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RHONJ's Melissa Gorga · Untraditionally Lala

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Speaker 1: Hellotle, my gorgeous humans. It's your friend, Lala Kent. What
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Speaker 1: is good Jessica Walter?
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Speaker 2: Hi, Lala Kent.
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Speaker 1: How are you?
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Speaker 2: How are you feeling?
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Speaker 1: I'm feeling happy today.
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Speaker 3: Are you?
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Speaker 2: How is your weekend?
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Speaker 1: My weekend was awesome. Okay. I went to my friend
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Speaker 1: Janet's engagement party. That was fabulous. I took Ocean with me.
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Speaker 1: I'm that girl who was like, you have a baby
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Speaker 1: in a bar? You have a baby?
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Speaker 3: Wait?
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Speaker 2: What is that from?
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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah?
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Speaker 1: I took her and she loved it. She loved every minute,
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Speaker 1: she loved the music. She was a vibe. She was
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Speaker 1: the most popular one there besides the bride to be Okay,
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Speaker 1: and then thank you mom my. Mom brought in a
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Speaker 1: sweatshirt for me, closed the motherfucking door out. I'm just kidding.
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Speaker 1: I love you. And then last night I had a
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Speaker 1: really fun time. I went and had girl time. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I want to talk to everyone about what my girl
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Speaker 1: time consisted of. But before we get super into that,
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Speaker 1: I want to remind everybody that I'm going on tour.
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Speaker 1: You're welcome. I'm going on tour. We're gonna start in Irvine, California.
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Speaker 1: Then we are hitting Fort Lauderdale, Clearwater, Orlando, Atlanta, Nashville,
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Speaker 1: New Orleans, Houston, Austin, and Dallas. I'm so excited. The
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Speaker 1: tour is going to be amazing. It's the Give Them
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Speaker 1: La La brand new tour, very interactive. We just had
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Speaker 1: a meeting with the tour management and talked about everything
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Speaker 1: that this tour will consist of, and I'm so excited
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Speaker 1: for the segments.
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Speaker 4: Hey guys, Lalla is bringing it on this tour. If
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Speaker 4: you don't have your tickets, buy them now. Because I
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Speaker 4: was like I was sitting in on the meeting freaking
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Speaker 4: out of.
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Speaker 1: Everything she was saying she was gonna do.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: We it was like I had it in my head
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Speaker 1: and then we put it down on paper and we
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Speaker 1: were like sitting there having these really good salads, and
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Speaker 1: I was just like, Bam, this is what we're doing
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Speaker 1: this segment. And I literally had chills. Everyone else had chills.
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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a fucking genius and everyone coming
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Speaker 1: to the show is going to have such a fun
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Speaker 1: time and I'm going to have such a fun time
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Speaker 1: with everybody. Yes, So if you do not have your
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Speaker 1: tickets yet, go to give them live dot com and
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Speaker 1: if you purchase tickets that were for the old tour.
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Speaker 1: Those tickets are still valid and I can't wait to
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Speaker 1: see all of you because I love you so much.
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Speaker 1: Let's talk about my girl time last night. Let's hear it.
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Speaker 1: It was all about sex, love it all about it. Okay,
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Speaker 1: So there were five of us. Katie is obviously married,
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Speaker 1: so and then the other girl just got into a relationship.
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Speaker 1: So the three of us were newly single, like newly single,
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Speaker 1: and you know, it gets weird. It gets weird when
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Speaker 1: you've been in a relationship for a long time and
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Speaker 1: that's the sexual partner that you know, unless you're a
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Speaker 1: fuck wad and you creep around, which I do not
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Speaker 1: unless you haven't asked. Like Ariannas, I'm tapping that ship.
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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. But I'm on a roll today. We
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Speaker 1: have a listed Gorgon on the podcast today. I have.
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Speaker 1: I'm like on a roll you are. So I'm sitting
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Speaker 1: here talking to these fine ladies about being single and
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Speaker 1: like what sex is going to be like, and we're
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Speaker 1: very open about it all. You know. It's like I
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Speaker 1: felt bad for the waiter, not so bad for him
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Speaker 1: there at a restaurant and the first thing that comes
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Speaker 1: up is Oh my god, you guys, I have not
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Speaker 1: had sober sex with a new partner probably since I
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Speaker 1: was seven. I was sober when I lost my virginity,
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Speaker 1: but after that, yeah, I'm a drinker girl, Like I'm
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Speaker 1: a bag of fun. Okay, but I've been sober for
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Speaker 1: over three years and I had the same partner for
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Speaker 1: almost six of those.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then before that, you're saying most of your
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Speaker 4: sex was when you were drunk or a couple drinks
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Speaker 4: in like what is no.
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Speaker 1: Like meet the guy, look at him, the eye contact. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: few drinks, and it is on. It is on what
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Speaker 1: you want to do? Tell me? Yeah, throw me into
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Speaker 1: a glass window. Awesome, Awesome, We're ready. You really don't
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Speaker 1: do that. But I was like, whatever, I'm down.
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Speaker 4: Because and you feel like that alcohol. You don't feel
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Speaker 4: like you would have been like that if you were sober.
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Speaker 1: Well I know for a fact, I wouldn't be like
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Speaker 1: that because I've had sex sober, oh, which I couldn't
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Speaker 1: wait for it to be over most of the time.
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Speaker 1: So maybe that could be it. Okay, all right, yeah,
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Speaker 1: it probably was it. Yeah. So not only is it that,
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Speaker 1: like I'm going into new territory where it's like I'm
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Speaker 1: going to be banging it out without an ounce of
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Speaker 1: alcohol in my system. Yeah. However, I think it's gonna
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Speaker 1: be fun because I've been like talking to a few people, okay,
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I fucking got it. Yeah, you still
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Speaker 1: got it? I still got it.
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Speaker 2: You think it'll be fun? What do you think the
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Speaker 2: difference will be?
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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I love nipple play, okay, And
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Speaker 1: I'm a little concerned because do I warn the dude, like, hey,
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Speaker 1: I lack tape. You could be into that if you
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Speaker 1: are go to town put it in your mouth?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Or do I tell like, do I tell them that
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Speaker 1: that happens so that they can say, fun, I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: try it out, or like avoid that area reight my mouth?
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Speaker 1: Maybe they just want to do a little Hong Kong.
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Speaker 4: I definitely say I would say something because here's the
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Speaker 4: two things. I feel like, it's a win win. Number one,
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Speaker 4: you're telling a guy what you want sexually. Always a win,
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Speaker 4: always a win right. Number two, they might love it
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Speaker 4: and they might it might turn them on. And number
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Speaker 4: number three, if you tell them and they're not into it,
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Speaker 4: then there you go. No one's shocked, No one's accidentally
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Speaker 4: getting milk squirted in their face.
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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, no, I know, and I get suited. Like,
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Speaker 1: to me, that's a turn on, Like when I think
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Speaker 1: about like a dude there, Yeah, that happening. I'm like,
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Speaker 1: that's hot. And it tastes like almond milk. It's really good.
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Speaker 1: It's so good.
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Speaker 2: Does it squirt?
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Speaker 4: Because I had no idea, Like I think you mentioned
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Speaker 4: it and I was like, wait, you see you're still
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Speaker 4: lac taba.
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Speaker 1: Oh if you got a grown man's mouth on there. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: he gave a good pull. Oh it's gonna get's shoot it. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's right. It's like a little tiny it's almost like
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Speaker 1: you a pinhole in a balloon. Yeah that time, yes,
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Speaker 1: where it's like yes, yeah, that's what it's like.
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Speaker 4: It might be honestly a turn on more than you think,
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Speaker 4: Like Kyle, he can't wait until I'm pregnant because like
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Speaker 4: he's like, I am going to town.
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Speaker 1: And it free.
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Speaker 4: I'm like, no, that's so strange. I don't want to
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Speaker 4: watch you do that. But you're saying like that's something
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Speaker 4: you want to watch.
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Speaker 1: I definitely want to watch that. See.
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Speaker 2: I think it's Valley more of a turn on than
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Speaker 2: you think.
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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm into that. Yeah, but the other thing is Jess,
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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna be so vulnerable right now. I feel
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Speaker 1: like I'm I'm ready to like the texting game is
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Speaker 1: where it's at, and like I'm not a weirdo, Like
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Speaker 1: I don't sext, right, I don't sext I'm thirty fucking one, right,
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Speaker 1: I'm a grown ass woman. Yes, we're not sexting. If
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Speaker 1: I want to sext, you just come.
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Speaker 4: Over right, you might touch it, right, I'm not gonna pretend,
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Speaker 4: so I.
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Speaker 1: Don't do this sexting thing. I can flirt and I
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Speaker 1: can give like the cute little like that's the direction
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Speaker 1: I would like to go with you in my bed,
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Speaker 1: right sexting though it ain't happening. Of better things to do?
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Speaker 1: Where was I going with this thought.
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Speaker 4: We were talking about talking about you said, I'm gonna
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Speaker 4: be very vulnerable.
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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't think I'm like I'm still in
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Speaker 1: this zone of like I can text dudes or whatever,
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Speaker 1: but like I don't feel right about leaving my kid
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Speaker 1: behind to go on a date yet, Like I'm just
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Speaker 1: not there And there could be people that say there's
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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that, like you deserve to go and
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Speaker 1: do that. I just don't want to do that. I'll
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Speaker 1: take time away from ocean to go with my girlfriends
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Speaker 1: and like blow off some steam and have girl time.
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Speaker 1: That I will do. I feel like that's good for
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Speaker 1: my soul and my heart. A dude, I don't know
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Speaker 1: about all that right now. Yeah, but I have a
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Speaker 1: consultation about getting these tig old biddies done, okay, right, okay, right,
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Speaker 1: and I'm excited for that. Once I get some new
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Speaker 1: fun bag twins, I may be ready to roll out,
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Speaker 1: right right.
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yes, suh, I'm interested in that. Okay, I'm
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Speaker 4: interested in that. Would you say you're getting your boobs
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Speaker 4: done for yourself or men?
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Speaker 1: By the by the sound of it, it sounds like
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Speaker 1: I'm getting my boobs done for men. But it's getting
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Speaker 1: my boobs done for me because then I you know
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Speaker 1: when they say kids suck the life out of your
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Speaker 1: boobs if you choose to breastfeed or if you're even
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Speaker 1: able to, they literally suck the life out of them.
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Speaker 1: Like I got some I got some cute little boobies,
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Speaker 1: right yeah, but it looks they they're they're small now,
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Speaker 1: they're they're not the boobies that I had before Ocean,
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Speaker 1: and they for damn tarn't the boobies I had when
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Speaker 1: I was pregnant or breastfeating Ocean read two hours. They
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Speaker 1: were massive, massive, and I loved them.
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Speaker 4: Okay, so you're getting them done, well, I mean it
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Speaker 4: makes sense here.
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Speaker 1: Myself, and then I'm gonna be generous enough to share them.
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Speaker 1: To share them fine ass men?
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Speaker 2: So do you think that's the only thing holding you back?
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Speaker 4: Like, you know, well, I'm not comfortable going on dates
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Speaker 4: now because I think I'd get horny and want to
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Speaker 4: have sex and like, my boobs aren't done yet. Do
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Speaker 4: you think once you get your boobs done, it's like
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Speaker 4: go time or do you think it's just it's it's
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Speaker 4: too much?
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Speaker 1: No, I think you would think that by what I'm saying. Definitely,
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Speaker 1: I'm all over the place today. No, but it's good.
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Speaker 3: Now.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to break it down because I like like
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Speaker 1: making funny jokes, right, but for real, mentally, I'm not there. Okay,
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Speaker 1: once I get my boobs done, I probably still won't
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Speaker 1: be there, but I'm excited for that.
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Speaker 2: For me, I love that.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the bounce back. It's like, ooh, there's
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Speaker 1: nothing hotter than like a hot mom. It's like, right,
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Speaker 1: she's fine. Oh, and she's like a human being, right,
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Speaker 1: Like she popped a baby out of that cookie, right,
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Speaker 1: bad ass?
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Speaker 4: I know, and there's more hot moms. Maybe it's just
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Speaker 4: like I don't know, I feel like there's more hot
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Speaker 4: moms today than there has ever been, and.
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Speaker 1: I don't want it. We don't even have to pop
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Speaker 1: that out of your own cookie. It's just like when
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Speaker 1: someone becomes the mom, it's like you are suddenly the
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Speaker 1: hottest human I've ever seen.
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Speaker 2: Right, right, And I think that's great. Confidence is the
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Speaker 2: hottest thing.
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Speaker 1: I just want boobies. You just want boobies.
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Speaker 4: She's saying that to someone who's like has like ten
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Speaker 4: times smaller boobs than her.
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Speaker 1: I've seen your boy. You have a great ass. And
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Speaker 1: I asked my gusbands. I said, how long do I
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Speaker 1: work on my ass before I say fuck it? I'm
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Speaker 1: injecting it right? What did? What did? They say? They're like,
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Speaker 1: give it three months? Three months? That seems kind of low.
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Speaker 4: I love that they like that answer, because I would
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Speaker 4: have been like, oh my, it's getting it's looking great.
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Speaker 4: But the gusbands are like ninety days and then go
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Speaker 4: get it in if it's not looking at the way
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Speaker 4: I want.
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Speaker 1: So I don't know. I mean, who knows. I'm looking
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Speaker 1: at all these Mommy makeover things right the ass though
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Speaker 1: I want it as its own planet. But I don't
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Speaker 1: know that I have that build. But when I see
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Speaker 1: those girls with those huge butts, I get so jealous.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's so hot.
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Speaker 2: Well, your butt has grown.
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Speaker 4: I feel like in the past two week, like there's
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Speaker 4: all of a sudden, You're leggings and I'm like, whoa,
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Speaker 4: what is going on back there?
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Speaker 1: Well, because it used to be flat as bored, so
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Speaker 1: I had the I had such a bomb booty when
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Speaker 1: I was working out, and then at twenty weeks I
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Speaker 1: was placed on bed rest with ocean. I couldn't maintain
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Speaker 1: working out anymore. And then you have the kid and
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Speaker 1: we go straight into film me and it's like I'm tired.
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Speaker 1: Like the last thing I want to go and do
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Speaker 1: is work out right now, right, So I'm just starting.
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Speaker 1: I think it's been like two weeks that I got
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Speaker 1: in that I've been in the gym.
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Speaker 2: But it shows, but it is.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to keep my flat stomach and grow
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Speaker 1: a fat ass.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So if any of you guys know how to do that,
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Speaker 1: can you please call me at one eight sixty six
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Speaker 1: D or if you know a good doctor who can
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Speaker 1: inject this flatty, I will take that route if necessary.
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Speaker 1: I will do anything for some tigle bennies and a
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Speaker 1: big booby.
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Speaker 4: Updated on that in ninety days exactly three months.
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Speaker 1: After three months, if I don't see Kim k results,
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Speaker 1: we are into the doctor perfect. I love it. So
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Speaker 1: I have a really dope guest today, Melissa Gorga. I
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Speaker 1: have a crush on her, I do. She's so beautiful.
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Speaker 1: She's beautiful, yes, and I love her husband Joe. I
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Speaker 1: love their dynamic. I love her as to see her
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Speaker 1: as a mama and just like their family is.
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Speaker 2: Yes, you know you have hot moms. How many kids
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Speaker 2: does she have?
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Speaker 1: Oh, she is a hot mom. She just three and
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Speaker 1: they're like grown. Ye're grown. So I'm excited to talk
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Speaker 1: to her. I want to, you know, dig into the
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Speaker 1: new season of Real house Sives of New Jersey because
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Speaker 1: I'm a huge never met a housewives franchise that I
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Speaker 1: didn't like. I watched every single one of them, so perfect.
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Speaker 1: I'm a fangirl. Before we have Melissa Gorga the foinest
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Speaker 1: on the podcast. Part one of the Vanner Pump Rules
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Speaker 1: Reunion aired last night. Part two will air tonight. It's
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Speaker 1: definitely juicy. I've seen both of them. There are things
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Speaker 1: that I want to address because obviously, you know, we
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Speaker 1: filmed for a really long time. You gotta chop everything
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Speaker 1: up and make things not really make sense. But what
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Speaker 1: is the the most entertaining of everything we filmed? So
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Speaker 1: some of the shit doesn't really like add up. Right,
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Speaker 1: It's like things were said and I'm gonna spill the
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Speaker 1: tea on why they were said. I said what I said. Oh,
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Speaker 1: so there's that. Next week, I'm going all out on
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Speaker 1: segment one of the podcast. Oh, no one is safe, Jessica,
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Speaker 1: No one's safe.
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Speaker 4: So next week you're going to talk about reunion part
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Speaker 4: one and part two.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. That's just a little teaser. Just
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Speaker 1: a little teaser. And you know what, don't come for
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Speaker 1: me unless I send for you, all right, she said it.
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Speaker 1: These hoes want to go toes and then when I react,
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Speaker 1: they don't like it too much. Yeah, well, we'll see
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Speaker 1: how much they like the tam about to spill next week.
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Speaker 1: With that being said, we will be right back. I'm
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Speaker 1: on a fucking what is happening? I'll be back to
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Speaker 1: normal soon. I promise We'll be right back with Melissa Gorga.
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Speaker 1: We are back. We have Melissa Gorga. Hello, gorgeous, Hi pretty,
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Speaker 1: how are you? We're so good. I'm so excited to
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Speaker 1: have you. We've been trying to get this on the
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Speaker 1: books for a minute, and here you are.
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Speaker 3: I'm here live from New Jersey. What's going on? I know,
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Speaker 3: I feel like I spoke to you not that long ago.
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Speaker 1: You have.
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Speaker 3: I just want to tell you that every time I
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Speaker 3: jump on Instagram, all I see is your face. I'm like,
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Speaker 3: are you like losing it right now? Because you are
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Speaker 3: like on everything E News, this that like, there's so
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Speaker 3: much talk about you right now.
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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I don't know if that's a good
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Speaker 1: thing or a bad thing, but you know, we'll we'll
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Speaker 1: just take it and move on. I try not to look.
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Speaker 1: Every time I see my face on the Explore page,
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Speaker 1: I refresh immediately.
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Speaker 3: Okay, well I'm not saying say much bad about you.
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Speaker 3: I'll just say that, but well then that's good. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So the new season, you're you're feeling excited?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't believe we're in season twelve. I always say,
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Speaker 3: it's crazy. I've been doing this show literally since my
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Speaker 3: daughter is four and she's sixteen, so it's just crazy.
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Speaker 3: You're actually going to see her sweet sixteen this year.
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Speaker 3: So to believe, like just to even know that I
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Speaker 3: have a sixteen year old daughter for me is like crazy.
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Speaker 1: It's crazy for us to because I feel like that's
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Speaker 1: why we all feel like we know you. I'm a
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Speaker 1: fan of your show obviously, even though I'm on Bravo,
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Speaker 1: I'm also a huge Bravo fan. And to see your
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Speaker 1: Instagram and your kids that we've been watching since they
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Speaker 1: were children, I mean, that's gotta be so weird and
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Speaker 1: kind of make you sad.
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Speaker 3: It is. It's crazy when I see like, you know,
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Speaker 3: you know the Bravo fans. I mean, I know I'm
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Speaker 3: talking to you here, so you know the Bravo fans.
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Speaker 3: They are intense. They are in there. So they will
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Speaker 3: send me dms and videos of you know, the little
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Speaker 3: memes and gifts of like my children from when they
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Speaker 3: were little, and I literally want to like cry. They'll
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Speaker 3: put little videos together like oh remember this from season
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Speaker 3: three or season four, and I look at my kids
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Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh my god, they were babies, and
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Speaker 3: it's like I feel like that is the good part.
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Speaker 3: I guess it being on reality TV with the kids,
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Speaker 3: it's like I have a lot of those memories documented
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Speaker 3: and like, you know, it's not like we my father
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Speaker 3: used to walk around with that VHS recorder thing, you know,
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Speaker 3: that big old like big that, but like I have Bravo,
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Speaker 3: Like I can turn on any season and get like
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Speaker 3: a funny little scene of my kids like running through
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Speaker 3: my house or screaming or something. So it's crazy. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: we're just like I can't believe how long this season
18:22
Speaker 3: has been. And this season, let me just tell you,
18:25
Speaker 3: is like drama season for real. Like I know, I'm
18:28
Speaker 3: not here to be like, oh my god, it's the
18:29
Speaker 3: best season ever, because I hate when people do that
18:32
Speaker 3: every season, but this one really is like it brings
18:37
Speaker 3: back like the old school. Like I'm like I saw
18:39
Speaker 3: the trailer and I'm like, this is giving me like
18:42
Speaker 3: mom wives vibes. What's happening here? They were everybody's like
18:47
Speaker 3: it's high that the tensions are high, and it's because
18:50
Speaker 3: it's about a lot about relationships and when people what
18:54
Speaker 3: makes you more mad than when someone talks about like
18:57
Speaker 3: your husband, your boyfriend and your family. Like so that's
19:02
Speaker 3: a lot of what this season is about relationships. So
19:05
Speaker 3: everyone's like losing their shit.
19:07
Speaker 1: I noticed that in the trailer. And nothing will make
19:11
Speaker 1: you comfort someone harder than when they come for you know,
19:15
Speaker 1: your man or the person that you're with. I mean,
19:18
Speaker 1: I've been there before. And do you ever get anxiety
19:23
Speaker 1: before a new season airs, because you know you're if
19:26
Speaker 1: I don't know if they do it the same for you.
19:29
Speaker 1: I mean we don't get to see the episodes like
19:33
Speaker 1: way before the rest of everybody else. I mean you
19:36
Speaker 1: see the episode maybe a couple of days before it airs,
19:39
Speaker 1: and you don't have much time to process it, and
19:42
Speaker 1: we don't know what it's gonna look like, like the
19:44
Speaker 1: editing process. So do you do you get a little
19:47
Speaker 1: bit of anxiety or are you so used to it
19:49
Speaker 1: at this point.
19:49
Speaker 3: I only get anxiety when it's about the family drama.
19:54
Speaker 3: That is the only thing I get anxiety about. So
19:57
Speaker 3: this very first episode, like the first couple episodes, there's
20:00
Speaker 3: family drama between Joe and like Teresa and Gia, and
20:05
Speaker 3: just like a little bit of the family drama drops
20:07
Speaker 3: in there the first couple, So that gives me anxiety
20:11
Speaker 3: because I never want people to take it the wrong way.
20:14
Speaker 3: It's like, the reason people love Jersey is because we
20:17
Speaker 3: do put it all out there with our family and
20:19
Speaker 3: it's raw, it's real. But you know, it's hard because
20:24
Speaker 3: we're all going to you know, I'm gonna see Teresa Sunday.
20:26
Speaker 3: We're all gonna have we're all going to go to
20:27
Speaker 3: her house for dinner to eat, and it's like, you know,
20:30
Speaker 3: it's like if we're watching something on TV and we
20:33
Speaker 3: say things in these interviews, right, and then you go
20:36
Speaker 3: and have dinner. It's awkward, it's weird. It's like you
20:39
Speaker 3: have to really differentiate sometimes the show from like Okay,
20:43
Speaker 3: well that's what we were going through six months ago,
20:45
Speaker 3: but today we're going to have dinner because we remember,
20:47
Speaker 3: we made up. We're good today, like we got through
20:50
Speaker 3: that situation. But it's hard while it's airing because that's
20:54
Speaker 3: always the tough part because you're watching what you already
20:57
Speaker 3: got through six months ago, you know, and when your
20:59
Speaker 3: family now, you guys like you can be like screw
21:02
Speaker 3: you see you when you film, see when I film,
21:04
Speaker 3: But like, we can't do that. We go to Christmases together,
21:06
Speaker 3: we have birthdays. It's Gia just turned twenty one. I'm
21:09
Speaker 3: going to her house to have dinner. Like it's like,
21:11
Speaker 3: this is what we do. So the show is hard
21:14
Speaker 3: with the family dynamic. It's definitely hard.
21:16
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and you know you also watch it back because yes,
21:20
Speaker 1: we live it. But then you get to see what
21:22
Speaker 1: everyone said in their little confessionals and you're like, oh
21:26
Speaker 1: my gosh, that's stupid, bitch, and like it brings up
21:30
Speaker 1: a whole new, you know, can of emotions because you're like, okay,
21:35
Speaker 1: like I got that. We were, you know, at each
21:37
Speaker 1: other's throats. But then you're in your confessional and then
21:39
Speaker 1: you're saying this to whoever, and it is you have
21:42
Speaker 1: to relive everything. And for you, I feel like, you know,
21:47
Speaker 1: you've dealt with family drama in past seasons and it's
21:52
Speaker 1: always giving you anxiety. I mean it would give anyone anxiety,
21:55
Speaker 1: but like you've dropped to your knees begging for that
21:57
Speaker 1: to stop. So like, what is your outlet? Like how
22:01
Speaker 1: I know you say you have to differentiate the difference
22:03
Speaker 1: between like real life and real life, you know, the
22:07
Speaker 1: one on camera and the one that is not on camera,
22:10
Speaker 1: like how do you do that? Does Joe help you
22:13
Speaker 1: do that?
22:14
Speaker 3: No, I feel like we're pros at it at this point.
22:17
Speaker 3: I feel like we've learned and even you know, within
22:20
Speaker 3: our own family dynamic. I mean really like I feel
22:23
Speaker 3: like the Gorgas and the judea Ice is really you know,
22:26
Speaker 3: we've held that show for so long because we've given
22:29
Speaker 3: our real family drama to it. So we've also learned
22:32
Speaker 3: how to separate the two. And it's not that it's
22:35
Speaker 3: real life and fake life. That's not really what's going
22:37
Speaker 3: on because all the situations are real. But what's going
22:40
Speaker 3: on is it's the life that happened probably six months ago.
22:44
Speaker 3: So you're trying to like come back, like you're trying
22:47
Speaker 3: not to go back to that spot when you're eating
22:49
Speaker 3: Sunday dinner. That's always like the challenge because no matter
22:52
Speaker 3: what you want to be, like, oh, like on that
22:53
Speaker 3: interview when you said, you know, it's always the confessional
22:58
Speaker 3: I Shall kill you. Reality TV, we get like Ballsy
23:02
Speaker 3: and our confessionals because it's your time to just go
23:05
Speaker 3: and it's venting and you're not really saying it to
23:07
Speaker 3: someone's face. So I feel like everyone gets there, like
23:10
Speaker 3: it's a little ballsy, and the confessionals.
23:12
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm the I totally agree in my confessionals. I
23:15
Speaker 1: feel like I'm with a therapist who's always team wai
23:19
Speaker 1: la yes, and I just rant, just like.
23:23
Speaker 3: Go tell us you have every right to feel that way.
23:27
Speaker 1: They do. They encourage it, and then they look at
23:30
Speaker 1: you and you see this big grin on their face,
23:32
Speaker 1: you know, the person that's sitting there talking to you,
23:35
Speaker 1: and you just are like, and.
23:37
Speaker 3: They're so happy or delivering, and it's.
23:39
Speaker 1: Just yeah, you feel like I did great today, And
23:42
Speaker 1: then you watch it and you're like, why did I
23:44
Speaker 1: do that?
23:46
Speaker 3: It's so funny. There's such a big difference between like
23:49
Speaker 3: sitting in that room with your makeup done all ready
23:52
Speaker 3: to go, with the lights on, so like when you're
23:54
Speaker 3: on the couch watch and you're like, oh shit, I said.
23:56
Speaker 1: That, Like I know, like, how can one person into
24:00
Speaker 1: such a savage in a room by herself with a
24:04
Speaker 1: camera onner It happened.
24:06
Speaker 3: It happens. They think we're by ourselves, little do they
24:09
Speaker 3: know there's cameramenal lights and there's per asking us questions
24:13
Speaker 3: and you know, you think you're by yourself, but it's
24:16
Speaker 3: just it's a vibe and it's also it really is
24:18
Speaker 3: truly like a venting situation. It's like you've been dying
24:22
Speaker 3: to vent and there's someone in front of you with
24:24
Speaker 3: a psychiatrist or a therapist that's just like vent, tell
24:28
Speaker 3: me everything, and you just I just go.
24:30
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I don't know. I just oh, I've been
24:32
Speaker 1: on a roll some of those times. And I'm like,
24:35
Speaker 1: and you know, they don't care if you want things
24:37
Speaker 1: cut out. They're like, you said it, if we like it,
24:40
Speaker 1: it's being used.
24:41
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's that's for sure. I have over the years.
24:45
Speaker 3: I'll never forget. Like the first couple of seasons I
24:47
Speaker 3: was on the show, I would call and be like,
24:50
Speaker 3: oh no, like this is totally taken out of context,
24:52
Speaker 3: Like that is not how that went down. Like I
24:54
Speaker 3: didn't like the way that came off. And they were like, yeah,
24:58
Speaker 3: well if you say it and you do it, Like
25:00
Speaker 3: there is absolutely nothing like any one of the things
25:03
Speaker 3: we have editing over like we have no editing at all,
25:06
Speaker 3: no editing rights, Like we have to accept whatever comes
25:10
Speaker 3: at right and that is it. Like we can't all
25:12
Speaker 3: and complain and they'll change it. That doesn't happen.
25:14
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I do know. I wish that I had
25:16
Speaker 1: that power because I would edit a lot of things.
25:19
Speaker 3: Don't we all. I want my next reality TV show,
25:21
Speaker 3: I'm going to produce it also, that's what I've decided.
25:25
Speaker 1: That's the money move, be a producer on the actual
25:28
Speaker 1: show that you're on. I feel like when the way
25:32
Speaker 1: that I like compartmentalize real life versus my real life,
25:38
Speaker 1: that's the only way I know how to put it,
25:39
Speaker 1: because like you said, it is real life is I
25:43
Speaker 1: have to remember whatever is edited for the actual show,
25:47
Speaker 1: even though that is my behavior. If I go insane
25:50
Speaker 1: or I say something messed up, it's like, okay, but
25:54
Speaker 1: we made a damn good show. Like that's the only
25:57
Speaker 1: way I can get through it, Melissa. For me to
25:59
Speaker 1: not be mortified during certain moments, I have to just
26:03
Speaker 1: sit there and be like it was entertaining.
26:05
Speaker 3: So it and you almost owe that to like, you know,
26:09
Speaker 3: there is a piece of this where yes, it's your
26:11
Speaker 3: real life and it's it's your real thoughts and feelings
26:14
Speaker 3: and opinions, but like, at the same time, we are
26:16
Speaker 3: making television trucks, you know, So there is a part
26:20
Speaker 3: where you're like, okay, like I make nobody wants to
26:23
Speaker 3: watch anybody like sew us a blanket, you know what,
26:26
Speaker 3: Like nobody wants to see that, you know. So there
26:29
Speaker 3: is an aspect of it where it's like we're on
26:32
Speaker 3: reality TV and you know, we know it. So there
26:35
Speaker 3: is a certain part that you do have to give
26:37
Speaker 3: up that vulnerable side and get a little crazy sometimes
26:41
Speaker 3: and oh shit, what did I do or say? But
26:44
Speaker 3: it's like you're on reality television, so you almost owe
26:46
Speaker 3: it to the fans, you know, to show them what
26:48
Speaker 3: you really feel and how it's really going down.
26:51
Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. Did you ever I'm a
26:54
Speaker 1: huge fan of yours, like I fan Girl Out all
26:57
Speaker 1: the time.
26:57
Speaker 3: Thank you?
26:58
Speaker 1: Did you ever feel worried about putting your your kids
27:02
Speaker 1: on TV at such a young age and were you
27:08
Speaker 1: worried about like what the trolls would say or did
27:12
Speaker 1: you even go there when you signed up for the show.
27:14
Speaker 1: Did it just seem like we're a family, like this
27:17
Speaker 1: could be a fun opportunity or did you think, like
27:20
Speaker 1: my kids are really young, I don't know that I
27:22
Speaker 1: want them out there like that.
27:24
Speaker 3: I did worry about the kids at in the beginning,
27:26
Speaker 3: but my kids were so young Joey was two months old,
27:30
Speaker 3: so it was like I was they weren't teenagers, I
27:32
Speaker 3: think I would worry more because at the time, it's like, oh, well,
27:36
Speaker 3: what's my four year old going to do wrong? And
27:38
Speaker 3: Gina was two, so you're thinking, oh, they're going to
27:40
Speaker 3: show them just so cute and they're cute outfits and
27:43
Speaker 3: like playing. That's where my brain went, like how big
27:45
Speaker 3: of a bow can I put on our head? And yeah,
27:48
Speaker 3: like there's too Like I'm like, they're going to be
27:50
Speaker 3: playing on the floor. I worry about it more now
27:53
Speaker 3: that I have a cour Yes, definitely more as a teenager,
27:57
Speaker 3: because their friends actually watched the show. Know, in preschool,
28:00
Speaker 3: nobody's watching The Real Housewives and U Jerity. Now their
28:03
Speaker 3: friends watch it. We go to the we go to
28:05
Speaker 3: the football games, and their friends are like like you know,
28:08
Speaker 3: their friends are like, holy where you know, I could
28:10
Speaker 3: have gone anywhere with them in the beginning seasons and
28:13
Speaker 3: they don't know what's going on the kids. But now
28:16
Speaker 3: you know, the teenagers are fans. They watch the show
28:19
Speaker 3: and so you know, Antonia, I'll be driving with Antonio,
28:22
Speaker 3: She'll put it on FaceTime like so and so I
28:23
Speaker 3: want to say hi, mom, Like, hey, Like, it's like
28:26
Speaker 3: that I worry about you don't have to worry about
28:28
Speaker 3: it while your your beautiful little daughter is dis little.
28:31
Speaker 3: It's it's when they turn into like you know, I
28:33
Speaker 3: would say eleven, twelve, thirteen, fourteen, like these eight. This
28:37
Speaker 3: is where it gets a little difficult because they're old
28:40
Speaker 3: enough to understand what the show is. They've seen it
28:43
Speaker 3: on TV. Their parents are watching it and they sit
28:45
Speaker 3: down they're like, oh, that's my friend's mom, you know
28:48
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, that's where so you have some
28:51
Speaker 3: time before you have to stress about about, you know,
28:54
Speaker 3: your child being on TV. But it's definitely harder for
28:57
Speaker 3: me now, definitely because I worry sometimes what she's going
29:01
Speaker 3: to say. Like a lot of the times they love
29:03
Speaker 3: my kids in the scene and they love my kids
29:05
Speaker 3: to film, so I worry. I'm like, Oh, I don't
29:08
Speaker 3: want her to say anything as a sixteen year old
29:10
Speaker 3: girl that she's ever going to regret because I can't
29:12
Speaker 3: guarantee I can get it taken out totally.
29:14
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
29:16
Speaker 3: That's stressful Now, it's stressful. Back then, it was not stressful.
29:19
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you just gave me all the anxiety
29:22
Speaker 1: in the world.
29:23
Speaker 3: I worry about that, to be honest, now, you know,
29:25
Speaker 3: because now I have the podcast and I'm doing that
29:27
Speaker 3: all the time. I worry about just what Joe and
29:29
Speaker 3: I say on my podcast, to be honest, Like just
29:34
Speaker 3: because we talk so personal about relationship and our marriage,
29:39
Speaker 3: and like sometimes I worry just what she's going to
29:42
Speaker 3: hear on the podcast. Do you know what I'm saying?
29:44
Speaker 3: Because I feel like the podcast is on edit, it's
29:46
Speaker 3: even a little a little more raunchy than definitely more
29:49
Speaker 3: raunchy than the show is, like from what Joe and
29:51
Speaker 3: I will say to each other. So I'm like, God,
29:53
Speaker 3: and she's listening. I'm now I'm always thinking about her listening.
29:56
Speaker 1: So she she listens to your podcast.
29:59
Speaker 3: Well, she's very active on Instagram. You know, I'm posting, Yes,
30:03
Speaker 3: I'm posting the clips, Like I posted a clip yesterday
30:06
Speaker 3: just about like Joe, like that they try to get
30:08
Speaker 3: in the room while we're you know, while Joe's there's
30:11
Speaker 3: no lock on it, right, So he comes home He's like,
30:14
Speaker 3: you know, she heard that. Now she's gonna think every time.
30:16
Speaker 3: I'm like, I know. Like, so it's a thing when
30:19
Speaker 3: your kids get this age because they understand everything. Like
30:24
Speaker 3: just that clip loaned to her, She's probably like, oh
30:26
Speaker 3: my god, my parents are trying to like have sex
30:28
Speaker 3: in the room and I'm I'm bart I'm ruining it
30:31
Speaker 3: for them all the time.
30:32
Speaker 1: Oh my, that's what I go.
30:34
Speaker 3: You know, yes, So if I'm saying this, that's why
30:37
Speaker 3: I'm like, there's just so much to be part of
30:39
Speaker 3: this world. When you have children that kind of like,
30:42
Speaker 3: it does get a little scary, and it also it
30:45
Speaker 3: also makes them very mature because you they end up
30:47
Speaker 3: hearing it all, knowing it all, and like, I am
30:50
Speaker 3: blessed I have like great kids. They really are great.
30:53
Speaker 3: They're very mature. They're not they're like above the frey.
30:56
Speaker 3: They don't care that they're like that everyone knows their name,
30:59
Speaker 3: or that they're on TV or how it goes.
31:01
Speaker 1: Used to it.
31:02
Speaker 3: You think they're used to it, but it's not something
31:04
Speaker 3: they thrive off of, which I love. It's not My
31:07
Speaker 3: kids are athletes. They're like athletes. They play football, they wrestle.
31:11
Speaker 3: My daughters and a gymnast and a cheerleader. So they
31:14
Speaker 3: thrive off that, which I love because you never know,
31:17
Speaker 3: growing up in this world, they could have turned into
31:19
Speaker 3: some little monsters like thinking who not shit and like
31:22
Speaker 3: who they are? You know, but they thank god it's
31:26
Speaker 3: been good.
31:26
Speaker 1: Well that makes me happy because you're right. They could
31:28
Speaker 1: have turned into like little baby terrorists. You don't know.
31:32
Speaker 3: You don't know when you sign up for this stuff,
31:34
Speaker 3: like what's going to happen to your life? I didn't know.
31:36
Speaker 3: I mean my life changed drastically from just you know,
31:40
Speaker 3: so drastically, like you know, I'm so in business now
31:43
Speaker 3: and I'm so busy all the time, where before I
31:45
Speaker 3: was like where am I going shopping today? And who
31:47
Speaker 3: am I going to have lunch with? And like now
31:50
Speaker 3: I'm like I'm busy. I can't get off my phone
31:53
Speaker 3: or leave my desk for four hours.
31:54
Speaker 1: To see where you were at the very beginning and
31:59
Speaker 1: where you are now is so amazing. And you have
32:03
Speaker 1: been so open about your life, which you know, just
32:07
Speaker 1: because you're on reality TV. There's a lot of reality
32:09
Speaker 1: TV people who don't open up their lives, you know,
32:12
Speaker 1: the way I feel you do or Teresa does. And
32:17
Speaker 1: I remember this scene of you. I believe you were
32:20
Speaker 1: on the couch with Joan. It was when you were
32:23
Speaker 1: you were wanting to go and like be a business woman,
32:26
Speaker 1: and you had kind of felt like, you know, being
32:29
Speaker 1: the housewife and the mom was just not fulfilling enough anymore.
32:34
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it's I don't want to say not fulfilling,
32:36
Speaker 3: because you'll see, it's always fulfilling. It's fulfilling to raise
32:40
Speaker 3: a family and have children, and that's it.
32:41
Speaker 1: So walk me through that. Walk me through that, because
32:44
Speaker 1: because for me, I don't know that I would be
32:46
Speaker 1: fulfilled by just being a mom. So walk me through
32:49
Speaker 1: you saying that it is fulfilling but what you were
32:51
Speaker 1: in search of.
32:52
Speaker 3: Right, So, and that makes total sense what you just said,
32:55
Speaker 3: because you're right, it's it's fulfilling, but it's not one
32:58
Speaker 3: hundred percent about you or your dreams or your goals.
33:01
Speaker 3: So what you're doing is you're fulfilling the needs of
33:04
Speaker 3: everyone else all day and it makes you fulfilled because
33:06
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, I did the right thing today. I
33:08
Speaker 3: did the right thing today for my daughter, or I
33:10
Speaker 3: made this, I did this, I made dinner. My husband's happy,
33:12
Speaker 3: everybody's happy, but I want more, you know. And that's
33:15
Speaker 3: where I always tell even new moms like yourself, and
33:18
Speaker 3: like you know, girls who are just getting married and
33:21
Speaker 3: they're younger and and you know right from the start
33:25
Speaker 3: you can do both, and it does seems it's like
33:28
Speaker 3: it's weird. There's always like this thing where it's like, well,
33:30
Speaker 3: the woman is supposed to take care of the kids
33:32
Speaker 3: all day, and who's then we have to pay for
33:34
Speaker 3: the babysitter and then this and then that. But it's like, no,
33:37
Speaker 3: it's both of your problems. And that's what I learned
33:40
Speaker 3: later in life that it's not it's not just all
33:42
Speaker 3: on the mom. It's on both of you, you know,
33:45
Speaker 3: to figure it out. And I used to just take
33:47
Speaker 3: all the heat and be like, this is on me,
33:49
Speaker 3: it's my kid. Let me figure out how I'm going
33:51
Speaker 3: to like open up envy because I opened up that
33:53
Speaker 3: whole business and I did all of this, and I
33:56
Speaker 3: literally would still run to the bus stop to pick
33:58
Speaker 3: my kids up from school halfway through day until I
34:01
Speaker 3: got it functioning enough where I was able to like,
34:05
Speaker 3: wait a second, pull babysitters in and pull nanny's in
34:08
Speaker 3: and get the extra help that I needed. But I
34:11
Speaker 3: feel like you, even though we're having families and we're
34:14
Speaker 3: creating families, and you still need to have your inner
34:18
Speaker 3: happiness of what your dreams are what your goals are.
34:21
Speaker 3: If you want to open a little shop, open a shop.
34:23
Speaker 3: If your dream is to create a cosmetic line, because
34:26
Speaker 3: that's what you want to do, well, then that's what
34:29
Speaker 3: you need to do. We can't let things like motherhood.
34:32
Speaker 3: You can't just say, oh, well, you know, that's not right,
34:35
Speaker 3: and a lot of times that guilt sets in of
34:37
Speaker 3: like I'm going to work too much and then what
34:40
Speaker 3: am I doing to my child? There is a way
34:42
Speaker 3: to kind of to make it all happen. It's not
34:44
Speaker 3: always easy, but it's a barrier that I broke through.
34:47
Speaker 3: And I think a lot of people kind of like
34:50
Speaker 3: to watch me go through that process because they watched
34:52
Speaker 3: me as a thirty year old girl, because that's what
34:55
Speaker 3: I was at the time when I started all this
34:56
Speaker 3: on the TV, and they watched me kind of break
35:00
Speaker 3: through and work my way up and braz these kids
35:02
Speaker 3: and go into my Now I turned forty, you know,
35:05
Speaker 3: so for the last ten years they've been watching me
35:08
Speaker 3: go from like just a mom at home all this
35:10
Speaker 3: time into a businesswoman where I did open envy and
35:13
Speaker 3: I broke through that and now I'm opening a second envy,
35:16
Speaker 3: a second envy double the size is about to open
35:19
Speaker 3: next month. So that's that's huge for me, you know,
35:22
Speaker 3: I just always yes, I'm.
35:24
Speaker 1: Very excited, so excited for you. Yes, And where's the
35:28
Speaker 1: second location.
35:29
Speaker 3: The second location is in Bridgewood, New Jersey, which is
35:32
Speaker 3: like a great town over here. I mean my online
35:34
Speaker 3: my online store is like phenomenal. That's where. I mean
35:38
Speaker 3: everyone from California, Florida, Dallas, everywhere.
35:40
Speaker 1: It's like the online is accessible to everybody. Yes, but
35:44
Speaker 1: my brick and waters do so well too. So I'm
35:46
Speaker 1: opening one double the size now and super super excited.
35:49
Speaker 3: But that's when I'm Solissa.
35:51
Speaker 1: That is freaking huge. A second store. I'm like beyond
35:55
Speaker 1: happy for you, thank you, thank you. Well everyone else
35:58
Speaker 1: is shutting down. You're expanding.
36:02
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm either crazy or we'll see. But now
36:06
Speaker 3: I like a challenge. I'm a work I've always been
36:08
Speaker 3: a worker, that is me. Like before I even met Joe,
36:11
Speaker 3: I had three jobs, like whether be I worked at
36:14
Speaker 3: a tanic salon, a title company. I answered the phones
36:18
Speaker 3: over here. I bartended on like a Thursday or Friday night.
36:21
Speaker 3: Like I was just always someone who's like I'm not
36:24
Speaker 3: going to sit down. I don't I don't. I obviously
36:27
Speaker 3: love that Joe is successful and that he can take
36:30
Speaker 3: care of himself. But trust me, ladies, is ever listening
36:34
Speaker 3: out there? It is. There's something about making your own money,
36:38
Speaker 3: even if you don't need to. It's there's something about that.
36:41
Speaker 3: It's it's freeing. It's that thing if something unexpected, expected,
36:47
Speaker 3: as you would know, comes out of life right and
36:50
Speaker 3: you get hit with the left, You're like, I'm good.
36:53
Speaker 3: Like you can walk when you need to walk, you
36:56
Speaker 3: can buy something when you need to buy it. There's
36:58
Speaker 3: something very freeing about about having your own business or
37:02
Speaker 3: working and having doing what you love. You know, So
37:04
Speaker 3: I always.
37:05
Speaker 1: Promote that I love that you said that, and I
37:06
Speaker 1: actually want to come back to it. After we cut
37:08
Speaker 1: to a short break, we will be right back with
37:11
Speaker 1: Melissa Gorga. We are back with my most favorite housewife.
37:18
Speaker 1: Do feel uncomfortable every time I'm asked about my favorite
37:21
Speaker 1: housewife and I'm like, I'm gonna snag her from Joe?
37:24
Speaker 1: You know, I'm joking, right, not that that would ever happen,
37:27
Speaker 1: But I never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. But
37:29
Speaker 1: I think it's fun to set Joe and he loves you.
37:31
Speaker 3: He always Joe loves you, by the way too. He's
37:33
Speaker 3: always like, she's so cute. I'm like, when we go out,
37:35
Speaker 3: when we're in LA, We're gonna go have like a
37:37
Speaker 3: drink with her?
37:37
Speaker 1: Please do? I would love that. Give me a call.
37:40
Speaker 1: I would love to hang out with you and Joe.
37:43
Speaker 1: Going back to what we were talking about before, when
37:46
Speaker 1: did you realize that it was important for you to
37:49
Speaker 1: be making your own money? Was it because you're in
37:51
Speaker 1: a great marriage, you have a beautiful family, like you
37:55
Speaker 1: were probably one of those people who will never need
38:00
Speaker 1: a plan to be ever.
38:02
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, I always say never say never, but
38:05
Speaker 3: I from your mouth to God's ears, right, like that's
38:07
Speaker 3: always how I how I You know, I would love
38:10
Speaker 3: things to go in life, just like we all would.
38:12
Speaker 3: But I think I just I don't know. I've watched
38:16
Speaker 3: Joe be so successful because he's a developer in New Jersey.
38:19
Speaker 3: So he'll take old warehouses and he'll buy them and
38:22
Speaker 3: convert them into like apartment buildings and condos. And this
38:26
Speaker 3: is what he loves to do, right, this is what
38:28
Speaker 3: gives him and it was successful for our family. But
38:32
Speaker 3: I would watch him, you know, kind of doing all
38:35
Speaker 3: these things and feel proud and you know, break the
38:38
Speaker 3: wall down at another building. And I said to myself, like,
38:41
Speaker 3: I'm happy for him, but but I want something that's mine,
38:45
Speaker 3: and I feel like that's when you know, you know,
38:47
Speaker 3: you start to say what am I good at?
38:49
Speaker 1: Like?
38:49
Speaker 3: What? What do I love to do? What gives me
38:52
Speaker 3: a high? Like what gets me excited? Yes, your kids
38:54
Speaker 3: are going to give you a high. Yes, there's nothing
38:57
Speaker 3: like a child in.
38:57
Speaker 1: The world, but they grow up.
38:59
Speaker 3: You're never gonna have complete happiness unless you have your
39:01
Speaker 3: own happiness, something inside that's you. And I love clothes.
39:06
Speaker 3: I've always loved fashion. Fashion is fun for me. I've
39:09
Speaker 3: always been good. I'm always the one that everyone used
39:12
Speaker 3: to call my girlfriend's like they don't know what to wear.
39:14
Speaker 3: I'll like put an outfit for them together. So that's
39:16
Speaker 3: what I loved. And you know what I you know
39:18
Speaker 3: how I really got started with envy. Everyone when I
39:21
Speaker 3: was on the Real House Size of New Jersey would
39:22
Speaker 3: say to me, these these boutiques would give me clothes,
39:25
Speaker 3: which I'm sure you know, all the time I'd get clothes,
39:27
Speaker 3: they'd send me clothes. This brand would send me this salve.
39:31
Speaker 3: You'd wear them and then everyone's like, where'd you get
39:34
Speaker 3: your outfit? Where'd you get your outfit? And I would
39:35
Speaker 3: send them to that boutique. I would send them over there.
39:38
Speaker 3: I would send them over there, and I'm like, what
39:40
Speaker 3: the hell am I doing? Like why am I sending
39:42
Speaker 3: them to everyone else? Let me open my own boutique.
39:45
Speaker 3: And when everyone asked me what I'm wearing, I'm gonna
39:47
Speaker 3: say here, click this link Envy by MG dot com,
39:51
Speaker 3: like you know, And that's how Envy by Melissa Gorga
39:54
Speaker 3: came because I was like, why do I keep sending
39:56
Speaker 3: everyone everywhere else? Like it's it's let me send them
39:59
Speaker 3: to Envy by melissic Rga. And that's what I started doing.
40:02
Speaker 1: So crazy because it's so simple yet so hard to accomplish.
40:09
Speaker 1: The thought of it, The thought of it is like,
40:11
Speaker 1: let's open something. We'll send them to my boutique instead
40:15
Speaker 1: or my store. But the fact that you actually did it,
40:19
Speaker 1: and that's that's no easy feat because you had to
40:23
Speaker 1: go and find the clothing that you're going to fill
40:25
Speaker 1: your store with. You gotta be making enough money to
40:27
Speaker 1: keep new inventory in Like did anybody walk you through this?
40:32
Speaker 1: Did you have like a business partner or a mentor,
40:36
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't have even known where to start.
40:39
Speaker 3: Yes, I think I had met a lady at the
40:42
Speaker 3: time that was asking me to do like some photo
40:46
Speaker 3: shoots and stuff for her stores, all of her boutiques
40:50
Speaker 3: and all of this, and I was like I after
40:53
Speaker 3: a while, just like I said, I'm like, I gotta
40:55
Speaker 3: do this for my own boutique, Like this doesn't make
40:57
Speaker 3: sense for me anymore. So I did originally go into
41:00
Speaker 3: it with a partner, asking her like, you know, like
41:03
Speaker 3: do you want to do this together. I don't want
41:05
Speaker 3: to promote your boutique. I want it to be my
41:07
Speaker 3: own boutique, And we went in together. But within within
41:10
Speaker 3: six months I bought her out because she was just
41:13
Speaker 3: not it was not a good fit for me. So
41:16
Speaker 3: within six months I bought her out, and Envy just
41:18
Speaker 3: celebrated five years. We just had our five year anniversary,
41:21
Speaker 3: so congratulations going strong. But I always my advice to
41:24
Speaker 3: everyone is really really like if it's in your heart,
41:28
Speaker 3: if you keep thinking about it, if it keeps popping
41:31
Speaker 3: up and you're like, damn, I would really love to
41:33
Speaker 3: be like, like, I have a girlfriend that's like I
41:35
Speaker 3: just want she finds everyone everything, she wants to do
41:38
Speaker 3: the find Like, if you need to find something, this
41:41
Speaker 3: is where you need to go. You need to call
41:43
Speaker 3: her because she can find it for you. Like something
41:46
Speaker 3: as simple as that. If you know that that is
41:48
Speaker 3: what you're good at, make some start researching. Figure out
41:51
Speaker 3: how you could start small on a smaller platform, just
41:55
Speaker 3: like I did. I started with a smaller store, and
41:57
Speaker 3: then you as the years go on, it got bigger.
41:59
Speaker 3: My on my website. When I first started, we're nothing
42:03
Speaker 3: like they are now. I groupled them. It takes time,
42:07
Speaker 3: it takes.
42:07
Speaker 1: Patience, but little little bit at a time, but it
42:11
Speaker 1: becomes your baby and you you start to see its
42:14
Speaker 1: potential and its growth, and you become addicted.
42:17
Speaker 3: Addicted, Oh my god, addicted. I have a little app
42:20
Speaker 3: on my phone which this is so funny. It makes
42:23
Speaker 3: like a chit chin every time there's a sale, whether
42:26
Speaker 3: on the website or in store, it does like a
42:29
Speaker 3: little chichin. When it first started going off all the time,
42:32
Speaker 3: when I'd be like sitting on the couch with Joe
42:34
Speaker 3: and I'd be like, chit chang chang. It's like frigging
42:37
Speaker 3: at the casino. I'm like, oh my god, and Joe
42:41
Speaker 3: would just like look at me from across the couch like, ash, wow,
42:45
Speaker 3: a lot of people are shopping today. I'm like, yeah, bitch,
42:47
Speaker 3: I'm making money. What are you doing?
42:49
Speaker 1: What are you doing it?
42:51
Speaker 3: Yeah? It was like funny, like I would choose him
42:54
Speaker 3: because I always used to ask Joe. I was a
42:56
Speaker 3: girl out of college, Like as soon as I met Joe,
42:59
Speaker 3: I gradual way to college kind of at the same time.
43:01
Speaker 3: So I used to have to like say to him
43:04
Speaker 3: like I just was going to be I'm I have
43:06
Speaker 3: a BA in teaching, Okay, So I went to college
43:08
Speaker 3: to be a teacher. I was supposed to go be
43:10
Speaker 3: a elementary school teacher, and I ended up on reality
43:15
Speaker 3: TV within you know, a couple of years after being married.
43:17
Speaker 3: But it's just funny. I used to have to ask
43:20
Speaker 3: you for a hundred dollars bill. I'd be like, oh,
43:21
Speaker 3: you're going to work, okay, Like can I get like
43:24
Speaker 3: a hundred I don't know where I'm going to go todayay,
43:26
Speaker 3: or like whatever, I would need cash. And now I'm
43:28
Speaker 3: just like it's just funny. That's why we It's like
43:31
Speaker 3: a funny joke in our house because like when the
43:33
Speaker 3: chichain goes off I'm like, oh, yeah, don't need you what.
43:36
Speaker 1: Like, No, I love it because there's I feel like
43:40
Speaker 1: there's so many women who who do that and and
43:43
Speaker 1: they're as you know, I'm passionate about the topic of
43:47
Speaker 1: women having their own funds, and even if that means
43:50
Speaker 1: you work something out with your husband, if you're a
43:52
Speaker 1: stay at home mom and he gives you X amount
43:55
Speaker 1: of dollars every month. I just want women to have
43:57
Speaker 1: some sort of you know, safety net if God forbid,
44:01
Speaker 1: anything happened. And you know that could even mean for me.
44:05
Speaker 1: It was when the recession hit for my family and
44:09
Speaker 1: my dad went from you know, completely being okay and
44:13
Speaker 1: supporting us financially to what are we going to do?
44:18
Speaker 1: And it was my mom who stepped up to the
44:20
Speaker 1: plate because she had worked her entire life, never stopped
44:24
Speaker 1: even though she could have with my dad. And I
44:27
Speaker 1: saw that it doesn't even have to be like your
44:31
Speaker 1: relationship goes south, one partner could be put out of
44:34
Speaker 1: business tomorrow, and it feels nice the other one picks up.
44:38
Speaker 1: So I think that is great that you are also
44:41
Speaker 1: preaching that to chicks. I want to talk about your
44:45
Speaker 1: relationship with Joe, because I think it's something that a
44:48
Speaker 1: lot of people look at and they're like, I want that.
44:51
Speaker 1: It's so cute, it's so sweet. We know you have
44:55
Speaker 1: a great sex life, which is good for you.
44:57
Speaker 4: Girl.
44:58
Speaker 3: How could you not know?
45:00
Speaker 1: It makes me happy? Okay? I love you guys, and
45:03
Speaker 1: I love the way you display your love and affection
45:06
Speaker 1: for each other. And he is meant for reality TV,
45:10
Speaker 1: by the way, I know he is.
45:12
Speaker 3: He's such a ham. He's such a ham. And he's
45:13
Speaker 3: also just like he doesn't overthink it, which is sometimes
45:17
Speaker 3: a problem, which is also making amazing reality television because
45:21
Speaker 3: he doesn't think it at all. If he's thinking it,
45:23
Speaker 3: he's saying it right, that's Joe.
45:25
Speaker 1: And he doesn't care if you want to crawl under
45:27
Speaker 1: a table.
45:28
Speaker 3: He does not care. Do you know how many times
45:30
Speaker 3: I kicked Joe under the like we're filming, there's cameramen
45:34
Speaker 3: and I'm like, ah, I'm literally kicking his shins and
45:36
Speaker 3: he notices that, stop kicking.
45:38
Speaker 1: Oh he's that guy.
45:40
Speaker 3: Yes, he's like that guy. So I just give up
45:43
Speaker 3: on him. In the beginning, I was more anal. I
45:46
Speaker 3: would be like trying to control it all and be like,
45:47
Speaker 3: oh my god, like stop talking about all of this
45:50
Speaker 3: and like what are you doing? And like now I'm
45:52
Speaker 3: just like just roll with it. Joe, Like he's that guy,
45:54
Speaker 3: no matter what he says, no matter what he does,
45:57
Speaker 3: no matter how he acts, everybody loves him. It's it's
46:00
Speaker 3: just jump.
46:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's very It's well, you're both very
46:03
Speaker 1: easy to love. I have to ask, what what is
46:07
Speaker 1: your fighting style? When you get into an argument? What
46:11
Speaker 1: is Joe's fighting style and what is yours? Do you disengage?
46:14
Speaker 1: Are you a let's raise my voice a little bit,
46:17
Speaker 1: do the hands get to move in? Like? What's your
46:19
Speaker 1: fighting style?
46:21
Speaker 3: So I think our fighting style, Joe and I that
46:23
Speaker 3: might be the problem with us. We have two totally
46:25
Speaker 3: different types of fighting style. So I am super impulsive,
46:31
Speaker 3: like I'm hot headed from the beginning, like very quickly,
46:35
Speaker 3: I freak like I don't even think straight. I just
46:38
Speaker 3: freak so like before I even have all the facts.
46:40
Speaker 3: And this is to a fault, I scream, I yeah,
46:43
Speaker 3: I'm like what, Like I freak like a savage. But
46:46
Speaker 3: I'm literally over it. Like once I get that all
46:48
Speaker 3: out and I hear all the answers, like I will
46:51
Speaker 3: drop it and go to dinner with you. Within the
46:52
Speaker 3: next hour or two, like I'm good, I just need
46:55
Speaker 3: to rage for like a second totally, and I'm impulsive.
46:58
Speaker 3: I'm impulsive. Jump Oh doesn't rage. He kind of sits back,
47:04
Speaker 3: he doesn't say much. Things will bother him, things will
47:06
Speaker 3: bother him. Then he'll explode like out of nowhere, and
47:12
Speaker 3: he'll hold the grudge. He won't talk to you for
47:15
Speaker 3: probably three to four days. So it's a problem because
47:19
Speaker 3: I want to rage on you. I want to go crazy,
47:21
Speaker 3: I want to like get it all out. And then
47:22
Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, let's go to dinner like I'm good,
47:25
Speaker 3: and he won't speak to you for three days. So
47:28
Speaker 3: it's like we just have totally different styles of argument.
47:32
Speaker 3: We argue totally different.
47:33
Speaker 1: I think I'm more like you. I'm more like you,
47:36
Speaker 1: and I explode on people and then I'm like, Okay,
47:39
Speaker 1: feel better and I'm like why is everyone so destroyed?
47:44
Speaker 1: And they're like are you kidding? Like what you just said?
47:47
Speaker 1: And did.
47:49
Speaker 3: So I get it and I say nasty, I like
47:53
Speaker 3: get like impulsively crazy, and I'm like, I think we're
47:57
Speaker 3: just on our producers to be honest, like if they've
47:59
Speaker 3: called me to say something that I don't like but
48:03
Speaker 3: what like how and then they'll like call me to
48:07
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, I was like aggressive before, Like I'm good,
48:10
Speaker 3: Like I understand why you're saying that to me. I
48:13
Speaker 3: just like I don't know. I I'm very impulsive. But
48:16
Speaker 3: then I chill. But then yeah, but that's an awesome thing.
48:19
Speaker 3: I'm a forgiver. I move on like I'm not a
48:21
Speaker 3: grudge holder. And I always say, like it's better to
48:24
Speaker 3: be that way because there's a reason, like you must.
48:26
Speaker 3: I feel like the happier person can let things go
48:29
Speaker 3: because it's like you don't want to ruin the night right.
48:31
Speaker 3: You don't want to when you fight with your boyfriend
48:33
Speaker 3: or you fight with your husband or your significant other.
48:36
Speaker 3: You don't want to ruin the whole weekend. Like let's
48:38
Speaker 3: just like get it out and move on. I don't
48:40
Speaker 3: like when you ruin the dinners that are coming up
48:43
Speaker 3: or like totally go to the movies later. I'm not
48:45
Speaker 3: going to hate each other for that, Like let's drop it.
48:48
Speaker 3: But Joe will ruin the whole weekend, Like the whole weekend.
48:51
Speaker 3: Weekend is fucked if this happens. So so that's how
48:57
Speaker 3: that goes.
48:57
Speaker 1: So you guys have been married. You said you were
48:59
Speaker 1: married for two years when you started the show.
49:02
Speaker 3: Five five years? Oh no, how could that be? Yes,
49:04
Speaker 3: five years? We were married for five years?
49:06
Speaker 1: Wow, and Antonio was no.
49:09
Speaker 3: It can't be because Antonio was four. So I think
49:12
Speaker 3: it was like we had her. We had her. I
49:15
Speaker 3: got pregnant two months after I got married, so we Yes.
49:18
Speaker 3: I want to say I was only married for like
49:20
Speaker 3: three and a half years.
49:21
Speaker 1: Okay, So I don't know why how long have you
49:23
Speaker 1: guys been together because I'm bad at math.
49:25
Speaker 3: Seventeen years?
49:26
Speaker 1: Oh my good.
49:28
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just hit seventeen years, so crazy, absolutely crazy. Yeah,
49:34
Speaker 3: Antonia sixteen. We were in the fast lane though, like
49:37
Speaker 3: I met him at twenty four, was married by twenty five,
49:41
Speaker 3: had Antonia at twenty six.
49:43
Speaker 1: Oh damn, and then was.
49:45
Speaker 3: On reality TV. I was thirty or thirty one, so
49:49
Speaker 3: so yeah, I was only married for like four and
49:51
Speaker 3: a half years.
49:51
Speaker 1: Wow. Can I tell you if you were to tell
49:55
Speaker 1: that story but you were based in LA you guys
49:58
Speaker 1: would be divorced already.
50:00
Speaker 3: I listen, not for nothing, but start doing your homework.
50:05
Speaker 3: We are one of the longest standing reality couples on
50:09
Speaker 3: Bravo and in the universe.
50:12
Speaker 1: In the universe.
50:14
Speaker 3: We're one of them. Yes we are, we are. We've
50:17
Speaker 3: been Yes, we're going strong for seventy years. It is
50:19
Speaker 3: not easy to be married on reality TV, especially housewives,
50:25
Speaker 3: because they draw in so much into your marriage, your
50:31
Speaker 3: home life. It's not like I'm on a show about
50:33
Speaker 3: decorating where I leave my house every day and I go.
50:35
Speaker 3: You watch me decorate a window. You're watching me in
50:39
Speaker 3: my house with my kids, my children, my husband, my
50:41
Speaker 3: home arguments. So the hardest thing in the world is
50:45
Speaker 3: to be married on reality television. So I gotta say,
50:47
Speaker 3: Joe and I are doing a pretty good job.
50:50
Speaker 1: You're doing a damn good job.
50:51
Speaker 3: Thank you. We've had bumps in the road, don't let
50:53
Speaker 3: me get you wrong. Like through the pandemic, I feel
50:56
Speaker 3: like I got a little I was getting definitely busy,
51:00
Speaker 3: very I was always busy, but it went up to
51:02
Speaker 3: a different level. I would say maybe the year before
51:05
Speaker 3: that twenty twenty pandemic hit, and so I was out
51:08
Speaker 3: of the house a lot. The whole year of like
51:10
Speaker 3: twenty nineteen, I would say, and I was super busy.
51:14
Speaker 3: And then as soon as the pandemic pandemic hit, which
51:17
Speaker 3: was really March of twenty twenty, right, and we all
51:20
Speaker 3: just like shut down in every state. Joe and I
51:23
Speaker 3: work so much that we're not used to you know,
51:26
Speaker 3: we don't talk. So I think he was getting a
51:28
Speaker 3: little annoyed with like all of my work. He felt
51:31
Speaker 3: like I was starting to be out of the house
51:32
Speaker 3: too much. I was starting to put work before him.
51:34
Speaker 3: I was, you know, becoming this mongol that didn't care
51:38
Speaker 3: about anything but like money and work and getting bigger fame.
51:42
Speaker 3: That was in his head, which is not true, but
51:44
Speaker 3: that was where his head was at at the time.
51:46
Speaker 3: So when the pandemic hit in twenty twenty and we
51:49
Speaker 3: had so much time to sit on a couch and
51:51
Speaker 3: actually look at each other because you couldn't leave the house, right,
51:54
Speaker 3: I think that's when things really came to head and
51:57
Speaker 3: we started to argue. And they also started the camera
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Speaker 3: up within a month or two later. So there was
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Speaker 3: that one season two seasons ago where you really saw
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Speaker 3: us like at each other's throats, and it was it
52:08
Speaker 3: was real. It was because that was what was really
52:10
Speaker 3: going down in our house, and and that was it.
52:13
Speaker 3: I feel like we went through that bump and we were,
52:16
Speaker 3: you know, we come out of it, but it's not easy.
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Speaker 3: It's not easy, really television. And it's for a guy
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Speaker 3: who marries someone who wasn't in this world.
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Speaker 1: Originally, I was just gonna say this right, And now.
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Speaker 3: It's like, I didn't marry some woman who has to
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Speaker 3: be in New York City every night and at events
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Speaker 3: and on red carpets and business meetings and publicists, and
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Speaker 3: he's like, what the fuck?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's probably also one of those things where
52:42
Speaker 1: he marries this beautiful woman and you know, you guys
52:47
Speaker 1: go out in New Jersey or you travel, and it's
52:49
Speaker 1: just who's in that room that gets to sit and
52:52
Speaker 1: look and you know, at you guys as a couple,
52:55
Speaker 1: and how beautiful you are. And then all of the sudden,
52:59
Speaker 1: you know, you're getting all of this attention from people
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Speaker 1: all over the world. Really, and I'm sure for any
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Speaker 1: man that is like what is this, Like this is
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Speaker 1: my beautiful wife? Who are all of these people coming
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Speaker 1: in and acting like they know her?
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Speaker 3: That would mess with me one percent. And especially a
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Speaker 3: guy like Joe, who is that guy like this is mine?
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Speaker 3: Like he's a claimer, you know what I mean, He's
53:26
Speaker 3: he has a little of that old school like Italian boy,
53:29
Speaker 3: like that's my wife type vibe. You know. So it
53:33
Speaker 3: might hit someone else different. For Joe, it hits hard,
53:37
Speaker 3: you know. So it took a minute, but I think
53:39
Speaker 3: we got there. I think we got there. He got that.
53:41
Speaker 3: Look at him now, he's running around on stages doing
53:44
Speaker 3: his comedy and he's loving that. So you know, I'm like, oh,
53:48
Speaker 3: he yelled at me, forgot he put it. He made
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Speaker 3: himself a tour. He's all over the place. He's all
53:52
Speaker 3: over the place, like you know. So I'm like, all right,
53:55
Speaker 3: here we go.
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Speaker 1: Like I love that he's doing that.
53:58
Speaker 3: At the core of though we have, there's like there's
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Speaker 3: love there, do you know what I mean? So I
54:03
Speaker 3: always tell everyone who's looking to get married, who if
54:07
Speaker 3: you're looking for anyone new, whatever it is, make sure
54:10
Speaker 3: there's true love there. Because money does not carry you through.
54:14
Speaker 3: Looks will not carry you through either. There needs to
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Speaker 3: be love and attraction, not necessarily looks, but something needs
54:20
Speaker 3: to be So you need to be so attracted and
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Speaker 3: hang on their every word and miss them when you're
54:26
Speaker 3: not with them or else. Trust me, everyone out there,
54:29
Speaker 3: it just gets harder, it gets harder.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to find all of that. I'm good so
54:35
Speaker 1: glad that I had you on the podcast, that you
54:38
Speaker 1: finally had time in your busy schedule. Where can people
54:41
Speaker 1: shop Envy who don't live in New Jersey and where
54:44
Speaker 1: can they find you? Look and find?
54:46
Speaker 3: So you can go to Envy buy mg dot com
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Speaker 3: and find everything I wear basically on there. We have
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Speaker 3: so much. We have everything from denam to date tonight,
54:55
Speaker 3: so everything. And of course you guys can all listen
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Speaker 3: to my podcast that I'm so great that you came
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Speaker 3: on too. Thank you for having on with so much fun.
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Speaker 1: Thank you, Melissa. We'll talk to you soon, babe.
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Speaker 3: Okay, all right bye