Latest / This Is My Circus / Episode 71 🎪: Megladon Goldfish, Petty Tiktok Story Time, Buffy The Vampire Slayer Reboot, Hollywood Demons, BOOK REVIEW: Just Another Missing Person, Gillian McAllister
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- 0:00Welcome to, this is my circus, the podcast where we embrace the chaos and keep it real about parenting, pop culture, true crime, and the books we can't put down because let's be honest, life is one big circus and we're just trying to survive with caffeine, sarcasm, and a little true crime obsession.
- 0:15So if you love unfiltered conversation, questionable parenting hacks, and deep dives into the things that keep us up at night, you're in the right place.
- 0:23Buckle up, grab your popcorn, and let's get into the chaos.
- 0:27I'm Stephanie.
- 0:27I'm Meredith.
- 0:28And welcome to, this is my Circus.
- 0:30It's really a circus today.
- 0:31Lord have mercy.
- 0:32It's been a circus all week.
- 0:34It's, it has been a circus.
- 0:36Thank you for working with me with the whole, Hey, I can come early.
- 0:40Does that work?
- 0:41And you're like, yeah, come on whenever.
- 0:42And then I'm like, nevermind.
- 0:44Because life and.
- 0:46You're like, okay, no worries.
- 0:48And then message you back.
- 0:50Okay, I'm coming now before there's an explosion.
- 0:53All good.
- 0:54You know how kids, like, you're just, they hit like this level of what, and like they're just ready for the next thing.
- 1:01Like, I remember.
- 1:02The beginning of fifth grade being like, there's no way my baby can do middle school next year.
- 1:06And then by the time fifth grade was over, I was like, he needs away from these little kids.
- 1:10So I'm there with driving right now, like, I need Jackson to drive.
- 1:15I mean, he has his permanent stuff, but he's got so much going on and so many practices and friends and.
- 1:21Things that I just, I've really, I signed him up for driver's ed, so that's coming up.
- 1:26Mm-hmm.
- 1:26But, um, but is it through school or through No, we did a private thing.
- 1:30Yeah.
- 1:30That's what we did too.
- 1:31I didn't even try through school because I heard the wait list was really long and mm-hmm.
- 1:35I just wasn't even gonna deal with that.
- 1:36So he's got that coming up in May was their first availability.
- 1:39So only a month.
- 1:40Yeah.
- 1:42And then he'll be ready because.
- 1:44That was part of my hiccup today was do you have track practice, do you not?
- 1:48And then yeah, all the, all those pieces that go with that.
- 1:51So yeah, it's, it's just, but it's funny how like all of a sudden they're just like, ready for that next thing.
- 1:57Mm-hmm.
- 1:57And it's terrifying.
- 1:59Yeah.
- 2:00Yeah.
- 2:00Well, at least you're in the same town for school?
- 2:02Yeah.
- 2:02Whatever.
- 2:03When Dylan started driving mm-hmm.
- 2:05Was the first week of school going to the new school.
- 2:08Oh my gosh.
- 2:09And that's a 40 minute drive.
- 2:10Yeah.
- 2:10Every day back and forth.
- 2:11That's, that's, and so he got his license, I think like a day or two before school started.
- 2:17Oh my goodness.
- 2:17Yeah.
- 2:18So that totally freaked me out.
- 2:20So I totally know what you're Yeah.
- 2:21Saying.
- 2:22Oh my gosh, I didn't, and you know, it's when, when somebody else is going through it and you haven't experienced it yet, you're like, oh man, that's tough.
- 2:29Yeah.
- 2:30But now knowing what I know now mm-hmm.
- 2:32And.
- 2:33Retrospectively thinking about what you were going through.
- 2:36Yeah, it's crazy.
- 2:37Yeah.
- 2:38And I'm just, he, he makes like two turns and then he's at the school.
- 2:40Like, it's not even, it's, it's pretty much a straight stretch.
- 2:44Um, don't worry about him getting lost going there, or, you know, those kind of things.
- 2:48Mm-hmm.
- 2:49But yeah, retrospectively, yeah.
- 2:51You.
- 2:52Went through it for real.
- 2:54He is an awesome driver.
- 2:55But, um, yeah, it was just like, that's a long drive.
- 2:58Yeah.
- 2:58Every day.
- 2:59And a lot of those roads are very congested.
- 3:02Mm-hmm.
- 3:02And like going into Rock Hill.
- 3:04Mm-hmm.
- 3:04So, mm-hmm.
- 3:05But, you know, he, he did fine.
- 3:06He's good.
- 3:06Well, uh.
- 3:07It's early morning too.
- 3:09Mm-hmm.
- 3:09And, you know, that's rough for all of us to make that happen.
- 3:15Well, and he was also driving a friend, who was always late.
- 3:19Yeah.
- 3:19I'm like, do you not speed?
- 3:20Right.
- 3:21I'd rather you get like a late whatever.
- 3:23Absolutely tardy thing.
- 3:25Well, all good.
- 3:26Does he, carpool with anybody now?
- 3:28Um, I don't think so.
- 3:29Not that I'm aware of.
- 3:30Yeah.
- 3:32Hey, no, he only goes two days a week.
- 3:33That's right.
- 3:33Yeah.
- 3:34His schedule, he does the, on all the online virtual stuff, for his college things.
- 3:38Mm-hmm.
- 3:39Yeah, but that's the other part.
- 3:40I'm like, okay, I have one more month basically to, to hold him hostage in the car, like mm-hmm.
- 3:47To take him to school and to pick him up and.
- 3:48Oh, my heart is breaking stuff.
- 3:51I know.
- 3:51I know.
- 3:51I read something the other day and it was like, you spend 75% of the time you'll have with your child by the time they're 12.
- 3:5912.
- 4:01That makes me so sad.
- 4:02So sad.
- 4:03Oh, that's awful.
- 4:04So, I, in my feelings a little bit mm-hmm.
- 4:08For good ways, living my feelings.
- 4:10Yeah.
- 4:12I'm such a crier.
- 4:14Uh, it's just like things hit you, you know, all at once.
- 4:16It's like they hit different milestones or different things, and it's just like all of a sudden just.
- 4:21Yeah.
- 4:21Well, Dylan and I were talking and I said, I have several friends, that had offered, whenever Dylan's ready to take on like a, a construction job mm-hmm.
- 4:28Because that's what he wants to get into.
- 4:29Mm-hmm.
- 4:30let them know and mm-hmm.
- 4:31They would make that happen.
- 4:33And I had asked him about it for this summer.
- 4:36I said, this is really your last summer to really just goof off and do what you wanna do.
- 4:41'cause he goes in his senior year next year.
- 4:43And so I said it's totally up to you, like where you're working now.
- 4:46They are super flexible.
- 4:47Yeah.
- 4:48You can kind of do what you wanna do.
- 4:49Right.
- 4:50that's not gonna be how it is at these kind of jobs.
- 4:52Mm-hmm.
- 4:53it's gonna be like a grownup job.
- 4:54Mm-hmm.
- 4:54So it's totally up to you how you wanna handle that.
- 4:58Yeah.
- 4:58I understand it's your last summer too.
- 5:00Yeah.
- 5:00Heck yeah.
- 5:01I want one last summer.
- 5:02Me too.
- 5:04It's so much fun in high school.
- 5:05I don't know.
- 5:06Well, and just to have it be your last summer knowing it's your last summer, you know what I mean?
- 5:10It's just like I.
- 5:11That last time you go and eat lunch with him at school, you don't realize it's the last time you're gonna eat lunch with him at school kind of thing.
- 5:17I know.
- 5:17Um, so has he decided what he's gonna do next this summer?
- 5:21Or is he still thinking about it?
- 5:22I think he's just gonna, I, I stay where he is.
- 5:24He's a goal.
- 5:25What would you do?
- 5:26I said, well, I mean, I wasn't very like, goal-oriented.
- 5:29I'll make good decisions.
- 5:31I'm just kidding.
- 5:31I did not at that, that age.
- 5:32I, I really, he makes way better decisions than I do.
- 5:35These are good.
- 5:36But, I said, you know, at that age.
- 5:39I would enjoy my, I said knowing what I know as a girl.
- 5:42Yes.
- 5:43I took my job way too serious as a teenager.
- 5:45Yeah.
- 5:46I did not need to be like, I can't call in, I can't do this.
- 5:49I teenagers, if you're listening, have fun.
- 5:52Yeah.
- 5:53Why you can't.
- 5:53Yeah.
- 5:54And that's what I told him.
- 5:55I said, knowing what I know now and after mm-hmm.
- 5:58You graduate and you, you get a real job and it just, once that starts, you can't really step away from it.
- 6:03Yeah.
- 6:04So I believe he's leaning towards just chilling this summer.
- 6:07Yeah.
- 6:07Which I don't blame him.
- 6:08I No, same a hundred percent.
- 6:10I'm, I, so I told him, I said, I'll support what ever is ever grade you decide to go.
- 6:13Mm-hmm.
- 6:14Yeah.
- 6:14Totally up to you.
- 6:15Yeah.
- 6:16Jackson started a little.
- 6:17Business.
- 6:18Mm-hmm.
- 6:19So last year he had cut a few lawns, I'm Southern, we say he cut the grass, and did the weed eating and the edging and all that kind of stuff.
- 6:27So he's got a couple more yards this year.
- 6:29Yeah.
- 6:29He's trying to get a couple more too.
- 6:31So all of you out there, local people?
- 6:34Mm-hmm.
- 6:36If you have teenage daughters, he'll give you a discount if they're, if they're sunbathing.
- 6:41Yeah.
- 6:44Yeah.
- 6:45so that has been, it's good for him and I'm proud of him for putting that in.
- 6:50But again, he can't drive.
- 6:51Mm-hmm.
- 6:52So we were trying to coordinate everything from last Saturday.
- 6:55He had a track meet.
- 6:56He wanted to hang out with a friend and then he had a yard to cut and Brian was like, you know, are we just gonna sit there while he does it?
- 7:02Or you know, just all the pieces.
- 7:05Um, so yeah, these kids, it's all good.
- 7:10It is.
- 7:10It could be so much worse.
- 7:11Oh yeah, yeah.
- 7:14Absolutely.
- 7:17Hi, it's me.
- 7:19Um, yeah, but.
- 7:21So in my feelings about that school year's wrapping up, we're in the last quarter of this.
- 7:26Oh God.
- 7:27I know.
- 7:28So I think we're both gonna be some basket cases for different reasons.
- 7:32Coming up with just different milestones and Yeah.
- 7:36Things you guys are gonna have to give us a lot of grace.
- 7:38So, have you been into anything fun?
- 7:41Not necessarily fun.
- 7:44did you watch.
- 7:46Yeah, a little bit.
- 7:47Okay.
- 7:47So I love that show.
- 7:49Yeah.
- 7:49I liked the food.
- 7:50I forgot early what?
- 7:51Well, late nineties.
- 7:52Yeah, early fifties.
- 7:53Who did, I think was so hot?
- 7:54Was there a guy named Jeremy on there?
- 7:56Yes.
- 7:56Was he hot?
- 7:57Yes.
- 7:58Okay.
- 7:59There was a lot of hot guys on there.
- 8:00Yeah.
- 8:00I feel like they were hot and was, yeah.
- 8:02Uh, Nick Campbell, Jessica was on there.
- 8:03Jessica Bill, no, no.
- 8:04That was, uh, party of five Nev Campbell.
- 8:07Yes.
- 8:08Jessica.
- 8:08Bill's on the, yeah, I'm with you.
- 8:09Yeah.
- 8:10Okay.
- 8:10So there is a, on HBO Max, or, well, I guess it's just Max now.
- 8:14Mm-hmm.
- 8:14a documentary that just got released Monday, and it's called Hollywood Demons.
- 8:21And it's, it's like the downfall of some of like the big Hollywood people.
- 8:26Mm-hmm.
- 8:26And the dad on seventh heaven.
- 8:29Well see.
- 8:29Uh.
- 8:30Steven Collins child.
- 8:32Yeah.
- 8:32I don't wanna say anything.
- 8:33Yes, yes.
- 8:34Ly Okay.
- 8:35Yeah.
- 8:35so I watched that last night.
- 8:37Okay.
- 8:37if you are into seventh Heaven, or I feel like that was your mm-hmm.
- 8:42Jam.
- 8:42Mm-hmm.
- 8:42Back then it was shocking.
- 8:44So was it just on seventh Heaven?
- 8:47No, it, it was a lot of actually, so they had interviewed a lot of the cast, well some of the cast.
- 8:51Mm-hmm.
- 8:51Um, and nobody knew, like, it wasn't like he was on set doing that stuff.
- 8:56Mm-hmm.
- 8:57And on set, he was actually like put on like even more of the protective persona.
- 9:04You know what I mean?
- 9:04Mm-hmm.
- 9:05So nobody could believe it when it came out.
- 9:08Wow.
- 9:09Um.
- 9:10I like hearing the behind the scenes stuff though.
- 9:12Mm-hmm.
- 9:12Even when it's dark and twisted.
- 9:14Yeah.
- 9:14So definitely it, it'll be a six part series.
- 9:18That was just the first episode that dropped.
- 9:19Okay.
- 9:19Um, so I, I guess every Monday they're gonna put one out.
- 9:23Yeah.
- 9:23I don't really know.
- 9:23Did you watch, there was a documentary about the, Woodstock, not the original Woodstock.
- 9:29Mm-hmm.
- 9:29But the one that was in the nineties, I think.
- 9:32Mm-hmm.
- 9:32That was crazy too, because they were like, the planning was really poor with it.
- 9:37Mm-hmm.
- 9:38There was no water.
- 9:39Like different things like that, that was like, oh my God, I think they didn't like a lot of, several people die.
- 9:44Yeah.
- 9:45Yeah.
- 9:45And, and sick and injured and all the things.
- 9:47So yeah.
- 9:48That was fascinating to watch with just like a Oh my gosh.
- 9:51Yeah.
- 9:51People are terrible.
- 9:53Yeah.
- 9:54Well, if you're in two weird mm-hmm.
- 9:56Documentaries.
- 9:57That was one.
- 9:58So I'm watching something now that's dark'cause that seems to be what I gravitate towards and trigger warning for self-harm.
- 10:06Um, did you watch 13 Reasons Why?
- 10:08Yes.
- 10:09I'm, I'm on like episode seven or something of that.
- 10:12So before it became a show mm-hmm.
- 10:14I read the book.
- 10:15Okay.
- 10:16Um, the book was awesome.
- 10:17Okay.
- 10:18Very follows along.
- 10:19Okay.
- 10:20With the show, but they made the show into however many seasons.
- 10:23Yeah.
- 10:23When Dylan probably ninth grade or whatever mm-hmm.
- 10:26he's like, oh mom, I just started watching the show.
- 10:28And I'm like, no.
- 10:29Yeah, yeah.
- 10:30But, I mean, actually it gave a lot of good opportunities to talk on different things and mm-hmm.
- 10:36so yeah.
- 10:37The second c what's the, are you on?
- 10:39I'm on one.
- 10:40Okay.
- 10:40Yeah.
- 10:40'cause it gets not great other things happening.
- 10:44Okay.
- 10:44Well, I'm still in the what in the world?
- 10:46Why did she do this kind of phase?
- 10:49I'm still meeting all the characters, obviously.
- 10:51Yeah.
- 10:51So, it's been fascinating though.
- 10:54So that's been my little, it's intense.
- 10:56Yeah.
- 10:57Especially if a teenager is watching it.
- 10:59Yeah, I'm sure.
- 11:00'cause there's a lot of different, like I said, talking points or, things that they could possibly run into.
- 11:06Mm-hmm.
- 11:06So, yeah.
- 11:08Oh yeah.
- 11:08I just watched the episode last night where she was stood up for Valentine's Day.
- 11:11Mm-hmm.
- 11:12And I'm just like, dang it.
- 11:14Yeah.
- 11:15So, yeah, that'd be a, a great point.
- 11:17but that balances out my.
- 11:19Gossip girl.
- 11:20Really good.
- 11:22Are you still watching?
- 11:23Yeah.
- 11:24Every once in a while I I need something light like that, but then I need something that's heavier.
- 11:27Yeah.
- 11:28Mm-hmm.
- 11:28Uh, I'm weird.
- 11:29Yeah.
- 11:29Um, well, while we're talking about tv, did you watch Buffy the Vampire Slayer?
- 11:34Yes.
- 11:35Angel.
- 11:35They're gonna do a reboot of Buffy.
- 11:37And they're taping this summer.
- 11:39The, or they're taping, like for mm-hmm.
- 11:41Right?
- 11:42Yeah.
- 11:42They're rolling the film.
- 11:44They're doing the production of the pilot this summer.
- 11:47It's the same characters or it's like a new version.
- 11:50Oh, okay.
- 11:51but they are trying, I believe that they have approached some of the older characters.
- 11:55Oh, they do.
- 11:56So, Sarah Michelle Geller had said mm-hmm.
- 11:58That they did approach her a while ago about the idea of a reboot.
- 12:01Mm-hmm.
- 12:02and so.
- 12:03I would Yeah.
- 12:04Shut it.
- 12:04Shut it down.
- 12:05She said that she was keeping the conversation open.
- 12:07Yeah.
- 12:07Yeah.
- 12:08And then, Cordelia, I forgot whatever her name is.
- 12:11Mm-hmm.
- 12:11Um, but she's also, um, they've also approached her.
- 12:14Okay.
- 12:14About coming back.
- 12:15Did you watch Angel also?
- 12:17I watched a little bit of it.
- 12:19Mm-hmm.
- 12:19I wasn't as, yeah.
- 12:20Invested.
- 12:21So when Jackson was born and I nursed him for several months and it was.
- 12:29Like four in the morning was the time that he would have to get up and eat.
- 12:33And from like four to six I would watch like a Buffy and an angel on like TBS or some, you know, it was reruns obviously.
- 12:40Yeah.
- 12:41Wake at night maybe.
- 12:43But that's like the only thing that was on kind of at that weird time.
- 12:48and yeah, I can remember watching that.
- 12:49Do you know what hurts my soul?
- 12:51What friends is on Nick at night.
- 12:53Oh my gosh.
- 12:54I know Nick at night used to be like, Mr.
- 12:56Ed, I know I love Lucy.
- 13:00I saw, right.
- 13:01I saw something yesterday.
- 13:03Do you remember?
- 13:04I had a baby.
- 13:04It's a boy Uhhuh.
- 13:05That baby is 24 years old now.
- 13:08Right?
- 13:08'cause that was so old.
- 13:09It is so crazy to me.
- 13:11Yeah.
- 13:11It is so crazy to me.
- 13:13Yeah.
- 13:13And then the whole thing, when they say you're closer to 1950 than to 20, whatever.
- 13:18I know.
- 13:19I just wanna kill all those people.
- 13:20Zip its, take that out.
- 13:21Zip.
- 13:22Its, I don't want to get in trouble for murder.
- 13:24Murder, murder.
- 13:26did you hear about the megalodon goldfish?
- 13:30Problem.
- 13:30No, no.
- 13:33It's, it's a giant goldfish.
- 13:35Yeah.
- 13:36Like how a giant, like the size of a chihuahua.
- 13:39Oh, like the little tiny goldfish?
- 13:41Yeah.
- 13:41At the fair.
- 13:43So tell me about it.
- 13:44well, people are throwing their goldfish into the Great Lakes.
- 13:48Okay.
- 13:48Yeah.
- 13:49Like Erie and wherever.
- 13:50And so the largest one that they have found so far was the size of like a chihuahua.
- 13:56Oh my gosh.
- 13:57It was like six or seven pounds or something like that.
- 13:59And so they're getting so big and they're eating all of the food and stuff in the mm-hmm.
- 14:03In the water.
- 14:04And I'm surprised they don't freeze.
- 14:06This kicks cold.
- 14:08I don't know.
- 14:08It gets cold.
- 14:10Are they a tropical fish?
- 14:11Like where did the goldfish come from?
- 14:13I feel like all fish are tropical fish.
- 14:15They've gotta be fish like'cause there's ice fishing.
- 14:18Yep.
- 14:19Those are fish that are in menopause that are hot.
- 14:23I don't know.
- 14:24I think of fish.
- 14:24I don't really think of cold fish.
- 14:26I dunno.
- 14:28Fish are warm.
- 14:29Yeah.
- 14:30Fish are warm and sunny.
- 14:31Yeah.
- 14:32I'm not sure if they're habitat.
- 14:34yeah.
- 14:34That's crazy.
- 14:35I know.
- 14:35So the wildlife and game people are concerned because mm-hmm.
- 14:40It is disrupting, obviously the natural ecosystem.
- 14:42Yeah.
- 14:43Um, and clogging up like the waterways and stuff.
- 14:46And then they're gonna have baby giant goldfish and they breed three times a year or two or three times a year.
- 14:55That is insane.
- 14:56There's gonna be like a takeover of megalodon goldfish.
- 15:00That's what they're calling a megalodon goldfish.
- 15:02I love the name.
- 15:04I was picturing a goldfish like as big as a bust though.
- 15:06So No, no.
- 15:07This is like, like a chore, but still, yeah.
- 15:10That's huge.
- 15:11Yeah.
- 15:11When things like that happen with animals, it messes up every, like, you wouldn't even think I, but I watched this video one time, I'm such a nerd, and it was about the wolves in somewhere out west, and the wolves were getting extinct, and so it was like just a trickle effect on whatever.
- 15:28So they introduced wolves back into the ecosystem mm-hmm.
- 15:31Of whatever place this was what's the place that starts with an n Nebraska or North Dakota maybe.
- 15:37Oh.
- 15:38Starts with the north, somewhere out there.
- 15:40I don't know.
- 15:40But yeah, they introduced'em back then, like the, the rivers and the grass was better again, just because of all the other animals.
- 15:47It's crazy.
- 15:47Mm-hmm.
- 15:48It's crazy how the world works.
- 15:50Yeah.
- 15:50But like, can we get rid of some of these creepy crawlies?
- 15:53Yeah.
- 15:53I mean, the world can do without like some assault.
- 15:55Did I send you the video of the alligator and the crocodile?
- 16:00Oh my gosh.
- 16:01I've been getting all kinds of alligator stuff on my feed.
- 16:04I wonder why.
- 16:05Did you see the video that I sent you of the job to weigh penguins?
- 16:10Yes.
- 16:11You just, I could do that.
- 16:12It's like the scales looks just like the little mouse pad.
- 16:15I love it so much.
- 16:17They waddle up there.
- 16:19Do Pringles have knees?
- 16:20I don't know what, what do their legs look like?
- 16:24I thought it was just feet.
- 16:26I know.
- 16:27I'm so, I want, I need to see a penguin skeleton.
- 16:30Oh, I don't wanna see that.
- 16:31No, but I feel like, or a x-ray.
- 16:34Okay.
- 16:34Penguin.
- 16:34X-ray better.
- 16:36I don't wanna see a skeleton.
- 16:36Sometimes things that just come outta my mouth are.
- 16:41Do you remember when Covid, um, hit and all of the zoos were doing, um, um, virtual?
- 16:45Yeah, but they would let the animals at the aquarium just wander.
- 16:49Wander around.
- 16:50Yes.
- 16:51I remember seeing penguins one night just wandering around, but like, my gosh, that was so great.
- 16:56I was like, this is the best thing ever.
- 16:58So you do know that this.
- 17:01Covid hit like this time last five years ago.
- 17:03Sorry, not last year.
- 17:04Yeah.
- 17:04'cause I got my reminders.
- 17:06it was like, um, I should buy my, my son's new teacher.
- 17:10A present Amazon.
- 17:12Do, do.
- 17:12Yeah.
- 17:13It is crazy that it's been five years.
- 17:15This is just a time when we're just talking about how old, how fast time goes.
- 17:20Not how old we are.
- 17:21'cause we are not five years ago.
- 17:24We were talking, the door fell.
- 17:26Dylan, I were, um, looking at his schoolwork last night.
- 17:29Mm-hmm.
- 17:30And when Covid hit him, and, Jonas got, got cheating on their virtual class.
- 17:36How?
- 17:37Because Jonas didn't.
- 17:39Even like, I guess he just submitted Dylan's paper, like Dylan had emailed him mm-hmm.
- 17:44Or whatever sent him mm-hmm.
- 17:45The, the document for him just to copy the answers.
- 17:48But he just submitted it with Dylan's paper.
- 17:50Oh my gosh.
- 17:52He just submitted the whole paper.
- 17:55I mean, we've all been there.
- 17:57So the teacher sends out an email.
- 17:59Mm-hmm.
- 17:59And.
- 18:00Doesn't say anybody's names, but I asked Dylan and he's like, yeah, that was me and Jonas.
- 18:04And I was like, oh my God, Dylan.
- 18:07How?
- 18:07How?
- 18:08Mm-hmm.
- 18:09I dunno.
- 18:09And he's like, he left my name on the paper.
- 18:11And I was like, oh my God.
- 18:12Right.
- 18:12Rookie.
- 18:14Seriously.
- 18:15So rookie mistake.
- 18:16Yeah.
- 18:17But that was our like laugh for the Oh yeah, for the covid times.
- 18:20It was so crazy though.
- 18:22Like I remember Jackson had a virtual soccer practice.
- 18:25I was like, you don't have to go, buddy.
- 18:28It was so crazy.
- 18:29No, I did enjoy like the freedom to go hiking and stuff for pe.
- 18:34Mm-hmm.
- 18:35Yeah.
- 18:35Yeah.
- 18:36Like the two, well, you still do that anyway.
- 18:38Two, two a day dog walks.
- 18:40Yeah.
- 18:41I definitely still do that.
- 18:42Yeah.
- 18:43Yeah.
- 18:43well, you know, I love a petty story.
- 18:45Bring it on.
- 18:47So a lady on TikTok, her name is Tasha Nicole.
- 18:51Okay.
- 18:52Her husband had called her and asked her if she wanted to go to a Pacers game.
- 18:56Mm-hmm.
- 18:57And she was like, yeah, sure.
- 18:58And he goes, oh, I thought you were gonna say no.
- 19:01I already asked his best friend.
- 19:03Mm-hmm.
- 19:04If he wanted to go.
- 19:05And she was like, well, that's A jerk move.
- 19:08Why ask me?
- 19:09And so she went to TikTok, had him block and was like, y'all, I need help.
- 19:13I need front row tickets to the Pacers game for this date because my husband did this to me, Uhhuh.
- 19:18And I want to have better seats than him.
- 19:20Oh my gosh.
- 19:20And so please tell me that it, it blew up.
- 19:23Social media came through, it blew up.
- 19:25Okay.
- 19:25And the Pacers actually commented, message us.
- 19:28They hooked her up with the front row tickets and a.
- 19:31Suite, like a hotel suite.
- 19:34Oh my gosh.
- 19:35Freaking awesome.
- 19:36Right?
- 19:36So she is gonna take her husband's best friend's wife, so they're gonna be in the front row and the dudes will be in like the nosebleeds, right?
- 19:45That is amazing.
- 19:47Right?
- 19:48Comes Flava Flav, he enters the chat and he's like, yo, can I sit next to you?
- 19:54Yes, you can.
- 19:57Like how flipping.
- 19:58That's amazing.
- 19:59Would it be?
- 20:01That is amazing.
- 20:02And then they be the jumbo trying like, oh yeah, waving.
- 20:05Oh my gosh.
- 20:06That is kiss, right.
- 20:08Or flip them off.
- 20:10I'm assuming you have to keep it.
- 20:12Yeah.
- 20:13They probably won't put it on there if you don't.
- 20:14That is amazing.
- 20:16Right.
- 20:16I love that story.
- 20:17I do too.
- 20:18And so he was blocked from everything.
- 20:20The best friend was blocked from everything.
- 20:22Yeah.
- 20:22And hopefully they don't see it, but.
- 20:24That, that is great.
- 20:25Yeah.
- 20:26That is really, really great.
- 20:27I loved it.
- 20:28I loved that story.
- 20:29I have a story you're probably gonna love too.
- 20:31Okay.
- 20:31so, you know, we interviewed Posey, my sister.
- 20:33Mm-hmm.
- 20:34She had her ceremony last night to get her new award.
- 20:37Oh good.
- 20:37Um, so she got, it's a blue stone.
- 20:40What we were talking to her about what color the stone was gonna be.
- 20:42So it's blue.
- 20:43And she sent me pictures and.
- 20:46That's not, oh, yeah.
- 20:47There.
- 20:47So she's got those two on there now?
- 20:50Yep.
- 20:51We'll have to put it on her.
- 20:51I asked her if we could share it on our Facebook.
- 20:53She said, yeah.
- 20:54Or our socials.
- 20:55but she sent me this picture of her name tag.
- 20:57And it says, get in Loser.
- 21:01I thought that was hilarious.
- 21:02Congratulations, Posey.
- 21:04Proud of her.
- 21:05Yes.
- 21:05Very proud of her.
- 21:06Awesome.
- 21:07Yep.
- 21:07well we have our, last two updates from our, am I the A-hole?
- 21:12Yes.
- 21:12So would you like to get into that?
- 21:14Absolutely.
- 21:15Because I have been dying to know I have not, yeah.
- 21:17You haven't cheated.
- 21:18Mm-hmm.
- 21:19Good.
- 21:20And just as, as the prize as you are.
- 21:22Thank you for putting the font on 72.
- 21:24You are welcome.
- 21:27Okay, so this is update six.
- 21:29This is from January 23rd.
- 21:30And just the quick recap is that the, man and his Asian partner,, we're not gonna.
- 21:37Get any inheritance calls.
- 21:39,The sisters were saying they deserved it because they were the just the one sister.
- 21:43Just the one, the other one changed her mind.
- 21:45She flipped.
- 21:45But anyway, just to jog everybody's memory what we're talking about.
- 21:48Yes.
- 21:48Okay.
- 21:50All right.
- 21:50So here we go.
- 21:51Rachel took my bill for$26,000 straight to her kids and said, see, he was just using you for your money.
- 21:59Um, no.
- 22:01To use someone for your money, you actually have to be getting money.
- 22:05She talks to her children like they're still children though.
- 22:08They're in their late forties now.
- 22:09So clearly see my demand for what it was accusing their mother.
- 22:14Their mother, mother accusing their mother.
- 22:16Hello mother.
- 22:17Yeah, a little mother accusing their mother of literally doing the exact same thing.
- 22:24It did make teen feel bad though, and he rang me up and said, I'm so sorry I was having such a great time with my uncles.
- 22:31I never stopped and thought of the hardship.
- 22:33You were suffering.
- 22:34You were 16 kid, right?
- 22:35Gimme your bank account details and I'll pay you and Harry the money my B mother should have 30 years ago.
- 22:42No, no, absolutely not.
- 22:44That money was child support for you with it.
- 22:48We could have given you a better life, a nicer house with a bigger bedroom bought you a better computer, better school equipment, better shoes, bigger allowance.
- 22:57If anything, she should be paying you back for what she deprived you of as a child.
- 23:01The fact that you consider me an uncle and had a great time is all I ever needed.
- 23:05Well, this gives me hope that this, well, he's an adult now, but quote teen.
- 23:11Is decent.
- 23:11Oh, yeah.
- 23:12But like, I know.
- 23:14Mm-hmm.
- 23:15So wait, so mom didn't even supply like clothing?
- 23:18Apparently nothing.
- 23:20She just, she just literally dropped'em off.
- 23:22Oh my God.
- 23:23Maybe with like a book bag with something in it.
- 23:25I don't, maybe like a stick with the red bandana tied on the end.
- 23:28They were whistling walking down the road.
- 23:31Rachel sent Harry a copy of the bill too before I could give him a copy to send her first.
- 23:36Harry then felt guilty for and apologized profusely for imposing his family on me.
- 23:41Harry goes out of his way to find things to feel guilty.
- 23:44About two years ago, my PC died at a brunch.
- 23:47Two days later, he turned up with his spare laptop saying his work PC was all he needed at home.
- 23:53Six months later, he said he desperately needed it back because his PC had died.
- 23:57No problem.
- 23:57It was his, and he just lent it to me.
- 23:59He went home so riddled with guilt that three days later he turned up with a new PC as a present.
- 24:05After he left, I looked up how much it was worth.
- 24:07Twice as much as the laptop I just returned to him.
- 24:10Oh Harry, you don't have to buy people, buddy.
- 24:14So I had to assure him that his family has never been a problem.
- 24:18His parents were lovely.
- 24:19Mary is lovely.
- 24:21The nieces and nephews are great, and for 40 years I thought Rachel was a great person too.
- 24:25You can read what I said about her, her post.
- 24:28It was only now that she's demanding his money that I'm seeing the truth.
- 24:31She's been a lifelong manipulator and freeloader.
- 24:34He couldn't see it though, and it became obvious after a couple of sentences that he was going to defend her against everything I was going to accuse her of.
- 24:42Yeah.
- 24:42But yeah.
- 24:43But yeah, but I.
- 24:45After that, I fairly quickly dropped it because I didn't want to stress him out.
- 24:49How do I approach the subject again though?
- 24:51That his best friend for the first 25 years of his life is toxic and still manipulating his family for money.
- 24:58That her turning up, demanding his money shouldn't have been a surprise, a once off de move that she automatically expected him to hand it over because that's how she's lived her whole life.
- 25:08Wow.
- 25:08She's awful.
- 25:10It's like she's just making all kinds of issues.
- 25:13Like she's Dr.
- 25:13Up so much from the past'cause of the way she is.
- 25:16It's just, ugh.
- 25:18Hmm.
- 25:19Well, she's just trying to, now it's like a a character assassination against him.
- 25:24Okay, so this was the next day he wrote this.
- 25:26Okay, next, last update I had brunch with Harry, telling him in advance, we really need to talk about your sister while still furious at her for demanding his inheritance.
- 25:34I.
- 25:35He just hasn't been able to come to terms with the fact she's a toxic human being.
- 25:38He should be ol forever.
- 25:40I decided to approach it from a let's compare angle.
- 25:43My sister is a monster.
- 25:45Probably one of the reasons Rachel has triggered me so badly.
- 25:47The difference is that mine is very open and aggressive with her intent to destroy her own life and drag everyone else down with her.
- 25:54So.
- 25:56You hate my sister, right?
- 25:57Your sister is an absolute beep.
- 26:01Right here is a list of everything you hate about my sister, everything she's done to me, my mother and her daughter, and I handed him a long dot point list of all the things my sister has done and alongside each act, which of them constituted criminal behavior?
- 26:14At the end, I put.
- 26:16Consequences of her actions en listed the number of times she's been to court, the fine she's paid, and the amount of time she spent in detention with my mother and I caring for her daughter.
- 26:26By the end of the list, he was bright, red and raging, just with being reminded of it all.
- 26:31Then I said, and here's a two page list of everything that your sister has done to you and your family.
- 26:36It started with her at age 17, stealing her mother's car, getting D drunk, sideswiping a parts car before passing out behind the wheel and driving into a ditch.
- 26:46Then waking up and running away to hide out at a friend's house while she was pregnant.
- 26:50I.
- 26:51Oh, no bueno.
- 26:53When the police found the car the next morning, they discovered drugs in the glove compartment.
- 26:57You told me this is a story about funny things Rachel got up to when she was young, but this isn't funny.
- 27:03Your parents must have gone through hell because of this.
- 27:06Getting her into hospital, getting a lawyer, trying to keep her out of jail, paying the fines, paying for the damage, not funny.
- 27:14Then below that list was a very extensive, I paid a lot of time with points under child neglect, listing all the abandonment, abuse by neglect, abuse by neglect, social security fraud, theft of money from the father's exploitation at the guardians.
- 27:29I listed the time when she decided it would be great for the kids to spend a year and an alternative lifestyle commune, living in a shack way up in the mountains with no electricity or running water again.
- 27:40What was she spending all the money on?
- 27:41Alongside each, I listed the crimes she could have been charged with for every action.
- 27:46The final heading was consequences of her actions nil, because you, your family, and all her friends enabled her.
- 27:55She manipulated, manipulated.
- 27:58She manipulated a mother, she manipulated you into writing it off to her.
- 28:03Just being a bit kooky.
- 28:04You are all compliant, consistently compensating for her, cleaning up the damage she left in her wake.
- 28:10And in terms of her criminal actions, to an extent, you could even be considered co-conspirators.
- 28:15So reading the list, whose sister is worse?
- 28:17Mine are yours.
- 28:18He was pale and utterly speechless.
- 28:22And now Mary has just handed over her inheritance with this unbelievable audacity.
- 28:26She showed up at your door twice now trying to bully you out of yours.
- 28:31I finished with a, I think the reason you finally in furiously flipped on Rachel is not because the inheritance.
- 28:37It's because deep down you've been absolutely raging about having to put it up with this ship for the past 50 years.
- 28:43When he finally got his voice back, he started again with, I'm so sorry, I inflicted her on you.
- 28:48No, not at all.
- 28:49She's just an absolute genius at manipulation and for the past 40 years, I completely bought into it too.
- 28:55Let's burn her world to the ground together.
- 28:58Are you in?
- 28:58I asked.
- 28:59Yeah, he is.
- 29:01She's I feel so bad for them.
- 29:04I do too.
- 29:05You can see having somebody in your family like that would cause Harry's reaction.
- 29:09Oh yeah.
- 29:09Always feeling guilty of Always.
- 29:11Yeah, because that's, that's been his life.
- 29:12Yeah.
- 29:13He's been manipulated.
- 29:14Manipulated, and he's compensating for not only trying to compensate for what she's done, but she's always manipulated him into thinking he is always wrong and always, you know, you owe me this and yeah.
- 29:25Mm-hmm.
- 29:26Harry, Harry, Harry.
- 29:28I can't believe that's the last update though.
- 29:29Mm-hmm.
- 29:30They're probably in jail for doing something to Rachel.
- 29:33I just figured they're probably like, it's like legal now.
- 29:35Yeah.
- 29:36Mm-hmm.
- 29:36No, you're not the A-hole.
- 29:37I love your pettiness.
- 29:39Yeah.
- 29:39Keep it going.
- 29:39Same.
- 29:40Keep it going.
- 29:41What a freaking.
- 29:43Rod that was, right, so if you are not a bookie, you are free to leave.
- 29:48We will not be having an episode next week.
- 29:50and then the following week after that, we, we're.
- 29:54Told of a local person.
- 29:56Mm-hmm.
- 29:57by one of our listeners that, went missing quite some time ago.
- 30:00It was like early two thousands.
- 30:01Mm-hmm.
- 30:02so we are gonna look into that, do kind of like a deep dive, on that instead of doing our book review.
- 30:06I'm excited to look into this.
- 30:08I'm very, anxious to find it.
- 30:11Yeah.
- 30:11So, Not next week.
- 30:12'cause we won't have an episode next week, but the following week.
- 30:14Yep.
- 30:15so looking forward to that.
- 30:16Yep.
- 30:16if you are not going to listen to our book review, or if you have not read the book and you don't want any spoilers dismissed, now it's your time to leave.
- 30:22We love you.
- 30:23Goodbye.
- 30:24All right, so we read this week, just another missing person by Jillian McAllister.
- 30:28Mm-hmm.
- 30:29And the blurb above the blurb.
- 30:31When 22-year-old Olivia vanishes after entering a dead end alley, detective Julia is assigned to the case expecting the usual emotional toll and long hours, but the investigation takes a chilling turn.
- 30:42When Julia realizes a suspect holds a devastating secret tied to her own past, one that threatens her family's safety, if uncovered this gripping thriller explores the blurry lines between right and wrong, forcing Julia to choose between justice and protecting everything she loves.
- 30:56This book was hard for me to get through.
- 30:57Very hard for me to get through.
- 30:59and once I would get to the next section, I would almost forget what was in this section before.
- 31:04I didn't feel like this flowed very well at all.
- 31:06No, Uhuh.
- 31:07And we had like three different points of views, Uhhuh.
- 31:09yeah.
- 31:09It was a hard book for me to, and we liked Jill and McAllister.
- 31:12Mm-hmm.
- 31:13Like we enjoy what we've read of her and, but this one just felt really.
- 31:18Scattered all over the place.
- 31:21Not a lot of cohesiveness.
- 31:22Mm-hmm.
- 31:23Okay.
- 31:23I'm glad it was.
- 31:24I didn't wanna tell you because I felt like every book lately I've been like, I can't do it.
- 31:27I can't.
- 31:28And we've talked about it.
- 31:28Yeah.
- 31:29And that's why I said too, I'm just like having a hard time getting through books lately.
- 31:32Yeah.
- 31:32But this one I just.
- 31:34It was, it was rough.
- 31:35Yeah.
- 31:35until like the last third of the book.
- 31:37Right.
- 31:38And the last third of the book, it had me.
- 31:40Right, right.
- 31:40It took that long though, to, and maybe it was just so much backstory, but I, I don't know.
- 31:46It was too many backstories.
- 31:48Yeah.
- 31:48It was too many things that weren't relevant.
- 31:50Yeah.
- 31:50Yeah.
- 31:51Yeah.
- 31:52So.
- 31:52Mm-hmm.
- 31:53I didn't, I mean, I liked the last third of the book.
- 31:56Yeah.
- 31:58So if you would give it a 3.3, were you surprised with some of the, I mean, we don't really probably have a lot to talk, do we have a lot to talk about with this one?
- 32:07Okay.
- 32:08Were you surprised with some of the, the, the plot twist though?
- 32:10I was, I did not expect, her partner mm-hmm.
- 32:13To be the super bad guy.
- 32:15Yeah.
- 32:16Super bad guy.
- 32:18His name was Jonathan, I think.
- 32:19Mm-hmm.
- 32:20Yeah, I didn't expect that.
- 32:21And then I did love that the, her narc, price Yeah.
- 32:25Came through at the end mm-hmm.
- 32:26And saved her.
- 32:27I thought that was pretty cool.
- 32:28the part that was interesting to me was like the moral aspect of it.
- 32:33Actually, I wrote that.
- 32:33Did you?
- 32:34What you do?
- 32:35Yeah.
- 32:35Yeah.
- 32:36It's, that's so, you know, protecting your child, basically.
- 32:40Mm-hmm.
- 32:40Or doing what's.
- 32:41Right.
- 32:42Our job.
- 32:42Yeah, doing your job.
- 32:43So my thought was though, right, so Genevieve,, was doing the act in self-defense.
- 32:49Mm-hmm.
- 32:49There was cameras mm-hmm.
- 32:51That showed that.
- 32:52Mm-hmm.
- 32:53As a police officer, I didn't understand why she took, I guess maybe the chance that.
- 32:58She'd be get in trouble.
- 32:59Yeah.
- 32:59The daughter would get in trouble, but to me I was like, it was self-defense.
- 33:03Mm-hmm.
- 33:03If he was trying to mug her and she was protecting herself.
- 33:06Right.
- 33:07Agreed.
- 33:08So that part just threw me off.
- 33:10It wasn't like I.
- 33:11It was a hit and run or she was drunk driving or whatever.
- 33:14Right.
- 33:14It was, she was protecting herself.
- 33:15Right.
- 33:16I agree.
- 33:16I I was a little, that didn't really jive.
- 33:20Yeah.
- 33:21That was kind of a loose end with that part.
- 33:23Yeah.
- 33:23It didn't make sense to me.
- 33:24Mm-hmm.
- 33:25And maybe, and this was like in England or wherever.
- 33:27Yeah.
- 33:27But, so maybe they have different laws, but.
- 33:30To me, I was just like, it was self defense.
- 33:32Same.
- 33:33Yeah.
- 33:33Yeah.
- 33:34But I mean, it's like, sometimes I have to remind myself as a book, like they're just trying to get to the story, but I thought the, the premise of the story was really neat.
- 33:42Mm-hmm.
- 33:43It's so, like, so many of the others that we've read, it's like reading the jacket is really cool, but then you get into it, it's like, oh, come on.
- 33:49Yeah.
- 33:50did you read anything else you liked lately?
- 33:52Um, what did I just finish?
- 33:54I just got the new, there's a fifth book from the Hunger Games series and it's actually a prequel.
- 34:01Mm-hmm.
- 34:01it's about hamit.
- 34:02So I just got that book and I'm gonna reread it.
- 34:06The book.
- 34:06Book I'm gonna read, read The Bookbook.
- 34:08I'm not gonna listen and I'm not reading it on my Kindle.
- 34:11I'm gonna read, read the book, a hardcover Bookbook.
- 34:14We did nothing wrong.
- 34:16Oh, who was that by?
- 34:17Hannah Jane.
- 34:18Was it good?
- 34:19It was okay.
- 34:20Yeah.
- 34:20It kept my attention.
- 34:21Good.
- 34:21Okay.
- 34:22Well, you know, hopefully taking a little break right here will help too.
- 34:25Yeah.
- 34:26Alice Feeney?
- 34:28Yeah.
- 34:28she came out with a new book called Beautiful, ugly.
- 34:31And I love her book.
- 34:31I love her book Do too.
- 34:32She was the Rock Paper Scissors Girl, wasn't she this one?
- 34:35Like, it was the same thing.
- 34:36It just took forever to get through.
- 34:37But the last part of the book was like, oh, there it is.
- 34:40Okay.
- 34:41so I don't necessarily recommend that one.
- 34:44Oh, well I, after I just looked it up.
- 34:45who did you say we did nothing wrong.
- 34:48We did nothing wrong.
- 34:49Okay.
- 34:50I'll look that up.
- 34:51Yeah, those, that book was the last book that I was like, okay.
- 34:55And again, I'm in a reading slump, I think I just can't get into anything.
- 34:58And I think that's just like my outside life.
- 35:00Yeah.
- 35:00I think I've got so much going on with other things, yeah.
- 35:03So hopefully we'll find something that'll tickle our fines.
- 35:08But documentary in two weeks.
- 35:10Nothing next week.
- 35:11Enjoy a week off everybody.
- 35:13You won't have to.
- 35:14Hear anything new from us?
- 35:15I don't know.
- 35:16What are we doing?
- 35:16I don't know.
- 35:17Okay.
- 35:18I'm gonna record a solo pod and I'm, one of my personalities is gonna be me.
- 35:23I'm gonna channel on my inner step for the second one.
- 35:25What do you think?
- 35:27We can do it.
- 35:27Zoom?
- 35:29Yep.
- 35:29We'll play it by ear.
- 35:30Yeah.
- 35:30We'll see how it's going.
- 35:31Okay.
- 35:32Or maybe we'll just do clips.
- 35:33Maybe that's fun too.
- 35:35Okay.
- 35:35Thank you guys for listening.
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