
The Small Things You Tolerate Become the Relationship.
The Small Things You Tolerate Become the Relationship
What you excuse in the beginning rarely stays small.
In this episode, Coach Ivy unpacks how women quietly tolerate subtle inconsistency, mixed signals, and low-grade confusion in the early stages of dating - especially when the chemistry feels good. Because the pattern rarely begins with one giant red flag. It begins with the small things you explain away, excuse, or talk yourself out of honoring. And over time, those small tolerations can become the relationship itself.
In this episode:
why the small things in the beginning matter more…
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