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The Talker · Second Date Update

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All right, well guys, we're going to New Britain. What do they
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call it? Hard hitting New Britain. Yeah, Adam's on the line.
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Adam wants to make a love connection. Went on a first day with a
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girl named Sabrina. He's getting ghosted and we're going to find out why.
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Good morning, Adam, Hi, good morning. Hey. I hope we
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can get some info for you and find out why you're getting ghosted. Tell
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me about this great first day. What'd you do, where'd you go?
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How was it? Okay? So, I mean, honestly, I feel
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like this is going to be a pretty boring story. I know that people
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always say nothing crazy happened, but I promise you nothing crazy happened. I
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just went out on a date. Honestly. We just went out for a
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nice dinner and I felt like the conversation was great, and so afterwards I
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was like, hey, do you want to go for a walk and we'll
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just, you know, maybe continue this and she said yes. So we
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went just for like a nice long walk. Yeah, So definite connection there.
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Reached out to her, I was like, hey, okay, you
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know, let's do this again, and totally ghosted And so it's just super
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confusing to me because like I felt like it went well, and she obviously
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wanted to see more of me, like to go on this walk. So
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I don't know. Yeah, see, sadly, that's your problem. You
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went for a walk. A lot of these ladies, a lot of these
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ladies on first dates, they wear like heels or uncomfortable shoes, and the
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last thing they want to do is go for a walk. Actually, what
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you're gonna agree with them? I'm going to say no. I think that's
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if I think if she's a grown woman and she doesn't want to go for
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a walk, she would say, I don't know how far I can walk.
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My shoes kind of hurt. I like the idea of having a nice
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meal, a martini, great conversation than going for a walk. I love
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it. Adam. All right, well then you want to go out on
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a date. Yes, possibility. Anyway, Adam, this is what we're
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gonna do. I'm going to put you on hold. We're gonna call Sabrina
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and we're going to find out why she hasn't responded and you've reached out to
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her, right, yeah, definitely, all right, hold on, you're
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gonna be listening in Adam at any time. If you want to talk to
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Sabrina, you can. We'll pull you into the conversation. Okay, okay,
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see, I can't believe you don't like that, Savana. I feel
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like taking a walk after dinner and looking at the Christmas lights and I think
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it's nice. No, I love that. But if I don't have a
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heads up and my outfit's not warm and my shoes aren't comfy, true night
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mare. Let me put my slippers on in my onesie. Well you wear
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dress and sneakers. Hello. Hello, is Sabrina there? Uh yes,
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this is Sabrina. Hey, Sabrina, it's Courtney. Hey, it's Walmart
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Jeff. Hey, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.
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I gotta let you know you're on the radio this morning. Oh okay,
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all right, Well I'll tell you why. I know. It's kind
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of shocking you wake up early and you're like, ooh, I'm on the
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radio. I'm on the radio. You're on something we do call second Date
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Update. If somebody goes on a great first date, they really want to
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see that person again, but they're getting ghosted. They want to know why
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they call us and I will let you know. Adam called us, sounds
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like a great guy, says, you guys went to dinner, had a
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connection, great conversation. It was such a good date that you guys agreed
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to go for a walk after dinner, and you're ghosting him, So we
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need to know the scoop, Sabrina. To be honest, it was kind
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of an exhausting date. At dinner, all he did was talk about himself,
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like he barely came up for a barely. Okay, all right,
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so at dinner he talks about himself the entire time, doesn't really engage or
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ask you about you. But how was he on the walk you went for
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a walk? Well, honestly, I was kind of hoping that after the
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dinner, you know, when he suggested the walk, I was like,
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okay, great, maybe this is the chance that he'll start asking me questions
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about myself my family. No, he literally kept talking about his family,
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his exes, his work, his like literally he would not stop talking.
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And I'm just not interested in being in someone that's that self absorbed. Yeah,
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so that's why I ghosted him. Okay, I feel your pain.
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I that is my number one pet peeve. When a guy doesn't come up
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for air, and he just talks about himself incessantly. I do have to
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let you know he's on the line and he's listening in. So Adam,
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do you hear why you're getting ghosted? Like you're here? I'm just I'm
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you're you? You know, I thought we were sharing about each other.
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You know, I'm sorry. I'm sorry that I wanted to tell you about
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my life. I wanted to tell you that I came up from nothing,
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you know. I mean, I started as an eagle scout, and I
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like when my my parents and I were growing up in New Haven, it
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was super difficult and so okay, I was a boy. I did very
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well for myself. I was not popular in high school, all right,
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I have a busy life. I was telling you about investments I made.
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Okay, I've done well for myself. I was telling you about all those
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great things, but you didn't come up like you were interested. But I
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guess, I guess that's not the case. I guess you don't want to
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be with someone who has all these great, interesting stories and who can talk
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for a long time and just enjoys telling you about himself and enjoys telling you
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about how one time I saw Lance Bass talking about oh my, he just
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threw Lance pass in there out of it all of a sudden, All of
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a sudden, Adam was hanging out with Lance Bass. I just got confused,
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dude, Like when do you breathe every second of every day? I
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don't know what to tell you. You were asking me questions, and so
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I was answering them, like I was telling you about these great stories.
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I was telling you about when I would see Obviously i'd told you with Lance
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baths. I think that's a pretty cool story. Okay, he said hi
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to me, he didn't say hi to you. So I'm just wondering.
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If that's the case, then why do you even want to go on a
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date with someone If you're not trying to get to know them. You're not
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trying to get to know like, oh, what's the central and like the
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played sports? They were like excelling. I'm telling you, Adam, I
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see where she's coming from that you didn't even ask her one question about herself?
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Does he know you're doing? Like I said, how's it going?
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What do you want? You want to go for a walk? My fault.
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Your answers were short and my answers were long and informative, and I
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was telling you about myself, and I was telling you, Okay, here
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where, here's my backstory, here's my background. Here's how you can get
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to know me, all the great things that I've done. I want to
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put him on hold, Sabrina. Are you still there, Yes, I'm
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here. Okay, Adams still talking. We politely put him on hold,
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but he didn't hear me when I said we're putting them holes. He's still
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talking about himself. So I'm going to offer it to you and then I'll
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pick it up and talk to him. And I bet he's still talking to
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himself. But anyway, Sabrina. At the end of a second date update,
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we always offer a second date. If you want to try it,
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I'll pay for it. I will pick up the tab. Is there anything
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you're interested in? Absolutely not. That is a clear answer. Well,
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Sabrina, Thank you so much for being so open and honest on second date
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update. Thank you, thank you very much,