Latest / Untraditionally Lala / The One About O’s First Day Of School & The Baby Monsoon
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, maybe it is Laala Cat. Welcome back to the
- 0:08Speaker 1: Give Them Laala Podcast. Just a regular old episode. You know,
- 0:12Speaker 1: typical Tuesday, typical.
- 0:14Speaker 2: Tuesday, and it's not Tuesday, you guys.
- 0:17Speaker 3: It literally is Monday and it's supposed.
- 0:19Speaker 2: To be hearing Wednesday.
- 0:21Speaker 3: I love this pra so right in the middle Tuesday.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I've had friends in town. Okay, so I don't really
- 0:28Speaker 1: care what week it is, as.
- 0:30Speaker 3: You should, not should or day or hour could literally be.
- 0:36Speaker 1: None of it. Shut up.
- 0:39Speaker 2: Easton's been dragging, you know, laugh long.
- 0:44Speaker 4: Gets a good laugh, and that's where she goes. That's
- 0:47Speaker 4: you know, it's a good day.
- 0:51Speaker 2: Like that. I love it.
- 0:54Speaker 1: And my face is getting kind of like swollen from pregnancy.
- 1:01Speaker 1: By the way, can I tell you something. Yes, so
- 1:05Speaker 1: Amber posted a picture of the two of us at
- 1:08Speaker 1: the Baby mon Soon. Yeah, she recently got her lips injected,
- 1:13Speaker 1: and we.
- 1:13Speaker 3: Look so much like wait I'm looking right now, I'm
- 1:16Speaker 3: not even talking about Amber Childers.
- 1:19Speaker 2: Yes, okay, let's see. Let's see.
- 1:22Speaker 3: She's so sweet, by the way, and she's so fashionable,
- 1:25Speaker 3: you guys.
- 1:26Speaker 2: Okay, let's see.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Tell me we don't look like sisters.
- 1:30Speaker 2: You look like sisters.
- 1:33Speaker 1: The lips it's the lips or something. Maybe the eyes too,
- 1:36Speaker 1: maybe the eyebrows. It's the whole face. Bitch stole my face.
- 1:43Speaker 1: I thought that was so wild, though, I like zoomed in.
- 1:45Speaker 1: I'm like, we we look very similar, very similar. I
- 1:50Speaker 1: texted her, I said, did you get your lips done?
- 1:52Speaker 1: She said, yes, I go we look like the same person.
- 1:54Speaker 3: Now, yeah, you killed I'm staring now at your you
- 1:58Speaker 3: killed this?
- 1:58Speaker 2: Like what brand dress is this?
- 2:00Speaker 1: Selky sulky?
- 2:01Speaker 2: Oh, you look like a freaking princess cupcake.
- 2:05Speaker 1: That was so nice of you to say. So let's
- 2:07Speaker 1: let's take it. Let's take it from the top. So
- 2:11Speaker 1: Ocean had her first day of school last week and
- 2:19Speaker 1: she killed it, right, Yeah, So I take her. They're
- 2:22Speaker 1: supposed to nap at school. I'm like, my kid doesn't nap,
- 2:25Speaker 1: I warned the teacher's Ocean beats to her own drum.
- 2:29Speaker 1: You cannot put her in a box. She's just a
- 2:32Speaker 1: little firecracker. And they're like, we can't wait, she's so cute. Whatever,
- 2:37Speaker 1: So I pick her up from school. She did nap.
- 2:39Speaker 1: She was sound asleep when you got there. Yes, when
- 2:43Speaker 1: I got there. So they play, play, play, play, and
- 2:46Speaker 1: then they nap or have rest time at school?
- 2:49Speaker 2: Okay, I pick her up.
- 2:51Speaker 1: The teacher was like, she's she was so cute. She
- 2:54Speaker 1: was so fun Apparently there was a little girl who
- 2:58Speaker 1: was crying because she missed her mom. Mmm, how dare she?
- 3:03Speaker 1: Because oh, she goes, sh be quiet, I'm trying to sleep.
- 3:07Speaker 1: I was like, girl, now you know how I feel
- 3:10Speaker 1: when I'm trying to sleep and your little jabber jaw
- 3:14Speaker 1: is over there. So she said that and like, apparently
- 3:17Speaker 1: like that, everyone was like it was you know, she's
- 3:19Speaker 1: so cute and funny, and she was really fixated. She
- 3:22Speaker 1: like woke up in the middle of her nap and
- 3:24Speaker 1: she was like, where are my socks and shoes and
- 3:26Speaker 1: my bows? And I'm like, my kid cared about where
- 3:30Speaker 1: stuff was? Oh interesting, that was interesting. And I always said,
- 3:34Speaker 1: I'm very interested to see how Ocean is at school
- 3:37Speaker 1: when she's not in her environment. So first day she
- 3:41Speaker 1: killed it. Second day I get there, she's snoozing. I'm like,
- 3:44Speaker 1: another day that they see how magical my child is.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Oh no.
- 3:50Speaker 1: So as I'm like packing up her stuff, the teacher
- 3:52Speaker 1: comes over and she's like, so we had an incident today,
- 3:56Speaker 1: and I was like, oh God, she said the F word.
- 4:01Speaker 4: No.
- 4:02Speaker 1: She said, we played with toys today and it was
- 4:06Speaker 1: time to clean up, and Ocean said, I don't want
- 4:10Speaker 1: to clean up, so I'm not going to classic And
- 4:13Speaker 1: the teacher said, Ocean, you played with the toys, so
- 4:16Speaker 1: you have to clean up. The teacher continues to say,
- 4:19Speaker 1: she got very upset, and I go, oh, no, and
- 4:21Speaker 1: she goes, no, she got very upset. She threw toys
- 4:24Speaker 1: across the room.
- 4:25Speaker 3: I was like, oh, has she ever thrown toys across
- 4:29Speaker 3: the room? I've literally I can't picture this. I'm not
- 4:32Speaker 3: even saying it.
- 4:33Speaker 1: She did huck a toy at Gigi's head one time.
- 4:39Speaker 1: I think it was an accident. I will get benefit
- 4:41Speaker 1: of the doubt. Okay, okay, so do you g she did.
- 4:45Speaker 1: She did say I'm sorry, Gigi, I didn't mean to
- 4:48Speaker 1: do that.
- 4:49Speaker 4: I think she tried to throw it. Her accuracies at
- 4:51Speaker 4: off right now.
- 4:52Speaker 1: Right, but clearly she didn't want And I said, let
- 4:56Speaker 1: me talk to the other house and just make sure
- 5:00Speaker 1: and I'll talk to Ocean. But like I cried about it,
- 5:06Speaker 1: what because it's like, girl, can't you butter them up
- 5:10Speaker 1: first before you start acting a fool? So that they're
- 5:13Speaker 1: more like, okay with it, like day two and we
- 5:16Speaker 1: got to like show our true colors.
- 5:18Speaker 2: No, no, but that happens.
- 5:20Speaker 3: But I want to I have a question because I
- 5:22Speaker 3: am curious, and I bet maybe other moms are too.
- 5:25Speaker 2: When a kid does something.
- 5:27Speaker 3: In school, I assume she either got put in time
- 5:29Speaker 3: out or put in the quiet corner at school.
- 5:32Speaker 2: So then does the parent also discipline?
- 5:34Speaker 3: I'm sure it's different in every household or is it
- 5:37Speaker 3: like you dealt with this at school, know that you
- 5:40Speaker 3: get in trouble for that, and then you move on?
- 5:43Speaker 2: Like how does that work?
- 5:44Speaker 1: So I called my other ex the other house, and
- 5:50Speaker 1: I said, you know, we really have to get on
- 5:53Speaker 1: the same page. She has got to clean clean up
- 5:57Speaker 1: over there. I don't have the amount of help that
- 6:02Speaker 1: he has over there, which is great. I love when
- 6:06Speaker 1: people want to bring on help. But Ocean has to
- 6:09Speaker 1: know that when she makes a mess, she has to
- 6:12Speaker 1: clean up. And I think there will be a time
- 6:16Speaker 1: where she understands there are different rules for the places
- 6:21Speaker 1: that I go to. I know I have to clean
- 6:23Speaker 1: up at mom's house. I know I have to clean
- 6:24Speaker 1: up at school at the other house. Maybe I do
- 6:29Speaker 1: get to kick back and relax and someone else will
- 6:31Speaker 1: clean up after me, which, by the way, if she
- 6:33Speaker 1: can start understanding that, then I don't really care if
- 6:37Speaker 1: she cleans up at the other house. What I do
- 6:39Speaker 1: know is whatever's going on has trickled into school, and
- 6:44Speaker 1: I let her know when I picked her up, because
- 6:47Speaker 1: the other house said, well, what did you do? I said,
- 6:51Speaker 1: I freaking bossed up on that ass you did? Yes,
- 6:55Speaker 1: there you go. I said, Ocean, did you throw toys
- 6:59Speaker 1: today and say that you didn't want to clean up?
- 7:02Speaker 1: She goes yes, she has that little poudy face. And
- 7:08Speaker 1: I said, let me tell you something, little girl, when
- 7:11Speaker 1: an adult tells you that you need to do something,
- 7:15Speaker 1: you are the child. You better clean up and listen. Ay,
- 7:19Speaker 1: I said, you understand me. Yeah, She goes yes, I understand.
- 7:24Speaker 1: I said that is never to happen again. So today, Cannison,
- 7:30Speaker 1: I dropped her off my best friend Hodo.
- 7:32Speaker 2: They're laughing already.
- 7:33Speaker 1: And she sits down. Ocean does at her little area,
- 7:38Speaker 1: and I'm like, Ocean, remember what Mama said today. If
- 7:42Speaker 1: you play with toys, you will clean them up. If
- 7:46Speaker 1: the teacher asks you to do something, you will not
- 7:49Speaker 1: ignore her. You will not tell her no, you will
- 7:52Speaker 1: listen and you will do it. And she goes, look
- 7:55Speaker 1: at this yellow play dough. So I whisper an, I
- 8:00Speaker 1: go listen to me. Whatever the teacher tells you to
- 8:02Speaker 1: do today, you need to do. If you play with toys,
- 8:04Speaker 1: you're gonna clean up. And you know what, if you
- 8:05Speaker 1: do it, Mommy's gonna buy you somethig so fat, I'm
- 8:08Speaker 1: going to buy you something. Okay, I will bye, mom.
- 8:14Speaker 2: So did she cry at all?
- 8:16Speaker 1: No, she doesn't cry.
- 8:17Speaker 2: No when you first stay nothing, she just ran right in.
- 8:20Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you cry?
- 8:21Speaker 1: No, Eastern cried.
- 8:25Speaker 3: Let me tell you when I saw that freaking photo
- 8:28Speaker 3: on your Instagram of ocean with a giant smile, and imagine,
- 8:33Speaker 3: I literally got all the goosebumps out that I couldn't
- 8:36Speaker 3: do this, No way in hell.
- 8:37Speaker 4: You know what.
- 8:38Speaker 1: She was so excited to go to school that I
- 8:41Speaker 1: think I had I had moments of being being an
- 8:43Speaker 1: emotional wreck last week when I talked about her going
- 8:46Speaker 1: to school, But like I'm like, I'm not. There's no
- 8:49Speaker 1: way I can cry because she's so excited for this
- 8:53Speaker 1: new adventure in her life. She learned what a weekend
- 8:57Speaker 1: was because she woke up on Saturday and Sunday and
- 9:01Speaker 1: goes mom, I think what late for school? I was like, no, baby,
- 9:06Speaker 1: we don't have school today. We do we do. It's morning,
- 9:10Speaker 1: it's light outside, and I said, it's the weekend. You
- 9:13Speaker 1: just get to relax. So she now knows what the
- 9:16Speaker 1: weekend is.
- 9:17Speaker 2: Oh, that is so cute. I didn't even think of that, Like,
- 9:20Speaker 2: of course she knows.
- 9:21Speaker 4: What wee weeks.
- 9:24Speaker 1: Yeah, and I know she's having the best time.
- 9:28Speaker 2: Do you guys remember your first day of school?
- 9:30Speaker 4: Not a shot now?
- 9:31Speaker 1: Yeah, I do remember my first day of nervous, excited.
- 9:34Speaker 1: I was nervous. Yeah, me too. At east Wood like
- 9:40Speaker 1: but not not pre because ocean it's technically not school.
- 9:44Speaker 1: It's like pree k. Yeah. Yeah, they go and play
- 9:47Speaker 1: with fucking kinetic sand. Yes, yes, but it's about like socializing.
- 9:52Speaker 1: And what I love about this school is that they're
- 9:56Speaker 1: gonna see how my daughter learns and how she retains.
- 10:00Speaker 1: So when it does come time to figure out where
- 10:03Speaker 1: she should be in school, the administration is going to
- 10:08Speaker 1: be able to say, like, this is the school that
- 10:10Speaker 1: I feel is going to suit your child best.
- 10:12Speaker 2: That is so important.
- 10:14Speaker 1: I think it's important. Wells was telling me that there's
- 10:18Speaker 1: schools now where they only count tests and like your
- 10:21Speaker 1: homework doesn't really matter for someone like me. You're counting
- 10:26Speaker 1: my tests.
- 10:26Speaker 2: I'm failing everything hundred percent.
- 10:28Speaker 1: So I need a school that's not going to just
- 10:32Speaker 1: have education as one size fits all.
- 10:35Speaker 3: Right, Yes, and same with actually you're counting my tests.
- 10:37Speaker 3: I'm doing fine, but I'm not. Actually you're counting my tests.
- 10:41Speaker 3: I'm passing. But I do not retain the information. I
- 10:44Speaker 3: memorize it. I take the test, and then I love
- 10:47Speaker 3: the new ways now that some schools are doing. They're
- 10:50Speaker 3: doing they're teaching in a way that like you can
- 10:52Speaker 3: truly retain the information. They're looking at what the kids
- 10:56Speaker 3: are interested in and being like, let's take the kid
- 10:58Speaker 3: in this direction because they're interesting said this.
- 11:00Speaker 2: I love it. I think it's amazing.
- 11:02Speaker 1: I do too. And so we'll see when I pick
- 11:06Speaker 1: her up today if she wants.
- 11:09Speaker 2: She whipped a toy across the yeah, yeah.
- 11:12Speaker 4: You know, orientation.
- 11:13Speaker 1: She didn't want to leave.
- 11:14Speaker 4: She was on the playground.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Yeah, she was having a lot of fun. And you know,
- 11:19Speaker 1: it's it's a weird because again it's two separate households,
- 11:24Speaker 1: and and I like to keep it that way. But
- 11:27Speaker 1: there are times where I'm like for the well being
- 11:30Speaker 1: of Ocean and to see her succeed. Like you and
- 11:33Speaker 1: I got to be on the same page, the same wavelength.
- 11:36Speaker 1: We haven't had to do that until now, you know.
- 11:41Speaker 1: So we're all just in a in a transitioning phase. Yes,
- 11:47Speaker 1: you know, absolutely, Yeah, but I feel like we're all
- 11:50Speaker 1: killing it. Yeah, very proud of whatever dynamic I have.
- 11:56Speaker 4: Going on. Yeah, we're moving.
- 11:58Speaker 1: We're moving.
- 11:59Speaker 2: We're moving.
- 12:00Speaker 1: Move in a groove in an ocean village. To raise
- 12:03Speaker 1: a kid, it really does. But can I tell you
- 12:05Speaker 1: watching my child, my child is thriving. You can tell
- 12:11Speaker 1: she is surrounded by so much love. You can tell
- 12:15Speaker 1: that she is surrounded by people who empower her, who
- 12:19Speaker 1: make her feel like she's beautiful and top tier all
- 12:23Speaker 1: day every day. That kid, I put her hair in
- 12:26Speaker 1: a in a little little braid in summer, moo goes.
- 12:29Speaker 1: It's so tiny, it's so cute, and you cannot tell
- 12:33Speaker 1: Ocean that it's anything short of a punzel hair. You
- 12:37Speaker 1: truly cannot tell this kid anything like Nope, this is
- 12:40Speaker 1: a long you know what she starts saying to me though,
- 12:44Speaker 1: what she was when I was a little boy, I
- 12:47Speaker 1: had the longest blade, and I was like, let's talk
- 12:51Speaker 1: about that like a viking. What were you in your
- 12:54Speaker 1: last in.
- 12:55Speaker 2: Her previous life, it's very where she got that.
- 12:58Speaker 1: She's an old soul.
- 12:59Speaker 2: It's interesting to listen to kids though.
- 13:01Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm really really excited about it. I met with
- 13:04Speaker 1: this very interesting woman at school. They had a little
- 13:09Speaker 1: seminar for sleeping. This is the other thing I know
- 13:12Speaker 1: that I'm rambling about. Ocean.
- 13:14Speaker 2: No, it's great.
- 13:15Speaker 1: First day of school. We go in to this sleep training,
- 13:19Speaker 1: right and everyone talks about what they're struggling with as
- 13:23Speaker 1: far asleep. And then it's my turn and I go,
- 13:27Speaker 1: my baby, I'm trying to get tear her out of
- 13:29Speaker 1: my bed. And she was like, oh, so she's sleep
- 13:33Speaker 1: Like she comes in the middle of the night. I
- 13:34Speaker 1: was like, nope, she gets in my bed. She goes,
- 13:38Speaker 1: what time is bedtime? I was like, we probably get
- 13:40Speaker 1: in around like seven thirty eight, go to she falls
- 13:43Speaker 1: asleep around twelve, and she goes, and what time does
- 13:47Speaker 1: she wake up? And I'm like, she could have rocked
- 13:49Speaker 1: it today till nine. Yeah, she goes, You and I
- 13:51Speaker 1: are going to talk offline. I think we need to really. Yeah. Wow,
- 13:57Speaker 1: I have created a really bad situation for myself.
- 14:02Speaker 3: Which is very interesting because you were very good on
- 14:06Speaker 3: sleep in the early days.
- 14:08Speaker 4: Right.
- 14:08Speaker 2: I remember when I first started working for you.
- 14:10Speaker 1: She was like, I put that kid down, wide awake
- 14:14Speaker 1: and she went right to sleep. Yeah, and then I
- 14:19Speaker 1: became a codependent. Was like, and I said this right
- 14:22Speaker 1: in the middle of all these people. I was like,
- 14:24Speaker 1: here's how it happened. I don't have a man, So
- 14:27Speaker 1: I was like, what's the harm you sleep next to me?
- 14:30Speaker 1: And now I'm never going to get a man because
- 14:32Speaker 1: my kid will not leave the bed. So we need
- 14:36Speaker 1: to like really figure this out because this baby's about
- 14:38Speaker 1: to drop in seven weeks.
- 14:40Speaker 3: Right, I U d back in, Hey, wait, so can
- 14:47Speaker 3: you share these tips because I'm sure.
- 14:49Speaker 1: A lot of moms once I meet Once I meet
- 14:51Speaker 1: with her, absolutely, she's gonna come to the house. We're
- 14:54Speaker 1: going to create a game plan.
- 14:55Speaker 2: Love this.
- 14:56Speaker 1: I'd like to have her on the podcast. Oh yay,
- 15:00Speaker 1: let's move on to baby Monson.
- 15:02Speaker 2: Oh my god, your baby Monson.
- 15:05Speaker 4: This past weekend, I snuck a piece of cake last night.
- 15:08Speaker 2: I didn't get any cake. I'm so sick.
- 15:11Speaker 1: You guys, we have enough cake for you you do?
- 15:13Speaker 2: Oh, yes, was it good?
- 15:15Speaker 1: It was fabulous?
- 15:16Speaker 2: Shout out nothing bunt cakes.
- 15:18Speaker 1: Yep. The monsoon, so people are wondering what the monson is.
- 15:22Speaker 1: I never had a baby shower. Usually with the second
- 15:25Speaker 1: you have a baby sprinkle. Because I didn't have a
- 15:29Speaker 1: baby shower, I'm like, let's just make it poor.
- 15:34Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 15:35Speaker 1: The mon soon stas pulled the space together. It was
- 15:39Speaker 1: absolutely fantastic. The flowers were gorgeous. It was like not cheesy.
- 15:43Speaker 1: I was asked like, do you want to play games?
- 15:46Speaker 1: Do you want to do X, Y and Z? I said, please,
- 15:48Speaker 1: do not make my guests guess how many jelly beans
- 15:51Speaker 1: are in the jar. I want this to be like, yes,
- 15:54Speaker 1: we're here to celebrate the fact that, like, we have
- 15:57Speaker 1: a new baby coming into the mix. It's a really
- 15:58Speaker 1: happy time for me. I felt like for the first
- 16:04Speaker 1: time because ocean, you know, she gets bounced back and forth,
- 16:08Speaker 1: it's now starting to feel like, wow, we've got a
- 16:10Speaker 1: real family unit. This baby who's not even born yet,
- 16:13Speaker 1: babys doesn't even realize that she has become like this
- 16:18Speaker 1: glue where it's like, oh, we're like a foundation, you know.
- 16:22Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 16:23Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was very excited to see everyone come
- 16:26Speaker 1: together and celebrate that. But it was the backdrop of
- 16:29Speaker 1: people like catching up and my best friends flying in
- 16:32Speaker 1: from Utah and my two other best friends coming in
- 16:35Speaker 1: from Texas, and just like this community of amazing gay
- 16:40Speaker 1: men and fabulous strong women being like, they're the people
- 16:44Speaker 1: who I want in Babys's life and obviously Ocean's life.
- 16:48Speaker 1: For like the long run.
- 16:50Speaker 2: It was so beautiful.
- 16:52Speaker 1: It was beautiful.
- 16:53Speaker 2: What a crew, A.
- 16:54Speaker 3: Beautiful crew, a beautiful place. Stacy and Low her assistant
- 16:58Speaker 3: did amazing.
- 17:00Speaker 1: They did. They did.
- 17:01Speaker 2: It was so like soft and just like fun.
- 17:04Speaker 1: It was soft and girly. Yeah, and the dress I
- 17:07Speaker 1: chose it was like so not my style, but I
- 17:10Speaker 1: was like, I just picture myself like just like a tent, yeah,
- 17:16Speaker 1: a cupcake of sort a cupcake, like a really feminine
- 17:19Speaker 1: piece of cake.
- 17:20Speaker 2: A really feminine piece of cake. I love it.
- 17:23Speaker 3: By the way, I've always always seen that brand Selk
- 17:26Speaker 3: on Instagram and been like, where would like I ever
- 17:30Speaker 3: wear dress like this?
- 17:31Speaker 2: Because I'm dying for a dress.
- 17:32Speaker 3: And so when you said, like I want to dress
- 17:34Speaker 3: from this brand, I'm like, oh my god, you're gonna
- 17:36Speaker 3: kill it.
- 17:36Speaker 1: And you can't tell me otherwise. I was like, this
- 17:38Speaker 1: is the dress. We have to figure it out, because
- 17:41Speaker 1: you guys, the dress I measured myself. I was a
- 17:45Speaker 1: small up top, but then it kind of goes out
- 17:48Speaker 1: like yeah, you know, cupcake style dress and I was
- 17:51Speaker 1: an extra large in that region. So would you do
- 17:55Speaker 1: I had it tailored?
- 17:56Speaker 2: Oh smart?
- 17:57Speaker 1: I was like, she goes, it's an easy tailored job.
- 17:59Speaker 1: I go, yeah, but I need it like in less
- 18:01Speaker 1: than twenty four hours. And she did it. She did it.
- 18:04Speaker 2: Well, you're gonna have to tell me this place because
- 18:06Speaker 2: I have a lot.
- 18:06Speaker 1: Christine's Christine and I kept calling it Christine's Altercation, Christine's
- 18:14Speaker 1: Alterations and tailoring had a fabulous baby. Monsoon the kids came.
- 18:19Speaker 1: Ocean is gonna be the greatest big sister.
- 18:23Speaker 3: Her and freaking Hertford and Summer Moon were the cutest
- 18:27Speaker 3: little trio I've ever seen in my life.
- 18:29Speaker 1: Yo, they go toes though. I looked over at one
- 18:30Speaker 1: point and Hartford and Ocean were like rolling on the
- 18:35Speaker 1: ground fighting for this like yellow Lamborghini car. Stop. Yeah,
- 18:41Speaker 1: I go, se, how do you want to handle this?
- 18:43Speaker 1: Our kids are like ready to punch each other in
- 18:45Speaker 1: the face. And she was like until they.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Do, like, damn, I need to get them off.
- 18:50Speaker 1: Of course, yeah, get their aggression out. Pete Davidson and
- 18:56Speaker 1: Madeline Kleine split after nearly a year of dating. Was
- 18:59Speaker 1: this a s shocked anybody? It was a shock to
- 19:01Speaker 1: me because I didn't realize they were dating.
- 19:02Speaker 3: I did not know they were dating. He always gets
- 19:05Speaker 3: you know, I'm not even surprised anymore about the incredible
- 19:10Speaker 3: hot girls he gets. Madeline Kleine let me google her relationships.
- 19:13Speaker 1: She's from She Rose to Fame, Rose to Fame on
- 19:19Speaker 1: Outer Banks on Netflix.
- 19:20Speaker 2: It's stunning.
- 19:21Speaker 1: Season one was great. I thought season two was a
- 19:23Speaker 1: little cheesy. Didn't watch I think they're on season three.
- 19:26Speaker 1: I didn't watch it, but people are still watching it.
- 19:29Speaker 1: So I'm still watching Housewives.
- 19:33Speaker 4: You know.
- 19:33Speaker 1: That's kind of my LI might go to Housewives Presumed
- 19:38Speaker 1: Innocent twenty twenty in Dateline is a fixture. I'm actually
- 19:43Speaker 1: I started watching The Worst, The Worst Roommates Ever? Worse?
- 19:50Speaker 2: How is it?
- 19:51Speaker 1: Yo? Is it?
- 19:52Speaker 2: Wild?
- 19:53Speaker 1: Wild?
- 19:54Speaker 4: Dark?
- 19:54Speaker 2: What is it? But it's different stories, different stories.
- 19:57Speaker 1: They're on season two. It's a Blumhouse production, so very scary.
- 20:00Speaker 2: The Worst Roommates Ever?
- 20:02Speaker 1: Highly recommend, highly recommend, and then if no one started
- 20:06Speaker 1: paulm Royal id season one is amazing and it's over.
- 20:12Speaker 1: But if you want to binge an entire season of something,
- 20:14Speaker 1: that one's.
- 20:14Speaker 2: Really so I should stick with it because I dropped
- 20:17Speaker 2: out because I was.
- 20:17Speaker 1: Like, huh no, no, no, you got it, don't you agree? Yeah?
- 20:20Speaker 4: It gets weird.
- 20:22Speaker 3: I dropped out after the pilot episode.
- 20:26Speaker 1: Keep watching Pete Davidson gets around man.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Yes, Davidson polls no one pulls like Pete?
- 20:34Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you think he's just looking for a
- 20:36Speaker 1: quick like get my dick wet No?
- 20:38Speaker 3: I think this is what I think. I think Pete
- 20:40Speaker 3: is looking for love, and I think all these ladies
- 20:44Speaker 3: are like, I think he's probably really sweet and romantic,
- 20:47Speaker 3: and he has a there's no.
- 20:49Speaker 2: Secret he has a big dick.
- 20:52Speaker 3: And then they get with him, and then I think
- 20:54Speaker 3: he's probably either too clingy or too emotional, which is sad,
- 20:58Speaker 3: and then they're like, eh.
- 21:00Speaker 1: By, something's got to be off with him because he
- 21:05Speaker 1: doesn't know.
- 21:06Speaker 3: I don't think it's him. I think I don't think
- 21:07Speaker 3: it chicks. I think they they I think Kim was out.
- 21:11Speaker 1: I think he gets too clean to you guys.
- 21:13Speaker 2: I think he gets too clean and this, by the way,
- 21:14Speaker 2: I don't know this at all. I'm just reading off
- 21:17Speaker 2: the energy.
- 21:18Speaker 1: He's got to be because I've met one hundred and
- 21:21Speaker 1: one big dicks. Right, if you you have to be
- 21:23Speaker 1: able to swing it like fucking under the pipe. He's
- 21:27Speaker 1: got to do something because he pulls like really hot
- 21:33Speaker 1: but also a listers at all times.
- 21:36Speaker 3: No, all the hottest have been with Pete. All the
- 21:39Speaker 3: hottest have been with Pete.
- 21:41Speaker 1: Sidney Sweeney's next. Uh don't you think imagine if they
- 21:45Speaker 1: got if he pulls her. I mean, it wouldn't surprise me.
- 21:48Speaker 2: He will pull. Sidney can pull anyone you want.
- 21:51Speaker 3: Sydney's married though, right Sidney, I thought she was married.
- 21:55Speaker 3: Maybe she's in an open relationship. I'm pretty sure you
- 21:57Speaker 3: guys that she's.
- 21:58Speaker 1: Like's not start rumors. We don't know Sweeny's in an
- 22:00Speaker 1: open relationship allegedly. I maybe could be. Who knows. I
- 22:04Speaker 1: always assume twenty twenty four do do you boo?
- 22:08Speaker 4: Do you? Oh?
- 22:09Speaker 2: Sludy girl summer?
- 22:10Speaker 1: By the way, Sydney, I saw that in the notes,
- 22:14Speaker 1: But actually it's not slutty girl summer anymore. It's sober
- 22:17Speaker 1: boys summer. Have you heard about this?
- 22:19Speaker 2: No, but you guys really quick update.
- 22:21Speaker 3: She got engaged in March of twenty twenty two. Yeah,
- 22:26Speaker 3: so yeah, she's engaged anyway. So let's go to Sober
- 22:29Speaker 3: Boys summer.
- 22:31Speaker 1: Never mind what well Easton's upset about it?
- 22:35Speaker 2: Sydney or Sober Boy summer.
- 22:39Speaker 1: Easton doesn't even know where he is right now. He
- 22:42Speaker 1: was smoking joints at two p or two pm, two
- 22:45Speaker 1: am in the backyard. Stop hearing things?
- 22:48Speaker 4: They have bushes. I didn't hear anything, you told herd
- 22:53Speaker 4: I said something. The rustling stopped.
- 22:55Speaker 2: I think something.
- 22:57Speaker 3: I need to start smoking weed. It never works for me,
- 23:00Speaker 3: but maybe I'll try again.
- 23:02Speaker 2: I got the right people. Yeah, that's what I.
- 23:05Speaker 4: They were there, man, I'm telling we were there.
- 23:08Speaker 1: Man. Easton was smoking a joint in the backyard. He
- 23:12Speaker 1: heard rustling in the bushes. Somewhere. I heard somebody rustle
- 23:16Speaker 1: in the bushes. Stop my horse, whoa nelly?
- 23:19Speaker 2: Who in the bushes? You better speak out or.
- 23:21Speaker 1: I'm gonna let my shotgun song saying who is this?
- 23:25Speaker 1: I have to say? I love breaking into song. Yeah,
- 23:31Speaker 1: I felt.
- 23:34Speaker 2: But covering bone thugs in a Many ghetto Cowboy.
- 23:40Speaker 1: The greatest song on the planet, Hot Girl moving on,
- 23:43Speaker 1: you got stoned, heard things, paranoia and whatever. Hot Girl
- 23:48Speaker 1: Summer move aside. Women are going boy sober and have
- 23:52Speaker 1: never felt better.
- 23:54Speaker 2: Boy sober.
- 23:55Speaker 1: Oh what a buzzkill for all these men, because summer
- 23:58Speaker 1: is when you pull the pushy.
- 24:00Speaker 2: Summer is when I don't agree with boy sober. But
- 24:03Speaker 2: you know what, maybe.
- 24:04Speaker 1: Hels Jessica's in a reckless face in Taylor's swift terms
- 24:10Speaker 1: is called her reckless era.
- 24:12Speaker 2: More on that later.
- 24:14Speaker 1: That's a teaser era, am I in?
- 24:16Speaker 2: You're in your pregnant era, which we love.
- 24:19Speaker 4: Okay, we're nervous.
- 24:21Speaker 1: What seems a little one dimensional. I was thinking more
- 24:25Speaker 1: like a bad bitch independent woman era Independent.
- 24:28Speaker 3: You're in your growing era physically, you're growing emotionally, spiritually, sexually.
- 24:35Speaker 4: And that's the only thing we hear is then one.
- 24:39Speaker 1: Twenty nineteen was the start of hot Girls Summer, coined
- 24:42Speaker 1: by Megan the Stallion in her hit single the same name.
- 24:46Speaker 1: Five years later, we've entered the era of boy sober Summer.
- 24:50Speaker 1: Single women have hopped on a new trend of abstaining
- 24:53Speaker 1: from any romantic or sexual relationships with men, including dating
- 24:58Speaker 1: and casual hookups. Therapists say the emergence of the Boys
- 25:02Speaker 1: Silver movement is indicative of a greater trend of young
- 25:06Speaker 1: women taking a step back from sex and relationships and
- 25:10Speaker 1: puts a new spin on voluntary celibacy. We've talked about
- 25:15Speaker 1: this before. Okay, Okay, two things. Okay. I told you
- 25:21Speaker 1: about one of my dearest friends who's on the dating apps.
- 25:24Speaker 1: She probably goes on two, well, let's say, two to
- 25:28Speaker 1: four dates a week. None of them are sticking. I said,
- 25:32Speaker 1: we gotta give it up. Okay. I didn't tell her
- 25:36Speaker 1: to go, so I just said, go have reckless sex,
- 25:39Speaker 1: but like use protection. I was like, I want to
- 25:41Speaker 1: date these guys, okay, because it's hot girl summer. But
- 25:44Speaker 1: apparently it's not. So I was onto something with giving
- 25:47Speaker 1: up the dating. I love the giving up of sex
- 25:51Speaker 1: because I feel like men are kind of slacking because
- 25:54Speaker 1: it's kind of like a free for all. Yeah you
- 25:57Speaker 1: know what you.
- 25:59Speaker 3: Think, Yeah, giving up the sex if it's for you, right.
- 26:05Speaker 1: Jessica, you're giving away where you're at and life.
- 26:08Speaker 3: Very quickly, I'm saying, I love focus on your girls
- 26:12Speaker 3: this summer.
- 26:13Speaker 2: Actually, I'm so down for that. Go to the beach, hang.
- 26:16Speaker 1: Out, right, I'm into it, especially because summer is no
- 26:22Speaker 1: time to try to get into a relationship because boys
- 26:27Speaker 1: are like dogs and they see all these women in
- 26:30Speaker 1: bikinis and they're on Instagram and they live in bumpfuck wherever,
- 26:34Speaker 1: and they see these hotties in centrope on a yacht
- 26:37Speaker 1: and it's Instagram. Everyone's accessible. So just hang out with
- 26:44Speaker 1: your girlfriends. I have great vibrators and a great dildo
- 26:52Speaker 1: that route. Okay, yes, if you're thinking like this is
- 26:56Speaker 1: not serving me anymore, like having intimate having sexy fucking men, Okay,
- 27:05Speaker 1: this is not working. I don't want I'd like to date,
- 27:10Speaker 1: but I'm giving it up too soon, so I'm cutting
- 27:12Speaker 1: it all out. I've got your back. Blissa has great dildos,
- 27:17Speaker 1: has fantastic vibrators. I highly recommend amazing.
- 27:22Speaker 2: This isn't even sponsored.
- 27:23Speaker 1: It's not sponsored, but I go heavy in the paint.
- 27:26Speaker 2: That's the one I had that your mom that your
- 27:28Speaker 2: mom gave me.
- 27:30Speaker 1: No, my friend Sena gave our friend one and she
- 27:35Speaker 1: she told me which one it was, and I was like,
- 27:37Speaker 1: you have the rookie vibrator. It's the red, the red one,
- 27:48Speaker 1: just the pink one. I was like, I don't even
- 27:51Speaker 1: know shecause again it's got a hole for the section.
- 27:53Speaker 1: I was like, oh, are you gonna have so fun
- 27:55Speaker 1: with it? Well for this detuction, But back to hot
- 28:02Speaker 1: girls sober summer. Whatever it can be board, it can
- 28:06Speaker 1: be hot girl summer. We don't have to call it
- 28:08Speaker 1: boy sober summer. What you turn into some homely bitch.
- 28:11Speaker 1: Now hot girls summer, and y'all aren't getting laid. Actually,
- 28:17Speaker 1: I'm driving on board. I love this blue ball summer
- 28:20Speaker 1: is what I love.
- 28:21Speaker 4: Summer.
- 28:22Speaker 2: Blue ball summer.
- 28:24Speaker 1: Gypsy Rose is pregnant.
- 28:26Speaker 2: So she is not having sober boys summer.
- 28:29Speaker 1: No, but she's engaged right, Oh.
- 28:32Speaker 2: Pregnant with this man's baby.
- 28:34Speaker 1: She Okay, so how weird is this Gypsy's babies birth
- 28:40Speaker 1: certificate could say x Ryan Anderson is the father. Here's why. Okay,
- 28:46Speaker 1: can you click the link and read for us?
- 28:48Speaker 2: Yes? Absolutely.
- 28:50Speaker 1: And Ryan Anderson, keep in mind, is the the boyfriend
- 28:53Speaker 1: she had when she was in prison. Okay, uh huh.
- 28:57Speaker 1: And then they broke up she after she got out
- 29:00Speaker 1: of prison, because remember we were like, she's a piece
- 29:03Speaker 1: of shit, Why did you do that to the man
- 29:05Speaker 1: who stuck with you? And then we found out he
- 29:07Speaker 1: was like hoarding food in his ikea bed or something.
- 29:10Speaker 1: Oh I can. We were like, okay, we see you.
- 29:15Speaker 1: She was like he would he would get upset when
- 29:17Speaker 1: I would throw away expired food. It's like, we totally
- 29:20Speaker 1: see you, gyp get out, get out.
- 29:22Speaker 2: Get out.
- 29:23Speaker 1: So there's he's not the he's not the father, but
- 29:26Speaker 1: the birth certificate could say that he is.
- 29:29Speaker 3: Why is he couldn't say that he is because in April,
- 29:34Speaker 3: Gypsy Rose filed for divorce from her husband, Ryan Anderson,
- 29:38Speaker 3: whom she married in twenty twenty two, and if the
- 29:41Speaker 3: divorce is not finalized by the time of the baby's birth,
- 29:46Speaker 3: then Anderson's name may be on the birth certificate. According
- 29:49Speaker 3: to Louisiana law, if the mother's married to someone other
- 29:53Speaker 3: than the biological father when the child was conceived or
- 29:55Speaker 3: has been divorced for less than three hundred days at
- 29:58Speaker 3: the time of the birth, the husband's ex husband shelby
- 30:01Speaker 3: the presumed father, unless paternity is established. Oh, unless paternity
- 30:06Speaker 3: is established for the biological father, which it will be.
- 30:10Speaker 3: Because I'm assuming fingers crossed for Gypsy Rose that this
- 30:14Speaker 3: baby is her new mance.
- 30:17Speaker 1: Did Gypsy Rose take on the guy's name?
- 30:22Speaker 2: I don't.
- 30:24Speaker 1: Know.
- 30:24Speaker 2: I don't think so it doesn't look like it if
- 30:27Speaker 2: he doesn't.
- 30:29Speaker 1: When ocean got wheeled out, her things said baby burning him?
- 30:33Speaker 1: Really Yeah, all right, Well a paternity test easy because yeah,
- 30:39Speaker 1: she's with her baby daddy. They're engaged, right.
- 30:43Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm reading this is weird.
- 30:45Speaker 3: There's a legal presumption in Louisiana that if you have
- 30:48Speaker 3: a child while you're married, it's presumed to be the
- 30:50Speaker 3: husband's child. But then it says, then it says, this
- 30:54Speaker 3: is weird. All the laws in Louisiana concerning paternity are
- 30:59Speaker 3: designed to tech the child and make sure the child
- 31:01Speaker 3: has a father and a mother to provide for them.
- 31:05Speaker 2: What about two moms? Like this is so weird?
- 31:08Speaker 1: But is that just what the article is saying or
- 31:10Speaker 1: is it actually quoting Louisiana lot.
- 31:13Speaker 2: No, that's what the article is saying.
- 31:15Speaker 3: But I just wonder if, like, is there yeah, is
- 31:17Speaker 3: it a problem if like the child has two moms?
- 31:19Speaker 2: That's just so weird.
- 31:21Speaker 3: So that presumption can be overcome by DNA, and that's
- 31:24Speaker 3: what people have to do. Interesting, there's a lot of
- 31:26Speaker 3: dated laws all over the US, so I'm sure this
- 31:29Speaker 3: is one of them.
- 31:30Speaker 1: All I know is all you have to do is
- 31:31Speaker 1: get a paternity test. It's really freaking easy. And then
- 31:34Speaker 1: that's whose name goes on the birth certificate.
- 31:37Speaker 2: Mm hmmm hm.
- 31:38Speaker 1: And you know what, and if Gypsy goes into labor,
- 31:41Speaker 1: paternity hasn't been established, put Gypsy's last name on it. Yeah,
- 31:47Speaker 1: was her mom's name, Blanchard's what I was thinking. Maybe
- 31:50Speaker 1: not is not wanting to do that.
- 31:53Speaker 2: Gypsy Rose Bland.
- 31:54Speaker 1: But can I tell you could put anything on the
- 31:56Speaker 1: birth certificate. You literally could name your baby whatever you
- 31:59Speaker 1: want the first at least in Los Angeles, I.
- 32:03Speaker 3: Was gonna say, I don't think that's the case. That's
- 32:04Speaker 3: what they're saying in Louisiana.
- 32:07Speaker 1: All right, Well, all the best she ends up with
- 32:10Speaker 1: a name that you like.
- 32:11Speaker 2: Yeah, thoughts in prayers?
- 32:16Speaker 1: What is this? Katy Perry response to criticism over new
- 32:19Speaker 1: video First off Woman's World, Rolling Stone mag.
- 32:23Speaker 2: Have you seen it?
- 32:24Speaker 4: No?
- 32:24Speaker 2: But she looks so good?
- 32:27Speaker 1: Oh is she holding the drill bit?
- 32:29Speaker 2: Yeah? She looks incredible.
- 32:31Speaker 1: She's been really killing it. I loved the look that
- 32:34Speaker 1: she wore. I don't know exactly where she was, but
- 32:37Speaker 1: she had no bra on. She had on like tights,
- 32:40Speaker 1: a blazer, and the blazer was just like kind of
- 32:43Speaker 1: sitting on her boobies.
- 32:45Speaker 2: Was this?
- 32:45Speaker 1: It didn't even, it didn't even I didn't even know
- 32:47Speaker 1: it was Katy Perry. Oh, because her style is so different, right,
- 32:54Speaker 1: I love her. Okay, what's the criticism about?
- 32:56Speaker 3: Okay, so the Woman's World video, this is a Q
- 33:00Speaker 3: from her. I'm sure the criticism is about, like, I mean,
- 33:04Speaker 3: she looks hot and sexy in the videos for quote
- 33:06Speaker 3: unquote Woman's World, but this is Katie's response is like,
- 33:10Speaker 3: it's like, ooh, we're not about the male gaze, but
- 33:13Speaker 3: we really are about the male gaze and we're really
- 33:16Speaker 3: overplaying it and on the nose.
- 33:19Speaker 1: So she's saying it's satire.
- 33:20Speaker 3: Yes, that is what she's saying. Oh, it's such a
- 33:24Speaker 3: good video though. So she looks so hot in this video.
- 33:27Speaker 3: If you haven't seen it, you must, you must look
- 33:30Speaker 3: it up. Okay, but kat Perry is saying like, yeah,
- 33:33Speaker 3: it's on the nose. It's satire, you idiots, and I
- 33:35Speaker 3: love it.
- 33:37Speaker 1: I mean if you have not under if you don't
- 33:40Speaker 1: understand that, tit's our power. At this point, I cannot
- 33:43Speaker 1: help you.
- 33:44Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay.
- 33:45Speaker 3: The comments on YouTube even are like this feels like, uh,
- 33:49Speaker 3: this looks like something that would be satire for feminism,
- 33:53Speaker 3: Like maybe it is.
- 33:54Speaker 2: Whatever it is, she rocked it. I like it.
- 33:56Speaker 1: Can I say something that I'm having a hard time
- 34:00Speaker 1: right now? Okay with this whole women supporting women, you
- 34:07Speaker 1: don't believe in women, you don't support women, you don't
- 34:11Speaker 1: do this. Let me tell you something. We've spoken about
- 34:15Speaker 1: this before. I'm having a hard time. And for a
- 34:19Speaker 1: very long time I said I only feel comfortable around women.
- 34:24Speaker 1: That is still very true. Women that I know that
- 34:30Speaker 1: I've known for a long time. Because I have found
- 34:34Speaker 1: from my experience that the people who try to break
- 34:39Speaker 1: us down the most us meaning chicks, especially in the
- 34:43Speaker 1: public eye, are other women. I have never had any
- 34:48Speaker 1: man say the things to me that women have said
- 34:53Speaker 1: to me online, women who do not know me. And
- 34:56Speaker 1: I have to assume that most people that are commenting
- 34:59Speaker 1: on the Katie Perry video are women.
- 35:02Speaker 2: There's a lot of women commenting on.
- 35:03Speaker 1: It, okay, the majority majority.
- 35:07Speaker 3: By looking at like like at this is Ashley. I'm
- 35:10Speaker 3: not going to say the last name, but yeah, looking
- 35:12Speaker 3: at looking at the pictures and like the handles, it's
- 35:15Speaker 3: all like traditional female first names, right.
- 35:19Speaker 1: I am not saying that women cannot have disagreements and
- 35:24Speaker 1: have arguments and healthy debates and healthy competition. I love
- 35:29Speaker 1: all of those things. Okay. What I have a really
- 35:33Speaker 1: hard time with is women going into the comments section
- 35:38Speaker 1: and being so horrific and talking about how you don't
- 35:42Speaker 1: represent females, you don't represent And I've been a part
- 35:46Speaker 1: of the problem. Okay, I think every female has been
- 35:50Speaker 1: a part of the problem. But it's hard to subscribe
- 35:53Speaker 1: or buy into something when you start slapping these labels
- 35:58Speaker 1: of women supporting women, and when you look at females
- 36:03Speaker 1: even now in twenty twenty four, going, you guys rip
- 36:07Speaker 1: each other to shreds and nothing is ever good enough. Yeah,
- 36:11Speaker 1: no one can ever win. And you know, it's so
- 36:15Speaker 1: a great point.
- 36:16Speaker 3: What's so unfortunate about that, too, is that you're right,
- 36:21Speaker 3: so many of these negative comments and negativity and this
- 36:24Speaker 3: like gross ripping people to shreds is women, and I
- 36:27Speaker 3: see it in the comments you everyone. But then on
- 36:31Speaker 3: the other side of it, the ones that come to
- 36:34Speaker 3: your defense or come to others defense, or come out
- 36:37Speaker 3: with like amazing points or cheer people on are also women.
- 36:41Speaker 1: So that's why. But that's why I have such a
- 36:44Speaker 1: hard time with it in the sense of I don't
- 36:47Speaker 1: know which way we're going. I know because I've never
- 36:50Speaker 1: been more uplifted by women. Men are just kind of
- 36:54Speaker 1: like they're there? Are there? Though?
- 36:57Speaker 2: Do they know that they're there?
- 36:58Speaker 4: And I promise you if they're watching Kerr and if
- 37:02Speaker 4: they're watching that Katie Perry, they're all like this. The
- 37:05Speaker 4: last thing we're going to do is comment. We're just
- 37:08Speaker 4: in awe. We're gazing at the yeah, male gaze.
- 37:13Speaker 1: But you were saying, you were like, you've never felt
- 37:15Speaker 1: sore up uplifted by women. But I've never been dragged
- 37:19Speaker 1: so hard by by women give criticism. And by the way,
- 37:23Speaker 1: though I've also never I also have uplifted women to
- 37:29Speaker 1: the highest degree, and then I know how to freaking
- 37:32Speaker 1: chop them at the knees. I'm not saying that I'm
- 37:33Speaker 1: like some fabulous women supporting women poster child. I'm saying like,
- 37:40Speaker 1: it's hard to find a freaking balance, Like, how do
- 37:42Speaker 1: you have an opinion while also uplifting someone. I've seen
- 37:46Speaker 1: comments where only from my experience what people have said
- 37:51Speaker 1: to me, there have been chicks where like I don't
- 37:55Speaker 1: agree with you for the most part, but I can
- 38:00Speaker 1: understand like productive female conversation. It's very intense.
- 38:06Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no it is, and it is like it
- 38:08Speaker 3: sucks because there's so many amazing women out there who
- 38:11Speaker 3: get shit done and it's these losers.
- 38:15Speaker 2: Ugh, just because like I said, like even.
- 38:18Speaker 1: Like the weird, but I would still trust a woman
- 38:21Speaker 1: over a man. Does what does el Wood say she has?
- 38:24Speaker 1: If you would have come to a sorority dinner, I
- 38:27Speaker 1: would have at least been nice to you. Yes, let's
- 38:30Speaker 1: all be like el Woods.
- 38:31Speaker 3: Yes, Prue, I object, I love her.
- 38:36Speaker 1: Let's just all be ell Woods. Okay, let's just very quickly.
- 38:43Speaker 1: Shannon Doherty has passed away after battling cancer for quite
- 38:49Speaker 1: some time. She was fifty three, and then fitness guru
- 38:52Speaker 1: Richard Simmons, who's remember he wrote that Instagram post and
- 38:59Speaker 1: it was kind of we didn't really know about battling something. Yes,
- 39:06Speaker 1: do we know if he was battling something.
- 39:07Speaker 4: I was just about to go in here and see if.
- 39:10Speaker 1: He passed away of natural causes that I do know.
- 39:14Speaker 1: But they were showing on k t LA like all
- 39:17Speaker 1: of these videos of him and he just had like
- 39:20Speaker 1: he was like pretty captivating. He was so cool, you know,
- 39:23Speaker 1: and he, like all the women behind him that were
- 39:25Speaker 1: working out with him, looked so freaking happy. I know
- 39:28Speaker 1: he brought people joy.
- 39:31Speaker 3: Yeah, and I don't see anything about I wonder if
- 39:35Speaker 3: it's just being.
- 39:36Speaker 4: Kept on post. It looks like but they just said, hello, gorgeous,
- 39:42Speaker 4: Please don't rain on my parade.
- 39:44Speaker 1: What's the photo being fabulous? Obviously, was he.
- 39:53Speaker 2: Publicly gay?
- 39:54Speaker 1: I don't know that. Okay, I do not know that.
- 39:58Speaker 1: I know he was a publicly fabulous and all the
- 40:01Speaker 1: exercise I was like, Oh, I could get down with that.
- 40:03Speaker 2: Oh my god, are you kidding me?
- 40:05Speaker 3: He never publicly discussed his sexuality. After his death, Actress
- 40:10Speaker 3: Jane Fonda said that the last time she saw Simmons
- 40:13Speaker 3: was when she had lunch with him and his boyfriend
- 40:15Speaker 3: at the Polo Lounge. She said that the relationship was
- 40:19Speaker 3: new and he was proud. So hopefully he did everything
- 40:23Speaker 3: he wanted to do in life and passed away as
- 40:25Speaker 3: a happy, happy man.
- 40:26Speaker 1: I hope he did too. And I also don't want
- 40:30Speaker 1: Shannon Doherty's passing to get lost because there was breaking
- 40:34Speaker 1: news in the political world right the day that she
- 40:36Speaker 1: passed away. We are not a political podcast. We will
- 40:40Speaker 1: not be venturing into that topic. But we are well
- 40:43Speaker 1: aware of what's going through this. We are an educated bunch.
- 40:48Speaker 1: I'm also thrilled to see that Alec Baldwin his case
- 40:52Speaker 1: was dismissed.
- 40:53Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw that.
- 40:55Speaker 1: Yeah, he aged like one hundred years.
- 40:57Speaker 2: I'm sure the stress.
- 41:00Speaker 4: Stress and it's like I feel like, it's not like
- 41:02Speaker 4: you wasn't all he didn't do anything right.
- 41:05Speaker 1: For those of you who have been living under a rock,
- 41:07Speaker 1: there was a movie called Rust. There was a one.
- 41:10Speaker 1: There was someone who passed away on set because the
- 41:13Speaker 1: the prop weapons that were being used were not properly. Yes,
- 41:17Speaker 1: producer John cinematographer Sinneth, a cinematographer, lost her life on
- 41:23Speaker 1: the set of Rust because whoever was handling the prop guns,
- 41:29Speaker 1: which a lot of times they're not rubber, they do
- 41:33Speaker 1: shoot something. I have not been on very many movie sets.
- 41:38Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. I prefer a rubber gun.
- 41:41Speaker 1: I don't like even if this is not shooting real bullets,
- 41:47Speaker 1: I just don't like the feel of it. I don't
- 41:49Speaker 1: like the kickback. Give me a rubber gun. Spend the
- 41:52Speaker 1: money in post to add the little sound effects, all right,
- 41:55Speaker 1: and if it doesn't look like I'm really shooting a gun.
- 41:58Speaker 1: We're not making oscar A worthy movies here, all right,
- 42:01Speaker 1: I'm not really that concerned about it. Okay, I don't
- 42:05Speaker 1: really give a shit anyway. I personally didn't feel like
- 42:12Speaker 1: Alec Baldwin was at fault in any way. He goes
- 42:16Speaker 1: on set, he has one job, right, create a character
- 42:20Speaker 1: and make this movie great. Someone hands him a gun,
- 42:24Speaker 1: he shoots it, and it's not properly looked at and
- 42:29Speaker 1: taken care of. That's the prop masters, right.
- 42:34Speaker 2: Horrifying that that could even happen.
- 42:36Speaker 1: It is horrifying, horrifying, Like why are we still using
- 42:41Speaker 1: these types of props.
- 42:42Speaker 3: It's it's actually wild because like we can make robots,
- 42:46Speaker 3: but we can't make fake guns that look real enough
- 42:49Speaker 3: to use on a movie.
- 42:51Speaker 1: I'm watching Elon Musk shoot freaking spaceships into the air
- 42:55Speaker 1: every two weeks in La back down into the middle
- 43:01Speaker 1: of the Pacific and like find their way back to
- 43:03Speaker 1: Elon Musk. Yes, you're telling me you can't have a
- 43:06Speaker 1: freaking fake gun that it gives you some Elk back
- 43:09Speaker 1: without anything coming out of it.
- 43:11Speaker 2: You're tripping, tripping.
- 43:12Speaker 1: You make cars that park themselves.
- 43:14Speaker 2: You make way mos.
- 43:16Speaker 1: What's that?
- 43:17Speaker 3: It's a car that literally drives itself. It picks you
- 43:19Speaker 3: up like an uber and no one's in there.
- 43:21Speaker 1: I've seen those terrifying.
- 43:23Speaker 2: Wild Can we touch on this, David arcad or do
- 43:26Speaker 2: you not?
- 43:26Speaker 1: Are you always? Let's touch on David Arcade. I'm so
- 43:29Speaker 1: for you, because that's what we're gonna That's what we're
- 43:32Speaker 1: gonna end with. I just want to say that, you guys,
- 43:36Speaker 1: I have not watched I haven't watched any Beverly or
- 43:41Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. I haven't watched any Housewives.
- 43:43Speaker 3: That stinks because I have really no, I haven't, but
- 43:48Speaker 3: I said that because I I really wanted to, but
- 43:51Speaker 3: then I didn't see it in your notes since so
- 43:53Speaker 3: I thought I'm not gonna watch it.
- 43:56Speaker 1: I need to watch it. Keep in mind, it was
- 43:58Speaker 1: my baby Monson. I will be back at it wat
- 44:02Speaker 1: Catching up on Jersey and OC has started, you guys know,
- 44:06Speaker 1: I've been so excited to see OC because I've heard
- 44:09Speaker 1: it is the best season that they've ever made in
- 44:13Speaker 1: all the years of the franchise.
- 44:14Speaker 2: So we need to be on Jersey and OC.
- 44:17Speaker 1: Jersey and OC. I want to quickly touch on Brandy
- 44:21Speaker 1: Glanville addresses the Jack's Taylor hookup rumor after fans claim
- 44:26Speaker 1: he made a bedroom confession. Brandy Glanville denies that they've
- 44:30Speaker 1: ever hooked up. There was a tidbit about Jack's and
- 44:35Speaker 1: Ramona singer.
- 44:37Speaker 2: Stop are you spelling?
- 44:38Speaker 4: Tea?
- 44:41Speaker 1: Listen to my eyes exclusive Wait, there's truth to it.
- 44:46Speaker 1: Raise your eyebrows almost hitting your hairline? Wait?
- 44:51Speaker 2: Who told you this?
- 44:52Speaker 1: I'm not telling Ramona and Jack's and just so I
- 44:59Speaker 1: don't catch a case with a lawsuit allegedly. Remember what
- 45:07Speaker 1: I said, guys, all of them touch your hairline allegedly.
- 45:12Speaker 3: I am shook to my core. I'm shut and so
- 45:16Speaker 3: excited about this tea.
- 45:18Speaker 1: So there's that. Let's talk about David Arquette in a
- 45:22Speaker 1: clown before we bust into ache and Relief of the week.
- 45:25Speaker 3: He's been really, really on this for like the past
- 45:27Speaker 3: few years.
- 45:28Speaker 2: A few years, I mean maybe even more by.
- 45:32Speaker 1: Huh. I know, I've heard he first tell you how
- 45:36Speaker 1: I'm doing. Not well, bitch, not well, bitch. That'strenda always
- 45:42Speaker 1: the best housewife in all the lands, the best housewife.
- 45:46Speaker 3: I heard an interview with David Arquette like a year
- 45:48Speaker 3: ago and He's like he got the rights to Boso
- 45:51Speaker 3: the Clown or something, but he's just seems like, I
- 45:54Speaker 3: don't know this guy personally. The sweetest heart in the world,
- 45:58Speaker 3: Arquette or Boso Arquette.
- 46:00Speaker 2: I'm not sure about Boso.
- 46:01Speaker 4: Hold On, isn't he Boo?
- 46:03Speaker 1: No? Hold On, Boso is out. Boso's finished. People don't
- 46:10Speaker 1: care about Bozo. What is Seinfeld?
- 46:14Speaker 2: I felt? SEINFELDT, Yes, I'm I'm a fraud.
- 46:18Speaker 4: You know you are.
- 46:19Speaker 1: George. George is dating a woman with a child and
- 46:23Speaker 1: he wants a clown. You just gotta get both. He's finished.
- 46:28Speaker 2: That's hilarious.
- 46:29Speaker 3: Actually, oh well, David Arqat is just trying to He's
- 46:34Speaker 3: on a mission to make people like clowns again. There
- 46:36Speaker 3: are good clowns out there, that's true. Clowns get a
- 46:39Speaker 3: bad rap.
- 46:40Speaker 1: Is he playing a clown in a new movie that
- 46:42Speaker 1: he's trying to.
- 46:44Speaker 3: It's so cute and sweet, and he loves clowns. Knows
- 46:48Speaker 3: clowns have gotten a bad rap with penny Wise from
- 46:52Speaker 3: It and Twisty from American Horror Story.
- 46:54Speaker 2: But he wants to change that.
- 46:55Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, David Arqatt. Let me tell
- 46:57Speaker 1: you something. My child has never been exposed to it
- 47:01Speaker 1: ever in her life. She saw a clown the other
- 47:03Speaker 1: day at the park freaked out. I mean that is
- 47:06Speaker 1: called instinct. Yeah, No one made these clowns scary. They've
- 47:11Speaker 1: always been scary. When my three year old knows that
- 47:15Speaker 1: a clown is scary and I've never shown her it before,
- 47:18Speaker 1: I'm telling you, the thing's freaking scary. So as much
- 47:21Speaker 1: as I appreciate David Arquette trying to like make us
- 47:27Speaker 1: think that clowns are exciting and happy, they're freaking scary.
- 47:31Speaker 1: They are so great And David Arquette, David Arquette has
- 47:34Speaker 1: a message for you, and if you find clowns creepy,
- 47:36Speaker 1: you should give them a second shot.
- 47:38Speaker 3: He said, if you find okay, give them a second shot.
- 47:42Speaker 3: This is cute, he said. We're on a mission to
- 47:44Speaker 3: sort of bring joy back to the world and sort
- 47:47Speaker 3: of shine a light on happy clowns.
- 47:49Speaker 2: And Bozo is one of the happiest, he explains. I
- 47:52Speaker 2: think it's so cute.
- 47:53Speaker 3: If you want to listen to a really good episode
- 47:56Speaker 3: of David Arquette talking about this armchair Ecs with Dak Shepherd,
- 48:02Speaker 3: Monica Padman, and they interviewed David Arquette, and it's that
- 48:05Speaker 3: he really goes into this and it's really cute and sweet.
- 48:08Speaker 1: This is terrifying. Okay, well are you joking? Me tell
- 48:14Speaker 1: you how to make people that's bozo?
- 48:17Speaker 3: Okay, well, boso doesn't look like that anymore. If David
- 48:20Speaker 3: Arquet has anything to do with it.
- 48:22Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. This is the way you
- 48:23Speaker 1: make people not afraid of clowns anymore. You change what
- 48:27Speaker 1: a clown is.
- 48:28Speaker 2: Clowns look freaky.
- 48:30Speaker 1: You've got these guys in bald caps, white as ghosts,
- 48:36Speaker 1: eyebrows up to their hairlines.
- 48:38Speaker 4: Like Ronald McDonald is a scary bastard.
- 48:42Speaker 2: I'm gonna google.
- 48:43Speaker 1: Let's not make them have red smiles up to their eyeballs.
- 48:48Speaker 2: It's the smiles that are really scary. Okay. This is
- 48:52Speaker 2: when you think of clown You should think of like big.
- 48:55Speaker 4: Feet, red nose.
- 48:56Speaker 3: Like like, I mean, a lot of them are I
- 49:00Speaker 3: guess this slutty clown, sloody clown.
- 49:05Speaker 2: I don't know, you, guys, I just like this.
- 49:07Speaker 1: They're just so cute, Jessica, it's so cute.
- 49:12Speaker 3: You guys got to listen to the interview and then
- 49:13Speaker 3: get back to me because he's just so passionate.
- 49:16Speaker 2: I love when people have passions to bring joy.
- 49:20Speaker 1: Producer John is shaking his head. Yeah, you're in a
- 49:22Speaker 1: weird stage of life.
- 49:23Speaker 3: I know, I'm really I'm I'm uh yeah.
- 49:27Speaker 1: I'm okay, I'm okay signing off.
- 49:31Speaker 2: Oh I thought you meant like me.
- 49:33Speaker 1: No, No, I'm not going to give him a second chance.
- 49:36Speaker 1: My three year old is terrified of them. Yeah, I
- 49:39Speaker 1: call that's a natural instinct. I'm sorry, not happening. You're weird,
- 49:45Speaker 1: You're it, you are it with the balloon ache of
- 49:50Speaker 1: the week in relief, Jessica, would you.
- 49:52Speaker 3: Like to go, oh boy, oh boy, my ache of
- 49:56Speaker 3: the week.
- 49:57Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just in a little oh you
- 50:01Speaker 2: know what.
- 50:01Speaker 3: No, I will say a lot of I've gotten a
- 50:03Speaker 3: lot of dms, and there's some YouTube comments be like
- 50:07Speaker 3: asking about my personal life.
- 50:10Speaker 2: And I'll update you guys on that one day. So's
- 50:13Speaker 2: I'm in a bit of a transition period.
- 50:15Speaker 3: So I feel like it's an ache, but it's also
- 50:18Speaker 3: a relief because there's growth.
- 50:20Speaker 2: There's growth when you're uncomfortable.
- 50:22Speaker 3: I think, yes, and then my actual relief is, you know,
- 50:25Speaker 3: I'm just I feel like we.
- 50:28Speaker 2: Haven't had a jiu jitsu relief in a while.
- 50:30Speaker 3: Here I am back at it again, focusing on jiu jitsu.
- 50:35Speaker 1: That's a good outlet when you have trans when you're
- 50:38Speaker 1: in a time of transition, you have to have something
- 50:41Speaker 1: that can like reground you get your mind off of things. Yeah,
- 50:45Speaker 1: up those endorphins.
- 50:46Speaker 3: Yes, And I'm competing August fourth and my dad's coming,
- 50:49Speaker 3: which is so exciting, and I've already talked about that,
- 50:53Speaker 3: and so we're doing either or. August fourth is points,
- 50:58Speaker 3: August eleventh is submission only.
- 51:00Speaker 2: So the way you win is like choking them out.
- 51:02Speaker 2: So I'm gonna like that.
- 51:03Speaker 1: Choke them out, girls, choke him out.
- 51:06Speaker 4: Like that front row both comps.
- 51:10Speaker 1: There there, we will be there. It's you and relief.
- 51:16Speaker 4: Don't have one. That's great.
- 51:19Speaker 1: Ak and relief are so boring. He never has one
- 51:22Speaker 1: of either.
- 51:23Speaker 2: Is that you couldn't come to the monsoon.
- 51:25Speaker 1: I couldn't.
- 51:26Speaker 4: Oh no, that's not an ache.
- 51:30Speaker 1: What's not an inche.
- 51:31Speaker 4: Not being able to go to your monsoon? That was
- 51:33Speaker 4: for you. I really don't have an ache. I really
- 51:35Speaker 4: don't like it's everything's been good. We had family around,
- 51:38Speaker 4: we had everything, So my everything's been pretty good the
- 51:41Speaker 4: past week and no ache. My relief is I got
- 51:45Speaker 4: my hairy twisted.
- 51:47Speaker 1: I know it looks really good.
- 51:49Speaker 2: Is this from the person that we talked about the
- 51:52Speaker 2: other day, the girl?
- 51:53Speaker 4: Yeah, so I want to shout out Jalen and yeah,
- 51:58Speaker 4: so she retwisted and I'll drop all of her like
- 52:01Speaker 4: and stuff like that. But yeah, she took care of
- 52:02Speaker 4: me and will continue. But yeah, a big shout out
- 52:04Speaker 4: to her.
- 52:05Speaker 1: She was great.
- 52:05Speaker 4: That is my relief.
- 52:06Speaker 2: Okay, we love it.
- 52:09Speaker 1: My ache is yet again physical. I like to think that.
- 52:14Speaker 1: So my baby baby s is right now still breach.
- 52:20Speaker 1: I'm thirty a little over thirty three weeks now. My
- 52:25Speaker 1: obie said, stop stressing. There's plenty of time for her
- 52:29Speaker 1: to drop. I've been feeling a little funky, like my
- 52:33Speaker 1: ribcage is kind of it feels like she's gripped onto
- 52:37Speaker 1: it and she's like yank down on it. So I
- 52:40Speaker 1: don't know if she's trying to work her way down
- 52:43Speaker 1: to what they call the birthing canal.
- 52:46Speaker 2: Canal, Wow, low are you doing? Can you do things?
- 52:52Speaker 2: This is real to like move them?
- 52:54Speaker 1: Yes. So there's people who have spoken about massages that
- 52:59Speaker 1: you can get for breached babies, babies who are overdue
- 53:04Speaker 1: and you are trying to go into labor. There's also
- 53:07Speaker 1: my friend Danny showed me a YouTube video of a
- 53:11Speaker 1: bunch of exercises that you can do to kind of
- 53:13Speaker 1: let the belly hang and they have some room to move.
- 53:18Speaker 1: Oh interesting, because I was comparing this pregnancy and how
- 53:22Speaker 1: I physically look to my last pregnancy with Ocean, and
- 53:26Speaker 1: I do look like I'm carrying the same and I
- 53:29Speaker 1: do look like I've maybe gained the same amount of weight.
- 53:32Speaker 1: I was a little bit more swollen through the face
- 53:36Speaker 1: with Ocean, but I got cankles with baby S and
- 53:41Speaker 1: this baby's gonna be bigger. So I'm wondering if maybe
- 53:45Speaker 1: I just got to like let the belly hang to
- 53:47Speaker 1: like offer her some room to move.
- 53:50Speaker 2: Have you ever have you seen those massage tables? I
- 53:53Speaker 2: bet that's a way.
- 53:54Speaker 1: With the whole Yes, that sounds so good, saying then
- 53:57Speaker 1: you could just nap, That just sounds good. Yeah. Right
- 54:01Speaker 1: now I'm sleeping in L shape because between the rib
- 54:04Speaker 1: cage hurting, the back breaking, and the esophageal herd acid,
- 54:12Speaker 1: I have a really hard time sleeping.
- 54:14Speaker 2: What do you mean L shape? Feet? Yeah, show us.
- 54:18Speaker 1: Like my body's up like this and then my legs
- 54:20Speaker 1: are straight out.
- 54:22Speaker 2: Oh that doesn't sound comfortable at all.
- 54:24Speaker 1: It's not, Jessica.
- 54:26Speaker 4: It's just the only thing.
- 54:27Speaker 2: That is comfortable, the only thing that fits me right now.
- 54:30Speaker 1: Sweats are the only thing that's what is it, sweatpants,
- 54:33Speaker 1: sweatpant that fits me right now. So that's my ache.
- 54:36Speaker 1: But again, feeling very blessed and grateful that I'm creating
- 54:41Speaker 1: human life. It is not lost on me that it
- 54:44Speaker 1: is not. People don't just get pregnant like that. So
- 54:50Speaker 1: I am not complaining. I'm feeling very grateful for everything
- 54:55Speaker 1: that's going on. And you know, any movement, whether my
- 54:59Speaker 1: back is breaking or my cage is hurting, I'm like,
- 55:01Speaker 1: you know what, all good girl, A good girl. You
- 55:05Speaker 1: just make yourself.
- 55:09Speaker 2: You're literally making a human It's wild.
- 55:12Speaker 1: And then I would say my relief was the baby monsoon.
- 55:15Speaker 1: It was just I have an overwhelming amount of gratitude
- 55:20Speaker 1: for the people that are in my life, and I
- 55:24Speaker 1: feel just very very happy love it. So there we go.
- 55:29Speaker 1: You guys, I hope that you enjoyed this episode of
- 55:32Speaker 1: the Give Them La La podcast. I love you so much.
- 55:34Speaker 1: I want to Thank you for tuning in, supporting, writing comments,
- 55:38Speaker 1: writing into the bonus episode so that we have something
- 55:41Speaker 1: to bump gums about. Reminder, bonus episodes drop every Monday,
- 55:45Speaker 1: video drop same day. Regular old episodes are every Wednesday,
- 55:49Speaker 1: and you can watch the videos on YouTube Fridays at
- 55:52Speaker 1: nine am Pacific time. Have the best week ever and.
- 55:57Speaker 2: I have your birthday.
- 55:59Speaker 1: Happy birthday to you. See you later.