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Almost Famous OGs: My Ex-Wife and My Ex-Girlfriend with Rebecca Budig · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Almost Famous Podcast with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Trista Sutter Nay Wren. You look beautiful today, by the way.
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  Speaker 2: Oh thanks, You're so welcome.
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  Speaker 3: She is Hi.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, Rebecca Body, Oh.
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  Speaker 3: My god, Hello, Bob Guinea.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to Almost Famous The Ogs.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Hi, Trista.
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  Speaker 1: Are it's been so long.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's been a really long time. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm five hundred years old. I've aged appropriately look amazing.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: My god? We were just commenting on you would.
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  Speaker 1: Not be on a soap opera if you looked bad.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I never wear I don't wear makeups. So
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  Speaker 3: when I went back to the show and I put
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  Speaker 3: makeup on, I was like, wow, I have a lot
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  Speaker 3: of wrinkles. That's okay. I'm you know, I'm fifty one.
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  Speaker 3: I'm supposed to sprinkles, so whatever.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, you have a lot less wrinkles than
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  Speaker 2: I do today. I'm fifty three. But I think it's
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  Speaker 2: important to point out. I was up really late last
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  Speaker 2: night watching My Lions dismantled the Los Angeles Rams over time,
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  Speaker 2: and I was very excited, and I was like, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, well, I'm gonna look like absolutely dog shit
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  Speaker 2: today on my interview. But you know what we're going.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so awesome. Wait it went into
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  Speaker 3: overtime for how long was it?
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  Speaker 2: Like? Yeah, for a good while. I mean the Lions
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  Speaker 2: took control the ball, they drove seventy yards for the
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  Speaker 2: game winning score. I was still there. It was pretty crazy.
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  Speaker 2: And what's really funny is my wife Kanyon, who I
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  Speaker 2: know that you both know her or know of her.
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  Speaker 2: When Trista and I were on this trip we went
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  Speaker 2: to Tahoe. Trista shocked me one day when I met
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  Speaker 2: her son Max and she's like, Max, I want you
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  Speaker 2: to meet my ex boyfriend Bob. And I thought it
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  Speaker 2: was so funny and caught me off guard. And he
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  Speaker 2: was just like, oh hey, what's up. He didn't care.
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  Speaker 2: And so I told Kanyon, I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: interview Rebecca. Trista, I are gonna interview Rebecca. And she goes,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, you should subtitle the podcast my ex
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  Speaker 2: girlfriend and my ex wife. But I'm like, oh nice, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: So there you go, there you go. That's it's stay up.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: True story's Thank you for coming on our show I'm
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  Speaker 2: so excited for you going going back to some and
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  Speaker 2: the beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I'm very excited. I actually, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I had told my agents, you know, I can't leave town.
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  Speaker 3: I'm you know, my husband is a full time job,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, I'm I'm here, and as you know,
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  Speaker 3: nothing shoots in La. So I've basically been doing nothing.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to acting class whatever, and I was going
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  Speaker 3: to go back to school to study psychology and I
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  Speaker 3: finally get my degree, and then the show came along,
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  Speaker 3: and so I'm super grateful. I'm really excited that I
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  Speaker 3: can be with my kid and also do something for myself, which,
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  Speaker 3: as you both know, being parents' is the challenge sometimes
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  Speaker 3: to do things for yourself. So I'm happy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for you. I will tell you the one
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  Speaker 2: thing that came up when I first saw your return
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  Speaker 2: to the show was I had to call our very
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  Speaker 2: good friend Ridge Forrester of course torreston k and I'm like, hey, dude,
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  Speaker 2: what you mean making out with Lish all those years
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  Speaker 2: wasn't enough. Now you're going after my ex wife. What
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  Speaker 2: are you doing? Bro? Li? It was so funny. He's like, Bobby,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the ladies love toasty.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I know, he's amazing because you know, we
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  Speaker 3: didn't we worked together, but we never like had one
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  Speaker 3: on one scenes.
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  Speaker 2: So right, we've we have.
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  Speaker 3: We've been like laughing our asses off. And also at
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  Speaker 3: the same time, he's an incredible actor, so it's been
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  Speaker 3: like very very rewarding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a he's an Emmy wardwinner the last two years.
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  Speaker 2: I know, right, I know, it's awesome. I know. And
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  Speaker 2: I always think you guys both have such like great
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  Speaker 2: personalities and sense of humor. I bet you two just
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  Speaker 2: have a blast together. We do.
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  Speaker 3: We do have fun. And we talked about old cars.
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  Speaker 3: Remember the old pickup truck that he had. Yes, and
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  Speaker 3: I've been sold and got a different car whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah. He was so tourist and k
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  Speaker 2: for people who are just you know, listening in. He's
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  Speaker 2: a very avid you know in car restoration and things
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  Speaker 2: of that nature. And he's got a bunch of really
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  Speaker 2: incredible interesting habits and like you know, our hobbies, I
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  Speaker 2: should say, not habits. And uh, you know, he's a
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  Speaker 2: huge Red Wings fan. So he did this whole car
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  Speaker 2: with all the Red Wings memorabilia and stuff. It was
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  Speaker 2: so cool and and then yeah, the pickup truck. That
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  Speaker 2: was pretty cool too. You guys have you guys have
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  Speaker 2: such a history. I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fun Yeah, I think it's funny that you
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  Speaker 1: were going to go back to school to study psychology
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  Speaker 1: and aren't even playing a psychologist on the Bolden the Beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: Look like, look at my background. I mean, have my
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  Speaker 3: big my big water over here. I mean, seriously, this
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  Speaker 3: is like my so my husband, there's my dog. My
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  Speaker 3: husband's staying he like is working from home today, like
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  Speaker 3: you're working from home. I have a zoom anyway, so
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  Speaker 3: zoom whatever, look zoom my dog. So you asked me, yes,
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna I play a psychiatrist and so on.
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  Speaker 3: I you know, I've always gone to therapy for whatever,
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  Speaker 3: I just for years, and so I'm very interested in
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  Speaker 3: it and I believe in it, and so yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: was going to go and I mean I still might
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  Speaker 3: actually just because I never got my degree and I
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  Speaker 3: want it, and so I've got to study something, gotta
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  Speaker 3: do something.
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  Speaker 2: That's going to be a good one. Though. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I see that in your background. I see your beautiful
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  Speaker 2: sister as your centerpiece of your art collection. And I
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  Speaker 2: remember that I do. I do the Christie, But I
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  Speaker 2: love it. I love it the Christie. It's gorgeous.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just like, I'm in the playroom, so I'm just
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  Speaker 3: kind of like whatever.
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  Speaker 1: My daughters like playroom essentially. Yeah, it doesn't matter. It's
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  Speaker 1: all good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it's cool how our lives have all
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  Speaker 2: gone so full circle. Because I don't know if you
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  Speaker 2: remember this, Trista, but when you first met Rebecca, I
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  Speaker 2: had brought her with me to Denver. Do you remember?
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  Speaker 2: I think? And you, I guess.
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  Speaker 1: The last thing I remember is ABC family. But tell
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  Speaker 1: me about this.
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  Speaker 2: Reminds me My band was touring and our tour bus
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  Speaker 2: was literally parked out in front of like the Soil
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  Speaker 2: Dove or something like that. Is that a place in Denver?
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  Speaker 2: I think that it might be.
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  Speaker 3: Do you remember the name of it, Bob, remember the
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  Speaker 3: name of the place?
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  Speaker 2: I do? I know. It's it's incredible, this memory that
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  Speaker 2: I have right now. I can't remember a thing, you know,
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  Speaker 2: anyone asked me to do this morning before I let
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  Speaker 2: the hob Yeah, but I remembering this one, and and
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  Speaker 2: you and Ryan were on the bus and you came
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  Speaker 2: in and and Rebecca was there, and it was kind
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  Speaker 2: of cool because the two of you had never met
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  Speaker 2: other than the ABC family thing and then and then
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  Speaker 2: they changed the format after that, and so I went on.
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  Speaker 2: That's how I met Rebecca was going on with Jamie
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  Speaker 2: Blythe and doing the behind the scenes ABC X y Z. Right. Yeah, no, I.
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  Speaker 1: Know I know your story, but I do, do you, Rebecca?
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember this?
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  Speaker 3: I do remember this. Oh gosh, I remember reading you.
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  Speaker 1: I am so bad.
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  Speaker 3: But who knows. Maybe you had just maybe you just
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  Speaker 3: had one of your fifteen kids and like you.
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  Speaker 2: Don't you have like four?
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  Speaker 3: Do you like four kids? How many kids do you have?
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  Speaker 3: I know I have two too. Okay, well, I don't
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  Speaker 3: know why I thought you had like a bunch of kids.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like everyone I know has a bunch of kids.
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  Speaker 1: Pregnancy didn't agree with me, so I said, well, boy, perfection,
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  Speaker 1: I only have one.
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  Speaker 3: I wish I had more. I wish I had two.
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  Speaker 3: That would be amazing. But whatever, I waited too late, horrible.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot remember.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know about that. Well, yeah, I was the answer, true,
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  Speaker 3: you did wait a little live with me.
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  Speaker 2: I was forty eight when we had Grayson, and then
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  Speaker 2: fifty fifty when we had Blake. So yeah, and then
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  Speaker 2: you know, anytime anything comes up about another kid, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: is someone smoking crack right now? There's no way?
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  Speaker 3: Oh you know what? You know, I thought, Mike's the same,
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  Speaker 3: my same age when when Charlie was born, and that
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  Speaker 3: you are, and so he was like, I'm so tired,
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  Speaker 3: like I can't, and he had already had two kids
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  Speaker 3: from a previous marriage. So I was like, and I
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  Speaker 3: had postpartum, so you couldn't. You'd have to tell me
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  Speaker 3: to do it, and I would have done it, but
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  Speaker 3: there was no way. I was just as stupor.
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  Speaker 2: Right, that's so hard.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, how's your mom? I know, we shouldn't catch up
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  Speaker 3: on the.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, everybody is great.
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  Speaker 3: Little Jack.
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  Speaker 2: Little Jack is now a twenty six year old marketing
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  Speaker 2: executive in Chicago, graduating from grad school at Virginia Commonwealth.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, he's just crushing it. So yeah, that's pretty crazy,
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  Speaker 2: but I know, it's so fun. It's so fun to
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  Speaker 2: get to catch up with you. And I was telling
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  Speaker 2: Trista because trist was like, I know, you guys get
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  Speaker 2: along really well and stuff. I'm like, I was actually
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  Speaker 2: texting with her husband yesterday. True story. I really love.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, Rebecca happened to marry two
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  Speaker 2: of the nicest guys in Hollywood from you know me,
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  Speaker 2: and then of course afterwards Mike Benson, who I just
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  Speaker 2: I really love Michael Benson. He's a really great guy
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  Speaker 2: and I'm so glad he's doing it so well in
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  Speaker 2: his career too. I mean, you guys got a lot
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  Speaker 2: going on.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you know, we take it a day at
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  Speaker 3: a time. You know how this business is, and I mean,
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  Speaker 3: how any businesses really like you just you don't know
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  Speaker 3: how long it lasts. Were just like stayed in gratitude,
• 9:47
  Speaker 3: but you know, we do. We are on a lake now,
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  Speaker 3: so we go to the lake and it's so funny
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  Speaker 3: because you live a lake life. And yeah, my daughter,
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  Speaker 3: if she'd had her way, we would not be in
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  Speaker 3: LA we would be living in Minnesota on a lake.
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  Speaker 3: And but anyway, we'll talk about that later. But yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so we've so we just try and enjoy our life
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  Speaker 3: as much as we can. It's so crazy and hectic
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  Speaker 3: here in Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I know. I was actually just there hosting
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  Speaker 2: an event last weekend. I flew in on Thursday night,
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  Speaker 2: hosted the event Friday night and was on a five
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  Speaker 2: am flight out on Saturday, because you know, it's nice
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  Speaker 2: to come back and like spend a little bit of time.
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  Speaker 2: But everything was like I was, I couldn't get around. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: every time the car service came to get me, they
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  Speaker 2: dropped me off at the wrong hotel. I'm walking down,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I'm walking down with my bags from the
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  Speaker 2: Waldorf to the to the Beverly Hilton, which is where
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  Speaker 2: they have me for this event. I'm like only in
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  Speaker 2: la with this happened to me, you know, I'm like
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  Speaker 2: sweating at one hundred and five. No, it was one hundred.
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  Speaker 3: It was one hundred and twenty two the end of
• 10:48
  Speaker 3: the day when I was driving in the valley. I mean,
• 10:49
  Speaker 3: this is the most boring conversation. Is like the weather,
• 10:51
  Speaker 3: but like it is literally it is literally so hot here,
• 10:55
  Speaker 3: you guys. It's not Hugh, It's just.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you know, so like we were talking about,
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  Speaker 2: we met, of course through the Bachelor X y Z
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  Speaker 2: when you're you were doing a lot of hosting back then,
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  Speaker 2: and you were doing you know, so much with all
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  Speaker 2: my children, and I remember then you went from all
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  Speaker 2: my children to well you started off the Guiding Light, right,
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  Speaker 2: and then you went All My Children and then General Hospital. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and now to come back to Bold and the Beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: But you've done so much in between, I mean, tons
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  Speaker 2: of tons of episodics and then you did the thing
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  Speaker 2: with Gabrielle Union and uh oh yeah, yeah that was
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  Speaker 2: really cool. That was yeah, so I thought that was awesome,
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  Speaker 2: and a bunch of csis and know the whole different
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  Speaker 2: things in between. But I mean, the life is an
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  Speaker 2: actress nowadays has got to be so different in that
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  Speaker 2: everyone's a hypheny now everyone, you know. I just saw
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  Speaker 2: Rob Loows hosting a game show like staying, like, come on, bro,
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  Speaker 2: give me a give guys like us a chance.
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  Speaker 3: I'll tell you. What's so different now than what it
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  Speaker 3: was when I started is like the Internet and social
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  Speaker 3: media and I I mean I was just looking at
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  Speaker 3: my Instagram. I'm like, good lord, I got to post something.
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  Speaker 3: So there's like that. But I am not as you know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't love I don't love walking my carpets, I
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  Speaker 3: don't like taking photos. I don't like sharing my life
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  Speaker 3: with people. And so that's what it's become. If you
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  Speaker 3: want to succeed in this business, you need to be
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  Speaker 3: more active on social media and all that, and I
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  Speaker 3: just I don't subscribe to it. So, you know, I
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  Speaker 3: just if I had to get in the business now,
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  Speaker 3: I never would because I couldn't self promote. It's just
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  Speaker 3: not part of my psyche.
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  Speaker 1: I feel that way about.
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  Speaker 3: I don't do chorette.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel like I would have even done the
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor or Bachelorette had there been social media, like really
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  Speaker 1: the same yeah, oh yeah, because of the pressure, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like just people are mean and judgmental and like you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: like I feel like I need to post.
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  Speaker 3: It's like a full and it's a full time job,
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  Speaker 3: and I don't want to be phone with my kid,
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  Speaker 3: like oh I got to post this, and posting pictures
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  Speaker 3: of her. I do not want her on I don't
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  Speaker 3: want any photos of her on there. I took them off,
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  Speaker 3: and I mean I never really post him any anyway.
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  Speaker 3: But I just let her make that choice. When she's eighteen,
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: you know, yeah, yeah, she had that age.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure that it's like, you know, she's she's getting older, right,
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  Speaker 2: so it's like ten.
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  Speaker 1: Is that fourth grade?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's in fourth amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I have a fifteen and seventeen year old boys or girls,
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  Speaker 1: a girl younger and a older boy and he's a
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  Speaker 1: freaking junior in high school.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I said that this morning, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I have a junior in high school. Like we're seriously
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  Speaker 1: talking about where to look at colleges and what he
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  Speaker 1: wants to do after high school, and like, my god,
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  Speaker 1: what is happening? And they're going to leave me and
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to be so lonely and sad.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it doesn't seem possible. Trust that you
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  Speaker 2: could have a junior in high school. I hate it.
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  Speaker 1: I hate it, but I wish I would have had
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  Speaker 1: more children too, because I'm like, no, I want to
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  Speaker 1: I want to stay with them. They're just I just
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  Speaker 1: love them so much.
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  Speaker 2: And I know different, well you could, you could enjoy it,
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  Speaker 2: my husband, but it could be like me. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I have a three year old that we're working on
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: potty training, and I said recently to my wife, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, you know, this is what every fifty three
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  Speaker 2: year old guy should be doing, because I'm going to
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: teach him how to do the diapers so then like
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  Speaker 2: next year he can start helping me with mine. Right,
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  Speaker 2: because that's that's uh, that's where I'm going, fast tracking
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  Speaker 2: my way back to diapers. But it's like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: he works so hard to get your kids.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I want to ask, like, you guys must
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  Speaker 1: have just laughed and laughed and laughed in your marriage,
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  Speaker 1: Like how could you ever have broken up?
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  Speaker 2: No? Yeah, well you know I will say this. I
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  Speaker 2: mean I get asked that a lot. Actually, people will
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  Speaker 2: be like, oh, even last night at the game, but
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: someone walks over to us and and my wife is
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: so cool because she's like, here, I'll take the picture
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: for you and the ladies like I love when you
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: and green Lee were together, and she's like, nice, nice
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  Speaker 2: to meet you again. To ask Bob, and I'm like,
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: you know, actually really not Greenley and mine's actually technically
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: not bachelor Bob. But you know, okay, thank you. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it's still nice. It wasn't that of the compliment, but
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: it's one of those things like you know, we were
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  Speaker 2: actually living on opposite coasts for quite a bit of
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: time during our name Wow, I think that that just happens.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a tough disconnect. But it's funny because I
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: said to ahead of time, I was like we've actually
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: remained very friendly. I think you and I it shouldn't
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  Speaker 2: be the exception to the rule when you care about
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  Speaker 2: someone so much that you're willing to or you're wanting
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  Speaker 2: to marry them, that when you when it doesn't work out,
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: that you just all of a sudden are just like
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: done with that first, and like that shouldn't be the exception.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: No, because there's still a lot of there's still a
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: lot of love there. And yeah, and to answer your question,
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: we did laugh a lot, and I was probably more serious,
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: like more like, you know, you need to come down
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: to earth, you need to be like you know, you know,
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: the voice of reason or whatever. But you know whatever.
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: But we don't text and call every day or whatever.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: But like your dad passed away, I reached out to him.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: I mean it's very kind, very kind.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I still think about his family, and I still
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: I care about Bob, but we're not like, you know,
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: he's got his life and I've got my life. But
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: but I wanted him to be happy, and I wanted
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: him to find his perfect person and which he has
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: and like have kids, and I don't know, I'm very
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: like so happy that.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, No, the same I mean I feel the exact
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: same way I was. Like I mentioned before, I am
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: a big fan of your husband's as you know, as
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: I know that you know, sweet and you know, it
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: is kind of interesting when you when you're going through that,
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: and but we both kind of had that vision for
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: each other because I remember when when you started dating him,
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I get it, I get it.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: He's so awesome, Like and you guys just fit each other,
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: you know, whereas I think we had a lot of
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: fun and we were a great couple, and we fit
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: each other for a period of our lives. But yeah,
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: you know, we kind of had grown apart, and it
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: was nice for you to find that person that made
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: you whole again, you know. And so as someone who
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: cares about you, I was so happy to see that.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: And you know, I think at the end of the day,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I know that you're happy for me too, and that's
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: I think that's that's the love that we sign out
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: here almost famous to OJ's right, that's what we do here. Christa.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: I mean, you somehow got over me. I still don't
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: really know how, but.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: I will tell you. I will tell you, Bob, like
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: the my sweet, sweet, sweet, our nanny Mariella. She'd be like, Bob,
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: it's so, do you remember you remember Paula, Paula Marshall?
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: You remember her?
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Yes? Of course, yes, Okay.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: So Mariella was her nanny, and so when I had
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: my child, we shared her. She let me and then
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: eventually she didn't meet her and so whatever, and she
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: would just be like, he's so handsome. What happened? Why
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: why don't you see with him? And I'm like, you know,
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: I'm married.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Right, Well, you know what, I think I might have
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: paid her to say that, because that, you know, I'd
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: be like, Hi, Mariolle, I hear your nanny. Uh mentioned.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: People will say that, They're like, he's so cute, he's
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: so funny, And I'm like.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, well that's very kind of dumb. They clearly don't.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: They haven't seen me today because.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: They because you're so tired from the game.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my emotions are going crazy. Why did that? By
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: nine o'clock every night?
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: Now, It's like, I mean if I'm in bed at nine,
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: that's late.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah?
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: Really? Oh god, Trista. I'm a night out. I'm a
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: morning person. I get up at like four point thirty
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: to work out, and I'm crazy person.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Oh my, what like, could you share some of that
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: mojo with me? Because I can not. I am not
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: a morning person.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: You know, you're built that way.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Is Ryan a morning person? I bet he is?
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: He is.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I mean he kind of has to be, just because
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: he used for work so early. You know, their shift
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: starts at seven and then they don't sleep. So yeah,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: he kind of has to be a morning person. But
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: he's way more of a morning person than I am.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: I hate it.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: I hate waking up.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I love dreaming and just laying a bit.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: That's funny. I have a friend he's a doctor, and
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: I said, is there truth to being like a morning
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: person and a night person? And he said, he said,
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: there actually is. He said it. He was like, I'm
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: a night person and I had to train myself to
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: be a morning person because I'm doing surgeries. But there
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: really is, like your circadium rhythm or whatever. Some people
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: are just like you know, you're in that certain sleep
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: zone in the morning, and some people, I don't know,
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: it just it all happens differently for different people. Is
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: there's truth to it?
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Though?
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: I was like, something that crazy?
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I'll be yeah, that makes sense. I mean,
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: I know that I don't need a lot of sleep, like,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: that's one thing that But I don't know if I'm
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: necessarily a morning person or a night person. I think
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: I become a morning person because our son Blake, you know,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: he's three, right, so he's up at like five forty
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: five every day. So I'm like, I am too. You know,
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: I'm not sure if I'm a morning or night person.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: It's just what happened. So what's your schedule life?
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I feel like with the soap operas. I had a
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: couple of friends that were in soap operas back in
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: the day, and I feel like it was constant. But
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: is it constant? Like do you have a pretty good
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: schedule to where you can be home with your daughter?
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Listen. I it's all changed over the years. When I
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: was on My Children, the days were long. But as
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: it's evolved and as they try and do more and
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: less time, they well. The Bold and the Beautiful is
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: even different from the other shows because on GH it
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: was I didn't work super long hours. Actually they had
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: you in and out and it just kind of depends
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: on your storyline if you're working or not. But The
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: Bold and the Beautiful is a great schedule, they're like
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: two weeks on and then they're one week off, and
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: then they like they have a bunch of weeks off.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: They have like four weeks off and she'll lie and
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: they have three weeks off in April. Three weeks off.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: I mean, they have a lot of dark, dark days
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: and weeks, which means that they load up during the week.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: So if it's a five day week, they do like
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: ten to twelve shows. If it's a four day week,
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: they do like, I don't know, eight to ten shows.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: So it just kind of depends on your storyline, I guess. Yeah,
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: And so when I came back to the show, that
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: was probably the hardest part, is like learning all the lines,
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: especially when you're like perimenopausal and your brain fog and
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: you're like, oh my god, what am I learning? But yeah,
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: like I did eight shows and four to three days?
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Was it three days?
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So it was a lot. But but they they're
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: so great there. They're just like, I don't know, they
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: give you a minute if you guys need to run
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: your lines really quick before the scene or yeah, it's good,
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: that's not I can't imagine.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: I literally can't imagine having to memorize especially being like
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: you're fifty one, I'm fifty almost fifty two, and Bob's
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: fifty three, Like we're right in it. And the other
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: day I might have shared the story already, Bob, So
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry if I did. But I had a senior
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: moment where we have we're changing banks, and I went
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: to our previous bank to close out an account and
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: they were like, it's already been closed. I literally closed
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: it already, and I forgot.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: I do that a lot. I do that a lot.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: I do think anything like that. Yeah, but the brain
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: thought it then it's just kind of like anything. It's
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: like a muscle, right. So I just now that I've
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: been doing it a little bit, it's getting easier. Plus
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: I'm knowing, I'm getting more familiar with the way they write,
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: and and so yeah, and Brad is great the producer.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: He's like, as long as the intention is the same,
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: it's okay. If it's kind of you make it sort
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: of your own. But I mean, you know, you can't
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: change the whole thing. But there's just a little bit
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: of leeway. So it's great.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: So that's nice. That's got to be a little comforting.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Is this is both and beautiful one of the shows
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: that goes to Monaco too. Yes, Oh that's so cool.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: Well that's what I've heard. Yeah, not so cool for
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: my kids. She'd be like, oh a little separation, a
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: little separation as she's going.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: But yeah, oh my god, yeah, I find I remember
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: that there was a couple of the shows that did that,
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I was like, God, that'd be
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: the one, like, you know, to get to go to
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Monica and do the film that the holes and all
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: that stuff.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: But yeah, did you ever do that, Bob?
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: No, I wish I've never been before, because.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: There was I went one time right after the show
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Ryan and I Flute, not to the film festival, but
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: they have like a TV festival.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, and I was there with that guy who
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: ended up he was on like one of the like
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: with Keeper Sutherland or something, and then he ended up
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: doing those insurance commercials.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm talking He was on twenty four. Yes,
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: he played the pro.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: Yes, twenty four that's it.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, we watched twenty four.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Memories.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I love that guy. Yes, his voice is so he's
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: got such gravitaz yeah good.
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: Yes, he's the.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: One with the really low low voice. But yeah, we
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: were with him, like we were writing in a helicopter
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: with him. It was so much fun.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: I wish.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they still do that. We need
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: to like put out the vibes and have them.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: We should do our podcast from there, and we can
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: help the BACA can help us bring you know, some
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: of the bowl and the beautiful cast on.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: That's right, right, right, Well, I'm sure tourist goes. I
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: don't know. I think they invite you, but I don't.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I haven't heard anything about it.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, I have I have a question. This is a
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: very random question. Okay, so we're soap operas. Do you
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: guys and I have backstory? Do you guys sell your
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: the clothes? How does the wardrobe work? Do they I
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: assume they get you clothes, but do they sell them?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Because I'll I'll tell you my story after you answer that.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: No, so they don't. But there is a fan out there.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: So they don't provide your clothes anymore.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, they provide no, no, no, they provide us close.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: They provide us close close. That's one thing I also
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: loved about my character is that I'm wearing clothes that
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: I don't normally wear, like I'm wearing suits and I'm
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: wearing like pants and I'm not. I don't. I don't
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: want to be the sex pot, you know, because she's
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: a psychiatrist too. You can't if you're a psychiatrist and
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: you know, flaunt and flaunt in your boobs that I
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: don't have. It's, you know, not the best. I don't know,
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: but they do. They do get clothes for you. And
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: there's a fan out there and I don't know who
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: what her name is, but she will find the what
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: you're wearing and like list it for people. That's so crazy.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, at least she did a general hospital, so
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm sure she does it for a
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: lot of the shows.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: So like for example, like Neil, you could get this
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: outfit at Bloomingdale's or whatever.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Oh that's cool, that's right for the brand.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: That'd be actually a full time, like fun job.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know, I'm like making money.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: I mean, because this is it seems.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Like a lot of Yeah, I bet she is making money.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I bet she posts it on like to note or
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: something like that and gets a commission whenever someone buys something.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just mentioned code lady that does the fashion
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: stuff or whatever her code. Yeah, that's interesting.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: So on the Bachelorette, I secured a bunch of clothes
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: for myself, and long story short, the producers were selling
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: them and like I was like, wait, what is happening
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: to my clothes? Like these are my clothes that I
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: figured out.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: And why to the show? Not wait wait wait wait
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: yeah yeah.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah wait wait you it was your clothes that you
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: picked out.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: You so sax essentially gave me clothes, so they like
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: gifted me clothes. So yes, they were my clothes essentially
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: that I had been gifted by Saxon. I figured it out,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I coordinated it. I looked at my closet one day
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: and I was like, where is this jacket or whatever?
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: And they were like, oh, well that was sold or whatever,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: and I'm like these are Montlos like I got them.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: And they told me that there was like something that
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: like all the soap operas do where they like resell
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: all the clothes in LA like you can go to
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: this like off.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: The house or something.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: Yah.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah it's called I know. I know exactly what
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: it is because when all my children ended Okay, yeah,
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: they were like, so, if you want your clothes, they're
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: going to go to this place whatever it's called, and
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: you can go there and you can get it and
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: they're going to give you a discount. Now, Trista, these
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: clothes have been fitted to you, like tailored, but everything
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: yours too, right? Yeah, oh yes, for sure. Guess who
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: showed up and guests who never wore a thing that
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: she bought them. That's right, because I'm like, you're different.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: But for me, I was like, I'm not Greenlee, Like
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: I don't want to wear Greenley's little skirt. Yeah, but whatever,
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: I did it.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Oh, I want to know what what it's called.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: It's called, it's called it's gonna get it's gonna. It's
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: really gonna bother me. I have to look it up.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: That's so funny. I want to know.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: Because I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna find
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: out it okay.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: To you? So interesting.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I want to know if it's still.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Going on, if some of your stuff is still there.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean the place is massive.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it has to be. If there's there's so many
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, how many soap operas are there? Right, and
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: I know, and how they have to use a new
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: outfit for every scene that they do, and there's a
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: million scenes.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: So well, I always I'm like, they try and recycle
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: some things, like now like they you know, you know,
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: wear the same thing, but like they'll put a different
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: pant with a different jacket or whatever.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, that's interesting. Tell you guys. None of
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: the wardrobe Well, the Bachelor wardrobe I thought was kind
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: of cool, but every show I've hosted since then, the
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: wardrobes have they've gotten increasingly worse a and I'm always like,
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: what are you guys doing, Like, can't you know, are
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: we really on this type of a budget?
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Like wearing everywhere everywhere?
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: It's all like sandpaper. So like for me, you know,
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: I'll put on like a dress shirt that I essentially
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: am getting exfoliated while I'm wearing it, I'm like, yeah,
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I don't really wanna. I don't want to buy this,
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: and uh, you know, I'm on a hot stage all
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: day sweating. I'm like, yeah, I don't think anyone else
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: is gonna want to wear my formerly pitted out shirt
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: either they're gonna buy it.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: They're gonna buy it.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I think about that stuff all the time.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't think maybe it doesn't work that
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: way for guys clothes. Maybe with the ladies, you know,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: it works that way, but oh my god, I don't know.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know it is it is like a thing
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: when you can actually keep the clothes, like I think
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: it's I just did. I'll be uh, actually maybe I
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: should talk about this, but I'm going to appear on
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: a show in the future and they actually gave me
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: the clothes, and I was like, oh, this is a
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: nice surprise because I don't feel like it happens that often.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: You're like, thank you, Yeah, it doesn't happen that often anymore.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: So you're like, oh my god, it's Christmas.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: I got to keep all my clothes from my season
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: of the Bachelor. And I will tell you, uh the
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: I will not name the suit brand, but the suit
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: brand did not hold up particularly well. I think it
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: was literally like possibly like sewn together by hand. As
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: I walked into the you know, into there, because man,
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: I think I shipped them home and they like fell apart.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what is it going? Oh no, no, yeah,
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: oh no, yeah. But NEOs to say that was like
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: I thought it was you know, I thought it was
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: so lucky. I negotiated to keep the clothes. No, no,
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I know why they let me keep them down.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a few sizes bigger.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Than right, yes, yes, yeah, yeah, well well definitely on
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: the Bachelorette. I was the bachelorette, you know, I was.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: I think you might recall you were going on a
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: day to, uh to San Diego. I think You're going
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: to what's that called the Sea World? And I'm like,
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: wait a minute, she just named like a bunch of people.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: But she did mention shamoo. Does that mean I get
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: to go to Do you know?
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: I remember you did see that joke, didn't you bomb? Yes,
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: I remember that. Oh yeah, it was.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Just like what are you talking about? God?
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: Oh my good.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: I get why you would choose Ryan over me. The
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: dude just like hold it out of Clay. I mean,
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: even to this day, you know, like still a least
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: like zero percent body facts like oh whatever I want,
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: like hull, I need nothing but let us and I'm
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: at like a forty percent, uh you know, closing it
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: on obesity with every passing minute of the day. Yeah, okay,
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: oh my god, he is just a beast.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: It really is.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you did all right there, Trista, you did all right,
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: miss you. Yeah. Yeah, I think we all. I think
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: we all did. We all. I think that's one thing
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: we can say here at the Ogs. We all did
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: pretty damn well for ourselves, including our lovely guess Rebecca.
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: But it yeah, that's right.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: The whole world goes full circle. So Rebecca, now with
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: your daughter, with everything you have going on, I mean,
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: do you have time to make it back home to
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: see your family?
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: I do?
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: I do?
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: My people?
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: My uh yeah, so yeah, my dad is Parkinson's and
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: so it's it's uh, it's you know, my parents are aging.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: They're going to be eighty eight in a couple of weeks,
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: and I know, And so I try and get back
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: as much as I can. Yeah, yeah, I mean I
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: definitely every three to four months I go back.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Oh that's amazing.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: And it's getting harder because there's only one direct flight
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: and it's a red eye going and coming back. I wish,
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: you know, I wish they had more direct flights. So
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: last time we went there, we are flight we didn't
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: make the connection because the flight was delayed and then
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: we got like we had to go to Atlanta and
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: stay night in Atlanta and then like make our way
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: to Cincinnati, and it was it was rough, rough on
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: my kid for sure.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah that experiences are good. Yeah yeah, yeah, we're
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: we're all about the direct flights in the Guinea household.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: And I will tell you it's even at that. It's like, uh,
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: you know, the whole thing. They say it takes a village, right,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: and I agree with that. Unfortunately, sometimes the villagers on
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Delta flight one oh five didn't sign up for helping
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: babysit my kids. I'm like, oh, like sprinting up and
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: down the because Blake and Grayson are going opposite way.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Monnie goes body and next thing, you know, it's an absolute.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: I remember those days. I remember those days.
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: But she doesn't like flying.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Oh that's rough. Yeah. Yeah, Overnight flights are brutal no
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: matter who you are.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: I agree, especially when you don't get I don't get
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: home as much as I'd like, but I do. Yeah.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: Well that's good. Well, please tell everyone I said hello,
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: my love, and you know I'm I. Uh, I will
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: tell you that I have many wonderful memories and I
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: and I talk about Greater's ice Cream, Montgomery and Barbecue,
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: I talk about all those Cincinnati greats. And then I
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: was like, how you know so much about that?
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: I used to go there, you know, the Five Way Chili,
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: the Three Way, you know. Yeah, So I talked about
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: the place with the people like, how do you know
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: so much? I'm like, well, you know, I used to
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: spend some time there. How Naura, Norah's doing really well.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Noorah's doing really well. She's you know, after my dad passed.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: I think it was one of those things where she
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: really kind of kind of didn't realize. I don't think
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: any of us really realized, quite frankly, how big of
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: a role my dad played in in that confidence level
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: and that and all of that that my mom projects,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: you know. And I think that was one of the
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: things that we found out that was kind of like,
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: oh wow, okay, Dad. You know, Dad was more than
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: just the rock of the family. He was also everybody's confidence,
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: you know, including mine. So it's like it's one of
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: those things you you know, you don't realize, uh, you
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: know the impact of some of that until until you
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: have a chance to take stock. And so she's doing
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: all right. I think I think that she missus, missus uh,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: my dad terribly, you know, much like your parents. They
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: are together forever, you know, and it's just one of
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: those things where it's like, you know, when when all
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: of a sudden that person is gone, you're sort of like,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: the hell am I doing here? You know? And so
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: she definitely.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: But she's still able to live alone and like in
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: the house.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's still in the house. And she loves her
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: little grandkids. You know, she's it's a pretty big age discrepancy.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: You know, she's got a twenty six year old and
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: then a five year old and a three year old
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: for a grand Oh.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: I'm sure she's in heaven though. That's all she wanted.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she wanted. And how Howard d D and
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: j D.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: They're doing great. They're doing great. They're empty nesters now,
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: of course, and you know, so they've got their they've
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: got a bristling social schedule, to say the least. They're
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: always they were at the game with me last night.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: They were at the game with Canyon and I really
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, it was a lot of fun and you know,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: and being back.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: And told JD I miss his Lima beans and I
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: miss I do I think about them and his Brussels, right,
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: two of the gasest that and that's what JD the
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: regular did you still make those?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Oh? He makes everything. I mean he's he's added several
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: new items to his repertoire. And I will tell you
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: the Canyon is a fierce cook too, so they like
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: they have these little cookoffs. Yeah, where it's like, oh yeah,
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: it's so good. Like Thanksgiving is a smortgish board of
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: so so it's a lot of fun. It's I'll definitely
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: let him know you picked out those two items because
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: I I will tell you growing up eating Brussels sprouts, right,
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: and it was like, I swear all they did was
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: boil them and serve them on a plate. You're like,
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: what's this soggy plant? I'm not eating this. My dog
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: wouldn't eat them, No one would do. Now it's like
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: you go to restaurants and it's like Brussels sprouts are
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: like the key to the whole restaurants get out. Yeah yeah,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: j D. J D brought that to the to the
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: Guinea House early on with I mean throwing the garlic
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: in there and the parmesan. Now I'm see.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: You guys are making me hungry.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: I know I'll never be built like Ryan. If I
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: can't have that garlic and parmesan.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: I'll never be either.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. I guess you got to do the
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: work right. He's also like running pentathlons and everything else,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: and I'm sitting on the couch eating bonbond still. Yeah,
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: but he does.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: He just finished a workout, so yeah, he's I mean,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: he tries, he keeps up with it. But yeah, I
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: don't know about you. Back up, but paramenopause has hit
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: my motivation. I just you said you work, You wake
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: up at four thirty in the morning and workout. Oh
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: my lord, I just I can't even get a workout
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: in by five o'clock. I'm like, oh the motivation, I
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: love it.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: I will I love it. I love like the weight
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: training and the bands and stuff. But I'm not great
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: at cardio, like unless I can go outside and walk
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: with my dogs. But it's you know, yeah, five thousand
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: degrees here and yeah, you know, unless I can get
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: a good walk in with the dogs. I was just
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: thinking the other day, I'm like, I gotta do something
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: for my heart, like cardio. But what am I gonna
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: do maybe dance class. I don't know, something for dance
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: classes too, dance classes and also like meditation, I want
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: to do that.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, see, I can't do that either.
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: I just can't stick to it.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: I wanted to bring up the fact that one of
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: my favorite shows of yours was Skating with the Stars.
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I totally remember that. You were you were
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: one of the few people who watched it.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: I think it was right after Dancing with the I
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: was of Dancing with the Stars, and I think it
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: like right, didn't it.
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: It was the same people that did it. Was the
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: same people that did Dancing with Stars. Of course they
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: asked me many years to dancing and I'm like no, no, no,
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: and then Skating with the Stars like You're like, I'm like,
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: I don't know. And then I put on my old
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: skates and I was walking around the house and them
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: and stuff, and I was like, I guess I'm doing this.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: I always wanted to do pair skating. That's so sweet
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: that you watched it. I mean, seriously, I remember it.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: The one and only season.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Well, you are the one only champion.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: One and only champion, one only champion.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Of Skating with She won the crystal mirror skate trophy, Like,
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: what was the trophy?
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: The bronze skates, the bronze.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Skate I remember that. Yes, yeah, that is a claimed.
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: Thame right there.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a claim thing.
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: That's so funny. Yeah, it was hard, but it was fun.
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: It was like the one of the best things I
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: ever did. I mean, I don't know about you, but
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: the only thing I think it was different than dancing.
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: Well you could have fallen too, but like they would
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: they would put that water on the ice so that
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: it would look Yeah, and I and we had to
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: go down this ramp to come out, like when they
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: announced your name, and I'm like, I'm going to fall?
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: What have I done? What if I say up for?
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: What is wrong with me? Why am I doing this?
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: I was like shaking, so I'm like I'm gonna fall.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna fall. And then someone fell and I was like, Okay,
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: they fell, and now I can fall. But they did.
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: I never did. But I was so stiff. I wouldn't
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: bend my knees like I was so stiff. I was
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: so nervous. Oh my god. But I I ended up
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: doing that. The guy want with the choreographer, he ended
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: up in New York and I ended up moving to
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: New York right after that, shortly after that, and I
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: started skating there with another guy who was even more
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: He was just my partner, was very safe. Fred. I
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: loved Fred, but he was very safe. And I went in.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: He hooked me up with this guy Jonathan, and we
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: were doing the craziest I was. I was skating with
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: all these Olympians and Chelsea Pears. It was like there's
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: there's Brian Potano, and there's Evan Lysachek and well Evan
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: lysa Check. I mean, I wouldn't skate when Evan was
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: skating like I was like on the side because he
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: was like a train. It was so it crazy. I've
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: never so cool. But yeah, all the girls were all
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: at the brink everyone, but they would just skate and
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: I would go and I would skate with this guy
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: and we were doing I did a handstand on his
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: arm while he's skating across the ice. What Then I
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: got pregnant. I was like done, I'm not doing that, Nore,
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: no more.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: No more triple cow for you, No, not even close
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: to a single.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Those are tough anyway I experience, Bob, you.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Know, I'm a skating enthusiast, you know, when the Olympics
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: come along, I'm dialing it up. I got, I got
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: my coach, I got like critiques going, that's awesome. I
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: remember that when that show came out because we had
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: been Rebecca and I were still together at this point,
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: and they had talked to us possibly about doing dancing
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: as like the husband and wife team. Do you remember that, Rebecca?
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: And no, you mean when dancing came out, not skating, dancing,
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: not skating.
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: But dancing. I don't remember that really.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, when talking about it there, like well, they were like,
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: did you think you guys would be interested in it?
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: And I said, well, I think I probably would, but
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: I don't think Rebecca would do it, and they and
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: they were like, oh, okay, well we're thinking about doing
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: a husband and wife thing and they end up doing
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: Jewel in Ty Murray. And I don't know if you
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: remember that when Jewel was on the show and her
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: husband was like a rodeo guy and uh and he
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: was on the show as well, and I was like, oh, wow, interesting, it's.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: Just you know, listen interesting. When they asked me to
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: do dancing, I was like, I'm an actress. I'm not,
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: you know, I want to act. I don't want to
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: do it. And now, in retrospect, I should have said yes.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: I mean I would have I say yes to anything
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: right now because I'm like, why not? Yeah, it's an experience, right, So.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: What are you? You love?
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: You learn you're young, and you're like no, I'm yeah,
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: The only things I was saying, though too back then
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: were like celebrity bull riding, and I'm like, no, no,
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: I'm not doing that. I'm not doing celebrity factor either.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: What was the Box Show?
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: Did you get asked to do celebrity fear Factor?
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I did, and christ and Ryan ended up doing it
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: and I didn't.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: I didn't do it. No, I did not. I said
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: no because I didn't want to eat any bugs and
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: then they bugs anyway, But long story short for charity, but.
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: Ryan want it.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: I know Ryan is. Ryan is the champion of that one.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, we're around so many champion caliber people right now.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: We got the bronze skate winner, the guy who ate
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: you know, Turtle Eggs or whatever. See that was my
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: problem was I was like, I'll jump out of a chopper.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I'm good with that, but you know, I'm not afraid
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: of that. Put something in front of me that's moving,
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: I'm not eating it, and I'm automatically off the show. Yeah,
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I will not do that. I was so stressed. Yeah,
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: And the one time I met Joe Rogan, he made
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: so much fun of me for it, and I was like,
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: I know, dude, I know you're right. I should have
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: just done it, but I was just afraid. You know.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, me too.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, bunny guy, funny guy. Well, we are very excited
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: that you came on the show. Thank you so much
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: for joining us, and thank you for giving us the time.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure you've got a ton of people
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: that really want to talk about your return to daytime.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've got.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: They're lined up out my door. How did you not
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: know that?
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, I am very proud. I'm very proud
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: that you're going to bolden the beautiful with Tourist, and
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: I think you guys are going to be so magic together.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: You've always been such an electric, you know, pair of
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: friends that I know that will translate so beautifully to
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: the screen and I can't wait to watch it. Thank you,
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: You're very welcome.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: Thank you, Trista.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Oh my congratulations, it's so good to see your face.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: I want to look up this place. I'm going to
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: tell you, yes.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: I want to see Yes, I totally I want to
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: look it up and see if it's actually still still existence,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: because because you know what, I love my TJ Max,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: and actually I think I would love like this kind
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: of warehouse even more because yeah, it's.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: It's called hang on. I'm looking. It's a rap. It's
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: a rap.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: It's a rap. Okay, done, I'm looking. It's a rap.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a rap.
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: It's your this is your opportunity to purchase hang on.
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: I'm literally I just clicked on it. Yeah, Wardrobes and
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: props from your crops. Nice to General Hospital tells you
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: which shows secrets and lies?
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: That's so funny.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Conrad Michelle TV shows I've never heard of in my
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: life of sixty first Street, sixty first Street.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a that's a riveting series.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: American American Jigglow. American Jigglow.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: Oh good one.
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: So there you go. Monday, Tuesdays and Wednesdays. That's it though,
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Oh and Saturday or something. Bullets.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: I'm totally I'm gonna look, I'm gonna look. I think
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: that's hysterical. Maybe maybe I can buy some of my
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: old clothes.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: You know what, wouldn't that be amazing if you walked
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: in there and you're like, wait a minute, I wore this,
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: uh you know on that spot he with Bob.
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: What are you like? I wore this in nineteen eighty seven?
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: What is it doing here? Still not style anymore?
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: I will say that, Yeah, I still have like my
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: suits will look like mc hammers, like giant balloon pants.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: At this point, the way they were fitted, it's.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: Like it's coming back though, It's all coming back.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh good, Oh we're good.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: Well, thank you Rebecca.
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: Thank you, guys.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Tell your family. I said hello, and.
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: I will say please, okay, thank you bye.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: I love see. I love the episode of my my
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: ex girlfriend and my ex wife. I think it works
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: so fine.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: I love her. I'm just she's good people, she.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Is man, and you know, I think it's it's nice
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: to reconnect with her because we haven't really talked and
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: since my father passed, and I think it's really nice
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: to you know, I've had more interaction with her husband,
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: which isn't a ton either, but just easy. It's a
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: really great guy. And you know, I think it's nice
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: when someone you cared about finds the right person and
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: you genuinely feel good for them, like and I know
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: that she does for me, you know. And it's so
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: nice because I always say that I hate to use
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: this term, but you know, just because just because your
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: relationship doesn't work out, you don't have to throw the baby,
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: to throw out the baby with the bathwater, you know
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: that expression, you know, And you don't have to do
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: that because you can still celebrate the things you cared
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: about with that person and root for him, you know.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: And I've been rooting for her, and I know she
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: has been for me. And every now and then she'll
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: reach out and be like, oh my god, your boys
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: are so beautiful and you know, so excited to see
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: this or whatever, and you know, so it's actually a
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: very uh, I think, a very mutually respectful, respectable relationship,
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: which I think is nice, respectful. Yeah, I'm not sure
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: exactly what. I don't tell you, Yes, thank you, thank you,
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: I mean other than me, Other than me, I mean,
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: I'm probably you know, one of the bigger ones in
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: your life. But are you friends with any of your exes,
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: not like.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: The major ones in my life like before Bachelor and Bachelor.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: Atte Not really.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I get, I should we share Christmas cards
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: my high school boyfriend, but that's like the extent of it.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: That's it. Like, and I was burned. I got cheated
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: on by my grad school boyfriend, so I have I
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: have no reason to talk to him.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: No, no, And that's what I mean, right, that's a
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: great point. Like in those circumstances, I get it why
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: you're like, you know what done, But when there's nothing
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: like that, it's like, yeah, no, good for you.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: So no, And honestly, I feel like there's no there's
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: no reason for it unless for some reason we ran
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: in the same circles or had some kind of or
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: had a kid or something. But sure, no, I I
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: think that, you know, just focusing on my current relationship.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: That's right, is what is my Yeah, if you get
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: rid of the toxic stuff, you keep the stuff that's good,
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: and you know, and then like you know, like she
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: like she said too, it's not like you know, I mean,
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: we're still very friendly, we speak very kindly of one another,
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: but it's not like we're you know, speed dialing each
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: other every week, you know. I mean I haven't talked her.
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: I haven't had a you know, even in exchange with
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: her probably in three years. So that was really nice
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: to catch up with her. And I didn't know about
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: her dad's situation. So I'm so sorry to hear that
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: because he's such a wonderful guy and you know, for
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: him to not be doing well and not feeling well,
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: that's tough. But you know, yeah, so excited for her,
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: Excited for both and beautiful. I really did reach out
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: to my good friend tourist and who he plays Ridge
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: Fort on the show, who will be her love interest?
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: And you know, I thought, I was like, wow, okay, Toasty,
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: I know that you requested this pairing, and he's like,
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: I did. I did, buddy. Just you know, he's just
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: a funny guy. You know, he should do He should
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: be doing comedy as well. He's just the great drama
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: as an actor as well. But it'll be nice to
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: see them reconnect on the screens. I think people are
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: going to fall in love with the two of them.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't watched it soar in years, decades really,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: but maybe I should do it just to watch you.
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: Back then yeah, there you go. You know, I think
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: it's a it's a remarkable it's a it's a remarkable.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Their fan base is so strong, it's kind of like
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: Dachlination to a lot of degree. Like, you know, the
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: people who love Vachlination, they are in it. If they're
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: watching it, they're committed. And that's the way a lot
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: of the daytime fans are as well. As they were
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: like that. They're watching their shows, their stories, they're not
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: missing them, you know, and they're very passionate, you know,
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: very passionate about it.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: You're right, you're right. Yeah, all right, great to chat.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Good to see you again. I'm glad you're one and
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: I am too.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I love you, Trista. Thank you
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: for being a part of a really fun episode, and
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to talk to you again soon.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Bye, everybody in again soon. Actually, we do have another
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: interview coming up soon. Yes, hopefully you guys willing in again.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, have a great one.