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Shhh! Don't Tell Gabe's Wife! · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Speaker 1: It's not about the money money.
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Speaker 2: I fully think we need to take this on air
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Speaker 2: because yesterday after the show, we were sitting in your office, Gabe,
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Speaker 2: and you were looking at a truck cover, like a
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Speaker 2: cover for the bed of your truck. Yes, and you
0:21
Speaker 2: are giving me all like the specs on it. I
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Speaker 2: watched a video is about it? Yes, of course, until
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Speaker 2: you told me how much it costs the price tag
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Speaker 2: on this thing. And even Meghan, who does mid Days
0:36
Speaker 2: on Big ninety eight point seven, and she heard and
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Speaker 2: was like, wait a minute, what when I tell you
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Speaker 2: Gabe has lost his mind. He wants to spend twelve
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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars for a cover for the bed of
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Speaker 2: his truck. And the best part is the man already
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Speaker 2: has a cover, so it's not like you don't even
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Speaker 2: have the thing. You have it. You just want this
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Speaker 2: new and improved version. And I get that, but twelve
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Speaker 2: hundred dollars, sir. And Gabe is sitting there telling me like, yeah,
1:12
Speaker 2: but I can find like a coupon code for it.
1:15
Speaker 2: There's still a labor day coupon that's active. And it's like, uh, hello,
1:19
Speaker 2: what about your literal wife? Who what are you saying
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Speaker 2: to me, would your wife be okay with this? And
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Speaker 2: Gabe did not. I have an answer for that.
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Speaker 3: I could get this thing, install it on the back
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Speaker 3: of the truck, hashtag truck community, and I don't think
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Speaker 3: she would notice.
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Speaker 2: She would notice twelve hundred dollars out of your bank account.
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Speaker 2: I think she'd notice.
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Speaker 3: That game not my spending money. I'm not gonna use
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Speaker 3: our spending money. I'll use my spending money.
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Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I feel like that is a
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Speaker 2: big purchase to make without consulting your partner. What is
1:54
Speaker 2: the biggest purchase you have made behind your partner's back
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Speaker 2: or that your partner made behind your back? One? Oh, sorry,
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Speaker 2: one nine eight seven. I want to know, because Gabe,
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Speaker 2: one time, I want you know what. I will start
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Speaker 2: it with this. I'm not married to this man anymore,
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Speaker 2: but once upon a time, when I was married to
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Speaker 2: the father of my children, I got a phone call
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Speaker 2: while I was out at brunch with my girlfriends and
2:18
Speaker 2: he said, just so you know, when you come home,
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Speaker 2: there's a new TV in the living room. It was
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Speaker 2: eight hundred dollars and I'm not returning it. What what
2:30
Speaker 2: that's a lot of money. I mean, he's lucky that
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Speaker 2: I was at brunch and fully like three mimosas in
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Speaker 2: because I think my reaction would have been a lot worse. Sure,
2:40
Speaker 2: but then I got home and like, how would I
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Speaker 2: return a seventy inch TV? So I guess I just
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Speaker 2: lived with that, but I was not happy, and I
2:48
Speaker 2: just feel like, Gabe, don't buy this truck bed cover.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, biggest behind the back purchase you've ever made or
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Speaker 3: willing to admit to? Or what is the number before
3:01
Speaker 3: you do the old significant other check in?
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Speaker 1: Like are you four hundred bucks? You're fine?
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Speaker 3: Five hundred is when you got to ask the hobby
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Speaker 3: or the wifey.
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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying ask, but you're just doing a
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Speaker 1: little check in.
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Speaker 3: You're the old check in, like, hey, can I blow
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Speaker 3: five hundred dollars?
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Speaker 2: Mine is three hundred and fifty dollars. That's a great number, Yeah,
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Speaker 2: because I literally just did that.
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Speaker 1: Oh it makes sense why that is the number? Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Now, if you just tuned in. Angie and I were
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Speaker 3: talking about six or seven minutes ago, you know, what's
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Speaker 3: a big giant purchase you have made behind your partner's back?
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Speaker 1: Now I haven't done it.
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Speaker 3: I was talking to Angie what I thought was inconfidence
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Speaker 3: in my office, and.
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Speaker 1: Here she brought it to the air.
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Speaker 2: Good news.
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Speaker 3: There's this truck thing that I want that's like twelve
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Speaker 3: hundred bucks. Yeah, And I was telling Angie I could
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Speaker 3: get it, put it in and put it on the
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Speaker 3: truck or whatever.
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Speaker 2: Corey would never know. I don't think she'd have a clue.
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Speaker 2: I like it.
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Speaker 1: I got good news and bad news.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 3: The good news is I found almost the exact same
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Speaker 3: thing for only about eight hundred and fifty dollars, So
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Speaker 3: I'm saving.
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Speaker 1: A couple bucks.
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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, that's the good news. The bad news is
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Speaker 3: Corey's listening this morning and she said, no, you cannot
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Speaker 3: get the truck cover. So thanks for nothing, Angie. And
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Speaker 3: we like starting to show off on a positive note
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Speaker 3: every day, and we are gonna do that again with
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Speaker 3: some little victories. If you have a little victory, by
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Speaker 3: the way, don't forget to tell it to us. That's
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Speaker 3: seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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Speaker 3: And if if you don't want to text it, maybe
4:38
Speaker 3: you want to send us a voice memo. We've discovered
4:41
Speaker 3: over like the last month and a half that you
4:42
Speaker 3: can do that. That's pretty cool.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, or you can also just like call us and
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Speaker 2: we can talk to you.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, people sound like when they're uh, they want their
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Speaker 3: crush to call them in like middle school.
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Speaker 1: You can always call me and we can talk.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is how.
5:02
Speaker 1: What's your little victory, Angie?
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Speaker 2: So today I got into work and I realized that
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Speaker 2: I forgot my phone.
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Speaker 1: Your panic stricken.
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Speaker 2: I mean not so much. I'm not. I'm not screen addicted,
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Speaker 2: Gabe wink, No, but I do. I actually use my
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Speaker 2: phone for work a lot, and so I just felt
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Speaker 2: very naked without it, and very thankfully Mikey, my sweetheart,
5:26
Speaker 2: who drops me off at work every day. He's so nice.
5:28
Speaker 2: He wakes up with me. He had already like driven
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Speaker 2: back home. He's already like driven back home, and I
5:35
Speaker 2: was calling my cell phone from my office phone, which
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Speaker 2: I never use, and then he realized, oh, that's not
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Speaker 2: my phone, that's Angie's phone. And then he texted you, GiB.
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Speaker 3: I was a part of this issue, yeah, and said.
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Speaker 2: Like, tell Angie she forgot her phone. I'm going to
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Speaker 2: bring it back to her. So he drove all the
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Speaker 2: way back to bring me my phone. And that was
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Speaker 2: very sweet. So thank you Mikey, I love you. I
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Speaker 2: know you're listening, probably on the podcast later because he
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Speaker 2: listens to the.
6:03
Speaker 1: That is nice he gets up with you.
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Speaker 3: If Corey had to get up when I got up,
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Speaker 3: there is zero and I'd almost say negative chance I
6:11
Speaker 3: would wake up at that time if I didn't have to.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, not in and of itself is pretty sweet. Yeah,
6:17
Speaker 2: it's very sweet. What's your little victory game?
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Speaker 3: My little victory Yesterday, right around a little after lunch,
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Speaker 3: Corey at her work is allowed to like kind of
6:28
Speaker 3: go for a walk in the middle of the afternoon,
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Speaker 3: you know, without like cloking out or whatever on exactly
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Speaker 3: know how it works, but either way, So ween Noa
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Speaker 3: and I went and visited her and went on a
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Speaker 3: walk with her in the middle.
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Speaker 1: Of the day yesterday, which was sweet. Yeah, it was
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Speaker 1: very nice.
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Speaker 3: So you know, that just might kind of be part
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Speaker 3: of the routine or whatever where no one gets to
6:46
Speaker 3: go see ma in the middle of the day, right
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Speaker 3: around lunchtime. So it's kind of nice just walking around
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Speaker 3: with her yesterday in the middle of the afternoon.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Ah, We're in love.
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Speaker 1: The Corneus show him far Ago.
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Speaker 2: I feel like adults at sporting events either it brings
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Speaker 2: out the best in them or the absolute worst. Some
7:13
Speaker 2: of the worst grown up behavior I've ever seen has
7:17
Speaker 2: happened at a sporting event. And we just saw that
7:21
Speaker 2: viral thing with that ceo who stole a hat from
7:25
Speaker 2: a kid at the tennis match. The tennis player was
7:28
Speaker 2: trying to give the kid the hat and then he
7:31
Speaker 2: just snatched it from the kid. Now I love that
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Speaker 2: it ended happy in that the tennis player found the
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Speaker 2: little kid once the story went viral, and then gave
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Speaker 2: him like a new hat and some more merch and
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Speaker 2: they hung out and it was a good thing. But
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Speaker 2: that CEO like, how dare you? And that guy doubled down.
7:48
Speaker 2: He was like, well, you have to take what you want,
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Speaker 2: and so I took it like ill gross. But I
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Speaker 2: feel like the some of the worst behavior I've ever
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Speaker 2: seen in grown ups has been ever at sporting events.
8:01
Speaker 2: Have you witnessed something like that? Oh?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I used to be an umpire for softball, right,
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Speaker 3: and I mean like little kids softball. I'm talking oh okay,
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Speaker 3: third through sixth grade girls and then seven to high
8:13
Speaker 3: school girls, just a slow pitch summer softball league again
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Speaker 3: and only one time, thankfully, only one time in the
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Speaker 3: ten years or whatever that I did that, maybe not
8:23
Speaker 3: ten five years, and I did that. I did have
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Speaker 3: to throw one coach out of a game. Once you
8:27
Speaker 3: throw them out, yeah, I had to ask them to leave.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: So most of the coaches, and I'm bragging here, but
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Speaker 3: most of the coaches liked when I did the games
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Speaker 3: because I hustled whether I got the call right or wrong.
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Speaker 3: At the very least, I would at least run out
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Speaker 3: to try to see it. A lot of times you'd
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Speaker 3: have umsu would just sit behind the plate and not.
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Speaker 1: You know, put a ton of effort in.
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Speaker 3: Okay, so at the very least they couldn't yell at
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Speaker 3: me for not trying or not trying to get close
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Speaker 3: to the player or whatever. So most of the time
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Speaker 3: I got along with just about everybody. But I did
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Speaker 3: have to chuck out this lady out of a game
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Speaker 3: because her team was losing twenty six to zero.
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Speaker 2: And of course that was my fault.
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Speaker 3: You know, not the eighteen errors they had in the
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Speaker 3: second right, but it was my fault that they were
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Speaker 3: down twenty six zero, So I'd ask her to leave.
9:09
Speaker 3: I also played in have you ever been to like
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Speaker 3: a Beer League? Softball game.
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Speaker 2: Yes, my ex played up.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and I love playing, you know, on
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Speaker 3: Thursday night softball with the boys and Sundays or whatever.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I tell you what, though, you run into some of
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Speaker 3: the worst I mean worst thirty five to forty five
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Speaker 3: thirty year old men on the history of Earth. They
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Speaker 3: think they're going to play for the Minnesota Twins tomorrow.
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Speaker 3: They really do think they are going to the league.
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Speaker 3: They're screaming at Umson other it's just so stupid.
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Speaker 1: Oh, it's incredible.
9:45
Speaker 3: You are literally I'm watching you between innings, go drink
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Speaker 3: a beer and then go bat.
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Speaker 1: What this sport is not that serious?
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Speaker 3: Okay, you could eat chicken wings in the dugout and
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Speaker 3: still play this game.
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Speaker 2: That's what I've seen.
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Speaker 1: Incredible.
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Speaker 2: I feel like people get just way entirely too worked up,
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Speaker 2: and for what reason. I feel like, Oh, when I
10:07
Speaker 2: first moved here, there was a big hullabaloo that I
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Speaker 2: saw on the news about like parents getting all worked
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Speaker 2: up at a hockey game.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and parents fighting in hockey.
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Speaker 3: It's a whole different animal, too, right, And I get
10:21
Speaker 3: it thrown down a hockey.
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Speaker 2: Games and it's like, no, that's supposed to stay on
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Speaker 2: the ice, isn't it? What is the worst grown up
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Speaker 2: people behavior you have seen at a sporting event? Seven
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Speaker 2: oh one to two, eight oh one to nine eight seven.
10:33
Speaker 2: I think we just all need to take a deep breath.
10:35
Speaker 1: That's right.
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Speaker 3: And you know the worst part is most people, most parents,
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Speaker 3: most adults, most whatever, are pretty cool, like laid back
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Speaker 3: and just enjoying whatever day game they're at or participating in.
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Speaker 3: It's always the one or two that are the loudest
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Speaker 3: that everyone hears and everyone sees and kind of ruin
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Speaker 3: it for everyone else.
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Speaker 2: I think it's one of those things where if you
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Speaker 2: have it in you to kind of be the worst,
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Speaker 2: what will bring it out is a sporting event.
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Speaker 1: That's right.
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Speaker 3: And I do want to give that CEO a tiny
11:05
Speaker 3: bit of credit, not a ton, because I think we
11:08
Speaker 3: saw who he really was in that moment and he
11:10
Speaker 3: just kind of got caught. He did come out and
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Speaker 3: apologize and reflect and say, hey, that was insane.
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Speaker 2: I don't know what I was thinking he did.
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Speaker 3: He did come out and say here the double down,
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Speaker 3: and it's after the.
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Speaker 2: Whole planet was like, oh, like you're a scumbay.
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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, So at the very least he did apologize
11:27
Speaker 3: for getting caught.
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Speaker 1: There is someone in this studio who may or may.
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Speaker 3: Not use a lot of millennial slang here on Big
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Speaker 3: ninety eight point seven, Angie, why do you do that?
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Speaker 2: I can't help myself. It's the way I was raised.
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Speaker 2: But there's there. So, Okay, Mike and I we have
11:49
Speaker 2: a twenty two year age gap, and for the most part,
11:52
Speaker 2: I don't ever really feel it, like I think we're
11:55
Speaker 2: very well suited. But then there are things that happen
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Speaker 2: where it's like, oh, yeah, we're from a different generation
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Speaker 2: with each other because he's technically gen X okay, and
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Speaker 2: I'm you know, millennial. And so he finally yesterday, and
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Speaker 2: this was funny to me because you used this word
12:15
Speaker 2: literally just like five or six minutes ago. Yesterday, he
12:19
Speaker 2: finally asked me to explain a slang term that you
12:24
Speaker 2: and I use all the time. And he had been
12:28
Speaker 2: too scared to ask, and he said, I'm sorry, I
12:33
Speaker 2: hate that. I'm laughing. I hate when people do that.
12:35
Speaker 2: But when I was talking to the kids and I
12:38
Speaker 2: said that something was fire, I was like, oh my gosh, yeah,
12:41
Speaker 2: I know that's fire. And he finally goes, that's what
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Speaker 2: is that? I was like what, and he asked, what
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Speaker 2: does fire mean?
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Speaker 1: You use it?
12:53
Speaker 2: Gabe uses it? And then I'm thinking, because you guys
12:56
Speaker 2: just went golfing together over the weekend, so if you
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Speaker 2: said fire, it's like, okay, what exactly is that true?
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Speaker 1: I let that rip a few times and he's.
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Speaker 2: Not a dumb person. I know that he has context clues.
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Speaker 2: He knew that it was something good. But he was like,
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Speaker 2: but what exactly when you say something is fire, what
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Speaker 2: do you mean?
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Speaker 1: Yeah?
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Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, just that it's like so great,
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Speaker 2: Like it's so if something's fire, like it's.
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Speaker 3: Amazing, it means business for how dope it is. Yes,
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Speaker 3: that that also was some slang there. It means business
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Speaker 3: for how awesome it is.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh gosh, I've also used like I stood on
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Speaker 2: business and he's like what and I'm like, oh, this
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Speaker 2: is rough. But yeah, sometimes it's just hard. Is there
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Speaker 2: any slang that you do not know and you've been
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Speaker 2: too afraid to ask? We'll try and figure it out together.
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Speaker 2: Seven No One two eight oh one nine eight seven.
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Speaker 2: I did find out that there's a new like texting slang,
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Speaker 2: and so you know, when the millennial way is to
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Speaker 2: have a crying laughing emoji. Yeah, when something's really fun.
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Speaker 2: Then it changed to the skull emoji, like that you're dead,
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Speaker 2: Like it's it's so funny you died the new one,
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Speaker 2: and I've been using it because I'm trying to be cool.
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Speaker 2: I'm not a regular mom. I'm a cool mom. Is
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Speaker 2: the the wilting rose, so like the rose that's like
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Speaker 2: wilting and you know die?
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Speaker 1: I got it, Yeah, I got it. Yeah, I got
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Speaker 1: it that.
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Speaker 2: When something is so hilarious, like you just put that
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Speaker 2: like that means that you're dying.
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Speaker 3: So we're now using slang with emojis, isn't. Yeah, that's
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Speaker 3: how far we've gone.
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Speaker 2: I haven't used that yet with Mikey because he just
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Speaker 2: learned fire, so I can't. He can't do too much.
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Speaker 3: Just seven oh one to eight zero one eight seven,
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Speaker 3: Angie and I, I say, are would have a doctorate
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Speaker 3: in millennial slang?
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Speaker 2: Sure?
14:46
Speaker 3: Yeah, if there's anything below that. Though we are not cool,
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Speaker 3: we are out. No, we're so confused, but if you
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Speaker 3: need some help, we can likely figure it out for you.
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Speaker 3: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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Speaker 3: If you find yourself in a situation like Mikey the
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Speaker 3: one off man that he is who just you know, hey,
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Speaker 3: what is fire?
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Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: Okay, we can help you here today on the ninety
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Speaker 3: eight point seven morning.
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Speaker 2: Show Big ninety Pease Variety.
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Speaker 3: Big ninety eight point seven, Good morning, it's Gabe and Angie.
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Speaker 1: Cloudy today a high of sixty.
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Speaker 2: One, and it is time for am I the Problem?
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Speaker 2: Where you send us your side of the story and
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Speaker 2: we help you figure out if you're in the right
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Speaker 2: or if maybe, just maybe you're the problem. If you
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Speaker 2: ever want to submit and am I the problem? You
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Speaker 2: can head to Big nine eight seven dot com, click
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Speaker 2: on the on air tab and there you go. There's
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Speaker 2: a submission form. So Adriana wrote to us, Hey, Gabe
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Speaker 2: and Angie, you guys are the best and I listened
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Speaker 2: to you every morning. I could use a little help,
15:45
Speaker 2: and I want to know am I the problem? If
15:48
Speaker 2: you say a nice thing to us in the beginning
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Speaker 2: of the email, we're more likely to select yours. No,
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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.
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Speaker 3: Oh no, you can buy our or what am I
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Speaker 3: trying to say? You can buy our love? It's very
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Speaker 3: cheap compliments.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm stuck in some family drama and I don't
16:04
Speaker 2: know if I handled it right. My older sister and
16:07
Speaker 2: I recently reconnected and she trusted me with a big secret.
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Speaker 2: She and her fiance eloped at the courthouse, and she's
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Speaker 2: also pregnant. She made me promise not to tell anyone,
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Speaker 2: and I agreed. Well, the news came out. Okay, thank god,
16:23
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, why are you telling the radio? Well,
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Speaker 2: the news came out to the family, and when they
16:29
Speaker 2: asked if I already knew, I was honest and said yes,
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Speaker 2: but that it wasn't my place to share. I didn't
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Speaker 2: mention the pregnancy either, because again, not my story to tell.
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Speaker 2: Now my mom and my other sister are mad at
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Speaker 2: me for keeping it from them, and things feel really tense.
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Speaker 2: So here's my question. Am I the problem for keeping
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Speaker 2: my sister's secret or was I right to honor her
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Speaker 2: trust even if it hurt the rest of the family. Okay,
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Speaker 2: Mom and sister, let's chill out.
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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, what do you expect to snitch on her
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Speaker 3: sister right now?
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Speaker 1: Granted I would, I'm telling.
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Speaker 3: My older brother or younger sister. Yes, they have tormented
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Speaker 3: me for years. I can finally get back at them
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Speaker 3: with a big, heavy secret.
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Speaker 2: You best believe I'm taking that opportunity. Okay, Gabe, that's
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Speaker 2: actually very fitting for you. I understand that, I do
17:26
Speaker 2: understand where you're coming from, but I think no, I
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Speaker 2: think your family, your mom and your the rest of
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Speaker 2: the family, whoever it is, is being ridiculous because it
17:38
Speaker 2: is not your place to share that information. That was
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Speaker 2: being a good loyal sister. They recently reconnected, so I
17:44
Speaker 2: think there probably was some drama there before. So imagine
17:47
Speaker 2: you just reconnected and then you're gonna betray their trust immediately. No,
17:52
Speaker 2: I will say, moms feel, and I am a mom,
17:56
Speaker 2: moms feel very entitled to know everything about their and
18:01
Speaker 2: I understand that when like the kids are younger, right,
18:05
Speaker 2: because you have to like guide your kids and whatever.
18:07
Speaker 2: And so for me, I always tell my kids, like, listen,
18:11
Speaker 2: I understand you guys are brothers and you tell each
18:14
Speaker 2: other things. But if there's ever anything where you feel
18:16
Speaker 2: like your brother is in some sort of serious situation
18:20
Speaker 2: or you know whatever, you have to tell me because
18:23
Speaker 2: I'm your mom. But when you're an adult, you don't
18:27
Speaker 2: have to tell me because that isn't you know, my
18:30
Speaker 2: place or their place to snitch. I've been in this situation.
18:34
Speaker 2: Several times where my mom thinks that my siblings have
18:36
Speaker 2: should have ratted me out to her. Really yeah, And
18:40
Speaker 2: then my siblings are always like, no, that's Angie's story
18:44
Speaker 2: to tell, and she gets like really offended. Yeah, and
18:48
Speaker 2: I get very annoyed. And so I identify very hard
18:52
Speaker 2: with Adriana, because stop, you don't get to know everything
18:56
Speaker 2: just because you feel like it. We're all adults now,
18:59
Speaker 2: so we get to tell in our own time, whatever
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Speaker 2: our situations are.
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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't the mom just be mad at this, the
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Speaker 3: daughter who didn't tell her that she was pregnant and eloped?
19:08
Speaker 3: Why are we I feel like we're skipping part of
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Speaker 3: our anger letder?
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Speaker 1: All right?
19:15
Speaker 3: I think the top of the ladder should be the
19:17
Speaker 3: kid who did it right. We're upset with the girl
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Speaker 3: who didn't tell you. I'm we're missing we're missing a
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Speaker 3: step here.
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Speaker 2: What do you think? Seven oh one two eight oh
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Speaker 2: one to nine eight seven. Should Adriana have snitched out
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Speaker 2: the big secret? Or was she right to keep it
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Speaker 2: to herself? Adriana wrote in wondering if she was the problem,
19:45
Speaker 2: She reconnected with her sister recently, who told her a
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Speaker 2: big old secret, which was that she and her dude
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Speaker 2: eloped and that she's pregnant, and so Adriana kept the secret.
19:56
Speaker 2: Now it's out in the open, and her mom and
19:59
Speaker 2: the rest of her family are mad at Adriana because
20:02
Speaker 2: when they asked if she already knew, she said yes,
20:06
Speaker 2: and so they thought, how dare you? You should have
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Speaker 2: told us the secret? So is Adriana the problem for
20:13
Speaker 2: keeping this secret for her sister?
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Speaker 3: It would have depended on how nice my brother or
20:18
Speaker 3: sister was to I in that moment, whether I'd have
20:20
Speaker 3: snitched or not. If they had been real buttholes, I
20:23
Speaker 3: would have liked, but I would have snitched.
20:27
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've that tracks. It happens on.
20:30
Speaker 1: If they were being nice to me that month or not.
20:32
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, my sister and I we have always
20:35
Speaker 2: kept secrets for each other, and then my mom finds
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Speaker 2: out and she always asks if the other one knew? Yeah,
20:45
Speaker 2: And I always say no, I had no idea, and
20:47
Speaker 2: my sister says, no, I had no idea.
20:50
Speaker 3: That is one hundred percent the correct answer. We got
20:54
Speaker 3: to give a big shout out to Ali. She actually
20:56
Speaker 3: sent in the advice that I think, not advice, but
20:58
Speaker 3: the answer that siblings would go with This is very
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Speaker 3: real and very true and something I've done a million times.
21:05
Speaker 3: I would have lied about knowing the secret. But absolutely,
21:09
Speaker 3: she's not the problem. True. We have to we need
21:12
Speaker 3: to start respecting self preservation.
21:14
Speaker 2: Okay that part.
21:16
Speaker 3: I would say, out of one hundred times that you lie,
21:19
Speaker 3: ninety eight percent of the time, it's probably not great.
21:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.
21:23
Speaker 3: The truth will always set you free, except in a
21:28
Speaker 3: scenario where mom or dad is gonna lay down the
21:31
Speaker 3: hammer on you because your brother or sister did something dumb.
21:34
Speaker 3: At that point, lie, that's the two percent where you
21:37
Speaker 3: are allowed to lie to keep yourself safe.
21:40
Speaker 2: Agree, Adriana, you were so right to keep the secret,
21:44
Speaker 2: But girl, you gotta know when to lie.
21:51
Speaker 3: Not stay or wide wedding Angie, you were recently in
21:55
Speaker 3: a wedding. Yes, od, that's right. I will be in
21:58
Speaker 3: a wedding coming up next weekend.
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Speaker 2: Are you groomsmen or best man?
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Speaker 1: Regular old groomsmen?
22:04
Speaker 3: I'm like the one you really don't need you could
22:06
Speaker 3: probably replace, Okay, Like realistically, you know I feel, I mean,
22:11
Speaker 3: I do. This is a very good friend of mine,
22:12
Speaker 3: but I'm kind of one of those like if Chelsea
22:15
Speaker 3: his to be wife only wanted a couple bridesmaids.
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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm just there for like a numbers game.
22:21
Speaker 3: You'll lift right out, all right, I'm very not necessary,
22:25
Speaker 3: but still fun. Angie and I were talking about groomsmen
22:29
Speaker 3: bridesmaid yesterday and we wanted to bring a little It
22:33
Speaker 3: wasn't necessarily a debate, but a debate to big ninety
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Speaker 3: eight point seven.
22:37
Speaker 1: We want to bring it to you which is harder.
22:42
Speaker 3: Being a bridesmaid or a groomsman seven oh one two
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Speaker 3: eight zero one nine eight seven. And there are there
22:51
Speaker 3: are two ways to go about thinking about this.
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Speaker 2: No, no, no, don't try to say we will plead our cases.
22:58
Speaker 3: Being a bridesmaid is outlandishly more expensive, wildly more expensive.
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Speaker 2: Right, but that is about cost, Okay, cost aside, what
23:09
Speaker 2: is the more difficult rule being a groomsman or a bridesmaid?
23:13
Speaker 2: And we need you to settle the debate. Obviously, I
23:16
Speaker 2: think I'm right and that being a bridesmaid is more difficult. Yeah,
23:22
Speaker 2: and Gabe weirdly thinks he's right that being a groomsman
23:26
Speaker 2: is more difficult. So we need you to settle the debate.
23:29
Speaker 3: And for me, it's not necessarily based on what is
23:32
Speaker 3: more difficult for me. It is I feel like being
23:35
Speaker 3: a bridesmaid. While it can be a lot, at least
23:39
Speaker 3: it's it seems kind of fun. You're getting together, You're
23:44
Speaker 3: all doing your makeup together, your photos, your hair's professionally
23:49
Speaker 3: done that day. You know that while you will not
23:52
Speaker 3: be the star of the show, there is a good
23:54
Speaker 3: chance you are one of the six best looking people
23:57
Speaker 3: in this room.
23:58
Speaker 2: Gabe.
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Speaker 1: No, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 2: It's not fun. That's a lie perpetuated by big bridesmaid like.
24:04
Speaker 2: It's not for dudes.
24:06
Speaker 3: We sort of just sit around all day and get
24:09
Speaker 3: told to move chairs.
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Speaker 2: That's the dream.
24:11
Speaker 1: Very fun, that's the dream. It's like an event.
24:14
Speaker 2: You know, my gosh, that's what you don't get. We
24:16
Speaker 2: make it seem like it's an event to trick ourselves
24:19
Speaker 2: that we're having a good time. No, it's horrible, all
24:23
Speaker 2: of us getting ready at the same time. In theory,
24:26
Speaker 2: so cute. Let's have some champagne or whatever mosas, But
24:29
Speaker 2: you can't drink of mimosa because then you start to
24:31
Speaker 2: feel warm, and while you're getting ready, you're feeling warm,
24:34
Speaker 2: and then you're trying to curl your hair, which has
24:36
Speaker 2: a hot iron thing. By your face, and then you're
24:39
Speaker 2: hot and you're sweating, and sweating is not good for
24:42
Speaker 2: makeup application, or when you're trying to keep your edges
24:45
Speaker 2: from curling, when you're doing your hair, it's it's not good,
24:48
Speaker 2: it's not fun. So then you don't have the mimosas,
24:51
Speaker 2: which means you're just sober and in a panic, trying
24:54
Speaker 2: to make sure that you get everything. You're getting ready
24:56
Speaker 2: in a place that's not your own bathroom, and so
25:00
Speaker 2: it's like, wait, did I forget something? Who needs the
25:02
Speaker 2: curling iron? I need to steam the dress. It's a nightmare.
25:05
Speaker 2: Gabe and I love that we have put on quite
25:08
Speaker 2: a show and made you think, oh my gosh, being
25:11
Speaker 2: a bridesmaid, what a time. It is not a time,
25:14
Speaker 2: but we do it because we love the bride.
25:17
Speaker 3: That's right, all right? Seven oh one two eight zero
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Speaker 3: one nine eight seven?
25:22
Speaker 2: Uh?
25:22
Speaker 1: What is more fun or what is harder?
25:25
Speaker 3: However, you want to narrow this debate down, let us
25:27
Speaker 3: know this morning on Big ninety eight point seven, not
25:32
Speaker 3: stay or a wide wedding.
25:35
Speaker 2: The debate is what which is better to be? I
25:39
Speaker 2: guess a groomsman or a bridesmaid. I was just a
25:42
Speaker 2: bridesmaid in a wedding. Gabe is about to be a
25:44
Speaker 2: groomsman in a wedding, And this isn't your first rodeo
25:48
Speaker 2: as a groomsman, right, negative? And this is not that
25:52
Speaker 2: wasn't my first rodeo as a bridesmaid. So I was
25:54
Speaker 2: saying being a bridesmaid is absolutely worse. And Gabe thinks
25:58
Speaker 2: that being a bridesmaid is better because it's like more fun.
26:01
Speaker 2: What is the problem with being groomsman? What don't you
26:03
Speaker 2: like about it?
26:04
Speaker 3: It's not that I have a problem with it, but
26:07
Speaker 3: really it's a lot of waiting around for things that
26:10
Speaker 3: we don't care a ton about.
26:13
Speaker 1: Yeah, I generally as like a guy. I don't.
26:15
Speaker 3: I I'm sorry. I know the bride in the groom
26:17
Speaker 3: can love them. That's great. I could not care less
26:20
Speaker 3: about these wedding photos. I really don't. And you sin
26:23
Speaker 3: around and you wait and you do nothing for twelve
26:26
Speaker 3: hours before you take eighty photos, and then you stand
26:30
Speaker 3: around and wait some more.
26:32
Speaker 2: I think that that's way better because for us, it's
26:35
Speaker 2: that we care too much about the photos, right, and
26:38
Speaker 2: so we have to put so much work into looking
26:41
Speaker 2: the best we can. The I was just a bridesmaid,
26:44
Speaker 2: and for those photos they were outside in a botanical
26:48
Speaker 2: garden and the heat it was so muggy. It was
26:50
Speaker 2: an in Indiana. Yeah, and I didn't realize that the
26:54
Speaker 2: dress I was wearing because we were just giving a
26:56
Speaker 2: color palette and you can pick whatever dress you wanted,
26:58
Speaker 2: so I picked one that I thought, Oh, this is
27:00
Speaker 2: great for my quote unquote figure. I didn't realize that
27:04
Speaker 2: the fabric showed moisture in the way that it.
27:07
Speaker 1: Did not conduce him to the sweat.
27:09
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was like sweating so hard. And it's
27:12
Speaker 2: like I had been so stressed out about these pictures
27:14
Speaker 2: and then who knows that they even turned out. I
27:16
Speaker 2: hope that photographer did some editing. And it's like, it's
27:19
Speaker 2: too much pressure to be a bridesmaid. It would be
27:22
Speaker 2: so much better to just wade around. Gabe, you think
27:25
Speaker 2: that that's boring, but you don't know how good you
27:27
Speaker 2: have it. My sister texted me. My sister VB said,
27:30
Speaker 2: can you ask Mike if I can be a groomsman?
27:33
Speaker 2: Being a bridesmaid sounds awful. She's never been a bridesmaid before,
27:37
Speaker 2: but she's listening to the show and apparently I made
27:39
Speaker 2: it sound terrible.
27:40
Speaker 1: Yeah, ah, I will agree.
27:42
Speaker 3: There's a lot more that goes into your bro to
27:46
Speaker 3: being a bridesmaid. On the day of, you know, you
27:48
Speaker 3: probably gotta wake up a little earlier. You got to
27:50
Speaker 3: do all this getting ready. Yeah, well, at least you're
27:53
Speaker 3: kind of doing something with a group of people. I'm
27:55
Speaker 3: a collective's kind of guy. When you're with the collective
27:58
Speaker 3: achieving a goal. Yeah, it sounds fun to me instead
28:02
Speaker 3: of it's just like me and my buddies sitting around.
28:05
Speaker 3: Hey man, you need help putting on suspenders. You know
28:08
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Like, it's just there's nothing too much.
28:10
Speaker 2: Oh, Gabe, you just love the camradie. That's right, That's
28:14
Speaker 2: what I'm Joseph adorable.
28:16
Speaker 3: We did get a text from Marissa, and Marissa said, well,
28:19
Speaker 3: Gabe is right, and being a groomsman is pretty boring
28:21
Speaker 3: and you wait around for things guys don't care about.
28:24
Speaker 3: There is so much more that goes into being a bridesmaid,
28:27
Speaker 3: and that makes it a lot worse and or harder.
28:30
Speaker 2: Exactly.
28:31
Speaker 3: I think that is true. I just you know, I'm
28:33
Speaker 3: just jealous. It just looks so fun. Okay, it's like
28:35
Speaker 3: a slumber party. I didn't get invited to.
28:37
Speaker 2: Well, you can be a bride'sman when I get married again, Gabe,
28:42
Speaker 2: you can be on my side. All right, I'll take that. Okay.
28:51
Speaker 3: This story was all over the TV in our studio,
28:55
Speaker 3: Angie Oh, I recall as there was a Fargo native
28:58
Speaker 3: who's receiving Internet attention for his heroic actions at this
29:03
Speaker 3: amusement park, John Samson. He called it dad instincts, and
29:08
Speaker 3: he saved this boy who becomes stuck above or he
29:12
Speaker 3: became stuck high above the ground at Hershey Park in
29:16
Speaker 3: central Pennsylvania. Samson, who grew up in Fargo and graduated
29:20
Speaker 3: from Shanley High School in two thousand and four before
29:22
Speaker 3: earning a degree from the University of North Dakota. He
29:24
Speaker 3: now lives in the suburbs of Philadelphia with his family,
29:27
Speaker 3: and he works as a veterinarian. The rescue, which took
29:31
Speaker 3: place on Saturday, has gotten global media coverage. He said,
29:35
Speaker 3: it's absolutely bonkers. Never in my mind when I fathom
29:38
Speaker 3: this story getting that big.
29:41
Speaker 1: There is this kid who's.
29:43
Speaker 3: Like walking along the track of a roller coaster.
29:46
Speaker 1: It's so weird.
29:48
Speaker 2: When you are a parent, you're like Spidey sense tingles
29:52
Speaker 2: when a kid is doing something that is dangerous, and
29:55
Speaker 2: usually it's for your own kid. But like watching that,
29:59
Speaker 2: it's like, huh and clearly his spidery sense was tingling. Yeah,
30:03
Speaker 2: and he saved the day.
30:05
Speaker 1: Yeah.
30:05
Speaker 3: So what he does is he like gets on the
30:07
Speaker 3: roof of this building, shimmy's on up to this like
30:11
Speaker 3: roller coaster track, gets this kid off with the help
30:15
Speaker 3: of someone else, he was able to lower the kid
30:17
Speaker 3: down to another adult. But this story's gone absolutely massive,
30:22
Speaker 3: he says. I went up the concession stand right away
30:25
Speaker 3: and I asked, is there a ladder on the outside
30:27
Speaker 3: of the building that goes up? Which I didn't lead with,
30:29
Speaker 3: there's a kid up on this monorail and basically becomes
30:34
Speaker 3: the hero. How cool was that I saw that story
30:36
Speaker 3: yesterday and then today finding out that this man is
30:39
Speaker 3: from he grew up in Fargo, which I think is
30:42
Speaker 3: very very cool. Way to go, John, if you see
30:45
Speaker 3: that on your TV at some point today or tomorrow,
30:48
Speaker 3: just no, he's one of us.
30:49
Speaker 2: That's right.
30:50
Speaker 3: The world is full of nice people. If you can't
30:52
Speaker 3: find one, you gotta be one.