Latest / Barnyard Language / Domestic Violence Researcher Barb MacQuarrie
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- 0:13Welcome
- 0:14to
- 0:14Barnyard
- 0:15Language.
- 0:15We
- 0:15are
- 0:15Caite
- 0:16and
- 0:16Arlene,
- 0:16an
- 0:16Iowa
- 0:17sheep
- 0:17farmer,
- 0:17and
- 0:18an
- 0:18Ontario
- 0:18dairy
- 0:19farmer
- 0:19with
- 0:20six
- 0:20kids,
- 0:20two
- 0:21husbands,
- 0:21and
- 0:22a
- 0:22whole
- 0:22lot
- 0:22of
- 0:22chaos
- 0:23between
- 0:23us.
- 0:24So
- 0:24kick
- 0:24off
- 0:24your
- 0:25boots,
- 0:25reheat
- 0:25your
- 0:26coffee,
- 0:26and
- 0:26join
- 0:27us
- 0:27for
- 0:27some
- 0:27barnyard
- 0:28language.
- 0:28Honest
- 0:29talk
- 0:29about
- 0:29running
- 0:30farms
- 0:30and
- 0:30raising
- 0:31families.
- 0:32In
- 0:33case
- 0:33your
- 0:33kids
- 0:33haven't
- 0:34already
- 0:34learned
- 0:34all
- 0:34the
- 0:34swears
- 0:35from
- 0:35being
- 0:35in
- 0:35the
- 0:35barn,
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- 0:36be
- 0:36a
- 0:36good
- 0:36idea
- 0:36to
- 0:37put
- 0:37on
- 0:37some
- 0:37headphones
- 0:37or
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- 0:38down
- 0:38the
- 0:38volume.
- 0:39While
- 0:39many
- 0:40of
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- 0:40are
- 0:40professionals,
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- 0:41aren't
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- 0:41professionals.
- 0:42If
- 0:42you
- 0:42need
- 0:43personalized
- 0:43advice,
- 0:44consult
- 0:44your
- 0:45people.
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- 0:47Arlene: you
- 0:47Arlene: for
- 0:47Arlene: joining
- 0:47Arlene: us
- 0:48Arlene: again
- 0:48Arlene: on
- 0:48Arlene: the
- 0:48Arlene: Barnyard
- 0:48Arlene: Language
- 0:49Arlene: podcast.
- 0:50Arlene: Caite
- 0:50Arlene: and
- 0:50Arlene: I
- 0:50Arlene: are
- 0:51Arlene: excited
- 0:51Arlene: that
- 0:51Arlene: you're
- 0:51Arlene: here
- 0:51Arlene: again
- 0:52Arlene: with
- 0:52Arlene: us
- 0:52Arlene: today,
- 0:52Arlene: and
- 0:52Arlene: usually
- 0:53Arlene: we
- 0:53Arlene: start
- 0:53Arlene: off
- 0:53Arlene: with
- 0:54Arlene: our
- 0:54Arlene: weekly
- 0:55Arlene: update.
- 0:55Arlene: Katie,
- 0:56Arlene: what's
- 0:56Arlene: going
- 0:56Arlene: on
- 0:56Arlene: in
- 0:56Arlene: the
- 0:56Arlene: farm
- 0:57Arlene: these
- 0:57Arlene: days
- 0:57Arlene: in
- 0:57Arlene: Iowa?
- 0:58Arlene: I
- 0:58Caite: already
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- 0:59Caite: the
- 0:59Caite: window,
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- 1:02Caite: What
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- 1:05Arlene: Yes.
- 1:05Arlene: Yeah,
- 1:06Arlene: I
- 1:06Arlene: was
- 1:06Arlene: looking
- 1:06Arlene: at
- 1:06Arlene: my
- 1:06Arlene: window
- 1:07Arlene: cuz
- 1:07Arlene: it's
- 1:07Arlene: snowing
- 1:07Arlene: here
- 1:07Arlene: too.
- 1:08Arlene: Yeah.
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- 2:12Arlene: it's
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- 2:12Arlene: more
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- 2:46Caite: the
- 2:46Caite: girl
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- 8:50Arlene: We
- 8:50Arlene: start
- 8:51Arlene: each
- 8:51Arlene: of
- 8:51Arlene: our
- 8:51Arlene: interviews
- 8:52Arlene: with
- 8:52Arlene: the
- 8:52Arlene: same
- 8:52Arlene: question,
- 8:53Arlene: and
- 8:53Arlene: this
- 8:53Arlene: is
- 8:53Arlene: a
- 8:53Arlene: way
- 8:53Arlene: to
- 8:53Arlene: introduce
- 8:54Arlene: yourself
- 8:54Arlene: to
- 8:54Arlene: our
- 8:54Arlene: listeners.
- 8:55Arlene: So
- 8:56Arlene: for
- 8:56Arlene: our
- 8:56Arlene: farming
- 8:57Arlene: guests,
- 8:57Arlene: this
- 8:57Arlene: covers
- 8:57Arlene: crops
- 8:58Arlene: and
- 8:58Arlene: livestock,
- 8:58Arlene: but
- 8:59Arlene: for
- 8:59Arlene: everyone
- 8:59Arlene: else
- 8:59Arlene: it
- 8:59Arlene: can
- 9:00Arlene: be
- 9:00Arlene: families,
- 9:00Arlene: businesses,
- 9:01Arlene: careers,
- 9:01Arlene: and
- 9:01Arlene: many
- 9:02Arlene: other
- 9:02Arlene: things.
- 9:02Arlene: So
- 9:03Arlene: Barb,
- 9:03Arlene: we'll
- 9:03Arlene: ask
- 9:03Arlene: our
- 9:03Arlene: question.
- 9:04Arlene: What
- 9:04Arlene: are
- 9:04Arlene: you
- 9:04Barb: growing?
- 9:05Barb: My
- 9:05Barb: growing
- 9:05Barb: season's
- 9:06Barb: coming
- 9:06Barb: to
- 9:06Barb: an
- 9:06Barb: end,
- 9:07Barb: but
- 9:07Barb: during
- 9:07Barb: the
- 9:07Barb: summer
- 9:08Barb: I
- 9:08Barb: have
- 9:08Barb: flower
- 9:08Barb: gardens,
- 9:09Barb: so
- 9:09Barb: I
- 9:09Barb: grow
- 9:09Barb: lots
- 9:10Barb: of
- 9:10Barb: different
- 9:10Barb: kinds
- 9:10Barb: of
- 9:11Barb: flowers.
- 9:11Barb: Spring
- 9:12Barb: starts.
- 9:13Barb: Crocus
- 9:13Barb: and
- 9:13Barb: daffodils
- 9:14Barb: and
- 9:14Barb: tulips
- 9:15Barb: and
- 9:15Barb: columbines,
- 9:17Barb: lilacs
- 9:18Barb: and
- 9:18Barb: seeds.
- 9:18Barb: And
- 9:18Barb: then
- 9:18Barb: come
- 9:19Barb: the
- 9:19Barb: allium
- 9:19Barb: and
- 9:20Barb: the
- 9:20Barb: irises
- 9:20Barb: and
- 9:21Barb: the
- 9:21Barb: pennies
- 9:21Barb: and
- 9:21Barb: lupins,
- 9:22Barb: and
- 9:22Barb: then
- 9:22Barb: the
- 9:22Barb: roses
- 9:23Barb: and
- 9:23Barb: flocks
- 9:24Barb: and
- 9:24Barb: coops.
- 9:25Barb: And
- 9:25Barb: then
- 9:25Barb: the
- 9:25Barb: lavender
- 9:26Barb: and
- 9:26Barb: the
- 9:26Barb: butterfly
- 9:26Barb: weed,
- 9:27Barb: the
- 9:27Barb: daisies
- 9:27Barb: of
- 9:27Barb: lilies,
- 9:28Barb: dium
- 9:29Barb: bee
- 9:29Barb: bomb
- 9:29Barb: comb,
- 9:30Barb: flowers,
- 9:30Barb: black
- 9:31Barb: eye,
- 9:31Barb: Susan's
- 9:31Barb: hostas,
- 9:32Barb: and
- 9:32Barb: coming
- 9:32Barb: into
- 9:32Barb: fall,
- 9:33Barb: an
- 9:33Barb: enemy
- 9:35Barb: hyran
- 9:35Barb: Russian
- 9:36Barb: stage
- 9:36Barb: and
- 9:36Barb: lots
- 9:36Barb: of
- 9:36Barb: different
- 9:36Barb: kinds
- 9:37Barb: of
- 9:37Barb: grasses.
- 9:37Barb: And
- 9:38Barb: I
- 9:38Barb: grows
- 9:39Barb: and
- 9:39Barb: I
- 9:39Barb: patients
- 9:39Barb: and
- 9:39Barb: petunia
- 9:40Barb: and
- 9:40Barb: magon,
- 9:41Barb: and.
- 9:42Arlene: So
- 9:42Arlene: you're
- 9:43Arlene: one
- 9:43Arlene: of
- 9:43Arlene: those
- 9:43Arlene: people
- 9:43Arlene: who
- 9:43Arlene: actually
- 9:43Arlene: knows
- 9:44Arlene: all
- 9:44Arlene: the
- 9:44Arlene: things
- 9:44Arlene: that
- 9:44Arlene: are
- 9:44Arlene: in
- 9:45Arlene: your
- 9:45Arlene: flower
- 9:45Arlene: gardens?
- 9:46Arlene: I
- 9:46Arlene: have.
- 9:46Arlene: I
- 9:47Arlene: probably
- 9:47Arlene: have
- 9:47Arlene: some
- 9:47Arlene: of
- 9:47Arlene: those
- 9:47Arlene: things.
- 9:48Arlene: I
- 9:48Barb: don't
- 9:48Barb: what
- 9:49Barb: they're
- 9:49Barb: called.
- 9:50Barb: It's
- 9:50Barb: taken
- 9:51Barb: years.
- 9:51Barb: I
- 9:51Barb: started
- 9:52Barb: out
- 9:52Barb: as
- 9:52Barb: a
- 9:53Barb: complete
- 9:53Barb: amateur
- 9:54Barb: and
- 9:54Barb: I'm,
- 9:54Barb: yeah,
- 9:55Barb: I
- 9:55Barb: did.
- 9:55Barb: I
- 9:56Barb: just
- 9:56Barb: like
- 9:56Barb: it
- 9:56Barb: a
- 9:56Barb: lot.
- 9:57Arlene: That's
- 9:57Arlene: great.
- 9:58Arlene: And
- 9:58Arlene: in
- 9:58Arlene: terms
- 9:58Arlene: of
- 9:58Arlene: your
- 9:58Arlene: career,
- 9:59Arlene: are
- 9:59Arlene: you
- 9:59Arlene: growing.
- 10:01Arlene: Growing
- 10:01Arlene: something
- 10:02Arlene: in
- 10:02Arlene: terms
- 10:03Arlene: of
- 10:03Arlene: what
- 10:03Arlene: you're
- 10:03Arlene: growing
- 10:04Arlene: into
- 10:04Arlene: or
- 10:05Arlene: how
- 10:05Barb: you
- 10:05Barb: developing?
- 10:06Barb: I
- 10:06Barb: am.
- 10:07Barb: I
- 10:07Barb: am
- 10:08Barb: growing
- 10:08Barb: in
- 10:09Barb: my
- 10:09Barb: career
- 10:10Barb: my
- 10:10Barb: plan
- 10:10Barb: to
- 10:10Barb: retire
- 10:11Barb: in
- 10:11Barb: December
- 10:12Barb: got
- 10:12Barb: thwarted
- 10:13Barb: a
- 10:13Barb: little
- 10:13Barb: bit,
- 10:15Barb: and
- 10:15Barb: I'm
- 10:15Barb: going
- 10:16Barb: to,
- 10:16Barb: but
- 10:16Barb: I'm
- 10:17Barb: gonna
- 10:17Barb: reduce
- 10:17Barb: the
- 10:18Barb: time
- 10:18Barb: I'm
- 10:18Barb: working
- 10:18Barb: and
- 10:19Barb: I'm
- 10:19Barb: gonna
- 10:19Barb: focus
- 10:20Barb: in
- 10:20Barb: and
- 10:21Barb: I'm
- 10:21Barb: gonna
- 10:21Barb: really
- 10:22Barb: focus
- 10:22Barb: in.
- 10:23Barb: Research
- 10:24Barb: that
- 10:24Barb: has
- 10:24Barb: to
- 10:24Barb: do
- 10:25Barb: with
- 10:25Barb: two
- 10:25Barb: things.
- 10:26Barb: One
- 10:26Barb: is,
- 10:27Barb: and
- 10:27Barb: I'll
- 10:27Barb: mention
- 10:28Barb: a
- 10:28Barb: little
- 10:28Barb: bit
- 10:28Barb: later
- 10:28Barb: again,
- 10:29Barb: probably,
- 10:29Barb: but
- 10:30Barb: financial
- 10:30Barb: costs
- 10:31Barb: of
- 10:31Barb: domestic
- 10:31Barb: violence
- 10:32Barb: to
- 10:32Barb: the
- 10:32Barb: workplace.
- 10:33Barb: And
- 10:34Barb: the
- 10:34Barb: second
- 10:34Barb: area
- 10:35Barb: is
- 10:36Barb: the
- 10:36Barb: whole
- 10:36Barb: continuum
- 10:37Barb: of
- 10:37Barb: violence
- 10:37Barb: and
- 10:38Barb: harassment
- 10:39Barb: that
- 10:39Barb: includes
- 10:39Barb: domestic
- 10:40Barb: violence
- 10:40Barb: and
- 10:40Barb: how
- 10:41Barb: that
- 10:41Barb: impacts
- 10:42Barb: the
- 10:42Barb: workplace.
- 10:43Barb: So
- 10:43Barb: I'm
- 10:43Barb: just
- 10:44Barb: writing
- 10:44Barb: two
- 10:44Barb: really
- 10:45Barb: big
- 10:45Barb: grants
- 10:46Barb: right
- 10:46Barb: now.
- 10:46Arlene: Yeah.
- 10:46Arlene: So
- 10:47Arlene: getting
- 10:47Arlene: very
- 10:47Arlene: specific
- 10:48Arlene: on
- 10:48Arlene: some
- 10:48Arlene: of
- 10:48Arlene: those
- 10:49Arlene: Yeah.
- 10:49Arlene: Topics.
- 10:50Arlene: Yeah.
- 10:52Arlene: So
- 10:52Arlene: like
- 10:52Arlene: we
- 10:52Arlene: said
- 10:53Arlene: in
- 10:53Arlene: our
- 10:53Arlene: trigger
- 10:54Arlene: warning
- 10:54Arlene: at
- 10:54Arlene: the
- 10:54Arlene: beginning,
- 10:55Arlene: we're
- 10:55Arlene: talking
- 10:55Arlene: to
- 10:55Arlene: you
- 10:55Arlene: today
- 10:56Arlene: about
- 10:56Arlene: domestic
- 10:56Arlene: violence,
- 10:57Arlene: which
- 10:57Arlene: obviously
- 10:58Arlene: isn't
- 10:58Arlene: a
- 10:58Arlene: fun
- 10:58Arlene: topic,
- 10:59Arlene: but
- 10:59Arlene: a
- 10:59Arlene: really
- 10:59Arlene: important
- 11:00Arlene: one.
- 11:00Arlene: Yeah.
- 11:01Arlene: Share
- 11:01Arlene: some
- 11:01Arlene: information
- 11:02Arlene: with
- 11:02Arlene: our
- 11:02Arlene: listeners
- 11:03Arlene: about
- 11:03Arlene: who's
- 11:03Arlene: affected
- 11:04Arlene: by
- 11:04Arlene: domestic
- 11:04Arlene: violence
- 11:05Arlene: and
- 11:05Arlene: how
- 11:05Arlene: rural
- 11:06Arlene: and
- 11:06Arlene: urban
- 11:06Arlene: communities
- 11:07Arlene: differ.
- 11:08Barb: Sure.
- 11:09Barb: So
- 11:10Barb: the
- 11:10Barb: short
- 11:10Barb: answer
- 11:10Barb: is
- 11:10Barb: that
- 11:11Barb: everybody's
- 11:11Barb: affected
- 11:12Barb: by
- 11:12Barb: domestic
- 11:12Barb: violence,
- 11:13Barb: either
- 11:13Barb: directly
- 11:14Barb: or
- 11:14Barb: indirectly.
- 11:15Barb: So
- 11:16Barb: we
- 11:16Barb: have
- 11:16Barb: studies
- 11:16Barb: at
- 11:16Barb: TELUS
- 11:17Barb: between
- 11:17Barb: one
- 11:17Barb: in
- 11:18Barb: three
- 11:18Barb: and
- 11:18Barb: one
- 11:19Barb: in
- 11:19Barb: four.
- 11:19Barb: Women
- 11:20Barb: in
- 11:20Barb: both
- 11:20Barb: Canada
- 11:21Barb: and
- 11:21Barb: the
- 11:21Barb: US
- 11:22Barb: experience
- 11:22Barb: domestic
- 11:23Barb: violence
- 11:23Barb: at
- 11:23Barb: some
- 11:23Barb: point
- 11:24Barb: in
- 11:24Barb: their
- 11:24Barb: lifetime.
- 11:25Barb: For
- 11:25Barb: men,
- 11:26Barb: the
- 11:26Barb: rate
- 11:26Barb: is
- 11:26Barb: lower,
- 11:27Barb: but
- 11:27Barb: still
- 11:27Barb: significant.
- 11:29Barb: We're
- 11:29Barb: just
- 11:29Barb: beginning
- 11:30Barb: to
- 11:30Barb: look
- 11:30Barb: at
- 11:30Barb: rates
- 11:30Barb: of
- 11:30Barb: domestic
- 11:31Barb: violence
- 11:31Barb: for
- 11:31Barb: trans
- 11:32Barb: and
- 11:32Barb: non-binary
- 11:33Barb: folks
- 11:33Barb: and
- 11:33Barb: what.
- 11:34Barb: I'd
- 11:34Barb: say
- 11:35Barb: that
- 11:35Barb: we
- 11:35Barb: don't
- 11:35Barb: have
- 11:35Barb: really
- 11:35Barb: solid
- 11:36Barb: estimates
- 11:36Barb: yet.
- 11:37Barb: All
- 11:37Barb: indicators
- 11:38Barb: are
- 11:38Barb: that
- 11:38Barb: they
- 11:38Barb: experience
- 11:39Barb: even
- 11:39Barb: higher
- 11:39Barb: rates
- 11:40Barb: than
- 11:40Barb: people
- 11:41Barb: who
- 11:41Barb: identify
- 11:42Barb: with
- 11:42Barb: the
- 11:42Barb: sex
- 11:42Barb: and
- 11:42Barb: gender
- 11:42Barb: they
- 11:42Barb: were
- 11:43Barb: assigned
- 11:43Barb: at
- 11:43Barb: birth.
- 11:44Barb: Lesbian
- 11:45Barb: and
- 11:45Barb: gay
- 11:45Barb: people
- 11:45Barb: experience
- 11:46Barb: rates
- 11:46Barb: of
- 11:46Barb: domestic
- 11:47Barb: violence
- 11:47Barb: that
- 11:47Barb: are
- 11:47Barb: just
- 11:47Barb: as
- 11:47Barb: high,
- 11:48Barb: sometimes
- 11:48Barb: even
- 11:48Barb: higher
- 11:49Barb: than
- 11:49Barb: heterosexual
- 11:50Barb: people.
- 11:50Barb: People
- 11:51Barb: of
- 11:51Barb: all
- 11:51Barb: social
- 11:52Barb: classes,
- 11:52Barb: all
- 11:52Barb: races,
- 11:52Barb: ethnicities,
- 11:54Barb: all
- 11:54Barb: face
- 11:55Barb: and
- 11:55Barb: religion.
- 11:56Barb: They
- 11:56Barb: all
- 11:56Barb: experience
- 11:57Barb: domestic
- 11:57Barb: violence.
- 11:58Barb: It's
- 11:58Barb: not
- 11:58Barb: a
- 11:59Barb: problem
- 11:59Barb: of
- 11:59Barb: the
- 11:59Barb: poor
- 12:00Barb: or
- 12:01Barb: any
- 12:01Barb: other
- 12:01Barb: identifiable
- 12:02Barb: group.
- 12:03Barb: Factors
- 12:03Barb: like
- 12:03Barb: poverty
- 12:05Barb: can
- 12:05Barb: increase
- 12:06Barb: the
- 12:06Barb: risk
- 12:06Barb: of
- 12:06Barb: experiencing
- 12:07Barb: domestic
- 12:07Barb: violence
- 12:08Barb: and
- 12:08Barb: make
- 12:08Barb: it
- 12:08Barb: harder
- 12:09Barb: to
- 12:09Barb: escape
- 12:09Barb: when
- 12:09Barb: it
- 12:09Barb: happens.
- 12:10Barb: But
- 12:11Barb: poverty
- 12:11Barb: alone
- 12:12Barb: doesn't
- 12:12Barb: cause
- 12:12Barb: problem.
- 12:13Barb: Sometimes
- 12:13Barb: we
- 12:13Barb: make
- 12:13Barb: assumptions
- 12:14Barb: that
- 12:14Barb: immigrant
- 12:15Barb: communities
- 12:15Barb: are
- 12:15Barb: gonna
- 12:15Barb: have
- 12:16Barb: higher
- 12:16Barb: rates
- 12:16Barb: of
- 12:16Barb: domestic
- 12:17Barb: violence.
- 12:18Barb: Research
- 12:18Barb: has
- 12:18Barb: showed
- 12:19Barb: us
- 12:19Barb: that
- 12:19Barb: isn't
- 12:19Barb: true
- 12:20Barb: in
- 12:20Barb: Canada.
- 12:20Barb: If
- 12:21Barb: anything,
- 12:21Barb: most
- 12:21Barb: immigrant
- 12:22Barb: communities
- 12:22Barb: experience
- 12:23Barb: slightly
- 12:23Barb: lower
- 12:24Barb: rates
- 12:24Barb: of
- 12:24Barb: domestic
- 12:25Barb: violence.
- 12:25Barb: Indigenous
- 12:26Barb: people
- 12:27Barb: both
- 12:27Barb: in
- 12:27Barb: Canada
- 12:28Barb: and
- 12:28Barb: the
- 12:28Barb: US
- 12:29Barb: experience
- 12:29Barb: very
- 12:30Barb: high
- 12:30Barb: rates
- 12:30Barb: of
- 12:30Barb: domestic
- 12:31Barb: violence
- 12:31Barb: and.
- 12:32Barb: That's
- 12:32Barb: because
- 12:33Barb: of
- 12:33Barb: all
- 12:33Barb: the
- 12:33Barb: violence
- 12:33Barb: and
- 12:34Barb: displacement
- 12:35Barb: that
- 12:35Barb: indigenous
- 12:36Barb: communities
- 12:36Barb: have
- 12:36Barb: experienced
- 12:37Barb: at
- 12:37Barb: the
- 12:37Barb: hands
- 12:37Barb: of
- 12:37Barb: settlers
- 12:38Barb: for
- 12:38Barb: hundreds
- 12:39Barb: of
- 12:39Barb: years
- 12:39Barb: now.
- 12:41Barb: So
- 12:41Barb: those
- 12:41Barb: are
- 12:42Barb: the
- 12:42Barb: direct
- 12:42Barb: victims.
- 12:43Barb: Now,
- 12:43Barb: think
- 12:43Barb: about
- 12:44Barb: all
- 12:44Barb: the
- 12:44Barb: friends
- 12:44Barb: and
- 12:45Barb: family
- 12:45Barb: members
- 12:45Barb: who
- 12:45Barb: are
- 12:46Barb: concerned
- 12:46Barb: for
- 12:46Barb: someone
- 12:47Barb: they
- 12:47Barb: care
- 12:47Barb: about
- 12:48Barb: who
- 12:48Barb: might
- 12:48Barb: be
- 12:48Barb: experiencing
- 12:49Barb: domestic
- 12:49Barb: violence.
- 12:50Barb: That's
- 12:50Barb: a
- 12:50Barb: whole
- 12:51Barb: lot
- 12:51Barb: of
- 12:51Barb: people.
- 12:52Barb: And
- 12:53Barb: if
- 12:53Barb: you're
- 12:53Barb: one
- 12:53Barb: of
- 12:54Barb: the
- 12:54Barb: really
- 12:54Barb: rare
- 12:54Barb: people
- 12:55Barb: who
- 12:55Barb: has
- 12:55Barb: an.
- 12:56Barb: Experienced
- 12:56Barb: it
- 12:56Barb: directly
- 12:57Barb: or
- 12:57Barb: doesn't
- 12:57Barb: know
- 12:58Barb: anybody
- 12:58Barb: who's
- 12:58Barb: experienced
- 12:59Barb: domestic
- 12:59Barb: violence,
- 13:00Barb: you're
- 13:00Barb: still
- 13:00Barb: being
- 13:00Barb: affected
- 13:02Barb: because
- 13:02Barb: we
- 13:02Barb: all
- 13:02Barb: help
- 13:02Barb: to
- 13:03Barb: pay
- 13:03Barb: for
- 13:03Barb: the
- 13:03Barb: cost
- 13:03Barb: of
- 13:03Barb: this
- 13:04Barb: behavior.
- 13:04Barb: We
- 13:04Barb: pay
- 13:05Barb: through
- 13:05Barb: criminal
- 13:05Barb: justice
- 13:06Barb: system
- 13:07Barb: and
- 13:07Barb: through
- 13:07Barb: publicly
- 13:08Barb: funded
- 13:08Barb: health
- 13:08Barb: and
- 13:08Barb: social
- 13:09Barb: service
- 13:09Barb: social
- 13:10Barb: services.
- 13:11Barb: And
- 13:12Barb: then
- 13:12Barb: let's
- 13:12Barb: not
- 13:12Barb: forget
- 13:12Barb: about
- 13:13Barb: the
- 13:13Barb: lost
- 13:13Barb: potential
- 13:14Barb: of
- 13:15Barb: those
- 13:15Barb: who've
- 13:15Barb: experienced
- 13:15Barb: domestic
- 13:16Barb: violence
- 13:16Barb: and
- 13:16Barb: grown
- 13:16Barb: up
- 13:17Barb: in
- 13:17Barb: a
- 13:17Barb: home
- 13:17Barb: where
- 13:17Barb: domestic
- 13:18Barb: violence
- 13:18Barb: is
- 13:18Barb: occurring.
- 13:19Barb: Many
- 13:19Barb: survivors
- 13:20Barb: are
- 13:20Barb: just
- 13:20Barb: not
- 13:20Barb: able
- 13:20Barb: to
- 13:20Barb: contribute
- 13:21Barb: to
- 13:21Barb: society
- 13:22Barb: in
- 13:22Barb: the
- 13:22Barb: same
- 13:22Barb: way
- 13:22Barb: they
- 13:22Barb: would've
- 13:23Barb: if
- 13:23Barb: they
- 13:23Barb: hadn't
- 13:23Barb: had
- 13:23Barb: that
- 13:24Barb: trauma.
- 13:25Barb: So
- 13:25Barb: we
- 13:26Barb: don't
- 13:26Barb: even
- 13:26Barb: know
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- 23:30Barb: un
- 23:30Barb: legally
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- 23:56Barb: and
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- 24:02Barb: abuse
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- 24:21Caite: families
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- 24:22Caite: children
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- 24:40Barb: definition
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- 24:46Barb: people
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- 24:52Barb: violence
- 24:53Barb: is
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- 25:01Barb: the
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- 25:07Barb: an
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- 25:27Barb: heal,
- 25:28Barb: even
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- 25:28Barb: bones
- 25:29Barb: heal.
- 25:30Barb: But
- 25:30Barb: those
- 25:30Barb: emotional
- 25:31Barb: wounds,
- 25:32Barb: maybe
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- 25:33Barb: hidden
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- 25:35Barb: don't
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- 25:35Barb: as
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- 25:37Barb: don't
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- 25:39Barb: maybe
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- 25:40Barb: say,
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- 25:40Barb: really
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- 25:45Barb: forms
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- 25:46Barb: violence
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- 26:01Barb: into
- 26:01Barb: every
- 26:02Barb: discussion
- 26:03Barb: we
- 26:03Barb: have,
- 26:03Barb: I
- 26:03Barb: think
- 26:04Barb: about
- 26:04Barb: this
- 26:04Barb: problem.
- 26:07Barb: Yeah,
- 26:07Barb: that's
- 26:07Barb: a
- 26:07Barb: good
- 26:07Arlene: point.
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- 26:10Arlene: of
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- 26:12Arlene: lack
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- 26:14Arlene: violence
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- 26:20Arlene: idea
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- 26:24Arlene: that's
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- 26:25Arlene: really
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- 26:28Arlene: our
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- 26:29Arlene: better
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- 26:30Arlene: people,
- 26:31Arlene: working
- 26:31Arlene: in
- 26:31Arlene: relationships
- 26:32Arlene: better
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- 26:37Arlene: programs
- 26:37Arlene: that,
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- 26:40Arlene: children
- 26:41Arlene: and
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- 26:44Arlene: things
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- 26:58Barb: seeking
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- 27:10Barb: individuals
- 27:11Barb: and
- 27:11Barb: families
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- 27:13Barb: violence.
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- 27:46Barb: change.
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- 27:54Barb: therapeutic
- 27:54Barb: interventions.
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- 28:03Barb: criminal
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- 28:12Barb: and
- 28:13Barb: who
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- 28:13Barb: asking
- 28:13Barb: for
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- 28:14Barb: to
- 28:14Barb: change
- 28:14Barb: them.
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- 28:15Barb: are
- 28:15Barb: exactly
- 28:17Barb: the
- 28:17Barb: people
- 28:17Barb: that
- 28:17Barb: we
- 28:17Barb: should
- 28:17Barb: be
- 28:18Barb: working
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- 28:19Barb: And
- 28:19Barb: certainly
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- 28:20Barb: a
- 28:20Barb: good
- 28:20Barb: chance
- 28:21Barb: of
- 28:21Barb: success
- 28:21Barb: when
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- 28:22Barb: says,
- 28:23Barb: I
- 28:23Barb: wanna
- 28:23Barb: change.
- 28:24Barb: But
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- 28:25Barb: a
- 28:25Barb: lack
- 28:25Barb: of
- 28:26Barb: funding
- 28:26Barb: to
- 28:26Barb: include
- 28:26Barb: these
- 28:27Barb: people
- 28:27Barb: in
- 28:27Barb: programs
- 28:28Barb: right
- 28:28Barb: now.
- 28:28Barb: So
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- 28:31Barb: it
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- 28:31Barb: to
- 28:31Barb: support
- 28:32Barb: for
- 28:32Barb: victims,
- 28:33Barb: or
- 28:33Barb: I've
- 28:34Barb: sometimes
- 28:34Barb: been
- 28:34Barb: referring
- 28:35Barb: to
- 28:35Barb: them
- 28:35Barb: as
- 28:35Barb: survivors
- 28:36Barb: women
- 28:37Barb: shelters
- 28:38Barb: are,
- 28:38Barb: they're
- 28:39Barb: at
- 28:39Barb: the
- 28:39Barb: core
- 28:40Barb: of
- 28:40Barb: the
- 28:41Barb: support
- 28:41Barb: system.
- 28:42Barb: Most
- 28:42Barb: regions
- 28:43Barb: will
- 28:43Barb: have
- 28:43Barb: at
- 28:43Barb: least
- 28:43Barb: one
- 28:44Barb: women's
- 28:44Barb: shelter
- 28:44Barb: that's
- 28:45Barb: intended
- 28:45Barb: to
- 28:45Barb: serve
- 28:46Barb: the
- 28:46Barb: area.
- 28:47Barb: As
- 28:48Barb: I
- 28:48Barb: mentioned
- 28:48Barb: before,
- 28:49Barb: that
- 28:49Barb: can
- 28:49Barb: still
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- 28:50Barb: a
- 28:51Barb: distance
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- 28:51Barb: get
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- 28:51Barb: if
- 28:52Barb: you're
- 28:52Barb: living
- 28:52Barb: in
- 28:52Barb: a
- 28:52Barb: rural
- 28:52Barb: area.
- 28:54Barb: So
- 28:54Barb: women's
- 28:54Barb: shelters
- 28:55Barb: have
- 28:55Barb: been
- 28:55Barb: around
- 28:55Barb: for
- 28:56Barb: a
- 28:56Barb: long
- 28:56Barb: time.
- 28:56Barb: The
- 28:56Barb: first
- 28:57Barb: ones
- 28:57Barb: were
- 28:57Barb: established
- 28:57Barb: in
- 28:57Barb: the
- 28:58Barb: 1970s.
- 29:00Barb: It's
- 29:00Barb: really
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- 29:02Barb: that
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- 29:03Barb: more
- 29:04Barb: than
- 29:04Barb: emergency
- 29:04Barb: accommodations,
- 29:06Barb: certain.
- 29:07Barb: Those
- 29:08Barb: emergency
- 29:08Barb: accommodations
- 29:09Barb: are
- 29:09Barb: important
- 29:10Barb: and
- 29:10Barb: they
- 29:10Barb: can
- 29:10Barb: be
- 29:10Barb: life
- 29:11Barb: saving.
- 29:11Barb: But
- 29:11Barb: shelters
- 29:12Barb: offer
- 29:13Barb: outreach
- 29:13Barb: services
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- 29:14Barb: It's
- 29:14Barb: not
- 29:15Barb: necessary
- 29:15Barb: to
- 29:16Barb: live
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- 29:16Barb: a
- 29:16Barb: shelter
- 29:17Barb: to
- 29:18Barb: get
- 29:18Barb: support
- 29:18Barb: from
- 29:19Barb: one.
- 29:20Barb: They'll
- 29:20Barb: help
- 29:20Barb: with
- 29:20Barb: safety
- 29:21Barb: planning.
- 29:22Barb: And
- 29:23Barb: whether
- 29:23Barb: a
- 29:23Barb: survivor
- 29:23Barb: is
- 29:24Barb: staying
- 29:24Barb: in
- 29:24Barb: an
- 29:24Barb: abusive
- 29:24Barb: relationship
- 29:25Barb: or
- 29:26Barb: leaving
- 29:26Barb: a
- 29:26Barb: safety
- 29:27Barb: plan
- 29:27Barb: is
- 29:28Barb: absolutely
- 29:28Barb: critical.
- 29:29Barb: Shelters
- 29:30Barb: can
- 29:30Barb: also
- 29:30Barb: support
- 29:31Barb: survivors
- 29:32Barb: with
- 29:32Barb: system
- 29:32Barb: navigation,
- 29:33Barb: so
- 29:34Barb: everybody's
- 29:35Barb: journey
- 29:35Barb: out
- 29:35Barb: of
- 29:36Barb: an
- 29:36Barb: abusive
- 29:36Barb: relationship
- 29:38Barb: or
- 29:38Barb: some
- 29:38Barb: journeys
- 29:39Barb: involve
- 29:40Barb: Having
- 29:40Barb: the
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- 29:41Barb: become
- 29:41Barb: more
- 29:42Barb: safe,
- 29:43Barb: but
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- 29:44Barb: journey
- 29:44Barb: is
- 29:44Barb: different
- 29:45Barb: and
- 29:45Barb: often
- 29:46Barb: you
- 29:46Barb: have
- 29:46Barb: to.
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- 29:48Barb: systems
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- 29:49Barb: family
- 29:50Barb: and
- 29:50Barb: criminal
- 29:50Barb: legal
- 29:51Barb: systems,
- 29:51Barb: health
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- 29:52Barb: for
- 29:53Barb: mental
- 29:53Barb: health
- 29:54Barb: or
- 29:54Barb: for
- 29:54Barb: physical
- 29:54Barb: healthcare,
- 29:56Barb: and
- 29:56Barb: they
- 29:56Barb: might
- 29:56Barb: have
- 29:56Barb: to
- 29:57Barb: interact
- 29:57Barb: with
- 29:57Barb: immigration
- 29:58Barb: services
- 29:59Barb: or
- 29:59Barb: child
- 29:59Barb: protection
- 30:00Barb: services.
- 30:01Barb: It
- 30:01Barb: can
- 30:01Barb: be
- 30:01Barb: really
- 30:02Barb: confusing
- 30:03Barb: and
- 30:04Barb: really
- 30:04Barb: overwhelming
- 30:05Barb: when
- 30:05Barb: somebody's
- 30:06Barb: faced
- 30:06Barb: with
- 30:06Barb: all
- 30:06Barb: of
- 30:06Barb: these
- 30:07Barb: agencies
- 30:07Barb: and
- 30:08Barb: all
- 30:08Barb: of
- 30:08Barb: the
- 30:08Barb: demands
- 30:08Barb: that
- 30:09Barb: each
- 30:09Barb: one
- 30:09Barb: has.
- 30:10Barb: So
- 30:10Barb: shelters
- 30:11Barb: can
- 30:11Barb: help
- 30:12Barb: survivors
- 30:12Barb: to
- 30:12Barb: understand
- 30:13Barb: what
- 30:13Barb: they
- 30:13Barb: have
- 30:13Barb: to
- 30:13Barb: do
- 30:14Barb: and
- 30:15Barb: what
- 30:15Barb: the
- 30:15Barb: timelines
- 30:16Barb: are.
- 30:16Barb: And
- 30:16Barb: sometimes
- 30:17Barb: if
- 30:17Barb: it's
- 30:17Barb: needed,
- 30:17Barb: they
- 30:18Barb: can
- 30:18Barb: act
- 30:18Barb: as
- 30:19Barb: advocates
- 30:19Barb: for
- 30:20Barb: survivors
- 30:20Barb: within
- 30:20Barb: these
- 30:21Barb: these
- 30:21Barb: systems.
- 30:23Barb: So
- 30:23Barb: some
- 30:23Barb: shelters
- 30:24Barb: also
- 30:24Barb: offer
- 30:24Barb: programs
- 30:25Barb: for
- 30:25Barb: children
- 30:25Barb: who
- 30:25Barb: have
- 30:25Barb: been
- 30:26Barb: exposed
- 30:26Barb: to
- 30:26Barb: domestic
- 30:27Barb: violence,
- 30:28Barb: or
- 30:28Barb: they
- 30:28Barb: might
- 30:28Barb: partner
- 30:29Barb: with
- 30:29Barb: another
- 30:29Barb: agency
- 30:30Barb: that
- 30:30Barb: offers
- 30:30Barb: supportive
- 30:31Barb: programming
- 30:31Barb: for
- 30:31Barb: children.
- 30:33Barb: So
- 30:33Barb: I
- 30:33Barb: would,
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- 30:34Barb: just
- 30:34Barb: a,
- 30:34Barb: it's
- 30:34Barb: a
- 30:34Barb: good
- 30:34Barb: place
- 30:35Barb: to.
- 30:36Caite: So
- 30:36Caite: that
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- 30:37Caite: us
- 30:37Caite: to
- 30:38Caite: the
- 30:38Caite: next
- 30:38Caite: question
- 30:38Caite: here,
- 30:39Caite: which
- 30:39Caite: is
- 30:39Caite: learning
- 30:40Caite: more
- 30:40Caite: about
- 30:40Caite: the
- 30:40Caite: education
- 30:41Caite: and
- 30:41Caite: prevention
- 30:41Caite: initiatives
- 30:42Caite: that
- 30:42Caite: you're
- 30:43Caite: involved
- 30:43Caite: in
- 30:43Caite: knowing
- 30:43Caite: obviously
- 30:44Caite: that
- 30:44Caite: you're
- 30:45Caite: in
- 30:45Caite: Canada
- 30:45Caite: what
- 30:46Caite: programs
- 30:46Caite: are
- 30:47Caite: being
- 30:47Caite: developed
- 30:47Caite: and.
- 30:49Caite: I
- 30:49Caite: guess
- 30:49Caite: I'm
- 30:49Caite: particularly
- 30:50Caite: interested
- 30:51Caite: in
- 30:52Caite: how
- 30:52Caite: we
- 30:52Caite: use
- 30:52Caite: programs
- 30:53Caite: that
- 30:53Caite: people
- 30:53Caite: are
- 30:53Caite: already
- 30:54Caite: involved
- 30:54Caite: in
- 30:55Caite: to
- 30:55Caite: do
- 30:55Caite: outreach,
- 30:56Caite: especially
- 30:56Caite: with
- 30:56Caite: young
- 30:56Caite: people.
- 30:57Caite: If
- 30:57Caite: they're
- 30:57Caite: already
- 30:57Caite: in
- 30:57Caite: four
- 30:58Caite: H,
- 30:58Caite: they're
- 30:58Caite: already
- 30:58Caite: in
- 30:58Caite: ffa,
- 30:59Caite: they're
- 30:59Caite: already
- 30:59Caite: in
- 31:00Caite: scouting.
- 31:00Caite: whatever.
- 31:02Caite: It,
- 31:02Caite: to
- 31:02Caite: me,
- 31:03Caite: it
- 31:03Caite: seems
- 31:03Caite: like
- 31:04Caite: it's,
- 31:05Caite: More
- 31:06Caite: efficient,
- 31:06Caite: certainly
- 31:07Caite: to
- 31:07Caite: reach
- 31:07Caite: out
- 31:07Caite: to
- 31:08Caite: people
- 31:08Caite: where
- 31:08Caite: they
- 31:08Caite: already
- 31:09Caite: are
- 31:09Caite: than
- 31:09Caite: to
- 31:09Caite: have
- 31:10Caite: to
- 31:10Caite: go.
- 31:10Caite: Looking
- 31:10Caite: for
- 31:11Caite: them,
- 31:11Caite: especially
- 31:11Caite: in
- 31:11Caite: rural
- 31:12Caite: areas
- 31:12Caite: where
- 31:12Caite: they're
- 31:13Caite: maybe
- 31:13Caite: not
- 31:13Caite: Yeah.
- 31:14Caite: Likely
- 31:14Caite: to
- 31:14Caite: show
- 31:15Caite: up
- 31:15Caite: for
- 31:15Caite: something
- 31:15Caite: that
- 31:16Caite: says,
- 31:16Caite: domestic
- 31:16Caite: violence
- 31:17Caite: Yeah.
- 31:17Caite: On
- 31:17Caite: a
- 31:17Caite: poster.
- 31:18Caite: Nobody's
- 31:19Caite: gonna
- 31:19Caite: walk
- 31:19Caite: into
- 31:19Caite: that
- 31:20Caite: and
- 31:20Caite: take
- 31:21Caite: Yeah.
- 31:21Caite: So
- 31:21Caite: I'm
- 31:21Caite: wondering
- 31:22Caite: what,
- 31:23Caite: where
- 31:23Caite: your
- 31:23Caite: work
- 31:23Caite: is
- 31:23Caite: headed
- 31:23Caite: on.
- 31:25Barb: Okay.
- 31:25Barb: First
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- 31:26Barb: all,
- 31:26Barb: I
- 31:26Barb: great
- 31:27Barb: point.
- 31:27Barb: I,
- 31:27Barb: and
- 31:28Barb: I
- 31:28Barb: really
- 31:28Barb: agree
- 31:28Barb: with
- 31:28Barb: you
- 31:29Barb: about
- 31:29Barb: trying
- 31:30Barb: to
- 31:30Barb: go
- 31:31Barb: to
- 31:31Barb: people
- 31:31Barb: rather
- 31:32Barb: than
- 31:32Barb: having
- 31:32Barb: people
- 31:33Barb: come
- 31:33Barb: to
- 31:34Barb: you.
- 31:35Barb: So
- 31:35Barb: the
- 31:36Barb: core
- 31:36Barb: education
- 31:36Barb: program
- 31:37Barb: that
- 31:37Barb: I
- 31:37Barb: work
- 31:37Barb: with
- 31:38Barb: is
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- 31:38Barb: friends
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- 31:39Barb: Families.
- 31:39Barb: The
- 31:39Barb: first
- 31:40Barb: thing
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- 31:41Barb: is
- 31:41Barb: to
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- 31:41Barb: everybody
- 31:42Barb: how
- 31:42Barb: to
- 31:42Barb: recognize
- 31:42Barb: warning
- 31:43Barb: signs
- 31:43Barb: of
- 31:43Barb: abuse
- 31:43Barb: and
- 31:43Barb: how
- 31:44Barb: to
- 31:44Barb: recognize
- 31:44Barb: the
- 31:45Barb: signs
- 31:45Barb: the
- 31:45Barb: dangers
- 31:47Barb: increasing
- 31:47Barb: so
- 31:47Barb: that
- 31:48Barb: somebody
- 31:48Barb: might
- 31:48Barb: be
- 31:49Barb: seriously
- 31:49Barb: harmed
- 31:49Barb: or
- 31:50Barb: worst
- 31:50Barb: case
- 31:50Barb: scenario
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- 31:52Barb: And
- 31:52Barb: then
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- 31:52Barb: teach
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- 31:53Barb: supportive
- 31:53Barb: conversation
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- 31:55Barb: and
- 31:55Barb: that's
- 31:55Barb: really
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- 31:56Barb: all
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- 31:57Barb: basically
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- 32:00Barb: A
- 32:00Barb: supportive
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- 32:03Barb: else's
- 32:03Barb: problems,
- 32:04Barb: it's
- 32:05Barb: more
- 32:05Barb: about
- 32:05Barb: being
- 32:06Barb: open
- 32:07Barb: about
- 32:07Barb: what
- 32:08Barb: and
- 32:08Barb: expressing
- 32:09Barb: your
- 32:09Barb: concern.
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- 32:10Barb: important
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- 32:12Barb: letting
- 32:13Barb: that
- 32:13Barb: person
- 32:13Barb: know
- 32:14Barb: that
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- 32:16Barb: core,
- 32:17Barb: it's
- 32:17Barb: about
- 32:17Barb: validating
- 32:18Barb: somebody
- 32:18Barb: else's
- 32:19Barb: experiences,
- 32:20Barb: and
- 32:21Barb: the
- 32:21Barb: final
- 32:21Barb: part
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- 32:23Barb: what
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- 32:23Barb: teach
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- 32:24Barb: how
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- 32:25Barb: appropriate
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- 32:26Barb: So
- 32:26Barb: that
- 32:26Barb: means
- 32:26Barb: that
- 32:26Barb: before
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- 32:27Barb: conversation
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- 32:28Barb: that
- 32:29Barb: you're
- 32:29Barb: concerned
- 32:29Barb: about,
- 32:30Barb: you
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- 32:30Barb: the
- 32:31Barb: work
- 32:31Barb: to
- 32:31Barb: find
- 32:31Barb: out
- 32:32Barb: what
- 32:32Barb: supports
- 32:32Barb: are
- 32:32Barb: available
- 32:33Barb: locally,
- 32:34Barb: so
- 32:34Barb: you
- 32:34Barb: can
- 32:35Barb: share
- 32:35Barb: that
- 32:35Barb: information.
- 32:37Barb: So
- 32:37Barb: we
- 32:37Barb: encourage
- 32:38Barb: people
- 32:38Barb: to
- 32:38Barb: have
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- 32:39Barb: of
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- 32:39Barb: conversations
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- 32:41Barb: who
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- 32:43Barb: violence.
- 32:44Barb: But
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- 32:48Barb: conversation
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- 32:50Barb: who's
- 32:50Barb: behaving
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- 32:52Barb: So
- 32:53Barb: your
- 32:54Barb: point
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- 32:55Barb: you,
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- 32:57Barb: song
- 32:58Barb: and
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- 32:58Barb: people
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- 32:59Barb: you,
- 33:00Barb: I
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- 33:00Barb: The
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- 33:01Barb: information
- 33:02Barb: that
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- 33:03Barb: it.
- 33:05Barb: Great
- 33:05Barb: information
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- 33:08Barb: within
- 33:08Barb: the
- 33:08Barb: context
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- 33:10Barb: meeting
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- 33:13Barb: hour,
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- 33:14Barb: Here's
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- 33:15Barb: PowerPoint
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- 39:09Caite: question
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- 39:15Caite: And
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- 39:16Caite: level
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- 41:29Caite: lot
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- 41:32Caite: children
- 41:32Caite: and
- 41:32Caite: young
- 41:32Caite: people
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- 41:35Caite: or
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- 41:39Caite: abuse
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- 41:42Caite: yeah.
- 41:43Caite: Long
- 41:43Caite: term
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- 41:47Caite: younger
- 41:47Caite: people.
- 41:47Barb: Yeah.
- 41:48Barb: I.
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- 41:53Barb: about
- 41:53Barb: this,
- 41:54Barb: because
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- 41:55Barb: talk
- 41:55Barb: about
- 41:56Barb: it,
- 41:56Barb: it
- 41:56Barb: makes
- 41:56Barb: people
- 41:57Barb: feel
- 41:57Barb: like
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- 41:58Barb: Or
- 41:58Barb: maybe
- 41:59Barb: that
- 41:59Barb: they've
- 41:59Barb: done
- 41:59Barb: something
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- 42:01Barb: that,
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- 42:02Barb: really
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- 42:02Barb: to
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- 42:04Barb: that
- 42:04Barb: there's
- 42:04Barb: violence
- 42:05Barb: happening.
- 42:06Barb: That
- 42:06Barb: violence
- 42:06Barb: is
- 42:06Barb: not
- 42:06Barb: always
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- 42:19Barb: place
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- 42:20Barb: community
- 42:22Barb: that
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- 42:25Barb: support
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- 43:09Arlene: environment
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- 43:12Arlene: Knowing
- 43:13Arlene: what's
- 43:13Arlene: normal
- 43:14Arlene: is
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- 43:15Arlene: right?
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- 43:17Arlene: or
- 43:18Arlene: this
- 43:18Arlene: is
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- 43:19Arlene: normal
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- 53:12Caite: is.
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- 53:12Caite: apologies.
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- 53:14Caite: great.
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- 53:14Caite: more
- 53:15Caite: than
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- 53:18Caite: of
- 53:19Caite: charging
- 53:19Caite: cables
- 53:20Caite: and
- 53:21Caite: cables
- 53:21Caite: to
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- 53:23Caite: and
- 53:23Caite: dongs.
- 53:24Caite: That
- 53:25Caite: is
- 53:25Caite: the
- 53:25Caite: correct
- 53:25Caite: word
- 53:25Caite: for
- 53:25Caite: them.
- 53:26Caite: And
- 53:26Caite: just
- 53:27Caite: random
- 53:27Caite: shit.
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- 53:30Caite: for
- 53:30Caite: people
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- 53:32Caite: over
- 53:32Caite: paper.
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- 53:35Caite: really?
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- 53:39Arlene: a
- 53:39Arlene: pen.
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- 53:40Arlene: back
- 53:40Arlene: and
- 53:40Arlene: forth.
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- 53:41Arlene: highlighter.
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- 53:47Arlene: Those
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- 53:47Arlene: battery
- 53:47Arlene: operated
- 53:48Arlene: kids
- 53:48Arlene: toys
- 53:49Arlene: that
- 53:49Arlene: then
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- 53:49Arlene: a,
- 53:49Arlene: they
- 53:50Arlene: then
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- 53:50Arlene: charging
- 53:51Arlene: cables
- 53:51Arlene: because
- 53:51Arlene: they're
- 53:52Arlene: like
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- 53:52Arlene: wireless,
- 53:52Arlene: remote
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- 53:54Arlene: And
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- 53:54Arlene: remote
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- 53:55Arlene: batteries
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- 53:57Arlene: the
- 53:57Arlene: thing
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- 53:58Arlene: or
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- 54:00Arlene: a
- 54:00Arlene: cord
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- 54:01Arlene: remote
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- 54:01Arlene: thing,
- 54:02Arlene: it,
- 54:02Arlene: it
- 54:03Arlene: just
- 54:03Arlene: keeps
- 54:03Arlene: getting
- 54:03Arlene: worse.
- 54:05Caite: I
- 54:05Caite: feel
- 54:05Caite: like
- 54:05Caite: you've
- 54:05Caite: been
- 54:05Caite: over
- 54:06Caite: here
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- 54:06Caite: the
- 54:06Caite: Kindle
- 54:07Caite: charging
- 54:07Caite: situation.
- 54:11Caite: we
- 54:11Caite: had
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- 54:11Caite: serious
- 54:12Caite: conversation
- 54:12Caite: with
- 54:13Caite: the
- 54:13Caite: kids.
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- 54:14Caite: Kindle
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- 54:15Caite: at
- 54:15Caite: Christmas
- 54:15Caite: last
- 54:16Caite: year,
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- 54:19Caite: occasions.
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- 54:26Caite: close
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- 54:28Caite: boy
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- 54:30Caite: to
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- 54:32Caite: no,
- 54:32Caite: because
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- 54:35Caite: four
- 54:35Caite: and
- 54:35Caite: five.
- 54:35Caite: Like
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- 54:46Caite: other
- 54:46Caite: day
- 54:46Caite: and
- 54:47Caite: my
- 54:47Caite: daughter
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- 54:49Caite: you
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- 54:57Arlene: So
- 54:57Caite: Barb,
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- 55:32Barb: That's
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- 55:36Barb: bins
- 55:37Barb: and
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- 55:40Barb: that
- 55:40Barb: you
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- 55:43Barb: And
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- 55:47Barb: yeah.
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- 55:54Barb: place,
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- 55:55Barb: I
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- 55:57Barb: folks.
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- 55:58Arlene: municipal
- 55:58Arlene: election
- 55:59Arlene: so
- 55:59Arlene: that
- 55:59Arlene: they'll
- 56:00Arlene: devote
- 56:00Arlene: on
- 56:00Arlene: it
- 56:00Arlene: again,
- 56:01Arlene: probably.
- 56:01Arlene: Yeah,
- 56:02Barb: let's
- 56:02Barb: just
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- 56:04Barb: bins,
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- 56:05Barb: food
- 56:05Barb: waste
- 56:06Barb: out
- 56:06Barb: of
- 56:06Barb: the
- 56:06Barb: garbage
- 56:07Barb: system.
- 56:07Barb: Yeah.
- 56:08Barb: Yeah
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- 56:08Barb: backyard
- 56:09Barb: compost,
- 56:09Barb: but
- 56:10Barb: lots
- 56:10Barb: of
- 56:10Barb: people
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- 56:10Barb: in
- 56:11Barb: apartment
- 56:11Barb: buildings.
- 56:11Barb: They
- 56:11Barb: can't,
- 56:12Barb: what
- 56:12Barb: are
- 56:12Barb: they
- 56:12Barb: gonna
- 56:12Barb: do?
- 56:14Arlene: I'm
- 56:14Arlene: wondering.
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- 56:14Arlene: a
- 56:14Arlene: big
- 56:14Arlene: family.
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- 56:15Arlene: a
- 56:15Arlene: lot
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- 56:15Arlene: food
- 56:15Arlene: waste.
- 56:16Arlene: You
- 56:16Arlene: can't,
- 56:16Arlene: yeah,
- 56:17Arlene: you
- 56:17Arlene: don't
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- 56:17Arlene: have
- 56:17Arlene: room
- 56:17Arlene: to
- 56:18Arlene: compost
- 56:18Arlene: everything.
- 56:19Arlene: Yeah.
- 56:20Caite: Arlene,
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- 56:21Caite: discuss
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- 56:22Arlene: So
- 56:22Arlene: this
- 56:22Arlene: week
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- 56:22Arlene: cussing
- 56:23Arlene: and
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- 56:23Arlene: people
- 56:24Arlene: who
- 56:24Arlene: don't
- 56:24Arlene: call
- 56:24Arlene: me
- 56:24Arlene: back.
- 56:26Arlene: Yes.
- 56:26Arlene: I'm
- 56:27Arlene: specifically
- 56:27Arlene: talking
- 56:27Arlene: about
- 56:28Arlene: the
- 56:28Arlene: body
- 56:28Arlene: shop
- 56:28Arlene: where
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- 56:29Arlene: van
- 56:29Arlene: is
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- 56:31Arlene: hitting
- 56:31Arlene: a
- 56:31Arlene: deer
- 56:31Arlene: more
- 56:31Arlene: than
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- 56:31Arlene: month
- 56:32Arlene: ago.
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- 56:33Arlene: and.
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- 56:34Arlene: podcast,
- 56:35Arlene: I'm
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- 56:35Arlene: an
- 56:35Arlene: introvert,
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- 56:38Arlene: phone
- 56:38Arlene: call
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- 56:39Arlene: leaving
- 56:40Arlene: the
- 56:40Arlene: message
- 56:40Arlene: at
- 56:40Arlene: the
- 56:40Arlene: place
- 56:41Arlene: is
- 56:41Arlene: a
- 56:41Arlene: pretty
- 56:41Arlene: big
- 56:42Arlene: deal.
- 56:42Arlene: So
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- 56:46Arlene: don't.
- 56:46Arlene: I'm
- 56:46Arlene: still
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- 56:47Arlene: up
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- 56:49Arlene: after
- 56:50Arlene: three
- 56:51Arlene: or
- 56:51Arlene: four
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- 56:52Arlene: I
- 56:52Arlene: finally
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- 56:54Arlene: location
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- 56:56Arlene: and
- 56:57Arlene: find
- 56:57Arlene: out
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- 56:59Arlene: is
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- 57:00Arlene: just
- 57:00Arlene: over
- 57:00Arlene: a
- 57:00Arlene: month.
- 57:01Arlene: He
- 57:01Arlene: said,
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- 57:02Arlene: gonna
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- 57:02Arlene: the
- 57:02Arlene: parts
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- 57:05Arlene: the
- 57:05Arlene: reason
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- 57:07Arlene: an
- 57:07Arlene: appointment
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- 57:09Arlene: that
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- 57:09Arlene: tell
- 57:10Arlene: me
- 57:10Arlene: there
- 57:10Arlene: was
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- 57:10Arlene: Covid
- 57:10Arlene: related
- 57:11Arlene: delay
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- 57:12Arlene: the
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- 57:13Arlene: a
- 57:13Arlene: month
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- 57:14Arlene: But
- 57:14Arlene: no,
- 57:15Arlene: they
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- 57:18Arlene: appointment
- 57:18Arlene: now,
- 57:19Arlene: but
- 57:19Arlene: I'm
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- 57:21Arlene: and
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- 57:23Arlene: Creature
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