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- Lucas: Luna, let me run a scenario by you. You accept a senior role at a company that's in turnaround mode. The CEO tells you they need a strong operator to clean things up. But within your first month, you realize you're not invited to the weekly leadership huddle, your budget requests keep getting rejected, and when something goes wrong, your name is the first one the CEO mentions to the board. Luna: That sounds like you weren't hired to fix the problem. You were hired to be the scapegoat. Lucas: Exactly. And this is a pattern I think is more common than people realize. Some managers deliberately recruit someone to absorb blame for decisions they don't want to own. It's a step beyond the credit-stealing boss we covered in episode 65. This is premeditated. Luna: What are the early warning signs that distinguish a legitimate turnaround role from a scapegoat setup? Lucas: The biggest red flag is what I call the 'responsibility without authority' gap. You're accountable for revenue targets, but you don't have signing authority on marketing spend. You're in charge of a restructuring, but you don't get a seat at the table when headcount decisions are made. If you find yourself in that gap, ask yourself why. Luna: There's also the pattern of being set up to fail publicly. A friend of mine — she was hired as VP of sales at a mid-size software firm. Her first week, the CEO introduced her as 'the person who will turn around our declining renewals.' At a company-wide town hall. Before she'd even seen the renewal data. Lucas: That's a neon sign. If your boss frames your role as 'fixer' in a public setting where failure would be visible, you're being positioned as the insurance policy. If you succeed, they take credit. If you fail, they point at you. Luna: And in that case, the data showed that the renewal decline was actually caused by a product flaw that the engineering team had known about for two years. She had zero control over the roadmap. Lucas: Right. So here's the core question for anyone listening who suspects they might be in this dynamic: were you hired to solve a problem that the people above you created and refuse to acknowledge? If the answer is yes, you're in a scapegoat role, not a leadership role. Luna: So what do you do? You've accepted the job, you're three months in, and the pattern is clear. Lucas: First, you document everything. Not for a lawsuit — yet — but for your own narrative. Every decision you recommend that gets overridden, every meeting you're excluded from, every time you flag a risk and get ignored. Build a timeline. Because when the blame comes, your instinct will be to defend yourself emotionally. You want a paper trail instead. Luna: Second, you need to quietly build relationships with stakeholders outside your boss's line of sight. The board members, the CFO, the heads of other divisions. If your boss is isolating you, you need to create visibility for yourself. Lucas: Exactly. I worked with a marketing director who figured out that her boss, the CMO, had staffed the entire marketing department with scapegoats — three directors hired within six months, all with overlapping responsibilities. She realized the CMO was planning to blame them for a brand crisis that was actually caused by a product safety issue the CMO had hidden from the CEO. Luna: What did she do? Lucas: She started having one-on-one coffee chats with the VP of product and the head of legal. Not to complain about her boss, but to understand the product issue. Within two weeks, she had enough context to write a one-page memo outlining the root cause of the brand crisis — without naming the CMO. She shared it with the CEO as a 'situation assessment.' Luna: And the CEO realized the CMO had been hiding the product issue. Lucas: Correct. The CMO was pushed out within a month. The marketing director survived because she had reframed the narrative before the blame could land on her. But that was a risky move. It only worked because she had allies who were also tired of the CMO's behavior. Luna: That's a high-risk, high-reward strategy. What about the more common scenario where the boss is entrenched and the culture supports scapegoating? Lucas: Then you have to face an uncomfortable truth: the job is not fixable. The best play is to manage your exit on your own terms. Update your resume, activate your network, and leave before the blame event happens. Because once you've been publicly scapegoated, it becomes the story that follows you. Luna: One thing I've seen work is to frame your departure as a 'completion of the project' even if the project failed. Say something like, 'I was brought in to assess the situation, and I've recommended a new direction that the company will implement with a different team.' That way you control the narrative. Lucas: That's smart. And it's honest in a way — you did assess the situation. The key is to not let the organization define your story. You have to define it first. Luna: You know, this topic actually connects to something I've been thinking about. A lot of the advice we give on this show — managing up, setting boundaries, navigating difficult bosses — it's stuff that's helped me personally. And I know it's helped our listeners too. Lucas: It has. And we're able to keep having these conversations without ads pulling us in a different direction because of listener support. So if today's episode was worth a coffee to you, that's the link — buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. Luna: Even a small contribution helps us stay independent. And we really appreciate it. Lucas: Alright. Back to the scapegoat dynamic. There's one more layer I want to touch on, which is how to handle the situation when you're not the only scapegoat — when an entire team or department is being set up. Luna: Like a turnaround situation where the new CEO fires the entire old management team and brings in a 'B team' to take the blame for the necessary layoffs? Lucas: Exactly. I've seen this in private equity-backed companies. The PE firm installs a CEO who brings in a new leadership team, gives them impossible targets, and when the targets are missed, the entire team is replaced. The pattern is predictable if you know what to look for. Luna: What are the tells? Lucas: Number one: the job description is suspiciously broad. 'VP of Operations, responsible for all revenue, cost, and strategy.' That's three jobs. Number two: the timeline is unrealistic. 'Turn around the division in one quarter.' Number three — and this is the big one — the previous person in the role lasted less than a year. Luna: And the recruiter says they 'left for another opportunity.' Lucas: Every time. So if you're interviewing and you see any of those signs, you can ask directly: 'How long did the last person in this role stay? And what happened to them?' If the answer is vague or defensive, you know. Luna: And if you're already in the role and you see the pattern, you have to decide: do you try to survive, or do you leave? Lucas: I think the decision hinges on whether you have a powerful ally above your boss who sees what's happening. If you do, you might have a path to flip the script. If you don't, the smartest career move is to leave before the blame crystallizes. Luna: And when you leave, do you tell the next employer the truth? Lucas: In an interview, you never badmouth a former boss. You say: 'The role turned out to be more about crisis management than strategic change, and I'm looking for a position where I can build something long-term.' That's truthful without being negative. Luna: You also have to let go of the urge to 'fix' the boss or the company. You won't. The scapegoat dynamic is a feature of that organization's culture, not a bug. Lucas: Exactly. The best outcome is that you learn to spot the pattern early in your next search. And you walk away from any role that feels like a setup, no matter how good the title or salary looks. Luna: I think that's the core lesson. Trust the gut feeling you get when you're being set up. Don't rationalize it away. Lucas: And if you've been through it, you now have a radar for it. That's actually a valuable career skill. You'll never be surprised by it again.