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Ashley and Jared's Bridal Shower! · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: live at the I Heart Studios in Los Angeles, California
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  Speaker 1: with a live audience, our first real live podcast audience.
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  Speaker 1: Give a shout out. This is Ashley and Jared's wedding shower,
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  Speaker 1: and everybody out there listening, including the audience that's here,
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be able to participate. We've got a big
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  Speaker 1: night ahead of us. We want to give a special
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  Speaker 1: thank you to Create and Barrel for putting this on.
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  Speaker 1: They've been a huge sponsor the podcast for months now,
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  Speaker 1: and this event is going to be nothing but special.
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  Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared, I have a special gift for you,
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  Speaker 1: but before I give it to you, I want to
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  Speaker 1: ask the two of you, why did you choose Crate
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  Speaker 1: and Barrel for your registry. What I love about Crate
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  Speaker 1: and barrel Um is that I feel like it's adult
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  Speaker 1: furniture in the best way that I say that because
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  Speaker 1: Jared and I, well, he moved into an apartment with
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  Speaker 1: my sister. It was my sister in my apartment and
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  Speaker 1: we were only there for like a month until we
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  Speaker 1: realized that it was probably the smartest decision to move
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  Speaker 1: in together. He didn't, you know, We just it would
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  Speaker 1: have been logistically really weird if we did live apart. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: the bottom line here is that we had like a
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  Speaker 1: really girly apartment. We had a decorator come in and
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  Speaker 1: like make all these crystal chandeliers and everything had like
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  Speaker 1: a shade of pink attached to it. So what we're
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  Speaker 1: really excited about is when we are a married couple
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  Speaker 1: to totally redecorate the place, make it a little bit
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  Speaker 1: more masculine, but definitely timeless and classic and Crate and
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  Speaker 1: Barrel has everything for every room, and you know that
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  Speaker 1: it's going to be well made, it's gonna last so long,
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  Speaker 1: and um, it's just going it's it's gonna be quality, classic,
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  Speaker 1: timeless style for a lifetime. Jared everything. Actually, just say no.
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  Speaker 1: Crane Barrow is awesome, man, Like, every time you go
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  Speaker 1: in there, I just want to spend a lot, a
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  Speaker 1: lot of money. So it's really nice to have Crane
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  Speaker 1: Barrel by our wedding registry because then other people can
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  Speaker 1: buy a stuff that we really like. That's the best part.
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  Speaker 1: When we were registering, he was like, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: it's just we're free free stuff. It's like, well, it's
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  Speaker 1: free for us, I guess for our guests, not for me.
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  Speaker 1: It was just you went around in scannies. It was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I like those wine glasses. Click, I like those towels.
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  Speaker 1: Click the price tag on this click. You know. I
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  Speaker 1: never thought I'd be so excited over something that came
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  Speaker 1: in the mail from actually podcast fans. It's been amazing
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  Speaker 1: how many people listen to the podcast are Instagram and
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  Speaker 1: we don't even know them, but they send us gives
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  Speaker 1: to the Mark Crane and Barrel Registry. This week we
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  Speaker 1: got a dual curing and coffee makers. You can make
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  Speaker 1: a pot or coffee cup. It was very exciting for us.
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  Speaker 1: What's your favorite coffee? I only drink Dunk. It's so
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  Speaker 1: bad as I make it every morning. Yeah, you guys
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  Speaker 1: know I have a coffee company. We just kill my favorite.
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  Speaker 1: I will say that. Like in the in bag form
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  Speaker 1: it's general R and duncan. I think generous is bad
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  Speaker 1: at home form is better than and I'm about to
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  Speaker 1: save you. Um. This is a gift that Ashley has
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  Speaker 1: been telling me about for months now. Uh, Lauren, actually
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  Speaker 1: sister is actually in the audience. She's gonna be uh
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  Speaker 1: moving out right and this will be moving in. This
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  Speaker 1: is to you, actually, Jed, thank you. I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: be as good as the coffee maker. We'll see. I'm
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  Speaker 1: already hurt um as as quick enough to like think
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  Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, that's been nice. Hey Jared, how about
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  Speaker 1: you read into the microphone what I wrote into the card? Please?
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  Speaker 1: Uh it says the big day is almost here almost
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  Speaker 1: from Ben Higgins. Love Ben Higgins is what I was
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  Speaker 1: hoping it would say. Yes, love, love Ben Higgins. Do
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  Speaker 1: you know what these are? I don't know what those are.
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  Speaker 1: They're the blue curve tins. Oh yeah, okay, so a
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  Speaker 1: little backstory. When you know you're getting old, you get
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  Speaker 1: excited about blue curtains. I may have told then that
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  Speaker 1: if you were to get anything off the registrary, I
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  Speaker 1: really wanted the blue curtains because our dog likes to
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  Speaker 1: lift his leg and p on our curtains. He's moving
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  Speaker 1: out with Lauren. Uh he's Lauren's dog, but he's our
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  Speaker 1: family dog as well. And um, that's perfect, perfect because
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  Speaker 1: ours are now sparkly silver. So to make it more masculine,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to make the family room blue curtains. This
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  Speaker 1: will already be the most manly thing in the entire house.
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  Speaker 1: So thank you for that. It's his favorite decorating color.
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  Speaker 1: That's amazing. Real quick, I want to talk about the
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  Speaker 1: transition now, uh to we have a lot to talk
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  Speaker 1: about tonight. One of the things I want to talk
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  Speaker 1: about is the transition to living just with the two
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  Speaker 1: of you. Your sister has been with you for a while,
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  Speaker 1: and you've talked about how great it's been. Which Lauren,
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  Speaker 1: come up here. I think, well, Lord, let's come up
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  Speaker 1: here for a second. I can't wait to ask because
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  Speaker 1: the craziest thing about Ashley is I always expect some
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  Speaker 1: wild stories to be told about a sister living with
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  Speaker 1: a couple that's engaged, and there's yet to play there.
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  Speaker 1: We have no content of crazy dramatic stories that are happening. Lauren,
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  Speaker 1: What has it been like to live with this couple? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: It's so easy, it really is, Are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 1: I have to listen to a lot of sponsored ads
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  Speaker 1: every single day. That's probably the hardest thing is I
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  Speaker 1: have to listen to Ashley mess up into it over again,
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  Speaker 1: mess him and Jared's very good about it, but hey,
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  Speaker 1: you get if Jared can't land it the anger? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I It's unbelievable how angry you get from
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  Speaker 1: a stupid Instagram story. If you mess up once, you're like,
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  Speaker 1: damn it. Well. I want to ask you, though, so
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  Speaker 1: to get serious for a second, what have you seen
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  Speaker 1: about their love story kind of play out over last year?
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  Speaker 1: And I want to ask every person that comes up here,
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  Speaker 1: because everybody knows them personally, what have you witnessed and
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  Speaker 1: what have you seen that's inspired you or also that
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  Speaker 1: you've learned from You're gonna make me cry, Bin I
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  Speaker 1: cry every time. UM there there. I know it's like
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  Speaker 1: so cliche, but they're best friends, but they also push
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  Speaker 1: each other to be better, and it's kind of like
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  Speaker 1: they just lift each other up every day rather than
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  Speaker 1: you know, tearing them down, and they're just really cute together.
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  Speaker 1: There's a there's an interesting story I want to tell
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  Speaker 1: why you're up here. I want to talk about. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I was outside doing an interview and then and uh,
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  Speaker 1: the reporter asked, you know, when was it that you
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  Speaker 1: kind of recognize that this could be something again for
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  Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared, and I thought, back, there's a I
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  Speaker 1: know this exact moment. So we're in Carmel, California. We
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  Speaker 1: had gotten off of Winter Games. Actually, you know what
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people don't know is I really met
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  Speaker 1: Ashley from the podcast. We had known each other off
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  Speaker 1: and on before the podcast, but when we really started
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  Speaker 1: to get to know each other personally was really our
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  Speaker 1: first time doing this. And for me, this podcast is
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  Speaker 1: super special because we had planned it for two months.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know Ashley. I was nervous about this whole
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  Speaker 1: new venture. Amy, our producer, was just getting this thing started.
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  Speaker 1: It was an experiment and it just so happened that
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  Speaker 1: the week that Lord and I broke up was the
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  Speaker 1: week that we've recorded our first episode. UM, and so
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  Speaker 1: we dive into this whole podcast world where it's meant
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  Speaker 1: to be intimate, and it's meant you're really meant to
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  Speaker 1: share content that's vulnerable and real. And I was in
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  Speaker 1: the most real place in my life ever. And then
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  Speaker 1: I meet Ashley, who was also in the most real
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  Speaker 1: place of her life because at that point her and
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  Speaker 1: Jared were really good friends, but they were friends, and
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  Speaker 1: I kept asking, I've always loved Jared. We met on
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  Speaker 1: our season of The Bachelorette, and I've always had a
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  Speaker 1: lot of respect for him as a man, as a person.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, this couple works, Like why isn't it working.
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  Speaker 1: I would always as I messed with Ashley, to the
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  Speaker 1: point where I almost felt like I was offending her,
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  Speaker 1: like why aren't you and Jared dating? She's like, we're
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  Speaker 1: just friends And he would sleep on her couch and
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  Speaker 1: stuff and was weird and I never got it, And
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  Speaker 1: I always defended Jared. When you would ask me those questions,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, don't bring it up, because like I
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  Speaker 1: know that he said sensitive. Yeah, it was it was weird,
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  Speaker 1: but here's what it was on UM. But here's what happened.
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  Speaker 1: And so I see Ashley in this season of life
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  Speaker 1: that I'll explained from a distance saying that she was
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  Speaker 1: questioning a lot um, she didn't know where life was
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  Speaker 1: taking her. She was getting ready turn thirty. Um, there
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  Speaker 1: are a lot of big obstacles in a way, and
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  Speaker 1: she was super emotional, and the emotional Ashley that we
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  Speaker 1: loved but we also felt for often because her emotions
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  Speaker 1: were real and true, and you'd sit there and you'd
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  Speaker 1: see her share these things about life and these big
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  Speaker 1: questions that she have and kind of break down. And
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  Speaker 1: as her friend at that point and somebody that had
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  Speaker 1: already kind of gone through a rough season of my
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  Speaker 1: life with her, there isn't a really good response other
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  Speaker 1: than sitting in it. So then we just I had
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  Speaker 1: to do win our games together, which was a wild
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  Speaker 1: deal UM for me. I had not expect to go
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  Speaker 1: back on the show. Actually had talked about it, and
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  Speaker 1: we decided to give it a shot. So we go
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  Speaker 1: and win our games and she dives in head first
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  Speaker 1: because she is in that season of life with a
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  Speaker 1: lot of things that are open to her and um.
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  Speaker 1: She ends up exploring a relationship with Kevin and they
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  Speaker 1: end up breaking up and we're going on a car.
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  Speaker 1: I just Ashley and I right after this whole scenario
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  Speaker 1: and we start talking and I could and Ashley was,
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  Speaker 1: can I ask you a question? I said, yeah, she goes,
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  Speaker 1: Jared just told me that he has feelings for me
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do about it. And
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  Speaker 1: I said, what do you want to do about it?
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I think I want to see if it
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  Speaker 1: could work. And at that moment, like I almost tried
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  Speaker 1: to talk you about if I remember I sat in
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  Speaker 1: the part I was just going to call you out
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  Speaker 1: on that. Yeah, I was like, wait, you I can't
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  Speaker 1: see and the reason I was like, I don't want
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  Speaker 1: you to set up for disappointment. Yeah, like you definitely
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  Speaker 1: were like defensive about it, like I felt like you
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  Speaker 1: didn't fully believe it or you thought I was exaggerating
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  Speaker 1: I did. I I think I remember, like, are you
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  Speaker 1: over like an Liz in this situation? Does he really
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  Speaker 1: care about you? Because I know how fragile you are
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  Speaker 1: right now, like are you actually willing to dive into this?
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  Speaker 1: And is he willing to dive into this because once
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  Speaker 1: you do, there's there's there's two pass to complete happiness
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  Speaker 1: or a lot of emotion and a lot a lot
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  Speaker 1: of star and a lot of sentence. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to see you that again. Before I know, they're
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  Speaker 1: diving back in and look at them the day and
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  Speaker 1: I'll say this about Ashley today and then this is
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  Speaker 1: gonna be about Jared and Ashley as a couple. And Jared,
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  Speaker 1: this is a compliment to you. And I want to
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  Speaker 1: know if you've seen this as well. There's been this
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  Speaker 1: like transformation that is so tangible and Ashley where there's
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  Speaker 1: a confidence and there's a steadfastness, and there's a clarity
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  Speaker 1: and a quality of the life where she isn't a
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  Speaker 1: nervous wreck walking into the studio anymore. She's confident, she's
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  Speaker 1: at peace even when things are swirling around her. She
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  Speaker 1: knows that she has her rock beside her. And there's
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  Speaker 1: just the stability to Ashley. And I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you as listeners to the podcast, if you've noticed it,
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  Speaker 1: but there's a a tangible stability to Ashley's life that
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  Speaker 1: is that really happened when Jared came into it, and
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  Speaker 1: it's been one of the coolest things for a friend
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  Speaker 1: to see and also for a co host to see.
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  Speaker 1: And Lauren, I want to know if you've seen it.
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  Speaker 1: Every time she does something that I would be like
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  Speaker 1: I woul my pants. You know, I would be very nervous,
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  Speaker 1: like today she went to go get her first fitting
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  Speaker 1: for her wedding dress, very exciting. I would be a
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  Speaker 1: nervous wreck, which she is so confident in everything she does.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, how do you do it? She's just like
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  Speaker 1: so confident literally ever since Jared kind of admitted her feelings.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing makes her nervous. Stavility is a great word, though,
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  Speaker 1: because I always keep saying, like in my head, I'm
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  Speaker 1: like I was so much more emotionally stable, so she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't cry. Kind of sucks. It's so boring. I'll do
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  Speaker 1: you a question my like, if I'm more boring now,
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  Speaker 1: Like that's one of my biggest in securities. We did this.
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  Speaker 1: I don't get a podcast about like what we are
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  Speaker 1: most insecure about now? And I actually said that I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I could be boring to my audience because
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  Speaker 1: I'm so emotionally stable. It's not boring, just good people
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  Speaker 1: should be happy for it's working, right and that's that
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  Speaker 1: new transition. Jared, let's back check and then I have
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  Speaker 1: some direct questions for you. But what happened leading up
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  Speaker 1: to that moment where you wanted to express your feelings? Ashley? Uh,
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  Speaker 1: well we did at five minute video and you'll say
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  Speaker 1: it again. You guys just got a glimpse into our lives.
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  Speaker 1: I get asked a question and Ashley answered, uh, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean obviously we talked about it before, but it
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  Speaker 1: was more like you said, I mean, I think for
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  Speaker 1: a long time. Uh. And Nick can attest to this
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  Speaker 1: because he knows me pretty well. I'm very Uh, he
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  Speaker 1: looks thrilled, it looks so happy. I I am a
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  Speaker 1: man of comfort. I like kind of like my little
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  Speaker 1: place in this world. And uh, Ashley is the complete
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  Speaker 1: opposite of that. And Ben, like you were saying earlier, Um,
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  Speaker 1: if Ashley and I were to ever date after our
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  Speaker 1: first season in Paradise, it would have gone one of
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  Speaker 1: two ways, either complete happiness or complete sadness. And I
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  Speaker 1: think that was always kind of terrifying for me because
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  Speaker 1: I was always confused about my feelings and so I
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  Speaker 1: never really was willing to dive in. And then, of
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  Speaker 1: course we were best friends and we would talk all
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  Speaker 1: the time. So life was good and nothing ever needed
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  Speaker 1: to be changed. And then all of a sudden, something
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  Speaker 1: changed and she started dating someone else. And I kind
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  Speaker 1: of looked, you know, I was living in Rhode Island
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  Speaker 1: while I was actually living with Nick at the time,
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  Speaker 1: and but I was in Rhode Island when I was
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  Speaker 1: kind of finding everything about about Winter Games, and I
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  Speaker 1: mean I heard rumors that she was engaged, and I
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  Speaker 1: was like, just you know, obviously in my room, uh,
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  Speaker 1: in my own head, trying to think of, you know,
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  Speaker 1: what I should do. How much of an idiot I've been,
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  Speaker 1: how I've I haven't said anything in in in the
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  Speaker 1: past three years, haven't done anything. I haven't said anything.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you just all of a sudden, you you blink.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you go on this crazy adventure the Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: and Bachelor in Paradise, and you kind of just like
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  Speaker 1: roll with everything that happens from it, and all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden, you blink. In three years of your life
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  Speaker 1: goes by and you're like, holy have I said anything
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  Speaker 1: that I've truly meant? And so and then you know,
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  Speaker 1: we were in St. Lucia. We had a pre planned
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  Speaker 1: trip with our friends, Tanner and Jade and and uh
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  Speaker 1: and and Paul and Katon and Lauren was there too,
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  Speaker 1: and Ashley and and uh and so I decided I
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  Speaker 1: had to go down there and say something. And then
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  Speaker 1: that was when everything changed. And now we sit here
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  Speaker 1: today getting prep for the biggest day of your lives,
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  Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared. This is all came full circle your couple,
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  Speaker 1: just like the world intended to be. What are you
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  Speaker 1: most excited for for this wedding day? Uh? What are
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  Speaker 1: you most excited about? I think I'm most excited. I'm
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  Speaker 1: most excited to think. Okay, never mind, Well I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna say, I'm I'm most excited about to be in
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  Speaker 1: one room with the people that I care most about
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  Speaker 1: in this world. Um, to celebrate this date. It's friends
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  Speaker 1: and family, and to celebrate our love and and and
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  Speaker 1: and just to have that moment, you know, with everybody together.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's what I'm most excited about. I'm the
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  Speaker 1: I am more excited about something specific. And I guess
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  Speaker 1: that's just like the doors opening to the church and
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  Speaker 1: seeing Jared and then being next to my idea, Jared,
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  Speaker 1: do you think you'll cry on the wedding day? Um?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. That's a great question. I cried. I
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  Speaker 1: cried at my sister's wedding, So you're a goner for
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  Speaker 1: this one when I never thought i'd cry. And then
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  Speaker 1: I saw at my sister's wedding they had a carriage.
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  Speaker 1: I was in. I was in the grins of party.
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  Speaker 1: They had definitely in the most tearful moment. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they had. There was a carriage where my dad and
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  Speaker 1: and my sister h you know, pulled up this big day.
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  Speaker 1: You know, dude, you're gonna ball, man. This is what
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  Speaker 1: I love. So, this is what I love about j
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  Speaker 1: too is he is so He knocked me out once
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: during the Bachelor att Oh my god, was no knocked
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: me the ground. It was a bunch of the face.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Tough dude, real tough dude. But he's a dude. They
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: can cry. Also, when those doors swing open and Ashley
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: standing there, it's gonna top obviously because Lauren's gonna be there.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: My dad is my best man, so he'll be standing
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: around down the aisle together. Yeah so big big, big
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: Fred is my dad's name, Big Fred, and he'll be
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: walking Lauren down the aisle. Should be very nice moment.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: The Lauren's gonna cry right now. I'm totally fine everyone,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Um Ashley, for you, you know, I've never I don't
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: think I've asked you this is the wedding day, something
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: that you've thought of for a long time or for
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: all the kind of princess moments that you wanted to
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: have in life. Was the wedding ever a part of that?
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely, um, I because I've always imagined the day.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of flabbergasted by how calm I am about
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: the planning process and how actually anti bridezilla I've been,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: right Lauren, Like it's almost been weird. Like I did
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: my fitting my bridal dress, like my bridal dress, my
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: wedding dress, fitting my wedding gown was I did that
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: this morning and like I didn't cry. I'm just like
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: super happy and I think it's like so amazing. But
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: nothing about it. They're like what about your earrings? What
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: about your shoes? And like how about a bracelet? I'm like,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I don't care. Whatever, The important thing is take care
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: of that. You're just married, which I feel like I
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: can tell me if I'm wrong. Months ago before, Jared,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: in your mind would have like either made you emotional
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: or freaked you out to a point of instability, Like
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: there is this stability to your life now that I
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: feel like it's tangible, and this is a good example
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: of it. I feel like everything's in perspective. Okay. I
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: also think it's just it's planning, right. It's like anything
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: in life. When you start planning something, it becomes like
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: a part time job and you're like, Okay, well we
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: gotta get this done and get that done and bah
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, and it's like, you know, just
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: day after day after day. And I think, hopefully what
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I'm hoping for is that the weekly eating out the wedding,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be like, holy we're getting married this week. Yeah,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I think that's one's really good at dawn on us,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: I think right now because when I'm planning actually is
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: very similar to our part time job, like a lot
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: of like logistics and scheduling and like doing this and
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: then doing that and then running there and blah blah. Um.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I feel like we don't even realize sometimes that there's
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: a difference between our wedding and our job. And it
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: has been filled with many, uh incredible moments, though like
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of moments that you just kind of look
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: back at right now you're like, wow, that was you know,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: this is it, this is we're planning for this day.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: I think when that holy crap, and it's cool. Our
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: our wedding player in his name is Troy Williams is
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: like the most eccentric man you'll ever meet. He's fantastic though,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: uh And so like having him a part of this
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: entire process, like him flying to Rhode Island with us,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: and like doing all these things and food tastings and
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: venues and like being able to do it with my
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: friends and family, and like showing my parents and her parents,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: like her parents flew up to Rhode Island and it
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: was her parents, my parents, and it was like we
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: went to the venue and a like, guys, this is
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: where we're gonna get married. And then this is where
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: the reception is going to be, and like Dad, you're
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: gonna stand there, and my mom you're gonna be right there.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: And it's like that's the exciting part of being like, yeah,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: this is this is where it's all gonna happen. This
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: is where it's gonna be. So that's been by far
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: the most fun of wedding planning thus far being able
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: to do it with with our family and uh, and
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: just like the anticipation of like, yeah, this is this
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: is crazy, like yeah, what do you what should we do?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Like do you want to stand there? Do you want
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: to stand there? You know? Well, when it comes to
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: things like that, then I have an immediate opinion. I
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: either have an immediate opinion that I feel strongly about
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: or have no opinion at out at all. And I
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: can be like you can just choose Jared, choose it out. Well. Hey, um,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: we're gonna be uble a couple more guests tonight. We
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: have a packed house full of Bachelor Nation in here
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: and Batchelor contestants that are friends of yours who are
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: either married, going to be getting married, maybe looking for relationship,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: and they're gonna come up tonight and share as much
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: advice and perspective as possible with the two of you. Uh,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: everybody out there, give a round of a pause for
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Lauren for coming up here. And Nancy, I would like
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: to see you and Lauren do a podcast like if
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I'm not here one week, you and Laurence to do it. Hilarious.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I've always I've always thought Lauren was great. Uh, and
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: you know what else it thinks great is Crate and Barrel.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: So let's take a second to talk about Crane Barrel.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: It's obviously our wedding, but I do have to say
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: that throughout all the stress of planning, I do need
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: some me time. It's actually more important than ever. And
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: my morning routine has been enhanced by some of the
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: gifts that Jared and I have been getting from our
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: wedding registry, from Crate and Barrel. These gifts have been
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: coming in far before our bridle shower and our wedding,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: and it's been awesome. I've gotten the best, like fluffy,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: soft Turkish towels, robes, bath mats that make my morning
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: shower and my coffee so much more enjoyable. You wouldn't
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: even know. I didn't know this before, but Crate and
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Barrel actually has a wide assortment of SPA products like shampoos, lotions,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: and candles. So I'll lie in our bath, I light
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: some candles. It's good. It's just like a little period.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Jared's getting all worked up over there. He loves a
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: good bath, like that man loves a bath, and like
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: he thinks like he likes thinks water is the sexiest
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: thing ever. So, like you know, decorate a bathroom nicely
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: and like Jared's in a good mood. So if you
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: guys are getting married out there, I highly suggest creating
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: a registry with Crate and Barrel, because not only can
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: you get stuff of your kitchen, your family room, your bedroom,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: you can also get stuff of your bathroom and the
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: towels are to die for. You can start your Crtan
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Barrel registry now at Crton Barrel dot com slash Wedding
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Dash Registry. Again, highly suggest you do your registry or
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: at least one of them with Crate and Barrel Crate
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: and Barrel dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. All right,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: coming up to the hot seat, next is Chris and Crystal.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Chris and Crystal and join throw over here. Come on up,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: you guys can take my seat in the seat across.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna grab a new mic. Just please don't mess
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: up my papers. Um, this sound's gonna work. We're gonna
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: get to hear about your lives and the lives of
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: the people coming up here. And then we have a
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: couple things that we want to talk to. Jared Nashley
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: about but this is ultimately a night to celebrate Jared Nashley.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: This is not a roast, even though it kind of
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: feels like it with him sitting up here in a
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: little bit that would be fun. Be fun. You can
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: toast me. Um, Nick's not allowed to rest the So
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Chris and Crystal this, Uh, you guys are a Paradise couple. Um,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: you met in Paradise, you fell in love in Paradise.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: How are you handling engagement? Do you want to take that? Um,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: it's been a while ride come tomorrow would be actually
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: one year that we uh known each other. So but
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I would say it's for the most part, it's been incredible, uh,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: but also definitely challenging at times. And uh it's those
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: moments that help you kind of understand, uh, picking each
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: other up and making each other better and the definition
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: of a team. So that's that's something I really enjoy. Yeah,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I agree, and I think that Um, for a lot
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: of you who don't know. Christals in Florida and I
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: was in San Diego, So we were on the completely
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: opposite sides of the country for a few months after
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: the engagement when we had to keep it a secret
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: and no one could know um. And as soon as
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I was, like the week before the finale, he actually
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: came out to San Diego to live with me in
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: three hundreds of square feet with the other side of
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: the stage. Maybe it was divided by three rooms to
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: plus a bathroom in the closet. It was very intimate,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: very small, and we actually had no problems with it.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: And it was it was Chris and I giving up
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: our old selves to start this life in this chapter together.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: And when we met, we were both like, we don't
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: ever want to get married. So it was wild that
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: we got engaged. But I think we just saw, you know,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: ourselves in each other and it allowed us to kind
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: of make peace with the past of who we were
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: and find love within each other. So it's been a
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: real blessing. Let's sit there for a second, because you
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: just said something that is not tying into my next
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: question at all. As you said, when you guys first met,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: your reaction was we're not going to get married, Like
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: not like we're not gonna get married, but just individually,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: like we're not interested in getting married. What changed. Yeah,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: the first conversation we were in the pool, like second
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: day of Paradise, and she was like, you know, I
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: really don't ever want to get married, and I like
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: look back at her and I was like, you were
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: like tight, I mean that's exactly what I said. I
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I mean neither, you know. And then
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: like from there just kind of over time kind of
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: change used our perception throughout Paradise. I guess there was more. Well,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, is this because you guys both
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: came from single moms. Yes, it was that conversation. I
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: think when you come from like the forest families, you
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: tend to be kind of apprehensive of wanting to get
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: married because you saw a huge breakup and how it
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: affects the family. So yeah, I would say that definitely
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: plays a key role for sure. So then what was
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: the moment? And this was the question I was going
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: to ask, because I don't it actually tries to explain
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: Paradise to me all the time, and I've never I've
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: only been down to visit and I've never quite got it.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: But it works, it works a lot, it works often. Um,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: what was the moment then that maybe the viewers in
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: the sea or maybe we just didn't pick up on
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: where you went time out like what I thought was
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: happening when I came into this has now completely changed
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: because of this other person. Well, for me, it was
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: the morning after we had our first kiss, which was
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: about eight days into Paradise. That's a long time into paradise.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: That's like, that's like, really it's like a lifetime. That's
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: like at least three months out here. Okay, really in
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: the real world, Yeah, it really is. Because just so
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: you guys know, you spent about twenty hours all day
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: long together in Paradise, and you're kind of putting these
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: conversations with producers where you really dive in deep head
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: first and you tackle the hard stuff right away. So
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I knew, you know, Chris's values, um, and I just
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: knew like intimate details of his life, about his father
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: and the role he played and didn't before I knew
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: his favorite color, his favorite restaurant, um. So you definitely
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: get to know each other in that deeper sense first.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: But I would say that we had our first kiss
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: and when we finally finally got to have that talk
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: at the wedding Chapel Cabana, the one when you walked
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: on the service to the left the wedding Chapel Caban
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: is what it's called. We finally got together and all
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: night we've been trying to meet up and finally connect
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: because we were both dating other people. And we have
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: that kiss that was like ten minutes straight and one
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: to bed that night and we were walking to the
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: beach and I just felt so much joy and love
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: and happiness in my heart and I just felt so
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: like divinely guided to like I have to talk to Chris.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I have to get to know him more. And it
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: was like days and days and days, and producers were like, no,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: you need to date Kenny, and I was like, no,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I have to date Chris, like I have to get
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: to know him. And so we had our first kiss.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: And the next morning I woke up and I was like,
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I got out of bed, took a few steps sound,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: and I was like, huh would I get engaged at
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: the end of this? And I was like what why
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: am I even thinking that? Like I don't ever want
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: to get married, And it was just something in me
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: really shifted, and from there I just kinda the momentum belt. Wow,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: did you know she was feeling that way? Uh? I
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: didn't actually, but I will say for me Uh. In
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: the fantasy suite is when you kind of get a
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: little time to have no camera and obviously you want
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: to try to engauge, you want to kind of see
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: where the person that you're dating is at. That's when
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: you knew. And so well, then I started I started
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: talking about it. I started talking about it because there
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: was an instance during the Fantasy sweet date where I
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: couldn't breathe because I thought she was breaking up with me,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: and um, but then it turned out to be that
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't the case because it wasn't listening. I was talking
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: about my last relationship and he's like, what, you're breaking
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: up with me? He was just so struck by your beauty.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, you do have beautiful eyes and then that,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: but that wasn't the case. It was just because I'm
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I was extremely nervous at the Fantasy Suite.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: So but then that night I was asking questions and
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: she was like really starting to give me clarity that
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: maybe she would accept the engagement if it went down,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: and UM, at that moment the next day, that's when
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I knew. I was like, all right, for sure, I'm
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: going to do this. And Producer's demon bothered me, didn't
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: try to talk to me at all. They just they
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: knew what I wanted, and I was. I wanted to
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: be committed to her. So that's the way I went down.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I thought that on her first date. I guess that's
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: when you knew you loved me. No, you said on
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: her first date. When we were dancing on the water
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: and he looked in my eyes as I was dancing
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: with my dice and he said, I'm going to marry
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: this girl. I mean, yeah, that that's definitely that. That
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: also too, that's when I knew that for sure. I
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: was head over heels and madly in love with you,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: Like that's I was. I looked in your eyes and
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's definitely the girl I want to
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: be with. You still needed it, I still need a
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: little clear Yeah. Leaning into Ashley and Jared, we were
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: there when they came down and got and when Jared proposed,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: and that was actually a big moment for Chris and
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: ezed relationship. I don't think we ever told you guys.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: This did not we did not go on. So you
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: guys came down and your proposal happened, and it Chris
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: and I ended up being like pulled and having to
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: have this serious conversation. Is that the night we won
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: the boom Boom Room. First, this is a PG podcast
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: that Boom Boom. That's a different story, um, but the
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: thing is may encourage you guys go to the boom
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Boom room. Yeah. I don't know if that story made
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: a complete since now seeing you walk on the beach,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Jared encouraged him to go to the boom Boom room.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: There was definitely inspirational. Know, there was a lot of
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: tension because I said no to the boom boom rounds
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: like it four or five times, and then you guys
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: came down and I was like, you know what, let's
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: go boom. So I would say that their relationship is
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: like the definition. Has anyone ever seen the Adjustment Bureau
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: with Matt Damon where it's like it's amazing and like,
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: if you think about your path, it's kind of like
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: the Adjustment Bureau where there was all these different roadblocks,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: but somehow, somewhere you guys knew that you two were
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: supposed to be together, just didn't happen at that time,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: and you guys finally became together and now you are.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: So it was really inspiring to see and be there
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: for that moment. You were like the person that stood
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: out to me the most because we were pretty much
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: surrounded by like seventy percent people we had never met before,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: and I don't think I met you, and you were
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: like glowing and you were so congratulatory, and it was
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: so nice to see somebody who genuinely seemed happy, not like,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: oh what are they doing like barging in here or
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: like ruffling feathers a lot. You just see him like
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: you're happy for us. I was so happy and it
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: was so just you know, your love story of how
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: you guys have just come together. It's so it's like
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: what rom coms are made of? Right, perfect for the
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: two of them. Um, well, I want to ask now though,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: because you've met, paradise is happen. It's happening again. Your
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: lives are speeding up, right, we're a year out. How
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: is wedding planning going for the two of you? Would say,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: it's going, well, it's going the pace that it needs
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: to be. We just had like a really nice engagement party,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: um to celebrate with our friends and family and people
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: that we wanted there. And Uh, now with the wedding
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: and the planning. It's it's it's going they're almost done. Yeah,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: well we're keeping all the details private. But there have
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: been moments where, um, I would say, it really tests
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: your relationship and it really can bring you closer or
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: further apart. And it's brought us closer. And I think
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: the hardest thing for us was the guest list. Same here.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I don't love if you guys knew that that whole
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: that that's an issue. If for anyone who's gotten married
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: in here, first off, bless you, it's it's incredible, but
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: he has been married? Who okay? And what's the guest
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: at the top of the struggle bus. We have a
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: lot of hay that say it's not though, No, everybody's pretty.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: A lot of people have been married. Not many people
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: are seeing at the top of the struggle bus, so okay.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of people. A question that I
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: get when I do my questions on Instagram is like,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: what have you guys fought over the most and planning?
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: We even fought at all over anything. It's been freakish
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: how much we have agreed on things. I would say
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: the guest list is complicated, not between us like my person,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: you're a person. It's like truly who like we have
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: a limit, Like you guys have a limit to right,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: because of any reasons, you have a limit. You have
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: a budget and so I mean like plates of food,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: they're not cheap. I mean like and people got to eat,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: so you got to feed these people. I mean, how
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: many are you gonna want to feed? And it's it's
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: really difficult to allocate a certain amount of invitations to
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: a certain amount of people, especially if there's people that
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: you know are probably gonna be heartbroken. It's the politics
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: because some people think other people should be there, but
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: you're like, but we haven't talked to them, and I've
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: seen years. And I also think it sucks because no
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: matter how much you talk about it, if anybody's been
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: married here, you know that in your wedding guest list,
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: there's like people that you're inviting and then people you're like, Okay,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: well I don't know, we have to figure everything out
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: before we can awkward, but our wedding closed it a
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: plan B list. It's not a plan B list. It's
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: just okay, we have to figure out like who's coming,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: who's not coming, And then there's all these hesitations about like,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: well they might not be able to come, but there
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: may be coming. But then if you invite your uncle,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: you have to invite your five cousins, and it's like
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: they all get plus ones and there's fifteen people gone.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: It just like adds up so quickly. Pl I'd better
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: have been on the plan a list. I'll tell you
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: that right now. Hey, we've got to we've got to
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: keep going here. But before we go, a couple of
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: questions for the two of you going towards Ashley and Jared.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Two questions, okay, first one, what's your favorite thing about
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: them as a couple? You take the first one day.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: I love how playful they are. I think you know
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: it keeps you young being playful and fills your heart
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: with joy and it's a fun energy that's convey more.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: We do ask each other on a daily basis, are
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: you a baby? Don't don't ever say that again. I
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: don't think any of us know. We also ask our
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: dog we go are you Lois? Are you allowis? It's
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: you have to be there. Yeah, that's that's a good
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: that's good Ashley nice um. Next is, and I want
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: both of you to answer this next question, if you
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: were to sin as a couple, who's in love, who's
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: planning a wedding, who's forging forward in this relationship, if
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: you're to look at these two and give him the
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: best wishes possible for any couple really, but especially Ashley
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: and Jared tonight, what would you say? And I want
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: you both to answer this. I would say, make sure
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: you always kiss each other good night. Definitely something that
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: we never go to that angry, even when I fall
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: asleep on the couch and I come in two hours later,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I go, yes, she does. My advice for you too
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: as a can I'm sorry, like I have something nice
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: to say. Okay, I would say that, And I'm gonna
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: say what my grandpa told me. He goes, when two
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: people are in love, they're never going to be in
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: love with each other at the same time throughout marriage,
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: and one person might be a little bit lower than
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: the other, and it's that person that keeps that balance going.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: So I always remember to balance each other out when
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: one of you is off. I love that. Look at that.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, it was a very smart man. Hey,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: thank you so much coming up here. We appreciate you.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: And now we're going to turn it to the audience
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: to play a little game that is like such a
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: good like variety show host you look like with her without? Yeah,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: with her without? All right, we have somebody with a microphone.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Raise your hand if you have the answer to the question.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: If not, you just shot him out where everybody's gonna
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: know these answers. Let's just shout him out. Okay, we'll
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: pick him up with a mic later. First question, this
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: is all we're evolving around Bachelor Nation. Who is pregnant
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: from bachelor Carly Jade? Is Carly in here? She took
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: a little break. Okay, Carly, thank you for coming. She's
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: taking a little walk. We'll forgive her. Next question, which
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: bachelor friend once told Ashley she would never be with
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Jared Nick? Is the answer? Next one, who used to
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: be a cruise ship singer? Carly? What del is the answer?
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: She has? She changed her name or is it still?
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I call her Carla Bass. It's in
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: my phone like that. We don't know yet. Who has
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: driven over one hour just for a sonic milkshake? That
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: sounds like me, but it's my foodie counterpart, Becka Becca Tilly.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: We're so proud of you, Becca. Congratulations Becca, good job.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: Who had a fourteen year old age gap on their
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: season of The Bachelorette or Bachelor? And who? Becca? Okay?
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: Who else is a Patriots fan along with Jared Evan
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Bass kind of? Come on, okay, now this is a
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: tough one. Let's do this one together. Who met on
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise and is still together today? Kindall and
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Joe Kindle and Joe Evan and Carly Jaden Tanner, these two,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: Chris and Crystal, Astrid and Kevin, Raven and Adam. I
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: don't even think we had we didn't have Raven Adam
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: on here, and they just got engaged for all the
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: Bachelor verdict. That's pretty amazing. It's only been on for
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: five six, six whole season this season six I count there.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: But if that's seven real relationships, we're doing all right? Okay, now,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: very special guests are coming up to stage. Are gonna
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: replace Chris and Crystal. Thank you so much. Thank you.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: Becca and Tanya please come up, the host of the
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: award winning podcast scrubbing In with Becca in Tanya it
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: is They had one winning Scrubbing In with Tanya and Becca.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: Did you guys need marriage advice? Is that what you wanted?
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I was like, what are we going to offer? We've
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: got some good questions for the two of you back
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: in Tan you're up on stage. But before we get
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: to talking to him and I know actually got an
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: important question to ask, Let's take a second talk about
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: cream barrel. Hey, Ash, you like taking a bath? Right? Oh?
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: I love best. I feel like you're a bath guy,
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: big bathroom? Are you big spot guy? Jared Will like
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: sometimes book hotel rooms solely because they have a nice bathroom.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: There's nothing better than feeling hugged by water. Recently, we've
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: revamped our bathroom and like really made that whole bath experience,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: bath and showering experience a little bit more luxurious because
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: we registered for some items on our Crate and Barrel
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: registry that have to do with our bathroom. Like they have,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: they have a bunch of stuff get They actually have
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: like shocking products, things that I didn't think that crate
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: and barrel would carry, like shampoos, lotions and candles. That
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: really makes bathtimes so much fun. And afterwards, when you
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: get out of the bath at the shower and you
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: get to wrap yourself in this soft Turkish towel or robes,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: and you get to put your little wet foot on
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: the softest back man you've ever felt. It really just
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: talks day far more enjoyable. It starts it out or
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: ends it. Like I shower at night, usually Jared shower
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: is more in the morning. It ends my day on
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: a point of relaxation, get a better sleep. But there's
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: just something nice about having a lovely bathroom, and we've
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: really started to be able to create that with the
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: with our Crate and Barrel registry in the items that
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: we've gotten so far from it highly suggests checking out
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel. If you're looking for a registry, you
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: can start your Crate and Barrel registry now at Crate
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: and Barrel dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. Again, you're
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: an engaged couple out there, please check out Create Barrel
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. Great Tanya, So this
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: week has been a very Jonas heavy week in our lives.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: I can't like really good um, but Jared is like
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: already having Jonas fatigue and the album doesn't even come
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: out until Friday. How do you suggest we get through
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: this rift? I'm gonna need Jared to get on board
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: because literally, did you see the documentary? Yeah, we're gonna
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: watch it tomorrow night with my mom. I don't know
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: how you watch that thing and don't become obsessed with them,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: except mine is Nick. Like Nick, I'm kind of like
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: not here for anymore, but well Nick, he does sometimes
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: have a conceited air about him. Yeah, it's all Nick Jonas. Yeah,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: let's be clear because that we have for sweet Yeah,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: sweet man, Like, I'm just gonna really need you to
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: just get on board because it's only going to get
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: worse because they go on tour this summer, so there's
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: gonna be more Jonas and then the memoir comes out.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: I'm debating not seeing Ashley until the wedding, not just
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: like let her have her Jonas summer and then we'll
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: get married and then Jonah Summer will be over and
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: then we're married. Well, the real, the real tour doesn't
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: start until like August, and I'm not going into a
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: date until after our wedding. And the hits just keep
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: on coming. I literally can't stop talking about the John's brothers,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: like I cannot literally Today she's like, Wow, you're back
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: in the swing of things. Are you wait, You're gonna
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: die when I tell you this? So you know where
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: we were sitting for the premiere. My seat was actually
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: supposed to be in the I don't even know how.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: This supposed to be the row with like Sophie and Prianka,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: And I was like, how is I in that row?
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: They just really like you. There's no way I know
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: how you're in that that row because you've been crushing
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: it recently, just talking outside, You're everywhere. Your career is skyrocketed.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: You're doing a great job. And that was the first
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: thing on the notes that I want to say is
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Tanya is absolutely destroying the game, dominating. Very nice thing.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Your podcast together is also doing great this year in
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: two thousand. Wasn't two thousand nineteen that you won the
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: award eighteen time Flies and you're having fun? It was
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: within the last year. It's been in the last year,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: scrubbing in with back in China one an award? This
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: what is the secret to making the same click with
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: two friends? I can't thank you seriously. This must so
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: sincere and I'm like scared, No, it's not. It's like
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: it's like, call me the mustache that I have right
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: now is call me, call me. Yeah, it makes you
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: feel like a daddy, like call me daddy, daddy. It's
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: I don't feel too calm right now. So, um, I
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: was gonna say, I have been surrounded by Jonas energy
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: for like a long time now, and let's go to
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: dinner this week time will get it all out. Yeah,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: y'all should do that. Actually, So just bank got training
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: campus started and the Patriots starting to get back into it,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: the Bruins on the Stanley Cup Finals, I have distractions?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Are you going to say that? I was just gonna
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: say it wo Tango, I was. I got to witness
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: I'm always around Tommya's energy for the Jonas brothers, and
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: I really got to a front row seat to Ashley,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Lauren and Lizzie's love for the Jonas brothers. And they
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: were all singing to each other. And I've never seen
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: a look of boredom like I did on Jared say
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: it wasn't. I was having a boredom, just like not
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: as interested, and He's like, this is what gets them
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: all riled up? Yeah, it was. Honestly, I was having fun.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: I was standing there, I was smiling, sucker, came on.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I know that song. I had a good time during
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: that song. But these girls are freaking out, So if
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: you're not flipping out with them, then you're obviously bored.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: But I think it sounds like Jereed Guard. I think
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: it's so cute though, and I like love how they
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: have their that one night show in l A and
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: like you just you guys went like just girls and
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Jared like picked you up. It was like, so if
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: you got McDonald's after, that's what I need in my life.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: While blasting jonas it was. It was a low point.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: One of the most interesting things I think is the
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: perspective from somebody who is not in a committed relationship
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: talking to people that are. Tanya, you know you've met
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Ashley in studio a few times. You know this couple, Well,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: what is your advice for them as a company? A
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: few times in the studio. She's a funny tour wedding too,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: you know. Perfect. The thing I love about Ashley and
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: I love you too, Jared, but like Ashley just likeally
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: leaned over and goes. I really like Jared. Do you
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: know how many times I've gotten in my life Ashley?
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I freaking love you. You're great to Jared, but actually
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like cool actually before and like you're like a
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: bleeding heart like me, do you know what I mean? Like,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: and so when you when this happened for you, like
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I genuinely like it's really and I mean it from
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: the bottom of my heart, like I'm so happy for
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: you because it's it's like it's something that like I
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: don't know, we've we've like shared that's like the dream,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: you know, so like I'm really really happy for you. Well,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: thank you. I mean, I know we haven't done it
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: in a while, but those little like Thursday night hangs
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: that we had a couple of times where I was like, Batonia,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I have no idea how I'm going
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: to handle the situation. Can remember it? I remember it
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: so clearly before or after, like Jared had voiced his
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: after he had voiced it. What were what were those
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: conversations life amongst you? You all? Well, I would always
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: tell Ashley when we talk about Jared, and this is
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: before he even admit his feelings, and he send her
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: flowers or something, and I was like, what is he doing?
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: He likes you? No one since flowers or doesn't like
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: the other person. This is not a friendly gesture. And
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I can co sign on that I do the same thing.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: What's happening. I'm a poor excuse of a man, like
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I've never said anything otherwise, Like no,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: it wasn't that though. I just remember thinking I didn't
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: want her to wait for something that might not happen.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: And I also just wanted to be like, don't give
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: up because he's sending you flowers for some reason, like
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: there's a reason for that. Um. And I remember that
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: night that we were you came over and we were
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: watching Grace and you told us about him saying his
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: feelings for you, and it was like I remember texting
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: you like throughout the time, I'd be like, has he
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: done anything today? Has he said anything? Letter said text?
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: I think the thing that's so beautiful is like it
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: takes a lot for somebody to be vulnerable, Like that's
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: like really how you find love is true vulnerability, and
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: that's like what you you have, you embody that so well,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: you know, and I think you can always put up
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: a like you can always put up a wall, and
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: everybody has that, you know what I mean? Like that
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: kind of to protect them, and you've always just been
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: so open, and I think that's ultimately like what led
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: you to each other. Yeah, I agree. I think Ashley
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: is one of the most vulnerable people I've ever met,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: and you're just very open with your emotions and feelings.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: And I think while we're so similar in so many
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: different ways, that's one area where we're different, because I
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: think I'm someone who tries to project an image into
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: the world of like who I'm supposed to be, and
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: I think I've always struggled Superman complex. It's not a
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: Superman complex. I think it's just a human complex where
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of people want to be seen into the world.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Is confident and funny, and it has everything put together
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: and they're not a mess and they they you know,
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: they're like, you know, I I have things to offer,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: and uh. And I think it's far better just to
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: be open with your flaws and and and and accept
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: the fact that you know you're not perfect and and
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to realize that somebody is just
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: gonna love you for your imperfections. Um. Because Yeah, I
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: think that was the biggest hurdle that we had to overcome. Yeah,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Jared was afraid of showing he's imperfections, and I was, like,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: you think that that's going to change anything, that's a
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: big statement. Let's not just glance over that, Like I'm
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: actually interested in hearing your perspective on it. Only thing
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: that it's changed is like I thought that Jared would
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: be like so easy going and laid back, but he's
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: not as laid back as he seems like he I know,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: it's so weird, but he like he is like he's moody,
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: and I never really knew him. I knew him as
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: like moody in the way he'd like get quiet sometimes,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: like sometimes I wouldn't be able to read him, but
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: like not to the extent that I know now, And
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: now I just um need to be more conscious about
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: like how too, Like I'm always like conscious about making
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: him as happy as possible. And like everybody asked me,
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: like why didn't happen earlier? Like why didn't it happen earlier?
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: And it's like you have someone that I was. We
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: were really close friends, and you just had an idea
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: of who I was as a man, and it was like, Ashley,
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not that guy. And if I let you in
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: you're going to realize that pretty quickly. And I think
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: there's been moments in our relationship where you've you've you've
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: kind of seen like different sides of me where I
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: can get quiet and I can really just need to,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: like I need to be by myself for a while.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: What's your zodiac signs? Just Corpio to a definition, and
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: what's your side Pisces, so like if we want to
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: get into the whole astrology of at all, Like we're
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: both pretty much equally emotional, but I am very open
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: and expressive about it. And Scorpio, you guys hide it
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: done your love language tests. We haven't done that test
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: or the personality test that everybody wants. Literally, if you
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: do the love language test, I swear, and I'm not married,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: but it'll make your I know what I am like
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: your marriage. All my married friends about it, and they're like, Tanya,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: you're like like marriage, whisper. Like the love language test
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: literally will bring you close. I swear, is this different
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: than just knowing what? Ye? It's fifteen minutes. I promise,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: please do it for me, all right, so you'll send it.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: You could tell me that I'm may be different than
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: touch and words of affirmation. Yes, and so you have
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: to give Jared love the way he received it. And
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: then can I interject them for a second, But like,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: I'm interested, because do you really need an online us
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: to tell you that? Or is it more so reading
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Ashley and then being around her all the time and
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: realizing what she needs and what she doesn't need. So
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: you might think that you know, but you don't. You
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: need the test, you know, but you don't know. You
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: don't know the documentary. Take the test and then the
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: thing is the biggest mistake that we make is we
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: give love. Beck and I have to do this all
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: the time. We do we do? You have to do
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: it as a friendship. Yeah, literally every relationship in my life.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: I make every person that's like in my circle take
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: it because it affects every relationship. So like the way
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: that you receive love is the way that you give love,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: but that might not be the way that they receive love.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: So like me, I like quality time that doesn't need
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: you don't need it. She knows when I need it
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: that she she'll give it to me because she's like,
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I know, you like breadcrumbs here and there, sprinkling around,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: but it's true, I swear like, just do it, please,
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: just do it. Do it out of curiosity. I think
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: it's fun just to do it. Like, it's not like
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: it's gonna save your marriage if you're I don't think
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: it's like the single non married marriage was. It's either
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: this quiz or it's over. So that I mean that
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: ties me into my next question. Then the two of
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: you individually, because I think you both have perspective. I
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: want to hear from. What is your advice to Jared Nashley? Becca,
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: you start, don't look at me if you're gonna laugh
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: every time, Becca, it's comforting. You should look at me
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: and just feel at home. Becca, though, what is your
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: advice for these two? Um? I would say, I think
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: that y'all do such a great well. I first of all,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I love your love for um things that you're passionate about,
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Like you're so passionate about the Patriots, and you're so
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: passionate about Jonas brothers, and you both like really respect
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: and like get passionate with that person even though you
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: of like zero interests in either. You know, like all
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: of a sudden a big Giants fan that Actley is
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: supports Tom Brady and Giselle and how can you not
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: support Tom and Giselle, that's my question. But she's really like,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: you'll both have really stepped into that role and you're
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: both fangirl about things, which is I know it's like
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: we joke about it, but it's actually a really if
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: there was a love language for fangirling, all three of
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: you would have it. Wait. That is actually one of
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: the first things that drew me to Jared was that
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: he like obviously had this He's like very pop culture educated,
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: which was attractive to me, but the one that he
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: was able to like put out trivia you get it,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: it made me feel like because the way he talked
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: about movies and stuff made me feel like, this guy
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: gets my culture. Yeah, I guess my advice would be
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: to like keep being there for each other and like
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: things that you care about, because I think that's a
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: big part of what makes you all so special. And
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: like it's really fun to watch because even though I
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: knew that you did not know every lyric to every
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Jonas brother song, like you were down there just like
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: loving watching her be excited, you know, and same when
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: it comes to his sports that you like and Rob
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: Thomas like I'm I like his Instagram, so yeah, you like, yeah,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: that's dedication. You like his instagram, so I feel very
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: attuched to him and his wife. Weirdly, people, what do
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: you think? What's your advice as the wedding whisperer, the
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: un married wedding whisper marriage whisper. I talked to my
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: future husband. It's fine. She brings him and she's bringing
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: him in. I'm bringing him in write to him and
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: Stuff's the question mark right now, but that makes sense.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: But what is your advice the two of them? Um?
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: I like, I think that you guys just like respect
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: each other so much, and I think there's something so
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: beautiful about like your team to me, and that's so special,
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: you know, to like go through life with somebody that
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: always has your back, and like, I just genuinely feel
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: like you guys are like ying and yang, you know,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: like I saw you guys when you were in Nava
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: and Ashley was like, you give me, Like I just
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: like little things like that, do you know what I mean?
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: I just feel like your your team, your unit, and
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: you make each other better and just keep being that way,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: you know, like when somebody's down with the other up
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: and vice versa, because life is peaks and valleys and
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: you guys do such a great job. Like I really
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: genuinely like I've been growing my love for Jared, like
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: over the past year, and you really know, seriously, as
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: I've gotten to know you, I'm like, I'm really I'm
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: so happy for Ashley that she like has you to
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: do life with. She's basically saying, at some point, if
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: you all want to in turn to a throuble she
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: is Jared, Yeah, like if you have brothers or cousins,
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: like you have your brothers, it's too bad and actually
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: has met my cousins, you either want to. I'm actually
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: trying to date Kevin Jonas introduced me to his brother
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: in law and yeah, that's funny. Been there, done, not
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: done that. That wasn't the one, the one for a second?
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: What the hell is that? This is good? This is
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: when things get good. Let's sit in it. Yeah, let's
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: talk about it. Wait, he's so cute. Yeah, he's really
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: cute now. He was cute then too, But I was like,
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: very like, I can't date Mike. If I'm gonna date
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: Joe one day, it's not a good situation. Like you
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: gotta meet Danielle's brother. This is apparently his move. The
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers better listen to this podcast because they've gotten
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: the most support of any podcast ever from this little segment.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: Tanya and Becca, we love you, We appreciate you. Keep
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: crushing it on, scrubbing it in with Becca and Tanya
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: and also Tanya, what are you up to these days
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: outside of the podcast? On Arth Ryan Seacrest, Baby, Becca,
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: what are you up to? Like Instagram stuff, love Instagram.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: Thank you to appreciate it. We're gonna bring Nick in
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: Kindle up now. Nick and Kindles come on up. And
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: while they're making their way up here, gonna pause for
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: a second to talk about Crate and Barrel. It's obviously
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: our wedding, but I do have to say that throughout
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: all the stress of planning, I do need some me time.
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: It's actually more important than ever, and my morning routine
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: has been enhanced by some of the gifts that Jared
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: and I have been getting from our wedding registry from
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel. These gifts have been coming in far
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: before our bridle shower and our wedding, and it's been awesome.
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: I've gotten the best like fluffy, soft Turkish towels, robes,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: bath mats that make my morning shower and my coffee
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: so much more enjoyable. You wouldn't even know. I didn't
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: know this before, but Crate and Barrel actually has a
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: wide assortment of SPA products like shampoos, lotions, and can les.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: So I'll lie in our bath, I'll light some candles.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: It's good. It's just like a little period. Jared's gotta
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: all worked up over there. He loves a good bath,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: like that man loves a bath and like he thinks,
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: like he likes thinks water is the sexiest thing ever. So,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: like you know, decorate a bathroom nicely, and like Jared's
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: in a good mood. So, if you guys are getting
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: married out there, I highly suggest creating a registry with
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel because not only can you get stuff
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: of your kitchen, your family room, your bedroom, you can
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: also get stuff of your bathroom and the towels are
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: to die for. You can start your Crtan Barrel registry
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: now at Crton Barrel dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. Again,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: highly suggest you do your registry or at least one
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: of them, with Crate and Barrel Crate and Barrel dot
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: Com slash wedding Dash Registry, Nick and Kendall, you guys
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: are not dating. Kendle is in a committed relationship with Joe. Nick,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: are you dating anybody to like Decombrust's face? Uh? No,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: you're not. So this is how we're gonna come about this. Then,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: I want you we have to wrap this up thout
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: because I do have a hot day tonight. Do you
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: really all right? Hey, We're gonna speed this up for Nick.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: I mean I do, but we have time the Nick.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: I want to start with you then because we're gonna
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: dig into Kindle's relationship with Joke, because it's a paradise
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: relationship that we're super pumped about. You guys are included
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: in that bunch too, because we talked about Yeah they
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: were shouted out. Nick. Um, you've lived with Jared when
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: Jared first moved to l A, Well, I think more accurately,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: Jared stayed at my place. Oh here we come? For
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: how long? Longer than he said? Okay? I wanted him
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: to keep staying what you wanted him to be staying
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: with you? That I am his company, I'm answering Ben's questions. Honestly, honestly,
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: it's Jared stayed in my place and he stayed sure
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: than I expected. Oh, but I have a good question.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: I have to say this. Okay, So Jared was living
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: with Nick when we first started like like like upping
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: our relationship, and we didn't tell a lot of people
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: for a while, and Nick like it kind of went
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: over his head. And I was like, does Nick know
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: like where you're going all the time? And I don't know.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: Did you know? Uh? None at first? No, When did
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: you find out that Ashley and Jared were sneaking around
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: behind your back? Well? I first noticed Jared being weird
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: when we were going to grab coffee or something, and
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: I was commenting on Kevin and Ashley's relationship on Instagram.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: At this point, Jared and Ashley are friends. Wasn't that
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to tell Nick. It was just at
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: a point were when she was telling you about Jared's
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: emotional and temperamental No, clarify it doesn't. I don't want
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: to think that I wasn't telling Nick on purpose. Asked
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: the question, you want me to answer the question? I
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: want to want to preface like it wasn't because I
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: didn't want to tell you. It was more so it
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: was just like such a I didn't know where it
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: was going. It was really emotional. So that's why I
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: kind of kept it close to the chest, as you should.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: That's fine, I don't have to know everything. The next question,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: that is, I didn't he didn't answer. I mean, I
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: think it's when he started feeling weird in the car
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: and he noticed something was up. No, he has keeps
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: going no, no, no no, no go. I want to hear
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: the story. We were giving coffee and I was commenting
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: on Ashley and Kevin's social media activity. I don't remember
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: what I said, but I do remember Jared's reaction, and
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: it was out of nowhere, just like, well, I want
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: to talk about it, Okay, Like I don't know why
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: you're so committed to like Instagram content, but fine. And
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: then a couple of weeks later, we all went to
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: Ashley's thirtieth birthday party and I kind of noticed they
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: were like holding hands on at the table. Uh. And
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: Jared's living with me at this point, and uh, And
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: so I went to drop off Ashley and and I
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: looked at Jared and I just said, so, you're gonna
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: stay at Ashley this tonight. And he's like yeah, and
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, we'll have fun. And that was
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: that was pretty much it never forget a couple of
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: days later, we were sitting in the kitchen and we
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: were talking, you know, football and blah blah blah, and
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: then you just you you sat in the chair. I'll
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: never forget, and you were like, so, what's going on
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: with Ashley? Let me clarify he did not sleep over that.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: I made it slay later and then uh, it was
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: just and then you and I I was like, all right,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: here we go. And then we talked to him a
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: couple of hours about everything that happened, and uh, and
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: I'll I just I remember I didn't know how you
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: were going to react to it. Uh, that was great, No,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: but I but I was always about goddamn time I had.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: I was always nervous that you were going to react
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: in some way of saying that I was I was
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: only jealous and that you know, if she wasn't with Kevin,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: that you wouldn't have cared. And but and and then
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: I just remember the first thing you said after I
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: kind of like just like open up and said anything
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: and you were like, uh, you said, I'm really happy
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: for you. No, there's another moment I have to reminisce on.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: It was a year before Jared came out about his feeling.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: It's like an entire year. And we were at the
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: I heard jingle Ball and we were there with a
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: whole bunch of bachelor alone and Nick camp to us,
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: he goes, I don't know about you two, Like there's
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: I know, there's nothing going on, but like you're probably
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: gonna get married one day. Yeah, it made sense. Yeah,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: you guys. They were way too emotionally attached to each
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: other not to end up to each other. It was
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: a you're gonna have a best friend with the opposite sex.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: But they were just like christ Um. That's why I
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: said I was happy with Jared because it was it
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: was like I didn't really understand what his deal was,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, why do you put this much
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: effort into someone you're not gonna have sex with. It
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: was always a question I'm not I did I agree
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: with you? It was always the confusing thing for me.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: It was a watching friends. It was like you're going
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: over there, You're staying on her couch, like you're emostally
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: invested in this like relationship, caring about everything She's said,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: there's nothing happening. It doesn't make any sense to me,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: like the haircut. Hey, kinda before we move over here,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: because we've got a lot to talk about. Nick, I
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: have a couple more questions for you. The first one, Uh,
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: there's an email that we got from one of our
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: listeners that said, there's a rumor going around that you've
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: made a marriage pack with one of the Ferguson twins.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: Is that true or false? That if you're if she's
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: single at a certain age, or you're single a certain age,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: you're just gonna get married and do this thing. It's false,
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: it's false. But I'm down. You know. You know I'm
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: not against either. I think you're both great. Um. Also, Nick,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: you're up to a lot right now. I want to
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: give you the opportunity to talk about some of your
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: projects going on. Uh. You have a podcast yourself that
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: is doing really well. Uh can you tell our listeners
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: about it? I do, thank you. You're asking number tunes
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: right now? Um? What else I haven't as I just
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: dropped off the list. I spent a lot of my
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: time with my natural natural habits my essential company. It
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: takes a lot of my time and it's going really
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: well and we're growing so um. And I'll give a
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: vouch here. Those essential oils are different than any other.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: It'll smell the entire room up with pleasantries. Not it
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: smells so good. Whether other essential oil diffuse are things
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: you walk by and you get a good whip. But
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: those that Nick has us very thank you, Thank you guys.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: It's going really well. Um and uh, we're growing. I
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: hired an intern. I've got that advice from some Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: well for you have interns. Yeah, that's we've we talked
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: about our business models and strategies. Our interns are the best. Um.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: And I just shot a new show coming out I
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: think at the end of the year called The Coupe
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: with Funny or Die. Some theatrical work that I'm doing
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: and uh what else, Yeah, on that roller skating painting
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: and for anybody out there. Yeah, so before letting it go,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: there's a few things that always surprised me about him.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: I told him this out there. There's some stills and
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: talents of his that shocked me, Like he has some
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: shocking talents. One is roller skating. Oh my gosh, I
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: saw you ll skate. I'm an angel in the wood.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: It's it's really wild. The second is shirtless painting. I'm
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: sure we've all seen it. Yeah, if you haven't, go
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: to his instagram you can see some beautiful paint. And
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: the third is how he answers questions on Instagram. And
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: here's the talent. It's it's his question answering skills are great,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: it's how many you choose to answer that amazes me.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: Amongst all the things that you're doing, how do you
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: find the time to go through each one? Or is
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: there a team? I'm lonely. Hey, that's why we love Nick.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: He's honest and vulnerable. Give it up for Nick. Yeah, Nick,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: please stay up here for a second. We talked to Kendle.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: Want to say two things more about Nick before we
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: move on. Nick should always bring a first date to
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: the roller rink because it is it's a good it's
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: a impress an impressive turn onto a date. I think really,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: you think so? Yeah? Hold her hands spin around? Great?
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: And then, secondly, on our our new YouTube show what Now,
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: Nick always brings the comic Really if he has quite
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: a skill in the interview Room. That's it go Nick
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: now streaming live on YouTube. Watched the over Here with
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: Kendall Kindle. You come showing so much love from another
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: bachelor in Paradise relationship. Give it off for Kindle and Joe.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Joe Coulna be with us tonight. Um. Joe is probably
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: off traveling somewhere right he's on tour right now. He's
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: um is he hosting it? Um? So it's kind of
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: like there's a main host and he's sort of like
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: a co host slash celebrity for like one of the teams. Okay,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: so he's playing the game. You know what's so crazy
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: about your love story? Kindle is and I want to
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: start here. We've got to watch you and this is
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: prepping for this podcast. This is something that always amazing you.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: Guys kind of came in. You were hesitant. There was
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: like love and then there's distance on paradise and there's
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: love and there's distance. What was the moment when you
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: looked at Joe and said, I want this thing to
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: be I want to leave this thing with you. Yeah,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: it was crazy because I think I allowed fear to
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: get in the way a lot while we were on
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: paradise because there was always the thought of of we'd
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: be long distance, and I've never done a long distance
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: relationship before, let alone have a really really serious relationship before.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: So I was thinking, with all of this in this
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: crazy world, how can this ever work? Um? And I
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: think I think the moment I realized it was when
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: we were on the beach as I was breaking up
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: with him. I think it was the moment where um,
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: I saw that he wasn't like fighting for it, and
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: I was like I expected him to fight, and um,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: the fact that he wasn't doing Yeah, but the fact
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: that he wasn't doing No. Kendall and Jared, you're either
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: the same scenario, hard to get until you play too
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: hard to get and then you lose the person, and
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: then you realize I could actually potentially lose something that
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: really means a lot to me and we I would
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: just see it as something that was really fun and
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: we'd laugh together, we'd be best friends, you know, on
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: the show, because we hang out. You hang out so
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: much together. And then it was in that moment where
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: I was thinking, oh, well, I'm not gonna be seeing
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: this person every day anymore, and I'm not gonna be
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: able to like talk to this person every day and um, yeah,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know. And it was funny because as soon
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: as we got to the hotel's right after we had
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: broken up, there's they asked me where do you want
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: your ticket to go? And I was like Chicago. I
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: was like, oh's stupid at on my phone. He doesn't
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: have my number, blah blah. I tried to sneak him
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: a secret note to you know, gave him my room number. Um.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: That note was not delivered. Um. But yeah, so I
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: guess I just decided to start fighting for it after
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: I had already let it go. Yeah. The thing I
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: another part and I talked about earlier, is I haven't
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: ever been to Paradise, so I don't know exactly that works.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: But I think each of the couples here could probably
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: answer this, but specifically I want you to when does
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: that relationship leaving Paradise actually start to feel real? Then?
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: Because we watched you his viewers kind of blossom post show,
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: both of your lives kind of took off and your
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: relationship took off, and it was in the public eye.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, there was always this sense
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: in my mind that there's an amazing relationship forming as well.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: How does that happen? When does that happen? And when
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: did start feeling that real for you and Joe? Um.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: I think it started feeling really real after he got
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars and we were able to actually
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: pretty much live together for three months because he had
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: a place out in l A and I was living
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: in l A. So, um, we got to kind of
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: playhouse for a bit, I guess you can say, Um,
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: and I had the foster dog that I was taking
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: care of what the broken hip, and then he was
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: going off to work and dancing every day, so it
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: kind of felt like a little family, and UM, seeing
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: that was something that really and that's how easy it was,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: was something that really, Um, it made me excited about
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: where it can go. And then so now he's officially
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: living in l A and we're plan house for real.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: So it's it's been fun to see where it's gone.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: And you know, I haven't gotten tired of him yet.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: You know, he surprises me every day and I think
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: we challenge each other every day and we learned from
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: each other every day, which is it's been exciting. Do
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: you mind telling us as much as you want on
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: where do you see this going now? Well, Um, I
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: think the thing is, I don't think either of us
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: would be together if we didn't see like the long run,
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: you know, down the line, marriage and everything. Um, but
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: I think this whole entire thing has been such a
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: whirlwind and there's so much going on that it's really
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: difficult to it's difficult to just to stop and to
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: let everything else that's happening just kind of fade away
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: and to just see each other. And I think we're
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: taking this year living with each other to realize, like
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: we actually have to see each other in our relationship
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: for what it is beside all of the craziness. So
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: I think living together there has been something that's really
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: taken away all of the I don't know, all the
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: crazy things that come along with having the experience like
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: this and to really see each other for the real
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: relationship that it can be. Yeah, well, we wish you
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: the best, Um, to switch gears to you for a second,
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: and then we need to go back to Ashley and Jared,
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: because I know you both have advice for them and
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it. Because of what's consuming
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: most of your time these days, Um, I do have
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: a project that I'm working on that I'm really excited about.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: Tell us about I can't say that yet. Well, then
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: don't tell us about it. Just let us know. We're
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: supposed to promote it for you on Instagram. Yea, Um,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: but yeah, I know there's definitely a couple projects I'm
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: really excited about. I'm also, um, when will we hear
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: about it? Um? Gosh, probably with the next week or so. Okay, cool, awesome,
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: so soon? I mean you sure you don't want to
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: talk about it here? We probably are going to save this.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: I'll secretly talk about it. You come back to the
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: auction in this podcast before you go to the biof oil. Yes, yeah, yeah,
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: no more guests going over there first. Um. Hey, we
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: we've asked this question all night. Uh, Nick, I'm gonna
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: start with you. What is your advice for Ashley and Jared?
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: What kind of advice do you want? You want like
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: the platitudes, or do you want, like, I know, Jared
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: and Ashley relationship advice. Jared's such a scaredy cat choose
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: day are not truth? I'm a truth guy. I like
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: truth to uh. Knowing Ashley and Jared, I would I
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: would if if if I were to give Ashley advice
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: to Jared, it's Ashley is a very motivated and very
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: driven person who can um you sometimes get carried away
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: sometimes but sometimes in a good way. And I think
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: it's important for Ashley to um remember that Jared has
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: a voice, which I think you guys do a good
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: job of. But I think in times UM it's important
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: when she's really focused on something to just maybe take
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: a step back. I think also subsequently, I think it's
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: important for Jared to remember that just saying it's fine
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: and being a nice guy is sometimes going to catch
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: up to him and be his fault because if he's
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: not going to share his voice, he's not going to
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: be heard. And that would be my advice to you guys.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: I told you guys, he's just really good at this. Yeah.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: And about two minutes he summed up like our relationship
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: therapy that we had on another I Horror podcast wind Down,
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: it's um Kindle Nick Instagram dot Com, New Customers, my drop.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: I would say my advice is um to know that
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: who you are as people, as madeable and not in
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: the sense that you're not who the person that you're
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: with is not the person you are married the sense
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: that you. I think people tend to think that the
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: person that they're worth is always going to be the
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: person that they met or the person that they're with
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: now or that they get married to. UM, always be
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: curious about each other and always take time to get
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: to know who the new person is because I can
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 1: talk about myself because I'm not the same person I
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: was yet yesterday, let alone like a year ago. And UM,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: so I just always have curiosity with each other. That's
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: really good advice. It's also something I've read in Cosmo.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: Oh they copied me the final question, Um, for both
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: of you, what is your favorite thing about Ashley and
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: Jared God Um, I would say that neither of you
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: gave up. I mean, despite everything that happened and everything
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: you guys have both been through, Um, you never gave up.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: And I think that says a lot about your relationship
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: and where it's going to be. M They're they're annoyably cute.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: They are. I mean, it's it's annoying, don't get me wrong,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: but they are very cute together. They really are. Thank you, Nick, Um.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: It's amazing how much you guys are a good match.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: I said, you guys should work on perfect. You're right,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: that is our biggest difference. Nick and Kendall, thank you
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: for coming up, thank you for talking. Wish you the
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: best and Kendall will be listening for your big project
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: announcement within the next let's say, two weeks, just so
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: we're not sitting on there. Yeah, just just in case. Hey, uh,
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: we're gonna end the night with a little game. It's
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: gonna be a blast. Give us a second, because first
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: we've got to talk about Crate and Barrel. Hey, yes,
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: you like taking a bath? Right? Oh? I love best.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like you're a bath guy, Big Bathroup, Big
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: spot guys. Jared will like sometimes book hotel rooms solely
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: because they have a nice bathroom. There's nothing better than
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: feeling hugged by water. Recently, we've re revamped our bathroom
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: and like really made that whole bath experience, bath and
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: showering experience a little bit more luxurious because we registered
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: some items on our Crate and Barrel registry that have
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: to do with our bathroom. Like, they have a bunch
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: of stuff. They actually have like shocking products, things that
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't think that Crate and Barrel would carry like shampoos,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: lotions and candles. That really makes bathtimes so much fun.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: And afterwards when you get out of the bath of
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: the shower and you get to wrap yourself in this
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: soft Turkish towel or robes and you get to put
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: your little wet foot on the softest bath man you've
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: ever felt. It really just talks a day far more enjoyable.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: It starts it out or ends it. Like I shower
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: at night, usually Jerry shower is more in the morning.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: It ends my day on a point of relaxation, get
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: a better sleep. But there's just something nice about having
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: a lovely bathroom and we've really started to be able
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: to create that with the with our Crate and Barrel
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: registry in the items that we've gotten so far from
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: it highly suggests checking out Crate and Barrel if you're
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: looking for a registry you can start. You're a Crate
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: and Barrel registry now at Crate and Barrel dot com
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: slash Wedding Dash Registry. Again, if you're an engaged couple
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: out there, please check out Crate and Barrel dot com
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: slash Wedding Dash Registry. Okay, so here's how the game's
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: gonna work. We're giving Ashley and Jared a groom cowboy
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: hat and a Pride white hat. Two. If you need
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: to sit back to back, you cannot see each other. Please,
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: you dropped my cowboy hat. Please sit back to back.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: So they're sitting back to back right now. For everybody
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: out there listening. We're gonna ask him a few questions
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: and they're gonna raise which one. Listen, this is how
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 1: the game works. Ash Um. She's over there saying that, says,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: well it does for a reason. No, no, no, you
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: need to have to say I don't need two cowboy hats. Um.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna ask a question and they're gonna raise
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: the hat that they think it relates to the most. Okay, So,
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: for example, the two of you can't be looking at
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: each other. Jared, please look towards the wall. Sorry, lift
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: up the hat of the messiest person in your relationship.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: They both said, bride. Yeah, good job, Ashley, She's not.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: I do like. I like how Jared filled that in there.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: It's like, but just in case, baby, you know, he
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: cleans up throughout the day. I clean up like at
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: the end of the day when there's nothing else. Lauren
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: do you agree when there is nothing else? Okay, um,
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: who spends more money? Oh there's pause Ashley with the
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: when Lauren, do you agree they don't spend much money?
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: The only difference is she buys beauty products. I buy
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: uh Dove I've talked about in the podcast beat by
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: Dove Soap. Yeah, my dove is two nine and nine.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: Her lover is a little bit more expensive you would
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: actually be. I mean, I think that is a little
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: shocking to people that actually is not a big spender
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: except on beauty products, which the very first time I
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: ever met Ashley, it's still to this day my first
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: impression of her, and I've gotten to know her so
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: much better since then. But she rolls in with us.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: Something she still has his day is just like chest
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: full of makeup, Like it's a massive chest with lights
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: and it looks like it costs two thars it was
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: to fifty. Oh well it's still expensive, a lot more
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: expensive than dub so So Ashley, you went with that one.
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: Who is the better driver? Jared Wins on the driving
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: I have driven with Ashley a couple of times. Scary experience.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: It's all right, I mean from the moment that I
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: first was in a car that Jared drove. I was like, Wow,
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 1: this guy drives like my dad. That's a good sign.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: And that was like a turn on for her. It's
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: kind of weird. My dad is a very safe driver.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: My mom's a better driver, though, I'll tell you that
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: my mom is a better driver my dad. Ashley's mom's
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: in the audience tonight, looking beautiful, smiling big, and we're
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: super thankful to be here. So this is a question
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: I think that we were all very proud about overdight heart.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: Who is the biggest baby when they get sick? Oh,
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: Ashley says Ashley, Jared says, Jared explain, Jared really hasn't
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: been sick on me. He really hasn't been sicker on me.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: I haven't had like a bad cold or flu or
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: anything like that since we've lived together in the past year.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: But I have thrown up in front of him a
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: couple of times. You haven't been too much of a baby.
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: The only reason I said this was because one night
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: I wasn't feeling well and you made me a peanut
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: butter and jelly sandwich and like gave me liquid ivy.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 1: I know it wasn't but that's the only time I
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: really remember who was better. Can't answer that yet, do
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: you guys not cook? Just give me a second, Ben,
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: let me think about this. Make sure you look Jared.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: You're you're cheating the better cook. Gosh ah oh, Jared says.
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 1: Jared actually says both. Okay, that wasn't so bad. So
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: Jared doesn't consider like making pasta or sandwiches. I never
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: said anything. She made me a turkey sandwich one time.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: It was like I cooked for you, and I was like,
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, making a turkey sandwich. She's like, I
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: put the toast in the toaster. Was like, that is
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: not cooking the right amount of like you know, condimenting.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: Constant discussion of what is cooking and what is not cooking.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: And I am still on the side that a turkey
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: sandwich toast or no toast is not cooking. Okay, So
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: for everybody out there listening, please email us at Ben
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: Actually I heard me dot com is making a turkey
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: sandwich cooking or not cooking? Audience, raise your hand if
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: you think making a turkey sandwich is cooking. All right, Okay,
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: So I've really only cooked, like I only make pasa
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: and like is it warming up, boiling pasta and then
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: putting sauce on top of it, cooking too more of
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: a Jared has only beyond that. Jared did it once
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: and he made me steak and like Brussels sprouts and
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: mashed or big potato, which that's real cooking. But he's
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: only done it once, so I don't know if I
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: can really so he wins, so he went. Okay, next question,
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: when you first met, let's flashback to the very first
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: time you met, not after any love had been sparked.
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: Who made the first move? Ah? Oh, there is a
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: big pause. There, there's a big pause, and they both say, Jared, Jared,
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: please explain why you think you made the first move? Well,
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: because Ashley was more open with her feelings. But I
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: was the first. I was the person to kiss Ashley first,
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: which is the move. That's the move. And he did
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: it really, really well. He was like, so like, you know,
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: you wait, I really don't want to wait for the
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: perfect moment to do what I gotta do, you know,
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: And then I was like, yeah, I know, and then
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: he went right in for it. It was cut. It
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: was something along those lines, something al those lines. Adorable. Okay,
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: three more questions. They're gonna give it to the audience
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: for a few minutes to ask any questions they want.
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: We'll close up out of here and we'll call it
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: a great podcast and give our thank you to some
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: people who have made this thing happen to night. Three
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 1: more questions. Who said I love you first? Well, they
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: both say Jared, true or false. Jared said I love
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: you first. I said on Bachelor in Paradise I would
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: love with him. Now you said you you what happened
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: on Bachelor in Paradise is you called Lauren in the
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: car ride home and Lauren said, well, were you in
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: love with them? And you were like, no, but as
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: close as you can get. Yeah. But in Bachelor in
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: Paradise three, I did say like, but I love it. Yeah,
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: but with the like the first like I love you
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: was Jared. Yeah. Okay. Final question, who does the dishes?
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: This is not even Jared with the win, Jared with
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: the wind. Thank you, actually, Jared, please turn it to
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: the audience. Audience. I want to give you we just
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 1: got a few minutes, let's say five minutes. Raise your
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: hand if you have any questions. We have somebody with
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: a mike walking around, somebody's got to have a question,
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 1: what are you I know you already lived together, so
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: that kind of answer is part of it. But what
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: are you most looking forward to? Like literally the second
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: after you get married, what's the first thing you're most
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 1: looking forward to? Both of you? What do you mean
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: like on the wedding day or just maybe after the
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: wedding days over. And I'm I'm really looking forward to
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: the honeymoon because I want, I want. I think it'll
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: be nice for Jared I to actually get out of
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: the country, like to really detach ourselves that much. Um,
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: we haven't, like when we go on vacation and stuff.
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: It's not always it's like sometimes like tied to business
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: and stuff like that. I'm like excited for the honeymoon
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 1: to be truly just romantic. And I've always like dreamed
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: of a honeymoon being like by definition, like you go
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: the day after the wedding and it's just like a
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: super romantic vacation. And that's That's what I'm really really
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: looking forward to. I think that we should even like
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: put our phones in the safe in the hotel room. No,
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 1: I agree. I think, Uh, sometimes we get bogged down
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: into like what we do is work and so on
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 1: and so forth. And then we actually just took a
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 1: day vacation down and like, yeah, we just took a
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 1: day and it was so nice and kind of like
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 1: rebooted everything and you and you just you forget things,
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 1: especially as a couple. You know, you you get into
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 1: the work day and then like life goes by and
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: then you kind of like just stop for a minute
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 1: and have a moment, even if it's just like getting
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: a hotel room and you're like, oh no, this is yeah,
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: that's right, this is this is love, this is romantic
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: and and and so I think that was a really
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: nice day for both of us. And so that's what
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: I agree. I'm looking forward to most and wearing a ring.
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm so excited wear wing. Wait wait,
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: is there like anything more attractive than a hot guy
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: in a wedding ring. You're like, Wow, he's hot and
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 1: he could commit. I don't know. Yeah, I tried one
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 1: on the other day and I was like, this suits me,
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: this fits my personality. I've been waiting. It does hil
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 1: on raising your family. We're going to be in l
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: A for probably in the next four years. As our
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: tentative plan. We have so many opportunities out here and
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: our business is really out here right now. But we definitely,
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: like ideally plan on raising them on the East Coast,
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 1: probably around the New England area, because that's where Jared's
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 1: from and like truly that's where his heart lies. It'll
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 1: be closer to my parents, which are only an hour
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: away flight wise. It's literally like you blink like Genie
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 1: and you're there, And yeah, we both you know, I
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 1: think we both consider that home. But I love it
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: here in l A almost as much as I love
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: it over there. But um, I feel like after four
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: or five years, it'll be time for him to be
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 1: in his home. Yeah, I agree. I think back East
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 1: is a little bit more my speed. Plus you know, uh,
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 1: friends and you know family are out there, and you know,
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 1: nobody's getting younger. So to close out tonight, I need
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: to take the time to answer these two questions. I think, um,
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: I'd like to take the time to answer these two
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: questions my best advice for Ashley and Jared. First off,
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: thank you for let me host your wedding shops. Thank
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: you for um and thank you to all of you
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: came in tonight to iHeart Studios to hang out with us.
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Thank you for listening, Thank you for
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: showing your support. Shout out to the girl who came
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: from Kansas City and anybody who took a flight to
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 1: get here. Really mind boggling and amazing. Thank you so much.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: I was that fangirl you know she still don't kill me.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: No, no no, but seriously, like a big thank you to
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: all you guys, because without anybody, everybody here you know
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 1: who's living in l A that's trying to do something
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 1: with our lives and taking advantage of the opportunities. Without
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 1: you guys, none of this happens. So don't ever forget
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 1: that door, forget how much we appreciate you guys and
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 1: are thankful um for everything you do for us, the
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 1: people here live tonight, UM, thank you, but also everything
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: out there listening. Ashley and I just found out this
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: week this is our the week that marks our second
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: year doing the Almost Famous podcast, and today listen than this.
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: This is crazy. We've had over fifteen million individual downloads.
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 1: That means fifteen million listens in this two years that
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 1: we've had Almost Famous podcast. It's so awesome. It's so crazy.
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: But hey, back to the question, what is my best
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 1: advice for Ashley and Jared Um. Typically, what I'd like
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 1: to do in this moment is to just pump you
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: guys up, because I think marriage is such an awesome
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: thing and I think it's something that you're committed to
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 1: when you're running to full force. But I know you
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: guys already can it in this choice. And so what
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 1: I thought about this tonight, what I want to tell
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: you is I look at you too, and as I
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: told you, in the last two years, I've seen this
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: change in you that is admirable but also just one
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: that I look at and I'm inspired by, Like I
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 1: want to have that change. I I want to have
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 1: the peace and the confidence um that you have and
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: I think I'm finding it like I have found it right,
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: but I've seen it exists because of how you have
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: handled this situation and how you guys have walked this together.
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: So my advice to you guys is, don't lose this.
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: Like Jared just said it, In relationships, time goes on
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 1: and activities go on, and there's travel and there is distraction,
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you do get sick in
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: front of each other, maybe more than you want to,
• 1:33:47
  Speaker 1: and you lose what exists today. It just happens. But
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 1: my advice to you guys is to not to lose
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 1: this because what you have right here is absolutely beautiful.
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: It's inspiring, and the world is on your team, and
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: I'm on your team. So I'm just so that you
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: guys and I've got a front row seat to witness
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 1: something so magical in the sixth or seventh row. But regardless,
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I was on the list. You're at the
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: top of the A list when it comes to like
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 1: our mutual friendless you know, yeah, yeah, I was on
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: the A list. That's all that matters. Um. My favorite
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: thing about Ashley and Jared is this. This is funny
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: because I think it was said the night when we
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: were standing out there, but you really do represent this
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: like TV relationship, like this relationship that's storybook like when
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 1: when people are around you, it just seems different. And
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: and my favorite thing about that is you've both kind
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: of leaned into it and you're both yourselves, which means
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 1: as a couple. I'm such a fan of you guys,
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 1: because you've made yourselves that much better as people. I've
• 1:34:57
  Speaker 1: known you both before you met, and now I known
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: you as you've met, and you both have grown as humans.
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: And I think as we look at relationships and we
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: try to commit to somebody, isn't that what we're looking
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 1: for is a partnership that just makes us better and
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 1: makes us more of ourselves than we ever knew we
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: could be. And that's my favorite thing about you two
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: as a couple is I just am so pumped there.
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 1: There is not many times in my life I've had friends,
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: um date people well until they get married, where I've
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: been like so confident, But since the beginning as a friend,
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: I've just been so pumped that this finally happened and
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: this day is coming up close. You know, then thanks
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: so much. This is like the most amazing way of
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: celebrating our relationship. Like I feel like very warm and
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 1: fuzzy inside. Well you should. This is about you guys.
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: We love you, We love them right, Yeah, it's it
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: was incredible and it's crazy to think that, Like I
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: know I always kind of reminisce, but like thinking about
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 1: like Bachelorette and you and I and like I'll never
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 1: forget sitting next to you at men Tall and you
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: texted me and you're like, man, I was super nervous,
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 1: but like sitting next to you, calm me. You just
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: like say the nicest things, and like meeting Nick in
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: New York when he crashed our season and then like
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 1: gone through Paradise with them and living with them and everything,
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: Like it's just crazy that you go through this weird
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: experience and then you ended up coming out with you know,
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 1: your closest friends, Tanner and Jade, Carly and Evan, um,
• 1:36:21
  Speaker 1: you know, and there's many more. Um, it's just it's
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 1: it's it's wonderful but also just mind boggling to think like, yeah,
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 1: this is this is where it all generated from, this
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 1: is where it all started. There there, and to close
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 1: out this podcast because we do gotta get going, Um,
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 1: there's a night Jared and I always felt, I mean,
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 1: and I think admittedly so I don't know if it's
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: because they were personalities the same or not, but we
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 1: always felt like the outsiders in the batchlight like we
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 1: don't belong here. Um, you mean, you're very fantastic looking
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 1: men with fantastic personalities. You know, it's so funny. It's
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 1: so funny, like how we're all like I'll never forget
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 1: Night one. I remember meeting you and both you and
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 1: I clicked because it was like, what the hell is
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 1: going on? Mcdill's getting drunk la and it was like this,
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell we're doing here and
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 1: I and and Tanner was so funny because he was
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 1: telling me the first time he met you, and Tanner
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 1: is like such a big fan of the show, and
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, as soon as I saw Ben,
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, this is the next Bachelor. Yeah,
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 1: he's told me that before. I don't get it. But
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 1: there's a moment when it was a night that Jared
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 1: ended up going home. We were on a carriage pulling
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 1: up to a castle in Ireland and we're sitting next
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: to each other and we're like, tonight, like this is
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 1: gonna end for one of us, right we you know,
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 1: we we expected it, and we said, but this is
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 1: gonna be one of the coolest life changing experiences and
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 1: who knows what happens next, And this is what happens next.
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 1: And I'm so pumped for you guys. Thank you for
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 1: doing this, thank you for letting me celebrate you guys,
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 1: and also thank you to Dunkin donuts. Yeah, not as
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 1: good as Generous, not as good as Generous coffee, but
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 1: they're doughnuts but a close second. But their donuts heavenly
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 1: pie holes and half bay hairs. For providing our dessert
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 1: bar that's been outside that you guys have enjoyed. Also
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: a big round of applause for creating Barrel once again,
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 1: for putting this whole thing on to make sure. If
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 1: you're getting married or if you just want some more
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 1: stuff to make your house look better, Uh, go to
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 1: them for the wedding registry. Just also go shopping. It's fun. Yeah,
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 1: it's been a pretty awesome being able to do this
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: with gram Barrel. They have such incredible stuff. It's super nice.
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 1: It's awesome. There's dessert and gift bags outside forever that came. Hey,
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 1: i've been been I guess I've been jarred. Later, everyone
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 1: who is part of this podcast, Okay,