Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Go ahead, date him!
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, Zoey, Hi, what's going on?
- 0:03Speaker 2: I stated this guy super briefly, maybe like I don't know.
- 0:09Speaker 2: It was like a couple of months. It really wasn't
- 0:11Speaker 2: that serious, and then like it ended and it was bad.
- 0:17Speaker 2: My best friend was like totally there for me, like
- 0:21Speaker 2: being super supportive. She knew all of the details because yeah,
- 0:25Speaker 2: she's my best friend. And then like not long after that,
- 0:32Speaker 2: she tells me that she's been talking to him, and
- 0:36Speaker 2: then that she wants to date him. And at first
- 0:40Speaker 2: I was like, okay, absolutely not, like that's super shady,
- 0:46Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, I blow key mad because
- 0:50Speaker 2: out of everyone, like there are so many men here,
- 0:52Speaker 2: why him? But honestly, I got over quicker than I expected.
- 0:59Speaker 2: They've been together for a while now, and seeing them
- 1:03Speaker 2: it actually it actually goes like make sense, like it
- 1:06Speaker 2: makes more sense, like they're way more compatible than we
- 1:10Speaker 2: ever were. So yeah, I was definitely weird and like
- 1:15Speaker 2: a little dramatic at first, like yep, but now it's
- 1:18Speaker 2: just normal, like we all hang out and normal.
- 1:21Speaker 3: Oh, you're so much crazy.
- 1:23Speaker 2: It's crazy as me. She is like technically dating my act.
- 1:26Speaker 3: You know, I would not be okay with that.
- 1:28Speaker 4: But I feel like it was like you only dated
- 1:31Speaker 4: for a short period of time and it didn't seem
- 1:32Speaker 4: like the relationship meaned a whole lot to you, and
- 1:34Speaker 4: she probably knew that, Like I know, I I kind
- 1:37Speaker 4: of dated this guy for a while and then one
- 1:39Speaker 4: of my best friends came to me and she was like, Hey,
- 1:42Speaker 4: we kind of met at this art thing and we
- 1:45Speaker 4: sort of connected, and I want to know how you
- 1:47Speaker 4: felt about us starting to hang out. And it was
- 1:50Speaker 4: weird because I was like, I mean, it's kind of weird,
- 1:52Speaker 4: but honestly, like we didn't really vibe, so I guess,
- 1:55Speaker 4: go ahead, And they went on.
- 1:57Speaker 5: And dated for like I mean, it wasn't that long,
- 1:59Speaker 5: like like six months or something like that, but it
- 2:02Speaker 5: was like sometimes when you don't feel that connection, it's
- 2:04Speaker 5: not as like you don't get as like protective of
- 2:08Speaker 5: your turf.
- 2:08Speaker 3: Okay, And that's valid because I feel like I heard
- 2:10Speaker 3: that I'm like your best friend, like that was your
- 2:12Speaker 3: man like regardless. But then again, it's like if she
- 2:15Speaker 3: did come to you and have that conversation with you,
- 2:17Speaker 3: that's different. Like I had a best friend that did
- 2:19Speaker 3: that to me and didn't tell me right, and that don't.
- 2:25Speaker 1: You want a friend it's like, hey, if you're not
- 2:27Speaker 1: if you're not okay with that, I'll back off. Like
- 2:29Speaker 1: you should be mad at her for asking.
- 2:31Speaker 3: No, I think I think that that's valid, But I
- 2:33Speaker 3: don't know if I would want to hang out with
- 2:34Speaker 3: them together.
- 2:35Speaker 4: It might be awkward. But like, also, if you weren't
- 2:38Speaker 4: really into him and now you're dating someone better, it's
- 2:41Speaker 4: like whatever, Okay.
- 2:42Speaker 3: Wait, Like were you intimate with him?
- 2:44Speaker 5: Like did you guys?
- 2:45Speaker 3: Hug up?
- 2:46Speaker 4: We did, but it was like, you know.
- 2:55Speaker 1: What, were you intimate with him?
- 2:57Speaker 4: No? I really kissed, but that was it.
- 2:59Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 3:01Speaker 1: I had this friend of mine. He was dating a girl.
- 3:05Speaker 1: We'll call her Jane because that's her real name, and
- 3:11Speaker 1: my roommate would tell me all, me and my other buddy,
- 3:15Speaker 1: Dave all about the crazy stuff like they were doing.
- 3:19Speaker 1: I mean, they were just doing it everywhere right, and
- 3:21Speaker 1: he would get graphic with us. Is you know three
- 3:22Speaker 1: eyes we're talking about it. Cut to a year and
- 3:25Speaker 1: a half, they break up and then Dave starts dating
- 3:28Speaker 1: her and they like falls in love with her, and
- 3:32Speaker 1: every time we'd go out, I couldn't help but go,
- 3:36Speaker 1: my god, don't you remember when Steve said, like, you know
- 3:38Speaker 1: what I mean, And now, keep in mind, Dave and
- 3:41Speaker 1: Jane have been together now for over twenty years and
- 3:44Speaker 1: are married, right, and it is so weird to me
- 3:47Speaker 1: because like we're all friends and we go do stuff,
- 3:49Speaker 1: and every time I think about, remember that couch story,
- 3:52Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. It's so weird, so weird.
- 3:56Speaker 1: But anyway, good for you though, it good for you, Kyle.
- 3:59Speaker 3: I don't think it's good for you for Zoe, right, Yeah, you.
- 4:03Speaker 1: Said they're good together. He says it's normal and they're
- 4:05Speaker 1: good together.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, well and we're friendly. It's fine, it's
- 4:10Speaker 2: totally right.
- 4:11Speaker 1: In twenty years from it will be more fine.