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💡 Discovering Your True Desires Beyond Productivity · STOPTIME: Live in the Moment.

• 0:23
  Lisa Hopkins: But the reason I'm kind of calling you out a little bit the motivation piece.
• 0:26
  Lisa Hopkins: Why do you think it's hard to motivate yourself to schedule something?
• 0:29
  Lisa Hopkins: Do you want to schedule stuff?
• 0:30
  Lisa Hopkins: I can schedule stuff till the cows come home.
• 0:35
  Lisa Hopkins: It's just getting up and doing it, yeah.
• 0:37
  Lisa Hopkins: But do you want to schedule stuff?
• 0:39
  Lisa Hopkins: Of course you can.
• 0:39
  Lisa Hopkins: No, I mean not necessarily.
• 0:42
  Lisa Hopkins: Well, there it is.
• 0:46
  Lisa Hopkins: So why are you here talking to me about oh, I really want help with scheduling.
• 0:51
  Lisa Hopkins: You don't want to do it, and that's okay.
• 0:53
  Lisa Hopkins: Tell me what you want to do.
• 0:55
  Lisa Hopkins: Well, I came here mostly to be inspired.
• 0:57
  Lisa Hopkins: You're using scheduling as a smoke screen.
• 0:59
  Lisa Hopkins: What is it that you want?
• 1:00
  Lisa Hopkins: What do you want?
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  Lisa Hopkins: You told me what was your biggest challenge.
• 1:03
  Lisa Hopkins: What do you actually want?
• 1:04
  Lisa Hopkins: If that challenge went away, how would your life be different?
• 1:06
  Lisa Hopkins: Your biggest challenge what do you actually want?
• 1:08
  Lisa Hopkins: If that challenge went away, how would your life be different?
• 1:11
  Lisa Hopkins: Um, I don't know.
• 1:11
  Lisa Hopkins: I'd get more done.
• 1:12
  Lisa Hopkins: Okay, if you get more done, what will change?
• 1:16
  Lisa Hopkins: Yeah, um, I I don't know.
• 1:20
  Lisa Hopkins: Okay, so I'm gonna leave you.
• 1:22
  Lisa Hopkins: I'm gonna leave you with that thought and take you off the hot seat.
• 1:25
  Lisa Hopkins: But do you guys see where we're going with this?
• 1:27
  Lisa Hopkins: How can you go for what you want if you don't know and this is not, believe me, this is everybody, not just you.
• 1:37
  Lisa Hopkins: We're all nodding our heads, okay, so we need to get really specific, personally.
• 1:44
  Lisa Hopkins: Specific, not specific so other people can understand it.
• 1:48
  Lisa Hopkins: Specific, but so you understand.
• 1:52
  Lisa Hopkins: It doesn't matter whether the people understand your why.
• 1:54
  Lisa Hopkins: What matters is that you do, and what happens is you know, we get, I'm not sure you know, or we hold ourselves back by worrying about all of that.
• 2:05
  Lisa Hopkins: And this is where space, giving yourself space, can be scary, Because you're kind of going okay, now this is the space I'm supposed to get fixed in, or whatever, I must be broken, or blah, blah, blah.
• 2:17
  Lisa Hopkins: Not at all.