Latest / The Christian Reeve Podcast / Matthew Gray | The Christian Reeve Podcast #183
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- 0:00Hello and welcome to another episode of the Christian re
- 0:03podcast. Today's guest is a professional,
- 0:05chef author and CEO of gourmet adventures and Hawaii Food.
- 0:10Tours, his name is Matthew Gray. Welcome to the show.
- 0:12How you did. Thanks Christian.
- 0:14I really appreciate the invitation to come see you on
- 0:17Ice, the pleasure is mine. I just read as got my this, in
- 0:20the way I was doing some voice. Voiceover stuff earlier, right?
- 0:24Yeah. No.
- 0:24An absolute pleasure to have you on the show.
- 0:27There's I was doing my okay. Is it his little caveat to this?
- 0:31So I always do extensive research, all all my guests
- 0:34anyway but sometimes I have like so much research compiled on a
- 0:38person that I just don't even know where to start.
- 0:40Like, I'm just like, ah, I don't know, I don't know.
- 0:44Where do I start? But let's start with the the two
- 0:50companies that you're sort of headed at the moment.
- 0:52So talk us through the creation of gourmet adventures, and over
- 0:54what Hawaii Food, Tours, what you offer and why people should
- 0:58check you out. Well, you know, Hawaii Food
- 1:01Tours, go taken down back in March of 2020 because of the
- 1:04covid shit show. So for 16 years prior to, then
- 1:09what we did was feed educate and entertain people every single
- 1:13day who were visiting Hawaii, introduce them to the islands,
- 1:17the food, the culture, and all of that.
- 1:20So it was an amazing famous experience.
- 1:24Okay? I didn't actually have that
- 1:26information. So that's my butt right there,
- 1:28but how come you have? I thought about bringing it back
- 1:30and you just kind of feel like, okay, you know what we'll call
- 1:34it there and we'll move on to new things or was it sort of a
- 1:36case of maybe it's difficult to bring it back or maybe not in
- 1:40the same way? You division it before?
- 1:42Like how come that's now done, you know, it's a good question,
- 1:48you know, Christian the covid has changed everything for so
- 1:54many people. People don't want to get
- 1:55together in the same way that they used it.
- 1:57And so, I had a kind of Because it was a big, big duration of
- 2:03time where we couldn't do the tours.
- 2:05So I wrote a book called The Ultimate eaters guide.
- 2:08Hawaii addition to be able to take care of people who are
- 2:11still coming to Hawaii and still are very focused on wanting to
- 2:14try great food and so that's what I'm that's what I'd done
- 2:18recently. I read least the book on
- 2:20Valentine's Day this year and so I'm still involved with taking
- 2:24care of people but not in the, in the flesh anymore.
- 2:28That's interesting. It confuses me because like I
- 2:33feel like, what I see is basically things are just, I
- 2:36mean, maybe this is just the UK, maybe it's different elsewhere,
- 2:39but I feel like it here in the UK, everyone's just kind of gone
- 2:42back to normal. And this is like it is though
- 2:45it's never happened and I feel like there's positives and
- 2:47negatives to that because the positives are like, okay was
- 2:51good that we're back to normal and, you know, it's not
- 2:53completely changed things for good, but at the same time,
- 2:56Things like hygiene standards especially in Food Service.
- 3:00Oh, my God. Should be like really, really
- 3:02high and shit and if anything the pandemic should have taught
- 3:06us that hey you know what, like it.
- 3:08Maybe it's not such a bad thing to wash your hands frequently
- 3:11and it's just it's just stuff that we should already be doing
- 3:15but evidently I don't know. Isn't it weird when you go out
- 3:20into the public and someone sneezes or coughs, everyone kind
- 3:24of freaks out internally. And it's a whole lot different
- 3:28than in the old days. You know, people you go to the
- 3:30movies and people would be coughing and hacking and spewing
- 3:33all over the place, and you just think it's a little bit gross.
- 3:36But now it's like, you're thinking about, like, am I gonna
- 3:38die? So I should, I should laugh.
- 3:43But no, you're right, you're right.
- 3:45I remember in the beginning of the pandemic, I forget few
- 3:49months there. I was, I was deeply concerned
- 3:51about that and it's not like, I didn't leave the house, but that
- 3:55there was one point out. They were, I didn't leave the
- 3:57house for a month and I was kind of crazy because I've got
- 4:01everything delivered and then I was like, wow like I haven't
- 4:04left the house in a month, this is bad.
- 4:06I need to just go for a walk something like, oh yeah,
- 4:09definitely it's changed everything.
- 4:11So you know, starting my business I really had to do the
- 4:14pivot. There's been a lot of requests
- 4:16for from people who are coming into Hawaii, who want to do the
- 4:19tour but then I see that there's still too much discomfort to
- 4:23bring it back. So for the time being, I'm doing
- 4:25some other things. Things and counseling people and
- 4:28and all that and utilizing my food experience that I was, I
- 4:32was educated in London. So your next words.
- 4:35Yeah. The codon blur in London, right,
- 4:38right. So, you know, that was very
- 4:40interesting being able to live there and school there and learn
- 4:44a lot about the, the formalities of Education of food and
- 4:47culinary. But my experience is all over
- 4:50the globe, doing all different, kinds of groovy things.
- 4:53I got to ask. Because from the information, I
- 4:55had you train Is it from 1979 through to the early 80s?
- 5:00That correct? That's right.
- 5:01Yeah, a long time. So, obviously, the game would
- 5:05have been a lot different back then.
- 5:07Walk you tell us about your experiences training at Le
- 5:09Cordon Bleu. Well, it was pretty much the
- 5:13significant aspect of training. There was being able to drink in
- 5:19the United Kingdom and learn about London and meeting the
- 5:23great people. I just have kind of those
- 5:25anglophile thing. Going on to wear everything UK
- 5:29works for me and I still fantasize about going back and
- 5:33living there, maybe for a long duration.
- 5:36Mmm. Yeah.
- 5:37What brought you to Hawaii? Like, did you born and raised
- 5:41there or elsewhere, or by Hawaii?
- 5:44I was born in New York there to the age of 10, my family then
- 5:48moved to Los Angeles. They didn't tell me right away,
- 5:51but I caught up with them eventually.
- 5:53And then to me why they just one day Just like
- 6:08so I can't really move any further west and still be in the
- 6:11United States, so maybe it is time to come to London and live.
- 6:14There may be, I mean typically when you spend a great deal of
- 6:18time in a certain place it's for a reason or several reasons.
- 6:22But what would you say are the I say that the biggest things
- 6:25you've learned just living in Hawaii.
- 6:28The biggest takeaways from living in Hawaii.
- 6:31Hawaii is the most unusual and unique part of the United States
- 6:36as far as state to state. And it has a very high Asian
- 6:41influence and wonderful history and it is gorgeous.
- 6:46So I can understand what attracts people also is a big,
- 6:49spiritual kind of magnetic appeal to it.
- 6:53Justin group. For me, it allowed me to do all
- 6:56of these creative things because my life has been one creative
- 7:00Endeavor after another. So I became a food writer and
- 7:03restaurant critic and, you know, it was just involved with taking
- 7:08care of people and working in the newspaper and feeding and
- 7:11entertaining people every day that's been my whole life.
- 7:14You know, I grew up in a family that, you know, when times were
- 7:19good, you would celebrate by eating, when times were not
- 7:23good. You would kind of soothe your
- 7:26soul by eating and everything was drawn to eating.
- 7:29Every single thing in between good and bad was always related
- 7:33to what's what's for dinner. I like the way you think that
- 7:38feel the same way about food, anything, man, I love food.
- 7:45Like, I always thought I'm a Taurus.
- 7:47That's my star sign and they said we love food and I am very
- 7:51much into my food and and I've had to learn to sort of brain it
- 7:55back and be a bit more sensible with my portions and stuff like
- 7:59that because I can go crazy and I don't think I've ever sat
- 8:02there and felt like sad by eating food.
- 8:05You know like any like whatever's going on in my life
- 8:08it could be the worst day ever. But if I've got some food and
- 8:12I'm sitting there and I'm eating that food is like totally get
- 8:16that. I totally get that.
- 8:17However being a chef and being the kind of like snobby
- 8:21background person. I was brought up To be.
- 8:25Now when I go out, it's it's sort of something that I accept
- 8:30a lot more easily than I used to.
- 8:32Because I used to have what I call a diners remorse.
- 8:35I go into a restaurant, drop a lot of money and then say, you
- 8:38know, I can make that better at home.
- 8:41Now when I go out, I'm just really accepting and happy that
- 8:45I'm not, you know, cooking in the kitchen.
- 8:47And that I'm being waited on and taking care of, you know.
- 8:51Well, that's the key thing, isn't it?
- 8:52Like, I think a lot of people always talk about Oh, they say
- 8:55you go to a restaurant and the food is that kind of like are so
- 8:57right? Maybe you could have better at
- 8:59home like really, you're paying for the experience service, the
- 9:04Ambiance, if you like the whole package, Because you know that
- 9:10the food is going to be overpriced, whatever is even if
- 9:13it's something that's maybe on the cheaper side, it's still
- 9:15going to be a lot cheaper to make that at home.
- 9:17And I would want to think that most people would be aware of
- 9:20that but not necessarily, right? But I do feel like Like, I don't
- 9:27know if this is happening in Hawaii, but I know in the UK
- 9:30like everywhere. I'm in put somewhere in the mid
- 9:32to late 2000s. Like everywhere was trying to be
- 9:34like a gastropub, right? And maybe it was the influence
- 9:38of shows, like, you know, Gordon Ramsay's Hell's Kitchen or, you
- 9:44know, MasterChef shows like that.
- 9:45Where it's like, oh, everyone's kind of obsessed with cooking
- 9:47and that's great. That's, that's a good thing.
- 9:49That's good, I think of anything, but at the same time,
- 9:53I noticed like a lot of hospitality mrs.
- 9:56Would try and has like step up the game, which would sounds
- 9:59great. But when you start to actually
- 10:02look up, you know, how they change everything as far as I
- 10:06could marketing perspective, and then the visual perspective, and
- 10:09then what you're actually getting like, I did it for me,
- 10:11it's infuriating like let's say I go to a pub and I guess I
- 10:18don't know. I burger and I order a burger
- 10:20meal of some description Pub. I expect to get.
- 10:23Yeah you know a reasonably sized Burger.
- 10:26Some fries maybe a bit of salad for let's say 8 to 10 pounds,
- 10:31something like that, right? What I'll normally get because
- 10:35of this whole Gastropub nonsense is like a wooden slab with a
- 10:40tiny Burger in the middle and maybe some fries that be 1595
- 10:45please what? And it's like those companies
- 10:50jump on that and and do that and it is Trends and stuff like
- 10:53that. But you know what?
- 10:55All these artists to The kitchen running restaurants and the
- 10:58marketing people in the back who think that if they show you a
- 11:02nice time by putting artistic looking food and drink down that
- 11:06that's enough. But that's not enough.
- 11:07That's not the whole picture, you know, it begins and ends
- 11:12when you walk in through their door, how you're greeted, what
- 11:15the food is like, what the service is like, and do they
- 11:18provide an atmosphere and Ambience for you and me to be
- 11:21able to sit down and have a great meal together.
- 11:24Hmm, that's me like is Important to be honest, then the food,
- 11:28like I've had situations where maybe the food wasn't as great
- 11:32but the service was so good. That I didn't think about it too
- 11:34much. I was like, it's okay.
- 11:36And I think it's all relative. Isn't it to wherever you're
- 11:39actually eating it at this establishment?
- 11:42You're eating it like that. You always have to be fair and
- 11:46reasonable to, as far as your expectations are concerned.
- 11:49So, like, remember I tried some food, a friend of mines
- 11:53workplace, and it was just, it was just a pub, it was it Was
- 11:56nothing special. So I didn't expect, you know,
- 11:59anything, that's special. I kind of had a rough idea in my
- 12:01head of like, okay, this is why you should taste like this is
- 12:03roughly how it should be priced. And I remember thinking, okay,
- 12:07it's definitely overpriced for what it is and when I got it, I
- 12:10was like, wow, I can get something better at the local
- 12:11take away for like 3 pounds cheaper.
- 12:13Like this is I don't get this but then other places you know,
- 12:17like, for me The most important thing is things being
- 12:22appropriately priced so like I'm more than willing to spend a lot
- 12:27more money like on something that's genuinely worth it.
- 12:30Because in my mind it's like okay well you're just paying for
- 12:32something higher quality and, you know, that that will cost
- 12:35you more but when it's, I don't know, I just get infuriated when
- 12:38I get over charged with something that's not worth.
- 12:40It just seems like a bit of an injustice of some description.
- 12:43You know, I totally agree with that.
- 12:45A, I think we have to adjust our expectations when you go to a
- 12:48donor place and It's after the pub closes.
- 12:51That's one thing. You don't have high expectations
- 12:53going to always be delicious, but when you go in, you're
- 12:57spending, good money. And you're sitting across from
- 12:59someone, you really care about for me.
- 13:02This is the best form of communication, being able to sit
- 13:04down break bread, have a glass of wine or whatever with someone
- 13:09you really care about and learn about them.
- 13:11And that's how I was brought up and that's what makes a
- 13:13restaurant specials when they can give you that atmosphere and
- 13:17you, and I can do this. Absolutely.
- 13:21One thing I wanted to ask which I kind of find interesting.
- 13:23Is that, obviously, you, you trained as a professional chef
- 13:27and you became a food critic later in your life.
- 13:29Like, do you think How can I phrase this question?
- 13:35So do you think a food critic needs to have a background as a
- 13:42shit? I mean, anyone could be a Critic
- 13:43of foods because it's an easy way.
- 13:45There's a Critic of food everywhere believes, they can be
- 13:48a Critic, right? And obviously, we know this is
- 13:51not true. There's gotta be like certain
- 13:53skill, set, certain things you learn to do, and why just
- 13:56learning how to review something in a in the right manner, but do
- 14:00you think it's obviously it would have helped you.
- 14:04In full, you know, as far as like how you approached it and
- 14:07and stuff like that. But like, do you think that
- 14:10maybe that would have more Merit than someone who doesn't have
- 14:13that background? Like, how does that influence
- 14:15being a food critic? Like, having a background in
- 14:17Cuisine? I'd like to think that having a
- 14:20background in Cuisine is very helpful and of course, working
- 14:25in both the back of the house as a chef and in the front of the
- 14:28house, as management allows you to really understand how that
- 14:32world works because was one of them is dealing with food in the
- 14:35back and one of them is dealing with people in the front and if
- 14:39you have that entire experience and that background, it's going
- 14:43to help you be a better critic. I think, I think the more skill
- 14:47sets you have and understand, I think, the better, the end
- 14:51result will be and of course, I say that selfishly because
- 14:54that's what I did. So, I understand flavor and
- 14:57combinations, and food, architecture and color, and what
- 15:01you want to eat. Because I go out and I Talk to
- 15:04people and I listen to what they have to say.
- 15:06And I can adjust menus and experiences based on what you
- 15:10want. When you're a Critic.
- 15:13Like obviously you're giving people, sometimes, maybe harsh
- 15:18words that need to be heard. I mean I think it's a food
- 15:21critic is always going to be valuable that people might look
- 15:23at it. Like are this person's coming in
- 15:25they're going to trash when everything or going to make it
- 15:27they might potentially harm the reputation and it's like well
- 15:31they're just given you their opinion.
- 15:32That's one person's opinion. Yes this person's opinion
- 15:35happens to hold some weight but you know it could serve to help
- 15:40you. You know what basically, point
- 15:42out what you need to improve but did you have any experiences
- 15:46where maybe you had some pushback to review that you
- 15:49wrote and if so what happened and how did you handle that
- 15:53situation? You know, that's so funny that
- 15:55you bring that up because, you know, it is one thing to have a
- 15:58lot of people who enjoy reading your work was working for
- 16:02Hawaii's largest newspaper. At the time, I was the food
- 16:05critic and, you know, the, when I went out there and I would
- 16:09write a review, the first I would think about is well, what
- 16:12do I want to review next? How will I get 1000 words out of
- 16:17this experience that I can put down so you have to think about
- 16:21it from an artistic perspective as well.
- 16:24It's a rainy day and have it. Why exactly.
- 16:28I never went in to kick anybody's ass job, where to hurt
- 16:33their reputation. However, I speak the truth and
- 16:37my truth is related to, you know, my my readers and and the
- 16:42people who work hard for their money, who want to get good
- 16:45value, going back to what you were talking about earlier.
- 16:48I know you're laying out a lot of money, I want the value
- 16:51expectation to be met by the restaurant.
- 16:54So I did hurt a lot of people not with incentive to do so.
- 17:02But by speaking my truth and I believe that with my
- 17:05educational, my background, my truth was very important for
- 17:08people to be able to understand but As far as the repercussions
- 17:13on that, I worked in a newspaper where I was the creative
- 17:18editorial side. And then, of course, in a
- 17:20newspaper, being a company, a corporation that is generated in
- 17:26large part to making money, there was an advertising section
- 17:31of the newspaper. And when I would write a review
- 17:34and it would be somewhat negative, the people who were in
- 17:38advertising sales would like wait for me.
- 17:41In the parking lot, as I was walking to my car.
- 17:43And they would try to run me over because I hurt the
- 17:47reputation of some of their clients their accounts.
- 17:51So there was kind of internal strife just at the newspaper,
- 17:54never mind what the restaurants and the public thought,
- 17:58interesting, but yeah, no matter what kind of opinion you have
- 18:03you're always going to get some pushback, but I can't believe
- 18:05people go out of their lymph. It like you just, you do some
- 18:07writing a review. Like, it's not like you're
- 18:09trying to get them close down, Isn't that amazing?
- 18:12Oh definitely that was never my incentive.
- 18:14I always went in to tell the truth and to write creatively
- 18:19and clearly about what I was experiencing.
- 18:22But you know sometimes honest opinions hurt people.
- 18:25Just take a look at the world around us even when it's not
- 18:27about food and critique, it could be about art politics,
- 18:31travel disease. So people are at each other's
- 18:36throats, no matter what. So, as long as I was able to
- 18:39stay true to myself, I was able Able to put out really good
- 18:42content. Let's flip it in a more positive
- 18:46thought space where there any places that you were critic
- 18:50critical of the then benefited as a result of that and an
- 18:55improved for the better. And you happen to sort of see
- 18:58that, you know, the people who are really forward-thinking word
- 19:02to see my review and then perhaps take a moment to pause
- 19:07and say maybe this guy Matthew has something valuable So I
- 19:11would get phone calls and emails to visit these restaurants
- 19:15hotels tortilla manufacturers, whoever.
- 19:18And they would say to you help us because everyone knows my
- 19:21background in my bio. So a lot of times that's what I
- 19:24would do. I would go in and I would help
- 19:26them learn about customer service.
- 19:29Had a great people, how to speak with people.
- 19:31I would teach their wait staff about the food, how it is, how
- 19:36it is cooked? Where comes from?
- 19:39I would train their kitchen staff as To certain techniques
- 19:42how to make things nicer. So yeah, to answer your
- 19:44question. There were a lot of times when
- 19:47my words resulted in people's responses saying could you help
- 19:51us, could you come in and help us out?
- 19:53And testing just on the same sort of.
- 19:59Though under you under keep using this term thought space
- 20:01thought, wavelength, I don't know.
- 20:04That's kind of what Gordon Ramsay did with his show Kitchen
- 20:08Nightmares. However in more recent years
- 20:12we've kind of realized that the show all but that is a TV show
- 20:16so obviously there's going to be a lot that's staged or whatever.
- 20:20But from what I know about the show.
- 20:24The research I've found out about the show apparently, like
- 20:27there was only a few elements that stage or whatever, but like
- 20:30most of it was pretty pretty real to, you know, it's as you
- 20:35see it, but there's definitely like a formula to it.
- 20:38Unfortunately, in that puts in the US version, I can't speak
- 20:42for the UK one, but the US version, I think there was like,
- 20:4480 or 90 restaurants, they visited and like 15 of them are
- 20:49still open and the rest. Have unfortunately closed down
- 20:53some as a direct result of being, on the show, some clothes
- 20:56down even before the episodes aired, Etc.
- 21:00So the relevancy here, given your background as, you know, a
- 21:04businessman in the field of hospitality, Andy.
- 21:08I have to say like a lot of what you do is sounds that you've
- 21:11kind of had similar experiences to Gordon as far as like helping
- 21:15people out and in that regard and I just wondered what your
- 21:19thoughts on that show and the 10 and everything, sort of
- 21:25surrounded that is, well, you know, Gordon is a Pro.
- 21:29And he's, he's also, you know, a world-renowned chef and now he's
- 21:35a world renowned Entertainer and television does require a lot of
- 21:40effort to be able to pull off because it is a show.
- 21:42So even though they'd like to tell you that they're not very
- 21:45highly produced the aspect of it is that they are because
- 21:50televisions is expensive. Civ and it costs a lot of money
- 21:53for advertising and they're always advertising in the Gordon
- 21:56Ramsay shows as there are in all food shows.
- 22:00So I'm thinking that, you know, if you think back when food
- 22:06shows were about cooking and about entertaining and about
- 22:11enjoying flavor they've kind of morphed over these past you know
- 22:15ten years or so. The away from cooking and more
- 22:19to like competitive eating or competitive cooking and Gordon
- 22:24Ramsay you know you used him as an example.
- 22:26He's a very fiery individual. Little bit of a potty mouth.
- 22:31He's very dramatic and very intense and very high-strung and
- 22:35that makes good television because that kind of stuff
- 22:38doesn't work in real life when you deal with someone like that.
- 22:41So, but on television, it really does.
- 22:45This is the thing as well. Like I've worked in Hospitality,
- 22:48I still do and I don't think I've ever seen a chef head, chef
- 22:54specially, talk to his staff like that.
- 22:58But, apparently Gordon did his his I don't know what the word
- 23:04he was taught, by his name, Jean Pierre White, I think his name.
- 23:10Oh, right. Right.
- 23:11Right. And apparently she's other very
- 23:13intense guy, right? Apparently, that's what Gordon
- 23:15got it from. So, there you go.
- 23:19And apparently like that, that's just Like them whereas like most
- 23:22kitchens I don't know, maybe come at me in the comments if
- 23:25I'm wrong about this. But every kitchen I've ever
- 23:27worked in everyone's very, you know, obviously like during
- 23:31service if it gets pretty stressful, like maybe you might
- 23:34get a few experience might come out here and there.
- 23:36But generally there's always a level of respect there because
- 23:38you know, these people working together, you're a team and you
- 23:41have a goal and you've got to get through it.
- 23:44So that's my point, it's a really fantastic point.
- 23:48If you disrespect others, you're not going to get What you want
- 23:52and he's not very thoughtful or respectful to his people.
- 23:56But the folks watching this show, they like that.
- 24:00It's entertainment. But the people, you know, on the
- 24:03show with him, no one can feel good about getting torn down in
- 24:07public. I feel like, I don't lie behind
- 24:11closed doors. I don't think he would have been
- 24:12like that. I think it was all for sure.
- 24:15I mean, I think maybe to an extent that might have been
- 24:17especially when he was trying to get his mission in Stars.
- 24:20There's a few Therese, they did in the 2000 late 90s over call,
- 24:24where you see him trying to get those stars in like how
- 24:29difficult that process is and everything.
- 24:31And yeah, there was a little bit, you get a bit far away.
- 24:33Sometimes with new starters, when the the level they weren't
- 24:38hitting the standards that were required.
- 24:40But then there was a lot of stress, he was under to achieve
- 24:44that. And these these things make a
- 24:46difference. So to some extent, I can
- 24:47understand, but yeah, I always look at it like No way talks to
- 24:51a stuff like that. Like everyone would keep
- 24:53quitting. There's no way it was learning
- 24:57about cooking and I was I was a sous chef at one restaurant in
- 25:02Los Angeles at a penthouse restaurant.
- 25:04So all these fancy people would come in and our Chef the head
- 25:09chef was kind of Gordon Ramsay. Like before Gordon Ramsay was
- 25:12even on the map and he disrespected people in the
- 25:16kitchen who working with them and down the line, one of the
- 25:20one of the other Cooks lost his temper after the chef threw a
- 25:24knife at him. And this created like a major
- 25:27brawl in the restaurant and ever since then they got rid of that
- 25:30chef. And now it's being handled by a
- 25:32guy who's thoughtful and quiet. And, you know, he's intense, but
- 25:36he's intensely colorful and intensely talented, but he
- 25:40doesn't upset people by getting in their face.
- 25:43I can't believe that. I mean, it's kind of fitting
- 25:45that something like that happens in La where, you know, movies
- 25:48are made. Because it just sounds like
- 25:50something from a movie. Imagine that you're sitting
- 25:52there eating your roast beef and then this is Chef.
- 25:54This comes starts fighting with someone in a day but I kind of
- 25:57imagined that I would happen. So I mean you just crazy things
- 26:01that happen you know, where the customers can hear it.
- 26:06And there are crazy things that are happening back in the
- 26:08kitchen, where only, you know, the workers are part of it so
- 26:12that restaurant world in the eating World from Back to Front
- 26:15is so interesting. Really is what some of the
- 26:18craziest things you've ever seen happen.
- 26:20And And like kitchen or the restaurant or over the years.
- 26:25What we've had customers, you know, come up to the kitchen and
- 26:29and complain about their food not being cooked right way and
- 26:33and you know that happened to me a couple times.
- 26:35And so instead of getting upset or offended I said well why
- 26:39don't you come on in and show me what you know, right on the
- 26:43spot. And and most of them would just
- 26:46like, back down or not say well, it's a little bit too rare.
- 26:50Okay, I'll take Everett and a couple of times, yeah, that guy
- 26:54put the apron on them and I gave him the knife and I said, do it,
- 26:57you know, that the meal is on the house, I'll take care of it
- 27:00and I didn't really learn a lot from those people but I made
- 27:03friends and customers. Wow, yeah.
- 27:07Fair enough. Okay, no, I think that kind of
- 27:10approach to I think because it's some people that there does seem
- 27:13to be this kind of sense of entitlement.
- 27:15Sometimes like I've said this to friends of mine before that I
- 27:18don't believe in that concept of the Is almost right, always,
- 27:22right. So, I think that's just the
- 27:24thing that's made up to try and kind of force people to work
- 27:28harder and like, don't get me wrong, we live in the review era
- 27:33where it can really affect your reputation.
- 27:36So you should do everything you can to make sure customers are
- 27:39happy. But that doesn't mean that
- 27:42they're always, right? And because the power is in the
- 27:45hands of the customer, sometimes you get people that kind of try
- 27:49to exploit this power and there. Say things like I'll get you
- 27:52close down or you know my power is in my words I can destroy you
- 27:56did and it's like try like you won't be able to this.
- 28:01And now sometimes sometimes I get it like I work as a
- 28:05bartender and I would say, I really do try to go out my way
- 28:12to help people. Like, I like to see people
- 28:14happy. I like to give people a good
- 28:16experience. Like, for instance, I was doing
- 28:18a cocktail the other day for someone and maybe I took a
- 28:20little bit longer because I just wanted to perfect it because it
- 28:23was something, it was just like a daiquiri or something.
- 28:25But our recipe says that you should put in way more lime
- 28:30juice than you're supposed to like, it would absolutely
- 28:32destroy it. So I was like, I paid with a few
- 28:34things and made it really sweet and she She looked, I could tell
- 28:39that she knew what I was doing and she was really appreciative
- 28:43of that, and it just made me feel good afterwards like I love
- 28:45making cocktails anyway. But I could see that me taking
- 28:49the making the effort just to kind of make sure her experience
- 28:53was a little better men. All the more as like it's their
- 28:57personal touch men that's what makes all the difference in the
- 29:00world. You know it's better to be
- 29:04someone who is going to take care of somebody and not
- 29:07Instigate issues, but really equalize issues.
- 29:11And at that sounds like what you did with that young lady and
- 29:14making the cocktail just the way she would like it.
- 29:17Yeah, I should have happy anyway, says man-made single in
- 29:20a bar. It's hard to not.
- 29:21Look happy. This is true.
- 29:24This is very okay. Like I've worked in a lot of
- 29:26different fields of work, front house back house Barista, even
- 29:32in the kitchen a little bit retail you know, Matt and It is
- 29:38interesting to see how people and their attitudes towards you
- 29:46differ from, you know, from place to place.
- 29:48Because obviously, when I worked in retail Supermarket, retail
- 29:53people were very angsty about their food and just, you know,
- 29:56they were in a rush and maybe they're just come from work or,
- 29:59you know, wherever and, you know, they're just in a rush and
- 30:01they just, they're irritable. They're not in a good mood even
- 30:05at times that Christmas, when you'd think.
- 30:07Put me in a great mood, they're just really irritable but in the
- 30:10in hospitality and bars, you know, generally speaking people
- 30:15you, as you say, are in a good mood because they're there to
- 30:17have fun but then sometimes you get uncomfortable situations
- 30:21where you have to turn people away, for whatever reason, you
- 30:25know, refuse to serve them Etc, and you were only doing so
- 30:29because, you know, you want to take care of them.
- 30:32You have a duty of K ever do to everyone else there and people
- 30:35don't always necessarily react. Well, well to that and it's it
- 30:38can make it different and difficult and I feel like with
- 30:41with food service, Oh man, that that I have to say, it
- 30:46definitely is one of the hardest jobs, ever, absolutely speakers.
- 30:51You dealing with people who want their food, you know, 10 minutes
- 30:54ago and they want their drink 10 minutes ago and they treat.
- 30:59They treat you like you're kind of slave to them.
- 31:02Instead of understanding that, you know, you're doing your job
- 31:05and you're a professional and I'm going to be nice because I
- 31:08don't want something bad to happen to my food, on the way
- 31:11from the kitchen to my table. I've never seen that happen but
- 31:17I've heard it does happen. That's all I can say about that.
- 31:21People like, you know, will respond the way?
- 31:24They were, they respond. We're all just human and you got
- 31:26to treat everybody in a nice way.
- 31:28That's really only the only way to get by.
- 31:30And, you know, I've been doing the life thing for a really long
- 31:34time and I could see that in the years when I was aggressive and
- 31:38powerful. And so on it was too much.
- 31:41And when I learned to kind of, take control, Troll and learn
- 31:44about my responsibilities to others life.
- 31:47Became a lot easier to navigate. How would you say Hospitality
- 31:54has changed over the last the site, 20, 30 years, like, do
- 31:57during your time in the industry?
- 31:59Like what are the key ways that it's changed?
- 32:01Has it changed for the better? Has it got worse.
- 32:03So what are your thoughts on that?
- 32:05I think there's a lot of corruption is in big business
- 32:09and in our current ality and I think that there's just so much.
- 32:14F and pump and that kind of thing.
- 32:16So they really kind of gotten away from from The Experience.
- 32:21Even though they'd like to make you believe that they're into
- 32:24making your time, they're a wonderful one.
- 32:27But it's such a huge industry generated by money, like every
- 32:32other Big Industry. So, you know, as a consumer, as
- 32:36a customer, we have to learn how to navigate our way through all
- 32:39of the promises that are being made to us.
- 32:41In all the special offers that are being Put out there and so
- 32:45on. So I I still think it'll pretty
- 32:48much boils down to the same thing that it's always been if
- 32:51you provide a good valuable service and you do it with a
- 32:55smile and you know your kind and the people feel like they're
- 32:59loved a little bit, I think you're going to get a better
- 33:02outcome. One thing, I've never lost
- 33:05anyone this before but I'm intrigued like what do you think
- 33:11about? And okay.
- 33:13Okay, bear with me like let's say that you take somewhere like
- 33:16McDonald's which is not a restaurant that you might call
- 33:19themselves a restaurant. It's not restaurant is fast
- 33:21food. You get what you're given,
- 33:23right? You get what you get, what you
- 33:24pay for, right? And and but I love a good
- 33:27McDonald's every once in a while.
- 33:28So I'll know, shade there. But I will say this and that
- 33:32it's not just them. There are many businesses like
- 33:34this, where this is the picture, this is the image of the thing
- 33:38that we're selling and then what you get is something very
- 33:41different and there's See this joke with with McDonald's that
- 33:44they because sometimes the bat burgers are like flattened.
- 33:48So it's like as if they've gone right, like a mallet and just
- 33:51like hammered it to a point where it's like flat like this.
- 33:55My question to you is Do you think that's kind of, like,
- 33:59false advertising or do you think that's acceptable to kind
- 34:03of Mark it in that way to Consumers?
- 34:05I mean, I feel like four major restaurants like higher quality
- 34:09restaurants, the image. You see, is what you will get,
- 34:12but on these sort of lower quality basis, that's not so
- 34:14much the case. I just wanted to get your
- 34:16thoughts on that. Do you mean that when McDonalds
- 34:19commercials run on television and they show you like a
- 34:22ginormous Burger? That's juicy with cheese
- 34:25dripping and it just appealing Into the eye and then when you
- 34:28get there, it's not that. Yeah, but like that's continues.
- 34:33It's not just those ad but, like, be on that billboard to be
- 34:36anywhere. Like, and there's so many
- 34:38companies that are like this and it's just very I feel because I
- 34:43have a background in marketing. I that's why I studied, right
- 34:46attorney about that, I studied University.
- 34:49I got a degree in business management marketing is the
- 34:52specialism worked in the industry for about four or five
- 34:55years corpora and It on etcetera and II.
- 35:00Love marked is interesting to me from the psychology perspective
- 35:03and everything. And, but when I look at these
- 35:06things, like I'm just kind of like that.
- 35:08Just seems like false advertising to me, like, and
- 35:11there's a lot of things in the food service industry, that?
- 35:14Okay? There's jokes made about them.
- 35:16Like people are aware, but like, that's one of them.
- 35:19Another one is that when a place says like, oh, we make the best
- 35:21coffee around. Like okay, that's
- 35:22tongue-in-cheek as fine but still like, it's all to me.
- 35:26It's like false advertising. Things, false promises you have
- 35:29so many different elements to a company or a corporation.
- 35:33You have the art Department. You have the marketing people,
- 35:36you have the sales people, you have the creatives, you have the
- 35:39bosses and, you know, it's really difficult to round up
- 35:43everybody and get a finished product that works.
- 35:46So that's why the larger companies get, I think the more
- 35:50out of place there their final product is going to be, I think
- 35:54I only small kind of small mom-and-pop Businesses are going
- 35:58to get the product that they really want.
- 36:00Because on the grand scheme, the ground level.
- 36:02It's very, very difficult. You have too many chefs in the
- 36:04kitchen so to speak. Almost sounds like you're saying
- 36:08that like they expect their product to be bad.
- 36:11So they're trying to make sure that they put all the money into
- 36:14the market until at least. It will look good when you're
- 36:17trying to sell it, who knows really what their incentive is.
- 36:21However, that said I would question, everyone's motives
- 36:26comes, Two big business whether they know that the food they're
- 36:30serving is unhealthy or the field that they're serving is
- 36:33not what they are showing or promising.
- 36:36So you know it's difficult to take a an examination, look at
- 36:42people and and see you know some somewhere there's a disconnect
- 36:46here and how do you fix that when these companies are just so
- 36:50gigantic like McDonald's. Like you just mentioned for
- 36:52instance, I think logically a lot of time from the customer
- 36:56perspective. It's like, you know, You
- 36:59different customers have different things that they
- 37:00prioritize and that will ultimately come down to, you
- 37:04know, their expectations. And then also affordability, you
- 37:08know, like I have, I prefer things that have higher quality
- 37:13but also, you know, I can't necessarily afford them.
- 37:15So I have to kind of accept cheaper things sometimes, and it
- 37:18is what it is, but at the same time, I don't know.
- 37:23I feel like How can I put this? The big businesses that are that
- 37:34they're kind of like they're being forced to change things
- 37:38up. They even a post like McDonald's
- 37:40is changing and changing for the better.
- 37:43But it seems like people will always go for whatever the
- 37:48cheapest option is jet on like generally speaking like not
- 37:52everyone but like for Price certainly a here in the UK we
- 37:56are very price conscious and that Explains why, for instance,
- 38:00like a fashion outlet like Primark is so popular.
- 38:02Then again, you know, I think it's good to have these options.
- 38:06I mean I currently shop at the cheaper supermarkets like Aldi
- 38:10and Lidl because it's what's affordable, you know?
- 38:13Because the other places, they're just too expensive.
- 38:16Unfortunately and we're currently going for a
- 38:18cost-of-living crisis which does have an interesting knock-on
- 38:22effect on food service and and Hospitality like I can't count
- 38:28how many times people people come in.
- 38:31They asked for a drink and you tell them the price and they're
- 38:33like, how much? And I just, I don't know what to
- 38:36say. I'm like, it's just how things
- 38:38are. You could say, you know, down
- 38:41the shop. You can get this for half the
- 38:43price, see if them then we kind of way that out and say, well,
- 38:48no, maybe I'll stay here. I like your company.
- 38:50This, this is the thing, you're 100%, right?
- 38:53And if I would do that, we just got our business like, quite
- 38:58honestly, like, it's so So highly inflated, I'll give you
- 39:02I'll give you a good example, right?
- 39:04A bottle of Budweiser, where I work costs for 50 and as I
- 39:10understand some other places are charging more than that.
- 39:12So we're actually on the cheaper end, it's 450 for one bottle 330
- 39:16ml. Is that a typical price for is
- 39:19edit called an import for you guys get American bad beer?
- 39:26Well, maybe as a standard, like serving price.
- 39:30You could say that. I mean, it's easy and it's okay.
- 39:33The inflation is going up like crazy over the last couple of
- 39:35years. I mean, two years ago, you could
- 39:37probably got that for like I recognize three pounds something
- 39:40like that, 250 maybe but specifically at a bar and there
- 39:45will probably be other places say, like here in Manchester
- 39:47where they'll sell it cheaper. But generally in that City
- 39:49Center, that's probably around the price you'd expect to pay
- 39:52for that bottle in a button. Now, if I go to the store and I
- 39:58get, let's say, 24 bottles. I'll probably pay somewhere.
- 40:04If I'm lucky, like, 12, 13 pounds, probably about 15
- 40:07pounds, maybe a little bit more. But we put that into
- 40:10perspective, I mean, I don't know how I'm terrible at math,
- 40:12but yeah, 24 bottles, / 1512 whatever, right?
- 40:18It's not a lot, you know. Oh, yeah.
- 40:21Know, the prices are so inflated at the bars, but at the bar, if
- 40:24I was to have the same amount I'd spend, like, about 100 quit,
- 40:29right? So, the key is, is to buy the
- 40:31case down at the shop, right? And put a few in your jacket and
- 40:35then go to the page. Well, I I think it illustrates a
- 40:40good point there. Like, what ye you said before
- 40:42about how it's where people come for the experience.
- 40:44They stay through experience. Absolutely because yeah you can
- 40:47drink at home but you don't want to sell home.
- 40:49You want to go out and see the world, get the feeling the vibe,
- 40:54the conversations, the music, everything like it and extends
- 40:57everything, Foodservice, the bars, whatever the case may be.
- 41:02And for that reason, I think people will always go out in the
- 41:05matter how expensive things get but it does still Will have an
- 41:10impact on things. Like Manchester's work, very
- 41:13well known for football, for example, and we did We did like
- 41:19a an event where we were showing the football.
- 41:22We always show football at the bar.
- 41:25And we always sort of brace ourselves because you normally
- 41:27gets that crazy busy, especially when away fans come and they
- 41:30just dominate the bar. But it's fun.
- 41:31It's something different, but we had the Manchester Derby coming
- 41:34up, so it's Manchester City vs. Manchester United and we were
- 41:37expecting a lot of people because we happen to be.
- 41:41There's like, this is interesting.
- 41:42So, there's a different zones of Manchester, there's blue and
- 41:45red. So we, I think we're in the red
- 41:48zone. And so we're like a menu Pub,
- 41:50like, not like, we're not like, like we don't have, like, flags
- 41:52on the window. But like sounds like gang
- 41:55Warfare. Well, that's the thing.
- 41:58Is kind of like that is designed in that way to kind of kind of
- 42:03protect people to be honest. So let's say like you've got a
- 42:05bunch of menu fans in there and someone comes in with a city
- 42:08shirt. You're actually encouraged not
- 42:11serve them like to refuse service because yeah because
- 42:16you're trying to mitigate prevent and a situation from
- 42:19occurring because it because it could.
- 42:23Anyway, this particular day which we were expecting it to be
- 42:26packed and full of man, you found, there was no one Not a
- 42:32sink. Maybe like two fans, that's it.
- 42:35Nobody. And one of the people that came
- 42:38in, that was drinking, they're sort of remarked, that is
- 42:42probably the cost of living crisis, and I must say, it's
- 42:46certainly in the last year. I see less and less people out
- 42:49and about, I mean, because this is really expensive, you know?
- 42:53You really do have to kind of plan ahead with these things
- 42:56even just to haven't going out and enjoying a nice meal is now.
- 43:00Now, something you have to maybe plan for as opposed to something
- 43:04you can just do it will again. It depends how you might, you're
- 43:07owning that's a big factor. Oh yeah.
- 43:09Well, you know, Society is really plugged in right now with
- 43:13all the things that are going on.
- 43:14So people have less money to spend, but even, you know, back
- 43:17in the day, I remember when I was young and my girlfriend and
- 43:21I would want to go out to dinner, we'd say, okay, well, we
- 43:25only have thirty dollars and that was like a lot.
- 43:28And so what will we order? We'll get, you know, two dishes
- 43:32and one appetizer. And we'll be able to still leave
- 43:35a few dollars for a tip. And, you know, we had a plan it
- 43:38out and people do the same thing.
- 43:40All these years later, you know, what can I avoid at McDonald's?
- 43:43What can I afford wherever I go. So it's a big part of it because
- 43:47you only have so much money in your wallet.
- 43:49Sure. Absolutely.
- 43:52Just keep it on the marketing, kind of wavelength.
- 43:55So you've generate to me. Hey I love that - yes.
- 43:59Sorry guys, we're gonna have A little marketing, speed spilner.
- 44:03Everyone loves this Christian. Everybody's digging this right
- 44:06now. I hope so.
- 44:07I hope so. I really I really do because I
- 44:10love doing this show and I really good at it, too.
- 44:14Thank you sir. I appreciate that.
- 44:15Absolute pleasure. So you've generated nine million
- 44:19dollars in sales and that we have at the Hawaii fruit or it's
- 44:23only. Yeah, that was just the latest
- 44:25business. So yeah, that was really fun
- 44:28because I made an effort to make sure people I had a great time
- 44:31and if they had a problem with it, I give them their money
- 44:34back. So you get that out of the way.
- 44:36And then you talk to the person say, what was it that we did
- 44:39that upset you? Or what was it that we did that
- 44:42you didn't enjoy that kind of thing, because money is always
- 44:45going to be the number one feature that drives people.
- 44:48So once you get that out of the way, give the customer their
- 44:51money back. You know what, they'll come back
- 44:53the next time because I treated him, well, The customer loyalty
- 44:57is always the most important thing, then rather than that's,
- 45:01that's what we were going for. Even though most of our business
- 45:03were first-time customers because of the nature of our
- 45:07business, being a travel business, in Honolulu that cater
- 45:10to folks coming there. That that puts a little bit of a
- 45:14tweak, on the whole marketing effort, because most of my
- 45:16business were first time. And so they had to read the
- 45:20reviews because now in the internet age, like you were
- 45:22saying a little bit earlier everybody lives and Dies by the
- 45:26review. So working with people and
- 45:29giving them great customer service and customer care is
- 45:31going to generate good reviews, which means I'll have more
- 45:34business in the long run when your perspective, like how do
- 45:37you navigate those reviews? Like, what, what, what's your,
- 45:41okay? Let's say you get a really bad
- 45:42review, like how do you personally deal with that?
- 45:45Well, being a writer I would always kind of take the
- 45:50opportunity to to write my response.
- 45:53Sometimes it was a bit hostile or defensive and occasionally it
- 45:59would be you know I'm really sorry how can I make it better
- 46:04and things like that? It was it was some combination
- 46:07of all of those various different responses that, that I
- 46:10would do when I had a bad review.
- 46:12Of course, most of those bad reviews were not Jet.
- 46:17But you still have to treat them as so, they are so because other
- 46:21people want to see how I respond as a person who runs the
- 46:24company. So there was always some
- 46:26combination of defensiveness or creative response or
- 46:30constructive response, that kind of thing.
- 46:33I'm the marketing perspective, which methods and techniques.
- 46:37Do you think contributed towards your success?
- 46:41You know, in my mind marketing our marketing is made up of all
- 46:46of the efforts that you make to get in the face of your
- 46:52potential customer and then sales is what you do, once you
- 46:56have that customer in your midst.
- 46:58So the marketing efforts for me, we're basically Ali.
- 47:03How me and my team would treat our customers and the experience
- 47:09that we're able to provide. And so you'd you draw yourself a
- 47:13road map as to what you want, what you expect and how to make
- 47:16it better. And then you just keep on
- 47:19delivering and putting it out there because it's fun.
- 47:21It's fun to make people feel good and you know, that's always
- 47:25been my philosophy. And so I'm going to stick with
- 47:27that. How do you think Hospitality
- 47:31will change in the future? There's a lot of there's a lot
- 47:36of strange techniques that are being used now only because of
- 47:41what's been happening is last few years.
- 47:43So companies are coming back and airlines are trying to come back
- 47:47and cruise ships or trying to come back and there are some big
- 47:51major cities. I was reading about in Europe
- 47:54Venice Amsterdam that are saying you have enough visitors through
- 48:00it. We don't need any more tourism
- 48:01right now. Damn, everybody's trying trying
- 48:05to kind of respond to this whole thing that's happened here with
- 48:09the Society of the travel society and people.
- 48:12So only time is going to tell how the companies respond to two
- 48:17efforts that are being made. And in that direction, this is
- 48:20interesting what you've touched on here because I've never heard
- 48:23about this before. Uh-huh, like countries cities
- 48:26actively turning people away. Perhaps, what might happen then
- 48:31is a bit of like a Wimbledon effect where for You don't know
- 48:35like Wimbledon the tennis tournament you can't just buy
- 48:39tickets outright you have to enter a lottery in order to for
- 48:43the opportunity to purchase tickets.
- 48:46So maybe what we're looking at in the future is having to enter
- 48:50sort of a lottery to get to visit a country which is so
- 48:54that's interesting. You know, let me tell you what
- 48:58Venice has done. They have started to limit
- 49:01cruise ships from coming in and And they are trying to
- 49:06eliminate, you know, people rolling their bags.
- 49:09On the rollers are luggage, so they don't want people walking
- 49:12through the streets with rolling luggage anymore and so that's
- 49:15kind of keeping people at Bay in a little bit because I don't
- 49:19know if you noticed but during covid the canals in Venice
- 49:24cleared up naturally because there wasn't so many tourists
- 49:30and the pollutants levels went down and the canal start to come
- 49:34back. Keynotes Mother Nature, doing
- 49:36its thing. And it was all because we didn't
- 49:39we weren't sending in like you know, 10,000 passenger, cruise
- 49:42ships, three times a day, you know, mostly Americans who are
- 49:46going to be Snappy and snippy and come and pollute your water
- 49:50and then leave later in the night.
- 49:51So I think Dennis is efforts is good and I think Amsterdam is
- 49:55doing kind of something similar right now.
- 49:58I've never been on a cruise ship but I must say everything I've
- 50:03read and heard about cruise ships.
- 50:04Just Sounds awful. Don't do it, icily.
- 50:10What? There's a guy on YouTube, it
- 50:12doesn't mazing that all documentaries.
- 50:15That is why he goes by the moniker ordinary things.
- 50:18Go check him out. He's really awesome.
- 50:20Anyway, he did a show on cruise ships and a lot of it.
- 50:24My biggest takeaway from it was don't go on a cruise ship
- 50:27because you would just get ill like from know.
- 50:30That's a great point. So Point.
- 50:32Yeah, even before covid now, I call it BC.
- 50:36You know, when people reference time they said before Christ,
- 50:39it's not before Christ, it's before covid but before covid
- 50:44you know people were thinking sick on cruise ships all the
- 50:47time. They would be foodborne
- 50:48illnesses. There would be like crazy stuff
- 50:50going on and you know there's no reason to do a cruise when you
- 50:54can get down on the ground and meet the people and have fun and
- 50:57drive around and walk the city's, this is this is the
- 51:00thing as what? Like I get.
- 51:02Okay, it's cheaper then I think it's too.
- 51:05Uber isn't it then going on an airplane?
- 51:07But then also, the way it's marketed is old, this is an
- 51:10experience in of itself. Like, you get to like, you can
- 51:13be on a pool on the ship, and there's events and all this
- 51:15stuff and okay. Great.
- 51:16But at the same time, whenever you see?
- 51:19And this is another thing that ordinary thing is, put it out as
- 51:21well. Look, like the pictures all
- 51:24show, like a lovely Serene view, maybe there's like, one couple
- 51:29on the deck and they're just enjoying the lounging area and
- 51:31it's nice, right? But then, every not not Cruise
- 51:35ship holidays, every kind of holiday package ever will
- 51:40present it that way. And then when you get there,
- 51:41there's like 10,000 people there, and it's packed.
- 51:44And there's nowhere to sit or be like to me, again, my idea of a
- 51:49nightmare. Maybe it's just because I'm
- 51:50introverted, but like I would just be like, uh, I need to get
- 51:53away from the people. I can't stand this.
- 51:55Please don't totally get it. You know, and cruise ships the
- 51:59way that their Market, it is like, why would I have an
- 52:02American want to go on a cruise ship.
- 52:05With 10,000 other Americans and go to a city someplace in
- 52:09Europe. It's like I'm trying to get away
- 52:11from all this. I'm not trying to get in it.
- 52:13You know. I feel the same way like, look
- 52:16anyone that's British. I love you.
- 52:18Okay, I love you all, but I don't want to be near you when I
- 52:21go abroad. Like, there's this play Spain.
- 52:25We're really guilty for this in England, because we've like,
- 52:28dominated certain areas of Spain, like, I think the cost of
- 52:31Del Sol is one of them certain holiday that is not just been
- 52:34there's ever. Trees as well.
- 52:35We're all just only be British people in a particular resource
- 52:39or place and it's like same as what you just said.
- 52:42Like I don't understand why you as a British person would want
- 52:45to go. I mean maybe maybe it's the
- 52:47familiarity safety but then what's the point of going
- 52:50abroad? Then if you is it what to just
- 52:52get sunshine and just be around other British people, but it's a
- 52:57bit warmer, I don't get that. I it makes no sense why people
- 53:01would want to do that and yet they continue to do that.
- 53:04So it's one of life's, you know, unanswerable sits in it.
- 53:08I went on one holiday that was like this and I never do it
- 53:12again. As long as I live it was a trip
- 53:15to Bulgaria's Sunny Beach, which this was before it became super
- 53:20popular. Now I imagine it's like awful
- 53:23but back then this is like 2013. It was, it was a look.
- 53:27I mean Bulgaria's beautiful as lovely as nice but it was, it
- 53:33was one of those. Package holidays.
- 53:37And I mean that, the Quran, they were good parts of it.
- 53:39We got like an all-inclusive deal where we had like free food
- 53:42and free alcohol and it was, it was a decent hotel us four star
- 53:45hotels. It was, you know, all of that
- 53:47was great but the actual just being on a beach element and
- 53:52like, being around all the clubs and stuff like I should have
- 53:55enjoyed this as a young person at a time.
- 53:57I think was like 19 or something but I remember just being on the
- 54:00beach for like half an hour and just being bored and I was like
- 54:02well what now like Maybe that's just the type of person I am let
- 54:06you know, I'm just more. I need to do activities.
- 54:08All right, fine, but I just never understood.
- 54:11Like, okay, I'm gonna do this week-long holiday and I'm just
- 54:16gonna sit on a beach for a week. I didn't get that either.
- 54:20You know, before I moved to Hawaii I was living in Los
- 54:23Angeles and I go to the beach occasionally but it's like no
- 54:26big, whoop, you know. And people from l.a. are known
- 54:30to go to Hawaii around Christmas so they can sit and lay on the
- 54:34beach and I thought while What an amazing waste of time so I
- 54:41never got it and I understand people digging the be.
- 54:44Yeah. But to fly from a beach city
- 54:47like La where you can get to a beach in 30 minutes or spend
- 54:52thousands of dollars in fly. Thousands of miles to sit on
- 54:55someone else's Beach makes little.
- 54:57If any sense when you put it in that tub, it just seems really
- 55:01odd about the idea of a beach. Today.
- 55:05I know I'm really pounding on people that like beach days.
- 55:08Look, there's nothing. There's nothing wrong with on
- 55:09the beach day, right? But just I don't get like having
- 55:11a whole week of it. Like just seems like over get
- 55:13like too much of a good thing is always a bad thing.
- 55:16You know. It doesn't matter what it is.
- 55:17It's just I think that this is what I learned about with me and
- 55:21holidays is I think the wit one week off is kind of The Sweet
- 55:25Spot maybe a week and a half, two weeks, just feels like too
- 55:29much. I just get but that's that's
- 55:33just me as a human being. I like I'm a bit of a
- 55:35workaholic, that's just how I roll but I just, I don't know.
- 55:39I think obviously a big part of it is always going to be the
- 55:41type of person you are and what you resonate with and we don't
- 55:44resonate with but yeah just not for not for me, not for me.
- 55:49I'm the same way. You know, of course though I've
- 55:52had opportunities to travel and I take full advantage of it but
- 55:55I don't travel with groups of other Americans.
- 56:00So I Travel with you know my waifu past girlfriends and that
- 56:03kind of thing and that is a lot of fun when you can get down on
- 56:06the ground and explore. But I'm also you'd never believe
- 56:09it but I'm also kind of introverted I'd light up when
- 56:14I'm with people that I enjoy but I did my time at home.
- 56:18I like laying on the couch watching sports or watching a
- 56:21show or sitting in writing and you know spending time with the
- 56:25kitty cats and that kind of thing, listening to music,
- 56:27whatever it might be you can't always Always be on, but some
- 56:31people Force themselves to always be on.
- 56:34I don't think that's great. Nah, that was something
- 56:38interesting to happen that I think I've said this on the show
- 56:40before. So apologies from repeating
- 56:42myself, but during covid, I noticed there were a lot of
- 56:46people who are extroverted who are having a really difficult
- 56:49time with it and I don't get me wrong, I I sympathize with them,
- 56:53it must be difficult to have, you know, these things.
- 56:57Take it away from you that you really enjoy and my legs.
- 57:00It's a cramp mode right now while I'm doing my podcast.
- 57:04Just inconvenient, go ahead, go ahead besides yourself.
- 57:07No no no, no. Like when people are used to
- 57:13going out all the time and meeting people get getting the
- 57:16energy of the place and then now they're not able to do that and
- 57:20they have to just constantly be at home.
- 57:23That is suffocating II. Totally understand that because
- 57:27I'll be ecologically. We've all been we've all
- 57:30benefited. Affected.
- 57:31We and many, many people have been very messed up by not being
- 57:34able to go out and look, someone in the eye and shake hands.
- 57:38When was the last time you shook someone's hand?
- 57:39You know? Oh, and we're given someone a
- 57:42hug. Right there was an american guy
- 57:44at the bar the other day, that did that.
- 57:46And I hesitated, I shook his hand, I waited until he left and
- 57:51then I immediately grab that side of tux Machines.
- 58:01Yeah, but I'm going to go into the Basin and wash my hands.
- 58:06Well, we have them just at the bar like in bottles, like just
- 58:10the standard now, which I think is good.
- 58:13It's good to have that stuff there.
- 58:14Now it's just, you know, which in turn requires, it's in our
- 58:18pocket. It's in ladies handbags with,
- 58:20you know, the sanitizing lotion is everywhere and it's here to
- 58:24stay. As are the masks it appears.
- 58:27I remember, I dated a girl in high school who she was a little
- 58:33bit OCD but like not in a, you know, nothing wrong with her or
- 58:36anything. She just happened to be like
- 58:39that and I remember she'd always carry around a little bottle of
- 58:42hand sanitizer. And she told me that, like, a
- 58:45lot of people would Mark her for that.
- 58:46And I always just laugh at like, how things have turned out now.
- 58:51And like, she must have probably got a bit of a chuckle out of
- 58:54that. I gotta see.
- 58:55He thought I was crazy, but look what's happened now?
- 59:00She's way. Ahead of her time that one I
- 59:03just thought I was pretty good. I like same thing.
- 59:07You know, the same thing with the masks.
- 59:09Remember how we would initially feel when we saw someone wearing
- 59:13a massacre, why are you wearing a mask and and then they were
- 59:17weighed ahead of their time as well.
- 59:19And apparently like in Asia, they've been wearing masks for
- 59:2220 years or so because of pollution really related
- 59:26reasons. Yeah.
- 59:27And also they do it which I didn't know until recently.
- 59:30Only they do it as local preventative measure protective
- 59:34measures. Sorry.
- 59:36So if you, let's say, you've got the cold or the flu, you would
- 59:39wear them wear a mask to protect others.
- 59:41If you had to go out you to protect others, I always just
- 59:44thought that was pretty cool. Despite it being like an odd
- 59:48behavior as far as a western perspective.
- 59:52When I learn about those are, that's cool.
- 59:53That's a considerate thing to do.
- 59:55You know, it's not like us where we just go in the office and
- 59:57make everyone L like Jack Lee. And part of the reason for that
- 1:00:02is that, you know, you can't afford to miss a day's pay.
- 1:00:07And yeah, or she's up to go even when you're ill.
- 1:00:09And so there's a, it's kind of a weird system.
- 1:00:12I know your system is different than ours, but with the same
- 1:00:15when it comes to that way. Yeah.
- 1:00:18So you know, it's tough people. People are pulled and pushed in
- 1:00:21so many different directions and so they don't know exactly what
- 1:00:23to do and so they risk it and they'll cough all over you.
- 1:00:26And then, that's no fun. Yeah, no one wants to be caught.
- 1:00:30I've done it all. What would you say was your most
- 1:00:36memorable experience as a chef? Well, you know, after I was in
- 1:00:42London learning and I came back to the States, I hired an agent
- 1:00:49and yes chefs have agents. And so she booked me with some
- 1:00:54really fantastic people. So I got to cook for a lot of
- 1:00:57the rock bands that I previously had traveled with.
- 1:00:59I did, Amazing for the Eagles and Fleetwood Mac.
- 1:01:04Wow. Oh my God.
- 1:01:07And so, that's what I did prior to being a chef here and so I
- 1:01:10ended up cooking for a lot of those bands.
- 1:01:12And that was pretty memorable stuff.
- 1:01:15And I got to cook for Robin Williams and the producer of Top
- 1:01:18Gun and Flashdance and all these major Hollywood type
- 1:01:22celebrities, but the rock and roll days were really very cool
- 1:01:25for me. Okay, wow, any interesting?
- 1:01:30I'm eating habits from Ideo celebrities that you met only
- 1:01:33thing that stands out. I would cook whatever they ask
- 1:01:39me to cook. And so okay wasn't judging them
- 1:01:42at that time. Because I was just this little
- 1:01:45puny know-it-all nothing Chef who bed.
- 1:01:49So I would, when we were on tour, I would go into the hotel
- 1:01:54kitchens and I would be able to use the kitchens at the hotels
- 1:01:57and cook for these famous celebrities up in the top floors
- 1:02:00and all That. And so, you know, that kind of a
- 1:02:03lifestyle is pretty wild the whole drugs, sex and rock and
- 1:02:07roll thing that they were living.
- 1:02:09And that I was kind of like slightly connected to, but I was
- 1:02:13feeding them at that time and so getting to travel and be a part
- 1:02:17of that was was pretty wild all by itself.
- 1:02:21Were there any? Okay you must have like met
- 1:02:24them? Maybe like some of them would
- 1:02:25have said Thank you, or maybe some of them rude or like any
- 1:02:28was there any kind of interactions you had with any of
- 1:02:31these celebrities that's that are, you know, they were all
- 1:02:35pretty much friendlier than you think was gonna happen.
- 1:02:39When people are always at that high level, we have this
- 1:02:42misperception that they're going to be mean, or whatever.
- 1:02:46But one thing I could say, That people who are famous and Rich
- 1:02:50are lousy tippers compared to regular folks, like you and me.
- 1:02:55Interesting. Yeah.
- 1:02:58I wonder why that is, is because they expect everything to be
- 1:03:01given to them. It's a weird kind of
- 1:03:04psychological thing, but when they attain that kind of
- 1:03:06success, they expect that everyone's going to cater to
- 1:03:09them and that they're going to get everything given to them for
- 1:03:12free. That is bizarre.
- 1:03:15I don't understand that. Like, I don't get that at all.
- 1:03:20I know you're the kind of person who's like it when you make your
- 1:03:22money, you'll like be more generous and oh yeah, more
- 1:03:26people and yeah, spread the word.
- 1:03:28Expect like 500 pound or dollar tips when I become a celebrity,
- 1:03:33right? Exactly that.
- 1:03:35That's what I dream of to. I want to be able to give those
- 1:03:37kinds of tips for fun. Here's a month's wages.
- 1:03:41Thanks for the sandwich, right? Exactly.
- 1:03:45Thanks for the Bud. Light, never never.
- 1:03:48Never right. I'm listening.
- 1:03:49So that we have caused our bar and I'm always whenever
- 1:03:55someone's asked one, I'm like usual.
- 1:03:58I don't know why anybody would go to Europe, which is known for
- 1:04:03wonderful beer and Ales and all that and order a crappy American
- 1:04:07beard. Makes no sense.
- 1:04:09Come on. It kind of goes back to what we
- 1:04:11were talking about earlier. About commercialism people go
- 1:04:13for what? They know.
- 1:04:14Not, what is good? Oh yeah, I caught like I've
- 1:04:18discovered over the years that all most of the commercial
- 1:04:22drinks are not very good and when it comes to alcohol,
- 1:04:26soaked, a couple of things. so when I was living in Europe, I
- 1:04:31discovered the Like vodka. Was its best when it was Russian
- 1:04:37or Ukrainian vodka, like, and lesser known Brands as well.
- 1:04:41And you wouldn't, you'd never get a hangover ever.
- 1:04:45It was really pure, you'd wake up, feeling amazing the next
- 1:04:49day. Just absolutely, obviously, you
- 1:04:52need to eat and, you know, do what you need to do, but you, it
- 1:04:55would be absolutely incredible. And the same is true in the UK
- 1:04:59and Scotland, Cask strength whiskey.
- 1:05:02I've gone on the but this perforce, apologies, but But
- 1:05:06most Whiskey's commercial whiskies are about 37 percent.
- 1:05:10I think 37.5 percent alcohol content but these ones I like
- 1:05:1450%. And not only is it heavier
- 1:05:17alcohol content but you immediately taste the difference
- 1:05:21because those commercial ones have this horrible kind of like
- 1:05:25chemical taste to them. They all taste the same, it's
- 1:05:28awful but then these hot core strength ones just taste It was
- 1:05:32infused with like, real flavor and it's incredible and I so
- 1:05:36that kind of tipped me off to this idea that.
- 1:05:38Okay, the problem that we have is that most of the commercial
- 1:05:43alcohols just aren't at that quality level.
- 1:05:47You know, the the and of course, like they're mass-produced like
- 1:05:49just like anything in life this mass-produced.
- 1:05:51Generally speaking, the quality's not always going to be
- 1:05:53there, it's not always the case but you know Corners will be cut
- 1:05:58in order to get it out to the masses.
- 1:06:01Yeah, they're rushed the rest systems and it's lower quality
- 1:06:06and they have to get it to Market.
- 1:06:07So it's always going to be a little bit different than
- 1:06:10someone who takes the time and care to make a great product.
- 1:06:13Like, you know, great Whiskey's are aged in Oak for a reason and
- 1:06:17they don't have chemical Colours and chemical flavors, put into
- 1:06:21it. Someone takes their time to make
- 1:06:22an artisan product. And, you know, then they release
- 1:06:26it at what they have, not promising to release 10 times
- 1:06:30more than they have. And Make it artificial, a
- 1:06:34physical make a decision. Whenever you create an alcohol
- 1:06:36or any kind of product, is this going to be a high-quality
- 1:06:39product or do? I just want to sell a lot of it,
- 1:06:46going back to the whole vodka thing, you know, vodka was
- 1:06:48originally invented to be odorless and tasteless.
- 1:06:53And it really has to do with the filtration process, to get it to
- 1:06:58be as good as possible because really when they've said, It
- 1:07:01down so-called experts and they lined up a whole bunch of
- 1:07:05unnamed on unpackaged, vodkas for people.
- 1:07:09The experts can tell just like with wine.
- 1:07:12Same thing, people are thrown off guard when they don't see
- 1:07:15the label, then they can't tell the difference.
- 1:07:19The pilot is just not good enough unlike yours but I can't
- 1:07:32stomach a lot of this commercial stuff like.
- 1:07:34Yeah I think you know, I'm very snobby when it comes to that
- 1:07:37stuff and I think I think everyone should be a snob when
- 1:07:40it comes to these things you know.
- 1:07:42And I'm not talking like oh I'm better than you.
- 1:07:44I know more than you I mean more like expect high quality expect
- 1:07:48More from products, always expect more as well.
- 1:07:52I reckon I think that's a good idea.
- 1:07:54It's definitely a good philosophy to have if nothing
- 1:07:56else. You refer to yourself as a
- 1:08:00people specialist on LinkedIn, what is a people specialist?
- 1:08:06Someone who can handle compliments as someone who can
- 1:08:11handle distress and confrontations and things like
- 1:08:16that in in a nice way? Way.
- 1:08:19So, you know, I've never really had to solve any of my issues or
- 1:08:23any of the issues surrounding me or my businesses with this to
- 1:08:25Cuts. It's always been through good
- 1:08:27clear communication. And I think that's what the
- 1:08:31first steps are in becoming people Specialists dealing with
- 1:08:35folks and their concerns. Because after all, when you boil
- 1:08:38it all down, we're all pretty much the same.
- 1:08:40Mmm. That's right.
- 1:08:41That's where I start. Absolutely.
- 1:08:46During your time as a food writer in a restaurant critic,
- 1:08:50you coined the phrase convergence technology.
- 1:08:53What is Convergence technology? Well, that was a term that I
- 1:08:56made up back in the late 90s and I brought it up to the publisher
- 1:09:02and editor and they're like the gods of newspapers and I set a
- 1:09:07meeting with them. And I sat down and I said, you
- 1:09:09know, this internet thing which I had already been on For the
- 1:09:13better part of 10 years because I got started in 92 with poem
- 1:09:18website called love life radio. And I said this internet thing
- 1:09:23is going to be shifting and I think that print media like
- 1:09:27newspapers like the building were sitting in right now is not
- 1:09:30going to be around much longer. And I said, I think we ought to
- 1:09:34go to the internet and start putting out the information in
- 1:09:36the news as much as possible and I tried to explain to them what
- 1:09:41was coming but they did live. And, and here we are now with
- 1:09:4580% of newspapers, out of business crazy, isn't it?
- 1:09:49But they thought that way like I didn't get it.
- 1:09:53I remember seeing it an interview with Jeremy Paxman and
- 1:09:59he's interviewing David Bowie in like 1998, 99, something like
- 1:10:04that. And Bowie very ahead of his
- 1:10:06time. As far as like, his mind
- 1:10:08sentence and such always just in general, but he was giving a
- 1:10:12kind of An account of what he reckoned, the internet was, and
- 1:10:15was going to become, and he was spot-on with it, but Paxman just
- 1:10:19thought he was crazy. Was like what the internet
- 1:10:22becoming this bitwise? Poppycock, isn't it?
- 1:10:24And of course, it wasn't. It became the thing as it
- 1:10:28because, of course, it's going to become like that.
- 1:10:30You know, you were always fascinated with the new thing,
- 1:10:34that's what we're always fascinated with.
- 1:10:35And while we always do Marvel at the past and what has happened,
- 1:10:39the fact of the matter is, the new thing is always going to be
- 1:10:43the thing that grabs most people's attention generally
- 1:10:46speaking. Oh yeah.
- 1:10:47And you know, Bowie was way ahead of his time because I
- 1:10:50think he understood the impact that the internet was going to
- 1:10:53have a non-musical property and because in the old days, people
- 1:10:57had to sell the vinyl or the CDs and they had to get on the
- 1:11:00radio. And so the whole music industry
- 1:11:03has been turned on its head because of the internet.
- 1:11:06And so the Everything Has Changed It's crazy.
- 1:11:10Yeah, do you think that technology is has benefited
- 1:11:15Hospitality or ruined their or because I know we briefly spoke
- 1:11:19a little bit earlier about how, you know, it might change it in
- 1:11:22the future and stuff like that. But just over the years like do
- 1:11:25you think it's been a benefit or or detractor?
- 1:11:30I think technology has helped out at least behind the scenes
- 1:11:34and being able to process customers and business and be
- 1:11:38able to give people the opportunity to Market and
- 1:11:40advertise and promote. So it's something we all have to
- 1:11:44get used to and, you know, a website 15 years ago was like,
- 1:11:49what? And now it's like, where's my
- 1:11:51website? It's right here.
- 1:11:53And you know, you see the UPC codes and you see the everything
- 1:11:57and and websites, it's amazing. It's a part of our everyday
- 1:12:01right now. I don't know stuff, but as far
- 1:12:05as hospitality is just, that's what such a big picture because
- 1:12:10it's a huge corporations that are, that are running it, and
- 1:12:13they have to change with the times as well.
- 1:12:16So a lot of that old-fashioned thinking just won't work
- 1:12:18anymore. I don't know that.
- 1:12:20The corporations are necessarily always winning to be fair as
- 1:12:23well, because I feel like small businesses, small restaurants,
- 1:12:27you know, there's always talk in the news, but how like or, you
- 1:12:30know, they're going to close down.
- 1:12:31They're going to be impacted by the big businesses.
- 1:12:33But like there, they always seem to be more appealing than an
- 1:12:37attractive. Then like, you know, your
- 1:12:39commercial businesses that they will always have an audience,
- 1:12:41don't get me wrong, but it's like I read somewhere that
- 1:12:44McDonald's again. Sorry to use this example but
- 1:12:47it's just because it's so it's everywhere, it's standardized
- 1:12:51whatever, right? And I remember reading the in
- 1:12:53the mid 2010's, how their Rebrand, remember, when they
- 1:12:57briefly sort of Market themselves, as like a coffee
- 1:12:59place which was odd? Oh yeah, they do.
- 1:13:03It was during that phase. We also were a salad place for a
- 1:13:05while. Yeah, they kind of lost their
- 1:13:08identity a little bit there. They close down a bunch of
- 1:13:10stores or restaurants and whatnot.
- 1:13:12And it happens to every business, but they're going
- 1:13:15through the same thing again right now.
- 1:13:18They're closed and businesses and it happens, you know, you
- 1:13:21have to kind of constantly reinvent yourself because the
- 1:13:23world is always changing and you have to change with it as you
- 1:13:26mentioned before. But when you're like a big
- 1:13:29business like that, like at the end of the day, there's always
- 1:13:32going to be a time limit. These things there's always
- 1:13:34going to be like, okay, that was then, this is now and I don't
- 1:13:39know that like those commercial businesses will continue to have
- 1:13:41the same power as they once had an especially since there's more
- 1:13:47of a drive towards local produce local businesses, you constantly
- 1:13:51hear about that now. And it's yeah, just seems more
- 1:13:55appealing there will always be a place for the McDonald's at the
- 1:13:59world but you know, it's interesting Christian that I
- 1:14:02just learned Earned within the past year or so that one of the
- 1:14:05big corporate McDonald's Executives said we're not a
- 1:14:10restaurant business. Yet we're a real estate
- 1:14:13business. They make their money off of the
- 1:14:17franchisees, who are paying them all kinds of money for their
- 1:14:22opportunity to run a restaurant. And so McDonald's actually
- 1:14:26classifies themselves more as a real-estate company than, as a
- 1:14:30food company. Yeah, I discovered It's true.
- 1:14:34That movie in 2015, the founder of the get schooled starring.
- 1:14:38Michael Keaton, amazing movie for anyone who hasn't seen it.
- 1:14:41Go and see it. It talks about how McDonald's
- 1:14:46was originally created by the two brothers and it was legit
- 1:14:49restaurant but they had this amazing kind of approach to to
- 1:14:54fast food back in the forties or fifties.
- 1:14:57Sorry. And then it kind of was acquired
- 1:15:00by this guy coming for his name. Something Pringle, something
- 1:15:04like that. I think his name was and he, as
- 1:15:08you say, then turned it into a retail business.
- 1:15:11So, not retail business, a property business, which Real
- 1:15:15Estate. Sorry.
- 1:15:16And that just blows my mind because for those who don't tip
- 1:15:20to break it down in a very straightforward way, every site
- 1:15:24that might Donald zones, They own the land.
- 1:15:28They make their money from leasing to the franchisees.
- 1:15:32So any store that you see will be leased by whoever's the
- 1:15:38running that particular store and they're leasing from
- 1:15:40McDonald's. The corporation who are real
- 1:15:43estate developers /? Constantly purchasing they're
- 1:15:47probably one of the biggest landowners in the world to put
- 1:15:50into perspective. I think you're right.
- 1:15:52And, you know, not only that, but all the product at
- 1:15:56McDonald's, Ends up serving through that franchise is all
- 1:16:00being paid for by the franchisees to the McDonald's
- 1:16:03corporation. So they're making McDonald's
- 1:16:05making money hand and fist. But mostly like you said because
- 1:16:10of the real estate, It's crazy to think about is like imagine
- 1:16:16renting something and being told exactly what you have to do
- 1:16:20constantly and there's no wiggle room to do it your way that you
- 1:16:25have to do it the way you're told.
- 1:16:27It's like yeah sure you can make the argument that yeah we get
- 1:16:31access to all these these products and, you know, the
- 1:16:34existing, you dare to come out of a new company name, or logo
- 1:16:38or anything, everything is taken care of for you, or for you.
- 1:16:41But if the company randomly Sighs to just change stuff and
- 1:16:44it turns out worse you have to deal with that.
- 1:16:48Yeah, it's time they set the rules and, you know, part of
- 1:16:53becoming a franchise owner is to accept the rules of these
- 1:16:5750-page contracts that the big corporations put out there.
- 1:17:01So if you want to operate on a day-by-day basis, you have to
- 1:17:04hire the way that they do and you have to use their food and
- 1:17:07you have to pay the lease on the land and the it's you know, it's
- 1:17:12the poor. Ends way to doing something
- 1:17:13creative. You did you worked briefly as a
- 1:17:20communication specialist? What advice could you give on
- 1:17:23how to become a better Communicator?
- 1:17:26Well, a lot of it being a communication specialist is
- 1:17:29trying to teach your bosses had a had a clearly put across a
- 1:17:32message and and then be able to take a message that's coming
- 1:17:37from your bosses and then be able to filter it out and
- 1:17:40deliver it to your potential consumers.
- 1:17:44So yeah, being a good communication.
- 1:17:46This person combines a lot of technique and a lot of marketing
- 1:17:50efforts and advertising knowledge and people knowledge
- 1:17:53once again, it always keeps coming back to the same thing.
- 1:17:56Christian, you know, when those key things in life, they remain
- 1:18:02constant and true. Don't they?
- 1:18:04And you see them pop up anywhere in life.
- 1:18:05Like, for instance, I, I go to the gym, right?
- 1:18:09And the amount of things I've learned in the gym that just
- 1:18:14apply to just life in general. Yeah, he quotes and whatnot and
- 1:18:18just ways of doing things. And it's like, kind of amazing
- 1:18:23when you really think about it, how everything is sort of
- 1:18:25connected. I'll bet distantly but it's all
- 1:18:28connected. You know.
- 1:18:29It's a. You just made me think of
- 1:18:31something. It's probably out totally
- 1:18:32unrelated. Okay.
- 1:18:33If I share it, please do you know the way that people drive
- 1:18:38is just such a crazy day to day experience, if you're out there
- 1:18:41on the roads and I know that you guys use public transport a lot
- 1:18:44more than we do, but the way people, People drive it very,
- 1:18:47very rude and dangerous, sometimes, but if you weren't in
- 1:18:50the grocery shop and someone drove their cart, like, the way
- 1:18:54they drive their car people would be they'd be killing each
- 1:18:58other in the aisles. Yes, you know, you just have to
- 1:19:02be nice. You know.
- 1:19:03It's why is that such a big major problem for people?
- 1:19:08I also kind of begs the question that, why is behavior accepted
- 1:19:11in one instance? But not in another like, for
- 1:19:13argument's sake. Let's take your analogy.
- 1:19:14Let's say that people ran around the supermarket like they do in
- 1:19:19the cars hitting each other. Like as you say would be here
- 1:19:22will be chaos if you have it is like going to a supermarket
- 1:19:25would be hellscape and it already is you know it's just
- 1:19:31it's interesting, I don't know I think People in the road, like,
- 1:19:38I don't drive, but yeah, I've been a pedestrian.
- 1:19:40My whole life and something like, a lot of the time.
- 1:19:43It's fine. You know, you follow the, we
- 1:19:47call it the Green Cross code, I don't even know if they still
- 1:19:49exist, but if you're if you're sensible with you know how you
- 1:19:51cross streets and stuff like that, you'll probably be fine.
- 1:19:53But sometimes you know there are just people that are crazy.
- 1:19:57They drive around like that as and you know, you get accidents
- 1:20:00happen and it's like, oh yeah. How do you How do you navigate
- 1:20:04that and if you're on the road and you're a driver to and
- 1:20:07you're having to kind of navigate this, it's like every
- 1:20:09day you go out and drive your risk essentially.
- 1:20:15So the real, yeah. And also, you know, just
- 1:20:19people's basic knowledge. So many people are scared to
- 1:20:22fly. Let's say, hmm and they feel
- 1:20:24safe driving. And yet when you take a look at
- 1:20:27the statistical numbers, you'd see they're driving as I really
- 1:20:30dangerous compared to flying on the per mile basis and all that.
- 1:20:34But he's so that that's that's all about how we think you know
- 1:20:38we we think something we am because we think it must be
- 1:20:41true, but that case right? You mentioned earlier that you
- 1:20:46were a radio host and To view for the love life, radio
- 1:20:50network. So I got to ask what were your
- 1:20:52kind of most memorable experiences and life lessons
- 1:20:55that you sort of took away from your time as a radio host?
- 1:20:59Well you know I started radio a lot longer before love live
- 1:21:04radio love life. Radio was in Honolulu here
- 1:21:07during the 90s and cool. We were one of the very first
- 1:21:11radio programs that was broadcast over this new thing
- 1:21:14called the internet and that show.
- 1:21:18Show was focused on love relationship sex travel food,
- 1:21:23all the good things in life, not religion, or politics.
- 1:21:27So we talked about all of those great things, but even before
- 1:21:30that back in Los Angeles, I did shows one of the first shows I
- 1:21:35did was Matthew. The Primetime stuff where I went
- 1:21:37to a big hot young radio station and we take calls from listeners
- 1:21:43and the whole object of this game was to have the listeners.
- 1:21:48All the in with the reason why? I as the chef should drive to
- 1:21:53their house, while the show is on the air and go and cook for
- 1:21:56them in the middle of the night, quite often.
- 1:21:59And so, it was a really fun and a contest game that we did live
- 1:22:03on the air, Matthew, The Primetime Chef.
- 1:22:05So, we would the four or five of us in the studio would be taking
- 1:22:09all the calls from our from our listeners.
- 1:22:11And, you know, people would be giving reasons why I should
- 1:22:14leave the station now and come cook for you.
- 1:22:16So, I would cook in the middle of an emergency, Ward at a
- 1:22:20hospital one time. They won.
- 1:22:23One time, I went to a police precinct and I cook for all the
- 1:22:25cops aboard. Their one time I went to one of
- 1:22:28those little cubicle gas stations and cook for that
- 1:22:31person in there. One time, I went to a young
- 1:22:34lady's house, who's doing her laundry in the middle of the
- 1:22:37night. And so there were a lot of very
- 1:22:39interesting things would happen in my radio career, that was
- 1:22:42just one of the first shows that I did and then I went on to do
- 1:22:46midnight Rendezvous, which is a Night interview, show like your
- 1:22:49show, really, really thoughtful and sweet, and nice and, you
- 1:22:54know, I've just been in radio pretty much my whole life.
- 1:22:56So it's been a long time. And now, I'm thinking about
- 1:22:59eventually starting my own podcast because yes, how much
- 1:23:03success and fun you're having, it's going to say like you got
- 1:23:08so much to talk about so much, you really live, like a very
- 1:23:12interesting life. So I think you people would love
- 1:23:14to see a show. Come out of you, nothing.
- 1:23:16I'll be definitely be. A show, I'd listened to you, for
- 1:23:19sure. If you live long enough
- 1:23:21Christian, you get to build a big resume, you know, I've
- 1:23:25already built a pretty fairly big one right now.
- 1:23:28Like one thing people are really, really, lovely online.
- 1:23:33And I've got some lovely friends, online and followers.
- 1:23:36And sometimes people will say things like You're a good
- 1:23:40Storyteller and I think about the fact that like, I've taken
- 1:23:44the last couple of years to really work on For instance,
- 1:23:49being a presenter, you know, like I do regular livestreams.
- 1:23:53I've been doing this podcast now for about two years.
- 1:23:56When I first started doing this stuff, I was really nervous.
- 1:23:59Like I didn't know how to be how to naturally present, because
- 1:24:04it's not a normal thing. Like this, this is not like a
- 1:24:06normal conversation, like there are elements to it that are
- 1:24:09normal, but it's still, you still present in your trying to
- 1:24:12put on your best version of yourself.
- 1:24:14And I've always tried to lace authenticity.
- 1:24:17Petit in that like I want it to be as authentic as it can be
- 1:24:21without just being a body conversation where we're just
- 1:24:23sitting and shooting. But I'm not going to say the
- 1:24:26word. But you know I mean I'll come
- 1:24:28and say the word shooting the shit, right?
- 1:24:33Because the reality is like it's two different Vibes but I really
- 1:24:37wanted to go for like a show that is conversational but still
- 1:24:43somewhat professional and ordered and structured because
- 1:24:47that's another As well as like having a good structure in a
- 1:24:49format and something that flows naturally that you can listen
- 1:24:53to. But I guess my point with all of
- 1:24:55this is it takes time to kind of build that confidence in
- 1:24:58yourself to be able to do that. And then also to be able to talk
- 1:25:03about things, you got a live, you've got to go out there and
- 1:25:07do stuff and live and accumulate stories and then find a way to
- 1:25:11be able to then tell those stories in a sort of a
- 1:25:15compelling way. And that I don't know that
- 1:25:18there's necessarily an easy way to kind of explain how to do
- 1:25:23that. I think everyone, everyone has
- 1:25:24their own way of doing it. Like for example, two of my
- 1:25:28absolute favorite storytellers, wartime, completely different
- 1:25:31Industries. You've got Jim cornette in the
- 1:25:34wrestling business. He's a historian of wrestling.
- 1:25:37He's been everything like a on-air Talent, a promoter, you
- 1:25:41name it, he's done it. And he is amazing to listen to
- 1:25:44funny, witty, quick off the line.
- 1:25:48Is he? And I think he's in his 60s, and
- 1:25:50he's still sharp as ever. It's incredible.
- 1:25:53And then, on the other side, you've got like someone like
- 1:25:55Dave Chappelle comedian, who is just like, I don't know if you
- 1:25:59see his shows now. Like, he's not even really doing
- 1:26:01comedy anymore. He's just telling stories and
- 1:26:03it's just compelling, but he just, he just talks.
- 1:26:06And it's amazing to listen to. Yeah, some of those guys are
- 1:26:09great. I mean, and that's the maturity
- 1:26:11of their their wonderful abilities.
- 1:26:14Over a long period of time, right?
- 1:26:16I think it all comes down to confidence when you when that
- 1:26:19little kind of flicker in your head just kind of changes one,
- 1:26:24then you realize. Hey, I'm just going to be me and
- 1:26:28let's just see what happens. Like, I'm not going to worry
- 1:26:31anymore. What people think about me.
- 1:26:33I'm not going to worry if they like it.
- 1:26:35They just like it because that which whatever you do.
- 1:26:37People are going to hate it either way.
- 1:26:39Love it either way. Like so you might as well just
- 1:26:41be you and do what feels right and natural, you know, and
- 1:26:45that's great advice. Ice.
- 1:26:46That's the thing. Like I know it's what I find
- 1:26:48really interesting is like sometimes I meet people for the
- 1:26:51first time and we just click and it's like, you can just you can
- 1:26:56just talk for it. Like I met someone recently.
- 1:26:58She's become a good friend of mine and we've only known each
- 1:27:01other like a few months now, if that?
- 1:27:04But it's like we've known each other all our lives but then
- 1:27:07there's other people I trying to do and it's just awkward and I
- 1:27:11can't get anything going. And then I start to question
- 1:27:14myself on Mike, is there something wrong with me?
- 1:27:16My boring and then I'm like, no, it's not that.
- 1:27:19It's just, you just click with different people.
- 1:27:22And that's, that's it. That's, that's all there is to
- 1:27:24it. And it's like this show, you
- 1:27:26know, sometimes you get people, come on, you have more of a
- 1:27:29rapport and sometimes you don't and that's okay, well, you're
- 1:27:34very outgoing. And so I think it says that's a
- 1:27:37huge element to be able to present and speak and and, you
- 1:27:42know, not necessarily going from the script all the time because
- 1:27:46a lot of people will have a script.
- 1:27:47I'll follow the last questions based on their script, but
- 1:27:50really the key, the magic happens, when you go off script
- 1:27:55and there you be real and authentic, like you said, I
- 1:27:58mean, that is the greatest part of doing any sort of a
- 1:28:01conversation when you with somebody, that's always my hope.
- 1:28:04I can again, I've said this before, but like I always have
- 1:28:07like questions here and some of them I've lost throughout this
- 1:28:10show. But what I'm trying to get, is
- 1:28:12the conversation rolling. So that, then I can sort of just
- 1:28:15forget about That this is here and just focus.
- 1:28:18And then occasionally, I'll just like if I need to shift, I'll
- 1:28:21ask a question to get it, get it in a different topic or subject
- 1:28:25or whatever will get conversation moving forward.
- 1:28:28But yeah, that's what I want and like sometimes there's been,
- 1:28:30there's been times when I've done show and I've literally not
- 1:28:33asked a single question. I had on my paper it's just been
- 1:28:37purely just conversation. I don't know like this they just
- 1:28:40like just roll sometimes just rolls on its own right just got
- 1:28:44to roll with it man. Okay.
- 1:28:48In your you've had a very long career, you've done a lot of
- 1:28:50different things. What would you say are the
- 1:28:53biggest lessons and takeaways from all of that, you know,
- 1:28:58suggesting that I've had a long career is just a nice way of
- 1:29:01saying I'm old. No, I know no long and luxurious
- 1:29:11and full of many interesting experiences that could offer a
- 1:29:15lot of That's what I'm looking for your goodness.
- 1:29:19You know, the thing that I've learned most and especially like
- 1:29:22now at this stage I'm like in that paid forward mode where I
- 1:29:26have a lot of knowledge that I'd like to share because mmm,
- 1:29:31Shirley I'm highly unemployable right now but I can share stuff
- 1:29:36with people like recently these last three years or so I got
- 1:29:40into learning about metabolic health and science related to
- 1:29:44the food that we eat and the health.
- 1:29:46If people are going through the health situations in issues.
- 1:29:49So I've learned a lot about food at a scientific level and I'm
- 1:29:53helping people now tweak their diet, get off medications to to
- 1:30:01not be obese anymore because he obesity level in your country
- 1:30:06and in America is out of control, we're talking about you
- 1:30:10know forty to fifty percent of the population are obese and or
- 1:30:15have Diabetes in one level or form or another.
- 1:30:19So I'm helping people overcome a lot of that stuff with good
- 1:30:23really wonderful science. It's going to be helpful.
- 1:30:26So that's what I'm doing now on the side and I'm really digging
- 1:30:28it. I love those.
- 1:30:30Well like no matter what age do you get to in life, there's
- 1:30:35always things you can learn and ways you can help people and
- 1:30:40like it's like recently that this bar that I work in, right?
- 1:30:45I'm one of the There's people there, like most of the people
- 1:30:47working, there are between like 1921.
- 1:30:50And I'm like, I'm like 29 right now, right?
- 1:30:54And I was always that clueless boy that didn't know anything
- 1:30:58and was scared of the world and didn't know what to do, right?
- 1:31:02And then somewhere during that time I became a man and things
- 1:31:07change that. I sort of started trusting
- 1:31:09myself and just rolling with it, right?
- 1:31:12And now I find myself giving advice that people younger than
- 1:31:17me and every once in a while, I have to catch myself and be
- 1:31:20like, wait, what, when did I stop being the person that's
- 1:31:25able to offer advice Vice, like when did that happen?
- 1:31:28But it's like just do the time it is.
- 1:31:32There's a time in life when, you know, for the longest time,
- 1:31:34you're the youngest person in the room and then you blink your
- 1:31:38eyes a few times, and you end up being the oldest person in the
- 1:31:40room. And that, that whole wisdom
- 1:31:43thing is not necessarily related to age.
- 1:31:46It's related to experience and heart and soul.
- 1:31:49And obviously that's what you're going through to its incredible,
- 1:31:52isn't it? Like, but I like your ethos like
- 1:31:54it's always good to give back and look for different ways to
- 1:31:57do that. That and and look to keep moving
- 1:31:59forward like the journeys, not over till it's over and you
- 1:32:02know, there's there's so much more to be learned so much more
- 1:32:04to be experienced and yeah man another another bid a bit of
- 1:32:10advice or something that I like to share with people besides
- 1:32:14trying to get their help thing together, which is really
- 1:32:16important is to go after things that kind of stir your creative
- 1:32:23Zone. Instead of thinking, this is
- 1:32:27going to be a good opportunity. E4 money.
- 1:32:29So if you go after something because of the money, chances
- 1:32:32are it won't be in any way satisfactory and it won't build
- 1:32:37all the important things inside. So you might as well go for the
- 1:32:41color and the creative because that can eventually morph itself
- 1:32:46into like a much happier existence.
- 1:32:51What's the best advice you've ever received?
- 1:32:57That's a really good question and I was going to try to be
- 1:33:04funny there for a second, but just probably only treat people
- 1:33:12in the way that you want to be treated if I'm going to be real
- 1:33:16about it and it really results in in a good kind of experience.
- 1:33:21When you're with someone, if you do that, Couldn't agree more.
- 1:33:26Yeah. And what's the biggest life
- 1:33:29lesson you've learned so far? I don't know, you know, these
- 1:33:34past couple years, I would definitely question that because
- 1:33:37things have changed since covid. So life lessons, I think is just
- 1:33:41being able to take care of family and hopefully get taken
- 1:33:45care of by family. And making sure that, you know,
- 1:33:48your central core existences is safe and healthy and as happy as
- 1:33:54you can be, Then you know, as we draw things to a close for
- 1:33:59today. Do you have any upcoming
- 1:34:01projects or some final thoughts that you'd like to share with
- 1:34:03our listeners? I think that if any of the
- 1:34:07listeners are having any health issues or are taking medications
- 1:34:12that they really don't want to be on anymore or their little
- 1:34:18bit chubby and they want some help in the in losing weight and
- 1:34:21getting to that healthier point and I would love for you to
- 1:34:25reach out. Out and contact me and be happy
- 1:34:28to give everybody, you know some of my time and some my expertise
- 1:34:34to help people you know, reverse their disease or get off their
- 1:34:37meds and eat a healthy diet. And I know it sounds funny
- 1:34:40coming from a lifelong chef but I think that that impart really
- 1:34:44plays an important role as to what I'm doing now.
- 1:34:47Couldn't agree more. Yeah, yeah, thank you so much
- 1:34:51for for being a guest on the show.
- 1:34:54It's been an absolute pleasure having you on the show.
- 1:34:57And yeah, we're sure the best for the future and to you too
- 1:35:01Christian. I hope to be able to see your
- 1:35:03mail be in. Manchester do it soon enough in
- 1:35:05the future and maybe go out and have a few, too many?
- 1:35:09I would love that. That would be a huge.
- 1:35:12I would to thank you so much for inviting.
- 1:35:13Me is really a great time and what time is it there?
- 1:35:16Now it is 8:45 in the evening. Thank you for having me.
- 1:35:23Great show. Thank you, sir.
- 1:35:25And to all the listeners of the Christian re podcast, as always
- 1:35:28be safe. Be well, and I'll see you in the
- 1:35:31next one.