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(42) HOW TO STOP CHASING AND START RECEIVING ✨ The 5-Stage Manifestation Blueprint · Alignment With Jenn

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  Hello, and welcome to this episode of the Alignment with
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  Jen podcast. I am your host, Jen, It's easy.
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  And today we're going to be talking about the six stages of
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  manifesting a new reality. This is a really special episode
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  because these are things that I've consciously noticed with
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  the thousands of women that I've worked with, but I've never put
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  it into this format before where I've actually explained it in
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  this way. So I'm super excited to share
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  this with you and I think it's going to give you a lot of
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  clarity on your own manifestation journey and where
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  you might be and also help you keep going, give you that
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  confidence, give you that hope to recognize what steps you
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  might need to take and not feel defeated when things can get
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  more difficult. So I think you're going to
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  absolutely love this and you're going to be able to really
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  identify a lot about yourself through this process.
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  The first stage that I want to talk about is essentially the
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  spark. So what happens when we manifest
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  anything is it begins as a seed of thought, right?
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  It starts as this thought. It starts as this idea.
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  And I think of that as a spark that has the potential to light
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  a fire that changes the course of your life.
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  And so this spark is essentially this idea that either you
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  perceive or you cultivate to make your life in a new way.
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  It could be the idea of a new relationship.
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  It could be the idea of a new career or a new business.
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  It could be a really creative project that you want to start.
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  But it's essentially something that allows you to go from life
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  used to be a certain way to life would be really amazing and
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  different if I were to manifest this thing.
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  And it feels exciting, it feels good and it feels new.
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  So it can be an intuitive hit. It can can be a conversation
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  with a friend. It can be a circumstance
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  unfolding for you. And typically there's kind of a
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  before and an after where there's a before it used to be
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  this way and after. Now it is this way.
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  And example of this is I was sitting in a Tony Robbins event,
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  this is probably 5 or 6 years ago now, sitting in this event.
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  And I had my supplement business at the time.
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  And I was kind of at a point where I could either keep
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  investing to really grow the business.
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  It had kind of started to do well.
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  So I was at this point where I needed to put more capital into
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  it in order to take it to that next level or I could let it go.
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  And Tony Robbins said, and this like, I remember just sinking
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  into my gut and I just felt it so deeply.
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  He said, if you are not passionate about what you're
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  doing, you need to get out of it because you're not going to
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  withstand the test of time. And I was just like, whoa, like
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  I knew in that moment I couldn't keep doing that business because
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  it was not my soul's calling. And that was really difficult
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  because I had invested time, money, energy, but there was
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  this insight in this moment. I didn't know what my next step
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  would be, but I knew something had to change.
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  And that's what I mean by the spark.
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  It's this spark of inspiration. It's this spark of change where
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  that flame begins to be lit, this flame of change.
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  And if you allow and you cultivate that flame, your whole
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  life can be different. So there's that moment.
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  So that's the first step. Things that can derail this
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  step, this is when your manifestations are the most
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  fragile. You cannot listen to that spark.
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  You can try to logic it away. You can share it with people too
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  early, and then they'll be like, oh, that's a bad idea, or maybe
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  don't do that. Or they'll put their own beliefs
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  and their own thoughts on it and think of it at this stage.
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  Is this like little baby sapling or a little baby flower that is
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  very, very fragile? The biggest thing that gets in
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  our way at this stage, and this is what I think keeps most
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  people blocked for the longest periods of time and not really
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  creating the lives that they want, is what Tony Robbins calls
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  the tyranny of how. It's being too focused on how
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  you're going to execute it. If in that moment I had started
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  thinking, how am I going to make money another way?
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  What else am I going to do? How is this going to happen?
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  How would I even go about getting like selling my
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  business? What would I even do?
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  I would have probably gotten so overwhelmed, I wouldn't have
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  made any changes, right? So you can't be focused on the
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  how. You have to be focused on
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  cultivating that flame, cultivating that spark.
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  So the second stage is what I call the call.
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  It's essentially where you decide, you know what, I'm going
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  to answer this call. I'm going to pick up the phone.
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  I'm going to ignite this spark. I am going to start moving in
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  this direction of creating this branch in my reality, this
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  wrinkle in time. And it's the moment of decision
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  of I'm not going to go back to how things were.
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  I'm going to create a new and this is where a lot of people
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  will start focusing on the actions to take, right?
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  OK, do I, I hire help? What kind of business plan do I
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  need? Right?
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  Maybe I join a dating app. This is where we decide to start
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  to take action and we start to build a little bit of momentum.
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  Most people will start with action because that's what's
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  visible, right? We are so action obsessed
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  because we're so sight obsessed. We're obsessed with the scene,
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  the world of the scene, but the scene in the physical reality is
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  only 1%. The energetic reality is 99%.
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  Just look at a visible light spectrum.
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  You'll see that all that we can actually see is a very small
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  sliver of what we know of the spectrum.
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  Something that can happen as you start to take these actions that
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  can derail this stage and that can prevent you from moving
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  forward is being so focused on the actions that don't
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  necessarily work. Because typically when we're
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  creating a new pathway, we aren't going to know exactly how
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  to do it right. So we'll probably try a number
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  of different things and some of them won't work, right.
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  It reminds me of the Thomas Edison quote where he talks
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  about inventing the light bulb and he failed so, so, so many
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  times before he achieved success.
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  And the quote that he says is that he says I have not failed.
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  I've just found 10,000 ways that didn't work, right.
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  Instead of deciding that what didn't work was failure, he
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  decided, OK, awesome, that way doesn't work.
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  So I know not to do that. That way doesn't work.
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  That way doesn't work. And he changed the course of
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  history. So recognizing that when you
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  decide to answer the call, you are going to experience
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  obstacles and to not let those obstacles be in your mind as
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  failure, use them as data, right?
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  I consider myself a scientist where I'm just constantly
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  collecting data of what works, what doesn't work, what feels
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  good, what doesn't feel good. And so when you decide, OK, I'm
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  no longer going back, you draw that line in the sand.
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  You affect reality, that energy, that energy of certainty, that
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  energy of change. You're going to start tracting
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  in what you need to make that change, to manifest that new
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  reality. There will be challenges.
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  And recognizing that those challenges don't mean that this
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  isn't meant for you, that this isn't possible for you, All it
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  means is that you need to keep going.
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  You need to try a new angle. You need to learn more.
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  You need to experience a new version of the way that things
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  can be. And stage #3 and I personally
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  believe that this is the stage that causes the most issues for
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  people is what I call the clearing.
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  This is something I've seen in so, so, so many clients.
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  And that's why I named it the clearing because I see it so
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  often. And essentially it's this idea
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  that when you say, OK, I want this new relationship that is a
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  higher caliber relationship, just as an example, we have to
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  clear out the things that caused you to attract lower caliber
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  relationships in the past. So that could be patterns that
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  you have, that could be people in your life, right?
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  Maybe you have a friend that you're always texting and
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  flirting with, even though you have no intentions of dating
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  that person. That's somebody that you're
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  going to have to let go in order to create this new reality that
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  you want because that creates fractured energy, right?
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  It could be the limiting beliefs, the fears.
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  If you get really triggered in relationship and you're
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  constantly triggered at your partner, that's not going to
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  create a high caliber relationship.
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  So those are patterns within you that have to change.
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  And so the clearing can be difficult for a lot of people
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  because it can look like everything crumbling or bad
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  things happening. But the way to actually look at
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  it is to recognize what is being cleared out is what you no
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  longer need and what is left. It is creating space for you to
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  receive what you want, right? If you have a one car garage and
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  you decide you want to get a new car and you want to get a
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  really, really nice car, typically you've got to get rid
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  of that first car in order to make space for the new car.
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  That's the same thing that is happening when you experience
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  the clearing, when things in your life start to be cleared
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  out. So you might become much more
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  aware of your own triggers, of your own patterns, of your own
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  limited ways of thinking, because the universe is
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  preparing you to old more. It's expanding your vessel, your
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  capacity to create that next level.
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  This stage is where so, so, so many people can get really,
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  really tripped up. And this stage is followed by,
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  and these two kind of can happen in the same time.
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  The rebuilding. This is where you will start to
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  rebuild a new identity, a new version of you who can actually
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  hold that new reality. Because if you want to build a
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  new business and you've never built a business before, you're
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  going to have to learn things. You're going to have to become a
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  new person. Business is a spiritual game.
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  Relationships are spiritual game.
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  Life is a spiritual game, and so you'll have to become more in
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  order to hold that. And that's what the rebuilding
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  is about. It's about we clear out those
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  old patterns, those old habits, those old ways of being, those
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  old relationships that aren't serving us, the circumstances
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  that aren't serving us. This can look like losing a job.
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  If you can stay in that loss of a job and recognize that there's
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  something amazing coming for you, you're going to experience
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  so much more positivity in your life and that new job will
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  manifest faster as that clearing happens.
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  You have this new space to build a new reality.
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  And a lot of this can look like that inner work that we do,
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  right? The subconscious rewiring that I
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  talked about on a lot of these episodes.
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  It can look like reprogramming your mind to be that new version
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  of you, right? Instead of being the person who
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  gets angry at her partner often or snips at her partner often or
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  makes petty remarks at her partner, we have to clear out
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  those behaviors. We have to clear out what causes
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  you to become that person and install new ways of being,
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  become a new version of you, rebuild in order to attract that
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  level of relationship that you're desiring, that level of
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  wealth, whatever it might be. I was recently at this
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  biohacking event and there was a panel of three very, very
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  successful business people talking about money.
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  And the conversation was about business and money essentially
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  because it was mostly entrepreneurs there.
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  And one of them, he was one of the early investors in a really
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  large tech company. I believe he's a billionaire
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  now. What he talked about was he said
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  everything is energy and if you don't do the inner work in order
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  to build the business that you want, to build the wealth that
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  you want, you are going to sabotage it.
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  These were his words. And I'm like, that's very on
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  brand for me because it's true. If you don't become that version
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  of yourself that you need to be, those old patterns are
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  constantly going to be fighting for their life and sabotaging
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  who you want to be. That impostor syndrome will keep
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  coming up. Those old fears that self doubt
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  will keep coming up, the jealousy, the triggers, those
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  things are going to keep coming up until you deal with them.
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  And if you want help with dealing with those and
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  overcoming those limited ways of being and installing the
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  programming to be your most successful self, send me a
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  message on Instagram with the word podcast in it.
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  My Instagram is at alignment with Jen and I'll send you a 5
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  minute video about my program where I guide you through that
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  process. It is exceptional.
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  You will become a completely different version of you on the
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  other side. So that's essentially what the
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  rebuilding is about. It is about becoming the version
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  of you that can hold what it is that you want.
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  Then stage 5 is really about becoming that person and being
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  able to maintain it, being able to hold it, because what we want
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  to manifest is not a one and done right.
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  It's not like, OK, I got the relationship, I'm good, I don't
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  need to work on it. I got the money, I'm good, I
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  don't need to work on it. I got the health, I'm good, I
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  don't need to work on it. That is not true.
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  That's not how reality is. We have to be able to hold the
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  things that we want to manifest as well, right?
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  Maybe I lose a bunch of weight, but I don't know how to maintain
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  that weight loss, right? I don't know how to care for my
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  body, exercise. I'm not going to have the health
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  that I want to have. Maybe I make a bunch of money,
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  right? And then I don't know how to
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  maintain that wealth. I'm not the kind of person, my
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  consciousness is not at the level to hold that wealth.
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  So what is going to happen is I will probably lose those things.
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  And so we need to become that version.
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  And that happens through our inner work, through our ability
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  to hold that next level. I don't believe that people
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  struggle to manifest what they want because they don't know
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  what they want. I believe that people struggle
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  to manifest what they want because they keep moving back
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  and forth between the person who can hold it and the person who
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  can't. The old self and the new self.
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  Because we become so addicted to being that old version of our
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  self that it can be very, very difficult for us if we're trying
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  to create something new from that old identity.
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  Our identity, who we are being, is that strongest driving force
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  in our reality. We will do anything, sometimes
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  even go against our morals in order to align with the identity
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  that we want to be. And what your identity is, is it
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  is anything you follow up with I am.
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  It's who on a deep level you believe that you are.
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  If you follow up I am with I am bad with money, you will
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  continue to play that out in your reality.
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  If you follow it up with I am a money magnet, you will keep
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  playing that out in your reality.
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  The truth is, you have to believe it on a deep
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  subconscious level because you cannot out work, you cannot
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  outperform your subconscious mind.
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  It is too powerful, it is too fast.
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  So in order to hold those manifestations, you truly have
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  to become that new version of yourself.
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  So what that looks like is thoughts, emotions, and actions
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  aligning with who you want to be living in integrity with that
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  person. I'll recap those stages again.
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  So first there's the spark. It's the awareness that comes of
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  that idea that you want to manifest.
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  Honestly, most people never get past this.
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  Most people flirt with the idea. They never make a formal
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  decision to actually manifest what they want.
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  That would take them to Step 2 and that's the call.
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  It's picking up the phone. It's saying I'm going to pursue
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  this. I'm going to make a new reality
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  for myself. Most people are too afraid to do
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  that #3 is the clearing. It's when you answer that call,
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  there's going to be a release of the things that no longer serve
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  you. So that might look like old
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  patterns coming up with a vengeance.
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  It might look like relationships ending, jobs ending.
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  And you have to move through that and recognize, you know
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  what? I am excited that this is
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  happening because I know something is better for me that
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  is happening on the other side #4 is the rebuilding.
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  It's recognizing who do I want to be and how am I going to
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  start cultivating that. And Stage 5 is really becoming
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  that woman and holding that manifestation.
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  It's learning to be that person over the long term.
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  And I will say in order for Stage 5 to be successful, you
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  have to have support. You can't do this in isolation.
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  It's very, very, very hard to change our lives in isolation.
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  If you look at the most successful people in the world,
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  the most successful people in sports, in business, in finance,
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  in government, they all have support.
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  They have coaches, they have consultants, they have advisors,
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  right? Because we don't do this well in
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  isolation. We are not meant to change and
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  create our lives in isolation. And so having a community,
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  having guidance, and if that's something that you want to help
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  you through this process to help you do that inner work, to help
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  you become that version of you, send me a message on Instagram
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  with the Word Podcast and I'll send you a 5 minute video about
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  my program where I guide you through this.
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  My Instagram is at alignment with Jen.
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  So I hope you have loved this episode.
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  I hope it's giving you some clarity.
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  Leave me comments, let me know what questions you have and I'll
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  see you in the next episode. Bye.