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- 0:01Hello, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. I am your host Alice and
- 0:06Demon and this is maintaining frame number sixty two. If you were a man,
- 0:13you wouldn't need a map. I am joined by Brian Martinez, the
- 0:18Illustrious and Serene Doge and we are here your hosts to delve into this new
- 0:27hmm pit of mendaciousness. Well, at least the at least feminist or feminist
- 0:41inclined individuals are realizing that there is a huge gap when you decide not to
- 0:47define masculinity as pro social in any way, and then you start getting things
- 0:52are you start getting phenomenon that maybe a little less desirable, so or for
- 0:57better or for worst worst, I everything is now on me, at least
- 1:03in terms. Yeah. Well, I mean Brian is helping me out,
- 1:06but I am trying. Yeah, so Alison is doing she is actually hosting
- 1:12the stream from um Bffie Kelvington and UM so you know if they're because I
- 1:19do see that, UM there is a lower quality of like the the actual
- 1:26bit rate, you know, so guys are experiencing Yeah, so if you
- 1:30guys are experiencing like you know, maybe the resolution is worse or something like
- 1:34that. Um that is because probably uh you know, Alison is hosting it
- 1:40from Kelvington. But look, but it looks it looks good. Though it
- 1:42looks good. I'm just getting warnings. But I don't see any problems.
- 1:46Yeah, so if you guys experience any problems, let us know. Ye.
- 1:51Yeah, in this case, I mean it's Elon Musk's fault or something.
- 1:53Yeah. Well we are on starlink. Let's this is one of the
- 1:56reasons why you dared to do this because, as you or may not know,
- 2:00Helvington's internet is well the local internet is run by vols. Though it's
- 2:07not not not fantastic. Yeah, but we are live and it looks like
- 2:12it's working. So yep, well we'll just we'll just see how it goes.
- 2:15I'll keep watching, so I'll be watching the chat. And um if
- 2:20and Alison, if you have any um, so, there won't be a
- 2:23Jojo cam because JoJo's with me, not with her, so um and I
- 2:27didn't. I guess there wasn't enough time to set up like a skippy cam.
- 2:30But hm, well I don't really have a Skippy with me at the
- 2:31moment. Yeah, and I don't know that he would sit still in experience.
- 2:36Oh. Thurland Ray says, I got the volume turned up all the
- 2:39way and it's still soft. Oh soft, oh oh. And Meredith ge
- 2:46says, you realize there are two versions of this stream in YouTube? What
- 2:51interest was getting? I was getting no data? Okay, so why don't
- 2:55you kill one? Kill one if you're if you're watching this on restream dot
- 3:00io, stay there, and I'm gonna close the other one. UM,
- 3:06I don't know, see that that was the thing I was afraid of.
- 3:08Um, I'm gonna make it. There has to be yeah, delete forever.
- 3:14And these are the exciting shenanigans that occur at Honey Badger. If you
- 3:19were over here, yes, my great people, my great yeah, yeah
- 3:23we we we like an audience that you know is always on its toes problem
- 3:27solvers, you see, not complacent, ready, ready to move into action,
- 3:34all at a moment's notice. Right, all right, rumble seems to
- 3:38be fine though, So you can also just go over there, yes,
- 3:40okay, yeah, you might have an ULTERI okay, okay, I will
- 3:46try to increase the volume on both of us and see what happens is if
- 3:51I increase, I think I'm at max. I apologize, folks. I'm
- 3:54just I can I can do this. I can do this. Maybe this
- 4:00will help. Um that might be significantly louder. I'm going to pull it
- 4:03down. Yes, I'm raising the volume. I know, I know,
- 4:08but are you doing it in restream or are you doing it on your microphone?
- 4:12Or I'm doing it in stream labs? So hopefully all right, keep
- 4:15us, keep us posted, Thurlin ray, if that, if that was
- 4:18better, if this is better. So I've just pumped myself up, and
- 4:24I've bumped Brian up. In fact, I'm almost in the red here.
- 4:27So if you're having issues with it still, I might be it might be
- 4:30that maybe like what we're you're looking at is not the same as what they're
- 4:34listening to. Oh no, most definitely. It's just that the disconnect.
- 4:39We can't there's no way to connect this disconnect, sir, You'll just have
- 4:43to suffer, all right, Okay, So all right, this article,
- 4:48Yeah, I recall, I mean, I've read a lot of stuff since
- 4:51I read this, but I recall that this was both very sad and very
- 4:56amusing at the same time, Like it is sad musing sad musing. Yeah,
- 5:02all right, so it's by Christine Emba. I think it would be
- 5:05probably best if I read it, although that would not be the most fun.
- 5:10But it is an opinion piece and it is called men are Lost.
- 5:15Here is a map out of the wilderness. Somehow I'm guessing that this map
- 5:20is not out of the wilderness and will in fact lead men to a chasm
- 5:26of andrea of even more despair. Yeah, I have I have my doubts
- 5:32that the woke who will ever give a man any kind of map that has
- 5:36any good faith involved in its construction? I just can I just comment on
- 5:42this art So it's it's well made, but I'm looking at what it's communicating.
- 5:47Yeah, so I can already see where this article is going based on
- 5:51this artwork. I don't know, I mean, do you know what I
- 5:55mean. It's funny. It's funny how these people they have this like they
- 6:00they claim to understand men, but they always present a stereotype and I mean
- 6:08like a really narrow stereotype of what men not just are, but what they
- 6:15want to be. And it's like it's so, it's it's just kind of
- 6:20gross to me. It is. It's it's just really gross to me.
- 6:25So and I know that I'm often accused of, you know, um,
- 6:30I don't know being a masculine advocate or masculine the advocate, but I think
- 6:35that I do. I do get accused of it, I know. I
- 6:40think I think that, you know, like men should be able to choose
- 6:45whatever they want, but that also includes, like, you know, being
- 6:49I guess what feminists would consider toxic, toxically masculine. I think that that
- 6:54is included, you know that, like like when when you see a toxic
- 7:00masculine the feminist definition is pretty much traditionally masculine or masculine hegemony. Or actually,
- 7:06honestly, I think the real, real, honest definition of feminist toxic
- 7:12masculinity is recognizing that men have any positive traits in excess to women. So,
- 7:17in other words, recognizing, for example, that men are more focused
- 7:21on creating and seeking out meritocracies, which means there's a lot of productivity and
- 7:28other kinds of stuff that comes out of meritocracies, but we can't recognize that
- 7:30because that would be a positive to masculinity. I think what feminist term toxic
- 7:38masculinity, if you really look at it, just means recognizing anything positive about
- 7:43masculinity. Yeah, yeah, well for sure, of course. But I
- 7:47guess what I'm getting at is is that, like I if anybody has any
- 7:53confusion or doubt about it, I believe that men are a masculinity is expressed
- 7:59in fall are more diverse ways than the way that feminists painted. Right,
- 8:03So when they think of it, it's always you know, going to the
- 8:05gym, getting buff, growing a beer, drinking beer with your friends,
- 8:09like, you know, hitting on women like in a blatant chauvinist way,
- 8:15running big businesses, being greedy like all of these things. And it's like
- 8:20there are men like that, and that's okay, like that, you know,
- 8:24but but there are also men that are intellectual there. I mean,
- 8:26I think that men are far more diverse, and I think part of the
- 8:30reason for that is because of um, let's say, evolutionary pressure, like
- 8:35sexual reproductive pressure that to excel at something, and so men excel at different
- 8:39things, so like this, yeah, all kinds of different things. So
- 8:43like when they when they target masculinity, they're always painting this really narrow picture
- 8:48of a really like it's like Gueston from Beauty and the Beast, right,
- 8:54That's that's basically what they do. It's like you know, it's the Don
- 8:56from like the Captain Marvel movie. It's that guy, and it's like,
- 9:01that's not what men are. But you know what, there's nothing wrong with
- 9:03that guy either, you know. And that's what I'm saying, you know,
- 9:07Yeah, what was wrong really if you think about it, if you
- 9:09take away Gaston's really toxic competition with the Beast and uh, what was really
- 9:18that bad about Gaston? The fact that he was fixated on him who they
- 9:24had to but they had to make Gaston into uh like basically he was he
- 9:28was a what is it? Um? He wasn't just a stereotype. He
- 9:31was a strong man of men. Yeah, so they made they made him
- 9:35into like he talked like mighty Mouse. Like that was on purpose, right,
- 9:39they they just they blew it like no men act like that, That's
- 9:43what I'm saying. Yeah, of course, because they wanted to make the
- 9:46Beast seem less of a dick in in comparison. Yeah, which is beast?
- 9:52It is Matt It was Gaston before he was cursed, yeah, or
- 9:56something like that. Their foils. But really Gaston's album, well, first
- 10:00of all, why was he so fascinated her? Because she was the only
- 10:03woman that would turn him down. And again this is like a negative like
- 10:09badge stereotype, that there are men that pursue women simply because those women would,
- 10:13like you know, are a challenge and they don't see it as as
- 10:16you know, that she might be virtuous and that he might genuinely be interested
- 10:20in her. I mean, we we're getting into the weeks. But all
- 10:22I would say is that the whole renaissance, the Disney Renaissance films like The
- 10:28Little Mermaid and and BB the Beats and all that those are all feminist movies,
- 10:31like you can you can see it compared to like the original like Golden
- 10:35Age of Disney. Those are feminist movies. It's just that by those standards,
- 10:39like by today's standards, those seem regressive, because feminism never never looks
- 10:46back, it only goes forward and gets more and more radical. And the
- 10:48fact that Belle was into books and her father was an inventor and she was
- 10:52really smart and all, that's all obviously feminist shit. And when they remade
- 10:56it later with Emma Watson, they just doubled down at the same thing.
- 11:00And to get even further right, I'm gonna blow your mind. I'm gonna
- 11:03blow. We're ever love and mind. This whole idea of women being uniquely
- 11:07victims, you see it in almost every literature I've ever read, like except
- 11:13maybe the Romans. The Romans weren't were they didn't jibe with that shit.
- 11:18But but everybody, every other culture like if they if they were, if
- 11:22they used writing, they always had they Oh poor pity the women's they suffer
- 11:28most kind of thing, Like every freaking culture believe that it's we're not unique.
- 11:35It's just that feminists have not just oh pity the women, but also
- 11:41oh pity the women, and remove any recognition that men do anything good at
- 11:45all. So that feminists have really driven that into the ground. And but
- 11:48here now they're giving us a map. Here's a map out of the wilderness.
- 11:54And incidentally, the wilderness is basically our society's inability to recognize anything good
- 11:58about that's the wilderness, right that we can't we can't accept that there's anything
- 12:03that men add to society in a pro social way that benefits everybody, because
- 12:09that would be admitting that there's something that women aren't. And incidentally, once
- 12:13you once you basically make women everything, you you basically make women nothing.
- 12:18Like definitions are as much created by their limitations than what they what they are.
- 12:24So if women are everything because men are nothing because they can't be anything,
- 12:28um, then yeah, what is a woman? We don't know,
- 12:31but a universe, the universe, and every grain of sand in it is
- 12:35a woman. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, you're right, yeah,
- 12:39yeah, absolutely, Okay, all right, So here we are at
- 12:43the beginning of this, and I just want to remind everyone because I could
- 12:46do the things. I could just segue into the things by myself because I'm
- 12:50right here. Um, I want to remind everyone. Getting the squirrel in
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- 13:18mystery. When we die, maybe maybe before we go to the pearly gates,
- 13:22will be like, God, can I have a kind of a last
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- 14:01the forbidden word it. Okay, um, here we go, let
- 14:05me see here's oh oh. And also, if you want to support the
- 14:09show, feed the Badger dot com slash support men are lost. Here is
- 14:13a map out of the wilderness by Christine Emba. Christine Emba, I really
- 14:16I wonder if I clicked on her i'd find her the rest of her her
- 14:22work. Yeah, you while you're doing that, okay, okay, okay.
- 14:28I noticed it a few years ago, men, especially young men,
- 14:33getting aired. Weird, oh weird? Okay. It might have been the
- 14:43in cells who first caught my attention, spewing self pitying venom online, sometimes
- 14:48venturing out to attack the women they had believed done them wrong. Oh boy,
- 14:54and we're just we're just very easy, so easy to do that.
- 14:58Yeah, we're just gonna forget them. We're just going to forget the radfems
- 15:05who are unbelievably toxic and for some reason, a lot of lesbian separatists.
- 15:11I believe they are refer to their rhetoric after having been arrested for abusing,
- 15:18torturing, or raping their boy children to death. So you know, I
- 15:22mean, I'm not saying that there's a I suppose we can't say that there's
- 15:26a direct correlation between lesbian separatists rhetoric about killing men and these lesbian separatists actually
- 15:35killing their sons. But you know, there just seems to be an alarming
- 15:39causality there, and probably just as much causality between those two things, and
- 15:46in cells and these mass shootings. All right. I mean, if you're
- 15:48gonna, if you're gonna, if you're gonna make a connection between one,
- 15:52there's just as much of a connection between the other as well. That's a
- 15:58really dark place to go right off the bat, but keep going. It
- 16:00might have been the complaints from the women around me. Men are in their
- 16:04flop era. Okay, I don't know what that means. It just it
- 16:11sounds like it means that men are are struggling and I'm not attracted them anymore,
- 16:15and it's their faults or something. One lamented sick of tried date in
- 16:21a pool that seems shallower like it might have been the new ways companies were
- 16:26trying to reach men. The average hoodie made these days is weak, flimsy,
- 16:32growled a YouTube ad for tactical hoodie. You're not a child, You're
- 16:36a man. We'll stop wearing so many larriers to go outside. Boy,
- 16:40that is one hell of a stretch. Christine, I've seen those ads.
- 16:44They're just trying to sell hoodies. Yeah, oh my god, it's the
- 16:48not at manufacturers go touch grass. Yeah, they're just cringing ads. I've
- 16:55seen them come on. Okay, at once my curiosity was peaked, I
- 17:00could see a bit of curdling, and some of the men around me too.
- 17:04Yeah. Yeah, I wonder why I've started to suspect that this map
- 17:08that Castrine Christine, I'm sorry for that accidental innuendo plus Tredian slip plus me
- 17:18not being able to pronounce a damn thing. Um, I'm pretty sure that
- 17:22the map that Castrine is giving men is basically just a paper that says you're
- 17:27awful. It doesn't sound like there's a whole lot of sympathy. Nope,
- 17:33just just based on what I've seen so far. But yeah, right,
- 17:37go ahead. Some guys, including ones I once knew, just quietly disappeared,
- 17:41subsumed into video games of porn, or sucked into the alt right in
- 17:44the web of misogynist communities known as the mentosphere. How the hell he got
- 17:48sucked into the alt right and a web of misogynistic communities. I'm pressing exit
- 17:52out on that. If they were better friends, yeah, if they were
- 17:56your friends, and you are, I assume a progressive feminist, what could
- 18:03have caught Like how close could you really have been to begin with? Or
- 18:07did you drive them over there by being obnoxious and uh, insufferable? And
- 18:14maybe they were like, oh, I'm gonna you know, I need help,
- 18:15like like meeting people. I can't make any friends. I'm lonely.
- 18:19I'm I can't find a woman. I don't know how to relate to them.
- 18:22These men over here know how to relate to them. Oh no,
- 18:26I'm in the alt right now? Like what, I don't buy it?
- 18:30I don't buy it. Sorry, don't buy it. Okay, I don't
- 18:33buy it from from start to finish, because are these guys gonna be like,
- 18:37oh yeah, now I'm at the alt right? No, this is
- 18:41this is all just she's making up and from these Yeah, it's important to
- 18:48note though that like the Manisphere is the alt right with these people, So
- 18:52there's no point in sort of like trying to um dismantle the case that the
- 18:59Manisphere is not y'ault right, um, because they don't care, Like it's
- 19:03all about like, what is the label I'm going to use to demonize this
- 19:07group that I don't like. So in Cells, she's alway, we're what
- 19:10three two paragraphs in, she's already said in cells Okay, So basically,
- 19:14the forest that men are in is a forest of shaming, a forest the
- 19:19condemnation of their interests, a forest of a condemnation of their presence, of
- 19:26them even going up and talking to women. You know, it's it's just
- 19:29this, this endless forest of shame. And so far, all I see
- 19:34that she's doing is just planting more trees, not build not building a not
- 19:41building a map, and usually be behind planting trees, but not in the
- 19:45forest of shame. Okay, there are female trees. Yeah, of course,
- 19:48right, we wouldn't want to be perpetuating biological sexism. Yeah, oh
- 19:56good luck. And it's so funny because the instant men and just spend a
- 20:00little bit of time concerned with their own issues. Women like this are screeching
- 20:04about Oh my god, they're curdling, they're stopping and taking care of themselves
- 20:10and bending, they're pandaging their own wounds and actually having relationships with of how
- 20:15women are oppressed by tree Bookhaki. Yeah, exactly, all right, all
- 20:25right, what's what's next? Yeah? More, Sorry for there is a
- 20:29little bit of buffering, but I think we're still steady, so yeah,
- 20:32we're good. Go on, ok okay, what I see that he sent
- 20:38us a cryptic little thing? Well, yeah, it's the buffering. Low
- 20:45let's yeah, go on, just let's just let's just power through it.
- 20:48I don't know that there's much we can do, especially now if the stream
- 20:52has already started. So you know what, I'm going to address these super
- 20:55chows before we continue. So we don't have a hell of a lot.
- 20:57This isn't a really long article. It has a it has the benefit of
- 21:00being brief. Okay, So Meredith and t sent us five bucks, and
- 21:04you can do all the super chats by the way, maintaining frame sixty two.
- 21:08Honey for the badgers. If you're a man lost and a feminist woman
- 21:11comes to you offering salvation, run don't walk as fast as far as you
- 21:15can. You'll find yourself faster than if you took the woman's advice. Are
- 21:18you kidding? Yeah? Absolutely absolutely, And you know that she's not even
- 21:26mentioning suicide. Really, like, I'm pretty sure there are more managers.
- 21:30Yeah, there are more men committing suicide than getting involved in any of these
- 21:33communities. Well maybe not. Andrew Tate is pretty popular, but all right,
- 21:38he's John Cena. I don't know how to say that, so I
- 21:41won't. I actually might have a sound effect for that. His name is
- 21:48John Saxe. You know, I can actually hear that this is this is
- 21:55awesome, you know, like I don't you don't clip off. I can
- 21:57hear your sound effects. This is this is really cool. It's too bad
- 22:00that my internet is so crap because I can actually I feel like this is
- 22:03a little bit better. All yeah. I managed to move all of my
- 22:07all of the things I have set up into a OBS which is a more
- 22:11stable platform in terms of how it runs. So I'm gonna try it next
- 22:17time. Maybe you'll be able to hear that stuff. How much to get
- 22:18Alison to read the article in our gout Valley Girl Voice, you put two
- 22:22hundred bucks in that damn fundraiser or five hundreds because I probably five because I
- 22:30don't want my vocal cords to be destroyed. But Richard, you're you're,
- 22:33you're pledging quite a bit. So that's a lot of nothing, you know,
- 22:40for for just a whole bunch of vocal fry. But I tell you
- 22:41what you do that, I will you put something in the fundraiser, and
- 22:45I'll do it for as long as I can maintain it until until I feel
- 22:49like an up talk. Yeah, that's that's a lot of tension on my
- 22:53vocal cords. Want to pass out. But anyway, the weirdness manifest Oh
- 23:00my good lord, oh my god. Sorry. I just you know how
- 23:03you read and you can see a few sentences ahead, and you know it's
- 23:07coming. You know. The weirdness manifested in the national national political scene too,
- 23:14in the four chair fuel twoy sixteen Trump campaign and the backlash too hashtag
- 23:22me too. You mean Okay, let's let's just look at the back blacklash
- 23:26to hashtag me too. You know, the biggest backlash you guys in the
- 23:29me too movement. You won't let Johnny Depp go. You won't be like,
- 23:34you know, we fucked up. Maybe false accusations are a thing.
- 23:41And you know what if if a millionaire false accusation gave it, she's she's
- 23:47pretty marginal from us, some awful witch. Maybe the average man has no
- 23:52chance in hell. You know, all of that narrative around that, that's
- 23:56what you're talking about. And believe me, the black clash against me too
- 24:00is pretty much driven by women now because it's all about like Johnny Depp.
- 24:07That's that was the flashpoint for that. They refuse to acknowledge it. In
- 24:12amateur militias during the Black Lives Matter protect you're going to call them the amateur
- 24:17militias and not the gedam What amateur militias? Oh? Yeah, the people
- 24:26that were like protect Oh you mean like like Kyle Rittenhouse, You mean,
- 24:29like the people that were trying to protect the property of other people. You
- 24:32mean, like like David Dorn who was murdered because you know, a black
- 24:37cop by the way, Yeah, Okay, we'll call those guys amateur militias.
- 24:41I'm sure, I'm sorry, go on. Yeah, it's a little
- 24:45infuriating. Okay, all right, So misogynistic text thread chatter took physical form
- 24:52and the Proud Boys, some of whom attacked the capital on January sixth,
- 24:56twenty twenty one. Uh well, yeah, but I mean they don't care.
- 25:06Well, let me put it this way. People who actually gave a
- 25:08shit about the facts looked into these things, but the mainstream media they have
- 25:14doubled down. They haven't changed their tune at all. And this woman either
- 25:18knows that and doesn't care, which I think is more likely the case,
- 25:22and so she's just going to keep on lying with the rest of them,
- 25:23or she's ignorant. And I think like saying that she knows and she just
- 25:29doesn't care, I think is a better compliment that you know, than she's
- 25:33just stupid and doesn't know. So I'm gonna go with that because I'm I
- 25:36like women like that. I flatter I'm flattering her by saying you're being intentionally
- 25:41deceitful. Okay, uh, misogynistic text chatter, Okay, take all right,
- 25:47I already read that. My god, you know. I always was
- 25:48like, oh, Brian, you're rereading all of these freaking sentences just what
- 25:52you want. You want flexibility and masculinity, many of them ugly, all
- 25:56gesturing towards a desire to belong. Uh No, you don't want them to
- 26:03be flexible, you want them to be submissive. Yeah, but even and
- 26:06then you hate and then you hate them for it. Well, Antifa does
- 26:10what they're told. But you see she's not calling them out because they serve
- 26:15the feminists. All right, when you take away people's identity like this is
- 26:18something that Marshall Marshall McLuhan, I'm pretty sure I got that right. When
- 26:22you take away people's identities, they resort to violence, and not all of
- 26:27them, like most men are just going to kill themselves. Let's be frank,
- 26:30Well it's still violence, violence on yourself. Yeah, yeah, okay.
- 26:36It felt like a widespread identity crists, as if they didn't know how
- 26:41to be Well, yes, because you said that they was there was no
- 26:47legitimate way for men to be like you look at the stuff you've been telling
- 26:52pen that they associate with men in the same way they associate toxic qualities.
- 26:56They never can I mean, they might be able to answer it superficially,
- 27:00but once you probe it a bit, they're like, no, actually,
- 27:03this is just a quality that is equally you know, equally or more women
- 27:07have, but men can also have it, you know. And I'm like,
- 27:11that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about identify a unique contribution
- 27:17that men and masculinity gives to society that women don't. I mean, it's
- 27:22not to say that women can't completely and maybe they can, but they don't
- 27:27as a whole do it. And if they do do it, they tend
- 27:32to be more masculine women. You go, go tell me that that positive
- 27:34quality. They can't do it. So they are saying that masculinity is an
- 27:41identity that contributes nothing at all. It has no vulnerabilities unlike the other spectrum
- 27:48of identities, and it has no positives. Oh you know that. Yeah,
- 27:56okay, this is what you did, feminist And you know, I
- 28:02can't even I can't even blame them because I think that they're mainly just a
- 28:06reaction to larger forces that they don't understand. Oh okay, this is an
- 28:11such an ongoing thing. Taylor Reynolds size. I had this kid show up
- 28:17well, I say, kid, but he's an undergraduate here. I mention
- 28:21them. Sometimes. He came over to my house and asked me if we
- 28:23could speak privately. Oh god, you know, Reynolds here really doesn't talk
- 28:32like a man. Is that a man, though, Taylor Reynolds, No,
- 28:37I've right beforeward. He it's a man size and says this is such
- 28:42Okay, I mean okay, that's fine. Jas and Cass is also male
- 28:47too, So sorry. I have this habit of like, you know what,
- 28:52I'll just do this right here. We can now look at this lovely
- 28:55paragraph as we go through it. Reynolds twenty to eight. Oh god,
- 29:00you're twenty eight. You know nothing? Is a doctoral student in Ivy League
- 29:04University. Wow, I said, you know nothing, You know negative nothing.
- 29:08He has framed pictures or like like pieces of paper with signatures and badges
- 29:15on it. That means he's smarter than he's better than everybody. The more
- 29:18of those pieces of paper you have on your wall, the better a person
- 29:21you are. So we should obviously listen to him, because if there's one
- 29:25thing that I've learned in the last five years is that the experts always know
- 29:29best. Always. Oh of course he is the science. I know,
- 29:36what's really funny is that every empire sort of has a cycle and then at
- 29:40the end. Um, what's really interesting is at the end m the specifically
- 29:45the health care of the particular civilization gets so bad that people just sit on
- 29:52the straight and ask passersbys how to deal with stuff. Yeah, this is
- 29:56like, this is this is common for every civil They go through this this
- 30:02cycle. And one of the signs that they're about to get caput is their
- 30:04doctors just just chant mumbo jumbo and uh. And they're part of an establishment
- 30:11that has absolutely no connection to actual health. Um. I'm not saying that
- 30:15that's where we're at, not saying, but I'm just saying that in general,
- 30:18end to California, I mean, you will find a lot of people
- 30:22sitting on the street. So yeah, well maybe the probably have doctorates.
- 30:29Oh boy, you salvage that one. Okay. With his full beard,
- 30:32mustache, and penchant for tweed sportscuts plus a winsome Southern accent courtesy of a
- 30:38childhoods bet in rural Georgia, he reads as much more mature than many of
- 30:41the professors roaming the campus. Oh God, why are you mentoring a doctoral
- 30:48student in what I oh, yeah, that's who knows masculinity studies, which
- 30:56is basically just feminist studies. And the first question this kid asked me is
- 31:02just what that That's it? I mean, this is the question you have
- 31:06to answer. You want to keep these young men from Andrew Tates or Jordan
- 31:11Peterson's I don't know why you want to keep them from Jordan Peterson, but
- 31:15apparently you do. Then you have to have a actual answer in the context
- 31:19of all of your liberal and woke ideas. And the problem is that you
- 31:22can't. You can't answer this essential question, which means that all of that,
- 31:27well, you've made it unanswerable by your own bigotry against men. And
- 31:33then and then we've created this yeah, well, and then the subsequent problem
- 31:37is that when you cannot give a definition for men, and in many cases,
- 31:42the definition for men is where the definition for women being you know ends
- 31:48okay, because the limitations are just as important of defining something as what it
- 31:52actually is. So men's are the limitations to women. And when you can't
- 31:59do that, you can to find women either. So you're just left with
- 32:02an ever increasing spiral into goop. All right, yeah, okay, Because
- 32:12anything positive about women now has to be accessible to men as well. See
- 32:16how what I'm saying like they have to take any positive trait that women have,
- 32:21and since women are now the gender neutral, because we can't identify anything
- 32:25that men are that women aren't. That's the thing. I mean, even
- 32:29positive or negative. We can't identify anything that men are that women aren't.
- 32:32Now that men women are now the gender neutral, anything positive women men can
- 32:37be too. You see how all of this fun just just come. It's
- 32:40just it's just it's just downhill of the refusal to identify anything positive about men.
- 32:46There you go, It's it's all. It's all comes from the same
- 32:50space. He grimaced. I'll be honest with you, I did not have
- 32:55an answer for that. And then why are you in this article like,
- 33:00well, she I don't know. That's maybe she has the answer. Maybe
- 33:06she knows. And even better than this doctoral student with all of these pieces
- 33:09of paper on the wall that validates existent and yes, okay, and his
- 33:15faciful hair, Well she might have facial hair too. I wouldn't assume,
- 33:19Oh yeah she might. She might beards. Now I hear the girl ladies
- 33:23could do stuff. Now, yes, go on like they could never.
- 33:29Okay. As early as eighteen thirty five, Washington Irving lamented the new American
- 33:35upper classes tendency to send our youth abroad, delope, grow luxurious, and
- 33:38effeminate in Europe. His alternative, a previous tour on the prairies, would
- 33:44be more likely to produce that manus manliness most in unison with our political institutions.
- 33:49Yes, you have discovered that throughout all of human history, everybody has
- 33:53had a concern over how to define manliness and to define it in such a
- 33:58way that it supports their own bank account, in particular hobby horse issues like
- 34:04this is this is you just discovered this, Christine, this is this is
- 34:07a thing. All right, Yeah, I'll go back to highlighting this.
- 34:13Did you have anything you wanted to add to that? Uh? No,
- 34:15I mean other than you know, I just want men to be left alone
- 34:20to like figure out their own way, you know, or at least at
- 34:23least somebody a little more sympathetic could Yeah. Yeah, none of this has
- 34:29anything to do with liberating no um men's identity at all. This is all
- 34:34about like, well, well you know, that's why there are women that
- 34:37are complaining, because they're trying to. You know, that video that went
- 34:40um viral a few weeks ago, there was a woman that said she wanted
- 34:46a man that shared her um liberal values, but but behaved in a conservative
- 34:53fashion towards her. And of course there are there are no men like that,
- 34:58or at least like It's not easy because but see what she was saying
- 35:00is I want a man that's going to treat me like a feminist and let
- 35:04me do whatever I want and never you know, expect anything from me,
- 35:07and not have any authority over me. But I want him to be responsible
- 35:10for me. I want him to you know, open the door for me
- 35:14and pull the seat for me, and like, you know, pick me
- 35:16up, and pay for drinks and pay for dinner and essentially be a gentleman.
- 35:22But you know, like, but and this is the thing, like,
- 35:24and the most important part of what I'm saying, though, is that
- 35:28ultimately these women, they they don't want men to be their own people.
- 35:35They want they want to tell them what they need to be. And of
- 35:37course they create incredibly impossible standards and very few men can reach it. And
- 35:45then they complain when they can't find anyone. Well, they use their victimhood
- 35:47like this is this is this is the classic thing throughout all of human history.
- 35:52Women use their victimhood and their weakness to define what men owe them.
- 35:58Yeah. Yeah, so I mean I would just laugh in their face if
- 36:01they're like, I'm sorry, you know. What I mean is like a
- 36:05sympathetic maybe there is, Yeah, I know what you're saying, Like,
- 36:12um, well, Jordan Peterson seems pretty sympathetic. I mean even in his
- 36:15moments, you know it weeps every time the subject of men struggling comes up.
- 36:21I mean it's clear, you know, and um, I think,
- 36:25well, I'm not gonna get a tap because yeah, it's it's it's a
- 36:31if they get fucking triggered over that, I'm not even gonna bring it up.
- 36:35All I'm gonna say is that that if men are following him, then
- 36:37there's and you don't think they should be that maybe you should be creating content
- 36:40that they want to watch. Yeah, So otherwise that's where they're gonna go.
- 36:45So well, hey, here here's a question, like, how can
- 36:49we tap into this since I think we probably have a more sympathetic look at
- 36:55the situation for men and a more honest look. I'm not and I think
- 37:00that you know, I don't know. I don't think a lot of men
- 37:02can be an Andrew Tap, but a lot of men can just be sort
- 37:07of a normal person, well imasonable boundaries between. Yes, they should have
- 37:12reasonable boundaries. And then, frankly, I think that um, feminism itself
- 37:16is kind of like one gigantic shit test. And I think that if men
- 37:21ignore whatever they're yelling about and just deal with like the the actual like uh,
- 37:28legal and political obstacles in their own way, and just liberate themselves because
- 37:31you can just not associate with these people, um, actually, you'll find
- 37:36that women will probably be drawn to you for that. So I think that
- 37:40I think that is what is, you know, one of the secrets,
- 37:44because trying to give them what they want is impossible and they'll lose respect for
- 37:49you anyway. So just do you. Just do you period, full stop,
- 37:52is what I think. So, Okay, skip ahead a few decades,
- 37:57and new worries about faltering masculinity terms into an obsession with fitness. In
- 38:01October nineteen twenty issue of Physical Culture magazine advertised to men instructions on how to
- 38:07square your shoulders, and to women some advice, Shall I Marry him?
- 38:09A lesson in eugenics. Oh my goodness, Oh man, that's kind of
- 38:15I feel like that's cherry picked. But like again, fitness should it's I
- 38:21think that everyone should do that for its own sake. And if it just
- 38:24like you know, if it just so happens that men are more drawn to
- 38:28it, I don't think that's true. I think there's plenty of women that
- 38:30like to look good and feel good. They should just do it. But
- 38:34of course she's gonna make fitness itself like a bad thing, and they have
- 38:37done that. It's like, you know, working out, it's right wing.
- 38:39Now it's like, how about just not getting diabetes and dying early,
- 38:45dying young. I think it's more sinister than that. I think she's setting
- 38:47up this idea that manhood has always been in question and in flux. So
- 38:52what the hell? Why are what's your pattern? It's always been like this
- 38:55really shallow thing where it's just about looking. Growing a mustache is a rugged
- 39:01clear okay? Yeah yeah. Still By nineteen eighty five eighty five, fifty
- 39:07eight, sorry, Arthur Schlessinger Junior warned that the male role has plainly lost
- 39:14its rugged clarity of outline. Writing an Esquire magazine, he added the ways
- 39:19by which American men affirm their masculinity are uncertain and obscure. They're multiplying signs
- 39:24indeed, that something has gone badly wrong with the American male's conception of himself.
- 39:30Oh, Esquire Magazine, Feminist rag Yeah basically. Oh so, you
- 39:37know, just just as an aside, like a really quick aside, I'm
- 39:38gonna go at which one of these dudes do you think Christina wants to be
- 39:42banged by the of the pictures? Yeah, I would guess that not this
- 39:49one, not the small one in the front of the other one. No,
- 39:52not that obviously, because he's soulless, you know, he's a ginger.
- 39:57Well, there is that. But I think also, like these women
- 39:59will complain about men putting up these like, you know, what they consider
- 40:02to be like a shallow image of masculinity, but they want that too.
- 40:07So it's like, stop fooling yourself. Okay. Worrying about the state of
- 40:12our men is an American tradition, but today's problems are real and well documented.
- 40:16De Industrialization, automation, free trade, and peacetime have shifted the labor
- 40:21market dramatically, and not in men's favor. Okay, just in the side.
- 40:24I recently received an article on how the procedural AI is going to be
- 40:35challenging eighty percent of women's jobs because it looks like rather than the trade jobs,
- 40:42the ones that require mechanical understanding and coupled with physical ability are unlikely to
- 40:49be replaced by AI prior to the white collar jobs that mostly women occupy.
- 40:54So middle management is probably going to disappear, and that is women's job.
- 41:00Are we gonna get Are we gonna get like, are we gonna get articles
- 41:04about, Yeah, how women need to woman up, grab those ovaries and
- 41:08compete more successfully against the the the sex spots. They're gonna blame the patriar
- 41:16AI. R key, that's a good one. That's why they're gonna blame
- 41:22that. They're gonna blame and it's of course it's men. They're gonna blame
- 41:24men. The need for physical Yeah, go ahead and sorry. The need
- 41:30for physical labor has declined, while soft skills and academic credentials are increasingly rewarded.
- 41:35Until the the the AI revolution, growing numbers of working age men have
- 41:39detached from the labor market, with its biggest drop in employment among men ages
- 41:45twenty five to thirty four for those in a job. Wages have stagnated everywhere
- 41:49except the top. Yeah, because they just get what can you say about
- 41:53the top, They just basically get money directly sluiced directly to them from the
- 41:59prince impresses. They just got monopoly money. Friends, Like, oh man,
- 42:06how she says, worrying about the state of our men is an American
- 42:08tradition, like and on what fucking planets? Yeah? No, no,
- 42:13no, not worrying about how well or of skip the depression and sacrifice?
- 42:19Yeah, not a big deal. Who cares. Meanwhile, women are surging
- 42:22ahead in school in the workplace until AI slams that down, putting a further
- 42:27dent in the provider midel model that has long been ingrained in our conception of
- 42:30masculinity. Oh, I just thought of something. Maybe AI is going to
- 42:36reverse all of this. Huh men now received I don't know. AI is
- 42:40being programmed by feminists. So yeah, But the thing is that if it
- 42:45well, but if if AI removes all eighty percent of women's jobs, like
- 42:51what the hell are they doing if they can be replaced by AI in the
- 42:53first place. But whatever, maybe they'll hire them to manage AI. They'll
- 42:59probably make up new positions just so that women have jobs. I mean they'll,
- 43:04they'll, they be willing to do that in order to prove that women
- 43:07are better. Got to keep those state harems. Okay, men now receive
- 43:09about seventy four bachelor's degrees for every one hundred awarded to women, and men
- 43:15account for more than seventy percent of the decline in college enrollment overall. How
- 43:21is that possible in the patriarchy, I don't understand, But in guys,
- 43:25we're slipping. We need to take our power back. How do we let
- 43:30these women get away with this? Oh? Oh, I know. We're
- 43:32gonna put them in hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt for college degrees,
- 43:38and they're not gonna be able to find a job that actually is worth the
- 43:42amount of money that they're putting in themselves in debt for. Okay, good,
- 43:45good job, patriarchy. We're still on top. We caught it.
- 43:47We caught that one. I just gotta in in defiant or in as contrast
- 43:54to that. You look at like Pearl recently, and I know pearls on
- 44:00some really interesting sort of crazy tear right now, but she did tweet some
- 44:06interesting stuff a while back, which was how which professions are absolutely bodied by
- 44:12men, like dominated by men and all of them, Like everything related to
- 44:16actually staying alive in society is done by men. So yeah, men are
- 44:22still providing, lady, They're providing everything for all of us, and they're
- 44:28still doing it, said Pearl. Oh Pearl, right, yeah, she
- 44:34she tweeted out, like statistics on the male dominated professions, and like I
- 44:40said, they are all the ones that keep us alive, Like they're the
- 44:45ones responsible for making sure our houses have heating and water and lighting. They're
- 44:50the ones responsible for make sure making sure we have food. They're doing the
- 44:53majority of the trucking. Okay, so they're basically you know, if if
- 44:58if if our so I was a body, men would be the circulatory system,
- 45:05the nervous system, the skeleton, the digestive system, the skin,
- 45:10um in many degrees, probably the brain, and women would be the fat.
- 45:16Okay, all right, so yeah, men are still providing for everything.
- 45:22And maybe part of the part of the immune system active system, the
- 45:27immune system. Yeah yeah, yeah, um, not all of the immune
- 45:30system, because honestly, everybody says, well, if women were gone,
- 45:35the health system would collapse. That's the one thing they've got. And I'm
- 45:37like, well, but so also, yeah, it would collapse, but
- 45:42men it would also collapse of men were gone too, you forget you know,
- 45:45doctors, orderlies, male nurses, you know. Okay, but anyway,
- 45:50but my overall point is that men are still providing. There's the provider
- 45:55role of men has not changed. What has changes we don't recognize it.
- 46:00Where constantly lambasting men as being weak. And I'm like, how like,
- 46:05men are still providing for all of society and they're still probably protect it if
- 46:09you ask so. So in to twenty twenty, so that this idea that
- 46:16men are not are not providing as bullshit. They are period that what's the
- 46:22dent is in a man getting a woman individually who recognizes him as a provider.
- 46:28That doesn't That doesn't seem to be as common anymore. In twenty twenty,
- 46:31nearly half of women reported in a ted Ameritrade survey that they outt out,
- 46:37earn, or make the same amount as their h And then there's the
- 46:42domestic sphere. Last summer, a Psychology Today article caused a stir online by
- 46:45pointing out that the dating opportunities for heterosexual men are diminishing as relationship standards rise.
- 46:52No longer dependent on marriage as a means to financial security or even motherhood,
- 46:57a growing number of women are choosing to create families themselves the help of
- 47:00reproductive technology. Women are increasingly selective, leading to a rise in lonely single
- 47:05young men. I just want to point out that when this whole shipfest started
- 47:09rolling down the hill, feminists said that this would lead to the rise of
- 47:15companion it marriages where women aren't seeking after a provider, And yet they've only
- 47:22made it more obvious that that's what they want. Yeah. Yeah, like
- 47:27seriously as a group, I mean, not individual. I'm sure they're individual
- 47:30women were what No, it's your theory is trying to answer questions. Yes,
- 47:37for some reason, I have a male serie like, well, it's
- 47:40the FBI, they're just checking in on you or whatever. The mounties.
- 47:45Yeah, it was female, my serious female for the longest time, and
- 47:47then some one day, I guess she had a sex change and decided to
- 47:52become a man, and oh my god, you know what, I'm actually
- 47:54okay with that. It's twenty twenty three. Yeah anything, yeah, well,
- 48:00if they identify women, yes, okay, okay, So Basically,
- 48:07they're just proving that women only wanted men for money. Begin with, Well,
- 48:12that's what feminists would I mean, I think that's what I'm saying.
- 48:15It's a very materialist view, is like that the only thing that matters is,
- 48:19like you know, how much money you make, how much power you
- 48:22acquire, Like I it's so cynical, Like I'm I this woman can't be
- 48:28if she is married. That guy needs to like really rethink shit because that
- 48:31is such a I mean, it's such a materialist view. Like if you
- 48:36lose everything, what do you have left? I mean, we're all going
- 48:39to lose things. That's inevitable for all of us. So like if you
- 48:44don't have anything else, and what do you have if you have this materialist
- 48:46mindset? Um, yeah, it's messed up. I'm just saying. And
- 48:51these are the same people who complain about capitalism, Like you're literally creating the
- 48:54conditions that you're complaining about because of your mindset. If you had like a
- 48:59more I don't know, dare I say, spiritual connection to other people,
- 49:04you probably wouldn't be worrying about things like GDP so as that's not as much
- 49:09anyway, But this really speaks to what women want, like, and I
- 49:13don't think that she's realizing it. Like, no, as soon as men
- 49:16can't provide more for them, they just throw them aside. Yeah, and
- 49:21what men are like no or suspect that women want. But men can't say
- 49:25this, like men can't literally quote Christine and say women are throwing men aside
- 49:30because men don't earn enough. And here's the other thing leading to a rise
- 49:36of lonely single young men, but not lonely single young women because they're okay,
- 49:42right, except that the level of misery among women is increasing exponentially now.
- 49:49Men also count for almost three of every four deaths of despair, either
- 49:52from a suicide, alcohol abuse, or an overdose. Um, yeah,
- 49:55that's a you know what that's but you know, h teenage girls are apparently
- 50:01starting to starting to work on that that gender gap there though a lot of
- 50:07them are starting to become as depressed as the men. It's all. They're
- 50:14more likely to get medicated too, which probably doesn't help. But and while
- 50:20the past fifty years have been revolutionary for women, the feminist movement championed their
- 50:24power in an entire academic discipline, emerged to theorize about gender and excavate women's
- 50:30history. Oh bullshit, you just think all of our best efforts, things
- 50:35are getting worse. I wonder what it could be. It must be the
- 50:37men. Well, they mean they're probably they're now patting themselves on the back.
- 50:43No, I don't know what for, but they're patting themselves on the
- 50:45back. First of all, women would have gotten these gains without feminism.
- 50:51Feminism is just a bunch of grifters that use women's power, already existent power
- 50:57in society and the fact that men care about women to get ship for themselves
- 51:00and to lie about social problems, ensuring that women continue to be victims of
- 51:04them. Yeah, the feminist movement used women's power and entire Okay, academic
- 51:10discipline emerged to theorize or to misrepresent social ills in order to support it.
- 51:16There hasn't been a corresponding conversation about what role men should play in a changing
- 51:21world, because the role is always obvious. They need to solve everyone else's
- 51:25problems. At the same time, the increasing visibility of the LGBTQ plus movement
- 51:30has made the gender dynamics seem less stable, less defined. Yeah, thanks
- 51:37you for that. I mean, basically, you're just like you're basically telling
- 51:40again, this is another self report, because what you're saying is at least
- 51:45to this woman. And I think that queer theorists and feminists are well,
- 51:49they're basically the same thing. What they're saying is we created the LGBTQ activists
- 51:53queer theory movement specifically to move as many people as possible away from men and
- 51:59masculine and now that we've done that, you know, to uh rousing success
- 52:05where like what's going on with men? Like why are they over there in
- 52:08the in the in the small dated um, you know, like uh stables
- 52:15that we put there was abandoned who they are and join us. I mean,
- 52:19that's all the LGBTQ thing is for these people. It's about abandoning because
- 52:23it's not It doesn't challenge femininity at all. It doesn't say that women shouldn't
- 52:29be women. It just says, well, women should be women, and
- 52:31trans women should be women, and other people should be women sometimes or whatever
- 52:37else it is. But men who just want to be men, well that
- 52:39they're losing because they're not playing nice. I mean that's what I'm getting from
- 52:45this. I mean, seriously, what right to them they're they're they're losing
- 52:49their identity because it's being erased. Well, yeah, they're erasing it.
- 52:54Yeah, but this is the funny thing. It's like, yes, you're
- 52:58actively doing this thing that you're calling saying this actively being done. Yeah,
- 53:02they will make that connection, like they literally will not identify any positive contribution
- 53:07that men or masculinity can create to society, but they will not recognize that
- 53:10connection between that behavior and erasing manhood. Okay, yeah, well yeah exactly.
- 53:15Like there was a post that Richard tagged me in a while ago was
- 53:21Natty and and I like Nattie still, but she said something that I was.
- 53:28I was surprised that she was like bringing this up without considering where it
- 53:31came from. But she said, I'm like scrolling through the history here to
- 53:35find it. Damn it, Richard, you post so often I have to
- 53:42like go away because men are identifying as women now, right, And that
- 53:45was her complaint, And I said, well, if if we allowed men
- 53:47to have an identity, they wouldn't be looking for another place to belong to
- 53:52begin with. So like, you can't like this whole thing with like the
- 53:55trans women are taking away women's faces. Well what the drove them to do
- 54:00that. Yeah, they all have the conditions. I mean, yeah,
- 54:04if it's not well, I mean, I think a lot of it is
- 54:06probably a survival instinct, like a desire to to to feel like they belong.
- 54:12So they were like, well, being a man obviously sucks because nobody
- 54:15everybody hates if you're a feminine man. There's an inclination to want to do
- 54:21that, like to have you're yes, so so you're going to join the
- 54:25ranks. You're gonna be like, well, I'm gonna become a transwoman now,
- 54:29and then you do and the and I mean I would think Natty would
- 54:31know better to be like, well, this is created because the masculine identity
- 54:37has been attacked, at least in part, Like you wouldn't be seeing it
- 54:40at the scale that it's at if it weren't for that. But now it's
- 54:44a problem because it's affecting women. It's like, but but it affected men
- 54:47first, guys, Yeah, like it affected men first, like most of
- 54:51the you know, like just a few years ago, twenty seventeen, I
- 54:53went to a myth con and there I met up with Blair White there and
- 55:00Meyer and this other trans woman that was she was on American idol or something,
- 55:05and they were very nice ladies and did a little talk, and I
- 55:07went up there and I asked a question. I said, I noticed that
- 55:10most of the time when we see trans women, or with trans people in
- 55:14general, there's more trans women. And I at the time, I think
- 55:17Aaron Pitzy had told me in a previous conversation that it was something like seventy
- 55:22five people who transition are men, so like the women that transition to be
- 55:27men is in a minority. Now. Their answer to that question was something
- 55:31like, well, we don't really know that because when when women transition,
- 55:36they don't you know, they don't tell anybody, and they tend to pass
- 55:38better and all that. And I agree that's true. But I do think
- 55:42that it does happen more deep with men transitioning to become women. I think
- 55:46that that is probably when we get the data. I will bet you a
- 55:51dollar that it is more men, and probably by a lot, although women
- 55:55are now doing it more, especially younger girls are doing it more. And
- 56:00so again, if this is happening at this scale to where I think we
- 56:05went from like you know, less than one percent of people transitioning to damn
- 56:09near twenty percent of people that don't identify as you know, as the gender
- 56:15they were assigned or or or just like as men at all, then there
- 56:21must it must be something else to it. It's not like an organic thing
- 56:24that just happened, but not in such a short amount of time. There's
- 56:28obviously something suspicious going on that we should be able to question. And I
- 56:32think that it started when we were attacking masculinity. And we've been attacking masculinity
- 56:38for a hundred plus years, so like, what what do you expect?
- 56:42And now now that women are feeling the sting, you know, of it,
- 56:45after they were totally cool with it for one hundred plus years, now
- 56:50they're complaining, and it's like, oh, you kind of I'm sorry,
- 56:52but you make your bed. I mean, I'm sorry that there are women
- 56:54who probably would otherwise not have done that that are being affected. But unless
- 56:59they realize where this came from, you know, you're you're not addressing anything.
- 57:04So I mean, and I think, and I think it's really it's
- 57:07really sad because I'm sorry, there's gonna be there's gonna be a lot of
- 57:10suicides. I mean, there's gonna be a lot of suicides because of this.
- 57:15So you know, I don't know what to tell you except that the
- 57:19when this happens, people are going to be rushing to avoid taking responsibility,
- 57:23avoid blame, whatever, and they're not going to know how this started.
- 57:27It started when we took men's identity away from them. That's how this all
- 57:30started. So now women are losing it too. Well, I don't know
- 57:34what to tell you. You know, speak up, no to play stupid
- 57:37games, win stupid prizes. Yeah, and literally it is the moment we
- 57:42started to say, we started to say that there was nothing that men are
- 57:45that women aren't. And once you do that, once you take away women's
- 57:51limitations, you take away the definition of women, and then eventually you're you're
- 57:54at a state where somebody says, well, what is a woman? And
- 57:58you're like, ah, a woman is the wolf and weave of the stars,
- 58:04the sound upon the beach. A woman is an indefinable platonic being of
- 58:09humanity that anyone could be. I mean, you're just basically in some sort
- 58:14of weird existential place where you cannot define what a woman is and you can't
- 58:17stop men who may not be identifying for as women because they genuinely believe their
- 58:23women just simply identifying as a woman because it's easier now than identifying as a
- 58:28man. Yeah, that's what you end up with. Yeah, now women
- 58:32are not even women, They're they're uterous havers with bonus holes. That's you
- 58:37know, a welcome to the club. I got a table for you right
- 58:42here. Feels like shit, doesn't it? Yeah? All right? For
- 58:47millions of men lack Okay, oh wait, wait, I'm sorry, I
- 58:51need to read the highlighted paragraph. I screwed up my own system. Because
- 58:54men still dominate leadership positions in government and corporations, many assume that they're doing
- 59:00fine and bristole at male complaint. Isn't it wonderful how men get into these
- 59:05positions because they can sacrifice other mendos? You know, men are are in
- 59:09positions of powering in corporations because they're best able to use the sacrifice of other
- 59:15men to do the best effect. Like, that's why they're in these high
- 59:19positions. They're best able to direct the sacrifice of other men. And then
- 59:24we turn around and we say, well they're in those high positions. That
- 59:27means that, you know, men are doing so much better than women.
- 59:30Um, why like yes, men are in ceo positions. Why does that
- 59:38have any bearing on men and general He was like, well, yeah,
- 59:40I mean there are our disparities. Let me look at all the male CEOs
- 59:44and politicians. There's never been a female president. Blah blah. I's like,
- 59:46who do those people serve? Who do those men serve? It's not
- 59:51about who's sitting in the big chair in the big White House. It's it's
- 59:54about who they serve, collars, where does it get spent, who is
- 1:00:00it spent on? I mean, like this, this is ridiculous, Like,
- 1:00:05you know, power, It's it's so unfair they have all this power,
- 1:00:08Like that only tells me about the person saying that. It's like,
- 1:00:12oh, so if you had power, you would serve simply given power,
- 1:00:16you know, they're there, they have a job they're expected to do.
- 1:00:20I mean it doesn't always work out that way obviously, but we're supposed to
- 1:00:23be able to discern that when we you know, elect people. But you
- 1:00:29don't get to say, oh, they have power, therefore though, that
- 1:00:31only tells me what you would do. Okay, So apparently Jim had the
- 1:00:36ring. Jim Bottle is saying that this is a good stream content wise a
- 1:00:38pity. It's being rendered into rags by the stream. So I'm guessing that
- 1:00:43this is unlistenable. I don't know, is it? Is it unlistenable?
- 1:00:47Guys, I don't know that there's much we can do, yeah, aside
- 1:00:52from me not streaming, I don't know why. I mean, yeah,
- 1:00:55you you might like I don't know if it lets you, but you can't
- 1:01:00do it while we're live. But you can look at the bit rate settings
- 1:01:04and seeing and sometimes it's fine at the moment. I'm sorry, guys,
- 1:01:07I don't know. I mean, yeah, I'm not I can't yeah,
- 1:01:15I mean you'd have to like h end the stream and then the only way
- 1:01:21you can alter the settings is to stop it and then go into the settings
- 1:01:24and change things. But I don't know if that's like, um, I
- 1:01:29don't even know if that's really the problem. Maybe do you have a firewall?
- 1:01:32Mum? You could I could ask, I could ask, okay,
- 1:01:37if you have a firewall, maybe you have two firewalls. Because that was
- 1:01:39my problem for a long time, is that my my router or my my
- 1:01:45modem had a firewall and my computer has a firewall. So I turned off
- 1:01:47the computer's firewall and and my streams were great after that. So, um,
- 1:01:53it could be that it could be a firewall, two firewalls, if
- 1:01:57you have multiple firewalls, or a EPN. I don't know. Do you
- 1:02:00have a VPN? Um? I might, but I don't know if it's
- 1:02:05you have to ask, right, Okay, Um, yeah, anyway we
- 1:02:09can uh, I mean, do you want to just because uh? Yeah,
- 1:02:14it's like getting close to Yeah, I just I can't. I don't
- 1:02:17understand why our streams are always so goddamn bad. I guess they're not when
- 1:02:22you're doing them. Just Um, I used to have a lot of problems,
- 1:02:28but I think I've resolved them part Yeah, let me see if I
- 1:02:32can. Let me see if I can change that. I guess this is
- 1:02:37something I'm probably gonna have to have to ask Jonathan about. All right,
- 1:02:40let's get this done. Sorry, guys, Sorry that this is sorry.
- 1:02:45Hopefully you're not gonna lose that much. So let's see how much more of
- 1:02:50this? Oh no, just like four four paragraphs left, and I don't
- 1:02:53know what's wrong. Um, Like, maybe it is an issue with firewalls,
- 1:02:59like Brian is saying, and I will endeavor to fix it to work
- 1:03:01with Jonathan to make sure that this doesn't happen again. I do need to
- 1:03:05be able to stream though. That's probably pretty critical. Okay, because man,
- 1:03:09are you a win Are you on a Windows computer? Yes? Um,
- 1:03:15maybe you can. You can turn it off from there, like pretty
- 1:03:17easily. You can just search firewall in your search bar and it'll bring up
- 1:03:22Windows Firewall and if that's on, then you can turn it off and you'll
- 1:03:27probably be okay for the stream and then turn it back on after it's over.
- 1:03:31I'm not great doing a lot with all right, Windows, all right,
- 1:03:35you can just forget it then. I mean, I'm just saying if
- 1:03:37you just search firewall, it should come right up. But yeah, I
- 1:03:39have, I have looked at I got the firewall thing. But it doesn't
- 1:03:44give um manage your settings. Okay, it's just it. It doesn't give
- 1:03:51me anything. Uh what Okay, Yes, I've asked anti viruses turn turned
- 1:04:00on. Okay, Well that's not a firewall, that's no, it is.
- 1:04:03It's indicating that this is a firewall. So maybe, oh well you
- 1:04:08can turn it off just for a little while. Um, it's gonna give
- 1:04:11you a warning, but don't sweat it. I don't think anyone's trying to
- 1:04:15like hack the computer in the middle of Kelvington and then turn it back on
- 1:04:18see if it works. We'll see if it if it's better, and then
- 1:04:23um yeah, turn it back on, see if I can figure out how
- 1:04:28to turn it off. Uh are you are you displaying yourself signing in?
- 1:04:35Oh? No, no, who you'll be Okay, that's why I ask
- 1:04:40you. That's why I said you should just capture the window instead of capturing
- 1:04:42the screen. Yeah, no, no, no, that's that's fine.
- 1:04:45I'm not signing in, all right. Yeah, the password is um is
- 1:04:50completely This must be a lot of fun for you guys. Yeah. Uh.
- 1:04:57If I opened it up, it is going to go into that screen.
- 1:04:59So all right, don't worry about it. Then let's just let's just
- 1:05:01keep coming. Yeah Jesus Christ. No, it's not gonna work. It's
- 1:05:06not I can't do anything about this. I'm really sorry, guys. All
- 1:05:11right, all right, let's go back to this. Okay, what did
- 1:05:16he say incidentally when he said what does this matter that men are like?
- 1:05:21Well, I think that he was still trying to sort of like rationalize,
- 1:05:28like you know that um that uh it would be like that there should be
- 1:05:35more women doing this, like because he's I think that he's just beginning his
- 1:05:42journey. I no, no offense to the guy. I hope that he
- 1:05:45figures this out. But like it as you I understand that when you start
- 1:05:47off, you're gonna be like you're gonna hold a lot. But like as
- 1:05:50time goes on, if you're if you're really pursuing truth, you're gonna find
- 1:05:55out that a lot of shit that you thought was right or that was very
- 1:05:59basic and straightforward, it's just not. And that's why I brought that up.
- 1:06:01Like we didn't get into the wage gap because um, I mean,
- 1:06:04it just didn't come up. But I figured he would probably say, you
- 1:06:08know, when you account for like what you know, women's choices and all
- 1:06:12of that, it comes out to very little and or in some cases women
- 1:06:15make a little bit more. But that none of that even matters to me
- 1:06:17anymore. Like I don't. I'm way past the whole. If you look
- 1:06:20at the data real, you know, for real, it looks like this.
- 1:06:23I just go, what are men spending their money on? Men spend
- 1:06:27their money on women. Men spend their money on their families like they like.
- 1:06:30So at the end of the day. Who's making the money doesn't matter.
- 1:06:33Where the money is spent is what matters. Yeah, And is there
- 1:06:36any evidence that these CEOs somehow like want to benefit men over women? There's
- 1:06:42none. Oh there's I'm selling you like, if you want to make money,
- 1:06:45the best way to do it is actually if you have a product,
- 1:06:49like you want to sell it to women. So no, that's what I'm
- 1:06:53saying, like like you and another thing too, And I did bring this
- 1:06:57up. I said, well, you know, people always talking about the
- 1:06:59CEO, but that's the APEX files. You were talking about what the top
- 1:07:01one percent of the top one percent of men, But about all the guys
- 1:07:04at the bottom, What about all the homeless guys? What about the working
- 1:07:06class guys? What about the laborers? Those are all men? Is that
- 1:07:10a problem too? Like should women be doing those jobs? I mean I
- 1:07:13would say no. I would say whoever wants to do it should do it.
- 1:07:15But we can't complain if if it doesn't shake out like equal And that's
- 1:07:20not even something you could if you should even need to bring up like it's
- 1:07:25so retarded because you would have to basically come from the position of something here
- 1:07:29has to change. No, not if everybody's doing what they want. And
- 1:07:33what is it that they're trying to say by saying that all these men are
- 1:07:38in charge. What are they trying to say that these men are benefiting other
- 1:07:42men? Right, that somehow men are benefited by the fact that men are
- 1:07:45in charge. What if they aren't. What if actually men as a group
- 1:07:49suffer a detriment because men are in charge. What if they don't get anything
- 1:07:55from it? And furthermore, maybe even the men in charge don't deserve to
- 1:07:59be associated with feminist stereotypes about men in power. And I'm gonna go in
- 1:08:04a little bit of a digression here to eleven nine eleven, Okay, in
- 1:08:13the South Tower, the South tower was the tower that was hit in the
- 1:08:16second Like the North Tower was hit first, the South tower was hit second.
- 1:08:21And like the seventeen minutes between the time the North Tower was hit and
- 1:08:26the South Tower was hit, there was a lot of chaos going on in
- 1:08:30the South tower, specifically in the floors above where the South tower eventually got
- 1:08:34hit. Now, there was about I think twenty five hundred people in those
- 1:08:39floors. And if you don't know, once that seventeen minutes elap finished,
- 1:08:45and that second plane hit the South tower. Nobody was getting out of those
- 1:08:49floors from like I think about seventy eight up. Okay, it was done.
- 1:08:55You're all gonna die if you weren't out. Not seventeen minutes about I
- 1:09:00think two thousand or eighteen hundred of the people in those towers were evacuated down.
- 1:09:06And this was despite the port authority telling them to shelter in place and
- 1:09:11other um, other people telling them to stay. And the reason why that
- 1:09:17happened was because there were executives in the companies on those floors who went around
- 1:09:27and told their staff to get out and took their staff down the um the
- 1:09:34stairs into the lobby that like there was a there was a secondary lobby on
- 1:09:39like floor seventy two that took the express elevators down. It was a very
- 1:09:42complicated system. They've since revised all of that. But there were CEOs like
- 1:09:47executive C suite staff who were getting everyone evacuated from the two big companies on
- 1:09:55those towers. Okay, and a lot of those guys, those men didn't
- 1:10:00make it. I want you, I want you to understand this. These
- 1:10:05were executives. One guy, um, I'd have to house and that can't
- 1:10:12that can't be true. They're those guys are all like big fat guys in
- 1:10:15three piece suits that are smoking cigars, that they decisions despite what the port
- 1:10:20authority was saying over the intermission or the intercom, they were telling in many
- 1:10:26cases the women. There were a lot of women. In fact, that
- 1:10:29the death toll in the whole event was like three to one in favor of
- 1:10:32men. And this is one of the reasons why, because they were executives
- 1:10:38telling their workers to get out, go take the stairs down, and they
- 1:10:42didn't stop. They didn't leave, They stayed to keep evacuating people. And
- 1:10:47these men, which are these men at the top one percent, ended up
- 1:10:54dying in the process of saving people. Okay, maybe this top one percent
- 1:11:00of men doesn't deserve to be branded with the feminist stereotypes either of patriarchy,
- 1:11:09especially since I mean that you know that doesn't happen a lot. But the
- 1:11:13one time it did happen, they certainly didn't behave like feminist theory would predict
- 1:11:17they would behave like feminist conjecture would predict they behave, which would be what
- 1:11:21to throw women into the fireball, And there was no reason for them to
- 1:11:26do it. It wasn't part of their job description. There's just like accountants.
- 1:11:30These are financial officers, c suite executive people. Men had and nothing,
- 1:11:36and they weren't firefighters, they weren't policemen. They were dudes who had
- 1:11:41BMW's and condo and penthouse condos and like model wives, and they spent their
- 1:11:45last moments saving people. And this is this. These events don't happen often,
- 1:11:53so we don't get an insight a flash into the mentality this men in
- 1:11:58these kind of extreme circificumstances often. But what a surprise. They're just like
- 1:12:02any other man. Yea. They have an instinct to help people, to
- 1:12:06save them, no matter how much money you think that they have, and
- 1:12:11how resentful we are towards them. When the chips are down, many of
- 1:12:15them still saved people. They were still men. What a surprise. So
- 1:12:20maybe they don't deserve this stereotype that they're all out for themselves and that they
- 1:12:26hate when they especially when they're freaking they're dooming themselves to death by asphyxiation and
- 1:12:32being burnt to death or throwing themselves out of a freaking window to save the
- 1:12:39freaking Secretaries and typists think about that is, it doesn't really even matter the
- 1:12:47label you slap on a man, Oh you're a CEO if he is going
- 1:12:53to throw himself into a fire to save a secretary. No, it doesn't.
- 1:13:03Uh huh, all right, let's keep going. Yeah, sorry,
- 1:13:09I just had to go I just because it's the thing is that we have
- 1:13:13this condemnation. We'd like, oh, well, look at all them they
- 1:13:15do. They threw their lives away to try to protect women who had were
- 1:13:21lower down on the totem pole. That's what they did. And sure some
- 1:13:26of them probably tried to escape themselves, and nobody really should condemn them because
- 1:13:30you know, they probably had kids and wives, But enough of them stayed
- 1:13:34and tried to save people. That that's and that's the only indication, that's
- 1:13:40our only snapshot into what these men would do in that circumstance. They don't
- 1:13:44deserve these feminist labels of some kind of like sociopathic, patriarchal oppressor. Even
- 1:13:50the men, men and the one percent don't deserve that. Okay, they're
- 1:13:57still men. They're still fucking men. They are, all right. Okay,
- 1:14:02So that a twenty twenty analysis of the SNP five hundred found out there
- 1:14:06were more CEOs named Michael or James than there were female CEOs period. Women
- 1:14:12are still dealing with historical discriminations and centuries of male domination. Blah blah blah.
- 1:14:16Biology, biology, biology, This is biology, Okay. The same
- 1:14:24reason why Michael or James was willing to throw himself in flames to save a
- 1:14:30woman is the same reason why he was in the c suite inspirst place.
- 1:14:32He's more willing to take risks not just for gain, but also to protect
- 1:14:38others. That is a masculine trait. Get over it. You want to
- 1:14:42recognize, you want to say that you want to keep women having their own
- 1:14:45special biological value, then you have to recognize men's. Are we really worrying
- 1:14:51that men feel a little emasculated because their female classmates are doing well while considering
- 1:14:59that you're contreating with contempt? I doubt it, But millions of men lack
- 1:15:02access to that kind of power of success and they never have had it ever.
- 1:15:09If anything, it was worse to be a man that didn't have that
- 1:15:12kind of power and success one hundred years ago, eighty years ago, what
- 1:15:15was happening to them? They were dying in the streets of starvation, or
- 1:15:18in the trenches and downstream cut loose from a stable identity. Men never had
- 1:15:25that, you dipshit, Like, what is this? The only masculine identity
- 1:15:30is the apex? This is the delusion that Christine is under the only masculine
- 1:15:38No, Okay, the guys who saved those secretaries and typis and US middle
- 1:15:45management women in the when the Twin Towers fell, those C suite executives um
- 1:15:54their identity. Well, yeah, sure they were part of the apex,
- 1:15:58but really what made them save those women? It was because it was part
- 1:16:02of that masculine tool kit, those masculine instincts that are of a benefit to
- 1:16:09society, whether or not you're in the C suite or you're in the sewer,
- 1:16:14or you're up on a soul tower, or you're in a fricking submarine
- 1:16:18or you're on the front line. Okay, so you are coming from Christine,
- 1:16:24You are coming from the position that the only men with the masculine they
- 1:16:30are likely the men who fulfill all of the tinder check marks. Absolutely,
- 1:16:34but also those women that these men were saving, they weren't exactly on minimum
- 1:16:39waves either. No. I know that like women at work in those businesses
- 1:16:42they do pretty well, even if even if they are administrative assistants or whatever
- 1:16:46they're calling it these days. Sorry, I have the hiccups. Yeah,
- 1:16:53okay, So millions of men and they've always lacked access to that kind of
- 1:16:56power and success. But here's the difference. We recognized that that kind of
- 1:17:01power and success was a natural outgrowth of men's biological adaptation to be more risk
- 1:17:06taching. Okay, So that we recognized there was something that the CEO shared
- 1:17:14with the linemen. Right now we don't. That's the difference. And downstream
- 1:17:21cut loose. And we did that because we recognized the big biological component,
- 1:17:28the fact that men are more risk taking. So men did share in the
- 1:17:31power in some way in terms of the identity. They could look at a
- 1:17:34CEO making the risks, doing the innovations, doing this other stuff and say
- 1:17:40that is a manifestation of masculinity, which I also share. That's what changed.
- 1:17:46You think that men in a breadline had access to that kind of power
- 1:17:49and success a hundred years ago or in a trench. No, and downstream
- 1:17:56cut loose from a stable identity as patriarchs deserving of respect. They feel demoralized
- 1:18:00and adrift. The day to show it, but so does the general mood.
- 1:18:03Men find themselves lonely, depressed, anxious, and directionless, except for
- 1:18:08those men who are keeping your goddamn lights on, lady. Yeah, and
- 1:18:14women aren't doing so great either, no, So yeah, I think I
- 1:18:20think almost like you've separated those people with your rhetoric and propaganda, and women
- 1:18:26are afraid of men, and men don't think they're worthy of women. M
- 1:18:31it's kind of terror. Okay, all right, so that's really what's happened.
- 1:18:40Men never had access to the top, but what they could see was
- 1:18:45that that kind of success was a manifestation, like the perfection of their own
- 1:18:49masculine impulses and instincts. But now they can't see that anymore because you know,
- 1:18:54it's actually it's actually an unfair exclusion of women from those from that activity.
- 1:19:01It's kind of terrifying. The thought that I was He thought that I
- 1:19:04was the best person to come ask this. Reynolds went on to tell me
- 1:19:08about his underclassmen visitor. I'm not even a parent. It seems like there
- 1:19:11had been a breakdown, right, But there's this very real way in which,
- 1:19:14at this moment, a lot of guys don't know, they have no
- 1:19:15sense of what it means to be to be them, particularly, they have
- 1:19:19no idea what it means to be a man. While yes, because the
- 1:19:23only thing that you can identify about men is toxicity and criminality. Past models
- 1:19:30of mass is what they perpetuate. By the way, Yeah, I mean
- 1:19:33yes, congratulations Christina, congratulation Christine, congratulations. Feminism is one past models
- 1:19:40of masculine What do they look like? Where do they fit? These are
- 1:19:44the social questions, but also ones with major political ramifications. Whatever self definition
- 1:19:48men would settle on will have an enormous impact on society, won't it.
- 1:19:55Yet, many people like Taylor hesitate to be the one to try to outline
- 1:19:59a new standard of man holiness. Who are they of a limitation to women?
- 1:20:03It's as simple as that they cannot conceive of saying. While men are
- 1:20:09more likely to do this, Men are more likely to be risk tactors.
- 1:20:12Men are more likely to create meritocracies. Men are more likely to see themselves
- 1:20:15in terms of the consequences of their actions rather than how they are affected by
- 1:20:19outside circumstances. Okay, this is These are masculine qualities and imperatives, and
- 1:20:27they are very positive very important for society. These people can't say any of
- 1:20:30that. They cannot acknowledge it, they cannot recognize it. In fact,
- 1:20:36the only consistent media and people are people are gonna just goggle. And when
- 1:20:42I say that, the only consistent media that I've ever seen that recognizes anything
- 1:20:46good about masculinity is romance, people are probably just their eyeballs are bulging out.
- 1:20:54I mean, there's a lot of bad romance, but at the very
- 1:20:57least it allows that men have something unique about them. Man, I'm here,
- 1:21:01I'm here. Can you hear me? Yeah, I can hear you.
- 1:21:04I'm here. Yeah. Man, Again, there are some really terrible
- 1:21:08romance, Like Sturge's law is like exponentially higher with romance. But it's the
- 1:21:14only genre, it's the only media allow around today with any kind of popularity
- 1:21:19that consistently recognizes some kind of unique value that men have, even if it's
- 1:21:26shallow. This only is not at all a map out of the wilderness.
- 1:21:32This is just blaming men. Yeah, oh wait, there's more shit.
- 1:21:36Yeah, Oh my good lord, look at this. Oh okay, we
- 1:21:41will finish up to here. Does this keep going? Yeah, it keeps
- 1:21:45going. It's it's a deceptive. I thought it was a different article.
- 1:21:49Okay, oh no, no, yeah, well, well we'll stop it
- 1:21:54at like at the well, stop it here this thing. Yes, we'll
- 1:21:58stop it at this dude. Um, and then we'll have to continue later
- 1:22:01because this is actually and maybe we'll have fixed all of the problems. I
- 1:22:05don't know. Okay, this is what this is going to conclude with.
- 1:22:11But go ahead. Okay, No, not the problems of this article,
- 1:22:15I mean the problems of the stream. Oh yeah, well hopefully Okay,
- 1:22:21all right, is it sturges a lot like that? Ten percent of everything
- 1:22:25is crap, But only one group seems to have no doubts about offering men
- 1:22:30a plan. You mean offering men some kind of positive identity, a manly
- 1:22:35appeal from the right. In twenty eighteen, curious about a YouTube personality you'd
- 1:22:42seemingly become famous overnight, I got tickets to a sold out lecture in DC
- 1:22:45by Jordan Peterson. Jordan Peterson was a famous uh psychologist here in Canada for
- 1:22:53a while before he supposedly got noticed by the Americans. Um. It was
- 1:22:59one of dozens of stops on the Canadian psychology professor turned anti woke Juggernaut's book
- 1:23:03tour for a surprise bestseller twelve year Earls for Life. An anecdote Chaos,
- 1:23:08the crowd was at least eighty five percent male. The remainder seemed to be
- 1:23:12made up of long suffering girlfriends. Oh, oh, my god, my
- 1:23:16moms who had brought their sons in hope that they'd shape up. Surrounded by
- 1:23:21men on a Tuesday night, I wondered aloud what the fuss was about.
- 1:23:25In my opinion, Peterson served up fairly benel advice stand up straight, delay
- 1:23:30gratification. His evolutionary biology informed takes range from amusingly weird to mildly insulting.
- 1:23:35Female lobsters are irreresistibly attracted to the top lobster, as are human women.
- 1:23:41I don't think he's ever said that. I read the book. No,
- 1:23:44I read the book too. I don't think he's ever said that. But
- 1:23:45of course, I mean, that's kind of true, Chris. It's true
- 1:23:54of human women. Like women don't look for the top guys. Look,
- 1:23:58I mean, hear itself, right. You're lying to yourself, Christine.
- 1:24:02You don't. You don't even think the top man, anybody outside any man,
- 1:24:06outside the tops of men, lack access to that kind of power and
- 1:24:10success, and you think that's where masculinity came from. Well, that certainly
- 1:24:15shows what you're looking at the top lobster. Yes, right, you're proving
- 1:24:19his point. His pre piece suit seemed gimmicky. Suddenly the twenty something guy
- 1:24:26in front of me swung around Jordan Peterson. He told me, without any
- 1:24:30hint of irony in his voice, taught me how to live well, no
- 1:24:33one else is doing it. Why does that bother you so much? No,
- 1:24:38you don't care, like I mean, like, yeah, you're not
- 1:24:40helping them. And you know what this is? This is this goes back
- 1:24:43to what I've been saying, like, look at Warren Farrell, Doctor Warren
- 1:24:46Farrell. Okay, there's like the gentlest man I've ever met, like,
- 1:24:51hands down, any more so than any other man I've ever met in my
- 1:24:56life. Warren Farrell is the gentlest. Condemned the crap out of him.
- 1:25:00They have accused him of everything under the sun. It's almost like it doesn't
- 1:25:04matter how careful you are with your words, how kind you try to be,
- 1:25:11whatever the PERSONA is doesn't matter. These people will attack you. Period.
- 1:25:16It doesn't even matter if you're a woman. They will attack you period.
- 1:25:19Look at how they treat Pearl, look at how they treated Warren Farrell,
- 1:25:23look at how they treat um NCFM, Justin Trottier. It doesn't matter,
- 1:25:28right, so we may as well just you know, be as loud
- 1:25:33and offensive as possible because nothing changes. Nothing changes. Peterson is extremely careful
- 1:25:42when he speaks. Sometimes it's annoyingly careful, you know, like I want
- 1:25:45him to just cut loose a little bit, and he's but he's really careful
- 1:25:49in his speech. Sometimes he stumbles and you know, people call him out
- 1:25:54and sometimes that's rightly so. But in general I think that he thinks about
- 1:25:58what he's gonna say. Loose a little bit and say what's because at the
- 1:26:00end of the day, these people don't care, like they put you in
- 1:26:04a box. Peterson is evil. We're going to attack him. He's and
- 1:26:09like, if you ask them who's worse, like Peterson or Andrew Taine,
- 1:26:12they would say that they're the same. They're just as bad as each other
- 1:26:15because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter
- 1:26:17to them, Nope. Like and then ultimately you have to get to that
- 1:26:21point in realizing it, Yes, I would say that he does seem to
- 1:26:28cut loose a bit on Twitter. He's got the while eye on Twitter.
- 1:26:30I think, yeah, a little bit. I think he does. Like
- 1:26:32he he you know, what does he call it? He um munches on
- 1:26:38shws. I think he said that once a long time ago. I thought
- 1:26:42it was pretty funny. That's true. But again, you know, um,
- 1:26:47you know, Peterson gonna do things however he wants to do it.
- 1:26:49I'm not I'm not telling him how to do anything. I'm just letting you
- 1:26:53guys know in case you're not aware, that these people will be ruthless to
- 1:26:58him, just like they would anybody else. It's all about whether or not
- 1:27:00you step out of line, and it doesn't matter, like if you like
- 1:27:03dip your toe in the water or if you just like cannonball into it.
- 1:27:08It doesn't matter. I'm gonna treat you the same. So well. And
- 1:27:12the other thing is that, you know, like I think he deals with
- 1:27:16a different There is this quality any Ironically, I think it's because men have
- 1:27:21internalized sort of a feminine way of looking at the world in terms of not
- 1:27:29in terms of what they can do, but what has been done to them
- 1:27:32as an individual. Some I would say some have, and I think that
- 1:27:36he focuses on sort of correcting that because you know, men don't get anywhere
- 1:27:42by doing that, unfortunately, as we know, and and I think that
- 1:27:47there's a there's a certain subset of men who've gone absolutely the opposite direction,
- 1:27:51which is to say that they have internalized everything, like they refuse to see
- 1:27:58where it is that something has has externally acted upon them. That doesn't mean
- 1:28:03that you can't don't have taking responsibility for the external existence of that external effect
- 1:28:09in the first place. You get what I'm saying. There's there's guys who
- 1:28:13um play the victim, and then there's guys who are incapable of recognizing when
- 1:28:19something happened that's not their fault, like utterly and and you can't something and
- 1:28:27that could be very unhelpful in terms of moving forward, because sometimes you need
- 1:28:32to recognize that something was out of your control, even if the results are
- 1:28:36something you have to manage and take responsibility for the reason why you're dealing with
- 1:28:42them isn't your fault. And that's that's a distinction that I think is really
- 1:28:46being lost in a lot of the discourse, which is very, very black
- 1:28:51and white you're either a victim or you're responsible. You can't both be somebody
- 1:28:57who's experienced something outside of your control but also the only person who can actually
- 1:29:02make it better, you know what I mean. And that seems to be
- 1:29:06a lot of human existence and human experience. You know, shit happens,
- 1:29:12it's not your fault that it happened, but you are the only one that
- 1:29:15can make it better for yourself and others. So that kind of mentality I
- 1:29:23don't necessarily see it in what Peterson says. I think he's targeting more the
- 1:29:28guys who've been super feminized into seeing everything in terms of how it affects them,
- 1:29:33although often the men that are like on the verge of mine crafting themselves.
- 1:29:40Anyways, I think because Peterson often talks about how many men reach out
- 1:29:44to him and say, you know, I never had anyone tell me anything
- 1:29:46encouraging in my life. Yeah, and so you know, I'm like,
- 1:29:50it just seems like he focuses more on instead of focusing on the guys who
- 1:29:56are like in that space where they need to be told, Hey, this
- 1:30:00is something that was well outside your responsibility that you cannot be blaming yourself for
- 1:30:05this because this was well outside of your ability to control the consequences of it.
- 1:30:12You have to take responsibility for and it'll be easy for easier for you
- 1:30:15to do that once you stop blaming yourself for the existence of it in the
- 1:30:17first place. That makes sense. I don't see him really targeting that.
- 1:30:23I think, Yeah, I think that's right. Also, I think men,
- 1:30:27I think everybody needs encouragement. Men aren't getting it. Women aren't getting
- 1:30:30it either. What I mean is men aren't getting encouragement. They're just get
- 1:30:31being demonized as men for existing. Women don't get encouragement either. They get
- 1:30:38empowerment. They get yes lighting, that's what I call it. Yes lighting
- 1:30:43is what they get because they're just told that they're perfect way they are and
- 1:30:45now the rest of the world just needs to realize it, which is bad
- 1:30:47for women because they don't realize. They don't learn what it is that they
- 1:30:51need to work on. They don't know what it is that they need to
- 1:30:54improve, so they don't improve anything because they're told that everything is fine.
- 1:31:00Yeah, that's actually pretty hilarious. In certain things that you really can't fake,
- 1:31:03like writing, you either write well or you don't. And I and
- 1:31:08I when I say right, well, I encompass everything from really really simple
- 1:31:14clear pulp type writing to MS standard, and that is the ability to convey
- 1:31:18ideas to your audience. And this whole yas queen thing really damages women when
- 1:31:26it comes to doing stuff like that. Any kind of artistic merit is.
- 1:31:30Um, it's just if you cannot handle external criticism, you're never going to
- 1:31:38get anywhere with it. Yeah, I call it. Yes, yeah,
- 1:31:44yeah, well it denied. Like what I see is that a complete portion
- 1:31:49of human development is basically passing women by. So you know how there's the
- 1:31:56maiden mother crone. Yeah, women are basically just the maiden, eternally victimized
- 1:32:02by their circumstances and never rising above it to become anything else. They're just
- 1:32:08one archetype. That's it, Okay, and supposedly the yass queening is like,
- 1:32:14but then the thing is that they never rise above recognizing that they're not
- 1:32:17a victim, so it's never you know, they just immediately descend back into
- 1:32:21the state of helplessness even after every yass queen. Yeah, because if you
- 1:32:28tell women they're perfect as they are and that they deserve happiness and respect and
- 1:32:33then they don't get it, then what you're telling them is that there is
- 1:32:36something wrong with them that they can't fix. So because it's like that's why
- 1:32:42they become the victims, because they think it's all coming from outside of me
- 1:32:46and there's nothing that I can do because I'm perfect because I was yas lighted
- 1:32:50and believing it. Yeah yeah, But also that you become addicted to it,
- 1:32:56like the external validation, because the thing is to serve anything like you
- 1:33:00you don't, you don't, you don't all right, you don't have,
- 1:33:03you don't earn anything. You don't have a sense of a competition. Okay,
- 1:33:05personal anecdote time, like I've been sort of turning away from HBr a
- 1:33:12bit to write a book, and writing is possibly one of the most painful
- 1:33:17and excruciating processes imaginable. And if you actually can only do things when you're
- 1:33:26constantly being fluffed by yas lighting, you're not going to be able to write
- 1:33:30because it's there are times when you get like criticism and it's like you don't
- 1:33:40feel like, you don't feel like you can continue, and you have to
- 1:33:45reach deep into that well of absolute pig headed perversity in order to keep going.
- 1:33:54And if you're constantly gorging on gas yas lighting, you'll you don't develop
- 1:33:59that well of pigheaded perversity that keeps you going despite everybody saying, yes,
- 1:34:03please stop. Your writing is horrible. And you know that's that's a double
- 1:34:09edged sword because you can end up publishing absolute crap. But then again,
- 1:34:13I mean if you're if you're listening to the criticism and you're incorporating it and
- 1:34:17you're trying to develop and get better, you're less likely to be publishing absolute
- 1:34:21crap. So there you go. But you need that, you need that
- 1:34:25ability to keep going without constant flattering and butt powdering, which when you become
- 1:34:32addicted to it like you do with yas sliding. I like that term.
- 1:34:35By the way, Brian, you can't learn that. You can't learn to
- 1:34:42be able to do things in silence and perversity, like just being like,
- 1:34:45you know what, fuck y'all, it's time for me to get put my
- 1:34:48nose to the grindstone and ignore other people's opinions. How do you do that?
- 1:34:53If everything is about being flattered? Okay, if there's a vacuum in
- 1:35:00modeling manhood today, Peterson has been one of the boldest and stepping up to
- 1:35:04fill it. He's gained fame, notoriety, and millions of book sales in
- 1:35:08the process. And he's only one of many right aligned masculinity grewers of better
- 1:35:12and worse quality who've amassed huge audiences over the past decade. Excuse me,
- 1:35:18wow, how can we get into this action? Hey? Comments below tell
- 1:35:23us how Honey Badger Radio can get in on this action. Um, that's
- 1:35:27a little bit facetious. I think we're gonna I don't think we can stop
- 1:35:32it here. Well never, I was going to mention that Peterson is not
- 1:35:36and never has been, right weight, But I know that that's just used
- 1:35:41as another like it's another layer of boogeyman like who where? So? Like
- 1:35:56that's all it is, That's all it is. It's just you know,
- 1:36:00how many buzzwords did this woman fit into this part of the article? How
- 1:36:02many? I mean? Well, well, somebody do like a count on
- 1:36:08how many feminist buzzwords crept into this? We'll see, Oh you know where?
- 1:36:16Yeah, where bears and bears and lions and Peterson? Oh my m
- 1:36:23h, well can we what would we place bears and lions with tigers?
- 1:36:28It's it's lions and tigers and bears. Okay, so it's it's um PUAs
- 1:36:33and Mano spheres and petersons in cells and red pills and Peterson Oh my yeah.
- 1:36:42Okay, so I think we'll we'll call it. We'll probably h just
- 1:36:46call it a day, um because my stream is crap. Maybe next time
- 1:36:50we'll finish this off and we'll probably give you a summary of the beginning here
- 1:36:55for everybody who is tuning into the next one, and maybe we'll just use
- 1:36:58Brian since mine, or we'll figure out what's going on with a vast.
- 1:37:02So early you guys got to watch behind the scenes and me trying to log
- 1:37:05into a vast. That was pretty cool. Hopefully the stream will process and
- 1:37:13maybe there won't be interruptions so you'll be able to watch it again, or
- 1:37:16people watch it after this won't run to the same problems we'll see. I
- 1:37:19guess yes, we'll see. Um. I know that with the This is
- 1:37:21why I'm switching back to the normal OBS, because with normal OBS, I
- 1:37:26can record it as it's going, but stream lab doesn't let you, doesn't
- 1:37:30have a record function, So I'm gonna I'm gonna just go back to the
- 1:37:36to the old one, and I think it will be fine anyway. UM,
- 1:37:41always looking for ways to make the streams better so that I'm not blamed
- 1:37:45at least for technical difficulties. But it seems like that might be out of
- 1:37:47our hands. I know you're not blaming me. I blame me, okay,
- 1:37:50man, you know I take responsibility for the shit that I do.
- 1:37:55That's what we're supposed to do. Yep, that's the world we want.
- 1:37:58I don't want to be ya slit so and I also want to take responsibility
- 1:38:02for the shit that I do. And somebody said, do you mean perversity
- 1:38:05or adversity? No, I mean perversity. At some point, you just
- 1:38:09got to recognize that you're pig headed. And the thing is that what what
- 1:38:14feminists don't seem to realize is that pigheadedness produces pretty much every innovation, but
- 1:38:18every human splat after having strapped a rocket to their car and aimed at at
- 1:38:27a cliff into the car. So it's like, yeah, it's it's it's
- 1:38:32both positive and negative. Um, and women have to develop and women specifically
- 1:38:40have to focus on developing it. I think yeah, because I think that
- 1:38:45you'd be amazed at how free you will feel when you start taking responsibility for
- 1:38:49things. Yeah, and you and you try to earn things. You basically
- 1:38:54like you want to do something there, you know you you, as Rocky
- 1:38:58would say, you go the distance. Yeah, well you'll see going the
- 1:39:00distance is important. So while you'll realize that you don't have to live and
- 1:39:05die by other people's opinions of you, which is which I think is a
- 1:39:10lesson that women really need to. Also a cake song, Gee's going he
- 1:39:15is going the distance. You guys probably know that song. Okay, all
- 1:39:19right, so anyway, I guess yeah, let's wrap it up. Okay,
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- 1:39:41show to morow a right, because you guys are hanging out, you and
- 1:39:44Lauren and well, so yeah, not doing a show tomorrow, Mike,
- 1:39:49Doctor Ryer, McCammon, Lauren are going to be here tomorrow morning, and
- 1:39:53I'm gonna hang out with us over the weekend. I don't. I mean,
- 1:39:56we've been talking about doing a meet up. I don't know if anybody
- 1:39:59is in the Virginia area that wants to come to Roanoke or like a neighboring
- 1:40:01state like West Virginia, North Carolina, Washington, DC, whatever, But
- 1:40:08we are going to try to do something. So we're not just going to
- 1:40:12be like getting drunk and stoned and all of that, although that's going to
- 1:40:16be part of it. But well, I haven't seen them in years.
- 1:40:19I haven't seen Lawrence in twenty seventeen. I haven't seen mikes and oh no,
- 1:40:23I'm sorry. I saw her in twenty nineteen kteen to Imi and now
- 1:40:26was the last time I saw Mike too. So we're going to see them
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