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Wake Up & Work HARD: New Motivational Video to Jumpstart Your Day · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: We said to have an extraordinary life, you gotta have
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  Speaker 1: an extraordinary psychology. Right. Extraordinary psychology means you got to
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  Speaker 1: live in an extraordinary state. To be an extraordinary state,
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  Speaker 1: you've got to condition your nervous system, your body, your
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  Speaker 1: physiology and focus to be at their best. Then to
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  Speaker 1: do that, though you can do that, why doesn't everybody not?
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  Speaker 1: Because you can't, We all have the ability. It's because
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  Speaker 1: of our standards. Think about your own life. I know
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  Speaker 1: there have been areas in your life where some point
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  Speaker 1: in time you just shifted and you raise the standard
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  Speaker 1: in your life change. Because whatever people have their identity
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  Speaker 1: attached to, they live. We live who we believe we are.
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  Speaker 2: My journey from here to there was lonely. The reason
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  Speaker 2: I was willing to be wrong and admit wrong so
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  Speaker 2: that I could grow, and so that I could change.
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  Speaker 2: You see growth as a result of bad habits dropped
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  Speaker 2: wrong priorities changed, and new ways of thinking embraced. It
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  Speaker 2: happens only when we question ourselves enough to ask serious
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  Speaker 2: questions from others. The people who do not grow are
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  Speaker 2: unwilling to ask themselves or others hard questions. They are
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  Speaker 2: unwilling to leave what they have known and practice. They
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  Speaker 2: are not willing to be wrong so they can discover
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  Speaker 2: what is right. Therefore they cling to right and their
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  Speaker 2: lives turn out wrong.
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  Speaker 3: How sad we get what we're looking for, we filter
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  Speaker 3: out everything else in our life. You're gonna get what
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  Speaker 3: you're looking for even if it doesn't even exist, even
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  Speaker 3: if it's not even there. If you're looking for negatives,
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  Speaker 3: if you're looking for setbacks, if you're looking to be
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  Speaker 3: looked over, you will find it even though it's not
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  Speaker 3: supposed to be there. But if you're looking for victory,
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  Speaker 3: for winning, for recruits, for people to change your life,
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  Speaker 3: for magic moments, you will find them if you're looking
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  Speaker 3: for them. I promise you that's true in life.
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  Speaker 1: Your brain, when you condition it knows exacts. I happy
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  Speaker 1: what to go for it, and I'll find a way
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  Speaker 1: to get there. When you decide what's most important to you,
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  Speaker 1: your brain goes after it.
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  Speaker 2: Surrender of being right enables us to ask questions that
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  Speaker 2: others can answer and add value to us. Surrender of
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  Speaker 2: being right is the prerequisite to finding right.
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  Speaker 1: I believe that with all my heart, and.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what I know. I never want to get to
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  Speaker 2: the place where I've got it all figured out. I
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  Speaker 2: still want to keep learning, and I still want to
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  Speaker 2: keep going, and I still want to be a student,
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  Speaker 2: and I still want to be on a learning curve,
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  Speaker 2: and I still want to value people, and I still
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  Speaker 2: want to walk into the life and say, look, you
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  Speaker 2: have something that if I could just ask the right question,
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  Speaker 2: you could impart to me that would help me, that
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  Speaker 2: would allow me to become a better person myself.
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  Speaker 4: Ego is the anesthesia that deadens the pain of stupidity.
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  Speaker 4: Be pride is the burden of a foolish person.
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  Speaker 1: If you're going to do a job, do it right.
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  Speaker 4: I've always been told how average I can be, always
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  Speaker 4: been criticized about being average. But I want to tell
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  Speaker 4: you something. I stand here before you, before all of
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  Speaker 4: these people, not listening to those words, but telling myself
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  Speaker 4: every single day to shoot for the stars, to be
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  Speaker 4: the best, that I can be. Good Enough isn't good
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  Speaker 4: enough if it can be better, and better isn't good
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  Speaker 4: enough if it can be best. Wisdom will come to
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  Speaker 4: you in the unlikeliest of sources, a lot of times
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  Speaker 4: through failure. When you hit rock bottom, remember this while
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  Speaker 4: you're struggling. Rock Bottom can also be a great foundation
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  Speaker 4: on which to build and on which to grow. I'm
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  Speaker 4: not worried that you'll be successful. I'm worried that you
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  Speaker 4: won't fail from time to time. That gets up off
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  Speaker 4: the canvas and keeps growing, that's the person that will
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  Speaker 4: continue to grow their influence.
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  Speaker 3: How many of you would love a breakthrough?
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  Speaker 1: All right?
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  Speaker 3: Number one? You gotta have a permeating attitude that you're
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  Speaker 3: gonna win. You gotta have a positive outlook. You gotta
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  Speaker 3: be optimistic. You gotta know you're gonna win. You gotta
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  Speaker 3: right now. You gotta say I'm gonna win. I don't
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  Speaker 3: mean just this contest. I don't mean the contest. I
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  Speaker 3: mean I'm gonna win. I'm gonna win. My life is
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  Speaker 3: gonna win. There's gonna be a victorious life here, because
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  Speaker 3: listen to me, the price you pay for losing here
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  Speaker 3: is too extreme. You have to carry the burden of
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  Speaker 3: failure the rest of your life. You carry that around
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  Speaker 3: with you if you fail here. The biggest thing that
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  Speaker 3: breaks my heart is you feel the spirit right now,
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  Speaker 3: and then when you get back, these dream stealers run
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  Speaker 3: into you and they start to steal your dream and
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  Speaker 3: you quit, You give up, You gotta decide I'm gonna win.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta decide that the failure part of carrying filth.
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  Speaker 3: You've been exposed to what you're life could be. If
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  Speaker 3: you fail here, the price is extreme. It's forever you
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  Speaker 3: carry the failure forever. I'm being honest with you. I
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  Speaker 3: mean people oftentimes that say I was in WFG, you
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  Speaker 3: really changed my life for this meeting. But but but
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  Speaker 3: and they put their heads down. They've been carrying it.
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  Speaker 3: They carry it. They see these facebooks and instagrams and
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  Speaker 3: what we're doing. You gotta know you're gonna win. You
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  Speaker 3: gotta sell out. Yeah, I'm telling you. Gotta become a sellout.
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  Speaker 3: You need to sell out. You need to get obsessed.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta get relentless. You gotta be a road dog.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta get intense. That's what you gotta do. There's
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  Speaker 3: some dream stealers you need to look out for.
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  Speaker 4: These four.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want them to happen to you. You ready say yes,
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  Speaker 3: dream stealer number one that'll take you out of here.
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  Speaker 3: Lack of confidence or faith, lack of belief, it'll steal
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  Speaker 3: your dream. You gotta know you're gonna win. You gotta
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  Speaker 3: have some faith. These people sitting around you right now,
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  Speaker 3: they're whispering to you. You could do this. I believe it,
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  Speaker 3: just like when you were a little boy, just like
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  Speaker 3: when you were a little girl. They've always believed in you.
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  Speaker 3: They've always known you're gonna do something special. They always
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  Speaker 3: knew you were great. You need to know it. You
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  Speaker 3: need to take that God that's sitting there with you,
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  Speaker 3: and those precious souls that have passed that have always
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  Speaker 3: believed in you, and you carry them with you everywhere.
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  Speaker 3: They're with you anyway, Acknowledge them. If you don't believe that,
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  Speaker 3: honor them, Honor God, Honor these people who believed in
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  Speaker 3: you with your magnificent life.
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  Speaker 1: Honor them.
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  Speaker 3: Don't give into lack of belief, lack of confidence. Don't
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  Speaker 3: ever do that again. Don't do it in WFG or
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  Speaker 3: out of WFG. You were made to do something great.
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  Speaker 3: You're special, You're made the image of God. Something awesome
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  Speaker 3: supposed to happen for you, and those of you that
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  Speaker 3: have made something awesome happen, something even more awesome supposed
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  Speaker 3: to happen for you.
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  Speaker 5: I would say for the last forty five years, we've
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  Speaker 5: told psychologists have been have been certainly to blame for this,
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  Speaker 5: at least in part. You're okay the way you are.
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  Speaker 5: That's what we tell young people. Oh, you're okay the
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  Speaker 5: way you are. It's like, man, there's nothing worse than
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  Speaker 5: you can tell that. You can tell someone who's young
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  Speaker 5: than that, especially if they're miserable, you know, and lots
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  Speaker 5: of them, well, if they're miserable and aimless. It's like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: I'm miserable and aimless and sometimes I'm suicidal and I'm nihilistic,
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  Speaker 5: and I don't have any direction in your life.
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  Speaker 1: It's in my life.
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  Speaker 5: It's like, well, you're okay the way you are here,
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  Speaker 5: and it's like they don't want to hear that.
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  Speaker 1: They want to hear.
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  Speaker 6: Look, you know you're and you know this.
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  Speaker 5: You're useless, you know nothing, you haven't got started. You've
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  Speaker 5: got sixty years to put yourself together, and God only
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  Speaker 5: knows what you could become. And that's so that message
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  Speaker 5: is so much more. It's so funny because it's so
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  Speaker 5: it's such an attack, but it's so positive because there's
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  Speaker 5: faith there in the in the potential that makes up
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  Speaker 5: the person, rather than the miserable actuality that happens to
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  Speaker 5: be manifesting itself at the moment, and young people respond
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  Speaker 5: extraordinarily well to that because and you know that if
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  Speaker 5: you're a parent and you love your your child, your son,
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  Speaker 5: your daughter, what you're trying to foster is the best
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  Speaker 5: in them. You want that to manifest itself across the
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  Speaker 5: course of their life. You want them to become continually
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  Speaker 5: more than they are, to see what they could be.
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  Speaker 5: And well, and I think that's part of the great
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  Speaker 5: message of the West is that that's the that's the
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  Speaker 5: ethical requirement of individual being in the proper sense, is
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  Speaker 5: to constantly note that you're not what you could be,
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  Speaker 5: to take responsibility for that, and to commit yourself like
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  Speaker 5: body and soul, to the attainment of that ideal.
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  Speaker 7: So I have this thing that I've been promoting called
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  Speaker 7: no Whining Wednesdays. Wednesday you cannot whine, complain, or criticize, And.
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  Speaker 6: People like, well, what is whatever you think it is,
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  Speaker 6: don't do it.
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  Speaker 7: And every time you do it, you have to put
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  Speaker 7: a quarter in a jar. If you whine about anything, I.
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  Speaker 6: Can't I'm tied to mean, why don't you what heavy?
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  Speaker 6: Every one of them will cost you a quarter?
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  Speaker 7: Or complaining why don't you why do you always how
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  Speaker 7: come you, I always.
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  Speaker 6: They never whoo up cost you a quarter.
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  Speaker 7: Then last week I had people send me pictures of
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  Speaker 7: their jaws a quarters.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 7: But what they said to me also was this was
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  Speaker 7: wonderful because I was never ever aware of how much
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  Speaker 7: whining and complaining and criticizing I do. Now I've got
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  Speaker 7: mothers doing it with their children. So Wednesday is no
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  Speaker 7: whining Wednesday. We need to practice that. We need to
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  Speaker 7: stop whining about what isn't happening, what we don't have,
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  Speaker 7: what we can't do, what.
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  Speaker 6: Somebody didn't do. We gotta get it clean.
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  Speaker 7: In twenty fourteen, no whining, no complaining, no criticize.
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  Speaker 8: I struggled off to school. The last time I took
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  Speaker 8: English class, I gotta fail, and my English teacher said
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  Speaker 8: I was the weakest writer.
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  Speaker 6: She ever met in her entire life.
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  Speaker 8: The last time I took a speech class, same year,
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  Speaker 8: I got a D minus in speech and my speech
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  Speaker 8: teacher said, at least a quote unquote, I recommend you
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  Speaker 8: never speak in public, that you get a desk job.
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  Speaker 6: So that was the beginning of my life.
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  Speaker 8: That was the That was my nineteen year old experience.
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  Speaker 8: And then I go on and I'm trying to figure
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  Speaker 8: it out. Trying to figure it out, I was obedient.
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  Speaker 8: I went and got a job in accounting. I was
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  Speaker 8: in the collection department for seven years. Y'all don't know
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  Speaker 8: I'm dangerous to accounting. I'm just dangerous. And I'm in collections.
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  Speaker 8: And you know you should never put a broke person
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  Speaker 8: in collections. Never because everybody's reasons sound.
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  Speaker 6: Good to me.
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  Speaker 8: Not No, I don't see I'm funny, but I was real.
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  Speaker 8: Not only did I say, girl, don't you worry about
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  Speaker 8: paying that, I'm gonna take your name off the list.
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  Speaker 8: Somebody went to jail because I was in clode. I
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  Speaker 8: got fired from five different jobs, and then I got
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  Speaker 8: pregnant with my son unexpectedly, and then at eight months
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  Speaker 8: my son's father went to prison. I had to get
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  Speaker 8: on government's assistance to have my baby. I was on
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  Speaker 8: Wick Women Infinite Children to feed my child. And when
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  Speaker 8: my son was eight months old, I went to the
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  Speaker 8: ATM to get twenty dollars out the bank because I
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  Speaker 8: didn't have any pampers for him, and in order to
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  Speaker 8: get twenty dollars out, she got there twenty dollars in
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  Speaker 8: I had eleven dollars and forty two cents and I
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  Speaker 8: still can't tell the story, but I'll get an emotional
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  Speaker 8: because of my story. For two days, I had to
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  Speaker 8: wrap my son and a child. But something happens toe
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  Speaker 8: Evehen those two days, I was at rock bottom. I
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  Speaker 8: was broke, and I was broken, Inglewood, California. My son
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  Speaker 8: laying on his back at eight I have a towel
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  Speaker 8: over him and I have my hand on his stomach, saying,
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  Speaker 8: don't you worry, Jaylani, Mommy will never be this broke again.
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  Speaker 6: And I made a decision.
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  Speaker 8: I was bankrupt and every stinking thinking I had, I
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  Speaker 8: was bankrupt and trying to protect my pride. I was
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  Speaker 8: bankrupt and trying to be all that in a bag
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  Speaker 8: of chips and the bolagrits falsified. I was bankrupt in
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  Speaker 8: trying to not ask anyone for help. I was bankrupt
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  Speaker 8: in everything that was holding me and keeping me where
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  Speaker 8: I was. I've always talked a good game, but I
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  Speaker 8: wasn't doing anything with my gift and all that thing
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  Speaker 8: about potential. I was tired of having potential. I wanted
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  Speaker 8: to have my now. And I looked at that baby
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  Speaker 8: at eight months and I said, I want to transform
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  Speaker 8: your life because you didn't ask to come into this chaos.
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  Speaker 8: As an African American male child in south central Los
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  Speaker 8: Angeles with a single mother whose father's in prison, he
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  Speaker 8: had a sixty six percent chance of going to prison himself.
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  Speaker 6: Not on my watch, Not on my watch.
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  Speaker 8: So if I have to be willing to drastically transform
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  Speaker 8: myself so that I can become the woman that I
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  Speaker 8: know I can be, and that's what I began to do.
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  Speaker 6: I was radical. What did you do?
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  Speaker 1: So?
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  Speaker 6: What what did you do to change your life?
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  Speaker 5: First?
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  Speaker 8: I realized I couldn't grow with people who were struggling like.
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  Speaker 6: Me that whole.
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  Speaker 8: I don't want to leave nobody behind. No, I don't
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  Speaker 8: want to.
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  Speaker 6: Stay with y'all. You don't even want to be here.
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  Speaker 8: I don't want to be the queen of this block.
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  Speaker 8: And I became okay with the fact that it doesn't
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  Speaker 8: make me any less committed to my community, committed to
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  Speaker 8: my culture, committed to my family. The best thing I
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  Speaker 8: can do for you is not stay here with you.
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  Speaker 8: When I've got that, I went to places I'd never
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  Speaker 8: seen before. I went to conferences where people were talking
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  Speaker 8: about money, talking about prosperity, talking about. It was like, no,
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  Speaker 8: I Blaspaniel, what y'all talking about? Ro O I S
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  Speaker 8: and PPMS and term agreement and capital fundraising and bottom
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  Speaker 8: lines and what is it?
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  Speaker 1: What I want?
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  Speaker 8: I'm gonna stay until I learn what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 8: I went to the same conference forty two times, and
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  Speaker 8: there I raised five hundred and thirty two thousand dollars
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  Speaker 8: in capital for my company start my dream, and my
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  Speaker 8: dream was to transform teen lives. I want to teach
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  Speaker 8: teens how to fall madly in love with themselves and
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  Speaker 8: how to make integrity based decisions. And I got it
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  Speaker 8: funded and I started working, and that was the beginning
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  Speaker 8: of me rescuing myself. I realized that I am my rescue.
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  Speaker 8: No one else is my rescue. I am my rescuer.