Latest / Motivational Podcast / IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE HARD – Embrace the Struggle and Achieve Greatness
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- 0:00Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. You know you could be the
- 0:01Speaker 1: one if you really wanted to write you know what?
- 0:03Speaker 1: I right? But see, you keep playing the what if game?
- 0:06Speaker 1: What if it don't work out? Is what if it
- 0:07Speaker 1: don't work out? De nigga?
- 0:08Speaker 2: What if it do?
- 0:09Speaker 1: What if it do work out? Then what you're gonna
- 0:12Speaker 1: be happy?
- 0:13Speaker 3: Right?
- 0:13Speaker 1: You can't say you want to win, but then you're
- 0:15Speaker 1: scared to lose. What kind of sense does that make?
- 0:16Speaker 1: If you put your head down and lock it on
- 0:18Speaker 1: the vision? How could you not win? Only thing that's
- 0:20Speaker 1: gonna cause you to lose you your mentality. But that's
- 0:23Speaker 1: between you and you though.
- 0:25Speaker 2: There's more there than you think.
- 0:27Speaker 4: See what happens if you fix it up, and you'll
- 0:29Speaker 4: fix yourself up simultaneously because you have to get disciplined.
- 0:33Speaker 5: Hard times create hard men. Hard men create soft times.
- 0:38Speaker 5: Soft times create soft men. Soft men create hard times.
- 0:43Speaker 6: And the dangerous man is never the loudest man. Do
- 0:49Speaker 6: you hear what I'm saying. I'm saying that you need
- 0:54Speaker 6: to be careful about who you follow. In my experience,
- 1:00Speaker 6: I don't care how big a fellow is, I don't
- 1:03Speaker 6: care how tough he is. In a ring where there's
- 1:06Speaker 6: rules and there's referees looking out for stuff. I don't
- 1:11Speaker 6: care how much he works out. I don't care how
- 1:14Speaker 6: much he walks around without a shirt on. I don't
- 1:16Speaker 6: care how big his tattoos are.
- 1:18Speaker 2: One big thing is a lot of people.
- 1:22Speaker 7: It's hard to imagine that you have to learn how
- 1:25Speaker 7: to fail. Because I'm going to explain this to you.
- 1:29Speaker 7: I had big dreams. A lot of us have big dreams,
- 1:32Speaker 7: big goals. And when you have goals that are maybe
- 1:35Speaker 7: outside your reach, you have to know that getting to
- 1:38Speaker 7: that goal, you have a lot of bad days, a
- 1:40Speaker 7: lot of setbacks. Like was losing a hundred six pounds
- 1:43Speaker 7: in three months. The first two months or the first
- 1:45Speaker 7: two weeks.
- 1:46Speaker 2: It's like I was gaining weight. You know, I would
- 1:48Speaker 2: lose a pound game two. So I was just.
- 1:50Speaker 7: Failing, kept failing, and kept failing, and kept failing. So
- 1:52Speaker 7: I had to teach myself how to fail.
- 1:54Speaker 8: Right.
- 1:55Speaker 7: But what that means is when I fail, I can't
- 1:58Speaker 7: spend much time that fails zone. I have to be
- 2:01Speaker 7: able to get up and get act to the next
- 2:03Speaker 7: day just as fast because my.
- 2:05Speaker 2: Goals to be a Navy seal.
- 2:07Speaker 7: I don't have time to stay here and feel back
- 2:09Speaker 7: myself for weeks and months and years, because I'll lose
- 2:12Speaker 7: that time.
- 2:13Speaker 2: So the big thing is know that if you.
- 2:14Speaker 7: Have big goals and big dreams along the way, failure
- 2:18Speaker 7: is going to happen. So how fast do you get
- 2:20Speaker 7: up from that? And you got to teach yourself that.
- 2:23Speaker 9: But you gotta be willing to take the hits and
- 2:25Speaker 9: not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you want to
- 2:28Speaker 9: be because of him or her or anybody.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Cowards do that, and that ain't you. You're better than that.
- 2:34Speaker 2: It's no other way.
- 2:36Speaker 3: You have to decide if you are willing to do
- 2:39Speaker 3: the things to put you in that category.
- 2:42Speaker 10: I don't care how good you are on anything. You
- 2:43Speaker 10: don't have discipline, you ain't nobody nothing of discipline because
- 2:48Speaker 10: you give up the slightest struggle without discipline I mean
- 2:51Speaker 10: discipline to do what you hate to do, but do
- 2:54Speaker 10: it like you love.
- 2:54Speaker 7: It to be successful at anything.
- 2:57Speaker 2: The truth is you don't have to be special. You
- 3:01Speaker 2: just have to be what most people aren't. Consistent. It's
- 3:05Speaker 2: easy to give up easy.
- 3:07Speaker 11: It's the easiest thing in the world to do an
- 3:10Speaker 11: I'm done, I ain't gone, I ain't gonna keep going.
- 3:12Speaker 11: I don't feel like, yeah, it's easy, It's very easy.
- 3:16Speaker 11: But what's hard is going. Yo, yesterday I got nothing
- 3:20Speaker 11: from working as hard as I could. Nothing happened from that.
- 3:24Speaker 11: I'm gonna do the same thing again to day, but
- 3:26Speaker 11: I'm gonna try to go harder. That's the hardest thing
- 3:28Speaker 11: in the world to get up every day and give
- 3:31Speaker 11: one hundred percent and be in the same position that
- 3:34Speaker 11: you were each day, but mentally know that you're trying
- 3:38Speaker 11: and trying and trying.
- 3:39Speaker 1: Hey, bro, I need you to get back in that
- 3:40Speaker 1: mode again. That mode was nothing to take you off
- 3:43Speaker 1: your pivot. You were just putting in that work every
- 3:44Speaker 1: single day. See that version of you as different. You
- 3:47Speaker 1: gotta tap back into it. Don't be out here playing
- 3:49Speaker 1: with your potential. Because you're one of the ones. Bro,
- 3:51Speaker 1: You special and you weren't meant to be a person
- 3:54Speaker 1: I could have been the one.
- 3:55Speaker 12: You are the one.
- 3:56Speaker 1: So I need you to get back moving like it.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Every single day of my life. I feel like give
- 4:00Speaker 2: it a mother every fingle day.
- 4:02Speaker 12: Somebody said, yesterday eighteen you gave one twenty. What you're
- 4:06Speaker 12: gonna do tomorrow? I said, I don't know. Then one forty,
- 4:09Speaker 12: I don't know, but I don't have Dave where I
- 4:12Speaker 12: don't feel like it. Why because I'm counting on me,
- 4:16Speaker 12: My wife's counting on me, my thumb's counting on me.
- 4:18Speaker 2: I don't have Dave the way well, some of you
- 4:21Speaker 2: read that I think about when it's hot.
- 4:24Speaker 7: I saw you that is sunny, is seventy well sing
- 4:29Speaker 7: not today? It's the reality if it's about ninety degrees,
- 4:32Speaker 7: the husperson humidity.
- 4:33Speaker 2: But who gives you that?
- 4:36Speaker 7: Being said September thirty, I have to have my book
- 4:40Speaker 7: turned in.
- 4:40Speaker 13: And when I realized I'm reading this book a lot,
- 4:43Speaker 13: but I realized I wasn't boring.
- 4:44Speaker 7: As Mother's Day, I made them at the bottom of insecurities, fear, self.
- 4:49Speaker 2: Doubt, lies. Was me buried in the com fetal position.
- 4:54Speaker 2: How I got out of.
- 4:55Speaker 7: That was recognizing it, being honest with it, be true
- 5:00Speaker 7: with it, and then fixing it. We'd like to live
- 5:03Speaker 7: on social media with lives about ourselves how great we are.
- 5:08Speaker 2: Get to the source and fix the problem. You've got
- 5:10Speaker 2: to have faith, and that faith gives.
- 5:13Speaker 4: You patience that it's not going to happen as quickly
- 5:16Speaker 4: as you want it to happen. A lot of things
- 5:19Speaker 4: are going to happen that will catch you off God,
- 5:22Speaker 4: and so therefore you've got to deal with and handle
- 5:24Speaker 4: it as it comes. And not only that, but that
- 5:29Speaker 4: faith and patience drives you into action. You've got to
- 5:34Speaker 4: keep moving.
- 5:35Speaker 7: The only way you're ever going to get to the
- 5:38Speaker 7: other side of this journey is you have got to
- 5:42Speaker 7: suffer to grow.
- 5:44Speaker 2: To grow, you must suffer, and.
- 5:48Speaker 7: Some people will get it and some people won't.
- 5:49Speaker 3: You've got to plend. Now when you plant, seize young people.
- 5:54Speaker 3: You can't expect the harvest in thirty days. The harvest
- 5:58Speaker 3: don't come in thirty days. You got to plant your
- 6:01Speaker 3: seed and sometimes the harvest don't come for years. Everything
- 6:06Speaker 3: is not instant. So here's what I do. I get
- 6:09Speaker 3: a roll and I drop seeds in the ground. Then
- 6:12Speaker 3: I go back and I cover them up with dirt
- 6:14Speaker 3: because the dirt you need the dirt. Then once I
- 6:18Speaker 3: cover it up, I dig another row and I plant
- 6:20Speaker 3: some more seed. I got about ten rods planning. I
- 6:24Speaker 3: look back at the first row and it's starting to sprout.
- 6:27Speaker 4: It's necessary that you align yourself with people and attract
- 6:31Speaker 4: people into your business who are hungry, people who are
- 6:35Speaker 4: unstoppable are unreasonable people who are refusing to leave life
- 6:40Speaker 4: just as it is, and who want more.
- 6:43Speaker 12: And you gotta get to a point where you are
- 6:45Speaker 12: so locked in, you are so centered.
- 6:48Speaker 2: That you don't hear anything around you.
- 6:50Speaker 12: All you hear is the dream saying let's go eat
- 6:54Speaker 12: e T let's go et. Come on, one more class et,
- 6:58Speaker 12: one more embarrassment, eat one more?
- 7:00Speaker 2: Are we et?
- 7:01Speaker 12: Push et, push et push God.
- 7:05Speaker 2: I can't do it no more.
- 7:07Speaker 12: You were home in the sun. I had you in
- 7:09Speaker 12: the abandoned buildings. You remember you got out. I need
- 7:11Speaker 12: you to use this right now for school. What you
- 7:13Speaker 12: don't realize is that all the hell you're going through
- 7:16Speaker 12: in the process is preparing you to make.
- 7:19Speaker 2: The dream become a reality. I've been working hard.
- 7:23Speaker 14: I'm all about being your own kin hero, but I'm
- 7:25Speaker 14: not about kissing your ass in life. A lot of
- 7:28Speaker 14: us believe that we're working much harder than we actually are.
- 7:31Speaker 14: We think if we've got up early for four days,
- 7:34Speaker 14: we learned something.
- 7:35Speaker 2: You gotta drop your title mindset. It's dead way. We
- 7:39Speaker 2: believe you work hard than we actually have.
- 7:42Speaker 7: Trust me, most of us have it. The one thing
- 7:44Speaker 7: of life you gotta realize is this. Learn to help yourself.
- 7:49Speaker 7: Don't count other people to help you. Stay hard.
- 7:53Speaker 2: Listen to me.
- 7:54Speaker 12: Once you realize who you are, you stop operating in desperation.
- 8:00Speaker 12: You stop saying yes to stuff you ain't always saying
- 8:02Speaker 12: yes dude.
- 8:02Speaker 2: So here's my big problem with a lot of y'all
- 8:05Speaker 2: is your belief system.
- 8:06Speaker 12: Is all like, everybody can see how sweet you are.
- 8:10Speaker 12: People are commenting or you could do this, you can
- 8:13Speaker 12: do that, and you.
- 8:14Speaker 2: The only one ain't caught up with it yet? Are you?
- 8:16Speaker 2: Not enough? Is your potential not enough? Is your brain
- 8:20Speaker 2: is not enough? You achieve failures. Failure has been ashchy,
- 8:30Speaker 2: Thank god. Now the only place to go from failure
- 8:35Speaker 2: is to win. You have to achieve failure. You have
- 8:41Speaker 2: to take it that far. Nobody wants to go that far.
- 8:44Speaker 2: It's too scary. But you know something, they got news
- 8:47Speaker 2: for you. That's where winning is. It always has been.
- 8:50Speaker 9: Nothing's changed since the seventies, nothing except people train not
- 8:55Speaker 9: as hard.
- 8:56Speaker 2: You're gonna look up in about five years.
- 8:58Speaker 3: You're gonna look back at something you plan it five
- 9:00Speaker 3: years ago, gonna have a lot of fruit on it.
- 9:03Speaker 3: Then you can go back and start partaking up that fruit.
- 9:06Speaker 2: But the reason you.
- 9:07Speaker 3: Gotta keep planting is because sometimes you're gonna get rained out.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Sometimes it's gonna be a drought.
- 9:15Speaker 3: If I could tell anybody anything, keep planting seeds and
- 9:19Speaker 3: never stop planning because you have no idea. When God
- 9:23Speaker 3: gonna drop all the necessary rain and you look up
- 9:26Speaker 3: and everything you need is right there.
- 9:28Speaker 7: And once people see that, my God, Gods is going,
- 9:31Speaker 7: then everybody says Roger, that then me get my and
- 9:35Speaker 7: go too. So I started realizing that if you can
- 9:38Speaker 7: just fine strength just a little bit longer, you will
- 9:41Speaker 7: have a crew of people following you along the way.
- 9:44Speaker 5: And that grind that you have to start and finish
- 9:47Speaker 5: on your own.
- 9:49Speaker 7: And that's what you need to really research, is Man,
- 9:52Speaker 7: why am I not doing this for myself?
- 9:54Speaker 2: Because that is that is the.
- 9:56Speaker 7: Number one purpose in life is to better oneself.
- 10:01Speaker 2: So that's the only purpose I can meet.
- 10:04Speaker 7: So the reason I get every day even though there's
- 10:06Speaker 7: no racis, there's no school, there's nothing.
- 10:08Speaker 2: In front of me, is because I have pride in myself.
- 10:12Speaker 12: I didn't quit because people didn't understand. I worked harder,
- 10:16Speaker 12: but people didn't support me.
- 10:18Speaker 2: We never stopped. I wake up every.
- 10:20Speaker 12: Single day and I will prove to the world that
- 10:23Speaker 12: I was here, I made my mark, I was here, and.
- 10:26Speaker 2: You can't take that away from me.
- 10:27Speaker 12: I told you about that today. You cannot take away
- 10:30Speaker 12: the fact that Eric Thomas was here.
- 10:34Speaker 7: The most important conversation you ever have, there's the one
- 10:38Speaker 7: you have with yourself.
- 10:39Speaker 2: You wake up with it.
- 10:40Speaker 7: You walk around with it, you go to bed with it.
- 10:43Speaker 2: Eventually you act on it, whether it be good or bad.
- 10:48Speaker 7: There's haters everywhere in this world, jealous because people trying
- 10:54Speaker 7: to get in your head. The one thing you got
- 10:55Speaker 7: to understand is this to try to implicate your mind.
- 10:59Speaker 7: But a lot of bocs do to get away from
- 11:01Speaker 7: distractions is they go away before a big fight. A
- 11:04Speaker 7: lot of us can't do that. We have to be
- 11:07Speaker 7: able to live a much distractions and be undistracted. Stay
- 11:13Speaker 7: in your own mind, do let them own yours.
- 11:18Speaker 15: Julys every day about where you want to be and
- 11:20Speaker 15: make it a Surround yourself with a vision board that
- 11:24Speaker 15: you can see at your desk or see at home.
- 11:26Speaker 15: Consistently look at yourself when you see this vision board
- 11:29Speaker 15: and see yourself living this life in as much detail
- 11:32Speaker 15: as you can like. When you're visualizing at night. You
- 11:34Speaker 15: should be trying to smell, you should be trying to feel,
- 11:36Speaker 15: you should be trying.
- 11:36Speaker 2: To make it as real as possible.
- 11:39Speaker 15: You have to make sure that you understand that this
- 11:41Speaker 15: is a skill set, because when you first start doing it,
- 11:43Speaker 15: you're not going to be great at it.
- 11:44Speaker 2: It's practice.
- 11:45Speaker 15: So just because the first three or four days or
- 11:48Speaker 15: the first week it's a little bit hard, keep going.
- 11:51Speaker 15: And if we're going to put the ten foil hat on,
- 11:53Speaker 15: I believe that all the powers that be understand that
- 11:56Speaker 15: this is the truth about.
- 11:57Speaker 4: Humans saying to you, whatever, you gotta do it, because
- 12:00Speaker 4: if you don't, life is gonna whoop you and tell
- 12:03Speaker 4: you surrender. How do you hang in there during your hard,
- 12:07Speaker 4: difficult times?
- 12:08Speaker 2: Lest you must have faith.
- 12:11Speaker 4: You've got to believe in yourself.
- 12:14Speaker 2: You've got to believe in your ability.
- 12:16Speaker 4: You've got to believe in your service, your company, your ideas. Unquestionably,
- 12:22Speaker 4: you better grind because if you don't, you'll be stuck
- 12:25Speaker 4: at that adversity.
- 12:26Speaker 12: For the rest of your life, whatever it is, You'll
- 12:28Speaker 12: be stuck there. Goad, you're putting in all this work
- 12:31Speaker 12: to be ten and twenty. I'm saying, we gotta practice anyway,
- 12:34Speaker 12: why don't we win?
- 12:35Speaker 8: I always say that my definition of a man, or
- 12:38Speaker 8: the man I want to be, that's someone that can
- 12:40Speaker 8: slit the throat and hold a baby in the same day.
- 12:43Speaker 8: And I think that's also missing from masculinity In many ways.
- 12:48Speaker 8: There's nothing wrong with being kind enough to show someone
- 12:53Speaker 8: grace or forgiveness or help them through when they're struggling. Yeah,
- 12:58Speaker 8: you can knock your head off, but you could also
- 13:01Speaker 8: be a hand up.
- 13:02Speaker 9: Let me tell you something you already know. The world
- 13:05Speaker 9: ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and
- 13:09Speaker 9: nasty place, and I don't care how tough you are.
- 13:11Speaker 9: It will beat you to your knees and keep you
- 13:13Speaker 9: there permanently if you let it. Me or Nobody's going
- 13:18Speaker 9: to hit as hard as life. But it ain't about
- 13:20Speaker 9: how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can
- 13:22Speaker 9: get hit and keep moving forward. How much you get
- 13:25Speaker 9: takeed and keep moving forward. That's how win it has done. Now,
- 13:31Speaker 9: if you know what's you're worth and do what's you're.
- 13:33Speaker 16: Worth, Nietzscha said, I know of no better life purpose
- 13:37Speaker 16: than to perish in attempting the great and impossible. The
- 13:40Speaker 16: fact that something seems impossible shouldn't be a reason to
- 13:42Speaker 16: not pursue it. That's exactly what makes it worth pursuing.
- 13:46Speaker 16: Where would the courage and greatness be if success was
- 13:48Speaker 16: certain and there was no risk? The only truth failure
- 13:52Speaker 16: is shrinking away from life's challenges.
- 13:54Speaker 5: If you had a physical body to do something, you
- 13:56Speaker 5: had a mental capacity to believe in it.
- 13:59Speaker 2: Now what the want? When you want something?
- 14:03Speaker 17: That collides all three of them into the Trifeat done, it.
- 14:07Speaker 2: Makes the uncommon man remembered for.
- 14:10Speaker 11: Generations because he achieved the impossible and change the basic
- 14:15Speaker 11: framework the blueprint society in which we live our lives.
- 14:18Speaker 7: But we don't take a second to realize the purpose
- 14:21Speaker 7: is always there. The purpose never leaves us because the
- 14:24Speaker 7: very purpose is you.
- 14:26Speaker 2: You are always the purpose.
- 14:28Speaker 7: There may be another purpose like being a seal or
- 14:31Speaker 7: going to college or whatever, but the main purpose in
- 14:34Speaker 7: life is you.
- 14:35Speaker 2: So if you wake up.
- 14:36Speaker 7: In the morning and you don't want to do something,
- 14:38Speaker 7: you don't care enough about yourself.
- 14:40Speaker 3: Scot coding your mind with gratitude and to change everything
- 14:44Speaker 3: for you, and.
- 14:45Speaker 15: The pain that you actually experience by doing the difficult
- 14:49Speaker 15: things actually is what brings out the best inside of you.
- 14:53Speaker 15: I cannot be my ultimate creative self unless my back
- 14:58Speaker 15: is on the wall. And that's why it talk much
- 15:00Speaker 15: about cultivating zero option mentality. You have to cultivate that
- 15:04Speaker 15: mentality of not having any options.
- 15:06Speaker 2: Even when things are good.
- 15:09Speaker 15: And I've been fortunate enough to be able to keep
- 15:11Speaker 15: that the entire time. But now a lot of you
- 15:14Speaker 15: guys are gonna learn it by default, because you're gonna
- 15:16Speaker 15: get pushed up against the wall and we're gonna find
- 15:18Speaker 15: out who actually can respond under pressure and who doesn't.
- 15:23Speaker 2: We can leave here tonight. You can take me to
- 15:24Speaker 2: a church. I'll do you another hour. You can't do it.
- 15:27Speaker 2: Don't put your.
- 15:28Speaker 12: Limitations on me. I'm dancing your limitations. Your limitations don't
- 15:32Speaker 12: exist in my world. Those are your limitations. Keep up,
- 15:35Speaker 12: go home, watch them on TV, Go home, read the newspaper, bout,
- 15:39Speaker 12: go home and look in the mirror, go home, call
- 15:41Speaker 12: your home wood and y'all talk about your limitations. I
- 15:44Speaker 12: ain't got nothing.
- 15:45Speaker 2: Come on you if so, your greatness and your destiny
- 15:48Speaker 2: for a couple of dollars.
- 15:50Speaker 12: And what I'm doing now I was doing twenty years ago,
- 15:52Speaker 12: and I have not been I didn't break so much
- 15:56Speaker 12: you don't understand why I'm doing what I'm doing. So
- 15:58Speaker 12: what you don't see my great So what you don't
- 16:01Speaker 12: understand how I do what I do? This is what
- 16:04Speaker 12: I've been bad to.
- 16:05Speaker 7: This is all about the coulty mind. So what's the
- 16:08Speaker 7: coulding mind? So let's say it is day one of
- 16:13Speaker 7: a job interview. We all know what that that shit
- 16:16Speaker 7: feels like. Do you have your clothes laid out, You
- 16:19Speaker 7: got your fucking food ready to go in the morning.
- 16:22Speaker 7: You've been preparing for weeks and weeks and weeks. You
- 16:26Speaker 7: show up and you bring your best self. You get
- 16:29Speaker 7: the fucking job, married Christmas?
- 16:32Speaker 2: All right.
- 16:33Speaker 7: After a couple of months you start showing up to
- 16:37Speaker 7: work a little later.
- 16:38Speaker 2: You don't look as good. Your clothes aren't getting.
- 16:41Speaker 7: Laid out, your breakfast isn't ready, your mind is getting softer.
- 16:47Speaker 2: We do that everything in life. We're new years coming up.
- 16:51Speaker 2: Guess what? Don't have a fuck coulddy mind? Prep petition
- 16:56Speaker 2: every day? Stay hard? Why do you keep going?
- 17:00Speaker 7: God?
- 17:00Speaker 2: Why did I get your mess? Why did I get cancer?
- 17:03Speaker 2: Why did my mama die? Why did I get fired?
- 17:05Speaker 2: Do you understand? Listen?
- 17:07Speaker 12: You got through that, You got put through that because
- 17:10Speaker 12: what that done? That tension producers breaking it? Stop running
- 17:14Speaker 12: from it and run to it. Stop telling me what
- 17:16Speaker 12: you're going through. The greats go through they get to it,
- 17:19Speaker 12: they go through it.
- 17:21Speaker 5: You want to see what you do when you're tired.
- 17:23Speaker 5: Let me see how you push yourself. Come on, man,
- 17:25Speaker 5: get up, Get up again tomorrow, Get up again tomorrow,
- 17:27Speaker 5: Get up again tomorrow the next day, Get up, get up,
- 17:29Speaker 5: get up, get up.
- 17:30Speaker 18: You don't always have to be a savage. And I
- 17:33Speaker 18: think that a true masculine man has the capability of
- 17:40Speaker 18: being both violent and loving, and he's confident enough in
- 17:45Speaker 18: himself that he doesn't have to always show aggression to
- 17:49Speaker 18: get what he needs to get to.
- 17:51Speaker 7: Most people are missing something because they don't know who
- 17:54Speaker 7: they are. They never examine themselves. They've never done this
- 18:00Speaker 7: experiment on themselves. The labrat. We're all labrats, but you're
- 18:04Speaker 7: also the scientist. You create your own self. Most people
- 18:10Speaker 7: are missing something because there's so much trapped in there.
- 18:14Speaker 13: Believe in yourself, don't fear failure, dream big, work hard,
- 18:21Speaker 13: They positive enjoy the journey.
- 18:24Speaker 19: I found that nothing in life is worthwhile unless you
- 18:28Speaker 19: take risks. Nothing Nelson Mandela said, there is no passion
- 18:32Speaker 19: to be found playing small and settling for a life
- 18:35Speaker 19: that's less than the one you're capable of it. Now,
- 18:38Speaker 19: I'm sure in your experiences in school and applying to
- 18:41Speaker 19: college and picking your major into deciding what you want
- 18:44Speaker 19: to do with life, I'm sure.
- 18:45Speaker 20: People have told you to make sure you have something
- 18:47Speaker 20: to fall back on. Make sure you've got something to
- 18:49Speaker 20: fall bad on, honey. But I never understood that, n
- 18:51Speaker 20: so having something to fall any one. If I'm going
- 18:54Speaker 20: to fall I don't want to fall back on anything
- 18:57Speaker 20: except for the faith.
- 18:58Speaker 2: I want to fall forward, at least this way. Else
- 19:01Speaker 2: see what I'm wanting to get?
- 19:02Speaker 6: Full forward?
- 19:03Speaker 1: This is what I mean.
- 19:04Speaker 19: Richard Jackson's druck out twenty six hundred times in his career,
- 19:07Speaker 19: the most in the history of baseball.
- 19:09Speaker 2: But you don't hear.
- 19:09Speaker 10: About the strikeouts.
- 19:10Speaker 2: People remember the homeyns go forward.
- 19:14Speaker 19: Tom Sets conducted one thousand failed experiment.
- 19:17Speaker 4: You know that.
- 19:17Speaker 19: I didn't know that because the one thousand and first
- 19:22Speaker 19: was the light bulb.
- 19:23Speaker 2: Full forward. It's grind season, homie. It's not about today,
- 19:30Speaker 2: It's about the future. You do the work now, do
- 19:33Speaker 2: the work now, whatever is required. Just God there, it's possible.
- 19:42Speaker 2: You can get what you are. It's necessary. If you wanted,
- 19:45Speaker 2: you got to go into action.
- 19:46Speaker 4: You gotta be willing to experiment. You've got to be
- 19:48Speaker 4: willing to fail and to succeed. You've got to be
- 19:50Speaker 4: willing to form and develop new relationships.
- 19:53Speaker 1: Gets you.
- 19:53Speaker 2: It's on you. You got to make that happen.
- 19:55Speaker 4: Nobody's gonna bring it to you on a civil platteritad
- 19:57Speaker 4: here's your dream manifesting. It's hard, Yes, it's hard. It's difficult, yes, right,
- 20:04Speaker 4: and it's worth it. You see why you always on
- 20:08Speaker 4: be smold.
- 20:08Speaker 12: I'm shocked more people out on BESMO there people who
- 20:11Speaker 12: living from technic checking.
- 20:12Speaker 2: They're comfortable. It's the weirdest thing, and they're like boo,
- 20:16Speaker 2: you grow and you've broke on several levels. We're not
- 20:20Speaker 2: talking about Sally Man, you're still all your roma. I'm
- 20:22Speaker 2: talking about it. You would be to cash your grandma out.
- 20:26Speaker 2: Listen to them.
- 20:27Speaker 12: Lets you number one of your industry, you should be chilling.
- 20:29Speaker 12: And if you number one of your industry, you're not enough.
- 20:31Speaker 2: Common system know you better not be chilling. So I
- 20:34Speaker 2: need that dog.
- 20:35Speaker 7: A lot of you are trying to find inspiration and motivation.
- 20:39Speaker 7: Was a depressed mindset. You're depressed because you're not doing
- 20:42Speaker 7: with yourself. You don't find inspiration by not living in.
- 20:46Speaker 2: A grip of life. Do You're live in the grip.
- 20:48Speaker 7: Of life to find inspiration, put challenges in front of yourself.
- 20:51Speaker 7: When you put a challenge in front of yourself and
- 20:53Speaker 7: you attack it, that's where you find inspiration.
- 20:55Speaker 2: Trying to be ten percent better than you were last week.
- 20:58Speaker 7: So if you were at thirty miles a week, one
- 21:01Speaker 7: thirty three, if you're swimming.
- 21:02Speaker 2: Five poution meters, swim five point fifty. If some of
- 21:05Speaker 2: you aren't doing shit, dimpicent, you just do not couch.
- 21:09Speaker 12: The more you walk away from accountability, the work you
- 21:12Speaker 12: need to come.
- 21:13Speaker 2: You can't find yourself by doing nothing.
- 21:15Speaker 21: That's why I even try and tell people that just
- 21:18Speaker 21: embrace the struggle, bro, because one day it's going to
- 21:20Speaker 21: be done. I look back on them terms and actually
- 21:23Speaker 21: somehow miss them still, But yeah, I mean I miss
- 21:27Speaker 21: I miss everything.
- 21:28Speaker 5: Fear is never reaching your potential. That's it that always
- 21:32Speaker 5: fallen short, Always quitting before you're done, always procrastinating, always
- 21:37Speaker 5: not doing the right thing, and then one day you're
- 21:40Speaker 5: an old man yep, and you look back and go, God,
- 21:43Speaker 5: it could have been great. Yep, it could have been great.
- 21:45Speaker 5: Difficult things make regular life less difficult, and that sounds
- 21:50Speaker 5: so simplistic, but particularly physically difficult things, because when you
- 21:54Speaker 5: do things that are physically difficult, the strain of making
- 21:58Speaker 5: yourself do those things, it's it's very valuable. It's not
- 22:01Speaker 5: just valuable like exercising fitness and martial arts and running
- 22:05Speaker 5: and whatever you're doing that's really difficult. It's not just
- 22:07Speaker 5: valuable in terms of like health and the way you look,
- 22:10Speaker 5: but it's also valuable for your mind.
- 22:12Speaker 3: I say, chase your dreams, man, Do that thing, man,
- 22:16Speaker 3: that keeps you up at night, that thing that bothers you,
- 22:19Speaker 3: man that makes your trip. You can't quit thinking about it.
- 22:22Speaker 2: You always that that.
- 22:24Speaker 3: Thing, man, that you wake up in the middle of
- 22:26Speaker 3: the night. You got a new idea. That's what you
- 22:30Speaker 3: got to chase, because anything else, it's gonna disappoint you.
- 22:34Speaker 3: You're gonna forever be sad man. If you don't chase
- 22:37Speaker 3: that dream, it's gonna forever be miserable.
- 22:39Speaker 12: Man.
- 22:41Speaker 2: I want to see them, keep up, keep rop left up.
- 22:44Speaker 2: Come on, you're supposed to be the man I know
- 22:46Speaker 2: you could be the man for Mark. Keep up, We're
- 22:48Speaker 2: doing this. Three sixty five. We're doing it, three sixty
- 22:52Speaker 2: five two rock, We're doing a three.
- 22:54Speaker 12: The next mixtapele next album, Come on, come on where
- 22:57Speaker 12: your album's at. I see people trying to do what
- 22:59Speaker 12: CJ doing. I ain't see nobody's blow up. Yeah, come home,
- 23:02Speaker 12: we got another one coming. Come home. We got that
- 23:05Speaker 12: dog that the doll came from what I went through.
- 23:10Speaker 12: That the dog didn't come from school. The dog didn't
- 23:13Speaker 12: come from getting a PhDd.
- 23:14Speaker 2: The dog didn't come from getting these big checks. That's
- 23:17Speaker 2: not where the dog came from. The dog.
- 23:19Speaker 12: So children know watching all this success, and we wouldn't
- 23:22Speaker 12: do want to millennial generate. Nobody ever told him to dream.
- 23:25Speaker 12: Nobody ever told them that DNA is in their dream.
- 23:27Speaker 12: We told them that that DNA is in their money.
- 23:31Speaker 15: Everything that's going to be truly valuable to you is
- 23:34Speaker 15: going to be acquired through that suffering over the course
- 23:37Speaker 15: of time.
- 23:38Speaker 2: The skills, the emotional.
- 23:40Speaker 15: Intelligence, the ability to acclimate to stress, the ability to
- 23:43Speaker 15: handle bigger and bigger and bigger problems, those things cannot
- 23:47Speaker 15: be You cannot jump from your mom's basement to billionaire
- 23:52Speaker 15: penthouse status.
- 23:53Speaker 7: So I get an email the other day the young
- 23:56Speaker 7: man wants to be a ranger beach your free to
- 23:59Speaker 7: go to ranger's school, not because how hard the training is,
- 24:02Speaker 7: but because he's afraid if he fails, what people are
- 24:05Speaker 7: gonna say by judging them.
- 24:08Speaker 2: One thing in life, this applies to everything in life.
- 24:11Speaker 7: Anytime you're going for being normal to trying to be exceptional,
- 24:14Speaker 7: people aren't gonna like this. Those normal people, it makes
- 24:17Speaker 7: them feel like they're gonna judge you.
- 24:19Speaker 2: And nowadays it's very easy to be a coward. Why
- 24:24Speaker 2: we got Instagram with shit. Most folks don't tell you
- 24:27Speaker 2: to your face. They go online they post about like
- 24:31Speaker 2: cowards till that cowards can't get head the last day.
- 24:36Speaker 2: Make sure you do. You stay hard.
- 24:39Speaker 22: It takes more effort to start in the beginning, and
- 24:42Speaker 22: more people are right about the fact. They're like, hey,
- 24:44Speaker 22: you're not gonna hit it big, and guess what a
- 24:45Speaker 22: month in you're not. But they're only measuring on months,
- 24:47Speaker 22: and at six months you're also not gonna have hit
- 24:49Speaker 22: it big yet, and they're gonna be like, I'm stialking right,
- 24:51Speaker 22: And at a year you're still not gonna have hit
- 24:53Speaker 22: it big, and they'll still being right, And every day
- 24:55Speaker 22: that you haven't hit it, they're gonna feel like they
- 24:57Speaker 22: were right, but they're wrong because they're measuring days and
- 25:00Speaker 22: you're measuring in decades.
- 25:01Speaker 16: Whenever I get to a low point where I think
- 25:03Speaker 16: why do I even bother? I just remind myself this
- 25:05Speaker 16: is when most people stop there.
- 25:07Speaker 18: It's no hardening without pain.
- 25:09Speaker 21: But in the first moment where you hit the pain
- 25:11Speaker 21: and you run away from me, okay, then you're never
- 25:13Speaker 21: going into.
- 25:13Speaker 7: Get heart, never forget to train your fucking mind and life.
- 25:16Speaker 2: A lot of us work.
- 25:16Speaker 7: An ass all trying to get to a better place,
- 25:19Speaker 7: a place that makes us feel better about ourselves. Some
- 25:21Speaker 7: people want to do ultra races. They're starting to pr
- 25:24Speaker 7: during training. Some people want to be a lawyer or
- 25:26Speaker 7: a medical student, so taking these practice tests and they're
- 25:29Speaker 7: crushing the practice test. But guess what happens once you
- 25:33Speaker 7: get the actual fucking event.
- 25:35Speaker 2: Your mind isn't ready. Your mind's not prepared. You've been studying, you've.
- 25:39Speaker 7: Been training, you've been working out, but your mind's not prepared.
- 25:42Speaker 7: Story for you, when I was nineteen years old is
- 25:44Speaker 7: going through the Air.
- 25:45Speaker 2: Force trying to be a pair of rescumen.
- 25:47Speaker 7: I'll do a push up, sit ups, swimming, I'll do
- 25:49Speaker 7: all the knocking out of the park.
- 25:51Speaker 2: One of the best in the class. But the second
- 25:52Speaker 2: of obstacle got from way. I wasn't prepared for it. Mentally,
- 25:57Speaker 2: I was a beast. You gotta train your your mind.
- 26:00Speaker 2: All off schools that might get in your way. Stay hard.
- 26:03Speaker 16: The world is that for the taking for anyone who
- 26:06Speaker 16: can learn from their mistakes, do what they say they
- 26:08Speaker 16: were going to do and stick with it, even if
- 26:11Speaker 16: it's not sexy. What used to make them unacceptable now
- 26:14Speaker 16: makes you extraordinary. The both of winning has never been
- 26:17Speaker 16: so long.
- 26:17Speaker 23: Trust me, you have a mindset right now, just like
- 26:20Speaker 23: I have a mindset. It's how we view life. I
- 26:25Speaker 23: know people with a negative mindset, which basically they view
- 26:27Speaker 23: everything in a negative way. I know people with a
- 26:29Speaker 23: positive mindset, which means they if you ever think it
- 26:32Speaker 23: a positive away. People with an abundant mindset are scarcity
- 26:34Speaker 23: of mindset. It's a way of thinking. Ask yourself, what
- 26:38Speaker 23: kind of a mindset am I developing today.
- 26:41Speaker 7: One recruiter finally said, come on in, I'm too busy
- 26:45Speaker 7: talk to in the phone.
- 26:47Speaker 2: He didn't know how much I weighed.
- 26:49Speaker 7: I walked in the recruiter's office and he looked at
- 26:51Speaker 7: me and he said, you're fat and you're black.
- 26:54Speaker 2: Got I want to be a Navy seal. I didn't
- 26:57Speaker 2: know they've only.
- 26:57Speaker 3: Been thirty five African American.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Navy seals at that time in over seventy years. He said.
- 27:02Speaker 2: I basically had to lose one.
- 27:04Speaker 7: Hundred and six pounds in less than three months because
- 27:07Speaker 7: of my age.
- 27:08Speaker 2: I was getting too old.
- 27:09Speaker 7: I came back three months later one hundred and six
- 27:12Speaker 7: pounds lighter.
- 27:13Speaker 2: You have to eat the dream. You have to sleep
- 27:16Speaker 2: to dream. You have to dream to dream.
- 27:19Speaker 12: You gotta touch you have to see it when nobody
- 27:22Speaker 12: else sees it. You have to fill it when it's
- 27:25Speaker 12: not agible. I want to move to the nicest neighborhood.
- 27:28Speaker 12: I want to fly first class. I want to go
- 27:31Speaker 12: to Hawaii. I want to go to Australia.
- 27:33Speaker 2: Will I made a decision. Enough is enough. It's showtime
- 27:38Speaker 2: with the real Aaron Thomas.
- 27:39Speaker 4: We stand that it's necessary for us to begin to
- 27:42Speaker 4: look at the future and now that it's.
- 27:44Speaker 2: Possible that we can have our dream. Yes it is.
- 27:47Speaker 2: Other people have done it than we can do it.
- 27:49Speaker 2: We fail a lot of times.
- 27:50Speaker 4: We're all hard of other folks fail and eventually they came.
- 27:52Speaker 2: Back and they succeeded. So it's possible.
- 27:55Speaker 4: We can have what we want and we know that
- 27:56Speaker 4: we want to get it. It's necessary that we allow
- 27:59Speaker 4: ourselves with people that thing like we do. It's necessary
- 28:01Speaker 4: we get negative do nothing people out of our lives.
- 28:04Speaker 4: It's necessary we never stop learning and growing and developing ourselves.
- 28:07Speaker 4: It's necessary that we never give up. We know that
- 28:10Speaker 4: it's you, it's me, it's being responsible for our stuff
- 28:13Speaker 4: and deciding that we're gonna keep on keeping on that
- 28:16Speaker 4: we're gonna find a way to win or find a
- 28:18Speaker 4: way to make it happen.
- 28:19Speaker 2: And we know it's hard. It's not gonna be a picnic.
- 28:21Speaker 4: You were attacked, you were criticized, people were opposing it,
- 28:25Speaker 4: but you kept on doing it. It was hard, it
- 28:27Speaker 4: was rough, it was difficult, but to you, it was
- 28:30Speaker 4: worth it, and eventually you got to a level you know.
- 28:33Speaker 2: There's nothing stopping up.
- 28:35Speaker 4: I'm on the move, can't stop running to watch.
- 28:38Speaker 17: Your dream by being normal, when you can be the
- 28:41Speaker 17: best known to be normal. I want to make the difference,
- 28:45Speaker 17: So everything I do, I want to make the difference,
- 28:47Speaker 17: because we're gonna make the difference. I'm the best.
- 28:50Speaker 2: So you want to be normal.
- 28:52Speaker 7: So you want to be like everybody else that roams
- 28:55Speaker 7: the world, not knowing the power that's in them, being
- 28:58Speaker 7: fine with being mediocre.
- 29:00Speaker 2: I'm gonna go back to who you were, David. I'm
- 29:03Speaker 2: like that man.
- 29:04Speaker 24: You have to sacrifice, created the sacrifice greater than the war.
- 29:08Speaker 9: This is so true.
- 29:10Speaker 24: And when you do these things, you'll start seeing or
- 29:14Speaker 24: I used to do this, And when you go out
- 29:16Speaker 24: and you don't do it anymore, it's very very clear
- 29:20Speaker 24: that you've made the right decision because your friends will
- 29:22Speaker 24: still be doing that, and you'll find yourself that you
- 29:25Speaker 24: don't fit in with the crowd anymore. But you'll start
- 29:29Speaker 24: getting away from people that are negative. You only want
- 29:32Speaker 24: to be around positive. You'll start like not wasting your
- 29:35Speaker 24: time on things that aren't productive, and you will start
- 29:40Speaker 24: taking your time and energy and put it into things
- 29:44Speaker 24: that you enjoyed doing that are productives for yourself.
- 29:47Speaker 2: What the hell are you all waiting for? It?
- 29:48Speaker 7: Start attacking light, waiting for the fucking stars to align,
- 29:53Speaker 7: vac rounds drawing up. The song came out all means America. Well,
- 29:58Speaker 7: guess what that like coming? There is no corporate time
- 30:03Speaker 7: to start. You gotta start now. It turns in your life.
- 30:06Speaker 7: We're all being tested in life. And guess what, Chris,
- 30:10Speaker 7: what tests? You can't see it on.
- 30:12Speaker 10: I don't care how good you are on anything. You
- 30:14Speaker 10: don't have discipline. You ain't nobody right, nothing of discipline
- 30:18Speaker 10: because you give up the slightest struggle without discipline, I
- 30:22Speaker 10: mean discipline and doing what you hate to do, to
- 30:24Speaker 10: do it, let you love it.
- 30:26Speaker 2: Seriously, what does failure mean? It's not. It doesn't it
- 30:29Speaker 2: doesn't exist. It's a figment of your imagination. Fail on Monday.
- 30:34Speaker 13: The only way it's failure on Monday is if you
- 30:36Speaker 13: decide to not the rescue.
- 30:38Speaker 7: Because you can get a lot of power through misery.
- 30:41Speaker 16: The heaviest things in life on iron and gold, but
- 30:44Speaker 16: unmade decisions. The reason you are stressed is that you
- 30:47Speaker 16: have decisions to make and you're not making them.
- 30:50Speaker 2: About seventy five of you, it is still fucking in there.
- 30:55Speaker 2: It's still chained up because.
- 30:57Speaker 7: You just didn't want to find your will power. They
- 31:00Speaker 7: don't want to find your souls, your will, your heart,
- 31:02Speaker 7: your determination, your guts, your courage.
- 31:05Speaker 2: Pain is just the feeling you see. It's happiness. Why
- 31:08Speaker 2: because it sucks, you can't do it?
- 31:11Speaker 12: Don't put no limitations gonna be I'm damning youn't limitations,
- 31:14Speaker 12: No limitation, don't insist in my world. Don't say your
- 31:17Speaker 12: limitations deepo, don't hold watch them on TV, don't hold
- 31:22Speaker 12: read the newspaper about sto home and looked in the
- 31:24Speaker 12: mirror your whole boy, and you wanna talk about your limitation?
- 31:27Speaker 1: Hot guy?
- 31:28Speaker 7: When I was going through we aint your school, we
- 31:30Speaker 7: had to do a lot of spot checks. A spot
- 31:32Speaker 7: check is basically, we don't have time to get all
- 31:35Speaker 7: your gear laid out to make sure you have all
- 31:37Speaker 7: your So a spot check is maybe gonna check out
- 31:40Speaker 7: two items, maybe making sure you have your extra batter, reason,
- 31:44Speaker 7: extra ammo, whatever it may be. The whole idea is
- 31:46Speaker 7: spot check is to make sure that you're staying squared.
- 31:49Speaker 2: Away because you gotta know what kind of items they're
- 31:51Speaker 2: gonna check on it. So how's that apply to your life?
- 31:55Speaker 2: This how applies? You wanna make sure you spot check yourself,
- 31:57Speaker 2: make sure you stay down in at all times. It's
- 32:00Speaker 2: all so important checking your spot checking your boys, your girls,
- 32:04Speaker 2: make sure.
- 32:05Speaker 7: That they're staying hard, calm up in the middle of
- 32:07Speaker 7: the night. Give them acalls the head the ball at
- 32:09Speaker 7: eight o'clock, we're gonna get after. It makes you to
- 32:12Speaker 7: staying down in you will have to eat the dreams.
- 32:16Speaker 2: You have to sleep the dreams. You have to dream
- 32:19Speaker 2: and dream. You gotta touch.
- 32:21Speaker 12: You have to see it when nobody else feeds it.
- 32:24Speaker 12: You have to feel it when it's not tanagable. You
- 32:28Speaker 12: have to believe it when you cannot feel it. You
- 32:31Speaker 12: gotta be put.
- 32:32Speaker 2: That with the dream. Look for the reckoning.
- 32:36Speaker 7: I guarantee you all those people you're coming up, you
- 32:42Speaker 7: might just be the boss.
- 32:44Speaker 2: You'll come looking for your favors. And when they do, you.
- 32:47Speaker 7: Got an option to say, Okay, what dude, I do
- 32:52Speaker 7: and say go yourself.
- 32:54Speaker 2: Hop beware of one thing. Mothers spitting in the wind,
- 33:00Speaker 2: Just back in your face. Stay hard.
- 33:03Speaker 7: It's so easy to be great nowadays, my friend, because
- 33:05Speaker 7: most people are weak. Most people don't want to go
- 33:08Speaker 7: to that extra mile. Most people don't want to find
- 33:10Speaker 7: that extra because it sucks, it's miserable, it's lonely.
- 33:14Speaker 3: Or if you want to be ordinary, you ain't even
- 33:16Speaker 3: got to listen to me, just go about your business.
- 33:19Speaker 3: If you think ordinary is cool, ain't no problem. It's
- 33:23Speaker 3: some really really wonderful ordinary people. But if you are
- 33:27Speaker 3: sitting in this room and you have extraordinary aspirations, then
- 33:31Speaker 3: you're gonna have to do extra You put extra on
- 33:34Speaker 3: top of extraordinary on.
- 33:35Speaker 2: Ordinary, and you come up with extraordinary. The only thing
- 33:38Speaker 2: you do for success. There's no discout.
- 33:41Speaker 12: It's sweat, it's broad, it's tears.
- 33:43Speaker 2: There is no discount. You can't get fifty percent off.
- 33:46Speaker 12: It's sweat, it's broad, it's tears.
- 33:49Speaker 2: There are no short cuts to success.
- 33:51Speaker 12: Stop thinking they are, and stop wanting people to put
- 33:54Speaker 12: you somewhere that you then.
- 33:55Speaker 2: I earn because the day they leave is gone. What
- 33:58Speaker 2: if you work for it is yours forever. I will
- 34:00Speaker 2: fly first class for effort.
- 34:02Speaker 12: I will stay in certain type of hotels forever. Not
- 34:04Speaker 12: because I'm big tim I'm.
- 34:06Speaker 2: Paying for it now.
- 34:07Speaker 12: I mean I was almost for real. So when I
- 34:09Speaker 12: was going to church, I wasn't going to church on
- 34:10Speaker 12: no shower and no old spies. I was going to
- 34:13Speaker 12: shoy I was going to church, however I was.
- 34:15Speaker 2: It is your losses that will humble you. It is
- 34:18Speaker 2: your losses. That will give you a drive.
- 34:20Speaker 12: It is your losses that will allow you not to
- 34:22Speaker 12: make the same mistake.
- 34:23Speaker 2: Over and over again. You are not your past.
- 34:27Speaker 13: So the different leadership styles, one of right now is
- 34:30Speaker 13: in this week of society. It's the instant gratification. Give
- 34:34Speaker 13: appell on the veat the second they do anything shown
- 34:36Speaker 13: that you're doing a good job. Guess what, there's a
- 34:40Speaker 13: lot of things and lack I don't deserve a pounds back.
- 34:42Speaker 13: A pell the bet comes when you overachieve things that
- 34:46Speaker 13: you're supposed to do. The like if there's a lot
- 34:48Speaker 13: of things we're supposed to do. We're supposed to be
- 34:50Speaker 13: a vet, we're supposed to get an early, we're supposed
- 34:53Speaker 13: to work out, we're supposed to be uncomfortable. We're supposed
- 34:56Speaker 13: to do all these things that people are now looking
- 34:59Speaker 13: for pound of back. How about this leadership, sue, he said,
- 35:03Speaker 13: if you will buying into the.
- 35:05Speaker 7: Pound the back, binding this out here, find the fact.
- 35:08Speaker 13: Yet guess what he said, looking for pellda back? Then
- 35:11Speaker 13: look at being a bet teen person, you look at
- 35:13Speaker 13: better self, then look at you the better family. All
- 35:16Speaker 13: this sudden look at being the person and you looking
- 35:20Speaker 13: for pilla back.
- 35:21Speaker 2: But you need it from the front, knowing.
- 35:22Speaker 13: One thing and said, you and the being, we're supposed
- 35:24Speaker 13: to do these things.
- 35:27Speaker 2: Light hold of it.
- 35:29Speaker 12: You light hold of it, and when that thing tells
- 35:31Speaker 12: you to quit, you look at it in his eye
- 35:33Speaker 12: and say, I.
- 35:34Speaker 2: Ain't going nowhere. I will brighte you before you break me.
- 35:37Speaker 2: You will not defeat me.
- 35:39Speaker 12: You will not destroy me. Some of you are so ignorant.
- 35:42Speaker 12: You've been through so much hell, you gonna quit now?
- 35:46Speaker 12: You got two more to go. And when you get
- 35:48Speaker 12: to success, it's not about still. When you get to
- 35:50Speaker 12: a certain level of success, it's about stamping now. It's
- 35:55Speaker 12: about stambling enough, It's about you won't.
- 35:57Speaker 2: Write me, you can't take me.
- 36:00Speaker 7: Get a lot of questions about high loss so much weight.
- 36:04Speaker 2: People want to know how they can get started. So
- 36:06Speaker 2: basically you're thinking too much off the bat.
- 36:10Speaker 7: When I lost my fucking weight, I ain't look for
- 36:12Speaker 7: a trainer.
- 36:13Speaker 2: I ain't do all that thinking.
- 36:15Speaker 7: I didn't go on Jenny Craig, I didn't do all
- 36:18Speaker 7: that shit. What I do is I basically stop beating
- 36:21Speaker 7: so much food or cut my calories down, so as
- 36:24Speaker 7: far as the workout goes. When you overthink that also
- 36:27Speaker 7: until you find a trainer, go out there and start walking,
- 36:32Speaker 7: put some shoes on, start running, go to the gym,
- 36:35Speaker 7: do the elliptical trainer. It's not rocket science. A lot
- 36:38Speaker 7: of folks talk about overtraining. You got trained first before
- 36:42Speaker 7: you can overtrain it. Sometimes you wake up in the
- 36:45Speaker 7: morning time and you're sore and you feel like you're overtrained. No,
- 36:49Speaker 7: you got sore fucking legs. Get out of your own.
- 36:52Speaker 12: Head and stop overthinking it'll want to hang with somebody.
- 36:56Speaker 12: I don't care what the circumstance. I don't care what
- 36:58Speaker 12: the situation.
- 36:59Speaker 2: We're putting on your back. And you were like, let's go.
- 37:01Speaker 12: I'll wrong with people who come on me to put
- 37:03Speaker 12: up fifty boys. I wrong with people who put up
- 37:05Speaker 12: fifty on their all. I put up fifty they put up,
- 37:08Speaker 12: and we learned you.
- 37:09Speaker 2: So my son, my daughter ain't tried me. What drives you?
- 37:12Speaker 2: And this is why I'm telling you, because if a.
- 37:14Speaker 12: House drive you, you sweep, you gonna get one, Then
- 37:17Speaker 12: what you're gonna do when you finish? It's what she said.
- 37:20Speaker 12: She blew this business up, and now she don't. She
- 37:22Speaker 12: don't want to do it no more. You know how
- 37:24Speaker 12: hard it is to blow a business up. You know
- 37:25Speaker 12: how many people wish they could do what she's doing.
- 37:27Speaker 12: But yeah, she finished with you.
- 37:28Speaker 2: Why that thing was not strong enough to drive her?
- 37:31Speaker 7: In life, we all go through different things. Sometimes your
- 37:34Speaker 7: girlfriend or boyfriend breaks up with you. Guess what? Get
- 37:37Speaker 7: to go over it? Then no longer wants you. Maybe
- 37:39Speaker 7: you fell a test in school. You work your ass off.
- 37:42Speaker 7: Guess what you fell the f test? Get over it,
- 37:44Speaker 7: move pasted it.
- 37:45Speaker 2: Learn to not let life hijack your brain. At work.
- 37:48Speaker 7: You can work in your ass off for a new
- 37:50Speaker 7: promotion you don't getting someone else does.
- 37:53Speaker 2: Maybe they kiss better ask than you do. Guess what,
- 37:55Speaker 2: Get over it. Maybe you're a being compact growing up.
- 38:00Speaker 2: Folks make funny.
- 38:01Speaker 7: And maybe you weren't a smart s mother for curse school.
- 38:05Speaker 2: If people can't.
- 38:06Speaker 7: Match you for that, there's great power and adversity. If
- 38:09Speaker 7: you're a victim of any kind, make sure you use
- 38:11Speaker 7: this to become successful.
- 38:13Speaker 2: Don't look for revenge. You're not going to be the best.
- 38:17Speaker 2: You're not going to text the best.
- 38:19Speaker 12: If you're not intentional and deliberate, and there are those
- 38:22Speaker 12: of you in your space and whatever.
- 38:24Speaker 2: You're trying to do, you don't even represent the best
- 38:26Speaker 2: in your.
- 38:27Speaker 12: Space, and you're still not giving under twenty. You're trying
- 38:30Speaker 12: to text the god. You're trying to test the female
- 38:33Speaker 12: that's the best.
- 38:34Speaker 20: If other people are putting in forty hour work Greeks
- 38:37Speaker 20: and you're putting in one hundred dollars work weeks, then
- 38:40Speaker 20: even if.
- 38:42Speaker 2: You're doing the same thing, you know that in one
- 38:45Speaker 2: year you will.
- 38:45Speaker 18: Achieve what they achieve.
- 38:47Speaker 7: You will achieve.
- 38:48Speaker 22: In four months what it takes them a year to achieve.
- 38:53Speaker 2: You gotta get through it.
- 38:54Speaker 5: You gotta get through bad feelings. You got to get
- 38:57Speaker 5: through You gotta get through failure.
- 39:00Speaker 7: It's very important.
- 39:01Speaker 5: And you get through it by just picking yourself back
- 39:04Speaker 5: up and moving forward and going.
- 39:05Speaker 12: And you're waking up and giving me seventy percent, you're
- 39:07Speaker 12: giving me eighty percent.
- 39:08Speaker 2: But yeah, you have these dreams that you're gonna be
- 39:10Speaker 2: the math.
- 39:11Speaker 6: Ah.
- 39:12Speaker 12: You will not out work me because your height has
- 39:15Speaker 12: nothing to do with my work ethic, your face has
- 39:18Speaker 12: nothing to do with my work at.
- 39:19Speaker 2: Your two bad background had nothing to do with my
- 39:21Speaker 2: work at. You will not I work me on your jet.
- 39:25Speaker 4: You will not I work me.
- 39:27Speaker 2: And your bigley.
- 39:28Speaker 12: You will not I work me, you will not I
- 39:31Speaker 12: work me. You thought for one minute that you broke me.
- 39:35Speaker 12: You got me twisted. I am not phenomenally skilled, but phenomenally.
- 39:40Speaker 2: Will I will not give up. I will not surrender.
- 39:44Speaker 2: I will not quit. And your problem is you're giving
- 39:47Speaker 2: up too easy. I need effort from me when you
- 39:49Speaker 2: walk out of the door.
- 39:50Speaker 12: I need you to match whatever effort enemy putting up.
- 39:53Speaker 2: Whoever your enemy is, match the dog on effort. Once again,
- 39:58Speaker 2: not only message I have as for him body.
- 40:00Speaker 7: So if weakner soft people out there who want to
- 40:03Speaker 7: pick apart in the messages to tune it out.
- 40:06Speaker 2: Life ain't about medals, ain't about your certificates.
- 40:09Speaker 7: It ain't about houses, money, cars, fame, all.
- 40:13Speaker 2: The bullsh It's about stars.
- 40:16Speaker 7: So when you get judge, when everything is say and
- 40:18Speaker 7: done with, you will get judged in your medals.
- 40:20Speaker 2: They get judged in your stars. The scars shown your
- 40:23Speaker 2: willingness to get to your side. They show your failures.
- 40:26Speaker 7: They sow your will need to start with scratch. They
- 40:29Speaker 7: say what you don't willing to do to go the
- 40:31Speaker 7: distance to see what you're capable of. So make sure
- 40:34Speaker 7: in life don't be afraid to get stars.
- 40:37Speaker 2: Stay hard, You're.
- 40:38Speaker 4: Bombarded with negative stuff every day that beats you down,
- 40:43Speaker 4: and you will find yourself unconsciously engaged in self destructive behavior.
- 40:47Speaker 4: If you don't program yourself, life will program you.
- 40:52Speaker 2: It's gotta be your passion. You gotta love it. Ladies
- 40:55Speaker 2: and gentlemen, you gotta love it. It's gotta be what
- 40:58Speaker 2: you are supposed to do. You want to sing it,
- 41:01Speaker 2: even though they want to invite you to Carnegie Hall.
- 41:03Speaker 4: You gonna sing to anybody that listen to you, and
- 41:05Speaker 4: Cluton singing to yourself.
- 41:08Speaker 2: I used to talk to my claps when nobody else
- 41:10Speaker 2: would listen to me. If dreams were easy, everybody would
- 41:12Speaker 2: make them happen. The problem is that most.
- 41:15Speaker 12: People I watch, most people they like, they can't get
- 41:17Speaker 12: up in the morning.
- 41:18Speaker 2: They ain't got no energy. I'm walking through the.
- 41:20Speaker 12: Airport running all mot how most people that I'm with,
- 41:23Speaker 12: they don't got the.
- 41:24Speaker 2: Energy to keep up with me. It just take you
- 41:26Speaker 2: too long, you wake up.
- 41:27Speaker 12: Take you three weeks to do what it could take
- 41:29Speaker 12: two twenty four hours to two.
- 41:30Speaker 2: It don't make you
- 41:31Speaker 12: A bad person, but you're gonna have to be average
- 41:34Speaker 12: because to be grace, you got to keep up