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The Age We Stop Caring What People Think About Us · The Cubby and Christine Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Christine along with me, Kubby. We got Kristen hanging out
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  Speaker 1: and Happy Thursday. Final day of April. Whoa, it's a wrap.
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  Speaker 2: Cannot believe it.
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  Speaker 3: May first tomorrow. A lot going on, by the way,
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  Speaker 3: real quick. In May.
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  Speaker 1: You have the Kentucky Derby on Saturday, the met Gala
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  Speaker 1: next week, Sinko Demayo, Mother's Day next weekend, the can
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  Speaker 1: Or Cohn Film Festival.
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  Speaker 3: That's in mid May.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's can.
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  Speaker 1: Can Indianapolis five hundreds. At the end of May, you
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  Speaker 1: got the final episode of the Late Show with Stephen Colbert.
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  Speaker 3: May twenty first, Oh, let's right down the street from us.
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  Speaker 3: I know. The World Championship Barbecue Cooking Contest in Memphis
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  Speaker 3: is May thirteenth.
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  Speaker 2: I got to get to that. That sounds good.
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  Speaker 1: May seventeenth is the Academy of Country Music Awards. I
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  Speaker 1: got the whole May lineup.
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  Speaker 2: Use Tony nominations next week.
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  Speaker 3: Tony nominations next week. Okay, it's gonna be May.
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  Speaker 2: It's gonna be May.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, I forgot what we were gonna talk about.
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  Speaker 2: We were gonna talk about what age? At what age
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  Speaker 2: do we stop worrying about what other people think of us?
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  Speaker 3: Is there a number that.
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  Speaker 2: There's a number according to this survey of adults fifty
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  Speaker 2: five and over, and they said they started to feel
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  Speaker 2: comfortable in their own skin and it wasn't until the
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  Speaker 2: age of forty two. And by the time they stopped
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  Speaker 2: worrying about what other people think of them, they were
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  Speaker 2: forty six. It averages out to forty six. Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 2: I think never. I think I'm going to be ninety
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  Speaker 2: and still worry.
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  Speaker 3: Do you always worry about what the people are talking
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  Speaker 3: about your thinking?
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  Speaker 2: No? No, that sounds like paranoid. No, it's not that.
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  Speaker 2: It's not Maybe it's more about people pleasing that's.
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  Speaker 3: You are worse than me. Actually, like we all tried.
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  Speaker 1: I think everyone in this room we try to make
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  Speaker 1: your one happy and say yes to everything. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: even I at this point I'm a little bit like whatever, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: what are they gonna do?
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  Speaker 3: You know? If I say nothing?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, not I'm trying to get better with that. But yes,
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  Speaker 2: like if I do say, oh I can't do something,
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  Speaker 2: or I don't know, turn an invitation down, I worry,
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  Speaker 2: like how did that land on that person?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 2: Are they hurt? What are they thinking? And they're probably
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  Speaker 2: just fine, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And if you send an email, and actually I can't
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  Speaker 1: picture you sending an email, that's kind of like bad.
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  Speaker 3: But if you're really to.
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  Speaker 1: Speak your mind, maybe yeah, you after you hit Senn,
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  Speaker 1: are you like, oh no, yeah, I might have just
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  Speaker 1: gotten fired even though it's not a big deal.
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  Speaker 2: So don't send an email. Just don't speak. I know,
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  Speaker 2: it's just what you're thinking.
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  Speaker 3: What about when you leave the studio? Do you think
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  Speaker 3: that we talk about you? No? Ok, because we don't. Don't.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I'm not like paranoid.
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  Speaker 3: I used to think that you did. When I used
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  Speaker 3: to leave a studio, Well there was a reason.
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  Speaker 2: Wait a minute, that was a whole different vibe and
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  Speaker 2: a whole different energy other places that there was a
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  Speaker 2: reason that that was going on. I didn't come in
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  Speaker 2: that way. I left that way. But that's gone. Because
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  Speaker 2: we have a really great rapport here, you and Kristen me.
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  Speaker 4: We should tell people that are running joke we have here,
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  Speaker 4: what's that if we if I come back in the
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  Speaker 4: studio sometimes oh and you guys just end a natural conversation,
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  Speaker 4: but the timing ends as I walk in, I'll jokingly go,
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  Speaker 4: all right, guys, that what.
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  Speaker 3: Was real nice, real nice, real nice, real nice. You
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  Speaker 3: stop talking right when I come in.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, that's just a joke, right, because that is
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  Speaker 2: not happening. So I don't know if that's the same
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  Speaker 2: thing about worrying about what other people there are two?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think four four three six three? Is
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  Speaker 2: there a stage in your life where you stopped worrying
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  Speaker 2: about what other people think of you? It must be
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  Speaker 2: so fering and wonderful. Tell me how you did it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this would be our biggest text of the of
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  Speaker 1: the day, I think.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we do want to hear from you at four
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  Speaker 3: four three six three, coming right back