade
- 9:58Speaker 2: to your fellow hunters than you will the vegan cat crowd.
- 10:01Speaker 2: With peta bumper stickers on their electric cars. We are
- 10:05Speaker 2: all hypocrites. I'll give you another example. I've had permission
- 10:10Speaker 2: to hunt a farm in southeastern Minnesota for a long time.
- 10:14Speaker 2: You've heard me mention this place many, many times. I
- 10:18Speaker 2: love the place, even if the hunting kind of sucks.
- 10:21Speaker 2: I love it when every couple of years the landowner
- 10:24Speaker 2: lets in so many people that a few unscrupulous individuals
- 10:27Speaker 2: sneak in and they really make it rough for everyone else.
- 10:31Speaker 2: But here's the thing. I want you to know how
- 10:34Speaker 2: hard it is to hunt there because I want credit
- 10:36Speaker 2: for that. I'm not proud of it, but I really
- 10:39Speaker 2: don't want you to think I'm hunting some cushy spot
- 10:41Speaker 2: where the hunting is easy. Although when we had Antler
- 10:44Speaker 2: Point restrictions it sure was easy. It's not now, and
- 10:47Speaker 2: it wasn't before. But I didn't really go out of
- 10:50Speaker 2: my way to make it sound like a walk in
- 10:51Speaker 2: the park for those years that it actually was pretty easy.
- 10:55Speaker 2: This is one of the reasons I like hunting public land.
- 10:57Speaker 2: Everyone knows the language around public land, and everyone understands
- 11:02Speaker 2: that it's generally the toughest hunting we can have for
- 11:04Speaker 2: white tails and other critters. You don't really need to
- 11:07Speaker 2: say much more. But if you hunt private land, all
- 11:10Speaker 2: bets are off. You better say how many hunters could
- 11:14Speaker 2: be there, and how early your gun season is, and
- 11:16Speaker 2: how the DNR ruined everything by encouraging a huge harvest
- 11:19Speaker 2: over CWD concerns and on down the line. But really,
- 11:23Speaker 2: who cares? I mean, really, who freaking cares? We do
- 11:28Speaker 2: because we're all hypocrites. But that's okay. We do this
- 11:31Speaker 2: with our political tribalism. We do this with our jobs
- 11:34Speaker 2: and our finances, in our lives and our kids and
- 11:36Speaker 2: our hunting. So you know what I propose, at least
- 11:40Speaker 2: on the hunting front, that we acknowledge this and we
- 11:42Speaker 2: just try to be better. It doesn't matter if someone
- 11:45Speaker 2: kills a deer with a crossbow and you think they
- 11:47Speaker 2: are the work of the devil himself. It doesn't matter
- 11:52Speaker 2: if someone has access to unbelievable ground and you're stuck
- 11:54Speaker 2: slugging out with the rest of the peons on public land.
- 11:58Speaker 2: At the opposite end, if you're a able to afford
- 12:01Speaker 2: a sweet crossbow and a nice lease and you stack
- 12:03Speaker 2: up the one fifties, acknowledge that not everyone is there.
- 12:08Speaker 2: If your grandpa happened to buy a land back in
- 12:10Speaker 2: the forties to farm, and he was good at it,
- 12:12Speaker 2: And now you're the benefactor of several thousand amazing acres
- 12:15Speaker 2: a deer dirt. That's great. Don't shit on the person
- 12:19Speaker 2: who doesn't have that, who is really really stoked to
- 12:22Speaker 2: just shoot a forky somewhere. We all have different circumstances,
- 12:27Speaker 2: we all have different goals in life and different opportunities,
- 12:31Speaker 2: but we all love this hunting thing and that's great,
- 12:34Speaker 2: so we should all just be nice about it. Let
- 12:37Speaker 2: me give you another example here to tie a nice
- 12:39Speaker 2: bow on this whole thing. I recently filmed a fishing
- 12:42Speaker 2: show with the one and only Andy May. Now, if
- 12:45Speaker 2: you don't know who Andy is, google him. There are
- 12:48Speaker 2: only a couple people in the country with a resume
- 12:51Speaker 2: like his when it comes to big deer on public land. Hell,
- 12:55Speaker 2: he might have the best resume, even though he'll be
- 12:58Speaker 2: the first to admit it's not a competition, and he
- 13:01Speaker 2: has an awful lot of people he looks up to
- 13:04Speaker 2: a lot. You know what, Andy's right, He's competing against
- 13:08Speaker 2: himself to be better and he gets better every year.
- 13:12Speaker 2: That's the kind of person I respect. But it goes
- 13:14Speaker 2: a lot further than that, As you can imagine. While
- 13:17Speaker 2: Andy and I shared a boat together for hours and
- 13:19Speaker 2: hours trying to catch big smallies in large mouth, I
- 13:21Speaker 2: got to know him in a way that I just
- 13:23Speaker 2: never have in the I don't know, six or eight
- 13:25Speaker 2: years that we've known each other, and he's a guy
- 13:28Speaker 2: who hasn't had a lot handed to him, but he's
- 13:30Speaker 2: gone out and done amazing things. He also is not
- 13:34Speaker 2: very quick to shit on people, and that's real important.
- 13:38Speaker 2: He's at the top of the wait tail game and
- 13:40Speaker 2: the bow hunting in general game, and he's genuinely happy
- 13:43Speaker 2: for people's success. He's about the least hypocritical guy I
- 13:47Speaker 2: know when it comes to hunting, and it makes me
- 13:48Speaker 2: a little ashamed that I'm not there yet. It's also
- 13:52Speaker 2: a reminder that while we were all hypocrites to some extent,
- 13:55Speaker 2: we can do better. We can be more like Andy
- 13:58Speaker 2: and hell think that'd be a good shirt or maybe
- 14:01Speaker 2: we should mentor I don't know, more hunters and post
- 14:05Speaker 2: hashtags be like Andy. I don't know. What I do
- 14:08Speaker 2: know is that life sucks a lot of times. It's hard.
- 14:12Speaker 2: It feels like we are living in this dystopian nightmare
- 14:15Speaker 2: that might be some sort of late stage capitalism that
- 14:18Speaker 2: is teetering on the brink of something much, much worse.
- 14:21Speaker 2: There's a lot of anxiety and stress in life, some
- 14:24Speaker 2: of which we invite in and some we just absorb
- 14:26Speaker 2: through our daily existence. And as hard as you have
- 14:30Speaker 2: it or I have it, or whoever, they are countless
- 14:33Speaker 2: people who have things way harder. I might not outwardly
- 14:37Speaker 2: show it because me, like a lot of people, are
- 14:41Speaker 2: good at compartmentalizing this stuff and presenting a positive image.
- 14:45Speaker 2: But the truth is we're all just fighting our own battles.
- 14:49Speaker 2: Most of us are just trying to do a decent
- 14:51Speaker 2: job at life, and we don't always get it right.
- 14:54Speaker 2: We don't always win, we don't always kill big bucks whatever,
- 15:00Speaker 2: but we try to be a little happier and have
- 15:02Speaker 2: a better life. And if you're listening to this, one
- 15:04Speaker 2: of the ways you probably try to get a little
- 15:06Speaker 2: better is by shooting your bow in the summer, maybe
- 15:10Speaker 2: running a few trail cameras, maybe getting together with a
- 15:12Speaker 2: buddy or two to plant a trip. In the fall,
- 15:15Speaker 2: you scout, and you use hunting as an escape to
- 15:18Speaker 2: get away from the crushing weight of everyday life. Just
- 15:21Speaker 2: so you can recharge the batteries a little bit, and
- 15:24Speaker 2: it's a good way to do it too. But you
- 15:27Speaker 2: won't do it in a way that makes everyone happy.
- 15:29Speaker 2: You won't do it in a way that is harder
- 15:31Speaker 2: than every other hunter out there. You're going to use
- 15:34Speaker 2: your advantages, however big or small, or impactful or meaningful,
- 15:38Speaker 2: and you'll draw your own lines in the sand for
- 15:40Speaker 2: what you want out of it, and those are yours,
- 15:43Speaker 2: and it's your journey. Enjoy it. Just remember that no
- 15:46Speaker 2: one else is on the same hunting journey, and no
- 15:48Speaker 2: one else is on the same life journey. It's all
- 15:52Speaker 2: different for each of us, and it's all good. So
- 15:54Speaker 2: let's be nice. Let's enjoy the shit out of this
- 15:57Speaker 2: hunting thing while we have it. Maybe share some venison
- 16:00Speaker 2: with some non hunters. Let's take a few people out
- 16:03Speaker 2: if we can, even it's only a late season dough hunter, whatever.
- 16:07Speaker 2: Let's recognize this for what it is, acknowledge that we
- 16:10Speaker 2: are all hypocrites in our own right, and just do
- 16:13Speaker 2: a little better. I think we will all be better
- 16:16Speaker 2: off for that, don't you. And I also think we
- 16:19Speaker 2: owe it to ourselves to just give each other a
- 16:21Speaker 2: break and be a little more supportive of this whole
- 16:23Speaker 2: thing before it's too late. How's that sound? Also? How
- 16:29Speaker 2: does this sound? Next week, I'm going to talk about
- 16:31Speaker 2: a couple of things you can do to make yourself
- 16:33Speaker 2: better in the off season. If you want to be
- 16:35Speaker 2: a better hunter, there are things you can do that
- 16:38Speaker 2: aren't directly tied to throwing out that trail camera, doing
- 16:42Speaker 2: this or that. Trust me, I'm going to get into
- 16:44Speaker 2: them next week, So listen up. That's it for this week, folks.
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