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Trump Bans CNN, Paul Brothers at the Pentagon, Symba Talks Snowfall's The Drop · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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Speaker 1: Natalie is every day waking up and not being able
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Speaker 1: to guess what kind of fresh hell we're going to
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Speaker 1: encounter that day. This type of shit, though, is the
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Speaker 1: type of shit that should send everyone collectively into a frenzy.
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Speaker 1: Congrats on the show.
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Speaker 2: Thank you. You hot in the streets.
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Speaker 1: I'm hot in the streets?
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Speaker 2: You're hot in the streets.
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Speaker 1: Millennials are not hanging on to work.
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Speaker 2: Jeez, we're here.
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Speaker 1: We're here.
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Speaker 2: She just hit me with it. Okay.
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Speaker 1: The journey is the prize. I agree.
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Speaker 3: But I thought because I went viral and I have
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Speaker 3: 500,000 followers and I got a record deal, I could
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Speaker 3: say what the fuck I want.
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Speaker 1: So I was like, I know how to get rid
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Speaker 1: of him. Works every time. I was like, well, you
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Speaker 1: should know while you're sitting here that I am a witch.
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Speaker 4: Joy.
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Speaker 1: Hey guys, what's up? Welcome to Too Personal. Thanks so
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Speaker 1: much for joining us. I'm Joy Taylor alongside Haley and Spex.
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Speaker 1: We had a great weekend. Hope you did too. Make
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Speaker 1: sure you follow us on social media at Too Personal
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Speaker 1: Show and hit subscribe. Haley, what is happening around the
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Speaker 1: world that we must discuss?
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Speaker 5: Per usual, there's a lot of things. But I want
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Speaker 5: to start with Trump banning CNN.
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Speaker 1: Silence.
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Speaker 5: I'm going to get your thoughts, but for those of
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Speaker 5: you who don't know or don't follow anything Trump-related or
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Speaker 5: truth social.
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Speaker 1: I should say. I am not on truth social.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, well.
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Speaker 5: He posted on there saying he was banning CNN, MSNOW,
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Speaker 5: and Politico from the White House effective immediately over what
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Speaker 5: he called fake news. He hinted that more outlets could
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Speaker 5: follow and named the New York Times and the Washington Post.
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Speaker 5: CNN has also been reportedly stripped of their TV pool assignment. Which,
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Speaker 5: if you don't know, is when networks and crews essentially
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Speaker 5: follow the president around, record and share footage via their
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Speaker 5: media outlets. Trump has also openly said he'd like to
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Speaker 5: see CNN's parent company sell the network to his ally,
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Speaker 5: Larry Ellison. It's always personal gains sprinkled in there. And
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Speaker 5: then just this morning. Fox News emailed pool subscribers that
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Speaker 5: effective today, the TV pool will not be covering events
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Speaker 5: designated as pool coverage of the president. So now even Fox,
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Speaker 5: the network most friendly to Trump, is part of this.
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Speaker 5: Why is he just always doing some.
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Speaker 2: Shit, man?
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Speaker 1: It really is every day waking up and not being
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Speaker 1: able to guess what kind of fresh hell we're going
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Speaker 1: to encounter that day.
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Speaker 4: It's insane.
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Speaker 1: It's really what you said.
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Speaker 5: It's an SNL skit.
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Speaker 1: It's a constant SNL skit. We're living in idiocracy. If
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Speaker 1: you haven't seen that movie, it's a documentary on America
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Speaker 1: in 2026. It's actually crazy. So this type of shit, though,
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Speaker 1: is the type of shit that should send everyone collectively
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Speaker 1: into a frenzy. It won't, because we have been slow-dripped
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Speaker 1: into insanity. But.
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Speaker 1: These type of things are the actions of a lunatic
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Speaker 1: totalitarian dictator. And I am not exaggerating. So let's break down. Obviously,
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Speaker 1: everyone has a good idea what a lunatic is. Yes.
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Speaker 1: Totalitarian is a leader that controls every aspect of the government.
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Speaker 1: Everything runs through him. There is no Congress. There is
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Speaker 1: no elections. There is no checks and balances. There's no departments.
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Speaker 1: He's just in charge and everything he says goes. Dictatorship
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Speaker 1: is exactly the same thing. Like, you know, there's some
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Speaker 1: variations there, but Yeah, that's where we are. And when
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Speaker 1: it comes to freedom of press, which is why when
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Speaker 1: you say, or other people say I'm a journalist, I
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Speaker 1: always push back and I'm like, I'm not actually a journalist.
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Speaker 1: I'm trained as a journalist. I know how to be
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Speaker 1: a journalist, but I'm not a practicing journalist because journalism is,
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Speaker 1: and a free press, is the foundation of a functioning
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Speaker 1: democratic society. I know I'm using a lot of big
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Speaker 1: words here, but if you slow it down, you can
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Speaker 1: stay with me. In other words, it's a big fucking deal.
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Speaker 1: And everyone should be freaking out. Are you freaking out?
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Speaker 5: I mean, we need the news. I know the news
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Speaker 5: is controversial, but we need the news. And we absolutely,
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Speaker 5: in my opinion, need the news on his ass. What
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Speaker 5: the hell is he doing every single day? Somebody got
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Speaker 5: to document this shit.
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Speaker 1: So I'm glad that Fox is actually joining in with
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Speaker 1: this because they were not banned. The reason for that is,
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Speaker 1: is strategic because as we know, if we are to
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Speaker 1: survive the next two years, which is a massive if,
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Speaker 1: but if we are, the policies are going to swing
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Speaker 1: back the other way.
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Speaker 6: They are.
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Speaker 1: It always happens. You can look back over history. I
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Speaker 1: know everyone thinks that it's not going to go down.
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Speaker 1: And as long as we are in some shape or form,
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Speaker 1: still a democracy and there's still voting and still a
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Speaker 1: functioning government, Or we're here on planet Earth still because
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Speaker 1: AI hasn't destroyed us or he hasn't started a nuclear
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Speaker 1: war with Iran, which is all on the board. If
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Speaker 1: we're here, it's going to swing back the other way.
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Speaker 1: It's going to swing dramatically. And all these people are
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Speaker 1: going to be in big trouble. And if you don't
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Speaker 1: go along with standing firm with the other news stations,
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Speaker 1: news networks, this will be remembered.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: And you can't call yourself a news network if you
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Speaker 1: are the only one there covering it. You're just state news.
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Speaker 1: You're owned by the government at that point because there
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Speaker 1: is no opposition to the information that's being dispersed. Now,
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Speaker 1: here's what I say to everybody. The news is controversial
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Speaker 1: for a variety of reasons. The news is controversial because
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Speaker 1: it is very difficult to find actual news anymore. If
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Speaker 1: you like this type of information, you watch this channel.
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Speaker 1: If you like this type of information, you watch this channel.
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Speaker 1: There's nowhere where you can go and just get pure information.
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Speaker 1: You have to do a lot of research, a.k.a. reading,
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Speaker 1: which we know people do not do. You have to
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Speaker 1: look at what this network or this publication is trying
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Speaker 1: to tell you and what this one is and kind
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Speaker 1: of put the truth together, which is way more complicated.
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Speaker 1: than most people can do. And it's entirely too much
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Speaker 1: to ask of people, which is why the news should
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Speaker 1: just be unbiased information. But it has become pundits. It's
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Speaker 1: become talk shows. It's become opinion. And that is why
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Speaker 1: people do not trust it because you can turn it
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Speaker 1: on and watch a bunch of gas bags run their
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Speaker 1: mouth about shit they either do not know what they're
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Speaker 1: talking about or they're spewing propaganda. And it's a mess.
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Speaker 1: It's a fucking absolute mess. People don't trust the news.
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Speaker 1: They don't trust the media. He does not help. But this,
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Speaker 1: even with all that being said, this is a disaster.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Do you know who else did this?
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Speaker 6: Who? Hitler.
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Speaker 3: Ooh.
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Speaker 1: Stalin.
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Speaker 2: For real?
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Speaker 1: Castro.
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Speaker 4: Ooh.
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Speaker 1: Specs.
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Speaker 5: Clearly, I'm not.
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Speaker 1: Communist China.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I can go on and on and on. None of
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Speaker 1: the names are good. Saddam Hussein.
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Speaker 5: People aren't mad enough.
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Speaker 2: They're not mad enough.
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Speaker 1: And listen, I know I talk a lot of shit
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Speaker 1: about a lot of things and I'm always angry and
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Speaker 1: I'm bitter and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. This is
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Speaker 1: a problem. The United States of America has to have
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Speaker 1: free press. It is importante, okay? We cannot get so
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Speaker 1: lazy and so unplugged that we are okay with the
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Speaker 1: president saying only the outlets that I want to cover
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Speaker 1: me are allowed in the White House. This is a
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Speaker 1: fucking shit show. I don't care if you have been
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Speaker 1: sucking on Donald's taint for the last fucking eight years.
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Speaker 1: Take a break, give your lips a little chapstick, and
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Speaker 1: figure it the fuck out. We are on a dissension
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Speaker 1: into madness. Even the people who are the most furthest
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Speaker 1: MAGA possible, you can't fucking write a sentence in English.
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Speaker 1: You think he shits gold and fucking pisses Gatorade? Wake
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Speaker 1: the fuck up. This is madness.
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Speaker 6: They're brainwashed.
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Speaker 1: I know. And I know I'm asking for too much.
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Speaker 1: I know I'm asking for too much. It's a cult.
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Speaker 1: They're fucking pathetic losers. They're the worst humans in the country.
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Speaker 1: They're absolute boobs, fucking losers. Like just, just the absolute worst,
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Speaker 1: worst people like complete and utter incompetent, uneducated, no fucking backbone,
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Speaker 1: absolute garbage humans. I know that specs, but damn, like,
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Speaker 1: You gotta have the fucking news, man. You need the news.
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Speaker 1: You gotta have the news.
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Speaker 6: You gotta have the news.
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Speaker 1: Like, let me run through the list again. Hitler.
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Speaker 2: Hitler.
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Speaker 1: Stalin.
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Speaker 2: Stalin.
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Speaker 1: Castro.
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Speaker 6: Castro.
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Speaker 1: Okay?
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Speaker 6: Saddam Hussein.
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Speaker 1: Saddam Hussein. Who's the motherfucker? Putin.
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Speaker 6: Okay?
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Speaker 5: This is real.
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Speaker 1: This is bad.
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Speaker 4: This is.
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Speaker 1: It's not good.
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Speaker 5: People need to start paying attention.
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Speaker 1: You have to have a free press.
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Speaker 5: Yes.
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Speaker 1: It's in the Constitution for a reason. Now, I know
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Speaker 1: most of you can't spell Constitution.
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Speaker 5: I think he's throwing that out the window, just altogether.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the Constitution, it's toilet paper at this point. But
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Speaker 1: for principle's sake.
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Speaker 2: Right.
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Speaker 1: You got to have free press. I'm not a big
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Speaker 1: media defender. I agree that it's all a big shit
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Speaker 1: show and we need to be better. But we got
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Speaker 1: what we got, okay? And what we can't have is...
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Speaker 1: state news. It's not good, okay? We don't we don't
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Speaker 1: have much further to go. And so we are absolutely cooked.
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Speaker 1: So I don't know. That's, that's, it's pretty big news
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Speaker 1: to me.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Now he tried this before. He's tried to ban certain reporters.
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Speaker 2: Right.
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Speaker 1: That he's got in little, his panties in a bunch about?
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Speaker 1: Or his diaper in a bunch about?
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Speaker 6: They're suing him though. MS, is it MS now?
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Speaker 4: Politico and CNN, they, they, they done already put out
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Speaker 4: the lawsuit now.
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Speaker 1: Oh, for sure, for sure. And a federal judge has
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Speaker 1: overruled him in the past. But again, it's like, if
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Speaker 1: he makes the rules and everyone just listens to them,
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Speaker 1: then it doesn't matter if we have judges. It doesn't
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Speaker 1: matter if we have a court system. there are no
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Speaker 1: checks and balances if everyone just abides by what he
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Speaker 1: says and does. And everyone in Washington, and I'm painting
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Speaker 1: with a broad stroke here because there's not enough politicians
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Speaker 1: who are stomping their feet enough and doing their fucking job.
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Speaker 1: Everyone just bends over. Like, are y'all not sore?
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Speaker 5: Evidently not.
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Speaker 1: I mean, they just took the lube straight from Diddy's
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Speaker 1: to Washington. Like, don't let it go to waste. Y'all
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Speaker 1: getting raw dogged in the front and back. Every hole
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Speaker 1: is full. Are you not tired? Do you not need
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Speaker 1: a shower? How do you say it? Bukake?
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Speaker 6: Julie, come on, man. What you doing?
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Speaker 1: What is bukake? Is that right? Is that how you
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Speaker 1: say it?
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Speaker 6: Why are you asking me?
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Speaker 1: Mex, I know you know how it's said.
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Speaker 5: Mex, what is bukake?
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Speaker 1: Don't you worry your little angel brain about it. Don't
11:44
Speaker 1: you worry your little brain about it.
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Speaker 6: Don't worry about it, sweetheart.
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Speaker 1: Don't worry about it, sweetheart. I'm just saying.
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Speaker 5: The world we live in. We've also got the Paul
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Speaker 5: brothers at the Pentagon this week. Specs, did you hear
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Speaker 5: about this?
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Speaker 6: I just saw the clip this morning.
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Speaker 5: I'm actually utterly confused. They toured the Pentagon.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 5: And they addressed U.S.
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Speaker 1: Troops from the podium. We're very unserious. The Paul brothers.
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Speaker 1: We're unserious.
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Speaker 5: With no military background whatsoever are addressing U.S. troops from
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Speaker 5: the podium and meeting with defense secretary.
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Speaker 2: Like, what?
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Speaker 5: They did pay for their own travel.
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Speaker 1: That was noted. That's good. Thank God my taxpayer dollars
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Speaker 1: didn't go to get Jake and Logan at the fucking
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Speaker 1: White House.
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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on.
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Speaker 6: Did y'all see them Chiefs?
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Speaker 1: Tiptoe!
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Speaker 5: Uh-oh, we got a guest?
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Speaker 3: I didn't know Sis was going to be here.
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Speaker 2: Y'all see my Chiefs last night?
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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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Speaker 2: Come have a seat.
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Speaker 1: You see my Chiefs? I'll rap a little bit.
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Speaker 2: Did you see my Chiefs?
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Speaker 1: I did, I did see them. I'm very excited about it, actually, personally, myself.
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Speaker 1: I'm pro-Chief.
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Speaker 2: Do you remember how I got this jacket? No.
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Speaker 3: Well, a little too personal story. Sister Joy took me
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Speaker 3: to the Super Bowl about two years ago in New Orleans,
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Speaker 3: and we were walking by a starter store, and this
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Speaker 3: guy was, like, infatuated with her.
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Speaker 2: He was like, that's fucking Joy Taylor. That's fucking Joy Taylor.
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Speaker 3: Somebody I was with knew the guy. He was like, dog,
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Speaker 3: I'll give you any jacket you want if I can
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Speaker 3: get a picture.
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Speaker 1: What?
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Speaker 3: And I was like, that's going to be a tough task, bro.
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Speaker 3: That's a tough task. That's Joy, but I'm going to
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Speaker 3: see what I can do.
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Speaker 1: And you had no idea.
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Speaker 2: I walked over there. I said, sis, my friend need
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Speaker 2: a picture.
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Speaker 1: And I was like, of course.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Next thing you know, I'm a chief.
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Speaker 1: Amazing. He hustled you, sir. Whoever, whoever you are.
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Speaker 2: How y'all feeling?
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Speaker 1: Um, I'm good. Congrats on the show.
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Speaker 2: Thank you. You hot in the streets.
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Speaker 1: I'm hot in the streets?
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Speaker 2: You're hot in the streets. How so?
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Speaker 3: I've just been, my algorithm, it was kind of like, uh,
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Speaker 3: like blue face and like sauce Walker. And now it's
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Speaker 3: just like joy Taylor.
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Speaker 1: Right.
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Speaker 2: Like the five K the Deshaun.
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Aaron Rogers.
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Speaker 2: You're going crazy.
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Speaker 1: Well, if Haley cuts this latest one, right. We're going
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Speaker 1: to have some more problems for sure. Simba is joining
14:27
Speaker 1: us by the way, if you're listening on, on audio,
14:31
Speaker 1: my brother Simba.
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Speaker 2: What's up everybody.
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Speaker 1: Um, how's it, how's it been being on the show?
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Speaker 3: Man, it's cool. It was actually like a real, real,
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Speaker 3: real dope experience. I actually went out for another role.
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Speaker 1: On the show?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I went out for the James role. And I
14:49
Speaker 3: recently found out through one of the cast members I
14:52
Speaker 3: actually originally got that role. And then Peyton Smith, who's
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Speaker 3: an amazing actor, he was kind of like my coach
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Speaker 3: on set. He ended up coming in for an audition
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Speaker 3: and they gave him the role and they wrote a
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Speaker 3: new role.
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Speaker 2: For me, it's tiptoe. Amazing. Yeah. So it was dope.
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Speaker 3: Like when I first got on set, I didn't even
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Speaker 3: audition for tiptoe. I auditioned for the James role. Then
15:18
Speaker 3: they hit me and they was like, yo, we want
15:20
Speaker 3: you to come in and try something. So I'm thinking
15:23
Speaker 3: I'm going back to an audition. My actual first time
15:27
Speaker 3: doing it was like on set. Like they called me
15:29
Speaker 3: the last day that they was filming the pilot.
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Speaker 1: So you didn't have any time to like get in character.
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Speaker 3: I didn't even have a script. They just was like,
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Speaker 3: we want you to be like, you gave me a pass.
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Speaker 3: I was in the gates. My name tiptoe.
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Speaker 2: And I was like, he was freestyling. Yeah. I was like,
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Speaker 2: all right, bet. And then were you nervous?
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Speaker 1: I don't like doing things like unplanned.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: For me, especially high stakes.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: For me, for me, I kind of thrive in chaos.
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Speaker 3: I don't know why I kind of thrive in chaos
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Speaker 3: a little bit. So, When I got there, I was
16:05
Speaker 3: a little nervous. I was kind of like, oh, shit,
16:08
Speaker 3: what if I mess up? But then I think the
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Speaker 3: hardest part for me was I kept trying to remember, like,
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Speaker 3: every line verbatim. And then Peyton came up to me.
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Speaker 3: He was like, bro, you don't got to remember everything.
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Speaker 3: You just got to land somewhere around what they want
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Speaker 3: you to do.
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Speaker 2: And I was like, for real? He was like, yeah.
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Speaker 3: Then I went to Malcolm, who's the head producer on
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Speaker 3: the show, and I was like, yo, Peyton said, I
16:32
Speaker 3: don't got to do everything.
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Speaker 2: He was like, hell no.
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Speaker 3: He was like, just do what you feel. And then
16:36
Speaker 3: from there, it was like, all right.
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Speaker 1: It's good to know you can do that though, because
16:41
Speaker 1: not certain shows. They really like the writing is very precise.
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Speaker 2: I've heard.
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Speaker 1: And they'll, they'll get a little trippy if you, if
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Speaker 1: you're messed, you're not messing it up, but if you're
16:51
Speaker 1: kind of adding your own flavor to it.
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Speaker 3: But I think the key to it that I learned,
16:55
Speaker 3: it was like the key to acting is to not
16:58
Speaker 3: act like, what would you do? In that exact moment,
17:02
Speaker 3: like how we talking right now, how I just used
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Speaker 3: my hands. If we were filming something, just do what
17:07
Speaker 3: you would do in that moment and don't even worry
17:09
Speaker 3: about the cameras. And then it gets to a point
17:11
Speaker 3: where you forget the cameras is there.
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Speaker 1: Got my squabbles up.
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Speaker 2: Got my squabbles up.
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Speaker 5: That was quite the scene.
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Speaker 3: That was an interesting scene, too, because it was like
17:20
Speaker 3: that was the actual first time I got called in
17:23
Speaker 3: for a table read. So they was like, I think
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Speaker 3: they was testing me. So I was like, I'm going
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Speaker 3: to go in here and do this like we filming it.
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Speaker 3: So we was all at the table and everybody just
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Speaker 3: kind of like, they giving like 80% like what they roll.
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Speaker 3: I'm standing up like, motherfucker came in this bitch, caught
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Speaker 3: this bitch ass nigga by the liquor store blood. So
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Speaker 3: when I do it, everybody just kind of stood up
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Speaker 3: and gave me a ball.
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Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah.
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Speaker 5: And it was so LA. Like you from the Bay though.
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Speaker 5: So how did that, how did you embody that?
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Speaker 3: Well, I think like, LA and the Bay Area is
18:00
Speaker 3: very similar. LA has gang culture.
18:04
Speaker 1: Right.
18:05
Speaker 3: So it's a lot of structure within that. But that
18:07
Speaker 3: gang culture stems from the Black Panthers, which comes from
18:11
Speaker 3: the Bay Area. So a lot of our like vernacular
18:14
Speaker 3: and the way we kind of move and the way
18:16
Speaker 3: we think is very similar. I think the difference is like.
18:20
Speaker 3: LA is a bit more like aggressive and they pronounce
18:23
Speaker 3: they R's a little harder.
18:25
Speaker 2: So it's going to be like, what's up Haley?
18:27
Speaker 1: Haley.
18:28
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? But a Bay dude, I'm like,
18:30
Speaker 2: what's up Haley? Right.
18:31
Speaker 3: It's going to be more so just like cool. So
18:34
Speaker 3: it's like, they just a bit more aggressive and it's
18:37
Speaker 3: like very hard with the, with the R.
18:40
Speaker 6: Yeah.
18:40
Speaker 1: You gotta, it's a little more neck.
18:42
Speaker 2: Yeah.
18:42
Speaker 1: When you say.
18:43
Speaker 2: Neck, shoulders, elbows, all of it. But it's, it's, it's
18:47
Speaker 2: dope though.
18:48
Speaker 3: Just to see the, uh, To me, it's all about
18:52
Speaker 3: California at the end of the day.
18:54
Speaker 1: It's so Cali. It's so Cali and it's so LA.
18:57
Speaker 1: If you haven't seen Snowfall, The Drop, it's on Hulu now.
19:00
Speaker 1: It's an amazing show. I love the first rendition of Snowfall,
19:04
Speaker 1: so I'm so glad that they're keeping it going. It
19:07
Speaker 1: was an incredible show.
19:09
Speaker 3: They did great with it. Shout out to Malcolm Spellman, E-Mill, FX, Hulu.
19:15
Speaker 3: Shout out to Problem. I want to give a big
19:17
Speaker 3: shout out to the dub seat. Because a lot of
19:20
Speaker 3: people don't know Dub C is like a real West
19:22
Speaker 3: Coast legend. And it was a lot of things I
19:25
Speaker 3: was doing in that cafe scene that Dub C would
19:28
Speaker 3: be like.
19:29
Speaker 1: It was like, we didn't say that.
19:32
Speaker 2: We didn't do it.
19:34
Speaker 1: No, you got to get it right, you know, because
19:35
Speaker 1: people watching it really live through this shit. So you
19:39
Speaker 1: got to get it right. Yeah. Shout out to Rance.
19:42
Speaker 1: Shout out to Glasses Malone.
19:44
Speaker 6: Yep.
19:45
Speaker 1: Problem everybody yeah we got a lot of a lot
19:47
Speaker 1: of family in that so we were just talking um
19:50
Speaker 1: you know, we were going through our weekly recap of
19:52
Speaker 1: all the bullshit going on. And we were talking about
19:55
Speaker 1: the Paul brothers. I got to tell you, I do
19:58
Speaker 1: not know which one is which. I don't know. Gun
20:02
Speaker 1: to my head, I got to pick one. I don't know.
20:04
Speaker 1: 50-50 chance. We might be some slow singing and flower
20:07
Speaker 1: bringing because I do not know. Which one's the one
20:09
Speaker 1: with the fucked up hair?
20:10
Speaker 2: I think that's Logan.
20:12
Speaker 6: It's both of them.
20:14
Speaker 2: Well, yeah.
20:14
Speaker 1: I mean, they both got weird hair, but like the
20:15
Speaker 1: one who's got the brush front shit, that's Logan.
20:18
Speaker 5: I mean, we knew, I think we were introduced to
20:20
Speaker 5: Jake first, right?
20:21
Speaker 1: I do not. I do not know.
20:24
Speaker 6: Jake is a boxer.
20:25
Speaker 1: When I tell you, and the other one is the wrestler?
20:28
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's the wrestler.
20:29
Speaker 2: I thought they both were boxers and wrestlers.
20:32
Speaker 6: Nah, Logan.
20:33
Speaker 2: Because Logan boxed Mayweather.
20:36
Speaker 1: No, no, no.
20:36
Speaker 6: Jake boxed.
20:38
Speaker 2: No, Logan boxed Mayweather. Look it up.
20:41
Speaker 6: Hey, that's the funniest thing. I don't.
20:43
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
20:44
Speaker 6: I love every bit of that.
20:45
Speaker 1: I do not know. I do not know who. Like,
20:48
Speaker 1: I know of them, obviously. And I've seen them do things.
20:53
Speaker 1: I don't know which one is which.
20:54
Speaker 5: Logan did.
20:54
Speaker 2: I told you.
20:55
Speaker 4: In 2021.
20:55
Speaker 1: So Logan is the one that fought Mayweather.
20:57
Speaker 2: They're both boxers and wrestlers.
20:59
Speaker 1: Fought Mayweather. So he's the one with the fucked up hair?
21:03
Speaker 5: Yeah.
21:04
Speaker 1: I thought Jake did that.
21:05
Speaker 6: I thought Jake fought.
21:07
Speaker 1: So who did Jake fight?
21:08
Speaker 2: Jake fought Anthony.
21:09
Speaker 5: Jake got into it with him during the press in
21:13
Speaker 5: 2021 for this matchup.
21:15
Speaker 1: I don't, I already know too much.
21:17
Speaker 6: Was the boxer from the UK, Anthony?
21:19
Speaker 2: Anthony Joshua. Anthony Joshua.
21:21
Speaker 6: Jake is the one that got knocked out.
21:22
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:23
Speaker 3: And I also think Jake knocked out Nate Robinson.
21:27
Speaker 2: The basketball player.
21:29
Speaker 4: Yeah.
21:29
Speaker 2: And he fought like Nick Diaz or something like that. Okay.
21:32
Speaker 6: Okay.
21:33
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. I mean.
21:36
Speaker 1: This is not my world.
21:37
Speaker 5: Well, did you know they recently went to the Pentagon?
21:39
Speaker 1: They went to the Pentagon. So here's the thing. I
21:44
Speaker 1: don't have a problem with celebrities... going to the white house,
21:50
Speaker 1: talking to troops. Like that's, that's always been a thing.
21:53
Speaker 1: Like all the, they, they, they bring out performers when,
21:57
Speaker 1: you know, the troops are, um, deployed. They bring out,
22:02
Speaker 1: you know, uh, NFL cheerleaders will go out and do tours.
22:05
Speaker 1: Like that's, that's not, not normal. Um, the unseriousness of
22:11
Speaker 1: it is posting it like they are coming here for
22:14
Speaker 1: some kind of important reason. Like if it's like, Hey,
22:17
Speaker 1: we're truly just bringing entertainers here to the Pentagon to talk,
22:20
Speaker 1: like do it somewhere else. It just, everything is unserious.
22:24
Speaker 1: And it's kind of what I was talking about with
22:25
Speaker 1: Jasmine Crockett and the Chris Brown thing. Someone has to
22:28
Speaker 1: be the adult. Like we are so used to fuck
22:31
Speaker 1: shit that nobody is an adult. Like can somebody, can
22:35
Speaker 1: one of us please be an adult?
22:37
Speaker 2: Okay.
22:38
Speaker 5: Okay.
22:41
Speaker 2: We're here. We're here.
22:42
Speaker 3: She just hit me with it. OK, I think this
22:44
Speaker 3: is the thing. Here's what I'll say. I think this
22:47
Speaker 3: like speaks to how valuable influence is today.
22:51
Speaker 2: Right.
22:51
Speaker 3: Because I think we're getting to a point to where
22:54
Speaker 3: whether it's the Pentagon or government. whatever it may be,
23:00
Speaker 3: they're looking for a certain response from certain things. And
23:03
Speaker 3: I think Jake and Logan has an audience that doesn't
23:07
Speaker 3: particularly probably pay attention to what's going on at the Pentagon.
23:11
Speaker 3: So maybe the people at the Pentagon was thinking, hey,
23:14
Speaker 3: if we bring them here, we'll get a new audience
23:17
Speaker 3: to pay attention to the troops. But it's not like
23:20
Speaker 3: Logan and Jake ever came up with a defense strategy.
23:23
Speaker 3: So The troops is probably looking at it like, who
23:25
Speaker 3: the fuck are they to be giving us this award?
23:28
Speaker 3: So I get it from both sides. But I think
23:30
Speaker 3: it's just truly speaking to like the importance of influence today.
23:34
Speaker 1: I mean, recruiting for the military these days has to
23:39
Speaker 1: be tough.
23:41
Speaker 2: Definitely.
23:41
Speaker 1: That's got to be a tough job.
23:42
Speaker 2: Everybody wants to be a YouTuber.
23:43
Speaker 1: Everyone wants to be a YouTuber and the, the jig
23:46
Speaker 1: is up.
23:46
Speaker 2: Yeah.
23:46
Speaker 6: Okay.
23:47
Speaker 1: Like you're not pulling on the whole, uh, fight for
23:50
Speaker 1: freedom strings anymore. Like that is not the, you might,
23:53
Speaker 1: you might get a few still out in the sticks.
23:55
Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, I'm going to go shoot some motherfuckers
23:58
Speaker 1: in Iran. Uh, but for the most part, the heart
24:04
Speaker 1: is not in it anymore. And it's not a, it's
24:07
Speaker 1: not a job in the way that, you know, I
24:11
Speaker 1: come from a military family. My grandfather was, It was
24:13
Speaker 1: from Mobile, Alabama.
24:15
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. I
24:17
Speaker 2: never knew you came from the military.
24:18
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I got USAA insurance.
24:20
Speaker 2: Give us a little background on that here.
24:22
Speaker 1: I'm official.
24:23
Speaker 2: Really?
24:23
Speaker 1: My father was in the Army. I mean, I'm going
24:28
Speaker 1: to say 90% of my uncles on both sides, my
24:30
Speaker 1: mother's side and my father's side. Both my grandfathers. One
24:34
Speaker 1: was in the Air Force. He wasn't in for very long.
24:40
Speaker 1: And then my grandfather on my father's side was in
24:42
Speaker 1: for 30 years. He retired a command sergeant major.
24:44
Speaker 2: Whoa.
24:45
Speaker 1: He's buried in Arlington. My uncle on my father's side
24:49
Speaker 1: was in for 25 years. My sister's in the Air
24:52
Speaker 1: Force for 17 years. I've got two.
24:54
Speaker 5: I didn't know your sister was.
24:56
Speaker 2: Yeah.
24:57
Speaker 1: Three cousins, I think. My sister serves in Afghanistan.
25:00
Speaker 4: Yeah.
25:04
Speaker 1: I have two cousins that are still in the military. Yeah,
25:08
Speaker 1: I'm a military family.
25:09
Speaker 3: So technically, you're more qualified than the Logan brothers.
25:15
Speaker 2: To give this award to the troops.
25:18
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know the Logan Brothers military family backgrounds.
25:24
Speaker 1: I never served in the military. I think I have
25:27
Speaker 1: a pretty good purview on what that experience is like
25:31
Speaker 1: and certainly what the experience is like of somebody who
25:34
Speaker 1: has a family member who's deployed. You can't speak to
25:37
Speaker 1: them for a certain amount of time. They go to
25:41
Speaker 1: boot camp and all those things. But I don't also
25:45
Speaker 1: pretend to speak for the troops. Like I don't remember
25:48
Speaker 1: when all the shit was going on with the NFL
25:51
Speaker 1: and Kaepernick and the Drew Brees thing. And, you know,
25:56
Speaker 1: I was on air and someone came for me like
26:00
Speaker 1: basically like, like, what do you, you know, what do
26:03
Speaker 1: you know about the troops?
26:04
Speaker 2: Like you got no attachment to it.
26:05
Speaker 1: Well, because people don't think people think that the troops
26:08
Speaker 1: are white.
26:08
Speaker 3: Yeah.
26:09
Speaker 2: So true.
26:10
Speaker 1: I don't know why they think that. I do not
26:12
Speaker 1: know why people... I think people who aren't in the
26:15
Speaker 1: military are the only ones who think that the military
26:18
Speaker 1: is all white.
26:18
Speaker 3: Well, that's what's branded and kind of programmed on television.
26:21
Speaker 3: It's like you kind of see.
26:22
Speaker 1: Like, if you're racist, do not join the military. I
26:24
Speaker 1: need a place for you.
26:25
Speaker 3: But the commercials you see, it's like the guy that
26:27
Speaker 3: joins the army. Army always look like Kirk Cousins. So
26:30
Speaker 3: it's kind of like... That's kind of how it's branded.
26:33
Speaker 1: Well, that's what they're trying to make it.
26:34
Speaker 5: Yeah.
26:35
Speaker 1: Which I'm... You know, I'm kind of... I don't know.
26:38
Speaker 1: I'm on the fence about it.
26:39
Speaker 3: It's interesting, too, because I have an uncle whose daughter
26:43
Speaker 3: just recently joined the military and he's like really taking
26:46
Speaker 3: a toll on her.
26:47
Speaker 1: Because she's gone or because he's he's worried about her?
26:50
Speaker 3: I think she was so much of like the center
26:53
Speaker 3: of his identity of just how he kind of kept
26:56
Speaker 3: his life in order as far as like taking her
26:58
Speaker 3: to school and making sure she was OK. And like
27:00
Speaker 3: now that that's gone, he's kind of just like. What
27:03
Speaker 3: the fuck do I do? So he's like worried about
27:05
Speaker 3: her all day. So he's like digging into like what's
27:07
Speaker 3: going on in the military and like political things.
27:10
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, she's going to.
27:11
Speaker 6: Be all right.
27:12
Speaker 5: Yeah.
27:12
Speaker 1: I mean, look, it's when my sister joins one of
27:15
Speaker 1: the recruiters, you know, they used to have like the
27:18
Speaker 1: recruiting table at our high school. And I didn't know
27:23
Speaker 1: because she wasn't in my lunch.
27:24
Speaker 4: Yeah.
27:25
Speaker 1: That she was that she was talking to the recruiter
27:27
Speaker 1: so when she told us she was joining i was
27:28
Speaker 1: like the fuck you are we're at war what the
27:31
Speaker 1: fuck do you mean like you you're going so you're
27:34
Speaker 1: going to war like that's what you're telling us like
27:37
Speaker 1: yeah she's going she's gonna join the military and go
27:39
Speaker 1: to war and i.
27:41
Speaker 3: Think so many times we think like when a family
27:44
Speaker 3: member or a friend say like i'm gonna join the
27:46
Speaker 3: army or join the military or join the marines we
27:48
Speaker 3: just naturally think like they're going into a war.
27:53
Speaker 1: No, she literally was going to war.
27:54
Speaker 2: I get it from that part.
27:57
Speaker 1: Everybody who joins the military is not going to see action.
28:00
Speaker 1: You're not going to be a lioness. I love, by
28:04
Speaker 1: the way. It's a great show. I saw the finale.
28:08
Speaker 1: Excellent finale. That's not going to be your life. By
28:10
Speaker 1: the way, no one ever dies in that show.
28:13
Speaker 3: Motherfuckers get shot every week.
28:16
Speaker 5: I'm on episode four.
28:17
Speaker 1: I got to catch up. Taylor. Taylor.
28:19
Speaker 2: All right?
28:20
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody got to die. All right? These motherfuckers
28:23
Speaker 1: is out here like fucking X-Men.
28:24
Speaker 2: I got to tune in.
28:26
Speaker 1: I ain't seen it.
28:27
Speaker 2: I heard it's good.
28:28
Speaker 1: It's excellent.
28:28
Speaker 2: I heard it's really, really good.
28:30
Speaker 1: What else you got going on, Ailey?
28:32
Speaker 5: Gen Z wants millennials to retire. Nobody can afford to.
28:36
Speaker 5: So Forbes covered a TikTok argument this month saying millennials
28:41
Speaker 5: and boomers should retire so Gen Z can get hired
28:44
Speaker 5: and moved up. Creators complain about blocked promotions and empty
28:48
Speaker 5: entry-level pipelines. So here's a little statistics for you. Millennials
28:55
Speaker 5: are roughly between 30 and 45 years old right now.
28:58
Speaker 5: That's not retirement age.
29:00
Speaker 6: That's still very much a working age.
29:02
Speaker 5: They're very much still working.
29:04
Speaker 1: Well, Gen Z very much does not know how to read.
29:06
Speaker 1: So this is not surprising that this is a trend.
29:09
Speaker 1: And I'm going to have to come for them here.
29:11
Speaker 5: And people in their 40s are reportedly still supporting both
29:14
Speaker 5: kids and aging parents and themselves. There's low quit rates,
29:20
Speaker 5: which suggests that people are staying in work because of
29:23
Speaker 5: financial necessity, not choice. The bigger issue, per Forbes, is
29:28
Speaker 5: that companies aren't hiring for entry-level roles, which is why
29:31
Speaker 5: everyone's mad. But they also prefer more experienced candidates. So
29:37
Speaker 5: even if the older workers left, The jobs may not
29:41
Speaker 5: be back.
29:41
Speaker 3: It kind of sounds like what's going on in the
29:44
Speaker 3: music industry what do you mean the music industry is
29:49
Speaker 3: kind of like in this phase to where it's like
29:51
Speaker 3: re-identifying itself and the past few years has been about
29:55
Speaker 3: like virality so they've like gotten rid of the experience
30:00
Speaker 3: and brought in like all these kids that understand numbers
30:03
Speaker 3: and TikTok and all of these different things, but don't
30:05
Speaker 3: necessarily understand music and how to structure a business.
30:10
Speaker 2: So the experience is missing. Right.
30:12
Speaker 3: And I think with Gen Z, it's still so young.
30:17
Speaker 3: It still hasn't had the experience to be able to
30:20
Speaker 3: take on some of these roles. And I do think
30:24
Speaker 3: there is a responsibility to the other generations to pass
30:29
Speaker 3: information down and give them the tutelage to be able
30:33
Speaker 3: to properly sit in these seats. But some of us
30:37
Speaker 3: just may not be ready. And I think it's a
30:40
Speaker 3: clash just within all industries.
30:42
Speaker 1: To mentor?
30:44
Speaker 3: Mentor, accept information. You may have people who could give information,
30:49
Speaker 3: but people don't know how to receive it. And they
30:51
Speaker 3: think because they're younger, they could do it better. But
30:53
Speaker 3: it's like traditionally, things always have kind of been right
30:56
Speaker 3: this way. And I think sometimes we're in a space
31:00
Speaker 3: now where everybody's trying to rewrite something or be the
31:03
Speaker 3: first to do something when it's just like, hey, let's
31:05
Speaker 3: just go back to the basics and figure out what
31:08
Speaker 3: that looks like.
31:11
Speaker 2: Does that make sense?
31:12
Speaker 1: It does. But this story just pisses me off.
31:16
Speaker 4: Why?
31:17
Speaker 5: Why does it make you mad?
31:18
Speaker 2: Because....
31:20
Speaker 1: Well, from the music industry, I think that's a great
31:22
Speaker 1: example because the industry and how consumers get music and
31:28
Speaker 1: discover music, that has literally changed. And young people generally
31:33
Speaker 1: are the shift for new music. So that's never really
31:38
Speaker 1: been different. But with the internet now and like TikTok
31:40
Speaker 1: and all those things, that is different. So they know that,
31:44
Speaker 1: like they grew up on that. They are- they are
31:46
Speaker 1: fluent in that language. To your point, what they're not
31:48
Speaker 1: fluent in is business, is structuring companies, is structuring deals,
31:54
Speaker 1: is paperwork, is the legalities of it, is putting together
31:57
Speaker 1: an album. And is that what the strategy for that is?
32:01
Speaker 1: And the rollouts, like you don't know what the fuck
32:03
Speaker 1: any of that is. You know how to make something
32:05
Speaker 1: go viral on TikTok. That's one part of the entire business.
32:10
Speaker 1: And a new part at that. My issue with this
32:13
Speaker 1: is one, it's fucking stupid. Millennials are not at retirement age.
32:18
Speaker 2: At all.
32:19
Speaker 1: So what the fuck are you talking about? Are you
32:21
Speaker 1: stupid or are you dumb? Like, sorry, sometimes we have
32:23
Speaker 1: to call shit what it is. This is a fucking
32:25
Speaker 1: dumb thing to say. Millennials are not hanging on to work.
32:30
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about? I'm 39 years old.
32:34
Speaker 1: Why the fuck would I be retired?
32:35
Speaker 2: That's a fact.
32:37
Speaker 1: You sound dumb as fuck. One. Second, the reason why
32:42
Speaker 1: you cannot get jobs is because of AI, which y'all
32:46
Speaker 1: love to fucking use. Okay? You love it when you're
32:50
Speaker 1: taking a test, when you got to write a motherfucking paper.
32:52
Speaker 1: But AI, all that shit, is replacing these entry-level jobs.
32:57
Speaker 1: That's why it's a fucking problem.
32:58
Speaker 2: Two. One.
32:58
Speaker 1: Who the fuck told you you was going to make
33:01
Speaker 1: living wage when you graduated from college?
33:03
Speaker 2: Come on. Oh, shit. God damn it. I got to
33:06
Speaker 2: take my glasses off for that one.
33:07
Speaker 1: I didn't.
33:08
Speaker 2: Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Don DeMarco. Say that again.
33:12
Speaker 1: Who the fuck told you you were going to make
33:15
Speaker 1: a living wage when you graduated from college?
33:17
Speaker 2: Shit like that. Shit like that. Shit like that.
33:20
Speaker 1: Did you, Haley?
33:21
Speaker 2: No.
33:21
Speaker 1: I didn't.
33:22
Speaker 5: I don't even use my degree.
33:24
Speaker 1: I used my degree. But I didn't. I had worked
33:26
Speaker 1: a bunch of jobs. I know everyone, you know, I
33:28
Speaker 1: just sucked dick to get here. But on top of that,
33:32
Speaker 1: I also worked a bunch of jobs. Like, the fuck? God,
33:37
Speaker 1: I wish you could just suck a dick to get somewhere. Man,
33:39
Speaker 1: run that dick over here. But you know, it's great
33:42
Speaker 1: because people would love to refer. Can we just pause
33:45
Speaker 1: for a second, though? How amazing would it be if
33:48
Speaker 1: all you had to do to be successful was suck
33:49
Speaker 1: a dick?
33:50
Speaker 2: No, I was just about to say, right? You do
33:51
Speaker 2: it all day.
33:51
Speaker 4: Yeah.
33:53
Speaker 2: I was just about to say.
33:54
Speaker 1: People love 3,000 is what you go get people would.
33:58
Speaker 3: Love to refer to that because they can't make sense
34:01
Speaker 3: of why your life is working.
34:03
Speaker 1: Better than theirs I can't make sense of it for
34:06
Speaker 1: you either.
34:06
Speaker 3: It becomes like oh she must have did so it's
34:08
Speaker 3: just like no a motherfucker got up and worked but
34:10
Speaker 3: it's like I'm not about to sit here and explain
34:13
Speaker 3: to somebody that doesn't want to see.
34:14
Speaker 2: Me win while I'm winning in the fucking first place so.
34:18
Speaker 4: The internet made hating a profession facts you can get
34:21
Speaker 4: rich off hating now Yeah.
34:23
Speaker 1: And I'm not necessarily mad at that. But I do
34:26
Speaker 1: think that if you're going to talk about sucking dick,
34:31
Speaker 1: you should have sucked a dick before.
34:32
Speaker 6: Like previous experience.
34:35
Speaker 1: You have to have previous experience. If you are going
34:38
Speaker 1: to imply that that's all it takes, I need to
34:41
Speaker 1: know that you have performed this act before. And eating
34:44
Speaker 1: pussy is not the same thing.
34:45
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.
34:46
Speaker 1: I need to know the neck has moved.
34:48
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.
34:50
Speaker 3: So you're basically saying like, you got to be a
34:52
Speaker 3: Nectrician to, to.
34:54
Speaker 1: At the very least.
34:55
Speaker 2: I gotcha.
34:56
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think so. I think you
34:57
Speaker 1: just have had to have, you have to have some
34:59
Speaker 1: experience in the space to, to come for anyone like that.
35:03
Speaker 1: You just, you don't know what you're talking about. Anyway,
35:05
Speaker 1: the point is I, I do feel for the younger
35:08
Speaker 1: generation because it's hard out here. The economy is bad.
35:12
Speaker 1: There are a lot of factors influencing the job market.
35:15
Speaker 1: It's almost impossible to buy a home. Rent is insane.
35:20
Speaker 1: Groceries are insane. Gas is insane. Got it. But that's
35:26
Speaker 1: not our fucking fault. And if you don't like it,
35:30
Speaker 1: go vote. You have the option. You can go protest
35:34
Speaker 1: for like another month or so. We might be able
35:38
Speaker 1: to do that. So I'm just saying like you, you're
35:41
Speaker 1: mad at the wrong people. Like you should be mad
35:43
Speaker 1: at the generation over us, which I guess is boomers.
35:47
Speaker 1: But millennials are not at retirement age. And believe me,
35:49
Speaker 1: I'm going to retire before retirement age, but it ain't
35:52
Speaker 1: right now. I'm in my 30s. Not for long, but
35:55
Speaker 1: that shit is dumb as fuck.
35:57
Speaker 2: I completely agree, man.
35:58
Speaker 3: I think, you know, it's always like the young society
36:02
Speaker 3: that's like, it's old people in our way or people
36:05
Speaker 3: like taking our spots. But to your point, it's like
36:08
Speaker 3: technology has advanced. AI is going on.
36:11
Speaker 2: It's so much. I just talked to a robot in
36:14
Speaker 2: the airport.
36:16
Speaker 6: What?
36:16
Speaker 1: You talked to him?
36:17
Speaker 2: Literally.
36:17
Speaker 3: Coming through the airport, it just walked right up. Like,
36:20
Speaker 3: can I help you? Like, usually the kiosk. It was
36:24
Speaker 3: like a mobile kiosk.
36:25
Speaker 1: For what?
36:26
Speaker 5: Like for your boarding pass?
36:27
Speaker 4: Yeah.
36:28
Speaker 3: And he just scanned your shit. It walked right up
36:30
Speaker 3: to me and printed my ticket.
36:32
Speaker 5: But that actually... Because you know them people be confused
36:35
Speaker 5: at the kiosk.
36:36
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
36:37
Speaker 1: Not my kiosk.
36:38
Speaker 2: That used to be a person. But it's like, we
36:41
Speaker 2: can't just place that blame.
36:43
Speaker 1: I am in the fucking... Micro second pass-through. Do you
36:46
Speaker 1: get TSA pre-check yet?
36:47
Speaker 6: Yeah.
36:47
Speaker 2: Okay.
36:49
Speaker 1: I've got global face ID.
36:52
Speaker 5: I don't have global.
36:52
Speaker 1: Pre-check.
36:53
Speaker 2: Yeah. Clear.
36:54
Speaker 1: Clear plus.
36:55
Speaker 2: Touchless.
36:56
Speaker 1: Touchless. Every fucking thing. Take my blood. I don't give
36:58
Speaker 1: a fuck. I just got the touchless the other day. Like,
37:02
Speaker 1: they got your information, dog.
37:04
Speaker 2: Yeah.
37:04
Speaker 1: I just.
37:05
Speaker 2: It's over.
37:06
Speaker 6: It's over.
37:06
Speaker 3: And we're feeding, like, as much as we complaining about, like,
37:09
Speaker 3: another generation taking the jobs, it's like, we kind of feeding...
37:14
Speaker 3: The system that's taking the job.
37:15
Speaker 1: 100%.
37:16
Speaker 3: Like, the more we're communicating with AI and telling it
37:18
Speaker 3: our personal life and telling us what's going on, we're
37:21
Speaker 3: just basically training this shit on what we think, what
37:25
Speaker 3: we feel, and how to be us. And it's basically
37:27
Speaker 3: going to reverse engineer it.
37:29
Speaker 1: Most of these large companies could eliminate probably 20-30% of
37:33
Speaker 1: their workforce right now.
37:35
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
37:36
Speaker 1: And not lose a dollar. Just integrating everything into AI.
37:40
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
37:41
Speaker 1: It would cause society to collapse.
37:42
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
37:43
Speaker 1: You know, but it would cause a great depression, but
37:46
Speaker 1: they could do it. The one thing, the one note
37:49
Speaker 1: I will give to the younger generation, which by the way,
37:52
Speaker 1: if you're young and you're being salty, like I do my,
37:54
Speaker 1: I do my part. Okay.
37:55
Speaker 6: I'm a mentor.
37:56
Speaker 1: I've been to scholarships.
37:57
Speaker 4: Okay.
37:57
Speaker 1: I'm on the board of trustees of a university. Like
38:01
Speaker 1: I do my part.
38:02
Speaker 6: All right.
38:04
Speaker 1: Including my time, which is very expensive.
38:05
Speaker 2: Yeah.
38:07
Speaker 1: Maybe ask questions of people that are older than you. Like,
38:11
Speaker 1: the biggest change that I ever experienced in my life
38:16
Speaker 1: was at 25, I stopped thinking I knew everything. Like, overnight,
38:22
Speaker 1: I was like, fuck it. I done tried it. I've
38:26
Speaker 1: been arrogant. I've been an asshole. I've done things my way.
38:30
Speaker 1: I've said no to everything. I've been a hardhead.
38:33
Speaker 2: I'm done.
38:34
Speaker 1: If you know more than me, tell me what the
38:36
Speaker 1: fuck to do. If you a lawyer, tell me what
38:39
Speaker 1: the fuck to do. You're a dentist, tell me what
38:40
Speaker 1: the fuck to do. You've been in this business for
38:42
Speaker 1: 20 years, tell me what to do. Now, I'm going
38:44
Speaker 1: to put my twist on it, but I'm going to
38:47
Speaker 1: listen to people who know more than me about something.
38:49
Speaker 1: Why would I come to you and tell you about
38:52
Speaker 1: how to rap? I don't know how to do that.
38:54
Speaker 3: But that's a level of accountability most people haven't discovered yet.
38:58
Speaker 3: And for you to figure that out at 25, I
39:00
Speaker 3: think most 25-year-olds today is waking up looking for who
39:03
Speaker 3: to be.
39:04
Speaker 2: Like they don't even know who I was.
39:06
Speaker 3: They don't know the questions too, but you knew to
39:08
Speaker 3: ask a question and you knew your way wasn't working.
39:11
Speaker 2: Perfect example.
39:11
Speaker 3: When I moved down here, I moved here because the
39:14
Speaker 3: way I was doing things in the Bay area wasn't working.
39:17
Speaker 3: So I'm like, let me go get down here. I
39:19
Speaker 3: got down here. I started getting in studio sessions and
39:21
Speaker 3: I immediately realized like, Oh, I'm not good enough.
39:24
Speaker 2: So let me ask, Hey bro, how you write that hook?
39:27
Speaker 2: How you do this? How you do that?
39:28
Speaker 3: I think today, people don't see that part. They just
39:32
Speaker 3: see the plaque or they just see the thing and
39:34
Speaker 3: they're just like, I want to be that. So they
39:36
Speaker 3: go buy that outfit and buy that makeup and buy
39:39
Speaker 3: that hair. And they just want to like look like
39:43
Speaker 3: the end goal of that without actually going through what
39:46
Speaker 3: got that person to that.
39:49
Speaker 1: I mean, the journey is the prize. Like, you have
39:53
Speaker 1: to go through things, good and bad. Like, you're not
39:57
Speaker 1: going to have any perspective. We talked, not to make
40:00
Speaker 1: it this, like, very gory, but one of the earlier
40:03
Speaker 1: seasons we talked about death. And maybe it's because I've, like,
40:08
Speaker 1: dealt with suicidal thoughts most of my life or maybe
40:11
Speaker 1: it's just from my perspective.
40:12
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, man.
40:13
Speaker 3: You can't just be sliding over shit like that. What
40:16
Speaker 3: do you mean you've dealt with suicidal thoughts?
40:18
Speaker 1: I'm literally on the plane.
40:19
Speaker 2: I have.
40:20
Speaker 1: I have a nice medication process now. I got a
40:22
Speaker 1: good cocktail. I live fully. Like I am a fully
40:29
Speaker 1: living person. I experience things very deeply. I've made terrible decisions.
40:33
Speaker 1: I've made great decisions. I've worked really hard. I've been
40:36
Speaker 1: really lazy. I've had great relationships. I've had terrible relationships.
40:39
Speaker 1: I've had lifelong friends. I've been betrayed. Like, I have
40:42
Speaker 1: a whole spectrum of experiences that I pull from. I
40:46
Speaker 1: don't just, like, go off the dome. And when I do,
40:50
Speaker 1: usually it does not go well for me. So I
40:53
Speaker 1: just think when you're a young person and you're trying
40:56
Speaker 1: to find your way through life and you're trying to
40:57
Speaker 1: find your first job and you're trying to, like, decide
40:59
Speaker 1: what you're going to be and who you are going
41:00
Speaker 1: to be, like— Asking questions and being receptive of experiences
41:04
Speaker 1: is important. Like your first shitty job is important. You're
41:08
Speaker 1: not supposed to go to motherfucking Greece off your first job.
41:13
Speaker 2: You talking now?
41:14
Speaker 1: If your parents are rich and they take care of you,
41:17
Speaker 1: God bless. Good for you. You won the fucking lottery.
41:21
Speaker 1: Enjoy it for as long as they're going to do
41:23
Speaker 1: that for you. But the rest of us? Motherfucker, you
41:27
Speaker 1: make grease in your living room. I don't know.
41:29
Speaker 3: Social media make us feel like you could fast track shit.
41:33
Speaker 3: And that's, like, the biggest problem is, like, people think, like,
41:36
Speaker 3: they could skip certain steps, right? Like, I used to
41:40
Speaker 3: think that. Like, when I first got my deal, I'm like, oh, shit,
41:43
Speaker 3: I could rap this way. I don't necessarily got to
41:46
Speaker 3: go do interviews. I don't necessarily got to go do
41:49
Speaker 3: all these things. But it's like, no, bro, like, you
41:52
Speaker 3: still got to go through these process. Like, I remember...
41:56
Speaker 3: I remember I went viral for saying something about Eminem, right?
42:00
Speaker 3: And I didn't think nobody would see this shit. I
42:01
Speaker 3: was like, I'm going to just troll with Tierra right quick, right?
42:05
Speaker 3: And I said this shit and just everybody was on
42:07
Speaker 3: my line. I couldn't figure it out. But like a
42:10
Speaker 3: few months went by and I was like, damn, they right.
42:14
Speaker 3: Because it's like, who the fuck am I to sit
42:17
Speaker 3: here and talk about somebody that's got like 20 years
42:20
Speaker 3: of doing what I've been doing for 12 months? So
42:24
Speaker 3: to the world, it's like, who the fuck are you
42:25
Speaker 3: to have this conversation? But I thought, because I went
42:29
Speaker 3: viral and I have 500,000 followers and I got a
42:33
Speaker 3: record deal, I could say what the fuck I want.
42:35
Speaker 3: But I still had to go put in work to
42:38
Speaker 3: even be afforded to have these type of conversations. So
42:41
Speaker 3: I think so many times today, like, people just got
42:45
Speaker 3: too much fucking access. People could just pick up a phone,
42:49
Speaker 3: start a goddamn... a live stream and say whatever. And
42:53
Speaker 3: if it's wild, somebody reposts it.
42:57
Speaker 2: Now it's a topic. Yeah.
42:58
Speaker 1: And that's, that wasn't, that wasn't my life. There was
43:00
Speaker 1: no fast tracking anything. The internet, social media. Your resume
43:04
Speaker 1: is on internet. Like we could go back and see
43:07
Speaker 1: you in 2015. People don't care about that. Cause those
43:10
Speaker 1: are ignorant motherfuckers. They don't care about that. They don't know. Yeah.
43:14
Speaker 1: They don't know that in 2007, this was started. Like
43:18
Speaker 1: they don't understand that. And that's fine.
43:20
Speaker 5: Yeah.
43:20
Speaker 1: But I'm saying from my perspective, like there was no
43:23
Speaker 1: fast track. So I didn't look at things as a
43:25
Speaker 1: fast track. I knew it was going to be a journey.
43:27
Speaker 1: I knew it was going to be sacrifice. I knew
43:29
Speaker 1: it was going to be a lot of shit jobs.
43:31
Speaker 1: And nobody lied to me about that.
43:33
Speaker 2: But what prepared you to think that way?
43:37
Speaker 1: Because I studied my business. Because I did free internships
43:42
Speaker 1: and I saw grown ass adults who were trying to
43:45
Speaker 1: break into the business who were working for free. Like me,
43:49
Speaker 1: but I'm 10 years younger than them, and they still
43:52
Speaker 1: trying to get in it. Now, that's their choice, obviously,
43:56
Speaker 1: but this is a treacherous business. It's not that dissimilar
44:00
Speaker 1: to music or acting. It's similar? Yeah, there's a lot
44:04
Speaker 1: of crossover factors that are similar, but yeah, it's hard work,
44:10
Speaker 1: it's hard work. You got to do it. This story,
44:14
Speaker 1: it disturbs me because it's like, why the fuck? Why
44:19
Speaker 1: the fuck do you think that?
44:22
Speaker 3: So I was having a conversation with somebody earlier, right?
44:24
Speaker 3: And I was telling them, I was like, you come
44:28
Speaker 3: across as somebody that wants your potential to be known
44:32
Speaker 3: before you even show it. So I may know what
44:36
Speaker 3: you could do and I may know how dope you
44:38
Speaker 3: are and I may know how creative you are. But
44:40
Speaker 3: if somebody's hitting you for a task, the job is
44:44
Speaker 3: the fucking task at hand.
44:45
Speaker 2: Execute the task, right?
44:47
Speaker 3: You're slowing the task down because you want everyone to
44:51
Speaker 3: know you can do this, this, this, this, that, and
44:53
Speaker 3: the third, which is not getting the assignment done.
44:57
Speaker 5: Right?
45:01
Speaker 3: So I think so many times it's like we in
45:04
Speaker 3: this state of just like people wanting to look like
45:07
Speaker 3: this person or like this thing or want people to
45:11
Speaker 3: view them how they view themselves without showing them why
45:14
Speaker 3: I should view you this way.
45:15
Speaker 1: Well, there's, you used to have to show your work, right?
45:19
Speaker 2: Yes.
45:19
Speaker 1: I think teachers are getting back to that now. Show
45:21
Speaker 1: your work. You can't just put the answer. Show your work.
45:24
Speaker 1: How did you get this answer?
45:25
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
45:26
Speaker 1: And part of the reason why they did that is
45:28
Speaker 1: because I need to see that you know how to
45:30
Speaker 1: do this.
45:30
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
45:30
Speaker 1: It might be a simple thing. It's why when people
45:32
Speaker 1: get cranky about like grabbing coffee, I'm like, oh, no, it.
45:35
Speaker 2: Ain't for me. Mm-hmm.
45:36
Speaker 1: I get coffee.
45:37
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
45:38
Speaker 3: And how many times have you had to go get
45:40
Speaker 3: coffee for the person you was working for?
45:43
Speaker 1: All the time. Right. I get coffee for the people
45:46
Speaker 1: that work for me.
45:47
Speaker 2: Now you got people that.
45:48
Speaker 1: It doesn't fucking matter. Who gets the coffee? The coffee
45:51
Speaker 1: has to get here. That is the point. So if
45:53
Speaker 1: I'm the person who has the access to get the
45:55
Speaker 1: coffee right now where everybody else is doing what they're
45:57
Speaker 1: supposed to be doing, I will go get the coffee.
45:59
Speaker 1: You are never above anything. And I think there's like
46:03
Speaker 1: a deeper conversation with younger people where it's like, it's
46:06
Speaker 1: almost like it's not, they're too- Like, they have too
46:10
Speaker 1: much dignity to do the job. Like, do the job.
46:15
Speaker 1: That's part of what it is. If y'all don't want
46:17
Speaker 1: to work, that's cool. And I hear you. But if
46:20
Speaker 1: you're not going to work, you better figure something else out.
46:23
Speaker 1: Because these bills still have to be paid. And stop
46:26
Speaker 1: letting the social media world convince you that that's how
46:29
Speaker 1: this works.
46:29
Speaker 2: But that's the problem.
46:30
Speaker 3: Like, I dealt with that shit just, like, earlier on, like,
46:34
Speaker 3: coming up with my friends and, like, team that I
46:37
Speaker 3: was trying to develop, right? I probably wasn't the best
46:40
Speaker 3: leader at the time, right? But I could take accountability
46:44
Speaker 3: for not being a good leader, right? It's still people
46:47
Speaker 3: who feel like that's past, that's moved on. They can't
46:51
Speaker 3: do nothing else because of what happened in the past.
46:56
Speaker 3: So it's like, you're not going to make me feel
46:58
Speaker 3: bad that you can't make a move as a man
47:01
Speaker 3: four years after we've not even worked with each other.
47:03
Speaker 2: You just don't want to do anything. Yeah.
47:05
Speaker 3: You just want to kind of lean on somebody as
47:09
Speaker 3: their thing because you don't believe in yourself enough to
47:11
Speaker 3: go create something for yourself. There's nothing I could do
47:14
Speaker 3: about that.
47:14
Speaker 1: And also, some people are workers. Like, There's no shame
47:20
Speaker 1: in that. Everybody's like, oh, I want to own my
47:22
Speaker 1: own business. I want to be the boss. Being the
47:24
Speaker 1: boss comes with a lot of stress and responsibility. Everything
47:28
Speaker 1: is on you all the fucking time. There is no, oh,
47:32
Speaker 1: I get vacation and I can unplug or I'm not
47:35
Speaker 1: checking my email.
47:36
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no.
47:37
Speaker 1: They're not available. It doesn't matter where the fuck you are.
47:40
Speaker 1: You are always on 24-7 when you're in charge. And
47:43
Speaker 1: that is non-negotiable because if you don't do it, it
47:47
Speaker 1: doesn't get done.
47:48
Speaker 3: And so many times we judge the boss by the
47:51
Speaker 3: final product. Like I've sat next to you for years
47:55
Speaker 3: and watch you pay for things you probably don't want
47:58
Speaker 3: to pay for.
47:59
Speaker 4: Right.
47:59
Speaker 3: And do things you don't want to do. But it's
48:01
Speaker 3: like you're the leader in the situation. So it's like
48:04
Speaker 3: I got to take this on. It is what it is.
48:06
Speaker 2: Fuck it. Right.
48:07
Speaker 3: People don't necessarily know what all went into you being
48:11
Speaker 3: able to do that. The work you had to put in,
48:13
Speaker 3: the sacrifices of probably paying people things when you didn't
48:16
Speaker 3: necessarily have it at the time, right? Or taking jobs
48:19
Speaker 3: you didn't want to take to get to the next
48:20
Speaker 3: one or playing a certain host role to become an
48:23
Speaker 3: executive producer. People don't see that part. They just see
48:28
Speaker 3: executive producer, the end of the film. I want to
48:31
Speaker 3: be that. But it's like, are you willing to go
48:33
Speaker 3: through all this shit this person went to to become that?
48:36
Speaker 3: And I think so many times that shit is not
48:38
Speaker 3: highlighted today. We just showing when we go to the
48:40
Speaker 3: bins and get the car and the house. But we
48:44
Speaker 3: ain't showing every fuck how stressful it was to get
48:47
Speaker 3: your YouTube page going to be able to make this
48:50
Speaker 3: type of money.
48:50
Speaker 1: People don't want to see that. Like, you know, the process,
48:53
Speaker 1: you know, they only want to see the process when
48:55
Speaker 1: it's cooking videos.
48:56
Speaker 2: So true.
48:57
Speaker 1: Which I do love.
48:57
Speaker 2: So true.
48:58
Speaker 5: We got to tell the story real, just real quick.
49:01
Speaker 1: Oh, oh, oh.
49:02
Speaker 5: We talked this weekend.
49:03
Speaker 1: Who's out? I was out. I did a little something, something.
49:05
Speaker 1: Nothing too crazy.
49:06
Speaker 5: Yeah, tell the people about what happened.
49:08
Speaker 1: Nothing too crazy. So I went for a little nightcap.
49:10
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say where because I don't want
49:12
Speaker 1: y'all blowing up my little spot. But we've been there before.
49:18
Speaker 1: And I'm enjoying it. a drink with my girlfriend. We
49:22
Speaker 1: are at a table. We are talking to each other.
49:26
Speaker 1: It's not like we're sitting there fucking around on our phones.
49:29
Speaker 1: We're not speaking.
49:30
Speaker 2: We're bored.
49:31
Speaker 1: We're looking around, looking for someone to talk to us.
49:33
Speaker 1: We are having a conversation.
49:34
Speaker 6: Now.
49:37
Speaker 1: Always try to bite men's head off when they approach women. Yes,
49:40
Speaker 1: you do.
49:41
Speaker 2: Oh, when they approach women. I didn't hear that part.
49:43
Speaker 1: Oh, let's see.
49:44
Speaker 3: What I was about to get you, because you be
49:46
Speaker 3: biting motherfuckers' heads off. Well, I don't really want to talk, okay? Like,
49:51
Speaker 3: I don't go out.
49:51
Speaker 1: To get hit on.
49:52
Speaker 3: That's true.
49:54
Speaker 1: If you're not interesting, it's going.
49:58
Speaker 6: To be tough.
49:59
Speaker 1: It's going to be tough for you. But I do
50:02
Speaker 1: recognize it's difficult for a man to walk across the
50:05
Speaker 1: room and talk. To women.
50:07
Speaker 2: Especially a woman like yourself.
50:09
Speaker 6: Sure.
50:10
Speaker 1: And I'm being polite-ish. But he sits down at our table,
50:14
Speaker 1: first of all.
50:15
Speaker 5: Wait, before he said anything.
50:16
Speaker 1: He sits right down, right? Is this your table?
50:21
Speaker 5: Immediately turned off.
50:22
Speaker 1: Why are you sitting at the table? Come up and
50:24
Speaker 1: introduce yourself, right? Hello, I'm so-and-so. What is your name?
50:28
Speaker 1: Thank you. Okay, like, that's how you speak to people.
50:31
Speaker 1: So he just sits down, starts babbling on about some bullshit.
50:33
Speaker 1: Can't remember what his opening line was. It was terrible.
50:36
Speaker 1: We're both like, okay, I guess fuck our conversation that
50:38
Speaker 1: we were having. Like, you're here now. So what's up?
50:43
Speaker 1: And he's like been talking for like 30 seconds. I'm like,
50:44
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, by the way, I'm Joy. What is your name?
50:47
Speaker 1: Because you're just speaking like you're not going to introduce yourself.
50:51
Speaker 1: So he says his name. And then he's like, what
50:55
Speaker 1: do y'all do? I'm like, what do you do? Right. Oh,
51:03
Speaker 1: you know, I got a couple of little companies, little corporations,
51:06
Speaker 1: you know. OK. So what do you do? Same. Same.
51:11
Speaker 1: I got a little couple little corporations. He's talking nonsense.
51:15
Speaker 1: He doesn't remember our name. He's interrupting us when we
51:18
Speaker 1: start talking again. And I'm like, I'm like, what is
51:21
Speaker 1: it that I can do for you? Like, seriously.
51:24
Speaker 5: In other words, please leave. Also, yeah, we not.
51:26
Speaker 1: Giving you the vibe at all, right? I mean, you
51:30
Speaker 1: already pulled the trigger by sitting down. It's one thing
51:32
Speaker 1: if you walk up and like we say hello and
51:34
Speaker 1: there's just like no energy, like then you can walk
51:36
Speaker 1: away with some dignity, but you're sitting now. So I
51:38
Speaker 1: was like, I know how to get rid of him.
51:40
Speaker 1: Works every time. I was like, well, you should know
51:42
Speaker 1: while you're sitting here that I'm a witch.
51:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I like this.
51:49
Speaker 1: I like where this is going.
51:50
Speaker 6: I like this. I like this.
51:52
Speaker 1: You're going to love the next part, Specs.
51:54
Speaker 6: I like this angle.
51:55
Speaker 1: And he's like, what do you mean? I was like, actually,
51:57
Speaker 1: we are witches. We're in a coven. We're witches. And
52:01
Speaker 1: he's like, like a real witch. I was like, like
52:02
Speaker 1: a real witch. Like, I cast spells. I'm a witch.
52:07
Speaker 1: He was like, so you're evil. I was like, I mean,
52:10
Speaker 1: not all witches are evil. Like, just, you know. not
52:14
Speaker 1: not everyone has good and bad sides like it just
52:16
Speaker 1: depends on how much you bother me but I am
52:19
Speaker 1: a witch and you should know that if that's what
52:20
Speaker 1: you're into it's like oh no no I don't know
52:23
Speaker 1: about all that and the little fire thing shit like
52:26
Speaker 1: the little candle was on the table so I was
52:29
Speaker 1: like I'm really gonna I'm gonna get him now I
52:30
Speaker 1: was like well I'm like you know it's up to
52:37
Speaker 1: you he was like all right I got the vibes
52:39
Speaker 1: I'm gonna slide out I was like yeah I mean
52:41
Speaker 1: you know what we can say and we can talk
52:43
Speaker 1: about You know, Wiccan culture.
52:45
Speaker 3: I think some men, I've noticed like a lot of
52:49
Speaker 3: men don't have discernment for the type of woman they want.
52:52
Speaker 1: They also just don't read energy. Like, read the room.
52:58
Speaker 4: Yeah.
52:58
Speaker 1: Very easy. It's very easy. If you see two women
53:01
Speaker 1: who are engaged in a conversation, we are looking each
53:04
Speaker 1: other in the face and talking. It's not the time. Wait.
53:07
Speaker 1: Wait for the low. Eventually, we're going to take a sip,
53:10
Speaker 1: check our phone. That's the time. All right?
53:12
Speaker 2: Scoop in.
53:13
Speaker 1: Introduce yourself. Be a gentleman. Be charming. You're not the
53:18
Speaker 1: interesting one here.
53:19
Speaker 3: This is an interesting conversation because now it just led
53:23
Speaker 3: me to another question. Top three times you've been approached.
53:31
Speaker 1: I am not like a non-approachable woman. I will say
53:35
Speaker 1: one time, I don't really like talk to people. I
53:37
Speaker 1: don't get too chatty with people at airports.
53:40
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
53:42
Speaker 1: For a variety of reasons, but mostly like safety reasons.
53:45
Speaker 1: So I'm going to, should I say the city?
53:50
Speaker 6: Yeah, fuck it.
53:50
Speaker 1: I'm going to New Orleans. And this was years ago.
53:53
Speaker 1: I'm going on a girl's trip.
53:55
Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
53:56
Speaker 1: And, uh, I'm sitting at the bar. This is before
53:59
Speaker 1: I was, uh, a, um, you know, status member to
54:02
Speaker 1: be in the lounge. So I'm at, I'm at the
54:04
Speaker 1: bar with Jen Pop.
54:05
Speaker 2: Okay.
54:06
Speaker 1: And, uh, I'm having a drink cause I'm at the
54:08
Speaker 1: airport and this, you know, young man is sitting next
54:11
Speaker 1: to me and he asked me where I'm going and
54:13
Speaker 1: I'm like feeling nice today. So we have a little
54:16
Speaker 1: chit chat, nothing crazy. And he's like, Oh, I'm going
54:17
Speaker 1: to New Orleans too. I'm on your flight. Like, uh,
54:19
Speaker 1: my friend and I are going down like we've never
54:21
Speaker 1: been before. And I was like, cool, great. Like, cool.
54:24
Speaker 1: See you later. Like, That's the end of that conversation, obviously.
54:27
Speaker 1: And he was, you know, he was a handsome guy,
54:30
Speaker 1: but I don't care about men. So... Jesus Christ. I mean,
54:34
Speaker 1: just like.
54:36
Speaker 2: You just have no place in your heart. No, I just.
54:38
Speaker 1: That doesn't move me. Like, men fuck sandwiches. Like, a
54:42
Speaker 1: man being attracted to me is not going to, like,
54:44
Speaker 1: change my day. What man have you seen fuck a sandwich?
54:46
Speaker 1: Hopefully none ever, but I do know that happens. Nice enough, man.
54:49
Speaker 1: We get off the plane, connect with my girlfriends, and he.
54:55
Speaker 1: We exchanged numbers, right? I'm like, oh, you know, if
54:56
Speaker 1: you guys are out, come meet us for a drink, whatever.
55:01
Speaker 1: So we're texting and he's like, actually, my friend missed
55:04
Speaker 1: his flight. So I'm just, you know, going to run
55:06
Speaker 1: around the city by myself. Not, didn't ask anything, you know,
55:10
Speaker 1: played it cool.
55:11
Speaker 2: Okay.
55:11
Speaker 1: That's how you do it. So we enjoy our day
55:16
Speaker 1: as we plan to. And we invited him out at
55:18
Speaker 1: the end of the night. And he was a lovely gentleman.
55:21
Speaker 1: And he accompanied us everywhere. Did not bother anybody. Was
55:26
Speaker 1: basically like our security all weekend. Was really cute. And
55:30
Speaker 1: he got a little pussy.
55:31
Speaker 3: So let's say this guy that you was practicing witchcraft on.
55:37
Speaker 1: We hung out with again. Okay. It wasn't a one
55:39
Speaker 1: night stand. We talked for a little while. Relax.
55:41
Speaker 6: You liked him. You liked him.
55:42
Speaker 2: You obviously liked him, right? Okay.
55:44
Speaker 3: But let's say this guy you was practicing witchcraft on.
55:47
Speaker 3: Let's say he didn't approach the table. Let's say he
55:50
Speaker 3: took a different approach. let's say he sent the waiter
55:53
Speaker 3: over there and the waiter said, hey, there's a gentleman
55:55
Speaker 3: over there and he noticed you guys were drinking. He
55:58
Speaker 3: liked what you guys, instead he wanted to purchase you
56:01
Speaker 3: guys a drink.
56:01
Speaker 2: What would be?
56:02
Speaker 1: I always think that's a nice thing to do.
56:04
Speaker 2: Okay.
56:04
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's a nice thing to do. I don't,
56:07
Speaker 1: probably in this situation, I would have declined the drink.
56:11
Speaker 1: Or would have gotten a tea or something because it
56:14
Speaker 1: was the end of the night.
56:15
Speaker 2: Okay.
56:16
Speaker 1: But I'm not just going to take a drink. You
56:19
Speaker 1: would have accepted the service. I would have accepted the service, yes.
56:21
Speaker 2: Okay, boom, right?
56:22
Speaker 1: But you don't have to buy me something to get
56:24
Speaker 1: me to speak to you.
56:25
Speaker 3: Would that be a better approach than him just walking
56:29
Speaker 3: up to the table and inserting himself in you guys' conversation?
56:32
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't insert yourself in the conversation. If you see
56:35
Speaker 1: a bunch of women talking... The kind way to interrupt
56:38
Speaker 1: would be to buy everybody drinks, right? Or buy a
56:42
Speaker 1: specific woman drinks if you're not going to, you know,
56:46
Speaker 1: run a $ 100 plus tab for her and all of
56:48
Speaker 1: her girlfriends. Buy her a drink. You don't have to
56:51
Speaker 1: buy everyone a drink. If they're talking and engaged, you
56:54
Speaker 1: should not be interrupting.
56:55
Speaker 2: I agree.
56:57
Speaker 1: Because now we all have to stop our conversation, pay
57:00
Speaker 1: attention to you, and like I said, I mean, this
57:03
Speaker 1: isn't the case for everyone. Some people find men attractive.
57:07
Speaker 1: But I personally find it to be a nuisance.
57:12
Speaker 2: I agree.
57:13
Speaker 3: I think if you're going to approach a woman in
57:15
Speaker 3: that way, you shouldn't interrupt whatever it is they're doing.
57:19
Speaker 3: You should kind of insert yourself in a very comfortable way,
57:23
Speaker 3: whatever that looks like. And some men I feel don't
57:26
Speaker 3: have enough experience with women. I don't even think some
57:29
Speaker 3: men like women, not necessarily saying they're gay.
57:33
Speaker 1: No, they don't like women, though.
57:34
Speaker 2: I just don't think.
57:35
Speaker 3: They like the idea of approaching a woman or, like,
57:38
Speaker 3: opening a door or catering to a woman. I think
57:41
Speaker 3: a lot of men feel so superior to women that
57:44
Speaker 3: they feel that, like, they should just be catered to
57:47
Speaker 3: based off what they want. They don't necessarily, like, kind
57:50
Speaker 3: of size up what it is they're going for.
57:52
Speaker 4: It triggers a sense of vulnerability. Like, if you get
57:58
Speaker 4: it wrong, you can get shut down and things like that.
58:02
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe you two can explain this to me
58:03
Speaker 1: because Haley, I don't know how you feel, but like,
58:07
Speaker 1: is that wrong? No, no. Rejection is not a big
58:12
Speaker 1: deal to me. Like, it's a part of life. So
58:18
Speaker 1: it doesn't. So is it a, is like a male
58:21
Speaker 1: ego thing? Cause listen, women can be harsh. Like I was,
58:24
Speaker 1: I was very nice and just telling him I was
58:25
Speaker 1: a witch, you know, like I could have been like, yo,
58:28
Speaker 1: get the fuck up off my motherfucking table. Like I
58:31
Speaker 1: could have been rude. Cause you really just came and
58:33
Speaker 1: sat at our table. And this isn't like, this is
58:37
Speaker 1: a tape. Like this is our table. We are sitting here. You,
58:40
Speaker 1: you are coming and sitting up at our table, interrupting us.
58:42
Speaker 1: Like it's, it's fucking rude actually. But I didn't do
58:45
Speaker 1: that one. Cause I like living. And motherfuckers are weird.
58:49
Speaker 1: But Tua didn't need to be all that. I just
58:50
Speaker 1: told him I was a witch and he got up
58:51
Speaker 1: on his own. But I don't like... Getting rejected is
58:55
Speaker 1: not the end of the world. And most women aren't
58:58
Speaker 1: going to be like, yo, fucking ugly ass boy. Like,
59:01
Speaker 1: most people aren't doing that. They're just like, no thanks.
59:04
Speaker 2: How you feel about that, Spix? I mean, no.
59:08
Speaker 4: I think that's really what it is. I think a
59:11
Speaker 4: lot of dudes don't deal with that.
59:14
Speaker 1: Why, though? Like, what is it about rejection with men
59:18
Speaker 1: that is so crazy?
59:19
Speaker 6: It is ego. It is ego.
59:22
Speaker 4: Because the idea of, again, like, being vulnerable in a
59:26
Speaker 4: public space.
59:27
Speaker 6: A lot of times when you're vulnerable... in a public.
59:30
Speaker 4: Space around your boys, they, like, laugh at you. Because it's, like,
59:34
Speaker 4: a joking thing. But then to, like, recreate that.
59:37
Speaker 6: Like, you know.
59:39
Speaker 1: So it's for other men?
59:40
Speaker 6: I think that's where it starts, for sure.
59:43
Speaker 2: I think what Speck said is correct.
59:44
Speaker 3: It's, like, men kind of got this, like, job title
59:50
Speaker 3: to subscribe to their ego and their masculinity.
59:53
Speaker 2: Right?
59:53
Speaker 3: So a lot of times we're not allowed to be vulnerable.
59:56
Speaker 3: We're not allowed to be emotional. We could tell our
59:58
Speaker 3: woman some shit. She might use it against us. We
1:00:00
Speaker 3: could tell our friends some personal shit. They might use
1:00:03
Speaker 3: it against us. So naturally, we taught to kind of
1:00:05
Speaker 3: hold everything in and house it and just go figure
1:00:09
Speaker 3: it out. So when you build up enough courage to
1:00:12
Speaker 3: go say something to a woman, it's kind of like
1:00:15
Speaker 3: it's not just about her saying no. It's like everything
1:00:19
Speaker 3: I've worked for now, my identity feels attacked.
1:00:23
Speaker 5: In our issue.
1:00:24
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's your issue. I'm saying that's how
1:00:27
Speaker 3: some men look at it.
1:00:28
Speaker 5: Especially if a female says no in a kind, respectable way. Like,
1:00:33
Speaker 5: if you approach me in public, I spit in a
1:00:35
Speaker 5: gas station.
1:00:36
Speaker 1: Stop fucking talking to people at gas stations. My girlfriend
1:00:39
Speaker 1: texted me that the other day. She was like, can
1:00:40
Speaker 1: I go to the motherfucking gas station without getting approached? Like,
1:00:45
Speaker 1: this is not the place to hit on women. Don't
1:00:47
Speaker 1: hit on women in elevators. Haley already know.
1:00:50
Speaker 2: I will....
1:00:53
Speaker 1: Don't hit on me in the elevator. I was with
1:00:55
Speaker 1: Haley when somebody started, like, we were in the bay. Fucker.
1:01:00
Speaker 1: Don't hit on me in the elevator. Don't hit on
1:01:04
Speaker 1: someone in a parking garage. Don't hit on somebody at
1:01:08
Speaker 1: fucking gas station. Don't do that. Like, it's not a
1:01:13
Speaker 1: safe place for women already. We're going to act nice
1:01:17
Speaker 1: because we are afraid for our lives. And some of
1:01:20
Speaker 1: us might be strapped.
1:01:21
Speaker 3: So what about the woman that puts herself in a
1:01:24
Speaker 3: position to be got like goes to the gas station
1:01:27
Speaker 3: in straight ass shorts and it's like somebody says something
1:01:30
Speaker 3: and she turns around and talk to him and that's
1:01:32
Speaker 3: his experience at a gas station.
1:01:33
Speaker 1: You got lucky. You got lucky.
1:01:36
Speaker 5: Don't let.
1:01:36
Speaker 1: Yeah. Use that account as an outlier and don't make
1:01:40
Speaker 1: that the norm. Don't hit on women in these places.
1:01:42
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it should be the norm. I'm not
1:01:44
Speaker 3: saying it should be the norm. I'm just saying... There's
1:01:46
Speaker 3: women that's been gotten at a gas station.
1:01:48
Speaker 1: A hundred percent. And I'm sure there's women who have
1:01:50
Speaker 1: been approached in parking garages and someone maybe said something
1:01:53
Speaker 1: cute to them in the elevator and it worked out.
1:01:55
Speaker 1: But the reality is all those places are places where
1:01:58
Speaker 1: women are extremely vulnerable and you shouldn't do that.
1:02:01
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree.
1:02:03
Speaker 5: So we do a never shoot.
1:02:04
Speaker 1: Okay.
1:02:05
Speaker 5: At the end of every episode.
1:02:06
Speaker 2: You act like I don't watch the show.
1:02:10
Speaker 4: I don't know.
1:02:10
Speaker 5: People be lying, man. This, I think you gonna love it.
1:02:15
Speaker 5: Both of you. So it's a would you rather type
1:02:17
Speaker 5: of question.
1:02:18
Speaker 4: Okay.
1:02:19
Speaker 5: So would you rather spend one year in prison or
1:02:23
Speaker 5: have a bad baby mama or baby daddy?
1:02:26
Speaker 2: Oh, shit.
1:02:27
Speaker 1: This is so tough.
1:02:30
Speaker 2: I mean, awful. Which prison?
1:02:34
Speaker 1: Like, for real, what kind of prison?
1:02:35
Speaker 2: Like, is it the fed?
1:02:36
Speaker 6: Yeah.
1:02:37
Speaker 1: Is it like the Martha Stewart?
1:02:39
Speaker 2: No, it's not the fed.
1:02:41
Speaker 1: Is it Camp Cupcake?
1:02:42
Speaker 5: No, it's not.
1:02:43
Speaker 1: It's like real prison.
1:02:43
Speaker 2: Yeah.
1:02:45
Speaker 5: A year.
1:02:47
Speaker 1: I got to tell you, I'm not going to do
1:02:49
Speaker 1: well in prison. I make most of my decisions in
1:02:54
Speaker 1: life to avoid prison. So I don't think I could
1:03:00
Speaker 1: do a year in prison.
1:03:03
Speaker 5: You're just going to be stuck with a bad baby daddy?
1:03:05
Speaker 1: Is death an option?
1:03:05
Speaker 5: Nope. For 18 years?
1:03:07
Speaker 2: 18 years.
1:03:07
Speaker 1: You know it's really.
1:03:09
Speaker 5: Past the 18 years because it's not like they no
1:03:11
Speaker 5: longer have a child together.
1:03:12
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Is this tough? This is a really
1:03:15
Speaker 1: tough question for me because I don't ever want to
1:03:18
Speaker 1: go to prison at all. But I also will, will
1:03:25
Speaker 1: never have a baby daddy. And I also don't date
1:03:32
Speaker 1: people that have bad baby mamas. So I have avoided these, this,
1:03:37
Speaker 1: this like entire reality. Like I, Actively, intentionally. Like if
1:03:42
Speaker 1: I am talking to you.
1:03:43
Speaker 2: You just haven't met Dejan Love yet.
1:03:46
Speaker 6: Man.
1:03:49
Speaker 2: Man.
1:03:50
Speaker 1: What a fucking head that guy has, huh? Unbelievable skull.
1:03:56
Speaker 2: No, I get what you're saying.
1:03:57
Speaker 1: Like your kid is fucked.
1:04:00
Speaker 2: Yeah.
1:04:01
Speaker 3: I get what you're saying though. Because it's so many
1:04:03
Speaker 3: women that have the choice to stay away from that.
1:04:07
Speaker 3: And they think they could kind of be the one
1:04:09
Speaker 3: to change it or like alter it a bit. So
1:04:11
Speaker 3: to like kind of be aware of that and not
1:04:13
Speaker 3: insert yourself in that, that's a talent.
1:04:16
Speaker 1: Well, you know, I try not to judge people too
1:04:20
Speaker 1: much when it comes to these situations because people do
1:04:22
Speaker 1: misrepresent themselves. So you can be with somebody, you can
1:04:25
Speaker 1: have a good situation, and then you have kids and
1:04:28
Speaker 1: people change. Shit changes. And then they're a fucking loser
1:04:32
Speaker 1: or they're a fucking weirdo. And it's too late. The
1:04:34
Speaker 1: baby's here. And you've already made this decision and they
1:04:38
Speaker 1: they fucked you. Right. So like I can't I can't
1:04:41
Speaker 1: always look at somebody in this situation and be like,
1:04:43
Speaker 1: it's your fault. You chose bad. Like there's a trend
1:04:46
Speaker 1: on social media like, you know, I didn't marry a loser.
1:04:50
Speaker 1: So my husband like does things he's supposed to do like. Well,
1:04:54
Speaker 1: that's not fair.
1:04:56
Speaker 2: So what?
1:04:57
Speaker 1: He was charming and great when you guys were dating
1:04:59
Speaker 1: and you were having fun and then you got pregnant
1:05:00
Speaker 1: and now it turns out he's not a good dad.
1:05:02
Speaker 1: There's no way of knowing that without having that experience.
1:05:05
Speaker 1: So I can't always look at a baby mama or
1:05:08
Speaker 1: look at a baby dad and be like, they could
1:05:12
Speaker 1: have avoided this situation. But there are certainly plenty of
1:05:17
Speaker 1: situations where you could look at the situation and be like,
1:05:21
Speaker 1: preemptively you have loser traits you have bitch traits and
1:05:25
Speaker 1: likely down the road these will intensify with the insertion
1:05:28
Speaker 1: of a child to the situation I don't date people
1:05:31
Speaker 1: who talk bad about their exes I gotta talk to
1:05:35
Speaker 1: her I gotta see the other side of this she's
1:05:37
Speaker 1: crazy so she just woke up crazy you ain't do
1:05:40
Speaker 1: nothing you didn't cause there's nothing you did At all.
1:05:43
Speaker 3: That's my thing with like a lot of the bad
1:05:45
Speaker 3: baby mom or bad baby dad thing is like someone
1:05:48
Speaker 3: could make them that way. Because I've had a friend
1:05:52
Speaker 3: who I told him to his face, like, don't do that.
1:05:55
Speaker 2: And he did it. And I told him, don't do
1:05:58
Speaker 2: something else. And he did it again.
1:05:59
Speaker 3: And he's tried to convince me, nah, this how me
1:06:03
Speaker 3: and my wife rock. This how we get down. And
1:06:06
Speaker 3: I'm like, listen, bro, at the end of the day,
1:06:09
Speaker 3: that's a woman. That's a woman at the end of
1:06:12
Speaker 3: the day. It's only so long. She going to go
1:06:15
Speaker 3: for being embarrassed.
1:06:16
Speaker 2: Right. He did it again. He ain't seen his kid
1:06:20
Speaker 2: in a year. Yeah.
1:06:22
Speaker 1: And like, I don't, I don't like that. Like, I
1:06:25
Speaker 1: don't think you should bring kids into the situation, but
1:06:28
Speaker 1: I don't know the situation. Maybe they're not a good parent.
1:06:32
Speaker 1: Maybe they're not responsible. Maybe every time you're there with them,
1:06:35
Speaker 1: they're taking them to crazy places. Like I'm not getting
1:06:37
Speaker 1: the full story in all these situations, but I'll tell
1:06:40
Speaker 1: you right now, I don't want no motherfucking part of it.
1:06:43
Speaker 1: I've never had to deal with it. And it ain't
1:06:44
Speaker 1: starting today.
1:06:45
Speaker 5: So you're going to prison?
1:06:47
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to prison.
1:06:48
Speaker 2: I'm not going to prison.
1:06:50
Speaker 6: I think you should go to prison.
1:06:52
Speaker 2: What I'll say is this.
1:06:52
Speaker 4: When you get out, you can drop a freestyle. And
1:06:54
Speaker 4: then you're going to start your rap career.
1:06:57
Speaker 1: I can start my rap career.
1:07:00
Speaker 2: I'll say this.
1:07:02
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to go to prison if it was
1:07:05
Speaker 3: a bitter woman that I helped create the problem with.
1:07:09
Speaker 3: Like if I played a role in making her this way,
1:07:13
Speaker 3: I would want to deal with this. But if I'm
1:07:16
Speaker 3: being like targeted, Like to where it's like a woman
1:07:22
Speaker 3: is like, I solely want a baby with him because
1:07:24
Speaker 3: he's a rapper.
1:07:25
Speaker 2: Yeah. Send me to jail. Send me to jail because
1:07:28
Speaker 2: I don't want to deal with that.
1:07:30
Speaker 4: I can't.
1:07:30
Speaker 1: I can't do jail.
1:07:31
Speaker 2: I don't want to do jail. But jail not always bad.
1:07:34
Speaker 4: I don't.
1:07:35
Speaker 5: You might actually do well. You had a mouthpiece.
1:07:38
Speaker 3: Yeah, you might do cool in jail, Joy.
1:07:41
Speaker 2: You might be running to jail.
1:07:44
Speaker 1: Eventually, I would. But I just have to take a
1:07:45
Speaker 1: lot of lumps to get to that point.
1:07:47
Speaker 3: I'm going to have to buy everyone off. You'd be
1:07:49
Speaker 3: like Joy Zelda Blanco.
1:07:52
Speaker 1: Oh, for sure I'm running the place very soon. But
1:07:54
Speaker 1: until I get there, I'm going to have to, we
1:07:56
Speaker 1: don't have to scrap. I'm going to get my squabbles
1:07:59
Speaker 1: up quick, though. This is why I don't do these things.
1:08:02
Speaker 1: I know, to thine own self be true, I am
1:08:04
Speaker 1: not going to do this. It's why I've also never
1:08:06
Speaker 1: dated a mama's boy.
1:08:08
Speaker 2: What?
1:08:09
Speaker 1: I got to deal with your crazy ass mama coming
1:08:11
Speaker 1: in my house, rearranging my furniture, talking about her son,
1:08:14
Speaker 1: her baby boy. Nah.
1:08:16
Speaker 3: Have you ever dated someone that's tried to make you
1:08:18
Speaker 3: live up to who they mom were? Hmm.
1:08:23
Speaker 2: Um, they tried to compare.
1:08:25
Speaker 1: Not really because I don't, I really don't, I don't
1:08:28
Speaker 1: do those kinds of personalities. Like, and I, listen, I've
1:08:31
Speaker 1: dated terrible people. Like I'm not some, some fucking example of,
1:08:36
Speaker 1: and great people. Like I've been dated both. So I'm
1:08:38
Speaker 1: not saying I've never had bad experiences, but what I
1:08:41
Speaker 1: want to do, what I know I personally don't have
1:08:43
Speaker 1: the capacity for is bitches. Been there, done that. I'm
1:08:46
Speaker 1: not running bitches. No, nope, nope. Not doing it. Not
1:08:50
Speaker 1: doing bitches. I don't have the makeup for that. I
1:08:54
Speaker 1: will actually go to jail for real.
1:08:55
Speaker 6: Yeah.
1:08:56
Speaker 1: I've been there like with the, with the knife in
1:08:58
Speaker 1: the hand. Like, do I go to jail or do
1:09:03
Speaker 1: I just put it up? Just put this back in
1:09:05
Speaker 1: the drawer. Yeah. I'm gonna do that. Great decision. One
1:09:09
Speaker 1: of the best decisions of my life, but, but I
1:09:11
Speaker 1: can't do bitches. I can't do crazy baby mamas. I'm
1:09:14
Speaker 1: not going to purposely willingly enter into a situation where
1:09:17
Speaker 1: I have to I have to struggle because of a
1:09:21
Speaker 1: decision that you made.
1:09:22
Speaker 3: But as you said, people can pose. So what if
1:09:24
Speaker 3: the baby mom is like cool and it's just like
1:09:28
Speaker 3: everything is cool. You're getting along with the child. And
1:09:30
Speaker 3: then it's like one day she just... sees him being
1:09:33
Speaker 3: the version of himself that she thought she would get
1:09:36
Speaker 3: with you. And it's just, she just flips all of
1:09:38
Speaker 3: a sudden. You just go in the relationship. Jesus fucking Christ.
1:09:42
Speaker 1: I am not a ride or die. I am not.
1:09:44
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not. I'm not.
1:09:45
Speaker 1: I'm not doing. I'm not. I'm not suffering. I will
1:09:48
Speaker 1: not do it. I'll give you a couple of goes,
1:09:51
Speaker 1: but I'm not suffering. Absolutely not. This is not just,
1:09:53
Speaker 1: it wasn't meant to be.
1:09:54
Speaker 2: I respect it.
1:09:55
Speaker 5: This was a great widget, brother.
1:09:57
Speaker 2: It is.
1:09:57
Speaker 1: Specs, what are you doing?
1:09:58
Speaker 2: You go to jail?
1:09:59
Speaker 6: I'm not built for jail. I'm not built for jail.
1:10:03
Speaker 6: And my family love kids.
1:10:05
Speaker 4: So I think I'll take the baby mama because I
1:10:09
Speaker 4: know I can slack off.
1:10:13
Speaker 6: I know I have the opportunity to slack off.
1:10:15
Speaker 1: You have places you could leave the child?
1:10:18
Speaker 4: I'm not that bad. And honestly, because I do got
1:10:21
Speaker 4: a good heart, I'll probably end.
1:10:24
Speaker 2: Respects. What if it's like the embarrassing baby mama? Like
1:10:28
Speaker 2: the just... Like Felicia on Friday.
1:10:31
Speaker 6: You know what?
1:10:32
Speaker 4: I have a really great skill at allowing people to
1:10:38
Speaker 4: embarrass themselves.
1:10:40
Speaker 1: I've dated men that have children. I've helped raise kids. Like,
1:10:43
Speaker 1: I've dealt with exes before. But I don't, like, what
1:10:47
Speaker 1: your business is with you two is your business. And
1:10:50
Speaker 1: as long as everyone's respectful, I don't need to be
1:10:53
Speaker 1: on every call. I don't need to check your text messages. Like,
1:10:56
Speaker 1: it's cool. as long as it's that, but it's always
1:10:59
Speaker 1: been that. And I don't, I've had good experiences, but
1:11:03
Speaker 1: I'm walking into a situation like, yo, I got, you know,
1:11:05
Speaker 1: she crazy.
1:11:07
Speaker 2: Hmm.
1:11:08
Speaker 3: It's crazy because I never met too many women this way.
1:11:12
Speaker 3: You're choosing your peace over a relationship.
1:11:15
Speaker 1: Absolutely and I haven't always been that way but at
1:11:18
Speaker 1: this point at this at this age I just can't
1:11:22
Speaker 1: do it something shift in your 30s for sure for
1:11:25
Speaker 1: sure in your 30s but also I just think like
1:11:26
Speaker 1: once you really experience peace like when you have your
1:11:30
Speaker 1: own shit and you're not you're not relying on someone
1:11:34
Speaker 1: and you don't have somebody keeping you up at night
1:11:37
Speaker 1: like it's just a different, your priorities just change. Like,
1:11:41
Speaker 1: I've dealt with shit my whole life, my whole entire life.
1:11:46
Speaker 1: I'm tired. I can't have a grown-ass adult fucking my
1:11:51
Speaker 1: shit up.
1:11:51
Speaker 3: I had a conversation with a group of young girls
1:11:54
Speaker 3: a few weeks ago. One of the young girls said
1:11:57
Speaker 3: she can't keep a boyfriend. She feels like she does
1:11:59
Speaker 3: everything wrong to the point where she's just gonna, she's
1:12:01
Speaker 3: made up in her mind she'll never have a man.
1:12:04
Speaker 2: Right?
1:12:06
Speaker 3: At what point Or what does it look like when
1:12:09
Speaker 3: you get to a level to where, like, that's not
1:12:13
Speaker 3: even a worry?
1:12:13
Speaker 1: What, not having a man?
1:12:15
Speaker 2: Yeah.
1:12:17
Speaker 3: Because there's so many girls who probably hear what you're saying,
1:12:19
Speaker 3: and it's probably like, hell no.
1:12:21
Speaker 2: Like, I want a man. I want a relationship.
1:12:23
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you should. Also, I'm glad you brought this up.
1:12:26
Speaker 1: Because for some reason, I think this is important. For
1:12:29
Speaker 1: some reason, people think I'm speaking for all women and
1:12:34
Speaker 1: to all women.
1:12:35
Speaker 2: I'm not.
1:12:36
Speaker 1: When I say... 5,000 isn't enough for me. It's not
1:12:38
Speaker 1: enough for me. When I say I prioritize my peace
1:12:42
Speaker 1: over men, I do that. I, Joy Taylor, do that.
1:12:45
Speaker 1: I am not preaching no doctrine. If I start a cult,
1:12:48
Speaker 1: I'm going to charge for that shit, okay? I'm getting
1:12:50
Speaker 1: rich off that. I'm not giving anybody free game. This
1:12:53
Speaker 1: is what I do based off of my experiences and
1:12:56
Speaker 1: what I want. Be very fucking clear. Because for some reason... Motherfuckers,
1:13:01
Speaker 1: it's always men, too. Like, well, you telling everybody. Who
1:13:04
Speaker 1: am I telling? I'm just sharing my story.
1:13:06
Speaker 3: I think a lot of men look at you as
1:13:08
Speaker 3: a role model for their daughter. And that's not your fault, right?
1:13:11
Speaker 3: But I think when some men see you, it's like, damn.
1:13:14
Speaker 1: You got to bring the little girls into it.
1:13:16
Speaker 2: I'm dead serious.
1:13:17
Speaker 3: I think some men view you as like, I would
1:13:20
Speaker 3: want my daughter to speak that way. I would want
1:13:22
Speaker 3: my daughter to represent herself that way. So when they
1:13:25
Speaker 3: may hear you say certain things, it's like, ugh. I
1:13:28
Speaker 3: wouldn't want my daughter to say that.
1:13:30
Speaker 2: That's fair. You know what I mean?
1:13:31
Speaker 1: That's fair. I will say this. You should never sacrifice
1:13:37
Speaker 1: your peace for someone who isn't willing to do the
1:13:40
Speaker 1: same for you. So if you are with a man
1:13:43
Speaker 1: who is making your life difficult, who is not there
1:13:46
Speaker 1: for you, who is not pouring into you, who is
1:13:48
Speaker 1: disrespecting you, you are not winning any prize for suffering
1:13:53
Speaker 1: the most. There are no prizes for that.
1:13:55
Speaker 6: Hmm.
1:13:56
Speaker 1: No matter what the fuck they tell you. No rings,
1:13:59
Speaker 1: no weddings, no houses. Like there's no prize for stressing
1:14:02
Speaker 1: yourself the fuck out. Ask any older woman who's been
1:14:04
Speaker 1: through it. She will fucking tell you the truth because
1:14:06
Speaker 1: you don't have to lie no more. I have been
1:14:09
Speaker 1: through a lot of shit and that is why I
1:14:12
Speaker 1: feel this way. I think a good partner is an
1:14:16
Speaker 1: incredible blessing. I've had good partners. They've done wonders for
1:14:20
Speaker 1: my life. I had a good time with them. I
1:14:22
Speaker 1: love them. I got love back. All those things are
1:14:25
Speaker 1: good things, but I'm not going to compromise peace just
1:14:29
Speaker 1: to have a partner. And that is the trick. If
1:14:32
Speaker 1: it's just checking a box, if I just wanted to
1:14:35
Speaker 1: shut the internet up and get married and have a
1:14:37
Speaker 1: kid and flaunt a man around, I could do that tomorrow. Well,
1:14:41
Speaker 1: the kid would take a couple months more, but... I
1:14:43
Speaker 1: could do that. That it's, it's not about that. It's
1:14:46
Speaker 1: what makes you personally fulfilled. So if you deal with
1:14:50
Speaker 1: crazy baby mama, cause the man is, is good enough
1:14:54
Speaker 1: for you. God bless me personally.
1:14:58
Speaker 2: Not doing it.
1:15:01
Speaker 1: I would say I'd rather go to prison. But I wouldn't.
1:15:06
Speaker 2: You got to salute that.
1:15:08
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