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Marital Advice For Those Who Are About To Say I Do · The Erica Show

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  G and O five. It's Erica DeLong and my girl Carly from CBS seventeen
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  in studio with her fiance. You are leaving. You are getting the U
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  haul when you leave the show today and y'all are hauling your ass out of
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  here. We are heading home back to Bama. He came up yesterday,
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  well this morning, actually drove through the night and got here about five am
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  to come. Scoop me up. Now, grab that mic that was yours?
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  Are you Harley my Carolina CBA seventeen. She is leaving us. She's
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  become one of my closest girlfriends here in this market, and like, it's
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  hard to find girls in the business that want to be friends, that cheer
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  for each other instead of compete. Yeah, I'm like, shout out to
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  you because you're the queen of supporting everybody else. But you're leaving because you're
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  getting married, Yeah to Alabama where your family's from. So anybody listening that
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  has been married up for a while, or maybe you've broken up recently,
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  you want to give some marital advice to Ethan and Carly nine one nine eight
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  six one O five to one one of Erica DeLong carl from my Carolina CBA
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  seventeen in studio with her fiance Ethan. They got a U haul. They're
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  going to load it up and head back to Alabama and they're planning to get
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  married. So what marital advice do you have for this new couple, which
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  maybe you're a new couple you need advice to nine one nine eight sixh one
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  oh five one. Y'all been doing long distance for a while. We've been
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  long distance since I've lived here, so that's really put us to the test.
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  And he just put in the work and the effort to come visit.
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  It was very equal commitment levels, which I think really makes a difference.
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  Listen, I'm biased, but happy wife, happy life. I've heard that
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  always works really well. He keeps getting a lot of just say yes,
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  ma'am, do you? And I five? We have Alison on the phone.
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  Allison, what marit to advice do you give to Carly and Ethan and
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  any new couple out there? Always have something to look forward to. I
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  guess, like the day to day can get you so down. So just
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  like it's a dinner, just an afternoon where you meet up for lunch,
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  just something where it's just you guys, and you're looking forward to it,
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  like a few days down the line. I always have a thing flop forward
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  to. I think that's a really great idea. I like that. That's
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  how I am with vacations filing away. Oh yeah, definitely G one O
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  five. It's Erica DeLong Carly from Mike Carolina CBS seventeen instudio with her fiance.
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  They are heading back to Alabama, but stopping by the studio before they
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  leave, and so we're giving marital advice. What is your best advice nine
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  one nine eight six one for a couple about to get married, Alex,
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  there's gonna be up and there's gonna be downs. You're gonna be feeling great,
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  You're gonna be feeling on the top of the world. You agree on
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  everything, you feel so close. But then at some point that's gonna change,
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  and you know what, you might be feeling really low and you're fighting
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  about everything and you can't believe you're with this person, But you know what,
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  that's gonna change too. So ride out those highs and lows knowing that
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  there's gonna be a good time followed by the bad time. Love that it's
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  not all unicorns and rainbows all the time. I mean yeah, exactly when
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  you gotta just ride it out.