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- 0:00Speaker 1: Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist their policy
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- 0:06Speaker 2: Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast catch up podcast.
- 0:11Speaker 1: Today on the show, we talked about the latest trend
- 0:13Speaker 1: in the workplace, which is Corno working ahead.
- 0:16Speaker 3: We've got an update on a zmpeog and it's once again.
- 0:20Speaker 4: What's great use of course, also great news for you, Sam,
- 0:22Speaker 4: because someone else has been labeled the villain on celebrity
- 0:25Speaker 4: treasure Islands, you know what, rightly so they wear their
- 0:27Speaker 4: label well, I think.
- 0:28Speaker 5: Another we're a man funny that.
- 0:30Speaker 4: I know, bringing us into disrepute right now the bit
- 0:37Speaker 4: an update from the Royal Household though heard this so
- 0:39Speaker 4: Kate has come out saying she's completed her chemo.
- 0:43Speaker 5: I must continue to take each day as it comes.
- 0:46Speaker 6: I am, however, looking forward to being back at work
- 0:49Speaker 6: and undertaking a few more public engagements in the coming
- 0:52Speaker 6: months when I can.
- 0:53Speaker 1: Okay, good news is this great news here finishing the
- 0:56Speaker 1: chemo and being able to go out in the public.
- 0:58Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 0:59Speaker 1: And at some lovely photos and video of the family.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Gorgeous photo of her walking through wildfire wildflowers have you
- 1:08Speaker 1: seen them?
- 1:09Speaker 4: I haven't seen the awful Yeah, yeah, they're on holiday
- 1:12Speaker 4: and they take on this footage there and she sits down.
- 1:15Speaker 4: She talks about how the last few weeks, we'll just
- 1:17Speaker 4: sit down, William and I had a chance to be
- 1:19Speaker 4: more thankful for the simple things on the Yeah, do
- 1:22Speaker 4: we know what she's what kind of sickness? She has?
- 1:26Speaker 4: Obviously cancer, but do we have we got any more
- 1:28Speaker 4: insight into that?
- 1:29Speaker 1: Well, remember it was something to do with her like
- 1:32Speaker 1: her stomach, because that she had to have surgery. Remember, Yeah,
- 1:35Speaker 1: that's why we all thought it was abdominal surgery. So
- 1:39Speaker 1: she hasn't been specifical on that yet anyway.
- 1:42Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, but either way, though she's there,
- 1:44Speaker 4: she's obviously looking she looks good. I mean, who knows
- 1:47Speaker 4: how long this has been going on for, but she
- 1:48Speaker 4: looks amazing.
- 1:49Speaker 1: And just be careful of some of the headlines that
- 1:50Speaker 1: are going around this morning, because if you deal, there's
- 1:53Speaker 1: a lot of head blinds saying she's cancer free, and
- 1:55Speaker 1: then you delve deeper into the articles and it says
- 1:58Speaker 1: it's indicated that it's not possible at this day to
- 2:00Speaker 1: say whether she was officially cancer free. Patients are usually
- 2:03Speaker 1: declared free of the disease when there has been no
- 2:05Speaker 1: detectable cancer in the body for five years and it
- 2:08Speaker 1: obviously hasn't been that stage, right, So I think they're
- 2:11Speaker 1: very much like we don't know what the roady heat is.
- 2:13Speaker 5: But at this moment in time, I'm positive.
- 2:16Speaker 4: Here what a great way to start at dude, nice
- 2:19Speaker 4: lovely updated again. If you following the royal family on Instagram,
- 2:22Speaker 4: you'll see little update there in the little video. It's beautiful.
- 2:25Speaker 4: I found this yesterday. I thought this is this is
- 2:27Speaker 4: actually quite surprising. It's about women. Thirty percent of women,
- 2:30Speaker 4: so they've got two. They use of these regularly. They
- 2:33Speaker 4: own heaps more, but they only really only ever used
- 2:35Speaker 4: the two of them.
- 2:36Speaker 1: So that's seventy percent of women aren't in this category.
- 2:39Speaker 1: So this is a minority.
- 2:41Speaker 4: Yeah, I suppose for the years.
- 2:42Speaker 5: Right, because it's only thirty percent.
- 2:44Speaker 4: I'm even surprised that it's actually thirty percent even, to
- 2:46Speaker 4: be honest.
- 2:47Speaker 5: So you think more people should be using more of these?
- 2:49Speaker 4: I do? I do? Yeah, Yeah, I know what this is. Oh,
- 2:53Speaker 4: I don't want to say it that because it'll ruin
- 2:54Speaker 4: the whole thing. Do you want me to say it?
- 2:56Speaker 7: Right? Down.
- 2:57Speaker 5: I feel like they do.
- 2:58Speaker 1: You go, oh no, just say it every time.
- 3:02Speaker 5: You never get it right.
- 3:03Speaker 4: Jason, the answer is the hair brush. Oh no, it's
- 3:07Speaker 4: not it.
- 3:09Speaker 5: Is it shoes.
- 3:10Speaker 4: No, it's not shoes either. That's a great guess, though,
- 3:12Speaker 4: both of them are great guesses. See if an even
- 3:14Speaker 4: get this right before half past six ako. So thirty
- 3:16Speaker 4: percent of women say they have two that they use
- 3:19Speaker 4: these regularly. They're their favorite too. They've got heaps of them,
- 3:22Speaker 4: but they only use these two of them.
- 3:24Speaker 1: There are so many things, and by wardrobe when I
- 3:27Speaker 1: look at it now, that just sit there and I
- 3:29Speaker 1: keep them, but I haven't used them in like twenty years.
- 3:32Speaker 4: What about your lipstick?
- 3:33Speaker 1: Though, I've got about fifty million lipsticks, and how many
- 3:37Speaker 1: do I use?
- 3:37Speaker 5: Virtually? No, virtually none is a lipstick.
- 3:41Speaker 4: It's not fair either. Even get low eight hundred double
- 3:43Speaker 4: four Coast South phone number or flig it's eased to
- 3:46Speaker 4: two sixty nine nine. Big news for the Beacons yesterday.
- 3:49Speaker 4: So the Creative Emmy Awards were held yesterday. The Primetime
- 3:52Speaker 4: Emmys next week. Now those are the ones for Best Actor,
- 3:54Speaker 4: Best TV Shows and stuff that's next week, So they're
- 3:56Speaker 4: behind the scenes ones. Were yesterday and the winner of
- 3:58Speaker 4: Outstanding Documentary your non fiction series, Beckham, Tell the Last,
- 4:03Speaker 4: Tell the Truth. My dad had a roller or something poor.
- 4:08Speaker 1: We were just speakling when that because we were really
- 4:11Speaker 1: vibing the spice skills. Just then when they're saying our
- 4:14Speaker 1: song stop came out And that was in nineteen ninety seven.
- 4:17Speaker 1: What we what were you did? That was me in
- 4:18Speaker 1: third form. So that's prime spice skills loving girl right there.
- 4:22Speaker 1: That's like thirteen year old girl, Oh wow, sixteen sixteen
- 4:25Speaker 1: year old boy loving the spices.
- 4:27Speaker 4: Girls plea nineteen ninety seven. Okay, am I twenty first
- 4:31Speaker 4: I was my yard glass listening to spice Girls. Thank
- 4:35Speaker 4: you manly. You're a real bloke, right, real. So it
- 4:42Speaker 4: was women though. So they've got two of these that
- 4:44Speaker 4: they used regularly. They own more of them, but they
- 4:46Speaker 4: only ever used two apparently. So Paul, you're a woman,
- 4:48Speaker 4: what do you reckon it is? That's a great guess.
- 4:53Speaker 5: That was a good guess.
- 4:54Speaker 4: Apparently it's quite a common thing to do only use
- 4:56Speaker 4: one or two of those.
- 4:56Speaker 5: You go to your favorites like you have them all
- 4:58Speaker 5: sitting there.
- 4:59Speaker 1: But the comfor especially the ones that just go nicely
- 5:02Speaker 1: with a T shirt over the top.
- 5:03Speaker 8: Yeah, we'll pick them off the floor from the.
- 5:07Speaker 5: Bras, twirling them round the room, swinging them across.
- 5:10Speaker 4: How many wheres you get out of a bra?
- 5:12Speaker 2: Like?
- 5:13Speaker 4: Is it like a wash every time?
- 5:15Speaker 9: Thing?
- 5:15Speaker 8: I don't, No, never do I one one to wash
- 5:19Speaker 8: two weirs?
- 5:20Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd probably go one to two weirs as well.
- 5:22Speaker 1: Women aren't all sweety like.
- 5:24Speaker 4: Men's interesting years, an interesting lifestyle. But no, it's not that,
- 5:28Speaker 4: not a bra, No, Shane, what are you reckon?
- 5:30Speaker 5: It is Shane?
- 5:33Speaker 4: Shane? What do you think, mate?
- 5:35Speaker 9: I reckon?
- 5:36Speaker 8: It's I reckon, it's makeup brushes.
- 5:39Speaker 4: I'll get the other the two that have come f
- 5:40Speaker 4: on the face. Yeah, is it that, Jas, It's not
- 5:44Speaker 4: that Shane. No, No, women, no, not that.
- 5:46Speaker 1: I want to let you know, Shane, that I used
- 5:48Speaker 1: about four makeup brushes this morning, so I'm not in
- 5:50Speaker 1: that thirty percent. It looks good too, Street, I slept
- 5:54Speaker 1: it on today, real stick on a peg?
- 5:56Speaker 4: Yeah, hello, what are you regular? Thirty percent of women
- 6:02Speaker 4: have two of these they use regularly. They go to
- 6:04Speaker 4: They've got a whole bunch of them, but they use
- 6:06Speaker 4: the two. What are what are they?
- 6:08Speaker 1: Oh?
- 6:09Speaker 4: Morning? Good morning. What do you think it's Jessica?
- 6:14Speaker 3: I think earrings.
- 6:15Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's another great guest too, Yes is that No,
- 6:19Speaker 4: it's coffee mugs. I'll go and slap them for you.
- 6:32Speaker 4: Product you threw us with a gilly thing. Apparents what
- 6:36Speaker 4: women do? Women?
- 6:37Speaker 5: Let's find out. Do you do? You have just two
- 6:40Speaker 5: coffee mugs?
- 6:41Speaker 4: No, you own them, but you got you've got your
- 6:42Speaker 4: go to is right?
- 6:47Speaker 9: Yeah?
- 6:48Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, no, you're right. I probably have my one
- 6:51Speaker 5: at work and then I always go to at home.
- 6:54Speaker 4: Yeah. See, apparently it's really common.
- 6:55Speaker 1: Well, to be fair, I think this this is probably
- 6:59Speaker 1: from men as well. When you go to your coffee mug,
- 7:02Speaker 1: we've got a draw at home. I always go for
- 7:04Speaker 1: a particular cup because I like the thin stem and
- 7:07Speaker 1: I don't want the one that's got the coffee stains
- 7:09Speaker 1: on it, and I don't want the big flowers.
- 7:11Speaker 3: Favor exactly the same every single morning. I grabbed the
- 7:14Speaker 3: same black coffee cup at work.
- 7:15Speaker 1: And we've got about fifty black cups here, so you're
- 7:18Speaker 1: probably grabbing a different one evering.
- 7:20Speaker 3: Water, but the same shape, the same form as so
- 7:22Speaker 3: much the white and the blue one. Now we've got
- 7:25Speaker 3: six of them. But look, my point is that was
- 7:29Speaker 3: really lame. But you're right.
- 7:32Speaker 4: That wonderful producer. Rosie joins us now for Rosie's review
- 7:34Speaker 4: The Princess Bride this week.
- 7:36Speaker 6: Rosie, it was I watched it yesterday and the first
- 7:40Speaker 6: thing I have to say is, so many things in
- 7:43Speaker 6: this movie don't make sense at all, like at all,
- 7:47Speaker 6: But what what's it about?
- 7:48Speaker 5: Again? Because I actually can hard they were.
- 7:50Speaker 6: So Wesley as this farm boy and the princess. The
- 7:55Speaker 6: princess is getting married and she ends up falling in
- 7:57Speaker 6: love with the farm boy.
- 7:58Speaker 5: The farm boy.
- 7:59Speaker 6: Leaves and she thinks she gets killed. He gets killed
- 8:02Speaker 6: on this boat. So she ends up marrying or trying
- 8:06Speaker 6: to get married to the prince and then finds out
- 8:10Speaker 6: that he is still alive and he basically tries to
- 8:13Speaker 6: rescue her, sort of a summary of.
- 8:16Speaker 1: It's not Ann Hathaway, that's the wrong one, that she
- 8:20Speaker 1: was in The Prince's Bride, the Princess Briderdernation.
- 8:28Speaker 6: But the biggest part of that whole thing that doesn't
- 8:30Speaker 6: make any sense is he goes from being this farm
- 8:32Speaker 6: boy to being like one of the greatest pirates ever alive,
- 8:36Speaker 6: and he's doing these massive sword fights, beating all of
- 8:38Speaker 6: these insanely rich people who have been studying sword fighting
- 8:43Speaker 6: their whole lives, and suddenly he's just gone from working
- 8:47Speaker 6: at the stables, like working with some hay so like
- 8:50Speaker 6: winning all these fights and.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Say, what's really important to note here is the lead
- 8:55Speaker 1: actress is not, in fact Ane Hathway. It's Robin Wright,
- 8:58Speaker 1: who was of course the Prison and House of Cards,
- 9:01Speaker 1: who was Jenny and Forrest Gump.
- 9:02Speaker 5: So this is great pedigree and Mary.
- 9:05Speaker 4: Sean pen Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you like it? I did.
- 9:10Speaker 6: I did like it, And there was a few moments
- 9:13Speaker 6: where I was genuinely quite scared, Like this this scene.
- 9:20Speaker 8: Do you know what that sound is?
- 9:24Speaker 4: Those are the shrinking eels.
- 9:26Speaker 5: They always grow louder when they're about to feed on human.
- 9:35Speaker 4: Why would you call that scene up?
- 9:36Speaker 3: And not the scene where they've got two goblets of
- 9:38Speaker 3: one with a poisoning but he was immune to the poison.
- 9:40Speaker 5: And no, that's scene there. How did that get there?
- 9:44Speaker 6: They're in the middle of nowhere and suddenly there is
- 9:47Speaker 6: a table.
- 9:48Speaker 10: With wine and cheese and goblets, Like, what's going on
- 9:52Speaker 10: the situation. There was also another really scary scene, the
- 9:57Speaker 10: rodents scene, where he's being attacked by this rodent, right,
- 10:01Speaker 10: and she literally just stands there while Wisley is getting fully.
- 10:07Speaker 5: Like muled.
- 10:11Speaker 6: Talk.
- 10:12Speaker 5: No, yeah, but it was a giant rodent.
- 10:15Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 10:15Speaker 6: They were in this place called the fire Swamp and
- 10:18Speaker 6: it was really attacking him and she was just standing there, going,
- 10:21Speaker 6: oh no, she's.
- 10:22Speaker 4: A damsel in distress.
- 10:23Speaker 5: That's what they do, seven sword.
- 10:29Speaker 6: And it was across the other side of the swamp.
- 10:32Speaker 6: She could have ran and picked it up and thrown
- 10:33Speaker 6: it to him, she was.
- 10:34Speaker 4: Just still there.
- 10:35Speaker 5: We hadn't had girl power.
- 10:38Speaker 6: Get in there, girl, come on, what are you doing?
- 10:41Speaker 5: Anyways?
- 10:42Speaker 6: Other than it being scary, it still looked very fake,
- 10:45Speaker 6: like a lot of those other we've been watching.
- 10:48Speaker 5: And yeah, exactly, there is something about it.
- 10:51Speaker 4: Rosies.
- 10:52Speaker 6: Maybe in nine out of twelve Rosies.
- 10:56Speaker 4: It was good.
- 10:58Speaker 6: And to sum it up, I think this bit of
- 11:00Speaker 6: audio sums up the whole movie perfectly.
- 11:02Speaker 7: Famishing, fading, torture, revenge, giants, monsters, chases, escapes, true love, miracles.
- 11:14Speaker 4: That's the.
- 11:16Speaker 5: Film, something for everyone.
- 11:20Speaker 4: Thanks for taking us back down that memory lane, Rosie.
- 11:23Speaker 4: It's the gift that keeps on giving, isn't it? Zenpic?
- 11:25Speaker 4: We talk a lot about it on the show.
- 11:27Speaker 1: The last time you spoke about it, it was a negative,
- 11:29Speaker 1: the one negative which was wasn't it depression?
- 11:33Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 11:34Speaker 3: Yeah, we've worked through that though, because there's another wonderful benefits.
- 11:37Speaker 4: The latest on the list, because of course.
- 11:39Speaker 3: It can pretty much do everything cardiovascular disease, It makes
- 11:43Speaker 3: you pregnant when you can't get pregnant, and the latest
- 11:45Speaker 3: is it's anti inflammatory properties.
- 11:48Speaker 4: So how does that? How does that make us feel?
- 11:50Speaker 7: Well?
- 11:52Speaker 5: What are we talking? It just stops us being soorn?
- 11:54Speaker 3: Now, well, it's more than that, because kind of baseline
- 11:57Speaker 3: inflammation is the is the what causes heart disease.
- 12:00Speaker 4: And all other things and cancers and everything like that.
- 12:03Speaker 5: Is there a menopause version?
- 12:05Speaker 4: It probably helps us. Probably does? Can I reach you
- 12:09Speaker 4: some science speak?
- 12:11Speaker 3: So the potential to lower systemic inflammation within the body,
- 12:14Speaker 3: both in the intestines and beyond, so really good for
- 12:17Speaker 3: Crohn's disease as well. So low level information, as j says,
- 12:21Speaker 3: linked to a wide var variety of chronic conditions in
- 12:24Speaker 3: concluning heart disease, cancer, obesity, diabetes, and neuro degenerative disorders.
- 12:29Speaker 3: So it goes on the patients who had received semi
- 12:32Speaker 3: gluetide orzen pink not only lost weight, they had a
- 12:35Speaker 3: stunning twenty percent decrease in cardiovascular events, including cardiovascular death,
- 12:40Speaker 3: heart attacks, strokes. In additions, semi glue tide decrease heart
- 12:44Speaker 3: failure and all cause mortality all cause by nineteen percent.
- 12:50Speaker 4: So remember this, this came out as an antidiabetics strike, right,
- 12:52Speaker 4: and then they realized, well, these people are losing weight
- 12:54Speaker 4: so fast. So all the celebrity has gone on it,
- 12:56Speaker 4: and apparently it's been approved in New Zealand, but we
- 12:58Speaker 4: can't get it yet.
- 12:59Speaker 1: Trying to burst your but I also saw an oz
- 13:02Speaker 1: empic story because I feel like there's one every second
- 13:04Speaker 1: day this week.
- 13:05Speaker 4: Is it a bad one? Yeah, this is what we
- 13:07Speaker 4: need to in the show.
- 13:08Speaker 5: It's all about balance.
- 13:09Speaker 1: It was about a lady suing the Ocempic manufacturer after
- 13:12Speaker 1: alleging medication lead to her colon being removed.
- 13:16Speaker 4: Yeah, well, no one likes sa colon.
- 13:18Speaker 5: I'm just saying just for your balance, for your for
- 13:21Speaker 5: your update.
- 13:21Speaker 4: It didn't really help her with her with her information.
- 13:29Speaker 5: It's one case.
- 13:31Speaker 3: Remember when you consider all of the different She's skiddy.
- 13:36Speaker 2: So coasts, feel good, breakfast catch Up podcast with Coasts
- 13:42Speaker 2: Tony Street, Jason Reeves and Sam Wallas.
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- 14:05Speaker 1: Is it rude to ask a guest to take their
- 14:07Speaker 1: shoes off? I saw this headline on the Huffington Post
- 14:10Speaker 1: and I went, m No, I don't think it's rude.
- 14:14Speaker 1: But then it's sort of ignited a greater debate in me.
- 14:17Speaker 1: How often do you actually take your shoes off?
- 14:19Speaker 5: Now? How often are people setting those rules?
- 14:22Speaker 1: And because we're a house, right, I remember thinking, oh, yeah,
- 14:26Speaker 1: of course you take your shoes off at the door.
- 14:28Speaker 1: But I'm in a house now where I wouldn't expect
- 14:31Speaker 1: people to take their shoes off, and I go, don't
- 14:33Speaker 1: worry about it, And I think the reason we're like
- 14:35Speaker 1: that in our house is because we have so many
- 14:38Speaker 1: young kids netballers coming in all the time. Like, you
- 14:41Speaker 1: know what my house is like. Sometimes I have thirty
- 14:43Speaker 1: kids on a Sunday for netball, and if they all
- 14:45Speaker 1: took their shoes off, I couldn't get past my front door.
- 14:48Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's just easier, And then you try
- 14:50Speaker 1: and go out the door. I don't want my kids
- 14:52Speaker 1: to be sitting there for ten minutes trying to put
- 14:54Speaker 1: these shoes on.
- 14:54Speaker 5: It's just easier if they get them on earlier.
- 14:56Speaker 1: Yeah, totally, and sacrifice the carpet because of that.
- 14:59Speaker 3: You know, when you walk and there's a house that's
- 15:01Speaker 3: like one hundred percent shoes off policy, because the carpet
- 15:04Speaker 3: is immaculate, there's always like a weird kind of like
- 15:07Speaker 3: plastic sheet there just to remind you, Yeah, there's a
- 15:11Speaker 3: that's you walk in and you're like, oh gosh, I can see,
- 15:17Speaker 3: and then you sit down. Then you have to take
- 15:18Speaker 3: your shoes off, and it's like, I don't know, I
- 15:21Speaker 3: get why it used to be like that.
- 15:22Speaker 4: I think times have changed. I think flooring is better.
- 15:25Speaker 5: I don't know that it is.
- 15:25Speaker 4: Floring has improved.
- 15:27Speaker 1: Because I think wooden floors. People still don't want heels.
- 15:31Speaker 1: Like I've been to parties where people are like, don't
- 15:33Speaker 1: wear heels because it's going to put still in no
- 15:36Speaker 1: marks in our wood floor. Do you do you feel
- 15:39Speaker 1: affronted if you have to take you do you Is
- 15:43Speaker 1: that because your feet aren't clean?
- 15:45Speaker 4: No, it's more just it's more about my flexibility. It's
- 15:48Speaker 4: a real ordeal.
- 15:50Speaker 5: That's where I am.
- 15:51Speaker 4: I can't.
- 15:54Speaker 5: What's what's your thought on this chase? Do we have
- 15:56Speaker 5: to take your shoes off of your house? No?
- 15:59Speaker 4: We've got those loves, those nice wooden floors, but not
- 16:01Speaker 4: on us. No, I don't. You don't need to bring
- 16:04Speaker 4: about you wooden floors. It's an amazing.
- 16:08Speaker 1: Do you know what, I don't even think it's a
- 16:10Speaker 1: wooden floor thing. Sometimes it's nice just to get people
- 16:12Speaker 1: to chill and take your shoes off so that you're
- 16:14Speaker 1: in a relax.
- 16:15Speaker 4: So if we often do when the kids come home
- 16:16Speaker 4: from school, we trying to do that so the kids
- 16:17Speaker 4: can relax after school. So basically take the uniform off
- 16:19Speaker 4: and now you're at home time things we take shoes off.
- 16:21Speaker 4: It's fine, But if people come to a house, honest
- 16:23Speaker 4: to God, hand on hard. If they say shoes on
- 16:25Speaker 4: or off? I lead on. I don't know.
- 16:27Speaker 5: Why do I feel like that hurts you?
- 16:29Speaker 4: It does my wife.
- 16:35Speaker 1: People pleasing by saying, yeah, don't you reckon. No one's
- 16:39Speaker 1: fully relaxed when they've got the shoes all of Then
- 16:42Speaker 1: you're all sitting.
- 16:42Speaker 5: On the couch and you're all up tight with your shoes.
- 16:45Speaker 4: Let them off, shoes off house, if you are you can.
- 16:50Speaker 5: This is an honest, open floor, honest we will not
- 16:53Speaker 5: break you for your up race.
- 16:56Speaker 4: Right little man about you? She's order off at your place?
- 17:01Speaker 4: Isn't it rude to ask I eight one hundred double
- 17:03Speaker 4: O four cost iPhone number it takes to two six
- 17:05Speaker 4: nine nine shoes on, shoes off? Making the news of
- 17:08Speaker 4: the month because they're asking the question, is it rude?
- 17:10Speaker 5: Anisa? What do you think? Are your shoes on or
- 17:12Speaker 5: shoes off? Kind of goal? I'm the shoes on that
- 17:16Speaker 5: kind of goal.
- 17:17Speaker 1: I get driven a little bit nuts if I go
- 17:19Speaker 1: to somebody's house and they want me to take my
- 17:21Speaker 1: shoes off.
- 17:22Speaker 8: I mean, unless you've been.
- 17:23Speaker 4: Out jogging or running and sneakers.
- 17:26Speaker 8: Or you're in gum boots, or you're a.
- 17:28Speaker 4: Trade in work, boots. They think, just normal shoes you
- 17:31Speaker 4: should be allowed to leave them on. And often they're
- 17:33Speaker 4: a woman as part of.
- 17:34Speaker 8: Your outfit, so you get a little bit late.
- 17:37Speaker 1: Really, Yep, coordinate the outside side of things, because especially
- 17:41Speaker 1: if you've put on some heels for you know, with
- 17:43Speaker 1: a dress, it's just not the same.
- 17:45Speaker 4: Flat foot heels are easy to slip on and off, though,
- 17:47Speaker 4: aren't they.
- 17:48Speaker 5: No, No, that's quite often they'll have a.
- 17:50Speaker 4: Buckle, Gary, she's on or shoes off?
- 17:54Speaker 7: Gary, you're under the health from shafety egg which on
- 17:57Speaker 7: their health and the health and safety rip it actually
- 18:00Speaker 7: under the health and so no, you do not take
- 18:04Speaker 7: your shoes off.
- 18:05Speaker 4: I did not know that. I thought trading is supposed
- 18:07Speaker 4: to take the shoes off.
- 18:08Speaker 7: No, Cross, It.
- 18:14Speaker 4: Annoys me more than health and safety.
- 18:15Speaker 5: Though, don't say that to Gary.
- 18:19Speaker 4: That's awkward, true though, there you go science, the scientists
- 18:23Speaker 4: thinking you should take them off because of E. Coole
- 18:24Speaker 4: I bacteria on your shot on your souls.
- 18:26Speaker 1: Jace, I know you're going through a lot of in
- 18:27Speaker 1: the tumoil right now because you're a rule follower and
- 18:30Speaker 1: you don't want to make people unsavory your home. But
- 18:32Speaker 1: you also don't want people on your nice floors and
- 18:34Speaker 1: your rich house.
- 18:37Speaker 5: I don't know what you're going to do about. This
- 18:38Speaker 5: is going to keep you up at night.
- 18:41Speaker 4: It's even divided on the text. But thank you for that,
- 18:44Speaker 4: Margot and Rosa the two Rules sisters are here and Margo.
- 18:47Speaker 4: Congratulations and have your birthday today. Oh thanks, thank you.
- 18:51Speaker 5: Rate people are very much.
- 18:53Speaker 11: Oh yeah, Tony, he says, zero.
- 18:59Speaker 4: Again, what a great persent you're giving everyone else to
- 19:01Speaker 4: And you book out. Now, you had a book a
- 19:02Speaker 4: little while ago called Salad? What's this one called.
- 19:05Speaker 5: This is More Salad?
- 19:06Speaker 11: So this.
- 19:08Speaker 4: Better than salad? Are you running out of ideas for salads? Oh?
- 19:12Speaker 7: Oh no.
- 19:13Speaker 11: We were pushing it with this, but we had an
- 19:16Speaker 11: extra year to write More Salad. And it's actually the
- 19:19Speaker 11: first book we're really proud of, which sounds sounds weird,
- 19:23Speaker 11: but everything about it, from the recipes, the look, the feel,
- 19:28Speaker 11: we're just so proud of it. It's definitely our best
- 19:30Speaker 11: book yet for sure.
- 19:31Speaker 1: Can I just say, because I've got salad and I
- 19:34Speaker 1: feel like the salad before the More Salad book, and
- 19:37Speaker 1: I feel like it changed the way that I put
- 19:40Speaker 1: salads together. I love how you broke it down and
- 19:43Speaker 1: you had a whole lot of like the sources or
- 19:46Speaker 1: the dressings that you make secretly and then you construct
- 19:48Speaker 1: your salad basically from there.
- 19:50Speaker 5: It was all different parts and I love that.
- 19:52Speaker 1: But also don't be fooled because in more salad you're thinking, okay, greens,
- 19:56Speaker 1: Well this recipe crispy potato potatoes and smoke for peaka seats.
- 20:01Speaker 5: Now that's my salads. They are delicious and tony.
- 20:05Speaker 12: If you look down the bottom of the end, every
- 20:06Speaker 12: risk pee we've got to swap. So we tell you
- 20:09Speaker 12: what you can swap out this season, what you've got
- 20:13Speaker 12: in your fridge, what you've got in your garden, and
- 20:15Speaker 12: we've got to swap with the seasons, guides that you
- 20:17Speaker 12: can guide, that you can refer to. She become educated
- 20:21Speaker 12: and what's about at what time? Is it's pretty cool?
- 20:24Speaker 4: I love it and so therefore it's like it's it's
- 20:26Speaker 4: options as well, so it doesn't matter what season. It's
- 20:28Speaker 4: a year law is a year round, all year round.
- 20:32Speaker 4: Camel favorite salads. Love that what.
- 20:41Speaker 5: Was It's just not the same without dessert.
- 20:45Speaker 11: We're both big sweet tooths, and I think you have
- 20:47Speaker 11: to finish dessert at the end of the night.
- 20:49Speaker 4: You guys are a wonderful collaboration.
- 20:51Speaker 3: Do you ever argue over salads?
- 20:56Speaker 5: If she's made a salad.
- 21:04Speaker 4: You're sort of the financial control of this. You hold
- 21:07Speaker 4: the purse ring, so you argue about where the money
- 21:09Speaker 4: gets spent.
- 21:11Speaker 12: I'm the one that definitely keeps control of everything.
- 21:15Speaker 5: But you know, we have quite.
- 21:16Speaker 12: Separate roles in the book, but it works so casively
- 21:19Speaker 12: that we love the projects so much because it's our
- 21:23Speaker 12: own strengths.
- 21:25Speaker 5: Really shine when you open it up.
- 21:26Speaker 12: Like Margot takes all of the food photography photos. She
- 21:30Speaker 12: does all of the design work, and I do all
- 21:33Speaker 12: of the recipe creation, probably more of the first part
- 21:37Speaker 12: of the book, deciding what's going to be in the book,
- 21:39Speaker 12: how the book's going to be broken up into sections,
- 21:43Speaker 12: and then I do all of the stuff in the
- 21:45Speaker 12: kitchen on the book shoot, placing up.
- 21:47Speaker 3: The salads and congratulations because you are pregnant.
- 21:50Speaker 4: How did that happen? Don't happen?
- 21:58Speaker 5: I don't into all of us. Is it actually pretty?
- 22:00Speaker 11: Yeah?
- 22:01Speaker 5: Book?
- 22:04Speaker 3: Out of the influence writing a book about salad when
- 22:07Speaker 3: you're not really meant to eat sell it.
- 22:07Speaker 1: When your prenne salad, you just have to make sure
- 22:10Speaker 1: it's washed really strict rules around you everywhere.
- 22:16Speaker 12: Yeah, I've been pretty lenient in terms of what I've
- 22:18Speaker 12: been eating. I'm lucky enough to have a big vigigarden
- 22:21Speaker 12: a home, so I'm confident eating the greens that I
- 22:25Speaker 12: am growing myself. But I definitely I was always adamant
- 22:29Speaker 12: I'm never going to go off salads when I'm pregnant.
- 22:32Speaker 12: And I had about a month where Margot made me
- 22:34Speaker 12: this beautiful salad and I couldn't touch it and I
- 22:37Speaker 12: went for bread and butter instead.
- 22:39Speaker 5: And that's just not me.
- 22:43Speaker 1: And that's pretty exciting for you guys. Baby on the way,
- 22:47Speaker 1: you're going to be an auntie. This summer is going
- 22:50Speaker 1: to be pretty fun for you guys in quite a
- 22:51Speaker 1: different perspective when it comes to eating when suddenly there's
- 22:54Speaker 1: a child in the mix too.
- 22:55Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 22:55Speaker 12: Well, I said to my husband and to Margo, if
- 22:58Speaker 12: you come coming around for dinner when I've got the baby,
- 23:01Speaker 12: just like salads and cook something on the barbie and
- 23:04Speaker 12: I'll be happy. A lot of people do all the
- 23:07Speaker 12: freezer meal things, but because it's in summer, that's going
- 23:10Speaker 12: to be the book that's going to be on my
- 23:12Speaker 12: kitchen table, and people can go to that. We've broken
- 23:15Speaker 12: the book up into three sections, so there's raw and Fresh,
- 23:18Speaker 12: which is if you don't have much time at all,
- 23:21Speaker 12: you can go to that, and they're all like under
- 23:22Speaker 12: twenty minutes.
- 23:23Speaker 5: And then there's the pan fried if.
- 23:24Speaker 11: You've got a little bit more time but still want
- 23:26Speaker 11: something quite quack, and then the oven roasted. But most
- 23:29Speaker 11: of the recipes i'd say ninety percent under thirty minutes.
- 23:32Speaker 11: And that just happened because we've just cooked what we
- 23:35Speaker 11: really love to cook.
- 23:36Speaker 4: I love it. Margo, congratulations, Happy birthday again. Rosa congratulations,
- 23:40Speaker 4: thank you your arrival. And by the way, just one
- 23:42Speaker 4: quick question. Shoes on or off at your house?
- 23:44Speaker 12: Shoe actually just seeing that article there, well I got
- 23:48Speaker 12: told of my brothers to take my shoes off last
- 23:50Speaker 12: night and I was a bit.
- 23:54Speaker 5: No shoes on.
- 23:57Speaker 4: Got dog.
- 23:58Speaker 1: So we need to talk about the latest trend in
- 24:03Speaker 1: the workplace. So no, it's not flexy hours post COVID,
- 24:07Speaker 1: which I think a lot of people are enjoying and
- 24:09Speaker 1: you seek to be a full advantage. We're talking about
- 24:12Speaker 1: a new trend called chrono working. Have you heard about it?
- 24:16Speaker 1: So essentially what it is it's almost tailoring the work
- 24:20Speaker 1: hours mortal an individual, So it's your individual circadian rhythm,
- 24:25Speaker 1: so your sleep wake cycle, and where you operate best.
- 24:28Speaker 1: So for example, are you a morning person where you
- 24:32Speaker 1: just you know, you kick ass in the morning, you
- 24:33Speaker 1: get it all done, or are you a night our?
- 24:36Speaker 1: So which one of you two? I hope you guys
- 24:38Speaker 1: are warning people. I always wondered why you were working out.
- 24:45Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I got into it. You quano worked yesterday?
- 24:49Speaker 3: I really dialed in later at the end of the day.
- 24:51Speaker 1: So what it involves chrono working, It requires careful planning
- 24:55Speaker 1: and consideration of the employer's employees. Needs to start by
- 24:59Speaker 1: understanding the individual time preferences, peak productivity periods of their employees.
- 25:03Speaker 1: So this means right, so they'll collect data. So for example,
- 25:07Speaker 1: if we just decided, now let's take the Coast team
- 25:09Speaker 1: and go, okay, let's work out at what time in
- 25:12Speaker 1: the day the most productive, when do they have a
- 25:14Speaker 1: dip and just fall off the ball of it? And
- 25:16Speaker 1: then you work out what hours they should be working.
- 25:19Speaker 1: So it could involve a split shift, like if you're
- 25:22Speaker 1: someone that just sort of does nothing between the hours
- 25:25Speaker 1: of one and four, maybe you shouldn't be working. Then
- 25:28Speaker 1: maybe you work till one, you go home, you take
- 25:30Speaker 1: a nap, you do what you need to do, and
- 25:32Speaker 1: then you log back on at night and.
- 25:33Speaker 5: Do a three or four hours and then when you're better.
- 25:35Speaker 3: Do you know the problem for me is I'm not
- 25:36Speaker 3: really a morning person or an evening first.
- 25:38Speaker 1: What if they go through Sam's chrono day and they're like, oh,
- 25:41Speaker 1: he's in a dip for a lot of this day,
- 25:43Speaker 1: this man fired.
- 25:46Speaker 4: This evening. I quite like this, Yeah, where was your
- 25:49Speaker 4: position yourself? Who would you be?
- 25:50Speaker 1: Do you know what I just I've noticed about myself? Hardcore? No,
- 25:54Speaker 1: I go into a zombie zone around three o'clock, four
- 25:58Speaker 1: o'clock every day. We're literally sit and I almost physically
- 26:01Speaker 1: can't move. So there's no way I should be doing
- 26:04Speaker 1: anything around that time.
- 26:05Speaker 5: And usually I'm forced to pick up the kids from school.
- 26:07Speaker 1: It's so annoying, Like what if I could just change
- 26:11Speaker 1: that as well, so that I could just be asleep
- 26:13Speaker 1: at them.
- 26:13Speaker 3: A moment revolutionized for school day as well.
- 26:17Speaker 4: Move that around.
- 26:17Speaker 5: I see other people here who aren't on the radio.
- 26:20Speaker 5: It ended me.
- 26:21Speaker 1: I see them out there at six am, and I
- 26:23Speaker 1: think that's an early circadian rhythm.
- 26:25Speaker 4: Now I hope.
- 26:26Speaker 1: I hope those people go home early. But but just
- 26:28Speaker 1: be aware if your boss is going to analyze your
- 26:30Speaker 1: behavior today and you've got a lot of dips that
- 26:33Speaker 1: also like me, and you lose your job.
- 26:35Speaker 13: Jesus on Coast, they said, I don't ever start at
- 26:39Speaker 13: four point thirty class.
- 26:46Speaker 4: All right, let's roll the dice, shall we. How's your
- 26:48Speaker 4: chronological working on this one? Is your brain awake? Oh?
- 26:51Speaker 4: Eight hundred double O four coast?
- 26:53Speaker 1: Don't look at me, mate, Well you said you're you're
- 26:55Speaker 1: in a good circadian rhythm in the morning.
- 26:59Speaker 4: Go home now. Also take us money, all right, So
- 27:01Speaker 4: we've rolled Sam on the dice. That means you get
- 27:03Speaker 4: to call us right now on our eight hundred double
- 27:05Speaker 4: O four coast. You give five general knowledge questions in
- 27:07Speaker 4: a game called the Chasers. Sam won't hear that we're
- 27:09Speaker 4: going to bring them back into the studio afterwards. If
- 27:11Speaker 4: you can't answer your score, you win three hundred dollars.
- 27:14Speaker 4: Good luck, Good Jesus on Coast.
- 27:19Speaker 8: Hi, my name Laaren from Kapadi and I'm taking on
- 27:22Speaker 8: Sam the Superchaser and if I win, then we're going
- 27:25Speaker 8: up with dinner tonight.
- 27:27Speaker 4: Very nice, Warren, where are you going to go.
- 27:29Speaker 8: I'm probably from my local owned company. This heats a
- 27:31Speaker 8: great reference.
- 27:33Speaker 5: Nice. How does Sammy get super chaser status? We're jealous
- 27:37Speaker 5: like that?
- 27:38Speaker 4: I know.
- 27:38Speaker 8: He just always seem so confident.
- 27:39Speaker 4: Yeah, it does. It does say that a thin line
- 27:45Speaker 4: between arrogance. But here I am.
- 27:48Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm going to what I'm going
- 27:50Speaker 1: to give both of you a clue today? I don't
- 27:53Speaker 1: know if we're allowed to give clues, but there is
- 27:55Speaker 1: a space question.
- 27:56Speaker 5: Yes, And I'm just glad I'm not doing the quest today.
- 28:00Speaker 4: Meat don't mix, So Warren, Sam's walking out of the studio. Okay,
- 28:04Speaker 4: are you ready to go? Yes, let's go for it,
- 28:06Speaker 4: all right, my friend. Thirty seconds on the clock, five
- 28:08Speaker 4: questions coming your way. Your time starts now.
- 28:11Speaker 5: What is a group of lions called?
- 28:14Speaker 4: Right?
- 28:14Speaker 5: Yes? What band sings sweet Child of Mine?
- 28:19Speaker 9: Yes?
- 28:19Speaker 5: Sicily is an island of what country?
- 28:22Speaker 7: Anally?
- 28:22Speaker 4: Yes?
- 28:22Speaker 1: Who will headline the twenty twenty five Super Bowl halftime show?
- 28:28Speaker 4: Yes?
- 28:28Speaker 5: What is the name of the first space shuttle to
- 28:30Speaker 5: reach space?
- 28:31Speaker 8: A free space shoulder to reach space? Challenger?
- 28:35Speaker 7: No?
- 28:37Speaker 2: Great?
- 28:37Speaker 5: Four? Though, Warren, very very good.
- 28:40Speaker 4: That is solid.
- 28:41Speaker 5: You're better than me.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Jase got a four. I got a three, so you
- 28:43Speaker 1: would have beaten me today. But will you have beaten
- 28:45Speaker 1: the super Chaita as we're calling him today, You're.
- 28:51Speaker 5: Chasing a four. He's done really well.
- 28:56Speaker 1: But what I will tell you is the one he
- 28:59Speaker 1: missed the space question, which you are an expert on,
- 29:02Speaker 1: so we could have a game on our hands a day.
- 29:05Speaker 5: Ladies and gents, All.
- 29:07Speaker 4: Right, good luck. Here we go chasing down there for
- 29:09Speaker 4: to stop warring going up for dinner? Your time starts now?
- 29:13Speaker 5: What is a group of lions called?
- 29:16Speaker 4: Right? Yes?
- 29:16Speaker 1: What band sings sweet Child of Mine?
- 29:21Speaker 5: Pass sicily? Is an island of what country? Yes?
- 29:24Speaker 1: Who will headline the twenty twenty five Super Bowl halftime show?
- 29:29Speaker 4: Katie Perry?
- 29:29Speaker 9: No?
- 29:30Speaker 5: What is the name of the first space shuttle to
- 29:32Speaker 5: reach space?
- 29:33Speaker 9: Ah?
- 29:34Speaker 4: God Challenger? No, of course, Well, Papolo.
- 29:44Speaker 1: Lea's just go back to the one you passed on,
- 29:46Speaker 1: just to see if you would have got that. The
- 29:48Speaker 1: band that sings sweet Child of Mine guns.
- 29:50Speaker 4: And roses here it is. You knew it all day long.
- 29:53Speaker 1: So the person who is headlining the twenty twenty five
- 29:56Speaker 1: super Bowl halftime show was Kendrick Lamar and the name
- 30:00Speaker 1: the first Space shuttle to reach space was the Space
- 30:02Speaker 1: Shuttle Columbia.
- 30:03Speaker 4: Columbia, which means war Congratulations. Who are you taking to dinner?
- 30:09Speaker 8: My beautiful partner, Karen Karen war Enjoy.
- 30:12Speaker 4: As you said before, some great restaurants around campany Enjoy.
- 30:15Speaker 4: So you didn't get the space question you got Kendrick Lamar.
- 30:19Speaker 8: Yeah, I just read it the other day. So yeah,
- 30:21Speaker 8: just lucky.
- 30:21Speaker 4: Oh you are sharp, You're a quisite. You're Warren, he just.
- 30:24Speaker 5: Reads held Warren knows what he's doing.
- 30:28Speaker 4: He does related of three hundred dollars, you never call again?
- 30:34Speaker 4: Who's the super chaser? So let me be plaguain tomorrow
- 30:38Speaker 4: World Doe two hundred dollars.
- 30:41Speaker 2: Hear more from Tony Street Try We need to talk
- 30:44Speaker 2: Tony's health and lifestyle podcast. Now back to Coasts, Feel Good,
- 30:49Speaker 2: Breekfast Sketch Up with Tony Jason sam.
- 30:52Speaker 4: Last time I was lucky enough to be in New York,
- 30:54Speaker 4: I ween ut the entire State Building. That's all two
- 30:56Speaker 4: couples get engaged. It's the place to do it.
- 30:59Speaker 3: I love it.
- 31:00Speaker 1: My husband, my husband to be Next got the Empire
- 31:03Speaker 1: State Building.
- 31:04Speaker 4: It's Samilla rat. Wouldn't I think?
- 31:05Speaker 5: I would? I think I'd be like, something's happening again.
- 31:08Speaker 4: I just started to walk behind you.
- 31:09Speaker 3: That's that's where it starts to heave, and then they
- 31:11Speaker 3: get down on your knee and then they turn you around.
- 31:13Speaker 4: So just always stay forward facing.
- 31:15Speaker 5: I think you want to marry them.
- 31:17Speaker 4: So it's all I'm saying, Well, here's here's a couple here,
- 31:22Speaker 4: and you know me, I love a good love story,
- 31:24Speaker 4: and this couple of being together three years six months
- 31:26Speaker 4: ago they got engaged. So now they're planning the wedding
- 31:29Speaker 4: and she, the bride to be, wants her late husband's
- 31:33Speaker 4: photo at the wedding. Now goes a bit further, so
- 31:36Speaker 4: she wants the bridesmaid to hold the photo during the ceremony,
- 31:39Speaker 4: and then she wants the photo on the bridle table
- 31:42Speaker 4: after the photos are all done. And then even when
- 31:43Speaker 4: posing for the photos, she wants to hold the picture
- 31:46Speaker 4: of her x or sorry late husband. And so the
- 31:49Speaker 4: fiance is like, well, I don't know, man, you know,
- 31:52Speaker 4: And a lot of people have now waited into this.
- 31:53Speaker 4: I saw this on the Daily Mail. That's the Australian one,
- 31:55Speaker 4: not that, not the UK one, not the tabloid one. Yeah,
- 31:58Speaker 4: and so a lot of people are waiting. Even counselors
- 32:00Speaker 4: have had their saying, what are you reason about this?
- 32:03Speaker 4: It doesn't sound healthy, Jace, does that you know?
- 32:05Speaker 5: I don't know. We don't know, We don't know the
- 32:08Speaker 5: situation of this, right.
- 32:11Speaker 9: That?
- 32:11Speaker 4: What is that?
- 32:11Speaker 3: Steve Irwin's old and yeah saying no, only one one
- 32:16Speaker 3: love for life. You know she was, She's never prepared
- 32:19Speaker 3: to move on, but which is out.
- 32:21Speaker 1: Of her is also not about to get married to
- 32:24Speaker 1: someone else and having the photos.
- 32:26Speaker 5: So I don't know necessarily here so random from bringing.
- 32:30Speaker 3: Up I know, I think if if you are and
- 32:34Speaker 3: you've got Steve Irwin as the as the long lost partner,
- 32:36Speaker 3: I think you'd have a picture of Steve up, wouldn't you.
- 32:38Speaker 4: Of course I wouldn't. I wouldn't marry his widow, Steve Steve.
- 32:45Speaker 5: Chance it loved.
- 32:47Speaker 4: You're right, you're right to take that back.
- 32:48Speaker 1: You're right, rad or crocodiles, I've other You've got to
- 32:52Speaker 1: other areas of expertise.
- 32:54Speaker 4: Tarry has fallen from me and what he was having
- 32:55Speaker 4: to my wife. I don't know.
- 32:56Speaker 1: If I find myself in that situation, then okay, okay, look,
- 33:01Speaker 1: because instantly I know that everyone's jumping to the conclusion
- 33:04Speaker 1: of Wow, that's unhealthy. But let's just say, what about
- 33:08Speaker 1: the guy that she's marrying. What if he's just lost
- 33:10Speaker 1: his wife as well, and they're both just kind of
- 33:12Speaker 1: tentatively stepping into this even though you know they don't
- 33:15Speaker 1: want to forget their first husband, who might be the
- 33:20Speaker 1: father of their three children, and the children at the wedding,
- 33:22Speaker 1: and they're just trying to make it easier for them.
- 33:24Speaker 5: We just don't.
- 33:25Speaker 4: It's funny you say that because in the article it's
- 33:26Speaker 4: say some marriage therapists waited, and the marriage therapist has
- 33:29Speaker 4: said it's important to honor her feelings because if her
- 33:32Speaker 4: late husband was still around, you wouldn't be getting married,
- 33:34Speaker 4: So honor her feelings. I get what you're saying.
- 33:36Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, However, rough isn't it just to say it
- 33:39Speaker 1: like that?
- 33:39Speaker 4: Yeah? But a grief counselor said it's a major red flag.
- 33:42Speaker 4: And I agree with this grief counselor. She hasn't moved on.
- 33:44Speaker 4: Clearly she's not ready to move on.
- 33:46Speaker 5: Are you saying we should hold the wedding and just
- 33:47Speaker 5: wait a bit?
- 33:48Speaker 4: I think so? When does the photos stop?
- 33:53Speaker 3: You know, when the ceremony is over and before we
- 34:00Speaker 3: get any more of Sam's thoughts, What are your thoughts?
- 34:02Speaker 5: Wakes up in the night, what do you do here?
- 34:06Speaker 4: Under a double loan for ghost or flicker takes to
- 34:09Speaker 4: two six nine nine. The bride to he wants to
- 34:11Speaker 4: hold photos of her late husband at the winning The
- 34:13Speaker 4: new husband to be he's like, no, I don't know
- 34:14Speaker 4: about this, No, not for me. A what do you reckon?
- 34:17Speaker 4: There's a winning about to go down? Or is it?
- 34:19Speaker 4: Because everyone's saying to the husband to be, you know what,
- 34:21Speaker 4: I reckon, run, don't do this, don't go through with us.
- 34:23Speaker 4: Because the bride to be has some requests and involves
- 34:26Speaker 4: her late husband. She wants to hold the photo of
- 34:28Speaker 4: her late husband and all the photos, have the photo
- 34:31Speaker 4: on the bridle table and make him part of the
- 34:33Speaker 4: winning ceremony.
- 34:34Speaker 3: Can you say hold the photo? At what stage is
- 34:36Speaker 3: she holding the photo?
- 34:37Speaker 4: Also during the ceremony she wants the bridesmaids to hold
- 34:39Speaker 4: b hold and then during the actual the dinner, I
- 34:42Speaker 4: suppose on the table.
- 34:44Speaker 1: I don't think this guy should run. I think he
- 34:45Speaker 1: should help her through that.
- 34:46Speaker 5: If she's struggling to.
- 34:48Speaker 4: Let go, I don't think I think he just obviously
- 34:51Speaker 4: stay with her. But he needs to work with her.
- 34:52Speaker 4: I don't think he needs to marry her right now
- 34:54Speaker 4: because she's just already would be cruel on her. I
- 34:56Speaker 4: think I feel like the same. I don't think she
- 34:59Speaker 4: has moved on. Well, I don't know, she's great.
- 35:02Speaker 5: Does she need to move on? If that's the.
- 35:04Speaker 1: Father of her children and it's important to her to
- 35:06Speaker 1: have him part of that day, it's a good and
- 35:08Speaker 1: he's accepting of the fact that that guy was a
- 35:11Speaker 1: big part of her life.
- 35:13Speaker 3: Yeah, And this is why it's a good, good debate,
- 35:15Speaker 3: because there's definitely two sides to this.
- 35:17Speaker 4: Yeah. So a grief counselor in the story in the
- 35:19Speaker 4: paper says that she's obviously not far enough along in
- 35:21Speaker 4: her processing her grief to be ready for another serious relationship.
- 35:23Speaker 4: Since the two of them have been together for three years,
- 35:26Speaker 4: she should be ready at that stage, according to the
- 35:27Speaker 4: grief counselor. But I would argue, grief has no timeline.
- 35:31Speaker 5: I just don't know any What do you think about this,
- 35:33Speaker 5: gunn I.
- 35:34Speaker 9: Reason that she's told off definitely. Where is that you
- 35:39Speaker 9: need support after you know, I've been like this.
- 35:44Speaker 8: And you need time to hear yourself.
- 35:47Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. Good.
- 35:49Speaker 8: I mean good to me and you still go on.
- 35:55Speaker 5: I'm so sorry that you had to experience that. It's awful.
- 35:58Speaker 4: Thank you, And apparently it just never goes away. It's
- 36:00Speaker 4: just something you deal you learn to deal with her.
- 36:03Speaker 1: Yeah, with you, And I think a lot of people
- 36:05Speaker 1: would really struggle when they move on to not have
- 36:09Speaker 1: those feelings that they are dishonoring there. Of course, the
- 36:12Speaker 1: first partner that passed away, you know, like that would
- 36:15Speaker 1: be a real genuine feeling.
- 36:17Speaker 4: If they hadn't passed away, you wouldn't be marrying this
- 36:19Speaker 4: other person. There's all that places that comes to play, right, Well, Corey,
- 36:22Speaker 4: what do you think.
- 36:25Speaker 9: He's had points on both sides. I can see the
- 36:27Speaker 9: greeming proctest Thursday loyalty sais. I first loved the first
- 36:30Speaker 9: marriage there, and maybe it's something I spoke about that
- 36:34Speaker 9: if she moved gone and put on the man, that
- 36:36Speaker 9: it was okay for her to have his photo here
- 36:39Speaker 9: to celebrate and see who move on. But in the
- 36:42Speaker 9: other case, I think it's the fact that for the
- 36:47Speaker 9: guy getting married the groom that might be a bit
- 36:49Speaker 9: morbid for her and it's like, well, who's she marrying me?
- 36:51Speaker 9: Or she's married remarrying her past husband. You know, so
- 36:56Speaker 9: there obviously there's a conflict there.
- 36:58Speaker 5: Yeah, and I do.
- 37:00Speaker 1: I think it's a situation by situations thing. But like
- 37:02Speaker 1: we're getting texts here, I had my late husband's photo
- 37:05Speaker 1: at my wedding, another text, nothing wrong with it. My
- 37:07Speaker 1: friend died and left his young wife and children behind.
- 37:10Speaker 1: She's me remarried. She didn't take a photo to the wedding,
- 37:12Speaker 1: but he's definitely talked about and he's.
- 37:14Speaker 5: Not forgotten, and the husband is fine with that.
- 37:17Speaker 4: As they should be. I think, yeah, okay, one more
- 37:19Speaker 4: real quickly, Sharon, what do you think.
- 37:22Speaker 8: I don't have any issue with Look for the simple factors.
- 37:25Speaker 8: My husband still has his late wife's sashas in our house.
- 37:29Speaker 4: Okay, so you get a nice way to honor them, right,
- 37:31Speaker 4: So I think, definitely honor them. But it seems to
- 37:34Speaker 4: me needs to be more conversation goes on because if
- 37:36Speaker 4: the bride, sorry, the groom to be's not happy with
- 37:38Speaker 4: the photo being there, come to a compromise or something.
- 37:40Speaker 1: And I get the ashes because you know, you move
- 37:42Speaker 1: on what You're not just going to get discard them,
- 37:44Speaker 1: are you?
- 37:45Speaker 9: No?
- 37:45Speaker 4: Exactly?
- 37:46Speaker 7: You know?
- 37:46Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm hating someone as complicated, isn't it? And
- 37:49Speaker 4: as we said, there's no timeline for this. You do you, hey,
- 37:51Speaker 4: thank you very much for waiting into that former former
- 37:55Speaker 4: Trees Royland champions Sam. What did you think last night
- 37:57Speaker 4: A new episodes? I enjoyed it. I love the show
- 38:00Speaker 4: and I love the headlines too this morning.
- 38:03Speaker 3: The biggest Cheetah is celebrity treasure Island.
- 38:06Speaker 4: History and that there's saying a lot because there's been
- 38:08Speaker 4: some moments.
- 38:09Speaker 5: It's amazing, isn't it?
- 38:10Speaker 1: One episode and you suddenly you've become the villain and
- 38:14Speaker 1: it's not Sam Wallace for.
- 38:15Speaker 4: One God bless's.
- 38:17Speaker 5: The villain this time.
- 38:18Speaker 3: Tarmarsy Coffee and rightly so there was an instant so
- 38:21Speaker 3: effectively it's been divided into two teams as the Dolphins
- 38:24Speaker 3: in the Wetters and Tarmati's on the Dolphin team.
- 38:27Speaker 4: And they were coming towards the.
- 38:28Speaker 3: End of elimination challenge and they had to throw balls
- 38:34Speaker 3: into a spinning target. So basically the balls had on
- 38:37Speaker 3: one side, then the target would spin around and then
- 38:39Speaker 3: you have to get the balls and you went out.
- 38:41Speaker 4: To touch the target.
- 38:41Speaker 3: You had to turn the thing which was on a
- 38:44Speaker 3: remolve of revolving disk with the balls that you're throwing,
- 38:47Speaker 3: and that was proving.
- 38:48Speaker 4: To be really, really hard.
- 38:49Speaker 3: Anyway, they were told to go and collect their balls,
- 38:51Speaker 3: have another cracket turning around and Tarmody Coffee walked up
- 38:53Speaker 3: there and he spun the target round and there.
- 38:56Speaker 4: Were accusations flying. I saw, I'm gonna have to ask
- 39:05Speaker 4: you to leave the same face off because you want
- 39:07Speaker 4: to squatify the big elephant in the room. Mate didn't
- 39:11Speaker 4: just give a little tip. I don't remember.
- 39:14Speaker 2: I just remember there was a there was a gust
- 39:16Speaker 2: of wind that came through about that time.
- 39:19Speaker 4: I'm just not sure. I presume my innocence. I stand
- 39:23Speaker 4: by my innocence.
- 39:25Speaker 1: Like when you saw it, because I haven't seen this yet.
- 39:29Speaker 4: Cheat shout at the you can't do that.
- 39:31Speaker 3: They've literally been trying to turn the thing with the
- 39:33Speaker 3: balls and it's proved to be hard.
- 39:34Speaker 5: And he didn't fall on his sword and say I cheerd.
- 39:37Speaker 5: He said he was being honest.
- 39:40Speaker 4: No one of the producers. He might be honest. What
- 39:43Speaker 4: happened and that's what you just heard. It was a
- 39:45Speaker 4: cust of wind. Yeah, it's just a game.
- 39:49Speaker 3: But isn't it funny how the game becomes a wonderful
- 39:51Speaker 3: metaphor for life.
- 39:53Speaker 5: But it would be fine, like.
- 39:55Speaker 4: Mate, what are you doing up there? You're just cheating?
- 39:57Speaker 4: And you're always cheating? Is this something you always do?
- 40:00Speaker 5: Do you know what?
- 40:00Speaker 1: If he cheated and then he said, yeah, I cheated
- 40:04Speaker 1: because I was so desperate to it, I'd almost think
- 40:07Speaker 1: that's okay. You're trying to win money for your charity,
- 40:09Speaker 1: but you've got to own up to it when they say,
- 40:11Speaker 1: did you cheat?
- 40:12Speaker 5: You can't. When everyone can see that you did, it's called.
- 40:15Speaker 4: On camera, it's pretty hard to deny.
- 40:17Speaker 3: It was pretty ugly, and he got eliminated from the challenge,
- 40:21Speaker 3: so he's having to sit in an empty grandstand and
- 40:24Speaker 3: pay his penance.
- 40:25Speaker 5: It was good from Lance. Did Lance pick it up?
- 40:27Speaker 4: Yeah? It was glaringly obvious.
- 40:30Speaker 5: But then why is he said it to augusta win?
- 40:32Speaker 5: Then that's even more invent do you know what?
- 40:34Speaker 4: Though?
- 40:35Speaker 3: It's moments like this when you regret signing up for
- 40:38Speaker 3: reality TV. He would have had to wait for that.
- 40:41Speaker 3: Now that was show was probably filmed thirteen weeks ago,
- 40:44Speaker 3: and he's like, okay, so.
- 40:45Speaker 4: Now the new villain, I'm going to wait for thirteen
- 40:47Speaker 4: weeks for that to come out. I can't wait to see.
- 40:52Speaker 1: Is anyone also making the link between the fact that
- 40:55Speaker 1: he's cheated on CTI he's also a politician.
- 40:59Speaker 5: We don't think very were the most trustworthy.
- 41:01Speaker 3: There was a couple of poles. Obviously Carmel Sebilone was
- 41:03Speaker 3: up there too. There was half the Labor Party.
- 41:08Speaker 4: Half of the Labor Party. We're up there cheating. So
- 41:11Speaker 4: as around this time yesterday, we're talking about the Ames
- 41:13Speaker 4: Games and Todunger and Acublily. There are now three hundred
- 41:16Speaker 4: and ninety schools theare taking part, thirteen thousand athletes, twenty
- 41:20Speaker 4: four thousand visitors and they reckon the Ames Games is
- 41:22Speaker 4: going to pump about six and a half million dollars
- 41:24Speaker 4: into the local economy around Totunger, Cosh.
- 41:26Speaker 5: They do it so well.
- 41:27Speaker 1: And do you know what, I reckon Zesbri who's the sponsor,
- 41:30Speaker 1: needs a big sort of shout out to.
- 41:33Speaker 5: Sponsoring this awesome event.
- 41:35Speaker 1: Because they have opening ceremonies, they have closing ceremonies. They
- 41:38Speaker 1: really put it on for the kids.
- 41:39Speaker 4: Number of reasons.
- 41:40Speaker 3: I mean just they should be congratulated just with the
- 41:41Speaker 3: quality of the.
- 41:46Speaker 4: For it.
- 41:47Speaker 1: We need to talk about glimmers now, And do you
- 41:49Speaker 1: know what, I think the Aimes Games would create a
- 41:51Speaker 1: whole lot of glimmers for kids, you know, moments that
- 41:54Speaker 1: just make them feel joy. And I think with our kids'
- 41:57Speaker 1: mental health, all of our mental health being problematic, especially
- 42:01Speaker 1: post COVID, I think you've got to really focus on
- 42:04Speaker 1: the good moments you have in life, the little winds,
- 42:06Speaker 1: because sometimes the day to day grind can get you
- 42:08Speaker 1: down right.
- 42:08Speaker 3: You taught me this is your modus, this celebrating winds
- 42:11Speaker 3: and finding reasons to celebrate things in people.
- 42:14Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm in a really glimmery time
- 42:16Speaker 1: because I just had my birthday and I had so
- 42:18Speaker 1: many people make my birthday special over the weekend.
- 42:20Speaker 5: So glimmers, if you don't know what they are, they're
- 42:22Speaker 5: the opposite of triggers.
- 42:24Speaker 1: And you know what, triggers can be terrible, right, just
- 42:27Speaker 1: things like you know, someone pokes the beer or I
- 42:30Speaker 1: don't know, you get your hand jammed in the door
- 42:32Speaker 1: and it just triggers you into having a bad day,
- 42:35Speaker 1: like you can go on a downward spiral.
- 42:37Speaker 4: Yeah, little things that makes day worse.
- 42:39Speaker 1: Yeah, So glimmers are moments where you feel calm and happy,
- 42:43Speaker 1: and you can actually train yourself to have more glimmers
- 42:46Speaker 1: in your life. For example, having a special moment with
- 42:49Speaker 1: someone you love, feeling the sun on your skin, like
- 42:51Speaker 1: really feeling it, like sitting out and feeling it touch
- 42:54Speaker 1: your face and noticing it.
- 42:56Speaker 7: Right.
- 42:56Speaker 4: Yeah, what are you saying? Still? You don't want to
- 43:00Speaker 4: feel the stuff for too long because feeling that moment?
- 43:06Speaker 4: Last week, I had that, Remember I had that horrible
- 43:08Speaker 4: headache and I had to leave work early and I
- 43:09Speaker 4: went home and I just said, I sat in the sun.
- 43:11Speaker 4: I thought this is what I needed. I just felt
- 43:12Speaker 4: that sun on my skin. I was like that.
- 43:14Speaker 5: I hate that on the weekend too.
- 43:16Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I think the thing about glimmers is
- 43:18Speaker 3: so often these moments that we should appreciate that slipped
- 43:21Speaker 3: by ours without recognizing that's a wonderful moment.
- 43:24Speaker 1: Yes, And so you have to put yourself in the
- 43:26Speaker 1: moment to make sure you notice it totally right. Another
- 43:29Speaker 1: example is being an awe of nature. For example, if
- 43:32Speaker 1: you see a beautiful flower, actually look at the beautiful
- 43:35Speaker 1: flower and marvel at how wonderful it is, or maybe
- 43:37Speaker 1: the fact at the moment you know the dafodils are out.
- 43:40Speaker 4: Yes, I'm going have a little butterflies around them.
- 43:42Speaker 3: Can I give you a little glimmer for me, like
- 43:44Speaker 3: on a Saturday morning? My favorite glimmer moment. This is
- 43:46Speaker 3: a moment that you could quite easy forget if you
- 43:48Speaker 3: didn't kind of take it on board. I love it
- 43:49Speaker 3: when all the kids come into mum and Dad's. We
- 43:52Speaker 3: all cuddle in there and there's just a moment of solitude.
- 43:55Speaker 3: There's no there's no work, there's no schedule, there's no rush.
- 43:58Speaker 3: There's just a couple of hours. That is our time,
- 44:01Speaker 3: and that's.
- 44:01Speaker 1: Your regulation time. That's what they call it when you
- 44:04Speaker 1: get triggered, it's dysregulation.
- 44:05Speaker 5: But listen to this.
- 44:06Speaker 1: So when we're experiencing a glimmer, like when the kids
- 44:08Speaker 1: come in, we're an eventralw say this eventual vagial state.
- 44:16Speaker 5: There are psychological changes on the body.
- 44:20Speaker 1: I'm telling you about the physical impact here we're it
- 44:22Speaker 1: lowers yet fla heart rate and it lowers you call
- 44:26Speaker 1: cor result.
- 44:26Speaker 5: It's meant to lower it, not increase your heart rates.
- 44:29Speaker 4: There, No, I'm really cranking over here. How do you s.
- 44:34Speaker 1: Ag the emotional changes that you experience when you have
- 44:38Speaker 1: a real glimmer in your life. It gives you the
- 44:41Speaker 1: ability to laugh and be lighthearted. It gives you joyfulness,
- 44:44Speaker 1: It gives you mobility or motivation to actually try something new.
- 44:48Speaker 1: It gives you a feeling of acceptance or belonging, and
- 44:51Speaker 1: it's something where you feel safe. So how to have
- 44:54Speaker 1: more glimmers? It does not make me feel safe. How
- 44:58Speaker 1: to have more glimmers? You soak them in.
- 45:01Speaker 5: Gratitude is key.
- 45:02Speaker 1: If you're witnessing a beautiful sunset, take deep briefs thank
- 45:05Speaker 1: the universe for the experience. Verbally, come on, I need
- 45:12Speaker 1: to say thank you Universe, but just be like, gosh,
- 45:14Speaker 1: I'm thankful for this moment.
- 45:15Speaker 7: Do it?
- 45:16Speaker 4: I agree.
- 45:17Speaker 1: Feel the sensations in your body. So it's all about
- 45:20Speaker 1: the sight, the smell, the touch. Okay, right, plan one
- 45:24Speaker 1: unplugged moment per day. So it might be I'm going
- 45:28Speaker 1: to lie in the sun for ten minutes on my own,
- 45:30Speaker 1: preferably not in the height of summer, so that you
- 45:32Speaker 1: get burnt. It's just things like that. So what's your
- 45:35Speaker 1: Have you had a glimmer moment today?
- 45:37Speaker 4: You're not walking to the studio this morning? Yes, seeing
- 45:39Speaker 4: the red lights come on?
- 45:40Speaker 7: We on?
- 45:40Speaker 4: He I love it. Just laughing with you guys. Those
- 45:42Speaker 4: all gimmer moments for me this morning. Calls are coming through.
- 45:45Speaker 4: Love it, that's it.
- 45:46Speaker 3: And I've reached out and I touched Jase Sweeney just
- 45:48Speaker 3: appreciate that I.
- 45:49Speaker 5: Took a big deep.
- 45:51Speaker 14: He didn't like what he said, like the smell, but
- 45:54Speaker 14: these yeah, yeah, all right, thankful Tony Jason Sam's feel
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