Latest / HAVE FAITH LET IT BEGIN® / "Letting Go: Lessons from Taylor Swift & Katy Perry"
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- 0:00Happy Wednesday, everyone, and welcome to my staycation. I have pulled out another
- 0:04archive, episode number one, season two.
- 0:08I hope you'll enjoy it. I think it's really good. I remember the title. It's called Letting Go.
- 0:13Take a look, listen, and enjoy. See you then.
- 0:18On June 16th, 2018, I launched this show. Have faith, let it begin.
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- 1:00Today is Tuesday, June 18th, 2019 and welcome.
- 1:06My name is Angel. Folks, we are streaming this live all over every platform,
- 1:11and today we want to give a quick shout out to Katy Perry and Taylor Swift,
- 1:17because this actual topic is inspired by what I heard and read yesterday, so let's get right to it.
- 1:27My name is Angel. I'm the host of Have Faith, Let It Begin. Bear with me if
- 1:31you're listening to me for the first time.
- 1:33I'm still battling a long cold that just will not go away.
- 1:37Folks, today's topic is very simple, letting go. That's right.
- 1:42What I saw yesterday on Twitter and all over social media was the fact that
- 1:48Taylor Swift and Katy Perry ended a feud.
- 1:52Now, I'll be honest with you, I didn't even know they were in a feud.
- 1:55But to hear that they were no longer in a feud and they were putting their differences
- 1:59aside and they put it out there for the world to know that you can forgive and
- 2:04you can forget That makes me just want to provide an episode.
- 2:09And that's why we're here.
- 2:11Because yesterday and the day before on Friday, we did the episodes of,
- 2:15is the customer always right? And we're talking about people being rude.
- 2:19And we've talked about so many different topics here about stealing your joy.
- 2:24And it's great to see that celebrities can also put their differences aside and move forward.
- 2:31Letting go. It's like that song, Let It Go.
- 2:35We've said this many times before, and it may sound like a broken record to
- 2:40you, but unfortunately, it's the same record that we continue to play.
- 2:44See, every day that we go out into the world and the workplace or into environments
- 2:50that we're uncomfortable, we find that there's too many people out there that
- 2:54do not want to take the time to respect God.
- 2:59To acknowledge the presence of others. They hold grudges.
- 3:05There's so many people out there that hate each other for differences,
- 3:09whether that's their race, their choice of living.
- 3:13And I never wanted to get too political on this show.
- 3:17My vision has always been to talk about topics that are inspirational.
- 3:24And I believe that this crossed that line for me in order for me to utilize
- 3:29what is happening in the world.
- 3:32It is great to see that people out there can forgive and forget,
- 3:36to move forward, to not hold any animosity toward another person.
- 3:42You know, in our daily lives, we will encounter individuals who will sneak up
- 3:47and steal our joy, who will do everything in their power to make sure that we are unhappy.
- 3:53There are managers out there that we work for that come across or perceive to be unwilling to help.
- 4:01Managers out there that take their titles to a certain level,
- 4:05sit back and watch others drown.
- 4:08And it is great to know that there are some individuals out there that do not hold a grudge.
- 4:15That even despite all those failures or lack of communication or lack of management
- 4:23styles, they don't hold a grudge.
- 4:27So many times in my life I have been done wrong, whether there were friends
- 4:31of mine that backstabbed me,
- 4:34whether there were people out there that have talked behind my back,
- 4:37whether there are people out there that continue to make jokes or put things
- 4:42in my lap and make me realize that they're not really my friends.
- 4:48I yet to do everything in my power to hold a grudge.
- 4:54Sure, it's hard to trust those individuals once again, but you have to put your differences aside.
- 5:01I want to share something with each and every one of you. At my current job,
- 5:05there's an individual that I've known has spoken about me negatively,
- 5:10continues to speak about me, and she doesn't even know that I know. She may know now.
- 5:17I do everything in my power to not be disrespectful.
- 5:21I'm a little quieter than I usually am. I am not forthcoming,
- 5:26but I will not be unprofessional.
- 5:29If a question comes my way, I answer it. If I am coming and going,
- 5:35I excuse myself, I greet.
- 5:38But I will refuse to trust that individual with any personal information again.
- 5:45However, I will not allow myself to allow that person to change who I am.
- 5:52Every single day that we go out into the world, we will encounter individuals
- 5:57that will do everything they can to stop us from doing what God's work is intended,
- 6:04and that is to put smiles on each other's faces.
- 6:08You may hear that expression or that phrase and say, well, that's not something
- 6:12I do. Believe it or not, we all do.
- 6:15There are places that we go that when we walk into a room, we light up the room.
- 6:20There are people that we encounter that when we smile, they smile.
- 6:25There are individuals out there who look forward to our presence.
- 6:30It is up to us to continue that.
- 6:33It is up to us to not allow others to change who we are.
- 6:40Excuse me. I can say that in my past and my recent presence, that has happened to me.
- 6:47There are times when people have gotten to me.
- 6:50There are times when people have changed who I have become, and that is a smiling person.
- 6:57This show gives me the platform to reach out to the world and teach,
- 7:03not teach, I don't want to say that because that's not accurate,
- 7:06and practice what I preach.
- 7:10And I've never, ever told anyone out there or I've preached to any of you to
- 7:16follow in the same footsteps that I do.
- 7:19But I'd like to believe that all the things that I speak, whether it's from others',
- 7:24stories, from others' personal stories or personal testimonies that I've shared
- 7:30with each and every one of you will only help inspire you to be a better person.
- 7:35Just the other day, I was speaking with a good friend of mine who doesn't want
- 7:39to be disclosed, but he was explaining to me how he couldn't figure out the right job.
- 7:46He couldn't figure out what was the best place to be.
- 7:50And I said to them, you have to remember that,
- 7:54You can't allow others that have told you what you are not good at to dictate
- 7:58what you think or know you're good at.
- 8:01Don't allow anyone to make you second guess the qualities and the gifts and
- 8:06the treasures that you bestow.
- 8:08That individual has officially found a new job and has never been more happy than before.
- 8:15Yesterday, I reached out to a person that I realized didn't work at a facility
- 8:21anymore. and she realized that her environment needed to change.
- 8:27She thought about it, she prayed about it and she realized that family was needed
- 8:33to be first. I found that inspiring.
- 8:36I found that to be something that we don't hear about every day.
- 8:41To give up something that you'd enjoy but to be around an environment that doesn't
- 8:47make you feel comfortable and to make a decision that basically puts the entire
- 8:52family at risk to be behind in bills,
- 8:56at risk to be in a situation or a place that is uncomfortable,
- 9:01but to also put your family first.
- 9:04That individual's grandmother is not feeling well and spending as much time
- 9:09with that person until she is called home.
- 9:12For that, I'm inspired.
- 9:15Last, we talked about Katy Perry and Taylor Swift.
- 9:19I have put a hashtag and hope that they will listen to this episode.
- 9:25And I leave these two ladies with this comment.
- 9:27Thank you for giving us the opportunity to be a part of your reconciliation.
- 9:34Thank you for allowing us the ability to see that you can forgive,
- 9:39that you can forget, that you can let it go.
- 9:43No matter what has happened in the past, the future is in front of you.
- 9:49The future is in front of all of us if we allow it to happen.
- 9:54Don't let anyone steal your joy. Don't allow anyone to put yourself in a position
- 10:00to make you feel uncomfortable in the environment that you are around.
- 10:04Most importantly, if you have a family or a friend or someone in your past that
- 10:09you feel it is time to reach out and say, hey, I know we haven't spoken to in
- 10:15a long time, but I just want you to know I can forgive you.
- 10:19And I wanted you to hear it from me. It will raise this pressure that's on your
- 10:25back It would allow yourself to feel better and be able to move forward in your
- 10:30life And that's pretty much my message for today on this rainy day.
- 10:35I'm smiling. I am happy And for the first time in a long time,
- 10:41I can honestly say to each and every one of you I am at peace And I hope that
- 10:46each and every one of you feel the same way as you look forward to today.
- 10:52Tomorrow and your future and hopefully you can reach out to somebody and let
- 10:57it go have faith let it begin thank you for listening to another episode of have faith let it begin,
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- 11:38you a new topic, a new story each and every day, right? Isn't that right, Ariel? Yeah.
- 11:45And we, she's smiling at me. Guys, enjoy your day.
- 11:51Don't forget, everybody, we're available at HaveFaithLetItBegin.com.
- 11:54And if you'd like to email me about your story, personal testimony,
- 11:58or something that you feel like we should talk about on this show,
- 12:02email me, angel at HaveFaithLetItBegin.com.