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Will Compton Talks Shifting Your Perspective + Advice On Guys Trips As A Father | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: got they're the best. There you go, shure, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The PT sixth grade that we have is undefeated, and
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  Speaker 2: some were even calling for heads on social media. Just
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  Speaker 2: this last week in defense of William Compton.
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  Speaker 1: I saw that which which thing was it under? It
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  Speaker 1: was with all the Josh paid stuff. Oh hey, the
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  Speaker 1: job buddy.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, you want to talk about resilience, hard work, coming
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  Speaker 2: in there defending a guy that's a blue collar guy
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  Speaker 2: who does that sound like is going to defend that PT.
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  Speaker 1: Six PT six. They were ready to go. They were
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  Speaker 1: at the forefront. They were letting me know what to do.
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  Speaker 1: They're attacking me. Where are you sure? Because that was
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  Speaker 1: a that was a race. That ratio was coming at
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  Speaker 1: very fast, at a very fast speed. Yeah, very fast speed.
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  Speaker 1: I want to say. I responded to that dude like
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  Speaker 1: twenty hours later from his post and within hours like
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  Speaker 1: the ratio was coming because it was like a very
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  Speaker 1: popular tweet that was going around about Josh Payton just
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  Speaker 1: hating on our boy, Josh paipe. Yeah, and we put
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  Speaker 1: this dude six feet under with the ratio, you.
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  Speaker 2: Put him twelve feet under and it just put the
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  Speaker 2: final little piece of dirt packing the dirt in and
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  Speaker 2: PT six going you sureman.
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  Speaker 1: Shoot him, shoot him? I'm like he's dead. Yeah, I do.
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  Speaker 1: Then the boys opened the casket, they say the body's gone.
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  Speaker 1: Dude deleted his account, went to private. Okay, he was ratio,
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  Speaker 1: this was public. I want to say his username was
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  Speaker 1: having fun online. It was it was having fun, I
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  Speaker 1: having fun online. I want to say he paid for
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  Speaker 1: the blue check mark, like this was an operational account. Yea,
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  Speaker 1: And the ratio was coming so fast, and PT six
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  Speaker 1: and the Payton Staters Tier ones bustled with the goom berets.
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  Speaker 1: The goon berets were on full force to where then
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  Speaker 1: the dude took his public account, he made a private
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  Speaker 1: couldn't get to him. I still take a screenshot saying, like,
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  Speaker 1: just know what battle was won today? This coward went
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  Speaker 1: from public to private and then he deleted his account,
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  Speaker 1: didn't signed off permanently. And people out there who have
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  Speaker 1: no context on what's going on might might just be
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  Speaker 1: sitting there thinking if really c just bullied somebody.
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  Speaker 2: No, nay, he never came in defense of a friend
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  Speaker 2: who was being bullied.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. This dude was trying to come at Josh
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  Speaker 1: Pate saying that he's essentially a nobody. He has zero credibility.
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  Speaker 1: He did nothing in his life, He didn't play football,
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  Speaker 1: heating coach. He's never been on an administration. He has
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  Speaker 1: a set of production meetings. He's just a bald dude
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  Speaker 1: with a white tea and a mic. It was just
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  Speaker 1: trying as a post to where you're you're knowing Josh
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  Speaker 1: is gonna read it, and you're doing your best to
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  Speaker 1: make this dude feel bad about his success.
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  Speaker 2: You just gave him like the biggest compliment of all
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  Speaker 2: time in that it was truly a eminem like tell
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  Speaker 2: me something they don't know.
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  Speaker 1: About me moment. Like he's like, yeah, you just you
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  Speaker 1: put it all on paper, and guess what. I still
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  Speaker 1: get clicks. Yeah, I still get clicks.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, somebody else that's coming into find of bullys. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know that for sure, but I know that. Isaiah
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  Speaker 2: mgana dash q Zac two to one on YouTube. He said, Hey, great,
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  Speaker 2: so jents absolutely love watching this every week.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for all that you do. Pt.
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  Speaker 2: Six out just a nice, happy fun comment, nice happy
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  Speaker 2: fun comment. Also Steven kaphone or got a fall on
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  Speaker 2: four seven one five on YouTube. Man, I needed this today.
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  Speaker 2: I worked three to three to twelve ours. I worked
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  Speaker 2: three twelve hour shifts.
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  Speaker 1: There.
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  Speaker 2: You got a week for the most part. The rest
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  Speaker 2: of the time, I'm a stay at home dad. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know why, but I was feeling down and I
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  Speaker 2: just got the biggest smile on my face, ready to
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  Speaker 2: take my daughter out when I get home from the
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  Speaker 2: gym this morning, to go to the playground and the
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  Speaker 2: Dollar Tree and watch some Clifford the Big Red Dog.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you boys. What a dude. That gets me going.
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  Speaker 1: So the soad picked him up. This picked him up
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  Speaker 1: a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: This soad picked him up, And I felt that exact
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  Speaker 2: same way, Stephen, that exact same way this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Or you're just kind of feeling lethargic, dove lethargic, but
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  Speaker 1: just kind of down, just kind of like.
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  Speaker 2: Run down to the point where you're like you're not
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  Speaker 2: excited for the fun stuff and you're almost wanting to
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  Speaker 2: like cancel fun stuff plans.
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  Speaker 1: You careful of daylight saving time? Yes, dude, I see,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I know, I know that's a real thing.
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  Speaker 1: I know, just my own my own Jocko Willie, No
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  Speaker 1: one's yeah, I don't like buying the daylight saving stuff.
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  Speaker 1: To me, I like I was, dude, I was, I've
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  Speaker 1: been feeling that vibe a little like you came in
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  Speaker 1: here last week and I was just over there, reclined
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  Speaker 1: on the Yeah, on the love seat. Yeah, just like
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  Speaker 1: exhausted At times sometimes you're just like, dude, I'm over
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  Speaker 1: it right now. It catches up to you. Yeah, life does. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And you got to do such an intentional job of
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  Speaker 1: just like recalibrating, you'd like, hardest, hardest. Fuck did you
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  Speaker 1: got to recalibrate insanely? And just I don't. I like,
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  Speaker 1: for me, I always know to the core of me,
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  Speaker 1: and this dad did it. It's saying it sounds like
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  Speaker 1: he got under the squad rack, he got under the
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  Speaker 1: bench pressure. He's just thrown around some dumbbells. I know
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  Speaker 1: for me, when I look as closely as I can
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  Speaker 1: to Will Compton, when I am feeling run down, exhausted,
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  Speaker 1: kind of irritated, kind of just annoyed about a few
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  Speaker 1: different things. For me, it's always my It's always like
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  Speaker 1: my health. It's always like physical exercise and eating. Right now,
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  Speaker 1: I will say daylight safe when the sun does go
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  Speaker 1: down and the candies out and Spootober's happening, Thanksgivings coming up,
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  Speaker 1: Christmas is coming up. The treats, the foods, the meals,
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  Speaker 1: it gets pleasurable. It does. It gets pleasurable, Like I
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  Speaker 1: start eating for sport because it tastes good for whatever reason.
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  Speaker 1: When it gets a little colder outside, I just get
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  Speaker 1: more excited about eating food. But then I eat the food,
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  Speaker 1: I feel bloated, I feel lethargic. I know I didn't
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  Speaker 1: work out earlier in the day. I didn't work out yesterday. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: any like steam rolls to where I can start. I
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  Speaker 1: don't really start projecting hard. I'll just start like coming,
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  Speaker 1: I'll just start getting quiet. Yeah, because I'm irritated, mostly
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  Speaker 1: with myself.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get I get very defeated with myself, and
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  Speaker 2: then I retreat in words and don't express that defeat. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: which if I express the defeat, it would then people
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  Speaker 2: in my life that are willing to like talk me
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  Speaker 2: through something like hey, Sherman, it actually you're worrying way
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  Speaker 2: too much about that, and then oh boof it goes away.
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  Speaker 1: But instead I sit and I fester and oh was
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  Speaker 1: a dad's name who wrote in Steven Steven shout out, Stephen,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that man. It's got Stephen Catofphon. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just want you to know where You're not alone, brother.
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  Speaker 2: I just love how wholesome that is. Dude, just sitting
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  Speaker 2: there watching Big Red Dog, watching some Clifford.
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  Speaker 1: Clifford, sweetheart, you know, little girl was just fired up.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to dive. I'm glad he's juice back up.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you had at least three plates on each
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  Speaker 1: side on that squad wreck. I hope you did too.
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  Speaker 1: This is one from Katie Josen Hans. Another one from
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  Speaker 1: Katie facts just a little remit. The fact that you
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  Speaker 1: we missed it though, Katie, thank you so much. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much. Peter and Hans repeater fantigame for new
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  Speaker 1: I have another. I have one more good vibes. One okay,
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  Speaker 1: one more good vibes. So mom, listener here and appreciate
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  Speaker 1: what you learned from the workshop, and we'll use that
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  Speaker 1: very formative and love the dad perspective. What Aaron is
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  Speaker 1: referring to is we did like a Core Values exercise
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  Speaker 1: last week. If you did not catch that episode, strongly
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  Speaker 1: encourage you to. Wife was laughing at me after she
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  Speaker 1: listened to the episode, like you were trying to get
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  Speaker 1: you getting in like teach, like trying to get and
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  Speaker 1: teach your mode and regurgitate all the stuff, and we
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  Speaker 1: just had it. We shared a good laugh about it.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I know, I was doing my best.
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  Speaker 1: I was, you know, consumed it all that day because
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  Speaker 1: I was super like it tapped in, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. I wasn't lolotched back kind of like why
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  Speaker 1: are we here just like surviving through it? Yes, I
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  Speaker 1: was like tapped into it. Dude. I'm like trying to
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  Speaker 1: write stuff down, and as I'm writing it down, I'm
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  Speaker 1: like something clicked about like the goals in marrying the
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  Speaker 1: challenges to the goals, and I'm like, we're about to
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  Speaker 1: do Core Values before the dads, Like this is like
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  Speaker 1: a sign.
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  Speaker 2: I love when people get into those moods. You one
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  Speaker 2: time you had discovered in screenwriting the hero's journey.
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  Speaker 1: And script writing. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, unbeknownst to you, I took a screenwriting course in
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  Speaker 2: college and was well aware of the hero's journey.
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  Speaker 1: But you had it on a whiteboard.
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  Speaker 2: And we're giving just me on this side, a solo
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  Speaker 2: breakdown of the hero's journey. I just let you go
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  Speaker 2: because you were stoked, and I was like, dude, I
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  Speaker 2: love watching people just like when they learned something and
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  Speaker 2: then they're teaching it.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'll get a refresher on this.
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  Speaker 1: A long herose journey, the hero's.
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  Speaker 2: Journey, they come across the challenge, the gatekeeper. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 2: where the journey begins. Where's the challenge in our story?
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  Speaker 2: It's this part right here.
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  Speaker 1: And you did a good job of applying to your
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  Speaker 1: busting together, to your transition fans, you know, the fando stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and the video turned out great. You wrote the
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  Speaker 2: whole script. It was fantastic. Oh, don't be modest.
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  Speaker 1: You murdered. I edited it. Yeah, but you thought of
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  Speaker 1: all the shots, all the creative Like, I just gave
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  Speaker 1: you some scripting and some storytelling, like we can go
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  Speaker 1: back and forth, and we go back and forth. You're
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  Speaker 1: so good. Oh my god, get your bowls in my mouth.
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  Speaker 1: It's a dad spot. This is what dads do. We
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  Speaker 1: bust balls, we have fun. This is the dad podcast. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the good guys, don't be modest. Get your pants down.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you how good you Ally.
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  Speaker 2: Somebody else that needs to get their pants out so
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  Speaker 2: we can tell how good they are.
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  Speaker 1: Best Stove, best so Mystic.
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  Speaker 2: We kind of an Italian thing going on right now,
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  Speaker 2: Best so Mystic. Hey, new job in five minutes from
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  Speaker 2: my wife's. My new job is five minutes from my wife's.
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  Speaker 2: First day is right now, making breakfast for the wife
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  Speaker 2: and before we commute together.
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  Speaker 1: Baby shower was Saturday.
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  Speaker 2: And felt the baby cake for the first time this weekend,
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  Speaker 2: feeling incredibly blessed. Thank you for the boys. Shout out,
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  Speaker 2: shout out, we got a baby on the way. And
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  Speaker 2: then Sam Burb on YouTube, Oh, we're shouting out the
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  Speaker 2: new parents right now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get a shout out in Papa Team six.
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  Speaker 1: It's Justin Dirtey. We just had our baby boy, justin Dorte.
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  Speaker 1: I was I didn't know if it was like Joe
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  Speaker 1: d'artey or Arty or something Papa Team six. We had
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  Speaker 1: our baby boy on Monday on November thirty. He is
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  Speaker 1: such a blessing. Can't wait to grow with the Beat
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  Speaker 1: six brand and become the best father. I could be
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  Speaker 2: Sam Burb says on YouTube, currently watching on the couch
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  Speaker 2: pulling night duty after getting home from the hospital with
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  Speaker 2: my first Congrats, dude, congrats nine months ago having sex wife,
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  Speaker 2: he delivered him sunny side up after a thirty five
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  Speaker 2: hour war in the trenches. She's an early front runner
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  Speaker 2: Oh truly grateful for having the show to watch leading
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  Speaker 2: up to fatherhood and now joining it. Yeah you are, Sam,
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  Speaker 2: You've been knighted into PT six.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome dude, Dick and knee they good knee hit each shoulder.
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  Speaker 1: Benny from Oregon. My boy was born four days ago.
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  Speaker 1: Panic ensuing, good, good, Am I fit to raise this
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  Speaker 1: little man. We don't know, We don't know what if
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: I'm a shitty partner for my wife. You could be,
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  Speaker 1: it could be. Can I handle the hard moments in
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  Speaker 1: the sleep deprivation? Yes? Sorry, that was throw me away.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to go sleep deprivation, sleep deprivation. Hang on,
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  Speaker 1: let me read that part again. Can I handle the
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  Speaker 1: hard moments and the sleep deprivation? Maybe you can't. You can't.
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  Speaker 1: Then I have the moments like right this second, where
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  Speaker 1: this little ball of flesh is taking a bottle wrapping
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  Speaker 1: his hand around my finger, and I think what else
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  Speaker 1: can I possibly do but be the best dad possible
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  Speaker 1: for this little dude. Appreciate you boys and sickles out there,
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  Speaker 1: could use your prayers and encouragement for real dude, Benny,
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  Speaker 1: shout out you man, Congratulations on your little boy. Life
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  Speaker 1: is just beginning, my friend.
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  Speaker 2: God, dude, life is so chaotic, and it really does
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  Speaker 2: slow down. It slows down when they wrap that little
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  Speaker 2: hand around your finger.
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  Speaker 1: Dude. Oh, I tell you what. Locked the fuck in though,
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  Speaker 1: lock in for wifey.
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  Speaker 2: I have to have to lock in for wife Locke.
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  Speaker 1: Lock in, buddy.
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  Speaker 2: Oh man, I so I had a I had a
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  Speaker 2: crazy packed weekend.
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  Speaker 1: It was really really good. Uh yeah, you had you
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  Speaker 1: had scarlet on by yourself on Saturday.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, on Saturday, which is gonna be that's gonna be
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  Speaker 2: the new norm with Jill's work schedule. I'm gonna have
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  Speaker 2: solo scarlet Saturdays. So it could just be a new
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  Speaker 2: thing on the show, which is nice.
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  Speaker 1: I'm loving it. I wanted to mix it up. Uh.
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  Speaker 2: I got an invite to these stars Predators to game
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  Speaker 2: Go Stars.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, they caught the dub.
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  Speaker 2: I went with Cooper Comstock that's here in the shop
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  Speaker 2: raving a plus record.
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  Speaker 1: I saw that too. You gotta you know, you know,
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  Speaker 2: You like in the notes, Oh if we need help
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  Speaker 2: getting tickets. No, No, You're saying like, hey.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw the video. You know. I had a
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  Speaker 1: smile on my face. Here you do this and then
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  Speaker 1: you whip it around and I'm like, oh shit, we're
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  Speaker 1: in the bleeds high up operate this week.
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  Speaker 2: I do like, I'm not trying to defend those seats
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  Speaker 2: like we bought them because they're cheap. But I loving
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  Speaker 2: hockey the bleeds that are on the like you're behind
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: the goal, you're behind the net. I love those seats
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: because you can truly see the offense develop.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: So look, if you don't want to bang on the
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: glass and be in the front, I mean.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Hey, you don't like those seats some glass, Yeah, I'll
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: fully take you up on that.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: I'm just letting just letting you know, just for future sake,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: what if you go to a ball game, just think
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: I wonder if the boys have any type of connection
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: where we could get some seats.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Hey, that's a that's the kype of ticket that's going
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: to keep you in somebody's pocket.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Keep you in somebody's pocket. Uh, that's a that's Pete
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: six fraternity right there.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: That is that is Yeah, I know that you would
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: you know that was a joke to keep you in
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: somebody's pocket. Yeah, I would not think that Will would do.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah I know. Okay, okay, but we were in the bleeds.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Uh, dude, Scarlett just absolutely enjoyed the hockey game.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: We could pull up that video Will.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you the entire time, she's literally like this
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: fired up, oh, fully glued to the ice where I
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: just had her sitting in my lap like watching the
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: game and I'm holding her arms and she did not
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: cry once.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: It was impeccable.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: So I'm sure that you're sitting there wondering why does
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Sherman have this under his dad losses this whole.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I didn't know we were all in the category of well,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: I'm just we you're wondering why I failed? How did
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Sherman screw this one up?
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Cooper Comstock and I want to get his thoughts on
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: this for a social clip because I would love to
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: hear him candidly when I'm not around, his thoughts on
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: what happened. But he is a diehard Stars fan, like
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: a true sicko. This whole thing was his idea. I
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: was with him and his girlfriend. Shout out his girlfriend,
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: She's incredible, was helping watch Scarlet. They came to the
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: house early because they knew I had to feed Scarlet
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: at one and the games at two thirty. I pretty
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: much had everything together, but we I couldn't find her headphones,
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: So then Coop's helping me on the changing table watching Scarlet.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: I'm digging through the headphones, like looking for him Jills
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: at work. She finally tells me where they are because
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: she knows where they are. I didn't amy at the Texter. Yeah,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I texted me little tew. I hated that that right,
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: there's a quick go.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a quick al geah that you never want
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: to be the dad that's like, hey, where's this at?
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I do it all time, but anytime I do it
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: it like pains me. I'm like fuck. And Coop's like, hey,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: you we don't need to rush. It's all good games
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: at two thirty, it's all good.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: It's one fifteen. Like where you say, I know Cooper?
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: I like, I don't want to miss discuss. That's a
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: good teammate right there. That's a good teammate staying poised
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: in the pocket. Great teammate. Tell me not to stress.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: ADDIE's like playing with the dogs. She's being so sweet
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: with Scarlet. They both were really good with Scarlet being
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: so sweet. We get out the door. We're driving. We
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: got the Lullaby remakes playlists. I have to put you on.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: It's called Rockabye Baby. Have you heard it. It's just
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: it's all stay on course. It's stay on course, down course,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: stay on rock a Bye Baby playlist is bumping. We're
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: in the car, vibes are so high. We get to
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: the parking garage. We're about to be ten minutes early
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: for this game. I forgot the diaper bag. I forgot
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: the diaper bag with the headphones, the blanket, the diapers,
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: the bottle, the formula, the extra the extra change of
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: clothes in case she shits herself. Everything that is vital
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: to this day being successful, left it at the house.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Get on stuff hub to the transfer the tickets to Kuperinatti,
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: so they don't have to live in my shame and
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: my own personal health that I've created for myself. Can't
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: transfer the tickets. We gotta all walk in together.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: And the you're a real piece of shit.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Can I tell you the look of forgiveness on Coop's face.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: That's when I knew, like, you really are a good friend.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: He was the entire time.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: You don't even worry about it. It's all good. What
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: the game goes into extra periods, Hey, free hockey. We'll
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: get to watch three periods if it goes into OT.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: This this game could go into OT. Both these teams
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: are good.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Just sitting there trying to make me feel so good.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: I'm literally death gripping the steering wheel out of embarrassment.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: And then, of course, because we're in the car going there,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: back there, now, Scarlet's getting fussy, So now you know
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: the cry are starting to happen.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, now the cries are really they're touching God.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just spiraling in the driver's seat. This is where
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: you just staring at the road and you hear nothing.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: The crying's happening, but the cry starts fading because like
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: a dog whistle, noise starts coming in your ear as
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: you watch as you're looking at the road.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Truly, bro the amount of forgiveness that Coop showed me
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: in that moment, how chilly was about everything. We still
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: ended up We did make great time and we got
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: there right at the end of the first period. So
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: did we miss a period of hockey, yes, but we
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: got to watch two more periods of hockey. The Stars
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: ended up coming back with four minutes left in the
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: third and one. It was a great time. Uh but godly, dude,
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: I have never felt like such a bum. I guess
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: who's always gonna double check for the bag?
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Now? Always you? I say that? Do you say good?
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: So many times?
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: And there's some more on here. Dog ran away in
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: the front yard. Good went to go get him. As
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I'm coming back carrying him, holding and going what are
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: you doing, what are you doing? Stepped in his poop?
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Good?
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: Good? God threw those shoes away. Good because I was
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: so pissed. I just threw him. Do you want to
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: clean them? And Porch Pirates stole my dinner on what
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: was that Sunday?
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: When I tex good? Yeah, you did text me. You
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: were like, hey, what was that number? Yeah? We yeah,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: we'll keep it tight. Yeah, we'll keep it tight. But
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: we'll keep it tight. We don't know the enemy, which
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: enemies are out there listening?
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but uh and I know this is
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: a kid show, but just a huge fuck you to
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Porch Pirates.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Just wanted to say that. Just apparently he had his
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: entire meal dropped off within a minute.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Three minutes of my meal being dropped off. Porch Pirates
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: have to well, God gets simply safe, simply safe.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Got to get it simply safe. Hey, that's a tough
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: beat over the weekend, the forgetting the diaper bag, especially
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: when you're rocking solo and you're like, I'm the guy, Like,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: ain't nobody coming to save me? Dylan Reilo goes down.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: It's this is this is TJ latif.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: Time and I could have come back to the office
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: with that story just coming at me from all angles,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Like Coop could have come back and just told everybody
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: about what a fucking bomb I was, and instead I
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: have everybody coming up to me going, dude.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Coop said, you were killing it. That's a good star
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: right there, because you didn't just throw a pick six
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: like you ran around the pocket a little bit and
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: threw it across your body to the other side of
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: the field like a muffin, and somebody jumped and pick
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: it off and took to the house. Everybody's watching. Like
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: before before he picked it off, I hit him with the.
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: To the sideline. I was letting him know. Yeah, like,
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: oh kids, kind of got it. That says a lot
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: about the character of Cooper Comstock.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Again, yes it does. There's another instance yesterday.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to name who it was, but this
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: person backed out on an event with Coop.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Coop wasn't gonna say anything. Backed out on an event
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: with Coop.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't his fault, but he and then he
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: publicly told the office and all year Coop say is
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: I wasn't gonna say anything. I was just gonna let it,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: let it all out, because that's the guy Coop is
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Coop's a Foxhold guy.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: He is a Foxhold guys. It's big ups to him too,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: because he doesn't he's not a parent. He does have kids. Yeah,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: you could get a magnitude a range of reaction there.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, and is so good with kids, so good with Scarlet.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I need I need to see what he's like with
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: little scott Zilla.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Oh dude, he would kill He loves babies and he's
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: really good with them.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: He's like holding Scarlet as I would. Dude. Coop was
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: so on it.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Hey, any ST sixers at home, when you go hang
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: out with your PT six friend that's got a kid,
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: be a Cooper Comstock when I'm going to go change
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: my little girl's diaper, which that went awesome?
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Like that was great. At the game.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: What do you want to eat? What do you want
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: to drink? We'll go get food for you. I come
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: back with freshly changed Scarlet. He's got my food. He's like, hey,
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: let me hold Scarlet while you eat.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that's a that's bro right there, Bro, that's
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: an ST six. That's a that's a that's an ST six.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Or you can be proud of chef Cooper Coms high
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: in the ranks. He's high in the ranks. He's he's
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: helped carrying out the standard team. He's two star general.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: The two star general right there, dude. And you know
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: his girlfriend. I'm telling you this, dude. You know his
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: girlfriend's sitting there taking notes. Yeah, she's going. I like
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: what I see is boy nurtures.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Oh well loves Well, that's a good good friend, good
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: loyal dog.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Stayed like you said, and Chaos stayed poised and your boys.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Shrom was as frantic as hell. Frantic as hell. I
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: had shaky hands going when we were driving back home.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Oh I can imagine, I can you already know? Sherm.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: He was beating himself up.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: But I digress, I digress. How is your weekend, sir?
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: Weekend was phenomenal.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: On Friday, we did Pizza Friday because we had this
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: November Gillett event we had to do on Friday night
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: for busting, so we ripped Pizza Friday a little early.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Then not Cinderella, a Peter Pan movie, brutal, which he
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: didn't like. Did not like. Yeah, don't blame the acting,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: terrible story, Like it sucked. Saturday. What did we do
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: on Saturday? It's such a blur. Date night with wifey,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Date night with white. Indie movie. Indie movie, Bad, bad Bad,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: don't go see the Mastermind. We had a great family morning.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: We went to Hanks down in Franklin. Awesome coffee shop,
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: highly recommend, good vibe. Then we went to the Franklin
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Farmer's Market, another great vibe. We hung out there for
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: a pretty long time and got the kids back, did naptime,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: all the fun stuff. Rue Uh. Just she's on arts.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: She's in arts and crafts mode, bro, she really is.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: She's all about coloring, she's all about drawing. She's all
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: about getting on the what's it called easel. She got
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: her a little easel and she's just on it all
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: the time. She's all about it. Man. She wrote Opah,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: which is Grandpa Filipino, like the Filipino word for grandpa.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I believe, or maybe it's German. I could be off.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I know Opah's German. Lopa is German. She's a Filipino.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I believe Lola is like grandma from in the in
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: the Philippines.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Did they have German descent as well? Charles Dad, Yes,
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: oh okay, I didn't.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Charles mom Philippine Philippines.
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: Is there respectful way to say yes in Filipino used
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: when speaking to an elder or someone of a higher status. Okay, yes, ma'am, Yes,
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: sir about op that's o po it's a spelling.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh gotcha. Yes, we're out of our
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: depths right now. Listen Lola and Nopah. But Rue was
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: writing Opah a birthday thing. I have no clue. It's
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: just a bunch of scribbles all over the place. And
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: she's like basically equating it to a poem. And she's
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: talking about this poem and if you're gonna do this,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: she got a rite happy birthday and just gets in
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: the storytelling mode. And you got to sit there like
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: I'm talking the arts and crafts she makes like you
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: know very much. The butterfly. Yeah, but the line like
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: you got those there's lines on the butterfly, Like that's
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: just coloring. She's tightened up her coloring. She can kind
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: of color. Yeah, she gets outside the lines a little bit,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: but she's tightened up the coloring. Good with what color
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: she uses. Now, just like that, you know, I don't
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: know what make it rain? Yeah? Yeah, it's like hey,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: a bat. But when she growing she drew the family,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: like at school last Friday, she came home, dare you
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: gotta look at my pictures? And opened it up and
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: it's like, Dad, it's just like a big circle and
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: a guy with like massive eyes and like a frown
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: and she's like, there's you off to show you the photos,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: but buddy, the fake and you have to do in
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: front of your kids be like, oh my gosh, you no,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: you didn't. So if I call your teacher right now,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: she's gonna say you drew that. Yeah, dude, that is awesome.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: And I'm looking at it and just like my eyes
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: are slowly zooming in on this photo like what she
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: had you frowning? Yeah, I might, I might. I might
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: have grabbed a photo of it because I need to
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: post it. I meant to post it because she also
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: drew waffle waffles like waffle kind of like picture of
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: that cheap yeah, but obviously without all the cot but
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: just kind of like a circle, like a broken circle,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: and then the legs were just four lines under like
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: that cheap is Oh hell yeah, yeah, okay, So she's
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: getting dialed in. Yeah, she was getting dialed in.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Also, we need to update our fridge.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: And that's not.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: Like, oh, y'all need to like we need to we
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: need to provide stuff.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: We're doing a lot of production. That looks incredible. I mean,
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: that's incredible. Did she actually draw that?
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: She drew that?
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: If I call your teacher, like your teacher is going
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: to say, rude drew that he texted dang, Yeah, I'll
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: text it to you. And that's uh, that's data. Yeah.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: And there's Scotti up top.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: There's scott Zilla making a Godzilla turn them one.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, Scotti is a Scotty's officially. One man. Got
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: a little birthday party this weekend on the fence, on
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: the fence, you know, passing out and invites the yeah
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah to the boys of the shop. No, I
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: feel you because I believe the family's coming in town
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: and I'm like you, I'm so hit or miss and
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: everybody view and are listening. Help your boy out here.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Thoughts on a birthday party for a one year old
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: go ahead, Jeff speak for seeing a small story from
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: my family.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: My parents threw a big one year old birthday party
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: and they bought a really nice cake. This back when
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: we lived in Dallas, I forgot the famous cake shop.
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: Sure you know it?
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Uh? Who turned one? That's it? Is it Blue Bond Baker?
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: That might be me? This is one my parents always
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: tell the story. They can't shut up about it.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: They bought a three hundred dollars birthday cake and my
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: mom said that although it was the greatest cake they've
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: ever had, they said why. The joke is like, why
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: the hell did we do that for a one year old?
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: It's always been a discussion was like why.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Did were there? Did people come over? I think so
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I don't remember, so here here here, he's like my
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: here's like my vibe on it because I think I'm like,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: what are we doing for a one year old? Like
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I think we do like a what's the cake call?
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Where you can like mush it smash cake, get them
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: a little smash cake that they can kind of mess with.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. Two. And then Charles got like this board
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: to have like all of her monthly photos two month old,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: three month old, and it's like Lama theme because she
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: loves her little stuff Lama. So we don't do a
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: whole lot. But my thought is always like why are
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: we throwing a birthday party for a one year old?
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Like they're not gonna remember. They don't know any of this.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: But now that we did it for Rue and family came,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: the town of friends came over. Like uh Now, My
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: thought is like, dude, it's just an excuse for the
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: adults to hang out, yeah, celebrate and get around each other,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: especially in these months where it gets a little darker early,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be a good vibe.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: I've seen a little VHS tape of my first birthday.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: It could have been my brother's first birthday, but it
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: was really just an excuse me.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: The exact point.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: It was like all of my family is in Fort Worth,
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Texas absurd amount, and it's they're all just jam packed
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: in this house and it's so loud, and everyone's having
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: drinks and stuff, and like whoever the baby was that
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: was turning one is just lost in the moment, like
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: they're just being held. It's not like a celebration for them.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: It's more so everybody's just hanging out.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So which is if that's what you want, like,
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: go for it.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you is. It's kind of like that's
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: that's how my mind's wrapped around it. Because before rou
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: turned one, and she was talking to me about a
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: birthday party for ru. I'm just like, I mean, birthday
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: party for what. Then it happened. It was fun, and
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: that was Scotty coming up again. It's like I I
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: think about it a little bit, but I'm like, oh,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: this is just such a reason for Hey, come out
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: to Nashville, Hey come over the house. Yeah, you just
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: get to hang out with some friends, some family and friends.
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: The baby book, I think would be like a glaring
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: miss if there wasn't a one year old birthday. And
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: there's how my mom always viewed it, like it's for
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: the parents. But like when she gave me a book
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: of like all my birthdays, Like if she would have
• 34:26
  Speaker 5: started at birthday three, I probably would.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Have had some questions.
• 34:29
  Speaker 5: So that's kind of where my head's about it, Like
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: do it for yourself, but the whole story.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, outside looking in, I think it's great to
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: do and it's a big celebration.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit on the parent's side too, But
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: I think I've just told.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: What I was more reverencing is some people do like
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: really extravagant one year old birthdays, and that's where I
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: was always like, that's where you go, Yeah, like let's
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: just have a gathering and yeah, that's you gotta draw
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: a line.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: No reason to get a bunch like why have we
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: written out of place for those one year old celebration exactly,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: And that's a good call too, on more of a
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: it can be more of a celebration for the parents.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah you've survived a year. Yeah, you survived a year.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: You can ask it alive for a year.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: I like that scope of like, yeah, hey, well done,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: mom and dad, Well done, well done, mom and dad.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: This is to you, guys, because I will look up
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: when she is one years old and I will feel
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: a bit of that of because those first two weeks,
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: if we just look over to wife and you just
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: give her a dap, like, hey, we did that, We
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: did that. I had that thought this morning as Scarlet
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: was Jill did her ceremonial. Bring Scarlet and put her
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: in between us in bed, and you both just kind
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: of lay on our sides and.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, it's the best that you lay on your side
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: and you just kiss the shit out of them, bro, And.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: They're so happy in the morning, they're so so you.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Kiss them so much you want them to start pulling
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: their head away. Yeah, go all of you.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: And this is probably bad radio, but it's the little
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: ones too. I hit it like a machine gun with
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: the I get like five hundred in there. Dude, didn't
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: stand a chance. Yeah, what what else this weekend for you?
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Did you have a crack a cold one from this weekend?
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Man? So I get my crack a cold one. So
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: we finished off the weekend on Sunday morning. Sunday morning,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: got up, put it around the old house in the morning.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: We had a rough night on Saturday night. Scotty's going
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: through this, uh, not like sleep regression, but she's waking
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: up a few times in the night and kind of
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: crying and uh, she won't like put herself back to sleep.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: She's always been good at putting herself back to sleep.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: But I guess what we're learning is when they're going
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: through something big developmental, it can cause some like uh,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: you know where they're waking up in the middle of
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: the night or call some things like while they're sleeping.
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: And Scotty's been you know her her walking. She's every where, bro,
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: I'm talking everywhere. She's one of those ones where do what.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: She's a menace. She really is a menace. She just
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: walks everywhere, Like I'm I don't feel like I was
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: this way with Rue, But with Scotty, I'm like, I'm
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: like the parent that's like standing up and kind of
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: like walking with her because all she wants to do
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: is walk. Like last night, for example, Rue was on
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: her easel doing some drawings, like doing some more coloring,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: and Scotty kept going over because she wanted to be
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: like big sissy. She wants to pick up the markers
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: and pretend like she's drawing. Rue doesn't want her to
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: like kind of nudges around having a teacher. Hey sweetheart,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Like we're not pushing like Scotty. She just wants to
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: be like you. She wants to be She wants to
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: hang out with you. She wants to be like you.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Look at her. She wants to be like big sissy.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: And we're just kind of sitting there. I can tell
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: she do I wont her. So I pick up Scotty
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: and bring her over. And so this easel, this easel,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: you've been in my house? Have you guys been in
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: my house? So this easel's back in like the kitchen
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: or back in the dining room area. Okay, I'm picking
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Scotty up from the dining room area and bring it
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: all the way over to the living room. She gets up,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: she walks over to Rue, and I'm trying to distract her.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to play flash cards with her. I'm trying
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: to play like, hey, let's dick in this box and
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: try to pull out the balls. Just put the balls
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: in the hole. She might do it for a couple
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: of things. But she gets up and she just starts
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: like she's like walking, She's like doing her little walk.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: She's like ah, and she's like going over to Rue
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: and Roue from afart. You're like, Scotty, no, no, Scotty.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: I'm behind Scotty laughing. But Scotty walks over again, and
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: Scotty walks over. No matter how many times to tell
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: her no, no, Tom, I how many times I pull her
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: back to looking and try to work with her, it
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: probably happened eighteen times. I'm not exaggerating. And to where
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I just look at room. I'm like, Rue, I'm telling you,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: can I please just bring your easel. I'll just move
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: it into mom and Dad's room. Yeah, and you can.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: You can. You can have some privacy. You can draw
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: by yourself. Scotty won't bother you. I can shut the door.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: After about the eighteen time it finally happened. But Scotty
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: is just up in mobile everywhere. She just wants to walk. Yeah,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: she just wants to walk. You just gotta she But
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: she's vibing.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: So my go ahead say were she looks like Charo
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: but is all willye see?
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: And really looks like you. But it's all mom, You're
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: spot on. You are spot on with that. And so
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: I would say, like a Sunday morning comes around, and
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: since we had kind of the rough night on Saturday,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: probably slept to like eight thirty. That's badass. Yeah, I
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: got to sleep in, but Charro woke up and Charli
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: was operating with Rue. We did a sleepover on one
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: of the nights. It all kind of jels together. We
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: did a sleepover on one of the nights. All this stuff. Anyway,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Saturday Sunday morning, I'm up punning around. I'm about to
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: make breakfast because at the farmer's market, I got some steaks.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I want to do steak eggs. We got some sweet peppers.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I was gonna cut up some sweeteppers, kind of put
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: it with the steak and eggs. And she's like, we
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: got to be out of the house by ten, and
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, be out of the house by ten. We're
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: talking about we were going on a hike with my dad,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: and I'm thinking of myself. I thought you were going
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: on a hike with your dad, Like you were talking
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: about what am I gonna do for my next birthday?
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: And maybe we're going to hike with them or something
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: like that. I'm thinking I'm out of that equation. I'm like, yeah,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: that'd be you, that'd be awesome. Glad you're think about
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: your dad. Glad you want to do something with your dad.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Dad seems fun. And once she's like, we're going to uh,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: we're gonna go on a hike with my dad and
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: we got to be there at ten thirty. So I'm thinking,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: all right, it's a thirty minute drive. We gotta be
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: out of the house at ten and we're going on
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: a hike. Like nothing. Nothing chaps my ass more than
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: spontaneous plans that I don't feel like i'm privy to.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: And when I'm thinking, due, we're gonna have a nice
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: like lazy Sunday. We're gonna be hanging out and now
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: I got to get out of the house and go
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: on a hike. So my attitude before we got to
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: the hike, it's not like I had a bat or
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I had a projecting attitude. I was more of just quiet,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: like a couple of times, charl like we walked in
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: front of each other, like when we're passing a goat,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: like in a room or something like that. She looks
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: at me next smiles or try to give me a kiss,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: like I'm not smiling. I just kind of give her
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: the cheek if anything, because I want her to know, like,
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: you know, that's bullshit. Yeah yeah, like you know you
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: should have told me, like this should be in my head,
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: like this is too This came out of left field,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: old Willie See, and it's a hike.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: There's a lot entailed in a hike. Getting the kids
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: ready for a hike. Yeah, it's cold outside.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: It was very cold. The Willie one shoff mentality was
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: coming in my brain. What what is it? I know
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: this might like diverge from the story. I want to
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: hear the rest of the story. The story was my
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: loss is my attitude that all I feel I feel
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: like those those will always be kind of my losses. Yeah,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: my crack a Cold one was the hike because I
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: had an incredible time and I had to write a
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: caption about you know, we had some fun photos and
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: it was great memories. I'm smiling looking at it, and
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: I'm like, God, I'm mad that I enjoyed that hike
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: so much because it was my wife like getting us
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: out of the house. So my Cracker Cold one to
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: my wife is still my wife and getting us out
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: of the house and going on a family hike.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: I think my cracker Cold one is the exact same mentality.
• 42:13
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• 42:15
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• 42:18
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• 42:19
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• 42:22
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• 42:53
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• 42:55
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• 42:58
  Speaker 2: There are sponsors where like you can't use their product
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: on the day to day. This is one where I
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: not only myself or will, but I see everybody in
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: the office every single day somebody's using a Liquid IV.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, tastes good, feel good three times the electrolytes, it's great.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: But that's my Cracker Cold one. My Cracker Cold one
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: goes through the exact same thing.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: We already talked about the Stars game, and we talked
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: about this in the intro as well, but like, I
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: What that feeling is that like pissed.
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: Off to the spontaneity of like the moment like when
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: Taro kind of breaks the news that you're going to
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: be going on a hike that morning and you're pissed,
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: or like me going into the Stars game, like not
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: wanting to go to the Stars game when I woke
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: up that morning, like not being excited for it even
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: though it was in my plans.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And like you're trying to say, you're trying to
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: figure out like to the core of what that is. Wait,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: is that now working through it?
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: That is my crack of cold one like going to
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: the Stars game and then you're leaving the Stars game.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: You're walking out and you're like, I had so much fun.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: My kid had so much fun. Coop and his girlfriend
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: had so much fun. You're talking about how much you
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: love the high you hated, how much you loved the hike,
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: cause you're like that was awesome.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: I'm walking out there and it was it was a frigid,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: but it's like I'm walking out there and as I'm
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: walking and trying to Like, Lola had this challenge for Rue, like, hey,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: she had a bag because she thought it could be
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: like Rue hike and we had to go up a mountain.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: Roo wants to be carried a lot, but just to
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: keep her engage and keep her going, she brought a bag.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: And this is a here we go. This is a
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: dad hack. Yeah, yeah, survival kid, dad hack, whatever you
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: want to call it. But she brought a bag along
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: and said, hey, we're gonna find as many colorful leaves
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: as we can and then we give home. We'll do
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: arts and crafts and kind of put it together like
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: on a on a what's the paper called construction for
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: construction paper, put some glued to some construction paper, like
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: just have like an activity or have a chat as
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: you do to keep her engage. So as I'm walking
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: and finding leaves with her because I got bought in,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: we're skipping rocks in the water, We're throwing rocks at
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: the waterfall, We're looking at leaves like as I'm doing it,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm having a quality time. Yeah. Do
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you think it's that feeling of like it was a Sunday, right, Yeah,
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: it was a Sunday.
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: So you're thinking before as you're going to bed Saturday night. Naturally,
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: although we know the hike will be fun and stuff,
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: you're thinking, man, it's gonna be football is gonna be
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: on Sunday. Maybe you know a little bit of R
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: and R, and then it's the hike and you're like, okay,
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: you know what the hike in tails with kids. And
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: then that initial thought, because I think every man has
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: this on a Sunday or Saturday, you're like when you
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: get pulled out of the house or maybe even you
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: know for all our people out there when worked all week,
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: you're like, man, that's that's my time. Maybe you're having
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: this idea of it and then it's a sudden change
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: to That's.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is.
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: It's not the activity itself, because that's not like you know, clearly,
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: it all sounded like a hell of a time, But
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: it's that that change of like you had this expectation
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: for the day and then now you're having to pivot.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's the heart.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: That's that in what Sherm you're talking about, that initial
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: like you were kind of like that initial thoughts, like, ah,
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: because it'd be so easy to sit on the couch
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: and watch football.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it'd be so easy too to just watch Scott
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: Scarlet at the house. Because Sherm knew they had the
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: hockey game plan. We had it planned. I didn't hear,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: like I didn't know, like I heard Cheryl talking about
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: potentially going on a hike, but I didn't know it
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: was happening on Sunday, like Sunday morning, like when I
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: woke up, and so yes, it kind of caught. It's
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: like you go through the entire week. We were talking
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: about my state of mind when you came in here,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: was that Thursday or Friday when I was sitting on
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: the lane online. Oh yeah, that might even been Wednesday
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: where I was feeling exhausted. It was before you went
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: to ESPN. Yeah, but you go through you know, you
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: go through this entire week. I mean you think of
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: bust and like, what was yesterday nine thirty in the
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: morning to three thirty in the afternoon. Then we have
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: four the deads this morning. That's a couple hours. We'll
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: be doing k Adams. That'll be about thirty minutes. We're
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: gonna do the locker Room. That's a couple hours. We're
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: going to do ESPN. That's a couple of hours you're doing.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Then you're gonna sit on the stream, Like that's twelve
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: to fifteen hours of being in front of a camera
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: to whe when Then when you get to Friday, it's
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: we have this Gellette November thing, which is an incredible
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: cause and we wanted to do it, and then the
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: day is coming up and it's kind of like, damn,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: why are we Why do we commit to this because
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: that's a Friday now where it's usually pizza Friday, and
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: you're just relaxing because you got through the entire week. Yeah,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: so now I'm getting out of the house and going
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: to do this Gillette thing that I was like I'm
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: excited to do because of the cause, but I'm not
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: excited to do like personally and selfishly. Then Saturday, it's
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: like Joe's like, what do we want to do today?
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: And it's like, yo, let's we decide we're gonna hit coffee,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: We're gonna hit the farmer's market, like we're gonna have
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: a day. Then we do it date night where we
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: get dinner, we get a movie. Come back, You're just
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: kind of exhausted, and then you're Scotty's having a tough
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: time that night. Then when Sunday comes and she hits
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: me with you know, we're going on hike comps, just thinking,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: come on, bro, can't we just sit around and be lazy?
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: But again, happy we did it. That's also my crack.
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: A cold one's life is starting to feel like this
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: revolving door somewhat to me, you know, and not in
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: a bad way at all, but like I need to
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: embrace just to grind.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to start to embrace it more.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: I know, we like jokingly say good on this podcast,
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: which I can say that to like stepping in dog
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: poop and stuff like that's funny, you know, but like
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: truly those moments of like why the hell am I
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: sitting there on a Saturday that morning, being like there's
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: literally nothing that I want to do less than go
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: to the Stars game, Like why do I feel like that?
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: That just kind of bumps me out. I'm trying to
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: like challenge myself to be like I.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Gotta roll with the punches. Yeah, yeah, I gotta roll
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: with the punch. I gotta go live life.
• 49:04
  Speaker 5: Something that I know I've said to you and I
• 49:06
  Speaker 5: probably said on the show, and it's something I have
• 49:08
  Speaker 5: to like say in my head so many times, but
• 49:10
  Speaker 5: like and it is, it's such like a mental thing
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: more but you have you don't have to you get
• 49:13
  Speaker 5: to like, yeah, I'm always like, oh dude, I have
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: to do all this stuff. When I get home, it's
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: like no, no, no, Like I live in a house that
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: I really love with a woman that I really love,
• 49:22
  Speaker 5: and I get to do all these things and I
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: have to say it so many times.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: That I get out of this like oh we got
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: to we have to.
• 49:28
  Speaker 5: Go on this hike. It sucks, but yeah we get
• 49:30
  Speaker 5: to go on this hike. And like how cool is
• 49:32
  Speaker 5: it that she's that close to her grandparents? Ruined Scott.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: That shift of mentality is huge. So that's yes, and
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: nail on the head.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: That's where I need to be. That's truly where I
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: need to be. I'm being dead serious, dude, because.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: This family right here, this community, this family vibes right now.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: Because I have been thinking that way a lot, dude,
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: and like going into like going into the Monday this week,
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: there is no reason why I should have been worried
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: going into this Monday. But I'm just racking my brain
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: and racking my brain of like, oh, what could go wrong?
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: And what did I not do enough of and what
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: could not be prepared?
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Constantly feel like you're behind the eight ball and I'm not.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: It's okay, Like I'm going to show up on Monday
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: and like everything's gonna be fine. And what what happened
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: on Monday? I mean, do we hit any snags? Not
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: to my knowledge, I.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Mean I can't remember. Again, it's it, it all goes so
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: he had almost so it's all so fleeting fast.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: And even if we did hit snags, he literally doesn't remember.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: Like my boss's I'm sitting there like taking tabs.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: On Sherman of yeah, yeah, I think what day I'm
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: thinking of my aid. How can we get the spots
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: where we're not we don't have like three or four
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: interviews and the intros do everything. Yeah, because I mean
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: yesterday we were on the bus for six hours.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a long day.
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: More months of football and then it all well, I
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: mean really two more hard months college football ends back
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: in the NFL. But I can tell, like when you
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: guys started her like wait till football season. It's a
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: grind and I'm we're kind of outside looking in because
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: I try yesterday, I try to help. I'm gonna try
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: to help more with busting now with the way our
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: schedule is. But it's like we do for the dad's content.
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: And honestly, this is kind of like because football takes
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: present it here and this is a football facility, I
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: get to see how hard it is for Will and Taylor,
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: like for anyone, Like I think anyone here would be
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: like we're so blessed all around that this is what
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: we get to do for work. Yeah, but Will and
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: Taylor like it's hard for and I'm not trying to glacier,
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: but it's it's a hard job to just be on.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: And you can tell, like you got to be you know,
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: it's not you just don't show up and go through
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: the motions, whereas I think some people for work, you know,
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: you can have a down day.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: There's certain days where you gotta be good to go.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: Like they're like you can get away with whatever attitude
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: you were kind of wanting to selfishly have, but still
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: grind out what your work is. That is true, dude.
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: When I was working at that call center, it wasn't
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: a call center, but when I had that cubicle job
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: where I was just basically answering phone calls, if I
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: was having the week from hell, nobody would know about
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: it because I'm in my cubicle and I can just
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: kind of like chill, relax.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: Maybe I don't take sixty calls that day like I
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: usually do.
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Maybe I just take twenty.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: I'm just kind of kicking it that week, and I'm
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: not going to hear about it from my manager, not
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: that we would ever, like hey, d da du that's
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: not how it feels around here.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: But with the cameras on, you like, do kind of
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: have to be on?
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, even production like today's day where I can't because
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: this is going out tomorrow, Like I can't have a
• 52:46
  Speaker 3: bad day. Yeah there, you know, like we're all around
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: like Mitch runs the pod, can't have a bad Monday
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: or something.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: There.
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: It's like even if you are just who cares you
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: gotta be ready to go. Yeah, so good dad talk
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: right here, good dad talk. We just boways be boys,
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: just leaning on each other. We get Hey, it's a
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: little exhausting right now. We get to we get to
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: we get to do it.
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: We get too. Shout out there.
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: That was really nice, very nice. What you just heard
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: there was the opening of the Ollipop SpongeBob collaboration. Guys,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: this is the Pineapple Paradise, brought to you by Alli
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: popa Team six, also known as Ollipop. This flavor specifically
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan of. However, grape is Will's favorite flavor.
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: That does not take away from how good this flavor is.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: The SpongeBob collaboration is really really good. If you like
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: something fruity that feels clean when you're drinking, it feels light,
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: but it's also like a sweet treat. I feel like
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: that describes almost every single Lollipop flavor. But the one
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: that I like, or the part that I like most
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: about this one is that it does feel very light
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: and crisp and just like guilt Free, I don't know,
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: I digress. Ollipop has a collaboration with SpongeBob. The Pineapple
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: Paradise is a juicy pineapple with a splash of Mandarin
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: pure liquid joy, just like SpongeBob himself. They have five
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: limited edition SpongeBob can designs hidden in each four pack.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: Each pack is a little treasure hunt and you never
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: know which one you're gonna get. Collect them all and
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: unlock sweet rewards at drink lollipop dot com Forward slash SpongeBob.
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: We talked about before the love for Lollipop Will Compton
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: and he is wanting to play video games with his boys.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: There's one thing that.
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: He always does. He does his gas station run. He
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: does his store run for snacks and drinks, and every
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: single time he's getting Lollipop Grape Classic Grape. I love
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: the Lollipop Vintage Cola. You also have heard that my
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: wife loves the banana cream.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: With some creamer in there. I'll leave the.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Name of the creamer company out, but she throws a
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: little creamer into the banana cream, flavor mixes it up,
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: gets it real nice and cold. With some ice in there,
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: and that thing truly is like a milkshake. Do not
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: heavy whipping cream in your banana cream lollipops. Guys, get
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: two dollars off a four pack of lollipop at drinkollipop
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: dot com.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Forward slash Bustin.
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: Works on any flavor of four, including the SpongeBob pack,
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: and you can get that any retailer as well. Lollipop
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: is sold online drinkollipop dot com. Plus it's on Amazon
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: and available in almost fifty thousand retailers nationwide, including Costco, Walmart, Target, Publics,
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: Whole Foods, Kroger, and HGB. Guys, go drink some lollipop.
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: It really is. It's becoming the ship. Well, it's becoming
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: the shop's favorite. It is the shop's favorite at this point.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: Ollipop.
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: Also, if you're listening, to please send us some more lollipop,
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: because we are desperately trying to keep these cans around
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: for these ad reads to have on camera because everybody
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: at the shop is control all deleting these lollipops. And hey,
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: something I'm curious, well, please I want to hear from Okay, good.
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: Something I'm curious about. Yes, because Scarlett is I keep
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: almost calling her Scottie Scarlett is four months. Four months,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: So Jilly Bean's back at work. She's back at work, dude,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: how is how is Jillie being doing? How's mom getting
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: back to work? I know, like Charos, she was like
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: itching to get back to work because again during postpartum,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: and you know, for men, I don't know how everybody's
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: paternity to leave is. Obviously yours is different than the
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: majority of America is when you have small business. And
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I know when we had Scotty was in the middle
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: of football season. When we had Rube, that was in April,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: so it was a little bit more of a lax time.
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: But I was pretty much right back in the saddle
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: with work, and it's very much you kind of feel
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: like a guilt doing that. Yeah, the dad, because mom's
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: got to be lockstep with the baby, with the newborn
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: for you know, at least what is it eight weeks,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: twelve weeks, yeah, or maternity to leave. I don't know
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: who everybody has something different, yeah, yeah, but I know
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: it's always like draining because women like feel like they
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: lose who they are. Like one of Charles's biggest fears
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: was like losing her identity or not like losing her identity,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: but her identity being fully wrapped into motherhood. Anytime anybody
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: would talk to her, she's almost like she didn't resent
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: it or she didn't like push away from it, but
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: like something internal like hated that. Now it's just everything motherhood.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: It's not like check on how's everything going, how's work,
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: or how's this. They feel like they lose part of themselves.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: So I know when they get their body moving again,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: they can work out again, they can go back to work.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: It's almost like life gets to be like breathed back
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: into them a little bit. Yes, that's exactly.
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: Charro's journey sounds very much like Jill's. To the tea
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: al mess of just Jill was itching to get back.
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: Here's a little bit of anxiety that comes with it,
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: I'm for.
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: Sure because now it's like your first time away from
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: the kid too. That was hard for Jill.
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: That was really hard for Jill that first day of
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: uh not being with Scarlet. A lot of face timing
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: during her lunch breaks. Yeah, a lot of face time,
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: which I've loved, the.
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: Amount of photos that would have to come of the phone.
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: The expectation for like dude, I want photos. My wife
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: would be like, I want photos all day because the
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: for like when you're away from the kid, it's like
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: you're excited to go back, and then you're like, I
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: kind of feel bad that I'm going back because I
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: don't want to leave the kiddo.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: Yes, I did so many photos going back and forth.
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: Uh to Jill, and I would say the only negative
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: is she's in pediatric nursing and so the kid said,
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: she's singing on her floor. It's hitting a bit harder
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: emotionally for her because now she has scarlet and just
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: like imagine it, because she sees some car rag you know,
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: bad situation, bad situations, and she's now like attributing that
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: to oh my gosh, what if that was scarlet? And
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: so that kind of stuff's been hitting her really hard lately.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: I would say that's her main struggle is just like
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: if anything happened to my sweet girl scarlet, like, oh
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: my gosh. But she's loving being back. She has a
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: very supportive team. Shout out to all the nurses on
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: her floor. I've gotten to meet a lot of them,
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: and they just have a really tight unit.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: They have a fun unit. Jill's been on some other floors.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: Where like everything doesn't click and said, this is other hospitals,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: but she's met on other floors where they don't mesh.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about all the girls don't mash on this floor,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: like they are all buddy buddy and they just are
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: how can they help Jill? They want to hear about
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: the kid. You know, it's cool, like she's really enjoying
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: being back, but she's missing Scarlet. But I think her
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: going back to has presented an opportunity for me to
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: excel as a dad with the daycare drop offs and pickups.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: She is very like she did say, not that she
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: was proud of me, but she was like, you've been
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: you know, super dad lately with the drop offs and
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: the pickups, which it's not all that hard, but it
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: has been fun to like be able to show her like, hey,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: you can go work and I can make sure that
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: Scarlett is getting to the daycare, that she's getting picked.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: Up on time.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: And so it's been a really good it's been a
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: really good experience.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's always there's always like blind spots that as
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: as dads, we don't quite pick up on until it's like, hey,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: you've been super dead or hey, I could really use
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: some help X, Y and Z, And you're not like
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: realizing that there is help to be given. Yes, I do.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I like with a with a Charro, you realize that
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: the mom just takes on pretty much everything. Now, I'm
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: not saying that dads don't do their best, aren't intentional,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm intentional. I feel like I'm
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing my best to figure out work I
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: can help, how we can be a good team. We
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: have a very good like partnership. But you just realize,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: like when they're working and they're on like a tough
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: work schedule, like I can assume with Jill and being
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: a nurse Charlie with being a business owner, it's just
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: like their mind is constantly thinking about everything at all times,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: Like I'm that way with busting. It's like I feel
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: like I'm just I feel like I'm just busting with
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: the boys and dad. Whereas we got to carve out
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: those times where I could be husband, where I could
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: be boyfriend, where we do date nights or staycations, and
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: we both got to be intentional. And Charo feels like
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: she's business owner. Bar three in mom but with us
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: the whole dad and mom thing, like if there were
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: to be a scoreboard, there is no scoreboard. But when
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: you do score gentlemen, you do have to let them
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: know the details that they have to think about surrounding
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: the kids at all times, compared to what I feel
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: like we think about as Dad's like, we think about
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, but as far as like the
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: details in having the list of everything if if a
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: new person comes over our babysitter, or they're gonna need
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: this food or that bottle, or has the grocery store
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: or what are we gonna have? What are we doing
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: for dinner at all times? Like at all times every meal,
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: everything down to a tee? Are we getting childcare for this? Okay,
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: that's awesome if we want to go on a date,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: but you know, when we go on a date, will
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to do the childcare? And
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: then I'm thinking like an aha thing like okay, I
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: got to figure out how I get the numbers of
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: these people. So that way, it's like even though I'm saying, hey,
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: I want to spend time with you, and you know,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: let's go date night Saturday, set up a date night
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: it's like, all right, I'm having to do to put
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: together the entire date night with coordinating childcare, coordinating these people,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: schedules of nanny, schedule of everybody. Yeah, and so it's
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: like you just you learn over time as I have
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: learned over time as husband as dad. When I am like, okay,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: well let's go do this. Yeah, you realize I have
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: to be the one that puts this together. She's like,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: it doesn't just happen. I'm like, all right, all right,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: how can I you know? And then it's like, well,
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: it'd be great if you just we're knowing it. I'm like, okay, yeah,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: you are right, Like, let me at least give me
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: step one here, shoot me the numbers too, where I
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: can talk to the people. But all to say, it's like, yeah,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: what women have to deal with, what women go through
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: stress level wise? Yeah, I had all times with work,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: with career and being a mom. Hats all have hats off.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: We love Milk Team six. We love Milk Team six.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: And I had a moment of weakness over the weekend
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: where I was just like I was feeling all the
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: stress of everything and I.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: Was letting Jill.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: Now, I was like, you know, I feel like I
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: do all these things right, and then I get like
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: nitpicked for the little things and body and it's like
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: you're telling her that yes, And I was like, get
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: the bottle cap and make sure you have the extra
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: towel thing, and you got to put the water in
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: first before the bottle, before you put the formula, and
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: you have to make sure that the cap and all
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: this stuff is in there. I'm like listening all those
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: things that like I get nippicked on to Jill. And
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: she was like, and but what about now you know
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: how to do it. She was like, that's why I'm
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: hard on you, because you can do it now. I'm
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: teaching you, like I'm not just trying to like I'm
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: not just trying to nippick you to nitpick you, like
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you the things that you need to know
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: in order to be a good dad. And I kind
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: of like she did a full like reversal on men.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: She sabing you.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: She did, and I was sitting there, I was like,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, damn, yeah, she really has been like
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: I am good at this because of Jill in her
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 2: coaching and all those little things. I'm thinking, I'm so
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: stressed trying to remember all these things.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: You know, does she to your point? And it's fast
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: her all day, every day, And it's fascinating just how
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: on top of it they are where there was no
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: playbook for them before it happened. Yeah, but right, they like,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: you know, they weirdly like teach you and challenge you
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: at the same time. Yeah, shout out the moms.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: Shut up the moms, dude, char I love you, Jill,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: Love you, Jill. I love you, charl I love you, dude.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: Shout out teamwork and parenting too. We will get to
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: the phone call shout out to teamwork and parenting. I
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: wanted to. That's another crack of cole when it's just
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: good teamwork in parenting, whether you're setting each other up
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: for success, like say you're all nighttime duty and then
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: you're kind of setting up the feed or the next
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: feed for your partner or just in the mornings. I
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: know in our household, it's like charl will get like
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: rude dressing ready, Like that's that to me. It's like
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: I get two out of my depths of what exactly
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: Ruth's gonna want to wear, because rue can be particular
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: and I can give her options and everything else. But
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: then when I get her dressed, she always wants like
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: a certain hairstyle. And that's like I can do a ponytail.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: And if I can't do a ponytail, we're gonna get
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: you a headband. Yeah, because my bag's not that deep.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: I can't do the braids. Like this morning, she comes
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: down and she's got a ponytail, but in like not
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: in the ponytail. The ponytail was just normal, normal look
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: at ponytail. But before the ponytail, she had two braids
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: going to the ponytail. I'm like, I can't do that, bro.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: So the way we operate for our teamwork success is
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: I'll be getting the lunch ready, I'll be making breakfast.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: I'll be getting wifey's breakfast, going setting up you know,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: if we're gonna Scotty's gonna eventually eat, like getting her rolling.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: So just shout out to teamwork and just picking up
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: slack for each other, picking up slack for your partner.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: There are times where I feel like Charo does something
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: big time for me where I just feel like a
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: stress is off, Like she'll know when we go out
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: and fly to ESPN on Wednesday she like, hey, do
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: you want to go? We want to go out to eat,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: and part of me is like, bro, I don't want
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: to because then I miss We'll get home and I
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: don't actually get to do bedtime, and I know that's
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: going to eventually, Hey, I've done all these bedtimes and
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: then that kind of falls back on me. So if
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to strategize and play chess here, I would
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: rather do bedtime so that way I don't have that
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: guilt weighing on me at some point when you got
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: to do two or three bedtimes in a row. But
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: then when she has like the Cooper Coock mentality of
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: ahead of time, how I've kind of expressed that and
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: it's like, dude, I'll rip the I'll rip the bedtimes.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: Like here's the conversation I've had with myself about it
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: to where it's made me feel alleviated stress. So shout
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: out partners like picking up slack for each other. Shout
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: out teamwork and parenting.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: Shout out teamwork and parenting. There there is no better
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: feeling than falling short or feeling like you're going to
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: fall short and somebody swooping in and being like, hey,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 2: even if you do fall short, I'll pick up the
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: slack for you.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: We're a team like that.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: There's no better message, there's no better message. Or hey,
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 2: it looks like you have a lot of stuff on
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: your plate. What's one thing I can take off? What's
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: one thing I can do the feeling of waking up
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: and taking Scarlet to daycare? And there's all these little
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: minute things that I have to do to get Scarlet
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: ready for daycare. And every single morning when I come in,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 2: I see her little outfits already laid out, and I
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: see that the bottles are already made and they're in
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: the refrigerator in her.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: Little set up her success.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: And her backpack is hanging right there by the door
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: with the extra blanky, the extra outfit.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, Jill, I love you. Thank you for
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: doing that.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: Because she does that on nights where she's about to
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: go into work the next day. You know, she could
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: be like, Hey, I want to go to bed and
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: I'm sleepy, I'm tired, and yeah, she's doing that extra
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: step on those nights of how can I said sherman
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: up for success?
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: And overall we don't realize it, but we're also modeling
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: this teamwork in front of the kids. Yeah, you're also
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: modeling this teamwork in front of Scarlet, front of Scottie
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: and Rue. They see mom and dad working together. Well,
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: give our being affectionate in front of them. Where we
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: got the family, you know, Charling, I'll sit there and
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: do our like eight second hug and I'll give her
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: a kiss and a Roo runs over and she's like, Oh,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: it's it's group hug time. It's group hug. But just
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: like modeling, all this teamwork is like a very good
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: thing for the little ones. Yeah, let's get into some
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: six and one. The Dad's the hotline hot line do
• 1:09:55
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• 1:09:56
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• 1:09:59
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• 1:10:01
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• 1:10:03
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• 1:10:05
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• 1:10:08
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• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: First call in this one is titled Ali Papa Team Sick,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: Oh Ali popa.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Shout out, Ollipop boys, What up? It's Adam from Florida here.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: Holy shit? I not. I'm just I should you not.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: I tried the ollipop grape, uh, just to try it
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 4: because you guys talked about it.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: It's fucking good. Yeah, I'm not even kidding you. I
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: got the little boy here right now.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 4: He doesn't know words yet, so guys, I gotta watch
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 4: the swearing.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: But holy fuck, this is good. Mom's on a little
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: late duty nursing out there.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 4: We're hanging out little olli pop classic grape. Holy shit,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 4: rely one shelf.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: You're not fucking around.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 4: You know what's talking about? But I just wanted to
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 4: get that. I guess it's not a free shoutout. This
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 4: is a sponsor baby, Jeff. That's bad for Derek. Miss
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 4: you boys, even though I never met you.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to say.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 4: This ollipop great life changing. Hell yeah, boys, PT six out,
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 4: keep it rolling.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: That was an awful sign out. That's all time. Hang
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: the banner a banner.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: I want Adam in the shop immediately, immediately.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: Papa Team six oh in ollipop.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: That's hey, we get the dad ollipop going. That's that's
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: it right there. That is the well what do we
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: what do we want to call it?
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: Do we want to call it Papa Drink six.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 5: I think the only teams she said is Papa and
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 5: then Ollipopa team six, So we've done both of them.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: I'm cool with Alli Papa team six. That's a great one. God,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: we gotta make it happen. That right there. His name Adam, Adam,
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: thank you for bringing the vibes. Well, we just did
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: an entire pot number one. Happy birthday again to scott Zilla.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: But we just did a nice vent session with the
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: boys kind of bitching and complaining a little bit with
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: each other, which just you kind of need that in
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: camaraderie community because no matter what, we're gonna embrace the suck,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: but sometimes it's good to just talk about the suck. Yeah,
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: with each other. Then we're sitting here, we just we
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: spinning around. Sweetheart, drop them, let us tell you how
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: how much we love you. We're just hyping up all
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: the moms. We go into this weird phase of complaining,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: shout out the moms and then just to get a vibe,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: a vibe check like Adam, that was deal. Hey, by
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: the way, it didn't click in my head to where
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: the mom's saying drop them. I was thinking of the
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: shirm part where I'm like, let me give you a compliment.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: But then it's like, okay, that's a different, different visual.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, what a different visual of what? Nothing? Okay,
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: this is this is me and my own mook. You
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: were thinking out loud. Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking I'm doing
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: the joke mom, like, Mom, drop them, like you know,
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: sure them earlier on the compliment, drop them, let me
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: give you a compliment. Oh god. Then I say that, yeah, mom,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: dropping them. When I said that, I kind of was
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: like studying a little bit more like, oh, that's a
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: different yeah, don't drop your packs. Good, Oh my gosh.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: Then you guys were really responding. I'm like, okay, maybe
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: this is just me fighting my own fight mentally right now.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Adam, Thank you, Polly, Poppa Team six, thank
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: you Adam. Uh one more or we can move to emails.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: One more. Let's we can't. Yeah, we got it. We
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: need another one. Here's a guys trip question.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 6: Fellas a long time listener, first time caller. I I
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 6: love your guys to show you guys do an awesome job.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 6: I really appreciate it. I'm assumed to be expecting father
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 6: my wife's twenty four weeks pregnant, so I got a
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 6: little bit more time, but recently calling todays, I really
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 6: wanted to ask your opinion on this specific issue, which
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 6: is me and my wife have a great relationship. Married
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 6: life without kids been great, but I am super excited
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 6: about being a father. However, I'm thinking about some of
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 6: those annual trips i'd gone with my boys, you know,
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 6: the hunting trips, the golf trips, that type of thing,
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 6: and when is it appropriate to talk about, you know,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 6: continuing those traditions with my friends, and how to approach
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 6: that conversation with my wife. You know. The one specific
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 6: instance is like every year in May, I do a
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 6: fishing trip with three of my best buddies from growing up.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 6: It's like a four day trip. It's never anything crazy,
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 6: but we're going to have a two month old baby
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 6: when that trip comes around. How do I approach that conversation.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 6: I can't wait to hear from you guys. Thanks.
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  Speaker 2: That specific situation that he brought up is way harder
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: than just the conversation of having a boy's trip, because
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: I feel like that is a very fair thing to want.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: I feel like girls want their girls trips, like completely
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: normal thing to want. To do an annual trip with
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: your boys or empty six ers with their girls. I
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: think don't have any fear going into that conversation. But
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 2: the one that he just brought up, Yeah, the two months,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: that's hard.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: That Yeah, that's a slippery, slippery slope, my friend. Yeah.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: My advice number one would just be, what's the worst
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: that could happen if you bring it up to talk
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: about it? You just you have to be prepared. Your
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: mentality has to be prepared and open to You might
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: miss your first one, but that might that'll be the
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: only one that you miss. Yeah, but you're gonna miss.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: I could see you missing this first one. It truly
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: depends where wife he's going to be. Let's say, if
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: she's open to it right now, I think though this
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: is gonna be this is gonna be a process. I
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: think step one is if she's open to it this early,
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: I think that's a win to set up the next
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: conversation because if you get her open to it or
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: saying even if she says yes, I want you to
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: slow her down and say, I honestly, this isn't even
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: something I'm wanting to commit to right now. It was
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: more of like wanting to just start the conversation because
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: we don't know where you're going to be eight weeks postpartum,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: two months into to being mom. So I love you
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: for saying yes now, but I just want to pull
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: you back because we can circle back to this conversation
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: conversation in the future. I think that is where that's
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: a double win if you If you let her say yeah,
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: I'm down for you to do it, and then you
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: hold her to it, there could be you. Truly, I'm
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: telling you it. Postpartum is just a different beast man hormonally, mentally,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: it's just a different animal. I'm not saying good, bad,
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: and different. I'm just saying it's just a different person
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: that's going on because having this new child.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 2: I would list everything that made you want to call
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 2: in and ask us, like how do I go about
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: doing this? You obviously have some worries in your head
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 2: of and list those things down of like I'm worried,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: how is she going to be able to do this?
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: How how can I set her up for success?
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: Maybe he lives twenty minutes from his in laws, the
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: in laws can come over and help, et cetera, et cetera.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: Start off that conversation with a write it down and
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: sure that you wrote it down of these are things
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 2: I'm worried about if I did do this trip. It's
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 2: we're two months into our new child. Or do you
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 2: feel comfortable with that, like let her know that you
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 2: are worried about this stuff and that you're not just
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: coming to her going hey, I go fishing with the
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: boys or like what you know what I mean, you
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: got to anchor her emotion first, So you need to
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: start off by just saying, hey, can we have.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: Would you mind if we have a serious conversation. Yeah.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: She might chuckle, she might laugh, but you keep a
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: straight face. And then you say, I'll be honest, like,
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: I'm terrified to bring this up just because it's it's important,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: but it's also not important at the same time, and
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: I'm just scared of what your reaction might be. You're
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: now anchoring her in to where what is he about
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: to say right now? And then you just simply let
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: her know you know that I have this. It's honestly,
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: it's you know, I have this annual fishing trip with
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: the boys that lands in May, and I'm not looking
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: for you to say yes, I can do it. I'm
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: just truly my fears in bringing up could it be
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: a conversation when that time starts to come, like once
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: this baby comes and we get into a rhythm and
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: we figure out all the things that might be needed
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: in this situation. But would you be willing to have
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: that conversation or is it just completely shit? I just
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: put her off the table right now. I'm willing to
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: do that. I'm just I'm wanting to know. That's why
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: I'm bringing it up to you. Maybe, sweetheart, you go
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: on that trip every year. Of course, I want you
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: to still go on that trip. And even once she's
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: doing that, you might think you're winning, But the ultimate
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: finish is you got to rain. You gotta rein it
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: back in to where you get her to say, Sweetheart,
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not wanting you to say yes right now. I'm
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: just all I was truly wanting to do is if
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: it could be a conversation when that time comes. I
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: want us to wait till the baby comes and we
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: get in to think of it for a little bit
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: and we start to get a feel for what this
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: rhythm is going to be like, because there would be
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: a lot of work to be done for me to
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: even consider going on a trip like this and.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 2: Set you up for success in these ways, and may
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: is okay if your mom's coming in, that's where the
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: list comes in. That's where the list comes in. Yeah,
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: Like I've gained planned a little bit.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: What are you?
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: How do you feel about these are some steps that
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 2: I think we should take in order to make this
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: comfortable and doable. And you may even come across just
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: by having the conversation. I know, with certain types of fishing,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: there's season the rivers thaw out in Colorado if you're
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  Speaker 2: like fly fish or whatever. So maybe it's not something
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  Speaker 2: that you can push. But let's say you do have
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  Speaker 2: this conversation and Wifey says, hey, at the two month mark,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but what about it three months because
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  Speaker 2: then my mom's going to be in town and can
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  Speaker 2: help me.
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  Speaker 1: Da da da.
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  Speaker 2: Then pitch that to the boys of like, hey, y'all
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  Speaker 2: don't have to say yes this, but Wifey's saying it's
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  Speaker 2: a for sure yes if I can do these dates, Like,
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  Speaker 2: everybody can kind of come together and find a solve
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  Speaker 2: if you communicate. But if you wait till the last
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  Speaker 2: second and then go eh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't wait, bring it in now, yeah, anchor in
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  Speaker 1: the emotion. Yeah. And again, we're not trying to get
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  Speaker 1: her to yes right now. If she says yes, that's beautiful,
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  Speaker 1: now rain her back in and just say no, this
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  Speaker 1: is a no. I don't even think we consider it
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  Speaker 1: unless we have these things lined that we don't know.
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  Speaker 1: We don't know when this newborn comes. Now. I want
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  Speaker 1: to be fully equipped to make you. I want to
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  Speaker 1: feel like I'm setting you up for six for setting
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  Speaker 1: you up for success, even if we do such a thing.
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  Speaker 1: And then what a move by you see if we
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  Speaker 1: can create more options within the boys, like does the
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  Speaker 1: trip have to be on this weekend in May every year?
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  Speaker 1: Can you move it one week back? Can you figure
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  Speaker 1: something else out? And my man, this will be the
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  Speaker 1: only year you have to do this, that's the only
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  Speaker 1: year your guide trips are super important. I will say
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: in the future, you're gonna have to think about family
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: trips that go along. You have a hunting trip, you
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: have a fishing trip. You're gonna have to figure out
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: a family trip in the middle of the year. So
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  Speaker 1: that way the family, the wife knows like that's always
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: gonna be priority. She needs to have a girl's trip
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  Speaker 1: every year. You're in a good spot, appreciate the question,
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  Speaker 1: and you're not asking anything crazy. Yeah, you ain't out
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  Speaker 1: of it. It's never over till it's over. Hey, don't
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  Speaker 1: and don't skip over that for any and slip that
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  Speaker 1: we had.
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  Speaker 5: Shout out the wording of his question. Two, not hey, guys,
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  Speaker 5: should I go on the trip? It's hey, how should
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  Speaker 5: I have this discussion? So I just want to say,
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  Speaker 5: shout out the wording. His mentality is already correct.
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  Speaker 2: He's already correct, and I feel like we're in the
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  Speaker 2: think tank with him. We are, and keep us updated.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: Let us know how the conversation set us. An invite
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  Speaker 2: says around. I like fishing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, twist my arm. All right, we got we got
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  Speaker 1: about ten minutes left. Let's dive in. I might have
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  Speaker 1: time for an email or two. I got one that
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  Speaker 1: has a photo. There's a photo with this one I
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: have written in blue. I do as well. Fellas longtime
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: listener to the bus since the og Vrabel and Quentin
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: Nelson pod in twenty nineteen, and recently got into for
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: the Dads for a nice little change of pace. My
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: wife and I got married in February and have recently
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: fallen on some dog shit hard times story for another day.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: Parentheses good, but your pot in this community of bros
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: and dads has truly giving me some grounding since I
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: started listening. My wife and I do not have any kids,
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: but I'm writing this as our two year old, sixty
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: pound pup naps on my chest, so I believe this
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: is what happiness feels like as a father. I work
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: in law enforcement across the border in the great state
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: of North Carolina, and last week was involved in a shooting.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: To make a long story short, we were chasing a
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: double homicide suspect who had just kidnapped a woman from home.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: During the chase, he shoots at us. Turns out turns
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: out that shit pisses you off more than anything. The
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: boys and I wind up taking care of business. In
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: the middle of all this, I cannot stop thinking of
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: my wife and how we have so much life left
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: to live and how much I need her in my life.
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: As I'm sitting in the hospital uninjured, just a precaution,
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: I throw some headphones in and listen to the most
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: recent episode of Dads. That episode just so happens to
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: be the one where you both are gushing over your wives,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: truly driving the point home that I love mine with
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: all my being and cannot wait to get past this
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: funk so that we can live the happiest, healthiest life together.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know how religious you all are, and sometimes
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: I struggle with it myself, but at the end of
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: the day, there's a reason for how and why everything happens,
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: and this blip on the radar will make us stronger
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: than ever. Thank you both for everything that all you
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: do and for keeping those of us on the straight
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: and narrow when it really feels like life is out
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: to get us. PS. Since that above story is still
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: like an ongoing thing, could you keep this all anonymous?
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You all the homies love you. Did
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: he say his name it all? And that Nope? He
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: did not? So show the photos? Yeah, okay, him and
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: a dog dog laying on his chest. Law enforcement got
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: a car right there in the garage. Thank you for
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: your service, dang. And then bullet holes on the windshield.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: Tight pattern on those bullet holes. Hey, thank you for
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: the email, sincerely. That was that was cool to read. Yeah,
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: that was a very I'm glad you're ok. Yeah, glad
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: you're okay, and thank you for your service to the community. Truly.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah you want to rip?
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, buddy, Budy girl Dad times three, six, two and
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 2: a one month old. I thought you guys would enjoy
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 2: this photo of my oldest and I on the Shockwave.
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 2: Totally different, totally different meaning from the one on the pod,
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 2: but nonetheless a heck of a ride. I caught the
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 2: Good Reel about a month ago and went to check
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 2: out an episode on YouTube, and I'm hooked binge the
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: podcast with Windshield time, family vacation and early morning runs,
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 2: I'm current and can't wait for those hump day drops,
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 2: the laughs, the cries, the raw emotion. Just tell me
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 2: you guys are doing it right. I've definitely cried with
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 2: y'all too many times to count, but I think that
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 2: what raising girl slash kids does is allows us to
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: get in touch with our emotions for the better. Hell,
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 2: I cry watching old and New Disney movies. Nowadays, I
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 2: even get the old lady listening when we're in the car.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 2: She's already said, I better get a Milk team shirt
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 2: whenever those drop. With the newborn, it's needed more than ever.
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 2: My dad hack for you guys, especially a girl. Dads
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 2: to yourselves is to take each daughter on their own
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 2: days slash dates. They grow into their own personalities and
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 2: have their own unique likes and dislikes, have fun and
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 2: make them feel as special as you can because they
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: will grow up before your eyes. As Will said, you
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 2: want to set the standard of what it looks like
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: to love. No chasing it. It's something that's there no
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: matter what. They'll keep surprising you each and every day.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: Remember the days are long and the years are short.
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 2: Pt Siko out. That comes from Thomas Anderson, who's a
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: dfdub guy because he's on the Shockwave. Baby, look at that.
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 2: Look at those two loops. Oh I love that good photo.
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 2: Look good those two loops on this Shockwave and shot.
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: Out his daughter too. Hey you want to get your
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: hands up, bro.
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: Shockwave is the best. Just a very side note, Shockwave
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 2: is the best intro coaster of all time because it's
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: just two loops. It's a fast coaster and those loops
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 2: are nice and easy.
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  Speaker 3: It is.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: It's a bright and sunny like fun themed roller coaster,
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: so it doesn't scare him.
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 1: But those two loops, they're kind of imposing.
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  Speaker 2: You're staring at it and you're like, oh, I don't
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: know if I could do it, and saying do it,
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 2: They're like, oh man, I want to go again.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: Those loopsos, those do loops are imposing. Dude, shout out
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: two good lessons in there. Yeah with those emails.
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 2: I do have a lesson of the week to close
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 2: this out. We got five minutes, Yeah, close it out.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: And also just want to let people know we are operating.
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 1: We will get a Milk Team six shirt going very soon.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: If you're looking at Sherman and I right now, we're
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: ripping our our for the dad's merch for Christmas, for
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: holiday season coming up. Bwtv dot com is where you
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: can get all of our merch. That is how you
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: solidify yourself as a PT sicko. But yeah, go ahead, knockout,
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 1: knock out the lesson for us, this one comes with
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: enjoying the moment. Being in the moment.
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  Speaker 2: A dad who learns to let go of stress also
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 2: gives himself the gift of clarity. When he stops trying
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 2: to control every outcome, he begins to see the small,
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 2: beautiful moments that make fatherhood meaningful, the way his child's
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 2: eyes light up with curiosity, or how a quiet evening
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 2: turns into a memory. In those moments, he realizes that
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: the presence, not the perfection, is what his family needs
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: the most.
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  Speaker 1: And I have an anonymous quote.
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 2: Here that the greatest thing a father can do for
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: his children is to be fully there, because time given
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 2: with peace is worth more than anything bought with worry.
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: That's damn good. That's damn good. I couldn't help but
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: think like controlling every moment and enjoying the little parts.
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: That was the hike on Sunday. We get to, we
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: get to, we get to, we get to, well said Sharan. Hey,
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you all right, make sure you take
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: out of your trasks. We love you so much. Continue to engage,
• 1:28:44
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  Speaker 1: you next week. Thank you. I thought about it.