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Graham Norton Show and Female Self Defense for November 4th, 2024 · The Radio From Hell Show - Best Of

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  Speaker 1: Well, I wanted to talk about this last week, but
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  I can never get a word in when Bill's here,
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  So bringing it up, and uh, Soria nan So was
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  on this British talk show. So Graham Norton is hugely
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  famous talk show host in Great Britain and he I
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  like how he does his show because he just has
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  actors on, the celebrities, singers, whatever, and they're just kind
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  of on a couch and they just it's not like
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  an interview, it's just sort of like a big conversation.
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  So they were talking. They were having people on from
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  the movie Gladiator. Denzel Washington's in it all, Miss Scal's
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  in it and Soria Arnan was there and if Carrie
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  can play this little.
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  Speaker 2: Clip, here's the clip.
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  Speaker 3: There we go.
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  Speaker 2: They're talking about being attacked.
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  Speaker 1: Well, they're talking about us the clip, so paulma Scale's
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  talking about how so they're they're they're promoting Gladiator. So
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  they're talking about they're learning how to fight. He's trained
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  how to fight. So they're talking about this this training
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  fight training. Okay, find some of the techniques so that
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  you learned, Like some of the things Paul taught us
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  is how you can use how you can use your
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  phone if someone's attacking you the butt of your phone.
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  Speaker 4: Who's actually going to think about that? If someone attacks me,
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  I'm not going to go phone.
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  Speaker 2: Have to think about all the time, am I?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 1: Ladies? So the point so they're making a joke. So
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  actually this guy did was taught Okay, you can fight,
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  like take the butt of your phone and use it
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  as a weapon. And and he's motioning how you, you know,
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  can hit somebody in the face with with your phone.
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  And she's just sort of sitting there leaning back, listening
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  to these guys. And she came out afterwards and said,
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  I love all these guys. I know they didn't mean
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  anything by it, but I just think that men don't
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  think about things like this. Every woman who's been walking
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  to her car in a dark parking lot thinks what
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  weapon do I have? I have my keys, Carrie would
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  joke with me about this all the time. You put
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  your keys in between your fingers like wolverine.
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  Speaker 3: I'm very aware of this.
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  Speaker 1: Yet you think about that. You think about, Okay, I
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  have my phone, do I do the thing where I
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  pretend like I'm talking to somebody? So because you think, oh, no,
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  one's going to attack me if i'm of course, they
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  can attack you if.
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  Speaker 2: You're on the phone.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what great talking to you tonight.
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  Speaker 1: You're on your way here right now. But I applaud
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  her for being standing up to this, and she said
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  they didn't mean anything by it. But she's just like,
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  I don't think guys think about these things like what. Yeah,
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  we have to think about those things all the time.
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  You guys can walk through a parking lot and it's
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  not to say you weren't ever concerned for your safety,
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  but it's not the same thing.
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  Speaker 3: Not at all.
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  Speaker 2: And and that's the that's the that's the fault of
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  a lot of us, meant, is that we don't think
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  about things other than from our own perspective, you know, because.
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  Speaker 1: They were joking, isn't this silly thinking about your phone
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  as a weapon. No, that's a real thing that women
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  think about. How can I use this if I need to?
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  Speaker 2: Which is why self defense classes might be something to
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  think about.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm actually going to be doing ads coming up
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  soon for a self defense course. I met with them
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  last week and we're going to be talking a little
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  bit more about that. I'm excited about it. I'm going
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  to take the class with my daughter.
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  Speaker 3: Are they going to teach you how to like disarm
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  a gun of somebody who's so.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's that kind of stuff. I'm excited about
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  it so I don't have to think about or maybe
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  they'll show me how to actually use my phone as
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  a weapon.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but this source eronan thing is a
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  good example. I'm speaking to all of us white straight males.
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  Think about other people for a change. We're okay, We're
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  gonna be fine. Yeah, think about other people for a change.
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  How about that? And I'm go vote tomorrow very.
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  Speaker 3: Much so, very much so. Like I'm a nervous nelly,
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  and I get scared at a lot of public scenarios
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  that happen around me in general, even socially. But living
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  with my wife, like since we got married, even though
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  we've been together like ten years, it was very illuminating
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  how much she thinks about it as opposed to me,
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  because she takes out her hear ring and it's got
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  you know, like the pepper spray and all that stuff
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  on it. And I I never knew that other people
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  thought about it that much.
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  Speaker 1: And it's it's it's every woman has been has got
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  that feeling that creepy and nothing has to come of it. No,
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  it's like a sixth sense where you're in a parking
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  lot and sometimes you're in a parking lot with with
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  men and you don't get that feel. But every once
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  in a while there's that guy following you just far
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  enough away, and you think, can I get from here
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  to my car inside and lock the door? Like how
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  fast can I get there? Or how fast can I
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  get into the building where I'm going?
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  Speaker 2: And you know, here's another example. Why do you think
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  we have a thing called an angel shot? You know,
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  you know what that is.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what that is.
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  Speaker 2: That's in a bar.
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  Speaker 3: I do know what that is.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, at a bar, you can go to the bartender
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  if you feel creeped out by somebody that you're there
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  with and ask for and and there's code. Different bars
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  have different codes. But if you just ask for an
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  angel shot, the bartender will go, oh, okay, you don't
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  feel safe, let's take care of that.
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  Speaker 1: And sometimes it'll be in the women's bathroom. They will
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  have a list of if you're feeling if you want
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  us to call the police, ask for this shot, if
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  you just want us to keep an eye on things.
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  Ask for this shot.
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  Speaker 3: That's not foolproof though.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: No, Sue sent me this rugby star Yelona mar Oh yeah, yeah,
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  she was the Olympic posted a video where she explained
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  she was getting a pedicure and they were close to
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  closing and a man came in and they kept telling her, no, no,
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  your nails aren't dry.
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  Speaker 1: Yet.
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  Speaker 2: After he left, they told her we're keeping him. We
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  kept you here long because there was something off about
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  that guy. Yeah, so trust the feeling, ladies, trust the feeling.
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  Speaker 1: And I appreciate Carrie saying, guys, just be aware.
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  Speaker 2: That I say different people every election. I say this
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  as a straight white male. I'm going to be fine
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  think about other people. Cast your vote for other people,
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  because we're gonna be fine do it for other people.
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  Speaker 3: And I'd extend that a little bit in the sense
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  that if you know your partner is maybe voting against
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  your rights, that might be something to think about in
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  the future. If you're canceling out your partner's vote,