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CALL IN SHOW! Discussing Male Self-Deletion and the Story of Inquisitore3 | Brian's Badger Lodge · Honey Badger Radio

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Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian.
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through that. And I wasn't expecting to do a call in show today.
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I normally do them the first week of November. I may do another one
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on the first week in November, but I'm just covering today because Hannah is
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unfortunately not gonna be able to do an HBr talk this week because she has
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some family, some family issues, and she's dealing with that. So you
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know, my thoughts go out to Hannah and I hope everything is gonna be
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okay. Meanwhile, you guys are I guess you're just stuck with me today.
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So we're gonna be taking calls, but we're also gonna be talking about
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a particular story that I would like to get into, and it deals with
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a cause player named Inquisitor III, and I'm gonna get into a bit of
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the story on that in a moment. But the subject of today's show,
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and I don't really know how to put this lightly because it seems that YouTube
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it's particular about like the language people use, But we're gonna be talking about
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suicide, specifically suicide in men. I think it's absolutely important. I think
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it's crucial, and this Inquisitor story is a very real example of why this
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is so serious. So I guess, first up, let me let's get
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about it here at HBr. We talk about male suicide all the time.
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It is a big problem. It is overlooked and frankly, it is the
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majority of suicides and so but for some reason we don't really talk about it
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in the way that we should, and it specifically, this story is interesting
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that. So now that all of that is out of the way. I
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guess we're gonna get into the stories. As you can see, I am
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displaying your chat in the window here. So yeah, let's get into Let's
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get into the the I guess you could say the main subject. So this
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is from Evinews evinmagazine dot com. There isn't like. This is probably the
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best source other than a bunch of videos that I think would be relevant to
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this. So that's why I chose them. And I think that they have
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a you know, professional like a pretty professional level in terms of what they
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make. So no other reason other than that, you know, I don't
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really want some gossip site on the screen or whatever if I can help it,
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Okay, So who is Inquisitor three? Cosplayer kills himself on TikTok Live
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after being falsely accused of grooming a minor. A popular cosplayer named Vincent Pleachi,
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who goes by Inquisitor Ghost, is believed to have committed suicide during a
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TikTok live and his viewers are now demanding justice. And I'll read through the
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article and then we can talk a little bit about it. So Inquisitor Ghost
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at Inquisitor III on TikTok, whose real name is Vincent Pleachi was an Italian
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Call of Duty cause player on social media. He amassed over one hundred thousand
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followers on the video sharing app and frequently uploaded content of himself dressed as the
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video game character Simon Ghost Riley. His account is now banned from the platform,
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and here is a post from x that says, I can't believe TikTok
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banned his account. We lost the incredible memories of an incredible man. I
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feel so bad. On October ninth, Inquisitor went on TikTok Live. The
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people who joined in the middle of the live stream only a dark, empty
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room at night. The chat was turned off, so his audience was unable
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to comment. Suddenly, his windows were smashed and someone appeared to perform CPR
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on Inquisitor. As another unknown individual was on the phone, a voice was
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heard demanding an Italian to call someone for help. According to sports Gita,
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another said he was hanged there and asked where the f are they? So
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so he went on TikTok Live and he hung himself. Now it wasn't on
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camera. I don't know if that was. I don't know if like the
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purpose was for people to find his body or what. But yeah, it's
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it's tragic. But let's get into why so. Spider Noir's wife says,
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this is a Twitter X person. They say, I don't know what to
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say. I just hope that some miracle happened and that paramedics saved him,
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even if so many people are saying he's dead. Hashtag Inquisitor ghost. Social
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media users speculate that the cosplayer killed himself on TikTok Live, and his death
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was reportedly confirmed by a friend. A woman who appeared to be romantically involved
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with Inquisitor posted photos of herself with the cosplayer, and her caption also suggests
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that he passed away, and she wrote this quote, now your anxiety is
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gone. You are in a quiet place. I am grateful that you have
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finally found peace. I love you, PS your padme. So why did
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Inquisitor kill himself? Now? I want to point out that from what I
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can tell, he was a Call of Duty fan, a cos player,
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and he was pretty wholesome. He would play guitar on his tiktoks and hang
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out with his audience, So, like, you know, not a toxic
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guy at all, not at all a toxically masculine man, okay, and
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I will show you guys. This is a clip from uh that someone.
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Because his his account was banned, so they're there. You can't really find
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his content on TikTok. So this is him dressed up and he is getting
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I think he gets excited about like being followed or retweeted by somebody he's a
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big fan of. So let's play this. We did it. Say the
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Theory just just followed me. Save the Theory just followed me on Instagram.
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Say the Theory just followed me on Instagram. Say the Theory just followed me
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on Instagram, And send me a message, send me oh my god,
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oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, oh my god,
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oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, oh my
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god. No no, no, no, no, no, no,
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I'm not ready. I'm right, I'm already, I have already. I
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am not as oh my god. So just like if you know he's in
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his early twenties, he was in his early twenties, just like kind of
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a fanboy, cosplayer, hobbyist. He you know, had a social media
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presence, had a number of followers, seemed very well liked, just a
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decent guy, very popular. So like just totally wholesome, right, Like,
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so young, so young, This is such a shame. So then
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why did he kill himself? Let's find out. There are a lot of
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key players to this story, so try to keep up. Several people have
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stated that Inquisitor twenty three is twenty three years old, was accused of inappropriately
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interacting with a minor by three individuals in the Call of Duty fandom. A
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woman who goes by Keegan's mask, a man named Tito at Tito's acting badly,
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and a seventeen year old girl named aj And there's an ex post here
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from someone named cod Leach. Another guy said he had nothing to defend himself
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with. Everyone should believe the girls. I'm so mad because I keep seeing
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miners playing this game to court, slash, screenshot everything, using lies to
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cancel people's lives. Y'all stay away from miners. Don't even breathe in their
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direction. So this guy or woman, I don't know who it is,
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is essentially just saying, believe girls. Okay, if you're like, if
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you're in this sort of multiplayer gaming space, there's gonna be younger people and
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older people mixing it up. And this person is saying everyone would believe the
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girls right. Screenshots began circulating online of messages between AJ, seventeen year old,
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and Inquisitor, but it was later found that AJ was a woman.
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Seventeen continuously contacted Inquisitor and lied about her age. The cosplayer even had miners
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DNI in his bio, which stands for miners do not Interact. So if
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you put minors DNI in your bio, you're basically telling everyone I don't want
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to talk to you know, miners. Okay, So here's a video from
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the DA Advocate. I want to like, should I should refresh this because
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I think it's gonna start from the from the middle, So let me refresh
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this page and then I'll play it. Uh So the Dadvocate is all right,
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I'm gonna try and get her on the show. I have seen her
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on Roma's channel, I think so. The Dadvocate's all right, So I'm
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gonna play this this TikTok video from the dad. I think it's a TikTok
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I'm not really sure. This popular cause player, who went by the name
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of Inquisitor III, tragically took his own life recently on TikTok Live following a
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slew of false accusations against him. His home was successfully entered and CPR was
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performed, but tragically, his father has confirmed his passing. He was only
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twenty three years old. His accusers are a twenty year old man who we
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only know is Tito, this adult woman who we only know as Keegan's mask,
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and Tito's seventeen year old minor girlfriend, who we only know is The
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plot to forge false allegations against Inquisitor three began in mid to late September when
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Tito and his minor girlfriend AJ began exchanging texts like these. AJ asks what
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the are we gonna do? Tito responds, It's not a life or death
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crisis, and here's what I want you to do. I want you to
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keep flirting with him and see where it goes. If he starts to get
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then I will expose him. We just need better and more proof. However,
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their attempts didn't work, and as you can see here, when AJ
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attempts to say things like I love you, date me, and Quisitor three
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plainly rejects her, saying you should ask in general if you can DM me.
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She says, oh sorry, can we get to know each other?
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Nope? Why she says, I'm not a minor a lie, but he
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says, I'm not interested. I'm sorry. AJ even acknowledges that Inquisitor had
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minor DNI, which means do not inbox in his bio, and she chose
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to still lie. This is her message in Keegan talking about how they need
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to get more evidence. So at the behest of these two adults Tito and
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Keegan's mask, AJ then offers to start doing some editing work for Inquisitor three,
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which he accepts, believing she is an adult. Once AJ started doing
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edits for Inquisitor three, she Tito and Keegan's mask be and saving any and
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every message that read as even remotely flirty between the two of them and their
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campaign against him. But Inquisitor caught onto this and even started to call her
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out. He said, I'm not a fan of the way you acted.
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Huh. If you can, please stop texting me to be very kind.
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Damn, what did I do? I just want you to see this.
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You know me, you know who I am. I never exposed you.
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I just want to talk with you again. As he becomes more and more
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wise to the accusations they're starting to make about him, she starts to act
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even more stupid. He provides screenshots, however, of her saying you do
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know he's a right? I got a lot of proof, he says,
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So who's this. That's when she starts to say I didn't do that.
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Oh no way, my friend Diana's on my account, he says, bro
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get alive. And in early October, after Inquisitor three decided to finally stop
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talking to AJ for good after hearing she was trouble, Keegan's Mask left the
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charge and they launched their attack against him. It wasn't much, but Keegan's
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Mask began sharing these messages out of context in a desperate attempt to paint Inquisitor
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as a predator. The thing she left out, however, is that these
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were just enthusiastic responses to him, finding that she had created so many edits
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for him in such a brief amount of time, and also fully believing she's
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an adult, but because she's a pretty popular girl, Keegan's Masks accusations spread
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like wildfire, and after multiple days of online and offline attacks, having the
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worst and heftiest accusations lodged against him, and believing that his life was over,
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Inquisitor III left us. Kegan and Tito have both issued statements, not
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apologies or condolences, mind you, but excuses that all they did was share
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their concerns. But as the rest of us remained devastated and broken in the
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wake of these unnecessary lies, we do have a lot of questions to ask.
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Should miners face repercussions for lying about their age online, especially that results
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in so much damage? Is there any justice these false accusers will face or
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will they just remain anonymous trolls online forever. If you are a man feeling
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depressed, anxious, or struggling at all, please remember that there is a
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crisis hotline at nine eight eight in the States, or just reach out to
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literally anyone. I can promise you that your brothers would always rather you cry
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on their shoulder than them be crying at your funeral. Prest In p s.
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Vincent, you didn't deserve this man so a competitor. Well, the
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suggestion is that there was someone who wanted to take him down a notch and
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they constructed this whole thing Tito Tito behaving badly or something like that. But
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there's more to it. I'm going to get into some more of this,
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So I'm gonna read the rest of this article, but this is this is
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the this is serious when it comes to false allegations. And I can tell
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that this inquisitor guy was probably kind of a shut in, probably socially awkward.
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His girlfriend remarks on him having anxiety. Unfortunately, in young people today
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this is especially common, you know, zoomers, even millennials and alphas,
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like not alpha males, but like generation Alpha that's the youngest one coming up
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right now. They there is like more of this kind of like social anxiety
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because they don't get socialized. And when you're take into consideration that of the
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whole world locked down for two and a half years, I can understand that
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it's a challenge. And suicide rates did spike during the lockdowns, so that's
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another thing to taking consideration. But allegations like this are extremely extremely dangerous.
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I don't think that a mild mannered person could take you know, could take
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it if if they because sometimes when you make these allegations and you have everyone
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coming after you, and I haven't read I'm gonna finish the article, but
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I just want to say, you know, when you have this happening,
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look at even someone like Justice Kavanaugh. Brett Kavanaugh was a you know,
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trying to become Supreme Court justice. So you would think that someone who has
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to be like a judge on the Supreme Court would would have like, you
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know, a very strong will, a very strong sense of purpose, right
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to do their job, like it's a very important position. And these allegation
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still drove him to tears. And of course the people making the allegations they
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just they just made fun of him for it. So this is the kind
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of sympathy that men get. Yes, Kavanaugh was their political enemy in the
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eyes of the people making these allegations, but it goes beyond that in that
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because he is a man, they can make these allegations, and women generally
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will believe it if they think that it's you know, because they they they
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believe women, like they literally believe women. So with this guy, he's
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not like he's just a young he's just a kid. Really. I mean,
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he's in his early twenties, but or was in his early twenties.
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But he's just a kid. So how do you cope with that? What
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if you actually start to question whether or not you did do something, maybe
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you did say something inappropriate, maybe you take back, you regret having said
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something that sounded, you know, more suggested than it actually is. This
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is a problem. So I got a super chat from look here forgotten the
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super childs. Send to super chowlds and I will read them. I got
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a super chat from Ringo fed Win for four ninety nine and it looks like
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it's a dancing peach. I'm gonna say it's a dancing peach. Thank you
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Ringo for the dancing peach emoji. All right, but anyway, let's let's
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read through the rest of this. Nabin Boube says, this girl harasses him
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and he hires her as an editor. Lol. I don't know. I
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mean, maybe maybe he wanted to just have a professional relationship with her.
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She was supposedly very good at editing, because he was very grateful for that,
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so she was helping him out. It was probably because you know this,
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I don't know anything about the Call of Duty cosplay community, but they
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probably do favors for you each other, and there's a lot of networking and
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stuff just like any other right, so he didn't He probably didn't think that
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she was a snake until it was too late. I mean, my guess,
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so Okay, let's go on. According to some viewers, Tito and
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AJ created a plan to ruin Inquisitor's reputation. The plot to forge false allegations
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against Inquisitor THREI began in mid to late September, when Tito and his minor
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girlfriend AJ began exchanging texts like these, says the Dadvocate, A woman who
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has been following the incident on TikTok shout out to the dadvocate. By the
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way, she's all right from what I can tell. She proceeds to provide
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screenshots of messages between the perpetrators. One of these messages reads, quote,
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it's not a life or death crisis, and here's what I want you to
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do. I want you to keep flirting with him, that's Inquisitor and see
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where it goes. If he starts to get sexual, then I will expose
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him. We just need better and more proof. Attempt to seduce Inquisitor failed.
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Screenshots on discord show AJ asking Inquisitor if they could get to know each
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other, to which the cosplayer replies nope. AJ decides to lie and writes
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why I'm not a minor there? This is another YouTuber with an opinion on
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this. I mean it's a TikTok video. I will say that this woman,
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this aj she is a minor, but she's seventeen. I think that
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there is this suggestion because like her boyfriend, Tito, he's like twenty or
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maybe eighteen. He's very he's close to her age, and they're trying like
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see one of the things that I saw is just as an aside, okay,
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one of the things that I saw is that some people are trying to
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suggest that this Tito guy is actually the pedophile because he's twenty or eighteen something
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and his girlfriend is seventeen. And I think that is Firstly, it's unnecessary,
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like he's already you know, guilty of essentially like pushing this guy to
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suicide. Like that's enough, right. And I say that because I think
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that it's a it's very it's a very slippery slope to start pointing fingers at
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men and women, men who are older than women, but they're really close
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in age. Even if she's technically under eighteen and he's like over eighteen,
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I think that it's it's close enough that it's fine. Like if they met
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when they were like when he was sixteen and she was fourteen. Nobody would
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see a problem with that, right, So if there's like a two year
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difference, who cares. I don't think that's important. I think what's important
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is that they collaborated to destroy this guy's reputation and it ended up getting him
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killed. So when people make that, they're trying to throw in bonus points.
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It's not I don't need it, Like it's not necessary. I'm objective
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about it. You know, I've dated girls younger than me, but we
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like if I was a little older, like I was at eighteen years old
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in high school and she was like, you know, sixteen years old in
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high school, I don't I'm sorry, but I don't think that's pedophilia.
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I just don't. You know, we have an arbitrary line more or less,
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but like it's and it depends on the state, like in the US,
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some states it's sixteen, some states at eighteen. There might be places
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in the world where it's lower. So I don't want to get caught up
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in that because that's sort of like confusing the practical and real with the legal.
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But that doesn't matter. Like, what we're talking about is a false
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allegation that led to suicide. That's what matters. And they were trying to
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allege that he was a pedophile too, so this is also important, okay,
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but anyway, Yeah, they have Romeo and Juliet laws for people who
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were together like before one of them comes of age, and it makes sense.
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Again, it makes sense, all right. But anyway, let's play
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this video really quick. That is a video of a twenty three year old
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cosplayer who just took his own life on live due to false allegations of him
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being a pedophile. This girl named Keegan's Mask, who's a part of the
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cosplay community, and her boyfriend, who has almost a million followers, took
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to their platforms and spread false allegations and lies about this twenty three year old
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man talking to minors. I just cannot believe these two individuals drove this man
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to take his life. I hope they are punished with the fullest extent of
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the law. A whole ass crime was just committed. Keegan's Mask, the
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girl involved in all of this. She has deactivated her TikTok and her boyfriend
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has privated his TikTok. They are now backtracking with statements claiming that they never
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meant to do inquisitor harm, but they pushed him to the brink of him
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taking his own life on live. I would even go as far to say
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this is manslaughter and they should be punished. All right, let me I'm
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gonna keep reading the article. And also, guys call in. There's a
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link in the description to get into the discord. I got high inquisitors Swashbury
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in there to make sure that you know all of your audio stuff is working,
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and he'll get a sense of what it is you want to talk about.
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You can talk about this story. You can talk about suicide more broadly.
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Do you maybe you know someone who is suicidal or has committed suicide,
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or has talked about it or entertained it. Maybe you have, and if
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you have, maybe you have like some suggestions, like something that people can
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do, uh that like someone they can reach out to, some service or
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whatever, just something right, because this is I mean, this really bothers
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me. Like this, this is extremely evil behavior, and I don't like
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that people get caught up in these little details. That's why I stopped to
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talk about the age thing, because it doesn't really matter. Like if I
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think that accusing someone of pedophilia is more serious than like say, sexual assaults
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or something. But if they weren't gonna do that, then they want to
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destroy his reputation. They would have just done sexual assault or rape or something
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right harassment. It would have been enough. Maybe their mistake was they went
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too far and it was like you know too, I guess easy to disprove
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in the long run. But apparently nobody really started looking into it until after
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he took his own life. So there's that all right anyway. So AJ
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then offers to edit inquisitors videos, which he accepts, not knowing that she
28:52
is a minor. Then Tito and AJ worked together to save the messages between
28:56
her and Inquisitor. They then sent the screenshots to Keigan Keegan's Mask, a
29:00
popular TikToker, and alleged that AJ was being groomed. So I want to
29:06
comment to Kegan's Mask is this girl has nothing to do with any of this,
29:11
but her platform is massive and she's probably a big old feminist. Let's
29:14
be honest, Because if they brought the allegations to her and she didn't look
29:18
into it, she didn't question it, she just ran with it, that
29:22
means that she believed that this guy would do that, and that sounds like
29:26
some shit a feminist would do, just saying I don't know for sure,
29:30
but that's what I think. Okay. Unfortunately, it appears that she chose
29:37
to believe Tito and AJ. Tito and Keegan's Mask began saving any and every
29:41
message that read as even remotely flirty between the two of them. That would
29:45
be AJ and the Inquisitor and their campaign against them, adds the Advocate.
29:52
Here's another video. I will play this one. Oh, that's the one
29:56
we already watched. Let's just keep going. Eventually, after if the rumor
30:00
spread that he was speaking with a minor, Inquisitor realized that what was happening
30:03
and asked AJ to stop texting him. Then, in early October, Keegan's
30:07
mass reportedly shared the interactions between the cosplayer and the minor on TikTok. However,
30:14
she posted the messages without context, so it ended up portraying Inquisitor as
30:18
a predator and a pedophile. The enthusiastic responses Inquisitor sent to AJ may have
30:22
come off as flirtatious without any additional information. One of the messages Inquisitor sent
30:29
was I'm gonna marry you and thank you honey. Because This wasn't because he
30:33
was actually making a proposal. Also, he didn't know that she was a
30:37
minor. She kept lying to him about her age, but that is not
30:42
important. This is just him being excited about how well, how good of
30:47
a job she was doing on editing videos for him. So he was just
30:51
like, it's like, you know, somebody does you a favor. You're
30:53
like, oh my god, I love you. Right, you don't really
30:56
mean it. It's not to be taken literally. But I guess now,
31:00
guys, you just have to say what you have to watch what you say
31:03
around around women. You just have to not talk to them. I guess
31:07
like that's kind of where this is going, right. But Inquisitor wasn't actually
31:11
trying to get with the miner. He was just very excited and thankful for
31:15
the edits that she made. The thing she Keegan's Mask left out, however,
31:19
is that these were just enthusiastic responses to him finding out that she had
31:23
created so many edits for him in such a brief amount of time, and
31:27
so fully believing and also fully believing that she is an adult. The rumor
31:33
spread like wildfire in the TikTok community, and the comments eventually got to Inquisitor,
31:37
who struggled with anxiety. A screenshot of a discord message from Inquisitor to
31:42
on September twentieth reads, I'm very scared not gonna lie. I care so
31:47
much for my community and the last thing I want is them seeing me like
31:51
some monster. Tito and Keegan's Mask have a lot of followers. Compared to
31:56
Inquisitor, the weight of the allegations and online attacks against him was too much
32:00
to bear, and so he decided to end his life. So after that,
32:06
prior to Tito deleting his account, because he deleted his account in shame,
32:09
he said that he didn't want aj to expose Inquisitor and that he is
32:14
a man of God and he didn't want any of this to happen. Before
32:17
Keegan's Mask left TikTok, she made a video of herself staring out the window
32:22
looking solemn. She wrote me watching mirror miners blatantly lie about their content creators
32:29
for attention, adding that she was taking a break from social media for her
32:32
mental health. She has also made a public apology, so Keegan's Mask comes
32:37
out and apologizes, I I you know, I don't buy any of this
32:40
shit. I just want to point out I don't buy it. Let's see
32:45
if this is still here, Okay, I'll Oh my god, is this
32:51
a fucking poem? What is this pros? I acted on what I thought
32:55
was true, factual information from someone I trusted. At no point did I
32:59
wish harm against the inquisitor, and it hurts me to hear the news of
33:04
his passing. But I will not accept death threats, dosing and false allegations
33:07
on how I handled the situation. As I said, I acted on what
33:12
I was to believe was factual information from someone I had trusted and was used.
33:17
Why do you believe all women? This is the problem. She I'm
33:23
gonna call it right now, he gets masked. Did this because she is
33:27
a woman, and she thinks that women never lie, and so she went
33:31
along with it. And now she's trying to say, oh, I'm getting
33:35
death threats, I'm getting docsing, I'm getting allegations. Welcome to the being
33:40
a man, I guess on the internet. I'm a victim. I'm a
33:45
victim in this right. I'm the victim, not the suicide guy, not
33:50
the guy who's no longer with us me. I have taken down all posts
33:54
regarding the situation, both out of respect for inquisitor as well as the urging
34:00
details that the allegations may have been false. No, they were false,
34:02
and you know it. I wanted to use my platform for good to expose
34:07
allegations, to find a deeper truth. I never wanted to escalate the way
34:10
it has. Yeah, because you think that these are the only men can
34:17
commit these can be can be this way, only men can be like this.
34:25
Okay, So anyway, this this continues. So now we have all
34:30
of the people involved are crying victim. I saw Tito appeared on Chloe Roma's
34:37
channel. They did like an interview, and and I mean, I have
34:43
all all credit to Chloe Roma for bringing him on, getting getting him on,
34:46
getting Tito on, and essentially tearing apart his story. But the point
34:52
is that they all, they all tried to play victim. And and even
34:54
Roma was really like she was going very easy on the girl because she was
35:01
a minor. Her she claims that Tito groomed this underage girl to flirt with
35:07
this guy to make an allegation. Like I'm sorry, but she's not twelve,
35:15
she's seventeen. She knows what she's doing, Like I mean this,
35:20
this is constantly like trying to put it all on men is It's just exhausting.
35:25
It's exhausting. So anyway, yeah, and he's not a man of
35:30
God. That's right. That's that's not that's not that's a lie. He's
35:32
trying to hide behind that. That's that's not true. No way, okay.
35:37
Anyway, aj allegedly posted a statement on TikTok to apologize for her actions,
35:43
so allegedly. We don't have the statement, but she says, I
35:45
didn't mean to hurt him. I went way too far with this. It
35:49
said he didn't deserve that. And I know it's late, too late to
35:52
apologize. It's too late to apologize, but I hope one day you can
35:55
forgive me for my stupid actions. She requested people to stop sending death threats
36:00
to everyone involved. The best thing to do is just not hate. She
36:04
adds, a person died, Please do better cod community. I will do
36:08
better myself. Rest in peace, Vincent. Remember when people on call of
36:14
duty would just call you gay? So I miss that. So yeah,
36:21
so that's the story. I think all the parties involved that push this guy
36:28
to this point should suffer some kind of consequence. But what I'm hoping is
36:36
that people in this space are gonna get red pilled by this, because this
36:43
is what I mean. You know when I say before, the only way
36:45
people are going to start to change is that they're suffering. I don't want
36:51
suffering, but that seems to be the only way people take notice. And
36:54
I did notice under Roma's video, which was exposing Tito, you know,
37:00
as a co conspirator or a collaborator on this, on this terrible this,
37:07
these terrible actions that drove this man to suicide because she was still giving them
37:15
the AJ, the seventeen year old girl, she was still giving her an
37:19
out by claiming that she was groomed. I think it's ridiculous. People were
37:25
calling her out on it in her comments section. They were like, it's
37:29
all you, You're always looking to blame the men. How about we just
37:31
hold them both accountable? And I'm like, yeah, how about we hold
37:35
them both accountable? How about we hold everyone accountable, all three of them,
37:39
AJ, Tito, and what's her name? Mask? I mean it,
37:44
it's why is this hard? You know? Why is this hard?
37:50
Okay? So I got I'm ready to take some calls. I did get
37:55
a message here, so I'm gonna read it and then I guess we'll we'll
38:00
take your calls. Oh, by the way, I'm gonna be only going
38:05
for wow. I started a little late, so I guess I'm at about
38:08
five fifteen, so maybe in about a half an hour, I'm gonna end
38:13
the show. So I'm gonna be taking calls for the next half hour,
38:16
and then I'm gonna do a Patron show. So if you joined us on
38:21
the Patron Show, I'm gonna be looking at this article. This is a
38:22
completely different subject report. Pixar chief Pete Doctor believes company has drifted too far
38:30
from its storytelling roots. You don't say, you don't say, all right,
38:37
but anyway, let's get close up here and I'm gonna take some questions
38:44
and call so F's in the chat for inquisitor, which is actually really appropriate
38:52
because it wasn't press f to pay respects. A call of duty thing seems
38:57
kind of appropriate. And also his fans, so one of his dreams was
39:04
to have him as a skin in a Call of Duty game, and the
39:13
people in the community are signing a petition to get his skin made, and
39:17
I think it's probably reached its goal. I'll find it for you guys,
39:22
and i'll put it in the description. I just remembered the petition, so
39:25
let's hope. So let's hope. So even though you know Act Division and
39:30
they're pretty woke, so I don't know if they're gonna do it, but
39:34
they said that they'll consider it, so we'll see, okay, So High
39:40
Inquisitor s. Washbury, my inquisitor of the Call and Show, says,
39:46
Great Love, Immortal Venerable will not be coming on the show today, but
39:51
would like to request that you interview Anil Murty, a founding member of the
39:54
Save Indian Family Foundation Twitter handle real SIFs. He has been an active emorration
40:01
in two thousand and five and can provide valuable insight on Indian law and culture
40:06
and the measurable effect is it has had on men. Yes, I emailed
40:09
him like a week ago or two weeks ago, but yes, I will
40:15
definitely get him on. I'll try again, and maybe I'll just follow him
40:19
on Twitter and then we'll we'll figure something out from there. So thank you
40:27
Swash, and thank you Great Love, Immortal Venerable. It's a kind of
40:30
a mouthful, all right. In the chat in the rumble. We got
40:35
a rumble rant? What up? A Nova fan twenty one gives us a
40:38
dollar and says f for respect. What I worry is if this evolves into
40:43
mandatory good Samaritan laws. And here I thought the comic of a feminist robot
40:47
accusing men of ignore grape was impossible. All right, So are there any
40:54
other calls? I see skapegoat is in the screening room. I don't know
40:59
if he's going to come on and ask a question, but yeah, so
41:07
let me ask you guys this because I think this is becoming a bit of
41:10
a conversation. Since no one's gonna call it, I'm gonna ask you guys,
41:15
what do you think should be? Should there be a penalty for these
41:22
allegations? I think I know that maybe that's just some rhetoric words, but
41:25
I gotta ask, Okay, should there be a penalty to people who make
41:29
false allegations or or build a story, you know, to frame someone or
41:35
destroy someone's reputation? And what should it be? What do you think the
41:39
penalty should be? You know, like, should it be prison time,
41:43
a fine? Whatever? You know? And should it also be applied to
41:50
minors? Because this girl, she's seventeen, So she's a minor technically,
41:54
but she's like right there, right at the cusp, right, So I
41:59
mean, am I being a bit like radical by saying she should absolutely face
42:05
whatever the penalties an adult would for the same thing. And what should that
42:08
be? Because I don't know if that we even have a law for people
42:14
who make false allegations. It's one of the things that we've talked about.
42:16
Why do women feel like they can make false allegations? Well they don't.
42:21
They're not penalized for it, right, I mean, nothing happens if it
42:25
turns out to be a lie, they'll Okay, let me somebody's asking for
42:31
the discord link. Hold on a second. Uh, it should be up
42:37
to date. But now I feel like I need to look. Are you
42:39
guys having problems getting into the discord? All right? Hold on a second,
42:46
just setting this through. Remember the discord link is in the description of
42:52
this video, So look in the description the link, all right? Can
43:02
naban Boob says Nave and Bubba says false accusers should face the same penalty as
43:08
the accused convicted of the supposed crime would have gotten. I agree. I
43:14
think that I think that it should be the same. So this way you're
43:17
not gonna make the allegation and it has to be proven false. So because
43:22
sometimes you know, like a lot of times, because rape is really hard
43:25
to prove or whatever, because it's really hard to prove it's it. If
43:35
the person is found not guilty, it doesn't mean that person lied. It
43:37
might it might mean that it just couldn't be proven, right. But I
43:42
think that if if you can prove that they that this is a false allegation
43:45
with the express purpose of ruining somebody or throwing them in jail or whatever,
43:53
I absolutely think there should be penalties for that. Okay, let me see
44:00
Final Midnight says. With my involvement with the court system, one thing I
44:04
have learned is that the courts are a very poor substitute for parenting. It
44:08
is very much a blunt instrument. Oh yeah, absolutely, but it's one
44:13
that women can use. Graendor says. What is difficult for me is the
44:20
fact that this guy was driven to suicide by mob pressure. Yeah yeah,
44:24
And I mean, like he was probably a pretty sensitive I assume he was
44:30
a very sensitive soul, so probably you know, more prone to being affected
44:36
by this kind of pressure than the average bear. But yeah, I don't
44:42
think that makes it okay. I think that it's extremely unethical. It's evil,
44:47
really. John Smith says, men don't have a good reputation to ruin
44:52
by default. You can't damage a good reputation that does not exist. Well,
44:57
that's true, but I guess that you know, because he was popular.
45:00
So all right, and Swashburry says, I guess we got a call.
45:05
Scapegoat has recently struggled with thoughts of suicide. As he is currently recovering,
45:09
He would like to discuss the way that people like this often feel like
45:13
they are at the end of the story and there's nothing left in their life.
45:15
But sometimes even a small change is all it takes to get started.
45:20
All right, Well, I'm gonna bring Scapegoat in here again. If you
45:22
guys want, please feel free to call in, share your thoughts, you
45:29
know, argue with me, whatever, and I'm gonna bring in Scapegoat.
45:34
So here we go. Welcome to this call, Escapegoat, what's on your
45:38
mind? Can you talk? Hello? Hello? I'm going to move him
45:53
back for now. I don't know if he If he is he is he
46:00
muted, let me let me because I don't know why but I can't hear
46:04
him. Just make sure that his audio is working. Do it in the
46:17
questions chat. Do it in the questions chat, not in the general because
46:22
then I can't see it. All right, Uh Ola Ola cag Well,
46:32
I can't pronounce that, but these Ola cacb says, I think it should
46:37
be a crime to make false allegations, and it should be it should give
46:39
prison time. Yeah, I guess you have to prove intent. That's the
46:44
that's the tricky part. I think in this case, there was clearly intent.
46:46
Like you got the receipts, you could see the conversation. You could
46:50
see that the goal was to essentially tarnish his reputation. Well, okay,
46:57
scapegoat, we're gonna try again. We're gonna bring him in here, all
47:00
right, Hello, escapegoat. I think I hear something. Can you hear
47:05
me? Yes? I can hear you perfect, all right. I wanted
47:12
to tell It's like I've been struggling with suicide myself, and I can first
47:16
hand say what the whole thing kind of feels like. And oh, I'm
47:24
sorry. One moment, there's an echo. It's all right, Oh,
47:28
are you getting an echo from me? Yeah? Because I'm listening to the
47:30
show on my computer over there. Yeah, okay, that was That was
47:36
silly of me. Anyway, when it comes to suicidal ideation, I can
47:45
describe the feeling as you are being crushed by a wave of despair, and
47:52
I could liken the feeling as to being quite literally, not well, not
47:55
literally, but the feeling of being underwater. There's like the sensation of floating,
48:04
and it's like being in a deprivation tank. Like your eyes function,
48:08
your ears function, there is physically nothing wrong with you, but the feeling
48:15
is like you when you're in the middle of that wave, you can't see
48:20
anything, you can't hear anything, and like nothing seems to process. And
48:24
while you're in that state, it seems like that you cannot perceive the future,
48:31
like any ideas about what the future could hold not It's like even even
48:36
tomorrow seems like extremely far away. And the unfortunate thing is I was talking
48:43
with swash people who don't have these feelings kind of feel it's like it's like
48:52
poetic lyricism as to what it feels like. And I would like to say
48:57
this, like, no, this is like these feelings are quite literal.
49:00
I can't hear anything, I can't see anything, I can't perceive anything.
49:05
And me and my family had been evicted earlier this year, and we're kind
49:12
of it's like I was put in this financial situation which it felt like there
49:16
was nothing left for me because I was previous. It's like I was screwed
49:22
out of my money that I had been saving up for years, and I'm
49:30
put in a state in which it felt like even even when I was like
49:34
even when I was safe, I kind of felt like I was stuck in
49:38
one place and like, oh, well, I'm living with family right now,
49:44
and I'm living with family that seems to hate me. This is going
49:47
to be my life. This is going to be the rest of my life.
49:51
What is the point of living if it's going to be nothing but misery
49:57
from here on out. You you get into this idea that nothing will change,
50:05
that you are living in a personal hell for the rest it's like for
50:09
the rest of your existence. And people have this idea of if they even
50:15
if they believe in religion, it's like anything is better than here. And
50:24
me and Swash are talking about needing to make some kind of bold decision in
50:31
order to break break that kind of feedback loop, that internal feedback loop and
50:37
the like the cycles that we put ourselves in. It's like and one of
50:42
the things that I try to do is I try to be very physical and
50:45
I try to be very active. And I will say it's like having some
50:52
kind of physical process in order to that you can progress at does help a
50:58
little It's like, does help a little bit. And I will say,
51:06
as hard as it is, there needs to be a level of spontaneity in
51:08
your life that you do something crazy, you do something insane that you probably
51:15
wouldn't have thought to do before, in order to break that loop. Yeah,
51:22
so how so, so what what? Uh? What works for you
51:25
or are you still struggling with It's for me, it's gotten better. Like
51:32
after after we got evicted, I had to deal with the crushing wave.
51:38
Like I I spoke on the mental health chat with Alison and I described as
51:45
this wave being kind of periodic in which I could almost time it out.
51:50
It's like, well, it's it's happening every other day. I feel like
51:53
this wave of despair crushing over me every other day and it lasts for about
51:59
this long. I would say one of the things that kind of helps is
52:07
learning to articulate, Wow, learning to articulate exactly what is happening to you,
52:15
what you're feeling, and kind of mentally compartmentalize what that feeling is.
52:25
I think one of the things that kind of helped is like putting in the
52:30
idea is like putting the idea in your head that this feeling, this feeling
52:37
of despair, who you are under this wave isn't entirely you, right,
52:45
this, this thing, this feeling isn't you, This isn't this isn't what
52:50
makes the entirety of your existence. Put it aside for now or feel it
52:57
is like have a moment to feel it, but put it is like put
53:00
in your head that it's going to subside at least the momentary, like the
53:07
the most intense feeling is going to subside. Yeah, And and being able
53:15
to do that and being able to stay active kind of helped me as it
53:20
kind of helped me mitigate the frequency in which those waves crashed onto me.
53:28
And I'm at the point which like I haven't had like an attack like that
53:34
a little over in a month, which is quite nice. It happens every
53:37
once in a while, but it's kind of rare at this point. One
53:43
of the other things is that change change. I changed my job. One
53:52
of the reasons why I felt so miserable is that I realized that my job
53:55
was disrespecting me in every possible way, and I kind of got into the
54:01
mental state of like getting oh, oh, here's another thing you can do
54:06
to actually help get angry. Getting getting really angry about something can actually motivate
54:15
you to do something, or at the very least, it actually keeps your
54:19
mind mentally running, not in circles, but it's like mentally active because anger
54:25
anger is active, but being sad is kind of inert, you know,
54:30
Yeah, yeah, I guess so, yeah, I mean I think that
54:36
that there is definitely a place for it. I know that some people would
54:38
say that's toxic masculinity, but I mean that they well, those people want
54:44
you to commit suicide though, they want you to just you know, like
54:47
they don't want you to actually express your emotions in the way that you you
54:52
know that your body wants, which is probably what it needs. So they're
54:58
yeah, they're just great. I mean, like this is why mental health
55:01
services they just don't They're not good for men. They're not even like considering
55:07
the male perspective. No, it's a it's a it's a fucking racket.
55:10
Yeah, it's absolutely absolutely so, like you you have to essentially, men
55:15
are just they We have to just figure the shit out on our own because
55:19
like the pros don't they don't even understand men, Like they literally don't understand
55:22
male psychology for some reason, at least most of them don't, you know,
55:28
So I will say I will say this one of the biggest things that
55:35
actually helped me kind of get into a better mental statan which I could actually
55:39
be proactive about things. You know. It's like people need other people in
55:46
order to survive. They they need confidence, they need someone who is actually
55:52
willing to listen. And we we also have the responsibility to listen to other
56:00
people when they're in that state. And I feel like the people who have
56:05
been through the suicidal ideation, been through this mental crushing of waves and all
56:12
that stuff. We have, sorry, we have such a capacity to understand
56:19
not just the mentality but also the somatic blindness that we have, and we
56:23
kind of it was like, we kind of owe it to other people that
56:27
when we see it happen, we should be able to recognize it and actually
56:30
be that confidant, and I know it's I know, it's one of those
56:36
things of like you can't really help someone else until you're in a good place
56:40
yourself. So I wish I could articulate this better, but I think ultimately
56:51
I want to say, we need to be there for other people, and
56:53
other people need to be there for us. Yeah. Well, yes,
56:58
I think that's one of the things that I think that's good about what we
57:01
do here is that we try to provide some community, because men need community,
57:07
and they need a kind of community that is, you know, going
57:10
to be let's say, engage in more encouragement, you know, and like
57:15
support as opposed to like shaming or or put it, you know, putting
57:23
people down. So yeah, I think that that we we men can figure
57:30
out a lot of stuff, and they do, like they prefer solutions over
57:35
talking about the problem. But I think that community and you know, I
57:40
guess fellowship with other men is thing is crucial or just other people, like
57:45
you know, there's good women do of course. Yeah, I will also
57:52
say this some as like I was taught about this as a as like a
58:00
programmer friend told me about like duck problems that this programmer would have a duck
58:07
on his desk and kind of vocalize the problem to that duck, and then
58:12
as they are vocalizing it, they actually figure out a solution to the problem.
58:15
Like talking to a woman, you let the talk about the problems and
58:20
you just listen. They'll they'll usually like they'll solve it themselves, you know.
58:24
So then I don't then I feel like I helped just by being the
58:29
duck. Yes, I do feel like some of us do need to be
58:34
the duck, and like a lot of us, a lot of us do
58:37
try to jump to like a solution to the problem when it feels like did
58:44
you even listen to what I said? Is like that's not a thing.
58:46
Yeah, And I feel like we when when I say it was like,
58:50
we need to be listened to, it's like we need to actually listen and
58:53
comprehend and actually absorb everything that's being said and then try to tackle the problem.
59:00
Yes, it's like I feel like I feel like we're It's like sometimes
59:04
we can be a little too hasty and trying to figure out a solution as
59:07
opposed to just taking the time to absorb all of it. And it's a
59:12
lot of burden. It is shouldering a lot of somebody else's burden. But
59:17
there will come a day in which, like somebody needs to shoulder your burden,
59:21
and it's like you kind of count on other people to be there for
59:24
you, and so you have to do the same thing for them, paying
59:28
it forward or catching it and all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, well,
59:35
I guess, like any other thoughts before I end the call, Like
59:39
you have anything else you want to say? People in the audience are saying
59:43
that they hear you and they feel you know, the way you feel some
59:46
of them, and they just want to empathize. So do you have anything
59:51
that you want to add or say? There is people have this like this
59:57
is a modern concept that has been so pervasive as of late that you peak
1:00:04
at like twenty five, where you peak at twenty or the barrier of success
1:00:07
ends at thirty. Yeah, I need to say something. We are living
1:00:14
for a lot longer, for better or worse. There is so much more
1:00:20
life ahead if you past your twenties, and you have to deal with that,
1:00:24
and you have to approach that. It's like you have to be approach
1:00:28
that with honesty. The days in which like our lives kind of get set
1:00:32
on the path at twenty is kind of over now that it's like with the
1:00:36
advent of everything, it's like with modernity happening. Don't be stuck in this
1:00:42
kind of perpetuating cycle that your life is over, because it's like your life
1:00:47
ends pretty much when you want it to. So don't make it now.
1:00:54
Yeah all right, well said Yeah. I mean, I turned fifty a
1:01:00
couple weeks ago, and I'm like, I had a what the hell are
1:01:02
you doing with your life moment? But it's like, oh, I actually
1:01:06
like what I'm doing, and I'm hoping to stick around for another fifty,
1:01:09
so I like what you're doing too. Happy birthday by the way, Well
1:01:13
thank you though that was like September, but I appreciate it, Thank you,
1:01:16
thank you. All Right, Well, i'm gonna move you back into
1:01:19
the screening room and uh yeah, thanks so much for the call in and
1:01:24
appreciate your perspective. I appreciate the show, Briy. All right, I'm
1:01:30
gonna move you back. Okay, So that was Scapegoat. Is no one
1:01:37
else gonna call because if not, I'm gonna do a couple of little things
1:01:40
about suicide specifically, and then I guess we'll go into the patron show cause
1:01:46
I got a lot going on today. So I am looking at the screening
1:01:51
room in case somebody else wants to jump in and say something I saw.
1:01:55
Somebody ask me specifically for the leak so they can get in here, so
1:02:00
I don't know why they're not in here, but okay, anyhow, So
1:02:07
I want to look at suicide statistics. These are the most recent ones,
1:02:12
so it only goes up to twenty twenty two, and as we know,
1:02:15
statistics are always changing. But if you see suicide deaths, about one hundred
1:02:23
thousand deaths, it looks like they were looking at the overall from twenty twenty
1:02:34
one to twenty twenty two, it's gone up a little about two percent.
1:02:38
But that's I mean. Obviously, we want to live in a world where
1:02:43
there are no suicides, but sometimes it happens. But when you look at
1:02:45
the gender split, you see that men are the winners. There is a
1:02:52
suicide gap, and men have too much, too much, and it's gone
1:02:58
up for both men and women. Run up everywhere across the board, basically
1:03:05
except for if you're an American, Indian or Alaska Native. So I guess
1:03:07
the natives have it good. I guess, so there's suicide rates going down,
1:03:13
but it wasn't very high to begin with. But notice again, when
1:03:15
you break it down by I guess racial group, white men have the highest
1:03:21
rates of suicide. Do you think that the American Psychological Association or the United
1:03:29
Nations or Citizens United or the SPLC, do you think any of them are
1:03:34
going to raise a flag and say, well, we should do something about
1:03:37
this. Do you think any of these progressive institutions are going to try to
1:03:43
you'll figure out what's happening with white men, but especially men, because it's
1:03:50
definitely the overwhelming majority. Like if you broke down this white into male and
1:03:53
female, it would probably be like mostly male and very little female. Yeah,
1:04:03
there are the winners. And you see uh, I think this is
1:04:13
the same kind of chart. You see again whites in twenty twenty one thirty
1:04:19
six thousand, sixty eighty one and twenty twenty two thirty seven thousand and four
1:04:24
fifty nine. And again, if you break it down by gender, the
1:04:27
females only make up about nine thousand, ten thousand, the males make up
1:04:31
about forty thousand, so four times higher, four times higher in men,
1:04:38
right, and in the age group again, it's like the middle age.
1:04:43
It's the middle aged people twenty five to sixty four, but especially the twenty
1:04:47
five through forty four that's the highest rate. So this isn't like, oh
1:04:54
I'm old and I don't care anymore, right, So there is that I
1:05:00
want to share that. And I know that I brought this up before that
1:05:03
this has been a specific problem for white men, but I'm just I'm braising
1:05:10
it again because again this brings me back to what I've been saying before.
1:05:14
People who have an intersectional lens that they look at the world through, even
1:05:17
if they claim to be MRAs, they are not going to be useful because
1:05:21
they're going to be looking at white privilege and they're not gonna be looking at
1:05:25
this chart. All right, so we know that suicide. What is the
1:05:35
CDC doing to address this? Let's find out. So there's supporting states,
1:05:43
tribes, territories, non governmental organizations, at university research programs to address for
1:05:47
strategic priority areas in suicide prevention data using new and existing data to better understand,
1:05:54
monitor and prevent suicide and suicidal behavior science, identifying risk and protect factors,
1:06:00
and effective policies, programs and practices or suicide prevention in populations that increase
1:06:05
risk for suicide action, building a foundation for CDC's National Suicide Prevention Program and
1:06:12
collaboration, Developing and implementing wide reaching partnership and communication strategies to raise awareness and
1:06:17
advance suicide prevention activities. What do you think would really happen? Let me
1:06:28
ask you this because groups like the CDC and the UN and the American Psychological
1:06:35
Association and the British Health Association and the Canadian Healthcare System and other major institutions
1:06:48
that do work in psychiatry or psychology, do you think that they would look
1:06:56
at the suicide rate for men, and in particular white men, and say,
1:07:02
what is it that we are not doing for them? Or do you
1:07:05
think they will say what is it that those men are doing to themselves to
1:07:10
put them in this position? What is the predominant narrative around being a man
1:07:15
in society when when the topic of suicide comes up? What do they say
1:07:23
about men committing suicide? What do they say? Do they say that,
1:07:27
oh, we should probably stop shitting on them all the time, or that
1:07:31
we should look into what it is in their life that they are missing,
1:07:34
or we should invest in you know, allowing men to socialize and form bonds
1:07:42
and community with other men. What do you think? What do you think
1:07:45
their answer is? And how good do you think that will be? So
1:07:49
by state, I guess they have some setup by say this is unfortunately this
1:07:54
is only in the US. I'd be curious about other countries though, But
1:08:00
it looks like Virginia, where I live, it's not doing bad, and
1:08:03
Illinois isn't bad either. But I guess most people are getting shot, not
1:08:08
necessarily suicided aged. Just at death rates. Why is Alaska so high?
1:08:15
Is it really tough there? Well? Suicide rates by state, Yeah,
1:08:23
looks like Alaska, Montana, Wyoming pretty bad, South Dakota, Colorado,
1:08:29
New Mexico crazy, Alaska, It's like the King. I guess it's cold
1:08:35
up there, but I don't know what counts as the suicide anyway. And
1:08:40
check this out. This brings me back to what I was getting at before.
1:08:43
This is from PBS News Dot uh whatever Org. CDC data shows US
1:08:50
teen girls in crisis with unprecedented rise in suicidal behavior. EBS looked at this
1:09:05
and said, oh no, the girls. And look, I know it's
1:09:11
hard. I know that girls have it hard. I know that they deal
1:09:14
with shit. I know that we put them on SSRIs, which we probably
1:09:17
shouldn't be doing. But when you look at this data and your first thought
1:09:24
is what about the girls, like it's it's in crisis, it's and then
1:09:34
of course they go into some other shit like this is not long ago,
1:09:39
this is February of this year. The pandemic took a harsh toll on US
1:09:42
teen girls's mental health, with almost sixty percent reporting feelings of persistence, sadness,
1:09:46
or hopelessness. According to a government survey released Monday that bolsters earlier data,
1:09:50
Sexual violence, suicidal thoughts, suicidal behavior, and other mental health woes
1:09:56
affected many teens, regardless of race or ethnicity, but girls and LGBTQ youth
1:10:00
fair the worst in most measures, according to the Centers for to Least Disease
1:10:05
Control and Prevention report. So men kill themselves more often, women most affected.
1:10:17
Anyway, it doesn't like I'm gonna get any more calls, and we
1:10:20
are getting to the end of this, so I'm going to put out a
1:10:26
statement, no more questions, and we're gonna end it there. But thank
1:10:34
you, skatego for calling in and giving us your thoughts and thank you guys
1:10:41
for coming on. I know this is kind of a last minute unofficial call
1:10:45
in show. I will do another one on the third, so this next
1:10:49
Friday, This will be the third of November, so come check me out.
1:10:55
Then I'll have something else, hopefully something a little bit more fun to
1:11:00
talk about. But I'm gonna head into the Patron show right now and read
1:11:04
through this Pixar article or this this mounting in the Comics article about regarding Pixar.
1:11:12
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1:11:16
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