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DLHS Hour 2 | Leave Your Son with His Dad · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It's the deal you can sold. The twenty twenty six addition,
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  Speaker 1: a woman, you know, obviously a baby's I'm sorry, it.
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  Speaker 2: Was cool.
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  Speaker 1: And she wants to go on a girl's trip, but
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  Speaker 1: you know what, and she wants him to watch the
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  Speaker 1: evidence of her. What I would do while she was
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  Speaker 1: gonna I would watch them, you would, and then I
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  Speaker 1: would take them all to get tested to make sure
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about No, that would be the pretext. I
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  Speaker 1: would take them all to get tested. I mean, you
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  Speaker 1: do it once, you might do it again. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I would use that as an opportune time.
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  Speaker 1: I would keep myself hearty until freedom is opportunity.
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  Speaker 4: Would you do it?
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  Speaker 3: Juniors? Could you see herself doing it?
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  Speaker 5: Not really, because I mean that means she'd have to
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  Speaker 5: circumvent mama, best friend. I mean, there's a lot of
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  Speaker 5: people that could She could have asked that.
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  Speaker 3: People probably really like the baby.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, so comes to me unless you you know,
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  Speaker 5: you got an ulterior motive for that.
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  Speaker 3: People that really like the baby might want to watch
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  Speaker 3: it exactly.
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  Speaker 1: I mean his fault, that's the real baby daddy right here.
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  Speaker 4: To he going on the trip.
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  Speaker 5: But yeah, yeah, I just know I mean, that would
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  Speaker 5: be your genius.
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  Speaker 3: One thing I would say, you're a good reasonable man.
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  Speaker 5: You want a good man, Well, thank you and good folks.
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  Speaker 5: I value that, and honestly I would, but I mean,
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  Speaker 5: this don't make sense to me.
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  Speaker 4: And there's a.
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  Speaker 1: Hole you gott to bypass a whole litany of people
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  Speaker 1: who really give a damn about this baby.
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  Speaker 6: Get because I would imagine she probably felt something like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: I gotta go.
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  Speaker 4: Ask I really want to go to ye o, Miami.
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  Speaker 4: That's hard.
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  Speaker 5: He didn't getting up and get them number rough? Yeah, yeah, no,
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  Speaker 5: thank you?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, where's the baby? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Check outside, I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Look around back?
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  Speaker 3: Why was you? I would alert Amber, That's what I
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  Speaker 3: would do.
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  Speaker 5: Oh man, I left the back door open to Oh
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  Speaker 5: my goodness, because that's wrong.
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  Speaker 3: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want you to. You want to do that?
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  Speaker 3: You can't miss.
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  Speaker 1: That's why you're right, And I ain't asking him to
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  Speaker 1: be here?
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  Speaker 4: Yea for real, that's why you go half hun Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Hell no, I could see if it was an emergency.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe what would constitute an emergency like hospital visit.
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  Speaker 1: No, they depending on what kind of hospital. But if
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  Speaker 1: you just going for a routine surgery. You could think,
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  Speaker 1: get that baby with you now. If it's just like
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 6: Routine surgery, who's gonna watch the.
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  Speaker 4: Baby while you're under?
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  Speaker 3: That's what they have a waiting room for.
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  Speaker 4: Gona wait alone.
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  Speaker 3: Your mama wakes up for the snap, push this baby in.
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  Speaker 5: Her lap, like I had a relative or your mama,
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  Speaker 5: somebody here you know, was sing and you had to
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  Speaker 5: go visit them.
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  Speaker 4: Really again, yeah right, maybe I step on it.
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  Speaker 1: No, not that when that one constitute that wouldn't maybe
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  Speaker 1: if it were, well, I'm having a trouble coming up
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  Speaker 1: with a scenario, I'm but I'm sure there's one that exists. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so the question we're asking ladies, gentlemen, So what do
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  Speaker 1: you think? Jasmine? She asked him to watch the product
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  Speaker 1: of her infidelity, what she goes, and he like, I watched.
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  Speaker 1: I watched my babies, the ones I've gotten checked. But no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I mean.
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  Speaker 6: I understand how the sentiment could be such that you know,
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  Speaker 6: I don't want to do it, but you know, you
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  Speaker 6: feel like, you know, it's the babies. You can't watch
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  Speaker 6: some and not watch all it is. It is interesting
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  Speaker 6: though that she wants to go on a trip when
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  Speaker 6: you know, perhaps spending some alone time or with her
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  Speaker 6: girlfriends is probably what got her the baby in the
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  Speaker 6: first place. I don't know, but I don't know. I
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  Speaker 6: think I would just watch the kids, Just watch them going.
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  Speaker 6: You could be mad at her. Don't be mad at
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  Speaker 6: the kids.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I'm really not. I'm not fear
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  Speaker 1: ready to do it. And uh, you got some balls?
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  Speaker 1: Ever asked me to do it? Now, you know, honestly?
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  Speaker 1: And I think I speak uh uh. I had a
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  Speaker 1: hard time watching my biological kids, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, just on the spur of the moment, you know
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  Speaker 3: what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: On the spur of the moment.
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  Speaker 3: The hell.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we told you last week about this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: Whoa, I like to go to dinner with my friend?
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  Speaker 4: Hey, whoa?
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  Speaker 3: What are we doing here?
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  Speaker 4: What are we doing?
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  Speaker 3: Don't I was? I was an excellent babysit, independable.
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  Speaker 4: To any time you brag about something a lot.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, not bragging. Let's see, you gotta understand, see
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  Speaker 1: you never see my side. I was, I was working.
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  Speaker 1: I would be exhausted. Yeah, no, I I get the
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  Speaker 1: only one. Yeah, blessed, And I wouldn't need. Then I
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  Speaker 1: was just a dude hustling and I would come home.
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  Speaker 3: I get you, you know what I'm saying. That's different,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: The whole thing is different because you wouldn't hit them
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  Speaker 1: all the time. You know what, I'm I'm gone, so
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  Speaker 1: you can be with them all the time. Now, you
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  Speaker 1: know what you could do? You could get You could
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  Speaker 1: get a job.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, babysitters could do that. I'd rather stay home with
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  Speaker 4: the kids. There you go.
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  Speaker 3: Then let's not you could do that with my feet,
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  Speaker 3: chicken and need to a copy you know where they
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  Speaker 3: got a do coverany yet?
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  Speaker 4: Work? You know what I could see that they got.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I get it. I get it.
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  Speaker 4: But you don't get a babysitter all weekend.
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  Speaker 5: You can get a babysitter for one day, you know,
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  Speaker 5: for a night on the town.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, not for three. But you don't, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: you don't need a night on the town. You don't
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  Speaker 1: at working.
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  Speaker 4: You're still here to night on the town as long
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  Speaker 4: as you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, So a woman ask a man to
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  Speaker 1: watch the very sure, listen.
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  Speaker 6: To it, baby, I'm one out of time with my
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  Speaker 6: girls for the weekend. Can you keep the kids.
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  Speaker 7: I'll keep my kids. But you got to take your
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  Speaker 7: son to his dad's house or to your mom's. I'm
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  Speaker 7: not taking care of a child that's not mine.
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  Speaker 4: Are you serious right now?
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  Speaker 7: You had that child outside of this marriage. That's your problem,
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  Speaker 7: not mine. Wow, I meant what I said?
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  Speaker 3: Was he wrong? I were going to the Khons?
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  Speaker 8: Well, I think that he's wrong.
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  Speaker 5: I think that if you're married a woman, you're supposed
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  Speaker 5: to accept her and her kids, regardless of weather.
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  Speaker 8: You know, they hears you love her. You got to
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  Speaker 8: love her.
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  Speaker 4: So I think he's wrong.
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  Speaker 6: The gentleman said that the baby was born outside of
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  Speaker 6: their marriage.
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  Speaker 8: He had a choice to leave the marriage when he
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  Speaker 8: decided to day, he accepted the child.
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  Speaker 9: So if he accepted the child, that means he accepted
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  Speaker 9: the conditions that come up with that child.
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  Speaker 8: He had that choice to leave the marriage and take
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  Speaker 8: his kids with him and let her take her kids
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  Speaker 8: to his fron So, no, he is wrong. He should
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  Speaker 8: watch that child.
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  Speaker 9: He made the choice to stay in the marriage.
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  Speaker 8: I'm just wondering why he's still there. I will be there,
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  Speaker 8: wouldn't be able ask me that question. That's crazy thing
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  Speaker 8: to do married have a baby outside of the windows,
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  Speaker 8: outside of the marriage. I'm sorry, I wouldn't be there.
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  Speaker 8: I wouldn't be there, just like that, I wouldn't be there.
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  Speaker 8: You had a baby out of our wedding, No, I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 9: If he has forgiven that that wife that he needs
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  Speaker 9: to accept the baby. If he hadn't forgiven her that
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  Speaker 9: he needed to let her go, he shouldn't treat the
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  Speaker 9: child like that. Again, his wife was hurt. She the
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  Speaker 9: one that did that hurt him. So if he can
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  Speaker 9: accept her still, then accept her child and keep her baby,
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  Speaker 9: because that baby is innocent. The baby can do nothing.
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  Speaker 9: The woman did the problem. So again, if he can
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  Speaker 9: accept her and stay married to her, then accept the
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  Speaker 9: baby and take care of the baby. That child will
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  Speaker 9: have problem.
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  Speaker 8: You don't do that.
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  Speaker 9: I know somebody like that, and guess what, that child
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  Speaker 9: wind up taking care that person who the father. But
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  Speaker 9: he won' ahead and accept the baby, and that child
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  Speaker 9: wind up being the best thing for him, better than
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  Speaker 9: his old kid.
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  Speaker 8: So again, that's what he needed to do. My kids
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  Speaker 8: and Moon wanted to go over to Atlanta City.
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  Speaker 10: There was Tyson and uh, holy feels right, and I
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  Speaker 10: just had to be sitting up there. She asked me
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  Speaker 10: to watch the kids? How said him?
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  Speaker 8: Know he was taking I'm with the husband.
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  Speaker 11: She didn't need to help what she conceived that baby,
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  Speaker 11: So don't ask take him to his own daddy. That's wrong.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, how hurtful was that?
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  Speaker 11: But that man she had to look into that child's
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  Speaker 11: face every day and knowing that's not his baby.
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  Speaker 1: She saw a woman asking her husband watch her baby
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  Speaker 1: from her.
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  Speaker 6: So what do you think, baby, I'm going out of
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  Speaker 6: town with my girls for the weekend. Can you keep
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  Speaker 6: the kids?
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  Speaker 7: I'll keep my kids, but you got to take your
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  Speaker 7: son to his dad's house or to your mom's. I'm
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  Speaker 7: not taking care of a child.
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  Speaker 11: That's not mine.
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  Speaker 4: Are you serious? Right now?
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  Speaker 7: You had that child outside of this marriage. That's your problem,
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  Speaker 7: not mine. Wow, I meant what I said.
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  Speaker 3: We're going to the phone.
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  Speaker 2: It all depends. N He's not wrong. If they're married
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  Speaker 2: and they don't have no kids and she had one
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  Speaker 2: on him, then no, I'm not.
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  Speaker 8: Watching about it. He shouldn't have to watch.
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  Speaker 2: But they have other kids and that happened technically, by law,
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  Speaker 2: that is still his child.
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  Speaker 10: So it's like a.
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  Speaker 8: Yes and no or deal.
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  Speaker 2: If they don't have any kids, in this baby come along,
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  Speaker 2: then no, you find your own babysitter. But if it's
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  Speaker 2: other kids involved, like they need to be with their siblings,
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  Speaker 2: why can't you.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, my whole thing is this, if he stayed.
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  Speaker 8: One of the l to get bad now to put
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  Speaker 8: your foot down, LA should did a long time ago
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  Speaker 8: in there.
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  Speaker 10: And just but no, you stay with us, So go
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  Speaker 10: ahead and give her that little supporter she needs.
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying that's crazy.
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  Speaker 11: Well, I can't speak on their situation personally, but my
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  Speaker 11: experiences has always been a double standard between men and women.
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  Speaker 11: Men can have outside babies on their wives, and their
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  Speaker 11: wives are expected to accept this child into the household
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  Speaker 11: and to the family. But when it comes to a man,
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  Speaker 11: it's always a different situation. He can't accept the things
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  Speaker 11: that he expects.
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  Speaker 10: Willing to accept.
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  Speaker 12: I just want to say, it's twenty twenty six and
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  Speaker 12: it's sad that the level of disrespect that's in our
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  Speaker 12: black family. And this is a question that it's self explanatory.
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  Speaker 12: Anyone that has anyone that's grown know the answer already to.
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  Speaker 8: This question right here.
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  Speaker 13: But we'll steal as a as a race of people,
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  Speaker 13: we'll steer entertaining this this type of stuff, How can
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  Speaker 13: we ever go forward and come out of the rut
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  Speaker 13: that we in.
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  Speaker 8: I just don't understand that she.
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  Speaker 10: Has some nerve even asking the man to watch her
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  Speaker 10: outside kid. But it was good to him to still
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  Speaker 10: be with her after she's had an outside kid. But
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  Speaker 10: women kill me as soon as they have all these children.
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  Speaker 10: Now they want to go out of time to have
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  Speaker 10: another life. Get through with yer kids, take time with
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  Speaker 10: them and do what you need to do for them.
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  Speaker 10: And once you get feems with those kids, then you
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  Speaker 10: can go out and have another life. But stay home
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  Speaker 10: and keep your own gear.
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  Speaker 8: Oh yes, hey, yes he's wrong.
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  Speaker 12: If there was such a problem for her to get
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  Speaker 12: pregnant in the marriage, why did he stay in the marriage.
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  Speaker 8: So, yes, he's wrong.
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  Speaker 11: He is absolutely wrong.
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  Speaker 9: He should have.
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  Speaker 2: Stayed and left them out of the marriage, left the
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  Speaker 2: marriage and everything else.
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  Speaker 11: If he was going to act like that. If you
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  Speaker 11: can't handle it, be gone.
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  Speaker 9: That's it.
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  Speaker 8: If you have accepted the woman and you've forgiven her
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  Speaker 8: for stepping outside the marriage, then you definitely should keep
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  Speaker 8: your child because you got to let go of all
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  Speaker 8: that hatred or whatever it is that you're holding. So
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  Speaker 8: if you've forgiving the woman you still would, then you
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  Speaker 8: keep the child. If you don't want to keep your child,
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  Speaker 8: then leave a woman alone, let it go about the business.