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How to Stop Focusing on What You Do Not Want · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi. I had seen you with intuitive coaching with Amy Radio,
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  Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space, your spirituality, intuition, manifestation,
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  Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. All right, I know you know this,
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  Speaker 1: but I think it's time to do a reminder show
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  Speaker 1: on this. Stop focusing on what you do not want. Really,
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  Speaker 1: just stop, and I get it. We're human, so of
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  Speaker 1: course we're going to focus on what we do not want.
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  Speaker 1: Because here's the thing. Most people are accidentally giving their
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  Speaker 1: full attention, all their emotional energy, and their full creative
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  Speaker 1: power to the exact thing they're trying to avoid. They say, right,
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  Speaker 1: we say we want money, but we focus on what
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  Speaker 1: will happen if the don't get paid. Or we say
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  Speaker 1: we want love, but you're focused on the relationship that
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  Speaker 1: didn't work out from your past. You say you want peace,
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  Speaker 1: but all day long you're focusing on problems and things
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  Speaker 1: that are not going well, or that betrayal or that
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  Speaker 1: disappointment or something that hurts you or the loss from
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  Speaker 1: your past. And then you wonder why it seems like
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  Speaker 1: life is not working well for you. Well, again, it's understandable.
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  Speaker 1: We're humans. We've been trained in conditioned to focus on
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  Speaker 1: what we do not want instead of giving our full
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  Speaker 1: attention to our desired result. But where your attention goes,
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  Speaker 1: your energy goes, and your life begins to organize around
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  Speaker 1: what you're focusing on. You cannot keep staring at what
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  Speaker 1: you do not want and expect to feel available and
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  Speaker 1: optimist stick about what you do want. You have to
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  Speaker 1: consciously choose to focus on your desired result. Decide to
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  Speaker 1: no longer build a life with the energy of what
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  Speaker 1: you do not want. And there is energy in that.
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  Speaker 1: When you are focused on what you do not want,
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  Speaker 1: that is an energy. You are building a reservoir that
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  Speaker 1: goes out and attracts more of that to you. So affirm,
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  Speaker 1: I no longer use my mind to attract what I
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  Speaker 1: do not want. I no longer assume disappointment will happen.
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  Speaker 1: This does not mean that you deny your life. You
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  Speaker 1: don't ignore your financial obligations that won't make you feel
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  Speaker 1: good anyway. You don't worry about them. You don't worry
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  Speaker 1: about them. You don't worry that they will not be paid.
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  Speaker 1: You don't worry that something could go wrong. You give
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  Speaker 1: your full attention when it comes to financial obligations to
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  Speaker 1: complete payment and resolution. If you want a romantic relationship,
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  Speaker 1: don't pretend like you don't. You give your full attention
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  Speaker 1: to the romantic relationship you desire. How will it feel,
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  Speaker 1: what is it like? And know in your heart that
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  Speaker 1: that relationship will be yours. So we're going to stop
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  Speaker 1: worshiping what could go wrong. We're going to stop making
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  Speaker 1: the problem the center of our attention. We're going to
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  Speaker 1: stop focusing on what we do not want. I want
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  Speaker 1: you to become so devoted to the solution. I want
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  Speaker 1: you to become so devoted to the vision. I want
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  Speaker 1: you to become so devoted to the future you want
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  Speaker 1: to create. Eight, Let go of the problem, let go
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  Speaker 1: of the fear, let go of the past. Focus on
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  Speaker 1: your desired result in any situation. Practice gratitude so your
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  Speaker 1: faith grows in your desired result. Practice peace so your
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  Speaker 1: faith grows in your desired result. And if you focus
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  Speaker 1: on what you want, you open the door to possibility.
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  Speaker 1: So you're going to use your spiritual practices, your affirmations,
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  Speaker 1: your rituals, your prayers, your visioning, you're reading, you're studying,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to podcasts like this one to stay focused
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  Speaker 1: on what you want. Focus on the desire focus on
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  Speaker 1: the desire, train your mind to return to the truth
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  Speaker 1: of your desire. Teach yourself to live mentally and emotionally
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  Speaker 1: in what you want. And yes, for sure, one percent,
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  Speaker 1: your mind will always return to the thought of what
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  Speaker 1: you do not want. That's normal. But the real work
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  Speaker 1: is calling your mind back again and again and again
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  Speaker 1: and again. And you say to yourself, I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: to sit here and mentally rehearse that rejection. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to spend three hours imagining worst case scenarios or
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  Speaker 1: what people might be thinking of me. No, I am
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  Speaker 1: not going to let this temporary problem mean that I
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  Speaker 1: am bad or wrong, or that I'm fucking up. Even
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  Speaker 1: if I had made a mistake. I'm going to forgive
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  Speaker 1: myself and I'm going to give my full attention to
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  Speaker 1: the solution. I choose peace, I choose faith. I choose
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  Speaker 1: to expect that good is always unfolding in my life.
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  Speaker 1: I choose to believe that something wonderful is getting ready
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  Speaker 1: to happen. This, my friends, is spiritual discipline. That is manifestation.
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  Speaker 1: This is how you create the life that you want.
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  Speaker 1: This is your creative power in motion. That is your
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  Speaker 1: divine birthright. So If you're worried about a bill, I
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  Speaker 1: want you to shift your focus to it's paid. It's paid.
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  Speaker 1: It's paid, it's paid. If you're lamenting over the man
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  Speaker 1: that broke your heart and you're ready for a relationship,
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  Speaker 1: shift your focus to I am loved. I am loved.
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  Speaker 1: I am loved. If your knee is hurting, I want
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  Speaker 1: you to focus on I am healed and I am stable.
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  Speaker 1: I am healed and I am stable. I walk with ease.
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  Speaker 1: I walk with ease. I walk with ease, I walk
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  Speaker 1: with ease. If you're having conflict with someone, focus on
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  Speaker 1: peace peace. Send them love. Even if you're mad, look
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  Speaker 1: at why you're mad and send them peace. Peace. It
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  Speaker 1: is resolved, it is resolved. It is resolved. It is dissolved,
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  Speaker 1: it is dissolved. If you want new clothes, focus on
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  Speaker 1: a beautiful new wardrobe that is perfect for you. I
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  Speaker 1: have a beautiful new wardrobe that's perfect for me. Every
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  Speaker 1: time you see that that item in your closet you
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  Speaker 1: want to replace, I have a beautiful new wardrope that's
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  Speaker 1: perfect for me. Or next level, focus on what you
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  Speaker 1: would replace it with. So if you don't have an
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  Speaker 1: old ratty jacket and you want a new jacket, What
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  Speaker 1: kind of jacket would you get? Envision that jacket every
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  Speaker 1: time you look at it. See see the jacket you want,
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  Speaker 1: See the purse you want, See the shoes you want,
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  Speaker 1: See the clothes you want. Because you have a beautiful
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  Speaker 1: new wardrobe that's perfect for you. If you're not enjoying
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  Speaker 1: your job or you're ready for professional growth, focus on
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  Speaker 1: that new, amazing, wonderful position that's perfect for you. Focus
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  Speaker 1: on the job title you want, focus on the salary
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  Speaker 1: you want. Turn your attention to way away from what
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  Speaker 1: is not working, what could go wrong, what is bad,
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  Speaker 1: and focus on the opportunity you do want, and then
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  Speaker 1: it'll come find you. That's what I've been hearing from
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  Speaker 1: clients is jobs are coming and finding them. If you
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  Speaker 1: want to win the lottery, focus on I want, I want,
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  Speaker 1: I want, I have the winning ticket. I want, I want,
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  Speaker 1: I want, I have the winning ticket. If you want
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  Speaker 1: your business to pick up, focus on lots and lots
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  Speaker 1: of business, lots and lots of business, so many sales,
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  Speaker 1: so many customers. Look at all the prosperous businesses around you.
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  Speaker 1: If you're driving in your neighborhood and you see a
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  Speaker 1: business that has a line out the door. Bless that
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  Speaker 1: business with love and say praise God. Praise God. Lots
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  Speaker 1: and lots of business exists. If it exists for them
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  Speaker 1: and I can see it, then it exists for me.
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  Speaker 1: You see where I'm going. You see where I'm going.
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  Speaker 1: With this focus on what you do want. Use every
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  Speaker 1: opportunity to focus on what you do want. And yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's okay to have those moments where you're looking at
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  Speaker 1: things and say this does not work for me. That's
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  Speaker 1: just being honest. Right. You're looking at the situation in
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  Speaker 1: your life. Maybe you want a new car, and you
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  Speaker 1: go out to your old car and you're like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: so ready for a new car. This car is not
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  Speaker 1: working for me. Totally fine, Shift into what kind of
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  Speaker 1: car do you want? Shift into what would it look
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  Speaker 1: like if you got the car right away? Go test
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  Speaker 1: drive a car right Go wash that car and get
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  Speaker 1: ready for your new car. Look at your finances and
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  Speaker 1: see how can I make this work. If the desire
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  Speaker 1: for a new car is here and present right now,
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  Speaker 1: then there must be a way cool. And then, of course,
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  Speaker 1: be grateful for everything that you receive. Listen, I know
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  Speaker 1: but it can be really difficult to apply them in
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  Speaker 1: so much for listening to the show. I pray it
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  Speaker 1: was helpful. I look forward to connecting with you on
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  Speaker 1: the next show. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.