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Understanding the Importance of Mental Health in Urban Environments · Earn Your Leisure

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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
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  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 0:11
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
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  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
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  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
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  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
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  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
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  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
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  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
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  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
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  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
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  Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,
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  Speaker 1: border and families will be protected.
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  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 3: Let me ask you this because you have mentioned the
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  Speaker 3: word therapeutic a few times, definition of pain, different things
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  Speaker 3: in nature of mental health. What's your thoughts because it's like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, you go through so many traumatic experiences growing
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  Speaker 3: up in the neighborhood and it just gets normalized after
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  Speaker 3: a while. But that that's it plays a part in
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  Speaker 3: your psyche and like, yeah, so it's like going through
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  Speaker 3: all of these and you everybody loved Nip from a
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  Speaker 3: far but you know them personally, and like you said,
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  Speaker 3: there's other people I'm sure that has passed away and
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  Speaker 3: traumatic experiences. So how have you been coping with your
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  Speaker 3: own mental health and what's your thoughts on you know,
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  Speaker 3: people in just these type of environments, urban environments as
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  Speaker 3: far as like really you know, looking at mental health
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  Speaker 3: is something that's important.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like it's it's for me.
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  Speaker 5: It was like damn.
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  Speaker 4: This again, bro, Like here here, here go again, because
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  Speaker 4: like I said, I lost my moms when I was young. Bro,
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  Speaker 4: my mom's when I was three, lost my brother when
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  Speaker 4: I was like thirteen, and then my auntie died like
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  Speaker 4: within that same year, you feel me. So it was
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  Speaker 4: you know me, I had to just do find like
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  Speaker 4: find good people to be around, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 4: to always like keep me going, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 4: or just find something that I'm doing myself or what
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  Speaker 4: make me happy.
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  Speaker 5: Bro.
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  Speaker 4: And that was just music shit. So I'm like, shit,
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  Speaker 4: this is my form of expression right here. So I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna get it off through this shit right here. You
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  Speaker 4: feel me? So mental health is ah, it's a serious
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  Speaker 4: bro like cause this shit could either make you or
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  Speaker 4: break you, bro, you know what I mean. Or it
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  Speaker 4: could or it could break you to make you into
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  Speaker 4: something even you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, so talk about that right from a
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  Speaker 6: mental health standpoint, having brothers that you can lean on.
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  Speaker 5: You all have experienced this trauma.
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  Speaker 6: I had separate relationships, but there's a uniformity as a crew.
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  Speaker 5: September second, I know you had the reunion show talk.
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  Speaker 6: About the brotherhood over the past two or three years
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  Speaker 6: and how it's helped a bond of healing for all.
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  Speaker 4: Of you for sure, because shit, it'll be ten times
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  Speaker 4: harder without it, you feel me. But like you know,
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  Speaker 4: we all we got all money in. We just squad.
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  Speaker 4: We brothers is a brotherhood we all we got in.
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  Speaker 4: We really take that shit serious. You feel me like
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  Speaker 4: we in a group chat, we talk to each other.
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  Speaker 4: You feel me up, lift each other, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean. So that's important.
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  Speaker 5: Bro.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta have good people around you because if you
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  Speaker 4: got the wrong motherfuckers around you. Bro, You're getting the
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  Speaker 4: wrong message, you getting the wrong guidance, and you're running
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  Speaker 4: straight into a brick wall. Bro, you feel me trying
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  Speaker 4: to get over some shit. You feel me so and
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  Speaker 4: you and you know you can be vulnerable in that state,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Like anybody can be vulnerable
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  Speaker 4: in that state of mard. Bro, you feel me so
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  Speaker 4: you gotta be careful on how you make your choices, bro,
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  Speaker 4: because you're.
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  Speaker 6: That's the conversation we kind of had yesterday, like is
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  Speaker 6: it okay to be vulnerable?
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  Speaker 7: Right?
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  Speaker 6: There's a psigona that comes along with the lifestyle. But
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  Speaker 6: amongst each other, are we careful?
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  Speaker 7: You know?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, you know what I mean, Like, you know
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  Speaker 4: it's gonna be times when it you know, but just
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  Speaker 4: be careful though who.
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  Speaker 7: You vulnerable around, they'll take advantage of your weakness.
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  Speaker 4: Fee me exactly, and you'll find yourself not even knowing
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  Speaker 4: somebody trying to finess.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: But I also think like we wasn't really taught to
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  Speaker 3: talk about all problems. Yeah, I mean, like at least
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  Speaker 3: like how I was raised, I wasn't really I'm still not.
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  Speaker 3: I don't really feel comfortable talking about more problems like that, Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's just it's uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it puts you in a different state. It definitely
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  Speaker 4: puts you in a different state of mind though. For
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  Speaker 4: sure it tap you back into that, you feel me,
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  Speaker 4: Especially if you're trying to get through some ship.
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  Speaker 5: You don't want to relive it again, exactly right.
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  Speaker 3: It's just you just running not even thinking about it,
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  Speaker 3: you know what. I'm like, just like ya don't want
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  Speaker 3: to talk about that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so I've been exercising that, bro, like trying to
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  Speaker 4: x that shit out of my brain. Bro when it
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  Speaker 4: when it pop up, you feel me like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: I just don't think about it, Bro, I try not
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  Speaker 4: to think about it, you feel me.
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  Speaker 3: I guess that's why I think I never went to
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  Speaker 3: therapy before.
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 7:12
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 7:16
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 7:20
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States
• 7:31
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 7:40
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens.
• 7:42
  Speaker 2: Have been arrested.
• 7:43
  Speaker 1: If you are here illegally, your next you will be
• 7:46
  Speaker 1: fined nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported.
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: You will never return. But if you register using our
• 7:54
  Speaker 1: CBP home app and leave now, you could be allowed
• 7:57
  Speaker 1: to return legally. Do what's right. Leave now. Under President
• 8:02
  Speaker 1: Trump America's laws, border and families will.
• 8:05
  Speaker 2: Be protected sponsored by the United States Partment of homeand Security.
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  Speaker 3: Assuming that's the point of going to therapy is you're
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  Speaker 3: talking to somebody. Yeah, so like the things that you're
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  Speaker 3: just trying to block out for a long time, you
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  Speaker 3: can actually just get it out with somebody that's not
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  Speaker 3: judging you, somebody that you don't know personally.
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  Speaker 6: Because if you compartmentalize at some point, it might rear
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  Speaker 6: its head again.
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  Speaker 5: It's the jyline, right, I can't run from the pain.
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  Speaker 5: Run sort you're gonna be. I was one of the
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  Speaker 5: ones that bottled the pain in. Bro. I didn't never.
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  Speaker 5: I used to never talk about my problems.
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  Speaker 4: Nobody, nobody never knew what was going on, Like nobody knew,
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  Speaker 4: like I smile, you feel me, not even knowing, Like yeah,
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  Speaker 4: like not even knowing I'm going through some shit. You
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  Speaker 4: feel me, But like, yeah, bro, it's crazy.
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  Speaker 7: It's interesting. There are studies done on like neurological studies
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  Speaker 7: on the effects of bottling in problems, and it actually
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  Speaker 7: affects you way worse than it does talking about it, right,
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  Speaker 7: because it produces unneeded or unnecessary stress on top of
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  Speaker 7: what you're already experiencing. From the trauma effects of what happened.
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  Speaker 7: And then we all ready know stress is one of
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  Speaker 7: the top killers in the world.
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  Speaker 5: So I think that's a depression. Oh man, stress is
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  Speaker 5: one thing, but.
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  Speaker 7: Like stress leads to depression. Yeah, and depression is long
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  Speaker 7: term stresses in the moment.
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  Speaker 4: But I feel like we all human, We're all gonna
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  Speaker 4: deal with these emotions. Were all gonna get these emotions.
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  Speaker 4: Ain't no nobody ex from none of it, bro the
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  Speaker 4: human beings. So you know, I mean, it's all experience.
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  Speaker 4: We're gonna we experience in life. You feel me. It's
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  Speaker 4: gonna be things that get to us, the only things
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  Speaker 4: that make us feel good, the only things that suck
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  Speaker 4: us up in the head. Like damn, I just seen
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  Speaker 4: some ship. I snap out of that, like you feel
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  Speaker 4: me type ship.
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  Speaker 5: The reality.
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  Speaker 7: The reality is people understand. And sometimes I gotta use science, man,
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  Speaker 7: because in mathematics, because it helps bring clarity to a
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  Speaker 7: lot of things in life. We all made up of atoms,
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  Speaker 7: plus and minus, particles, protons, new trunks, right, energyative exactly,
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  Speaker 7: So you can't even exist without positive and negative.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it ain't gonna work. The energy ain't gonna work, right,
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  Speaker 4: We're dealing with energy, bro. Negative and a positive. It's
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  Speaker 4: like a battery. Bro, it won't work bro without a negative.
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  Speaker 3: And then there's so much trump. Like I have a
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  Speaker 3: friend that got shot and he was telling me he
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  Speaker 3: actually I know him for a long time. He just
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  Speaker 3: expressed this to me, like where he was like for
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  Speaker 3: two years after he got shot. He like if he
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  Speaker 3: saw a car, he would like freeze and it was
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  Speaker 3: just like you know what I'm saying, Like because he
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  Speaker 3: got shot, like a drive box, so it was like,
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  Speaker 3: ain't time he saw a car driving tolet he would
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  Speaker 3: just like freeze up.
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  Speaker 4: Yea, and my home even knew that too, Like after
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  Speaker 4: I got shot, Like he opened chip backs, he don't
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  Speaker 4: open it like that. He popped him ups up so
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  Speaker 4: he just squeezed the bag and that shit will boom.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 4: Like I looked at him and Bro, it's like my bad, Oh,
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  Speaker 4: I know you got shot and ship I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't tripping, but I was like, damn in the
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  Speaker 4: regular way you feel.
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  Speaker 3: Me, But that's what you are triggering me, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you don't think about But it's like when he said
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  Speaker 3: that to me, I'm just like damn, Like because you're
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  Speaker 3: gonna see a car every single day.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, so that means every single.
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  Speaker 4: But sure like you you watched everything, Yeah, bro, it's
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  Speaker 4: gonna suck you up, and yeah I got I got,
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  Speaker 4: I got brothers, bro, I got I got older brothers.
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  Speaker 5: That being shot bro before too, So.
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  Speaker 4: Like it's just it's kind of it's kind of like
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  Speaker 4: being outside and watching every single car.
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  Speaker 5: It's like, and that ship is traumatizing after a while,
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  Speaker 5: like absolutely, damn.
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  Speaker 4: Niggain't supposed to be living like this, bro, Like this
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  Speaker 4: ship crazy because you look at other people, bro, and
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  Speaker 4: they don't even look behind them.
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  Speaker 5: Bro.
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  Speaker 4: They just walking just living life and enjoying life. Bro,
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  Speaker 4: they don't care what car. How do you escape that?
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  Speaker 4: Like what we travel?
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  Speaker 5: Right? So yeah yeah travel you get the fuck out, bro.
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  Speaker 4: You go see other shit, man, You see other people
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  Speaker 4: eat other food, brow, and you see how the program
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  Speaker 4: is different. Then you bring it back to where you at, bro,
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  Speaker 4: and hopefully, like niggas, it gets some kind of you
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean, niggas that get the picture you
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  Speaker 4: feel me like, uh yeah, that'sh it, bro, because you
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  Speaker 4: come back here and you'd be like, damn, I'm back
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  Speaker 4: here to the bullshit.
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  Speaker 5: You feeling.
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from El Salvador
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christine Noman, the United States
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned and deported, you will
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: border and families will be protected.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,