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What's Actually Happening When You Meditate? · Reading Your Own Life with Swami Larry

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to Reading Your Own Life with Swami Larry.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are in season two.
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  SPEAKER_00: Meditate right for your personality type.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now we're in episode three.
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  SPEAKER_00: What's actually happening when you meditate?
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're the kind of person who wants evidence before you invest your time, this one might be for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean that sincerely.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wanting to know how something works before you commit to it isn't resistance, it's intelligent awareness.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's talk about what actually happens in your mind and body when you meditate.
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  SPEAKER_00: For thousands of years, contemplated practices across many traditions ran what amounts to a very long experiment on the human mind, refining techniques and passing down the ones that worked.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then, over the last several decades, scientists began scanning meditators and hooking them up to harmonitors.
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  SPEAKER_00: The lab results kept confirming what the traditions have been claiming all along.
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  SPEAKER_00: Two completely different ways of knowing arrive at the same place.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when that happens, I pay attention.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let's start with your body.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your nervous system has two basic gears.
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  SPEAKER_00: The first is the one you know well, the stress response.
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  SPEAKER_00: Fight or flight.
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  SPEAKER_00: When your brain perceives a threat, your body floods with stress hormones.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your heart rate climbs, your breathing quickens, your muscles tense.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's an efficient system, and it has kept our species alive for a long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: But here's the problem: the alarm can't tell the difference between a house fire and burnt toast.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your body launches exactly the same response to a critical email that it might launch for an actual predator.
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  SPEAKER_01: Modern life is very good at burning toast.
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  SPEAKER_01: Most of us walk around with that system, partially activated all day, every day, maybe even for years.
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  SPEAKER_00: The stress response was designed to be an emergency broadcast, but we've turned it into background music.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's where the second gear comes in, sometimes called the rest and digest system.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the recovery gear.
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  SPEAKER_00: When it engages, your heart rate settles, your breathing deepens, your body shifts from defending to repairing.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's where healing actually happens.
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  SPEAKER_00: The two gears work like a seesaw.
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  SPEAKER_00: When one is up, the other is down.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here's the piece that makes meditation possible.
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  SPEAKER_00: Almost everything in that system runs automatically.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't decide to lower your heart rate.
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  SPEAKER_00: But there is one function that runs automatically and answers to you directly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's your breath.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because breath is wired into the rest of the system.
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  SPEAKER_00: And steering the breath steers the system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Slow, deep, extended exhales send a signal up the line that says the threat is gone.
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  SPEAKER_00: The seesaw tips, the recovery gears engage.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is why nearly every tradition on earth, developed on different continents by people who have never met, puts breath near the center of every practice.
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  SPEAKER_01: They didn't have the anatomy charts, they had results.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let's not leave that as a claim.
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  SPEAKER_01: Try it right now, while you're listening.
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  SPEAKER_01: Pause the tape.
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  SPEAKER_01: Take one slow, deep breath into your nose.
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  SPEAKER_01: Easy.
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  SPEAKER_01: No strain.
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  SPEAKER_01: Then let the exhale out longer than the inhale.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let it empty all the way without pushing.
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  SPEAKER_01: And do that twice more.
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  SPEAKER_01: Did you notice anything?
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  SPEAKER_01: Most people feel a small shift.
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  SPEAKER_00: The shoulders, the jaw, something in the chest maybe loosens a notch.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's your recovery system responding to the signal you just sent.
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  SPEAKER_00: Three breaths, and you move the machinery with your own hands.
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  SPEAKER_01: The deeper story, though, is repetition.
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  SPEAKER_01: Ask any good trainer.
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  SPEAKER_00: They'll tell you that exercise doesn't make you stronger.
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  SPEAKER_00: Exercise breaks you down.
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  SPEAKER_00: Recovery is what makes you stronger.
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  SPEAKER_00: And stress works the same way.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stress itself isn't the enemy.
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  SPEAKER_00: The enemy is stress without recovery.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the modern condition in a sentence.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not that we carry too much, but that we never fully put it down.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the modern condition in a sentence.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not that we carry too much, but that we never fully put anything down.
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  SPEAKER_00: What regular practice does is build deliberate recovery in your days.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now let's go up to the brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because, in my opinion, this is where the story gets exciting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Remember that a moment of noticing your mind has wandered is the win, not the failure.
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  SPEAKER_00: The brain science does explain why.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every time your mind drifts and you catch it and bring it back, you've completed one full repetition of mental exercise.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wander, notice, return.
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  SPEAKER_01: That cycle strengthens the brain's attention to circuitry.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is quite literally a workout.
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  SPEAKER_00: The bicep does not get stronger from holding still.
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  SPEAKER_00: It gets stronger from the curl, the movement away, and the movement back.
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  SPEAKER_00: Meditation session full of wandering and returning isn't a failed session.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's a full set.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's what I consider the most hopeful fact in all of biology.
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  SPEAKER_00: The brain remains changeable throughout your whole life.
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  SPEAKER_00: The old belief was that the adult brain is fixed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whatever you've got by your 20s is what you're stuck with.
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  SPEAKER_00: We know better.
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  SPEAKER_00: The brain reshapes itself according to how it's used, strengthening the circuits you exercise and letting the neglected ones fade.
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  SPEAKER_00: My favorite illustration doesn't even involve meditation at all.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is researchers studied the brains of London taxi drivers, and they spent a lot of years memorizing the city's maze of streets.
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  SPEAKER_00: The navigation region of their brains was measurably larger than average.
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  SPEAKER_01: And the longer they had been driving, the more pronounced was the difference.
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  SPEAKER_01: Nobody handed them that brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: They built it one fair at a time, simply by using it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your attention circuits are subject to that same rule.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whatever you practice grows.
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  SPEAKER_00: On the other side of the seesaw, the alarm shows reduced reactivity.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't disappear.
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  SPEAKER_00: You still want your alarm.
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  SPEAKER_01: It just stops going off when the toast is burnt.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some studies have measured shifts like these after only about eight weeks of ordinary people practicing at home.
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  SPEAKER_00: And think about what that pair of changes means in a life.
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  SPEAKER_00: The attention steadies.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can stay with a task, a conversation, a feeling without being yanked away every few seconds.
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  SPEAKER_00: The alarm quieting means there's a growing gap between what happens and how hard you react to it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that gap is everything.
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  SPEAKER_01: That gap is where your choices live.
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  SPEAKER_01: Without it, the button gets pushed and the reaction fires, all in one motion.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you spend the evening cleaning up something you said in a state didn't choose.
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  SPEAKER_01: With that, there's a beat.
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  SPEAKER_01: Small at first, then wider, where you can see the reaction forming and decide what to do with it.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let's put the whole picture together.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the idea here is actually quite simple.
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  SPEAKER_00: Presence changes the brain because repetition changes the brain.
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  SPEAKER_01: And presence is repetition.
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  SPEAKER_01: Every single return of their wandering mind is a rep.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every deliberate exhale is a rep.
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  SPEAKER_00: The brain doesn't grade the setting.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't award extra credit for incense or subtract points for standing in your backyard with a garden hose.
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  SPEAKER_00: It responds to what's practiced.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it becomes what is practiced most.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'll add one honest note, because I promised you to be grounded.
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  SPEAKER_01: Meditation is not a cure all.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you have high blood pressure, meditate, but still take your medicine.
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  SPEAKER_01: What the practice does is shift the train on which health happens.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's significant, but it's not magic.
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  SPEAKER_01: Which raises the next obvious question.
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  SPEAKER_01: If all these doorways lead to the same room, why does it matter which one you walk through?
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  SPEAKER_01: There is no perfect meditation.
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  SPEAKER_01: There never was.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's not a compromise.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's the design.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's where we will go next.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that will be episode four.
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  SPEAKER_01: Next time we see each other.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that one is is there a right way to do this?
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  SPEAKER_01: Until next time, I'm Swami Larry.