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  Speaker 1: Oh Dan Dan. If I come to the breakfast club,
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  Speaker 1: I call it the hot seat. You an you don't control.
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  Speaker 1: I'm aren't even doing you. I was so peg you're
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  Speaker 1: so petty. The world's most dangerous morning jew Djel. I
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  Speaker 1: stay in everybody's business, but in a good way. Charlemagne
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  Speaker 1: the gun, the ruler rubbing you the wrong way? The
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club to make for everybody getting pick up the
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  Speaker 1: mother mother phone and din, this is your time to
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest, nother your man will bless
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  Speaker 1: your chest. If we want to hear from you on
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast club, please but have the same energy come about.
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? This is Johnny? I'll hey Johnny, y'all get
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  Speaker 1: it off your chests. Bro. I want I'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to say. I'm very, very blessed. I
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  Speaker 1: don't have a lot, but I have everything because I
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  Speaker 1: have a life now. When I was a young kid,
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  Speaker 1: I always wanted to be an announcer of boxing, and
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  Speaker 1: ever since I see my first boxing match and all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, I ever gave up and I became
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  Speaker 1: an announcer for the last twelve years. But I use
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  Speaker 1: that as a plateau to help our veterans in active
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  Speaker 1: military congratulating. I have been so so very very fortunate. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I swear people don't ever give up and you can
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  Speaker 1: achieve anything you want. The breakfast Club, I'll Club Delf,
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  Speaker 1: the understreetid, understuted morning talk show ever. You guys rock.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are amazing. I love you guys. I think
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  Speaker 1: we need to get this guy's number. You need to
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  Speaker 1: have you come into studio and record some of those
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  Speaker 1: for real forever. We are you locating? Bro? Over there?
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually in a little city just north of Grand Rapids, Michigan.
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  Speaker 1: Damn are pretty far. He could actually do it for
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  Speaker 1: my studio. You holding a hang up again? You heard me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can definitely hear you, and I don't appreciate any opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are awesome. This is for free. Just want
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  Speaker 1: you to know that. Hello, who's this? Yo? Man? What's up? Bro?
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you do what you gotta do. I
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  Speaker 1: know what you're calling for, man, you calling to shoot
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  Speaker 1: your shot ahead, bro, basically man, appreciate it, man, Yo.
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  Speaker 1: Angel Yes, man, No, I'm a life skinned brother, fresh
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  Speaker 1: face one. You know. I just feel like I'm just
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  Speaker 1: that dude for you, you know what I'm saying. And
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  Speaker 1: then with the business. You know my name whole weight
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  Speaker 1: and I'm a real one. What does that mean. I'm
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  Speaker 1: with the business and whole definitely a drug dealer. I'm
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  Speaker 1: with my name whole Weight is definitely drug dealer talk.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm just I'm just one of those ones.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So just take your DM
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  Speaker 1: out shorty. You know what I'm saying. What's your credit?
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  Speaker 1: What's your credit? Bro? I was Browball five ninety eight,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm working No, no, no, no, no, your name
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  Speaker 1: whole way. You know it's more important than Angel. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's more important than Angel. Dating the man with bad credit?
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  Speaker 1: Good credit? Good credit? What about it? No? Yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: might put this called fifty. So you have about six
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  Speaker 1: credits called but eat how you my goodness, I don't
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  Speaker 1: explaining that to yourself. You start dating a guy like that.
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  Speaker 1: Five credits, but though, get it off your chests eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred and five, eight, five one or five one if
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  Speaker 1: you're upset and he did vent hit us up right now?
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  Speaker 1: It was the breakfast club, Go morning. This is your
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  Speaker 1: time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man
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  Speaker 1: from you on the breakfast club, but you got something
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  Speaker 1: on your mind? Yeah me, Why are you mad be
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  Speaker 1: tripping like I'm a sid piece or something. Probably your
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  Speaker 1: inside pieces don't know it? Never baby, I never played
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  Speaker 1: second to nobody, that's what you think? Why why are
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  Speaker 1: he treating me about that? What is he doing? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. It's like he's been discipparing going out of town.
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  Speaker 1: He don't ask me to come with him, like family
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  Speaker 1: functions or whatever. We've been together. No family functions. You
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  Speaker 1: a side check book? That one. Sorry for you, mama.
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  Speaker 1: Oh y'all married yet married? Yeah, we're married. You can
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  Speaker 1: still be inside chick and be married. Nah, you got
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  Speaker 1: him another He got him another bull. He got a
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  Speaker 1: main sugar state now and it ain't you no more?
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  Speaker 1: Bu damn it, Mama, Teresa, Good morning, Good morning? How
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  Speaker 1: are you? How is everything? I was cool because I'm
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  Speaker 1: blessed this morning. I'm a forty three year old completely
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  Speaker 1: blind female and I have three beautiful children, and I
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  Speaker 1: woke up this morning and I finally have a man
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  Speaker 1: that loved me. Oh you got three children and you blind? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that blind has gone to do it a vagina So listen,
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  Speaker 1: did the guy have sex that you are protected on perfectly?
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  Speaker 1: You just didn't know you ain't had a condomal She's stupid. No,
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  Speaker 1: I've only been blind for ten years. Oh, kids twenty
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  Speaker 1: sixteen and thirteen? How'd you go blind? If you don't
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  Speaker 1: mind me asking? I have buck coma. Oh you don't
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  Speaker 1: smoke weed? Yes? I do. Does it help or did
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  Speaker 1: it help? Yeah? Yeah it does. You're not completely blind? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she said, yes, I am blind blind. She can't drive.
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  Speaker 1: You have a stick or a dog? I have a stick? Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: other senses have been enhanced, right. Yeah, he always wanted
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  Speaker 1: to start for me because I'm like I told you,
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  Speaker 1: I'm blessed that I don't take this in disrespect. I
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  Speaker 1: always wanted to know when blind people walk around in
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  Speaker 1: the street, right, and they're going blocked about, how do
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  Speaker 1: they know where they're going in there's no cracks in
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  Speaker 1: the street and where the curbs are. That's what the
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  Speaker 1: stick is for. But the stick doesn't tell you if
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  Speaker 1: there's a car there. Because they walk, they know when
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  Speaker 1: they walk, like they can't tell when you're you're hearing
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  Speaker 1: just you're you're hearing gets more more sensitive. I just
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  Speaker 1: wanted to know, well, I wish you nothing but the best, baby,
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  Speaker 1: blessed is to you, to your kids. Absolutely, I'm blessed
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  Speaker 1: that you happy you two YouTube. Thanks a lot to
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  Speaker 1: listen to you every morning. We appreciate the support. We
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  Speaker 1: see why you say that, you say why you say
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  Speaker 1: why you say that? Yo? I hate you all right?
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean we respected? We see that a
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  Speaker 1: loyal listeners. What's wrong with y'all? Y'all? You know what
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  Speaker 1: y'all gotta y'all gotta grow up, get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one. If
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  Speaker 1: you're upset, you need to vent, or if you feel blessed,
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  Speaker 1: hit us up right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, yee
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  Speaker 1: Shlo mine the God. We are the Breakfast Club. We
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  Speaker 1: got a special guest in the building. Our guy is back. Marie, Marie, Marie, Marie.
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  Speaker 1: You get that's my audience. You walk into restaurants, you
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  Speaker 1: walk in the hotel, if people just start chatting it.
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  Speaker 1: If I go into kitchen, yeah, you see, I go
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  Speaker 1: to these high fluting parties in New York sometimes, and
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  Speaker 1: you know, these media guys who I've known all my life,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, they don't want to associate with me.
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  Speaker 1: So all they want to do is talk to my
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  Speaker 1: wife because she she's one of their people. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: not because I do this trashy talk show, according to them.
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  Speaker 1: So what I do is I go into the kitchen
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  Speaker 1: and everybody loves me in there. You said that Donald
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  Speaker 1: Trump actually used to pitch ideas to you. Yeah, way
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  Speaker 1: back in the day. Yeah, I know, he didn't came
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  Speaker 1: up with years and years ago. I used to do
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  Speaker 1: the show called a Current Affair, remember, And so what
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  Speaker 1: happened was it was right in the middle of his
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  Speaker 1: big divorce with Ivana and uh, and he was, you know,
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  Speaker 1: seeing Marla Maples on the sly and all that kind
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  Speaker 1: of stuff, and he was on the front of the
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  Speaker 1: New York Post every single day. We love to do
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  Speaker 1: stories about all that because the Current Affair did all
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  Speaker 1: that stuff, the Current Affailed around now he'd be all
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  Speaker 1: over it, Oh my lord, yeah, yeah, every night. You
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  Speaker 1: think it's Trump fatigue at this point, I would hope, So,
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  Speaker 1: I hope. So. But the thing is he's made it
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  Speaker 1: a cause of his to bash the media. And it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter what part of the media year in he
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  Speaker 1: he just wants to uh make his people feel like
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  Speaker 1: everything is fake news. Yeah, and so you know, and
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  Speaker 1: guess what, I saw a pole the other day. Forty
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  Speaker 1: six percent of the people thinks fake news. I mean
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  Speaker 1: it is, though a lot of it is. I'm I
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  Speaker 1: can't speak for it, like some of those places that
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  Speaker 1: he's calling out, like CNN, but it is a lot
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  Speaker 1: of fake moves out there. Absolutely. And guess what He's
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  Speaker 1: promoted some of that fake without doing any research at
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  Speaker 1: awesome time. So Bannon Bannon goes out there with bright
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  Speaker 1: Bart and all that stuff and starts feeding all this
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  Speaker 1: internet stuff from people who you've never seen a pen
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  Speaker 1: or a pencil in their lives. Now you mad that
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  Speaker 1: Donald Trump kind of like ran for president before you
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  Speaker 1: because you probably could have ran not ye, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think so you no, No, you know, first of all,
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  Speaker 1: i'd have to take a pay cut. I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: I got too many expenses that How is it for
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  Speaker 1: you to leave your judgment behind when you're on the show,
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  Speaker 1: Like you see a white woman who identifies as a
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  Speaker 1: black woman, and see can you imagine that tander skin
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  Speaker 1: and all of that. I thought she was nuts, right,
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  Speaker 1: I mean she I said, you know, I told her,
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  Speaker 1: I thought her. I said, you know, you know, color
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  Speaker 1: is not skin deep. It's deeper than that woman's trying
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  Speaker 1: to be African American. She's from Germany. She's a white
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  Speaker 1: German woman. By the way, more viewsed than we've had
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  Speaker 1: on Facebook of any other guests. Really. Yeah. On the
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  Speaker 1: Mari YouTube channel, I got this guy. We called him
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  Speaker 1: the Sperminator sat. He has given his sperm to twenty
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  Speaker 1: four different women, and he's got twenty nine babies out there,
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  Speaker 1: and he is in their lives, and we also bring
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  Speaker 1: on five of the women in all the lives he
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  Speaker 1: says he is. Well. Now, when you say given his sperm,
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  Speaker 1: do you mean had sex with them or donated his
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  Speaker 1: sperm mostly in a cup but sometimes the old fashioned way, right?
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  Speaker 1: Huh though? And I was prepared to really just jump
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  Speaker 1: on this guy, what the heck? And he is a
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  Speaker 1: kind of an infectious personality, and I kind of I
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  Speaker 1: kind of like the whole thing was over. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean exactly, And not only that, I guess because
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  Speaker 1: he teaches. Uh, he teaches in college. So what does
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  Speaker 1: he teach biology? Yeah, he's a college professor. Wow, what
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  Speaker 1: can I tell you? And so maybe these people think, well,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I'll get a smart kid out of this. But
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  Speaker 1: don't you think that meeting all these different people has
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  Speaker 1: made you not be judgment so because with some type
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  Speaker 1: of perception, preconceived notion, and then you meet them and
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  Speaker 1: then you're like, oh, exactly some some of it. You know. Look,
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  Speaker 1: I always believe even though, for instance, I do the
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  Speaker 1: paternity stories or I do the lot of tective stories,
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  Speaker 1: I believe every single story is unique in its own way.
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  Speaker 1: And so that's, you know, that's what I hang my
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  Speaker 1: hat on. And that's why I I'm kind of excited
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  Speaker 1: with every one of these stories. I don't get bored.
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  Speaker 1: I don't because sometimes with the women you're surprised. Oh yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah yeah. I mean I'm still waiting for that
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  Speaker 1: big story that happened, that's happened once where the woman
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  Speaker 1: accuses the guy of being the father of her twins
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  Speaker 1: and he's the father of one but not the other. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I hand with its. Still haven't found out the
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  Speaker 1: second daddy. Now he've been doing more. He show for
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  Speaker 1: twenty years now. I remember about four years ago, maybe five,
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to some NBC executive. He's like, yeah, more,
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  Speaker 1: he's got about three more years. Oh yeah, right, and
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  Speaker 1: he's gonna hang it up. I was scheduled for assisted
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  Speaker 1: living two years ago. And these guys at NBC keeps
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  Speaker 1: selling my show and so still number one. It's got
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  Speaker 1: it's got, believe it or not. This is why you
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  Speaker 1: know about research, radio research and all this rating stuff.
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  Speaker 1: It drives him crazy with my show because the older
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  Speaker 1: I get, the younger my audience, and so nobody can
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  Speaker 1: figure that out. I can figure it out because the
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  Speaker 1: themes that I I I use, like the paternity tests
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of detective tests and how to control kids.
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  Speaker 1: It's drama, man, It's it's all the great Shakespearean themes.
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  Speaker 1: It's lust and betrayal and all these classic themes that
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  Speaker 1: everybody wants to know about. We have more with Maria
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  Speaker 1: when we come back. Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good Morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
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  Speaker 1: angela Ye Schelomin, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: We have Maury Povich in the building now, Maria. How
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  Speaker 1: accurate are the lot of detective tests that you guys takes.
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  Speaker 1: I see Patino said he just took one. Happen, Patino,
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  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Are you kidding me? Well, it's
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  Speaker 1: not as accurate as the paternity test, but it's over
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  Speaker 1: ninety percent. I'll put it to you that way. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but you could be nervous and fail one of those.
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  Speaker 1: Though that you can be telling the truth and be nervous.
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  Speaker 1: My boy, Ralph, you know, Ralph is the guy Ralph
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  Speaker 1: Barbar Harry is the guy who comes on my show
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  Speaker 1: because he does the administering the lie detector test. He says, look,
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  Speaker 1: I give this test three different times. I don't just
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  Speaker 1: do it one time. I do it three times, and
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  Speaker 1: being nervous doesn't affect the test. Some people know how
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  Speaker 1: to beat the test, though, they say, really, that's not her.
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  Speaker 1: I know people who say they lied right and then
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  Speaker 1: took the tests and it said that the only the
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  Speaker 1: only thing I think what happens is these guys who
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  Speaker 1: are cheating on their on their significant others. I think
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  Speaker 1: they come on the show and then they find out
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  Speaker 1: that they've lied. They know they're going to fail the test.
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  Speaker 1: They think that they can start all over again with
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  Speaker 1: the girl. That's what they think, even though the girl
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  Speaker 1: will take him back. Now, what do you say to
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  Speaker 1: somebody who says, oh, this woman came on, She's done
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  Speaker 1: twelve paternity tests still hasn't found the fact that she's
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  Speaker 1: a hope. I think that woman is brave and I
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  Speaker 1: think she's courageous because she has to suck up her
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  Speaker 1: embarrassment and her humiliation because all she wants to do
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  Speaker 1: is find a father for that child that she has
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  Speaker 1: to raise herself. She thought that spirm and she wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have got pregnant, all right, ol Man. Now you know
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  Speaker 1: people say that sometimes that some of your guests that
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  Speaker 1: you exploit them. How do you feel about critics that
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  Speaker 1: say that, to ex this is what I say about them.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say it's a paternity test. Let's say a guy
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  Speaker 1: had not been in the life of these kids, and
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  Speaker 1: now all of a sudden he's shown to be the father,
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  Speaker 1: and there's a chance that he will get into the
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  Speaker 1: life of these kids. So you can say I exploit
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  Speaker 1: them all the time, but I know the chances for
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  Speaker 1: that child being successful are much better if there are
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  Speaker 1: two parents in his In his or her life. So
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  Speaker 1: it's what I say, and I get it all the
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  Speaker 1: time from from critics and media people. But you know something,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's the media people who say I'm exploiting it.
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  Speaker 1: People don't think that, yeah, but media, all media people
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  Speaker 1: exploit everything. Of course, that's what they do. That's what
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  Speaker 1: we do. We explain everything. What are we doing here?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly what am I doing without Harvey wine And I'm
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  Speaker 1: exploiting you because I want to be heard by all
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  Speaker 1: the people out there who watch my show, you know,
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  Speaker 1: so funny like like it's like the Harvey wine Stein
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  Speaker 1: story will come out and everybody will talk about, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the people who are accusing him of these things, and
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  Speaker 1: it acts so concerned. You're just exploiting their story, exacploiting
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  Speaker 1: their pain. I don't sell more papers. That's how come
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  Speaker 1: you've never done like a Mory movie, you know, the
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  Speaker 1: only the only movie I ever did, believe it or not.
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  Speaker 1: Tyler Perry called me up, big, big happy family exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So Dia has me. I mean, he's playing media and
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  Speaker 1: he has me on the show because somebody is doubting
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  Speaker 1: whether whether media is the other guy is the father
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  Speaker 1: of Media's child. Right, he builds. I mean Tyler, by
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  Speaker 1: the way, he's got this studio and I mean, you
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  Speaker 1: think you're in the middle of Hollywood. I mean it
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  Speaker 1: is the most amazing studio. And he is rebuilt to
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  Speaker 1: exactly to the exact feeling of my set, the entire set.
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  Speaker 1: Because she comes on I read, I read the result.
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  Speaker 1: It's the wrong result, and media runs off the stage,
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  Speaker 1: goes to the couch in the back, falls down, starts
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  Speaker 1: going crazy like he's been watching my show for years
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  Speaker 1: and the and the greatest thing about it was Tyler says,
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  Speaker 1: a scheduled for like a half a day shoot and
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  Speaker 1: I'm going, oh god, I don't mind it. Eight hours
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  Speaker 1: stuff like that. How many times are they going to
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  Speaker 1: do it? He is so good. He did it one time.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. Goodbye, rap, see you, maur thank you. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: He's go oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, I've done that.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, like a more movie, like a movie
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  Speaker 1: where about your life and fun fiction movie like a
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  Speaker 1: couple goes on. Really, I'm sure somebody's pissed a movie. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: what about a comedy where you're the father? That would
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  Speaker 1: be hilarious. Yeah, that's great. Char that's just true. I
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  Speaker 1: always tell people, you know, I'm the father of some
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  Speaker 1: but not many. Now you Maury Social sit down. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: are you doing that show because you want people to
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  Speaker 1: start like taking you more serious? No, No, it's it's me.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: It's the way I can the way you all do
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: it with Facebook and YouTube and things like that. They
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: are unique segments, not on my show. And and for
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: all those people who do everything on their devices, they
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: can get this kind of of new unique segments only
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: on that, only on YouTube. You younger fan base, Yeah,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: that you have. Of course, you listen to so many
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: stories every day, right, I'm sure some things really still
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: stay with you and stay in your head. How do
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: you manage to clear your head? Just people going through
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: certain struggles? Well, I enquire about them, and we have
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: a connection. All the producers keep in touch with every
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: every single guests that they produce. And so therefore if
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: there is a problem, for instance, if I say, look,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: we're going to set up counseling for you back home,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I make sure that the producers follow up on that good.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: And by the way, I also get a lot of
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: return guests. I mean, you know, first they're on here's
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: the classic Okay, the guy accuses the woman of cheating
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: on him and that he's not the father of the baby.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Comes on, do the whole thing, do a lot detector
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: tests and a paternity test. She hasn't cheated on him,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: he is the father, and then guess what, six months
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: later she has figured it out it was he who
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: was cheating all the time. I'm coming back on the
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: show because I want him to take the lie detector test. Wow,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: and of course he fails. Right, So we do a
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: lot of that. Is there anything you stray away from,
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: like certain tapists. I don't do religion, and I don't
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: know politics. I don't do a mess with that. I mean,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: there's enough channels for that kind of stuff. I don't
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: think I need it. You'll do that on the Social
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: sit Down, Yeah, I'll do. Yeah. What do you think
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: of the state of the American government right now? Because
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: you've seen a lot of different administration. I think it's
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: absolutely paralyzed. I think it's just the worst. I grew
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: up in Washington, DC, so I'm kind of a local kid,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: and I've been around government most of my life. And
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: I remembered when everybody said, Okay, I want this. Another
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: guy would say I want that, And then they'd sit down,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: they'd have a drink, and they'd meet in the middle
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: and something would get done. No more. That's it's it's
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: the worst, by the way, which, by the way, is
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: the reason Donald Trump is president is because of the
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: absolute frustration of the American people that nothing gets done.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Do you regret voting for Trump? I didn't vote for him.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: I ain't telling you who I voted for. IoT. He
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: got more Polvich in the building. That is your twentieth season. Yeah,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: you got nominated for Emmy two congre ratulations. Ridiculous, isn't
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: it outstanding? In fact, they had this big event in
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: La you know, the ceremony, and they said you want
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: to go. I said, no, I'm not going. I said,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: why is it? Because if I go anywhere where I'm
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: nominated for something, we never win. You guys go have
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: a good time. So we didn't win. I did that
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: one time. Years and years ago. I had a production
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: company and I produced a short documentary after nine to
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: eleven or a police officer in New York and a
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: brother fire officer both died in nine eleven, was called
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Twin Towers, and it was nominated for an Academy Award
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: and the guy who directed it and produced it for me,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: named Rob Port. He says, well, come, we'll go to
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: the Oscars. I said, I'm not going to the Oscars.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: He says, why, He said, because if I go, I
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: know you won't win. So I didn't go, and they won.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: We won the Oscar and so ever since then, I said,
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I ain't going any awards ceremonies. I don't believe it.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: It seemed like you'd be nominated every year if astanding
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: talk show. Though. You know, I want to tell you something.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: The people who run those things, the Emmys and things,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: they look on my show, you know less than Yeah.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's ridiculous. Does that bother you? No? Years
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: and years ago, when I was doing a current affair
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: and Rupert Murdoch he was the head of Fox. Yeah,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: well he is still is kind of his sons are now.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: He used to say, he said, look, we're not in
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: this to win awards, We're in this to win viewers.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: And that's the way I look on absolutely. What do
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: you think about all these allegations now against all these
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: high powered producers in Hollywood, These stories you've heard about
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: for years, you know, I knew Harvey was a tough
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: guy to deal with. I didn't know anything about his
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: relations and ships with women, but I knew he had
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: the reputation of being a screamer and stuff like that.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm not surprised because there's a there was
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: a culture out there, especially when I was younger. When
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: you know, if a woman wanted to get a job
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: in a certain entertainment position or a news position, hey,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: wait till the news people come out. Oh baby, I
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: don't think that Cathine Couch wasn't in the news business.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: We've already been talking about Bill O'Reilly and all settlements
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: that he had. Yeah, this is gonna get nasty for people.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Anything you want to tell us more before you hear
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I got nothing, By the way, it did, I'm telling
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: you right now. I started thinking about it, you know,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: way back, and I said, happy, I think I think
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I'm in the clear for the right reading. I think
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: I slipped her for the right reading. Her a job.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, everybody in our business, they began
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: to think about it. Did you think about it? Then
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: you think about it? No, I've never been in that
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: kind of been on the other side that is true.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I've been put in compromising positions, and you A lot
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: of men are coming forward and saying that they too
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: have been sexually harassed and assaulted. Has anything ever happened
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: to you all these years? More? How'd you get this show? No?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I mean I think I'm in I think I'm in
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: the clear. There, I really am. I I you know,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I was never in the hiring position, but I was
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: always the guy wanting to be hired, So I was
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: never in the hiring position. What do you think should
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: happen to Harvey now? Oh, I think it's already happened.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I think he's toast. I mean I think, uh yeah,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: And I don't think the company will survive. I really don't.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I think they'll sell off it piece meal. The television
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: division will be sold off, the movies, the library will
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: be sold all that stuff. It'll it'll be gone with
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: him a Yearah. I think it's a rapt Yeah, I
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: think yeah, I think it's a rapt And I still
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: don't feel like they're going at him the way they
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: went at like a Bill coll to be easy though,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like he's being well crucified. They're
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: about five cases out there, and apparently they're investigators in
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: New York are looking at it. People in LA. It's
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: pretty new allegations, like everything has and you know what,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: women have spoken out about Bill Cosby in the past,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: they've spoken about Harvey winsting in the past. People didn't
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: take it seriously at first, and now we're starting to
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: take those things more seriously. What do you think about
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: this me too thing? What do you think of the hashtag? Yeah,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: the hashtag too? I think is I think that a
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: lot of women have been put in situations where they
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: feel like they've been compromised. They feel like it's intimidating.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: It's intimidating when somebody in a position of power does
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: something to you and you feel like if you speak
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: about it, you can get blackballed, you might never get
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: a job again, people won't believe you. And it did
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: happen to a lot of different women. So I think
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: it's great that people feel like they can express themselves
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: and have that voice and put those stories out there.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: So I do think it's a positive thing, and it
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: does stween Harvey and Bill a celebrity too, though. You know,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: if all of you had been a celebrity that people
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: actually knew they'd be all over from roasting them. The
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: joke thing is good when you don't really know the person.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I talked to my wife about it, because you know,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: she was there back in the day when she Connie
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Chung when she was coming up in the news Harvey
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: sexually assaulted Cone. No. But but I asked her about
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: her experiences and she says, I'm putting everything in the book.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: But knowing my wife, she got around it this way.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? You're not that good looking. I
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: don't want to be. And she was one of the boys.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, she would just throw it back at you.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: It wasn't Yeah, I think a lot of it is
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: how you handle it, but it's unfortunate that it does happen.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: But I do feel like guys will sometimes just put
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: it out there and see if how you react to it,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: and it's you know, But then there's those worst situations
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: when you're trying to get on and you're getting promised
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: things and you end up in a hotel room or
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: alone with somebody, and then some The worst thing about
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: the worst thing about the Weinstein thing was the honeypot.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Things you don't know about the honey, So, okay, I'm
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna talk about a script. Come to my
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: hotel room with my assistant, a woman. The woman goes,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: the assistant goes up there, and then she leaves. So
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: now the woman is alone with all. In other words,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: she wouldn't have gone up if she would have been
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: alone to begin with. And then now you feel like,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: how am because a sticky situation? No, it's sweet, you're
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: gonna you know here, this is very interesting. We got
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: we got this situation here with a script. We have
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: a woman assistant with you, right then, okay, then assistant
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: leaves you by yourself. Yeah, that's premeditated sexual assault. He
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: gotta go to jail. That's true. And what about the
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: assistant because clearly they know, well there's you know that,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: it's all. It's all out there, come out. But we
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: appreciate you for joining us, and you know, thank you
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: so much. Marie starts Now that's right, gosh, thank you, Marie. Marie.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: How much time you got this last year? You're gonna
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: brow out that twenty depends on how much that boat cost. Well,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy, we
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. We have the cast of Netflix's
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: She's got to Have It in the classic Spike Lee joint,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: She's got to Have It was Actually, I think right now,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: in particular, it's a great time for this Netflix series
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: to come out. I did have a chance to see
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: the first episode already, and that movie is a classic
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: movie in itself, just the whole premise of it. It's
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: a woman instead of a man with all of these
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: different lovers and they all pretty much know the situation,
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: right right, That's exactly it. And yeah, you know it's
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: weird how things time out, but here we are, um,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: and I think we could use a little female empowerment
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: in the ether to combat all this the conversation about her,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: as you know, you think guys will go for this,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Like do you think there's a lot of people in
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: relationships now like a woman who's like, I'm dating and
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: sleeping with three different men. The only thing, no, you
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: guys are gonna go depends who the woman is. Rihanna
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: op rotation, regular person. I like how you describing it though.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: You said you're a sex positive sexual right right? Um, yeah.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I felt like when it came out in eighty six,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: there were no labels for it, and we have no
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: shortage of labels for sexuality. So you guys said, no,
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: you don't think that this could potentially happen. It's not
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: that it can potentially happen. It's just it is it
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: going to fly? And for how long is it going
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: to be a fad thing? Is it going to be
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: something that becomes part of our fabric. It's just a
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: matter of putting it out there, addressing it. I think
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: it's happening, it's just not being addressed. What is paying
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: sexuality exactly? Exactly what it sounds like, you know what
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: you're paying the camera? Yeah, yeah, serious questions like man
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: sexual always in reference to not ascribing um like homosexual, heterosexual.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: It's more open than all of the just greedy you
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: get everything. I mean, yes, Well, let's talk about the
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: three different guys who you are dating, and you guys
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: can give a little background on who your character is
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: and what it represents, because I think every woman can say, man,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: if I could just put these three guys together, I
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: have the perfect guy. That's what she pretty much did, right.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I played, I played Mars Blackman. That was Spike Lee's
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: original characters. This is Mars Mars two point zero. You know,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I think Mars brings out the kid and Nola and uh,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Mars kind of doesn't care what people have to say
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: about him. And you know, he's from the hood, he's
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: from Brooklyn, and you know, he's a man of the people,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: man to the neighborhood and um, and he's an artist.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: He's a hustler. You got like five side hustles, you
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And his main goal is just
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: to you know, kind of kind of bring love and
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: light in the hood. But you know, and show Nola
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: like that. He's the dude. Is he still living home
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: with his mamma or he lives at home with his sister?
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: And for Green project, What would make a woman want
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: to I guess be paying sexual the physical thing is
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: something you're searching for. Emotionally, I think it's all of
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: the above. I think it's the recognition that you can't
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: get everything you want from one person. I think that's
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: what trips us up when we're dating, when you're like, oh,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: this person has to be all these things, like no
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: one's meant to be that. Um, so it's in recognition
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: of that. And yeah, for Nolah's definitely sex. It's definitely
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: you know, like having sex addict. She is not a
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: sex addict. That's the trailer. Are you sure sex? Whatever
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: happened to the eighty twenty rule? Like you know you're
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: not gonna get everything from you know what I'm saying,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: But talk about the other two guys and what you
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: bring to the table as far as what No one
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: answer that question. Okay, all right, well I'm I'm Cleo Anthony.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I played Great Child and Grey is Grey's all about
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: sexy fun. He's just the dude who sexy fun a
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: good scrip of name. He likes things that are pretty.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: He likes women that are pretty, likes clothes that are pretty. Uh,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: he's himself, he's a pretty man. So he brings that
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: element to Nolah's life of just the exotic and the
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: the the atypical and and just sexy, sexy fun. Not
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: like the evolution of a metro sexual very much, very
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: very much. Yea version, he definitely So that's like a
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: sexual physical relationship more you think, Yeah, I mean it
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: starts out there, Oh yeah, I think he grows but uh, yeah,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: that's where that's where it comes from. Hey, I'm Lyric Best,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I play um. I played Jamie over Street and Jamie's a.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: He's a he's a conservative freak. You know, he's not
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: just the stuff shirt. He's the kind of guy that's
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: like an anchor and Daddy, you need to stop. He's uh,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: he's he's a he's a successful man who came through
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: the hood and gone through all of that and basically
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: decided that he wanted more for himself his family, and unfortunately,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: love uh found its way through Nola, and he's got
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: a situation already, a marriage. He's got a situation and
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: and like most people, you you might be in love
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: with somebody, but then you find love somewhere else and
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: that's usually not supposed to happen, but when it does,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: it does you can't really decide. And that's that love
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: he has for Nola and they go through some emotional things.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: In that case, that's the perfect situation though, Like if
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: you already got a woman and then you did somebody
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: like Nolan who's got three other dudes Like ideal, Right,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: I think it's only ideal when it's when it's a
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: thought but when you're dealing with the emotion, when you're
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: dealing with the heart, and you falls for basically, but
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: it's like that, that's it's it's it's so real. Though
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: you know you're you're in a situation. There's other people
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: you got to think about, you know, especially if there's
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you know, kids who are not involved. You can't just
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: run with the idea because it's just great that you have,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: you know, your cake and eating it. Two And I
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: think we're dealing with real issues that people can relate to,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: and hopefully we can you know, bring certain things to
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: people's minds so that they can figure out how to
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: go through it. I've always wondered, can you truly be
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: in love with two people? Because the other woman? Are
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: you ever really in love with her? Because eventually you
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: choose right. No, I have friends, I have friends who
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: are definitely polyamorous, and I know this. I know it
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: takes a lot of scheduling and discipline and goals. So
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: I feel like the irony of it is it actually
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: requires a lot of Like it's a it's a free structure,
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: but freedom always requires discipline, a lot of maintenance. But
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: you know, that question is like saying, you know, can
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: you only love one of your five kids? You know,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: that's the same question to ask do you love all
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: your children? Yeah, you've been with you a woman forever, right,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: and then like another woman comes in the picture. You
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: think you may love it, but it could just be lust.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: It could just be the feeling of something new. But
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: you don't really love the other person's feelings too, if
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: you're hurting someone else. It's a very it's a very emotional.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: It's a very touchy subject. That's why she's got to
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: have it is so important, especially in twenty seventeen, because
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: it brings all these things to mind, and then you
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: can go through. We got more with the cast. If
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: she's got to have it when we come back, so
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, everybody is
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy we are to
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club? Who's talking with the cast? If she he's
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: gotta have it? Ye? Now for de Wanda Wise, who
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: plays Nola Darling. Yes, if you had to rate what's
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: most important to you, is it fun? I put it
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: in order right, fun? Stability or attraction? What order would
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: you put that in? Probably? I know, attractions last, sorry, um,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: and always my husband is incidentally handsome. Um, only women
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: can do that, by the way, the only women could
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: do that. And he clowns all the time. He clowns
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: me all the time about all my excess. Sorry, sorry, guys,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I didn't I shouldn't have put that. But yeah, probably
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: fun first. Um. I never really cared about stability either.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Like I remember first being married and he'd be like,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: you know, I just want to provide for my wife,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: And I was like, what, that's how I felt. I'm like,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: can we do this together? Like, can we figure us
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: out together? It's fun, stability, and then attraction. You to say,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: for the guys, I'm just interested. If you had to
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: put those three in order, how do guys rate that? Right,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: let's go. But the looks is the attraction. The looks
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: is the attraction. That's the initial okay, momentum, and then
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: everything else gotta follow real quick. But if like, if
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: you're serious about it personally, if I'm serious about a woman, yeah,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: she's got to grab my attention. So what's after that?
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: And then I got she got to have some sense
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: in her head ability to talk to her. You can
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: have a conversation. She's not just a pretty phase. And
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: she's gotta be caring, she's gotta be giving, she's gotta
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: be thoughtful. Oh you adding stuff? Yeah, three things. But
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: those are the qualities that make up one thing. You know.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Where I'm at in life, say, it's totally different right now,
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: it's uh. I mean attraction first, that's the hello you
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: put that last a different place in my life, attraction,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: attraction was fun. I want to attraction and fun. If
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: you're not stable, I mean, as long as you're not
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: coming after mine and you got your own thing, then
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: let's just have fun. I'm not trying to I'm not
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: trying to build anything like long term at this point
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: of my child. Definitely, it's about being attracted to someone.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: But but but but but it's not about being attracted
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: like I'm attracted to you because you look good. I'm
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: attracted like because I've been attracted to some women that
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: my family been like yo, aunt for real and I'm
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: like yo, son. That's just something about yeah, after you
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: hit you feel that way. It's something you don't say.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: You see somebody, you catch your vibe, you catch your energy,
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: you know. I think attraction is more than just Oh
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I see somebody and I'm I'm attracted to them. You
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: catch a vibe, you catch someone's energy, and um, you
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: know you gotta make me laugh. Man. You know what
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. We can't just you know, because because there's
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: gonna be times where we you know, we ain't we
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: It's not you know, when you get in a long
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: term relationship, you ain't having sex all the time every
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: single day. Y'all probably getting down. Like I mean, look man,
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: look when you get when you when you're getting deep.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You ask anybody that's been
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: married a long time and people with like people who
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: I see their marriages and I'm like, damn, I admire
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: their love, you know, and they tell me they're like, yo, man,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: when you get deep in it, it's like it ain't
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: it becomes less about it. It's about it's about having
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: that homie. It's about having that friend there, having somebody
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: to do life with, you know, and raise kids together
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: and do all the things. And I will say that
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: is male privilege. Male privilege is being ugly and still
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: getting a beautiful woman. Yeah. Yeah, I think it's because
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: you know, women know that that fool is going to
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: be on her like white all right, No, I don't
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: think that's it. I think that No, it's not. That's
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: exactly what you said. I think attraction is death. I agree.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: I feel like attraction is a vibe and I can
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: say for me. For me, intelligence was always like like
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: intelligence and humor got me every time. You know, like
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: every time, you never think to be cute or handsome
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: for you, as long as you know you can spend
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: some brilliant I'm like, hey, by the way, men don't
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: think like that the smartest, funniest woman in the world.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: But if you don't look good. He used to used
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: to send out inspirational quote. I know that guy you're
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: talking about used to close out to women because you
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: know it was ugly and did get really cute. I mean,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I can appreciate it now. This this this show is
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: gonna walk a lot of good conversations, though, because people
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: feel like women emotionally can't do it this characters. Yeah,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: that's really weird. It feel like she's emotionally she'll get
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: caught up in and love every single one of these guys.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Not love, right, She's like no strings attached. Yeah, it's
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: definitely a no strings attached attempt. But it gets complicated.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: But it's her because I think for guys, a lot
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: of guys to say I would never do that, that
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: would never be me. In particular, this is a little
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: tacky right to be laying in bed with one dude
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: and another dude calls and yeah, answer the phone him
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: right there. It is at least don't well that's one point.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: My point is people are doing it. Yes, people are
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: doing it. They're just not trance. They're just not transparent
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: about it, like, yeah, no, you're not the only one.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: People just starn't taking that next step to be like
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: putting in your face, You're not the only one on
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: the roster. And what about changing the sheets in between
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: these guys and you'll see it. We made sure that
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: the colors were different. We have to make sure it
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: was clear, because is that it? What's the rules when
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: you have multiple sex partners? You have to change the sheets,
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: and you have to have impeccable hygiene partners. You can't
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: be raggedy and just for breeze, you know what I'm saying.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: I mean impeccable hygiene. You gotta change the garbage cans too.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: If you got condoms in the garfen out explaining why
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: she only likes to sleep with the guys in her bed.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: What are they explaining it? Oh? Do they explain that?
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: Now she has a lot of roles season one, they're
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: all in her head in my journal? And when did
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: you start from miss November twenty three things? Oh, that's
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: a good thing to be. Yeah, that's a great family.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Let's us. I got to have it as a family.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: My family will sit down, my family appropriate. We got
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: more with the cast. If she's got to have it
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: when we come back, so don't move. It's to breakfast Club.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy we are to Breakfast Club.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Who's talking with the cast? If she's got to have it? Charlomagne.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I wasn't working with Spike because I mean, all of
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: y'all look like besbian like y'all have the thesbian look
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: like y'all. Yeah, Like, that's why I wasn't working with him.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: He's a legend. I always qualified as Spike courtside at
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: the next game, like that that Spike, take that Spike
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: and then put him on a film set, and that's
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: what you got. It's got high energy, it's very fast
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and furious. He's still such an artist, which you don't
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: get with a lot of directors who have had his experience,
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: like normal that they're old jaded to come in. They're like,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: what are we doing today? But Spike came in every day,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: you know, with his energy, and you're like, I gotta
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: match it, you know, and he keeps showing your toes
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: because he's just like, yeah, we're not doing that today,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: We're doing this. And you're like, okay, okay, okay, okay,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: so go memorize. Let's coo coo coo cool, let's go
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: the lessons you learn on set with that man, just
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: like you come up every day like your game elevates
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: on a daily basis just being around him. And it's
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to like like to his horn, It's
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: just a fact you get around somebody like Spike. Yeah. Yeah,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: there's Mars stuck in this one now. But he sucks
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: on her toes. He really talks about it to Nah,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: but I talk about it, I talk about it, but
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: he would do it if it hell yeah, he would
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: s Nola's friends, right, right now. That's my favorite, like
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: edition of the update, Like, oh Nola has friends, Hey,
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: why of them actually used to be her roommate, one
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: of them used to be a roommade, her type a
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: friend used to be a roommate, and then her around
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: the way friend played by China Lane, who was one
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: of my favorite. Yeah, and that's also one of my
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: favorite storylines. But like actually dealing with black girl body
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: issues because no one everyone just thinks we're like, I'm
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: confident and I love myself at all times, you know. Um,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: But yeah, Nola's friends are are are everything in our update,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: and they're not judgmental, no, because sometimes if you have
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: a friend and you're like, okay, I'm sleeping with three
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: different guys and they're like, girl, we gotta talk. Because
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: there's no reason if you knew somebody in real life
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: that was like that character, would you think that she
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: had issue. She's a freak, you know, she's a sex addict.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: What would just hope every would call her home? And
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: then there'll be names for there will be in twenty seventeen. Ye,
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: there's gonna be some people who are and be like
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: are you crazy? Like what image? Yeah, they're already. Yeah,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: they're already. But I think again, we're dressing things that
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: are actually happening, and just like you know, people coming
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: out of the closet for other things, we're coming out
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: of the closet with this issue because people are doing it.
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: And by the way, yeah, but but to see you
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: say that, but guys don't get props for that anymore.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: I mean maybe it's because I'm older. I look at dudes,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you st with with two girls in
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: one day, good for you. That's just me. They're equally
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: judgment like you got the energy to do that. Damn,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I don't got the energy. So it's not because you
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: think it's nasty. I think it's ten years ago. No,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's the energy thing. Plus
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: that this thing, it is kind of nasty in this
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: day and age with always STDs flying around. Well, I
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: will say this because I feel like, you know, I've
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: seen the whole series, and I did not seeing it
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: close ups of the condom rappers that are on the
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: night side table. So anyone watching there's kind no there
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: were condom rappers on the Knighthood, y'all go get that car.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Why do people care about stuff like That's what I'm
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: getting mad at into but not rock because it's not correct.
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: Like it's just not like you just said. We're not
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: in a in a space where we just like can
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: walk in and be like, oh my god, yes, and
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: I'll be like, yeah, put on the core especially you're
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: gonna live that kind of life side you. My last
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: question is where does she's got to have it? Where
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: is it gonna fit into like this new black Hollywood
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: renaissance I think we're seeing in film and television iconic.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, she's uh, you know, she's one of
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: our only she's one of our only symptomatic icons. Like
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I was trying to think about it the other day
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: and I was like, clear, Patra Jones, Foxy Brown, Nola Darling,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: maybe Homegirl from Love Jones, you know what I mean,
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: like Nia's character from Love Jones. But we don't have
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: many in any time anyone like you know, um puts
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: it near insecure. I'm like, that's because we only have
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: two shows where it's a chocolate black girl in their twenties.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: That's the only reason why at that point of comparison,
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: because there's just right now, there's us too um, so
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: you know, we happy to be all part of the
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: lexicon and more and more and more and more and more,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: did you guys change your views on relationships and kind
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: of the the I guess model for what a woman
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: is and what a man is while you were filming
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: this your views to me? For me, what I try
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: to do is just look at from from Jai Jamie
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: over streets point of view and not worry about these
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: other guys. And I think, and I think, I think
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: Spike subconsciously or maybe purposely, U shot it like that
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: because I never saw these guys until only until time
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: until but I was always on set, just me and Nola.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: I'm like, is there anybody else in this movie? I
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: would never see these guys. I might pass them in
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: the hallway, you know, when I'm done and they're coming
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: in or something like that, so I didn't really have
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: to think about what's going on with them. But did
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: it change your views in real life? Just doing this
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: and coming across the character like noladun like the project
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: that dolt. It makes you, It makes you think, makes
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: you think, and then you know you kind of have
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: your opinions about it. But I did I make a
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: fun of decision on how it felt. No, because I'm
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: kind of also waiting on how it's received by the
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: people because that's where it whole lives. Well, personally, it
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: didn't change my views. I've always had that mentality that
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: you know, you do you and if we're communicating and
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: and you got things to do over here this part
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: of the town, you're gonna be gone because you know,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: in the industry we are sometimes we're away from months
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: at a time. You take care of yourself and be safe,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: and when I see you, then we'll you know, have
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: some fun and we just you know, let it, let it,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: let it ride until it play. It plays. But but
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: it's like I'll be I'll be a player with you,
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: be a player. You know, you do your thing, and
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: we'll keep it real with each other and no one
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: gets hurt. I just wonder when do you stop playing?
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Because if the girl, say, you start liking the girl,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: and then you're like, you know what, I think we
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: need to get seriously like no, she's like, no, watch
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: the show. That's what like maybe that'll be season three?
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Will see and then it's so competitive it's hard to
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: think that, like, you know, they also want to make
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: sure they're the one, they're the best, so ego, right,
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: because if I'm trying to knock it out, because I know,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: do you trying to knock it out? And I know
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: he trying to knock it out, it out like but
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I think I think it's but it might. But it's
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: just really her taking three dudes and smushing them into
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: one person honestly one for herself. So it's like she's
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: probably sleeping with these three guys as much as she
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: would probably sleep with one person. But she's just getting
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: she's just getting all the flavors of you know what
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. As dudes, we think about it from from
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: a physical and she's coming from purely emotional, you know,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: and so that you know what, and she coming from
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: purely emotion, she gotta have it, okay, Okay, A coside
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: with you, man, you must be hurting it. Women always
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: say they want more than one man until all y'all
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: pull up together and y'all like, what's up exactly coming in.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: But I can't wait till like season two or three
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: when y'all run a train on it. That's gonna be.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: We appreciate you guys doing Thanks for having us who
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: will go first? I'm just kidding. It's the breakfast Club
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Charlot Maine say that gang. Don't get out shame man
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: you are. It's time to dunk here today. Just not discriminate.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: I might not have the song of today, but I
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: got the donkey that. So if you ever feel I
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: need to be a dunky man, hit it with the
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: breakfast Club bitches. I just don't give to day today. Yeah,
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: it's dunkey. Today goes to me, Charlomagne the God. Now.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: The reason it's going to me is because I consider
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: myself a pretty thoughtful guy. I pay attention to what's
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: going on in the world for the most part. But
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: something is hit me over the past year or so
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: and it's been heavy on my spirit all week. I
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: feel like, intellectually and marley, America is declining as a society.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I feel like people aren't being morally honest anymore. Moral
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: moral honesty, to me is regardless of what you believe,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: regardless of your regardless of your religion, regardless of your
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: political party. You are able to call something right or
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: wrong with no bias. Okay, for example, you know, if
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: you're a white military veteran, and you love America. But
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: when you see people taking a knee during the national anthem,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: and then when you are told why are they why
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: they are doing it? Doing it because of the injustice
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: that African Americans are facing in this country at the
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: hands of the police. If you are morally honest with yourself,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: you will say, I understand. Even if you don't agree
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: with the way they are protesting, you understand why they
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: are protesting. That's being morally honest. Okay. Being morally dishonest
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: is acting like they are just being disrespectful to the
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: military and disregarding flag because they hate America. Now why
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: am I giving myself donkey today? Because I feel stupid?
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: But I am just now realizing that a lot of
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: US men in America have been raised on rape culture. Now,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: the first time I heard the term rape coach, I
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: was like, what is rape culture? Either you rapel women?
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Now you don't. But as I have learned what rape
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: culture is, let me read the definition. Or rape culture
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: is a sociological concept you used to describe a setting
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: in which rape is pervasive and normalized due to society's
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: attitudes about gender and sexuality. Rape culture is perpetuated through
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: the use of misogynistic language and the objectification of women's bodies,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: and the glamorization of sexual violence. My brothers, if we
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: are being morally honest with ourselves, If you are a
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: certain age like I am, he was born in the
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: late seventies eighties, are how older than that you are
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: absolutely positively raised on rape culture. I feel bad and
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: extremely dumb that I didn't realize this earlier in my life.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: I don't care if it was freak Nick Miami Memorial Weekend,
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: Myrtle Beach Black Biker Weekend. It was never normal to
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: feel like you can grab a woman's ask just because
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: it's fat and she's got on biker shorts of Davy Dukes.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: He was never normal to grab a woman's breast just
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: because you know, you saw and doctor Dre's nothing but
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: a g thing video when the girls playing volleyball and
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: they ran up behind her and pulled her bikini top off.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: If you ever mimicked that kind of behavior, it wasn't normal. Okay.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: If you are in a fraternity and you ever had
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: women come over and you got them high and got
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: them drunk, you know that whole ain't no funt If
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: the homies can't have the mentality you and the rest
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: of your frat ran a train on the girl. My brothers,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: that wasn't normal. It was rape culture. Okay, movies like
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: Revenge the Nerds and Kids, Remember the those where guys
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: would have sex with pasted out women are dress up
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: as other people in order to trick the women to
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: have sex with them. That was rape culture. Remember Porkies,
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: Remember sneaking up late to watch Porkies when it was
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: drilling holes in the wall and peeping at the girls.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I got homeboys in college who would be hitting chicks
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: from the back, and then another homeboy would come in
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: and started hitting the chick from the back without asking
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: her consent. When we would get drunk and high with
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: women and they would get inebriated and then we would
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: sleep with them, I'm sorry, my brothers, all of that
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: was rape culture. Hell. I look at some of the
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: things I used to say the women in interviews here
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club, and I'm like, bro, you was wild.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: So when I see all of these sexual allegations coming
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: out over the past couple of years, from Bill Cosby
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: to Harvey Weinstein and Louis c. K, I don't know
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: if it's because I'm older, but I'm looking at them like,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: why has this type of provision been normalized? And I
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: think it's because a lot of brothers don't think they're
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: doing anything wrong because it's been a common theme and
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: our lives but way too long now. I don't know
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: if it's because I'm actually listening to women more and
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: not having these discussions about rape culture with guys, because
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: that's what we do as men. We start having conversations
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: about rape culture with each other. That's why we don't
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: learn anything. And it's so normalized to us that we
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: make excuses about why we do what we do or
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: have done what we done. That that's where the whole
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: victim blaming thing comes into play, and you know, there's
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: just no excuse. It's not about what the women wore
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: or what time she was at your house. It's all
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: about accountability. We are in the age of accountability, and
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: if we are being personally accountable and being morally honest,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: we just have to admit that we were raised on
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: rape culture and it was wrong. Okay, we were absolutely
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: We are absolutely in the age of accountability, and if
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: you're not holding yourself personally accountable. The universe will hold
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: you accountable because we see all these people who have
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: been doing dirt in the dark all these years being
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: brought to the light. And I would just encourage everyone
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: to start being morally honest and just admit we were
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: raised on this pervasive rape culture. But we can unlearn
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: all the bs we have learned and make things better
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: moving forward. And it's not like people haven't been trying
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: to tell us this for years. We just haven't been listening. Okay.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: I was once part of the problem, but now I
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: want to be part of the solution. And the first
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: step to that solution is recognizing that you can't heal
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: what we don't reveal. And what we need to reveal
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: and be morally honest about as men is that a
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: lot of us men in America were raised on rape culture. Okay,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: and I truly feel stupid. Okay if we're not coming
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: to that realization sooner. So please give Charlomagne the God
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: the biggest he hall. Please the breakfast Club morning, everybody
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: in dj n VI ANGELA, Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest in
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: the building. Yes, you look like money, like a real
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: bag of money. I'm gonna ask you a question. Somebody
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: text me yesterday. My home girl literally texts me to
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: ch oesterday. You can Charles to suth Carolina nine pm.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: Do you think it's possible that the Wabsters may have
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: possibly single handedly sick to black family. You have to
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: answer that question, Charlottagne. I said J and B. But
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: she said people respect ghetto love more. I said, well,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Jay from the ghetto from what we you know what
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, you know what you're trying to say,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: they could relate to it more, probably because of his
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: whole background and things like that. That's what I'm thinking.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Then I tell us how you guys met First of all,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: let's start. Let's start early. How did you meet Gucci Man? Okay,
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: Gucci was locked up. It was two thousand and nine,
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: twenty ten, and he saw me in the Double XEL magazine.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: I was I can candy Model of a Year and
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: he reached out to him and I was like, who
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: is this girl? I'm coming out next week, I got
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: this video I want to shoot. Make sure you book her.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: So I mean I reached out to me and I
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to do no video because
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: I didn't really know. I didn't know him. So anyway,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: long story short, she booked me, I did the video.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: We met, and that's how it all started. And I
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: read Gucci's book. He said when he first saw you,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: he said, he told you you're gonna be my wife.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: He did a lot of times guys say that just
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: because that's that's a good game to say, right. I
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: didn't believe him obviously, you know, and I judged him
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: based on how people perceived him from the internet. I
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: was like, whatever, But the guy was charming. He was
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: a gentleman. He opened the door, he held my hand,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: and I was like, so shocked and so surprised. Now,
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: you weren't scared at first because we called Gucci man
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: the boogieman and him, especially back then, you weren't a
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: little terrified. I wasn't scared of him at all, not
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: at all, because he didn't show me that. I never
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: saw that side of him, like I said, I saw
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: it on the internet. But when I met the guy,
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: I was like, he's so different the Gucci you guys
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: are seeing today. That's the Gucci I met that charming person.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: Now we heard rumors when he got locked up. He
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: gave you two million dollars too. I don't know if
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: it's too many. It was two million dollars and you
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: flipped the same and sifted to six. The truth to that, Yeah,
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: there's truth to it. He gave me some money and
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: he came home to a lot more. What was you doing?
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: You were selling dope too? Now I was no dope dealer,
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: you know. I invested the money. I started some businesses
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: and everything I did I spoke to him about and
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: he was like, go for it, and I didn't, and
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: it worked out. So that was a cosmetics line, the
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: Waiste Trainers, right, my cosmetic line I had in oh nine,
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: twenty ten, which he got locked him twenty thirteen. So no,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: I didn't have anything to do with the cosmetics. I
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: started the waste trainer when he got locked up. Now,
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: what made you wait? Come? He was been in out
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: of jail a lot of the time that deal. But
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: that was a little long stretch. What made you say,
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna hold him down? Honestly, I
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: felt like it was the worst time for him, Like
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: he was looking at about twenty years. He wasn't sure
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: how much time he was gonna get and in my heart,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: I couldn't walk away from him. I knew he needed
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: me not only to just support him, but he needed guidance.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: And I felt like I had to be there for
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: this man to make him a better person. Got you now?
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: Do you have three kids in Jamaica? That's what requiring
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: minds want to know as well. Absolutely not. And I'm
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: glad you asked me that, Charlotagne, because I came to
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: America when I was ten. So a lot of people
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: are thinking, oh, from the from what I've seen on
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: the internet, she came here when she was seventeen eighteen,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: left all the kids in Jamaica to be with this
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: rapper guy. Absolutely false. It was your sister that said that.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: Your sister that started that rum said, you don't have it.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I don't have a sister. I don't have a sister.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: Tanya and I were friends, and I'm you know what
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I mean straight up. You know we all refer to
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: each other assist. But she's not my sister. So she
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: was the one that kind of created this rumor, you
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: believe allegedly. Honestly, I don't think Tanya started it. We've
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: been told that the day we got married, that blogs
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: were being paid to discredit our wedding, to discredit me
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: and to discredit our marriage. Because if you notice it
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: all happits spiraled while we were getting married on the TV. Right,
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: who would want to pay blogs for that? Though? Man,
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: people are evil edulely you just don't know. It's it's
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: so bad they are, right? Oh I did, I did,
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: but I didn't believe it, Like I'm the type of
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: president like I did you think believe it a little bit? No?
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: Because he's married. I mean I didn't believe it. And
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: then I'm listening to his response and he's like, he's
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: calm and he's life. And usually when people get upset
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: and you're they lying, the man ain't lying. He got
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: upset behind the scenes, Well I ain't here. Do you
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: think that having your wedding on television did make you? Like,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: because what happens is when people see that, obviously, people
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: want to go ahead and try to like make the
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: worst out of anything and bring up all kinds of
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: claims and you know, absolutely miserable time for other people.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, god, damn, we were just your relationship
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: goals yesterday. Now we get married today, all y'all coming
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: for me with these abandoned children in Jamaica, and they
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: photoshop four kids with Gucci in the middle. It was
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: so bad. I'm like, what the hell can I enjoy
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: my husband for a couple of hours before y'all start
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: with me? How many kid you have? Guccia and I
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: both have children, you know, we do, and it's a
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: situation where I am proud to be a mother, but
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: at the same time I needed to be private. I
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: don't want the kids in the limelight. I don't want
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: them on social media. I need them to go to
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: school and to just be children. You know. It's never
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: a situation where they're left with my mom. They all
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: live with us and we have a blended family and
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: we have fun and they spoiled and they're happy. And
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: then they were all at the wedding, because that's how
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: it went at first. Oh she left the kids and kids. Kenny, No,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: absolutely falls and you said you love Jamaica at ten.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: So I don't think you was popping that poom poom
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: that earlier, not at all the people. I'm wicked, Jesus,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: I didn't know he was really Jamaican, Nomaican. No I
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: just haven't. And when I heard him say three kids
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: left jama Why she had three kids Jamaica and say
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: she's from Jamaica, But you really Jamaican. I'm really not
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: a cook cocktail and jerk chicken. That's how I got
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: the man. That's why that big stomach back in the
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: day that was lean. And there was also rumors that
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: that Gucci didn't invite his mom or his brother or
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: something like that mom and his brother weren't oldest brother
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: was our best man at the wedding. His mom and
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: his younger brother was not there. But y'all gotta ask
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: Gucci about that one. Listen. I think families overrated, all right.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: I don't be caning about stuff like that. When I
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: hate him stories, i'd be like, okay, An, I feel
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: like that too. Sometimes you have family and you'll have
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: a friend, and you're closer to the friend than you
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: are your friend. He doesn't mean, it doesn't mean anything,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: you know, but like the family. You like how you
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: and Gucci got married, and y'all like you, y'all decided,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: y'all made those choices. He did, and at our at
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: our wedding, we wanted everyone at our wedding to be positive.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: We didn't want any negativity there. We didn't want anyone
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: that didn't truly love us. We didn't care about anyone
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: else's feelings but our own. It's our wedding. We are
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: allowed to be selfish all that day, and we wanted
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: our ceremony to be filled with love. That's what a
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: wedding is, It's about love. We got more with Keishi
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: Ko when we come back, don't move. It's to breakfast club.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: Good morning Morning. Everybody is DDJ and the ANGELA ye, Charlemagne,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast club. We have Keishi
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: kr in the building. Charlemagne, Why do y'all show the
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: wedding first and then show what happened leading up to it?
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: That fro well bet he came up with that idea
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: and we kind of went along with it because, as
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: you know, ten seventeen is a big day for Grushi.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: You know, if he's not dropping an album, it's the mixtape,
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: a concert, something for his fans, So we wanted the
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: fans to be a part of the wedding. And then
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: BT also thought it would be cool to show the wedding,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: but also that the two finales is the entire wedding.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: That wasn't the entire wedding. It was just us walking.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: You have the reception and you have to lead up.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: It's so much more. What was the most expensive gift
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: that you got? The most lavish gift? Because I've seen checks,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: I've seen diamonds, my car, the rain from the guests.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: From the guests. Oh, this necklace here, he Pierre bought it.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: It was pre oh people. Yeah, so I got the
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: key and who got the law they posted that? Yeah,
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: and he gave you all one hundred dolland dollar check. Anyhow,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: you got restaurants after this TACU series of the wedding.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: Are you guys going to do more television or are
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: you like all right at this point? I don't know.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: I you know, everybody has this stuff with reality shows.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: But if it's something I do, decide to do, which
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: and I would come to a decision together, I know
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: he ain't doing it, it would just be me. But
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: I haven't thought. I wouldn't see how this worked first
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: before I get caught up into all that stuff. So
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: what do you think would you say, are some of
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: the positives and what are some of the negatives of
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: having your wedding on television. The positive is you get
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: to share it with people and they you know, you
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: would put them in your world for that moment. The
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: negativity was they hate. It was so much hate behind it,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: and I was really shocked. I didn't expect it. I
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: knew the hate would come, but not the day of
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: the wedding. You know, Like I said, people are being
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: paid to discredit us and to just do these evil things.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I can't even front.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not like hurt and terrified. It's okay, if you
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: got the bashes or do whatever you want, go ahead,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: because or Unn is so strong. You know, we've been
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: through the worst. It can't get no worse than that
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: man being in a maximum security prison. It's ain't jailed,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's he was in a
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: real prison where they even took me to the bathroom
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: one day to strip search me. It's so strict. That's
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: the biggest prison in terry Hart, like the if you're
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: going to get the chair, that's where you go, you know.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: So it was it was rough, so we inmates were
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: dying every day. I would call down there and can't
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: even get Gucci and the responses. He ain't dead, he good,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: but he can't talk to you right now like this is.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: It was rough. So the little belittling and all the
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: hate that they're doing to us, it doesn't compare. So
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: we went through hell and back and we're okay. So
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: keep hating if you need. Why do you think Kayle
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: was so upset? She she took it really personal. What
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: was crazy about that? I don't know Kaya. I didn't
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: know anything about her until that day. I mean, of
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: course I heard of my neck, my back, but I
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: was shocked. I'm like, what do you But I heard
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: that she doesn't like Trina, So I'm wondering if it's
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: because she saw Trina and the wedding. I'm not I'm
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: really not sure. What did I do to you, ma'am
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: for you to come at me like this? The kids
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: suffering and never And what's weird is my family and
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: Jamaica are so upset because I take care of all
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: of them, you know, I feed them, I build them houses,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: buy them cars, take care of my little cousins, and
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: they're like, they're so angry. Voodoo, No, we don't chicken
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: bones about to be buried, girl, girl's gonna start losing
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: edges for no reason. That what Kaya said. She said,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: voodoo put voodoo on the man. Oh there was some
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: good voodoo. I mean, man, I want you said something interesting.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: You said the guccire we see now you always knew
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: what you think. Made him finally reveal that to the world.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: I feel like he's a grown man and he decided
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: he wanted to change his life. You don't have to
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: walk around upset every day anymore. You're okay, you're happy.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: It's okay to be happy. Like I told him, I said,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: it's okay for me to love you. Allow me to
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: love you, because a lot of time you have these
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: gangsters they're going through but they don't share it, you know.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: So I kind of like broke it down to him,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: like I love you. You need to come home to me,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: and I want you to be a better person for
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: yourself in order for you to be a better man
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: for me. And we just spoke every day about it
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: until I saw you know, people are like, oh, it's
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: jail talk, but I'm like, I see it. This man
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: is changing. And when he came home it was confirmation.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: In the book, it was a couple of times you
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: left him because you're a little fed up, Like he
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: talked about, like after that Twitter rent that he went
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: on you, wasn't you put him on ice? Yeah, I
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: mean it's about that day because that was a crazy
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: day and crazy morning. I was shocked that I saw
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: him going through his rent. But I didn't expect him
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: to come from me because I was the angel. I'm
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: like the baby. When he did that, I'm like, what
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: is wrong with you? You know? And he started screaming
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: on the phone, and I hung up the phone. But
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: immediately after he was like, I'm so sorry, I love you.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: But then two days after that he went to prison.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: So he was just going through so much, you know,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: And I just I honestly felt like that sentence changed him.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: When you surprised. So many people forgave him no because
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: they know he was going through it. I forgave him immediately.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: I think everything he did he didn't really do it intentional. Yeah,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, and this book he's very open. I mean
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: about the drug using. He just was out of his mind.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: Was the lean, you know. And what's crazy is I've
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: never seen him take the lean. He would hide it
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: from me. Nothing he did he showed it to me,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: real thing. Never seen him drink the lean. I mean,
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: I knew he was doing it, but he respected me
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: so much that he hid all that stuff from me.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: Because I am not that woman that's gonna sit here
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: and watch you just damage your life. I'm gonna be like,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: you can't do this. This isn't right, you know what.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's another reason why he respects me
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: so much more, because it's like I tell him you,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not a yes mantim. You got to do better, babe.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: I love you. Fix this for you please. Now. A
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: lot of people talk about how jail doesn't rehab people.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like for Gucci it was kind of actually,
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: maybe in the end of everything, a positive thing for
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: him because it did get him off the drugs, have
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: him sit down and think about his life some more
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: and come out as a better person. Absolutely. You know,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: he's been locked up several times and it didn't rehab
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: him before, but it did this time. Like I said,
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: this was serious. It wasn't you just go in to
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: Fulton County Jail. You're in a maximum security prison. Inmates
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: are dying every day, You're facing twenty years. You have
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: your career, you have your woman at home? Which is it?
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: So it was like, now you have to choose, and
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: I felt we prayed so much and asked God to
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: help us, and we feel like God answered all our
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: prayers and your return favor is to change. So I
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: feel like that's really what happened. Now y'all are a unit.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: What does Gucci have that you don't have? And what
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: do you have that he doesn't have? Like? What do
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: y'all add to each other to make yourselves a complete unit? Well,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: Gucci is super intelligent and he's super smart, so am I.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: I think we both just bring everything to the table.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: We have a household of two incomes. You know, I
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: do everything for him as a wife should do. I cook,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: I pack his bags, I clean up. I you know.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: I just I feel like everything as a man he
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: should do, he does, and everything as a wife should
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: do I do. So we just makes it even better.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: Good West Indian woman, Oh yeah, absolutely, And take care
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: of my man, honey. Yes, And I'll wash this back
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: if I need to. We got more with Keishi Ko
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: when we come back. Don't move. It's the breakfast club,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast club owning everybody is DJ Envy
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We are the breakfast club.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: We have Keishi Kuya in the building, now, Charlomagne. Now,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: people say that it's easy to forgive him man when
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: he's well off. Keysh Like, if he was to God forbid,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: do some dirt with another woman, would it be easy
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: to forgive because he is Gucci man, not this woman?
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: You know. I like I said, I love Gucci, but
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not gonna sit there and allow anyone
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: to disrespect me because he's Gucci. Yeah. No, I have
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: morals and principles and I'm a woman, I'm a mother,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: I'm a daughter, and I have to respect myself. So
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: when in order for a man to respect you, you
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: got to respect yourself. So now I'm not gonna sit
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: there and allow him to do anything because of who
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: he is. You know, we're retarded. Sometimes man can be
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: a little retarded. Sometimes we have a little lapse in judgment.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. If we make one little mistake,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: it made a lot of mistakes. You're supposed to learn
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: from him, and that he has and I trust him
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: so much now I don't even have to worry about it.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta go through a lot. How do you
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: know when to trust a man? Like, how do you
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: know when he's a man has completely changed and rehabilitated
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: and you know he's doing right by you? You feel
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: it that woman in tuition, like you know, like even
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: if he's on the road and I'm not there, I
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: don't have to get up and think he working, he good.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: And that's what a marriage is like. If you don't
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: feel that way, you don't even get married. Or is
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: there a prenuptial agreement in place? No, there's nuts. No,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: we don't need no. I mean, if the man trust
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: me with his whole life and all his money and
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: all of that's what we need. A pre number that's real,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: all of it, everything, everything, his cars, everything, And after
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: that that was after doing him for how long alone
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: we are together? Oh, nine twenty ten, about two years,
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: not two years. It was longer than that. But what's
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: crazy is at the beginning of it, when he wanted
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: to give me all of his money, I said, I
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: don't want it. He offered, he wanted to give me
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: so much money. He's like, babe, I'm away. I want
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: you to I said, I don't want it. Why didn't
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: you want it? Because I didn't need it. First of all,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: I was doing so well for myself. One two, I'm
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: not here for your mone you're locked up again. We
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: didn't know how much time he was gonna get. I
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: wanted to secure him and make sure he would be
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: okay for however long time he was gonna get, so
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't take a dollar day more. Wow. But even
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: for you, you've got money, you don't want to have
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: a prenum sure to protect you your your your interests true.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: And you know, my mom talked to me about it too.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: But again it's like what we've been through and how
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: our finances is set up now, it wouldn't even make sense.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: It'll be like, what's the purpose? Now? How do y'all
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: maintain such a such good shape? If you like to
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: cook all of Jamaican food, I don't cook that food
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: every day, Okay. I probably cook like that when I
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: when we're in Atlanta. I usually do it on Sundays,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: that used to be our day. But from Monday through Saturday, Oh,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: no salads and fruits. We don't play that game, right, y'all.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: Y'all do have a strict diet. Yes, I make sure
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: we have a strict diet and we work out five
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: to six days a week. How do you have a
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: strict diet with with those is and you Jamaican discipline? Discipline?
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: I literally cooked the food and don't even eat it
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: because it took me a while to get here though.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: This wasn't nothing new, like I've been working out for
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: like five years. But when Gucci got locked up, that's
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: when I changed my whole die. I got so skinny
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: and obsessed with it till I looked sick seriously, and
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: I had to catch myself. So now I finally understand
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: my body and finally understand what I can eat to
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: maintain my weight. It took a while, but I got
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: it now. And Gucci said something the book I'm still
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out. He said, when he was in jail,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: I used to get up and work out together. Yeah,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: they have a time where they get up every morning,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: so let's say at six am. So we had a
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: whole schedule together. So I would get up the same
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: time with him. I would take the kids to school,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: come back home, work out. He's working out the same
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: time he shower. I shower twelve o'clock, one o'clock, he calls.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: We talk about our workout, we talk about our lunch.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: And we did that every day, Yeah, every day, so
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: his time would go by faster. And so he's not
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: like I did all of that on purpose to get
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: his mind focused. I didn't want him in there to
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: getting any trouble to getting more time. So I kind
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: of just did all those things, and I would, you know,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: fly down there to see him and we sit in
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: visitation for five six hours, and I just sit there
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: with him, and you could tell he was really working
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: out because you saw him losing the way again. The
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: first two months he lost like forty pounds because he
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: was detoxing. All that stomach was lean. It wasn't even fat.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: It's hard to get off lean because it's they're constipated.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: They don't go to the back book. Yeah, so all
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: of that was constipation. Forty pounds because he went in
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: like two ninety and then the other fifty. He had
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: to work hard for that. So what good ja making
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: remedy would you give him when he was constipated? He wouldn't,
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: Like I said, he wouldn't tell me. He wouldn't tell
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: me he was hiding all of this for me, Like
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: and when I would be at the house in Atlanta
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: and I'm coming over, this is stuff he's told me. Now.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: He said he would pour the lean and fruit, punch
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: the trick, and I'm like, well, what if I tasted it?
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: Bill Cally, Oh, No, you learn a lot when you
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: read the book that you didn't know. I know, I
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: kind of I knew everything. And he was writing the
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: book from jail, and he would mail me the sheets.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: Because I heard someone say he didn't write his book.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: That's absolutely false. He wrote page by Even if you
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: read it, you see it's in his own language, his
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: own words. He wrote that book page by page and
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: mailed it and then I would mail it to the
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: people to print it up in the book. Were you
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: ever concern like when he was in the street, that
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: people would come after you because they knew you like
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: the closest person to him. No. Growing up in Jamaica,
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: I witnessed my dad being murdered, so Saint Thomas so
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: And that's another reason why I'm so protective over the children,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: because his own friends set him up to be murdered.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: So I kind of been through that life. So I
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: understand him. You know, nothing he did scared me. I
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: was never scared of him, even when sometimes he's going
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: through it. I would fly to let him like, yo's,
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? Talk to me? You know. I
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: don't fear that type of stuff because I've seen it
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: as a young child growing up, and I just want
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: to always protect him. Sometimes I feel like I'm his security, no,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: and I can't do nothing, Like if people come at him,
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, but no. So you saw your
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: father get killed in front of you. Yeah, he was
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: coming home one night and they were outside waiting in
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: the bushes for him to walk in, and they shot
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: him in his head. So we were inside. Oh damn.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: We left Jamaica a week later after that. We always
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: scared for the rest of the family or both. My
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: mom is like, we got to go. We can't stay here.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: He was wealthy, so they would rob him and you know,
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: just and they finally murdered him. How did you get
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: over that trauma? Have you? I'm over it. I'm okay.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: Gucci reminds me so much of him, So it's like
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: everything that Gucci has done in the past, I forgive him.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: I'm cool with it. Like, if somebody do something to
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: you and you have to defend yourself, then you've got
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: to defend yourself. We look forward to seeing them are
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: the show, and we appreciate you for joining us. Yea,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: I'm ready for you to write a book. I want
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: to hear more. I want to write one too, because
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: my life is very interesting. It's the breakfast club good
• 1:17:16
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