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Why Women Get Dangerous After 40 | Suzette & Lisa of The Midlifers · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  And
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  everyone
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  is
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  a
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  hot
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  mess.
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  Right.
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  It's
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  just
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  what
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  degree
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  you're
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  burning
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  at
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  that
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  time.
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  Right.
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  Everybody
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  is
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  absolutely
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  a
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  hot
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  mess.
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  Yeah.
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  We
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  don't
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  have
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  it
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  all
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  figured
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  out.
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  You
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  know,
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  high
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  early.
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  Yeah.
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  And
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  we're
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  not
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  done
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  either.
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  That's
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  the
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  beauty.
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  You
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  know,
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  again,
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  that's
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  the
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  part
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  of
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  being
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  in
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  the
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  middle.
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  We
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  have
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  a
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  lot
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  of
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  life
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  to
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  live.
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  This
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  is
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  why
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  we
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  have
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  to
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  be
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  louder
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  and
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  not
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  quieter.
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  What
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  matters
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  in
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  midlife
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  when
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  you're
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  dating
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  is
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  very
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  different.
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  Like,
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  where
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  do
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  you
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  put
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  the
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  thermostat?
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  That's
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  a
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  deal
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  breaker.
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  100
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  per
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  cent.
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  My
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  body
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  is
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  now
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  a
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  heater.
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  Being
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  in
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  perimenopause.
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  My
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  mom
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  passed
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  five
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  years
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  ago.
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  My
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  dad
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  got
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  an
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  axe
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  right
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  away
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  and
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  I
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  was
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  like,
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  this
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  is
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  bananas.
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  Oh,
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  my
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  gosh.
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  Were
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  you
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  helping
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  him,
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  like,
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  swipe
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  through?
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  No,
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  he
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  did
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  not
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  want
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  any
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  help.
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  I
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  did
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  have
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  to
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  take
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  some
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  pictures
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  for
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  him.
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  He's
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  like,
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  take
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  this.
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  You
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  know,
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  there's
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  no
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  way
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  to
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  get
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  out
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  of
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  this
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  earth
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  except
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  for
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  dying
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  once
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  we
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  get
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  here.
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  It's
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  kind
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  of
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  a
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  contract
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  we
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  make.
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  So
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  it's
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  figuring
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  out
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  how
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  to
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  navigate
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  that
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  in
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  the
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  most
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  respectful
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  and
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  loving
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  way.
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  What
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  are
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  your
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  guys
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  thoughts
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  on
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  these,
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  like,
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  Internet
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  sort
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  of
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  trolls?
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  All
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  those
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  comments
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  are
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  pretty
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  much
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  based
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  on
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  one
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  reel
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  that
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  we
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  did.
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  Which
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  reel
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  was
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  it?
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  Are
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  you
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  ready?
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  You're
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  not?
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  Yeah.
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  Today's
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  guests
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  are
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  not
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  here
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  to
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  behave.
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  They're
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  the
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  women
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  behind
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  the
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  midlifers,
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  Suzette
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  and
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  Lisa,
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  the
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  duo
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  who
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  say
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  what
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  women
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  in
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  midlife
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  are
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  thinking,
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  but
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  we're
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  taught
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  to
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  whisper
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  and
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  somehow
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  make
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  it
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  both
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  hilarious
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  and
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  wildly
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  accurate
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  at
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  the
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  same
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  time.
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  Same
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  time.
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  They're
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  sharp,
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  they're
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  fearless,
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  they're
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  socially
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  lethal
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  in
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  the
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  best
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  way.
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  And
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  they
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  built
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  a
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  following
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  by
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  turning
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  midlife
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  into
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  a
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  comedy
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  stage.
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  Not
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  a
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  cautionary
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  tale.
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  In
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  this
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  conversation,
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  we're
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  talking
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  about
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  power,
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  aging,
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  emotional
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  labor,
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  boundaries
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  and
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  female
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  autonomy.
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  And
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  why
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  women
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  after
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  40
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  are
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  not
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  getting
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  quieter.
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  We're
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  getting
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  more
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  dangerous
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  intellectually
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  and
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  emotionally.
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  So
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  if
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  you
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  like
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  your
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  laugh
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  smart,
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  your
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  truth
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  unfiltered,
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  and
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  your
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  midlife
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  anything
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  but
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  polite,
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  this
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  episode
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  is
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  absolutely
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  for
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  you.
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  And
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  before
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  we
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  dive
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  in,
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  if
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  this
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  show
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  speaks
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  to
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  you,
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  I'd
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  love
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  for
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  you
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  to
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  follow
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  rate
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  and
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  review
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  it
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  on
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  your
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  favorite
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  podcast
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  app
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  or
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  YouTube.
• 2:12
  It's
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  how
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  more
• 2:13
  women
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  find
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  these
• 2:14
  conversations
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  and
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  it
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  really
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  does
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  help.
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  Now
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  let's
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  get
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  into
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  it
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  with
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  Suzette
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  and
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  Lisa
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  of
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  the
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  midlifers.
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  Welcome
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  to
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  the
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  iconic
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  midlife
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  ladies.
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  Thank
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  you.
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  Yay.
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  This
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  is
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  so
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  exciting.
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  So
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  as
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  soon
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  as
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  I
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  came
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  across
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  your
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  Instagram
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  you
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  know,
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  page,
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  I'm
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  sure.
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  Just
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  like
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  so
• 2:35
  many
• 2:35
  other
• 2:36
  people
• 2:36
  who
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  have
• 2:37
  come
• 2:37
  before
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  me,
• 2:38
  I
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  was
• 2:39
  obsessed,
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  like,
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  right
• 2:40
  from
• 2:41
  the
• 2:41
  get.
• 2:41
  Like,
• 2:42
  you
• 2:42
  guys
• 2:42
  are
• 2:43
  so
• 2:43
  funny.
• 2:44
  You
• 2:45
  put
• 2:45
  it
• 2:45
  all
• 2:45
  out
• 2:46
  there
• 2:46
  and
• 2:46
  you
• 2:47
  make
• 2:47
  it
• 2:47
  like
• 2:47
  it's
• 2:48
  so
• 2:48
  relatable.
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  Because
• 2:49
  I
• 2:49
  feel
• 2:50
  like
• 2:50
  we're
• 2:50
  all
• 2:50
  going
• 2:51
  through
• 2:51
  this
• 2:51
  a
• 2:52
  lot
• 2:52
  of
• 2:52
  the
• 2:52
  same
• 2:52
  things.
• 2:53
  But
• 2:54
  you
• 2:54
  guys
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  have
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  this
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  hilarious
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  spin
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  and
• 2:56
  I
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  just.
• 2:57
  I'm
• 2:57
  dying.
• 2:57
  One
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  of
• 2:58
  my
• 2:58
  favorites
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  is
• 2:59
  the
• 2:59
  Girl
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  Scout.
• 3:00
  The
• 3:01
  badges.
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  Yes.
• 3:02
  The
• 3:02
  perimenopause
• 3:03
  and
• 3:03
  menopause
• 3:04
  badges
• 3:04
  and
• 3:04
  like
• 3:05
  midlife
• 3:05
  badges.
• 3:05
  You
• 3:06
  get.
• 3:07
  You
• 3:07
  guys
• 3:07
  are
• 3:08
  so
• 3:08
  creative.
• 3:09
  So
• 3:09
  tell
• 3:10
  me
• 3:10
  how
• 3:11
  this
• 3:11
  amazing
• 3:12
  page
• 3:12
  of
• 3:13
  yours
• 3:13
  started.
• 3:13
  The
• 3:13
  midlifers
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  and
• 3:15
  kind
• 3:16
  of
• 3:16
  your
• 3:16
  origin
• 3:16
  story.
• 3:18
  We
• 3:18
  are
• 3:18
  neighbors.
• 3:19
  We're
• 3:19
  back
• 3:19
  door
• 3:20
  neighbors,
• 3:21
  and
• 3:21
  we
• 3:22
  are
• 3:22
  always
• 3:22
  getting
• 3:22
  into
• 3:23
  shenanigans.
• 3:24
  Our
• 3:25
  neighbors
• 3:25
  can
• 3:25
  find
• 3:26
  us
• 3:26
  out
• 3:26
  on
• 3:26
  the
• 3:27
  front
• 3:27
  patio,
• 3:27
  like
• 3:29
  building
• 3:29
  some
• 3:30
  random
• 3:30
  thing
• 3:30
  with
• 3:31
  power
• 3:31
  tools.
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  And
• 3:32
  we're
• 3:33
  always
• 3:33
  just
• 3:33
  getting
• 3:33
  into
• 3:33
  trouble.
• 3:34
  And
• 3:34
  when
• 3:35
  we've
• 3:35
  said
• 3:35
  for
• 3:36
  years,
• 3:36
  we
• 3:36
  should
• 3:36
  probably
• 3:37
  film
• 3:37
  this,
• 3:37
  it
• 3:37
  would
• 3:37
  make
• 3:37
  people
• 3:38
  laugh.
• 3:39
  And
• 3:39
  then
• 3:39
  we
• 3:40
  started
• 3:40
  asking
• 3:41
  each
• 3:41
  other
• 3:41
  questions
• 3:41
  as
• 3:41
  we
• 3:42
  got
• 3:42
  into
• 3:42
  perimenopause,
• 3:43
  menopause,
• 3:43
  and
• 3:44
  we're
• 3:44
  like,
• 3:44
  does
• 3:45
  this
• 3:45
  happening
• 3:45
  to
• 3:45
  you?
• 3:45
  Is
• 3:45
  this
• 3:45
  happening?
• 3:46
  And
• 3:46
  we
• 3:46
  thought,
• 3:46
  this
• 3:47
  is
• 3:47
  kind
• 3:47
  of
• 3:47
  funny.
• 3:48
  What
• 3:48
  if
• 3:48
  we
• 3:48
  kind
• 3:48
  of
• 3:49
  focused
• 3:49
  in
• 3:49
  that
• 3:49
  direction
• 3:51
  and
• 3:51
  then
• 3:51
  it
• 3:51
  was
• 3:51
  good
• 3:52
  timing.
• 3:52
  So
• 3:54
  the
• 3:54
  other
• 3:55
  piece
• 3:55
  of
• 3:55
  that
• 3:55
  was
• 3:56
  that
• 3:56
  we
• 3:57
  both
• 3:57
  saw
• 3:57
  that
• 3:57
  there
• 3:58
  was
• 3:58
  a
• 3:58
  need
• 3:58
  or
• 3:59
  a
• 3:59
  vacuum
• 3:59
  in
• 4:00
  social
• 4:00
  media
• 4:00
  for
• 4:01
  people
• 4:01
  who
• 4:01
  are
• 4:01
  making
• 4:01
  this
• 4:02
  kind
• 4:02
  of
• 4:02
  content.
• 4:03
  As
• 4:03
  we've
• 4:03
  gotten
• 4:03
  out
• 4:04
  there
• 4:04
  more
• 4:04
  now,
• 4:04
  we're
• 4:05
  finding
• 4:05
  so
• 4:05
  many
• 4:06
  people
• 4:06
  who
• 4:07
  are
• 4:07
  doing
• 4:07
  this,
• 4:07
  but
• 4:08
  still
• 4:08
  it's
• 4:08
  a
• 4:08
  minority.
• 4:09
  I
• 4:09
  think
• 4:09
  there's
• 4:10
  what,
• 4:10
  330
• 4:11
  million
• 4:11
  midlifers
• 4:12
  across
• 4:12
  the
• 4:12
  globe
• 4:13
  or
• 4:13
  something
• 4:13
  like
• 4:13
  that.
• 4:13
  On
• 4:14
  Instagram?
• 4:14
  Yeah,
• 4:14
  on
• 4:14
  Instagram,
• 4:15
  yes.
• 4:15
  Thank
• 4:15
  you.
• 4:16
  It's
• 4:17
  largely
• 4:17
  focused,
• 4:18
  though,
• 4:18
  on
• 4:18
  fitness,
• 4:19
  fashion,
• 4:20
  and
• 4:20
  food.
• 4:21
  And
• 4:21
  we
• 4:21
  thought,
• 4:22
  let's
• 4:22
  just
• 4:22
  have
• 4:22
  these
• 4:23
  conversations
• 4:23
  that
• 4:24
  are
• 4:24
  fun,
• 4:25
  so
• 4:26
  let's
• 4:26
  see
• 4:27
  what
• 4:27
  happens.
• 4:27
  And
• 4:27
  it
• 4:28
  turns
• 4:28
  out
• 4:28
  lots
• 4:28
  of
• 4:29
  people
• 4:29
  like
• 4:29
  to
• 4:29
  laugh.
• 4:30
  Yeah,
• 4:31
  it's
• 4:31
  a
• 4:31
  very
• 4:31
  weird
• 4:31
  time.
• 4:32
  We
• 4:32
  call
• 4:32
  ourselves
• 4:32
  the
• 4:33
  tweens
• 4:33
  of
• 4:33
  adulthood
• 4:34
  because
• 4:34
  we're
• 4:34
  not
• 4:34
  the
• 4:35
  old
• 4:35
  people,
• 4:36
  but
• 4:36
  we're
• 4:36
  not
• 4:36
  the
• 4:37
  young
• 4:37
  hip
• 4:37
  people
• 4:38
  either.
• 4:38
  So
• 4:39
  we're
• 4:39
  kind
• 4:39
  of
• 4:39
  in
• 4:40
  that
• 4:40
  middle
• 4:41
  mid
• 4:41
  area.
• 4:41
  We're
• 4:41
  also
• 4:41
  kind
• 4:42
  of
• 4:42
  sandwiched
• 4:42
  between
• 4:42
  maybe
• 4:43
  having
• 4:43
  kids
• 4:43
  at
• 4:43
  home
• 4:44
  and
• 4:44
  taking
• 4:44
  care
• 4:45
  of
• 4:45
  older
• 4:46
  adult
• 4:46
  parents,
• 4:47
  these
• 4:47
  kinds
• 4:47
  of
• 4:47
  things.
• 4:48
  And
• 4:48
  so
• 4:48
  we're
• 4:49
  like,
• 4:49
  there's
• 4:49
  content
• 4:49
  there.
• 4:50
  There
• 4:50
  are
• 4:50
  things
• 4:51
  to
• 4:51
  chat
• 4:51
  about.
• 4:51
  We're
• 4:52
  chatting
• 4:52
  about
• 4:52
  them
• 4:52
  all
• 4:52
  the
• 4:53
  time.
• 4:53
  You
• 4:53
  know,
• 4:54
  and
• 4:54
  the
• 4:54
  other
• 4:54
  thing
• 4:55
  is,
• 4:55
  midlife
• 4:55
  is
• 4:55
  one
• 4:55
  of
• 4:56
  the
• 4:56
  few
• 4:56
  unique
• 4:56
  times
• 4:57
  where
• 4:57
  you
• 4:57
  could
• 4:57
  be
• 4:57
  having
• 4:58
  a
• 4:58
  newborn
• 4:58
  or
• 4:59
  you
• 4:59
  could
• 4:59
  be
• 4:59
  a
• 4:59
  grandparent.
• 5:01
  And
• 5:01
  Suzette
• 5:02
  and
• 5:02
  I
• 5:02
  have
• 5:02
  very
• 5:02
  different
• 5:05
  marriage
• 5:05
  lives
• 5:05
  in
• 5:06
  the
• 5:06
  sense
• 5:06
  that
• 5:06
  we're
• 5:06
  both
• 5:06
  long
• 5:07
  time
• 5:07
  married
• 5:07
  but
• 5:08
  we
• 5:08
  started
• 5:08
  much
• 5:08
  later.
• 5:09
  I
• 5:09
  have
• 5:09
  a
• 5:09
  nine
• 5:09
  year
• 5:10
  old
• 5:10
  at
• 5:10
  home,
• 5:11
  she
• 5:11
  has
• 5:11
  22
• 5:12
  and
• 5:12
  up.
• 5:13
  So
• 5:13
  she
• 5:13
  has
• 5:13
  three
• 5:13
  kids
• 5:14
  that
• 5:14
  are
• 5:14
  grown
• 5:14
  and
• 5:15
  I
• 5:15
  have
• 5:15
  three
• 5:15
  kids
• 5:15
  that
• 5:16
  are
• 5:16
  in
• 5:16
  the
• 5:16
  house.
• 5:18
  So
• 5:18
  we
• 5:18
  have
• 5:18
  different
• 5:19
  relatability
• 5:20
  to
• 5:20
  people
• 5:21
  on
• 5:21
  our
• 5:21
  stories.
• 5:22
  And
• 5:24
  yeah,
• 5:24
  so
• 5:24
  when
• 5:25
  people
• 5:25
  say,
• 5:25
  oh,
• 5:25
  this
• 5:25
  is
• 5:26
  a
• 5:26
  grandparent
• 5:26
  time.
• 5:26
  And
• 5:27
  I'm
• 5:27
  like,
• 5:27
  really?
• 5:27
  Because
• 5:27
  I'm
• 5:28
  in
• 5:28
  elementary
• 5:28
  schools,
• 5:29
  you
• 5:29
  know,
• 5:29
  and
• 5:30
  Suzette
• 5:31
  will
• 5:31
  say
• 5:31
  I've
• 5:32
  gone
• 5:32
  through
• 5:32
  the
• 5:32
  college
• 5:33
  scene
• 5:33
  and
• 5:33
  I'm
• 5:33
  like,
• 5:33
  what
• 5:33
  is
• 5:34
  that
• 5:34
  like?
• 5:34
  Yeah,
• 5:34
  so
• 5:35
  it's
• 5:35
  an
• 5:35
  interesting
• 5:36
  time
• 5:36
  in
• 5:36
  our
• 5:36
  lives
• 5:36
  to
• 5:37
  be
• 5:37
  able
• 5:37
  to
• 5:37
  share.
• 5:37
  Yeah,
• 5:38
  yeah.
• 5:38
  No,
• 5:38
  I
• 5:38
  love
• 5:39
  that
• 5:39
  you
• 5:39
  guys
• 5:39
  like
• 5:39
  span
• 5:40
  the
• 5:40
  gamut.
• 5:40
  Like
• 5:40
  you're
• 5:40
  just
• 5:41
  saying,
• 5:41
  gosh,
• 5:42
  I
• 5:42
  feel
• 5:42
  like
• 5:42
  I'm
• 5:42
  a
• 5:43
  geriatric
• 5:43
  mom
• 5:43
  too
• 5:44
  because
• 5:44
  I
• 5:44
  have
• 5:44
  an
• 5:44
  11
• 5:44
  year
• 5:45
  old
• 5:45
  and
• 5:45
  I
• 5:45
  just
• 5:46
  turned
• 5:46
  50
• 5:46
  this
• 5:46
  year,
• 5:47
  you
• 5:47
  know,
• 5:47
  And
• 5:47
  I'm
• 5:47
  like,
• 5:48
  yes.
• 5:49
  I'm
• 5:49
  like,
• 5:49
  I'm
• 5:49
  all
• 5:49
  about
• 5:50
  the
• 5:50
  geriatric
• 5:50
  moms.
• 5:51
  But
• 5:51
  then
• 5:51
  we
• 5:51
  also
• 5:51
  need
• 5:52
  the
• 5:52
  moms
• 5:52
  who
• 5:52
  like
• 5:53
  lay
• 5:53
  the
• 5:53
  groundwork
• 5:54
  for
• 5:54
  us
• 5:54
  and
• 5:54
  like
• 5:55
  can
• 5:55
  tell
• 5:55
  us
• 5:55
  all
• 5:55
  the
• 5:56
  advice.
• 5:56
  So
• 5:56
  I
• 5:57
  really
• 5:57
  appreciate
• 5:58
  that
• 5:58
  you
• 5:58
  guys
• 5:58
  sort
• 5:59
  of
• 5:59
  like
• 5:59
  span
• 6:00
  that
• 6:00
  whole
• 6:01
  time
• 6:01
  frame,
• 6:02
  you
• 6:02
  know,
• 6:03
  and
• 6:03
  regardless
• 6:04
  of
• 6:04
  what.
• 6:04
  We'Re
• 6:05
  doing,
• 6:05
  like
• 6:05
  whether
• 6:06
  you
• 6:06
  have
• 6:06
  kids
• 6:06
  that
• 6:06
  are
• 6:06
  grown
• 6:07
  and
• 6:07
  flown
• 6:07
  or
• 6:07
  whether
• 6:07
  you
• 6:08
  have
• 6:08
  kids
• 6:08
  at
• 6:08
  home,
• 6:08
  all
• 6:09
  of
• 6:09
  us
• 6:09
  have
• 6:09
  a
• 6:09
  50
• 6:10
  year
• 6:10
  old
• 6:10
  body.
• 6:11
  Like
• 6:11
  a
• 6:11
  body
• 6:12
  is
• 6:12
  still
• 6:12
  a
• 6:12
  body
• 6:12
  that
• 6:13
  has.
• 6:14
  Whether
• 6:14
  you
• 6:14
  just
• 6:14
  had
• 6:15
  kids
• 6:15
  last
• 6:15
  year
• 6:16
  or
• 6:16
  you
• 6:16
  have
• 6:17
  your
• 6:17
  last
• 6:17
  child
• 6:18
  was
• 6:18
  born
• 6:18
  30
• 6:18
  years
• 6:19
  ago,
• 6:20
  your
• 6:20
  body
• 6:20
  is
• 6:21
  still
• 6:21
  in
• 6:21
  this
• 6:21
  place
• 6:22
  that
• 6:22
  we
• 6:22
  can
• 6:22
  talk
• 6:22
  about
• 6:23
  that's
• 6:23
  relatable
• 6:24
  and
• 6:25
  interesting.
• 6:26
  Yeah,
• 6:27
  it's
• 6:27
  like
• 6:27
  we
• 6:27
  all
• 6:27
  sort
• 6:27
  of
• 6:28
  cross
• 6:28
  that
• 6:29
  threshold,
• 6:29
  you
• 6:30
  know,
• 6:30
  like
• 6:30
  around
• 6:30
  the
• 6:31
  same
• 6:31
  time.
• 6:31
  And
• 6:31
  it's
• 6:32
  like
• 6:32
  all
• 6:32
  of
• 6:33
  a
• 6:33
  sudden
• 6:33
  you
• 6:33
  start
• 6:33
  checking
• 6:34
  things
• 6:34
  off
• 6:34
  the
• 6:34
  list.
• 6:34
  You're
• 6:35
  like,
• 6:35
  okay,
• 6:35
  the
• 6:35
  eyes,
• 6:36
  you're
• 6:36
  like
• 6:36
  check.
• 6:37
  Those
• 6:37
  are
• 6:37
  going
• 6:37
  totally.
• 6:39
  You're
• 6:39
  like
• 6:39
  the
• 6:39
  menopause.
• 6:40
  The
• 6:40
  menopause.
• 6:41
  Belly
• 6:41
  check.
• 6:42
  Totally.
• 6:42
  There
• 6:43
  she
• 6:43
  is.
• 6:43
  You
• 6:43
  know,
• 6:44
  like
• 6:44
  the
• 6:44
  gobbler.
• 6:45
  Yeah,
• 6:45
  yeah,
• 6:45
  yeah.
• 6:46
  The
• 6:46
  gobbler.
• 6:46
  The
• 6:46
  gobbler.
• 6:47
  Yeah,
• 6:47
  I'm
• 6:48
  dying.
• 6:48
  The
• 6:48
  turkey
• 6:49
  neck
• 6:49
  gobbler.
• 6:49
  I
• 6:50
  mean
• 6:50
  literally
• 6:51
  it's
• 6:51
  like
• 6:52
  like
• 6:52
  clockwork.
• 6:53
  And
• 6:53
  I
• 6:53
  feel
• 6:53
  like
• 6:54
  everybody
• 6:54
  is
• 6:55
  going
• 6:55
  through
• 6:55
  the
• 6:55
  same
• 6:56
  thing.
• 6:56
  Which
• 6:57
  I
• 6:57
  think
• 6:57
  makes
• 6:58
  you
• 6:58
  guys
• 6:58
  so,
• 6:59
  so
• 6:59
  relatable.
• 7:00
  You
• 7:00
  know,
• 7:00
  it's
• 7:00
  like
• 7:01
  you,
• 7:01
  you
• 7:01
  can
• 7:01
  open
• 7:01
  your
• 7:02
  page
• 7:02
  and
• 7:02
  just
• 7:02
  have
• 7:02
  a
• 7:03
  laugh
• 7:03
  at
• 7:03
  all
• 7:03
  the
• 7:04
  things
• 7:04
  that
• 7:04
  are
• 7:04
  like
• 7:05
  going
• 7:05
  to
• 7:05
  shit
• 7:05
  now,
• 7:05
  you
• 7:06
  know?
• 7:06
  Yeah,
• 7:06
  well,
• 7:06
  and
• 7:07
  it's
• 7:07
  funny,
• 7:07
  you
• 7:07
  know,
• 7:08
  there
• 7:08
  either.
• 7:08
  I
• 7:09
  think
• 7:09
  we
• 7:09
  all
• 7:09
  had.
• 7:09
  Are
• 7:09
  you
• 7:10
  there?
• 7:10
  God,
• 7:10
  it's
• 7:10
  me,
• 7:10
  Margaret.
• 7:11
  That's
• 7:11
  how
• 7:11
  we
• 7:11
  all
• 7:11
  found
• 7:12
  out
• 7:12
  about
• 7:12
  our
• 7:12
  periods,
• 7:13
  you
• 7:13
  know,
• 7:13
  but,
• 7:13
  like,
• 7:13
  who's
• 7:14
  spearheading
• 7:15
  menopause
• 7:15
  stuff,
• 7:16
  you
• 7:16
  know?
• 7:17
  Right.
• 7:18
  The
• 7:18
  us.
• 7:18
  The.
• 7:19
  Are
• 7:19
  you
• 7:19
  there,
• 7:19
  God?
• 7:19
  It's
• 7:20
  me,
• 7:20
  Margaret,
• 7:20
  people.
• 7:20
  Yeah.
• 7:21
  Yeah,
• 7:21
  totally.
• 7:22
  Yeah.
• 7:23
  So
• 7:23
  if
• 7:23
  you
• 7:23
  guys
• 7:24
  get,
• 7:24
  like,
• 7:24
  some
• 7:24
  of
• 7:25
  the
• 7:25
  midlifers
• 7:26
  in,
• 7:27
  like,
• 7:27
  one
• 7:27
  sentence,
• 7:28
  like,
• 7:29
  what
• 7:29
  would
• 7:29
  you
• 7:29
  say
• 7:30
  that
• 7:30
  is,
• 7:30
  like,
• 7:30
  kind
• 7:31
  of.
• 7:31
  Kind
• 7:31
  of
• 7:31
  your.
• 7:31
  His
• 7:31
  mission
• 7:32
  statement,
• 7:33
  celebrating
• 7:34
  aging
• 7:34
  through
• 7:34
  laughter.
• 7:36
  Because
• 7:37
  the
• 7:37
  option
• 7:38
  is
• 7:38
  that
• 7:38
  we're
• 7:38
  all
• 7:38
  dead,
• 7:39
  so
• 7:39
  I
• 7:39
  don't
• 7:40
  understand
• 7:40
  why
• 7:40
  people
• 7:41
  aren't
• 7:41
  celebrating.
• 7:42
  Every
• 7:42
  year
• 7:43
  we
• 7:43
  get
• 7:43
  is
• 7:43
  a
• 7:43
  gift.
• 7:44
  And
• 7:45
  if
• 7:46
  there's.
• 7:46
  There's
• 7:46
  things
• 7:47
  you
• 7:47
  could
• 7:47
  cry
• 7:47
  about.
• 7:47
  Sure.
• 7:48
  And
• 7:48
  there's
• 7:49
  things
• 7:49
  that
• 7:49
  deserve
• 7:49
  tears,
• 7:50
  I'm
• 7:50
  sure,
• 7:50
  throughout
• 7:51
  midlife.
• 7:51
  Right.
• 7:52
  But
• 7:52
  it's
• 7:53
  sure
• 7:53
  a
• 7:53
  lot
• 7:53
  more
• 7:53
  fun
• 7:54
  to
• 7:54
  laugh.
• 7:54
  Yeah,
• 7:55
  for
• 7:55
  sure.
• 7:55
  And
• 7:56
  I
• 7:56
  think,
• 7:56
  you
• 7:56
  know,
• 7:57
  you're
• 7:57
  not
• 7:57
  alone.
• 7:58
  That.
• 7:58
  That's
• 7:59
  the
• 7:59
  thing
• 7:59
  we
• 7:59
  can
• 8:00
  there.
• 8:01
  You
• 8:01
  know,
• 8:01
  when
• 8:01
  we
• 8:01
  saw
• 8:02
  that
• 8:02
  there
• 8:02
  weren't
• 8:02
  very
• 8:02
  many
• 8:03
  creators
• 8:03
  coming
• 8:04
  up
• 8:04
  with
• 8:04
  content
• 8:04
  for
• 8:05
  this
• 8:05
  kind
• 8:05
  of
• 8:05
  age
• 8:06
  group,
• 8:06
  we're
• 8:07
  like,
• 8:07
  oh,
• 8:07
  that's
• 8:08
  a.
• 8:08
  That's
• 8:08
  a
• 8:08
  huge
• 8:08
  bummer
• 8:09
  there.
• 8:10
  People
• 8:10
  need
• 8:10
  to
• 8:10
  feel
• 8:11
  seen
• 8:11
  and
• 8:11
  represented
• 8:12
  on
• 8:12
  social
• 8:12
  media.
• 8:13
  So
• 8:13
  let's.
• 8:14
  Let's
• 8:14
  just
• 8:14
  be
• 8:15
  real,
• 8:15
  you
• 8:16
  know?
• 8:16
  Yes,
• 8:17
  yes,
• 8:17
  100%.
• 8:18
  I
• 8:18
  mean,
• 8:18
  I
• 8:18
  think
• 8:18
  it's
• 8:19
  so
• 8:19
  important.
• 8:19
  Laughter
• 8:20
  is
• 8:20
  the
• 8:20
  best
• 8:20
  medicine,
• 8:21
  especially
• 8:21
  at
• 8:22
  this
• 8:22
  time
• 8:23
  with
• 8:23
  all
• 8:23
  the
• 8:24
  seriousness
• 8:24
  of
• 8:24
  what
• 8:25
  we're
• 8:25
  going
• 8:25
  through
• 8:26
  and,
• 8:26
  you
• 8:26
  know,
• 8:27
  all
• 8:27
  the
• 8:27
  crazy
• 8:27
  stuff.
• 8:28
  But
• 8:28
  I
• 8:28
  want
• 8:29
  to
• 8:29
  know
• 8:29
  when
• 8:29
  you
• 8:29
  guys
• 8:30
  knew
• 8:30
  that
• 8:31
  the
• 8:31
  page,
• 8:31
  like,
• 8:32
  was
• 8:32
  taking
• 8:32
  off.
• 8:33
  Like,
• 8:33
  was
• 8:33
  there
• 8:33
  one
• 8:34
  post?
• 8:34
  Was
• 8:34
  there,
• 8:35
  like,
• 8:35
  one
• 8:35
  joke?
• 8:36
  When
• 8:36
  did
• 8:36
  you
• 8:36
  know
• 8:37
  that
• 8:37
  you
• 8:37
  had,
• 8:37
  like,
• 8:37
  hit
• 8:38
  gold?
• 8:39
  I
• 8:39
  would
• 8:39
  say
• 8:39
  when
• 8:40
  the
• 8:40
  Today
• 8:40
  show
• 8:40
  called.
• 8:41
  That
• 8:42
  was.
• 8:42
  No,
• 8:43
  there
• 8:43
  was
• 8:43
  a
• 8:43
  reporter.
• 8:44
  There
• 8:44
  was
• 8:44
  a
• 8:44
  reporter
• 8:45
  from
• 8:45
  Today
• 8:46
  who
• 8:46
  didn't
• 8:46
  get
• 8:47
  it,
• 8:48
  looking
• 8:49
  for
• 8:49
  content.
• 8:50
  She
• 8:50
  was
• 8:50
  scrolling
• 8:50
  her
• 8:51
  own
• 8:51
  social
• 8:51
  media,
• 8:52
  and
• 8:52
  she
• 8:52
  was
• 8:52
  in
• 8:52
  our
• 8:52
  category.
• 8:54
  And
• 8:54
  she
• 8:54
  said,
• 8:54
  I
• 8:54
  laughed
• 8:55
  out
• 8:55
  loud
• 8:55
  and
• 8:55
  thought,
• 8:55
  I
• 8:56
  want
• 8:56
  to
• 8:56
  find
• 8:56
  these
• 8:56
  women
• 8:57
  and
• 8:57
  just
• 8:57
  chat
• 8:57
  with
• 8:57
  them.
• 8:58
  And
• 8:58
  the
• 8:58
  post
• 8:59
  was
• 8:59
  about
• 9:00
  how
• 9:00
  our
• 9:00
  names
• 9:01
  are
• 9:01
  becoming
• 9:01
  extinct.
• 9:02
  So,
• 9:03
  you
• 9:03
  know,
• 9:03
  nobody's
• 9:03
  naming
• 9:04
  their
• 9:04
  kid
• 9:04
  Jennifer
• 9:05
  or
• 9:05
  Heather
• 9:05
  or
• 9:06
  Stephanie
• 9:06
  or
• 9:06
  Lisa
• 9:07
  anymore.
• 9:08
  And
• 9:09
  we
• 9:09
  just
• 9:09
  were
• 9:09
  like,
• 9:10
  those
• 9:10
  names,
• 9:11
  you
• 9:11
  know,
• 9:11
  you
• 9:11
  hear
• 9:11
  that.
• 9:12
  You're
• 9:12
  like,
• 9:12
  oh,
• 9:12
  if
• 9:13
  I
• 9:13
  look
• 9:13
  up
• 9:13
  a
• 9:13
  doctor's
• 9:14
  office
• 9:14
  and
• 9:14
  I
• 9:14
  see
• 9:15
  it's
• 9:15
  Dr.
• 9:16
  Heather
• 9:16
  Smith,
• 9:17
  I'm
• 9:17
  like,
• 9:17
  yes,
• 9:18
  this
• 9:18
  woman
• 9:18
  gets
• 9:19
  me.
• 9:19
  She.
• 9:19
  She
• 9:20
  knows,
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  know,
• 9:21
  if
• 9:21
  it
• 9:21
  says.
• 9:21
  Dr.
• 9:22
  Brittany,
• 9:22
  I'm
• 9:22
  scrolling
• 9:23
  on
• 9:23
  and
• 9:23
  I'm
• 9:23
  gonna
• 9:24
  go
• 9:24
  look
• 9:24
  for
• 9:24
  a
• 9:24
  different
• 9:24
  doctor.
• 9:25
  Yeah.
• 9:26
  But
• 9:26
  I
• 9:26
  love
• 9:27
  that
• 9:27
  she
• 9:27
  was
• 9:28
  naturally
• 9:28
  in
• 9:29
  our
• 9:29
  category.
• 9:29
  She
• 9:30
  was
• 9:30
  a
• 9:30
  reporter,
• 9:31
  and
• 9:32
  it
• 9:32
  connected
• 9:32
  with
• 9:33
  her
• 9:33
  enough
• 9:33
  to
• 9:33
  share
• 9:33
  with
• 9:34
  an
• 9:34
  audience.
• 9:34
  And
• 9:34
  I
• 9:35
  thought.
• 9:35
  I
• 9:35
  think
• 9:36
  this
• 9:36
  is.
• 9:36
  We're
• 9:36
  onto
• 9:37
  something.
• 9:37
  We
• 9:37
  are.
• 9:37
  We're
• 9:38
  laughing
• 9:38
  ourselves,
• 9:39
  and
• 9:39
  we're
• 9:39
  finding
• 9:40
  joy,
• 9:40
  and
• 9:40
  then
• 9:40
  we're
• 9:41
  helping
• 9:41
  others
• 9:41
  find
• 9:42
  joy
• 9:42
  in
• 9:42
  this
• 9:42
  journey,
• 9:43
  which
• 9:44
  is
• 9:44
  so
• 9:44
  important.
• 9:44
  I
• 9:44
  mean,
• 9:45
  it's
• 9:45
  like,
• 9:45
  all
• 9:45
  about
• 9:45
  creating
• 9:46
  that
• 9:46
  community.
• 9:46
  Right?
• 9:47
  I
• 9:47
  mean,
• 9:47
  it's
• 9:47
  like
• 9:48
  we
• 9:48
  have
• 9:49
  to
• 9:49
  stick
• 9:49
  together,
• 9:50
  especially
• 9:50
  at
• 9:50
  this
• 9:51
  time
• 9:51
  with.
• 9:52
  With
• 9:52
  the
• 9:52
  aging
• 9:53
  parents
• 9:53
  and
• 9:53
  with,
• 9:53
  you
• 9:54
  know,
• 9:54
  the
• 9:54
  kids
• 9:54
  and
• 9:55
  with
• 9:55
  the
• 9:55
  partners
• 9:56
  and.
• 9:57
  And
• 9:57
  all
• 9:57
  the
• 9:57
  things.
• 9:59
  I
• 9:59
  want
• 9:59
  to
• 10:00
  know
• 10:00
  what
• 10:00
  is
• 10:00
  the
• 10:01
  most
• 10:01
  aggressively
• 10:02
  midlife
• 10:03
  thing
• 10:03
  that
• 10:04
  you
• 10:04
  guys
• 10:04
  have
• 10:04
  done
• 10:04
  in
• 10:05
  the
• 10:05
  last
• 10:05
  month?
• 10:06
  I
• 10:06
  can
• 10:06
  tell
• 10:06
  you
• 10:07
  the
• 10:07
  most
• 10:07
  aggressively
• 10:07
  midlife
• 10:08
  thing
• 10:08
  I
• 10:08
  did
• 10:08
  today.
• 10:09
  Ooh,
• 10:10
  let's
• 10:10
  hear
• 10:10
  it.
• 10:10
  Let's
• 10:11
  hear
• 10:11
  it.
• 10:11
  I
• 10:11
  sent
• 10:12
  a
• 10:12
  Zoom
• 10:12
  invite
• 10:13
  out
• 10:13
  for
• 10:13
  tonight,
• 10:14
  and
• 10:14
  the
• 10:14
  thing
• 10:14
  is
• 10:15
  tomorrow.
• 10:15
  And
• 10:16
  I
• 10:16
  didn't
• 10:16
  realize
• 10:16
  my
• 10:16
  own
• 10:17
  error
• 10:17
  till
• 10:17
  I
• 10:17
  looked
• 10:18
  at
• 10:18
  my
• 10:18
  paper
• 10:18
  calendar,
• 10:19
  and
• 10:20
  Zoom
• 10:20
  is
• 10:20
  tomorrow,
• 10:21
  and
• 10:21
  I
• 10:21
  had
• 10:21
  to.
• 10:21
  And
• 10:22
  I
• 10:22
  had
• 10:22
  already
• 10:22
  canceled
• 10:23
  the
• 10:23
  thing
• 10:23
  I
• 10:23
  had
• 10:23
  for
• 10:23
  tonight
• 10:24
  because
• 10:24
  I
• 10:24
  thought
• 10:24
  it
• 10:24
  was
• 10:24
  wrong.
• 10:25
  So.
• 10:25
  Again.
• 10:26
  And
• 10:26
  that
• 10:26
  could.
• 10:27
  Just
• 10:27
  because
• 10:27
  I'm
• 10:27
  blonde.
• 10:28
  But
• 10:28
  I.
• 10:30
  I
• 10:30
  love
• 10:30
  me
• 10:30
  a
• 10:30
  paper
• 10:31
  calendar.
• 10:32
  I
• 10:32
  do
• 10:32
  mess
• 10:32
  up
• 10:33
  the
• 10:33
  days.
• 10:34
  You
• 10:34
  know,
• 10:34
  these
• 10:34
  kinds
• 10:35
  of
• 10:35
  things,
• 10:35
  so
• 10:35
  that.
• 10:36
  That
• 10:36
  kind
• 10:36
  of
• 10:36
  stuff
• 10:36
  happens
• 10:37
  on
• 10:37
  the
• 10:37
  regular.
• 10:37
  And
• 10:38
  then,
• 10:38
  you
• 10:38
  know,
• 10:39
  the
• 10:39
  great
• 10:39
  thing
• 10:39
  is
• 10:40
  there's
• 10:40
  content,
• 10:41
  you
• 10:41
  know,
• 10:41
  like,
• 10:41
  oh,
• 10:42
  okay,
• 10:42
  I
• 10:42
  bet
• 10:43
  somebody
• 10:43
  else
• 10:43
  did
• 10:43
  this
• 10:43
  today.
• 10:44
  I
• 10:44
  bet
• 10:45
  somebody
• 10:45
  else
• 10:45
  tried
• 10:45
  to
• 10:45
  open
• 10:46
  their
• 10:46
  front
• 10:46
  door
• 10:46
  with
• 10:46
  their
• 10:47
  key
• 10:47
  fob
• 10:47
  to
• 10:47
  their
• 10:47
  car
• 10:48
  or
• 10:48
  whatever.
• 10:48
  You
• 10:49
  know,
• 10:49
  like,
• 10:49
  we.
• 10:50
  We
• 10:50
  find
• 10:50
  ourselves
• 10:50
  doing
• 10:51
  these
• 10:51
  fun.
• 10:52
  And
• 10:52
  we're
• 10:52
  like,
• 10:52
  somebody
• 10:53
  else
• 10:53
  got
• 10:53
  that.
• 10:54
  Somebody
• 10:54
  else
• 10:55
  gets
• 10:55
  it,
• 10:55
  you
• 10:55
  know?
• 10:56
  Mm.
• 10:57
  100%.
• 10:58
  Oh,
• 10:58
  my
• 10:58
  God.
• 10:58
  I'm
• 10:59
  obsessed
• 10:59
  with
• 10:59
  a
• 11:00
  paper
• 11:00
  calendar,
• 11:00
  too,
• 11:01
  because.
• 11:01
  Yes.
• 11:01
  If
• 11:02
  the.
• 11:02
  If
• 11:02
  the
• 11:02
  computer
• 11:03
  fails,
• 11:03
  then
• 11:03
  what
• 11:04
  do
• 11:04
  you
• 11:04
  do?
• 11:04
  And
• 11:04
  you're
• 11:04
  like,
• 11:04
  oh,
• 11:05
  my
• 11:05
  God,
• 11:05
  where
• 11:05
  am
• 11:05
  I
• 11:05
  supposed
• 11:06
  to
• 11:06
  be?
• 11:06
  Like,
• 11:06
  what
• 11:06
  am
• 11:06
  I
• 11:06
  supposed
• 11:07
  to
• 11:07
  do?
• 11:07
  Yeah.
• 11:08
  And
• 11:08
  Old
• 11:08
  Faithful
• 11:08
  was
• 11:09
  right
• 11:09
  there.
• 11:09
  Tell
• 11:09
  me
• 11:09
  exactly
• 11:10
  what
• 11:10
  I
• 11:10
  needed
• 11:10
  to
• 11:11
  do.
• 11:11
  And
• 11:11
  wouldn't,
• 11:11
  you
• 11:12
  know,
• 11:13
  Wouldn't,
• 11:13
  you
• 11:13
  know?
• 11:14
  I
• 11:14
  just
• 11:16
  totally.
• 11:16
  Do
• 11:17
  you
• 11:17
  guys
• 11:17
  remember
• 11:17
  the
• 11:18
  old
• 11:18
  organizer
• 11:19
  planners
• 11:19
  from,
• 11:20
  like,
• 11:20
  the
• 11:21
  80s
• 11:21
  90s?
• 11:21
  What
• 11:21
  were
• 11:22
  the.
• 11:22
  I
• 11:22
  can't
• 11:22
  remember.
• 11:23
  Heavy
• 11:23
  daytimers.
• 11:24
  Heavy
• 11:24
  date
• 11:25
  timers.
• 11:25
  Yes.
• 11:26
  I
• 11:26
  still
• 11:26
  call
• 11:27
  it
• 11:27
  a
• 11:27
  daytimer
• 11:28
  because
• 11:28
  I'm
• 11:28
  old,
• 11:29
  right?
• 11:30
  Oh,
• 11:30
  my
• 11:30
  God.
• 11:30
  It
• 11:31
  literally.
• 11:31
  It
• 11:32
  never
• 11:32
  fails.
• 11:32
  You're
• 11:33
  like,
• 11:33
  I
• 11:33
  can
• 11:33
  always
• 11:34
  go
• 11:34
  back
• 11:35
  to
• 11:35
  that.
• 11:36
  Yeah.
• 11:36
  I
• 11:37
  mean,
• 11:37
  you
• 11:38
  know,
• 11:38
  I
• 11:38
  look
• 11:38
  back
• 11:38
  and
• 11:38
  I'm
• 11:39
  like,
• 11:39
  gosh,
• 11:39
  Gen
• 11:39
  X,
• 11:40
  we
• 11:40
  grew
• 11:41
  up
• 11:41
  in
• 11:41
  such
• 11:42
  a
• 11:42
  specific
• 11:42
  way.
• 11:43
  And
• 11:43
  I
• 11:43
  love
• 11:43
  this
• 11:44
  quote.
• 11:44
  There's
• 11:44
  this
• 11:45
  quote
• 11:45
  out
• 11:45
  there.
• 11:45
  You
• 11:46
  guys
• 11:46
  have
• 11:46
  probably
• 11:46
  seen
• 11:46
  it.
• 11:47
  It's
• 11:47
  like,
• 11:48
  Gen
• 11:48
  X,
• 11:49
  the
• 11:50
  generation
• 11:51
  when
• 11:51
  you
• 11:52
  were
• 11:52
  a
• 11:52
  kid
• 11:53
  that
• 11:53
  you
• 11:53
  were
• 11:54
  basically,
• 11:54
  like,
• 11:55
  30
• 11:56
  years
• 11:56
  old
• 11:56
  already
• 11:57
  because
• 11:57
  of
• 11:57
  how
• 11:57
  we
• 11:57
  had
• 11:58
  to,
• 11:58
  like,
• 11:58
  you
• 11:58
  know,
• 11:58
  latchkey
• 11:59
  Kids
• 11:59
  and
• 11:59
  growing
• 12:00
  up
• 12:00
  and
• 12:00
  like
• 12:00
  being
• 12:01
  independent,
• 12:01
  you
• 12:02
  know,
• 12:02
  and
• 12:02
  then
• 12:03
  the
• 12:03
  same
• 12:04
  generation
• 12:04
  at
• 12:04
  50
• 12:05
  also
• 12:05
  being
• 12:06
  30
• 12:06
  still,
• 12:07
  because
• 12:07
  we
• 12:07
  sort
• 12:08
  of
• 12:08
  like
• 12:08
  stuck
• 12:09
  in
• 12:09
  that
• 12:09
  time,
• 12:10
  you
• 12:10
  know,
• 12:10
  like.
• 12:11
  Yes.
• 12:11
  What
• 12:11
  do
• 12:11
  you
• 12:11
  guys
• 12:11
  think
• 12:12
  about
• 12:12
  that?
• 12:13
  Well,
• 12:13
  we
• 12:13
  joke
• 12:13
  about
• 12:14
  the
• 12:14
  fact
• 12:14
  that.
• 12:15
  So
• 12:15
  I
• 12:15
  have
• 12:15
  the
• 12:15
  younger
• 12:16
  kids,
• 12:16
  right.
• 12:17
  And
• 12:17
  I
• 12:17
  told
• 12:17
  them
• 12:17
  that
• 12:18
  there
• 12:18
  is.
• 12:18
  There
• 12:18
  used
• 12:19
  to
• 12:19
  be
• 12:19
  commercials
• 12:19
  on
• 12:20
  that
• 12:20
  would
• 12:20
  remind
• 12:21
  parents
• 12:21
  there
• 12:22
  was
• 12:22
  children
• 12:23
  when
• 12:23
  it
• 12:23
  would
• 12:23
  say,
• 12:24
  do
• 12:24
  you
• 12:24
  know
• 12:24
  if
• 12:24
  it's
• 12:25
  10
• 12:25
  o',
• 12:25
  clock,
• 12:25
  do
• 12:25
  you
• 12:25
  know
• 12:25
  where
• 12:25
  your
• 12:26
  children
• 12:26
  are?
• 12:27
  And
• 12:27
  my
• 12:27
  kids
• 12:27
  were
• 12:28
  like,
• 12:28
  what?
• 12:29
  How
• 12:29
  did
• 12:29
  your
• 12:29
  parents
• 12:30
  forget?
• 12:30
  And
• 12:31
  I
• 12:31
  said
• 12:31
  the
• 12:31
  TV
• 12:32
  was.
• 12:32
  Became
• 12:32
  a
• 12:33
  thing
• 12:33
  and
• 12:33
  people
• 12:33
  would
• 12:34
  stare
• 12:34
  at
• 12:34
  the
• 12:34
  tv.
• 12:34
  So
• 12:35
  that's.
• 12:35
  They'd
• 12:35
  put
• 12:35
  it
• 12:35
  on
• 12:36
  the
• 12:36
  TV
• 12:36
  and
• 12:37
  remind
• 12:37
  people
• 12:37
  they
• 12:38
  had
• 12:38
  children
• 12:38
  and
• 12:38
  to
• 12:39
  go
• 12:39
  find
• 12:39
  them
• 12:39
  by
• 12:39
  10pm
• 12:41
  and
• 12:41
  so
• 12:41
  I
• 12:41
  think
• 12:42
  that
• 12:43
  is
• 12:43
  very
• 12:44
  representative
• 12:44
  of
• 12:44
  Gen
• 12:45
  X,
• 12:45
  that
• 12:45
  we
• 12:46
  were
• 12:46
  just
• 12:46
  off
• 12:47
  doing
• 12:47
  our
• 12:47
  own
• 12:48
  thing.
• 12:48
  No
• 12:48
  helmets,
• 12:49
  no
• 12:49
  seat
• 12:49
  belts,
• 12:50
  no.
• 12:50
  No
• 12:51
  bedtimes,
• 12:52
  no.
• 12:53
  I
• 12:53
  don't
• 12:53
  know,
• 12:53
  no
• 12:54
  supervision
• 12:54
  for
• 12:54
  the
• 12:55
  most
• 12:55
  part.
• 12:56
  I
• 12:57
  love
• 12:57
  that
• 12:57
  though.
• 12:58
  I
• 12:59
  love
• 12:59
  feral
• 13:00
  childhoods.
• 13:01
  I
• 13:01
  think
• 13:01
  that's
• 13:02
  when
• 13:02
  you
• 13:02
  explore
• 13:03
  and
• 13:03
  it's
• 13:03
  so
• 13:03
  amazing.
• 13:04
  So
• 13:04
  I
• 13:05
  think
• 13:05
  it
• 13:05
  was
• 13:05
  a
• 13:05
  gift
• 13:06
  rather
• 13:06
  than,
• 13:07
  rather
• 13:07
  than
• 13:08
  the
• 13:08
  fear
• 13:08
  we
• 13:08
  should
• 13:08
  have
• 13:08
  had,
• 13:09
  which
• 13:09
  is
• 13:09
  great.
• 13:09
  Yeah.
• 13:10
  And
• 13:10
  to
• 13:10
  the
• 13:11
  other
• 13:11
  side
• 13:11
  of
• 13:11
  that,
• 13:11
  you
• 13:12
  know,
• 13:12
  you
• 13:12
  think
• 13:12
  about
• 13:12
  the
• 13:13
  show
• 13:13
  Golden
• 13:13
  Girls,
• 13:14
  the
• 13:14
  people
• 13:15
  who
• 13:15
  were
• 13:15
  on
• 13:15
  that
• 13:16
  show
• 13:16
  were
• 13:16
  like
• 13:16
  in
• 13:16
  their
• 13:17
  40s,
• 13:17
  portraying
• 13:18
  people
• 13:18
  who
• 13:18
  were
• 13:18
  older.
• 13:19
  We
• 13:20
  have
• 13:20
  a
• 13:20
  bit,
• 13:20
  we
• 13:20
  do
• 13:21
  about
• 13:21
  how
• 13:21
  50
• 13:21
  is
• 13:22
  different
• 13:22
  now.
• 13:23
  You
• 13:23
  know,
• 13:23
  I
• 13:23
  think
• 13:24
  our
• 13:24
  generation
• 13:25
  is
• 13:25
  saying
• 13:26
  in
• 13:26
  a
• 13:27
  healthy
• 13:27
  way,
• 13:27
  not,
• 13:27
  not
• 13:28
  trying
• 13:28
  to
• 13:28
  preserve
• 13:29
  something
• 13:29
  we're
• 13:29
  not.
• 13:30
  I
• 13:30
  mean,
• 13:30
  people
• 13:31
  are.
• 13:31
  I
• 13:31
  can't
• 13:32
  speak
• 13:32
  for
• 13:32
  everybody
• 13:32
  in
• 13:32
  Gen
• 13:33
  X,
• 13:33
  but
• 13:34
  we're
• 13:34
  saying,
• 13:35
  you
• 13:35
  know
• 13:35
  what?
• 13:36
  We
• 13:36
  don't
• 13:36
  have
• 13:37
  to,
• 13:37
  you
• 13:38
  know,
• 13:38
  shut
• 13:38
  it
• 13:38
  down.
• 13:39
  We
• 13:39
  can
• 13:39
  continue
• 13:39
  to
• 13:40
  do
• 13:40
  the
• 13:40
  things
• 13:41
  we
• 13:41
  like
• 13:41
  to
• 13:41
  do.
• 13:42
  Will
• 13:42
  we
• 13:42
  pay
• 13:42
  for
• 13:42
  it
• 13:42
  tomorrow?
• 13:43
  Possibly.
• 13:44
  You
• 13:44
  know,
• 13:44
  but
• 13:45
  we
• 13:45
  just
• 13:45
  have
• 13:45
  a.
• 13:45
  Lot
• 13:46
  of
• 13:46
  more
• 13:46
  tools.
• 13:46
  We
• 13:47
  have
• 13:47
  a
• 13:47
  lot
• 13:47
  more
• 13:47
  tools
• 13:47
  in
• 13:47
  our
• 13:48
  toolbox
• 13:48
  too.
• 13:49
  We
• 13:49
  have
• 13:49
  a
• 13:49
  hot
• 13:49
  tub.
• 13:50
  Yeah.
• 13:50
  We
• 13:50
  have
• 13:51
  a
• 13:51
  lot
• 13:51
  of
• 13:51
  Tylenol.
• 13:53
  We
• 13:53
  have
• 13:54
  stem
• 13:54
  units,
• 13:55
  physical
• 13:56
  therapists
• 13:56
  on
• 13:57
  speed
• 13:57
  dial
• 13:57
  or
• 13:58
  chiropractors.
• 13:59
  You
• 13:59
  know,
• 13:59
  I,
• 14:00
  I
• 14:00
  don't
• 14:00
  think
• 14:00
  my
• 14:01
  parents
• 14:01
  never
• 14:01
  did
• 14:02
  those
• 14:02
  things
• 14:02
  in
• 14:02
  their
• 14:02
  40s
• 14:03
  and
• 14:03
  50s.
• 14:04
  They,
• 14:05
  they
• 14:05
  were
• 14:05
  different
• 14:06
  40s
• 14:06
  and
• 14:06
  50s
• 14:07
  than
• 14:07
  we
• 14:07
  are.
• 14:08
  Yeah.
• 14:08
  So
• 14:08
  absolutely
• 14:09
  different.
• 14:10
  I
• 14:10
  know,
• 14:10
  it's
• 14:10
  a
• 14:10
  good
• 14:10
  point.
• 14:10
  To
• 14:11
  your
• 14:11
  point
• 14:11
  about
• 14:11
  the
• 14:11
  Golden
• 14:12
  Girls,
• 14:12
  it's
• 14:12
  like
• 14:13
  unbelievable
• 14:14
  that
• 14:14
  those
• 14:15
  women
• 14:15
  were
• 14:15
  our
• 14:16
  age.
• 14:16
  I
• 14:16
  mean,
• 14:17
  literally,
• 14:17
  like,
• 14:18
  even
• 14:18
  some
• 14:19
  younger
• 14:19
  probably
• 14:20
  at
• 14:20
  this
• 14:20
  point,
• 14:20
  you
• 14:20
  know.
• 14:21
  Yeah.
• 14:21
  Yeah.
• 14:22
  It's
• 14:22
  wild
• 14:23
  to
• 14:23
  see,
• 14:23
  like,
• 14:24
  how
• 14:24
  different
• 14:25
  aging
• 14:25
  is
• 14:26
  now,
• 14:26
  you
• 14:26
  know?
• 14:27
  So,
• 14:27
  like,
• 14:28
  does
• 14:29
  aging
• 14:29
  scare
• 14:30
  you
• 14:30
  guys?
• 14:30
  Like,
• 14:30
  are
• 14:31
  you
• 14:31
  ever,
• 14:32
  like,
• 14:32
  are
• 14:33
  you
• 14:33
  like
• 14:33
  doomsday,
• 14:34
  kind
• 14:34
  of
• 14:34
  like,
• 14:34
  oh,
• 14:34
  my
• 14:35
  God,
• 14:35
  like
• 14:35
  aging.
• 14:36
  Are
• 14:36
  you,
• 14:36
  like,
• 14:37
  optimistic?
• 14:38
  You
• 14:38
  know,
• 14:39
  like,
• 14:39
  how
• 14:39
  do
• 14:39
  you
• 14:39
  feel
• 14:39
  about
• 14:40
  it?
• 14:41
  I
• 14:41
  am
• 14:41
  not
• 14:41
  scared
• 14:42
  of
• 14:42
  it.
• 14:43
  I'm
• 14:43
  grateful
• 14:44
  for
• 14:44
  it.
• 14:44
  I
• 14:45
  really
• 14:45
  am
• 14:45
  grateful.
• 14:47
  Yes.
• 14:47
  I
• 14:47
  see
• 14:49
  the
• 14:50
  adults
• 14:50
  in
• 14:50
  our
• 14:51
  lives,
• 14:51
  the
• 14:51
  grandparents
• 14:52
  of
• 14:52
  my
• 14:53
  kids
• 14:53
  that
• 14:53
  are
• 14:53
  aging,
• 14:55
  and
• 14:57
  I
• 14:57
  want
• 14:57
  that
• 14:57
  to
• 14:57
  be
• 14:58
  more
• 14:58
  joyful
• 14:58
  and
• 14:59
  less
• 14:59
  painful
• 15:00
  and
• 15:01
  easier
• 15:02
  for
• 15:02
  them.
• 15:02
  And
• 15:03
  I
• 15:03
  know
• 15:03
  that's
• 15:03
  coming
• 15:03
  for
• 15:04
  me.
• 15:06
  Can
• 15:06
  I
• 15:06
  do
• 15:06
  anything
• 15:07
  about
• 15:07
  it?
• 15:07
  I
• 15:08
  can
• 15:08
  be
• 15:08
  the
• 15:08
  healthiest
• 15:09
  me.
• 15:09
  I
• 15:10
  think
• 15:10
  that's
• 15:10
  a
• 15:10
  big
• 15:11
  change
• 15:11
  with
• 15:11
  our
• 15:11
  generation,
• 15:12
  is
• 15:13
  we've
• 15:13
  shifted
• 15:14
  from
• 15:14
  just
• 15:15
  accepting
• 15:16
  aging
• 15:17
  to
• 15:18
  being
• 15:19
  healthy,
• 15:20
  whatever
• 15:20
  that
• 15:21
  looks
• 15:21
  like
• 15:21
  for
• 15:21
  you,
• 15:22
  that
• 15:22
  you
• 15:22
  are
• 15:23
  the
• 15:23
  healthiest
• 15:23
  you
• 15:23
  can
• 15:24
  be
• 15:24
  and
• 15:24
  you
• 15:24
  live
• 15:24
  the
• 15:25
  healthiest
• 15:25
  lifestyle
• 15:27
  at
• 15:27
  60,
• 15:28
  at
• 15:28
  70,
• 15:28
  at
• 15:29
  80.
• 15:29
  And
• 15:29
  that's
• 15:30
  the
• 15:30
  most
• 15:30
  fulfilling
• 15:31
  life.
• 15:31
  It's
• 15:31
  when
• 15:31
  you
• 15:32
  stop
• 15:32
  being
• 15:32
  healthy.
• 15:33
  The
• 15:34
  aging
• 15:34
  really
• 15:35
  isn't
• 15:35
  fun.
• 15:36
  Yeah.
• 15:36
  And
• 15:36
  I
• 15:36
  was
• 15:36
  going
• 15:36
  to
• 15:37
  say,
• 15:37
  I
• 15:37
  think
• 15:37
  we
• 15:37
  come
• 15:37
  from.
• 15:38
  We
• 15:39
  recognize
• 15:41
  the
• 15:41
  privilege
• 15:41
  it
• 15:42
  is
• 15:42
  that
• 15:42
  neither
• 15:42
  of
• 15:43
  us
• 15:43
  are
• 15:43
  dealing
• 15:43
  with
• 15:44
  severe
• 15:45
  chronic
• 15:47
  pain
• 15:47
  or
• 15:48
  medical
• 15:49
  issues.
• 15:49
  You
• 15:50
  know,
• 15:50
  when
• 15:50
  those
• 15:50
  things
• 15:50
  get
• 15:51
  real,
• 15:52
  then
• 15:52
  I
• 15:52
  think
• 15:53
  aging
• 15:53
  feels
• 15:54
  just
• 15:54
  compounded.
• 15:55
  It's
• 15:55
  so
• 15:55
  much
• 15:55
  harder.
• 15:56
  So
• 15:56
  we,
• 15:57
  we
• 15:57
  are
• 15:57
  grateful
• 15:58
  and
• 15:58
  recognize
• 15:59
  that
• 15:59
  that's
• 15:59
  not
• 15:59
  everybody's
• 16:00
  story.
• 16:01
  But,
• 16:02
  you
• 16:03
  know,
• 16:03
  when.
• 16:03
  When
• 16:03
  you
• 16:03
  do
• 16:04
  have
• 16:04
  a
• 16:04
  healthy
• 16:04
  body
• 16:05
  and
• 16:05
  you're
• 16:05
  still
• 16:06
  going,
• 16:07
  aging
• 16:08
  gives
• 16:08
  you
• 16:08
  so
• 16:08
  much
• 16:08
  freedom.
• 16:09
  I
• 16:09
  mean,
• 16:10
  you
• 16:10
  know,
• 16:10
  just.
• 16:11
  I
• 16:11
  do
• 16:11
  not
• 16:11
  care.
• 16:11
  One
• 16:12
  of
• 16:12
  our
• 16:12
  favorite
• 16:12
  things
• 16:13
  we
• 16:13
  have
• 16:13
  is
• 16:13
  a
• 16:13
  hat
• 16:13
  that
• 16:14
  says,
• 16:14
  nope.
• 16:14
  You
• 16:15
  know,
• 16:15
  and
• 16:15
  I'm
• 16:15
  like,
• 16:15
  you
• 16:16
  know,
• 16:16
  the
• 16:16
  freedom
• 16:16
  in
• 16:16
  life,
• 16:17
  it
• 16:17
  is
• 16:17
  to
• 16:17
  say,
• 16:18
  nope,
• 16:18
  I'm
• 16:18
  not
• 16:18
  doing
• 16:19
  that.
• 16:19
  I'm
• 16:19
  not
• 16:19
  wearing
• 16:19
  the
• 16:19
  high
• 16:20
  heels.
• 16:20
  I'm
• 16:21
  not
• 16:21
  gonna
• 16:21
  come
• 16:22
  to
• 16:22
  a
• 16:22
  party
• 16:22
  I
• 16:22
  don't
• 16:22
  really
• 16:23
  want
• 16:23
  to
• 16:23
  go
• 16:23
  to.
• 16:23
  You
• 16:23
  know,
• 16:24
  like,
• 16:24
  that
• 16:24
  is
• 16:25
  the
• 16:25
  freedom
• 16:25
  that
• 16:25
  we're
• 16:26
  so
• 16:27
  embracing
• 16:27
  right
• 16:28
  now.
• 16:28
  There's
• 16:28
  so
• 16:29
  much
• 16:29
  less
• 16:29
  guilt.
• 16:29
  I
• 16:30
  don't
• 16:30
  want
• 16:30
  to
• 16:30
  get
• 16:30
  on
• 16:30
  the
• 16:30
  teacups.
• 16:31
  I'm
• 16:31
  fine.
• 16:31
  Yeah,
• 16:32
  yeah,
• 16:32
  yeah.
• 16:32
  I
• 16:32
  don't.
• 16:33
  I
• 16:33
  don't
• 16:33
  feel
• 16:33
  like
• 16:33
  I
• 16:34
  missed
• 16:34
  out
• 16:34
  on.
• 16:34
  Good.
• 16:35
  Yeah,
• 16:35
  yeah.
• 16:35
  Happy
• 16:36
  attitude
• 16:36
  and
• 16:36
  everything.
• 16:37
  Not,
• 16:37
  not
• 16:37
  negative,
• 16:38
  but
• 16:38
  just
• 16:39
  I
• 16:39
  know
• 16:39
  myself
• 16:40
  and
• 16:40
  I've.
• 16:41
  I've
• 16:41
  come
• 16:42
  to
• 16:42
  a
• 16:42
  point
• 16:42
  where
• 16:42
  I'm
• 16:42
  comfortable
• 16:43
  with
• 16:43
  myself
• 16:43
  and
• 16:43
  so
• 16:44
  I
• 16:44
  don't
• 16:44
  really
• 16:44
  need
• 16:44
  to
• 16:45
  impress
• 16:45
  or
• 16:46
  live
• 16:46
  for
• 16:46
  other
• 16:46
  people,
• 16:47
  you
• 16:47
  know?
• 16:47
  Well,
• 16:47
  and
• 16:48
  we're
• 16:48
  very
• 16:48
  different
• 16:48
  in
• 16:49
  that
• 16:49
  regard
• 16:49
  too.
• 16:49
  I'll
• 16:50
  say,
• 16:50
  oh,
• 16:50
  my
• 16:50
  gosh,
• 16:51
  let's
• 16:51
  go
• 16:51
  for
• 16:51
  a
• 16:51
  seven
• 16:51
  o'
• 16:52
  clock
• 16:52
  walk.
• 16:52
  And
• 16:52
  she's
• 16:53
  like,
• 16:53
  am.
• 16:54
  No,
• 16:54
  no,
• 16:55
  no.
• 16:55
  And
• 16:56
  she
• 16:56
  doesn't.
• 16:56
  No.
• 16:57
  Yeah.
• 16:57
  Nope.
• 16:58
  She
• 16:58
  doesn't
• 16:58
  feel
• 16:58
  any
• 16:59
  guilt
• 16:59
  telling
• 16:59
  me
• 17:00
  that.
• 17:00
  And
• 17:00
  on
• 17:00
  the
• 17:00
  reverse
• 17:01
  she
• 17:01
  said,
• 17:01
  I'm
• 17:02
  sending
• 17:02
  this
• 17:02
  to
• 17:02
  you
• 17:03
  tonight
• 17:03
  at
• 17:03
  10:30
• 17:03
  when
• 17:04
  I
• 17:04
  get
• 17:04
  done
• 17:04
  with
• 17:04
  it
• 17:04
  and
• 17:04
  I'm
• 17:05
  like,
• 17:05
  I'll
• 17:05
  see
• 17:05
  it
• 17:05
  in
• 17:05
  the
• 17:05
  morning.
• 17:06
  Like
• 17:06
  we
• 17:06
  are,
• 17:07
  we
• 17:07
  are
• 17:07
  living
• 17:08
  our
• 17:08
  best
• 17:08
  lives
• 17:09
  independently
• 17:10
  and
• 17:10
  yet
• 17:10
  collectively
• 17:11
  trying
• 17:11
  to
• 17:12
  find
• 17:12
  the
• 17:13
  similarities.
• 17:13
  Yeah.
• 17:14
  Yeah.
• 17:15
  Well,
• 17:15
  that's
• 17:15
  interesting
• 17:16
  about
• 17:16
  your
• 17:16
  guys
• 17:16
  partnership
• 17:17
  is
• 17:17
  you
• 17:17
  guys
• 17:17
  are
• 17:17
  kind
• 17:18
  of
• 17:18
  like
• 17:18
  yin
• 17:18
  and
• 17:18
  yang,
• 17:19
  right?
• 17:19
  Like
• 17:19
  you
• 17:19
  kind
• 17:20
  of
• 17:20
  play
• 17:20
  off
• 17:20
  of
• 17:20
  each
• 17:21
  other.
• 17:21
  So
• 17:22
  how
• 17:22
  lucky
• 17:23
  that
• 17:23
  you
• 17:23
  guys
• 17:24
  were
• 17:24
  placed
• 17:25
  geographically.
• 17:26
  Very
• 17:26
  desirable
• 17:27
  right
• 17:27
  next
• 17:27
  to
• 17:28
  each
• 17:28
  other,
• 17:28
  you
• 17:28
  know?
• 17:29
  Yeah.
• 17:29
  Yeah.
• 17:30
  What
• 17:30
  is
• 17:30
  like
• 17:31
  partnership
• 17:31
  look
• 17:32
  like
• 17:32
  for
• 17:32
  you
• 17:32
  guys?
• 17:33
  Is
• 17:33
  it
• 17:33
  like
• 17:33
  a
• 17:34
  sisterhood?
• 17:34
  Like
• 17:35
  are,
• 17:35
  is
• 17:35
  there
• 17:35
  like
• 17:36
  you
• 17:36
  know,
• 17:36
  here
• 17:36
  and
• 17:37
  there
• 17:37
  you
• 17:37
  might
• 17:37
  fight
• 17:37
  a
• 17:37
  little
• 17:38
  bit
• 17:38
  like,
• 17:38
  you
• 17:39
  know,
• 17:39
  and
• 17:39
  this
• 17:39
  and
• 17:40
  that,
• 17:40
  or
• 17:40
  are
• 17:40
  you
• 17:41
  guys
• 17:41
  pretty
• 17:41
  cotic
• 17:42
  all
• 17:42
  the
• 17:42
  time?
• 17:43
  I
• 17:43
  mean,
• 17:43
  launching
• 17:44
  a
• 17:44
  business
• 17:44
  too
• 17:45
  at
• 17:45
  this
• 17:45
  time
• 17:46
  is
• 17:46
  like
• 17:46
  huge.
• 17:47
  I
• 17:47
  think
• 17:47
  it's
• 17:47
  been
• 17:48
  an
• 17:48
  interesting
• 17:48
  thing,
• 17:48
  especially
• 17:49
  for
• 17:49
  me
• 17:49
  because
• 17:49
  I
• 17:49
  come
• 17:50
  from
• 17:50
  a
• 17:50
  healthcare
• 17:50
  background,
• 17:51
  so
• 17:51
  I
• 17:51
  haven't
• 17:52
  really
• 17:52
  had
• 17:52
  a
• 17:52
  lot
• 17:52
  of
• 17:53
  business
• 17:54
  experience.
• 17:56
  So
• 17:56
  I'm
• 17:57
  learning
• 17:57
  a
• 17:57
  ton
• 17:57
  of
• 17:58
  stuff.
• 17:58
  Whereas
• 17:59
  Lisa's
• 17:59
  the
• 18:00
  business
• 18:00
  pro,
• 18:00
  you
• 18:01
  know.
• 18:02
  But
• 18:03
  I
• 18:03
  think
• 18:03
  the
• 18:03
  other
• 18:03
  good
• 18:04
  thing
• 18:04
  too
• 18:04
  is
• 18:04
  starting
• 18:05
  a
• 18:07
  business
• 18:07
  with
• 18:07
  your
• 18:08
  friend.
• 18:08
  And
• 18:08
  also
• 18:09
  at
• 18:09
  this
• 18:09
  point
• 18:09
  of
• 18:09
  life,
• 18:10
  I
• 18:10
  think
• 18:10
  we're
• 18:10
  just
• 18:11
  pretty
• 18:11
  honest
• 18:11
  with
• 18:11
  each
• 18:12
  other.
• 18:12
  You
• 18:12
  know,
• 18:13
  I'm
• 18:13
  like,
• 18:13
  I
• 18:14
  hate
• 18:14
  the
• 18:14
  music
• 18:14
  you
• 18:14
  picked
• 18:15
  for
• 18:15
  this
• 18:15
  Suzette.
• 18:16
  This
• 18:16
  needs
• 18:16
  to
• 18:16
  be
• 18:16
  cut
• 18:17
  here
• 18:17
  and
• 18:17
  here
• 18:17
  or
• 18:17
  what?
• 18:18
  You
• 18:18
  know,
• 18:19
  and
• 18:20
  no,
• 18:21
  no
• 18:21
  shame
• 18:22
  in
• 18:22
  saying
• 18:22
  that
• 18:22
  and
• 18:22
  no
• 18:23
  offense
• 18:23
  taken.
• 18:23
  So
• 18:24
  it's
• 18:24
  been
• 18:24
  pretty
• 18:25
  good.
• 18:25
  Again,
• 18:25
  I'm,
• 18:26
  I'm
• 18:26
  the
• 18:26
  kind
• 18:26
  of
• 18:26
  the
• 18:26
  business
• 18:27
  dummy,
• 18:28
  so
• 18:29
  I
• 18:29
  don't
• 18:29
  really
• 18:30
  know
• 18:30
  stuff
• 18:31
  and
• 18:31
  that's
• 18:31
  okay.
• 18:32
  But
• 18:33
  if
• 18:33
  you
• 18:33
  have
• 18:33
  a
• 18:33
  toddler
• 18:33
  that
• 18:34
  doesn't
• 18:34
  know
• 18:34
  how
• 18:34
  to
• 18:34
  talk
• 18:34
  yet,
• 18:35
  that's,
• 18:35
  that's
• 18:36
  where
• 18:36
  I
• 18:36
  shine.
• 18:37
  I
• 18:38
  love
• 18:38
  it.
• 18:39
  You're
• 18:39
  like,
• 18:39
  I
• 18:39
  got
• 18:39
  that
• 18:40
  covered.
• 18:40
  I'm
• 18:40
  a
• 18:40
  speech
• 18:40
  pathologist
• 18:41
  my
• 18:41
  day.
• 18:41
  And
• 18:42
  Lisa
• 18:42
  is,
• 18:43
  you
• 18:43
  know,
• 18:43
  a
• 18:43
  PR
• 18:43
  person.
• 18:44
  So
• 18:44
  she's.
• 18:45
  Yeah,
• 18:45
  she's
• 18:46
  got
• 18:46
  the,
• 18:46
  the
• 18:47
  business.
• 18:47
  I
• 18:48
  just
• 18:48
  think
• 18:48
  we
• 18:48
  lucked
• 18:49
  out.
• 18:49
  I
• 18:49
  mean
• 18:49
  we
• 18:49
  could
• 18:49
  be
• 18:50
  really,
• 18:51
  we
• 18:51
  could
• 18:51
  be
• 18:51
  really
• 18:51
  systematic
• 18:52
  and
• 18:52
  say,
• 18:52
  oh,
• 18:52
  we've
• 18:53
  tried
• 18:53
  this
• 18:53
  and
• 18:53
  this,
• 18:53
  but
• 18:54
  in,
• 18:54
  in
• 18:55
  large
• 18:55
  reality,
• 18:56
  Suzette
• 18:57
  is
• 18:57
  an
• 18:57
  amazing
• 18:57
  human
• 18:58
  being.
• 18:58
  She's
• 18:59
  a
• 18:59
  great
• 18:59
  friend
• 19:00
  and
• 19:00
  she's
• 19:01
  really
• 19:01
  kind
• 19:01
  at
• 19:01
  the
• 19:02
  core
• 19:02
  of
• 19:02
  who
• 19:02
  she
• 19:02
  is
• 19:04
  and
• 19:04
  she
• 19:05
  can
• 19:05
  talk
• 19:05
  me
• 19:05
  into
• 19:05
  doing
• 19:06
  99%
• 19:07
  of
• 19:07
  anything.
• 19:08
  She's
• 19:08
  very
• 19:08
  funny,
• 19:09
  she's
• 19:09
  very
• 19:09
  self
• 19:10
  deprecating
• 19:11
  and
• 19:11
  she's
• 19:12
  like,
• 19:12
  let's
• 19:12
  go
• 19:12
  for
• 19:12
  it.
• 19:13
  And
• 19:13
  we
• 19:14
  were
• 19:14
  looking
• 19:14
  at
• 19:14
  some
• 19:14
  reels
• 19:15
  that
• 19:15
  we
• 19:15
  were
• 19:15
  doing
• 19:15
  recently
• 19:16
  and
• 19:16
  I
• 19:16
  said,
• 19:16
  I
• 19:16
  wouldn't
• 19:17
  have
• 19:17
  done
• 19:17
  this
• 19:17
  a
• 19:17
  year
• 19:17
  and
• 19:17
  a
• 19:18
  half
• 19:18
  ago.
• 19:18
  I
• 19:18
  just
• 19:18
  wouldn't
• 19:19
  have.
• 19:19
  That's
• 19:19
  not
• 19:20
  in
• 19:20
  my
• 19:20
  personality.
• 19:21
  I'm
• 19:21
  Much
• 19:21
  more
• 19:22
  conservative
• 19:23
  when
• 19:23
  it
• 19:23
  comes
• 19:23
  to
• 19:23
  that
• 19:23
  type
• 19:24
  of
• 19:24
  stuff.
• 19:24
  She's
• 19:24
  much
• 19:25
  more.
• 19:25
  Let's
• 19:25
  go
• 19:25
  for
• 19:25
  it.
• 19:26
  And
• 19:26
  on
• 19:26
  the
• 19:26
  flip
• 19:26
  side,
• 19:27
  she
• 19:27
  probably
• 19:27
  wouldn't
• 19:27
  have
• 19:28
  even
• 19:28
  done
• 19:28
  midlifers.
• 19:29
  And
• 19:29
  I
• 19:29
  was
• 19:29
  like,
• 19:29
  we
• 19:29
  can
• 19:30
  do
• 19:30
  that,
• 19:30
  you
• 19:30
  know,
• 19:30
  so
• 19:31
  we
• 19:31
  just
• 19:31
  push
• 19:32
  each
• 19:32
  other
• 19:32
  just
• 19:33
  enough.
• 19:33
  And
• 19:33
  I
• 19:34
  think
• 19:34
  we
• 19:34
  have
• 19:34
  amazing.
• 19:35
  I
• 19:35
  don't
• 19:36
  think.
• 19:36
  I
• 19:36
  know.
• 19:36
  We
• 19:36
  have
• 19:36
  amazing
• 19:37
  husbands
• 19:37
  that
• 19:37
  are
• 19:38
  really
• 19:38
  incredible
• 19:38
  cheerleaders.
• 19:39
  We
• 19:39
  have
• 19:39
  incredible
• 19:40
  kids
• 19:40
  that
• 19:41
  are
• 19:41
  really
• 19:41
  big
• 19:41
  cheerleaders.
• 19:42
  They're
• 19:42
  not
• 19:42
  embarrassed
• 19:43
  by
• 19:43
  anything,
• 19:43
  which
• 19:44
  is
• 19:44
  amazing.
• 19:45
  Amazing.
• 19:46
  Wow,
• 19:46
  that's
• 19:47
  great.
• 19:47
  It
• 19:48
  is
• 19:48
  great.
• 19:48
  Yeah.
• 19:48
  My
• 19:48
  teenage
• 19:49
  boy
• 19:49
  is
• 19:49
  cheering
• 19:50
  me
• 19:50
  on.
• 19:50
  Like,
• 19:51
  my
• 19:51
  boys
• 19:51
  really
• 19:52
  are
• 19:52
  like,
• 19:52
  go
• 19:52
  for
• 19:52
  this.
• 19:53
  This
• 19:53
  is
• 19:53
  funny.
• 19:53
  Put
• 19:54
  it
• 19:54
  out
• 19:54
  there.
• 19:54
  And
• 19:54
  I'm
• 19:54
  thinking,
• 19:55
  are
• 19:55
  you
• 19:55
  sure?
• 19:55
  Because
• 19:56
  some
• 19:56
  of
• 19:56
  your
• 19:56
  friends
• 19:56
  are
• 19:57
  on.
• 19:57
  Social
• 19:57
  media
• 19:57
  just
• 19:58
  committed
• 19:58
  to
• 19:58
  farting
• 19:58
  and
• 19:59
  walking
• 19:59
  away.
• 20:00
  Yeah,
• 20:00
  I
• 20:01
  saw
• 20:01
  that
• 20:01
  one.
• 20:02
  Is
• 20:02
  that
• 20:02
  okay?
• 20:03
  Yeah,
• 20:04
  yeah.
• 20:04
  But
• 20:04
  again,
• 20:05
  you
• 20:05
  know,
• 20:06
  but
• 20:06
  it's
• 20:06
  real.
• 20:06
  Everybody.
• 20:07
  It's
• 20:07
  so
• 20:07
  lovely
• 20:08
  to
• 20:08
  have
• 20:08
  a
• 20:08
  cheering
• 20:08
  section
• 20:09
  for
• 20:09
  everybody.
• 20:10
  You
• 20:10
  know,
• 20:10
  this.
• 20:10
  I
• 20:11
  think
• 20:11
  that
• 20:11
  was
• 20:11
  one
• 20:11
  of
• 20:11
  the
• 20:12
  surprises
• 20:12
  too
• 20:12
  is
• 20:13
  unless
• 20:14
  you
• 20:15
  are
• 20:15
  actually
• 20:16
  doing
• 20:16
  social
• 20:17
  media
• 20:17
  as
• 20:17
  a
• 20:18
  full
• 20:18
  time
• 20:18
  gig,
• 20:19
  you
• 20:19
  don't
• 20:19
  realize
• 20:20
  how
• 20:20
  much
• 20:20
  time
• 20:21
  and
• 20:21
  work
• 20:21
  it
• 20:22
  is.
• 20:22
  Plus,
• 20:22
  we
• 20:22
  were
• 20:23
  coming
• 20:23
  to
• 20:23
  this
• 20:23
  as
• 20:23
  50
• 20:24
  year
• 20:24
  olds.
• 20:24
  We're
• 20:25
  like,
• 20:25
  have
• 20:25
  you
• 20:25
  edit
• 20:25
  this
• 20:26
  video?
• 20:26
  Oh
• 20:26
  my.
• 20:27
  You
• 20:27
  know,
• 20:27
  we
• 20:27
  would
• 20:27
  always
• 20:28
  say
• 20:28
  like
• 20:28
  by
• 20:28
  way
• 20:28
  of
• 20:28
  Chicago.
• 20:29
  We're
• 20:29
  like,
• 20:29
  well,
• 20:29
  we
• 20:30
  got
• 20:30
  to
• 20:30
  the
• 20:30
  end
• 20:30
  product
• 20:31
  we
• 20:31
  wanted,
• 20:31
  but
• 20:31
  there
• 20:31
  was
• 20:32
  probably
• 20:32
  a
• 20:32
  more
• 20:32
  efficient,
• 20:33
  better
• 20:34
  way
• 20:34
  to
• 20:34
  do
• 20:34
  it.
• 20:34
  There's
• 20:35
  always.
• 20:35
  Yeah.
• 20:36
  So
• 20:37
  that,
• 20:37
  that's
• 20:37
  another
• 20:38
  kind
• 20:38
  of
• 20:38
  plus
• 20:38
  in
• 20:38
  our
• 20:39
  category
• 20:39
  is
• 20:39
  we're
• 20:39
  like,
• 20:40
  let's
• 20:40
  just
• 20:41
  try
• 20:41
  it.
• 20:41
  What?
• 20:42
  Who
• 20:42
  knows?
• 20:43
  You
• 20:43
  know,
• 20:44
  Right?
• 20:44
  See
• 20:44
  what
• 20:44
  sticks.
• 20:45
  I
• 20:45
  mean,
• 20:45
  you
• 20:45
  never
• 20:45
  know,
• 20:46
  right?
• 20:46
  Like
• 20:46
  something
• 20:47
  could
• 20:47
  totally
• 20:48
  hit
• 20:48
  and
• 20:49
  just
• 20:49
  go
• 20:49
  bananas,
• 20:50
  you
• 20:50
  know?
• 20:52
  That's
• 20:52
  amazing
• 20:52
  though,
• 20:53
  that
• 20:53
  you
• 20:53
  guys
• 20:53
  have
• 20:53
  supportive
• 20:54
  kids
• 20:54
  and
• 20:54
  especially
• 20:55
  supportive
• 20:55
  partners.
• 20:56
  Because
• 20:57
  a
• 20:57
  lot
• 20:57
  of
• 20:58
  women,
• 20:58
  I
• 20:58
  feel
• 20:58
  like,
• 20:59
  don't
• 20:59
  have
• 20:59
  that,
• 20:59
  you
• 21:00
  know,
• 21:00
  it's,
• 21:00
  it's.
• 21:01
  And
• 21:01
  to
• 21:01
  launch
• 21:02
  a
• 21:02
  business
• 21:02
  too
• 21:02
  and
• 21:03
  then
• 21:03
  to
• 21:03
  also
• 21:04
  have
• 21:04
  that
• 21:04
  support
• 21:05
  must
• 21:05
  have
• 21:06
  been
• 21:06
  huge
• 21:06
  for
• 21:07
  you
• 21:07
  guys.
• 21:07
  Yeah,
• 21:08
  it
• 21:08
  was.
• 21:08
  Yeah.
• 21:09
  What
• 21:09
  were
• 21:09
  the
• 21:09
  husbands
• 21:10
  like?
• 21:10
  What
• 21:10
  is
• 21:10
  their
• 21:10
  reaction
• 21:11
  to
• 21:11
  do
• 21:12
  they.
• 21:12
  Did
• 21:12
  they
• 21:12
  watch
• 21:12
  it?
• 21:13
  Do
• 21:13
  they.
• 21:13
  Like,
• 21:13
  are
• 21:14
  they
• 21:14
  involved
• 21:14
  at
• 21:15
  all?
• 21:15
  Like,
• 21:15
  how
• 21:15
  does
• 21:15
  that
• 21:16
  play
• 21:16
  out?
• 21:16
  Mine,
• 21:17
  we
• 21:17
  call
• 21:17
  the
• 21:18
  super
• 21:18
  cheerleader.
• 21:19
  From
• 21:19
  day
• 21:19
  one,
• 21:19
  he
• 21:20
  was
• 21:20
  wearing
• 21:20
  merch
• 21:20
  and
• 21:21
  T
• 21:21
  shirts
• 21:21
  and
• 21:22
  he
• 21:22
  was,
• 21:23
  he
• 21:23
  wants
• 21:23
  everything
• 21:24
  midlifer
• 21:25
  and
• 21:25
  he
• 21:25
  thinks
• 21:25
  it's
• 21:26
  so
• 21:26
  fun.
• 21:27
  They
• 21:27
  both
• 21:28
  are
• 21:28
  now
• 21:28
  very
• 21:29
  much
• 21:29
  into
• 21:30
  just
• 21:30
  supporting
• 21:30
  us
• 21:31
  however
• 21:31
  we
• 21:31
  ask.
• 21:32
  They're
• 21:32
  willing
• 21:32
  to
• 21:32
  be
• 21:32
  in
• 21:33
  the
• 21:33
  bits
• 21:33
  if
• 21:33
  we
• 21:33
  want
• 21:34
  them
• 21:34
  to.
• 21:34
  There
• 21:34
  was
• 21:34
  one
• 21:35
  several
• 21:35
  months
• 21:36
  ago
• 21:36
  where
• 21:36
  we
• 21:36
  were
• 21:37
  out
• 21:37
  on
• 21:37
  the
• 21:37
  slip
• 21:38
  and
• 21:38
  slides
• 21:38
  with
• 21:38
  the
• 21:38
  kids
• 21:39
  and
• 21:39
  they
• 21:40
  were
• 21:40
  diving
• 21:40
  onto
• 21:40
  the
• 21:41
  slip
• 21:41
  and
• 21:41
  slides,
• 21:41
  and
• 21:41
  we're
• 21:42
  all
• 21:42
  like,
• 21:42
  we're
• 21:42
  in
• 21:42
  our
• 21:43
  50s.
• 21:43
  What
• 21:43
  are
• 21:44
  we
• 21:44
  doing?
• 21:46
  Nobody
• 21:46
  broke
• 21:46
  a
• 21:46
  hip.
• 21:47
  It
• 21:47
  was
• 21:47
  really
• 21:47
  positive.
• 21:48
  But
• 21:48
  they're
• 21:48
  just.
• 21:48
  They're
• 21:49
  along
• 21:49
  for
• 21:49
  whatever
• 21:50
  game
• 21:50
  we're
• 21:50
  at
• 21:50
  for
• 21:51
  merry.
• 21:52
  Well,
• 21:52
  my
• 21:52
  husband
• 21:52
  does
• 21:53
  not
• 21:53
  want
• 21:53
  to
• 21:53
  be
• 21:53
  in
• 21:53
  front
• 21:53
  of
• 21:53
  the
• 21:54
  camera.
• 21:54
  That's
• 21:54
  all
• 21:54
  he
• 21:54
  cares
• 21:55
  about.
• 21:55
  Lisa's
• 21:56
  husband
• 21:56
  wants
• 21:56
  to
• 21:56
  be
• 21:57
  like,
• 21:57
  hello,
• 21:58
  I'm
• 21:59
  here.
• 21:59
  Let's
• 22:00
  do
• 22:00
  it.
• 22:00
  He's
• 22:00
  so
• 22:01
  excited
• 22:01
  to,
• 22:01
  you
• 22:02
  know,
• 22:02
  we
• 22:02
  can
• 22:02
  always
• 22:03
  count
• 22:03
  on
• 22:03
  him
• 22:03
  to
• 22:04
  do
• 22:04
  anything.
• 22:05
  Give
• 22:05
  us
• 22:05
  another.
• 22:06
  Yeah,
• 22:06
  yeah.
• 22:07
  Person.
• 22:07
  He's
• 22:07
  like
• 22:08
  your
• 22:08
  male
• 22:08
  lead,
• 22:08
  like,
• 22:09
  if
• 22:09
  you
• 22:09
  need
• 22:09
  him,
• 22:09
  you
• 22:10
  know,
• 22:10
  like,
• 22:10
  totally,
• 22:11
  totally,
• 22:11
  Right?
• 22:12
  That's
• 22:13
  amazing.
• 22:14
  So
• 22:14
  where
• 22:15
  do
• 22:15
  you
• 22:15
  get
• 22:15
  your
• 22:15
  inspiration
• 22:16
  from?
• 22:16
  Is
• 22:17
  it,
• 22:17
  like,
• 22:17
  everyday
• 22:18
  life
• 22:18
  or
• 22:18
  what
• 22:19
  is
• 22:19
  it,
• 22:19
  like,
• 22:19
  something
• 22:20
  funny
• 22:20
  happens
• 22:20
  and
• 22:21
  you're
• 22:21
  like,
• 22:21
  oh,
• 22:21
  my
• 22:21
  God,
• 22:21
  we
• 22:22
  need
• 22:22
  to,
• 22:22
  like,
• 22:23
  put
• 22:23
  that
• 22:23
  on
• 22:23
  social
• 22:24
  media.
• 22:24
  What's
• 22:24
  your
• 22:25
  process
• 22:25
  for
• 22:25
  that?
• 22:26
  I
• 22:26
  think
• 22:27
  it's
• 22:27
  a
• 22:27
  lot.
• 22:27
  You
• 22:27
  know,
• 22:28
  like
• 22:28
  I
• 22:28
  said,
• 22:28
  I
• 22:28
  sent
• 22:29
  the
• 22:29
  wrong
• 22:29
  thing
• 22:29
  for
• 22:30
  a
• 22:30
  zoom
• 22:30
  meeting.
• 22:30
  That,
• 22:31
  you
• 22:31
  know,
• 22:31
  that
• 22:31
  could
• 22:31
  be
• 22:32
  a
• 22:32
  hundred
• 22:32
  different
• 22:32
  things.
• 22:33
  The
• 22:34
  kind
• 22:34
  of
• 22:34
  unintended
• 22:35
  or
• 22:35
  unexpected
• 22:36
  thing
• 22:36
  is
• 22:37
  this
• 22:37
  is.
• 22:37
  We
• 22:38
  have
• 22:38
  so
• 22:38
  many
• 22:39
  funny
• 22:39
  followers.
• 22:40
  Like,
• 22:41
  Lisa
• 22:41
  and
• 22:41
  I
• 22:41
  like
• 22:41
  to
• 22:42
  say
• 22:42
  we
• 22:42
  light
• 22:43
  the
• 22:43
  match
• 22:43
  and
• 22:43
  they
• 22:44
  just
• 22:44
  make
• 22:44
  it
• 22:44
  into
• 22:45
  a
• 22:45
  bonfire.
• 22:46
  It
• 22:46
  is
• 22:47
  so
• 22:47
  funny.
• 22:48
  People
• 22:48
  will
• 22:48
  put
• 22:49
  down
• 22:49
  different
• 22:49
  comments
• 22:50
  or
• 22:51
  things,
• 22:51
  and
• 22:51
  I'm
• 22:51
  like,
• 22:51
  oh,
• 22:52
  my
• 22:52
  gosh.
• 22:52
  I
• 22:52
  never
• 22:52
  even
• 22:53
  thought
• 22:53
  of
• 22:53
  that.
• 22:54
  That's
• 22:54
  hilarious.
• 22:54
  This
• 22:54
  is
• 22:55
  be
• 22:55
  a
• 22:55
  whole
• 22:55
  separate
• 22:55
  thing
• 22:56
  all
• 22:56
  on
• 22:56
  its
• 22:56
  own.
• 22:56
  We
• 22:57
  just
• 22:57
  got
• 22:57
  to
• 22:57
  do
• 22:57
  this.
• 22:58
  So
• 22:58
  that.
• 22:59
  That
• 22:59
  has
• 22:59
  been
• 22:59
  an
• 22:59
  unexpected
• 23:00
  thing,
• 23:00
  I
• 23:01
  think,
• 23:01
  for
• 23:01
  us
• 23:01
  is
• 23:01
  that
• 23:02
  we
• 23:02
  didn't
• 23:03
  realize
• 23:03
  that
• 23:04
  once
• 23:04
  people
• 23:05
  felt
• 23:05
  like
• 23:05
  we
• 23:05
  were
• 23:06
  creating
• 23:06
  a
• 23:06
  comfortable
• 23:07
  community
• 23:07
  where
• 23:08
  they
• 23:08
  could
• 23:08
  be
• 23:08
  honest
• 23:09
  and
• 23:09
  share
• 23:09
  funny
• 23:09
  stuff,
• 23:10
  then
• 23:10
  they
• 23:11
  went
• 23:11
  for
• 23:11
  it.
• 23:11
  It
• 23:11
  was
• 23:12
  so
• 23:12
  fun.
• 23:13
  You
• 23:13
  mentioned
• 23:13
  you
• 23:13
  saw
• 23:14
  our
• 23:14
  Midlife
• 23:14
  for
• 23:14
  Confession
• 23:15
  piece.
• 23:15
  So
• 23:15
  we've
• 23:16
  run
• 23:16
  that
• 23:16
  a
• 23:16
  couple
• 23:17
  different
• 23:17
  times.
• 23:17
  And
• 23:18
  the
• 23:18
  reason
• 23:18
  we
• 23:18
  run
• 23:18
  it
• 23:18
  a
• 23:19
  few.
• 23:19
  We've
• 23:20
  run
• 23:20
  it
• 23:20
  a
• 23:20
  few
• 23:20
  times
• 23:20
  is
• 23:21
  because
• 23:21
  the
• 23:21
  confessions
• 23:23
  make
• 23:23
  us
• 23:23
  cry
• 23:24
  with
• 23:24
  laughter.
• 23:25
  But
• 23:25
  we
• 23:25
  are.
• 23:26
  We
• 23:27
  pull
• 23:27
  up
• 23:27
  the
• 23:27
  confessions
• 23:28
  and
• 23:28
  we
• 23:29
  think
• 23:29
  we
• 23:29
  just
• 23:29
  were
• 23:30
  like,
• 23:30
  oh,
• 23:30
  these
• 23:30
  are
• 23:30
  so
• 23:30
  funny.
• 23:31
  The
• 23:31
  ideas
• 23:31
  we
• 23:31
  come
• 23:32
  up
• 23:32
  with,
• 23:32
  we
• 23:32
  put
• 23:33
  them
• 23:33
  down
• 23:33
  and
• 23:33
  I'll
• 23:33
  call
• 23:34
  Suzette
• 23:34
  and
• 23:34
  go,
• 23:34
  you
• 23:34
  have
• 23:35
  to
• 23:35
  get
• 23:35
  on.
• 23:35
  They
• 23:35
  are
• 23:36
  so
• 23:36
  funny.
• 23:36
  We
• 23:36
  just
• 23:37
  this
• 23:37
  series
• 23:37
  on
• 23:37
  TikTok
• 23:38
  this
• 23:38
  time.
• 23:39
  Oh,
• 23:39
  yeah.
• 23:40
  And
• 23:41
  it
• 23:41
  depends.
• 23:41
  Like,
• 23:41
  some
• 23:42
  of
• 23:42
  the
• 23:42
  comments
• 23:42
  get
• 23:43
  funnier
• 23:43
  on
• 23:43
  Facebook
• 23:43
  or
• 23:44
  on
• 23:44
  Instagram,
• 23:44
  you
• 23:45
  know?
• 23:45
  But
• 23:46
  this
• 23:46
  last
• 23:46
  round
• 23:46
  of
• 23:46
  midlifer
• 23:47
  Confessions
• 23:47
  on
• 23:48
  TikTok
• 23:48
  was
• 23:49
  so
• 23:49
  overwhelming.
• 23:50
  So
• 23:50
  funny.
• 23:51
  I,
• 23:51
  like,
• 23:51
  I
• 23:51
  put
• 23:52
  aside
• 23:52
  an
• 23:52
  hour
• 23:52
  and
• 23:53
  just
• 23:53
  sat
• 23:53
  there
• 23:53
  and
• 23:54
  cried
• 23:54
  in
• 23:54
  laughter
• 23:55
  from
• 23:55
  all
• 23:55
  these
• 23:55
  hilarious
• 23:56
  midlifers
• 23:57
  that
• 23:57
  are
• 23:57
  sharing
• 23:58
  Their
• 23:58
  stories,
• 23:59
  the
• 23:59
  number
• 23:59
  of
• 23:59
  people
• 23:59
  that
• 24:00
  leave
• 24:00
  their
• 24:01
  cars
• 24:01
  on
• 24:01
  and
• 24:01
  can't
• 24:02
  figure
• 24:02
  out
• 24:02
  why
• 24:02
  they
• 24:02
  can't
• 24:02
  lock
• 24:03
  it,
• 24:03
  go
• 24:03
  into
• 24:03
  the
• 24:03
  store
• 24:04
  for
• 24:04
  an
• 24:04
  hour
• 24:04
  and
• 24:04
  come
• 24:04
  back
• 24:05
  out
• 24:05
  and
• 24:05
  the
• 24:05
  car
• 24:05
  is
• 24:05
  still
• 24:05
  running
• 24:06
  and
• 24:06
  it's
• 24:06
  sitting
• 24:06
  in
• 24:06
  the.
• 24:07
  You
• 24:07
  know,
• 24:07
  I'm
• 24:08
  like,
• 24:08
  that's
• 24:08
  me.
• 24:08
  You're
• 24:09
  me.
• 24:10
  I
• 24:10
  relate
• 24:10
  to
• 24:11
  these
• 24:11
  people
• 24:11
  so
• 24:11
  well.
• 24:12
  So
• 24:12
  we're
• 24:13
  very
• 24:13
  grateful
• 24:13
  for
• 24:14
  that
• 24:14
  amazing
• 24:15
  community.
• 24:16
  Well,
• 24:16
  it's
• 24:16
  so
• 24:16
  smart.
• 24:17
  Like
• 24:17
  you
• 24:17
  guys
• 24:17
  had
• 24:17
  that
• 24:18
  template,
• 24:18
  right?
• 24:18
  And
• 24:19
  it's
• 24:19
  like
• 24:20
  one
• 24:20
  that
• 24:20
  could
• 24:20
  go
• 24:21
  on
• 24:21
  forever
• 24:21
  and
• 24:21
  ever
• 24:22
  and
• 24:22
  ever
• 24:22
  because
• 24:23
  everybody
• 24:24
  has
• 24:24
  some
• 24:25
  sort
• 24:25
  of
• 24:25
  a
• 24:25
  midlife
• 24:26
  confession,
• 24:26
  you
• 24:27
  know?
• 24:27
  Percent
• 24:28
  and
• 24:28
  we're
• 24:28
  so
• 24:28
  pleased
• 24:29
  to
• 24:29
  like,
• 24:29
  we.
• 24:30
  The
• 24:30
  number
• 24:30
  of
• 24:31
  negative
• 24:31
  things
• 24:32
  we
• 24:32
  get
• 24:32
  is
• 24:32
  so,
• 24:33
  so
• 24:33
  minor.
• 24:34
  And
• 24:34
  I
• 24:34
  think
• 24:34
  that
• 24:34
  was
• 24:34
  one
• 24:35
  of
• 24:35
  our
• 24:35
  big
• 24:35
  fears
• 24:35
  when
• 24:36
  we
• 24:36
  started
• 24:36
  about
• 24:36
  a
• 24:36
  year
• 24:36
  and
• 24:37
  a
• 24:37
  half
• 24:37
  ago
• 24:37
  is
• 24:37
  like,
• 24:38
  when
• 24:38
  you
• 24:38
  put
• 24:38
  yourself
• 24:39
  out
• 24:39
  on
• 24:39
  social
• 24:39
  media,
• 24:40
  you
• 24:40
  do
• 24:40
  open
• 24:40
  yourself
• 24:41
  up
• 24:41
  for
• 24:41
  criticism
• 24:42
  or
• 24:43
  just
• 24:43
  plain
• 24:43
  meanness
• 24:44
  sometimes.
• 24:44
  And
• 24:45
  gosh,
• 24:45
  this
• 24:46
  community's
• 24:46
  been
• 24:47
  so
• 24:48
  loving
• 24:48
  and
• 24:48
  so
• 24:49
  fun.
• 24:49
  And
• 24:50
  you
• 24:50
  know,
• 24:50
  even
• 24:50
  in
• 24:50
  the
• 24:51
  comments,
• 24:51
  if
• 24:51
  somebody
• 24:51
  will
• 24:51
  say,
• 24:52
  hey,
• 24:52
  I'm
• 24:52
  struggling
• 24:52
  with
• 24:52
  this,
• 24:53
  I'd
• 24:53
  love
• 24:53
  to
• 24:53
  laugh.
• 24:53
  But,
• 24:54
  you
• 24:54
  know,
• 24:54
  I
• 24:54
  started
• 24:55
  my
• 24:55
  first
• 24:55
  chemo
• 24:55
  today
• 24:56
  for
• 24:56
  breast
• 24:56
  cancer,
• 24:57
  you
• 24:57
  know,
• 24:57
  and
• 24:58
  everybody
• 24:58
  will
• 24:59
  say,
• 24:59
  oh,
• 24:59
  I've
• 25:00
  been
• 25:00
  there.
• 25:00
  This
• 25:00
  is,
• 25:00
  you
• 25:01
  know,
• 25:01
  thinking
• 25:01
  of
• 25:01
  you.
• 25:02
  It's
• 25:02
  kind
• 25:03
  of.
• 25:03
  It's
• 25:03
  kind
• 25:03
  of
• 25:04
  amazing
• 25:04
  to
• 25:04
  me.
• 25:06
  So,
• 25:06
  yeah,
• 25:06
  how
• 25:06
  do
• 25:06
  you
• 25:07
  guys
• 25:07
  handle
• 25:07
  the
• 25:07
  haters?
• 25:08
  Like,
• 25:08
  because
• 25:08
  I
• 25:09
  do
• 25:09
  get
• 25:09
  a
• 25:09
  fair
• 25:09
  share
• 25:09
  of
• 25:10
  them
• 25:10
  too.
• 25:10
  And
• 25:10
  they're
• 25:10
  like,
• 25:11
  you
• 25:11
  know,
• 25:11
  oh
• 25:12
  my
• 25:12
  God.
• 25:12
  And
• 25:12
  it's
• 25:12
  like
• 25:13
  the
• 25:13
  most
• 25:13
  like
• 25:13
  basic.
• 25:14
  They're
• 25:14
  like,
• 25:15
  you're
• 25:15
  fat,
• 25:15
  you're
• 25:16
  ugly,
• 25:16
  you're
• 25:16
  stupid,
• 25:17
  you're
• 25:17
  like,
• 25:17
  you
• 25:18
  know
• 25:18
  what
• 25:18
  I
• 25:18
  mean?
• 25:18
  It's
• 25:18
  like.
• 25:19
  And
• 25:20
  for
• 25:20
  me,
• 25:20
  I
• 25:21
  just.
• 25:21
  There.
• 25:22
  It's
• 25:22
  not,
• 25:22
  it's
• 25:22
  not
• 25:23
  like
• 25:23
  somebody
• 25:23
  I
• 25:23
  know
• 25:24
  is
• 25:24
  saying
• 25:24
  that
• 25:24
  to
• 25:25
  me.
• 25:25
  That's
• 25:25
  like,
• 25:25
  it's
• 25:26
  like
• 25:26
  somebody
• 25:26
  in
• 25:27
  God
• 25:27
  only
• 25:27
  knows
• 25:28
  where
• 25:28
  Timbuktu
• 25:29
  behind
• 25:29
  their
• 25:29
  screen
• 25:30
  saying
• 25:31
  something,
• 25:31
  you
• 25:31
  know,
• 25:32
  and
• 25:32
  so
• 25:32
  it
• 25:32
  doesn't
• 25:33
  feel
• 25:33
  hurtful
• 25:33
  to
• 25:34
  me.
• 25:34
  I
• 25:34
  actually
• 25:34
  feel
• 25:34
  kind
• 25:35
  of
• 25:35
  bad
• 25:35
  for
• 25:35
  them,
• 25:36
  to
• 25:36
  be
• 25:36
  honest.
• 25:37
  But
• 25:37
  how
• 25:38
  do
• 25:38
  you,
• 25:38
  like.
• 25:38
  Yeah,
• 25:39
  what
• 25:39
  are
• 25:39
  your
• 25:39
  guys
• 25:39
  thoughts
• 25:39
  on
• 25:39
  these,
• 25:40
  like,
• 25:40
  Internet
• 25:40
  sort
• 25:41
  of
• 25:41
  trolls?
• 25:42
  So
• 25:42
  number
• 25:42
  one,
• 25:43
  we
• 25:43
  have
• 25:43
  had
• 25:44
  almost
• 25:44
  nothing.
• 25:45
  We
• 25:45
  get
• 25:45
  hundreds
• 25:46
  of
• 25:46
  thousands
• 25:46
  of
• 25:47
  comments
• 25:47
  and
• 25:47
  we,
• 25:48
  I
• 25:48
  would
• 25:48
  say
• 25:49
  less
• 25:50
  than
• 25:50
  a
• 25:50
  thousandth
• 25:51
  percent,
• 25:51
  maybe
• 25:52
  a
• 25:52
  total
• 25:52
  of
• 25:52
  20
• 25:53
  negative
• 25:53
  comments.
• 25:54
  The
• 25:55
  funniest
• 25:55
  part
• 25:56
  though
• 25:57
  is
• 25:57
  all
• 25:57
  those
• 25:57
  comments
• 25:59
  are
• 25:59
  pretty
• 25:59
  much
• 26:00
  based
• 26:00
  on
• 26:00
  one
• 26:01
  reel
• 26:01
  that
• 26:01
  we
• 26:01
  did.
• 26:03
  Which
• 26:03
  reel
• 26:03
  is
• 26:04
  it?
• 26:04
  Are
• 26:04
  you
• 26:04
  ready?
• 26:05
  Yeah.
• 26:05
  You're
• 26:06
  not.
• 26:06
  Yeah.
• 26:07
  You
• 26:07
  were
• 26:07
  asking
• 26:08
  if
• 26:08
  you
• 26:08
  liked
• 26:09
  being
• 26:09
  called
• 26:09
  a
• 26:10
  grandma
• 26:10
  or
• 26:10
  grandpa.
• 26:11
  Because
• 26:12
  our
• 26:12
  take
• 26:12
  on
• 26:12
  it
• 26:13
  is
• 26:13
  that
• 26:13
  this
• 26:13
  generation
• 26:15
  has
• 26:15
  A
• 26:15
  million
• 26:15
  different
• 26:16
  names.
• 26:17
  So
• 26:17
  I
• 26:18
  had
• 26:18
  to
• 26:18
  call
• 26:18
  my
• 26:18
  grandparents
• 26:19
  by
• 26:19
  their
• 26:20
  grandpa.
• 26:21
  And
• 26:21
  then
• 26:21
  the
• 26:21
  last
• 26:21
  name,
• 26:22
  it
• 26:22
  was
• 26:22
  very
• 26:23
  formal,
• 26:23
  you
• 26:23
  know,
• 26:24
  Grandpa
• 26:25
  Davis.
• 26:25
  That
• 26:26
  was
• 26:26
  a
• 26:26
  very
• 26:26
  formal
• 26:26
  thing.
• 26:27
  Right.
• 26:27
  We
• 26:27
  have
• 26:27
  lots
• 26:28
  of
• 26:28
  friends
• 26:28
  that
• 26:28
  are
• 26:28
  called
• 26:28
  Poppy
• 26:29
  and
• 26:29
  Pops
• 26:30
  and
• 26:31
  Mammy
• 26:32
  and
• 26:32
  whatever,
• 26:32
  whatever
• 26:32
  grandma
• 26:33
  names,
• 26:33
  but
• 26:33
  not
• 26:33
  a
• 26:34
  lot
• 26:34
  of
• 26:34
  Grandma
• 26:35
  and
• 26:35
  grandpa.
• 26:36
  So
• 26:36
  we
• 26:36
  thought
• 26:36
  we
• 26:37
  would
• 26:37
  just
• 26:37
  talk
• 26:37
  about
• 26:37
  it.
• 26:37
  We
• 26:37
  were
• 26:38
  like,
• 26:38
  oh,
• 26:38
  do
• 26:38
  you
• 26:38
  like
• 26:38
  if
• 26:38
  you
• 26:38
  call
• 26:38
  grandma
• 26:39
  or
• 26:39
  grandpa?
• 26:40
  We
• 26:40
  got
• 26:40
  over
• 26:41
  a
• 26:41
  half
• 26:41
  million
• 26:43
  views
• 26:43
  within
• 26:44
  a
• 26:44
  day
• 26:44
  or
• 26:45
  so.
• 26:45
  And
• 26:46
  so
• 26:46
  much
• 26:46
  hate
• 26:47
  of
• 26:47
  people
• 26:47
  saying,
• 26:48
  well,
• 26:48
  you
• 26:48
  look
• 26:49
  like
• 26:49
  an
• 26:49
  old
• 26:49
  hag,
• 26:49
  you're
• 26:50
  lucky
• 26:50
  you're
• 26:50
  not
• 26:50
  a
• 26:50
  grandma.
• 26:51
  Yeah.
• 26:51
  And
• 26:52
  like
• 26:52
  grandma
• 26:52
  is
• 26:52
  an
• 26:52
  honorific
• 26:53
  and
• 26:53
  you
• 26:53
  should
• 26:53
  be
• 26:54
  lucky
• 26:54
  if
• 26:54
  that
• 26:54
  should
• 26:55
  ever
• 26:55
  happen
• 26:55
  to
• 26:55
  you.
• 26:55
  You,
• 26:56
  you
• 26:57
  self
• 26:57
  entitled,
• 26:58
  you
• 26:58
  know,
• 26:58
  whatever.
• 26:59
  I
• 26:59
  mean
• 26:59
  it
• 26:59
  was
• 27:00
  crazy.
• 27:00
  It
• 27:00
  was
• 27:00
  so
• 27:01
  crazy.
• 27:01
  It
• 27:01
  was
• 27:01
  so
• 27:01
  unexpected.
• 27:02
  So
• 27:02
  they
• 27:02
  read
• 27:03
  it
• 27:03
  wrong
• 27:03
  to
• 27:03
  the
• 27:03
  point
• 27:04
  where
• 27:04
  Suzette
• 27:04
  turned
• 27:05
  off
• 27:05
  the
• 27:05
  comments
• 27:06
  because
• 27:06
  she
• 27:06
  said
• 27:07
  there's
• 27:07
  so
• 27:07
  much
• 27:07
  hate
• 27:08
  out
• 27:08
  there
• 27:08
  about
• 27:08
  grandma.
• 27:09
  And
• 27:10
  so
• 27:10
  we
• 27:10
  thought
• 27:10
  it
• 27:10
  was
• 27:11
  very
• 27:11
  funny.
• 27:11
  The
• 27:11
  most
• 27:12
  loving
• 27:12
  term
• 27:12
  we
• 27:12
  could
• 27:13
  think
• 27:13
  of
• 27:13
  turned
• 27:14
  into
• 27:14
  the
• 27:14
  most
• 27:15
  hated
• 27:15
  reality
• 27:16
  we
• 27:16
  had.
• 27:16
  And
• 27:16
  we
• 27:16
  thought,
• 27:17
  okay,
• 27:17
  we're
• 27:17
  not
• 27:18
  touching
• 27:18
  grandma
• 27:18
  again.
• 27:19
  Apparently
• 27:19
  that's
• 27:20
  a
• 27:20
  dangerous
• 27:21
  word.
• 27:21
  Ironically.
• 27:22
  Yeah,
• 27:23
  there
• 27:23
  hasn't
• 27:23
  been
• 27:23
  a
• 27:23
  lot
• 27:23
  since
• 27:24
  then.
• 27:24
  So
• 27:24
  we
• 27:24
  stay
• 27:24
  away
• 27:25
  from
• 27:25
  grandma.
• 27:26
  Wow.
• 27:26
  So
• 27:26
  was
• 27:26
  it,
• 27:27
  do
• 27:27
  you
• 27:27
  know
• 27:28
  if
• 27:28
  it
• 27:28
  was
• 27:28
  mostly
• 27:29
  like
• 27:29
  men,
• 27:29
  women,
• 27:30
  you
• 27:30
  know,
• 27:31
  other
• 27:31
  midlifers,
• 27:32
  anything
• 27:32
  like
• 27:32
  that?
• 27:33
  I
• 27:34
  think
• 27:34
  they
• 27:34
  read
• 27:34
  into
• 27:35
  the
• 27:35
  fact
• 27:35
  that
• 27:35
  we
• 27:35
  didn't
• 27:36
  think
• 27:36
  the
• 27:36
  honor
• 27:37
  came
• 27:37
  with
• 27:38
  grandma.
• 27:39
  As
• 27:39
  opposed
• 27:40
  to
• 27:41
  the.
• 27:42
  Being
• 27:42
  a
• 27:42
  grandma
• 27:43
  is
• 27:44
  wonderful.
• 27:44
  Right.
• 27:45
  What
• 27:45
  would
• 27:45
  you
• 27:45
  want
• 27:46
  to
• 27:46
  be
• 27:46
  called?
• 27:47
  And
• 27:47
  their
• 27:47
  point
• 27:48
  was
• 27:49
  Gigi.
• 27:50
  That's
• 27:50
  like
• 27:50
  calling,
• 27:51
  you
• 27:51
  know,
• 27:51
  your
• 27:51
  teacher
• 27:52
  dude,
• 27:52
  you
• 27:53
  know,
• 27:53
  like
• 27:53
  nobody,
• 27:54
  nobody
• 27:54
  would
• 27:54
  call
• 27:55
  her
• 27:55
  a
• 27:55
  teacher
• 27:55
  dude.
• 27:55
  You'd
• 27:56
  say
• 27:56
  Mr.
• 27:56
  Smith,
• 27:56
  you
• 27:57
  know,
• 27:57
  or
• 27:57
  whatever.
• 27:58
  I
• 27:58
  don't
• 27:58
  know.
• 27:58
  We
• 27:58
  just
• 27:59
  thought
• 27:59
  it
• 27:59
  was
• 27:59
  very
• 27:59
  funny
• 27:59
  that
• 28:00
  that's
• 28:00
  how
• 28:00
  it
• 28:00
  combined.
• 28:01
  But
• 28:03
  almost
• 28:04
  that
• 28:04
  100
• 28:04
  of
• 28:05
  the
• 28:05
  time
• 28:05
  it
• 28:05
  is
• 28:05
  loving
• 28:06
  and
• 28:06
  encouraging
• 28:06
  and
• 28:07
  the
• 28:07
  people
• 28:08
  when
• 28:08
  they're
• 28:09
  putting
• 28:09
  themselves
• 28:09
  out
• 28:09
  there,
• 28:09
  like
• 28:10
  Suzette
• 28:10
  said,
• 28:11
  there'll
• 28:11
  be
• 28:11
  a
• 28:11
  pile
• 28:11
  on
• 28:12
  of
• 28:12
  50
• 28:12
  comments
• 28:13
  encouraging
• 28:13
  somebody
• 28:14
  to
• 28:14
  get
• 28:14
  through
• 28:14
  a
• 28:14
  hunt,
• 28:14
  something
• 28:15
  hard.
• 28:15
  And
• 28:15
  we
• 28:15
  just,
• 28:16
  we
• 28:16
  love
• 28:16
  it.
• 28:16
  We
• 28:17
  love
• 28:17
  that
• 28:17
  we
• 28:17
  get
• 28:17
  to
• 28:18
  light
• 28:18
  this
• 28:18
  little
• 28:18
  match
• 28:19
  and
• 28:19
  watch
• 28:19
  this
• 28:20
  amazing
• 28:21
  blaze
• 28:21
  of
• 28:21
  kindness.
• 28:23
  Yeah.
• 28:23
  And
• 28:24
  we
• 28:24
  need
• 28:24
  it
• 28:24
  like
• 28:25
  we
• 28:25
  need
• 28:25
  it
• 28:25
  these
• 28:25
  days.
• 28:26
  Right?
• 28:26
  Like
• 28:27
  that's.
• 28:28
  I
• 28:28
  think
• 28:28
  that,
• 28:28
  that
• 28:28
  I'm
• 28:29
  glad
• 28:29
  you
• 28:29
  brought
• 28:29
  that
• 28:29
  up
• 28:29
  because
• 28:30
  that
• 28:30
  is
• 28:30
  one
• 28:30
  of
• 28:30
  the
• 28:31
  things
• 28:31
  also
• 28:31
  I
• 28:31
  noticed
• 28:32
  because
• 28:32
  there's
• 28:33
  all
• 28:33
  kinds
• 28:34
  of
• 28:34
  humor,
• 28:34
  right?
• 28:34
  There's
• 28:35
  like,
• 28:35
  you
• 28:35
  know,
• 28:35
  funny
• 28:36
  humor,
• 28:37
  you
• 28:37
  know,
• 28:38
  I
• 28:38
  don't
• 28:38
  know,
• 28:38
  I'm
• 28:39
  perimenopause
• 28:39
  right
• 28:40
  now.
• 28:40
  I'm
• 28:40
  blanking
• 28:40
  off
• 28:40
  the
• 28:40
  word
• 28:41
  good,
• 28:41
  nowhere.
• 28:41
  Us.
• 28:42
  Yeah,
• 28:42
  yeah,
• 28:43
  it's
• 28:43
  all
• 28:43
  good.
• 28:43
  All
• 28:44
  the
• 28:44
  kinds
• 28:44
  of
• 28:44
  humor,
• 28:44
  you
• 28:45
  know
• 28:45
  what
• 28:45
  I'm
• 28:45
  saying?
• 28:46
  But
• 28:46
  yours
• 28:47
  always
• 28:47
  puts
• 28:48
  like
• 28:48
  a.
• 28:48
  A
• 28:49
  huge
• 28:49
  smile
• 28:49
  on
• 28:50
  my
• 28:50
  face
• 28:50
  because
• 28:50
  it's
• 28:51
  so
• 28:51
  kind
• 28:51
  and
• 28:52
  it's
• 28:52
  like,
• 28:52
  absolutely.
• 28:53
  And
• 28:53
  it's
• 28:54
  like,
• 28:54
  you
• 28:54
  know,
• 28:54
  you,
• 28:54
  you
• 28:55
  can
• 28:55
  tell
• 28:56
  your
• 28:56
  guys
• 28:57
  intention
• 28:58
  when
• 28:58
  you
• 28:58
  look
• 28:59
  at
• 28:59
  your
• 28:59
  page,
• 28:59
  you
• 29:00
  know,
• 29:00
  when
• 29:00
  you
• 29:00
  look
• 29:00
  at
• 29:00
  the
• 29:00
  videos
• 29:01
  that
• 29:01
  it
• 29:01
  is
• 29:01
  truly
• 29:02
  like,
• 29:02
  absolutely.
• 29:03
  And
• 29:03
  it's
• 29:03
  about
• 29:04
  connecting
• 29:04
  with
• 29:05
  people
• 29:05
  and
• 29:05
  making
• 29:06
  them
• 29:06
  not
• 29:06
  feel
• 29:06
  alone.
• 29:07
  Yeah.
• 29:07
  Which
• 29:08
  is
• 29:08
  so
• 29:09
  huge,
• 29:09
  you
• 29:09
  know,
• 29:10
  And
• 29:10
  I
• 29:10
  think
• 29:10
  we
• 29:10
  have
• 29:10
  to
• 29:10
  like
• 29:11
  do
• 29:11
  more
• 29:11
  of
• 29:12
  this,
• 29:12
  you
• 29:12
  know,
• 29:12
  because
• 29:13
  this,
• 29:13
  this
• 29:14
  time
• 29:14
  is
• 29:14
  so
• 29:14
  crazy,
• 29:15
  isn't
• 29:15
  it?
• 29:15
  The
• 29:16
  midlife.
• 29:16
  Like.
• 29:16
  Yeah.
• 29:17
  So
• 29:17
  bananas,
• 29:17
  just
• 29:18
  right.
• 29:18
  No
• 29:19
  rulebook,
• 29:19
  nothing.
• 29:20
  Yeah,
• 29:20
  exactly.
• 29:20
  Well,
• 29:20
  and
• 29:21
  what's
• 29:21
  so
• 29:21
  interesting
• 29:22
  is
• 29:22
  you
• 29:22
  don't
• 29:22
  have
• 29:22
  to
• 29:22
  be
• 29:23
  the
• 29:23
  same
• 29:23
  religion,
• 29:24
  political
• 29:24
  party,
• 29:25
  gender,
• 29:26
  name
• 29:26
  all
• 29:26
  the
• 29:26
  differences.
• 29:27
  Right.
• 29:27
  To
• 29:28
  be
• 29:28
  kind
• 29:29
  and
• 29:29
  kindness
• 29:30
  is
• 29:30
  universal.
• 29:31
  And
• 29:31
  Suzette
• 29:32
  and
• 29:32
  I
• 29:32
  have
• 29:32
  a
• 29:32
  lot
• 29:33
  of
• 29:33
  differences
• 29:33
  in
• 29:33
  our
• 29:33
  lives
• 29:34
  and
• 29:35
  we
• 29:35
  just
• 29:36
  want
• 29:36
  to
• 29:36
  rally
• 29:37
  around
• 29:37
  that
• 29:38
  simple
• 29:38
  kindness.
• 29:39
  And
• 29:39
  when
• 29:39
  we
• 29:40
  started
• 29:40
  this
• 29:40
  page,
• 29:40
  we
• 29:41
  said
• 29:41
  that
• 29:41
  would
• 29:42
  be
• 29:42
  our
• 29:42
  foundation.
• 29:43
  Is
• 29:43
  it
• 29:43
  kind?
• 29:44
  And
• 29:44
  it
• 29:44
  was
• 29:45
  funny.
• 29:45
  There
• 29:45
  was
• 29:45
  a.
• 29:46
  We
• 29:46
  pass
• 29:47
  along
• 29:47
  lots
• 29:47
  of
• 29:47
  things
• 29:48
  we
• 29:48
  see
• 29:48
  on
• 29:48
  the
• 29:48
  Internet
• 29:48
  because
• 29:49
  the
• 29:49
  Internet's
• 29:49
  a
• 29:49
  funny
• 29:50
  place
• 29:50
  to
• 29:50
  be.
• 29:51
  And
• 29:52
  we.
• 29:52
  I
• 29:52
  remember
• 29:53
  distinctly
• 29:53
  there
• 29:54
  was
• 29:54
  this
• 29:54
  one
• 29:55
  that
• 29:55
  was
• 29:55
  making
• 29:56
  fun.
• 29:57
  It
• 29:57
  was
• 29:57
  a.
• 29:57
  It
• 29:58
  was
• 29:58
  a
• 29:59
  midlifer
• 30:00
  that
• 30:00
  was
• 30:00
  making
• 30:01
  fun
• 30:01
  of
• 30:01
  being
• 30:01
  in
• 30:02
  midlife.
• 30:02
  But
• 30:03
  they
• 30:03
  were
• 30:03
  making
• 30:04
  fun
• 30:04
  of
• 30:04
  a
• 30:05
  music
• 30:06
  artists
• 30:06
  and
• 30:07
  they
• 30:08
  were
• 30:08
  laughing
• 30:08
  along
• 30:08
  with
• 30:09
  it.
• 30:09
  But
• 30:09
  I
• 30:09
  thought,
• 30:09
  gosh,
• 30:10
  if
• 30:10
  we
• 30:10
  put
• 30:10
  that
• 30:10
  out
• 30:10
  there,
• 30:11
  if
• 30:11
  it
• 30:11
  was
• 30:11
  me
• 30:12
  that
• 30:12
  was
• 30:12
  being
• 30:12
  made
• 30:12
  fun
• 30:13
  of,
• 30:13
  I'd
• 30:13
  be
• 30:13
  totally
• 30:13
  fine.
• 30:14
  But
• 30:15
  we
• 30:15
  didn't
• 30:15
  want
• 30:16
  to
• 30:16
  pile
• 30:16
  on
• 30:16
  to
• 30:16
  anybody
• 30:17
  who
• 30:17
  didn't
• 30:18
  know
• 30:18
  they
• 30:18
  were
• 30:18
  part
• 30:18
  of
• 30:18
  the
• 30:19
  joke.
• 30:20
  And
• 30:20
  it
• 30:21
  was
• 30:21
  interesting
• 30:22
  because
• 30:22
  I
• 30:22
  thought
• 30:23
  that
• 30:23
  was
• 30:23
  a
• 30:23
  pivotal
• 30:24
  moment
• 30:24
  really
• 30:25
  early
• 30:25
  on
• 30:25
  to
• 30:25
  be
• 30:26
  like,
• 30:26
  yeah,
• 30:26
  it's
• 30:27
  funny
• 30:27
  if
• 30:28
  it's
• 30:28
  me,
• 30:28
  but
• 30:29
  if
• 30:29
  I'm
• 30:29
  piling
• 30:29
  on
• 30:30
  somebody
• 30:30
  else
• 30:31
  because
• 30:31
  there's
• 30:31
  so
• 30:31
  many
• 30:31
  memes
• 30:32
  out
• 30:32
  there
• 30:32
  and
• 30:32
  you're.
• 30:33
  You
• 30:33
  think,
• 30:33
  oh,
• 30:33
  that's
• 30:33
  super
• 30:34
  funny.
• 30:34
  And
• 30:34
  they're
• 30:34
  making
• 30:34
  fun
• 30:35
  of
• 30:35
  midlife.
• 30:35
  But
• 30:35
  is
• 30:35
  that
• 30:36
  person
• 30:36
  in
• 30:36
  on
• 30:36
  the
• 30:36
  joke?
• 30:37
  Did
• 30:37
  they
• 30:37
  put
• 30:37
  it
• 30:37
  out
• 30:38
  there?
• 30:38
  And
• 30:40
  so
• 30:40
  if
• 30:40
  we're
• 30:41
  more
• 30:41
  than
• 30:41
  happy
• 30:41
  to
• 30:41
  make
• 30:42
  fun
• 30:42
  of
• 30:42
  ourselves
• 30:42
  and
• 30:43
  our
• 30:43
  friends
• 30:43
  if
• 30:43
  they're
• 30:43
  in
• 30:43
  on
• 30:44
  the
• 30:44
  joke.
• 30:44
  But
• 30:45
  we,
• 30:45
  we
• 30:45
  really
• 30:46
  genuinely
• 30:46
  try
• 30:47
  and
• 30:47
  I'm
• 30:47
  sure
• 30:47
  we'll
• 30:47
  screw
• 30:48
  up,
• 30:48
  but
• 30:48
  we
• 30:48
  genuinely
• 30:49
  try
• 30:49
  to
• 30:50
  stay
• 30:50
  in
• 30:50
  our
• 30:50
  lane
• 30:50
  of
• 30:51
  just
• 30:51
  making
• 30:51
  light
• 30:52
  of
• 30:52
  our
• 30:52
  own
• 30:52
  situations
• 30:53
  because
• 30:53
  we
• 30:53
  don't
• 30:53
  know
• 30:54
  what
• 30:54
  somebody
• 30:54
  else
• 30:54
  is
• 30:54
  going
• 30:54
  through.
• 30:55
  Yeah,
• 30:56
  very
• 30:56
  true,
• 30:57
  very
• 30:57
  true.
• 30:58
  Through
• 30:58
  this
• 30:59
  whole
• 30:59
  process
• 30:59
  too.
• 31:00
  Have
• 31:00
  you
• 31:00
  had
• 31:01
  setbacks
• 31:01
  or
• 31:02
  anything?
• 31:02
  That
• 31:02
  made
• 31:02
  you
• 31:03
  question,
• 31:03
  like,
• 31:04
  do
• 31:04
  we
• 31:05
  want
• 31:05
  to
• 31:05
  do
• 31:05
  this?
• 31:05
  Do
• 31:05
  we
• 31:06
  want
• 31:06
  to
• 31:06
  keep
• 31:06
  doing
• 31:06
  this?
• 31:07
  Like,
• 31:07
  were
• 31:07
  there
• 31:07
  any
• 31:07
  bumps
• 31:08
  in
• 31:08
  the
• 31:08
  road
• 31:08
  or
• 31:08
  anything
• 31:09
  to
• 31:09
  make
• 31:09
  you
• 31:09
  kind
• 31:10
  of
• 31:10
  question
• 31:10
  things?
• 31:11
  I
• 31:12
  think
• 31:12
  the
• 31:12
  truth
• 31:12
  of
• 31:12
  the
• 31:12
  matter
• 31:13
  is,
• 31:13
  is
• 31:13
  we're
• 31:13
  just
• 31:14
  two
• 31:14
  idiots
• 31:14
  bumbling
• 31:15
  along
• 31:15
  trying
• 31:15
  to
• 31:15
  figure
• 31:16
  this
• 31:16
  out.
• 31:16
  We
• 31:16
  don't
• 31:16
  know
• 31:17
  what
• 31:17
  we're
• 31:17
  doing.
• 31:17
  You
• 31:17
  know
• 31:17
  what
• 31:18
  I
• 31:18
  mean?
• 31:18
  You
• 31:18
  know,
• 31:18
  this,
• 31:19
  this
• 31:19
  is,
• 31:19
  this
• 31:19
  is
• 31:19
  a
• 31:20
  job,
• 31:20
  an
• 31:20
  influencer,
• 31:21
  content
• 31:21
  creator,
• 31:22
  whatever,
• 31:22
  didn't
• 31:22
  exist,
• 31:23
  you
• 31:23
  know,
• 31:24
  30
• 31:24
  years
• 31:24
  ago.
• 31:26
  So
• 31:26
  that,
• 31:26
  that
• 31:27
  has
• 31:27
  been.
• 31:28
  We
• 31:28
  have
• 31:28
  learned
• 31:29
  some,
• 31:29
  some
• 31:29
  big
• 31:30
  lessons
• 31:30
  that
• 31:30
  way,
• 31:31
  like,
• 31:31
  ooh,
• 31:32
  oh,
• 31:32
  yeah,
• 31:32
  we
• 31:32
  messed
• 31:33
  up,
• 31:33
  you
• 31:34
  know,
• 31:34
  or.
• 31:35
  But
• 31:35
  I
• 31:36
  don't
• 31:36
  think
• 31:36
  there's
• 31:36
  been
• 31:36
  anything
• 31:37
  that's
• 31:37
  been
• 31:37
  like,
• 31:37
  yeah,
• 31:38
  we
• 31:38
  should,
• 31:38
  we
• 31:38
  should
• 31:39
  cut
• 31:39
  this
• 31:39
  out.
• 31:39
  It's,
• 31:40
  we're
• 31:40
  done.
• 31:41
  If
• 31:41
  anything,
• 31:41
  I
• 31:42
  feel
• 31:42
  like
• 31:43
  it's
• 31:43
  gotten
• 31:44
  more
• 31:44
  and
• 31:44
  more
• 31:45
  welcoming
• 31:46
  and
• 31:46
  more
• 31:46
  and
• 31:47
  more
• 31:47
  people
• 31:47
  in
• 31:47
  this
• 31:48
  community.
• 31:48
  So
• 31:48
  it's
• 31:49
  kind
• 31:49
  of
• 31:49
  been
• 31:49
  encouraging
• 31:50
  in
• 31:50
  my
• 31:50
  view.
• 31:51
  And
• 31:51
  we've
• 31:52
  had
• 31:52
  a
• 31:52
  really
• 31:53
  non
• 31:53
  typical
• 31:54
  ride.
• 31:54
  This
• 31:55
  has
• 31:55
  been
• 31:55
  extremely
• 31:56
  fast
• 31:57
  paced.
• 31:58
  We
• 31:59
  hit
• 31:59
  50,000
• 32:00
  followers
• 32:01
  in
• 32:01
  June
• 32:02
  and
• 32:02
  we're
• 32:03
  over
• 32:04
  400,000
• 32:05
  right
• 32:05
  now.
• 32:06
  So
• 32:07
  we
• 32:08
  are
• 32:09
  gratefully
• 32:10
  along
• 32:10
  for
• 32:10
  the
• 32:10
  ride,
• 32:11
  but
• 32:12
  we're
• 32:13
  building
• 32:13
  the
• 32:13
  ship
• 32:14
  as
• 32:14
  we're
• 32:14
  going,
• 32:15
  and
• 32:16
  sometimes
• 32:16
  we
• 32:16
  don't
• 32:17
  have
• 32:17
  an
• 32:17
  engine,
• 32:17
  sometimes
• 32:18
  we
• 32:18
  don't
• 32:18
  have
• 32:18
  a
• 32:19
  sail.
• 32:19
  We
• 32:19
  don't
• 32:19
  know
• 32:19
  what
• 32:20
  we're
• 32:20
  doing.
• 32:20
  And
• 32:20
  we
• 32:21
  just
• 32:21
  are
• 32:21
  grateful
• 32:21
  for
• 32:22
  the
• 32:22
  grace
• 32:22
  of
• 32:22
  people
• 32:22
  willing
• 32:23
  to
• 32:23
  take
• 32:24
  this
• 32:24
  ride
• 32:24
  with
• 32:24
  us
• 32:25
  and
• 32:25
  laugh
• 32:25
  with
• 32:26
  us
• 32:26
  and
• 32:28
  accept
• 32:28
  that
• 32:29
  we
• 32:29
  sent
• 32:29
  a
• 32:29
  zoom
• 32:29
  link
• 32:30
  out
• 32:30
  for
• 32:30
  the
• 32:30
  wrong
• 32:31
  day,
• 32:31
  you
• 32:32
  know,
• 32:32
  or.
• 32:32
  Or
• 32:32
  that
• 32:33
  our
• 32:33
  equipment
• 32:33
  doesn't
• 32:33
  always
• 32:34
  work
• 32:34
  or
• 32:34
  whatever.
• 32:35
  Yeah,
• 32:36
  we
• 32:36
  are
• 32:36
  just
• 32:36
  grateful
• 32:37
  and
• 32:37
  we
• 32:38
  will
• 32:38
  do
• 32:39
  the
• 32:39
  best
• 32:39
  we
• 32:39
  can.
• 32:41
  Yeah,
• 32:41
  I
• 32:41
  think,
• 32:41
  you
• 32:41
  know,
• 32:42
  a
• 32:42
  lot
• 32:42
  of
• 32:42
  times
• 32:42
  I
• 32:43
  think
• 32:43
  that
• 32:43
  that's
• 32:43
  almost
• 32:43
  the
• 32:44
  best
• 32:44
  way
• 32:44
  to
• 32:44
  do
• 32:45
  it,
• 32:45
  is
• 32:45
  to
• 32:45
  kind
• 32:45
  of
• 32:46
  just
• 32:46
  figure
• 32:47
  it
• 32:47
  out
• 32:47
  as
• 32:47
  you
• 32:48
  go.
• 32:48
  I
• 32:48
  mean,
• 32:49
  particularly
• 32:50
  with
• 32:50
  this
• 32:50
  kind
• 32:50
  of
• 32:50
  a
• 32:51
  thing
• 32:51
  and
• 32:51
  social
• 32:51
  media
• 32:52
  and
• 32:52
  like,
• 32:53
  just
• 32:53
  trying
• 32:53
  to
• 32:53
  figure
• 32:54
  it
• 32:54
  out
• 32:54
  as
• 32:54
  you
• 32:54
  go.
• 32:55
  And
• 32:55
  mistakes
• 32:55
  can
• 32:56
  be
• 32:57
  such
• 32:57
  great
• 32:57
  learning
• 32:58
  tools,
• 32:58
  right?
• 32:59
  Oh,
• 32:59
  totally.
• 32:59
  You're
• 33:00
  a
• 33:00
  pro.
• 33:00
  If
• 33:00
  you
• 33:00
  have
• 33:00
  other
• 33:00
  tips,
• 33:01
  we
• 33:01
  can
• 33:01
  talk
• 33:02
  offline.
• 33:02
  Like,
• 33:03
  here's
• 33:03
  what
• 33:03
  you
• 33:03
  need
• 33:03
  to
• 33:03
  do
• 33:04
  this.
• 33:04
  I,
• 33:04
  I
• 33:05
  see
• 33:05
  this.
• 33:05
  And
• 33:06
  yeah,
• 33:06
  911
• 33:07
  fixes.
• 33:08
  I
• 33:09
  love
• 33:09
  it.
• 33:09
  Oh
• 33:10
  my
• 33:10
  God.
• 33:10
  Dying,
• 33:11
  you
• 33:11
  know,
• 33:12
  And
• 33:12
  I
• 33:12
  think
• 33:12
  too,
• 33:13
  I'm
• 33:13
  just
• 33:13
  going
• 33:13
  for
• 33:14
  it.
• 33:14
  Like,
• 33:15
  I
• 33:15
  think
• 33:15
  so
• 33:15
  many
• 33:16
  women,
• 33:16
  especially
• 33:16
  in
• 33:17
  midlife,
• 33:17
  you
• 33:18
  know,
• 33:18
  are
• 33:18
  watching
• 33:18
  or
• 33:19
  listening
• 33:19
  and
• 33:19
  maybe
• 33:20
  have
• 33:20
  ideas
• 33:20
  of
• 33:20
  their
• 33:21
  own
• 33:21
  that
• 33:21
  they
• 33:22
  want
• 33:22
  to
• 33:22
  jump
• 33:22
  into
• 33:23
  or
• 33:23
  create
• 33:23
  something
• 33:24
  new
• 33:24
  or
• 33:24
  do
• 33:24
  something
• 33:25
  different,
• 33:25
  but
• 33:26
  fear
• 33:26
  holds
• 33:26
  them
• 33:27
  back.
• 33:27
  So
• 33:28
  what
• 33:28
  do
• 33:28
  you
• 33:28
  say
• 33:29
  to
• 33:29
  those
• 33:29
  women,
• 33:29
  the
• 33:30
  ones
• 33:30
  that
• 33:30
  feel
• 33:30
  stuck
• 33:31
  and
• 33:31
  like,
• 33:32
  maybe
• 33:32
  that
• 33:32
  fear
• 33:33
  is
• 33:33
  holding
• 33:33
  them
• 33:34
  back
• 33:34
  from
• 33:34
  doing
• 33:34
  what
• 33:35
  they
• 33:35
  truly
• 33:35
  want
• 33:35
  to
• 33:35
  do.
• 33:36
  It's
• 33:36
  never
• 33:37
  too
• 33:37
  late.
• 33:38
  Yeah.
• 33:39
  Early
• 33:39
  on,
• 33:39
  we
• 33:40
  had
• 33:40
  had
• 33:40
  a
• 33:40
  couple
• 33:41
  folks
• 33:41
  and
• 33:41
  we
• 33:41
  should
• 33:42
  probably
• 33:42
  bring
• 33:42
  this
• 33:42
  back
• 33:42
  up
• 33:42
  again.
• 33:43
  A
• 33:44
  couple
• 33:44
  friends
• 33:44
  of
• 33:44
  ours
• 33:44
  who
• 33:45
  went
• 33:45
  to
• 33:45
  law
• 33:45
  school
• 33:46
  as
• 33:46
  a
• 33:46
  kind
• 33:46
  of
• 33:47
  a
• 33:47
  midlife
• 33:47
  thing
• 33:47
  or
• 33:48
  went
• 33:48
  to
• 33:48
  nursing
• 33:48
  school
• 33:48
  as
• 33:49
  kind
• 33:49
  of
• 33:49
  a
• 33:49
  midlife
• 33:50
  thing.
• 33:50
  And,
• 33:51
  you
• 33:52
  know,
• 33:52
  giving
• 33:53
  their
• 33:53
  story
• 33:53
  and
• 33:54
  acknowledging
• 33:54
  that
• 33:54
  it's
• 33:55
  a
• 33:55
  big
• 33:55
  scary
• 33:56
  change,
• 33:56
  but
• 33:57
  they
• 33:57
  can
• 33:57
  do
• 33:58
  it.
• 33:58
  And
• 33:58
  I,
• 33:59
  I
• 34:00
  am
• 34:00
  so
• 34:00
  encouraged.
• 34:01
  I
• 34:01
  love
• 34:01
  stories
• 34:02
  like
• 34:02
  that
• 34:02
  because
• 34:03
  as
• 34:04
  long
• 34:04
  as
• 34:04
  you
• 34:04
  got
• 34:04
  tomorrow,
• 34:05
  you
• 34:05
  got,
• 34:05
  you
• 34:05
  got
• 34:06
  another
• 34:06
  day
• 34:06
  to
• 34:06
  do
• 34:07
  something
• 34:07
  different,
• 34:07
  you
• 34:07
  know,
• 34:08
  and
• 34:09
  that's
• 34:09
  kind
• 34:09
  of
• 34:09
  the
• 34:10
  beauty
• 34:10
  of
• 34:10
  midlife.
• 34:10
  Perhaps
• 34:11
  you
• 34:11
  have
• 34:11
  more
• 34:12
  income,
• 34:13
  perhaps
• 34:13
  you
• 34:13
  have
• 34:13
  more
• 34:14
  time
• 34:14
  to
• 34:14
  yourself.
• 34:16
  These
• 34:16
  are
• 34:16
  great
• 34:16
  times
• 34:17
  to
• 34:17
  start
• 34:17
  exploring.
• 34:18
  What
• 34:18
  do
• 34:18
  you
• 34:18
  want
• 34:18
  to
• 34:18
  do?
• 34:19
  What
• 34:19
  would
• 34:19
  make
• 34:19
  you
• 34:20
  happy?
• 34:20
  You
• 34:20
  know,
• 34:21
  it
• 34:21
  is
• 34:21
  so
• 34:21
  important
• 34:22
  to
• 34:22
  focus
• 34:22
  on
• 34:22
  yourself.
• 34:23
  Yeah.
• 34:23
  Especially
• 34:24
  now
• 34:25
  because
• 34:25
  we've
• 34:25
  given
• 34:26
  so
• 34:26
  much
• 34:27
  to
• 34:27
  everybody
• 34:27
  else.
• 34:28
  You
• 34:28
  know,
• 34:28
  it's
• 34:29
  like
• 34:29
  partners,
• 34:29
  kids,
• 34:30
  jobs,
• 34:31
  you
• 34:31
  know,
• 34:31
  friends,
• 34:31
  whatever
• 34:32
  it
• 34:32
  is.
• 34:32
  And
• 34:32
  it's.
• 34:33
  And
• 34:33
  we're
• 34:33
  not
• 34:33
  done
• 34:33
  either.
• 34:34
  That's
• 34:34
  the
• 34:34
  beauty,
• 34:34
  you
• 34:34
  know,
• 34:34
  again,
• 34:35
  that's
• 34:35
  the
• 34:35
  part
• 34:35
  of
• 34:35
  being
• 34:35
  in
• 34:35
  the
• 34:36
  middle.
• 34:36
  You're
• 34:36
  not
• 34:36
  the
• 34:36
  older
• 34:37
  generation
• 34:38
  where
• 34:38
  you're
• 34:38
  like
• 34:38
  really
• 34:38
  starting
• 34:39
  to
• 34:39
  think
• 34:39
  about
• 34:39
  your
• 34:39
  sunset
• 34:40
  years.
• 34:40
  We
• 34:41
  have
• 34:41
  a
• 34:41
  lot
• 34:41
  of
• 34:41
  life
• 34:42
  to
• 34:42
  live,
• 34:42
  you
• 34:42
  know,
• 34:43
  God
• 34:43
  willing.
• 34:43
  So
• 34:43
  it's.
• 34:45
  Why
• 34:45
  not
• 34:45
  do
• 34:46
  something
• 34:46
  you
• 34:46
  love?
• 34:47
  Yeah.
• 34:47
  Why
• 34:47
  not
• 34:48
  get
• 34:48
  out
• 34:48
  there
• 34:48
  and
• 34:48
  do
• 34:49
  it?
• 34:49
  So
• 34:50
  what
• 34:50
  do
• 34:50
  you
• 34:50
  guys
• 34:51
  think
• 34:51
  is
• 34:51
  the
• 34:51
  most
• 34:52
  misunderstood
• 34:53
  thing
• 34:53
  about
• 34:54
  women
• 34:54
  in
• 34:54
  midlife
• 34:55
  that
• 34:55
  you
• 34:55
  like
• 34:56
  to
• 34:56
  expose
• 34:57
  through
• 34:57
  humor?
• 34:58
  Most
• 34:58
  misunderstood?
• 35:00
  Yeah.
• 35:02
  That
• 35:02
  were
• 35:02
  boring.
• 35:03
  Oh,
• 35:04
  I
• 35:05
  think,
• 35:05
  I
• 35:06
  think,
• 35:06
  I
• 35:06
  thought
• 35:07
  50
• 35:08
  year
• 35:08
  old
• 35:08
  women
• 35:08
  were
• 35:09
  pretty
• 35:10
  flat.
• 35:11
  And
• 35:12
  if
• 35:12
  you
• 35:13
  get
• 35:14
  our
• 35:14
  friends
• 35:14
  together,
• 35:15
  there
• 35:16
  is
• 35:16
  nothing
• 35:16
  flat
• 35:17
  there.
• 35:18
  There
• 35:18
  is
• 35:18
  so
• 35:18
  much
• 35:19
  laughter,
• 35:19
  so
• 35:19
  much
• 35:20
  engagement.
• 35:20
  And
• 35:20
  I
• 35:20
  also
• 35:21
  think
• 35:22
  because
• 35:22
  we
• 35:22
  didn't
• 35:22
  grow
• 35:22
  up
• 35:23
  with
• 35:23
  screens,
• 35:23
  we
• 35:24
  know
• 35:24
  how
• 35:24
  to
• 35:24
  entertain
• 35:25
  ourselves.
• 35:25
  We
• 35:26
  just
• 35:26
  did
• 35:27
  a
• 35:27
  event
• 35:27
  at
• 35:28
  a
• 35:28
  pickleball
• 35:29
  place
• 35:29
  and
• 35:29
  everybody
• 35:30
  came
• 35:30
  in
• 35:30
  inflatable
• 35:31
  costumes
• 35:33
  and
• 35:33
  we
• 35:33
  laughed
• 35:34
  all
• 35:34
  night
• 35:35
  long.
• 35:36
  But
• 35:36
  that
• 35:36
  creativity
• 35:38
  came
• 35:38
  with
• 35:38
  years
• 35:39
  of
• 35:40
  party
• 35:41
  planning
• 35:41
  and
• 35:41
  fun
• 35:42
  and
• 35:42
  being
• 35:42
  interesting
• 35:43
  and,
• 35:44
  And
• 35:44
  I
• 35:44
  don't,
• 35:45
  I
• 35:45
  think
• 35:46
  middle
• 35:46
  aged
• 35:47
  women
• 35:47
  are
• 35:48
  downplayed.
• 35:49
  Like
• 35:50
  they're
• 35:50
  tired,
• 35:51
  they're
• 35:51
  grumpy,
• 35:52
  they're
• 35:53
  just,
• 35:53
  they're.
• 35:54
  They're
• 35:55
  done.
• 35:55
  Well,
• 35:55
  they're
• 35:56
  done
• 35:56
  with
• 35:58
  stuff
• 35:58
  they
• 35:58
  don't
• 35:58
  want
• 35:58
  to
• 35:59
  deal
• 35:59
  with,
• 35:59
  but
• 35:59
  they're
• 35:59
  not
• 36:00
  done.
• 36:00
  They're
• 36:00
  really
• 36:01
  fun
• 36:01
  and
• 36:01
  they're
• 36:02
  interesting
• 36:02
  because
• 36:02
  they've
• 36:03
  lived
• 36:03
  a
• 36:03
  life
• 36:04
  and
• 36:04
  they
• 36:05
  can
• 36:05
  entertain
• 36:06
  and
• 36:06
  they
• 36:06
  can
• 36:07
  have
• 36:07
  interesting
• 36:08
  conversations.
• 36:08
  So
• 36:09
  I
• 36:09
  think
• 36:09
  that
• 36:09
  would
• 36:10
  probably
• 36:10
  be
• 36:10
  my
• 36:10
  biggest
• 36:11
  one.
• 36:11
  I
• 36:11
  think
• 36:12
  just
• 36:12
  even
• 36:13
  thinking
• 36:13
  about
• 36:13
  previous
• 36:14
  generations,
• 36:15
  I
• 36:15
  think
• 36:16
  there
• 36:16
  were
• 36:16
  pockets
• 36:17
  of
• 36:17
  those
• 36:17
  sorts
• 36:17
  of
• 36:18
  things.
• 36:18
  But
• 36:18
  I
• 36:18
  think
• 36:19
  something
• 36:19
  that's
• 36:19
  so
• 36:19
  wonderful
• 36:20
  about
• 36:20
  being
• 36:20
  in
• 36:20
  midlife
• 36:21
  now
• 36:21
  is
• 36:22
  we
• 36:22
  can
• 36:22
  take
• 36:22
  up
• 36:22
  space.
• 36:23
  We,
• 36:24
  we
• 36:24
  can
• 36:24
  be
• 36:25
  in
• 36:25
  those
• 36:25
  places.
• 36:26
  We
• 36:26
  can
• 36:27
  have,
• 36:27
  you
• 36:28
  know,
• 36:28
  we
• 36:28
  can
• 36:28
  live
• 36:29
  out
• 36:29
  loud
• 36:30
  again.
• 36:30
  I
• 36:31
  think
• 36:31
  our
• 36:31
  parents
• 36:32
  generation
• 36:32
  had
• 36:33
  those
• 36:33
  times
• 36:33
  when
• 36:33
  they
• 36:33
  would
• 36:33
  have
• 36:34
  the
• 36:34
  gals
• 36:34
  over
• 36:34
  and
• 36:34
  play
• 36:35
  cards
• 36:35
  or
• 36:35
  whatever.
• 36:36
  And
• 36:36
  again,
• 36:37
  it's
• 36:37
  never
• 36:37
  fair
• 36:38
  when
• 36:38
  you
• 36:38
  overgeneralize.
• 36:39
  So
• 36:39
  of
• 36:40
  course
• 36:40
  there
• 36:40
  were
• 36:40
  exceptions
• 36:41
  to
• 36:41
  this.
• 36:41
  But,
• 36:42
  you
• 36:42
  know,
• 36:42
  now
• 36:43
  I
• 36:43
  think
• 36:44
  I'm
• 36:44
  gonna
• 36:44
  go
• 36:45
  do
• 36:45
  whatever,
• 36:46
  not,
• 36:46
  no
• 36:46
  apologies,
• 36:47
  take
• 36:47
  up
• 36:48
  that
• 36:48
  space,
• 36:48
  be.
• 36:49
  Be
• 36:49
  who
• 36:50
  I
• 36:50
  want
• 36:50
  to
• 36:50
  be
• 36:52
  and
• 36:52
  be
• 36:53
  happy
• 36:53
  about
• 36:53
  that.
• 36:54
  Yes.
• 36:54
  And
• 36:55
  the,
• 36:55
  like,
• 36:56
  we
• 36:56
  have
• 36:56
  no
• 36:56
  room
• 36:56
  for
• 36:57
  it
• 36:57
  anymore.
• 36:57
  Right.
• 36:58
  It's
• 36:58
  like
• 36:58
  such
• 36:58
  a
• 36:58
  great
• 36:59
  gift
• 36:59
  of
• 36:59
  midlife.
• 36:59
  Yeah,
• 37:00
  right.
• 37:01
  Yeah,
• 37:01
  right.
• 37:01
  It's
• 37:02
  like,
• 37:02
  okay,
• 37:02
  we
• 37:03
  don't
• 37:03
  have
• 37:03
  time.
• 37:03
  We,
• 37:04
  our
• 37:04
  time
• 37:04
  is
• 37:04
  more
• 37:05
  intentional.
• 37:06
  It's
• 37:06
  so
• 37:07
  valuable.
• 37:07
  And
• 37:08
  it's
• 37:08
  like,
• 37:08
  why
• 37:08
  are
• 37:08
  we
• 37:09
  spending
• 37:09
  time
• 37:09
  on
• 37:09
  any
• 37:10
  bullshit?
• 37:10
  Because
• 37:10
  I'm
• 37:11
  like,
• 37:11
  I
• 37:11
  am
• 37:12
  done
• 37:12
  with
• 37:12
  that,
• 37:12
  you
• 37:13
  know,
• 37:13
  and
• 37:14
  we
• 37:14
  shouldn't
• 37:14
  feel
• 37:14
  bad
• 37:15
  to
• 37:15
  say
• 37:15
  no,
• 37:15
  should
• 37:16
  we?
• 37:16
  Nope,
• 37:17
  nope,
• 37:17
  nope.
• 37:18
  Just
• 37:18
  wear
• 37:18
  a
• 37:18
  hat.
• 37:19
  Nope,
• 37:19
  nope.
• 37:20
  Yeah,
• 37:20
  I
• 37:21
  know,
• 37:21
  I
• 37:21
  saw
• 37:21
  that.
• 37:21
  I'm
• 37:22
  definitely
• 37:22
  ordering
• 37:23
  your
• 37:23
  guys
• 37:23
  hat
• 37:23
  because
• 37:23
  that's
• 37:24
  a
• 37:24
  good
• 37:24
  one.
• 37:24
  I'm
• 37:24
  like
• 37:24
  the.
• 37:25
  No,
• 37:25
  like,
• 37:26
  yeah,
• 37:26
  that's
• 37:26
  it.
• 37:27
  Full
• 37:27
  sentence.
• 37:28
  Yep.
• 37:28
  Yes.
• 37:29
  Yeah,
• 37:29
  yes.
• 37:30
  We
• 37:30
  don't
• 37:31
  need
• 37:31
  to
• 37:31
  explain
• 37:32
  ourselves,
• 37:33
  right?
• 37:33
  I
• 37:33
  mean,
• 37:33
  it's
• 37:33
  like
• 37:34
  there's
• 37:34
  so
• 37:34
  many
• 37:34
  gifts
• 37:35
  that
• 37:35
  come
• 37:35
  with
• 37:35
  this.
• 37:36
  Totally.
• 37:36
  And
• 37:37
  I
• 37:37
  think
• 37:37
  that's
• 37:37
  something
• 37:38
  we
• 37:38
  love
• 37:38
  to
• 37:38
  highlight
• 37:38
  too,
• 37:39
  is,
• 37:39
  gosh,
• 37:40
  maybe
• 37:40
  your
• 37:40
  eyesight
• 37:41
  is
• 37:41
  failing,
• 37:41
  maybe
• 37:42
  your
• 37:43
  dealing
• 37:43
  with
• 37:43
  a
• 37:43
  health
• 37:43
  crisis
• 37:44
  or
• 37:44
  you've
• 37:44
  got,
• 37:45
  you
• 37:45
  know,
• 37:45
  elderly
• 37:46
  parents
• 37:46
  who
• 37:46
  are
• 37:47
  struggling.
• 37:47
  But
• 37:47
  gosh,
• 37:48
  there
• 37:48
  are
• 37:49
  some
• 37:49
  good
• 37:50
  sunshiny
• 37:51
  parts
• 37:51
  of
• 37:51
  being
• 37:51
  a
• 37:51
  midlifer
• 37:52
  and
• 37:52
  you've
• 37:53
  got
• 37:53
  to
• 37:53
  hold
• 37:53
  onto
• 37:53
  those.
• 37:54
  Yes,
• 37:55
  100%.
• 37:55
  Now,
• 37:56
  you
• 37:56
  guys
• 37:57
  mentioned
• 37:57
  aging
• 37:58
  parents.
• 37:58
  Are
• 37:59
  you
• 37:59
  guys
• 37:59
  both
• 37:59
  dealing
• 38:00
  with
• 38:00
  that
• 38:00
  right
• 38:00
  now?
• 38:01
  And
• 38:01
  what
• 38:01
  does
• 38:01
  that
• 38:02
  look
• 38:02
  like?
• 38:02
  If
• 38:02
  so.
• 38:03
  Well,
• 38:04
  yes,
• 38:04
  and
• 38:05
  it
• 38:05
  is.
• 38:06
  We've
• 38:06
  got
• 38:06
  two
• 38:06
  sets
• 38:07
  of
• 38:07
  parents
• 38:07
  in
• 38:07
  my
• 38:07
  life.
• 38:08
  That
• 38:09
  one
• 38:09
  set
• 38:09
  is
• 38:09
  still
• 38:10
  single,
• 38:10
  water
• 38:11
  skiing
• 38:11
  and
• 38:11
  very
• 38:12
  active,
• 38:13
  and
• 38:14
  the
• 38:14
  other
• 38:15
  set
• 38:15
  is
• 38:16
  physically
• 38:17
  ailing.
• 38:17
  And
• 38:17
  it
• 38:18
  is
• 38:18
  really
• 38:18
  hard
• 38:19
  because
• 38:19
  you're
• 38:20
  watching
• 38:20
  people
• 38:20
  that
• 38:20
  you
• 38:21
  love
• 38:22
  struggle
• 38:23
  physically
• 38:24
  and
• 38:25
  mentally
• 38:25
  in
• 38:26
  a
• 38:26
  lot
• 38:26
  of
• 38:26
  cases,
• 38:27
  and
• 38:27
  you
• 38:28
  want
• 38:28
  to
• 38:28
  hold
• 38:28
  on
• 38:29
  to
• 38:29
  exactly
• 38:30
  who
• 38:30
  they
• 38:30
  were.
• 38:31
  Just
• 38:31
  like
• 38:32
  a
• 38:32
  lot
• 38:32
  of
• 38:32
  times
• 38:32
  we,
• 38:33
  we
• 38:33
  catch
• 38:33
  this
• 38:33
  memory
• 38:34
  of
• 38:34
  who
• 38:34
  we
• 38:34
  were.
• 38:36
  And
• 38:36
  yet
• 38:36
  you
• 38:37
  also
• 38:37
  need
• 38:37
  to
• 38:37
  embrace
• 38:38
  that
• 38:38
  we're
• 38:39
  all
• 38:39
  mortal
• 38:39
  and
• 38:41
  how
• 38:41
  to
• 38:42
  allow
• 38:42
  people
• 38:43
  to
• 38:43
  live
• 38:43
  with
• 38:43
  dignity
• 38:45
  and
• 38:47
  when
• 38:47
  time
• 38:48
  go
• 38:48
  to
• 38:48
  the
• 38:49
  places
• 38:49
  they
• 38:49
  need
• 38:49
  to
• 38:49
  go
• 38:50
  and
• 38:50
  with
• 38:50
  dignity.
• 38:51
  So,
• 38:52
  yeah,
• 38:52
  it's
• 38:53
  hard.
• 38:53
  I
• 38:53
  had
• 38:53
  a
• 38:53
  friend
• 38:54
  over
• 38:54
  here
• 38:54
  last
• 38:54
  night
• 38:55
  talking
• 38:55
  about
• 38:55
  how
• 38:56
  they
• 38:56
  feel
• 38:56
  like
• 38:56
  a
• 38:56
  full
• 38:57
  time
• 38:57
  caregiver
• 38:57
  to
• 38:58
  their
• 38:58
  parent
• 38:59
  who
• 38:59
  is
• 38:59
  now
• 39:00
  going
• 39:00
  to
• 39:00
  two
• 39:00
  and
• 39:01
  three
• 39:01
  doctor's
• 39:01
  appointments
• 39:02
  a
• 39:02
  week
• 39:03
  and
• 39:03
  they're
• 39:03
  still
• 39:03
  trying
• 39:03
  to
• 39:04
  raise
• 39:04
  their
• 39:04
  own
• 39:04
  family
• 39:05
  and
• 39:05
  make
• 39:05
  money
• 39:06
  and,
• 39:06
  and
• 39:07
  yet
• 39:07
  they
• 39:07
  want
• 39:07
  to
• 39:07
  give
• 39:08
  the
• 39:08
  dignity
• 39:08
  their
• 39:08
  parents
• 39:09
  to
• 39:09
  be
• 39:09
  able
• 39:10
  to
• 39:10
  take
• 39:10
  them
• 39:10
  to
• 39:11
  the
• 39:11
  doctor's
• 39:11
  appointments.
• 39:12
  So
• 39:12
  this
• 39:12
  sandwich
• 39:13
  feeling
• 39:13
  of
• 39:13
  midlife
• 39:14
  can
• 39:14
  sometimes
• 39:15
  pull
• 39:16
  where
• 39:16
  you
• 39:16
  want
• 39:17
  to
• 39:17
  provide
• 39:18
  everyone
• 39:19
  with
• 39:19
  what
• 39:20
  they
• 39:20
  desire
• 39:21
  and
• 39:21
  deserve
• 39:22
  and
• 39:23
  yet
• 39:23
  you're
• 39:24
  stuck
• 39:25
  in
• 39:25
  the
• 39:25
  middle
• 39:26
  needing
• 39:26
  to
• 39:27
  take
• 39:27
  care
• 39:27
  of
• 39:27
  yourself
• 39:27
  too.
• 39:28
  You
• 39:29
  know,
• 39:29
  my
• 39:29
  mom
• 39:29
  is
• 39:29
  very
• 39:29
  healthy
• 39:30
  and
• 39:30
  my,
• 39:30
  but
• 39:31
  my
• 39:31
  dad
• 39:31
  is
• 39:31
  dealing
• 39:32
  with
• 39:32
  some
• 39:32
  health,
• 39:32
  like
• 39:33
  serious
• 39:33
  health
• 39:33
  issues.
• 39:34
  And
• 39:35
  yeah,
• 39:35
  I
• 39:35
  mean,
• 39:36
  I
• 39:36
  just,
• 39:36
  I,
• 39:36
  you
• 39:36
  know,
• 39:37
  you
• 39:37
  look
• 39:37
  at
• 39:37
  these,
• 39:38
  you
• 39:38
  know,
• 39:38
  parents
• 39:38
  and
• 39:39
  you
• 39:39
  think,
• 39:39
  gosh,
• 39:40
  when
• 39:40
  you're
• 39:40
  young,
• 39:40
  you're
• 39:41
  like,
• 39:41
  they'll,
• 39:41
  they're
• 39:41
  like
• 39:42
  super
• 39:42
  parents,
• 39:42
  you
• 39:43
  know,
• 39:43
  like
• 39:43
  Superman
• 39:44
  and
• 39:44
  superwoman
• 39:44
  and
• 39:45
  you
• 39:45
  know,
• 39:45
  they're
• 39:45
  so
• 39:45
  strong
• 39:46
  and
• 39:46
  able
• 39:46
  bodied
• 39:47
  and
• 39:47
  like,
• 39:48
  you
• 39:48
  know,
• 39:48
  take
• 39:49
  care
• 39:49
  of
• 39:49
  you.
• 39:49
  And
• 39:50
  then
• 39:50
  when
• 39:50
  the
• 39:50
  tables
• 39:51
  get
• 39:51
  turned
• 39:52
  and
• 39:52
  you're
• 39:53
  in
• 39:53
  the
• 39:53
  caregiving
• 39:54
  position,
• 39:55
  it's
• 39:55
  like,
• 39:56
  it's
• 39:56
  wild,
• 39:57
  you
• 39:57
  know,
• 39:57
  you
• 39:58
  just,
• 39:58
  it
• 39:58
  is,
• 39:58
  right?
• 39:59
  Isn't
• 39:59
  it?
• 39:59
  You
• 39:59
  just,
• 40:00
  and
• 40:00
  you
• 40:00
  see
• 40:01
  them
• 40:01
  just
• 40:01
  progressively
• 40:02
  getting,
• 40:02
  you
• 40:02
  know,
• 40:03
  older
• 40:03
  and
• 40:03
  maybe
• 40:04
  sicker
• 40:04
  and
• 40:05
  it
• 40:05
  just,
• 40:06
  it's
• 40:06
  a,
• 40:07
  it
• 40:07
  really
• 40:07
  messes
• 40:08
  with
• 40:08
  your
• 40:08
  mind,
• 40:08
  you
• 40:09
  know,
• 40:09
  like,
• 40:09
  it's,
• 40:10
  it's
• 40:10
  crazy,
• 40:10
  right?
• 40:11
  Yeah,
• 40:11
  well,
• 40:12
  and
• 40:12
  ultimately
• 40:12
  there's
• 40:13
  love
• 40:13
  there,
• 40:13
  right?
• 40:14
  That
• 40:14
  it's
• 40:15
  an
• 40:15
  emotional
• 40:16
  love
• 40:16
  and
• 40:16
  dignity
• 40:17
  that
• 40:17
  you
• 40:17
  want
• 40:17
  to
• 40:17
  give
• 40:18
  everybody
• 40:18
  that
• 40:18
  you
• 40:18
  hope
• 40:19
  will
• 40:19
  also
• 40:19
  be
• 40:19
  returned
• 40:20
  to
• 40:20
  you.
• 40:20
  But
• 40:21
  there's
• 40:21
  no
• 40:21
  way
• 40:21
  to
• 40:21
  get
• 40:22
  out
• 40:22
  of
• 40:22
  this
• 40:22
  earth
• 40:22
  except
• 40:23
  for
• 40:23
  dying.
• 40:24
  So
• 40:24
  we're
• 40:24
  all
• 40:24
  going
• 40:25
  to
• 40:25
  go
• 40:25
  through
• 40:25
  it
• 40:25
  once
• 40:26
  we
• 40:26
  get
• 40:26
  here.
• 40:26
  It's
• 40:26
  kind
• 40:26
  of
• 40:27
  a
• 40:27
  contract
• 40:27
  we
• 40:28
  make.
• 40:28
  So
• 40:29
  it's
• 40:29
  figuring
• 40:30
  out
• 40:30
  how
• 40:30
  to
• 40:30
  navigate
• 40:31
  that
• 40:31
  in
• 40:31
  the
• 40:31
  most
• 40:31
  respectful
• 40:32
  and
• 40:32
  loving
• 40:32
  way.
• 40:33
  But
• 40:34
  see,
• 40:34
  this
• 40:34
  is
• 40:34
  another
• 40:35
  situation
• 40:35
  where
• 40:36
  we
• 40:36
  can
• 40:36
  make,
• 40:36
  you
• 40:37
  know,
• 40:38
  find
• 40:39
  some
• 40:39
  humor.
• 40:39
  I
• 40:40
  mean,
• 40:40
  we
• 40:40
  were
• 40:40
  just
• 40:40
  talking
• 40:41
  about,
• 40:41
  you
• 40:41
  know,
• 40:41
  if
• 40:41
  you're,
• 40:42
  if
• 40:42
  you
• 40:42
  say
• 40:43
  one
• 40:43
  of
• 40:43
  your
• 40:43
  parents
• 40:43
  passes
• 40:44
  and
• 40:44
  your
• 40:44
  other
• 40:45
  parent
• 40:45
  is
• 40:45
  starting
• 40:45
  to
• 40:45
  date
• 40:46
  again,
• 40:46
  you
• 40:46
  know,
• 40:46
  like
• 40:47
  walking
• 40:47
  them
• 40:48
  through
• 40:48
  be,
• 40:48
  you
• 40:48
  know,
• 40:49
  being
• 40:49
  on
• 40:49
  the
• 40:49
  apps
• 40:50
  and
• 40:50
  how
• 40:50
  do
• 40:50
  you
• 40:50
  be
• 40:51
  careful?
• 40:52
  Like
• 40:52
  these
• 40:52
  are
• 40:52
  conversations
• 40:53
  you
• 40:53
  never
• 40:53
  thought.
• 40:54
  You
• 40:54
  would
• 40:54
  have
• 40:54
  in
• 40:54
  your
• 40:54
  whole
• 40:55
  life.
• 40:55
  And
• 40:56
  so,
• 40:56
  and
• 40:56
  it's
• 40:57
  kind
• 40:57
  of
• 40:57
  funny.
• 40:57
  It's
• 40:58
  kind
• 40:58
  of
• 40:58
  funny,
• 40:58
  you
• 40:58
  know,
• 40:59
  I.
• 40:59
  Mean,
• 40:59
  watching
• 41:00
  your
• 41:00
  70
• 41:00
  year
• 41:01
  old
• 41:01
  parents
• 41:01
  start
• 41:02
  the
• 41:02
  dating
• 41:02
  app
• 41:02
  is
• 41:03
  entertaining.
• 41:03
  Bizarre.
• 41:04
  Bizarre.
• 41:04
  Yeah.
• 41:05
  Again,
• 41:05
  if
• 41:05
  you
• 41:06
  find
• 41:06
  it
• 41:06
  funny,
• 41:06
  you
• 41:06
  know,
• 41:07
  as
• 41:07
  long
• 41:07
  as
• 41:07
  nobody's
• 41:07
  in
• 41:07
  danger
• 41:08
  or
• 41:08
  whatever.
• 41:08
  But
• 41:09
  it,
• 41:09
  you
• 41:09
  know,
• 41:09
  again,
• 41:10
  it's
• 41:10
  one
• 41:10
  of
• 41:10
  these
• 41:10
  things
• 41:10
  where
• 41:11
  you're
• 41:11
  like,
• 41:11
  oh
• 41:11
  gosh,
• 41:12
  oh,
• 41:13
  whoa,
• 41:13
  that
• 41:13
  is
• 41:14
  happening
• 41:14
  to
• 41:14
  me.
• 41:15
  You
• 41:15
  know,
• 41:16
  I
• 41:16
  just
• 41:16
  say
• 41:17
  accepting
• 41:17
  a
• 41:17
  step
• 41:17
  Parent
• 41:18
  when
• 41:18
  you're
• 41:18
  in
• 41:18
  your
• 41:18
  50s,
• 41:19
  like,
• 41:20
  what
• 41:20
  is
• 41:20
  that?
• 41:20
  And
• 41:20
  so
• 41:21
  there's
• 41:21
  lots
• 41:21
  of
• 41:21
  ways
• 41:21
  you
• 41:22
  can
• 41:22
  make
• 41:22
  light
• 41:22
  of
• 41:23
  it
• 41:23
  and
• 41:23
  laugh.
• 41:23
  And
• 41:24
  that's
• 41:24
  our
• 41:24
  experience.
• 41:25
  So
• 41:25
  we're
• 41:25
  gonna,
• 41:26
  we're
• 41:26
  going
• 41:26
  to
• 41:27
  laugh
• 41:28
  and
• 41:28
  helpful.
• 41:29
  Hopefully
• 41:29
  people
• 41:29
  find
• 41:30
  it
• 41:30
  relatable.
• 41:31
  Absolutely.
• 41:32
  Well,
• 41:33
  just
• 41:34
  when
• 41:34
  you
• 41:35
  say
• 41:35
  our
• 41:35
  aging
• 41:35
  parents
• 41:36
  like,
• 41:36
  getting
• 41:36
  on
• 41:36
  the
• 41:37
  dating
• 41:37
  apps,
• 41:37
  I
• 41:38
  just
• 41:38
  think
• 41:38
  about
• 41:38
  how
• 41:39
  much
• 41:39
  tech
• 41:39
  support
• 41:40
  I've
• 41:40
  given
• 41:40
  them
• 41:41
  over
• 41:41
  the
• 41:41
  years.
• 41:42
  Yeah.
• 41:42
  And
• 41:42
  like,
• 41:42
  to
• 41:43
  even
• 41:43
  see
• 41:43
  them
• 41:43
  try
• 41:43
  to
• 41:43
  function,
• 41:44
  to
• 41:44
  try
• 41:44
  to
• 41:44
  like,
• 41:45
  get
• 41:45
  on
• 41:45
  the
• 41:45
  dating
• 41:46
  app
• 41:46
  in
• 41:46
  and
• 41:46
  of
• 41:47
  itself,
• 41:47
  like,
• 41:48
  already,
• 41:48
  like
• 41:49
  laughing
• 41:49
  my
• 41:50
  head
• 41:50
  off
• 41:50
  thinking
• 41:50
  about
• 41:50
  that.
• 41:51
  I'm
• 41:51
  like,
• 41:51
  probably
• 41:51
  can't
• 41:52
  even
• 41:52
  open
• 41:52
  the
• 41:52
  app.
• 41:53
  Oh,
• 41:54
  but
• 41:54
  see,
• 41:54
  and
• 41:54
  then
• 41:54
  again,
• 41:55
  turnabout
• 41:55
  is
• 41:55
  fair
• 41:56
  play
• 41:56
  because
• 41:56
  then
• 41:56
  Lisa
• 41:57
  and
• 41:57
  I
• 41:57
  are
• 41:57
  like,
• 41:57
  how
• 41:58
  do
• 41:58
  you
• 41:58
  edit
• 41:58
  this?
• 41:59
  I
• 41:59
  can't
• 41:59
  get
• 41:59
  this
• 41:59
  thing
• 42:00
  to
• 42:00
  work.
• 42:00
  You
• 42:00
  know,
• 42:00
  and
• 42:00
  then
• 42:01
  Lisa's,
• 42:01
  you
• 42:01
  know,
• 42:01
  teenagers
• 42:02
  come
• 42:02
  in
• 42:02
  like,
• 42:02
  okay,
• 42:03
  you
• 42:03
  guys
• 42:03
  gotta
• 42:03
  do
• 42:03
  this,
• 42:03
  you
• 42:04
  know,
• 42:04
  so
• 42:04
  I'm
• 42:05
  like,
• 42:05
  you
• 42:05
  know,
• 42:05
  and
• 42:06
  as
• 42:06
  long
• 42:06
  as
• 42:06
  you're
• 42:06
  humble
• 42:07
  enough
• 42:07
  to
• 42:07
  say
• 42:08
  I
• 42:08
  need
• 42:08
  help,
• 42:09
  it's
• 42:10
  okay.
• 42:10
  But
• 42:11
  it
• 42:11
  is
• 42:11
  funny.
• 42:12
  Yeah.
• 42:12
  My
• 42:12
  mom
• 42:12
  passed
• 42:13
  five
• 42:13
  years
• 42:13
  ago.
• 42:13
  My
• 42:14
  dad
• 42:14
  got
• 42:14
  on
• 42:14
  the
• 42:14
  apps
• 42:15
  right
• 42:15
  away
• 42:15
  and
• 42:15
  I
• 42:15
  was
• 42:15
  like,
• 42:16
  this
• 42:17
  is
• 42:17
  bananas.
• 42:18
  Oh,
• 42:18
  my
• 42:18
  gosh.
• 42:19
  You
• 42:19
  know.
• 42:19
  Oh,
• 42:20
  my.
• 42:20
  Were
• 42:20
  you
• 42:20
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• 42:21
  him,
• 42:21
  like,
• 42:21
  swipe
• 42:21
  through?
• 42:22
  Like,
• 42:22
  he
• 42:23
  did
• 42:23
  not
• 42:23
  want
• 42:23
  any
• 42:23
  help.
• 42:24
  I.
• 42:24
  I
• 42:24
  did
• 42:24
  have
• 42:24
  to
• 42:25
  take
• 42:25
  some
• 42:25
  pictures
• 42:25
  for
• 42:25
  him.
• 42:26
  He's
• 42:26
  like,
• 42:26
  take
• 42:27
  this,
• 42:27
  you
• 42:27
  know,
• 42:27
  again.
• 42:27
  And
• 42:28
  I
• 42:28
  was
• 42:28
  like,
• 42:28
  a
• 42:28
  good
• 42:28
  picture.
• 42:29
  Is
• 42:29
  important,
• 42:30
  you
• 42:30
  know,
• 42:32
  but
• 42:32
  ultimately,
• 42:33
  what
• 42:33
  do
• 42:33
  we
• 42:33
  want
• 42:33
  for
• 42:34
  everybody?
• 42:34
  Be
• 42:34
  happy.
• 42:35
  Yeah.
• 42:35
  Yeah.
• 42:36
  So.
• 42:36
  So
• 42:36
  however
• 42:37
  you
• 42:37
  find
• 42:37
  you're
• 42:38
  happy,
• 42:38
  we
• 42:38
  are
• 42:39
  100%
• 42:40
  supportive.
• 42:40
  Yeah.
• 42:41
  Right.
• 42:42
  Why
• 42:42
  shouldn't
• 42:42
  they?
• 42:42
  She.
• 42:43
  They
• 42:43
  should
• 42:43
  have
• 42:43
  another,
• 42:44
  you
• 42:44
  know,
• 42:46
  time
• 42:46
  to
• 42:46
  explore,
• 42:47
  you
• 42:48
  know,
• 42:48
  relationships.
• 42:49
  Because
• 42:49
  that's
• 42:50
  so
• 42:50
  important.
• 42:50
  I
• 42:50
  mean,
• 42:50
  I
• 42:51
  think,
• 42:51
  like,
• 42:51
  right.
• 42:52
  Being
• 42:52
  lonely,
• 42:52
  that
• 42:53
  you
• 42:53
  don't
• 42:53
  want
• 42:53
  them.
• 42:53
  To
• 42:54
  be
• 42:54
  lonely
• 42:54
  so
• 42:54
  hard,
• 42:55
  you
• 42:55
  know?
• 42:55
  It's
• 42:56
  so
• 42:56
  hard.
• 42:57
  Yeah,
• 42:57
  right.
• 42:57
  And
• 42:58
  it's
• 42:58
  like
• 42:58
  a
• 42:58
  different
• 42:58
  attention
• 42:59
  and
• 42:59
  love
• 42:59
  that
• 42:59
  they
• 43:00
  get
• 43:00
  through.
• 43:00
  Like
• 43:00
  a
• 43:00
  romantic
• 43:01
  relationship
• 43:02
  versus,
• 43:02
  like
• 43:03
  a
• 43:03
  kid's
• 43:03
  relationship,
• 43:04
  you
• 43:04
  know?
• 43:05
  Oh,
• 43:05
  my
• 43:05
  gosh,
• 43:05
  I
• 43:06
  will
• 43:06
  forget
• 43:07
  you
• 43:07
  guys.
• 43:07
  I
• 43:07
  remember.
• 43:08
  So
• 43:08
  my
• 43:09
  father
• 43:09
  in
• 43:09
  law,
• 43:10
  who
• 43:10
  has
• 43:10
  since
• 43:10
  passed,
• 43:11
  but
• 43:11
  bless
• 43:11
  his
• 43:11
  heart,
• 43:12
  he
• 43:12
  lived
• 43:12
  to
• 43:12
  96.
• 43:13
  Like,
• 43:13
  he
• 43:14
  hit
• 43:14
  my
• 43:15
  mother
• 43:15
  in
• 43:15
  law.
• 43:15
  Passed
• 43:16
  probably
• 43:17
  15
• 43:18
  years
• 43:18
  or
• 43:19
  so
• 43:19
  before
• 43:19
  he
• 43:19
  did.
• 43:20
  So
• 43:20
  he
• 43:21
  started
• 43:21
  dating
• 43:21
  again
• 43:22
  too,
• 43:22
  like
• 43:22
  after.
• 43:23
  And
• 43:23
  I
• 43:23
  remember
• 43:24
  he
• 43:25
  was
• 43:25
  making.
• 43:25
  He
• 43:25
  was
• 43:26
  so
• 43:26
  funny.
• 43:26
  He
• 43:26
  was
• 43:26
  like,
• 43:27
  oh,
• 43:27
  my
• 43:27
  God.
• 43:27
  He's
• 43:28
  like,
• 43:28
  these
• 43:28
  women
• 43:28
  were
• 43:29
  like
• 43:29
  coming
• 43:29
  out
• 43:29
  of
• 43:29
  the
• 43:29
  woodwork
• 43:30
  for
• 43:30
  him,
• 43:30
  you
• 43:30
  know,
• 43:31
  it
• 43:31
  was
• 43:31
  like
• 43:31
  they
• 43:31
  were
• 43:32
  just
• 43:32
  trying
• 43:32
  to
• 43:32
  chat
• 43:33
  him
• 43:33
  up
• 43:33
  and
• 43:33
  everything.
• 43:34
  And
• 43:34
  he's
• 43:34
  like,
• 43:34
  well,
• 43:35
  he's
• 43:35
  like,
• 43:35
  I
• 43:35
  have
• 43:35
  a
• 43:36
  Full
• 43:36
  head
• 43:36
  of
• 43:36
  hair.
• 43:36
  And
• 43:36
  I
• 43:37
  still
• 43:37
  drive,
• 43:37
  right?
• 43:38
  Totally.
• 43:39
  Well,
• 43:39
  you've
• 43:40
  got
• 43:40
  it
• 43:40
  made
• 43:40
  in
• 43:40
  that
• 43:41
  dating
• 43:41
  world,
• 43:42
  right?
• 43:42
  Yeah,
• 43:43
  we
• 43:43
  already
• 43:43
  have
• 43:43
  a
• 43:43
  gig
• 43:43
  working
• 43:44
  where
• 43:44
  we're
• 43:44
  going
• 43:44
  to
• 43:44
  talk
• 43:44
  about
• 43:44
  midlife
• 43:45
  or
• 43:45
  pickup
• 43:45
  lines.
• 43:46
  Like,
• 43:46
  hey,
• 43:47
  my
• 43:47
  blood
• 43:47
  pressure
• 43:48
  is
• 43:48
  117
• 43:48
  over
• 43:49
  60.
• 43:52
  You
• 43:52
  know.
• 43:53
  Oh,
• 43:54
  my
• 43:54
  God.
• 43:54
  What
• 43:55
  matters
• 43:55
  in
• 43:55
  midlife
• 43:56
  when
• 43:56
  you're
• 43:56
  dating
• 43:56
  is
• 43:57
  very
• 43:57
  different.
• 43:57
  Like,
• 43:58
  where
• 43:58
  do
• 43:58
  you
• 43:58
  put
• 43:58
  the
• 43:58
  thermostat?
• 43:59
  Yeah,
• 43:59
  that
• 44:00
  is
• 44:00
  a.
• 44:00
  That's
• 44:00
  a
• 44:00
  deal
• 44:01
  breaker.
• 44:03
  100%.
• 44:05
  I'm
• 44:05
  like,
• 44:06
  my
• 44:06
  body
• 44:06
  is
• 44:06
  now
• 44:07
  a
• 44:07
  heater,
• 44:08
  being
• 44:08
  in
• 44:08
  perimenopause.
• 44:09
  And
• 44:09
  I'm
• 44:09
  like,
• 44:10
  keep
• 44:10
  it,
• 44:10
  like
• 44:11
  at
• 44:11
  60
• 44:11
  degrees
• 44:12
  at
• 44:12
  all
• 44:12
  times.
• 44:12
  And
• 44:12
  my
• 44:13
  husband
• 44:13
  is
• 44:13
  like,
• 44:13
  but
• 44:14
  I'm
• 44:14
  cold.
• 44:14
  I'm
• 44:14
  like,
• 44:15
  no,
• 44:15
  don't
• 44:15
  care,
• 44:15
  don't
• 44:16
  care.
• 44:16
  Doesn't
• 44:16
  matter.
• 44:17
  Yeah,
• 44:17
  doesn't
• 44:17
  matter.
• 44:18
  Do
• 44:18
  you
• 44:18
  want
• 44:18
  a
• 44:18
  happy
• 44:18
  wife
• 44:19
  then?
• 44:19
  A
• 44:19
  happy
• 44:20
  life?
• 44:21
  Totally,
• 44:23
  totally.
• 44:24
  Yeah,
• 44:24
  I
• 44:24
  know.
• 44:24
  What
• 44:25
  are
• 44:25
  some
• 44:25
  of
• 44:25
  the
• 44:25
  other
• 44:25
  fun
• 44:26
  dating
• 44:26
  roles
• 44:26
  in
• 44:26
  midlife,
• 44:27
  do
• 44:27
  you
• 44:27
  think?
• 44:28
  Dating
• 44:28
  roles
• 44:29
  or
• 44:29
  like
• 44:29
  pickup
• 44:29
  lines?
• 44:30
  Dating
• 44:30
  pickup
• 44:31
  lines.
• 44:31
  Yeah.
• 44:31
  What
• 44:31
  are
• 44:31
  some,
• 44:32
  like,
• 44:32
  hey,
• 44:33
  I
• 44:33
  still
• 44:33
  drive
• 44:34
  at
• 44:34
  night,
• 44:34
  you
• 44:34
  know?
• 44:35
  Yeah,
• 44:35
  you
• 44:35
  know.
• 44:38
  Oh,
• 44:39
  my
• 44:39
  gosh.
• 44:39
  Or
• 44:39
  just
• 44:40
  like
• 44:40
  listing
• 44:40
  the
• 44:40
  medications
• 44:41
  that
• 44:41
  you're
• 44:42
  on.
• 44:42
  Like,
• 44:42
  dude,
• 44:42
  I'm
• 44:43
  only
• 44:43
  on
• 44:43
  a
• 44:43
  statin.
• 44:44
  It's.
• 44:44
  I
• 44:44
  barely
• 44:44
  need
• 44:45
  it
• 44:45
  for
• 44:45
  my
• 44:45
  cholesterol.
• 44:46
  It's
• 44:46
  fine.
• 44:46
  But
• 44:47
  I'm
• 44:47
  super
• 44:47
  active,
• 44:48
  you
• 44:48
  know?
• 44:50
  I
• 44:50
  don't
• 44:50
  know.
• 44:51
  Lisa's
• 44:51
  the
• 44:51
  way
• 44:51
  more
• 44:51
  active
• 44:52
  one
• 44:52
  for
• 44:52
  me.
• 44:53
  You
• 44:53
  could
• 44:53
  be
• 44:53
  like,
• 44:54
  oh,
• 44:55
  cuddled
• 44:55
  up.
• 44:55
  By
• 44:55
  a
• 44:55
  fire,
• 44:56
  reading
• 44:56
  a
• 44:57
  good
• 44:57
  book.
• 44:57
  Yeah,
• 44:57
  yeah,
• 44:57
  yeah,
• 44:58
  for
• 44:58
  sure.
• 44:58
  With
• 44:59
  no
• 44:59
  sex
• 44:59
  expectation.
• 45:00
  Right.
• 45:03
  That's
• 45:03
  the
• 45:03
  beauty
• 45:03
  again,
• 45:03
  once
• 45:04
  you
• 45:04
  have
• 45:04
  some
• 45:04
  mileage
• 45:04
  on
• 45:05
  your
• 45:05
  tires,
• 45:05
  you
• 45:05
  know
• 45:05
  what
• 45:06
  you're
• 45:06
  looking
• 45:06
  for
• 45:06
  in
• 45:06
  life,
• 45:07
  and
• 45:07
  that's
• 45:07
  okay,
• 45:07
  you
• 45:08
  know?
• 45:08
  Yeah.
• 45:09
  Yes.
• 45:09
  I
• 45:10
  mean,
• 45:10
  I
• 45:10
  love
• 45:10
  that.
• 45:11
  I
• 45:11
  love
• 45:11
  that
• 45:11
  we
• 45:11
  have,
• 45:12
  like
• 45:12
  this
• 45:12
  life
• 45:13
  experience
• 45:13
  and
• 45:14
  it's
• 45:14
  like,
• 45:15
  it's.
• 45:15
  Honestly,
• 45:15
  this
• 45:16
  is
• 45:16
  the
• 45:16
  time
• 45:16
  to
• 45:16
  put
• 45:16
  it
• 45:17
  into
• 45:17
  play
• 45:17
  and
• 45:17
  put
• 45:18
  it
• 45:18
  into
• 45:18
  practice.
• 45:19
  Right?
• 45:19
  Like,
• 45:20
  this
• 45:20
  is
• 45:20
  why
• 45:21
  we
• 45:21
  have
• 45:21
  to
• 45:21
  be
• 45:21
  louder
• 45:22
  and
• 45:22
  not
• 45:23
  quieter,
• 45:23
  you
• 45:24
  know?
• 45:24
  Like,
• 45:25
  that's
• 45:25
  the
• 45:25
  thing.
• 45:26
  I
• 45:26
  mean,
• 45:26
  this
• 45:26
  is.
• 45:27
  This
• 45:27
  is.
• 45:27
  This
• 45:27
  is
• 45:27
  where
• 45:28
  it's
• 45:28
  at,
• 45:28
  right?
• 45:29
  Totally,
• 45:30
  totally.
• 45:30
  But
• 45:30
  on
• 45:30
  the
• 45:30
  flip
• 45:31
  of
• 45:31
  that,
• 45:31
  like,
• 45:31
  I
• 45:31
  have
• 45:31
  a
• 45:32
  24
• 45:32
  year
• 45:32
  old
• 45:32
  and,
• 45:33
  you
• 45:33
  know,
• 45:33
  and
• 45:33
  so
• 45:34
  speaking
• 45:34
  of
• 45:34
  being
• 45:35
  loud,
• 45:35
  I'm
• 45:35
  learning
• 45:36
  to
• 45:36
  just
• 45:36
  shut
• 45:36
  up,
• 45:37
  you
• 45:37
  know
• 45:37
  what
• 45:37
  I
• 45:37
  mean?
• 45:37
  Like,
• 45:38
  it's
• 45:38
  her
• 45:38
  life.
• 45:39
  She
• 45:39
  can
• 45:39
  live
• 45:40
  at
• 45:40
  what
• 45:40
  she
• 45:40
  wants
• 45:40
  to
• 45:40
  do.
• 45:41
  You
• 45:41
  know,
• 45:41
  you
• 45:42
  get
• 45:42
  to
• 45:42
  make
• 45:42
  your
• 45:42
  choices,
• 45:43
  you
• 45:43
  get
• 45:43
  to,
• 45:43
  you
• 45:44
  know,
• 45:44
  make
• 45:45
  good
• 45:45
  decisions
• 45:45
  in
• 45:46
  bad.
• 45:46
  So,
• 45:47
  you
• 45:47
  know,
• 45:48
  it's
• 45:48
  again,
• 45:48
  that
• 45:49
  sandwichy
• 45:49
  kind
• 45:49
  of
• 45:50
  feeling
• 45:50
  of,
• 45:50
  ooh,
• 45:51
  what
• 45:51
  do
• 45:51
  I
• 45:51
  say?
• 45:51
  You
• 45:52
  know?
• 45:52
  Yeah,
• 45:53
  like
• 45:53
  what?
• 45:53
  That's
• 45:54
  interesting
• 45:54
  because
• 45:54
  my
• 45:55
  my
• 45:55
  daughter's
• 45:55
  11,
• 45:56
  so
• 45:56
  she's
• 45:57
  kind
• 45:57
  of.
• 45:57
  I
• 45:57
  mean,
• 45:57
  she's
• 45:58
  definitely,
• 45:58
  you
• 45:58
  know,
• 45:59
  cognizant
• 45:59
  of,
• 46:00
  like,
• 46:00
  what
• 46:00
  I
• 46:00
  do
• 46:00
  and,
• 46:01
  like,
• 46:01
  the
• 46:01
  things
• 46:01
  that,
• 46:01
  you
• 46:02
  know,
• 46:02
  go
• 46:02
  on.
• 46:03
  But,
• 46:04
  you
• 46:04
  know,
• 46:04
  I
• 46:04
  was
• 46:05
  scaring
• 46:05
  my
• 46:06
  husband
• 46:06
  a
• 46:06
  little
• 46:06
  bit
• 46:06
  because
• 46:07
  I
• 46:07
  was
• 46:07
  like,
• 46:07
  yeah,
• 46:08
  so
• 46:08
  there's
• 46:08
  going
• 46:08
  to
• 46:08
  be
• 46:08
  a
• 46:08
  point
• 46:09
  where
• 46:09
  I'm,
• 46:09
  like,
• 46:10
  fully
• 46:10
  in
• 46:10
  menopause,
• 46:11
  and
• 46:11
  she
• 46:12
  probably
• 46:13
  will
• 46:13
  be
• 46:13
  in
• 46:13
  her
• 46:13
  menstrual
• 46:14
  cycle.
• 46:14
  You
• 46:15
  know,
• 46:15
  like,
• 46:15
  what
• 46:16
  are
• 46:16
  you
• 46:16
  going
• 46:16
  to
• 46:16
  do?
• 46:16
  And
• 46:17
  he's
• 46:17
  like,
• 46:17
  I'm
• 46:18
  gonna
• 46:18
  hide.
• 46:19
  Yeah,
• 46:20
  Good
• 46:20
  call.
• 46:22
  Right.
• 46:22
  Good
• 46:22
  call.
• 46:23
  Right.
• 46:23
  Because
• 46:23
  it's.
• 46:24
  It's
• 46:25
  crazy,
• 46:26
  right,
• 46:26
  to
• 46:26
  have
• 46:26
  all
• 46:27
  these
• 46:27
  things
• 46:27
  happening
• 46:28
  at
• 46:28
  once.
• 46:29
  But
• 46:29
  that's
• 46:29
  what
• 46:29
  I
• 46:29
  love.
• 46:29
  You
• 46:30
  know,
• 46:30
  again,
• 46:30
  we.
• 46:30
  Like,
• 46:31
  we
• 46:31
  said
• 46:31
  at
• 46:31
  the
• 46:31
  beginning,
• 46:31
  there's
• 46:32
  no
• 46:32
  one
• 46:32
  way
• 46:32
  to
• 46:33
  be
• 46:33
  a
• 46:33
  midlifer.
• 46:33
  You.
• 46:34
  You
• 46:34
  know,
• 46:34
  there's
• 46:34
  some
• 46:34
  people,
• 46:35
  like,
• 46:35
  I
• 46:35
  had
• 46:35
  my
• 46:35
  first
• 46:35
  baby
• 46:36
  at
• 46:36
  43,
• 46:37
  you
• 46:37
  know,
• 46:37
  and
• 46:37
  you're
• 46:37
  like,
• 46:38
  great.
• 46:38
  Good
• 46:38
  for
• 46:38
  you,
• 46:39
  you
• 46:39
  know?
• 46:40
  Yes.
• 46:40
  Oh,
• 46:41
  my
• 46:41
  God.
• 46:41
  I
• 46:41
  can.
• 46:41
  Somebody
• 46:42
  asked
• 46:42
  me
• 46:42
  the
• 46:42
  other
• 46:42
  day,
• 46:43
  they're
• 46:43
  like,
• 46:43
  would
• 46:43
  you
• 46:44
  ever
• 46:44
  consider.
• 46:44
  Consider
• 46:44
  having
• 46:45
  another
• 46:45
  child?
• 46:45
  And
• 46:46
  I
• 46:46
  was
• 46:46
  like,
• 46:46
  oh,
• 46:46
  my
• 46:47
  God.
• 46:47
  Well,
• 46:48
  obviously,
• 46:48
  I'm
• 46:48
  50.
• 46:49
  Probably
• 46:49
  wouldn't
• 46:49
  happen.
• 46:50
  But,
• 46:50
  like,
• 46:51
  you
• 46:51
  know,
• 46:51
  going
• 46:51
  back
• 46:52
  into,
• 46:52
  like,
• 46:52
  diapers
• 46:53
  and
• 46:53
  things
• 46:53
  like
• 46:54
  that
• 46:54
  at
• 46:54
  this
• 46:54
  point
• 46:55
  would
• 46:55
  be.
• 46:56
  I
• 46:56
  would
• 46:56
  go.
• 46:57
  I
• 46:57
  mean,
• 46:57
  like,
• 46:58
  how.
• 46:58
  How
• 46:58
  could
• 46:59
  you
• 46:59
  do
• 46:59
  it?
• 46:59
  Yeah,
• 47:00
  I
• 47:00
  think
• 47:00
  the
• 47:00
  sleep
• 47:00
  thing
• 47:01
  would
• 47:01
  probably
• 47:01
  end
• 47:01
  me.
• 47:02
  Oh,
• 47:02
  my
• 47:02
  God.
• 47:03
  Yes,
• 47:03
  yes,
• 47:05
  yes.
• 47:05
  It's
• 47:05
  true.
• 47:06
  Sleep
• 47:06
  is
• 47:06
  so
• 47:06
  valuable,
• 47:07
  isn't
• 47:07
  it?
• 47:08
  Totally.
• 47:09
  Totally.
• 47:09
  Midlifers
• 47:10
  love
• 47:10
  a
• 47:10
  good
• 47:10
  nap.
• 47:11
  We
• 47:11
  do.
• 47:11
  We
• 47:11
  do
• 47:12
  love
• 47:12
  a
• 47:12
  good.
• 47:12
  Do
• 47:13
  you
• 47:13
  guys
• 47:13
  do,
• 47:13
  like,
• 47:13
  a
• 47:13
  daily
• 47:14
  nap?
• 47:14
  No.
• 47:16
  God,
• 47:16
  I
• 47:16
  asked.
• 47:17
  About
• 47:17
  to
• 47:17
  be
• 47:17
  really
• 47:17
  jealous.
• 47:18
  I'm
• 47:18
  like,
• 47:19
  please
• 47:19
  tell
• 47:20
  me
• 47:20
  more.
• 47:21
  So,
• 47:21
  okay,
• 47:21
  what
• 47:22
  is
• 47:22
  the
• 47:22
  thing
• 47:23
  that
• 47:23
  you
• 47:23
  are
• 47:23
  willing
• 47:24
  to
• 47:24
  die
• 47:24
  on
• 47:25
  the
• 47:25
  midlife
• 47:26
  hill
• 47:26
  for
• 47:27
  that
• 47:27
  you
• 47:27
  probably
• 47:28
  wouldn't
• 47:28
  have
• 47:28
  when
• 47:28
  you
• 47:29
  were
• 47:29
  30?
• 47:30
  Ooh,
• 47:31
  that's
• 47:31
  a
• 47:31
  good
• 47:32
  question.
• 47:33
  What
• 47:33
  are
• 47:33
  you
• 47:33
  going
• 47:33
  to
• 47:33
  die
• 47:34
  on
• 47:34
  the
• 47:34
  hill?
• 47:34
  Yeah.
• 47:36
  I
• 47:36
  think
• 47:36
  being
• 47:37
  auth.
• 47:37
  Well,
• 47:37
  I'm
• 47:38
  going
• 47:38
  to
• 47:38
  say
• 47:38
  authentically
• 47:39
  myself.
• 47:40
  Right.
• 47:40
  I
• 47:41
  think
• 47:41
  I've
• 47:41
  always
• 47:42
  thought
• 47:42
  I
• 47:42
  was
• 47:42
  authentically
• 47:43
  myself,
• 47:44
  but
• 47:44
  looking
• 47:44
  back,
• 47:45
  how
• 47:45
  I
• 47:46
  navigated
• 47:46
  to
• 47:47
  whomever
• 47:47
  I
• 47:47
  was
• 47:48
  trying
• 47:48
  to
• 47:48
  please
• 47:49
  or
• 47:50
  whatever
• 47:50
  was
• 47:51
  stereotypical
• 47:52
  in
• 47:52
  that
• 47:52
  time,
• 47:52
  like
• 47:52
  how
• 47:52
  you're
• 47:53
  supposed
• 47:53
  to
• 47:53
  be
• 47:53
  during
• 47:53
  your
• 47:54
  20s.
• 47:54
  I
• 47:54
  was
• 47:54
  trying
• 47:55
  to
• 47:55
  be
• 47:55
  that.
• 47:55
  And
• 47:55
  however
• 47:55
  I
• 47:56
  was
• 47:56
  supposed
• 47:56
  to
• 47:56
  be.
• 47:57
  And
• 47:58
  I
• 47:58
  am
• 47:59
  so
• 47:59
  much
• 47:59
  more
• 48:00
  myself
• 48:01
  than
• 48:01
  I've
• 48:01
  ever
• 48:02
  been,
• 48:02
  and
• 48:02
  hopefully
• 48:02
  that
• 48:03
  continues
• 48:03
  to
• 48:03
  evolve.
• 48:05
  But
• 48:05
  being
• 48:05
  authentically
• 48:06
  you
• 48:06
  is
• 48:07
  so
• 48:07
  freeing,
• 48:08
  and
• 48:09
  it
• 48:09
  also
• 48:09
  attracts
• 48:11
  all
• 48:11
  the
• 48:11
  people
• 48:11
  who
• 48:11
  actually
• 48:12
  like
• 48:12
  you
• 48:12
  for
• 48:13
  being
• 48:13
  you.
• 48:14
  And
• 48:15
  so
• 48:15
  you
• 48:16
  dodge
• 48:16
  the
• 48:16
  drama
• 48:17
  and
• 48:17
  you
• 48:17
  dodge
• 48:18
  fake
• 48:18
  friendships,
• 48:19
  and
• 48:19
  you
• 48:19
  dodge
• 48:19
  all
• 48:20
  these
• 48:20
  things
• 48:20
  because
• 48:21
  You've
• 48:22
  already
• 48:22
  decided
• 48:23
  you
• 48:23
  don't
• 48:23
  like
• 48:24
  any
• 48:24
  of
• 48:24
  those
• 48:25
  people
• 48:25
  that
• 48:25
  would
• 48:26
  be
• 48:26
  attracted
• 48:26
  to
• 48:27
  that,
• 48:27
  and
• 48:27
  they
• 48:27
  don't
• 48:27
  like
• 48:28
  you.
• 48:28
  So
• 48:29
  it's
• 48:30
  freeing.
• 48:30
  And
• 48:30
  I
• 48:31
  think
• 48:31
  owning
• 48:32
  exactly
• 48:32
  who
• 48:32
  you
• 48:33
  are.
• 48:33
  And
• 48:33
  Suzette,
• 48:34
  to
• 48:34
  me,
• 48:34
  is
• 48:34
  such
• 48:34
  a
• 48:34
  great
• 48:35
  example,
• 48:35
  because
• 48:36
  she'll
• 48:36
  say,
• 48:36
  oh,
• 48:37
  just
• 48:37
  do
• 48:37
  that.
• 48:37
  And
• 48:37
  I'm
• 48:37
  like,
• 48:38
  oh,
• 48:39
  is
• 48:39
  she
• 48:39
  pretending?
• 48:40
  And
• 48:40
  then
• 48:40
  she
• 48:41
  goes
• 48:41
  through
• 48:41
  with
• 48:41
  it,
• 48:42
  and
• 48:42
  I
• 48:42
  think,
• 48:43
  nope,
• 48:43
  that's
• 48:43
  just
• 48:44
  who
• 48:44
  she
• 48:44
  is.
• 48:44
  And
• 48:45
  that's
• 48:45
  what
• 48:45
  makes
• 48:45
  her
• 48:45
  a
• 48:45
  magical
• 48:46
  person.
• 48:47
  And
• 48:48
  I
• 48:48
  look
• 48:48
  at
• 48:49
  my
• 48:49
  kids,
• 48:49
  and
• 48:49
  I
• 48:50
  constantly
• 48:50
  say,
• 48:50
  be
• 48:51
  exactly
• 48:51
  who
• 48:52
  you
• 48:52
  want
• 48:52
  to
• 48:52
  be.
• 48:52
  If
• 48:53
  you
• 48:53
  want
• 48:53
  to
• 48:53
  wear
• 48:53
  that,
• 48:53
  wear
• 48:54
  it.
• 48:54
  But
• 48:54
  if
• 48:54
  you're
• 48:54
  wearing
• 48:54
  that
• 48:55
  for
• 48:55
  somebody
• 48:55
  else,
• 48:56
  don't,
• 48:56
  like,
• 48:56
  be
• 48:57
  authentically
• 48:57
  you
• 48:58
  as
• 48:59
  early
• 48:59
  as
• 48:59
  you
• 48:59
  can,
• 49:00
  and
• 49:00
  then
• 49:00
  it
• 49:01
  helps
• 49:01
  you
• 49:01
  find
• 49:01
  your
• 49:02
  people
• 49:02
  so
• 49:03
  much
• 49:03
  earlier.
• 49:04
  And
• 49:04
  I'm
• 49:04
  still
• 49:04
  in
• 49:05
  that
• 49:05
  stage,
• 49:05
  but
• 49:05
  I
• 49:06
  feel
• 49:06
  I'm
• 49:06
  closer.
• 49:07
  Yes.
• 49:08
  Oh,
• 49:08
  my
• 49:09
  God.
• 49:09
  I
• 49:09
  love.
• 49:10
  Yeah,
• 49:10
  I
• 49:10
  love
• 49:10
  that.
• 49:11
  I
• 49:11
  love
• 49:11
  that.
• 49:11
  Just
• 49:12
  be
• 49:12
  who
• 49:12
  you
• 49:12
  are.
• 49:13
  You
• 49:13
  know,
• 49:13
  I
• 49:13
  think
• 49:13
  we're.
• 49:14
  We're
• 49:14
  so
• 49:14
  afraid
• 49:15
  of
• 49:15
  that
• 49:15
  when
• 49:15
  we're
• 49:15
  younger.
• 49:16
  The
• 49:16
  hill
• 49:17
  I'm
• 49:17
  willing
• 49:17
  to
• 49:17
  die
• 49:17
  on
• 49:18
  is
• 49:18
  that
• 49:18
  in.
• 49:19
  As
• 49:19
  a
• 49:19
  midlifer,
• 49:20
  shoes
• 49:21
  with
• 49:21
  arch
• 49:21
  support
• 49:22
  are
• 49:22
  better
• 49:23
  than
• 49:23
  shoes
• 49:23
  without
• 49:24
  arch
• 49:24
  support.
• 49:24
  And
• 49:25
  in
• 49:25
  my
• 49:25
  30s,
• 49:26
  I
• 49:26
  think
• 49:26
  I
• 49:26
  would
• 49:26
  not
• 49:27
  have
• 49:27
  said
• 49:27
  that.
• 49:27
  I
• 49:27
  would
• 49:27
  have
• 49:27
  been,
• 49:27
  like,
• 49:28
  fashion
• 49:28
  supreme.
• 49:29
  But
• 49:30
  now,
• 49:30
  no,
• 49:31
  see,
• 49:31
  Lisa's
• 49:32
  all
• 49:32
  deep
• 49:32
  and
• 49:33
  kind
• 49:33
  and
• 49:34
  so
• 49:34
  sweet,
• 49:34
  and
• 49:34
  I'm
• 49:35
  like,
• 49:35
  give
• 49:35
  me
• 49:35
  a
• 49:36
  good
• 49:36
  arch.
• 49:37
  Yeah.
• 49:38
  I
• 49:38
  could
• 49:38
  not
• 49:39
  agree
• 49:39
  more.
• 49:39
  Because
• 49:39
  if
• 49:40
  you
• 49:40
  don't
• 49:40
  have
• 49:40
  the
• 49:40
  arch
• 49:41
  support,
• 49:41
  it
• 49:41
  messes
• 49:41
  up
• 49:42
  everything.
• 49:42
  Your
• 49:42
  back.
• 49:43
  I
• 49:43
  know.
• 49:43
  Your
• 49:43
  knees,
• 49:44
  like.
• 49:44
  Yes.
• 49:45
  The
• 49:45
  whole
• 49:45
  thing.
• 49:46
  You
• 49:46
  can
• 49:46
  do
• 49:46
  it.
• 49:47
  You
• 49:47
  know
• 49:47
  what
• 49:47
  I
• 49:47
  mean?
• 49:47
  Of
• 49:48
  course
• 49:48
  we
• 49:48
  can
• 49:48
  wear
• 49:48
  heels
• 49:48
  and
• 49:49
  we
• 49:49
  can
• 49:49
  do
• 49:49
  whatever,
• 49:49
  but
• 49:50
  the
• 49:50
  next
• 49:50
  day,
• 49:51
  womp,
• 49:51
  womp.
• 49:52
  You
• 49:52
  know,
• 49:52
  sad.
• 49:53
  It's
• 49:54
  an
• 49:54
  activity
• 49:54
  hangover.
• 49:55
  Yeah,
• 49:55
  it
• 49:56
  is.
• 49:58
  It
• 49:58
  is
• 49:59
  an
• 49:59
  activity
• 49:59
  hangover.
• 50:00
  And
• 50:00
  I
• 50:00
  would
• 50:00
  say
• 50:01
  heels
• 50:02
  and
• 50:02
  alcohol
• 50:03
  you
• 50:03
  have
• 50:03
  to
• 50:03
  use
• 50:03
  sparingly.
• 50:05
  Yes.
• 50:06
  Yes.
• 50:07
  I
• 50:07
  love
• 50:07
  that.
• 50:08
  Yes.
• 50:09
  It
• 50:10
  used
• 50:10
  to
• 50:10
  be
• 50:10
  just
• 50:12
  as
• 50:12
  wanted.
• 50:14
  Now
• 50:14
  sparingly.
• 50:15
  Back
• 50:16
  in
• 50:16
  the
• 50:16
  day,
• 50:16
  I
• 50:17
  was
• 50:17
  saying
• 50:17
  this
• 50:17
  to,
• 50:18
  like,
• 50:18
  a
• 50:18
  friend.
• 50:18
  I'm
• 50:18
  like,
• 50:19
  we
• 50:19
  used
• 50:19
  to.
• 50:20
  My
• 50:20
  husband
• 50:20
  and
• 50:20
  I
• 50:20
  would
• 50:20
  open
• 50:21
  up,
• 50:21
  like,
• 50:21
  a
• 50:21
  bottle
• 50:21
  of
• 50:21
  wine,
• 50:22
  and
• 50:22
  we'd
• 50:23
  have,
• 50:23
  like,
• 50:23
  a
• 50:23
  couple
• 50:24
  glasses
• 50:24
  if
• 50:24
  we
• 50:25
  were
• 50:25
  cooking
• 50:25
  dinner
• 50:26
  or
• 50:26
  what
• 50:26
  have
• 50:26
  you.
• 50:27
  If
• 50:27
  I
• 50:27
  do
• 50:28
  that
• 50:28
  now,
• 50:29
  I
• 50:29
  will
• 50:29
  wake
• 50:29
  up
• 50:30
  with,
• 50:30
  like,
• 50:31
  the
• 50:31
  worst
• 50:31
  hangover
• 50:32
  ever.
• 50:32
  The
• 50:32
  next
• 50:33
  day,
• 50:33
  like,
• 50:33
  what
• 50:34
  is
• 50:34
  happening?
• 50:34
  It's
• 50:35
  called
• 50:35
  an
• 50:35
  activity
• 50:36
  hangover.
• 50:36
  Yeah,
• 50:37
  we
• 50:37
  believe
• 50:37
  in
• 50:37
  it.
• 50:37
  For
• 50:38
  sure.
• 50:38
  For
• 50:38
  sure.
• 50:38
  Oh,
• 50:39
  my
• 50:39
  God.
• 50:39
  It's
• 50:39
  a
• 50:39
  total
• 50:39
  activity
• 50:40
  hangover.
• 50:41
  What
• 50:41
  are
• 50:41
  some
• 50:41
  of
• 50:42
  the
• 50:42
  other
• 50:42
  things
• 50:42
  like.
• 50:43
  Like
• 50:43
  the
• 50:44
  alcohol
• 50:44
  or
• 50:45
  the
• 50:45
  heels?
• 50:45
  What
• 50:45
  are
• 50:45
  some
• 50:46
  of
• 50:46
  the
• 50:46
  other
• 50:46
  things
• 50:46
  you
• 50:46
  guys
• 50:47
  have
• 50:47
  noticed
• 50:47
  in
• 50:47
  midlife
• 50:48
  that
• 50:48
  you've
• 50:48
  had
• 50:49
  to
• 50:49
  make
• 50:49
  a
• 50:49
  change.
• 50:50
  Moving
• 50:51
  your
• 50:51
  friends.
• 50:52
  Yeah.
• 50:52
  You're
• 50:52
  like,
• 50:53
  sure.
• 50:53
  Or
• 50:53
  your
• 50:53
  kids.
• 50:54
  You're
• 50:54
  like,
• 50:54
  yeah,
• 50:54
  I'd
• 50:54
  love
• 50:55
  to
• 50:55
  move
• 50:55
  you
• 50:55
  into
• 50:55
  the
• 50:55
  dorm.
• 50:56
  And
• 50:56
  then
• 50:56
  the
• 50:57
  next
• 50:57
  day.
• 50:57
  Yeah.
• 50:58
  Activity
• 50:59
  hangover.
• 50:59
  Yeah.
• 51:00
  Like,
• 51:00
  you
• 51:00
  can
• 51:00
  do
• 51:00
  anything
• 51:01
  in
• 51:01
  midlife,
• 51:02
  but
• 51:02
  you
• 51:02
  might
• 51:03
  pay
• 51:03
  for
• 51:03
  it,
• 51:03
  you
• 51:04
  know?
• 51:04
  Yeah.
• 51:04
  Yeah.
• 51:05
  Your
• 51:05
  body
• 51:05
  might
• 51:06
  not
• 51:06
  be
• 51:06
  happy
• 51:06
  the
• 51:07
  next
• 51:07
  day.
• 51:07
  It
• 51:07
  won't.
• 51:08
  Yeah,
• 51:08
  right.
• 51:09
  Yeah.
• 51:09
  The
• 51:09
  Thanksgiving
• 51:10
  Day,
• 51:10
  you
• 51:10
  know,
• 51:11
  tackle
• 51:11
  football
• 51:11
  with
• 51:12
  your
• 51:12
  neighborhood.
• 51:13
  Great.
• 51:13
  Do
• 51:13
  it.
• 51:14
  Don't
• 51:15
  plan
• 51:15
  anything
• 51:15
  for
• 51:15
  Friday.
• 51:16
  Nope.
• 51:16
  Yeah.
• 51:17
  Activity
• 51:18
  hangover.
• 51:18
  Yes.
• 51:19
  You
• 51:19
  will
• 51:19
  likely
• 51:20
  throw
• 51:20
  your
• 51:20
  back
• 51:20
  out
• 51:21
  and
• 51:21
  be
• 51:21
  in
• 51:21
  bed
• 51:21
  for
• 51:21
  the
• 51:21
  rest
• 51:21
  of
• 51:22
  the
• 51:22
  weekend.
• 51:22
  Correct.
• 51:24
  I
• 51:25
  think
• 51:25
  that
• 51:27
  for
• 51:27
  me.
• 51:28
  Yeah.
• 51:28
  I
• 51:28
  mean,
• 51:29
  there's
• 51:29
  so
• 51:30
  many
• 51:30
  things
• 51:30
  that
• 51:30
  I
• 51:30
  feel
• 51:30
  like
• 51:31
  I've
• 51:31
  had
• 51:31
  to,
• 51:31
  like,
• 51:32
  kind
• 51:32
  of
• 51:32
  curb,
• 51:32
  you
• 51:33
  know,
• 51:33
  like,
• 51:33
  I
• 51:33
  really
• 51:34
  have
• 51:34
  to
• 51:34
  listen
• 51:34
  to
• 51:34
  my
• 51:34
  body
• 51:35
  now,
• 51:35
  though.
• 51:35
  You
• 51:36
  don't
• 51:36
  have
• 51:36
  to
• 51:37
  listen.
• 51:37
  No.
• 51:37
  But
• 51:38
  you'll
• 51:38
  pay
• 51:38
  for
• 51:38
  it
• 51:38
  if
• 51:39
  you
• 51:39
  don't.
• 51:39
  Yes,
• 51:40
  exactly.
• 51:40
  Correct.
• 51:41
  You
• 51:41
  will
• 51:41
  pay
• 51:41
  for
• 51:41
  it.
• 51:42
  It
• 51:42
  can
• 51:42
  be
• 51:42
  ugly.
• 51:42
  Like,
• 51:44
  the
• 51:44
  recovery
• 51:44
  time
• 51:44
  is
• 51:45
  not
• 51:45
  so
• 51:45
  cute.
• 51:46
  Yeah.
• 51:46
  Agreed.
• 51:47
  No.
• 51:48
  So
• 51:48
  what
• 51:49
  do
• 51:49
  you
• 51:49
  think?
• 51:49
  You
• 51:49
  know,
• 51:49
  I
• 51:50
  love.
• 51:50
  Obviously,
• 51:51
  you
• 51:51
  guys
• 51:51
  communicate
• 51:52
  so
• 51:52
  well
• 51:52
  through
• 51:52
  humor,
• 51:54
  but
• 51:54
  behind
• 51:55
  the
• 51:55
  humor,
• 51:56
  what
• 51:56
  are
• 51:57
  some
• 51:57
  of
• 51:58
  the
• 51:58
  most
• 51:58
  powerful
• 51:59
  and
• 51:59
  liberating
• 52:00
  things
• 52:01
  that
• 52:01
  you
• 52:01
  have
• 52:01
  found
• 52:01
  in
• 52:02
  midlife?
• 52:03
  Okay,
• 52:03
  you
• 52:03
  get
• 52:03
  to
• 52:04
  go
• 52:04
  first
• 52:04
  because
• 52:04
  you're
• 52:04
  telling
• 52:05
  me
• 52:05
  I
• 52:05
  was
• 52:05
  too
• 52:05
  serious.
• 52:06
  No,
• 52:06
  no,
• 52:06
  you
• 52:07
  can
• 52:07
  be
• 52:07
  serious
• 52:07
  at
• 52:08
  any
• 52:08
  time.
• 52:08
  I
• 52:08
  just
• 52:08
  thought
• 52:09
  it
• 52:09
  was
• 52:09
  so
• 52:09
  sweet.
• 52:09
  And
• 52:10
  I'm
• 52:10
  like,
• 52:10
  I
• 52:10
  need
• 52:10
  a
• 52:10
  he.
• 52:11
  I
• 52:11
  need
• 52:11
  a
• 52:11
  good
• 52:12
  arch.
• 52:13
  Something
• 52:13
  most
• 52:14
  liberating.
• 52:16
  Oh,
• 52:16
  gosh.
• 52:17
  I
• 52:17
  think
• 52:17
  the
• 52:17
  thing
• 52:18
  that
• 52:18
  I've
• 52:18
  been
• 52:18
  most
• 52:18
  liberated
• 52:19
  about
• 52:19
  in
• 52:19
  midlife
• 52:20
  is
• 52:20
  knowing
• 52:21
  that
• 52:21
  nobody
• 52:21
  else
• 52:22
  has
• 52:22
  it
• 52:22
  all
• 52:22
  figured
• 52:22
  out
• 52:23
  either.
• 52:23
  You
• 52:24
  know,
• 52:24
  as
• 52:25
  midlifers,
• 52:26
  you
• 52:26
  know,
• 52:26
  we.
• 52:26
  We
• 52:26
  have
• 52:27
  a
• 52:27
  lot
• 52:27
  of
• 52:27
  things
• 52:27
  that
• 52:28
  life
• 52:28
  experience
• 52:28
  has
• 52:29
  taught
• 52:29
  us,
• 52:29
  and
• 52:29
  we're
• 52:30
  totally,
• 52:30
  you
• 52:31
  know,
• 52:31
  a
• 52:31
  leg
• 52:31
  up
• 52:31
  on
• 52:32
  the.
• 52:32
  Maybe
• 52:32
  like
• 52:32
  an
• 52:32
  18
• 52:33
  year
• 52:33
  old,
• 52:33
  but,
• 52:34
  you
• 52:34
  know,
• 52:35
  we're
• 52:35
  all
• 52:35
  just
• 52:35
  winging
• 52:35
  it.
• 52:36
  This
• 52:36
  is
• 52:36
  all
• 52:36
  our
• 52:36
  first,
• 52:37
  you
• 52:37
  know,
• 52:37
  our
• 52:38
  first
• 52:38
  trial
• 52:38
  here,
• 52:39
  and.
• 52:39
  And
• 52:40
  nobody's
• 52:40
  going
• 52:40
  through
• 52:41
  the
• 52:41
  same
• 52:41
  thing
• 52:41
  either.
• 52:42
  So
• 52:42
  what?
• 52:42
  I.
• 52:43
  You
• 52:43
  know
• 52:43
  what's
• 52:43
  hard
• 52:44
  for
• 52:44
  me?
• 52:44
  It
• 52:44
  might
• 52:45
  not
• 52:45
  be
• 52:45
  hard
• 52:45
  for
• 52:45
  you,
• 52:46
  but
• 52:46
  that's,
• 52:47
  you
• 52:47
  know,
• 52:47
  and
• 52:48
  that's
• 52:48
  kind
• 52:49
  of
• 52:49
  my
• 52:49
  big
• 52:49
  take
• 52:50
  home
• 52:50
  message.
• 52:51
  You
• 52:51
  got
• 52:51
  one.
• 52:53
  No,
• 52:54
  I.
• 52:54
  I
• 52:54
  think
• 52:55
  that's
• 52:55
  genius.
• 52:56
  We've
• 52:56
  never
• 52:56
  been
• 52:56
  52
• 52:57
  before.
• 52:57
  We've
• 52:58
  never
• 52:58
  been
• 52:58
  53
• 52:59
  before.
• 53:00
  And
• 53:00
  everyone
• 53:00
  is
• 53:01
  a
• 53:01
  hot
• 53:01
  mess.
• 53:01
  Right.
• 53:02
  It's
• 53:02
  just
• 53:03
  what
• 53:03
  degree
• 53:03
  you're
• 53:03
  burning
• 53:04
  at
• 53:04
  that
• 53:04
  time.
• 53:04
  Right.
• 53:05
  Everybody
• 53:06
  is
• 53:06
  absolutely
• 53:07
  a
• 53:07
  hot
• 53:07
  mess.
• 53:07
  Yeah.
• 53:08
  And
• 53:08
  that's
• 53:08
  the
• 53:08
  thing
• 53:08
  we
• 53:08
  love
• 53:09
  to
• 53:09
  show,
• 53:09
  too,
• 53:09
  is,
• 53:09
  like,
• 53:09
  we
• 53:10
  don't
• 53:10
  have.
• 53:10
  It
• 53:10
  all
• 53:10
  figured
• 53:10
  out.
• 53:11
  You
• 53:11
  know,
• 53:11
  I
• 53:11
  yearly.
• 53:12
  I.
• 53:13
  Yeah.
• 53:13
  Yeah.
• 53:14
  Again.
• 53:14
  And
• 53:15
  that
• 53:15
  makes
• 53:15
  you,
• 53:15
  you
• 53:15
  know,
• 53:16
  instead
• 53:16
  of
• 53:16
  feeling
• 53:16
  bad
• 53:17
  that
• 53:17
  you
• 53:17
  can't
• 53:17
  remember,
• 53:18
  you
• 53:18
  know,
• 53:19
  where
• 53:19
  you
• 53:19
  parked
• 53:20
  your
• 53:20
  car,
• 53:20
  which
• 53:20
  is,
• 53:21
  you
• 53:21
  know,
• 53:21
  not
• 53:21
  a
• 53:22
  good
• 53:22
  feeling.
• 53:22
  Yeah.
• 53:23
  We've
• 53:24
  all
• 53:24
  done
• 53:24
  it.
• 53:24
  It's
• 53:24
  okay.
• 53:25
  Yes.
• 53:25
  When
• 53:25
  you
• 53:26
  have
• 53:26
  to
• 53:26
  take.
• 53:26
  I
• 53:26
  always
• 53:26
  take
• 53:27
  the
• 53:27
  picture
• 53:27
  now
• 53:27
  of
• 53:28
  the.
• 53:28
  The
• 53:28
  space
• 53:29
  that
• 53:29
  I'm
• 53:29
  in,
• 53:29
  you
• 53:30
  know,
• 53:30
  because.
• 53:31
  Especially
• 53:31
  at
• 53:32
  the
• 53:32
  airport.
• 53:32
  Yeah.
• 53:32
  Oh,
• 53:33
  my
• 53:33
  God.
• 53:33
  Or
• 53:33
  like
• 53:34
  a
• 53:34
  huge
• 53:34
  shopping
• 53:34
  mall.
• 53:35
  Oh,
• 53:35
  my
• 53:35
  God.
• 53:36
  I'm
• 53:36
  like,
• 53:37
  where
• 53:37
  did
• 53:37
  I
• 53:37
  park?
• 53:37
  D2.
• 53:38
  I'm
• 53:38
  on
• 53:38
  D2.
• 53:39
  Totally.
• 53:40
  You're
• 53:41
  like,
• 53:41
  D2.
• 53:41
  Space
• 53:42
  79.
• 53:43
  I
• 53:43
  just
• 53:43
  type
• 53:44
  in
• 53:44
  new
• 53:44
  password
• 53:45
  every
• 53:45
  single
• 53:46
  time.
• 53:46
  Yeah.
• 53:46
  Lisa
• 53:46
  never
• 53:47
  remembers
• 53:47
  a
• 53:47
  password.
• 53:48
  She
• 53:48
  just
• 53:48
  types
• 53:48
  a
• 53:48
  new
• 53:49
  one
• 53:49
  in
• 53:49
  every
• 53:49
  time.
• 53:49
  I
• 53:49
  don't
• 53:50
  have
• 53:50
  any
• 53:50
  guilt
• 53:50
  about
• 53:50
  it.
• 53:51
  Meanwhile,
• 53:51
  Suzette
• 53:52
  writes
• 53:53
  them
• 53:53
  all
• 53:53
  in
• 53:53
  a
• 53:53
  book,
• 53:53
  takes
• 53:54
  a
• 53:54
  picture
• 53:54
  of
• 53:54
  the
• 53:54
  book,
• 53:55
  has
• 53:55
  multiple
• 53:56
  ways
• 53:56
  to
• 53:56
  remember
• 53:56
  a
• 53:57
  password.
• 53:58
  We're
• 53:58
  embracing
• 53:59
  this
• 53:59
  process
• 53:59
  differently,
• 54:00
  and
• 54:00
  that's
• 54:00
  just
• 54:01
  fine.
• 54:01
  It's
• 54:01
  okay.
• 54:02
  That's
• 54:02
  so
• 54:02
  funny.
• 54:03
  My
• 54:03
  husband
• 54:03
  gets
• 54:04
  so
• 54:04
  frustrated.
• 54:04
  That's
• 54:04
  one
• 54:04
  of
• 54:05
  his
• 54:05
  frustrations
• 54:05
  with
• 54:06
  me,
• 54:06
  is
• 54:07
  not
• 54:07
  remembering
• 54:07
  the
• 54:08
  password.
• 54:08
  It's
• 54:08
  like,
• 54:09
  well,
• 54:09
  can
• 54:09
  you
• 54:09
  just
• 54:10
  write
• 54:10
  it
• 54:10
  down?
• 54:10
  And
• 54:10
  I'm
• 54:11
  like,
• 54:11
  oh,
• 54:11
  no,
• 54:11
  no,
• 54:11
  no,
• 54:11
  no.
• 54:12
  I've
• 54:12
  got
• 54:12
  it.
• 54:12
  I've
• 54:12
  got
• 54:12
  it.
• 54:13
  Yeah.
• 54:14
  No,
• 54:14
  you
• 54:14
  don't.
• 54:14
  Yeah,
• 54:15
  don't
• 54:15
  have
• 54:15
  it.
• 54:15
  Don't
• 54:16
  have
• 54:16
  it.
• 54:16
  Perimenopause
• 54:17
  wins
• 54:18
  the
• 54:18
  password
• 54:19
  game
• 54:19
  every
• 54:19
  time.
• 54:20
  Yes.
• 54:21
  But
• 54:21
  there's
• 54:21
  no
• 54:21
  shit.
• 54:22
  You
• 54:22
  know
• 54:22
  what
• 54:22
  I
• 54:22
  mean?
• 54:22
  But
• 54:22
  again,
• 54:23
  that's
• 54:24
  kind
• 54:24
  of
• 54:24
  the
• 54:24
  beauty
• 54:24
  of
• 54:24
  being
• 54:24
  midlife.
• 54:25
  There's
• 54:25
  no
• 54:26
  game.
• 54:26
  There's
• 54:26
  no
• 54:26
  prize
• 54:27
  at
• 54:27
  the
• 54:27
  end
• 54:27
  for
• 54:27
  being
• 54:27
  like.
• 54:27
  And
• 54:28
  the
• 54:28
  award
• 54:28
  goes
• 54:29
  to.
• 54:29
  To
• 54:29
  Suzette
• 54:30
  for
• 54:30
  knowing
• 54:31
  her
• 54:31
  passwords
• 54:31
  the
• 54:31
  most.
• 54:32
  Who
• 54:32
  cares?
• 54:32
  You
• 54:33
  know,
• 54:33
  Lisa's
• 54:34
  like,
• 54:34
  I.
• 54:34
  I
• 54:34
  reset
• 54:35
  it
• 54:35
  every
• 54:35
  day.
• 54:35
  Who
• 54:35
  cares?
• 54:36
  You
• 54:36
  know,
• 54:37
  every
• 54:37
  single
• 54:38
  day.
• 54:38
  You
• 54:38
  guys.
• 54:39
  You
• 54:39
  guys
• 54:40
  have
• 54:40
  to
• 54:40
  do
• 54:40
  the
• 54:40
  Midlife.
• 54:41
  Midlifer
• 54:42
  Awards.
• 54:44
  I
• 54:45
  see.
• 54:46
  I
• 54:46
  mean,
• 54:46
  writing
• 54:47
  it
• 54:47
  down
• 54:47
  to
• 54:47
  my
• 54:48
  paper.
• 54:49
  Already
• 54:49
  got
• 54:49
  some
• 54:49
  ideas
• 54:50
  from
• 54:50
  our
• 54:50
  conversation
• 54:50
  today.
• 54:51
  I
• 54:52
  love
• 54:52
  that.
• 54:53
  The
• 54:53
  Midlifer
• 54:54
  Awards.
• 54:54
  Oh,
• 54:54
  my
• 54:54
  God.
• 54:54
  I'll
• 54:55
  be
• 54:55
  a
• 54:55
  presenter
• 54:55
  if
• 54:55
  you
• 54:55
  ever
• 54:56
  need
• 54:56
  one.
• 54:56
  One.
• 54:58
  You're
• 54:58
  a
• 54:58
  red
• 54:58
  carpet
• 54:59
  pro.
• 55:00
  You
• 55:00
  are
• 55:00
  amazing.
• 55:01
  We're
• 55:01
  gonna
• 55:01
  need
• 55:02
  some
• 55:02
  fancy
• 55:02
  bling
• 55:03
  dresses.
• 55:04
  I
• 55:04
  mean.
• 55:04
  Yes,
• 55:04
  I
• 55:05
  can
• 55:05
  help
• 55:05
  you
• 55:05
  with
• 55:05
  that.
• 55:06
  I
• 55:06
  can
• 55:06
  definitely
• 55:07
  help
• 55:07
  you
• 55:07
  with
• 55:07
  that.
• 55:08
  Amazing.
• 55:08
  I
• 55:08
  love
• 55:09
  that
• 55:09
  idea.
• 55:09
  I
• 55:09
  love
• 55:10
  it.
• 55:11
  I
• 55:11
  know.
• 55:11
  The
• 55:11
  Midlife
• 55:12
  Awards.
• 55:12
  I
• 55:13
  can
• 55:13
  just
• 55:13
  see
• 55:13
  the
• 55:13
  category.
• 55:14
  I
• 55:14
  mean,
• 55:14
  there.
• 55:15
  There's
• 55:15
  so
• 55:15
  many
• 55:15
  good
• 55:15
  categories.
• 55:16
  There
• 55:17
  are.
• 55:17
  There
• 55:17
  really
• 55:17
  are,
• 55:18
  right?
• 55:18
  I
• 55:18
  feel
• 55:19
  like
• 55:19
  this
• 55:19
  is.
• 55:19
  This
• 55:19
  is
• 55:20
  gold.
• 55:20
  This
• 55:20
  is
• 55:21
  gold.
• 55:23
  Okay,
• 55:23
  so
• 55:23
  what
• 55:24
  advice
• 55:25
  would
• 55:25
  you
• 55:25
  give
• 55:25
  to
• 55:25
  your
• 55:26
  25
• 55:26
  year
• 55:26
  old
• 55:27
  selves
• 55:29
  laugh.
• 55:31
  So
• 55:32
  much
• 55:32
  better
• 55:32
  than
• 55:32
  all
• 55:32
  the
• 55:33
  other
• 55:33
  options.
• 55:35
  It's
• 55:35
  so
• 55:35
  fun.
• 55:36
  And
• 55:36
  find
• 55:36
  your
• 55:37
  tribe.
• 55:37
  Go
• 55:37
  find
• 55:37
  the
• 55:38
  people
• 55:38
  who
• 55:38
  laugh
• 55:38
  with
• 55:39
  you
• 55:39
  rather
• 55:40
  than
• 55:40
  or
• 55:40
  and
• 55:41
  at
• 55:41
  you.
• 55:41
  Find
• 55:41
  those
• 55:42
  people
• 55:42
  too.
• 55:42
  They're
• 55:42
  fun.
• 55:43
  Just
• 55:44
  laugh.
• 55:44
  It's
• 55:45
  fun.
• 55:45
  Yeah.
• 55:46
  Yeah.
• 55:49
  I
• 55:49
  think
• 55:49
  my
• 55:49
  advice
• 55:50
  to
• 55:50
  myself
• 55:50
  would
• 55:50
  be
• 55:51
  things
• 55:52
  don't
• 55:52
  always
• 55:52
  work
• 55:52
  out
• 55:53
  the
• 55:53
  way
• 55:53
  you
• 55:53
  think
• 55:53
  they
• 55:54
  will,
• 55:54
  but
• 55:54
  they
• 55:54
  still
• 55:54
  are
• 55:55
  good.
• 55:55
  You
• 55:55
  know,
• 55:56
  I
• 55:56
  think
• 55:57
  when
• 55:57
  you
• 55:57
  let
• 55:57
  go
• 55:57
  of
• 55:57
  that
• 55:57
  preconceived
• 55:58
  notion
• 55:58
  of
• 55:59
  how
• 55:59
  life
• 55:59
  is
• 55:59
  supposed
• 55:59
  to
• 56:00
  be,
• 56:00
  then
• 56:01
  it's
• 56:01
  so
• 56:01
  much
• 56:01
  more
• 56:02
  freeing.
• 56:03
  There's
• 56:03
  good
• 56:03
  to
• 56:03
  be
• 56:03
  found
• 56:04
  in
• 56:04
  every
• 56:04
  situation,
• 56:05
  but,
• 56:06
  you
• 56:07
  know,
• 56:07
  might
• 56:07
  not
• 56:07
  be
• 56:07
  what
• 56:08
  you
• 56:08
  thought
• 56:08
  it
• 56:08
  was.
• 56:08
  Well.
• 56:09
  And
• 56:09
  you
• 56:09
  don't
• 56:09
  gauge
• 56:09
  it
• 56:09
  on
• 56:10
  failure.
• 56:11
  If
• 56:11
  you
• 56:11
  have
• 56:11
  a
• 56:11
  preconceived
• 56:12
  notion
• 56:12
  of
• 56:12
  how
• 56:13
  it's
• 56:13
  supposed
• 56:13
  to
• 56:13
  go.
• 56:14
  Yeah.
• 56:14
  Then
• 56:15
  you
• 56:15
  didn't
• 56:15
  reach
• 56:15
  those
• 56:16
  milestones.
• 56:17
  Right.
• 56:18
  And
• 56:18
  this
• 56:18
  way
• 56:19
  there's
• 56:20
  different.
• 56:20
  Like
• 56:21
  you
• 56:21
  find
• 56:21
  the
• 56:21
  milestones
• 56:22
  along
• 56:22
  the
• 56:22
  way
• 56:23
  rather
• 56:23
  than
• 56:24
  it's
• 56:24
  a
• 56:24
  success
• 56:25
  or
• 56:25
  a
• 56:25
  failure
• 56:26
  preconceived
• 56:26
  notion.
• 56:27
  I
• 56:27
  think
• 56:27
  that's
• 56:27
  awesome.
• 56:28
  Yes.
• 56:28
  And
• 56:28
  I
• 56:28
  always
• 56:29
  say
• 56:29
  let
• 56:29
  go
• 56:29
  of
• 56:29
  the
• 56:30
  timelines.
• 56:30
  Like,
• 56:30
  timelines
• 56:31
  don't
• 56:31
  matter.
• 56:32
  Right.
• 56:32
  Like
• 56:32
  these
• 56:33
  unrealistic,
• 56:34
  like
• 56:34
  so
• 56:34
  good
• 56:35
  things
• 56:35
  that
• 56:35
  we
• 56:35
  write
• 56:36
  that
• 56:36
  we
• 56:36
  set
• 56:37
  ourselves
• 56:37
  up
• 56:37
  for
• 56:37
  that
• 56:38
  we
• 56:38
  need
• 56:38
  to
• 56:38
  have
• 56:38
  this
• 56:38
  done
• 56:39
  by
• 56:39
  this
• 56:39
  age
• 56:39
  and
• 56:39
  this
• 56:40
  done
• 56:40
  by
• 56:40
  this.
• 56:41
  It's
• 56:41
  like.
• 56:41
  No,
• 56:41
  no,
• 56:41
  no,
• 56:41
  no,
• 56:41
  no.
• 56:42
  Just
• 56:42
  live
• 56:42
  it
• 56:42
  day
• 56:43
  by
• 56:43
  day.
• 56:43
  Like
• 56:43
  figure
• 56:44
  it
• 56:44
  out
• 56:44
  as
• 56:44
  you
• 56:44
  go.
• 56:45
  Wing
• 56:46
  it.
• 56:46
  So
• 56:46
  good.
• 56:46
  Right?
• 56:47
  So
• 56:47
  good.
• 56:47
  Yeah.
• 56:48
  Don't
• 56:48
  you
• 56:48
  think?
• 56:49
  Yes.
• 56:50
  Okay.
• 56:50
  So
• 56:50
  what
• 56:51
  did
• 56:51
  25
• 56:52
  year
• 56:52
  old
• 56:52
  the
• 56:53
  two
• 56:53
  of
• 56:53
  you
• 56:53
  look
• 56:54
  like?
• 56:54
  Like,
• 56:55
  what
• 56:55
  were
• 56:55
  you
• 56:55
  guys
• 56:55
  doing
• 56:56
  at
• 56:56
  25?
• 56:57
  Remember
• 56:57
  that
• 56:57
  was
• 56:57
  the
• 56:58
  turn
• 56:58
  of
• 56:58
  the
• 56:58
  century.
• 56:59
  I
• 56:59
  know
• 56:59
  the
• 57:00
  year
• 57:00
  2000s,
• 57:01
  2000.
• 57:02
  We
• 57:02
  were
• 57:03
  living
• 57:03
  very
• 57:03
  different
• 57:03
  lives
• 57:04
  and
• 57:04
  didn't
• 57:04
  know
• 57:04
  each
• 57:04
  other.
• 57:05
  What
• 57:05
  were
• 57:05
  you
• 57:05
  doing
• 57:06
  25?
• 57:07
  I
• 57:08
  was
• 57:09
  living
• 57:09
  in
• 57:09
  South
• 57:10
  Bend,
• 57:10
  Indiana
• 57:10
  when
• 57:11
  my
• 57:11
  finished.
• 57:11
  My
• 57:11
  husband
• 57:12
  finished
• 57:12
  law
• 57:12
  school.
• 57:13
  You
• 57:13
  were
• 57:13
  married?
• 57:14
  I
• 57:14
  was
• 57:14
  married.
• 57:15
  And.
• 57:17
  Yeah.
• 57:18
  Really
• 57:19
  not
• 57:20
  knowing
• 57:20
  what
• 57:20
  the
• 57:20
  next
• 57:21
  step
• 57:21
  was,
• 57:21
  but
• 57:21
  I
• 57:22
  was
• 57:22
  the
• 57:22
  main
• 57:23
  breadwinner
• 57:23
  for
• 57:23
  my
• 57:24
  family.
• 57:26
  Oh,
• 57:26
  wow.
• 57:27
  Yeah.
• 57:27
  Yeah.
• 57:28
  Living
• 57:28
  in
• 57:29
  South
• 57:29
  Bend.
• 57:30
  Yeah.
• 57:31
  I
• 57:31
  was
• 57:31
  very
• 57:32
  single
• 57:33
  and
• 57:34
  millennium
• 57:35
  New
• 57:35
  Year's
• 57:35
  I
• 57:36
  was
• 57:36
  in
• 57:36
  New
• 57:36
  Orleans
• 57:37
  and
• 57:38
  with
• 57:38
  25
• 57:39
  friends
• 57:40
  and
• 57:42
  prayed
• 57:42
  that
• 57:42
  I
• 57:42
  would
• 57:42
  someday
• 57:43
  find
• 57:43
  somebody.
• 57:44
  But
• 57:44
  that
• 57:44
  was
• 57:44
  not
• 57:44
  for
• 57:45
  another
• 57:45
  decade
• 57:45
  later.
• 57:46
  Again,
• 57:46
  goes
• 57:46
  back
• 57:46
  to
• 57:47
  your
• 57:47
  timelines.
• 57:47
  Like
• 57:50
  you
• 57:50
  just
• 57:50
  have
• 57:51
  to.
• 57:51
  I
• 57:51
  think
• 57:51
  you
• 57:52
  need
• 57:52
  to
• 57:52
  have
• 57:52
  honorable
• 57:53
  goals
• 57:53
  and
• 57:54
  then
• 57:54
  just
• 57:54
  continue
• 57:54
  to
• 57:55
  move
• 57:55
  the
• 57:55
  timeline.
• 57:56
  The
• 57:56
  goal
• 57:57
  doesn't
• 57:57
  have
• 57:57
  to
• 57:57
  change,
• 57:57
  but
• 57:58
  your
• 57:58
  timeline.
• 57:59
  My.
• 57:59
  Don't.
• 57:59
  Lisa.
• 58:00
  Don't
• 58:00
  let
• 58:00
  Lisa
• 58:01
  fool
• 58:01
  you.
• 58:01
  She
• 58:01
  was
• 58:02
  like
• 58:02
  a
• 58:02
  high
• 58:02
  powered,
• 58:03
  you
• 58:03
  know,
• 58:03
  political
• 58:04
  PR
• 58:05
  person.
• 58:05
  You
• 58:06
  know,
• 58:06
  she.
• 58:06
  She's
• 58:07
  been
• 58:07
  everywhere,
• 58:08
  done
• 58:08
  so
• 58:09
  much
• 58:09
  stuff.
• 58:09
  Me,
• 58:10
  I
• 58:10
  was
• 58:10
  just.
• 58:10
  My
• 58:10
  little,
• 58:10
  you
• 58:11
  know,
• 58:12
  clerical
• 58:13
  job
• 58:13
  in
• 58:13
  South
• 58:13
  Bend
• 58:14
  doing,
• 58:14
  you
• 58:15
  know,
• 58:16
  Lisa's
• 58:16
  like,
• 58:17
  yes.
• 58:17
  I
• 58:17
  was
• 58:17
  on
• 58:17
  the
• 58:17
  presidential
• 58:18
  jet,
• 58:18
  and
• 58:19
  we
• 58:19
  went
• 58:19
  to
• 58:19
  South
• 58:19
  Korea.
• 58:20
  It
• 58:20
  was
• 58:20
  awesome.
• 58:20
  Oh,
• 58:21
  that's
• 58:21
  pretty
• 58:21
  cool.
• 58:22
  Yeah,
• 58:23
  she's
• 58:23
  had
• 58:23
  some
• 58:23
  pretty
• 58:24
  amazing
• 58:24
  experiences.
• 58:25
  Ditto.
• 58:25
  But
• 58:25
  we
• 58:25
  did
• 58:26
  them
• 58:26
  different.
• 58:26
  Like,
• 58:26
  right?
• 58:27
  I
• 58:27
  lived.
• 58:28
  I
• 58:28
  lived
• 58:28
  very
• 58:29
  single
• 58:29
  for
• 58:29
  a
• 58:29
  while
• 58:30
  and
• 58:30
  then
• 58:30
  embraced
• 58:31
  a
• 58:31
  family
• 58:31
  life.
• 58:32
  Later,
• 58:32
  she
• 58:33
  had
• 58:33
  children
• 58:33
  younger
• 58:34
  and
• 58:34
  married
• 58:35
  younger.
• 58:35
  And
• 58:36
  I
• 58:37
  think
• 58:37
  they're
• 58:37
  both
• 58:37
  great.
• 58:38
  And
• 58:38
  I
• 58:38
  think
• 58:38
  if
• 58:38
  you're
• 58:39
  single,
• 58:39
  it's
• 58:39
  great.
• 58:39
  And
• 58:40
  I
• 58:40
  think
• 58:40
  if
• 58:40
  you
• 58:41
  choose
• 58:41
  to
• 58:41
  have,
• 58:43
  I
• 58:43
  don't
• 58:43
  know,
• 58:44
  a
• 58:44
  house
• 58:44
  full
• 58:44
  of
• 58:44
  cats,
• 58:45
  it's
• 58:45
  great.
• 58:45
  Like,
• 58:46
  what.
• 58:46
  Whatever
• 58:47
  brings
• 58:47
  you
• 58:47
  joy,
• 58:48
  go
• 58:49
  do
• 58:49
  that.
• 58:49
  Yeah.
• 58:50
  Yes,
• 58:50
  I
• 58:51
  agree.
• 58:51
  I
• 58:51
  think
• 58:51
  you
• 58:51
  have
• 58:52
  to
• 58:52
  just
• 58:53
  do
• 58:53
  what
• 58:53
  fulfills,
• 58:54
  like,
• 58:54
  your.
• 58:54
  Your
• 58:55
  heart,
• 58:55
  you
• 58:55
  know,
• 58:56
  and
• 58:56
  it's
• 58:56
  like,
• 58:57
  whatever
• 58:57
  that
• 58:58
  purpose
• 58:58
  is.
• 58:59
  And,
• 58:59
  yeah,
• 58:59
  I
• 59:00
  mean,
• 59:00
  you
• 59:00
  can
• 59:00
  look
• 59:00
  at
• 59:01
  you.
• 59:01
  Two
• 59:01
  of
• 59:01
  you
• 59:01
  had
• 59:01
  totally
• 59:02
  different
• 59:02
  paths,
• 59:03
  but
• 59:03
  you
• 59:03
  came
• 59:04
  together
• 59:04
  at
• 59:05
  this,
• 59:05
  like,
• 59:05
  united
• 59:06
  front.
• 59:07
  You
• 59:07
  know,
• 59:07
  it's
• 59:07
  like.
• 59:08
  It's
• 59:08
  amazing
• 59:09
  how
• 59:10
  everyone's
• 59:10
  story
• 59:10
  is
• 59:11
  so
• 59:11
  different,
• 59:11
  but,
• 59:12
  like,
• 59:12
  totally.
• 59:13
  So
• 59:13
  rich,
• 59:13
  right?
• 59:14
  Like,
• 59:14
  it's
• 59:14
  so
• 59:15
  cool.
• 59:15
  And
• 59:16
  now
• 59:16
  we're
• 59:16
  chatting
• 59:16
  with
• 59:16
  you,
• 59:17
  Roxy.
• 59:17
  I
• 59:17
  know.
• 59:18
  Who
• 59:18
  knew
• 59:18
  red
• 59:19
  carpet?
• 59:19
  I
• 59:20
  know.
• 59:20
  The
• 59:20
  queen
• 59:20
  right
• 59:21
  here.
• 59:23
  I
• 59:23
  mean,
• 59:23
  no,
• 59:23
  I'm
• 59:24
  so
• 59:24
  excited.
• 59:24
  I
• 59:25
  was,
• 59:25
  like,
• 59:25
  fangirling
• 59:26
  talking
• 59:26
  to
• 59:26
  you
• 59:26
  guys.
• 59:26
  I'm
• 59:27
  like,
• 59:27
  these
• 59:27
  girls
• 59:27
  are
• 59:28
  awesome.
• 59:28
  I'm
• 59:29
  like,
• 59:29
  I
• 59:29
  can't
• 59:30
  wait
• 59:30
  to
• 59:30
  chat
• 59:30
  with
• 59:31
  them.
• 59:31
  This
• 59:31
  is
• 59:31
  so
• 59:31
  fun.
• 59:32
  See,
• 59:33
  we're
• 59:33
  all.
• 59:33
  We're
• 59:34
  totally
• 59:34
  professional.
• 59:34
  Look
• 59:35
  at
• 59:35
  this
• 59:35
  situation
• 59:36
  right
• 59:37
  there.
• 59:38
  You
• 59:38
  mean
• 59:38
  business
• 59:38
  with
• 59:39
  headphones
• 59:39
  and
• 59:39
  microphones?
• 59:40
  We
• 59:40
  have
• 59:40
  professional.
• 59:41
  Listen.
• 59:41
  Look
• 59:41
  at
• 59:41
  this.
• 59:42
  This
• 59:42
  is
• 59:42
  fantastic.
• 59:43
  I
• 59:43
  mean,
• 59:44
  you
• 59:44
  guys
• 59:44
  look
• 59:44
  more
• 59:44
  professional
• 59:45
  than
• 59:45
  I
• 59:45
  do.
• 59:46
  Like,
• 59:46
  with
• 59:46
  your
• 59:46
  full
• 59:46
  setup,
• 59:47
  I'm
• 59:47
  like,
• 59:47
  get
• 59:47
  it,
• 59:47
  girls?
• 59:50
  Again,
• 59:50
  we're
• 59:50
  just
• 59:51
  fumbling
• 59:51
  our
• 59:51
  way
• 59:51
  through
• 59:52
  life
• 59:52
  and
• 59:52
  laughing
• 59:52
  as
• 59:53
  we
• 59:53
  do
• 59:53
  it.
• 59:54
  That's
• 59:54
  the
• 59:54
  best
• 59:54
  way.
• 59:55
  Do
• 59:55
  it
• 59:55
  with
• 59:55
  humor.
• 59:56
  Always.
• 59:56
  Always.
• 59:58
  What
• 59:58
  is
• 59:58
  the
• 59:58
  biggest
• 59:59
  lesson
• 59:59
  you've
• 1:00:00
  learned
• 1:00:00
  in
• 1:00:00
  midlife?
• 1:00:02
  I.
• 1:00:02
  My
• 1:00:03
  biggest
• 1:00:03
  lesson
• 1:00:03
  is
• 1:00:03
  there's
• 1:00:04
  no
• 1:00:04
  one
• 1:00:04
  way
• 1:00:04
  to
• 1:00:04
  do
• 1:00:05
  it,
• 1:00:05
  and
• 1:00:05
  everybody's
• 1:00:06
  got
• 1:00:06
  their
• 1:00:06
  own
• 1:00:07
  path.
• 1:00:07
  Again,
• 1:00:07
  just
• 1:00:08
  talking
• 1:00:08
  about,
• 1:00:08
  like,
• 1:00:09
  your
• 1:00:09
  path,
• 1:00:09
  Lisa's
• 1:00:10
  path,
• 1:00:10
  my
• 1:00:10
  path.
• 1:00:11
  You
• 1:00:11
  know,
• 1:00:12
  maybe
• 1:00:12
  in
• 1:00:12
  midlife
• 1:00:13
  you
• 1:00:13
  want
• 1:00:13
  to
• 1:00:13
  go
• 1:00:13
  back
• 1:00:13
  to
• 1:00:13
  school.
• 1:00:14
  Maybe
• 1:00:14
  you
• 1:00:14
  decided
• 1:00:15
  you're
• 1:00:15
  going
• 1:00:15
  to
• 1:00:15
  retire.
• 1:00:15
  You
• 1:00:16
  know,
• 1:00:17
  fitting
• 1:00:17
  into
• 1:00:18
  a
• 1:00:18
  box
• 1:00:18
  is
• 1:00:19
  not
• 1:00:19
  something
• 1:00:19
  that
• 1:00:20
  I
• 1:00:20
  think
• 1:00:21
  benefits
• 1:00:22
  anybody.
• 1:00:23
  Yeah.
• 1:00:24
  Joy
• 1:00:25
  comes
• 1:00:25
  in
• 1:00:25
  all
• 1:00:26
  sizes
• 1:00:26
  and
• 1:00:27
  shapes,
• 1:00:27
  and
• 1:00:28
  I
• 1:00:28
  think
• 1:00:30
  it's
• 1:00:30
  not.
• 1:00:31
  It's
• 1:00:32
  not
• 1:00:32
  an
• 1:00:32
  end
• 1:00:32
  game
• 1:00:33
  either.
• 1:00:33
  There's
• 1:00:34
  so
• 1:00:35
  much
• 1:00:35
  joy
• 1:00:35
  in
• 1:00:35
  the
• 1:00:36
  journey,
• 1:00:37
  and
• 1:00:37
  we're
• 1:00:37
  really
• 1:00:38
  lucky
• 1:00:39
  to
• 1:00:39
  get
• 1:00:39
  to
• 1:00:39
  continue
• 1:00:40
  our
• 1:00:40
  journey.
• 1:00:41
  And
• 1:00:41
  so
• 1:00:41
  every
• 1:00:42
  day
• 1:00:42
  we
• 1:00:42
  get.
• 1:00:42
  I'm
• 1:00:43
  gonna
• 1:00:43
  find
• 1:00:43
  that
• 1:00:43
  Joy.
• 1:00:45
  And
• 1:00:46
  hopefully,
• 1:00:47
  hopefully
• 1:00:47
  we're
• 1:00:48
  able
• 1:00:48
  to
• 1:00:48
  bring
• 1:00:48
  a
• 1:00:48
  little
• 1:00:49
  joy
• 1:00:49
  to
• 1:00:49
  someone
• 1:00:49
  else
• 1:00:49
  in
• 1:00:50
  that
• 1:00:50
  process,
• 1:00:50
  because
• 1:00:51
  that
• 1:00:51
  just
• 1:00:52
  multiplies.
• 1:00:52
  Yep.
• 1:00:52
  And
• 1:00:53
  that's
• 1:00:53
  pretty
• 1:00:53
  much
• 1:00:53
  our
• 1:00:53
  whole
• 1:00:53
  goal
• 1:00:54
  for
• 1:00:54
  midlifers.
• 1:00:54
  You
• 1:00:55
  know,
• 1:00:55
  we
• 1:00:55
  want
• 1:00:55
  to
• 1:00:55
  make
• 1:00:55
  people
• 1:00:55
  feel
• 1:00:56
  seen
• 1:00:57
  and
• 1:00:58
  give
• 1:00:58
  them
• 1:00:58
  a
• 1:00:58
  smile
• 1:00:59
  and
• 1:00:59
  sprinkle
• 1:01:00
  joy
• 1:01:00
  along
• 1:01:01
  the
• 1:01:01
  way.
• 1:01:01
  That's
• 1:01:01
  our
• 1:01:01
  home.
• 1:01:02
  Well,
• 1:01:02
  you
• 1:01:03
  can
• 1:01:03
  tell.
• 1:01:03
  I
• 1:01:03
  mean,
• 1:01:03
  you
• 1:01:04
  guys
• 1:01:04
  are
• 1:01:04
  so,
• 1:01:05
  like,
• 1:01:05
  people
• 1:01:06
  are.
• 1:01:06
  Are
• 1:01:06
  really
• 1:01:07
  responding
• 1:01:07
  to
• 1:01:08
  what
• 1:01:08
  you
• 1:01:08
  guys
• 1:01:08
  are
• 1:01:08
  doing.
• 1:01:08
  I
• 1:01:09
  mean,
• 1:01:09
  you
• 1:01:09
  can
• 1:01:09
  tell
• 1:01:09
  by
• 1:01:10
  the
• 1:01:10
  comments
• 1:01:11
  and
• 1:01:11
  just
• 1:01:11
  the
• 1:01:11
  following,
• 1:01:12
  like,
• 1:01:13
  all
• 1:01:13
  these
• 1:01:13
  good
• 1:01:13
  things.
• 1:01:14
  So
• 1:01:15
  it
• 1:01:15
  feels
• 1:01:15
  like
• 1:01:15
  you
• 1:01:15
  guys
• 1:01:15
  have
• 1:01:16
  really
• 1:01:16
  tapped
• 1:01:16
  into
• 1:01:17
  what
• 1:01:17
  you're
• 1:01:17
  supposed
• 1:01:18
  to
• 1:01:18
  be
• 1:01:18
  doing
• 1:01:18
  right
• 1:01:19
  now,
• 1:01:19
  which
• 1:01:19
  is
• 1:01:19
  amazing.
• 1:01:21
  But
• 1:01:21
  I
• 1:01:21
  also
• 1:01:21
  wanted
• 1:01:22
  to
• 1:01:22
  know,
• 1:01:22
  how
• 1:01:22
  are
• 1:01:22
  you
• 1:01:22
  guys
• 1:01:23
  living
• 1:01:23
  iconically?
• 1:01:25
  Do
• 1:01:25
  that
• 1:01:25
  again.
• 1:01:26
  Oh,
• 1:01:26
  Roxy,
• 1:01:27
  listen.
• 1:01:27
  I
• 1:01:28
  hit
• 1:01:28
  my
• 1:01:28
  own
• 1:01:28
  garage
• 1:01:29
  with
• 1:01:29
  my
• 1:01:29
  own
• 1:01:30
  car
• 1:01:30
  and
• 1:01:30
  ripped
• 1:01:31
  up
• 1:01:31
  the
• 1:01:31
  bumper
• 1:01:32
  of
• 1:01:32
  my
• 1:01:32
  own
• 1:01:32
  car,
• 1:01:33
  and
• 1:01:34
  it's
• 1:01:34
  in
• 1:01:34
  the
• 1:01:35
  shop.
• 1:01:35
  This
• 1:01:35
  is.
• 1:01:36
  This
• 1:01:36
  is
• 1:01:36
  Suzette.
• 1:01:36
  This
• 1:01:37
  is
• 1:01:37
  the
• 1:01:37
  icon.
• 1:01:37
  Suzette.
• 1:01:38
  Icon.
• 1:01:39
  Yeah.
• 1:01:39
  Yeah.
• 1:01:40
  This
• 1:01:40
  is.
• 1:01:41
  This.
• 1:01:41
  This
• 1:01:41
  is
• 1:01:42
  my
• 1:01:42
  icon.
• 1:01:42
  This
• 1:01:42
  is
• 1:01:43
  my
• 1:01:43
  whole
• 1:01:43
  life.
• 1:01:43
  You
• 1:01:44
  know,
• 1:01:44
  my.
• 1:01:44
  My
• 1:01:44
  iconicness
• 1:01:45
  is
• 1:01:46
  I'm
• 1:01:46
  a
• 1:01:46
  hot
• 1:01:47
  mess,
• 1:01:47
  and
• 1:01:47
  I
• 1:01:47
  own
• 1:01:47
  it,
• 1:01:48
  and
• 1:01:48
  it's
• 1:01:48
  hilarious.
• 1:01:49
  Oh,
• 1:01:49
  I
• 1:01:49
  don't
• 1:01:49
  care.
• 1:01:51
  So
• 1:01:51
  good.
• 1:01:51
  It's
• 1:01:52
  so
• 1:01:52
  good.
• 1:01:53
  Okay.
• 1:01:53
  How
• 1:01:54
  are
• 1:01:54
  you
• 1:01:54
  living
• 1:01:54
  iconically?
• 1:01:55
  How
• 1:01:55
  are
• 1:01:55
  you?
• 1:01:56
  Oh,
• 1:01:56
  I'm
• 1:01:56
  hanging
• 1:01:57
  out
• 1:01:57
  at
• 1:01:57
  the
• 1:01:57
  school
• 1:01:58
  PTA
• 1:01:58
  meetings.
• 1:01:59
  You
• 1:01:59
  know,
• 1:02:01
  it's
• 1:02:01
  really
• 1:02:01
  glamorous.
• 1:02:02
  The
• 1:02:02
  things
• 1:02:02
  that
• 1:02:03
  we
• 1:02:03
  do
• 1:02:03
  are
• 1:02:03
  just
• 1:02:03
  glamorous.
• 1:02:04
  And
• 1:02:04
  I
• 1:02:04
  think
• 1:02:05
  that's.
• 1:02:06
  That
• 1:02:06
  goes
• 1:02:06
  back
• 1:02:06
  to
• 1:02:06
  being
• 1:02:07
  authentically
• 1:02:07
  yourself.
• 1:02:08
  Right.
• 1:02:08
  Sometimes
• 1:02:09
  this
• 1:02:10
  right
• 1:02:10
  here
• 1:02:10
  might
• 1:02:10
  seem
• 1:02:11
  exciting
• 1:02:13
  or
• 1:02:13
  getting
• 1:02:13
  a
• 1:02:14
  box.
• 1:02:14
  Yeah.
• 1:02:14
  But
• 1:02:15
  I
• 1:02:15
  mean,
• 1:02:15
  or
• 1:02:15
  getting
• 1:02:15
  a
• 1:02:15
  box
• 1:02:16
  of
• 1:02:16
  free
• 1:02:16
  merch,
• 1:02:17
  and.
• 1:02:17
  Oh,
• 1:02:17
  that's
• 1:02:18
  so
• 1:02:18
  exciting.
• 1:02:18
  But
• 1:02:19
  ultimately,
• 1:02:19
  it's
• 1:02:20
  just
• 1:02:20
  like
• 1:02:20
  when
• 1:02:20
  you're
• 1:02:20
  a
• 1:02:21
  new
• 1:02:21
  mom
• 1:02:21
  and
• 1:02:21
  you're
• 1:02:21
  still
• 1:02:21
  changing
• 1:02:22
  diapers,
• 1:02:22
  like,
• 1:02:23
  does.
• 1:02:24
  It's
• 1:02:25
  just
• 1:02:25
  part
• 1:02:25
  of
• 1:02:26
  life.
• 1:02:26
  Life
• 1:02:26
  is
• 1:02:26
  a
• 1:02:27
  hot
• 1:02:27
  mess
• 1:02:27
  and
• 1:02:27
  fun
• 1:02:28
  and
• 1:02:28
  messy.
• 1:02:29
  And
• 1:02:30
  I
• 1:02:30
  think
• 1:02:30
  the
• 1:02:31
  joy
• 1:02:31
  of
• 1:02:31
  midlife
• 1:02:32
  is
• 1:02:32
  the
• 1:02:32
  more
• 1:02:32
  you
• 1:02:33
  embrace
• 1:02:33
  it,
• 1:02:34
  the
• 1:02:34
  more
• 1:02:36
  every
• 1:02:36
  little
• 1:02:37
  aspect
• 1:02:37
  of
• 1:02:37
  it
• 1:02:37
  is
• 1:02:38
  iconic.
• 1:02:39
  I
• 1:02:39
  could
• 1:02:40
  sit
• 1:02:40
  and
• 1:02:41
  watch
• 1:02:41
  Suzette
• 1:02:42
  in
• 1:02:42
  all
• 1:02:42
  her
• 1:02:43
  antics
• 1:02:43
  daily,
• 1:02:45
  and
• 1:02:45
  to
• 1:02:45
  me.
• 1:02:45
  That
• 1:02:46
  neighbor,
• 1:02:46
  so
• 1:02:46
  she
• 1:02:46
  could
• 1:02:46
  actually
• 1:02:47
  see
• 1:02:47
  me
• 1:02:47
  with
• 1:02:48
  my
• 1:02:48
  own
• 1:02:48
  garage,
• 1:02:48
  with
• 1:02:48
  my
• 1:02:48
  own
• 1:02:49
  car,
• 1:02:49
  you
• 1:02:49
  know?
• 1:02:50
  But
• 1:02:51
  that,
• 1:02:51
  to
• 1:02:51
  me,
• 1:02:52
  is
• 1:02:52
  iconic.
• 1:02:53
  It's
• 1:02:53
  so
• 1:02:53
  much
• 1:02:53
  more
• 1:02:54
  memorable
• 1:02:54
  and
• 1:02:54
  funny
• 1:02:55
  than
• 1:02:55
  anything
• 1:02:55
  I'm
• 1:02:56
  going
• 1:02:56
  to
• 1:02:56
  see
• 1:02:56
  on
• 1:02:56
  a
• 1:02:56
  big
• 1:02:57
  movie
• 1:02:57
  screen.
• 1:02:58
  It's
• 1:02:58
  real
• 1:02:59
  life,
• 1:02:59
  and
• 1:02:59
  it
• 1:03:00
  is
• 1:03:01
  where
• 1:03:01
  true
• 1:03:02
  joy
• 1:03:02
  comes
• 1:03:03
  from.
• 1:03:03
  And
• 1:03:03
  so
• 1:03:04
  I
• 1:03:04
  think
• 1:03:04
  just
• 1:03:04
  embracing
• 1:03:05
  all
• 1:03:05
  of.
• 1:03:06
  All
• 1:03:06
  of
• 1:03:06
  your
• 1:03:06
  hot
• 1:03:07
  mess
• 1:03:07
  makes
• 1:03:08
  all
• 1:03:08
  the
• 1:03:08
  little
• 1:03:08
  things
• 1:03:09
  in
• 1:03:09
  life
• 1:03:09
  so
• 1:03:09
  much
• 1:03:09
  more
• 1:03:10
  fun.
• 1:03:10
  Yes.
• 1:03:11
  And
• 1:03:11
  funny,
• 1:03:12
  you
• 1:03:12
  know?
• 1:03:13
  Absolutely.
• 1:03:14
  And
• 1:03:14
  even
• 1:03:15
  more
• 1:03:15
  so
• 1:03:15
  putting
• 1:03:16
  it
• 1:03:16
  out
• 1:03:16
  there
• 1:03:16
  because
• 1:03:17
  you're
• 1:03:17
  making
• 1:03:17
  other
• 1:03:17
  people
• 1:03:18
  feel
• 1:03:18
  like
• 1:03:18
  they're
• 1:03:18
  not
• 1:03:19
  alone.
• 1:03:20
  Speaking
• 1:03:20
  of
• 1:03:20
  that,
• 1:03:20
  I
• 1:03:21
  like
• 1:03:21
  to
• 1:03:21
  think
• 1:03:22
  Suzette
• 1:03:22
  has
• 1:03:22
  taught
• 1:03:22
  me
• 1:03:23
  the
• 1:03:23
  skill
• 1:03:23
  of
• 1:03:23
  caring
• 1:03:23
  less.
• 1:03:24
  Like,
• 1:03:24
  just
• 1:03:24
  don't
• 1:03:25
  care.
• 1:03:25
  Just
• 1:03:25
  go
• 1:03:25
  be
• 1:03:25
  you.
• 1:03:26
  And
• 1:03:26
  I'm.
• 1:03:27
  I'm.
• 1:03:27
  That's
• 1:03:27
  my
• 1:03:28
  mantra.
• 1:03:28
  Just
• 1:03:28
  go
• 1:03:28
  be
• 1:03:29
  you.
• 1:03:29
  I
• 1:03:30
  met
• 1:03:30
  the
• 1:03:30
  hairdresser
• 1:03:31
  a
• 1:03:31
  couple
• 1:03:31
  months
• 1:03:31
  ago,
• 1:03:32
  and
• 1:03:32
  I
• 1:03:33
  just
• 1:03:33
  had
• 1:03:34
  gotten
• 1:03:34
  color
• 1:03:34
  put
• 1:03:35
  on
• 1:03:35
  my
• 1:03:35
  hair.
• 1:03:35
  I
• 1:03:35
  mean,
• 1:03:36
  like,
• 1:03:36
  it
• 1:03:37
  was
• 1:03:37
  actually.
• 1:03:37
  It
• 1:03:37
  wasn't
• 1:03:37
  done.
• 1:03:38
  She
• 1:03:38
  was
• 1:03:38
  midway
• 1:03:39
  through
• 1:03:39
  the
• 1:03:39
  hair,
• 1:03:40
  and
• 1:03:40
  I
• 1:03:40
  get
• 1:03:41
  a
• 1:03:41
  call
• 1:03:41
  from
• 1:03:41
  the
• 1:03:41
  school
• 1:03:42
  nurse.
• 1:03:42
  Your
• 1:03:43
  child's
• 1:03:43
  throwing
• 1:03:44
  up.
• 1:03:45
  So
• 1:03:45
  I
• 1:03:45
  call
• 1:03:45
  my
• 1:03:46
  husband.
• 1:03:46
  He's
• 1:03:46
  like,
• 1:03:46
  I'm
• 1:03:47
  in
• 1:03:47
  a
• 1:03:47
  meeting.
• 1:03:47
  I
• 1:03:47
  can't
• 1:03:48
  get
• 1:03:48
  there.
• 1:03:48
  And
• 1:03:48
  I
• 1:03:49
  call
• 1:03:49
  two
• 1:03:49
  neighbors.
• 1:03:50
  They're
• 1:03:50
  not
• 1:03:50
  home.
• 1:03:51
  And
• 1:03:51
  I'm
• 1:03:52
  like,
• 1:03:52
  nobody
• 1:03:52
  wants
• 1:03:53
  to
• 1:03:53
  throw
• 1:03:53
  up
• 1:03:53
  at
• 1:03:53
  school.
• 1:03:54
  I
• 1:03:54
  gotta
• 1:03:54
  go
• 1:03:54
  get
• 1:03:55
  my
• 1:03:55
  kid.
• 1:03:56
  My
• 1:03:56
  awesome
• 1:03:57
  hairdresser.
• 1:03:58
  Shout
• 1:03:58
  out.
• 1:03:58
  Colleen
• 1:03:59
  King
• 1:03:59
  says,
• 1:04:00
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• 1:04:00
  just
• 1:04:00
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• 1:04:01
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• 1:04:02
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• 1:04:02
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• 1:04:03
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• 1:04:03
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• 1:04:03
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• 1:04:03
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• 1:04:04
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• 1:04:04
  can
• 1:04:04
  do
• 1:04:04
  it
• 1:04:04
  in
• 1:04:04
  five
• 1:04:04
  minutes.
• 1:04:05
  And
• 1:04:05
  you
• 1:04:05
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• 1:04:05
  leave
• 1:04:05
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• 1:04:05
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• 1:04:05
  shower
• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:06
  And
• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:07
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• 1:04:07
  Let's
• 1:04:07
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• 1:04:07
  Call
• 1:04:07
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• 1:04:08
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• 1:04:08
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:10
  Mom
• 1:04:11
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• 1:04:11
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• 1:04:11
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• 1:04:12
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• 1:04:13
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• 1:04:13
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• 1:04:14
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• 1:04:14
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• 1:04:14
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• 1:04:14
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• 1:04:14
  I'm
• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:16
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• 1:04:16
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• 1:04:16
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• 1:04:17
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• 1:04:17
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• 1:04:18
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• 1:04:18
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• 1:04:18
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• 1:04:19
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• 1:04:19
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• 1:04:20
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• 1:04:21
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• 1:04:21
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• 1:04:21
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• 1:04:21
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• 1:04:22
  A
• 1:04:22
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• 1:04:22
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• 1:04:22
  cap.
• 1:04:23
  And
• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:25
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• 1:04:25
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• 1:04:26
  And
• 1:04:26
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• 1:04:27
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• 1:04:27
  care.
• 1:04:28
  I
• 1:04:28
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• 1:04:29
  a
• 1:04:29
  lot.
• 1:04:30
  Because
• 1:04:31
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• 1:04:32
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• 1:04:32
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• 1:04:32
  ridiculous.
• 1:04:33
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• 1:04:33
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• 1:04:33
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• 1:04:34
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• 1:04:34
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• 1:04:34
  Like,
• 1:04:36
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• 1:04:37
  my
• 1:04:37
  family
• 1:04:37
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• 1:04:37
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• 1:04:38
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• 1:04:38
  alone
• 1:04:38
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• 1:04:38
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• 1:04:39
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• 1:04:39
  neighbors
• 1:04:39
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• 1:04:40
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• 1:04:40
  principal.
• 1:04:41
  And
• 1:04:42
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• 1:04:42
  like,
• 1:04:42
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• 1:04:43
  So
• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:45
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• 1:04:45
  You
• 1:04:45
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• 1:04:45
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:47
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• 1:04:47
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• 1:04:47
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• 1:04:47
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• 1:04:47
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:49
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• 1:04:50
  And
• 1:04:50
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• 1:04:50
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:57
  And
• 1:04:57
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• 1:04:57
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• 1:04:58
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• 1:04:58
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• 1:04:58
  It's
• 1:04:59
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:04:59
  right?
• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:01
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• 1:05:01
  And
• 1:05:01
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• 1:05:01
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• 1:05:02
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• 1:05:02
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• 1:05:02
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• 1:05:02
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• 1:05:03
  This
• 1:05:03
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• 1:05:03
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• 1:05:04
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• 1:05:04
  This
• 1:05:04
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• 1:05:04
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• 1:05:05
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• 1:05:05
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• 1:05:05
  And
• 1:05:06
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• 1:05:07
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• 1:05:07
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• 1:05:07
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• 1:05:08
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:10
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• 1:05:10
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• 1:05:10
  this.
• 1:05:10
  Because
• 1:05:11
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• 1:05:11
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• 1:05:11
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• 1:05:12
  This
• 1:05:13
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• 1:05:13
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• 1:05:13
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• 1:05:14
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• 1:05:14
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• 1:05:15
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• 1:05:15
  me
• 1:05:15
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• 1:05:16
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• 1:05:16
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:17
  And
• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
  put
• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
  on
• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
  Internet
• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:19
  whole
• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:20
  me
• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:20
  my
• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:21
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• 1:05:21
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• 1:05:21
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• 1:05:21
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• 1:05:22
  hair
• 1:05:23
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• 1:05:23
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• 1:05:23
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• 1:05:23
  like,
• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:26
  hot
• 1:05:26
  mess
• 1:05:26
  right
• 1:05:27
  now.
• 1:05:27
  My
• 1:05:27
  kid's
• 1:05:27
  puking.
• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:29
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• 1:05:29
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• 1:05:29
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• 1:05:29
  shower
• 1:05:29
  cap.
• 1:05:30
  I'm
• 1:05:30
  in
• 1:05:30
  public.
• 1:05:31
  But
• 1:05:31
  guess
• 1:05:32
  what?
• 1:05:32
  That's
• 1:05:32
  life.
• 1:05:33
  And
• 1:05:33
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• 1:05:33
  okay.
• 1:05:34
  And
• 1:05:34
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• 1:05:34
  funny,
• 1:05:35
  actually,
• 1:05:35
  if
• 1:05:35
  you
• 1:05:35
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• 1:05:36
  You
• 1:05:36
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• 1:05:37
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• 1:05:37
  away
• 1:05:37
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• 1:05:37
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• 1:05:37
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• 1:05:38
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• 1:05:38
  you
• 1:05:38
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• 1:05:38
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:40
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• 1:05:40
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• 1:05:41
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• 1:05:41
  people
• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:42
  that
• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:43
  you
• 1:05:43
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• 1:05:43
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• 1:05:43
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• 1:05:43
  Yes.
• 1:05:44
  That's
• 1:05:44
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• 1:05:45
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• 1:05:45
  That
• 1:05:45
  is
• 1:05:45
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• 1:05:45
  gift.
• 1:05:46
  What
• 1:05:46
  about,
• 1:05:46
  like,
• 1:05:47
  is
• 1:05:47
  there
• 1:05:47
  mom
• 1:05:47
  drama
• 1:05:48
  at
• 1:05:48
  your
• 1:05:48
  school?
• 1:05:49
  You
• 1:05:49
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• 1:05:49
  how,
• 1:05:49
  like,
• 1:05:49
  mom
• 1:05:49
  drama
• 1:05:50
  is
• 1:05:50
  this
• 1:05:50
  big,
• 1:05:51
  like,
• 1:05:51
  topic
• 1:05:52
  right
• 1:05:52
  now?
• 1:05:52
  Lisa
• 1:05:53
  was
• 1:05:53
  the
• 1:05:53
  president
• 1:05:53
  of
• 1:05:54
  the
• 1:05:54
  pta.
• 1:05:55
  If
• 1:05:55
  she
• 1:05:55
  and
• 1:05:55
  her
• 1:05:55
  husband
• 1:05:56
  were
• 1:05:56
  so,
• 1:05:56
  you
• 1:05:57
  know,
• 1:05:57
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• 1:05:57
  knows
• 1:05:58
  everybody,
• 1:05:58
  but
• 1:05:59
  I.
• 1:06:00
  Don'T
• 1:06:00
  know
• 1:06:00
  any
• 1:06:00
  drama.
• 1:06:01
  Probably
• 1:06:01
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• 1:06:01
  I'm
• 1:06:01
  too
• 1:06:01
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• 1:06:02
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• 1:06:02
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• 1:06:02
  Or
• 1:06:02
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• 1:06:02
  like,
• 1:06:02
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• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:03
  I
• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:05
  I
• 1:06:06
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• 1:06:06
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• 1:06:06
  of
• 1:06:06
  it.
• 1:06:06
  That's
• 1:06:07
  a
• 1:06:07
  beautiful.
• 1:06:07
  The
• 1:06:07
  beautiful,
• 1:06:08
  beautiful
• 1:06:09
  midlife
• 1:06:09
  thing,
• 1:06:10
  you
• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:10
  where
• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:10
  ah,
• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:11
  gonna
• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:11
  my
• 1:06:12
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• 1:06:12
  in
• 1:06:12
  that.
• 1:06:12
  You
• 1:06:13
  know
• 1:06:13
  what?
• 1:06:13
  All
• 1:06:13
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• 1:06:13
  all
• 1:06:13
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• 1:06:14
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• 1:06:14
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• 1:06:14
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:16
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• 1:06:16
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• 1:06:16
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• 1:06:16
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• 1:06:16
  it.
• 1:06:16
  I'm
• 1:06:17
  good.
• 1:06:17
  I
• 1:06:18
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• 1:06:18
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:19
  them
• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:20
  about
• 1:06:20
  it.
• 1:06:20
  So
• 1:06:20
  stop.
• 1:06:23
  Or
• 1:06:23
  I
• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:24
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• 1:06:24
  technology.
• 1:06:24
  I'm
• 1:06:25
  like,
• 1:06:25
  I
• 1:06:25
  don't
• 1:06:25
  know.
• 1:06:26
  It's
• 1:06:26
  a
• 1:06:26
  gift.
• 1:06:27
  It's
• 1:06:27
  a
• 1:06:27
  gift.
• 1:06:28
  She's
• 1:06:28
  amazing.
• 1:06:29
  Yeah,
• 1:06:29
  I
• 1:06:29
  know.
• 1:06:29
  I.
• 1:06:30
  That's.
• 1:06:30
  That's
• 1:06:31
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• 1:06:31
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• 1:06:31
  I'm
• 1:06:31
  like,
• 1:06:32
  gosh,
• 1:06:32
  those
• 1:06:32
  Hollywood
• 1:06:33
  moms
• 1:06:33
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• 1:06:33
  are
• 1:06:33
  in
• 1:06:33
  that
• 1:06:34
  whole
• 1:06:35
  drama
• 1:06:35
  circle,
• 1:06:36
  they
• 1:06:37
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• 1:06:37
  need
• 1:06:37
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• 1:06:37
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• 1:06:37
  of
• 1:06:38
  let
• 1:06:38
  it
• 1:06:38
  go.
• 1:06:38
  I
• 1:06:38
  mean,
• 1:06:39
  life's
• 1:06:39
  too
• 1:06:39
  short,
• 1:06:39
  right?
• 1:06:40
  It's
• 1:06:40
  like,
• 1:06:41
  guys,
• 1:06:41
  you
• 1:06:42
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• 1:06:42
  come
• 1:06:42
  on,
• 1:06:43
  just
• 1:06:43
  laugh.
• 1:06:44
  Yeah,
• 1:06:44
  just
• 1:06:44
  laugh.
• 1:06:45
  That
• 1:06:45
  is
• 1:06:46
  key.
• 1:06:46
  Humor
• 1:06:47
  solves
• 1:06:47
  a
• 1:06:48
  lot.
• 1:06:49
  It
• 1:06:49
  does,
• 1:06:49
  right?
• 1:06:50
  And
• 1:06:50
  even
• 1:06:50
  more
• 1:06:51
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• 1:06:51
  a
• 1:06:51
  gift
• 1:06:51
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• 1:06:51
  you
• 1:06:51
  can
• 1:06:52
  laugh
• 1:06:52
  at
• 1:06:52
  yourself,
• 1:06:53
  you
• 1:06:53
  know?
• 1:06:53
  Absolutely.
• 1:06:54
  Absolutely.
• 1:06:55
  Which
• 1:06:55
  you
• 1:06:55
  guys
• 1:06:56
  have
• 1:06:56
  mastered.
• 1:06:57
  We
• 1:06:57
  love
• 1:06:58
  the
• 1:06:58
  midlifers.
• 1:07:00
  What
• 1:07:00
  is
• 1:07:00
  next
• 1:07:01
  for
• 1:07:01
  you
• 1:07:01
  guys?
• 1:07:03
  The
• 1:07:04
  big
• 1:07:04
  screen.
• 1:07:04
  No.
• 1:07:05
  Yes.
• 1:07:05
  I
• 1:07:06
  want
• 1:07:06
  a
• 1:07:06
  midlifers
• 1:07:07
  movie.
• 1:07:08
  No,
• 1:07:08
  no,
• 1:07:08
  no,
• 1:07:08
  no.
• 1:07:09
  Oh,
• 1:07:09
  gosh.
• 1:07:09
  Nobody
• 1:07:10
  wants
• 1:07:10
  to
• 1:07:10
  see
• 1:07:10
  that.
• 1:07:10
  Nobody
• 1:07:11
  wants
• 1:07:11
  to
• 1:07:11
  see
• 1:07:11
  that.
• 1:07:12
  Everybody
• 1:07:12
  wants
• 1:07:13
  to
• 1:07:13
  see
• 1:07:13
  it.
• 1:07:13
  Everybody.
• 1:07:14
  This
• 1:07:14
  isn't
• 1:07:14
  made
• 1:07:15
  for
• 1:07:15
  the
• 1:07:15
  big
• 1:07:15
  screen.
• 1:07:16
  We're
• 1:07:16
  just
• 1:07:16
  going
• 1:07:17
  to
• 1:07:17
  keep
• 1:07:17
  on
• 1:07:17
  doing
• 1:07:17
  what
• 1:07:17
  we
• 1:07:17
  do,
• 1:07:18
  and
• 1:07:18
  we
• 1:07:18
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• 1:07:18
  like
• 1:07:18
  to
• 1:07:18
  plan
• 1:07:19
  some
• 1:07:19
  events
• 1:07:19
  where
• 1:07:19
  we
• 1:07:19
  can
• 1:07:20
  have
• 1:07:20
  midlifers
• 1:07:20
  get
• 1:07:20
  together
• 1:07:21
  and
• 1:07:22
  kind
• 1:07:23
  of
• 1:07:23
  build
• 1:07:23
  their
• 1:07:24
  community
• 1:07:24
  outside
• 1:07:25
  of
• 1:07:25
  online.
• 1:07:26
  But
• 1:07:27
  we're
• 1:07:27
  just
• 1:07:27
  going
• 1:07:27
  to
• 1:07:28
  keep
• 1:07:28
  on
• 1:07:28
  doing
• 1:07:28
  what
• 1:07:28
  we're
• 1:07:29
  doing,
• 1:07:29
  because
• 1:07:30
  I
• 1:07:30
  think
• 1:07:31
  the
• 1:07:31
  lesson
• 1:07:32
  we've
• 1:07:32
  learned
• 1:07:32
  is
• 1:07:33
  people
• 1:07:33
  want
• 1:07:34
  to
• 1:07:34
  hear
• 1:07:34
  it.
• 1:07:34
  So
• 1:07:35
  we're
• 1:07:35
  excited.
• 1:07:36
  Yeah.
• 1:07:36
  And
• 1:07:37
  this
• 1:07:37
  is
• 1:07:37
  so
• 1:07:37
  great.
• 1:07:37
  We're
• 1:07:38
  so
• 1:07:38
  flattered
• 1:07:38
  that
• 1:07:38
  you
• 1:07:39
  invited
• 1:07:39
  us
• 1:07:39
  on
• 1:07:40
  today.
• 1:07:40
  And
• 1:07:41
  it's
• 1:07:41
  so.
• 1:07:42
  It's
• 1:07:42
  such
• 1:07:42
  a.
• 1:07:43
  That's
• 1:07:43
  one
• 1:07:44
  of
• 1:07:44
  those
• 1:07:44
  things,
• 1:07:44
  you
• 1:07:44
  know,
• 1:07:44
  again,
• 1:07:45
  we.
• 1:07:45
  We
• 1:07:45
  see
• 1:07:45
  people
• 1:07:46
  on
• 1:07:46
  comments
• 1:07:46
  and
• 1:07:47
  things
• 1:07:47
  like
• 1:07:47
  that,
• 1:07:47
  but
• 1:07:47
  when
• 1:07:48
  people
• 1:07:48
  reach
• 1:07:48
  out
• 1:07:48
  and
• 1:07:48
  say,
• 1:07:48
  let's
• 1:07:49
  actually
• 1:07:49
  Talk.
• 1:07:50
  What
• 1:07:50
  a
• 1:07:50
  treat.
• 1:07:50
  And
• 1:07:51
  so
• 1:07:51
  we're
• 1:07:51
  so,
• 1:07:51
  so
• 1:07:52
  grateful
• 1:07:52
  that
• 1:07:52
  you
• 1:07:52
  gave
• 1:07:52
  us
• 1:07:53
  this
• 1:07:53
  opportunity
• 1:07:53
  today.
• 1:07:54
  Thank
• 1:07:54
  you.
• 1:07:55
  Thanks
• 1:07:55
  for
• 1:07:55
  being
• 1:07:55
  a
• 1:07:55
  midlifer
• 1:07:56
  who's
• 1:07:56
  killing
• 1:07:56
  it.
• 1:07:56
  Yeah.
• 1:07:57
  Yeah,
• 1:07:57
  totally.
• 1:07:57
  Yeah.
• 1:07:58
  You're
• 1:07:59
  of
• 1:07:59
  it.
• 1:07:59
  Yeah.
• 1:08:00
  Thank
• 1:08:00
  you.
• 1:08:00
  I'm
• 1:08:01
  trying
• 1:08:01
  my
• 1:08:01
  best.
• 1:08:02
  You
• 1:08:02
  know,
• 1:08:02
  some
• 1:08:02
  days
• 1:08:03
  are
• 1:08:03
  harder
• 1:08:04
  than
• 1:08:04
  others,
• 1:08:04
  but
• 1:08:04
  as
• 1:08:05
  we
• 1:08:05
  know,
• 1:08:05
  it's
• 1:08:05
  like
• 1:08:06
  up
• 1:08:06
  and
• 1:08:06
  down.
• 1:08:08
  No,
• 1:08:08
  but
• 1:08:08
  I.
• 1:08:09
  I
• 1:08:09
  am
• 1:08:09
  so
• 1:08:09
  grateful
• 1:08:10
  for
• 1:08:10
  the
• 1:08:10
  community
• 1:08:11
  and
• 1:08:11
  for
• 1:08:11
  the
• 1:08:11
  community
• 1:08:12
  that
• 1:08:12
  you
• 1:08:12
  guys
• 1:08:12
  are
• 1:08:12
  building,
• 1:08:13
  too.
• 1:08:13
  I
• 1:08:13
  mean,
• 1:08:14
  amazing.
• 1:08:15
  Amazing.
• 1:08:16
  So
• 1:08:17
  we
• 1:08:17
  will
• 1:08:17
  have
• 1:08:17
  to
• 1:08:17
  hang
• 1:08:18
  out
• 1:08:18
  in
• 1:08:18
  real
• 1:08:18
  life,
• 1:08:19
  too,
• 1:08:19
  because
• 1:08:19
  I
• 1:08:19
  have.
• 1:08:19
  A
• 1:08:19
  feeling
• 1:08:20
  we'll
• 1:08:20
  have
• 1:08:20
  super
• 1:08:20
  fun.
• 1:08:21
  Super
• 1:08:21
  fun.
• 1:08:22
  We
• 1:08:22
  would
• 1:08:22
  love
• 1:08:22
  it
• 1:08:23
  anytime.
• 1:08:24
  Absolutely.
• 1:08:24
  So
• 1:08:25
  please
• 1:08:25
  tell
• 1:08:26
  everybody
• 1:08:26
  where
• 1:08:27
  they
• 1:08:27
  can
• 1:08:27
  find
• 1:08:27
  you.
• 1:08:28
  I'm
• 1:08:28
  sure
• 1:08:28
  they
• 1:08:28
  all
• 1:08:28
  listen
• 1:08:29
  to
• 1:08:29
  you.
• 1:08:29
  But
• 1:08:29
  just
• 1:08:30
  in
• 1:08:30
  case,
• 1:08:31
  come
• 1:08:31
  join
• 1:08:31
  the
• 1:08:31
  fun.
• 1:08:32
  It's
• 1:08:32
  midlifers
• 1:08:33
  underscore.
• 1:08:33
  You
• 1:08:34
  can
• 1:08:34
  find
• 1:08:34
  us
• 1:08:34
  on
• 1:08:35
  Instagram,
• 1:08:35
  Facebook
• 1:08:36
  and
• 1:08:36
  TikTok.
• 1:08:37
  And
• 1:08:37
  YouTube.
• 1:08:38
  And
• 1:08:38
  YouTube.
• 1:08:39
  But
• 1:08:39
  on
• 1:08:39
  YouTube,
• 1:08:39
  it
• 1:08:40
  is
• 1:08:40
  midlifers
• 1:08:41
  on
• 1:08:41
  YouTube.
• 1:08:41
  We're
• 1:08:41
  just
• 1:08:42
  getting
• 1:08:42
  started
• 1:08:42
  over
• 1:08:42
  there.
• 1:08:43
  Oh,
• 1:08:43
  cool.
• 1:08:43
  So
• 1:08:44
  what
• 1:08:44
  kind
• 1:08:44
  of
• 1:08:44
  content
• 1:08:44
  are
• 1:08:45
  you
• 1:08:45
  going
• 1:08:45
  to
• 1:08:45
  be
• 1:08:45
  putting
• 1:08:45
  out
• 1:08:45
  on
• 1:08:46
  YouTube?
• 1:08:46
  It's
• 1:08:46
  the
• 1:08:46
  exact
• 1:08:47
  same
• 1:08:47
  thing.
• 1:08:47
  Nice.
• 1:08:48
  We
• 1:08:48
  love
• 1:08:48
  it.
• 1:08:49
  Shorts.
• 1:08:50
  Yeah,
• 1:08:50
  just.
• 1:08:50
  Yeah,
• 1:08:51
  we
• 1:08:52
  got
• 1:08:52
  to
• 1:08:52
  stay
• 1:08:52
  in
• 1:08:52
  our
• 1:08:52
  lane.
• 1:08:53
  You
• 1:08:53
  know
• 1:08:53
  what
• 1:08:53
  I
• 1:08:53
  mean?
• 1:08:55
  Well,
• 1:08:56
  definitely
• 1:08:56
  check
• 1:08:57
  them
• 1:08:57
  out,
• 1:08:57
  you
• 1:08:57
  guys,
• 1:08:59
  for
• 1:08:59
  a
• 1:09:00
  good
• 1:09:00
  laugh.
• 1:09:00
  You
• 1:09:01
  know,
• 1:09:01
  you
• 1:09:01
  will
• 1:09:01
  enjoy
• 1:09:02
  their
• 1:09:02
  content
• 1:09:03
  so
• 1:09:03
  much,
• 1:09:04
  and
• 1:09:04
  I
• 1:09:04
  am
• 1:09:04
  so
• 1:09:04
  excited
• 1:09:05
  because
• 1:09:05
  they
• 1:09:05
  are
• 1:09:05
  actually
• 1:09:06
  coming
• 1:09:06
  back
• 1:09:07
  for
• 1:09:07
  Thursday's
• 1:09:08
  episode.
• 1:09:09
  As
• 1:09:09
  you
• 1:09:09
  know,
• 1:09:09
  we
• 1:09:09
  always
• 1:09:09
  drop
• 1:09:10
  the
• 1:09:10
  game
• 1:09:10
  episode
• 1:09:11
  on
• 1:09:11
  Thursday,
• 1:09:12
  so
• 1:09:12
  we're
• 1:09:13
  gonna
• 1:09:13
  have
• 1:09:13
  so
• 1:09:13
  much
• 1:09:14
  fun
• 1:09:14
  with
• 1:09:14
  them.
• 1:09:14
  We're
• 1:09:14
  gonna
• 1:09:15
  play
• 1:09:15
  a
• 1:09:15
  fun
• 1:09:15
  game,
• 1:09:16
  which
• 1:09:17
  I
• 1:09:17
  know
• 1:09:17
  we're
• 1:09:18
  gonna
• 1:09:18
  get
• 1:09:18
  a
• 1:09:18
  lot
• 1:09:18
  of
• 1:09:18
  great,
• 1:09:19
  fun
• 1:09:19
  answers
• 1:09:19
  out
• 1:09:19
  of
• 1:09:20
  you
• 1:09:20
  guys.
• 1:09:20
  So
• 1:09:20
  I'm
• 1:09:20
  excited
• 1:09:21
  for
• 1:09:21
  that
• 1:09:21
  and
• 1:09:22
  I'm
• 1:09:22
  just
• 1:09:22
  so
• 1:09:22
  excited
• 1:09:23
  you
• 1:09:23
  guys
• 1:09:23
  are
• 1:09:23
  here.
• 1:09:23
  So
• 1:09:24
  thank
• 1:09:24
  you
• 1:09:24
  so
• 1:09:24
  much.
• 1:09:25
  Thank
• 1:09:25
  you
• 1:09:25
  so
• 1:09:26
  much,
• 1:09:26
  Roxy.
• 1:09:26
  Have
• 1:09:26
  a
• 1:09:27
  great
• 1:09:27
  day
• 1:09:27
  and
• 1:09:27
  thank
• 1:09:27
  you
• 1:09:28
  for
• 1:09:28
  thinking
• 1:09:28
  of
• 1:09:28
  us.
• 1:09:29
  Thank
• 1:09:29
  you.
• 1:09:30
  If
• 1:09:30
  that
• 1:09:30
  conversation
• 1:09:31
  didn't
• 1:09:31
  make
• 1:09:32
  you
• 1:09:32
  laugh,
• 1:09:32
  rethink
• 1:09:33
  something,
• 1:09:34
  or
• 1:09:34
  feel
• 1:09:34
  wildly
• 1:09:35
  seen,
• 1:09:35
  I
• 1:09:35
  don't
• 1:09:36
  know
• 1:09:36
  what
• 1:09:36
  will.
• 1:09:37
  Suzette
• 1:09:37
  and
• 1:09:38
  Lisa
• 1:09:38
  didn't
• 1:09:38
  just
• 1:09:39
  bring
• 1:09:39
  the
• 1:09:39
  humor
• 1:09:40
  today.
• 1:09:40
  They
• 1:09:40
  brought
• 1:09:41
  the
• 1:09:41
  truth
• 1:09:41
  behind
• 1:09:42
  the
• 1:09:42
  humor.
• 1:09:43
  And
• 1:09:43
  that
• 1:09:43
  is
• 1:09:43
  exactly
• 1:09:44
  what
• 1:09:44
  this
• 1:09:44
  stage
• 1:09:45
  of
• 1:09:45
  life
• 1:09:45
  deserves.
• 1:09:46
  Less
• 1:09:47
  performing,
• 1:09:48
  more
• 1:09:48
  owning.
• 1:09:50
  If
• 1:09:50
  this
• 1:09:50
  episode
• 1:09:51
  resonated
• 1:09:51
  with
• 1:09:51
  you,
• 1:09:52
  take
• 1:09:52
  a
• 1:09:52
  second
• 1:09:53
  to
• 1:09:53
  follow
• 1:09:53
  the
• 1:09:53
  show
• 1:09:54
  rate,
• 1:09:54
  read
• 1:09:54
  it,
• 1:09:54
  and
• 1:09:55
  leave
• 1:09:55
  a
• 1:09:55
  review
• 1:09:55
  on
• 1:09:56
  your
• 1:09:56
  favorite
• 1:09:56
  podcast
• 1:09:57
  app
• 1:09:57
  or
• 1:09:57
  YouTube.
• 1:09:58
  It's
• 1:09:59
  the
• 1:09:59
  simplest
• 1:09:59
  way
• 1:10:00
  to
• 1:10:00
  support
• 1:10:00
  the
• 1:10:00
  show
• 1:10:01
  and
• 1:10:01
  help
• 1:10:01
  other
• 1:10:01
  women
• 1:10:02
  find
• 1:10:02
  it.
• 1:10:03
  And
• 1:10:03
  if
• 1:10:03
  someone
• 1:10:04
  immediately
• 1:10:05
  popped
• 1:10:05
  into
• 1:10:05
  your
• 1:10:05
  mind
• 1:10:06
  while
• 1:10:06
  listening,
• 1:10:07
  that
• 1:10:07
  friend,
• 1:10:08
  sister,
• 1:10:09
  co
• 1:10:09
  worker,
• 1:10:10
  or
• 1:10:10
  group
• 1:10:10
  chat
• 1:10:11
  queen,
• 1:10:11
  send
• 1:10:12
  this
• 1:10:12
  episode
• 1:10:13
  to
• 1:10:13
  her.
• 1:10:13
  Because
• 1:10:14
  midlife
• 1:10:14
  isn't
• 1:10:15
  meant
• 1:10:15
  to
• 1:10:15
  be
• 1:10:15
  navigated
• 1:10:16
  quietly
• 1:10:16
  or
• 1:10:17
  alone.
• 1:10:18
  And
• 1:10:18
  remember
• 1:10:19
  whether
• 1:10:19
  you're
• 1:10:19
  breaking,
• 1:10:20
  breaking
• 1:10:20
  cycles,
• 1:10:21
  setting
• 1:10:21
  boundaries
• 1:10:22
  or
• 1:10:22
  just
• 1:10:22
  figuring
• 1:10:23
  it
• 1:10:23
  the
• 1:10:23
  fuck
• 1:10:23
  out.
• 1:10:24
  You're
• 1:10:24
  not
• 1:10:25
  crazy.
• 1:10:25
  You're
• 1:10:26
  evolving,
• 1:10:26
  and
• 1:10:27
  that's
• 1:10:27
  iconic.
• 1:10:28
  I'll
• 1:10:28
  see
• 1:10:28
  you
• 1:10:28
  next
• 1:10:29
  time
• 1:10:29
  on
• 1:10:29
  the
• 1:10:29
  Iconic
• 1:10:30
  Midlife.