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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Welcome to Stuff I've Never Told You, a production of iHeartRadio,
- 0:18Speaker 2: and today we are bringing back an older Kristen and Caroline,
- 0:24Speaker 2: past host founder of Stuff we Never Told You, classic
- 0:29Speaker 2: around women and photography. Did you ever get really into photography, Samantha.
- 0:35Speaker 1: I did a whole little project which I kind of
- 0:37Speaker 1: want to talk about later, called the Purple Balloon Project,
- 0:40Speaker 1: in which a lot of it was featuring artistic pictures
- 0:46Speaker 1: and stories of women who survived domestic violence situations or
- 0:49Speaker 1: assault situations. And yeah, I really thought I was doing something.
- 0:53Speaker 1: Going back and look at it, I still think I
- 0:55Speaker 1: did pretty good. I think I could have been a photographer.
- 0:58Speaker 3: Maybe not, Yeah, yeah, I mean if this was a
- 1:05Speaker 3: different podcast, I would wax poetic about how I won
- 1:09Speaker 3: this free camera but it had all these limitations. But
- 1:12Speaker 3: I found the ways around the limitations. But also for
- 1:19Speaker 3: a while, for my job I did, I was a
- 1:22Speaker 3: part of my job. I would never say.
- 1:24Speaker 2: I I would never say I did anything amazing, but
- 1:28Speaker 2: I got pretty good at it.
- 1:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Yeah, So I would love listeners, if you're into photography,
- 1:37Speaker 2: if you have any tips, if you would like to
- 1:40Speaker 2: share with listeners. I would love to hear from all
- 1:42Speaker 2: of you. I do have a really good friend who
- 1:44Speaker 2: is a photographer, and she does great work. And every
- 1:49Speaker 2: time I see a picture she's taken. Wow, so good,
- 1:55Speaker 2: so good. But yes, in the meantime, please enjoy this
- 1:59Speaker 2: class episode. Welcome to Stuff Mom Never told You from
- 2:07Speaker 2: HowStuffWorks dot Com.
- 2:13Speaker 5: Hello, and welcome to the podcast.
- 2:15Speaker 4: I'm Kristen and I'm Caroline, and.
- 2:18Speaker 5: Let's offer a snapshot of Women and photography, a portrait
- 2:25Speaker 5: of women's contributions to the field of photography.
- 2:28Speaker 4: Caroline filtering the knowledge for you.
- 2:31Speaker 5: This won't be an Instagram Wait, okay, I don't have
- 2:35Speaker 5: a pun for Instagram. It's too bad. Yeah, we're going
- 2:39Speaker 5: to talk about women in photography, which is a huge subject,
- 2:44Speaker 5: but we're going to offer some historical highlights and also
- 2:48Speaker 5: talk about gender and photography today. More behind the lens,
- 2:52Speaker 5: not stuff so much in front of the camera in
- 2:54Speaker 5: terms of what people are taking pictures of, but talking
- 2:58Speaker 5: about the women behind the camera. So let's go back
- 3:02Speaker 5: in history to eighteen thirty nine.
- 3:07Speaker 6: Yeah, Frenchman Louis de Guerre perfects his dageriotype, the world's
- 3:11Speaker 6: first form of photography, and women were involved from the
- 3:14Speaker 6: get go. But let's talk a little bit more about
- 3:16Speaker 6: the technology. So in eighteen eighty eight we have the
- 3:19Speaker 6: introduction of the mass marketed Kodak box camera, and part
- 3:24Speaker 6: of marketing this Kodak camera and this Kodak technology was
- 3:28Speaker 6: the Kodak Girl. In eighteen ninety three, the Kodak Girl
- 3:31Speaker 6: appears in the company's national advertising, a character embodying independence
- 3:37Speaker 6: and travel.
- 3:38Speaker 5: And the whole Kodak Girl thing was so significant for
- 3:42Speaker 5: women in photography at the time, in the same way
- 3:45Speaker 5: that we talked about in the podcast recently on Secretaries
- 3:49Speaker 5: of how typewriters were initially marketed to women. It was
- 3:53Speaker 5: this brand new technology, and Kodak was like, you know what,
- 3:58Speaker 5: women would love, this new handheld, easier to use camera,
- 4:04Speaker 5: and their advertising images showed women shooting pictures at home,
- 4:08Speaker 5: out with friends, having a great time, just snapping their
- 4:12Speaker 5: old timey photographs.
- 4:14Speaker 6: You know, you mentioned the Secretary episode and the typewriter,
- 4:16Speaker 6: and I actually was thinking the same thing as I
- 4:18Speaker 6: was reading this stuff, but in regards to a new
- 4:22Speaker 6: industry developing, so there was no precedence for it as
- 4:25Speaker 6: far as what gender it was aligned with, because you know,
- 4:29Speaker 6: obviously we talked about in the Secretary episode how it
- 4:31Speaker 6: was new. The typewriter was new, and so women could
- 4:34Speaker 6: just get into those jobs. It wasn't considered a male pursuit.
- 4:38Speaker 4: It was kind of the same with photography.
- 4:39Speaker 6: Yes, there was technology and you were outside, and these
- 4:43Speaker 6: were two things that were not typically associated with women.
- 4:45Speaker 6: But as the photography industry really got going, I mean
- 4:48Speaker 6: there were a ton of women who got involved.
- 4:50Speaker 5: Yeah, And in nineteen hundred, when Kodak released its first
- 4:54Speaker 5: Brownie camera, which was lightweight and more inexpensive, this also
- 5:00Speaker 5: revolutionized things for women. And I like how Kodak advertised
- 5:04Speaker 5: it by saying there's a new pleasure in every phase
- 5:07Speaker 5: of photography, whilst showing a woman having lots of pleasure
- 5:12Speaker 5: holding a Brownie camera.
- 5:14Speaker 6: Just carry it around, like when hipsters wear fake glasses.
- 5:18Speaker 6: That's women just carrying brownies around.
- 5:20Speaker 5: I'm gonna start carrying around a nineteen hundred brownie Yeah, yeah, sure,
- 5:26Speaker 5: Who needs an iPhone and Instagram when you have a
- 5:28Speaker 5: camera that won't work.
- 5:30Speaker 4: My thoughts exactly?
- 5:32Speaker 6: Yes, all right, So you know we're talking about women
- 5:35Speaker 6: being outside and following different hobbies and things.
- 5:39Speaker 4: In the mid to late.
- 5:40Speaker 6: Nineteenth century, we get bicycles and bicycle clubs, and then
- 5:45Speaker 6: photography clubs and photography bicycle clubs.
- 5:48Speaker 5: Yeah, I love this. In the mid eighteen nineties, the
- 5:52Speaker 5: whole combination of cameras plus bicycles, plus the emergence of
- 5:56Speaker 5: the new woman who is more emancipated because she's riding
- 5:59Speaker 5: a bicycle and she's taking pictures of things outside that
- 6:02Speaker 5: she sees, is like this huge craze for a bit,
- 6:07Speaker 5: and it seems a little dangerous because I could imagine
- 6:10Speaker 5: that wielding a camera while riding a bicycle.
- 6:12Speaker 4: Hopefully they stopped.
- 6:13Speaker 5: Yeah, I assume that they stopped, but still. It was
- 6:16Speaker 5: kind of a sign of the times, though, that women
- 6:18Speaker 5: were wielding this new technology and getting around on their
- 6:22Speaker 5: own on bicycles.
- 6:23Speaker 6: And people who were debating it at the time were saying, like, well,
- 6:26Speaker 6: it seems a little risque, but I guess it's an
- 6:31Speaker 6: acceptable form of women getting their exercise.
- 6:33Speaker 5: And photography in general exploded. I mean ever since you
- 6:38Speaker 5: know dea guare perfected, the Daguerreo type studios were popping
- 6:42Speaker 5: up everywhere.
- 6:44Speaker 4: Yeah, especially out west.
- 6:45Speaker 6: According to found SF San Francisco dot org, photography became
- 6:50Speaker 6: an emancipator of women out on the western frontier, and
- 6:54Speaker 6: a lot of times these women would go out there
- 6:56Speaker 6: following husbands, brothers, fathers, and pick up the trade from
- 7:01Speaker 6: the men in their lives and continue to work the studios.
- 7:04Speaker 4: So it really wasn't weird.
- 7:06Speaker 6: I mean, it was like, okay, well, it's weird that
- 7:08Speaker 6: there's a woman out here on the frontier, but it
- 7:10Speaker 6: wasn't necessarily weird that a woman would be working at
- 7:12Speaker 6: a photo studio. So women were involved in photography, like
- 7:16Speaker 6: we said, from the very beginning, and particularly out west
- 7:19Speaker 6: during the gold Rush, they worked in all sorts of
- 7:22Speaker 6: related activities, not just shooting the actual photos. They worked
- 7:26Speaker 6: as studio photographers, traveling photographers, proprietors, gallery owners, retouchers, colorists,
- 7:32Speaker 6: and photo mounters, and they also joined the swelling ranks
- 7:35Speaker 6: of amateur art photographers. And these women who worked particularly
- 7:38Speaker 6: as like colorists and retouchers, could actually make a lot
- 7:41Speaker 6: more money than women could in other traditional female roles
- 7:44Speaker 6: at the time.
- 7:45Speaker 5: In the same way, again echoing that secretary podcast, in
- 7:49Speaker 5: how early typists were earning a lot more money than
- 7:52Speaker 5: they could say as garment workers, which was one of
- 7:54Speaker 5: the most common ways for women to earn money outside
- 7:58Speaker 5: of the home, but in the West, which was mostly
- 8:02Speaker 5: dominated by men who were out there for the gold Rush.
- 8:05Speaker 5: From eighteen fifty to nineteen hundred, there were seventy seven
- 8:08Speaker 5: working female photographers and two hundred and five women earning
- 8:12Speaker 5: a living in related trades, along with fifty two women
- 8:16Speaker 5: who were documented as amateur or fine art photographers, which
- 8:20Speaker 5: sounds like a small group of women, but considering their
- 8:22Speaker 5: proportions in relation to the you know, the gold rush
- 8:26Speaker 5: population was very sizable.
- 8:30Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 8:30Speaker 6: And one woman who advertised her services out there was
- 8:34Speaker 6: Julia Shannon, who in eighteen fifty put an ad in
- 8:38Speaker 6: the San Francisco Alta newspaper notice, dagueriotypes taken.
- 8:43Speaker 4: By a lady. Lady is capitalized.
- 8:45Speaker 6: Those wishing to have a good likeness are informed that
- 8:48Speaker 6: they can have them taken in a very superior manner,
- 8:51Speaker 6: and by a real life lady too, in Clay Street,
- 8:54Speaker 6: opposite the Saint Francis Hotel, at a very moderate charge.
- 8:57Speaker 4: Give her a cul gents.
- 8:59Speaker 5: Yeah, and I can imagine that Julias Shannon did quite
- 9:01Speaker 5: well for herself because she probably emphasized the fact that
- 9:04Speaker 5: your picture will be taken by a real live lady,
- 9:07Speaker 5: because there were not many real live ladies around in
- 9:11Speaker 5: gold rush California.
- 9:13Speaker 6: Right, you've been panning for gold all day, Come in
- 9:15Speaker 6: and see a lady.
- 9:16Speaker 5: But why, Caroline, were women able to pursue photography in
- 9:22Speaker 5: these early years. It wasn't just because of the Kodak
- 9:25Speaker 5: girl's that's that whole fact of the technology being brand
- 9:30Speaker 5: new and therefore not gender segregated yet.
- 9:34Speaker 6: Yeah, and there was a lack of established schools basically
- 9:37Speaker 6: that could deny them admittant. So it's like definition by negative.
- 9:40Speaker 6: You know, there was nobody to say no. So they
- 9:44Speaker 6: just got involved. And you know, like I said, a
- 9:47Speaker 6: lot of them worked in family businesses and inherited the
- 9:50Speaker 6: trade from a husband or a father.
- 9:53Speaker 4: And it really.
- 9:53Speaker 6: Became the case that photography studios were one of the
- 9:58Speaker 6: first businesses that were okay for women to own and run.
- 10:01Speaker 5: And in the West in particular, in this you know,
- 10:04Speaker 5: this frontier environment. It's interesting that photography became acceptable and
- 10:09Speaker 5: even desirable for women working in us AY San Francisco's
- 10:15Speaker 5: photo industry because social critics at the time argued that
- 10:18Speaker 5: adventurous women needed a suitable occupation, like being a studio
- 10:23Speaker 5: photographer that offered higher wages so that they wouldn't end
- 10:27Speaker 5: up in a life of vice. Keep women busy, or
- 10:31Speaker 5: else they will end up selling their bodies.
- 10:34Speaker 6: God, that always happens every time I'm bored. It's true,
- 10:37Speaker 6: every time I'm bored. So by eighteen ninety there were
- 10:40Speaker 6: one hundred and forty one documented women working in the
- 10:42Speaker 6: photographic industry, and by nineteen hundred, women composed over twenty
- 10:47Speaker 6: five percent of America's professional registered photographers.
- 10:51Speaker 5: But just because women were wielding the camera and you know,
- 10:56Speaker 5: exploring this new technology, did not mean that it was
- 10:58Speaker 5: necessarily easy for women to sell their photos, particularly for
- 11:04Speaker 5: the ad industry in the early twentieth century, because in
- 11:07Speaker 5: terms of taking portraits, doing studio photography or amateur fine
- 11:12Speaker 5: art photography, women were really finding their stride. But in
- 11:15Speaker 5: advertising that was something that was already an entrenched, male
- 11:20Speaker 5: dominated industry.
- 11:21Speaker 6: Yeah, in the early twentieth century, agencies for selling photographs,
- 11:25Speaker 6: according to Jermaine Craull, seem to.
- 11:27Speaker 4: Have been reserved for men.
- 11:29Speaker 6: However, the increase in advertising in Germany, in particular in
- 11:33Speaker 6: the late nineteen twenties and early nineteen thirties made it
- 11:36Speaker 6: possible for women to make it in the field. The
- 11:39Speaker 6: writer lists Ellen Auerback and Gret Stern, who were praised
- 11:42Speaker 6: for their quote inborn womanly instinct for the delicate nuances
- 11:48Speaker 6: of textiles.
- 11:49Speaker 5: Which sounds like a whole lot of benevolent sexism, saying, Oh,
- 11:53Speaker 5: you're so good at this because you are a woman.
- 11:57Speaker 4: You're so good at knowing what cloth looks like. You're empathetic, but.
- 12:01Speaker 5: By that same regard too. As women start making strides
- 12:05Speaker 5: in more of the business side of photography, it still
- 12:09Speaker 5: took a while for them to be taken seriously. From
- 12:11Speaker 5: the nineteen forties on, there were gains in advertising, fashion,
- 12:15Speaker 5: and publicity photography, and in a nineteen forty five summary
- 12:19Speaker 5: of photography related opportunities for women, one commentator urge women
- 12:24Speaker 5: to earn quote unquote pen money by supplying magazines with
- 12:28Speaker 5: pictures of domestic subjects at between two dollars and five
- 12:31Speaker 5: dollars of print, and speaking of the two dollars to
- 12:34Speaker 5: five dollars per print again, same as with secretarial work.
- 12:39Speaker 5: Around the same time. Even though those kinds of jobs
- 12:43Speaker 5: were allowing women to earn more wages than they would
- 12:46Speaker 5: in other industries, they were still being paid about half
- 12:49Speaker 5: as much as men doing the same.
- 12:51Speaker 6: Thing, right, And another commentator on this nineteen forty five
- 12:56Speaker 6: summary of job opportunities for women photographers, it gets worse
- 13:00Speaker 6: than saying, well, they can get a little extra money
- 13:03Speaker 6: for their bobbles and things. Another guy dismissed women as
- 13:07Speaker 6: a handy photo gadget for their photographer husbands. So they're
- 13:11Speaker 6: just like an accessory.
- 13:13Speaker 5: Yeah. That is One thing that photo historians will point
- 13:16Speaker 5: out is that for even the more recognized male photographers
- 13:22Speaker 5: of the era, they had often wives with them who
- 13:27Speaker 5: were traveling and helping them develop their films, set up
- 13:31Speaker 5: their shots, doing all of this very integral work. But
- 13:36Speaker 5: during World War Two and that manpower drain as a
- 13:39Speaker 5: lot of men left their jobs to go fight, female
- 13:42Speaker 5: photographers got improved access to, especially women's magazines such as
- 13:48Speaker 5: Better Homes and Gardens, House, Beautiful House and Garden, and McCall's.
- 13:53Speaker 6: And after the war, commissions were typically given to women
- 13:56Speaker 6: on other women and on minority groups topics that editors
- 13:59Speaker 6: consider less important.
- 14:01Speaker 5: And that question of are women relegated to shooting women's
- 14:06Speaker 5: interest and domestic related subjects is something that we'll talk
- 14:10Speaker 5: about today because it's a debate that is still going
- 14:13Speaker 5: on for women in photography in twenty thirteen.
- 14:17Speaker 6: Yeah, well, so do you want to talk about some
- 14:20Speaker 6: early pioneers before we get into the gender discussion.
- 14:23Speaker 5: Let's do it.
- 14:24Speaker 4: Let's do it.
- 14:26Speaker 6: Lady Clementina Howarden is one of Britain's first female photographers.
- 14:30Speaker 6: This is coming from her profile on the Telegraph. She
- 14:33Speaker 6: started shooting in eighteen fifty seven and in the eighteen
- 14:38Speaker 6: sixties some of her images that she shot of her
- 14:40Speaker 6: daughters were considered to be some of Britain's first fashion shoots.
- 14:45Speaker 5: Yeah. She often shot her daughters Isabella Grace, Clementina and
- 14:48Speaker 5: Florence Elizabeth in romantic and sensual poses. She had pretty
- 14:54Speaker 5: iconic set dressings that were usually covered with gossamer curtains,
- 15:00Speaker 5: a freestanding mirror, a small chest of drawers, and Empire
- 15:03Speaker 5: star wallpaper. So she definitely developed a look. But even
- 15:08Speaker 5: though the look might seem kind of commonplace, you know
- 15:11Speaker 5: you're thinking, oh, curtains in a mirror, no big whoop.
- 15:14Speaker 5: Her themes were highly progressive for the time and they included,
- 15:18Speaker 5: as reported on in the Telegraph, identity otherness, the doppelganger
- 15:23Speaker 5: and here we go female sexuality, which for a Victorian
- 15:28Speaker 5: era female photographer, pretty progressive stuff. Yeah.
- 15:32Speaker 6: In eighteen sixty three and eighteen sixty four she won
- 15:35Speaker 6: silver medals from the Photographic Society, and she had admirers,
- 15:38Speaker 6: including Lewis Carroll and photography specialist Francesca Spickernell. In recent
- 15:45Speaker 6: times has said that the photography recognition she received was
- 15:49Speaker 6: a tremendous achievement. She said most photography was very masculine
- 15:53Speaker 6: and mostly architectural, so these elegant feminine shots really stood
- 15:56Speaker 6: out at that time.
- 16:07Speaker 5: Now, a contemporary of Hawardans was Julia Margaret Cameron, and
- 16:14Speaker 5: she's been highly praised, more so by contemporary critics than
- 16:19Speaker 5: her critics at the time she received her first camera.
- 16:23Speaker 5: I thought this was funny when she was forty eight
- 16:25Speaker 5: years old in eighteen sixty three and her kids essentially
- 16:28Speaker 5: like moved away and were like, here, mom, have a
- 16:30Speaker 5: camera to keep yourself entertained. And they all know what
- 16:34Speaker 5: happens to women who aren't occupied. Oh yeah, that's right,
- 16:37Speaker 5: and this camera might have otherwise ended up on the street.
- 16:40Speaker 5: But she was deeply religious, well read, and eccentric and
- 16:44Speaker 5: had some pretty famous friends such as Charles Darwin, Alfred
- 16:48Speaker 5: Lloyd Tennyson and Robert Browning, and Cameron immediately started taking
- 16:54Speaker 5: all sorts of pictures, especially portraits and figure studies on
- 16:58Speaker 5: literary and biblical themes, which was something that was unprecedented,
- 17:03Speaker 5: and she quickly became one of the most highly admired
- 17:06Speaker 5: Victorian photographers.
- 17:08Speaker 6: Yeah, she was a very quick learner. Within a year
- 17:12Speaker 6: and a half she'd sold eighty prints to the Victorian
- 17:14Speaker 6: Albert Museum. But she also went about in an entrepreneurial fashion,
- 17:19Speaker 6: rapidly copyrighting her work, exhibiting her work, and she even
- 17:23Speaker 6: established her own two room studio.
- 17:25Speaker 5: But she did get snubbed, as I said, from some
- 17:28Speaker 5: of her critics of the time. In the Photographic Journal
- 17:33Speaker 5: in eighteen sixty five, someone commented that missus Cameron exhibits
- 17:38Speaker 5: a series of out of focused portraits of celebrities. We
- 17:42Speaker 5: must give this lady credit for daring originality, but at
- 17:45Speaker 5: the expense of all other photographic qualities. And not surprisingly
- 17:50Speaker 5: such criticism infuriated Cameron. But she pretty much got the
- 17:54Speaker 5: last laugh because, for instance, a lot of her information
- 17:56Speaker 5: about hers coming from the website of the Metropolitan Museum
- 18:00Speaker 5: of Art, so she certainly put her stamp on art
- 18:04Speaker 5: history at large.
- 18:06Speaker 4: That's exactly right.
- 18:07Speaker 6: Moving forward just a little bit, we have Francis Benjamin Johnston,
- 18:10Speaker 6: who's one of America's first and foremost women photographers. She
- 18:15Speaker 6: trained in Paris in art and in photography at the
- 18:19Speaker 6: Art Students League in d C. And opened her own
- 18:21Speaker 6: studio around eighteen ninety. And what really helped her out
- 18:25Speaker 6: is Johnson's family's social status that gave her access to
- 18:29Speaker 6: the First Family and leading Washington political figures. She actually
- 18:33Speaker 6: that helped her launch her career as a photojournalist and
- 18:36Speaker 6: a portrait photographer.
- 18:38Speaker 5: Yeah. For instance, thanks to a letter of introduction from
- 18:41Speaker 5: Teddy Roosevelt, no big deal, Johnston boarded Admiral Dewey's flagship
- 18:46Speaker 5: and interviewed him en route to the Philippines, Which I mean,
- 18:50Speaker 5: this is going on in the late eighteen hundreds, early
- 18:53Speaker 5: nineteen hundreds, and Johnston was a pretty pioneering woman in
- 18:57Speaker 5: general to be hanging out on a sh ship like that.
- 19:01Speaker 5: And there's this great iconic picture that she took. It's
- 19:04Speaker 5: a self portrait of her and she's sitting in a
- 19:08Speaker 5: chair hunched forward and she has her skirt pulled up
- 19:13Speaker 5: to reveal her petticoat, which is very risque at the time.
- 19:16Speaker 5: I want to see she's smoking a cigarette two and
- 19:19Speaker 5: she just it's a very masculine post. But you can
- 19:23Speaker 5: just tell from it that she gave no hoots about
- 19:29Speaker 5: what people thought of her.
- 19:30Speaker 4: No hoots were given.
- 19:32Speaker 6: And in nineteen hundred, Johnston was chosen as one of
- 19:35Speaker 6: two American women delegates at the International Congress of Photography,
- 19:39Speaker 6: where she spoke out on behalf of women photographers and
- 19:41Speaker 6: displayed pictures from thirty female colleagues around the US.
- 19:45Speaker 5: Yeah, and she was really promotional of women getting into photography.
- 19:51Speaker 5: She wrote a series of articles, for instance in the
- 19:53Speaker 5: Ladies Home Journal, and there was one eighteen ninety seven
- 19:57Speaker 5: article she wrote called what a Woman Can Do with
- 19:59Speaker 5: a Cam in which she talks about the qualities that
- 20:02Speaker 5: you need to be a solid photographer, and she says,
- 20:05Speaker 5: the woman who makes photography profitable must have as to
- 20:09Speaker 5: personal qualities, good common sense, unlimited patients to carry her
- 20:12Speaker 5: through endless failures, equally unlimited tact good taste, a quick eye,
- 20:18Speaker 5: a talent for detail, and a genius for hard work.
- 20:21Speaker 5: And I think that that advice is probably still the
- 20:25Speaker 5: advice that would be given to women looking to pick
- 20:27Speaker 5: up the camera today. But the thing is in Johnston's
- 20:32Speaker 5: story points to one of the reasons why we wanted
- 20:35Speaker 5: to highlight women in photography is that even though at
- 20:38Speaker 5: the time she was this very important pioneer and had
- 20:43Speaker 5: a pretty high public profile, the first significant monograph of
- 20:46Speaker 5: her work didn't come around until nineteen seventy. She's one
- 20:51Speaker 5: of many female photographers who were making great strides during
- 20:55Speaker 5: the time, but who have been pretty much ignored in
- 21:00Speaker 5: photo history up until recent decades.
- 21:03Speaker 6: Yeah, one woman who made a lot of waves was
- 21:05Speaker 6: Margaret Burke White, who's actually one of the most famous
- 21:08Speaker 6: photojournalists of the twentieth century. And she has a saucy quote,
- 21:12Speaker 6: if anybody gets in my way when I'm making a picture,
- 21:15Speaker 6: I become a rational I'm never sure what I'm going
- 21:17Speaker 6: to do, only that I want that picture. And so
- 21:21Speaker 6: she was born in the Bronx in nineteen oh four
- 21:22Speaker 6: and began work after college as a commercial photographer, but
- 21:26Speaker 6: she made rapid, exponential strides later in life, and in
- 21:31Speaker 6: nineteen twenty nine she became the first photographer for Fortune magazine,
- 21:35Speaker 6: and in nineteen thirty six, a black and white photo
- 21:39Speaker 6: of hers made the cover of the first issue of
- 21:41Speaker 6: Life magazine.
- 21:42Speaker 5: Yeah, it was an image of the construction of the
- 21:44Speaker 5: Fort Peck Dam, which was a Public Works Administration project
- 21:48Speaker 5: to build the largest earth dam in the world during
- 21:51Speaker 5: the Great Depression. And in getting that gig, she was
- 21:55Speaker 5: the only female Life magazine staffer, and she invented the
- 22:00Speaker 5: photo essay for the magazine, and her work became very
- 22:05Speaker 5: famous at the time. And she began as a commercial
- 22:08Speaker 5: photographer documenting the achievements of corporation and then applied that
- 22:12Speaker 5: dramatic style that she owned with industrial and architectural subjects
- 22:16Speaker 5: to photo essays in places all around the world, including Germany.
- 22:20Speaker 5: She actually took pictures from one of the concentration camps
- 22:24Speaker 5: that was being liberated at the time, and those pictures,
- 22:27Speaker 5: I mean just shocked audiences around the world. She also
- 22:32Speaker 5: took pictures in the Soviet Union. She was I think
- 22:34Speaker 5: the first Western photographer to go to the Soviet Union.
- 22:39Speaker 5: She also documented the Midwest during the dust Bowl and
- 22:44Speaker 5: took pictures of these harrowing pictures of families who were
- 22:47Speaker 5: suffering at the time. And she was known for her
- 22:51Speaker 5: fearlessness in doing all of this.
- 22:53Speaker 6: Yeah, she was definitely no shrinking Violet. She was the
- 22:57Speaker 6: first female war correspondent and the first to be allowed
- 23:00Speaker 6: to work in combat zones during World War Two.
- 23:03Speaker 5: Yeah, and I wish that there was some way. This
- 23:05Speaker 5: is an audio podcast, and so trying to describe photography
- 23:09Speaker 5: in a very meaningful way is a bit challenging. I
- 23:12Speaker 5: wish there was some kind of visual maybe with Google glasses,
- 23:16Speaker 5: maybe we could see a slide show right now of
- 23:18Speaker 5: all of this photography. And there are so many more
- 23:21Speaker 5: important female photographers that we aren't even able to touch
- 23:25Speaker 5: on in depth. I mean, they're women like Dorothea Lang,
- 23:28Speaker 5: Tina Badotti, image In Cunningham, Diane arbus Helen Levitt, Anny Leeboitz,
- 23:34Speaker 5: et cetera, et cetera. And those are only a few
- 23:36Speaker 5: of the women that we ran across. But we only
- 23:38Speaker 5: had time to offer, like we said, a snapshot of
- 23:42Speaker 5: women's photography. But we really want to now dig into
- 23:46Speaker 5: the issue of gender because we've established that women in
- 23:51Speaker 5: photography history have remained underrepresented, even though you have you know,
- 23:56Speaker 5: the Margaret Burke whites, but she and I would say,
- 23:59Speaker 5: in today's term, someone like Annie Leebwitz, or even like
- 24:02Speaker 5: Cindy Sherman. You know, we have these big names, but
- 24:05Speaker 5: it's just a handful of them, and some wonder whether
- 24:10Speaker 5: the industry still remains male dominated, because we've tried to
- 24:14Speaker 5: kind of go back and correct the record and give
- 24:17Speaker 5: women their due, but there's still more progress that needs
- 24:21Speaker 5: to be made.
- 24:22Speaker 6: And as long as women have been in photography, women
- 24:25Speaker 6: have also been involved in trying to draw recognition to
- 24:30Speaker 6: their female colleagues.
- 24:31Speaker 4: In the industry. This starts really early.
- 24:34Speaker 6: In eighteen eighty nine, Katherine Weadbarnes, a New York amateur photographer,
- 24:37Speaker 6: petition for the Special Photography.
- 24:39Speaker 4: Awards for women to be eliminated.
- 24:42Speaker 6: She said, and I might you know that might seem counterintuitive,
- 24:44Speaker 6: but she says that if the work of men and
- 24:46Speaker 6: women is admitted to the same exhibition, it should be
- 24:49Speaker 6: on equal terms.
- 24:51Speaker 5: And that is a question that does come up with
- 24:54Speaker 5: not just in photography, but you can name any other industry.
- 24:57Speaker 5: It's this question of whether calling out women for doing
- 25:01Speaker 5: work in a specific field kind of undercuts progress because
- 25:07Speaker 5: are we saying that, oh, well, this is wonderful photography
- 25:12Speaker 5: by women, or should we just say, as Catherine Weed
- 25:16Speaker 5: Barnes would advocate for, oh what a wonderful photograph and
- 25:21Speaker 5: it doesn't matter. But the question is, then doesn't matter?
- 25:25Speaker 5: I mean, in the nineteen sixties and seventies, in the
- 25:27Speaker 5: wake of feminist political action, gender absolutely mattered. There was
- 25:32Speaker 5: a newfound interest that sprang up in women's photography, both
- 25:36Speaker 5: contemporary and historical, and some feminists sought to resituate the
- 25:41Speaker 5: work of women photographers within that larger history of photography
- 25:46Speaker 5: and rescue women photographers who had disappeared from the historical records.
- 25:51Speaker 5: So you probably did for that reason see things like
- 25:54Speaker 5: that nineteen seventy monograph of France's Benjamin Johnston's work, And
- 25:59Speaker 5: so in that regard you can argue that, yes, having
- 26:02Speaker 5: exhibitions that focus solely on work produced by women is
- 26:07Speaker 5: important because of a legacy of sexism.
- 26:11Speaker 6: Well yeah, I mean, it's not that you look at
- 26:13Speaker 6: a photo and you say that was taken by a
- 26:15Speaker 6: woman or that was taken by a man. I guess
- 26:16Speaker 6: it doesn't matter if a great photo was taken by
- 26:18Speaker 6: one or the other. However, we can't forget that there
- 26:21Speaker 6: are very important women contributing to the field like that.
- 26:25Speaker 6: I think that matters more than knowing that a photograph
- 26:27Speaker 6: was taken by a woman or a man.
- 26:29Speaker 5: Right, it's more of that educational aspect, and that's why,
- 26:32Speaker 5: you know, there was a movement in the seventies to
- 26:35Speaker 5: to highlight that kind of art. For instance, in nineteen
- 26:37Speaker 5: seventy five, there was at the San Francisco Museum of
- 26:41Speaker 5: Modern Art an exhibition called Women a Photography, a historical
- 26:45Speaker 5: survey with fifty women photographers. In nineteen seventy nine, the
- 26:49Speaker 5: International Center for Photography sponsored recollections ten Women of Photography,
- 26:54Speaker 5: which was partially funded by the National Endowment for the Arts.
- 26:59Speaker 6: And it was around the time too, in the seventies
- 27:01Speaker 6: and moving into the eighties, that media savvy artists like
- 27:03Speaker 6: Barbara Krueger and Cindy Sherman did a lot of work
- 27:06Speaker 6: to undermine the authority of the male gaze and commercialism
- 27:10Speaker 6: and all that stuff. For instance, Krueger's Your Body is
- 27:13Speaker 6: a Battleground. She actually interpreted a lot of photography like
- 27:17Speaker 6: advertisements to sort of undermine the way that media looked
- 27:20Speaker 6: at women at the time.
- 27:21Speaker 5: Yeah, and we don't have a lot of time to
- 27:23Speaker 5: delve into feminist photography, but they definitely did spring up
- 27:28Speaker 5: in the seventies, eighties, nineties and a lot of it
- 27:33Speaker 5: was more political and examining like the women's female body
- 27:38Speaker 5: and the whole thing of the male gaze and sort
- 27:41Speaker 5: of playing with all of those concepts, sort of infusing
- 27:45Speaker 5: feminism with photography. And speaking though of Cindy Sherman, I
- 27:50Speaker 5: think it's pretty notable that in twenty eleven she sold
- 27:53Speaker 5: the most expensive photograph in history. It was a nineteen
- 27:56Speaker 5: eighty one self portrait called Untitled, and it's sold for
- 28:01Speaker 5: almost three point nine million dollars.
- 28:04Speaker 2: Geez.
- 28:04Speaker 5: But in response to, oh, you know, someone's buying this
- 28:08Speaker 5: female produced piece of art, what does this mean? And
- 28:11Speaker 5: essentially art critics were like, it just means that art
- 28:14Speaker 5: is funny money. You know, you just plunk down a
- 28:17Speaker 5: lot of money. There's a weird kind of competition among
- 28:20Speaker 5: art collectors, and it's really no big deal that it
- 28:23Speaker 5: was produced by Cindy Sherman, as opposed to say, man
- 28:27Speaker 5: ray yeah.
- 28:30Speaker 6: Moving forward to today, a photographer Paul Melcher started a
- 28:35Speaker 6: debate on the Black Star Rising blog when he was
- 28:38Speaker 6: talking about the importance or the unimportance of calling out
- 28:42Speaker 6: photographers genders and how that affected anybody. He says that
- 28:48Speaker 6: it seems that political correctness has now started to reach
- 28:50Speaker 6: the shores of the previously sexless island of photography. It
- 28:54Speaker 6: appears that some people with a highly developed social conscience
- 28:57Speaker 6: want you to know the gender of a photographer whose
- 28:59Speaker 6: picture you would as if it made any difference.
- 29:02Speaker 5: And then Melissa Golden, who's a photographer who we actually
- 29:05Speaker 5: worked with at our college newspaper we did, made a
- 29:09Speaker 5: public response to Melcher saying, you know, like, essentially the
- 29:15Speaker 5: idea that the gender shouldn't matter is true. He's got
- 29:19Speaker 5: a good point. But she talks about how when she
- 29:22Speaker 5: was fighting her way into the often boys club of
- 29:26Speaker 5: professional photography, especially if you look at more veteran figures,
- 29:30Speaker 5: it is dominated by men, and she said, it took
- 29:32Speaker 5: me too long to figure out the drinking massive amounts
- 29:35Speaker 5: of alcohol and putting up with sexual harassment. We're not
- 29:38Speaker 5: the tests I had to pass to join the club.
- 29:41Speaker 5: And she said, I now know it took me so
- 29:42Speaker 5: long because I didn't have a strong senior female photographer
- 29:45Speaker 5: or editor willing to take me in and tell me
- 29:48Speaker 5: there's another better way. And this kind of brings up
- 29:51Speaker 5: the whole question of you know, like, is feminism still useful? Well, yeah,
- 29:56Speaker 5: it is, because we don't live in a society that's
- 29:58Speaker 5: free from sexism, and we're not living in this gender
- 30:01Speaker 5: equal utopias. So unfortunately, gender does still matter. I mean,
- 30:07Speaker 5: I wish that Melcher was right and that it is
- 30:09Speaker 5: just a sexless island, as he says, no.
- 30:14Speaker 6: But the debate, it seems like the debate on whether
- 30:16Speaker 6: gender matters has been going on forever and it will
- 30:19Speaker 6: continue to do so because you have people like Princeton
- 30:21Speaker 6: Women's Studies and Art and Archaeology professor Carol Armstrong, who
- 30:25Speaker 6: says that male and female photographers have always ventured into
- 30:28Speaker 6: the same territory, but women do so with more empathy
- 30:31Speaker 6: for the subject. Then you have British writers slash critics
- 30:35Speaker 6: Griselda Pollock and Janet Wolf who asserted that there is
- 30:38Speaker 6: no intrinsic feminine or masculine essence, only complex networks of
- 30:43Speaker 6: culturally conditioned markers that construct what superficially appears to.
- 30:48Speaker 4: Be coherent gender identity.
- 30:49Speaker 5: So essentially, what they're saying in the book Photography, a
- 30:52Speaker 5: Cultural History by Mary Warner Marian is that there are
- 30:56Speaker 5: no gender differences in how men and women approach photography right,
- 31:02Speaker 5: and that is echoed in a blog post on the
- 31:06Speaker 5: News Photographers Association of Canada blog by Renee Blackstone. She
- 31:12Speaker 5: interviewed a number of female photojournalists on the question of
- 31:16Speaker 5: whether gender differences exist because you do that issue of oh, well,
- 31:20Speaker 5: women have more empathy with their subjects. Women might be
- 31:23Speaker 5: able to approach a situation, a more sensitive situation, better
- 31:29Speaker 5: than a male photographer could. And some of the photojournalists said, yeah,
- 31:34Speaker 5: women might be better in situations where quote unquote a
- 31:36Speaker 5: kind of intimacy is required and a certain woman to
- 31:40Speaker 5: woman trust can be developed. But a lot of them said,
- 31:43Speaker 5: you know what, there's really no difference. Men and women
- 31:46Speaker 5: are both doing social documentary work and in the same
- 31:50Speaker 5: way that women can go into places that men can't.
- 31:53Speaker 5: I would say that men can probably go into plenty
- 31:55Speaker 5: of places that women can't. And I don't know, I
- 31:59Speaker 5: have a little bit of hesitation just saying that, you know,
- 32:04Speaker 5: what women bring to the table are more finely tuned emotions.
- 32:09Speaker 5: I think that while, yes, your emotions will influence your
- 32:12Speaker 5: art and your work, I don't know that that should
- 32:15Speaker 5: be you know, the platform on which we call for
- 32:20Speaker 5: equality or progress. Yeah, well, simply because I would think
- 32:25Speaker 5: that veteran male photographers would give no hoots to quote
- 32:30Speaker 5: myself about your emotion, especially in the workplace. Yeah, and
- 32:35Speaker 5: I'm also I mean, like we're sitting here speaking as
- 32:38Speaker 5: not experienced photographers or photojournalists. But you know, it does
- 32:43Speaker 5: make me wonder whether that's really a useful argument. And
- 32:48Speaker 5: I think that's one reason why if you do talk
- 32:50Speaker 5: to a lot of women about this, that there, at
- 32:52Speaker 5: the end of the day, there aren't really gender differences
- 32:55Speaker 5: in how women and men take pictures what we see
- 32:57Speaker 5: and don't see.
- 32:58Speaker 6: I mean when I worked at the news paper, I
- 33:00Speaker 6: mean half of our staff, half of our pheto staff
- 33:03Speaker 6: was men, half was women, and.
- 33:04Speaker 4: They were all brilliant.
- 33:07Speaker 6: But they weren't Maybe it's because we were in a
- 33:09Speaker 6: metropolitan newspaper and we weren't sending people to Iraq or
- 33:11Speaker 6: anything to take dangerous pictures.
- 33:13Speaker 4: But it's like, you know, they went to.
- 33:15Speaker 6: Their various fair county fair assignments and you know, criminal
- 33:19Speaker 6: trial assignments and took pictures and I mean, they were
- 33:22Speaker 6: all brilliant. It wasn't a case of like we need
- 33:24Speaker 6: to send Jackie to this one because she's a girl,
- 33:26Speaker 6: and we need to send you know, Mike to this
- 33:28Speaker 6: one because he's a boy.
- 33:29Speaker 5: Jackie is going to the baby judging contest, Jack's going
- 33:33Speaker 5: to the NASCAR race. Go but numbers wives though there
- 33:37Speaker 5: are more men involved in photography. According to the National
- 33:43Speaker 5: Endowment for the Arts Artists in the Workforce survey from
- 33:47Speaker 5: nineteen ninety to two thousand and five, forty two point
- 33:50Speaker 5: eight percent of all the people who listed themselves as
- 33:53Speaker 5: professional photographers were women, so less than half, but this
- 33:57Speaker 5: was also a compelling statistic. Sixty percent of those women
- 34:01Speaker 5: were under thirty five, meaning that men comprise a majority
- 34:05Speaker 5: of the veteran successful photographers. So photography is also one
- 34:11Speaker 5: area where you know, women are wondering whether or not
- 34:13Speaker 5: there is some kind of off ramp. Maybe it has
- 34:16Speaker 5: to do with, like Melissa Golden talked about, not having
- 34:19Speaker 5: you know, the senior editor to encourage her onward a
- 34:23Speaker 5: female mentor there's a question of why in a lot
- 34:27Speaker 5: of art schools, women might be out numbering men in
- 34:32Speaker 5: the student body in terms of who's studying photography, but
- 34:35Speaker 5: once they get out there seems to they seem to
- 34:38Speaker 5: thin out.
- 34:38Speaker 6: Yeah, Well, what really thins out is pay for women,
- 34:43Speaker 6: because according to this report, there's a major pay gap
- 34:46Speaker 6: the median income for a male photographer is thirty five
- 34:49Speaker 6: five hundred dollars, for a woman it's sixteen three hundred.
- 34:54Speaker 5: And I think maybe as a result of those of
- 34:56Speaker 5: a huge pay gap like that women photographers have, I've
- 35:00Speaker 5: really been honing in on certain areas like wedding photography
- 35:05Speaker 5: and the family portraiture, to which there was an article
- 35:10Speaker 5: over at The Grindstone talking about the ghettoization of female
- 35:14Speaker 5: photographers in weddings, saying, all, we can shoot our weddings,
- 35:18Speaker 5: it's all people tosses their weddings.
- 35:19Speaker 6: Well, I don't think that's true, but you can. I
- 35:21Speaker 6: also know that you can make boku de bucks or
- 35:24Speaker 6: ok he as a wedding photographer.
- 35:25Speaker 5: Well that's what I'm saying, in order to close up
- 35:27Speaker 5: that income gap, get into wedding photography. But but I
- 35:32Speaker 5: am curious to hear from female photographers out there whether
- 35:35Speaker 5: they are instantly assumed to be you know, if you're
- 35:39Speaker 5: a woman walking around with a camera around your neck,
- 35:42Speaker 5: you know, are you just assumed to be on your
- 35:44Speaker 5: way to a wedding?
- 35:45Speaker 6: Well, you know, you talked about whether there were female
- 35:48Speaker 6: role models or mentors in the industry. Feon a Rogers,
- 35:52Speaker 6: who started the Firecracker Photographic Grant in twenty eleven to
- 35:56Speaker 6: support women photographers, says that well, there seems to me
- 35:59Speaker 6: to be an abundance of way and studying photography. Would
- 36:01Speaker 6: appear that a large percentage leave education and take on administrational,
- 36:06Speaker 6: organizational or nurturing roles within the visual arts. And she
- 36:10Speaker 6: goes on to say that Firecracker was established as a
- 36:12Speaker 6: way of supporting women photographers and linking them with a
- 36:16Speaker 6: wider public and industry audience.
- 36:17Speaker 5: Which is good. I mean it sounds like within the
- 36:19Speaker 5: industry there is a greater effort to link women up
- 36:22Speaker 5: with other women to offer more support. Women are also
- 36:26Speaker 5: making strides on their own. This is coming from the
- 36:29Speaker 5: British Journal of Photography. It was an article talking about
- 36:33Speaker 5: how women are really coming into their own with social portraiture,
- 36:38Speaker 5: which was traditionally male dominated, and they've been scooping up awards. Recently,
- 36:44Speaker 5: the Master's Photographers Association awarded its sole fellowship to photographer
- 36:49Speaker 5: Joe de Banzi, and that's such a big deal when
- 36:53Speaker 5: you consider that out of the sixty five fellowships ever
- 36:57Speaker 5: awarded by MPa, only eight have gone to women. And similarly,
- 37:03Speaker 5: Lisa Visser was awarded the British Professional Photographer of the
- 37:06Speaker 5: Year or in two thousand and eight. So I mean they're,
- 37:09Speaker 5: you know, obviously like women are doing very well at
- 37:14Speaker 5: their jobs and climbing up through the ranks. But it
- 37:17Speaker 5: seems like maybe it's just we're catching up from such
- 37:21Speaker 5: a long legacy. And by we, I mean female photographers,
- 37:25Speaker 5: not myself.
- 37:27Speaker 4: Right, I mean, I'll take pictures of my iPhone.
- 37:29Speaker 6: But there have been a lot of sources, not just
- 37:32Speaker 6: this British Journal of Photography piece, but a lot of
- 37:35Speaker 6: other areas on the Internet are talking about how digital photography,
- 37:40Speaker 6: the ease of use, has made it possible for more
- 37:43Speaker 6: women to get into photography, and that makes my eyes twitch.
- 37:47Speaker 6: There was one comment on a blog I read where
- 37:49Speaker 6: this man who was like, look, you know, I'm young
- 37:51Speaker 6: and i don't have a lot of experience, but I'm
- 37:53Speaker 6: just saying that maybe from the early days of photography,
- 37:56Speaker 6: where cameras were highly technical and it was difficult, maybe
- 38:00Speaker 6: women just weren't interested. And now that things are digital,
- 38:02Speaker 6: women are interested because they just want to take pictures
- 38:05Speaker 6: of their kids. And I mean I pushed my computer
- 38:06Speaker 6: out the window after I read that, but that digital
- 38:09Speaker 6: photography discussion is something that's going on, and I think,
- 38:15Speaker 6: knowing some of the amazing female photographers that I do,
- 38:19Speaker 6: I think that's crap.
- 38:21Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I mean again that it does bring up
- 38:23Speaker 5: I mean, that's kind of not so benevolent sexism saying
- 38:27Speaker 5: that since it's easier now, women want to do that.
- 38:30Speaker 5: And I feel like we could do and listeners, if
- 38:32Speaker 5: you have an idea of how we could do this,
- 38:34Speaker 5: I think we could do a whole episode on Instagram
- 38:37Speaker 5: because because it is so female dominated, women love it
- 38:43Speaker 5: and it is becoming this huge social media force and
- 38:46Speaker 5: I think it'd be interested interesting to look into that more.
- 38:50Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean I arguments like that make me
- 38:54Speaker 5: cringe that oh now we're now we're interested just because
- 38:57Speaker 5: it's simple men, you enjoy ease of use well and
- 39:00Speaker 5: a good user experience. Okay, So anyway, I want to
- 39:06Speaker 5: get riled up here, but I hope that we have
- 39:10Speaker 5: photographers listening. And again, I know that there were so
- 39:14Speaker 5: many notable women behind the camera that we did not
- 39:18Speaker 5: have time to talk about. Hopefully I can do like
- 39:20Speaker 5: a big blog round up maybe. Unfortunately, the challenging thing
- 39:24Speaker 5: about setting up galleries for photography to show women's work
- 39:28Speaker 5: is copyright issues, right, and we ain't going to violate them,
- 39:32Speaker 5: but I'll do my best to try to find pictures
- 39:35Speaker 5: that we can show of these women's incredible work. And
- 39:38Speaker 5: we haven't even talked very much to about younger contemporary
- 39:42Speaker 5: women who are climbing through the ranks as well.
- 39:44Speaker 4: Right, So yeah, if you know any of that, please
- 39:46Speaker 4: give us a shout.
- 39:47Speaker 5: Yeah, and shout out to photographer Lizzie if she's listening
- 39:50Speaker 5: to this podcast, your photos are amazing.
- 39:53Speaker 4: And Melissa Golden, yeah, if you're listening, what up?
- 39:57Speaker 5: And all the all the photographers out there, send us
- 40:00Speaker 5: emails though. Moms Stuff at Discovery dot com will be
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- 40:14Speaker 5: of your letters, let's take a quick break, Caroline, and
- 40:17Speaker 5: then we'll come back. And now back to our letters.
- 40:33Speaker 6: I have one here from Madeline talking about cleanliness and
- 40:36Speaker 6: same sex households. She says, I totally agree that men
- 40:40Speaker 6: and women don't have innate differences in cleanliness just culturally
- 40:44Speaker 6: impose differences. I am a bisexual woman and I've been
- 40:47Speaker 6: in monogamous relationships with men and women. In my experience,
- 40:51Speaker 6: there is just as much variation within men and women
- 40:53Speaker 6: in terms of how clean people are. I have been
- 40:56Speaker 6: with clean men, filthy men, clean women, filthy women, et cetera. However,
- 41:01Speaker 6: in my relationships with the opposite sex, there has been
- 41:03Speaker 6: that unspoken assumption that I will be cleaning up. This
- 41:07Speaker 6: can easily be remedied by dividing chores and letting your
- 41:10Speaker 6: boyfriend dude whatever do his chores in his own time.
- 41:13Speaker 6: With my same sex relationships, chre delegation has been smoother
- 41:17Speaker 6: since we have both been trained to constantly be.
- 41:19Speaker 4: Thinking about how we look.
- 41:21Speaker 6: Luckily, my fiance and wife to be is in the
- 41:23Speaker 6: healthy middle ground of the slob OCD continuum.
- 41:27Speaker 4: Congratulations, Madeline, and thank you well.
- 41:30Speaker 5: I've got an email here from someone who would like
- 41:33Speaker 5: to remain anonymous because she's writing in about her labia plasty.
- 41:38Speaker 5: She writes, I had a labia plasty at the age
- 41:40Speaker 5: of fifteen, and it dramatically changed my life for the better.
- 41:44Speaker 5: I was born with an enlarged labia minora that hung
- 41:47Speaker 5: out of my vagina, and it never bothered me until
- 41:49Speaker 5: dreaded puberty hit. The skin got longer and larger and
- 41:53Speaker 5: would rub on the inside of my underwear and become irritated.
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- 41:58Speaker 5: no longer do any vigorous exercise or pants that were
- 42:00Speaker 5: tighter than sweatpants. Noticing a drastic change in my life,
- 42:04Speaker 5: my mother asked what was going on, and I finally
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- 42:15Speaker 5: women who go through the surgery do it simply for
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- 42:20Speaker 5: of us out there have done it out of necessity.
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- 42:24Speaker 5: quite embarrassing and require us a long backstory about our
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- 42:31Speaker 5: even with my closest friends. However, the anonymity of the
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- 42:39Speaker 5: I was only horrified by the prospect of wearing sweatpants
- 42:42Speaker 5: and walking like an old lady for the rest of
- 42:44Speaker 5: my life. So thanks for sharing, because I think that
- 42:47Speaker 5: you know. It's stories like these that are important to
- 42:51Speaker 5: help drive home the point that every vagina is a
- 42:54Speaker 5: little bit different. And with that song, I think you Carol.
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