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23 - Why Most Relationship Advice Fails (And What Actually Works)
Most relationship advice is wrong.
Not because it's malicious. Because it skips the part that actually matters.
It tells you what to say. It doesn't teach you how to understand.
And when you don't understand what's really happening, you react.
That's where everything breaks.
In this episode, I share one of the worst pieces of relationship advice I've ever heard—and why it stuck with me for years. It wasn't just wrong. It completely missed what was actually happening underneath the surface.
Because in relationships, what you see isn't the full picture.
The reaction you're getting from your…
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