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Business and Love · Divas That Care Network

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  SPEAKER_00: I know,
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  SPEAKER_02: right?
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  SPEAKER_02: What happened there?
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  SPEAKER_02: All right.
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  SPEAKER_02: So I am just tickled to be doing this interview with a very dear friend of mine.
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  SPEAKER_02: Diva's that care idea, and it's around this whole idea of reclaiming the word diva.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's about making sure that we as women, especially as women, can connect, because we're such community beings, aren't we?
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  SPEAKER_02: So my guest today is, well, I know her as many different things, but today she's Anne.
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  SPEAKER_02: And Anne is coming to us from out east, out east Canada.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm pretty excited to be with her.
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  SPEAKER_02: She's always up to something, and every time we get together, it's like we try to smush, I don't know how long it's been, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: We just smush it all together.
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  SPEAKER_02: We're Like, I think that's everything.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_02: And thankfully, we're one of those beings that seems like we can just pick up wherever we left off, which I really appreciate.
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  SPEAKER_02: But I know you and your partner are up to a lot of amazing things right now, certainly in changing the world and bringing so much love to it, which certainly is a message that we're needing right now, especially as we're socially distanced, socially, physically distanced.
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  SPEAKER_02: We're socially connected right now.
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  SPEAKER_02: I think we're more socially connected now than we've ever been.
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  SPEAKER_02: Right?
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  SPEAKER_02: Every time somebody says we're social distancing, I'm like, heck no.
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  SPEAKER_02: Social media is on fire right now.
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  SPEAKER_02: But anyway, without any further ado, Anne, typically like it when my guests can just come on and share, you know, their bio in their own words, because, and then we'll kind of go from there and let Spirit lead in terms of questions that we might discuss.
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  SPEAKER_00: Where we go from
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  SPEAKER_02: here.
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  SPEAKER_02: I know.
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  SPEAKER_02: And for my listeners, Anne and I enjoy going down rabbit holes and talking about just about everything under the sun.
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  SPEAKER_02: So we're both kind of chuckling when we're like, we're going to hit record.
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  SPEAKER_02: And neither one of us are really sure about where this is going to go.
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  SPEAKER_02: So hang on to your hats, people.
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  SPEAKER_02: This is going to be fun.
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  SPEAKER_02: Anne, the call is yours.
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  SPEAKER_00: So thank you.
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  SPEAKER_00: As I was prepping for this call, the biggest question that stood out for me is what's been my passion.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I didn't prep for this call primarily because most of my passion my whole life has been to speak from my heart.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I've learned to trust and understand that when we're willing and able to come from that place of vulnerability in business, in life, in love, it's irrelevant in all aspects of our existence.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's where the true growth and the true magic happens.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yet we're not pre-programmed or even preconditioned to live from that space.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that's, in full transparency, that was a very scary place for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've always had that inner knowing, but it's like, anytime I actually spoke my truth or I shared what was coming from my heart, it was not always well received.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, I spent a lot of my life shutting that aspect of my inner existence and my inner core down, not believing that humans could actually, or people could actually understand what it means to operate from that plane of existence or their plane of reality, which in the simple language I could say is love, but it's much more complex than that.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's this true place of the words are so overused, but let's play, unconditional love, neutrality, that I could spout before, but until you actually start to live that, you actually can't understand its power in depth.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when I look back, it's always been that inner knowing, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But how do you transmute that or how do you actually play with that in this reality?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so it wasn't until I met my crazy divine partner on April Fool's Day, big joke, but not really, 2012, where I met the possibility that there would be divine sciences and technologies to help us let go and embody the soul more vastly into this human form.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there's no logic to that frigging decision because, you know, I love him and he's handsome and all those things to me, but it wasn't about the dude, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It was about the journey.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so, yeah, that's kind of when people say, what do you share?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, well, that's a loaded question because I would almost say it's a way of life, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: in its own existence that you understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so thank you for even letting me express this because in the time that we've been together, it's been more and more interesting, I'm not even gonna say challenging anymore, for me to be able to express that and get people to actually understand what it is that I'm sharing.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I know that you've got a couple of, websites and ways that people are going to contact you.
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  SPEAKER_02: And again, those will be, you know, linked below so people can, you know, find out more, connect with you guys directly because, uh, and I've been a part of, um, think I knew your partner maybe a little bit before you did oh before me yeah yeah no before um and he had certainly come into my world and and brought a lot of change and and healing and we meet those people right like I'm I was saying to a friend yesterday that they are divine appointments you can't miss them right you can't you don't want to miss them you don't want to miss them but yeah you know and um you just you end up where you're supposed to and um I remember when he started talking about you and a large part of it was this concept of love.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I've often said, it's too bad that we only have one word for love.
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  SPEAKER_02: We really can't describe that.
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  SPEAKER_02: And as you were talking, I was thinking about different analogies, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: You can't give from, you know, if the saucer's empty, you give from the overflow, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: You give from the saucer, not the cup, the saucer, the overflow and what that means.
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  SPEAKER_02: And a few of the gals we've had on this talk before have often talked about the love or the self-love and how you'd speak to yourself first.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I know it's been a bit of a journey, like you said, that that was so outside of what you knew it somewhere.
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  SPEAKER_02: But then things had to sort of conspire.
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  SPEAKER_02: so that you could literally conspire.
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  SPEAKER_00: Literally conspire.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think some days, I think I made the plan because it was an insane plan, but there is.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so one of the things over time that's become really important when we connect and share with people is to even teach and share this concept of surrendering to love.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's almost funny, given my background, because it was all about control, in the box, tax account, like to be, you know, it was very boxed.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so to understand that we can create greater acceleration and greater growth and greater divine appointments if we want to use that, or divine alignment, sometimes requires our ability to let go of the steering wheel.
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  SPEAKER_00: And for some of us, I would say always, but you know, I'm creating a subtle space, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not.
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  SPEAKER_00: And, and so when we talk about conspiring, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes I play with the fact that it's really our soul conspiring us to find the divine connections, the alignments, the friends, the businesses, the fun that really make our lives fulfilling.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if we're not listening, then it can get ugly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so I have to say, well, if you're living in the ugly, then you must not be listening at all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's kind of what I've witnessed over time.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I've observed in myself recently and that, you know, anxiety kicks in when I've missed an opportunity for me to be in integrity.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it might be as simple as agreeing with something that wasn't what I actually thought.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to make the other person uncomfortable, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm a recovering people pleaser right here.
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  SPEAKER_02: And right now, Hello.
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  SPEAKER_02: Sorry.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_02: Two hands.
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  SPEAKER_02: But yet speaking my truth comes very easily to me.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's just learning to stay there.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so I'll feel anxious and I'll think, why am I anxious?
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  SPEAKER_02: And I literally have to chase that back in my head.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm like, was it this?
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  SPEAKER_02: No.
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  SPEAKER_02: Was it this?
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  SPEAKER_02: No.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh.
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  SPEAKER_02: It was this.
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  SPEAKER_02: And sometimes it can be like 24, 48, 72 hours before.
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  SPEAKER_02: And then I can either clear it up, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: Cancel, cancel, delete, delete, or actually physically have the conversation set it right make a plan to do whatever that is um and that's been like life-changing and as you were talking about so this love and this surrender that's part of it it's not you know we're sent here to figure out you know how to how to be we are perfect we are enough we already are love we just get all muddled in this human suit right this The
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  SPEAKER_01: honey
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  SPEAKER_02: suit.
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  SPEAKER_02: The honey suit.
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  SPEAKER_02: That's another sticker.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's another.
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  SPEAKER_01: Well,
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  SPEAKER_00: it's funny what stood out for me when you said that, and it's been the largest awareness I've even had during this intriguing time.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're right.
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  SPEAKER_00: We've been very much busier on some level and yet not because during this time, what's come is this deeper awareness that the example you gave, which stands out for me is, When I've not been in my truth, it's like I've gotten off my own bus.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so because of the people pleaser or whatever ingrained pattern exists in the human psyche or in the human form, we somehow believe that if we're not in that truth in all aspects of our reality, because we're not conditioned to do so or collective consciousness or whatever you want to play in, we're out of alignment and that when you're really in tune and you get more in tune with yourself, it almost becomes physically uncomfortable because you know that's not real for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I didn't realize over the years how much out of alignment I was.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what I can say to anybody who's listening is find the people, the tools, the connections, whatever that is that helps you align to truth for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not my truth, not somebody else's truth, not the collective's truth, because that's just interesting some days.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the Encore podcast
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  SPEAKER_02: right there.
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  SPEAKER_02: We'll go there later.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it's more about you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so there are tools, people, technologies, whatever that is, to help you accelerate that ability to getting back to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's not a good or bad thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not a requirement, but it certainly makes life fucking happier.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's really what it is about in the end.
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  SPEAKER_02: Well, and I think so much of that, what's been coming up as you've been speaking is that it's about feeling good.
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  SPEAKER_02: And, you know, we know that our stomachs, right, our gut is that second brain.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's just, it's, That's it.
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  SPEAKER_02: And when we're chasing what feels good, not just what feels good, but what feels good, you know it.
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  SPEAKER_02: You know it.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's a yes or a no.
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  SPEAKER_02: If you ask somebody and they hesitate, I'm like, you already know.
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  SPEAKER_02: What are you pretending not to know?
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  SPEAKER_02: That's the thing.
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  SPEAKER_02: That's the thing you need to do.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I think about for even myself and all the things that I haven't done you know, up until now or haven't yet done, it's because I'm usually telling myself some BS story about how I can't, or I'm not there yet or whatever.
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  SPEAKER_02: And what's been coming to me over and over and over again recently is like, nobody wants you to be perfect.
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  SPEAKER_02: Just, you know, in fact, it's better if you're kind of stumbling around in the dark too.
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  SPEAKER_02: And you know, that's part of why I do these calls and we hit record.
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  SPEAKER_02: And we hit stop.
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  SPEAKER_02: And unless there's some big glaring blip in the middle, we are not editing it.
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  SPEAKER_02: We're not changing it.
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  SPEAKER_02: We're not pulling words out.
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  SPEAKER_02: We're not whatever, because I think right now people are hungry for love.
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  SPEAKER_02: They're also hungry for what's real.
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  SPEAKER_02: They're hungry for real stories, real experiences, authenticity.
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  SPEAKER_02: They're hungry for people showing up and saying, hey, I'm here.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's been a little crazy lately, actually.
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  SPEAKER_02: I was saying to a girlfriend earlier, I said, I feel like, you know, the universe, God, whatever you want to, like you said, whatever place you want to play in, picked me up by the scruff of my neck and went, sit.
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  SPEAKER_02: Stay.
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  SPEAKER_02: Don't stay well.
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  SPEAKER_00: You and me both have been confined to the house for four weeks.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm getting a little squirrely in the
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  SPEAKER_02: moment.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh, you know, and that's been interesting too.
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  SPEAKER_02: And the number of conversations that have happened through like this, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: You and I are connecting and.
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  SPEAKER_02: the number of things that have been birthed in this particular moment in time.
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  SPEAKER_02: People who said, well, I meant to put a program out there, but I never had time.
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  SPEAKER_02: I meant to do this.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I said to one of my girlfriends, I said, I always had time.
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  SPEAKER_02: I've been an entrepreneur for 12 years.
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  SPEAKER_02: I could have made time at any particular point in time, but I didn't until I felt like, you know, I had time.
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  SPEAKER_02: And that's been a really, something I've really been thinking about.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm like, what else have I not made time for?
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  SPEAKER_02: that I've been thinking I'd really like to make time for this.
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  SPEAKER_02: Well, I probably should just make time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyway.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in that, I agree.
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  SPEAKER_00: The biggest thing that what I've witnessed is for those that are willing to make time for themselves right now, and that includes me, I've seen some of the biggest shifts and changes again that I've seen in a long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's intriguing how this time has catapulted that not just from a creation standpoint, but for those that are willing to go inside and just really dig and be themselves and nurture themselves and allow themselves to grow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it is an exponential time of possibilities.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a billion, I'm sure, chaotic notes that are going on because nothing, nothing is the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's magical.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you want to come out the other side doing the same thing, fantastic.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you don't, now's the time to play with that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I really have seen that possibility, even right down to getting on this call.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was like, no, just be.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just be yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let it happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hair on the head.
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  SPEAKER_00: Be real.
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  SPEAKER_00: And because I'm not wanting to BS myself anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: I really...
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  SPEAKER_00: want to express what that is for me.
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  UNKNOWN: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I know it's been having, you know, been around you while you've been journeying to, you know, the, who you are becoming today and seeing elements of that as you stepped into, you know, your own knowing and your own, I mean, you offer a very unique gift to the world.
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  SPEAKER_02: And for those who want to know what that is, just go check out the links below and feel that out.
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  SPEAKER_02: But it's been magical for me to watch you step into that.
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  SPEAKER_02: And, you know, it's almost like, you know, for such a time as this, right?
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  SPEAKER_02: We've been prepping for this for a while and there's been parts of me that I'm like, oh, I see why that happened before because now I'm ready for this.
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  SPEAKER_02: Wasn't that interesting?
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  SPEAKER_02: Like you said, you know, did I set it up?
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  SPEAKER_02: Well, maybe, because clearly there was some stuff that was like lined up, but...
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  SPEAKER_02: This is typically the part of the call where I really open it up for the guest to say whatever they might want to say or sort of whatever has been on their mind and their heart as they've been prepping for the call for who's ever listening or watching.
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  SPEAKER_02: You
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  SPEAKER_00: know, the only thing that when I speak to people is and to be able to express the depth of that if I could impart that inner knowing and understanding of what I've learned and what you know, if you're listening to this, is it's time to stop following other people's truths.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not your mama's truth, your dad's truth, your brother's truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's your truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: And sometimes that can be mildly uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_02: Sometimes a little mildly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I know I was going to go for the extreme, but I'm trying, you know, you're trying to be comfortable
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  SPEAKER_02: to be,
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  SPEAKER_00: you know, gentle and diplomatic, but the reality is it can be very uncomfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that discomfort is absolutely beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you can get anything out of listening to this or during this time or in future times is to absolutely willingly step into the uncomfortable and but the uncomfortable that's right for you, not by handing it to somebody else and having them do it for you, but empowering the real you to come out in whatever form that is for you.
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  SPEAKER_02: Amazing.
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  SPEAKER_02: So I think everybody listening can figure out why, and I enjoy sitting and having a conversation.
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  SPEAKER_02: And we really just let you in on one of those because we were having a wonderful time wandering through various thoughts that we've been having.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so, Anne, thank you so much for joining me today to do this and letting us hit record on that because that's cool.
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  UNKNOWN: Thank you.
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  SPEAKER_02: And again, for anybody who's listening in, if you've got some value out of this, connect with Anne or myself.
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  SPEAKER_02: So thank you so much.
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