Latest / The Knife: A True Crime Podcast / A Morning Run
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This story contains adult content and language. Listener discretion is advised.
- 0:06Speaker 2: So there was a silent moment between us where we
- 0:10Speaker 2: were both trying to process what.
- 0:11Speaker 3: Just happened after you punched him. Yeah, like just.
- 0:15Speaker 2: A still moment where I was like, oh my god,
- 0:18Speaker 2: I just punch a human in the phase.
- 0:38Speaker 1: Welcome to the Knife. I am Patia Eton. I'm Hannah Smith.
- 0:41Speaker 1: And this week we speak with a woman named Darune Henry.
- 0:45Speaker 1: She is a personal trainer, influencer and mother of two
- 0:48Speaker 1: who lives in Toronto, Canada.
- 0:49Speaker 3: In September of twenty twenty one, Drune had just moved
- 0:52Speaker 3: into a new home with her kids and then husband.
- 0:55Speaker 3: It was a nice, safe, family friendly area of Toronto,
- 0:59Speaker 3: and then on September fifteenth, she went for a jog
- 1:01Speaker 3: at eleven am in a park near her home and
- 1:04Speaker 3: experienced something terrifying. We speak with Darune about her experience
- 1:09Speaker 3: and the lasting impact of what happened to her, including
- 1:12Speaker 3: a video of the incident that went viral. We will
- 1:15Speaker 3: be back with you after the interview to give you
- 1:17Speaker 3: some updates on Darun's story, which is still ongoing today.
- 1:21Speaker 3: As a note, this conversation with Darune happened on October fourteenth,
- 1:25Speaker 3: twenty twenty four.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Let's get into the interview.
- 1:34Speaker 3: Let's start off with you telling us a little bit
- 1:37Speaker 3: about yourself and your background.
- 1:40Speaker 2: I'm Darune Henry. I am an online fitness coach.
- 1:45Speaker 3: I'm a mother of.
- 1:46Speaker 2: Two beautiful girls who are thirteen and seven, and I'm
- 1:51Speaker 2: just a very passionate entrepreneur. I had a very hard upbringing.
- 1:58Speaker 2: I was born in Iraq. I'm Kurdish, so I uh
- 2:03Speaker 2: not to like go too deep, but I lost my brother.
- 2:07Speaker 2: My brother was killed by a landmine when I was five,
- 2:10Speaker 2: so and then I was like a refugee until we
- 2:13Speaker 2: came to Canada at the age of seven or eight,
- 2:17Speaker 2: so in ninety six. And so a lot of my
- 2:20Speaker 2: conditioning was limiting beliefs. I was very insecure because I
- 2:26Speaker 2: didn't do too well in school. I never got like
- 2:29Speaker 2: my university degree. I got pregnant at a young age.
- 2:32Speaker 2: And so when I had my spiritual awakening and I
- 2:36Speaker 2: was on my own personal development journey and I discovered
- 2:40Speaker 2: who I am and how powerful I am and how
- 2:44Speaker 2: limitless I am, I wanted to help women like discover
- 2:49Speaker 2: that part of themselves, regardless of what you've been through
- 2:52Speaker 2: that you can become the best version of yourself. And
- 2:55Speaker 2: so like, that's where my passion lies right now. Right
- 3:00Speaker 2: for the attack, I would say I was at the
- 3:04Speaker 2: peak of my career. I was just the happiest version
- 3:09Speaker 2: of myself.
- 3:11Speaker 3: In September of twenty twenty one, Darun and her family
- 3:14Speaker 3: had just moved into a new home in Brampton, a
- 3:18Speaker 3: city in the Greater Toronto area. Darun was delighted to
- 3:21Speaker 3: find out that she was in walking distance to Massy Park,
- 3:25Speaker 3: which is a small park that sits in the middle
- 3:27Speaker 3: of a heavily trafficked area but still feels remote due
- 3:32Speaker 3: to the density of the trees. So she started to
- 3:35Speaker 3: do her daily workouts at Massy Park.
- 3:38Speaker 2: So it's September fifteenth, twenty twenty one, so school had
- 3:42Speaker 2: just started. Yeah, Like I had taken the kids to
- 3:45Speaker 2: school that day and I went for my jog around
- 3:48Speaker 2: like nine point thirty. Being in the forest, I would
- 3:53Speaker 2: often like do walking meditations, I'd connect with God. So
- 3:58Speaker 2: on that day it was because I needed more content.
- 4:02Speaker 2: So that was the only day I had taken my tripod,
- 4:06Speaker 2: because I do believe that having my tripod kind of
- 4:10Speaker 2: saves me in a way. That day I believe I
- 4:13Speaker 2: got there around nine fifty ish. I shot content. I
- 4:18Speaker 2: took pictures for about twenty thirty minutes. I was getting
- 4:21Speaker 2: the right shots. I had my jump rope with me
- 4:23Speaker 2: that day, so I was jump roping.
- 4:26Speaker 3: So you know, when is the first moment that you
- 4:30Speaker 3: thought like something is wrong.
- 4:32Speaker 2: Yeah, So this was towards the end of my workout.
- 4:36Speaker 2: So I was around eleven am when I saw an
- 4:39Speaker 2: elderly man who was maybe like eighty years old with
- 4:44Speaker 2: a walker, and I saw him walking very slowly, and
- 4:50Speaker 2: I actually noticed a random person. I noticed he was
- 4:54Speaker 2: walking very slowly behind the elderly man, like almost as
- 4:59Speaker 2: if he was just like with him, but you can
- 5:02Speaker 2: tell they weren't together. I found him a little suspicious
- 5:07Speaker 2: because he was dressed in all black, like black sweatpants,
- 5:10Speaker 2: black sweater, a fitted hat, and he was wearing a mask.
- 5:15Speaker 2: It was pretty warm day, it was. It was September fifteenth.
- 5:19Speaker 2: I was wearing short so it was kind of like
- 5:22Speaker 2: unusual to see somebody dressed like in a hoodie and
- 5:26Speaker 2: like sweatpants and just fully covered and also like wearing
- 5:31Speaker 2: a COVID mask. Not a lot of people wore the
- 5:34Speaker 2: masks outside in the parks, so I did. I noticed
- 5:39Speaker 2: him immediately as he was walking, had his bike, but
- 5:44Speaker 2: he wasn't on his bike, like, he wasn't riding his bike.
- 5:48Speaker 3: He was walking. They passed by right like they.
- 5:52Speaker 2: Left, and I just continued doing what I was doing.
- 5:56Speaker 2: And then at this point, I was stretching and looking
- 5:59Speaker 2: at the sunshine, you know, shining through the leaves, and
- 6:03Speaker 2: just breathing, and just I was stretching and I felt
- 6:09Speaker 2: this like immense pain in my hamstrings, and like something
- 6:15Speaker 2: told me to bend over, like to stretch my hamstrings.
- 6:18Speaker 2: And when I bent over, I literally saw him through
- 6:22Speaker 2: my legs.
- 6:23Speaker 3: So I jumped.
- 6:25Speaker 2: And I was off to the side of the walking
- 6:30Speaker 2: path so that people can pass by me. And when
- 6:34Speaker 2: I bent over, I saw him like through my legs.
- 6:38Speaker 2: Literally he was like right behind me, maybe eight feet away,
- 6:43Speaker 2: and I jumped. I turn around. I wasn't scared though,
- 6:46Speaker 2: I just thought he was on a walk.
- 6:48Speaker 3: Because it was just so I didn't know there was
- 6:49Speaker 3: someone there.
- 6:50Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I had no idea. I was wearing these
- 6:53Speaker 2: headphones so I couldn't hear anything. And when I turned
- 6:58Speaker 2: around and he was right directly right behind me. My
- 7:01Speaker 2: tripod was on like it was on the ground, and
- 7:06Speaker 2: I think that I don't think he was sure that
- 7:10Speaker 2: like if it was recording or not. It wasn't recording,
- 7:14Speaker 2: but he did notice my tripod and then when I
- 7:18Speaker 2: turned around, I.
- 7:18Speaker 3: Said, oh, I'm so sorry. Like I was just like, so.
- 7:21Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm in your way, right even though there's a
- 7:24Speaker 2: huge walking pathway, like you could go around me, like
- 7:28Speaker 2: there's no reason you should be directly behind me, and
- 7:31Speaker 2: so like that's when I realized, oh, like he really
- 7:36Speaker 2: was trying to get really close to me, but I
- 7:39Speaker 2: like caught him before he got too close. And as
- 7:43Speaker 2: soon as I said sorry to him, he was very strange.
- 7:47Speaker 2: He was just like didn't say anything, and then looks
- 7:50Speaker 2: at my tripod and was like asking me if I
- 7:55Speaker 2: did YouTube.
- 7:56Speaker 3: He was like, oh, do you do YouTube? And I
- 7:59Speaker 3: was like no.
- 8:01Speaker 2: I couldn't really hear him because he had his mask on,
- 8:04Speaker 2: So then I was like, what what are you saying?
- 8:07Speaker 2: And then he was like do you do YouTube? And
- 8:09Speaker 2: he took his mask off, so he put it down
- 8:11Speaker 2: to below his chin, and he kept asking me if
- 8:16Speaker 2: if I did YouTube, and I said no, I don't
- 8:18Speaker 2: do YouTube. He was like, are you are you a
- 8:21Speaker 2: fitness instructor. I was like, yes, I'm a personal trainer.
- 8:25Speaker 2: He's like, well, can I get your information like my
- 8:28Speaker 2: Facebook or like my socials?
- 8:30Speaker 3: And I was like no, like I only work with women.
- 8:34Speaker 2: And then I just kind of like looked at him
- 8:36Speaker 2: like walk away, like go now, and so like I
- 8:41Speaker 2: was just getting annoyed of him, Like it was the
- 8:44Speaker 2: conversation probably took like thirty seconds, and so I was
- 8:49Speaker 2: waiting for him to walk off, and I was like, no,
- 8:53Speaker 2: like I only work with women.
- 8:54Speaker 3: You can't have my information.
- 8:56Speaker 2: And so he got the point and it was an
- 9:00Speaker 2: that moment, like he didn't say anything more. He just
- 9:03Speaker 2: put his mask back on, and in this moment, I realized,
- 9:10Speaker 2: oh my god, he's going to try and.
- 9:14Speaker 3: Rape me, because he looks around, he looked in my eyes,
- 9:18Speaker 3: and in that moment, I.
- 9:19Speaker 2: Felt that realization, like that moment where you're like I'm
- 9:25Speaker 2: in danger, like I'm something bad is going to happen
- 9:29Speaker 2: to me right now, and like I have to like fight.
- 9:32Speaker 2: So I went into fight mode immediately because he looked around,
- 9:37Speaker 2: he put his mask back on, and then he came
- 9:40Speaker 2: to strangle me. So he came at me with his
- 9:43Speaker 2: hands to strangle me. But before he could get to me.
- 9:49Speaker 3: I crossed him.
- 9:50Speaker 2: So I punched him with my right arm, my rights,
- 9:55Speaker 2: I punched him in his jaw, like I just I
- 9:59Speaker 2: don't no, I don't remember how hard it was. I mean,
- 10:03Speaker 2: in that moment, I'm sure I punched him really really hard,
- 10:08Speaker 2: not enough to knock him out, but he was shocked.
- 10:11Speaker 2: So there was a silent moment between us where we
- 10:15Speaker 2: were both trying to process what just happened.
- 10:17Speaker 3: Like after you punched him, Yeah, like just.
- 10:20Speaker 2: A still moment where I was like, oh my god,
- 10:24Speaker 2: I just punch a human, like in the face. Like
- 10:29Speaker 2: I was taking boxing lessons, but I always had gloves on.
- 10:33Speaker 2: I never punched a human before, like flesh and bone.
- 10:38Speaker 2: So like there were so many thoughts running through my head, like,
- 10:42Speaker 2: oh my god, he's going to kill me. I just
- 10:45Speaker 2: punched a man in the face, and he's going to
- 10:48Speaker 2: kill me.
- 10:49Speaker 3: So because you say, like, and you did this motion
- 10:51Speaker 3: which people can't see on the podcast, but you're saying
- 10:54Speaker 3: that he was coming at you with his hands out
- 10:57Speaker 3: in a clear way that like he was going for
- 10:59Speaker 3: your throat.
- 11:00Speaker 2: Yeah, he was coming for my throat. Yeah, Like that
- 11:03Speaker 2: was hands down the scariest moment of my life. Just
- 11:08Speaker 2: I didn't even react, like I didn't even think. I
- 11:10Speaker 2: just reacted and I punched him. And I honestly believe that,
- 11:15Speaker 2: like punching him in the face was the best thing
- 11:19Speaker 2: I could have ever done, because it completely threw him off.
- 11:23Speaker 2: And after I punched him, I did freeze because I
- 11:26Speaker 2: was like, at the end of the day, I'm five
- 11:29Speaker 2: to one and he's really tall, he's in I don't
- 11:32Speaker 2: know who he is, what he's capable of, I don't
- 11:36Speaker 2: know if he has a weapon on him. But then
- 11:39Speaker 2: right after I punched him and we had that silent
- 11:41Speaker 2: moment for maybe five seconds, you know, it aggravated him,
- 11:46Speaker 2: so he tried to take me down. And so I
- 11:51Speaker 2: always mentioned that, like my boxing lessons saved my life,
- 11:55Speaker 2: I was able to fight him. So I literally heard
- 11:59Speaker 2: my coach his name is Jerry, and I literally heard
- 12:03Speaker 2: Jerry in my head. I heard him say put power
- 12:07Speaker 2: behind it, like as I was punching, because that was
- 12:11Speaker 2: something he'd often say to me, put power behind it.
- 12:14Speaker 2: And it's that repetition of punching over and over and over,
- 12:20Speaker 2: and even I don't know how it happened, but he
- 12:23Speaker 2: was on the ground. At one point I kicked him
- 12:26Speaker 2: really hard in his ribs. I wish I had kicked
- 12:30Speaker 2: him in his balls, but I kicked him in his ribs.
- 12:35Speaker 3: There was a point where.
- 12:36Speaker 2: He was looking for something on the ground. So he
- 12:39Speaker 2: was searching for something on the ground, and in that moment,
- 12:44Speaker 2: I thought, Oh my god, he's looking for a rock,
- 12:46Speaker 2: like to knock me out, right, Like that was my thought.
- 12:49Speaker 2: I was like, he's looking for something to like knock
- 12:53Speaker 2: me out, and like that was the moment I remembered
- 12:57Speaker 2: a head a voice, because when you're fighting for your
- 13:02Speaker 2: life in that you don't remember that, like I didn't
- 13:07Speaker 2: remember I was in a public park. In that moment,
- 13:11Speaker 2: I remembered, like, you're in.
- 13:13Speaker 3: A public park.
- 13:14Speaker 2: There's people, somebody's going to hear you. And so I
- 13:18Speaker 2: literally started screaming bloody murder. I started screaming for help
- 13:23Speaker 2: like as loud as I could.
- 13:26Speaker 3: And yeah, like that was something it's hard to relive, but.
- 13:34Speaker 2: Yeah, like I thought, like if like that was my
- 13:37Speaker 2: last resort, was just screaming for my life.
- 13:43Speaker 3: It was really hard, really scary.
- 13:46Speaker 2: So yeah, and then as soon as I started screaming
- 13:51Speaker 2: for help, like his eyes bulged out and yeah, and.
- 13:55Speaker 3: Then he ran away.
- 13:57Speaker 2: But when he ran away, he ran towards the right
- 14:02Speaker 2: side of the forest. And then I think he got
- 14:07Speaker 2: maybe ten twenty steps in and he stopped and he
- 14:13Speaker 2: ran the opposite direction. And that's when I pulled out
- 14:17Speaker 2: my phone and I started recording him because I needed
- 14:21Speaker 2: evidence of him running away.
- 14:24Speaker 3: I needed evidence.
- 14:27Speaker 2: Of what he looked like, what he was wearing like.
- 14:30Speaker 2: I just needed something to show the police. I had
- 14:34Speaker 2: no idea why he stopped and ran the opposite direction.
- 14:39Speaker 2: But then I realized when he picked up his bike
- 14:43Speaker 2: that it was the same person who had walked by
- 14:46Speaker 2: me ten minutes prior to and I realized that he
- 14:52Speaker 2: had hid his bike and was watching me for about
- 14:56Speaker 2: ten minutes.
- 15:00Speaker 3: After Duron was able to fight off this attacker, she
- 15:03Speaker 3: somehow had the presence of mind to take out her
- 15:06Speaker 3: phone and hit record, capturing him running into the woods.
- 15:10Speaker 3: Then a man in the park who had heard her
- 15:12Speaker 3: scream showed up and called the police. The following moments
- 15:16Speaker 3: were a blur for Drone, as multiple police officers and
- 15:20Speaker 3: her husband arrived at the park.
- 15:23Speaker 2: When I had somebody there, I was able to just
- 15:27Speaker 2: kind of like break out of that shell, and I
- 15:30Speaker 2: went into shock.
- 15:31Speaker 3: Immediately.
- 15:32Speaker 2: I just started wailing, like I couldn't help it, Like
- 15:36Speaker 2: I just started screaming. There was a lot of police around,
- 15:41Speaker 2: and that police officer showed up within two minutes he
- 15:47Speaker 2: was there. The search started immediately. They were looking for
- 15:52Speaker 2: him because we gave a description. But yeah, he got
- 15:56Speaker 2: away with it. Yeah, And then I somehow walked back home.
- 16:02Speaker 2: My street was filled with police cars, and my neighbors
- 16:06Speaker 2: had no idea what happened.
- 16:09Speaker 3: There was just a lot of police in the area
- 16:11Speaker 3: and they kind of gave me a minute.
- 16:14Speaker 2: And when I got home, that's when like the shock
- 16:18Speaker 2: just kept getting worse. When I was like realized, like
- 16:23Speaker 2: realize what just happened. The first thing I did was
- 16:27Speaker 2: like go to the bathroom and puke. I don't know
- 16:30Speaker 2: how to describe it, but it felt like I puked
- 16:33Speaker 2: like this evil like it just came out of me,
- 16:37Speaker 2: and like it just I puked, and I was messed up.
- 16:41Speaker 2: I was really messed up because I kept thinking like,
- 16:46Speaker 2: oh my god, what if I didn't turn around, Like
- 16:48Speaker 2: what if he had just knocked me out before I
- 16:52Speaker 2: had turned around.
- 16:53Speaker 1: There's obviously this range of emotions that you're then experiencing
- 16:56Speaker 1: directly following the attack, what do logistically the hours and
- 16:59Speaker 1: the following the attack looked like, Yeah, that.
- 17:03Speaker 3: Was a huge ordeal.
- 17:05Speaker 2: When we get into the police, there's a lot to
- 17:08Speaker 2: say because you know, I essentially risked my life capturing
- 17:14Speaker 2: that video because I should have been running to safety,
- 17:19Speaker 2: but I took an extra ten fifteen seconds just to
- 17:25Speaker 2: get him on camera. Yeah, when I was very disappointed
- 17:28Speaker 2: when they told me that they couldn't do anything with
- 17:33Speaker 2: that evidence. Like I had this fantasy that like they
- 17:38Speaker 2: were going to put it on the news that night
- 17:40Speaker 2: and show the clip of him running through the woods,
- 17:43Speaker 2: and my neighborhood's going to be safer place, maybe like
- 17:47Speaker 2: somebody can recognize him. And like, I was so disappointed
- 17:52Speaker 2: and so shocked when the police were like, no, like
- 17:55Speaker 2: we can't do anything with that evidence.
- 17:58Speaker 1: What was their reason when they said we can't do anything.
- 18:01Speaker 2: Why, Well, because it's alleged. They can't prove what he did.
- 18:07Speaker 2: They just have a video of a guy running through
- 18:10Speaker 2: the woods and it's an alleged attack, and yeah, like
- 18:16Speaker 2: they just don't do that. So I was like, Okay, well,
- 18:20Speaker 2: what are you going to do? Like there's a guy
- 18:23Speaker 2: out there attacking women at eleven am. He is one
- 18:27Speaker 2: million percent going to do it again. And they're like, yeah,
- 18:30Speaker 2: we're going to put it up on our website. And
- 18:33Speaker 2: then I was angry. I was like, what fucking website
- 18:36Speaker 2: are you talking about? Like I live in this neighborhood.
- 18:39Speaker 2: I don't know about your website. I doubt anyone here
- 18:43Speaker 2: knows that you have a website or that anyone goes
- 18:46Speaker 2: on there daily to check.
- 18:48Speaker 3: They questioned me.
- 18:49Speaker 2: For about half an hour, and I was like, yeah,
- 18:53Speaker 2: I was just messed up, right, Like they gave me
- 18:55Speaker 2: maybe ten minutes to myself, and like during that ten minute,
- 19:00Speaker 2: I was puking. Then we were talking and I was angry.
- 19:03Speaker 2: I was so angry. I was like, what do you
- 19:05Speaker 2: mean you're not going to do anything? What do you
- 19:07Speaker 2: mean you're you're just going to put it on a website?
- 19:10Speaker 2: Like what good is that? And they literally told me
- 19:13Speaker 2: like like the best thing you could do is just
- 19:15Speaker 2: not go back and see the woods. And I was like,
- 19:19Speaker 2: I was like fucking kidding me, Like what am I
- 19:22Speaker 2: a caged up animal? I can't even go for a
- 19:25Speaker 2: walk in my neighborhood in the park where I take
- 19:28Speaker 2: my kids every day, like I walk my kids to
- 19:30Speaker 2: the park.
- 19:31Speaker 3: Well.
- 19:31Speaker 1: Also, this is our advice to women on how to
- 19:33Speaker 1: stay safe. Don't leave your house.
- 19:35Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.
- 19:39Speaker 3: According to Derune, the police said they would post the
- 19:42Speaker 3: report on their website to alert the neighborhood, but she
- 19:45Speaker 3: didn't feel that this was good enough. After all, she
- 19:47Speaker 3: lived in the neighborhood and she'd never heard of the website.
- 19:51Speaker 3: Darune has a significant following on social media, and so
- 19:54Speaker 3: the next day, when the police report still wasn't up online,
- 19:58Speaker 3: Darune decided to post the vig that she recorded in
- 20:01Speaker 3: the park of her attacker. This is the first part
- 20:04Speaker 3: of that video. Darone screams as a blurry figure darts
- 20:08Speaker 3: through the woods.
- 20:10Speaker 1: Wow may wow, man got out.
- 20:14Speaker 2: I have you one video your PI.
- 20:18Speaker 3: I just putched him a fucking face. Yeah. The video
- 20:24Speaker 3: then cuts from the park to Darun sitting on her
- 20:26Speaker 3: front porch the following day, speaking directly to her followers.
- 20:31Speaker 4: I want to make this video for my predator. I
- 20:36Speaker 4: want him to know that when I punched him in
- 20:40Speaker 4: the face, I wasn't scared at all. I wasn't scared.
- 20:48Speaker 4: I'm crying because I fucking took my sanctuary for me.
- 20:53Speaker 2: It went viral within hours, and at one point it
- 20:57Speaker 2: was at thirty thousand views, and it was at three
- 20:59Speaker 2: hundred thous views, and it was like five hundred thousand views,
- 21:02Speaker 2: and it was just like a snowball effect, and it
- 21:06Speaker 2: just kept getting bigger and bigger. And that was extremely
- 21:11Speaker 2: hard to navigate through as I'm trying to like collect myself,
- 21:19Speaker 2: I was getting messages from all over the world like
- 21:23Speaker 2: a went viral, and India I went viral, and Europe
- 21:26Speaker 2: it went viral, and on South America for some people
- 21:29Speaker 2: it was like entertainment. I experienced a lot of victim blaming,
- 21:33Speaker 2: but I have to say I did also feel like
- 21:36Speaker 2: the support of the world behind me, and they ended
- 21:40Speaker 2: up posting the police report after it went viral. But
- 21:45Speaker 2: I also felt like the system really failed me because
- 21:51Speaker 2: if they had just taken me seriously, if they had
- 21:54Speaker 2: publicized my report, then the second attack wouldn't have happened,
- 21:59Speaker 2: which was just six days after mine.
- 22:02Speaker 3: Do you know what happened with that attack and how
- 22:04Speaker 3: did you learn about that attack?
- 22:06Speaker 2: I found out about the second attack through a follower.
- 22:10Speaker 2: Somebody sent me the report. What happened was literally the
- 22:16Speaker 2: same exact scenario He attacked her on a Tuesday, was
- 22:21Speaker 2: around the same exact time, like eleven am. It was
- 22:25Speaker 2: in another nearby park. He was on a bike, same thing.
- 22:30Speaker 2: He was dressed in sweats, but he had escalated it
- 22:35Speaker 2: to he had taken a knife, so a box cutter
- 22:41Speaker 2: to this next attack.
- 22:43Speaker 3: After the second attack, Darun was asked to come into
- 22:46Speaker 3: the police station and look through a series of photographs
- 22:50Speaker 3: to identify the attacker.
- 22:51Speaker 2: He was like the second last picture, so I had
- 22:54Speaker 2: to go through all those pictures. But as soon as
- 22:57Speaker 2: his picture came up and I looked at his eyes,
- 23:00Speaker 2: this energy rushed over me and like every cell in
- 23:04Speaker 2: my body streamed and was like that's him. Like I
- 23:09Speaker 2: knew it was him because of his eyes, because I
- 23:12Speaker 2: can never forget that look he gave me right before
- 23:16Speaker 2: he came to strangle me. And you know, even though
- 23:19Speaker 2: it was a picture, I felt those emotions. And then
- 23:22Speaker 2: after they made me go through that, they were like, well,
- 23:26Speaker 2: we have a disturbing question to ask you. I was
- 23:29Speaker 2: like what, and they were like did he steal anything
- 23:33Speaker 2: from you? Like does he Are you missing anything? And
- 23:36Speaker 2: I was like no, no, I'm not missing anything. But
- 23:41Speaker 2: when they told me, like they found him. We had
- 23:44Speaker 2: a backpack on him and he had a bunch of
- 23:47Speaker 2: women's items in there. And they told me that he
- 23:51Speaker 2: goes out there looking for the opportunity to attack, and
- 23:55Speaker 2: then that he is also a trophy keeper, so then
- 23:59Speaker 2: he keeps something from his victims. And when they said
- 24:04Speaker 2: that to me, I realized that when I thought he
- 24:09Speaker 2: was looking for a rock to knock me out, he
- 24:13Speaker 2: wasn't actually looking for a rock. He was looking to
- 24:18Speaker 2: steal something to.
- 24:20Speaker 3: Keep as a trophy.
- 24:22Speaker 5: Nineteen year old Paul Yusef of Brampton was charged this
- 24:25Speaker 5: week with assault, assault with a weapon, and assault causing
- 24:28Speaker 5: bodily harm in connection to two alleged incidents, Henry's and
- 24:33Speaker 5: another that happened six days later. That incident taking place
- 24:37Speaker 5: at nearby Jayfield Park.
- 24:39Speaker 3: Law enforcement was able to identify and charge Paul Yusef.
- 24:43Speaker 3: We don't have any information about the other victim, as
- 24:46Speaker 3: she was a miner at the time. Paul Yusef was
- 24:49Speaker 3: arrested on September twenty eighth, twenty twenty one. Darune now
- 24:53Speaker 3: had a name for her attacker, and while she waited
- 24:56Speaker 3: to see what would happened to him, she tried to
- 24:58Speaker 3: continue living her life. I didn't sleep for maybe two weeks.
- 25:03Speaker 3: I just couldn't.
- 25:05Speaker 2: Although he wasn't successful, I went through a lot of
- 25:08Speaker 2: the after effects.
- 25:11Speaker 3: You know, it's interesting to use this word successful, and
- 25:13Speaker 3: I know what you mean by it, because he wasn't
- 25:15Speaker 3: able to, you know, do what he planned to do,
- 25:18Speaker 3: which when you were in that moment, was very clear
- 25:21Speaker 3: to you. Looking in his eyes, you knew what he
- 25:23Speaker 3: wanted to do. It's still just like he still attacked you.
- 25:29Speaker 3: You know, you still had to go through that experience.
- 25:32Speaker 2: He wasn't successful, but he was successful in breaking me
- 25:37Speaker 2: and you know, making me feel violated. I still feel
- 25:43Speaker 2: very violated. For the first two weeks before he was caught,
- 25:48Speaker 2: I went through this intense like PTSD where I felt
- 25:53Speaker 2: like he was in my kitchen every night, Like I
- 25:56Speaker 2: couldn't even go downstairs to like get a glass of
- 26:00Speaker 2: water because I felt like he was just there. There
- 26:03Speaker 2: were many times where I would just be sitting on
- 26:06Speaker 2: my front porch and like a man would walk by,
- 26:09Speaker 2: and I thought that man was going to come attack me,
- 26:12Speaker 2: and I would just run back into my home. The
- 26:15Speaker 2: PTSD was so intense that I literally jumped one day
- 26:21Speaker 2: and like almost freaked out on an elderly man at
- 26:25Speaker 2: the beach.
- 26:27Speaker 3: Something that's important to note. In Canada, you are not
- 26:30Speaker 3: allowed to carry a weapon or any tool that is
- 26:33Speaker 3: specifically for the purpose of self defense, which would include
- 26:37Speaker 3: pepper spray. It was difficult for Derune to feel safe
- 26:41Speaker 3: out in the world even during the day. After all,
- 26:44Speaker 3: she'd been attacked in a public park at eleven am.
- 26:48Speaker 3: She feared something like this would happen again, knowing her
- 26:50Speaker 3: only recourse if it ever did happen, would be to fight.
- 26:55Speaker 2: One of the triggers I had is that, like when
- 26:59Speaker 2: a man is walking towards me and making eye contact,
- 27:04Speaker 2: I get triggered, or if there's somebody behind me, I
- 27:08Speaker 2: will get triggered and it will bring back that moment
- 27:11Speaker 2: and I'll go into like defense mode, Like I didn't
- 27:16Speaker 2: want to be touched, like even by my husband, Like
- 27:19Speaker 2: he couldn't even tap me on the shoulder.
- 27:21Speaker 3: Without me jumping.
- 27:24Speaker 2: I dressed in baggy clothes for weeks, like my body
- 27:30Speaker 2: was I felt so violated. There's a lot that victims
- 27:34Speaker 2: go through that is not talked about.
- 27:37Speaker 1: Have you learned anything else about him throughout this process?
- 27:40Speaker 1: Like what does he do for work?
- 27:43Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, Like when we discovered who he was and
- 27:48Speaker 2: it went public and I saw a few comments like, oh,
- 27:51Speaker 2: I went to.
- 27:52Speaker 3: High school with this guy.
- 27:53Speaker 2: So I went and I like did my own research.
- 27:57Speaker 2: I found out that he's a rack. He which is
- 28:01Speaker 2: crazy because I'm Iraqi. I found out that he's my
- 28:05Speaker 2: own people and that was very disturbing. And that was
- 28:10Speaker 2: one thing I found out about him. A lot of
- 28:13Speaker 2: the girls I spoke to from his high school, I
- 28:16Speaker 2: think I spoke to like two or three of them,
- 28:19Speaker 2: all told me he was a creep and that like
- 28:22Speaker 2: he didn't handle rejection very well.
- 28:27Speaker 3: Darun waited in anticipation to see what would happen to
- 28:30Speaker 3: her attacker, paul Yusif. The waiting, she said, was uncomfortable,
- 28:36Speaker 3: but it was also not a new feeling for her.
- 28:39Speaker 3: This experience flooded her with memories from a different incident
- 28:42Speaker 3: that happened when she was a child.
- 28:46Speaker 2: This is also not my first predator. When I was eleven,
- 28:51Speaker 2: I was groomed by my teacher, my drama teacher. Like
- 28:55Speaker 2: every kid wanted to be around him, like because he
- 28:58Speaker 2: was cool. I didn't know he was grooming me until
- 29:02Speaker 2: he made it so obvious, and he was like, well,
- 29:05Speaker 2: I have a question for you. Do you have pubic care?
- 29:08Speaker 2: I was like, whoa, And I was going through puberty
- 29:12Speaker 2: and like, I didn't even talk about that stuff with
- 29:15Speaker 2: my own parents, so like for you to ask me
- 29:19Speaker 2: as a teacher, I legitimately ran home that day. I
- 29:24Speaker 2: think I answered him. I have no idea what my
- 29:27Speaker 2: reaction was. I just was like, what the fuck, dude,
- 29:31Speaker 2: and I ran out of there, like I went home,
- 29:33Speaker 2: and then I just avoided him for the remainder of
- 29:37Speaker 2: the year. You know, I noticed he always had like
- 29:42Speaker 2: a favorite student that was always a female who was
- 29:45Speaker 2: always in grade six. And the reason he targeted grade
- 29:49Speaker 2: six students, and this is just all my theory was
- 29:52Speaker 2: because the year like that was the last year of
- 29:55Speaker 2: elementary and then you go to middle school and so
- 29:58Speaker 2: you can kind of get away with doing whatever, and
- 30:01Speaker 2: then they were off to the next school, which is
- 30:03Speaker 2: exactly what happened with me. I just moved on and
- 30:07Speaker 2: I went to the next school, and I forgot about it.
- 30:11Speaker 2: Darune was clear that although her sixth grade teacher had
- 30:14Speaker 2: not physically abused her, his actions were harmful. He was
- 30:18Speaker 2: a teacher, someone in a trusted position of authority and
- 30:22Speaker 2: he'd used that power to manipulate her. Darune listened to
- 30:26Speaker 2: her instincts and distanced herself, never telling anyone what happened,
- 30:31Speaker 2: that is until two years later. And then two years
- 30:36Speaker 2: later it came up that like the after the year
- 30:39Speaker 2: I left, there was like five girls that he was
- 30:43Speaker 2: you know, grooming, and had invited back to his house
- 30:48Speaker 2: and shown them porn on his computer. He had shown
- 30:52Speaker 2: them his privates and like he took it so far
- 30:58Speaker 2: with those girls. Know they I guess thought it was
- 31:03Speaker 2: a joke. They didn't realize what was happening. And they
- 31:07Speaker 2: told me, like we were on the bus going to school,
- 31:12Speaker 2: like they were in grade seven. I was in grade eight,
- 31:14Speaker 2: and they were telling me all these stories and I
- 31:17Speaker 2: was like, you guys, like we have to come forward.
- 31:20Speaker 2: And it was my idea to come forward because I
- 31:23Speaker 2: have his younger sister and he used to call her
- 31:26Speaker 2: little Darune, and I just knew that like she was
- 31:30Speaker 2: his next target. So I really did it for my sister.
- 31:35Speaker 2: And yeah, at a young age, I had to get questioned.
- 31:40Speaker 2: I felt like I was getting interrogated by the police.
- 31:44Speaker 2: There was like victim blaming involved at that time as well.
- 31:48Speaker 2: With the new teachers in grade eight, Like I remember
- 31:51Speaker 2: getting treated differently because of coming.
- 31:54Speaker 3: Forward, and so.
- 31:57Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this cuts deep because I still have
- 32:00Speaker 2: trauma from the age of eleven twelve thirteen. I was
- 32:06Speaker 2: very afraid of like coming out because as child, you
- 32:09Speaker 2: think that like you did something wrong for the teacher
- 32:12Speaker 2: to ask me a question like that, like what did
- 32:15Speaker 2: what did you do for him to ask you that? Right?
- 32:17Speaker 2: Like that was how my mind worked. At the end
- 32:20Speaker 2: of the day, I feel like my voice is there
- 32:24Speaker 2: like this time around, Like I fought so hard because
- 32:28Speaker 2: of little Darun, because like little Daru never got justice.
- 32:33Speaker 2: Like I was just like, yeah, I'm just like a
- 32:36Speaker 2: witness in all this, but really I was a victim
- 32:39Speaker 2: and I was groomed and my innocence was stolen. But
- 32:43Speaker 2: I was okay with like not getting the justice as
- 32:46Speaker 2: long as he was in trouble and as long as
- 32:49Speaker 2: like there was other victims to help me prove that
- 32:54Speaker 2: this guy was shouldn't be a teacher, shouldn't even be
- 32:57Speaker 2: around kids.
- 33:00Speaker 3: To ruin what she meant when she said she never
- 33:02Speaker 3: got justice as a child, She was just left to
- 33:05Speaker 3: process what had happened to her alone as a result
- 33:09Speaker 3: of this. Even years later, she explained that she still
- 33:12Speaker 3: has questions and she never really got closure. And when
- 33:16Speaker 3: she was attacked on September fifteenth, twenty twenty one, in
- 33:20Speaker 3: Massy Park, suddenly this incident from middle school came back
- 33:23Speaker 3: into her mind.
- 33:25Speaker 2: I thought of him, and I remembered that experience. It
- 33:30Speaker 2: just came up, and I was just so angry about
- 33:35Speaker 2: the world, Like I was just so angry.
- 33:38Speaker 3: It just came up.
- 33:40Speaker 2: I guess it was just like that blocked trauma that
- 33:45Speaker 2: was still in there.
- 33:46Speaker 3: It all came up. Darune spoke up in middle school
- 33:49Speaker 3: and again as an adult after she was attacked in
- 33:52Speaker 3: Massy Park. Her motivation to warn others, to advocate for victims,
- 33:58Speaker 3: and perhaps to make a big deal about something that
- 34:02Speaker 3: is a big deal. Sometimes, though, you can do all
- 34:05Speaker 3: the right things and still be let down. When I
- 34:09Speaker 3: first spoke with Darune in the fall of twenty twenty four,
- 34:12Speaker 3: she told me that she was still waiting to know
- 34:14Speaker 3: the results of Paul Yusif's case. I decided to see
- 34:18Speaker 3: what I could find out, so I called the Peel
- 34:21Speaker 3: Regional Police and then they directed me to the Davis
- 34:24Speaker 3: Courthouse in Brampton. We don't directly talk about this in
- 34:27Speaker 3: the interview. But what happened was I was emailed the
- 34:31Speaker 3: case documents the day before we recorded this interview with Darune.
- 34:36Speaker 3: I found out that the sentence scene hearing had already happened.
- 34:40Speaker 3: It happened in May of twenty twenty four. Paul Yusif
- 34:43Speaker 3: was sentenced to four months of conditional sentence, house arrest
- 34:47Speaker 3: and two years probation. I didn't want to spring this
- 34:51Speaker 3: information on Darune during the recording, so I sent her
- 34:55Speaker 3: an email the night before the interview with the case information.
- 34:59Speaker 3: She later told me that while she is glad to
- 35:01Speaker 3: have this information, it was also very difficult to receive
- 35:05Speaker 3: and it opened up a whole new set of worries
- 35:07Speaker 3: for her.
- 35:09Speaker 2: I have been waiting for three years. Nobody has updated
- 35:13Speaker 2: me on anything. He only got four months of house arrest.
- 35:18Speaker 2: He also lives in our neighborhood, so he lives within
- 35:23Speaker 2: five kilometers of us. So that's the other scary part,
- 35:29Speaker 2: is like, yeah, like he's free now, and I had
- 35:34Speaker 2: no idea.
- 35:36Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I think it's pretty like ridiculous that
- 35:39Speaker 3: they didn't update you on all of that, even just
- 35:42Speaker 3: to keep you informed. I feel like that should have happened.
- 35:45Speaker 2: I can't believe it. I legitimately had a mental breakdown
- 35:52Speaker 2: last night when I saw your message and was like
- 35:55Speaker 2: what that is impossible?
- 35:57Speaker 3: Like how could how could they tell me? I wasn't
- 36:03Speaker 3: able to get a hold of anyone to ask them
- 36:05Speaker 3: these questions, but it started, you know, it was so
- 36:07Speaker 3: shocking to me when I heard that, because he attacked
- 36:11Speaker 3: two people. Clearly he was past you, hit his bike,
- 36:14Speaker 3: was watching you. And maybe it goes back to this
- 36:17Speaker 3: idea of was he quote unquote successful and if he,
- 36:21Speaker 3: you know, because he wasn't, then he gets a lesser sentence.
- 36:24Speaker 3: But it really brings up this question of justice, because
- 36:28Speaker 3: how is that justice? Yeah, it's not. It's a nightmare.
- 36:36Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's it's almost as if like you have
- 36:39Speaker 2: to end up like dead in the woods for them
- 36:42Speaker 2: to actually care or like do anything. And that's truly
- 36:47Speaker 2: how I feel, Like, oh he thought of taps, Well,
- 36:50Speaker 2: shit happens every day, Darune, Like move on right, Like
- 36:54Speaker 2: that's that's how I took it, Like, well, you're lucky
- 36:57Speaker 2: enough you could fight and fight right, Like you're lucky
- 37:00Speaker 2: you got away, Like it's all luck.
- 37:02Speaker 3: It's like a game of luck.
- 37:04Speaker 2: Like, I just kind of want to reiterate my message
- 37:08Speaker 2: to women, and it's that you have a voice, right,
- 37:14Speaker 2: and like that you're powerful, and that you're stronger than
- 37:20Speaker 2: you believe to be, and that you can also punch
- 37:24Speaker 2: a man in the face and survive, and that it's
- 37:29Speaker 2: okay to freeze. I think that was one thing that like,
- 37:33Speaker 2: I felt like a lot of victims came forward and
- 37:36Speaker 2: kept saying, like I wish I had your strength, I
- 37:38Speaker 2: wish I had done something, But like I want to
- 37:41Speaker 2: remind women that I also froze in that moment, like
- 37:45Speaker 2: right after I punched him, and like that it's a
- 37:48Speaker 2: very natural reaction to have. But the more prepared you are, right, Like,
- 37:54Speaker 2: I just feel like I was prepared and that you know,
- 37:58Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I feel like, you know,
- 38:02Speaker 2: I was very successful quote unquote in getting him captured
- 38:08Speaker 2: and you know all that stuff because it rarely goes
- 38:13Speaker 2: that far. Right.
- 38:24Speaker 1: Wow, that was an incredible interview. I'm so I feel
- 38:28Speaker 1: so lucky she shared her story with us.
- 38:30Speaker 3: Me too, Yeah, it was really powerful and I'm so
- 38:33Speaker 3: glad that she spoke with us.
- 38:34Speaker 1: Going into these interviews, we have to do some level
- 38:37Speaker 1: of prep and in this case, you discovered that Paul
- 38:41Speaker 1: Yusuf had already actually had his court proceedings. So do
- 38:45Speaker 1: you want to talk a little bit about how you
- 38:48Speaker 1: navigated that going into the interview with Darune.
- 38:50Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not something I think I would have known
- 38:53Speaker 3: how to do or felt comfortable doing before we started
- 38:56Speaker 3: working in podcasting, because basically I couldn't find any information
- 39:01Speaker 3: about it online. Neither could Darune, which is why she
- 39:05Speaker 3: believed that the case was still open. And so I
- 39:09Speaker 3: called the police station where the article I did find
- 39:12Speaker 3: where he was arrested, and then they told me the courthouse,
- 39:15Speaker 3: which was like in a different county. So then I
- 39:17Speaker 3: called the courthouse and got ahold of them, and then
- 39:19Speaker 3: I was able to get the court documents, and it
- 39:22Speaker 3: was really surprised to learn that the case was closed,
- 39:26Speaker 3: that his sentence sing hearing had already happened like six
- 39:29Speaker 3: months before. And I don't know exactly why why he
- 39:34Speaker 3: got a four month conditional sentence in two years probation.
- 39:37Speaker 3: But the most shocking thing to me was that Darun
- 39:41Speaker 3: had not been updated and had not been able to
- 39:44Speaker 3: find this information.
- 39:45Speaker 1: And lived so close to him, lives.
- 39:48Speaker 3: Like a few miles away. It had no idea.
- 39:51Speaker 1: Such a nightmare.
- 39:52Speaker 3: Okay, so this takes place in Canada, which is different
- 39:54Speaker 3: than the US, and I'm not as familiar with the
- 39:57Speaker 3: laws there. It was difficult, honestly, even getting the court paperwork,
- 40:02Speaker 3: much more difficult than I found in the US when
- 40:04Speaker 3: I've sat out records. So I reached out to a
- 40:06Speaker 3: few different reporters. Essentially I didn't get a clear answer
- 40:10Speaker 3: on this on what the process is and also why
- 40:15Speaker 3: a victim wouldn't be informed, but you might have some
- 40:18Speaker 3: information about this.
- 40:19Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, after we talked about this and came to
- 40:22Speaker 1: this sort of realization that we weren't even clear on
- 40:26Speaker 1: what Durune's rights were as a victim of someone who
- 40:30Speaker 1: physically assaulted her, probably with the intent to sexually assault her.
- 40:34Speaker 1: You know, it was really alarming, and so I went
- 40:37Speaker 1: ahead and contacted a victim advocacy group called the Canadian
- 40:40Speaker 1: Resource Center for Victims of Crime, and I spoke with
- 40:43Speaker 1: a representative there and she had some really interesting information. Essentially,
- 40:47Speaker 1: in Canada there exists the Canadian Victim's Bill of Rights,
- 40:51Speaker 1: and Darune had a lot more rights than I think
- 40:53Speaker 1: were exercised, and probably that's because she didn't even know
- 40:57Speaker 1: that she had those rights. And it also us back
- 41:00Speaker 1: to well, she's the victim of a crime, and so
- 41:04Speaker 1: is the onus on the victim to go say, okay,
- 41:06Speaker 1: what are my rights? Or is it on law enforcement
- 41:09Speaker 1: to say, okay, here's your rights, or connect you to
- 41:12Speaker 1: someone who can make you aware so that you can
- 41:16Speaker 1: stay safe throughout this ordeal. And basically she has what's
- 41:21Speaker 1: called a right to information, which is about the status
- 41:23Speaker 1: of the investigation, the alleged offense, the location of proceedings,
- 41:27Speaker 1: available services, right to protection, right to participation, which is
- 41:32Speaker 1: conveying their views when decisions are made by authority.
- 41:35Speaker 3: Well, this is why I was shocked, because so many
- 41:37Speaker 3: cases we've covered before, victims will get a chance to
- 41:41Speaker 3: offer a victim impact statement at a sentencing hearing, which
- 41:44Speaker 3: can influence a sentence on someone. Right if a judge
- 41:48Speaker 3: hears that this was incredibly emotionally traumatic or whatever, that
- 41:51Speaker 3: could be informative in sentencing. Well, if the victim is
- 41:54Speaker 3: not informed about the sentencing hearing, they have no chance
- 41:57Speaker 3: to offer a victim imp hack statement.
- 42:01Speaker 1: Right, And I think you know Drew and put it
- 42:03Speaker 1: so well in the interview when she was talking about
- 42:06Speaker 1: how you know this person attacked her in broad daylight,
- 42:09Speaker 1: in broad daylight, I think it was eleven thirty am.
- 42:12Speaker 1: She was like, of course he was going to do
- 42:14Speaker 1: this again, and she was right and was keeping trophies,
- 42:17Speaker 1: was keeping trophies like he was not someone who was
- 42:20Speaker 1: just going to be kind of come to the realization
- 42:24Speaker 1: that he shouldn't be doing this. He's dangerous and so
- 42:26Speaker 1: it was really scary, I'm sure for her to learn
- 42:29Speaker 1: that he actually lives quite close and she had no
- 42:32Speaker 1: idea what the status was of the case. No one
- 42:36Speaker 1: told her, and she, it turns out, did have a
- 42:39Speaker 1: right to that information. Now, when I spoke to the
- 42:42Speaker 1: representative from this advocacy group, they said that it's not
- 42:45Speaker 1: exactly clear whose job it is to say, here are
- 42:49Speaker 1: your rights, but that if you are a victim of
- 42:52Speaker 1: a crime in Canada, especially a violent crime, you should
- 42:56Speaker 1: be able to ask law enforcement what are some resources
- 42:59Speaker 1: I can have access to and they should be able
- 43:02Speaker 1: to point you in this direction of either an advocacy
- 43:04Speaker 1: group or paperwork that outlines your rights for you. And
- 43:08Speaker 1: it's unfortunate, but it sounds like you do have to
- 43:10Speaker 1: do some self advocating to get that information, but it
- 43:14Speaker 1: does exist, so you know, it's not ideal, but I
- 43:18Speaker 1: think that it's an important takeaway for anyone who might
- 43:21Speaker 1: find themselves in an unfortunate situation like this, because I
- 43:24Speaker 1: think had Duraw known, she would have absolutely exercised those rights.
- 43:29Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, you know, it's a good practice to if
- 43:33Speaker 3: you find yourself in that situation to ask that of
- 43:36Speaker 3: law enforcement, who do I contact, what's the number? How
- 43:39Speaker 3: often will I be updated? You know, ask all the questions.
- 43:43Speaker 3: It's hard to also put that on a victim. When
- 43:46Speaker 3: hearing Duran's story, it's like the shock even right after
- 43:49Speaker 3: this attack. She doesn't have the presence of mind to
- 43:53Speaker 3: do that, I'm sure, but even to be able to
- 43:55Speaker 3: reach out after, you know, one of the things that
- 43:58Speaker 3: I feel like I've learned from trying to track information down,
- 44:02Speaker 3: calling courthouses, calling police stations is like, you know, bureaucratic
- 44:08Speaker 3: institutions are not just going to be like here, let
- 44:10Speaker 3: me help you and getting all this information. You just
- 44:13Speaker 3: have to be like, okay, keep asking, keep asking, Okay,
- 44:17Speaker 3: well you should contact this department? Cool, how do I
- 44:19Speaker 3: do that? What would that website or that phone number be?
- 44:22Speaker 3: You just have to ask a ton of questions, which
- 44:24Speaker 3: is unfortunate, that's the case. But yeah, yeah, you have.
- 44:26Speaker 1: To be kind of a bulldog about it. I mean,
- 44:28Speaker 1: you and I have been contacting courthouses and looking for
- 44:32Speaker 1: court records and reaching out to law enforcement for a
- 44:34Speaker 1: long time now. But still sometimes I have a really
- 44:37Speaker 1: hard time figuring out, how do I get to this person?
- 44:40Speaker 1: Oh you have to go through this other person and
- 44:44Speaker 1: you know, pretty soonior following up three times, and you know,
- 44:47Speaker 1: for us working in podcasting, obviously that's a less important
- 44:51Speaker 1: email than a victim. But I think the same bureaucratic
- 44:55Speaker 1: nightmare exists where you're like, okay, but who do I call?
- 44:58Speaker 1: What is the number? And they're like, let me look
- 45:00Speaker 1: into that.
- 45:00Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Yeah, well that sounds like a really helpful organization.
- 45:04Speaker 3: We should put that in the show notes. Yeah.
- 45:06Speaker 1: They're also you know, there's no cost to utilizing their services.
- 45:11Speaker 3: Oh that's fantastic. Yeah. Do they serve all of Canada?
- 45:14Speaker 1: I think they serve all of Canada, but I know
- 45:16Speaker 1: they serve Ontario and they help people who have experienced
- 45:20Speaker 1: violent crime. They have a homicide support group. They really
- 45:23Speaker 1: have a lot of resources that I didn't even know
- 45:26Speaker 1: existed that are more specific, So the Canadian Resource Center
- 45:30Speaker 1: for Victims of Crime. I'm just reading from what it
- 45:33Speaker 1: says on their website. The CRCBC provides support, research and
- 45:38Speaker 1: education to survivors of serious crime and stakeholders in Canada.
- 45:41Speaker 1: So reach out to them if you need victim advocacy.
- 45:45Speaker 1: I think that it was so easy for me to
- 45:47Speaker 1: reach them and hop on a call. I have no
- 45:49Speaker 1: doubt that they would help point someone in the right direction.
- 45:52Speaker 3: Love that.
- 45:52Speaker 1: So if anyone is interested in reaching out to the
- 45:55Speaker 1: Canadian Resource Center for Victims of Crime, you can go
- 45:57Speaker 1: to their website. It's CRCVC dot cog and there's a
- 46:01Speaker 1: contact us link And that is how I reached them
- 46:03Speaker 1: and I heard back within a day.
- 46:05Speaker 3: Amazing, Yeah, amazing.
- 46:07Speaker 1: That was a great interview.
- 46:08Speaker 3: Fantastic. We'll be back next week, all right, looking forward
- 46:11Speaker 3: to it.
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- 46:27Speaker 3: by me Hannah Smith.
- 46:28Speaker 1: And me Paytia Eating. Our producers are Tom Bryfogel and
- 46:31Speaker 1: Alexis Samarosi.
- 46:33Speaker 3: This episode was mixed by Tom Bryfogel.
- 46:35Speaker 1: Our associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.
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