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Let It All In · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Beyond Limits, the podcast designed to unlock your highest potential with powerful strategies, energetic frequencies, and mindset shifts to create a limitless life.
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• 0:48
  SPEAKER_01: I am calling this podcast episode Let It All In.
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  SPEAKER_01: See, most women believe they are open to receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: But neurologically, they're actually only open to what they can forecast, to what they can control, and what they can manage.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Your energetic field has this preset ceiling, this unconscious safe zone that is deeply patterned, not through logic, but through association and survival memory.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your body, your nervous system doesn't receive based on what you want.
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  SPEAKER_01: It receives based on what it has previously survived.
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  SPEAKER_01: Which means if overflow has ever felt like pressure, like chaos, has come at a cost, or even any subtle dysregulation, your system encoded it as unsafe to repeat.
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  SPEAKER_01: So now your growth throttles itself to avoid repeating the threat.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_01: Five new clients, fine.
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  SPEAKER_01: Ten, snap your mind.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: You're doing well, but you're also overthinking.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's this compensation.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your nervous system starts adjusting the dial of money, of momentum to stay within what it can currently metabolize without activating any protection mechanisms.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it creates this kind of like neural recoil pattern where you receive, you feel the signal, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Money, opportunities, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your system then initiates a protective regulation and it interrupts the flow to restore familiarity.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this interruption can look like overgiving, discounting.
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  SPEAKER_01: I feel like I could do a whole podcast episode on people who massively discount around Black Friday and what's going on in their nervous systems.
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  SPEAKER_01: You know, you see like 50% off everything, 80% off everything.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Delaying decisions, pausing a launch, getting distracted by a quote-unquote new idea.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right, I mentioned the overthinking.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's very important to be aware that your body is not afraid of success, it's afraid of what your body associates with it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that is why rewiring your system for what your body associates with is success, with money, with opportunity is very important.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: If it associates it with pressure, with loss, with burnout, with judgment, with responsibility, with collapse, with disappointment.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is a huge one.
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  SPEAKER_01: I feel like I could do a whole podcast on bracing for disappointment.
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  SPEAKER_01: I probably have in the past.
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  SPEAKER_01: But it's a huge one.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: If you've been disappointed, I'm just gonna go on a little riff about this for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because it's coming here for a reason.
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  SPEAKER_01: So someone listening must need to hear this.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I briefly spoke about it in the previous episode, which if you've not listened to the previous episode on open the floodgates to money now, I think it's called, or open the floodgates to money, listen to it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because when you're bracing for disappointment, when things have not gone how you wanted them to go this year, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm recording this end of November, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: End of the year, we're like, oh, things didn't go this way.
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  SPEAKER_01: Even if it's now 2026, I don't know, it could be 2030 when you're listening to this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Who knows where this was going to end up?
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  SPEAKER_01: And you're always comparing, oh, last year, this is what happened, or the last two years, this is what happened, or last five years, who who knows?
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  SPEAKER_01: But any kind of disappointment, your system will protect.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like, oh, after that big there, there was a dip, there was a loss, there was disappointment, there was hardship.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is going to prevent you from having wins.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's going to prevent you from letting money flow in because it doesn't want to be disappointed again.
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  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't want to go all in and then the money not come.
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  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't, it will protect, especially as women, it will protect it against all costs.
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  SPEAKER_01: Men to some degree as well, slightly different, not as bad.
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  SPEAKER_01: Present, but for women, disappointment is huge.
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  SPEAKER_01: Responsibility is more for men, but also, you know, for some women, responsibility comes up as well.
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  SPEAKER_01: So you unconsciously pattern for just enough.
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  SPEAKER_01: Or just enough to like stay where you are, enough to stay in motion, but not so much that your body feels like it might break.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: In neuroscience, this is what's called the limit of your allostatic load.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is the threshold of cumulative stress your body can currently process while staying in a regulated state.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is important because so many people regulate away from things, not regulate through.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when you end up regulating away from things, you don't actually increase your capacity.
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  SPEAKER_01: You don't increase what is called your window of tolerance.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your window of tolerance is how much you can hold and have it feel light, have it feel light as a feather.
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  SPEAKER_01: If your threshold, right, of cumulative stress that your body can process is very small while staying regulated, you will not be able to receive more.
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  SPEAKER_01: And if you are constantly regulating away instead of regulating through, then it doesn't expand.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then what happens is people regulate away from triggers, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, I'm feeling this type of way.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let me journal it out.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm feeling this type of way, I'm going to do a ritual to try to fix it.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm feeling this type of way, I'm going to do some sort of visualization.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're regulating away instead of regulating through.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna, I know I've said this before.
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  SPEAKER_01: I need to do a whole podcast episode on this whole concept.
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  SPEAKER_01: But this is important because a lot of people don't end up expanding their nervous system to hold more money, more opportunity, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: To let it all in because they instead of going through it to expand their system, they just regulate away.
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  unknown: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so when you even say, like, I'm ready for more, your body is whispering, not all at once.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's why overflow shows up as bursts and not waves.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because the second you feel the surge coming, you flinch, you close, you redirect the signal, you regulate away instead of through.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is so important.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_01: If you are not inside the prelude, it has turned into one of the most, I think, interesting offers I have ever had.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is the behind the scenes frequency of my multi-million dollar leap this year, you know, going 2025 into 2026, leaping multi-millions, becoming an eight-figure company.
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  SPEAKER_01: Call eight-figure plus.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're close.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so much goodness is happening at once.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I don't know if I was saying this on Instagram or a previous episode, but no, I think I was actually saying this in the prelude.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I was doing a training.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's why I mentioned the prelude because what's been coming behind the scenes, you're getting a hole behind the scenes as to everything I've been navigating, how exactly I've been navigating it, and the wild things that have been going on.
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  SPEAKER_01: The things I don't bring to Instagram, I've brought into this program.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I'm so happy that you guys are loving it.
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  SPEAKER_01: But one of the things I was talking about are all the things that are going on for me right now.
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  SPEAKER_01: And there's a lot of good things.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's more money than ever, uh, clients making more money than ever.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've talked about in the previous episode, you know, people making more in two weeks than they have in the previous five months, incredible women coming into my world, you know, more impact, more visibility, um, several speaking engagements getting locked in for 2026.
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  SPEAKER_01: Other, I'll just I'll leave it into prelude.
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  SPEAKER_01: You'll you'll go find out inside there.
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  SPEAKER_01: But this is important for you, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because A, I've done it first.
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  SPEAKER_01: I have gone first so I can show you how to do it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so you can regulate to the not only the flow, right, or the flood in of money, but your body's relationship to it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And instead of collapsing into old loops, right, your nervous system widens to include more signal without shutting down.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that is what true nervous system capacity is.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's not necessarily how calm you can stay, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Calm is good, not being reactive is good.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's foundational.
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  SPEAKER_01: But capacity is above that.
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  SPEAKER_01: Capacity is how much bigness you can hold without needing to shrink.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's why I see a lot of women plateau, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Plateau in their growth, plateau in their income.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not because they aren't amazing, amazing, amazing at what they do, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Absolutely incredible.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like someone like the best of the best legends.
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  SPEAKER_01: But it's because their field is calibrated to a cap, right, to a capacity not to conduct.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Your body is wired like a voltage chamber.
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  SPEAKER_01: Bringing all the physics back into this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Wouldn't be me if I wasn't bringing in physics.
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: If the signal exceeds the capacity of the circuit, it trips the breaker.
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  SPEAKER_01: You downshift, you delay.
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  SPEAKER_01: You normalize the contraction because that feels safer than learning how to stay present inside the surge.
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  SPEAKER_01: Probably heard me say this before.
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  SPEAKER_01: You become the Buddha under the Bondai tree.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's what most high-level powerful women are doing without realizing regulating away from the thing they're trying to hold because no one taught them how to regulate through it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And 99%, I don't I don't even see all the nervous system stuff that's out there, but most of what I see, that's not what I do, to be honest, regulates you away.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because it's like use this tool, use this ritual, use this practice to regulate away the feeling, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: To dissolve the feeling away, to minimize the sensation.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, you're feeling dysregulated, let's minimize the sensation, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: To reduce the sensation, not realizing that that sensation is the portal through which you expand.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, I will do a whole little TED talk, if you will, on that.
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  SPEAKER_01: So, what does it feel like, right, to let it all in?
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  SPEAKER_01: How can you open the floodgate?
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_01: Well, you don't just open the floodgate, you become it.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's what changes.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not chasing momentum, you're amplifying it.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not gripping, you're letting it ride.
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  SPEAKER_01: Quantum physics confirms this.
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  SPEAKER_01: The stronger you stay in this, the faster you can let it all in.
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  SPEAKER_01: But when you contract, right, your body like physically contracts or physically braces, the flow cannot flood in.
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  SPEAKER_01: I want you to be very aware where you are interrupting the signal.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I guarantee you're probably having lots of little light bulb moments of like, oh shoot, I have not been letting it in.
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  SPEAKER_01: I say I'm letting it in, but really, yeah, I can feel where my body's closed off or my system is closed off.
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  SPEAKER_01: You don't need another launch formula.
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  SPEAKER_01: You don't need to journal harder, you don't need to prove.
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  SPEAKER_01: You just need a body that can conduct the flood, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: A system that doesn't contract the second things come in.
• 12:29
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: A frequency that doesn't wobble depending on what money is doing or not doing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because when your system finally registers, ha, it's safe to let it all in.
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  SPEAKER_01: Everything accelerates.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not because of force, but because the gate finally stopped flinching.
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  SPEAKER_01: In the overflow, it was all worries waiting to rush in.
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  SPEAKER_01: Always.
• 12:58
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: The floodgate was always there.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is your moment to open the floodgate.
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  SPEAKER_01: You know you're meant for more money.
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  SPEAKER_01: You know there's things you want to do with that money, things you want to do for your family, things you want to do with the world, for children, for animals.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like you are done with the push.
• 13:22
  SPEAKER_01: That's when women come to me.
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  SPEAKER_01: But if I think about the women who are, and I have some amazing women coming into my world right now for 2026 and for mentorship.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I basically every time I hop on a call and I'm meeting someone for the first time, they are like, I am done with the push and I'm ready for the flood.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's when women come to me.
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  SPEAKER_01: When you are done with the push and you are ready for the flood.
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  SPEAKER_01: So let this episode land.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is how you let it all in.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you have not joined Floodgate yet, honestly, this is your time.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because this is not a money workshop, this is a capacity amplifier.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you'll hear me say that time and time again.
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  SPEAKER_01: You don't need a money workshop.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I see women do lots of like money work or workshops on money.
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  SPEAKER_01: But if the system doesn't feel safe, it will not allow it in.
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  SPEAKER_01: End of story.
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  SPEAKER_01: Your nervous system wins every single time.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's primal response.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I don't mean, oh, it's safe to let it in because you felt relaxed when you did a visualization for 10 minutes in the morning.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean when push comes to shove and you're actually in the moment, can you stay open?
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  SPEAKER_01: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Can you not go into bracing?
• 14:41
  SPEAKER_01: Can you hold big numbers without feeling like you need to give some people an organ?
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_01: Can you not feel resistance?
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  SPEAKER_01: Can you not go into what's missing?
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  SPEAKER_01: Can you be in that relaxed, regulated receptivity?
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  SPEAKER_01: Can you not be in transaction with the universe?
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  SPEAKER_01: Right, with reality?
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_01: Actually, I'm gonna touch on that for a second before we go out, because this came up with a client yesterday.
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  SPEAKER_01: Where are you in transaction with the universe?
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  SPEAKER_01: You say you want this money to flood in, but you think you need to do something in order to receive it.
• 15:16
  unknown: Right?
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_01: So when money does flood in, you're like, oh, I gotta work more, oh, I gotta keep it going, oh, I gotta do something.
• 15:22
  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Notice how you can't just receive and hold.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_01: Notice how when you receive more money, it shifts how you show up.
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe you go into people pleasing or overgiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: So join us inside Floodgate.
• 15:38
  SPEAKER_01: Right now it is$27.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_01: Even if it increases slightly over time, it probably won't buy it that much anyways.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_01: It'll it'll probably always stay forever like forever under$200.
• 15:48
  SPEAKER_01: So do yourself a favor.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because I know you're done with chasing, and I know you're done with the push.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you are ready to let it all get in.