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Believe in Yourself: Fight Through Anything and Achieve Success · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: If you believe that there's very little potential, how much
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  Speaker 1: action are you gonna take?
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  Speaker 2: Nothing? Nothing?
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  Speaker 1: Little? And when you take little potential with a little action,
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  Speaker 1: what kind of results do you get? Lousy little results?
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  Speaker 1: And when you have little results, what does that do
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  Speaker 1: to your belief? You go, see, I told you this
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  Speaker 1: was a waste of time, soldier, this wouldn't work. And
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  Speaker 1: then what happens? You tap even less potential, you take
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  Speaker 1: even less action, given the worse results in your belief
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  Speaker 1: gets even weaker, and this socker feeds on itself until
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  Speaker 1: you are in the downward spiralsis it's poisonous in itself fulfilling? Now,
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  Speaker 1: what if something could happen that could come along and
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  Speaker 1: fill you with a sense of absolute certainty, not like
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  Speaker 1: I believe, but mean well, you know, in you guys'
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  Speaker 1: case mine as well. We knew because we had to,
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  Speaker 1: because we burn the boats. There was no other option.
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  Speaker 1: We had to find the way had we weren't gonna
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  Speaker 1: live that way. We all did it in different ways
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  Speaker 1: and for different reasons, but in essence, that was it.
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  Speaker 1: If you get yourself in a state of certainty that
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  Speaker 1: this is gonna work, I'm gonna find a way, and
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  Speaker 1: if this doesn't work, I will make the way. Then
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  Speaker 1: you tap a lot more potential. And when you're certain
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  Speaker 1: in your potential, you take massive action. When you take
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  Speaker 1: massive action, you really believe in something. You get great results.
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  Speaker 1: When you get great results, your brain goes see, I
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  Speaker 1: told you I was a stud. I told you this
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  Speaker 1: thing would work out. Now you're even stronger. You tap
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  Speaker 1: more potential, take greater at your gatter results, and we
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  Speaker 1: get momentum.
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  Speaker 2: So why the rich get rich and the poor get poor?
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  Speaker 3: Only execution matters. Burn that into your nervous system, Get
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  Speaker 3: a tattoo, do whatever you need to do to remind yourself.
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  Speaker 3: Only execution matters, thinking about it, feeling good about it.
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  Speaker 3: Those are awesome. But if you have a vision of
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  Speaker 3: something you're trying to do become whatever, and you don't
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  Speaker 3: execute against it.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't need you to want to build a
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  Speaker 2: big business.
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  Speaker 3: If you tell me you want to be the greatest
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  Speaker 3: parent of all time, then I'm going to ask you
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  Speaker 3: what are you doing to execute on that goal? What
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  Speaker 3: are you doing?
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  Speaker 2: How do you define it? What are your deliverables?
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  Speaker 3: What are the metrics by which you're judging yourself and
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  Speaker 3: by the way. If you don't want a grand goal,
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  Speaker 3: you don't need one, But then say, what I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to do is get centered. I'm trying to experien whe's happiness.
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  Speaker 3: Even that, you can begin to look at ways that
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  Speaker 3: you can improve that.
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  Speaker 4: The starting point of setting goals is for you to
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  Speaker 4: throw off all mental limitations and let your mind roam
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  Speaker 4: freely across the entire universe of possibilities. Your primary job
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  Speaker 4: at the beginning is to allow yourself to dream big,
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  Speaker 4: dream and determine exactly what it is you want out
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  Speaker 4: of life in every area and in every dimension.
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  Speaker 2: Decide what's right.
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  Speaker 4: Before you decide what's possible, Imagine that you can be,
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  Speaker 4: or have, or do virtually anything that you really want to,
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  Speaker 4: as long as you know exactly what it is. First,
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  Speaker 4: make up a dream list. Temporarily, imagine that you have
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  Speaker 4: no limitations of time, money, knowledge, contacts, experience, or education.
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  Speaker 4: Imagine that anything that you can write down is possible
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  Speaker 4: for you. Remember, anything that you can clearly define and
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  Speaker 4: crystallize on paper is probably possible if you want it
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  Speaker 4: long enough and hard enough, and are willing to make
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  Speaker 4: whatever efforts and sacrifices are necessary. There are no unrealistic goals,
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  Speaker 4: only unrealistic timelines.
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  Speaker 5: Most difficult things to do in the world is to
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  Speaker 5: admit that you were wrong. Admitting that you were wrong
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  Speaker 5: is nothing more than saying, I have been making choices
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  Speaker 5: with my mind that have created things in my life
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  Speaker 5: that are not working, and I no longer intend to
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  Speaker 5: continue making those choices.
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  Speaker 1: I was wrong.
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  Speaker 5: You don't have to make a declaration of it. You
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  Speaker 5: don't have to go out and feel guilty about it.
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  Speaker 5: You just simply say it didn't work the relationship that
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  Speaker 5: I was in before I behaved in these ways, I
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  Speaker 5: didn't realize that it wasn't working for me. Now I do,
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  Speaker 5: and this is where I choose to be.
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  Speaker 6: Now, a better story is a story about how stories transform,
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  Speaker 6: and so those are actually perceptual frames of reference that transform.
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  Speaker 6: And then I understood that if you don't have respect
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  Speaker 6: for the transformation process above all else, then you can't
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  Speaker 6: transform your perceptual frames when necessary, and then you can't
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  Speaker 6: adapt to error, and that destroys you.
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  Speaker 7: We always have to update our versions about reality because
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  Speaker 7: it's the only way that we adapt. Don't believe everything
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  Speaker 7: you've read or heard. It just may not be the truth.
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  Speaker 7: There's always a greater truth that you and I can
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  Speaker 7: begin to investigate. Surely someone and eternity has had similar
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  Speaker 7: problems you and I and they have gotten beyond it,
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  Speaker 7: yes or no. So study that person you want to
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  Speaker 7: be wealthy. Study wealthy people. Don't just have some panacea
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  Speaker 7: that you're just going to get wealthy. Read about wealthy
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  Speaker 7: people and find out that they lost everything and failed
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  Speaker 7: miserably twenty fifty times. But what they had as a characteristic,
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  Speaker 7: a quality and their personality as they were persistent, and
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  Speaker 7: they kept changing, and they kept forgiving and letting go
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  Speaker 7: of the past and kept going, and sooner or later
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  Speaker 7: they ran into it. And when they had all the
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  Speaker 7: money they wanted, it was never about the money. It
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  Speaker 7: was just about that they could prove to themselves that
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  Speaker 7: they can do it.
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  Speaker 8: It's a precious life. If something is precious, where do
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  Speaker 8: you want to invest this life into? What do you
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  Speaker 8: want to invest this precious life? If this is a
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  Speaker 8: worthless life through it somewhere. If this is a precious life,
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  Speaker 8: what do you want to invest this life and do?
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  Speaker 8: If you look at it this way, you will find
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  Speaker 8: something truly worthwhile to do.
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  Speaker 7: And the hardest part about change is making new choice.
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  Speaker 7: The moment you make a new choice, get ready. You're
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  Speaker 7: leaving the known.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to be uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 7: It's gonna be unfamiliar. There's gonna be some uncertainty you
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  Speaker 7: can't predict.
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  Speaker 3: You're not in the known any longer.
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  Speaker 9: But if you want to begin to move into your
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  Speaker 9: own personal greatness, if you want to begin to really
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  Speaker 9: enjoy a happy, successful, healthy life, you've got to be
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  Speaker 9: willing to go against the tide. You've got to be
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  Speaker 9: willing to harnish your will and say, in spite of this,
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  Speaker 9: I'm in control here.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna let.
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  Speaker 9: This get me downe I'm not gonna let this destroy me.
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  Speaker 9: I'm coming back and I'll be stronger and better because
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  Speaker 9: of it. You have got to make a declaration. This
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  Speaker 9: is what you stand for. If you're standing up for
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  Speaker 9: your dreams, you're standing up for peace of mind, You're standing.
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  Speaker 2: Up for health.
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  Speaker 9: You want it, and you're gonna go all out to
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  Speaker 9: have it. It's not going to be easy when you
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  Speaker 9: want to change. It's not easy. If it were in
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  Speaker 9: fact easy, everybody will do it.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're serious, you.
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  Speaker 9: Go all out. So yes, I'm going to turn this
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  Speaker 9: situation around. I'm not going to sit back and moan
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  Speaker 9: and cry over what happened and what went and wrong
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  Speaker 9: and who did what. I'm going to do something about
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  Speaker 9: this situation.
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  Speaker 10: One of the most valuable exercises you can engage in
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  Speaker 10: to accomplish any goal you can set for yourself is
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  Speaker 10: to ask yourself, what is my limiting step? What is
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  Speaker 10: the one factor that determines the speed at which I
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  Speaker 10: achieved my goal or whether I achieve it at all.
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  Speaker 10: Your ability to identify your limiting step is one of
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  Speaker 10: the best demonstrations of your intelligence. Your capacity to eliminate
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  Speaker 10: this limiting step is one of the best demonstrations of
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  Speaker 10: your overall competence in achieving anything you want. Self confidence
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  Speaker 10: is critical. In studying everything that has been written or
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  Speaker 10: said about personal success, the conclusion I came to was
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  Speaker 10: that your level of self confidence is probably the critical
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  Speaker 10: factor in everything you accomplish. When you have enough self confidence,
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  Speaker 10: you will try almost anything. Because success is largely a
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  Speaker 10: matter of averages or probabilities, the more things you try,
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  Speaker 10: the more likely it is that you will achieve greatly.
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  Speaker 10: The same is true for you when you set more goals,
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  Speaker 10: try more things. Engage in more activities and explore more opportunities,
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  Speaker 10: your probabilities of success increase dramatically. The only real limiting
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  Speaker 10: step that you might have is your level of self confidence.
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  Speaker 10: When you reach the point at which you believe in
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  Speaker 10: yourself absolutely, the barriers that exist in your external world
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  Speaker 10: will not stop you. The major obstacles to success always
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  Speaker 10: lie within the mind of the individual. They are not
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  Speaker 10: contained in external circumstances, situations, or people. As soon as
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  Speaker 10: you win the inner battle, the outer battle seems to
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  Speaker 10: take care of it self. How do you infuse your
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  Speaker 10: whole life with the kind of self confidence that makes
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  Speaker 10: everything possible for you? The answer is contained in what
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  Speaker 10: I call the four ds, which determine success in anything
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  Speaker 10: you really want to accomplish. The first D is desire.
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  Speaker 10: You must really want to become a totally self confident
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  Speaker 10: human being. You must build up your desire by thinking
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  Speaker 10: about it and talking about it and working on it
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  Speaker 10: all the time. Your desire must become so intense that
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  Speaker 10: it overrides your fears of failure, rejection, and inferiority, and
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  Speaker 10: it becomes the dominant emotion governing your behaviors. Intense desire
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  Speaker 10: is the starting point of all personality modification and goal attainment.
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  Speaker 10: The second day is decision. You must make a do
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  Speaker 10: or die decision that you will go to work on
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  Speaker 10: yourself and keep bat it until you achieve the kind
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  Speaker 10: of self confidence that enables you to do b and
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  Speaker 10: say whatever you want. You must burn your mental bridges.
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  Speaker 10: Many people want things, but they never make the clear,
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  Speaker 10: unequivocal decision that they are going to do what it
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  Speaker 10: takes to get them. The third D is determination. Once
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  Speaker 10: you have started to make significant changes in the way
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  Speaker 10: you act, your internal gyroscope will try to take over
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  Speaker 10: and bring you back into your comfort zone, into your
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  Speaker 10: old ways of acting. Sometimes progress will be slow, and
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  Speaker 10: often you will see no progress at all. Nonetheless, you
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  Speaker 10: must persist in the positive and constructive behaviors that you
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  Speaker 10: know will lead to making you into the kind of
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  Speaker 10: person you wish to become. Your determination must be as
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  Speaker 10: unshakable as the self confidence you desire. The fourth D
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  Speaker 10: is discipline. Underlying and surrounding all great achievement in life
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  Speaker 10: is the quality of self discipline. This is the ability
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  Speaker 10: to make yourself do what you should do when you
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  Speaker 10: should do it, whether you feel like it or not.
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  Speaker 10: Every practice of self discipline strengthens your discipline in every other.
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  Speaker 2: Area of your life.
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  Speaker 10: As Napoleon Hill said after more than twenty years of
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  Speaker 10: research into the lives of successful men and women, self
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  Speaker 10: discipline is the master key to riches. It is self
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  Speaker 10: discipline that makes everything else possible. If you have the
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  Speaker 10: desire to change, the decisiveness to take action, the determination
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  Speaker 10: to persist on your forward track, and the discipline to
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  Speaker 10: make yourself do whatever you need to do, your self
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  Speaker 10: confidence and your success are inevitable.
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  Speaker 11: People have enormous capabilities beyond what's commonly thought to be possible.
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  Speaker 11: The power to tap into our un limited potential is
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  Speaker 11: directly connected to how we define reality, how we view ourselves,
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  Speaker 11: and what believe we can achieve. No matter what is
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  Speaker 11: now or will occur, you can choose right this moment
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  Speaker 11: more empowering meanings for everything in your life. You hold
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  Speaker 11: the power to create a new world for yourself and
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  Speaker 11: those you care about. The mind shift is simple but profound.
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  Speaker 11: Is this the end of something wonderful or the beginning
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  Speaker 11: of something unpleasant? Are you being punished for your failure
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  Speaker 11: or rewarded for your success? The minute you decide to
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  Speaker 11: focus on something you assign it a meaning and infuse
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  Speaker 11: it with feeling. How you define an event produces emotion
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  Speaker 11: and determines your inner feeling state going forward. The meaning
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  Speaker 11: you assign to any event, interaction, or outcome defines the
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  Speaker 11: emotional tone of your experience and the feelings you generate
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  Speaker 11: throughout your life. Meaning equals emotion and emotion equals life.
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  Speaker 11: Meaning you give your experiences will always change how you feel,
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  Speaker 11: and the emotion you feel always becomes the quality of
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  Speaker 11: your life. Our memories are actually anchors to feeling states, images, sounds,
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  Speaker 11: and sensations.
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  Speaker 2: All of these aspects rely on the meaning we give
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  Speaker 2: to them.
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  Speaker 11: The meaning you attached to something produces the emotion of
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  Speaker 11: your life, and your emotion is your life. Meaning equals emotion,
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  Speaker 11: emotion equals life. Write this down or memorize this stanza.
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  Speaker 11: This is the essence to the entire power of meaning.
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  Speaker 11: The meaning you give events, interactions, and outcomes determines how
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  Speaker 11: you feel. Meaning informs your emotional state. By creating a
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  Speaker 11: ladder of positive and empowering meanings, you effectively change the
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  Speaker 11: direction of your life and provide yourself rational, proven reasons
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  Speaker 11: your success will continue.
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  Speaker 2: And it all starts now.
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  Speaker 11: With your decision to become conscious of the meanings you
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  Speaker 11: are constantly creating. This technique is called reframing, and it's
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  Speaker 11: one of the most powerful tools you can use to
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  Speaker 11: improve your psychology. Reframing isn't about pretending a situation is
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  Speaker 11: great when it may not be. Rather, it's about discovering
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  Speaker 11: what could be great, what you could learn by consequence,
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  Speaker 11: or how you can use the situation to create a
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  Speaker 11: better outcome. Perspective is a powerful thing. When you can
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  Speaker 11: reframe a particular experience or interaction, you can often change
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  Speaker 11: what happens as a result. Let's say, for example, your
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  Speaker 11: boss is always yelling at you. Human beings tend to
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  Speaker 11: attach certain meanings to experiences. In actuality, there may be
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  Speaker 11: an infinite number of ways to interpret any experience. We
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  Speaker 11: frame the events in our life based on the ways
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  Speaker 11: we've decided to perceive similar experiences in the past. Forming
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  Speaker 11: habitual patterns we repeat throughout our entire live. Are your
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  Speaker 11: patterns helping or harming you? It's vital to remember that
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  Speaker 11: our perceptions are creative in nature. If we define something
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  Speaker 11: as negative, that's the message our brain receives and responds
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  Speaker 11: to by creating an emotional state to reinforce that reality.
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  Speaker 11: The quality of your life is the quality of your
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  Speaker 11: communication with yourself as well as with others. Reframing is
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  Speaker 11: the difference between being constantly disappointed and being consistently satisfied.
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  Speaker 11: By stacking positive interpretations one after the other, you become
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  Speaker 11: the author of the success story of your own life.
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  Speaker 11: How would you feel at bedtime if every day turned
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  Speaker 11: out to be ideal, interesting, or even amazing.
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  Speaker 2: It's closer than you think.
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  Speaker 11: Start harnis your innate ability to supercharge your emotions, empower
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  Speaker 11: your decisions, and elevate your life today through the power
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  Speaker 11: of meaning.