Episode 28 | The F Word — Who Decides The Value

Your Effin’ Love Story · Jun 12, 2026 · 11m

Someone wanted me to come speak to their people. Real opportunity. Real money. One condition — no F-word.

I said I couldn't promise that. They said thanks anyway.

And I've been thinking about that moment ever since. Not with regret. With clarity.

Because here's the actual question underneath all of it — who decides what gives your expression value? The organization that sets the terms? The audience that needs you to be palatable? The version of yourself that knows how to play it safe until you're in a position where you can finally be real?

I've covered my tattoos for employers. I've said…