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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff you should know, a production of iHeartRadio.
- 0:11Speaker 2: Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh, and there's
- 0:13Speaker 2: shock and it's just us because we don't know where
- 0:16Speaker 2: Jerry is. But that's okay, because this is stuff you
- 0:19Speaker 2: should do.
- 0:20Speaker 1: Oh well, Jerry may have engaged in pseudoside because she's
- 0:27Speaker 1: so tired of working with us. Yeah, then she didn't
- 0:30Speaker 1: want to tell us. Yeah, that's one reason somebody might
- 0:33Speaker 1: want to get out of their life or you know,
- 0:36Speaker 1: not for real. But that's what pseudoside is. It's spaking
- 0:38Speaker 1: your own death.
- 0:40Speaker 2: Yeah, and that definitely does sound like something Jerry would do.
- 0:43Speaker 1: Yeah, Like she couldn't bring herself to tell us, so
- 0:45Speaker 1: she's like, well maybe I could just disappear.
- 0:47Speaker 2: Right, So, yes, pseudoside I'd never known that before. But
- 0:51Speaker 2: pseudo side is a different term for faking your own death,
- 0:55Speaker 2: like pseudo like fake inside death.
- 0:59Speaker 1: That's right.
- 1:00Speaker 2: So I don't think side means death. I think it's
- 1:02Speaker 2: a little worse than that, but you get the point. Yeah,
- 1:05Speaker 2: And I don't remember what brought this up. I just
- 1:08Speaker 2: had this idea to do this one. I don't remember
- 1:10Speaker 2: what it was. But it turns out that there's there's like,
- 1:14Speaker 2: this is a thing. It's not just something you see
- 1:17Speaker 2: in the movies. Like a surprising amount I don't want
- 1:20Speaker 2: to say a lot, but a surprising amount of people
- 1:23Speaker 2: have tried this. Yeah, and it's probable that even more
- 1:27Speaker 2: people have tried it than we think, because the only
- 1:29Speaker 2: ones that we know about are the ones who got caught.
- 1:33Speaker 2: Presumably there's plenty of people out there who tried this
- 1:36Speaker 2: and were was successful.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Yeah, or tried it and failed but didn't get caught.
- 1:42Speaker 2: Okay, sure, Yeah, that's that's a good point too. I
- 1:45Speaker 2: hadn't thought about that one.
- 1:46Speaker 1: As you would say there are three trunches.
- 1:49Speaker 2: That's right. I wouldn't say that because I love myself.
- 1:52Speaker 1: No, but you're the trench master.
- 1:55Speaker 2: Oh that's so like twenty ten. You rather forgot about that.
- 2:00Speaker 2: Can you believe that was fifteen years ago?
- 2:02Speaker 1: Hey, tronches were hot.
- 2:05Speaker 2: Yeah, they were all raged, So why would anybody do this? Chuck?
- 2:09Speaker 2: I think we should start with that.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Well, I mean one of them, I listed get out
- 2:13Speaker 1: of a personal relationship. I mean I was kind of
- 2:15Speaker 1: joking about Jerry, but you know, it would be probably
- 2:19Speaker 1: more like I want to leave my fam, you know,
- 2:23Speaker 1: if it's a movie at least, although this happens real life.
- 2:25Speaker 1: I want to leave my family they're so boring, Yeah,
- 2:28Speaker 1: and go set up another life with this new family
- 2:30Speaker 1: that's going to solve all my problems. It seems like
- 2:35Speaker 1: the most common is probably a financial thing. You're either
- 2:39Speaker 1: have some huge debt you're trying to get out of,
- 2:41Speaker 1: or you're trying to commit insurance fraud to get a
- 2:44Speaker 1: big payout or something, or you've embezzled from your company
- 2:47Speaker 1: or something like that.
- 2:49Speaker 2: Yeah. Apparently, so Olivia helped us out with this, and
- 2:51Speaker 2: she found that there seems to have been an increase
- 2:55Speaker 2: in pseudocides or people getting caught trying their hand at pseudicide,
- 3:00Speaker 2: after the two thousand and eight financial crisis.
- 3:03Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, speaking of tronchias.
- 3:07Speaker 2: So another big one too is if you are about
- 3:11Speaker 2: to be incarcerated for a very long time and I
- 3:13Speaker 2: happen to have let you out on bail, there's a
- 3:16Speaker 2: higher likelihood that you're going to try this than, say,
- 3:21Speaker 2: you know, when you're gainfully employed and you're sitting around
- 3:25Speaker 2: reading the newspaper fairly content.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, very sadly. Of course, one of the
- 3:31Speaker 1: reasons is, like the sleeping with the enemy method, which
- 3:37Speaker 1: is you're trying to escape some sort of abusive situation
- 3:40Speaker 1: in your home, whether it's a spouse or a family
- 3:42Speaker 1: member or something like that.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Right, or you want to frame your wife like in
- 3:47Speaker 2: the movie Double Jeopardy with Ashley Judd.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Yeah, boy, we're is this two thousand and seven?
- 3:54Speaker 2: You know what? This really feels like earlier stuff you
- 3:57Speaker 2: should know type episode. So let's do it. Let's do it.
- 3:59Speaker 2: Try unches everywhere Ashley Judd appearances. I will figure it
- 4:04Speaker 2: out as we go along.
- 4:05Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, our boss is just coming to us and
- 4:07Speaker 1: saying that, like, there's people that want to put commercials
- 4:09Speaker 1: on our podcasts, and we're saying, no, why would we
- 4:11Speaker 1: ever do that?
- 4:12Speaker 2: Yeah, And then the other people are saying, what's a
- 4:14Speaker 2: podcast exactly? So let's see what else. Oh, I think
- 4:21Speaker 2: this one's probably it's pretty niche. But if you're a
- 4:25Speaker 2: lottery winner and you have a bunch of family you
- 4:27Speaker 2: don't care about sure that are coming out of the woodwork,
- 4:30Speaker 2: you might try this as well.
- 4:32Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. And here's the thing. If you have
- 4:35Speaker 1: that kind of dough, I mean, making yourself disappear and
- 4:39Speaker 1: faking your own death is not cheap, as we'll see,
- 4:43Speaker 1: So it is definitely more common for people of great
- 4:46Speaker 1: means to try this kind of thing. First of all,
- 4:49Speaker 1: they may have the money to pull it off, because
- 4:51Speaker 1: it can be expensive to like really do it right
- 4:53Speaker 1: these days. Or if you're the kind of person who
- 4:57Speaker 1: you know, defrauded someone or a company of millions and
- 5:01Speaker 1: millions of dollars, you know, that puts you in a
- 5:04Speaker 1: certain league. I've never had that opportunity to do.
- 5:07Speaker 2: Something like that, for instance, precisely. So, yeah, it's just
- 5:11Speaker 2: kind of a selection bias almost, you know, yeah, totally.
- 5:15Speaker 2: Men also are more likely to try this or at
- 5:18Speaker 2: the very least or are more likely to get caught. Yeah,
- 5:20Speaker 2: and I could see that being the case. Right, We're
- 5:23Speaker 2: in just being yeah, more likely to do it. And
- 5:25Speaker 2: also again probably because the selection bias a little bit,
- 5:29Speaker 2: finance bros are likelier than others to try this or
- 5:33Speaker 2: at least to get caught too.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense with just the risky sort of
- 5:38Speaker 1: you know, maybe they got into that hot water because
- 5:42Speaker 1: you know, this deal that just couldn't be resisted or whatever,
- 5:45Speaker 1: because it's so much money.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Bro Right, it just didn't work out, bro.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Here's another interesting thing, is it is more common for
- 5:56Speaker 1: people to come to the United States to like collect
- 6:00Speaker 1: on an insurance policy, like if you're from another country,
- 6:03Speaker 1: and then just go back to your home country.
- 6:07Speaker 2: Yes, and you just mentioned insurance for the second or
- 6:10Speaker 2: third time. The people who work for insurance companies are
- 6:16Speaker 2: well aware of all of these things that we're rattling
- 6:19Speaker 2: off and more. Oh yeah, because as we'll see later on,
- 6:22Speaker 2: there's a lot of stuff that you could do wrong
- 6:25Speaker 2: that insurance investigator is going to pick up on. We'll
- 6:29Speaker 2: talk more about that, but that's a big part of
- 6:31Speaker 2: this whole thing. It's a big reason people do this
- 6:33Speaker 2: insurance fraud, and it's a big reason people get caught
- 6:36Speaker 2: insurance investigators.
- 6:38Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. And as we'll see, it's way more
- 6:41Speaker 1: common for like the insurance company to hire somebody to
- 6:44Speaker 1: find you rather than the cops to come after you,
- 6:48Speaker 1: because the cops are like, well, you know, surely no
- 6:50Speaker 1: skin off my back, that's right, and the insurance company
- 6:52Speaker 1: is like, well, they just got millions of dollars from us,
- 6:54Speaker 1: so we're gonna We're going to do your job exactly.
- 6:58Speaker 2: We should probably give a pretty big shout out at
- 7:01Speaker 2: the outset here to Elizabeth Greenwood. She's the author. I
- 7:05Speaker 2: think her day job as a creative writing professor at Columbia.
- 7:10Speaker 2: But she wrote a book which, as far as I
- 7:13Speaker 2: can tell, is the most exhaustive look at pseudoside anyone's
- 7:18Speaker 2: ever created. Her book was released in twenty sixteen. It's
- 7:22Speaker 2: Playing Dead, a Journey through the world of death fraud.
- 7:28Speaker 2: And I guess she had a conversation with a friend
- 7:31Speaker 2: about how she could get out of her student debt,
- 7:33Speaker 2: and somebody said, you should fake your own death. She said,
- 7:36Speaker 2: you know, that's a great idea for a book. And
- 7:38Speaker 2: here we are, ipso facto talking about it now.
- 7:42Speaker 1: Yeah, And she actually went through part of the process,
- 7:45Speaker 1: just to actually go through it, to see how hard
- 7:47Speaker 1: or easy or expensive it was to write about it.
- 7:50Speaker 1: She didn't go through with it, but she went as
- 7:52Speaker 1: far as finding out where this is. You know, when
- 7:58Speaker 1: you talk about something sort of unusual like this, seems
- 8:01Speaker 1: like there's always like, oh, well, you need to go
- 8:03Speaker 1: to this place because they just got the market cornered
- 8:07Speaker 1: on that, whether it's like you know, Swiss bank accounts
- 8:10Speaker 1: or offshore accounts, you know, like they have it set
- 8:12Speaker 1: up so you can do this kind of stuff, and
- 8:14Speaker 1: apparently that place for pseudo side is the Philippines.
- 8:18Speaker 2: Yeah, who knew for sure. That's another thing too, If
- 8:22Speaker 2: you died in the Philippines, your insurance claim is going
- 8:25Speaker 2: to get investigated pretty thoroughly just because of that. Yeah.
- 8:30Speaker 2: So Elizabeth Greenwood is not the first person to try this,
- 8:33Speaker 2: but just based on her experience, she found that you
- 8:37Speaker 2: can pretty easily find people who are more than happy
- 8:41Speaker 2: to assist you with this for a fee, and a
- 8:43Speaker 2: relatively cheap fee, especially considering the type of documentation you get.
- 8:48Speaker 2: I think for a couple hundred dollars, you can get
- 8:50Speaker 2: an official death certificate from the Filipino government. And that's
- 8:56Speaker 2: a big part of why the Philippines is so like
- 8:59Speaker 2: the center of all of this, because you're not getting
- 9:03Speaker 2: forged documents, you're getting false official documents. Yeah, because you know,
- 9:08Speaker 2: somebody's got a friend on the inside and they're taking
- 9:10Speaker 2: bribes and like, so you're getting good actual documentation. It's
- 9:14Speaker 2: just all based on falsehoods. But that's not it. It
- 9:17Speaker 2: doesn't end there, Like, just hold your credit card for
- 9:21Speaker 2: another second, because they're gonna double this offer.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's sort of like any service. They're like, well,
- 9:28Speaker 1: if you just want the birth certificate, you can get
- 9:30Speaker 1: that for a couple of hundred bucks. But that's probably
- 9:32Speaker 1: not going to be enough these days. Back in the
- 9:34Speaker 1: old days, that was probably all you needed it. You
- 9:35Speaker 1: should be way easier to get away with this kind
- 9:37Speaker 1: of thing.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Yeah, the driver's licenses didn't even have pictures of them exactly.
- 9:42Speaker 2: It's nuts.
- 9:43Speaker 1: But if you really want to, you know, go through
- 9:45Speaker 1: with like the second tier service, you can get like
- 9:48Speaker 1: a kit that may have a new identity for you,
- 9:51Speaker 1: kuind of have like a new passport in there, new per
- 9:53Speaker 1: certificate maybe something like that. Or if you really want
- 9:56Speaker 1: to go with a like the deluxe package, you can
- 9:59Speaker 1: spend and you know, tens of thousands of dollars to
- 10:03Speaker 1: get somebody like almost like concier service for someone who's like,
- 10:07Speaker 1: I can erase your tracks, I can make it like
- 10:09Speaker 1: you were never here. I can make sure you don't
- 10:12Speaker 1: get caught. I can get people too. We can cook
- 10:16Speaker 1: up a story and I can get witnesses to testify
- 10:19Speaker 1: that they saw this car wreck and pulled your body
- 10:21Speaker 1: out of the wreckage. And you know, we know people
- 10:24Speaker 1: that work in morgues and hospitals, and if you want
- 10:27Speaker 1: to pay the money, we can really really do this thing, right.
- 10:30Speaker 2: Yeah, we can get you an actual dead body.
- 10:33Speaker 1: If you want a dead body, I can get your
- 10:34Speaker 1: dead body by three pm.
- 10:36Speaker 2: Right, and that's gonna probably that's gonna sit in for you.
- 10:40Speaker 2: Apparently this really kind of drives it home. If there's
- 10:44Speaker 2: a kidaver and you're not just missing presumed dead, that's
- 10:47Speaker 2: definitely going to help your your pseudo side become successful.
- 10:52Speaker 2: Like you said, there's black market morgues that essentially, if
- 10:55Speaker 2: you're unidentified or unclaimed in the Philippines, there's a chance
- 11:00Speaker 2: somebody's going to hang on to your body and you
- 11:02Speaker 2: might be sold to fulfill someone's pseudo side attempt. And
- 11:06Speaker 2: it's not just the Philippines either. I saw at least
- 11:10Speaker 2: one story here in Georgia, I think Coffee County, God
- 11:13Speaker 2: knows where that is. Where this I guess an undertaker
- 11:18Speaker 2: at a funeral home had a ton of bodies that
- 11:21Speaker 2: he supposedly buried that he was selling for this reason
- 11:24Speaker 2: or for other reasons. But also this was one of
- 11:26Speaker 2: the things you could buy a body for. And even
- 11:29Speaker 2: like a legitimate funeral home has an incentive to just
- 11:33Speaker 2: kind of be like, uh, yeah, it's nice to meet you, cousin.
- 11:36Speaker 1: Ed.
- 11:37Speaker 2: Just give me the money and you can take this body.
- 11:39Speaker 1: Right, Okay, now I know where we did this. We
- 11:43Speaker 1: did a video about this. Oh yeah, yep, I knew
- 11:47Speaker 1: we had done something, but I looked up the podcast
- 11:49Speaker 1: and we hadn't. We did something. We did some kind
- 11:51Speaker 1: of video on this because it may have just been
- 11:53Speaker 1: centered around the Coffee County thing, because as soon as
- 11:56Speaker 1: you said Coffee County, I was like, wait, there was
- 11:59Speaker 1: a guy there that did this. So yeah, it is
- 12:03Speaker 1: two thousand and eight.
- 12:05Speaker 2: It is all over again. We need to make this
- 12:07Speaker 2: episode twelve minutes long.
- 12:08Speaker 1: Yeah, oh great. Here's my question though. The idea is
- 12:12Speaker 1: that you get this body and have it cremated and
- 12:14Speaker 1: you pass off those human remains or cremains, But how
- 12:18Speaker 1: does that work with DNA? Like, why don't you if
- 12:20Speaker 1: that's the case, why can't you just get cremanes.
- 12:23Speaker 2: I think cremation destroys DNA pretty good.
- 12:26Speaker 1: So why don't they just say, like, here's a bag
- 12:28Speaker 1: of teeth and ashes.
- 12:30Speaker 2: Some people do, Okay, I don't. Yeah, I think so,
- 12:33Speaker 2: Elizabeth Greenwood, those Filipino guys, I guess they're trying to
- 12:36Speaker 2: upsell her, but she said that some like they offer
- 12:41Speaker 2: not just a corpse but a fake funeral. They'll stage
- 12:44Speaker 2: a funeral, a real funeral, but there's like the mourners
- 12:47Speaker 2: there are paid. There's photographs of you know, people at
- 12:51Speaker 2: your funeral that if the insurance company asks for something
- 12:54Speaker 2: like that to document it, you've got it. But she's like,
- 12:57Speaker 2: this is all very unnecessary, just like what you said.
- 13:00Speaker 2: You you just have the cremains, and it's like, well,
- 13:04Speaker 2: you know, what are you going to do? This is
- 13:07Speaker 2: supposedly the dead person. That makes way more sense. It's
- 13:10Speaker 2: way cheaper, it's way less of a hassle. And like
- 13:13Speaker 2: I was saying, some legitimate funeral homes, like if you're
- 13:17Speaker 2: if the laws in your country say, one of the
- 13:19Speaker 2: roles you play is like taking over custody of like
- 13:24Speaker 2: unidentified people, like say a homeless person who dies, you're
- 13:28Speaker 2: responsible for giving them a respectful burial. You go to
- 13:31Speaker 2: one of these places and say, oh, yeah, that's my
- 13:34Speaker 2: that's my cousin, and they're they're going to be like here,
- 13:37Speaker 2: give me some money, and you know you can handle
- 13:40Speaker 2: everything from there.
- 13:41Speaker 1: Yeah, and again, if I mean if you're trying to
- 13:44Speaker 1: commit insurance for all it or something that's going to
- 13:46Speaker 1: ramp up investigatory practice, most certainly from the insurance company,
- 13:50Speaker 1: maybe the cops, depending on kind of what's going on.
- 13:53Speaker 1: And obviously if you're escaping justice stuff like that. But
- 13:56Speaker 1: if that's not what you're doing, if you're just trying
- 13:58Speaker 1: to get out of your life for some like sad reason,
- 14:01Speaker 1: maybe and especially if you go to another country and
- 14:04Speaker 1: do this, law enforcement in America is probably not going
- 14:06Speaker 1: to do anything.
- 14:07Speaker 2: No, they're gonna say god speed because it's not.
- 14:10Speaker 1: A crime specifically, and maybe we should take a break,
- 14:13Speaker 1: and sounds like a good place to leave it a
- 14:16Speaker 1: I agree, all right, we'll be right back after this
- 14:19Speaker 1: with more on sudicide.
- 14:23Speaker 2: Stuff you should know, gosh Man show stuff you should know.
- 14:44Speaker 1: All right, So before we broke, I mentioned before that
- 14:47Speaker 1: it used to be way easier to get away with
- 14:48Speaker 1: this kind of thing. I think this probably happened a
- 14:51Speaker 1: lot more back in the day. As with all crime,
- 14:54Speaker 1: it's just gotten more difficult to get away with that stuff.
- 14:57Speaker 1: Besides DNA facial recogn technology and video cameras on everyone's
- 15:04Speaker 1: front doorstep and the surveillance cameras that cities have employed
- 15:07Speaker 1: all over you know, major cities all over the world.
- 15:10Speaker 1: It's just really hard to not get caught on one
- 15:13Speaker 1: of these eventually, and someone say, hey, the guy going
- 15:17Speaker 1: into that Italian restaurant there is totally my dad. I
- 15:21Speaker 1: would recognize them anywhere.
- 15:23Speaker 2: Right right. I thought those doorstep cameras were to create
- 15:29Speaker 2: a sense of community, like you would find out what
- 15:31Speaker 2: a great person your ups driver. Isn't that what they're for?
- 15:35Speaker 1: I think so? Because they pet your kiddy.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Right, It just tangentially helps to track people who fake
- 15:41Speaker 2: their own death.
- 15:42Speaker 1: Yeah, or too uh in my case to post on
- 15:46Speaker 1: the internet when when squirrels attack is what I call
- 15:48Speaker 1: my show.
- 15:49Speaker 2: It's a great show.
- 15:51Speaker 1: Emily sent me one yesterday. She was like, hey, take
- 15:53Speaker 1: a look at the doorbell came at twelve eleven and
- 15:56Speaker 1: she tripped going up the stairs in a very very
- 16:00Speaker 1: funny way, and so she made sure I saw that.
- 16:02Speaker 2: Are you gonna post it?
- 16:04Speaker 1: No?
- 16:04Speaker 2: No, no, no, you should post it to Yakity Sachs.
- 16:07Speaker 2: I might do that actually one of the So, yeah,
- 16:11Speaker 2: there's a lot of ways that you can get caught
- 16:13Speaker 2: these days, in ways you might not have thought of.
- 16:16Speaker 2: Here's a word to the wise. If you're going to
- 16:19Speaker 2: try to stage your death, and everybody who has anything
- 16:23Speaker 2: to do with the research of this article says, don't bother.
- 16:27Speaker 2: You're going to screw it up. Probably you had better
- 16:31Speaker 2: researched every single aspect you can possibly think of and
- 16:37Speaker 2: started a long time before. It would really help if
- 16:41Speaker 2: you had thought about this ten years ago. Yeah, the
- 16:45Speaker 2: best time to start planning your pseudo side is ten
- 16:49Speaker 2: years ago. The second best time is today. But it's
- 16:52Speaker 2: not really a good time. Second best. That's the old saying.
- 16:58Speaker 2: But if you started thinking about it ten years ago,
- 17:01Speaker 2: you could have really actually given this identity your new
- 17:05Speaker 2: false identity legs by like getting credit cards in its name,
- 17:08Speaker 2: building a credit history. Like it would be way easier
- 17:12Speaker 2: to step into that life than say, like, you know,
- 17:15Speaker 2: for figuring out what tour is and then buying like
- 17:18Speaker 2: a false identity the same day. You want to plan
- 17:21Speaker 2: it better than that.
- 17:22Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like in movies a lot of times,
- 17:24Speaker 1: that's the giveaway is they'll they'll be like, well, you
- 17:27Speaker 1: don't have any credit history, and I really can't find
- 17:30Speaker 1: anything about you. But if you've got a you know,
- 17:34Speaker 1: a list of cable bills and a credit history and
- 17:39Speaker 1: stuff that goes back, you know, ten years. It's like
- 17:43Speaker 1: just having your ID isn't enough if you have a
- 17:47Speaker 1: history already built up. I mean, this guy was an
- 17:49Speaker 1: artist in twenty thirteen named Curtis Wallin who did it
- 17:54Speaker 1: a sort of performance art, like as a project, and
- 17:57Speaker 1: he created an alter ego, and he got a driver's license,
- 18:00Speaker 1: He got an ID certifying him as a member of
- 18:03Speaker 1: a indigenous Native American tribe. He got a boat operator's license.
- 18:08Speaker 1: Like that, that's kind of a deep cut, I think, yeah.
- 18:11Speaker 2: I think so too. I think, you know, that's the
- 18:14Speaker 2: kind of thing where you like, would a fake person
- 18:17Speaker 2: have a boat operator's license.
- 18:18Speaker 1: For a decade exactly? He got insurance, Like if you
- 18:22Speaker 1: have all this stuff, then all of a sudden, you're
- 18:24Speaker 1: just not as suspicious. I think no.
- 18:28Speaker 2: He went even further, too, Like he disguised his his look.
- 18:34Speaker 2: I guess yeah, by I guess so yeah, for like
- 18:39Speaker 2: your ID, because it would be very easy for somebody
- 18:43Speaker 2: to scan a database of driver's licenses looking for somebody's face.
- 18:48Speaker 2: That's easy pasy these days. But what he did was
- 18:51Speaker 2: he took his driver's license photo and then merged it
- 18:54Speaker 2: with a couple other people's features to create an entirely
- 18:58Speaker 2: synthetic new person. That's what he used for his photo.
- 19:02Speaker 2: I guess it was close enough that if you showed
- 19:05Speaker 2: it to somebody that wouldn't be like, what is this
- 19:07Speaker 2: weird thing? He looks like a Picasso, but like it
- 19:12Speaker 2: would still fool facial recognition.
- 19:15Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and of course, like you said, he's photoshopped.
- 19:17Speaker 1: These days, it could be very easily done with AI
- 19:19Speaker 1: much quicker.
- 19:20Speaker 2: Sure, I'm old school, though, remember this is twenty ten.
- 19:24Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. This new photoshop thing is amazing, isn't it.
- 19:28Speaker 2: It is? And I don't know what the heck you
- 19:30Speaker 2: mean by AI.
- 19:31Speaker 1: Someone's going to write and be like photoshopple is created
- 19:33Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety seven.
- 19:35Speaker 2: It probably was, actually, yeah, probably somewhere in the nineties.
- 19:38Speaker 1: He also the way he started all this was created
- 19:41Speaker 1: an email address. You know, it seems pretty logical. He's
- 19:46Speaker 1: the private tour browser and he got in touch with
- 19:48Speaker 1: someone on Craigslist anonymously and said, I want to buy
- 19:51Speaker 1: this computer. I want to pay cash. Cash, as you'll see,
- 19:53Speaker 1: is a big part of all this. Yes, anytime you
- 19:56Speaker 1: want to do this, have a lot of cash. On hand,
- 19:58Speaker 1: we're not instructing you on how to do this.
- 20:00Speaker 2: No, it's kind of coming out that way though, huh
- 20:02Speaker 2: it is.
- 20:03Speaker 1: And again, if you're doing something like this, you're either
- 20:07Speaker 1: a bad person who's done something we were wrong, or
- 20:09Speaker 1: you've had something done very wrong to you, which is
- 20:11Speaker 1: very sad. So again we're not making light of it.
- 20:14Speaker 1: But he bought that computer with cash. He sort of
- 20:18Speaker 1: disguised himself when he met up, and then he used
- 20:21Speaker 1: more cash to buy a bitcoin at a computer shop
- 20:25Speaker 1: like a brick and mortar store. So bitcoin is obviously,
- 20:29Speaker 1: you know, converting if you have holdings or whatever you
- 20:32Speaker 1: want to convert to bitcoin, that's a or cash. It's
- 20:36Speaker 1: a better way to do it than obviously having that
- 20:39Speaker 1: in your name, but that's very hard to do these days.
- 20:43Speaker 1: Like everything can be tracked and traced so much easier now.
- 20:45Speaker 2: Yeah, including bitcoin. Although the bitcoin transactions themselves are anonymous,
- 20:50Speaker 2: that or who's buying what is anonymous, the actual transition
- 20:55Speaker 2: transaction is public and it's publicly listed in the bitcoin blockchain.
- 21:02Speaker 2: And you if your real name is associated somewhere down
- 21:06Speaker 2: the line with say your bitcoin wallet, and the feds
- 21:09Speaker 2: track a bitcoin to go to your wallet. They know
- 21:11Speaker 2: that you have just bought a bitcoin, and so they
- 21:13Speaker 2: can follow you and see what you do with that bitcoin.
- 21:15Speaker 2: So it's really really hard, even with cryptocurrency to remain anonymous,
- 21:21Speaker 2: which is another reason that you would want to do
- 21:24Speaker 2: this years ahead of time. You mentioned buying everything with cash.
- 21:29Speaker 2: You don't want to on the day before you disappear
- 21:33Speaker 2: and like allegedly die. You don't want to clean out
- 21:36Speaker 2: your bank accounts. That's a big, big red flag. That
- 21:40Speaker 2: is bush league, right, Yeah.
- 21:43Speaker 1: Twenties and hundreds will be fine. Just put it in
- 21:46Speaker 1: this garbage sack.
- 21:48Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, don't look at me.
- 21:50Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 21:51Speaker 2: So, yeah, you want to have been socking away cash,
- 21:54Speaker 2: maybe burying it in mason jars in your yard, who knows,
- 21:57Speaker 2: while you also have your regular, legitimate bank accounts that
- 22:01Speaker 2: you do not touch when you leave. Because dead people
- 22:05Speaker 2: don't withdraw a bunch of money but from their accounts
- 22:08Speaker 2: the day before they die. It's just a bad look.
- 22:11Speaker 2: So it's another reason to start planning this long ahead
- 22:13Speaker 2: of time if you have any any opportunity to.
- 22:16Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean, like you know, we've listed a
- 22:18Speaker 1: bunch of ways you can get caught. It turns out
- 22:20Speaker 1: that the way most people get caught when they attempt
- 22:24Speaker 1: a pseudo side is getting in touch with someone from
- 22:27Speaker 1: their previous life. Yeah, if this is the kind of
- 22:30Speaker 1: thing you want to do, you have to. And this
- 22:32Speaker 1: is how it plays out in the movies too. I
- 22:33Speaker 1: feel like you got to really really commit to this
- 22:36Speaker 1: and decide, like i Am never gonna see my kids again,
- 22:40Speaker 1: or I'm never gonna call my mom on her birthday
- 22:43Speaker 1: or anything. You have to completely disappear from that life
- 22:46Speaker 1: because especially once again, I hate to say it again,
- 22:51Speaker 1: these days, it's very easy to track email and phone
- 22:56Speaker 1: calls and everything else, and it's gonna be very easy
- 22:58Speaker 1: if you put in that birthday call the mom just
- 23:00Speaker 1: one last time, a year after you're dead.
- 23:02Speaker 2: Yep, they'll be like, your your toast man, we caught you.
- 23:06Speaker 2: Yeah there was another one. Did you mention the pet chip?
- 23:11Speaker 1: No, but yeah, that's one you probably might not be
- 23:14Speaker 1: thinking of.
- 23:15Speaker 2: Yeah, you could easily overlook something like that. Let's say
- 23:17Speaker 2: you take your dog or your cat with you, right,
- 23:19Speaker 2: you took them out on the boat and the boat capsize,
- 23:21Speaker 2: So sure they're dead too if they're micro chipped. You
- 23:26Speaker 2: might have forgotten that you ever had a microchip. Your
- 23:28Speaker 2: pet can pretty easily be tracked, and if they track
- 23:31Speaker 2: down your pet, they're going to track you down too.
- 23:32Speaker 1: So good point.
- 23:33Speaker 2: Yes, I think if we're if we're if we're getting
- 23:36Speaker 2: across that this is really hard to do successfully, I
- 23:40Speaker 2: feel like then you know we're really achieving our goal.
- 23:43Speaker 1: Yeah, but again I'm not I'm not gonna feel too
- 23:46Speaker 1: bad about giving semi instruction here because believe it or not,
- 23:50Speaker 1: it's not a crime. Usually stuff you do to get
- 23:55Speaker 1: away with this as a crime, it could be. And
- 24:00Speaker 1: just put like insurance fraud aside that maybe the reason
- 24:03Speaker 1: you're doing it, but the actual doing it, the act
- 24:06Speaker 1: of doing it, you're probably gonna be breaking some laws,
- 24:09Speaker 1: even if it's just like fake dental records or any
- 24:14Speaker 1: kind of untrue. Even writing a fake suicide letter could
- 24:18Speaker 1: be considered forgery or fraud, I guess. And then if
- 24:22Speaker 1: you take on a new identity, that's identity fraud, right,
- 24:25Speaker 1: even if you're not like, it's not identity theft, that
- 24:27Speaker 1: which is different, even if you're not stealing someone else's identity,
- 24:30Speaker 1: like done, Well, I'm not gonna spoil something from a
- 24:35Speaker 1: TV show, oh, because it's two thousand and eight almost
- 24:38Speaker 1: blurted it out, but I don't want to do that.
- 24:40Speaker 2: But Don Johnson from Miami Vice.
- 24:42Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, let's just say that all A said is
- 24:44Speaker 1: done like stealing someone's identity, like let's say like you
- 24:48Speaker 1: were in the army with or let's go ahead and
- 24:50Speaker 1: ruin the Simpsons principal Skinner did.
- 24:52Speaker 2: That, right, Yeah, Harmon Tansarian. Yeah, you know what.
- 24:58Speaker 1: My favorite my favorite line from that.
- 25:00Speaker 2: I was about to say to you, go ahead there,
- 25:03Speaker 2: what if.
- 25:03Speaker 1: It's the same line, wouldn't that be it is? Do
- 25:05Speaker 1: you think it is ahead with the superintendent or whatever?
- 25:09Speaker 1: Uh huh, he says, I'd like to introduce our but
- 25:12Speaker 1: our new principal Seymore Skinner. Principal Seymore Skinner something like that.
- 25:18Speaker 2: Yeah, very fun. That was a weird episode.
- 25:22Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed.
- 25:23Speaker 2: So you said that if you steal someone's identity, like
- 25:26Speaker 2: that's obviously a crime. For sure. If you make up
- 25:30Speaker 2: a completely false identity like you didn't steal it from anybody,
- 25:35Speaker 2: it's just completely made up, you're still eventually going to
- 25:39Speaker 2: make a crime.
- 25:40Speaker 1: Well, I mean that's that's what I said. That's identity fraud.
- 25:43Speaker 2: Okay, So even if you even so you said that
- 25:45Speaker 2: even if it's just totally made up, it's still identity fraud.
- 25:49Speaker 2: I did, sir, okay, good, because yes, eventually you're going
- 25:52Speaker 2: to have to legalize it and want to do that.
- 25:55Speaker 2: You're in trouble. There's a lot of laws you're suddenly breaking.
- 25:59Speaker 2: The thing is, though, is there is something you said
- 26:02Speaker 2: earlier about the cops is kind of being like they
- 26:04Speaker 2: can't really be bothered depending on how well you execute
- 26:09Speaker 2: this and where you go, Like say you move to
- 26:12Speaker 2: another country, it's gonna be tough for the cops to
- 26:18Speaker 2: track you, even if they really want to. Everyone who's
- 26:23Speaker 2: ever seen a movie like Beverly Hills copp or whatever
- 26:26Speaker 2: knows that the captain is going to be on that
- 26:28Speaker 2: detective's butt to clear that case and go ahead and
- 26:31Speaker 2: move on to the other ones because they have a backlog.
- 26:34Speaker 2: So they're not going to track you to New Zealand.
- 26:36Speaker 2: They're just gonna have to like move on, get another
- 26:40Speaker 2: take on another case. It's maybe a little closer that
- 26:42Speaker 2: doesn't involve New Zealand. But again, if it has anything
- 26:46Speaker 2: to do with insurance fraud, there's probably going to be
- 26:49Speaker 2: an insurance investigator who will show up in New Zealand
- 26:53Speaker 2: disguised as a sheep and then pounce the moment that
- 26:56Speaker 2: you walk past.
- 26:58Speaker 1: Yeah, or if it's not in certainly, if you have
- 27:01Speaker 1: defrauded a corporation or a bank or something like that
- 27:05Speaker 1: for like tens of millions or maybe even hundreds of
- 27:08Speaker 1: millions of dollars, right, they'll they'll hire some pis to
- 27:12Speaker 1: get on that case. Pretty toot sweet for sure.
- 27:15Speaker 2: And since this is two thousand and eight, twenty ten,
- 27:18Speaker 2: I got to give the obligatory shout out to magnum
- 27:20Speaker 2: p I.
- 27:21Speaker 1: Right, that's right, because that's when he was most popular.
- 27:25Speaker 2: Well, that's when I loved him the most.
- 27:27Speaker 1: No, uh is your love Wane?
- 27:30Speaker 2: I think I just started taking him for granted, same
- 27:33Speaker 2: old story.
- 27:34Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand happenstallars in a long relationship.
- 27:39Speaker 2: You want to take another break.
- 27:41Speaker 1: Yeah, let's take a break and we'll maybe we'll dive
- 27:43Speaker 1: into that what an insurance company might do to find you?
- 27:46Speaker 1: How about that?
- 27:47Speaker 2: Oh? Good idea stuff you should know, Josh, and shock
- 27:59Speaker 2: stuff you should know. Okay, so we're back, and you
- 28:13Speaker 2: said you promised everybody without consulting me first, that we
- 28:17Speaker 2: would start talking about what life insurance companies will do
- 28:20Speaker 2: to find you.
- 28:21Speaker 1: Yes, I guess we could start talking a little bit
- 28:24Speaker 1: about what might like what might trigger this as far
- 28:28Speaker 1: as an insurance company saying like, all right, we definitely
- 28:30Speaker 1: need to use our own resources here, aside from cops
- 28:33Speaker 1: saying that they're not going to help out much. And
- 28:35Speaker 1: that is the first trigger is if your policy has
- 28:39Speaker 1: a payout over a million bucks, they'll be like, all right,
- 28:42Speaker 1: that that's worth our time and money.
- 28:44Speaker 2: Yeah, that's apparently they think of basically any payout under
- 28:47Speaker 2: a million dollars of small potatoes.
- 28:49Speaker 1: So yeah, so so mister Clark, No, his was just
- 28:53Speaker 1: nine hundred ninety nine, nine hundred ninety nine dollars a
- 28:56Speaker 1: ninety nine cents. Just exactly brush that one aside.
- 28:59Speaker 2: Forget about it. Yeah. Basically, anytime your death is sudden, unexpected,
- 29:04Speaker 2: or suspicious in any way, they're going to they're going
- 29:06Speaker 2: to investigate, not necessarily because they think you've committed death fraud,
- 29:10Speaker 2: but because they need to investigate anyway to rule out
- 29:14Speaker 2: something like suicide, because there might be an exception for
- 29:16Speaker 2: suicide on your policy. Yeah, that's a big one. They
- 29:20Speaker 2: also look for inconsistencies, if there's any kind of inconsistency
- 29:25Speaker 2: on say like your driver's license or your death certificate
- 29:29Speaker 2: or something like that, that's going to catch their attention too.
- 29:31Speaker 2: This is all just preliminary stuff they're looking at before
- 29:34Speaker 2: they really decide to get involved in an investigation.
- 29:37Speaker 1: Even. Yeah, you mentioned the Philippines as being like the
- 29:40Speaker 1: biggest red flag, but really any claim involving a death
- 29:43Speaker 1: in a foreign country is going to get investigated. Just
- 29:47Speaker 1: to sort of dot the eyes and cross the t's,
- 29:52Speaker 1: maybe they might be a little suspicious, but it definitely
- 29:54Speaker 1: will get investigated. And also, if you're like everything just
- 30:00Speaker 1: send everything to my PO box, that's that's a pretty
- 30:04Speaker 1: big red flag.
- 30:06Speaker 2: Yeah, or even like a friend's address would be a
- 30:09Speaker 2: red flag as well. What else, if you're super thirsty
- 30:13Speaker 2: for a life insurance policy and they find out that
- 30:16Speaker 2: you've applied with a bunch of different carriers all at
- 30:19Speaker 2: the same time, that's going to raise red flags, especially
- 30:23Speaker 2: if the payout is substantially disproportionate to your net worth.
- 30:29Speaker 2: So you're worth three hundred thousand dollars or fifty thousand dollars,
- 30:33Speaker 2: but the payout is like ten million dollars. That's just
- 30:37Speaker 2: by virtue of that being very tantalizing. It's going to
- 30:40Speaker 2: be it's going to be a red flag.
- 30:42Speaker 1: Yeah, here's a pretty good one that I didn't think about.
- 30:46Speaker 1: If they'll look up their insurance client or whatever and
- 30:49Speaker 1: they'll be like, this is weird. Josh Clark went and
- 30:52Speaker 1: picked up a year's worth of his heart medication all
- 30:56Speaker 1: at once, and then right after that went to visit
- 30:59Speaker 1: one of his relative that he hasn't visited in a decade.
- 31:02Speaker 1: So this sounds a little shady to me.
- 31:05Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to take that medicine because my heart's
- 31:08Speaker 2: so big and tender.
- 31:10Speaker 1: Right, I know that you just have to. It would
- 31:12Speaker 1: burst out of your chest otherwise.
- 31:15Speaker 2: And then also there's some missteps that people who try
- 31:19Speaker 2: this often make. One is staying in the same city.
- 31:24Speaker 2: That's fine, bogglingly dumb if you're trying to fake your
- 31:27Speaker 2: own death.
- 31:29Speaker 1: Yeah, if I were to do this, I guarantee no
- 31:33Speaker 1: one would find me.
- 31:34Speaker 2: No, because you wouldn't do it like you're lazy.
- 31:37Speaker 1: I could disappear into another country quite well, I think.
- 31:41Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean you're pretty famous. Come on, not
- 31:46Speaker 2: that famous, you're famous enough that somebody would knarck on you.
- 31:50Speaker 1: So if I just went well, I'm not going to
- 31:52Speaker 1: say the country, just in case I want to keep
- 31:53Speaker 1: you in this pocket.
- 31:54Speaker 2: I was thinking that too, man, after all the research
- 31:57Speaker 2: I've been doing, that is surely just hanging around in
- 32:00Speaker 2: my browser history. If I ever tried to fake my death,
- 32:04Speaker 2: it would be pretty obvious that I tried it, just
- 32:06Speaker 2: from all the research for this one.
- 32:08Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, you also don't want to, Like, there's
- 32:12Speaker 1: lots of e mistakes you can make, like electronic mistakes,
- 32:15Speaker 1: whether it's cell phone stuff or googling yourself from an
- 32:20Speaker 1: Internet cafe in the Philippines or you know, stuff like
- 32:25Speaker 1: that that could get you pinched.
- 32:27Speaker 2: Yeah. And then also if your new identity is pretty
- 32:32Speaker 2: close to your old identity, that might be you might
- 32:36Speaker 2: want to go slightly further to the left or the
- 32:39Speaker 2: right for your new identity, not even politically, I just mean,
- 32:42Speaker 2: like veer, oh.
- 32:44Speaker 1: I didn't think about that. If you adopt a complete
- 32:46Speaker 1: if you're known for being like whatever, like a maga Republican,
- 32:51Speaker 1: and you adopt the new identity as this progressive liberal,
- 32:54Speaker 1: pretty smart move. Probably.
- 32:55Speaker 2: Yeah. There's this guy named Josh Clark who is a
- 32:58Speaker 2: Republican that who I think is in the Georgia House.
- 33:02Speaker 2: I could just take over his life, yeah and still
- 33:06Speaker 2: be Josh Clark, but a totally different Josh Clark. Yeah,
- 33:11Speaker 2: what else, Chuck anything, I mean, those are all the
- 33:14Speaker 2: things that would trigger like an insurance investigation pretty much.
- 33:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 33:17Speaker 2: Yeah, yes. So, like we said, Chuck, this is like
- 33:21Speaker 2: this happens. People do this, and when they get caught,
- 33:24Speaker 2: it makes the news. So there's pretty good documentation of
- 33:27Speaker 2: people all over the world trying this. One that comes
- 33:31Speaker 2: up quite a bit as a German student who in
- 33:34Speaker 2: nineteen eighty four was twenty four years old. Her name
- 33:37Speaker 2: was Petra Pezzika. Yeah, and she went missing from Brownschwig
- 33:43Speaker 2: Brown Schweig, Germany. I'm not doing very well with this.
- 33:47Speaker 1: No, that's perfect.
- 33:48Speaker 2: Brown Schweig makes me hungry for some sort of sausage.
- 33:52Speaker 1: Yeah, it totally sounds sausage. Yeah. So she was reported
- 33:57Speaker 1: missing right in nineteen eighty four. She's twenty four at
- 33:59Speaker 1: the time, I think you said. And at a certain
- 34:03Speaker 1: point police got a guy that confessed to her murder.
- 34:07Speaker 1: So that was like a case closed kind of situation,
- 34:10Speaker 1: even though the body wasn't found and the guy later
- 34:12Speaker 1: said I actually did not kill her. He recanted his confession.
- 34:17Speaker 1: So she was declared dead dead dead about five years
- 34:20Speaker 1: later in eighty nine, and lived quite a while with
- 34:23Speaker 1: a sort of hidden identity.
- 34:26Speaker 2: Yeah, she finally got caught. She had turned. It turns
- 34:30Speaker 2: out she had been living by working, being paid under
- 34:35Speaker 2: the table. She seems to have had like no credit
- 34:39Speaker 2: or any any need for anything like that. She was
- 34:41Speaker 2: just living a very modest, quiet life, paying for everything
- 34:44Speaker 2: with cash. So she got away with this for more
- 34:47Speaker 2: than twenty five years, and she was burgled. At some
- 34:51Speaker 2: point she called the cops, and I guess, just as routine,
- 34:55Speaker 2: they asked to see her ID and she hadn't bothered
- 34:58Speaker 2: to get any other kind of So she's like, you
- 35:01Speaker 2: caught me. I'm Petra Pazika, And they said, we've been
- 35:04Speaker 2: looking for you forever. And apparently they did not press
- 35:08Speaker 2: any charges because they couldn't find any crime that she'd
- 35:11Speaker 2: actually broken. She didn't defraud anybody, she hadn't gotten any
- 35:15Speaker 2: false documents. She just left her life essentially. No one
- 35:19Speaker 2: knows why. That's the weird thing.
- 35:21Speaker 1: Yeah, so they said guten tog and they left. I guess.
- 35:24Speaker 2: Yeah. But even after her being found out and being
- 35:28Speaker 2: in like the story being huge international news. She just
- 35:33Speaker 2: wouldn't say why she did that. She just said, I
- 35:35Speaker 2: don't want to contact my family. Yeah.
- 35:38Speaker 1: And there are other cases too where police have, like
- 35:42Speaker 1: in the interview or whatever, found out why and don't
- 35:46Speaker 1: release that to the public, like it's probably some sort
- 35:48Speaker 1: of really sad, tragic situation. And I've seen police statements
- 35:52Speaker 1: where they're like, you know, we had an interview and
- 35:55Speaker 1: we understand why this happened, but there were no crimes committed,
- 35:58Speaker 1: and why it happened is NONEYA.
- 36:00Speaker 2: Yeah, I think this is not actually that case I
- 36:04Speaker 2: saw somewhere if I'm not mistaken that her family was
- 36:06Speaker 2: baffled by why she left and why she didn't want
- 36:09Speaker 2: to see them.
- 36:10Speaker 1: No, no, no, this was I wasn't talking about this one.
- 36:12Speaker 2: Oh okay yeah yeah, yeah for sure. And hats off
- 36:15Speaker 2: to any cop that protects somebody like that, you.
- 36:17Speaker 1: Know, totally. I'll mention this one. This guy Sam Israel
- 36:23Speaker 1: the third, he was a hedge fund manager and he
- 36:27Speaker 1: was you know, this is one of those deals where
- 36:30Speaker 1: he stole three hundred million dollars, was sentenced to prison
- 36:34Speaker 1: a couple of decades in prison, So it was one
- 36:37Speaker 1: of those back up against the wall. I'm going to jail,
- 36:39Speaker 1: and I'm in debt up to my eyeballs now, or
- 36:43Speaker 1: I guess that even wouldn't count as debt anymore when
- 36:44Speaker 1: you're going to prison. That's just you know, you were
- 36:46Speaker 1: found out, sure, And in June two thousand and eight,
- 36:49Speaker 1: he wrote a message suicide is painless, and the pollen
- 36:54Speaker 1: on his suv can She kind of traced it out
- 36:57Speaker 1: and jumped from a bridge and New York State very
- 37:01Speaker 1: conveniently landing on that construction net below that is so scary,
- 37:06Speaker 1: pretty scary, but I guess you know it. You know
- 37:09Speaker 1: that's there to catch people. I guess sure. So he
- 37:13Speaker 1: went to that very specific bridge for that reason, and
- 37:15Speaker 1: security cameras caught him literally getting up in another car
- 37:20Speaker 1: in an SUV that pulled up and like, you know,
- 37:24Speaker 1: the sound was off, but I'm sure they heard like wooo,
- 37:27Speaker 1: we did it, and like they honked their horn, and
- 37:31Speaker 1: they got in touch with his girlfriend, arrested her as
- 37:33Speaker 1: a possible accomplice. He was on the most wanted list
- 37:37Speaker 1: because it was, you know, pretty clear what had happened
- 37:38Speaker 1: to that point, and he got found out because he
- 37:41Speaker 1: called his mom.
- 37:42Speaker 2: Who said, you need to turn yourself in. This is
- 37:46Speaker 2: a terrible idea and you were a terrible, terrible pseudocyitist.
- 37:50Speaker 1: Yeah, you did not do that, and it seemed you know,
- 37:53Speaker 1: here's some other advice is if you do this, like,
- 37:56Speaker 1: don't go off to dinner to celebrate the next night,
- 37:57Speaker 1: because a few people get caught at at dinner it
- 38:01Speaker 1: seems like.
- 38:01Speaker 2: Yeah, that actually that does happen to a surprising degree.
- 38:06Speaker 2: My favorite is John Stonehouse, who was a huge This
- 38:10Speaker 2: was a big deal in the UK in the mid
- 38:12Speaker 2: seventies because he was a member of parliament and in
- 38:15Speaker 2: nineteen seventy four he went missing off the coast of
- 38:18Speaker 2: Miami when he went for a swim. Oh that was
- 38:21Speaker 2: one other thing. If you are if you disappear in
- 38:24Speaker 2: the water, you're automatically going to get investigated by an
- 38:26Speaker 2: insurance company because it is just so, yes, it is so.
- 38:33Speaker 2: He went. This is before that, though he made it
- 38:36Speaker 2: to Australia, he ran off with his secretary and as
- 38:40Speaker 2: he while he was dead in parliament, people started raising
- 38:44Speaker 2: allegations against him. One was that he had enemies in
- 38:49Speaker 2: the mafia. Another was that he was a spy for Czechoslovakia.
- 38:54Speaker 2: That turned out to be true weirdly, and then finally
- 38:58Speaker 2: a woman came forward and later on and said, this
- 39:02Speaker 2: guy came to my house was he said he was
- 39:05Speaker 2: a census taker, a survey taker, and he started asking
- 39:08Speaker 2: really weird questions about my husband, like did he ever
- 39:12Speaker 2: have a passport? So eventually he was found I think
- 39:16Speaker 2: in Australia and a months later, Yeah, he just had
- 39:21Speaker 2: he had to come forward and basically tell everybody what
- 39:24Speaker 2: had happened, right.
- 39:25Speaker 1: Yeah, And well, I guess it's not funny, but the movie,
- 39:30Speaker 1: I'm sorry, the I guess the novel I don't think
- 39:32Speaker 1: the movie had come out yet. Day of the Jackal
- 39:35Speaker 1: by Frederick Forsyth had been published a few years before,
- 39:38Speaker 1: and it appears that he literally kind of followed the
- 39:41Speaker 1: steps of how to obtain a False identity from that book,
- 39:45Speaker 1: kind of note by note.
- 39:46Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why he was asking about the passport. He
- 39:49Speaker 2: took a constituent's name who had never had a passport
- 39:52Speaker 2: and then got a passport in his name.
- 39:53Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I'll pick one more for me. In
- 39:59Speaker 1: two thousand and nine, that was he was a guy
- 40:01Speaker 1: in his mid thirties from Indianapolis, a money manager manager
- 40:04Speaker 1: named Marcus Shrinker. He staged a plane crash. He was
- 40:09Speaker 1: trying to get out of lawsuits and divorce proceedings, and
- 40:14Speaker 1: he got a bunch of cash, put it in his
- 40:16Speaker 1: motorcycle saddle bags, went to Alabama, put it in a
- 40:20Speaker 1: storage facility, so he had the cash kind of worked out.
- 40:23Speaker 1: Then he took his very small, little single prop airplane
- 40:27Speaker 1: from his house in Indiana and was flying above Alabama
- 40:31Speaker 1: radios to air traffic control that you know, he's going down,
- 40:34Speaker 1: something's wrong. He does a dB Cooper, he parachutes out.
- 40:38Speaker 1: The plane crashes in Florida, and the next day he
- 40:41Speaker 1: emails his friend and tells him what he did.
- 40:45Speaker 2: Brah Man. That's yeah. We could keep going on. There's
- 40:49Speaker 2: a lot of these, but those are I think those
- 40:50Speaker 2: are some of the highlights, don't you.
- 40:52Speaker 1: Yeah. We should probably close by talking about another kind
- 40:56Speaker 1: of pseudo side, which is a faked online desk. It's
- 41:02Speaker 1: usually not like an insurance fraud or anything like that,
- 41:05Speaker 1: but it's a symptom of what they used to call
- 41:08Speaker 1: Munkow's and syndrome, and now they call it FD or
- 41:12Speaker 1: factitious disorder again. Previously Munkhow's and syndrome where you will
- 41:16Speaker 1: try and get you know, it's tied into mental illness,
- 41:22Speaker 1: but it's a disorder where you're trying to get sympathy
- 41:25Speaker 1: by playing sick, or faking sick or actually having sometimes
- 41:30Speaker 1: real symptoms of something, but you're not sick, right, And
- 41:34Speaker 1: this is taking that one step further, which is to
- 41:36Speaker 1: get that sort of attention that you're craving or whatever
- 41:39Speaker 1: you're after through actually faking an online death. And it's
- 41:42Speaker 1: happened in some pretty high profile cases.
- 41:45Speaker 2: Yeah, it has. And to be clear, this is way
- 41:48Speaker 2: different from somebody trying to defraud an insurance company or
- 41:51Speaker 2: escape from an abusive spouse. This is strictly because they
- 41:56Speaker 2: want attention, they want sympathy, and or they want to
- 42:00Speaker 2: control other people and manipulate them. It's way different. There's a,
- 42:05Speaker 2: like you said, a very high profile one that happened
- 42:07Speaker 2: in at the dawn of the Internet. People have been
- 42:10Speaker 2: doing this essentially since there was an internet. A woman,
- 42:15Speaker 2: a teenager, a basketball star named Casey Nicole.
- 42:19Speaker 1: Remember this.
- 42:21Speaker 2: She was a I guess kind of like a little
- 42:23Speaker 2: star of chat forums and that kind of thing, had
- 42:27Speaker 2: a big kind of support group online, and she had leukemia.
- 42:33Speaker 2: So she posted about her her disease and decline from
- 42:39Speaker 2: it that was started in nineteen ninety nine and in
- 42:43Speaker 2: two thousand and one. In May of two thousand and one,
- 42:46Speaker 2: there was a notice that appeared on her blog that
- 42:48Speaker 2: said that she had passed away and people were just
- 42:52Speaker 2: stricken by this.
- 42:53Speaker 1: Yeah, I do remember this happening. It was pretty big
- 42:56Speaker 1: in the news at the time because again it Donnie Internet,
- 43:00Speaker 1: so people are like, what is the Internet being used
- 43:02Speaker 1: for already? So some of her followers had previously, you know,
- 43:08Speaker 1: saw some sort of hinky things going on in her stories.
- 43:12Speaker 1: Some of the medical stuff wasn't really making much sense
- 43:15Speaker 1: as far as like how leukemia progresses. And then apparently
- 43:19Speaker 1: she would quote a bunch of song lyrics that were
- 43:22Speaker 1: not from her generation, which isn't the biggest giveaway, you know,
- 43:26Speaker 1: you can listen to music from any generation, but it
- 43:28Speaker 1: just just shady enough, combined with the other stuff that
- 43:30Speaker 1: were like, why is this teenager quoting you know, songs
- 43:33Speaker 1: from the sixties all of us, you know, all over the.
- 43:35Speaker 2: Place, right. I didn't look deeply enough into it to
- 43:39Speaker 2: find out how she was finally outed, but a forty
- 43:42Speaker 2: year old woman named Debbie Swinson admitted that she was
- 43:46Speaker 2: behind the whole thing that Casey Nicole had never existed.
- 43:49Speaker 2: She stole the photo of a local girl basketball stars
- 43:53Speaker 2: picture her photo and used that as Casey, And I
- 43:59Speaker 2: mean that was that. Like, I guess the police department
- 44:02Speaker 2: told the FBI about it, and the FBI is like, no,
- 44:04Speaker 2: we're not going to investigate this. She didn't actually defraud
- 44:07Speaker 2: anybody or make any money off of it. She just
- 44:09Speaker 2: probably needs a little bit of help. Yeah, so that's
- 44:14Speaker 2: bad enough. Saying that, creating a fictitious teenager who's dying
- 44:19Speaker 2: of leukemia pretty bad. Telling people that you, the real you,
- 44:25Speaker 2: has died by suicide. There was an article in Gizmoto
- 44:29Speaker 2: that interviewed a professor of psychiatry named Mark Feldman, and
- 44:33Speaker 2: he puts it pretty clearly. He says, because of the
- 44:36Speaker 2: social stigma involved and the emotional weight associated with suicide,
- 44:40Speaker 2: it's particularly powerful, and that if you use that to
- 44:45Speaker 2: manipulate people, you're at the you're at the peak of manipulativeness.
- 44:50Speaker 2: And that's exactly what an author named Susan meetcher Mitchen
- 44:54Speaker 2: did in twenty twenty.
- 44:55Speaker 1: I think, right, yeah, I totally remember this one. This
- 44:59Speaker 1: is a very big deal. She was a self published
- 45:01Speaker 1: romance author and she had a you know, a decent
- 45:05Speaker 1: following on Facebook. And in twenty twenty and the voice
- 45:09Speaker 1: of her daughter posted that her mom had died by
- 45:11Speaker 1: suicide after being bullied in the book world. Yeah, and
- 45:14Speaker 1: it was a very big deal. It was a very
- 45:15Speaker 1: shocking revelation that, you know, this woman had been bullied
- 45:20Speaker 1: to death basically, and the writing community was all up
- 45:24Speaker 1: in arms about it, and like, you know, like, see,
- 45:26Speaker 1: this is what can happen with online bullying. Which what
- 45:29Speaker 1: really stinks is that is absolutely what can happen with
- 45:32Speaker 1: online bullying. But this woman was lying. Her daughter continued
- 45:37Speaker 1: to post on or you know, in scare quotes. Her
- 45:40Speaker 1: daughter continued to post to the account, and they someone
- 45:43Speaker 1: pointed out that they recognized a little quirk in her
- 45:46Speaker 1: writing was that Michen would say instead of supposed to
- 45:49Speaker 1: she would type post to post two like I'm post
- 45:53Speaker 1: to do this and that little jot from family circus exactly,
- 45:57Speaker 1: and that little quirk writing as her daughter gave it away.
- 46:03Speaker 2: Yeah, so she she was outed. I think she carried
- 46:06Speaker 2: this on for two years and then she suddenly showed
- 46:10Speaker 2: back up in her community, her writing community forum and said, hey,
- 46:15Speaker 2: I'm alive. This is all just a fake. She said,
- 46:19Speaker 2: there's gonna be tons of questions. Let the fun begin.
- 46:22Speaker 2: I can't imagine a more arrogant way to reannounce that
- 46:25Speaker 2: you didn't actually die. So people, of course were appalled
- 46:28Speaker 2: and angry, and like she she was, I think I
- 46:33Speaker 2: think she expected people to be like, oh my god,
- 46:35Speaker 2: thank god you're alive. That was amazing. It did not
- 46:38Speaker 2: go like that at all. She became reviled and hated,
- 46:41Speaker 2: and I think rightfully so that's a really horrible thing
- 46:43Speaker 2: to do to people. And also, on top of it,
- 46:46Speaker 2: to exploit online bullying. Yeah, totally, you know, just for
- 46:51Speaker 2: your own ego. It's just that's terrible stuff.
- 46:56Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed.
- 46:57Speaker 2: There's one more. I want to just really quickly point out.
- 47:00Speaker 2: This has happened more than once. People have faked their
- 47:02Speaker 2: death online to get out of some obligation. I read
- 47:07Speaker 2: about somebody kind of this was so one Knitting Forum
- 47:14Speaker 2: participant died rather than say, like, I'm not able to
- 47:20Speaker 2: come up with the patterns that I said I could.
- 47:23Speaker 2: That was one.
- 47:24Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 47:24Speaker 2: Another one was a Percy Jackson fan fiction site that
- 47:28Speaker 2: somebody staged their death online because they couldn't deliver some
- 47:32Speaker 2: fan fiction that they said they would. Yeah, weird stuff.
- 47:37Speaker 2: At least that's less manipulative. It's just being afraid of confrontation.
- 47:42Speaker 1: I guess that's right.
- 47:43Speaker 2: Since Chuck just said that's right, I think it's time
- 47:46Speaker 2: for listener mail.
- 47:51Speaker 1: This is about libraries a little bit more. Hey, guys.
- 47:55Speaker 1: As you mentioned in the recent short stuff on alt libraries,
- 48:00Speaker 1: I wanted to mention this. In nineteen oh one, Andrew
- 48:01Speaker 1: Carnegie funded the construction of dozens of libraries and all
- 48:04Speaker 1: five boroughs of New York City, and most of these
- 48:07Speaker 1: buildings came with a family apartment which housed the custodian
- 48:10Speaker 1: who kept the coal fire burning the furnace. As the
- 48:13Speaker 1: furnaces were replaced in the custodians retired, the apartment sat empty.
- 48:17Speaker 1: Some of the apartments are still intact, while some have
- 48:19Speaker 1: been converted into storage, mechanical rooms, or as is the
- 48:23Speaker 1: case in the library where I work at teen Center.
- 48:26Speaker 1: I thought you might be interested in this little slice
- 48:28Speaker 1: of New York City and library history. There are about
- 48:30Speaker 1: thirty Carnegie branches left in Manhattan, the Bronx and Staten Island,
- 48:34Speaker 1: and the city is slowly working their way through renovations
- 48:37Speaker 1: to modernize each location. Next time you're in New York,
- 48:40Speaker 1: come check us out wrap spanked delivered. I'm yours. That
- 48:45Speaker 1: is Madeleine Lovegrove, the children's librarian at the one hundred
- 48:49Speaker 1: and twenty fifth Street New York Public Library.
- 48:52Speaker 2: That's awesome, thanks a lot, Madeline. That I had never
- 48:55Speaker 2: heard of that, and I would really love to see
- 48:57Speaker 2: some of those abandoned apartment that we're just left as is.
- 49:01Speaker 1: She sent a link and it had pictures.
- 49:04Speaker 2: My friend, Oh, I can't wait to see that. Thank
- 49:06Speaker 2: you for telling me that. Check and thank you again
- 49:08Speaker 2: to Madeline. If you want to be like Madeline and
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